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What’s a meal without the perfect side kick, the drink to complement the flavors on the plate? Parkhill’s South Liquors and Wine owner Tina Parkhill, featured on the cover of this months’ issue, graciously took some time as she, sommelier James Andrews and beer and alcohol expert Chris Vedda shared what’s new in the spirits market. Did you know they host virtual tastings for wine, beer and various drinks? Get some friends to join you virtually for a fun time with the Parkhill experts. If you want to get away and try food in the mountains of Colorado, there are some excellent restaurants and good food in Westcliffe as well as exciting adventures, breathtaking views and plenty of space to relax. There is also mention of the quirky Bishop Castle, where I'm pictured above in the mid-evil fortress. It’s easy to get stuck in a rut and find yourself eating the same things each day. We get it; we’re all busy, and we have our go-to meals that we know will feed the family for the whole week. We return to our favorite restaurants and order our favorite dish every time because we know it is always amazing.

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Many Custody Cases Being Complicated by Some Schools Not Reopening

August is almost always a tough month for parties going through divorce or custody disputes. In many cases, parties have trouble agreeing on where the children will go to school. The parties might also have trouble agreeing on who is going to pay the cost of private school if the children do not go to public school. Prior to school beginning in August, many parties, unfortunately, end up in court on motions to modify or motions for contempt as it relates to these kinds of school issues. The litigation often involves where the children will go to school and who will be paying. Many custody schedules have it setup where custody exchange revolve around the beginning and ending of school days. In other words, many parents drop off the children at school. The other parent then often picks up the kids after school is over. With COVID-19, many school districts will not be opening up this Fall in a traditional sense. Instead,

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INSIDE THE ISSUE OCTOBER 2020

FEATURES 12 A new way to enjoy Broadway’s Hamilton A smashing play and even more smashing drink

14 On top of the world Discover Westcliffe in the Colorado Mountains

20 Wine and so much more A comprehensive shopping experience at Parkhill’s South

30 20

30 Chefs You Need to Know Meet the Culinary Trail Blazers

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Lifestyle Letter

Around Town

Culinary Creations

Road Trip

20 Locally Owned 24 Renovate & Refine 28 DIY 30 Local Limelight 34 Times Past

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Mondo’s Ristorante Italiano celebrates 100 years

the age or level of imagination! Limited admission

this October since Angelo Aloisio came to the

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United States through Ellis Island, NY. “My father

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soon became an Executive Chef. Through him, I

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developed a passion for fine Italian cuisine. Using our one-of-a-kind family recipes, I opened the first Mondo’s in 1969.”-Papa Lou Aloisio. The recipes are truly authentic Italian and delicious if you’re looking for a taste of Italy. Mondo's Dining room is open, and carryout and curb side pick-up are still available! MondosItalian.com

DECOPOLIS 66 ON ROUTE 66 OPENS

PLNK FITNESS STUDIO EXPANDS TO TULSA PLNK, a boutique fitness studio that features the Lagree Method, a Pilates-inspired 50-minute total body workout, is coming to Tulsa. Founded in St. Louis by Brooke Meek in 2016, PLNK (pronounced ‘plank’) adds the TUL studio located at 1326 E 35th Street in Center 1. The grand opening on Saturday, October

Decopolis offers Tulsa treasures, local interest

10 kicks off at 8:30 a.m. with four classes offered

books, nostalgic toys and games, gifts & souvenirs,

throughout the morning. Each class has limited space

all nestled within fun, themed environments. More

so reservations must be made. Grand opening events

than a store, the Downtown & Route 66 locations

include a DJ, food, drink, and giveaways.

are Tulsa attractions. The new location, Decopolis

More than 40 classes will be offered per week,

66 and TulsaRama, is celebrating a grand opening

starting as early as 5:30 a.m. and as late as 6:30

slated for October 1st but check for updates. The

p.m., seven days a week. PLNK TUL will have 2,400

store includes a Tulsa Art Deco Museum com-

square feet with 14 Megaformer machines, private

ponent, Discovitorium where you will be able to

bathrooms, and a kid’s area. PLNK TUL is initially

explore realms where Science and Magic meet

hiring 23 staff members and they will all be trained

with the Wizard of DECOPOLIS and so much more.

and certified in the Lagree method. PLNK is open

Stop in to say hi, stock up on holiday gifts and

to all. For updates and to find out more about PLNK

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HALLOWEEN FESTIVAL AT THE CASTLE OF MUSKOGEE

HALLOWMARINE The Oklahoma Aquarium hosts nine nights of

The Castle's Halloween Festival is your one stop

indoor trick-or-treating for kids of all ages from

shop for all things fall festivities and Halloween

Friday, October 16 to Saturday, October 31. Follow

thrills. There are several haunted attractions of

the Trick-or-Treat trail for loads of candy, see

various scare levels. The goal is to offer you and

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REVOLUTIONARIES: BEETHOVEN & THE BEATLES Tulsa Chorale presents a fun night out, October 13 at Tulsa's Admiral Twin Drive-in, at 7:30 p.m. The event? A virtual performance of Beethoven’s Mass in C by the Tulsa Chorale, a screening of the film “Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band,” and a LIVE performance of songs by The Beatles by Tulsa’s Retro

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A new way to enjoy Broadway ’s Hamilton A SMASHING PLAY AND EVEN MORE SMASHING DRINK

ARTICLE BRYAN AND KIRSTEN EDWARDS | PHOTOGRAPHY BRYAN EDWARDS

HAMILTON, THE MUSICAL, HAS BEEN SWEEPING THE NATION FOR YEARS NOW. But thanks to Disney Plus, you can watch this revolutionary play in your own home. In of one of our Founding Father’s rise to stardom; I present the Alexander Hamilton. This drink is perfect for your Disney Plus watch party to join the frenzy of all things Hamilton. Throughout this rap musical, the cast have several songs referring to things in numerical order, each with a specific meaning. I thought it would be only fitting to allot the simple three ingredients in this drink a metaphorical analogy to the play itself and how it lives up to all the hype. 12

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n u m b e r o n e C H A M PAG N E . B U B B L E S . E XC I T E M E N T. This play revolves around the Revolutionary War, the creation of our nation’s capital and the birth of our financial systems. It is explosive. Just like the bubbles rise up, these characters quite literally share their stories of their dying wishes to rise to stardom, become martyrs and carry on a legacy. The champagne represents the bright, sharp, articulate rap battles that keep you on your toes. Way to start with a bang, right?

number two ELDERFLOWER LIQUEUR. S W E E T. F R U I T Y. S U LT R Y. As the play progresses into Hamilton’s personal life and tribulations, the Schuyler sisters make their first appearance. Elderflower represents the young women perfectly. They are elegant, provide a sense of serenity and peace throughout the war and its transgressions. The sultry aftertaste may foreshadow into some of Hamilton’s less favorable decisions. Nonetheless, the drink and the play start off with a crisp structured beginning melting into the sweetness we have been longing for. When you combine the two together, it’s absolute perfection.

number three T H E G O L D L U S T E R D U S T. T H E F I N A L E . T H E P I E C E D E R E S I S TA N C E . Extra star power makes its presence known. This represents that swirly, gold mirage Hamilton gives to the play. During an interview with Lin Manuel Miranda, who plays Hamilton, he explains how this production gives a more magical, heartwarming, “rose colored glasses” feel to the beginning of our great country. Lin goes on to say he wrote the Broadway smash to provide patrons with a sense of grand patriotism and pride most feel after watching this play. His hope is to give the viewer inspiration to make this magical version more of a reality. A little magic gold dust, if you will.

ALEXANDER H A M I LT O N INGREDIENTS + 3 ounces Brut Champagne + 2 ounces St. Elder Elderflower Liqueur + 0.5 grams (Sprinkle) Pharaohs Egyptian Gold Dust

As the curtain draws to a close, this drink is simply something fun to make while you watch an incredible piece of art and

DIRECTIONS

history. But look just a hair beyond the surface and you will

In a champagne glass pour the 3 ounces of champagne and

find many hidden gems and meanings not only in the play, but

add 2 ounces of St. Elder. Finish your cocktail with a sprinkle

in the creation of this delectable drink.

of gold dust and gently stir. Finally, enjoy the magic! CityLifestyle.com/Tulsa

ROAD TRIP ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY KATHY SLEMP

On top of the world

Hike up the mountain behind Uluru Ranch when the sun is beginning to set for an amazing view. Don't forget the camera.

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DISCOVER WESTCLIFFE IN THE COLORADO MOUNTAINS

LONGING FOR SOME TIME AWAY FROM THE HUSTLE AND BUSTLE OF TULSA LIFE AND STRESS OF SOCIAL DISTANCING? There’s a tiny, picturesque town named Westcliffe enveloped in between the Wet and Sangre de Cristo mountain ranges in the Colorado Mountains with unbelievable views, an old western vibe and the perfect place to relax. There is plenty to keep you busy if settling down with a good book or taking a nap on the hammock isn't on your list of favorites. If driving, you’ll have to take a break at the Gloss Mountain State Park near Fairview, Oklahoma for a hike up Cathedral Mountain offering a spectacular view of the valley floor. “Miles of prairie floor stretch out as far as the eye can see, broken up only by the native red dirt and sparse green shrubbery.”—TravelOK.com. I had to stop twice, on the way to and from Colorado, as the scenery changes with the sun depending on the time of day. If you prefer to fly to Westcliffe, there is a small airport that accommodates jets and small planes. Visit SilverWestAirport.com for more information. As you approach Westcliffe, you are greeted by a quaint main street dotted with restaurants, galleries, a local grocery store, and places to stay with gorgeous views of the mountains. The sky at night is amazing. “Since the mountain ranges shield Westcliffe and nearby Silver Cliff from light pollution in the region, the communities are the first in Colorado to be recognized by the International Dark-Sky Association for their exemplary stargazing opportunities.”—Colorado.com. If mountain climbing is on your bucket list, there are five 14,000-foot peaks, known as the Crestone Group. If you need equipment, visit All the Range Mountaineering and Outdoor Gear store for the best equipment for what you are planning to do. Ask for owner Thomas Dimler who is extremely knowledgeable and can help you plan your excursion or visit them on facebook.com/AlltheRangemountaineering. The area is also home to 200 miles of hiking and biking trails and 54 alpine lakes so if you enjoy camping, cross country skiing, boating, hiking, mountain biking, exploring, and just about anything outdoors, this is the place for you. You’ll have to take a side trip to Bishop Castle. This quirky castle, a bizarre feat of architecture and engineering, has lots to explore, hundreds of stone and metal spiral stairs to climb and amazing views. Jim Bishop has been building the mid-evil castle by hand since 1969 and it’s free to visit and explore.

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ROAD TRIP (CONTINUED) A view of the Sangre de Cristo mountain range from the side deck of Uluru Ranch.

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Lake DeWeese is a perfect spot to fish and boat and is within walking distance of Uluru Ranch.

There are several day trips that can be planned. The Great Sand Dunes National Park and Preserve is “open all day and night year round, the tallest dunes in North America are the centerpiece in a diverse landscape of grasslands, wetlands, conifer and aspen forests,

Some of the mountains seen from Gloss Mountain State Park near Fairview, Oklahoma.

alpine lakes, and tundra.”—NPS.gov. Take a breathtaking journey on the Cumbres & Toltec Scenic Railroad, well worth the two hour drive to get there. “Built in 1880 and little changed since, the Cumbres & Toltec Scenic Railroad is the finest and most spectacular example of steam era mountain railroading in North America. Its equipment, structures and vast landscape exist today as if frozen in the first half of the twentieth century.”— CumbresToltec.org. Depending on the time of year, you can also visit the Monarch Mountain ski area if you enjoy skiing the slopes and sipping on hot chocolate. Complete your visit by staying at Uluru Ranch, a dome shaped Airbnb home just outside of town situated on 40 acres across from Lake DeWeese in the DeWeese Reservoir State Wildlife Area. The boating and fishing lake is within walking distance. The views from the deck surrounding the home are breathtaking and if you hike up the mountain behind the house, the views give you the feeling of being on top of the world. The inside is spacious and rustic with 3 levels. The owner can answer any questions you may have about the area and can recommend various things to do and see. Visit airbnb.com/rooms/39590219 for more information and to view photos of the home.

what you’ll find:

Bishop Castle is a a bizarre feat of architecture and engineering and an adventure you can't miss.

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Places to eat while visiting We s t c l i f f e 1.

CHAPPYS MOUNTAIN VIEW BAR & GRILL A great downtown Westcliffe restaurant and bar with flame cooked steaks, burgers, chicken, dogs and brat's, served with homemade sides or fresh cut french fries. facebook.com/ ChappybarandgrillwestcliffeCO

HUNGER BUSTER A little jewel, drive through only, for the best hamburgers and milkshakes in the area. facebook.com/ hungerbusterconnie

TONYâ€™S MOUNTAIN PIZZA Offers a wide variety of specialty pizzas and "build your own" as well as appetizers, soups, salads, sandwiches and more. TonysMountainPizza.com

SUGAR & SPICE MOUNTAIN BAKERY A bakery that has fresh-baked pies,

pastries,

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breads and delicious quiches as well as delicious sandwiches, ice cream and souvenirs.

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A COMPREHENSIVE SHOPPING EXPERIENCE AT PARKHILL'S SOUTH

Wine and so much more IT’S BEEN SAID THAT A MEAL WITHOUT

One suggestion from Andrews that many

WINE IS LIKE A DAY WITHOUT SUNSHINE.

sommeliers often veer away from is sparkling

But how does a novice choose the perfect

wine. “You may not be able to find a wine that

wine for a meal or a hostess gift when you

goes with everything, but sparkling wine will

don’t know the difference between a Malbec

work with anything. The effervescence is a nat-

and a Mourvedre? You depend on the experts

ural palette cleanser, so it prepares you for the

at Parkhill’s South Liquors and Wine. For

next bite,” explains Andrews.

nearly 10 years, Parkhill’s South has provided

But for those who want more of an individ-

the largest selection of wine, spirits and beer.

ualized pick, Andrews asks specific questions.

Additionally, they offer mixers, bar accessories

Besides the menu, details about the hosts’ or

and unique hostess gifts.

hostesses’ personalities, what they drink, your

But where to start. We’ve all been there, star-

budget and what wines have been tried in the

ing at bottle after bottle of confounding labels.

past. Want to dash in and grab something you

James Andrews, who serves as Parkhill’s certi-

know will be a hit? Try James’ picks – a spe-

fied sommelier, suggests beginning with what

cial section full of distinctive wines – the tried

you already know and build from there. “One

and true bottles, but also a focus on wines with

of the unique things about this store is that we

small production or perhaps coming from an

take the time to work with each customer to find

unknown region or unusual grape variety. His

the perfect wine for any situation.” That not only

favorite wine? “Choosing a favorite wine is like

includes every day or special-occasion wines,

having a favorite child.”

but wines that are tailored to your menu.

Parkhill’s has long facilitated wine tastings,

Andrews, who has spent more than 30

both privately and for philanthropic events.

years training, selling and educating others

But with COVID, it has made many logistically

about wines and spirits says there are three

difficult. So, like many businesses, they turned

universal languages; food, music and wine.

to Zoom to host wine tastings and pairings.

He advises pairing wines with not only the

Tina Parkhill, who owns the store, remembers

menu, but the spices used to create the fla-

one Zoom wine tasting where they chose wine,

vors of the food. “It’s only been in the past

cocktails and even beer to compliment the

few decades that we’ve paired wine and food.

appetizers and desserts being served. “It was

When you travel internationally, you normally

so much fun and it really showcased a new way

drink wines from that region, but when you

we can stay social with our friends.”

really know which wines work with different

If beer or cocktails are more your style,

foods and flavors, it makes drinking wine a

Chris Vedda, an expert in beer and spirits,

much more enjoyable experience.”

says seltzers are the big seller right now. CONTINUED >

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LOCALLY OWNED (CONTINUED) James Andrews serves as Parkhillâ€™s certified sommelier

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Chris Vedda is Parkhill's expert in beer and spirits

His recommendation is to start with local-made beers and seltzers. “We have a lot of local beers many customers may not think to try.” But, he adds, “are always a great place to start, especially when trying to expand your knowledge.” Missing happy hour when you ordered a French 75 and never had to worry how it was made? No worries, Vedda says there are so many pre-mixed drinks available now that it makes it easier than ever Tina Parkhill, owner of Parkhill’s South Liquors and Wine

to try something new or stick with an old favorite. But don’t discount becoming your own bartender. “People are finding that mixing their own cocktails is not only fun, but a great way to try something new.” Parkhill’s South can help you with all the ingredients, not just the spirits, which makes shopping there a much more comprehensive experience. Whether you are new to pairing food and wine or you consider yourself an ace mixologist, Parkhill’s can assist you every step of the way. And if you’re just not sure how to choose the perfect Merlot, gift cards are always available. Delivery and curbside service are also available, but treat yourself by visiting the store at 10018 South Memorial. They are open Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., Friday and Saturday from 9 a.m. to 10 p.m. and Sunday from noon to 6 p.m. They have a Facebook page announcing new arrivals, or give them a call at 918.528.6700. You can find them on the web at ParkhillsSouth.com.

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Visions in Tile

Nancy Paschal-Smith and Ashley Zimmerman. Photo credit Michael McRuiz

ARTICLE NANCY PASCHAL-SMITH

VISIONS TILE AND STONE, INC. HAS ALWAYS STAYED ON THE CUTTING EDGE OF OUR INDUSTRY. Tile is still a top contender of choice in residential and commercial settings due to its versatility and durability. Today’s porcelain and stone tile options conform to any style that meets a sought-after look. Modern, avant-garde, industrial, farmhouse, traditional and mid-century tile looks are popular in today’s market. Tile should create a feeling of happiness and energy. Luxurious colors, surprising textures, unique shapes and incredibly large formats are increasing in popularity. While the consumers want a fresh, crisp appeal, they also desire their space to be cozy and inviting. Floor to ceiling wraps in tile create a beautiful flow to the space, especially in baths. Exterior tiles, porcelains and stones, for paving patios have created a lot of interest from the consumer. Patterned encaustic and porcelain tiles create an inviting outdoor living area. Wood look tiles are very popular for floors and walls, giving a calm approach to the area. Full height backsplashes, counter to ceiling, emphasize the strength of this focal point. The tile market has so many new formats and sizes. Bigger is better! 24 x 48” and 30 x 60” tiles are increasing in popularity for an upscale look. Square tiles are back! 24 x 24” has become the standard. These formats reduce the amount of grout used, as many large formats are rectified allowing a tight grout joint. The production of porcelain tiles has surpassed everyone’s expectations! Natural stones are scanned and reproduced on this strong body tile. The designs are limitless. Mosaics, hexagons, fish scales, pickets, chevrons, lanterns, circles, triangles! The waterjet has made so many shapes possible. Many tiles can be ordered in customized colors to create a personal and unique installation. Terrazzo tile has made a big comeback, CONTINUED >

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especially in a midcentury modern look. Metal is being incorporated into designs, with natural gold, bronze and black as popular newcomers. Warm and cool tones together define a new direction for colors. Organic tones of nature are the popular trend. Soft beige, warm whites and warm pastels are coming back into the market. Bold colors, especially blue and green, have been a strong accent in the industry. Though we may see these colors making a comeback, greys and blacks are still very popular. With beautiful changes in the world of tile, the consumer can enjoy the art and practicality

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Pumpkin Pe r fe c t i o n PUT THE CARVING TOOLS DOWN + CHECK OUT HOW YOU CAN ADD SOME PIZZAZZ TO YOUR PUMPKINS WITH JUST A PAINT BRUSH

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For this design, you’ll need several pumpkins or gourds in various shapes and sizes, some white and metallic acrylic paint, hot glue and some fake creepy crawlers.

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pumpkins in metallic colors. For your centerpiece, use white paint to cover the body, metallic paint for the stem and hot glue your creepy crawlers all around.

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Go to the “dark side” with this design that requires matte black paint, white paint, some metallic paint (for an out-ofthis-world vibe) and some newspapers. Be careful—this one could get messy!

Leave your stems natural or cover with metallic paint if desired. Then, coat your mini pumpkins in matte black paint— be sure to cover everything!

You can leave some matte black, but for an extra touch, lay out newspaper and splatter your white paint onto some of your black pumpkins. Bonus—as long as you catch it before it dries, any paint should be easily removed with some warm water.

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C h e f s Yo u N e e d to Know

MEET THE CULINARY TRAIL BLAZERS

Carla Cousins is a well-respected Chef who has worked

Location: 106th & Memorial, Tulsa Menu: CardinalClubTulsa.com

BEST THING YOU EVER ATE?

in many of Tulsa’s upscale restaurants. In January, she

I have had a lot of great meals and it would be hard

accepted the executive chef position with Cardinal Club,

to pinpoint just one. But our American Wagyu Tomahawk

a premiere dining and social club.

Steak ranks up there with the best of the best. We cook it from start to finish in our Gateway drum smokers using

WHAT CHEF HAS INSPIRED YOU THE MOST?

pecan and cherry wood, seasoning it with a blend of five

I have been very blessed to work for some of Tulsa’s

different competition-level seasonings and proprietary

best chefs so I don’t think I could fairly name just one as

rubs. It is literally the best steak I have ever had! I would

an inspiration. I am grateful for the lessons I’ve learned

pair it with a bottle of Walla Walla, Washington Cabernet

from each of them. Because this is a second career for

Sauvignon. Yes, a bottle. It’s a 2 ½ pound steak! You will

me, I am inspired by Julia Child’s story and what she was

want to share it with someone.

able to accomplish, especially after learning she started her culinary career later in life. BEST KITCHEN TOOL FOR HOME COOKS? I highly recommend investing in a good 8” chef’s knife and learn how to use it properly. You only need one knife to do most things in the kitchen along with a proper cutting board. I think anyone who wants to up their cooking game at home should take a cooking skills class to go with it! 30

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favorite item at cardinal club? As mentioned above, the American Wagyu Tomahawk Steak. Try it with Aerials by Revelry Red Mountain Cabernet. This single-vineyard wine can stand up to the spice and rich fats of the steak.

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Executive Chef Carla Cousins

Restaurant: Cardinal Club

Randy Page has been in the food industry since 1985 and a Chef for more than 25 years. His restaurant, Cricket & Fig, opened last fall in the London Square shopping center. DID YOU COOK AS A CHILD? Yes, my mother was a great cook and baker, and I wanted to learn to make cakes and pies like she did. I enjoyed making Chocolate Mousse because it has a reputation for being difficult to make as well as being elegant and rare (at least to an 8-year-old). I like to learn how things work and I enjoy challenges. My early influences were the master chefs of the early 90’s; Charlie Trotter, Jean Louis Palladin and Jean-Georges Vongerichten, and pastry chefs Jacques Torres and Norman Love. BEST THING YOU EVER ATE? A Crème Brûlée Napoleon with Butterscotch at The Townhouse in Charlotte, NC. It was the best dessert I have ever had. The layers of rich custard were so cold and just perfectly balanced by delicate, buttery crisp almond pastry layers and a rich butterscotch sauce. And yes, I know how to make it—the chef/owner is a friend of mine. WHAT IS THE BIGGEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU AS A CHEF? While working in San Luis Obispo, California, I was asked to cook for Julia Child and two companions. I can’t remember what I cooked for her, but it was five or six Restaurant: Cricket & Fig Chocolate Location: 5800 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa Menu: CricketAndFig.com

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courses and I sat and chatted with her for a half-hour or so afterward. She was incredibly kind and gracious.

favorite item at cricket & fig? Our Molten Chocolate Cake is incredibly decadent. Made with our stellar Valrhona 64% dark chocolate, it includes a scoop of our handmade Vanilla Bean Ice Cream and homemade graham crackers.

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Restaurant: Esperance Bakery Location: 610 W. Main St., Jenks Menu: EsperanceBakery.com

Chef Hope Alexander Hope Alexander doesn’t consider herself a Chef, but

what is even more delightful, they tell me it takes them

as someone spreading happiness through handmade

back to their honeymoon in France or reminds them of a

pastries. Esperance Bakery recently celebrated its

wonderful trip they took abroad. Those are the ones that

four-year anniversary.

make me feel the best about what I do.

BEST KITCHEN TOOL FOR HOME COOKS?

WHAT WINE PAIRS BEST WITH PASTRIES?

A good cookbook. One that has actual tested recipes.

I am not a traditionalist when it comes to wine pair-

The cookbook that I started with as a teenager was Stir

ing and the same goes for beer. I believe that if you like

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it, drink it. I love pairing wine with our bread puddings.

OK. It’s the book that taught me about Diane Sauce and

When we have leftover croissants, we freeze them and

Coquille St. Jacques, Chocolate Mousse and the frustra-

later make bread puddings. Our Mexican Bread Pudding

tion of Dutch Handkerchiefs. It was, and still is, such an

is made from spicy refried bean croissants with locally

unexpected compilation of recipes. I still use it.

sourced ground beef, while our Italian Bread Pudding is made from marinara filled croissants.

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thinking it’s just another mass-produced thing, and their

favorite item at esperance bakery?

whole demeanor changes. Sometimes there is a moan

My favorite item is definitely our savory Bread Pudding

of delight or a blush from the unexpected deliciousness.

with sausage, dates and pine nuts. It is such a different

Then they tell me it is the best thing they have eaten, or

combination of flavors and pairs wonderfully with Austin

The best compliment I get starts as unspoken. I have watched customers take a bite of one of our pastries,

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Grown-up Comfort Food A WEEKEND AT FORT GIBSON INSPIRES A TASTY SANDWHICH

ARTICLE BRYAN AND KIRSTEN EDWARDS PHOTOGRAPHY BRYAN EDWARDS

COMFORT FOOD NORMALLY IS BROUGHT TO MIND WHEN REMINISCING ABOUT A SPECIAL ERA IN YOUR LIFE. Can you remember as a child being ravenous after a sweltering day at the pool or running through the neighborhoods with friends until the street lights came on? Do you reminisce about an oasis in the desert after a night of margaritas and friends when you see a taco truck? All these things occur in our normal day-to-day lives without realizing how much comfort, love and relief we find in these foods. Here is a grown-up recipe after a weekend getaway with friends and family at Fort Gibson. This grown-up French toast and Monte Cristo hybrid will become your new favorite comfort food.

The Fort Gibson INGREDIENTS: + French Brioche Bread + Dash of cinnamon + 1 cup heavy whipping cream + 1 cup milk + 1/2 cup brown sugar + 2 medium eggs + 1 teaspoon vanilla extract + 1 medium tomato + 8 slices provolone cheese + ½ pound Dietz & Watson Honey Maple Turkey + ½ pound Dietz & Watson Honey Ham + 1 tablespoon powdered sugar for dusting DIRECTIONS: 1. In a large bowl mix cinnamon, eggs, whipping cream, milk, brown sugar and vanilla. 2. Dip bread into mixture on both sides, making sure the mixture is absorbed. 3. Place bread into frying pan with a pad of butter. 4. Cook on each side until golden brown (about 30 seconds on each side) and then flip. 5. Add one slice of cheese on each side as soon as it is flipped. 6. Add two slices of turkey, two slices of tomatoes and one slice of ham and remaining bread. 7. Using a sharp knife, cut the sandwich into triangles and dust with powdered sugar. Enjoy!

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