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Thanksgiving...a time to Give Thanks NOVEMBER – GIVE THANKS Northwest Bergen Lifestyle readers - what are you thankful for this year? When we look around, we have so many reasons to count our blessings. It always warms our hearts to see the myriad of ways in which Northwest Bergen celebrates the holidays—family traditions, bountiful feasts, and giving back to the community we call home. With all of those individuals and families in our commu-

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20 The Ritz-Carlton Key Biscayne Sun, Sand, and Sealife

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GIVING BACK

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Tim, Linda, and Bill Brock

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“I graduated Ramapo High School in 1971 and served

manage flu clinics and provides assistance to resi-

in the Navy as a boiler technician on the USS Franklin D.

dents in need. She has been a member of the Wyckoff

Roosevelt,” says Bill, who married Linda upon his honor-

Volunteer Ambulance Corps since 1985, where she

able discharge. Linda’s dad, John C. Vander Plaat, was

served as Captain and is also active on the WFD

a third-generation funeral director who had relocated

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the original Vander Plaat Funeral Home in 1952 from

“We’ve always stressed volunteerism in our family,”

Garfield to Godwin Avenue in Wyckoff. John encouraged

says Linda. “In addition to Tim’s service, my daughter

Bill to go back to school after his military service, so Bill

Jackie volunteered with the ambulance corps and now

attended Mercer Community College and then gradu-

works as a paramedic. My son, Kelly, volunteered in

ated cum laude from the American Academy McAllister

Wyckoff as a firefighter and now works for the New York

Institute of Funeral Service in New York City. “I’ve been

City Fire Department.”

working here ever since,” he says.

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nity is a balancing act. The fire department doesn’t offer

upon serving families in their time of need. “Throughout

days off or holidays, so families of emergency services

my career, I have found it an honor and privilege to serve

volunteers learn to understand that their loved ones may

the Wyckoff community,” says Bill.

be called into action at any time. “When you have to

A lifelong volunteer firefighter in Wyckoff, Bill

leave Thanksgiving dinner or a birthday party to go to a

joined the department in 1974. He took cues from

call, there are usually some complaints,” says Tim. “But,

both his father and his father-in-law, who served as

we have to take responsibility. If no one goes, who will

firefighters in Wyckoff. Bill and Linda’s oldest son,

be there to help?”

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serving the Nixon family when Patricia Nixon passed away, and were called upon again in 1994 upon the passing of President Nixon. However, no matter who they serve, Bill and his team make every effort to provide grieving families comfort, peace, and support while striving to play a role in celebrating life. “Our goal is to honor the life that also benefits. “It’s fun to be able to volunteer by

was lived,” says Bill. “We are here to help families.

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is like a family—there’s great camaraderie. We

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know each other’s spouses and kids, and we take

make it better for them.”

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in. “You call for one guy, and you get ten,” says

family they know personally. We have been there

Bill, who vigilantly listens to the scanner for

and have dealt with it ourselves,” says Bill. “My own

emergency calls. “Sometimes we recognize the

father’s death made me a better funeral director.”

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IMPACTING KIDS BEYOND THEIR ILLNESS

A CANCER DIAGNOSIS FOR A CHILD IS THE WORST NEWS A PARENT CAN EVER HEAR. The Valerie Fund, located in Maplewood, New Jersey, understands the gravity of these situations and works tirelessly to help families navigate the course of healing. When Ed and Sue Goldstein’s daughter, of 9, in 1976, they were determined that other

Upon Valerie’s passing, the couple was

families facing a cancer diagnosis would have

driven to improve the quality of life for families

an easier time managing the care necessary

of children with serious illnesses. They began

for a sick child.

fundraising to develop regional outpatient

The Goldsteins spent countless hours

treatment centers at top pediatric hospitals

driving 90 minutes one-way daily for doctors’

that offer state-of-the-art medical and emo-

appointments, chemotherapy, radiation, and

tional care in a child-focused environment.

treatments. Their older daughter, Stacy, had

There are currently seven Valerie Fund

to be left with babysitters, and Valerie often

Centers throughout the New York, New Jersey,

got sick on the long ride home. Their work and

and metro Philadelphia areas offering compre-

home life were disrupted, and it took a physi-

hensive support to children and their families.

cal and emotional toll on the family for years.

Executive Director, Barry Kirschner, got involved in the early nineties after being invited by a friend to a fundraiser for the organization. “I saw an opportunity to help kids, so I joined the board,” says Barry, who stepped into the role of Executive Director in 2003. “Our centers ensure that no New Jersey family has to travel very far for the highest quality of medical, psychological, or emotional care. We provide services like social workers and child life specialists to help kids and families maintain normalcy. We also provide educational programs since kids undergoing treatment may have to be out of school for six to nine months. Hospitals don’t provide these services because they are not covered by insurance.” The Valerie Fund Centers provide families

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with financial counseling, integrative medi-

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Valerie, lost her battle to cancer at the age

cine programs, and palliative care programs. Beyond cancer diagnoses, they also offer CONTINUED >

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specialized services for children with sickle cell disease and other blood disorders such as ITP and hemophilia. Emergency funds programs are available for families going through financial crises. Parents may have to take a leave from work to care for a child, which leads to falling behind on rent or car payments. “We make sure the Valerie fund is doing more services in a variety of ways to reach out to the families,” states Barry. Without the Valerie fund, there would not be a full range of psychological care and social services to provide families what they need beyond medicine. This includes services from dietitians, psychologists, social workers, and integrative medicine specialists. “All of this needs to be funded philanthropically. Insurance won’t pay it,” Barry says. “We are here to make sure that the need is fulfilled and that the proper comprehensive care is given.” The programs and services offered help patients

of schools, from Passaic County Community

and families cope with their anxieties and fears by

College to Rutgers, and the University of

providing comfort, compassion, and hope.

Pennsylvania.” The compassion comes full cir-

Upon seeing positive outcomes of kids sur-

cle. Those who have experienced the challenges

viving childhood cancers, the board established

of overcoming cancer have the drive to help oth-

a scholarship fund in 2008. “We wanted to let

ers. “We have one client in medical school along

our kids and families know that we still care for

with several in nursing school.”

them--and their future success--even after they

The Valerie Fund’s Camp Happy Times pro-

get better. That first year, we awarded 16 schol-

vides 200 kids a free summer sleepaway camp

arships totaling $12,000,” says Barry.

at no cost to the families. It’s a meaningful time

Fast-forward to 2021--the scholarship fund

when children can bond with others who have

awarded 104 scholarships totaling $406,000.

gone through similar challenges, and it is open to

Since a large population of children resides in

any child who has or has had cancer. Treatment

inner cities, this initiative is highly regarded

at a Valerie Fund Center is not a requirement.

by board members and donors. “The award

“These kids get an unbelievable experience,” says

amounts ranged from several hundred dollars to

Barry. “Climbing walls, pools, lakes, boating, arts

$10,000 based on academic achievement, family

and crafts, and all of the usual summer fun.”

situations, and community service,” says Barry.

“The breadth of what we do is amazing,” says

“This year’s winners are attending a wide range

Barry. “Over 5,000 kids and families per year get the full spectrum of care that they need close to home. It’s very heartwarming and fulfilling to see how we can impact kids beyond their illness.” thevaleriefund.org

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Everything medicine can do.

A few things medicine can’t. The best cancer care takes many things. A few might surprise you. As cancer’s finest minds seek to heal the body, the spirit can be left wondering, “What about me?” At Valley, both get the attention they need. Combining specialized expertise and new treatments with a compassionate, human approach to care. Call 201-634-5339 to make an appointment or visit ValleyHealth.com/Cancer