Darien New Canaan, CT December 2025

A Season to Shine

Celebrating community, creativity, and the joy of giving

There’s something truly magical about the holidays in Darien and New Canaan. From twinkling shop windows to cherished traditions that make our towns feel like scenes from a snow globe.

This month’s issue is filled with festive inspiration and stories that highlight the heart of our community. We’re thrilled to debut our new monthly column, “Ask Leslie,” where lifestyle contributor Leslie Kumar will share advice, insights, and thoughtful perspectives to help you live beautifully and intentionally. Stay tuned — we’ll be celebrating this exciting addition with a special event in the new year!

Anna Barnes shares her Ultimate Holiday Gift Guides! Including a dedicated feature for the hostesses in your life who make every celebration feel extraordinary.

We also spotlight a cherished local tradition as New England Academy of Dance celebrates the 40th anniversary of The Nutcracker. A milestone that speaks to the power of art, family, and community.

And for your holiday table, Alyssa Lavy offers a fresh and flavorful seasonal dish: Cranberry Baked Salmon, a perfect blend of elegance and comfort. Plus, Kellie Kerwin’s roundup of holiday must-sees ensures you won’t miss a single festive moment across the area.

As always, thank you for reading, supporting, and celebrating local with us. From all of us at Darien + New Canaan Lifestyle Magazine, may your holiday season be filled with joy, generosity, and sparkle.

December 2025

PUBLISHER

Laura Sabia | laura.sabia@citylifestyle.com

PUBLICATION DIRECTOR

Emma Parente | emma.parente@citylifestyle.com

SOCIAL MEDIA COORDINATOR

Lara Casiple | lara.casiple@citylifestyle.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Anna Barnes, Alyssa Lavy, Kellie Kerwin, Megan Schinella, Leslie Kumar Posmentier

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHER

Sarah Starling

Corporate Team

CEO Steven Schowengerdt

President Matthew Perry

COO David Stetler

CRO Jamie Pentz

CoS Janeane Thompson

AD DESIGNER Mary Albers

LAYOUT DESIGNER Rhiannon Coffman

QUALITY CONTROL SPECIALIST Megan Cagle

Proverbs 3:5-6

A ROUNDUP OF NEWS FROM LOCAL BUSINESSES

P2P Announces 2026 Rising Together Honorees: André and Michelle Swanston

Person to Person (P2P) is proud to announce that entrepreneurs and philanthropists André and Michelle Swanston will be honored at the 2026 Rising Together Benefit. The Swanstons are recognized for their extraordinary commitment to advancing economic opportunity, youth development and community empowerment. These values reflect the very heart of P2P’s mission to provide families in Fairfield County with the essentials that bring stability, hope and opportunity. The Benefit will take place on March 28th, 2026.

Honoring Chef Prasad Chirnomula’s Legacy

For over 30 years, Chef Prasad Chirnomula has elevated Indian cuisine in the Northeast, blending regional traditions with modern innovation. A culinary pioneer in Connecticut, his restaurants in Norwalk, Stamford, and New Canaan have inspired a generation of chefs. Dedicated to sustainability, mentorship, and giving back, Chef Prasad continues to redefine Indian dining. As James Beard Award nominations open, we celebrate his legacy and the vibrant story he tells through every dish.

Happy Holidays

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THE SEASON FOR MAKING MEMORIES WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS

ARTICLE BY KELLIE KERWIN

If you're looking for the ultimate guide to every holiday must-see and do around Fairfield County, we've got you covered. Here's a look at a few of our favorites below.

HOLIDAY TRAIN SHOW – NEW YORK BOTANICAL GARDEN

2900 Southern Blvd, Bronx, NY | November 15, 2025 through January 11, 2026

After more than three decades, this beloved Holiday Train Show continues to enchant visitors as the city's favorite winter tradition and an unmissable seasonal adventure. This magical experience transforms the New York Botanical Garden into a wonderland where model trains glide over famous bridges and through familiar cityscapes, bringing nearly 200 twinkling landmark replicas to life beneath the glass dome of the warm and inviting Enid A. Haupt Conservatory. Visitors can get up close to admire these miniature masterpieces, each meticulously handcrafted from natural materials like palm fronds, pinecones, and cinnamon sticks. The adventure extends beyond the conservatory to the outdoor Conservatory Lawn, where a glowing mountain landscape filled with additional trains creates countless picture-perfect moments. For an extra special experience, select Holiday Train Nights offer the chance to explore the exhibition after dark with friends and family, revealing the show's charm in an entirely new light. Whether you're young or old, this timeless attraction has sparked joy in generations of visitors, making it the perfect way to celebrate the season with all your loved ones.

HOLIDAY LIGHTS – BRONX ZOO

2900 Southern Blvd, Bronx, NY | November 21, 2025 through January 4, 2026

New York’s family-favorite holiday tradition is back, as millions of lights and hundreds of illuminated animals spread across six lantern trails. Holiday Lights is a festive night out with friends and family as a way to celebrate wildlife and enjoy immersive light experiences, hands-on activities, holiday entertainment and delicious food and

drinks. Beloved favorites return, including the Holiday Train and Enchanted Sea, plus new surprises including thrilling snow tube slides, an epic illuminated icethemed throne, virtual snowball throwing and much more.

HOLIDAY WISH EXPRESS – STAMFORD TOWN CENTER

100 Greyrock Place, Stamford, CT | November 22 through December 28, 2025

This holiday season, families across the Northeast are discovering the ultimate Christmas destination that promises to transform ordinary December days into extraordinary memories. Holiday Wish, the region's largest indoor Christmas experience, offers an enchanting escape into a world where holiday magic comes alive for visitors of all ages. The moment guests step through the doors, they're transported into a meticulously crafted winter wonderland that captures the pure joy and wonder of the Christmas spirit. The centerpiece of this remarkable attraction is the Holiday Wish Express, an innovative virtual train ride that takes the concept of holiday entertainment to thrilling new heights. As families board this immersive experience, they embark on a captivating journey to the North Pole, complete with breathtaking snowy vistas and mesmerizing displays of twinkling lights.

17TH ANNUAL GREENWICH REINDEER FESTIVAL & SANTA’S WORKSHOP – SAM BRIDGE NURSERY &

GREENHOUSES

437 North Street, Greenwich, CT | November 28 through December 24, 2025

The cherished town tradition presented by Jenny Allen and Kristen Studwell of Compass Real Estate continues where visitors can have their photo taken with Santa, meet the reindeer, write letters at the Santa Station and also enjoy the beautiful Santa’s Workshop. Parking is free and a portion of every photo with Santa will be donated to Kids in Crisis. Please bring your dog for photos with Santa anytime “The North Pole on North Street” is open and if you visit between Monday and Friday with your dog, you will receive a doggy gift bag compliment of Cornell University

“This holiday season, families across the Northeast are discovering the ultimate Christmas destination that promises to transform ordinary December days into extraordinary memories.”

“This year’s production welcomes audiences to the North Pole, where Santa and his team encounter the reindeer for the very first time in a brandnew story that’s destined to become a holiday favorite.”

Veterinary Specialists. Guests can also participate in raffles, coloring contests and special WE’RE BACK PARTY DAYS on November 28 and 29. Photos with Santa are available Monday through Friday 12pm-6pm and Saturday 9am-6pm. Closed Sundays.

SANTA STORY 3 – DOWNTOWN CABARET THEATRE

263 Golden Hill Street, Bridgeport, CT | November 29 through December 28, 2025

Following their unforgettable madcap mission through New York City to save Christmas, young Christopher Kringle and his wife Margaret return for another enchanting adventure that promises to capture hearts and spark imaginations. This year's production welcomes audiences to the North Pole, where Santa and his team encounter the reindeer for the very first time in a brand-new story that's destined to become a holiday favorite. Whether you're a returning fan who enjoyed Santa Story 2 or discovering this magical world for the first time, you'll be swept away by the heartwarming and hilarious tale of how young Santa forged his legendary partnership with his trusty reindeer companions. This delightful production masterfully blends fun, laughter, and genuine holiday spirit, creating an experience that resonates with every member of the family. While Theatre for Young Audiences shows are specifically crafted for

children ages 3 to 10, the universal themes and joyful storytelling welcome audiences of all ages to join in the festive celebration.

FIRST LIGHT – OLD GREENWICH DISTRICT

Sound Beach Avenue, Old Greenwich, CT | December 6, 2025

A beloved tradition that features the best of the holiday season, First Light will take place again the first Saturday of December from 5-8pm. This free event is sponsored by the Old Greenwich Merchant Association and includes festive lights, antique fire truck rides from the Cos Cob Volunteer Fire Company, Santa, music, entertainment, carolers and holiday cheer. The OG Merchants will also donate a large Christmas tree to the Old Greenwich Fire House from Sam Bridge Nursery.

SANTA’S CIRCUS – THE PALACE STAMFORD

61 Atlantic Street – Stamford, CT |

December 21, 2025

Immerse yourself in the enchanting world of Santa's Circus, where holiday dreams come alive through spectacular entertainment that captivates audiences of all ages. This extraordinary 90-minute production transforms the traditional circus experience into a festive celebration, featuring world-class performers who seamlessly blend Christmas-themed acrobatics with theater, dance, and gymnastics against a backdrop of twinkling lights and beloved holiday melodies. Santa and Mrs. Claus personally curate each breathtaking act, from death-defying stunts and mesmerizing illusions to heartwarming comedy that fills the venue with infectious laughter and Christmas spirit. More than just a show, Santa's Circus creates an interactive wonderland where guests can reconnect with their inner child by writing personal letters to Santa and delivering them directly to Mrs. Claus, making this magical experience perfect for families, friends, and couples seeking an unforgettable holiday tradition that brings the timeless joy and wonder of Christmas to vivid, spectacular life.

“Immerse yourself in the enchanting world of Santa’s Circus, where holiday dreams come alive through spectacular entertainment that captivates audiences of all ages.”

CRANBERRY BAKED SALMON

ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY ALYSSA

LAVY, MS, RD, CDN

SLIGHTLY SWEET, TANGY AND PERFECT FOR THE HOLIDAYS OR ANY NIGHT!

INGREDIENTS

(YIELDS 2-4 SERVINGS):

Cranberry Sauce:

• 6 oz fresh cranberries

• 1/3 C pure maple syrup

• 2 tsp fresh squeezed lemon juice (about half a lemon)

• ½ Tbsp lemon zest, tightly packed (zest from approximately 1 lemon)

• ¾ tsp fresh thyme leaves, washed and pat dry

• 1 tsp parsley, fresh or dried (washed and pat dry if using fresh)

Salmon:

• 16 oz salmon

• 2 Tbsp oil, such as avocado oil or olive oil

• ¼ tsp salt

• 1/8 tsp ground black pepper

• ¼ tsp garlic powder

• ¼ tsp onion powder

• ¾ tsp parsley, fresh or dried (washed and pat dry if using fresh)

• ¾ tsp oregano

• 2 Tbsp lemon juice (juice squeezed from approximately ½ lemon)

• Nonstick oil cooking spray

DIRECTIONS:

Start by making the cranberry sauce. Wash cranberries in a medium sized strainer and transfer to a medium sized saucepan warmed over high heat.

Add maple syrup, lemon juice and lemon zest to the saucepan.

Cover saucepan over high heat until cranberries start to burst and sauce begins to boil (~3-5 minutes). Allow sauce to boil uncovered for 2-3 minutes. Add parsley and fresh thyme and stir. Reduce heat to low, replace lid so it is slightly of balance and not completely closed. Simmer for ~10 minutes, until cranberry sauce thickens. While cranberry sauce is thickening, move forward with preparing the salmon in the next step below.

Preheat oven to 325 degrees Fahrenheit. Spray a baking dish (8 x 8 inches works well) with nonstick cooking spray. Place salmon skin side down in the baking dish.

Drizzle oil over salmon. Add all seasonings (salt, ground black pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, parsley, oregano) so that they are evenly distributed. Squeeze fresh lemon juice over salmon.

Use a spoon to transfer the cranberry sauce on top of the salmon and distribute evenly, so that it forms a thick coating on top of the salmon.

Bake salmon in oven at 325 degrees Fahrenheit for ~30-35 minutes, until salmon is cooked through. Fish should reach an internal temperature of at least 145 degrees Fahrenheit. Enjoy!

Note: Individual oven times may vary. Leftovers can be stored in an airtight container for up to 2-3 days. This dish can also be prepped ahead of time by making the cranberry sauce and seasoning the salmon earlier in the day, then storing in the fridge, covered, until ready to bake.

If you’re looking for the perfect holiday entrée, look no further than this Cranberry Baked Salmon! This dish is both gorgeous and delicious, tying in holiday hues and flavors. The cranberry glaze brings a slightly tart, slightly sweet and seasonal taste to the salmon, which is cooked low and slow to keep it juicy and moist. It is sure to be a hit at any holiday table, but it can also be made any night of the week - it’s that simple to make! If hosting, you can make the cranberry glaze a day or two in advance and store it in the fridge, and you can even prep the salmon and add the glaze earlier in the day so the salmon just needs to bake when your company arrives. Whether you’re serving this Cranberry Baked Salmon for guests or enjoying it by yourself or with family any night of the week, it is the perfect, simple and the most flavorful way to enjoy salmon this season!

Alyssa Lavy, MS, RD, CDN, CPT is a registered dietitian, personal trainer and mom of 2. She earned her Bachelor of Science in Exercise Science from The George Washington University and her Master of Science in Nutrition and Exercise Physiology from Teachers College Columbia University, where she also completed her dietetic internship. She has been an ACSM certified personal trainer for over a decade. Alyssa is the owner of Alyssa Lavy Nutrition & Wellness, a wellness brand offering nutrition communications, program development and consulting services for individuals and corporations. Website: alyssalavy.com

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Your Holiday Gift Guides

ARTICLE BY ANNA BARNES

SIMPLIFY YOUR SHOPPING WITH GIFTS GUARANTEED TO DELIGHT EVERYONE THIS HOLIDAY SEASON.

The holiday season always seems to arrive in a whirlwind—between decorating, traveling, gatherings, and endless to-do lists, finding the perfect gift for everyone can feel impossible. Well, fear not. That’s where our annual holiday gift guides come in to save the season. Whether you’re shopping for her, him, or the kids, we’ve curated collections that make finding thoughtful, delightful gifts effortless. Each item is handpicked to suit every personality, price point, and passion, taking the stress out of shopping and bringing the joy back to gift-giving. Every piece has been chosen with intention to make your loved ones feel truly seen, appreciated, and delighted. So grab a mug of cocoa, settle in, and let us help you check off your list with style and ease this holiday season.

GIFTS FOR The Host/Hostess

Six gifts to thank those who make the season special

ARTICLE BY ANNA BARNES

Anna is a luxury PR professional, journalist, and the voice behind Bliss & Bellinis, where she shares her love of travel, elevated experiences, and effortless style. When she’s not crafting compelling stories for brands, she’s likely en route to her next destination— with a Bellini in hand.

The holidays have a way of filling our calendars with gatherings—cozy dinners, festive soirées, and impromptu get-togethers that remind us what the season is really about: connection . And while the joy of being invited is its own gift, showing up with a thoughtful token of appreciation for your host is a timeless gesture that never goes unnoticed. If you’ve ever been a host, you know it’s no small feat—it takes time, thought, and an incredible amount of effort to make everything look and feel effortless. Whether it’s a festive dinner party, a cookie exchange, or a weekend stay at a friend’s home, bringing something special expresses gratitude for the care and effort that goes into hosting.

Of course, finding the right host gift is a delicate art. You want something that feels personal, polished, and appropriate; something that shows you appreciate their hospitality without adding to their to-do list. The best gifts are those that feel effortless yet meaningful. A well-chosen host gift can reflect your style and taste while honoring theirs, offering a small slice of comfort or delight to enjoy long after the dishes are cleared.

This guide is designed to help you master that balance with ease. From elegant touches that elevate a dinner table to thoughtful tokens that make any space a bit cozier, these ideas make it simple to arrive with confidence and gratitude in hand.

So, as the invitations start rolling in, consider this your go-to inspiration for celebrating the people who make this special season shine—those who open their homes, pour the wine, and create spaces where our favorite holiday memories unfold.

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A ChappyWrap blanket is cozy, cute, and super practical during the holiday season. Whether they’re curling up after a long night of entertaining or just relaxing by the fire, it’s a comfy reminder of your thoughtfulness all season long.

A beautiful floral arrangement, never a bouquet, is a great hostess gift because it doesn’t require any work from the host. As the guest, you can easily bring with you, or choose to have it delivered after the fact.

When it comes to wine, bring the best. This Russian River Valley Pinot Noir is sure to delight and is available locally at Horseneck Wine. Remember, it’s the host’s decision whether or not to open a gifted bottle during their event.

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A candle is always a win for hosts—it’s simple, thoughtful, and instantly adds warmth to any space. Plus it’s a little way to help them unwind after the festivities. Floraco products are toxin-free, sustainable, and safe for all (pets included) so everyone in the home can enjoy.

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Is your host an at-home mixologist? Fun cocktail napkins make a great hostess gift because they add personality and charm to any gathering. They’re practical yet playful, easy to keep on hand, and guaranteed to bring a smile the next time your host pours a drink.

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Artisanal olive oils make a delicious and elegant hostess gift—perfect for cooking, dipping, or drizzling. Pair one with a fresh loaf of bread from a local bakery, and you’ve got a thoughtful, ready-to-enjoy treat any host will love.

NUTCRACKER MAGIC MILESTONE

NEAD’S NUTCRACKER MARKS A MILESTONE

ARTICLE BY MEGAN SCHINELLA | PHOTOGRAPHY BY SARAH STARLING

Each autumn, as the first delicate notes of Tchaikovsky’s The Nutcracker drift through the studios of the New England Academy of Dance (NEAD) in New Canaan, the holiday season quietly awakens. Young dancers giggle as they twirl in angelic circles, while older students perfect elegant waltzes with the poise of seasoned performers. It’s a cherished rhythm that has filled these studios for four decades one that connects generations of dancers, teachers, and families.

This December, NEAD celebrates an extraordinary milestone: the 40th anniversary of its beloved Nutcracker. What began as a local production has grown into a deeply rooted community tradition, one that brings together artistry, dedication, and the joy of the season.

Performances will be held at New Canaan High School on Friday, December 12 at 7 p.m.; Saturday, December 13 at 11 a.m. and 4 p.m.; and Sunday, December 14 at 1 p.m. (children’s show) and 4 p.m. Each performance features live music by the Norwalk Symphony Orchestra, conducted by Jonathan Yates a partnership that has elevated the production since 2017.

A TRADITION OF GROWTH AND GRACE

For NEAD’s dancers, The Nutcracker is far more than a holiday ballet, it’s a passage through childhood and the evolution of artistry. Dancers begin as tiny Angels and mischievous Mice, eventually growing into Snowflakes, Marzipan, and finally the regal Sugar Plum Fairy.

“The Nutcracker mirrors our dancers’ journey,” says NEAD co-director Ginna Ortiz. “It’s where they learn to express themselves, build confidence, and find their grace. Every role tells a story of growth.”

Behind the curtain lies months of commitment. From early September through December, NEAD’s studios buzz with more than 200 students, ages 6 to 18, rehearsing alongside professional guest artists from New York City. Together, they create a production that dazzles in both scale and spirit.

For the community, NEAD’s Nutcracker has become synonymous with the holidays a shared celebration of music, movement, and tradition that continues to inspire thousands each year.

“The Nutcracker holds the memories of so many dancers,” Ortiz reflects. “From a child’s first step on stage to a senior’s final bow, it’s a story that comes full circle.”

“The Nutcracker holds the memories of so many dancers,” Ortiz reflects. “From a child’s first step on stage to a senior’s final bow, it’s a story that comes full circle.”

PERFORMANCE DETAILS

• When: December 12–14

• Where: New Canaan High School Auditorium, 11 Farm Road, New Canaan

• Tickets: neadance.com or at the door

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“The Nutcracker mirrors our dancers’ journey,” says NEAD co-director Ginna Ortiz. “It’s where they learn to express themselves, build confidence, and find their grace. Every role tells a story of growth.”

ARTICLE BY MEGAN SCHINELLA

Local Experiences

THE BEST PLACES AND THINGS TO DO IN OUR AREA.

Fairview Tree Farm Shelton | Magical night of holiday lights Christmas nighttime hayride! A 30-minute tractor pulled wagon through the decorated and lit tree fields and holiday scenes. Visit with Santa, Mrs. Claus, the Grinch. Sit by a cozy bonfire while sipping on tasty treats.

Darien Sport Shop | Dear Santa, I can explain…children can experience and share their wishes with Santa and show him their lists. A family tradition year after year.

Rockettes Christmas Spectacular | Celebrate the 100th anniversary of the world-famous Radio City in NYC! Whether it’s your first time or your family’s annual tradition, this milestone season promises to be more unforgettable than ever before, featuring more than 140 performers.

Holiday Stroll New Canaan | Held on Elm Street the first weekend in December, stores and restaurants are open late and visitors can enjoy carols singing, live entertainment, Santa meet and greet, have s'mores, waffles and enjoy walking under the holiday lights.

Sign of the Whale Stamford | A winter wonderland. From their festive, over the top decor to the cozy vibes, it's the perfect spot to indulge in holiday cheer and their seasonal menu is incredible.

Megan Schinella

Tis the season for tinsel, twinkling lights, and celebrating the holiday season! Partake in any one of our holiday happenings and rejoice in the joy and festive spirit around town!

Ask Leslie

ARTICLE BY LESLIE KUMAR POSMENTIER

What is an appropriate outfit to wear for an office holiday party? Is a short dress or skirt too inappropriate if you’re the youngest at the office?

Dear Youngest at the Office, How thoughtful of you to consider the vibe before the outfit. Here’s the thing: if you have to ask yourself whether it’s too short, it probably is. Go festive, not flirty. You want your outfit to spark compliments, not a group chat you’re left out of the next morning.

Here are some of my go-to polished brands:

• Veronica Beard (Greenwich)

• Reiss (Norwalk Bloomingdales)

• Ralph Lauren (New Canaan)

Classy always reads confidence, and that never goes out of style, young one.

-Leslie

What is the best way to keep romance going when everyday life gets in the way?

Dear Romance,

Keeping the spark alive while juggling everything life throws at you isn’t easy, but it’s not impossible either. You just have to plan for it like you would anything else that matters, like doctor’s appointments, Amazon returns, or wine deliveries.

Saying you’ll do date night is cute, but let’s be real, something always comes up. So commit to anything that gets you two alone: maybe a long lunch, a spontaneous after-work drink, or a night out that involves real clothes and zero distractions. Bonus tip: buy tickets. To a concert, comedy show, whatever. When money’s on the line, romance magically makes the calendar. And one last bonus tip: wear something new, whether it’s over or under your clothing. It’ll make you feel sexy, and your partner wishing the night would never end.

“I  ADORE  A GOOD HOSTESS GIFT, IT’S SUCH A TIMELESS GESTURE THAT NEVER GOES UNNOTICED.”

Here are some of my favorite date night spots lately:

• Capitol Theatre (Port Chester) - dine at Felice before the show!

• The Granola Bar (Darien)

• Sole (New Canaan)

• Bedford Post Inn (Bedford, NY)

The best love stories don’t age, they just keep rewriting themselves.

-Leslie

What would be some inventive hostess gifts for someone that hosts you regularly? Assuming you have already exhausted all the standards. Thanks!

Dear Repeat Visitor,

Oh, you’re speaking my love language! I  adore a good hostess gift, it’s such a timeless gesture that never goes unnoticed.

If you’ve already exhausted the usual suspects (gourmet treats, flowers, wine), it’s time to get a little creative. Channel your inner detective: listen for clues. Did she just mention an upcoming trip to Europe? Picking up tennis again? Trying meditation? That’s your intel. Follow the trail.

Here are a few of my go-to shops for hostess gifts:

• Terrain (Westport)

• She La La (New Canaan)

• Darien Sport Shop (Darien)

The best gifts say, “I was paying attention.” A little intention goes a long way, and your host will feel both seen and spoiled.

-Leslie

In a world focused on connection and networking, how should you handle a friend who intentionally excludes you from activities to control her inner circle and prevent close friendships from developing? What strategies or steps would you recommend in this situation?

Dear Over It,

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. That kind of exclusion stings. But let’s be clear: a “friend” who intentionally shuts you out to control her circle isn’t a friend at all. That’s not connection, that’s insecurity.

It sounds like she’s threatened by you, maybe worried her besties will become  your besties. You don’t need her permission to build real friendships.

Here's my advice: cut out the middlewoman. If you genuinely like the other women, reach out directly. Invite one for coffee, a walk, or cocktails. See where it goes. You might be surprised how many of them have noticed her behavior too.

Here are a few of my favorite spots for some girly time:

• Waveny Park for a walk (New Canaan)

• Cafe Nero for coffee (Darien)

• The Waveny Bar & Grill or Molto for cocktails (New Canaan & Darien)

Bottom line: take the detour. The real power move isn’t getting invited, it’s realizing you don’t need the invitation.

-Leslie

NOW - DECEMBER 24TH

events

A SELECTION OF UPCOMING LOCAL EVENTS

17th Annual Greenwich Reindeer Festival & Santa's Workshop

Sam Bridge Nursery & Greenhouses | 12:00 PM

Santa and his three LIVE reindeer return to Greenwich for the 17th Annual Greenwich Reindeer Festival & Santa's Workshop presented by Jenny Allen & Kristen Studwell, Compass Real Estat! Visitors can have their photo taken with Santa, meet the reindeer and also enjoy Santa's Workshop sponsored by Greenwich Pediatric Dental Group, which provides more space for families.

DECEMBER 2ND

2025 Sustainability Holiday Pop Up Shop

HAYVN, 320 Boston Post Road Suite 180 Darien, CT | 4:00 PM

Socialize, network, support local businesses, sustainable brands/products, plus women’s clothing sale. Light bites & drinks while shopping.  Plus, get automatically entered to win the Holiday Pop Up raffle prizes with your $15 admission ticket.

DECEMBER 2ND & 3RD

New Canaan Chamber Of Commerce: Holiday Stroll

Elm Street, New Canaan CT | 5:00 PM

The beloved New Canaan Holiday Stroll returns, kicking off the season with Santa and Mrs. Claus on Elm Street. Enjoy caroling, performances, and S’mores by the firepit. Festivities continue Saturday with Santa photos, live music, dancing, ice sculpting, and the Gingerbread House Tour. A cherished tradition, the Holiday Stroll makes New Canaan truly A Wonderful Life.

DECEMBER 5TH & 6TH

Holiday House Tour

New Canaan, CT | 10:00 AM

The New Canaan Newcomers Club is celebrating 30 years of New Canaan's highly anticipated home tour. This beloved charity event showcases various decorated homes in New Canaan, each professionally designed for the holidays. Purchase a ticket this year to help them surpass their donation goal for 2025!

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An Old Fashioned Holiday

Tilley Pond Park | 3:00 PM

Enjoy this unforgettable festive event, featuring a variety of holiday activities organized by the Darien Parks and Recreation Department, including ice sculpting, caroling, cookie decorating, and visits from Santa. Bring the whole family and get into the holiday spirit! The event is free and open to the public.

DECEMBER 13TH

New England Academy of Dance: Nutcracker

NCHS Auditorium, 11 Farm Rd New Canaan, CT | 11:00 AM

Step into the magic of this holiday tale and be transported through a wonderland of toy soldiers, dancing snowflakes, and into the land of the Sweets. Share unforgettable moments and everlasting memories with friends and family during this special holiday celebration! Nutcracker features over 150 students from NEAD, as well as expert professional dancers, featuring dazzling sets and gorgeous costumes.

Grounds for Connection

Join HAYVN’s monthly Coffee & Conversation series to connect, share ideas, and get inspired by fellow entrepreneurs, professionals, and creatives. Now held in both Darien and Greenwich. Open to all!*

Come curious. Leave connected. Check out HAYVN.

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WINTER in a glass

HOLIDAY COCKTAILS & COZY CREATIONS

SPICED CINNAMON RUM FLIP

A luscious holiday cocktail with warming spices, rich texture, and a beautiful cinnamon garnish.

INGREDIENTS:

• 2 oz dark or spiced rum

• 3/4 oz cinnamon simple syrup

• 1 oz heavy cream

• 1 whole egg

• Dash of ground nutmeg

• Dash of vanilla extract

Garnish: cinnamon stick and a light dusting of nutmeg or cinnamon

Make Cinnamon Simple Syrup:

Combine 1/2 cup sugar, 1/2 cup water, and 2 cinnamon sticks in a saucepan. Simmer for 10 mins, let cool, and strain. Store in the fridge.

Add rum, cinnamon syrup, cream, egg, vanilla, and a pinch of nutmeg to a shaker. Shake vigorously for 15–20 seconds to emulsify the egg. Strain into a coupe or stemmed glass like the one in your photo. Top with a cinnamon stick across the rim and a dusting of nutmeg or cinnamon. Optional: Add 1/2 oz chilled espresso for a coffee kick.

FESTIVE CRANBERRY GIN FIZZ

A bright, elegant cocktail with a foamy top and a hint of holiday spirit.

INSTRUCTIONS:

INGREDIENTS:

• 2 oz gin

• 1 oz cranberry juice

• 3/4 oz lemon juice

• 1/2 oz simple syrup

• 1 egg white

Optional: splash of sparkling water or club soda

Garnish: fresh rosemary or thyme sprig

INSTRUCTIONS:

In a cocktail shaker, combine gin, cranberry juice, lemon juice, simple syrup, and egg white. Shake vigorously for about 20 seconds to create the frothy top. Double strain into a chilled coupe glass to get that smooth, foamy top. Add a small splash of sparkling water if you’d like a bit of fizz. Gently place a sprig of rosemary or thyme on top of the foam.

Whether you’re hosting a gathering or simply treating yourself, these holiday drinks are guaranteed to bring a little extra cheer to your cup.

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