Crystal Lake, IL June 2024

Thoughts on Fatherhood

Have you ever thought to yourself, “What differences do I make in my home?”  Especially as a dad, I ponder the idea of how much I matter.  The simple answer is:  Of course you are valuable and hold significance within the family.  The impact you decide to have as father in your child's life, however, is completely within your control.  A father’s gifts of quality time, heart-felt words, life-giving affirmations and positive actions have long-lasting effects on his children, both young and grown.  The opposite is also true, as disparaging thoughts, words, and actions will have a negative impact.

Like many of us, from my own upbringing, I gained insight and lessons - both favorable and unfavorable - that helped shape me into the parent I aspired to become.  I imagined the dad that I wanted to be to my sons, and while I may not have achieved that ideal version, in the long run, I feel I stayed true to my beliefs and values.  In this issue, I share part of my story with my dad and how he impacted my life.  As I wrote down my thoughts, I began to wonder how my sons would perceive me in years to come, as they may be contemplating the types of fathers they would want to be.

I encourage you to share with your father, father-figure, or male mentor in your life just how much he matters to you and the effect he (they) had on you.  If you are a dad or role-model in someone’s life, let me be the first to say, “Thank you!”  Your influence is invaluable to the people who know you and rely on you.

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June 2024

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1: A little rain didn’t dampen the girl time at Ladies’ Night Out downtown Crystal Lake. 2: Enjoying Ladies’ Night Out at A to Z Interiors, and all the local downtown businesses. 3: All ready to get to work at the Crystal Lake Chamber of Commerce Community Clean-up 4: Enjoying a night of fashion, modeled by members of the community, at Couture For a Cause. 5: Celebrating at Couture For a Cause, Service League of Crystal Lake’s annual fashion show fundraiser. 6: Family Health Partnership Clinic staff and volunteers were all smiles at the Spring Soiree! 7: Enjoying a night at Main Beach Pavillion while supporting Family Health Partnership Clinic

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A ROUNDUP OF NEWS FROM LOCAL BUSINESSES JUNE

Crystal Lake Lions Club

This unique mix of individuals embraces the motto, “We Serve."  Lions Club hosts events and fundraisers such as, Candy Days, Winter Steak Fry, Shop with a Cop, Annual Golf Outing, and much more.  Proceeds benefit individuals and charities. This year, Lions Club will donate $100,000 to local non-profit organizations. Lions Club services include eye glass exams and hearing aids for those with financial limitations, and eye glass drop off and redistribution to low-income/third-world countries.  Learn more: crystallakelions.org

Rotary Club of Crystal Lake Dawnbreakers

Rotary is a worldwide network of inspired individuals who translate their passions into relevant social causes to change lives in communities, with the motto "Service above self."  Crystal Lake Dawnbreakers offers the opportunity for fellowship, leadership, personal development, and fun.  The club provides financial grants to local non-profits, volunteers for organizations such as the Crystal Lake Food Pantry, and provide supplies, clothing and food to children from low income families.  To learn more and get involved: cldawnbreakers.org

Veteran's Path to Hope

Founded by a combat veteran and licensed counselor,  Veteran's Path to Hope (VHP) provides programs, run by veterans and veteran-friendly individuals with compassion for the challenges veterans face.  One unique program, The Veteran Community Action Team, funded solely through donations and fundraisers, collects and stores donated furniture from the community to provide veterans (housed by VHP) furnishings for their new homes.  Additional services include: food pantry and basic necessities, peer counseling, employment support and housing opportunities.  veteranspathtohope.org

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EMPOWERING MEN TO TAKE CHARGE OF THEIR HEALTH

Breaking

Barriers

In today’s busy world where there are an infinite number of things to keep track of, from managing a household and finances, and juggling numerous tasks, to the never-ending (and ever-evolving) list of things that are “good” for us or “bad” for us, it is unsurprising that men frequently prioritize other matters over their physical health. According to the Cleveland Clinic, more than 50% of men do not see a primary care physician for regular health checkups. This is an alarming statistic and one that is contributing to a health crisis for men.

There seem to be some invisible barriers placed on men in our society when it comes to them accessing proper healthcare. Some barriers men have mentioned in various studies are the social stigma and traditional notions of masculinity that may discourage them from seeking help, as they fear appearing weak or vulnerable. Another barrier is the fear of diagnosis. Men may avoid doctor visits due to anxiety about potential health issues or receiving troubling findings.  Time constraints also weigh on men; busy work schedules and familial obligations can make it difficult for them to prioritize their own health appointments.

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Some men mention their discomfort with medical settings, stating they feel uncomfortable in clinical environments or may experience anxiety about medical procedures. And tying in with social stigma there is the minimization of symptoms. Men may downplay symptoms or adopt a "tough it out" mentality, delaying seeking medical attention until conditions worsen.

We discussed this with Kristen Maguire, MD. Dr. Maguire is an Emergency Department physician and partner of Doctor Daughters, a group who works to revolutionize people’s experiences with the healthcare system in a way that promotes health, empowers patients,

strengthens the patient-physician bond, and improves appropriate use of medical resources. Dr. Maguire has seen what ignoring signs and symptoms can mean for men’s health. She also has first-hand experience discussing what holds men back from seeking out care when these signs and symptoms appear.

Dr. Maguire states that “cardiovascular disease, obesity and diabetes are the top health concerns affecting us all, mostly because of our lifestyles. When it comes to men, this worries me because I am surprised to learn how many men don’t visit the doctor regularly or even have a doctor at all."  She stresses the importance

of proactive health measures, citing prevention as the best medicine. Drawing from her ER experience, Dr. Maguire emphasizes the benefits of addressing health concerns within a supportive network, encouraging open conversations among friends to alleviate fears and foster courage. She also underscores the significance of supportive encouragement from loved ones. To be proactive about their health, men can establish a relationship with a primary care physician for personalized care and regular check-ups, understand their family history to identify potential health risks, embrace preventative screenings such as colonoscopies, prioritize mental health through open dialogue and seeking help when needed, and adopt healthy lifestyle habits to prevent chronic diseases and promote overall well-being. Understanding these barriers is the first step in helping men overcome their reluctance to proactive healthcare. The path to better health for men requires an active approach and a willingness to confront the invisible barriers that often stand in the way. Dr. Maguire's insights highlight the importance of prioritizing health, even amidst life's numerous demands. By fostering open dialogue, seeking support from loved ones, and taking concrete steps such as regular check-ups and healthy lifestyle habits, men can gain control over their well-being. Through collective effort and individual commitment, we can empower men to overcome reluctance and embrace a future of improved health and vitality.

If I Could Turn Back Time

Men, like all individuals, navigate a complex journey of self-discovery, face unique challenges and triumphs, and gain diverse perspectives along the way.  What if they could journey back to pivotal moments in their lives and offer guidance to their younger selves?  Would they find kinship through shared circumstances?

We asked Crystal Lake City Lifestyle photographer, David Bradburn, 53, to lead the conversation and share his viewpoint from his own self-reflection.

He writes:  "I have found myself thinking less about what I would do differently if I could do life over again and instead, focusing on accepting that I did the best I could in the moments I’ve had. That doesn’t necessarily imply success, but that I’ve made an effort to learn from any shortcomings and strive to improve, moving forward.  Maybe, too,  I’ve simply forgotten certain things, healed from others, or gained a new perspective that has caused me to find grace for my younger self."

"That said, what if I could go back and give some advice to the version of myself before the hardness of life and the consequences of choices brought about today’s wisdom?  Borrowing a quote from Edie Brickell, 'Everything is temporary anyway.'  Once we can embrace this, we have the opportunity to find more freedom in moments while making allowances for the permanence of change."

"To steal words from Bob Marley, 'Every little thing [is] gonna be alright'.  It’s his use of the word ‘little’ that has gotten me through more than I care to remember or retell.  Sure, big things won’t go our way.  Not all our hopes and dreams come true. Things die, things end. But the small things don’t need to feel so heavy, and when we start to add those together the big ones become bearable, if not ‘alright’ themselves too."

David’s thought-provoking insight lays the foundation for others to follow.  In seeking further awareness, we delve into the wisdom and guidance men of various ages would impart to their younger selves, and, in turn, to all who seek to understand the profound journey of manhood.

THE 30S - LEARNING FROM THE PAST, STRIVING FOR THE FUTURE

While finding their stride in life, men in their 30s may also be embracing new responsibilities and the revelation that turning to mentors who have paved the way ahead can provide guidance for navigating ones own future.  David M., 39, would remind himself to “Listen to my elders and trust the advice of people that have experienced life, not the advice of my peers.”

Johnny Z., 32,  would urge a younger self to take care of his body, because you only get one. Try harder in school, effort counts.  And start investing as soon as you have a job”

Chris Z., 30, reflects, “Be confident in yourself. The way [that happens] is by understanding none of it actually matters that much. The world isn’t going to end just because you make a fool of yourself. People don’t care what you’re doing, or what mistakes you’re making. They’re too busy focusing on their own lives.”  Truth.

THE 40S - FINDING PURPOSE, EMBRACING CHANGE

The sentiments about their future, financial or otherwise, is echoed by many 40-year-old men. Sean B. 40, would take finances more seriously in his early 20’s. “As a young man, you always think that you’ll make it up down the line. Maybe this is true for some, but it’s not a guarantee. Investing early and often when you begin your career is paramount.”

Ty B., 45, suggests, “Embrace every trial, every tribulation, they have led to who you are today.”  Welcome the journey, it leads you to where you need to be.

This is also a time of some reflection and redefining priorities.  Matt K., 48, would tell his younger self to “savor the moments of joy versus always being on a schedule. Don’t be too hard on yourself when things might not work out. And always stay true to yourself.”

Dr. Ron R., 44, expands on this.  “Stop comparing yourself to others, put people first, always do the right thing no matter how hard it may be at times.”  Life is a winding road, “Enjoy the process and the people on the journey with you.”

THE 50S - BALANCING WORK, HEALTH, AND SENSE OF FULFILLMENT

Midlife brings a crossroads between celebrating achievements and the richness of life’s experiences, and redefining priorities for the future.  Frank H., 55, sums it up by reminding us to “Do it when you have a chance.”  Embracing opportunities now may avoid some regrets later.  Rick R., 54, agrees and adds “Do what feels right to you, within reason.”  He follows up that sentiment by explaining that we shouldn’t be afraid to follow our own desires, needs and passions.

This time of life also brings contemplation about health and well-being.  Chris K, 58, speaks for many others in this age group when he says, “Prioritize exercise.” Play more basketball, if that is your thing, or whatever moves you toward a healthier lifestyle.

David Bradburn adds, “I’ve spent so much time trying to figure out a deeper purpose to our existence that I’ve missed at least part of it spending time trying to find it.  We need to just live and our essence will take care of our purpose.”

In reflecting on past choices, Dave C., 58, spurs others to consider a variety of solutions.  Nothing in life is permanent, so there is always opportunity to pivot.  Take time to contemplate rather than a knee-jerk reaction to a problem that may have lasting consequences.

THE 60S & BEYOND - INSPIRING, RESILIENT, AND REFLECTIVE

As the saying goes, ‘With age comes wisdom.’  Just look to our elders and we will find this to be true.  The overarching theme is to be true to oneself while making time to give back to others.

Eric S., 68, shares his motto and words to live by: “Practice moderation and apply it, live within your means (and INVEST), take good care of your body - you will thank yourself later, responsibility and accountability to others is a blessing, and it is ok to ask for help.”

Erv G., 76, advocates looking back without regret because the choices we made led us to where we are today.  Now, he concentrates on doing good for others. “Helping wherever I can brings me fulfillment.”

Speaking of supporting others, Haig H., 71, motivates individuals to get involved and give back to the community at a very early age. “The benefits one derives far outweigh the efforts one expends.” He believes in always having a mentor to guide you along your journey because there is no single path to success and success itself looks different to everyone.  Hard work, determination and asking for help will get you far in life.

As a father, grandfather, and servant leader, he is familiar, seasoned and accustomed to inspiring others and imparting his sage words of mentorship.  We leave you with these:

Be honest above all else, it will help avoid complications.  College is not a necessity, find what fulfills you and it won’t feel so much like ‘work.’ Wisdom and respect are earned, not learned.  Listen more."

And as an avid music lover he references song lyrics as metaphors for life.  “Teach your children well.”  “In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.”

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A Path Toward Understanding Dad

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“I was always striving for my dad’s love, acceptance and validation. It hadn’t occurred to me that he may have been feeling the same.”

February 21, 2024.   A date that will forever be marked as the day my dad died, just 6 days after his 85th birthday, from pancreatic cancer that had spread to his kidneys and liver. The man with a handshake you could never forget, the family provider who ruled his home with authority, someone who outwardly seemed unconcerned with others’ opinions of him, and who was competitive at his core, had been given 6 months to live - but went out on his own terms and timeline just 37 days after the diagnosis.  And he did so telling his same corny jokes and asking about his grandkids, two things that invoked joy.

Before my three brothers and I (and our families) could fully wrap our heads around his diagnosis, he was gone.  But on some level, maybe it was his way of protecting us, or himself, from what else lied ahead.

See, my dad had been battling the early stages of Alzheimer’s and it was progressing.  In the beginning, he could hide it or my stepmom could cover for him but it was becoming increasingly difficult to ignore.  He would repeat the same stories and became more easily confused, but also more reflective.  The same man who had rarely shown us emotion was now giving us a glimpse at his inner thoughts.  He would often say “How did I get so lucky to have such a great life?”  And closer to the end, seemingly longing for our approval, he would express, “I hope my boys are proud of me.”

That struck a chord with me because I was always striving for my dad’s love, acceptance and validation.

It hadn’t occurred to me that he may have been feeling the same.  Growing up, affection from my dad toward the four of us boys, his sons, was minimal and restrained.  His focus, like many fathers during the time we grew up in the 1970s and 1980s, was work and providing financially for his family.  Jim Rogers was a tough act to follow.  A straight-A student, Eagle Scout, and three-sport standout athlete in high school.  A college football recruit who played in the 1961 Rose Bowl with the University of Minnesota (and wore that Rose Bowl ring proudly), an Army vet and a successful business executive, working for prestigious companies such as Xenon, Champion Sporting Goods, Crestliner Boats, and as Vice President of Sales and Marketing for Riddell (manufacturer of football helmets).

Jim Rogers was also a dynamic storyteller, captivating his audience with his vivid and memorable accounts of his life experiences.  These have become some of my fondest and most cherished moments with my dad.  Of course, playing in the Rose Bowl stands out but there is also the story of the game between his team, the Gophers, and the Michigan Wolverines.  Gophers won, 10-0.  But at least one newspaper’s headline read: Rogers Beats Michigan 10-0.  See, my dad was a fullback, the place kicker and an outside linebacker.  He scored the team’s only touchdown, the extra point AND kicked a field goal, accounting for all 10 points.  My dad didn’t boast about his college football career, he matter-of-factly shared the stories, leaving the rest of us in awe.

One story that he LOVED to tell was from his first job out of college, marketing for 3M.  He was part of a team that organized a public relations gimmick where they drove a golf cart from the Northeast across the country to the Bing Crosby National Pro-Am (now the AT&T Pebble Beach Pro-Am).  My dad was in charge of driving a car behind the golf cart and tasked with setting up press coverage at strategic locations along the route.  Shortly after arriving in California, prior to the tournament, he had the opportunity to meet Bob Hope. While he felt honored for the experience, he must have made an impression on Mr. Hope, as well.  A few years later, while in Las Vegas on business, my dad was waiting for an elevator.  The doors opened.  None other than Bob Hope was standing there. As dad stepped in, Bob grinned, stuck out his hand and said, “Jim Rogers, great to see you!”

Without skipping a beat, dad replied, “And you are??”  Imagine the thrill of making the comedic genius himself laugh at one of your jokes!

Throughout my dad’s esteemed career, he acquired many stories like these.  Each shed some light on a man we really didn’t know all that well.  Maybe that is why, when my brothers and I started having families of our own and we saw a completely different side of my dad - an oversized kid, laughing and playing with our children, present - I was left feeling envious, resentful, “salty.” While I loved this new person I was seeing, I found myself wishing I grew up experiencing this side of him.  It helped me realize the father that I wanted to be, and chose to be, to my own three sons.  When I divorced in 2009, that became even more apparent.  As did my desire to connect with my dad.

Out of the complex and emotional time of the divorce came the opportunity for dad and I to realize a dream we shared - an African safari. Well, truth is, since childhood, I wanted to go and my dad would say, “Let me know when you want to go and I’ll be there.”  So, I pitched the idea and, low and behold, he said, “Let’s do it!”  Throughout the planning, my excitement was combined with trepidation.  In my 44 years, I had never spent any significant amount of time alone with my dad, our relationship was distant and devoid of deep discussions. “This should be interesting,” I thought.  But not only did we survive two weeks together, our relationship transformed.  I was no longer the child intimidated by his father and I finally received the one-on-one time I hadn’t even realized I had been craving for so long.  It was a start. A stepping stone.

From that trip forward, I was able to catch peeks into who Jim Rogers was.  And in turn, he was softening a bit.

Although, his attempts at hugs in lieu of his usual handshake were clumsy, at best, and left us satisfied with returning to the handshake.  In recent years, he began to say “I love you” to each of us, one by one. It was awkward and startling at first. But as it settled in, I realized my dad was reflecting. He always loved us and just didn’t have ability to show it openly.  He left breadcrumbs, a trail that I can see more clearly now.  He was just doing the best he could with what he had to work with.  And the handshake, which in his final days was as strong as ever, was his way of hugging. In the end, the grip was the same, it just meant more to me because I understood it now.

So, to answer that question of if we are proud of him, yes, on many levels, we are.  I choose to remember the good times and the happy memories with my dad.  After all, who of us is perfect?  God speed dad, I look forward to seeing you again one day.

Securing Your Financial Future

Navigating the twists and turns of the stock market and various investments can be overwhelming and often leads investors to quietly utter the plea, "talk me off the ledge."  For Sheldon Clark, a seasoned financial advisor at Edward Jones, it is in these times that his wealth of business and life experience truly shines.  According to Sheldon, a key piece of advice for investors seeking a financial advisor is to find someone with whom they can connect - a person 'battle-scarred' in both the financial world and life itself.  We recently had a sit-down Q&A with him at his Huntley office to delve into his insights.

A FEW TIPS FROM SHELDON CLARK ON WHAT TO LOOK FOR FROM A FINANCIAL

ADVISOR

WHAT'S THE FIRST THING YOU TALK ABOUT WITH A NEW CLIENT?

First, get to know the person.  At our initial meeting I let them know that we are just going to talk; get to know each other and share ideas and concepts that we may want to consider.  Through conversation, you can learn a lot from the language they use, what they work at, family structure, prior experiences in finance, and their fears and desires.  All of this helps paint their "picture" so you can find phrases, analogies, or examples that they will more likely grasp quickly.  The most important thing I do as a financial advisor is guide people through the process and help them make decisions for their own best interest.  Never make significant changes or decisions in the 'fog of war!'

WE HEAR SO MUCH ABOUT WHAT WE "SHOULD" HAVE BY "X" AGE, BUT WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST TO PEOPLE WHO ARE FEELING THEY ARE TRACKING BEHIND THOSE NUMBERS?

We are all different people with different needs, wants, timelines and apprehensions.  So, there is no point in buying into "we should have X" at a certain point in our lives. Don't become paralyzed with worry. While we cannot undo the past, we can certainly learn from it and define the best path moving forward.  First, know what you have, then think about what you want at various points of your future life and share that with a trusted advisor who will be able to identify various routes to help you attain your goals.  You may be tempted to stray off course, a situation in which a trusted advisor will either encourage you to try a different path, or may get you back on track.

OVER THE YEARS, WHAT IS THE GREATEST LESSON YOU'VE LEARNED ABOUT FINANCES?

I have learned that decisions have consequences.  Taking advice from someone is a very serious decision.  Seeking financial counseling from the internet, TV, newspaper, friends or co-workers can be financially damaging.  These may be reasonable sources for general information, but I encourage people to find someone who will listen and with whom they can develop a trusting relationship and share about themselves as well as ask questions.  Financial situations can change people for the good or for the bad.  Be cautious, go slowly as you are building your financial future.  Keep your perspective.  To my clients, I suggest that instead of diving into the deep end right away, we'll begin in the shallow end and gradually progress to swimming confidently in deeper waters.

Sheldon Clark

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Sheldon Clark is a battle-tested financial advisor with a unique perspective, shaped by a childhood spent living around the globe.  Sheldon has had a passion for travel from an early age.  His top destinations include Lhasa Tibet, a South African safari, and the Galapagos Islands.  His worldly experiences, including a 2 1/2-year stint in Nepal during his formative years, provides a foundation for his approach to financial guidance.

Sheldon sees himself as a guide, in fact, helping navigate the challenging financial landscapes.  Emphasizing the importance of trust, Sheldon instills this value in his team, recognizing that fostering confidence takes various forms and is a collective effort.

Reflecting on his experiences, Sheldon advises against knee-jerk reactions and encourages learning from past decisions. With a belief in leveraging personal experiences, he stresses the importance of seeking counsel from an advisor with a knowledge of not just market fluctuations, but life in general.  In the world of finance, Sheldon Clark offers a diverse background to help steer clients through life's fiscal complexities.

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Summer Grill Recipes

THESE DELICIOUS RECIPES ARE LIGHT, BRIGHT AND FEEL LIKE SUMMER

The sun has returned and grilling season is upon us. With the nice weather comes vegetable gardens and fresh produce, along with the overwhelming desire to be outside as much as possible. We’ve compiled some fresh and light dishes that you can shop for at your local farmers market and whether you’re looking for a quick mid-week meal or something to grill for a crowd on the weekend, these dishes won’t disappoint. These pair well together or can stand on their own!

ingredients

• 2lbs. Outside skirt steak*

• 2 Tablespoons lime*

• 2 Tablespoons finely, chopped cilantro

• ¼ Cup olive oil or avocado oil

• ¼ White onion, finely chopped

• 1 Tablespoon cumin

• Salt and pepper to taste

directions

1. Place skirt steak into gallon freezer bag

2. Combine all other ingredients in bowl and mix. Pour over steak and marinate for 3-4 hours or overnight in the fridge.

3. Bring skirt steak to room temperature by letting it sit out for one hour.

4. Get your grill hot on one side and medium on the other.

5. Once the grill is ready, wipe excess marinade off steak. Starting on the hot side, place skirt steak on grill for 2 minutes per side, attaining a nice sear.

6. Transfer steak to the cooler side of grill and cook until the internal temp is 130°. Let rest for 10 minutes (temp will rise while resting).

7. Carve and serve. This dish pairs well with beans and rice or served as tacos. Below is a chimichurri sauce that compliments it nicely.

*Outside skirt steak is a more tender cut than inside skirt steak; for this recipe outside skirt is recommended.

Do not use too much lime as the citrus can cook the meat before putting it on the grill, resulting in a tougher texture.

SIMPLE SKIRT STEAK

ingredients

• ½ Cup parsley, finely chopped

• ½ Cup cilantro, finely chopped

• 2 Tablespoons red wine vinegar

• 3 Cloves garlic, minced

• 1 Red chili (whole or deseeded depending on desired level of heat)

• ½ Teaspoon dried oregano

• 1 Teaspoon salt

• 1 Tablespoon lime juice (optional)

directions

Combine all ingredients in a bowl. You can make this in the late morning and let it sit for around 4-6 hours, or you can make it the day before and let the flavors meld overnight in the fridge. Just be sure to take it out and get it to room temp before you serve it, as olive oil hardens in the fridge. Serve over skirt steak or tacos.

ingredients

• 2 Ears sweet corn

• 10oz. Cherry tomatoes

• ¼ Cup lime juice

• 1 Finely chopped jalapeno or serrano (whole or deseeded depending on desired level of heat)

• ¼ Cup cilantro, finely chopped

• ½ Cup white onion, chopped

• 2 Cloves garlic, minced

• Salt to taste

directions

1. Grill corn, you do not need to soak the corn beforehand.

2. Place corn on the grill (inside their husks) over medium heat turning every few minutes.

3. After 10 to 12 minutes shuck the corn and put the cobs back on the grill for 2-4 minutes rotating frequently to achieve that charred look and flavor.

4. Cut the corn from the cob, place in bowl and add all other ingredients. Let the mixture meld for about an hour and serve with tortilla chips or as a taco garnish.

TUESDAYS

Concerts in the Park

Series

Main Beach, 300 Lake Shore Drive, CL | 7:00 PM

Pull out a blanket and enjoy a great night of free entertainment lakeside, Tuesdays at 7 PM through August 6th. Food and beverage (beer and wine) and small charcoal grills are allowed (no glass please.) In the event of inclement weather, the decision to reschedule the concert will be made by 2 pm. For parking and music schedule information visit: crystallakeparks.org/special-events

JUNE 8TH

Chain O’Lakes Chamber of Commerce B4 Summer Festival

Richardson Adventure Farm, Spring Grove | 12:00 PM - 11:00 PM

Returning for a second year, the B4 Summer Festival raises money for five local nonprofit organizations. Festivities include live music by Pino Farina, Wedding Banned and Modern Day Romeos; food trucks and 5 local breweries; exclusive bourbon tasting; and access to ALL Richardson Farms activities!  Bring your own seats. Details on Facebook. Tickets: General admission $13-$18, VIP $45-$55  eventbrite.com/e/b4-summer-festival-2024-tickets-794403170267

JUNE 8TH

One More Night 80s Prom

Old Towne Hall, 54 Brink Street, Crystal Lake | 6:00 PM

Dress in your 80s’ prom attire and get ready for One More Night,  a totally tubular evening filled with great music, dancing, and nostalgic vibes while supporting a righteous cause, Independence Health & Therapy. Best dressed will be crowned Prom King & Queen.  Enjoy appetizers, dinner and signature cocktails plus raffles and more.  Tickets $125/person. For tickets and information visit:   independencehealth.org/one-more-night-80s-prom

JUNE 9TH

27th Annual Ride, Rock, Rumble

Woodstock Harley Davidson, 2235 S. Eastwood Dr., Woodstock | 9:00 AM

Join Top Cats and ride to benefit Northern Illinois Special Recreations Association (NISRA) and their mission to enrich the lives of people with disabilities through meaningful recreation experiences. Start at Woodstock Harley Davidson and end at Volo Auto Museum.  Registration includes pre-ride coffee and pastries, half-price entrance to the museum or Jurassic Park, and lunch.  $25/driver, $5/passenger.  Learn more at: topcats.org/ride-rock-rumble-2024

JUNE 10TH

Crystal Lake Lions Club Annual Golf Outing

Boone Creek Golf Club | 9:30 AM

Reserve your spot for the annual Crystal Lake Lions Club golf outing.  All proceeds support their mission to serve others in our community and beyond.  $135/golfer includes golf, cart, lunch and dinner, as well as prizes, auction, 50/50 raffle and more.  Dinner only price: $25.  To register, sponsor and learn more, go to:  crystallakelions.org

JUNE 15TH - SEPTEMBER 28TH

Downtown Crystal Lake Farmers Market

Depot Park | 8:00 AM

Beginning June 15th, fill your Saturdays with farm-fresh goodness at the Downtown Crystal Lake Farmers Market, from 8 AM to 1 PM at Depot Park.  Stock up on organic produce, indulge in homemade treats, and browse unique handmade treasures.  There's something for everyone. Bring your family, friends, and furry companions to support local vendors at this long-standing market.  downtowncl.org.events