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Thankful
LIFESTYLE LETTER
NOVEMBER 2020 PUBLISHER
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And we truly are. During this month of being thankful, we thank you, our readers, for
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allowing us the privilege to share the good news in Highlands Ranch and Lone Tree.
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All year long. We are so proud to be an uplifting voice in our community. As we near the end of 2020, we've looked at past issues and are proud of what we've brought you. From Art+Makers in February, to both Ladies and Gents' Movers+Shakers in May and June, to celebrating Style in September, we can't decide which is our favorite issue. (Go to our website to peruse all of our past
Dani Moore CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
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Cameron Yarumian, Heather Blair
issues! We know that even months later you’ll still meet someone or something new in our community worth knowing.) This month is all about being thankful. So as you browse these pages, you'll meet Vanessa and Gideon Osei, owners of Kingdom Cabinets & Cabinetry, who have devoted their lives to their faith and social justice issues. Wendy Ingraham, a 12-time Ironman champion, who is helping struggling teens and military veterans at Robin's Nest Foundation. And, ladies, you'll even get some fashion inspiration for the most thankful of days, whether you plan on a super casual Thanksgiving Day or aim to style it up a notch.
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Give THANKS The value of a community goes far beyond home prices. Much of it lies in the way we come together when we need each other most, working to create happiness, stability, and growth for all those who live here. This Thanksgiving season, join us in showing gratitude to the local nonprofits who are working to support our communities. Here are a couple of our favorite ways to give thanks and give back: —
Buy a cookie. Support Project Angel Heart through their annual fall fundraiser. This year, they’re selling autumn-themed frosted sugar cookies, with each set providing three nutritious meals to people in our community facing life threatening illnesses. Learn more at projectangelheart.org.
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Donate supplies. Did you know that Urban Peak is the only nonprofit in the Denver Metro Area that exclusively serves youth ages 15-24 who are experiencing homelessness? They have a handy online shopping list where you can donate supplies directly to support their work. Learn more at bit.ly/urbanpeakdonate.
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Embrace puppy love. Everybody loves an underdog, especially our friends at Underdogs Animal Rescue. They work year-round to find homes for animals who are often forgotten, misunderstood, or picked last from shelters. Become a part of their mission through donations or volunteerism. Learn more at underdogsrescue.org.
Thank you for being a part of our community. Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving season, from your local real estate experts.
Joy Van Gilder, Broker Associate
Kara Wetherill, Broker Associate
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INSIDE THE ISSUE NOVEMBER 2020
FEATURES 14 Time to Chill Curating the Transition from Fall to Winter
18 Faith in Action Walking the Path of Faith Toward Those in Need
22 Festive Styling Steal These Three Looks For Any Type of Thanksgiving Day Get Together
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24 A Grateful Heart Favorite Things to Remind Us All of The Simple Joys in Life
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DEPARTMENTS 4
Lifestyle Letter
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Good Times
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Around Town
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Renovate & Refine
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Inspired By
22 Trend Setter 24 Local’s Choice 27 Giving Back 30 Lifestyle Calendar 34 Parting Thoughts
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Women Who Soar The Women's Business Alliance of the Northwest Douglas County Chamber & EDC held its annual "Women Who Soar" event on Sept. 30 at Perry's Steakhouse & Grill in Lone Tree. This year's women honorees were Dr. Monique Butler, Chief Medical Officer of Swedish Medical Center; Ivette Dominguez, owner of Alpine Buick GMC; and Zoë Royer, mental health advocate. GARY CASKEY PHOTOGRAPHY
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The Dog Days of Summer celebrated Highlands Ranch's four-legged friends got the last dip in the pool at Westridge pool Sept. 12 at the Doggie Splash and Pet Expo. Dogs of all sizes, shapes and colors alongside their humans enjoyed pool time and specialty pet vendors.
HRCA Trunk Sale Treasure hunters and those with too much treasure convened at the HRCA Community Trunk Sale Sept. 26. Vendors sold their handmade crafts and pandemic de-cluttering finds in the Eastridge Back Parking Lot.
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GOOD TIMES 1.
Reading Awards Douglas County Libraries and the DCL Foundation awarded $500 each to four local schools with the most sign-ups in the library’s Splash Into Summer reading program: Copper Mesa Elementary School; Ranch View Middle School; Castle View High School; and Leman Classical Academy.
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AROUND TOWN
HOLIDAY WELLNESS OPEN HOUSE
MRS. COLORADO 2020
Launch into the holiday season by giving
This summer, Nicole Covney of Highlands
yourself the gift of wellness! Board-certified
Ranch won the title of Mrs. Colorado, the official
naturopath Diana M. Dannelly, who specializes in
preliminary competition to the prestigious Mrs.
the endocrine system, will be hosting a Holiday
America Pageant. She won out over 35 other
Wellness Open House.
women vying for the title. Nicole is a Hair Stylist
Participants can learn more about hormonal
and Colorado native, growing up in Colorado
health, sip on superfood mocktails, and enjoy
Springs attending Mitchell High School and
giveaways and a complimentary hormonal bal-
then completing cosmetology school at Pickens
ance scan, valued at $200. Sign up in advance
School of Cosmetology in Aurora. Nicole and
for a 15 minute slot.
her husband Jason recently celebrated 18 years
Hormonal imbalances can lead to thyroid issues, chronic fatigue, abnormal periods, menopausal symptoms, trouble conceiving and acne. Call 303-999-0019 to reserve, spots are limited.
TURKEY DAY 5K
of marriage and have three children; Grace, Garret, and Jayce.
STUDY HALL AND STUDENT SUPPORT SERVICES AT DCL Douglas County Libraries is offering its new
Join the Northwest Douglas County Chamber
Study Hall + Student Support service for middle
of Commerce & EDC for its annual Turkey Day 5K
and high school students who might be strug-
— only this year it’s a virtual run. To register, go to
gling with online learning. The free service, part
RaceRoster.com and search for 2020 Turkey Day
of the DCL Learning Lab, offers dedicated space
5K in Highlands Ranch. This year’s race promises
for students in grades 6-12 to work on school
to deliver the same excellent photo opportunities,
assignments and get help with math, language
fun and interactive ways to connect with family,
arts, and science from qualified tutors onsite. The
opportunities to track and commemorate your
topic-specific Study Halls are available Monday-
fitness goals, and a second helping of dessert (by
Thursday in morning and afternoon sessions at
dessert, we mean prizes).
DCL’s Castle Rock, Highlands Ranch and Parker
The Chamber also is supporting the Douglas
locations. DCL.org
County Fallen Officer Fund for the third year in a row. Your online donations benefit members who are seriously injured in the line of duty, or their families if killed in the line of duty.
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Would you like to get in touch with us? We would love
For more information, go to NWDouglasCounty.org
to hear from you! Contact us at CityLifestyle.com/
or contact Amy Sherman or Andrea LaRew at
HighlandsRanch using the Get In Touch link and let
303-791-3500.
us know what you think.
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RENOVATE & REFINE
Time to Chill ARTICLE SONJA NIX | PHOTOGRAPHY KARLI MILLSPAUGH
CURATING THE TRANSITION FROM FALL TO WINTER
OUR LONG, HOT SUMMER DAYS HAVE
Sandwiched between the warm orange
MORPHED INTO THE CRISPER MORN-
pumpkins and yellow falling leaves of
INGS AND EARLY EVENINGS OF AUTUMN.
October, and the traditional bright, cheer-
The cozy call of the fireplace beckons. Curate
ful colors of Christmas, November calls
Mercantile owner Karli Millspaugh adorns this
for something different. Natural elements,
modern farmhouse mantle in the Fox Hill
the earthy browns of the mantle and wood
farm-to-table neighborhood. Inspired by the
accessories, as well as the light ocher of
view overlooking the Colorado prairie, Karli
the natural grasses ground the comfort-
incorporated elements from the surrounding
ing cream upholstery and walls, creating a
natural grasses, trees, reclaimed wood mantel
peaceful vibe suited for winter indoor loung-
and white shiplap walls in her design.
ing and slumber. This restful time gives us
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ABOUT DESIGNER Karli Millspaugh is the owner of Curate: A Mercantile in Centennial and Makers Market stores in Park Meadows and Southwest Plaza malls, all of which specialize in local vendors’ creations. @curatemercantile @makersmarket_co
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the chance to recharge between the hustle and bustle of early autumn and the frenetic energy of the holiday season. The picture above the mantle captures Karli’s intent. “That house was a perfect house, whether you like food or sleep
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or story-telling or singing, or just sitting and thinking best, or a pleasant mixture of them all. Merely to be there was a cure for weariness, fear and sadness.” J.R.R. Tolkien “This mantle felt like the perfect match for a cozy, neutral November.” Karli says, ‘”This overall neutral color scheme is still pleasing to the eye given all the textures, shapes and layers to enjoy.” To get this look, Karli sourced dried grasses from the fields in Fox Hill Farm, as
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well as accessories from Curate’s vendors. Curate: A Local Mercantile, 8242 S University Blvd #150, Centennial. Call: (303)-770-7030. Shop Curate’s sister stores, Makers Market at Park Meadows Mall, 303-5258566; and Makers Market at Southwest 3.
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LARGE FRAMED PRINT: Handmade in Parker by Jamie of Sanctuary. Sold at Curate and Makers Market Park Meadows 2:
WOOD ORB, WOOD BEADS AND FAUX PUMPKIN: Thoughtfully selected home decor
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WOOD SPINDLES: Reclaimed and Refinished chair spindles made by Want & Worth available at Curate
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CANDLE: Handmade large birch-wrapped candle by Danielle of Mountain Cat Candle Co available in Makers Market Park Meadows 5:
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INSPIRED BY
FAITH IN ACTION
HIGHLANDS RANCH BUSINESS OWNERS WALK THE PATH OF THEIR FAITH TO HELP THOSE IN NEED
ARTICLE SONJA NIX
PHOTOGRAPHY CAMERON YARUMIAN
VANESSA AND GIDEON OSEI ARE CALLED BY THEIR
The two met at church, when Vanessa was 19 years
FAITH TO ACTION. The owners of Kingdom Countertops
old with a two-year-old daughter. Despite growing up in
and Cabinetry in Highlands Ranch walk the path of devout
vastly contrasting worlds, they bonded in their abiding
Christians. This path looks different than some might expect.
love of God and married in 2004.
Vanessa was born and raised in Colorado, descended
Gideon had no experience in construction, but quickly
from turn of the century immigrants who came to
became a top salesperson at World of Tile. His sales philos-
Colorado during the sugar beet migration. Her Russian
ophy was and remains, ‘Work as hard for the small customer
German forefathers arrived first, followed by her Mexican
as for the big customer.’ He tells a story of a dusty workman
American grandparents. Her grandfather was both a
walking around the shop one day. Other salespeople resisted
farmer and a traveling pastor. He held a deep faith in God,
approaching him, thinking it would be a waste of time. Gideon
and sense of service to his congregants and community.
willingly assisted him, and only after the sale learned he was a
To this day, she dons his fedoras with pride, inspired to
prominent custom home builder. From that grew a fruitful long-
carry on his work. Childhood years were spent both in
term relationship. Out of this time grew another of his founding
inner city Denver during the 90’s drug wars, and then in
principles ‘Relationships are the foundation of business.’
Parker. Her experiences in the two extremely different neighborhoods shaped her views of social justice.
As Gideon was building his career, Vanessa was at home raising their children. She became a foster mom, helping 24 teens
Gideon came to the United States from Ghana, West
over nine years emancipate into adulthood, supporting their
Africa as a young adult. He too is from a family of farmers,
pursuits in continuing education, the military or trades. She was
both his parents tended farmland just outside of Sunyani.
inspired to return to her own education, which stalled when she
The youngest of seven children, he was inspired to attend
became a mom at 17. She enrolled at the Community College of
University by an older sibling who held high office in the
Aurora, then went on to earn a bachelor’s degree at the University
Ghanaian justice system. Gideon attended the University
of Northern Colorado at Lowry’s Center for Urban Education in
of Ghana, graduating with degrees in Political Science and
elementary education with a culturally and linguistically diverse
Sociology. After living in London and New York, Gideon him-
background. After graduating, she taught at the Global Village
self was part of a small Ghanaians migration to Colorado for
Academy in Parker and Pine Lane Elementary school, creat-
the milder winter weather.
ing a class in world language, culture, cuisine and beliefs. CONTINUED >
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“OPEN YOUR MOUTH FOR THE MUTE, FOR THE RIGHTS OF ALL WHO ARE DESTITUTE. OPEN YOUR MOUTH, JUDGE RIGHTEOUSLY, DEFEND THE RIGHTS OF THE POOR AND THE NEEDY.” PROVERBS 31:8-9
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INSPIRED BY (CONTINUED)
For 20 years, Vanessa has also been very active in prison ministry. She now heads her church’s outreach ministry, serving eight prisons in the state of Colorado. Informed by her young years in diverse communities and the differences people of color encounter in the justice system, she fiercely advocates for prison and justice system reform. Gideon brings a distinctive perspective to racial injustice. As an African, not an African American, he initially felt spared from the historical prejudice Black Americans encounter. But as he spent more time working and building connections professionally, he began to experience the notion of ‘otherness’. He’d hear things like “You’re such a hard worker. Not like them.” At first this sounded complimentary, but soon he began to see a pattern of erroneous stereotypes in these comments. But it was raising their Black and bi-racial children that brought this advocacy full circle. “As a white mother of Black children, I never, ever had those things happen to me….it changes how you perceive racism, the impact on my children, the ways they are seen as different. Or how my foster teens are treated” both expressly and in their life circumstances. “It’s strange some people are confused by us, because we are adamant Christians, but we are adamant social justice advocates.” Vanessa says, “we are all God’s children. There should be no distinction of that in our prisons, in our CEO boardrooms, our neighborhoods or our representation.” In following their faith, The Osei family live by these words. “Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are destitute. Open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the poor and the needy.” Proverbs 31:8-9
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TREND SETTER
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STEAL THESE THREE LOOKS FOR ANY TYPE OF THANKSGIVING DAY GET TOGETHER
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LOCAL’S CHOICE
KADEN CUS
ARTICLE SONJA NIX
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COMMONLY KNOWN AS GEORGE’S SYNDROME, DIAGNOSED IN UTERO. At six months old, Kaden was the youngest person to receive a mechanical heart valve at Children’s Hospital. Now a first grader, he
HIGHLAND’S RANCH FIRST GRADER SHARES HIS FAVORITE THINGS
shares his 5 favorite things to remind us of the hope and joy in every child’s heart.
A G R AT E F U L HEART KADEN
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PLAYING WITH MY SISTER “We play pretend, like high school and office. She plays outside with me and we do crafts.”
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PLAYING WITH FRIENDS Like most first graders, Kaden loves to play groundies with classmates Taelor, Logan, and Layla.
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DANCE Kaden dances weekly at Littleton Ballet Academy. “I was in The Nutcracker last year and played a baby mouse.”
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NEW YORK AND DISNEYLAND “We went to New York last Christmas, to the top of The Empire State Building and saw The Rockettes. At Disneyland, my favorite character is Mickey Mouse and It’s A Small World.”
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“SPEND TIME WITH MY MOMMA” The deep bond between Kaden and Lisa Livesay is obvious. “At the park, I love to swing and Mama doesn’t have to push me anymore. She takes care of me when I’m in the hospital. I love her very much.”
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GIVING BACK
WALKING THE WALK
A JOURNEY DOWN THE WINDING LIFE PATH OF UNASSUMING SPIRITUAL LEADER FRANCIS CHAN
IMAGINE YOURSELF AS THE LEADER OF A THRIVING MEGACHURCH IN VENTURA COUNTY, CALIFORNIA, WITH MORE THAN 5,000 MEMBERS AND GROWING. You’re a New York Times bestseller making a million dollars in royalties from your first book and people love you—you’re on top of the world. Would you leave that all behind? Better yet, would you trade all of that, giving away 90% of your income to end up living in the poorest region of Hong Kong surrounded by people struggling to make it by on just 50 cents a day? For most, it probably sounds like a tale of riches to rags; an unfortunate and unwanted result of someone falling upon hard times. But for Francis Chan, a church planter and best-selling author who speaks to thousands of people around the world each year, it’s exactly what he did. And exactly what he needed—an opportunity to walk down a winding path that led him toward fulfilling his purpose; toward becoming a
ARTICLE NICOLETTE MARTIN
man who can truly say he lives the life he’s been called to and encouraging others to do the same.
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GIVING BACK (CONTINUED)
Watch the full interview @ CityLifestyle.com! Francis, born in San Francisco, was raised in a very traditional Chinese home and navigated a challenging upbringing. His mother died while giving birth to him. His father remarried, then his stepmother died in a car accident when he was 8. His father remarried again, then, when Francis was 12, died of cancer. Twenty-six and newly married, Francis and his wife Lisa founded Cornerstone Community Church in Simi Valley, California in the early 90s, beginning with a membership of 30 people. Within the first two months, the church grew to 100. By 2000, membership grew even more to 1,600. And by 2008, Cornerstone Community Church was one of the largest in Ventura County and Francis’ then-new book “Crazy Love” was a New York Times bestseller. Then, in 2010, Francis decided to leave it behind in pursuit of a more humble and impactful way of life. The $1 million his bestselling book made in the first year, plus the money it continues to make? Francis signed it all over to a charitable gift fund helping the poor and victims of human trafficking. After making the decision to leave Cornerstone and wrestling with what the next step would be, Francis and Lisa ended up selling their Simi Valley house and moving their family of six at the time overseas to India, Thailand and China, where he was able to embrace new interests and activities by doing what the locals do, and where he also saw an inspiring shift in culture and spiritual values. “I wish we could learn and see the sacrifice of others,” he says. “Their mentality really isn’t a consumer mindset of ‘Here’s my needs, here’s what I feel, no one cares about me— me, me, me, me. Overseas they’re just obsessed with each other and thinking about how to get to the poor—the truly poor—like ‘We’re going to starve today,’ or ‘We’re selling off kids today.’ That type of poor. There’s just a lot more urgency.” In the throes of a pandemic, quarrels over U.S. politics, a growing divide among people and beliefs, and the unsurety of life, Francis’ message of focus and fulfillment can be summed up simply: take your eyes off yourself.
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“A l l w e r e a l l y n e e d t o d o is hit that little button that s w i t c h e s i t o f f s e l f i e m o d e .” “It’s so counterintuitive because, physically, if I break my arm, I’m not going to be thinking about anyone else. The only thing that’s going to bring me pleasure is getting this thing fixed. ‘Everyone look at me—my arm is broken; someone fix
he says. “I go, ‘You have no clue. This is like the happiest place on Earth. You’re gonna go nuts!’” Francis says Rachel began to get very sad, asking if they could just go to Paint Pals.
it for me,’” he says. “But...the answer is actually to take your
“She’s working herself into tears,” he laughs. “Like,
eyes off of yourself. People that I’ve found that have spent
you’re crying because I’m about to take you to Disneyland.”
their lives truly loving others are the joyful people. You’ll find very few generous people who are miserable.” Francis, pretending to hold up a phone facing him-
“I feel like we’re just like Rachel when she was 5,” he says, fondly recalling the Paint Pals days. “We’re accustomed to certain things and God has something so much better for us.”
self, goes on to describe how he sees this generation
Nearly six months ago, Francis’ path led him to the
as a generation all about taking selfies; noting that
Sham Shui Po area on the Kowloon side of Hong Kong
you could be in the Grand Canyon or Niagara Falls
with most of his family, including his wife, all but one of
and you’re always in the picture—always the center
his daughters, two sons-in-law and two grandchildren.
of everything.
It’s a place he later found is where his mother also did
“All we really need to do is hit that little button that
ministries in the 1950s, and allows him the continued
switches it off selfie mode,” he says. “And now I can’t
humbling opportunity to live out his journey working with
even see myself.”
the ultra poor to bring relief and sharing his spiritual ful-
Looking toward the future, Francis (non-prophetically, he clarifies, laughing) goes on to recall the story of his oldest daughter, Rachel—one of seven children and two grandchildren, when she was 5 years old.
fillment with others, even while enjoying a pickup game with locals on the neighborhood basketball court. “It’s a pretty bizarre journey to think that, first of all, my wife has stood by my side for 27 years, and it’s just been
“We regularly visited this rundown place in our city
an amazing marriage. Two years ago at our 25-year anni-
called Paint Pals,” he laughs, reminiscently. “There was
versary, she asked me ‘Do you know of anyone on the
this old maze you walked through with only a few walls,
planet that is more blessed than we are? Because I feel
some little ceramic things you could paint and this big
like we’re the happiest people on earth. It’s almost like
bubble machine that was just a hula hoop dipped in
that can’t be true, but I haven’t found anyone happier,’”
bubble solution. There really wasn’t much more to it,
he says. “It’s one thing for me to say because that’s the
but she loved it.”
way I feel, but to hear that from my wife as well and those
“One day I was just like, ‘Honey, this week I’m going to take you to Disneyland!’ And she was like, ‘What’s that?’”
truly to be her sentiments. It just feels like an impossible life all the way around.”
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LIFESTYLE CALENDAR
VIRTUAL
13 - 14
TURKEY DAY 5K
AN EVENING WITH MICHAEL MARTIN MURPHEY
Join the Northwest Douglas County Chamber of Commerce & EDC for
challenges that match the season. Ages 7 +, 12pm-3pm.
Lone Tree Arts Center
The
year it's a virtual run. To register, go
and Americana pioneer, Michael
to RaceRoster.com and search for
Martin Murphey, returns to the Arts
2020 Turkey Day 5K in Highlands
Center for an intimate solo perfor-
Ranch. For more information, go to
mance. Murphey has had multiple
NWDouglasCounty.org or contact
Grammy nominations, three gold
Join the Colorado Symphony Orchestra
Amy Sherman or Andrea LaRew at
albums, and one certified Platinum
for a fun storytelling program that
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serves as an introduction to classical
ning of his hits “Geronimo’s Cadillac,”
music and orchestral instruments. This
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marks
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the
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Crowd.” Showtime 8pm. Tickets at
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Backcountry Wilderness Base Camp
East/West
Does your family have what it takes to survive the elements of the
Ranch
Backcountry? Come learn and test
Douglas
County
Community
Lone Tree Arts Center
Grammy-nominated “A Face in the
trail and the beautiful Highlands
the
PASSPORT TO CULTURE: PAUL BUNYAN AND THE COLORADO SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA
growth of visual and performing arts,
Rocky Heights Middle School
Association's
science and cultural understanding in our community. 1:30pm. Purchase tickets at lonetreeartscenter.org.
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wild foraging, and water collection
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Backcountry
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PARTING THOUGHTS
I n s pi r e d By G i v i n g Bac k
Wendy Ingraham + FOUNDER OF ROBIN’S NEST + COMMUNITY VOLUNTEER + 12-TIME IRONMAN CHAMPION
ARTICLE JENNIFER STARBUCK
WENDY INGRAHAM IS THE FOUNDER OF ROBIN’S NEST FOUNDATION AT SKY VIEW FARM IN DOUGLAS COUNTY. Robin’s Nest is a non-profit that uses horse programming to help teens and military veterans experiencing depression, anxiety and trauma-related issues. CAREER PATH? I was a pro triathlete for 20 years. I’m a 12-time Ironman champion, which definitely has spurred me on to have determination. I work really hard and believe anything is possible if you keep a positive attitude. After my triathlete career, I transitioned into sports marketing. I live in Castle Pines Village and am active in the community. WHAT MOTIVATES YOU? Robin’s Nest came about when three of my friends committed suicide within three months. That’s when I realized how bad mental health is in America. People of all ages needed help, they needed a place to go to relax, breathe and feel free and build confidence and feel valued. Robin’s Nest has been up and running for three years thanks to my husband’s support and belief in my vision in helping people with depression, anxiety, autism, dyslexia, PTSD and veterans. WHAT’S YOUR GOAL? At this point we’re starting to get programs going to provide assistance and help for teens and veterans, to get them on the road to a positive and healthy life. One of the things that needs to be done is building out our offices for therapists and to bring tutors in for the kids. One of the best ways to help us is to spread the word and throughout our community that there are people out there willing to help and that they are here for them providing a safe place
HOW TO HELP
that is filled with love, understanding, blue skies, smiles,
RobinsNestFund.org
laughter, and a little humor. We are here with open arms.
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