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A Salute to Our 2021 Women of Influence! EVERY YEAR, I LOOK FORWARD TO PUTTING TOGETHER THE MAY ISSUE, WHICH FEATURES CLEVELAND COUNTY LIFESTYLE'S WOMEN OF INFLUENCE. This year, we took the number of selections down from 12 to seven in order to give a

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But I wanted to call special attention to one of our WOI, Jenny Bryan, a master police officer with the Norman Police Department, known to many of her friend and admirers as GI Jane for her refusal to ever give up and to face all challenges head-on. Jenny was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2012, and had four surgeries in eight months, with a double mastectomy. Early last year, she was diagnosed with stage 4 metastasized breast cancer: she had a mass behind her sternum, and the cancer had spread to the liver and right lung. A few weeks later, she started chemotherapy— on afternoons, so she would only miss a few hours of work! "I was not going to allow cancer to win or control mine or take away from my kiddos’ lives," she said. "We are way too busy, and have way too much to do for it! I did not miss work or a day in the gym. On hard days I would push harder—sweat more—but used it as motivation. 'I’ll show you who’s boss, Cancer!'"

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MAY 2021

FEATURES 24 Nicole Mendes Why This Sooners Softball Player Is Like a Kaleidoscope

30 Continuing a Family Legacy New Floral and Gift Shop Specializes in One-of-a-Kind Arrangements

36 Cleveland County Lifestyle’s Women of Influence for 2021

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52 Rilla Askew Giving Voice to Many of Oklahoma’s Most Powerful Stories

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Along the way, says Chris Phillips, president of

provide the developmentally disabled with employ-

the Work Activity Center board, clients also pick up

ment, earn a paycheck, experience a safe work

a healthy dose of self-confidence. Here, Phillips—a

environment, socialize with other young men and

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women with similar physical and mental limitations,

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and teach them job skills as well as social skills. We

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The individuals who organized the work center had a sincere desire to give the developmentally disabled adults graduating from

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(some were parents of a special needs child), hired an attorney and

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special needs child has the privilege of employment at a work center

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N IC OL E MENDES A PRISM TAKES A BEAM OF LIGHT AND BREAKS IT INTO MANY COLORS. Nicole Mendes is much like a prism. She is a talented player, leader, advocate, future Olympian and person of faith. The combination makes up a composed picture. The fifth-year senior on the Sooner softball team has been a starter at each outfield position, first base and designated player. She has even taken the ball from Coach Patty Gasso inside the pitcher’s circle to start or relieve as a pitcher. She is a leader on the softball field and in student-athlete governance groups. Leadership roles started on the Norman campus, and that led to the Big 12 and the NCAA. She has a very strong connection to her faith and is quick to share the role it plays in her life. She is going to be an Olympian this

I softball will be her path to the reality. “I will head to Mexico after

summer as a member of the Olympic team from

our OU season is over. We will train in Mexico before heading to

Mexico. Finally, she took a sensitive issue that she

Japan. The Olympics will begin, and I will be there.”

had experiences with and encouraged people to make it a point of emphasis.

her spot in student-athlete leadership.

COVID-19 presented a different set of challenges

“Kelsey was involved here at OU and she took me with her to

than she had ever encountered. Mendes, who was

a meeting. I got to be a Big 12 rep for SAAC. I learned how to be

coming off a fall 2019 knee surgery, played in six

a leader, how to use my voice. It gave me an opportunity to learn

games last spring before everything shut down.

beyond the classroom. That is encouraged at OU—take things

Remembering what was lost has given Mendes a

learned in the classroom and turn them into valuable life lessons.”

different approach to 2021.

She earned her degree in Planned Programs – Social Influence

“I am trying to really enjoy every moment we

at the end of the fall 2020 semester and is working on her master’s

have,” Mendes said. “We are so fortunate to be

degree in human relations. She hopes to play pro softball after she

playing games this spring. It has taken so much

finishes her master’s degree, then she would like to get involved in

effort from so many to ensure we are doing the

broadcasting. She has discovered she enjoys finding the unique

things we must do to compete in a safe, secure

stories that people have, then helping them share those stories.

bubble. I want to enjoy this year like no other.” Playing in the Olympics has been a dream for Mendes since she was 8 years old. Playing Division

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In some ways, that part of her passion led her to another interest. A close friend, who was struggling with some serious issues, reached out to Mendes.

“I did not know what to say. I didn’t know how to respond to her. I wasn’t sure of the best way to help her.” A year later, it was Mendes who was struggling.

“I CAME INTO MY SOPHOMORE YEAR AFTER A GREAT FRESHMAN SEASON AND SOMETHING WASN’T RIGHT. I DIDN’T ENJOY BEING AROUND SOFTBALL. EVERYTHING WAS SO GOOD FOR ME; WHY WAS I SAD? WITH HELP, I LEARNED IT WAS OK TO BE SAD. IT WAS OK FOR ME NOT TO BE OK. I ALSO KNEW I WASN’T THE ONLY STUDENT-ATHLETE DEALING WITH DEPRESSION AND OTHER MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES.”

She reached out to OU’s student-athletes and worked with PROS (Psychological Resources for OU Student-Athletes). Those efforts led to additional mental health programs at OU, including Mental Health Days and Mental Health games. Mendes gave OU a non-binding commitment as a seventh or eighth grader. She knew then there was something special about her coach.

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“Coach Gasso is incredible. She really is a boss lady. People see her physical size and dismiss her. That’s a big mistake. She is an amazing softball coach. She loves softball and loves to coach. Her passion for both shows. “Girls come to OU to play softball and they don’t really know who they are or what they want to do. We learn from Coach Gasso how to be strong, how to speak up and talk for those who can’t. She has a strong commitment to her faith, and she is not afraid to show that. She has helped me learn even more what God has done in my life. “Who would have expected that my dreams would become my reality? The blessings I have been given have led me to experience a reality that came from my dreams. I would not be where I am today without Coach Gasso and without God.” A prism is too small to represent Mendes. A kaleiNicole participates in an OU athletes Unity Walk in 2020

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THIS YEAR, WE ARE HONORING SEVEN OUTSTANDING METRO

young son Matthew, Bell enjoys playing video games to unwind

WOMAN AS OUR WOMEN OF INFLUENCE, FOR THEIR CAREER

after busy days at the state Capitol and cuddling up with the

ACCOMPLISHMENTS AS WELL AS COMMUNITY SERVICE.

family's two Boston terriers.

Rep. Merleyn Bell OCCUPATION: State Representative for House District 45

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY: I can personally attest to the validity of this quote from former Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor: "Give freely of yourself always to your family, your friends, your com-

COMMUNITY SERVICE:

munity, and your country. The world will pay you back many times

Board Member, Thunderbird Clubhouse

over." I've never offered my time, talents or treasure to our community without receiving much more in return.

BRIEF BIO: Merleyn Bell is a fifth-generation Oklahoman and a lifelong Norman resident. In November 2018, she was elected

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to represent House District 45 in east Norman, becoming the

LISHMENT: Getting elected to represent 38,000 of my neighbors

first woman of color ever elected to represent her hometown.

in the State House is pretty high up there. But the greatest achieve-

Prior to serving in the house, Bell was the art director for OU's

ment of my lifetime by far was becoming a mom. It's something I

award-winning literary publication, World Literature Today.

never thought I would do, and I never would have got elected without

Along with her husband, Corey (an RN at Norman Regional), and

learning the lessons that parenthood has taught me.

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Stacy Bruce OCCUPATION: Executive director, Bridges of Norman. Bridges’

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK

mission is empowering high school student in family crisis to pursue

TO THE COMMUNITY: Recently, we found a handwritten note

education without obstacles.

from my Mimi Barr. It quoted Henry Van Dyke: “Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those

COMMUNITY SERVICE/INVOLVEMENT: Serving second term on

who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love,

the Norman Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors; past chair of

time is eternity.” Time is what I have, and time is what I’m able to

the Norman Citizen’s Advisory Board to the Norman chief of police;

give. I got into the nonprofit industry while attending classes at

and member of Sooner Rotary, the Norman North Baseball Booster

OU. I learned quickly that “It’s not about what you have but about

Club (Go, T-Wolves!), and LifeChurch.

what you give. …Being active in my community is important to me because I believe that is where productivity happens, relationships

BRIEF BIO: Stacy grew up the daughter of a football coach, which

are built, and real change can happen.”

means she moved about every four years. However, it was Norman she chose to call her hometown. After earning a bachelor of arts

GREATEST LIFETIME PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL ACCOMP-

degree from OU, Stacy began an almost 20-year career with the

LISHMENT: My greatest personal accomplishment is becoming a

YMCA. In November of 2016, she was named executive director at

mother to Maddie and Landon. My greatest professional accom-

Bridges. Stacy is married to Shannon Bruce.

plishment is being a small part of helping teens in family crisis graduate from high school when they didn’t think it possible.

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Jenny Bryan* CURRENT OCCUPATION: Master Police Officer,

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK TO

Norman Police Department

THE COMMUNITY: Stay positive and don’t let bumps in the road slow you down. You can’t always control what happens in life, but you can con-

COMMUNITY SERVICE/INVOLVEMENT: I am a Master Police

trol your way of thinking and how you respond. Don’t dwell on the nega-

Officer. I get to respond to calls of service and help those in need. I love

tive and bad—look for the good and positives. Sometimes the bumps in

to stay busy at work, and I take every call as if it were one of my family

life teach us things, maybe what to do or not to do. Keep moving forward!

members. We as officers don’t get called when citizens are having good days—we get called when they need help. We as officers wear

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many different hats when responding to calls for service.

LISHMENT: I know it sounds cliché, but I am very proud of my kids, family and friends—they are my “WHY”: why I get up, why I push

BRIEF BIO: I am a single mom of four busy active kids. I love my

myself, why I do what I do! It takes a village, and without them, I have

job and love serving the community and the town in which I grew

nothing—life and time is precious; cherish your loved ones and your

up. Before starting the Police Academy (26-week training), I worked

time because you are never promised tomorrow.

at the YMCA, where I taught aerobics and personal trained. I also coached baseball and always had (still have) a house full of kids.

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Dr. Robi Craig CURRENT OCCUPATION: Orthodontist, full-time practice of ortho-

been married to the love of my life, Bob Craig, for 30 years (this coming

dontics and dentofacial orthopedics for children and adults at Craig

December), and we have three teenage children. We enjoy watching

and Streight Orthodontics

our children’s sporting events and spending time at the lake.

COMMUNITY SERVICE/INVOLVEMENT: Providing scholarships

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK

for braces to children in our community who otherwise might not

TO THE COMMUNITY: “Giving is not just about making a donation,

receive orthodontic care (the program previously was Smile 4 a

it is about making a difference.” -Kathy Calvin, president and CEO,

Lifetime and now it is through our practice at CSO); Craig and Streight

United Nations Foundation. I am passionate about helping others.

Orthodontics provides monetary donations to the schools of South

Giving someone the gift of a smile may change their life forever.

OKC, Moore and Norman and others in the surrounding communities for their various fundraising events; and CSO contributes to a wide

GREATEST LIFETIME PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL ACCOMP-

range of community charitable organizations, including United Way,

LISHMENT: My most important role and personal accomplish-

Mary Abbott House, CCFI, Big Brothers Big Sisters.

ment is being mom to our three wonderful teenagers, who keep me very busy. My professional accomplishment is being a

BRIEF BIO: I attended the OU College of Dentistry, and then LSU, for

first-generation college graduate, with a dental hygiene degree

orthodontic residency. I have been practicing the specialty of ortho-

followed by a dental degree and specialty designation and now

dontics for 20 years and have lived in Norman for over 30 years. I have

co-owner and orthodontist of three practices.

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Kathy Griffith CURRENT OCCUPATION: Real Estate broker and co-owner, with

eight adult children and 14+ grandchildren ranging in age from 5

husband Steve, of Prime Realty Inc.

to 20. Ancestors are Czechoslovakia immigrant farmers; Frank and Anna Janko farmed the land just south of the park on 12th Street

COMMUNITY SERVICE/INVOLVEMENT: Chairwoman of Veteran’s

between Eastern and Bryant in Moore. I remember when this was a

Memorial Park in Moore since its inception in 2005. Assist in the

dirt road and Moore had just ONE signal light, at 12th and Broadway.

organization and promotion of each phase of the park (Phase I - The Flag Plaza, Phase II - The Memorial Bricks, Phase III - The

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK

Soldiers’ Memorial, and Phase IV - The Wall of Honor); Backpack

TO THE COMMUNITY: I have an optimistic compass and believe

Program (in which children receive a backpack full of kid-friendly,

there is a way to resolve any issue that presents itself. I believe in

non-perishable and nutritious food on Friday and school holi-

leading by example. Ephesians 4:29: Do not let any unwholesome talk

days); and Red Andrews Toy Drive.

come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

BRIEF BIO: While raising babies, attended South Oklahoma City Community College (now OCCC), Rose State College, Midwestern

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State University, Wichita Falls, Texas, and finally completed in 2008 a

LISHMENT: Witnessing the growth and development of four great

bachelor’s degree in business from the University of Phoenix. Happily

human beings. In my heart, they are still my young children, but my

married to my business partner, Steve Griffith; collectively, we have

eyes see adults who are committed to respect and devotion with lives and families of their own.

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Emily J. Mick, M.Ed., LPC CURRENT OCCUPATION: Licensed Professional Counselor

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK

and LPC Supervisor in private practice. I provide mental health

TO THE COMMUNITY: My favorite poet, Mary Oliver, said: “Ten

counseling to children, teen and adult clients in the Norman and

times a day something happens to me like this—some strengthening

surrounding areas.

throb of amazement—some good sweet empathic ping and swell. This is the first, the wildest and the wisest thing I know: that the

COMMUNITY SERVICE/INVOLVEMENT: Board member, Little

soul exists and is built entirely out of attentiveness.” I believe we can

Read Wagon, a literacy nonprofit out of Norman that strives to

always find something glowing and beautiful in the world and oppor-

increase literacy access to underserved areas of the community and

tunities to do kind and beneficial things in life; that we can find ways

reduce book deserts in our area; active in local animal rescue; and a

to help others, ease suffering, lift burdens or provide a kind hand and

volunteer/supporter of Full Circle Adult Day Center.

heart when it is needed … simply by paying attention.

BRIEF BIO: I have an M.Ed. in community counseling from OU. Prior

GREATEST LIFETIME PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL ACCOMP-

to entering private practice, I was the clinical director of a residential

LISHMENT: I am incredibly proud of the LPC candidates I have

treatment facility for adolescents with comorbid mental health diag-

supervised over the years and the licensed professionals they have

nosis and behavioral disturbance. I do Krav Maga and Brazilian Jiu

become. I am grateful to have been able to help them hone their

Jitsu at Titan Martial Arts in Norman.

skills as counselors and be a part of them becoming ethical and effective counselors, therefore increasing the access to beneficial mental health services to members of our community.

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Rebecca Dunning Switzer CURRENT OCCUPATION: President of Ground Zero Emergency

on the international scene through many coaching positions, includ-

Training Center (GroundZeroSavesLives.com)

ing the 1988 Olympic Games. She is co-founder (with husband and former OU and Dallas Cowboy Coach Barry Switzer) of the Ground

COMMUNITY SERVICE/INVOLVEMENT: Member, board of direc-

Zero Emergency Training Center Foundation. She enjoys sky diving;

tors for the Oklahoma Medical Research Foundation, the Oklahoma

gardening; gymnastics; loving all animals, especially canines; dog

City National Memorial and the Ground Zero Emergency Training

walking, tourism and participating in the OKC National Memorial

Center; served on the City Care and Jasmine Moran Children’s

Marathon 5k race.

Museum board of directors and as a state commissioner for the Oklahoma Tourism and Recreation Department (2003-2011).

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY ON IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY: “When we give time to a cause that can

BRIEF BIO: After graduating from Oklahoma City University with a

positively impact our community, we are effectively clearing a path

bachelor of science degree in history, she taught school before mov-

for others to travel toward the betterment of all.”

ing into her well-publicized coaching career. In fall 1977, she opened Metro Gymnastics and, in 1980, she was named assistant head coach

GREATEST LIFETIME PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL ACCOMP-

of women’s gymnastics at OU. In 1984, Becky was named head coach

LISHMENT: Her greatest personal achievement is the honor of

at OU, and she remained in that position until retiring from the sport

being a mother to two amazing adult children. Her greatest profes-

in 2001. During her tenure, she and her teams earned five Big Eight

sional achievement was reached by setting the goal of participating

Championships, 17 Regional Championships and three National

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C o l i n ’s Suggestions:

P LA N TS 08 RUELLIA: a native perennial, the ruellia blooms starting in summer and into the fall; it spreads nicely but is easily controlled (available in tall and compact varieties, they do well in containers) | 09 SORREL: an older, now obscure herb with a sweet, sour flavor; mixed in with a salad, it negates the need for a vinaigrette | 10 HEUCHERA CORAL BELLS: probably the most underrated perennial for a shade garden, coral bells come in a mind-boggling array of colors; they keep their leaves in the winter, and newer varieties from brands like Proven Winners, keep their shades of orange, purple or yellow all winter,

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AWARD-WINNING AUTHOR RILLA ASKEW HAS BEEN WRITING DEEPLY COMPELLING STORIES ABOUT OKLAHOMA AND THE COMPLEX ISSUE OF RACE SINCE SHE BEGAN HER WRITING CAREER OVER 20 YEARS AGO. “The passions that I have had as a writer all my professional life have become part of a much wider consciousness now,” Rilla explains. “Our culture has shifted and is now aligned with something that has been important to me for so long. My interests in Oklahoma’s history and issues of race are so intertwined that I couldn’t separate them if I tried.” As associate professor of English at the University of Oklahoma, Rilla is a fifth-generation Oklahoman. Her family emigrated into Indian Territory in the late 1800s and settled in the Choctaw Nation. Being an Oklahoman has had a significant impact on Rilla’s stories and helps give voice to her characters. “All the stories that were handed down to me since childhood are Oklahoma stories,” she explains. “My grandfathers were storytellers, so I grew up listening to their voices, their syntax. It was natural that it became part of who I am and what I do.” Her stories, rooted in Oklahoma, are unique and specific to the culture of her home state. Yet, they also examine themes that are more universal about human nature and the complex nature of human relationships, especially those that impact the lives of women. “I am always in awe of how unique and powerful Oklahoma stories are. They truly are a microcosm of the national narrative,” Rilla adds. “It was in the process of writing that I came to understand the complexity and richness of Oklahoma, both today and throughout our history.”

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Many of the conflicts and issues explored in Rilla’s books help her readers learn about the past, in order to understand who we are today. She stresses that, for readers to learn through the lens of fiction, it is vital that it be historically accurate. “When historical fiction is authentically rendered, a reader can understand, in a deeply human way, what happened,” she explains.” You can live inside the lives of the characters and feel the impact of the events.” For Rilla, the writing process almost always begins with a deep, almost unanswerable question that necessitates in-depth historical research. “I have to learn how people lived in that time, how they made their meals, how they got around,” she says. “I almost always begin with an event and a character. I dream the characters awake, and then there is always a question or a theme at the heart of the novel that drives the direction of the research.” For her acclaimed novel Fire in Beulah, Rilla spent more than a decade conducting in-depth research on the Tulsa Race Massacre. Realizing that it was symbolic of events that were happening to African Americans all over the country, she was driven to understand the pivotal events that occurred and to discover exactly why and how they unfolded as they did in Tulsa’s Greenwood District in 1921. Rilla with her husband, Paul Austin, an accomplished poet, theatre actor and director

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Some of Rilla's published works

“I first learned about the Tulsa Race Massacre in 1989, and I was just stunned and devastated. I didn’t know yet the full scope of it, and how enormous and destructive it was,” she recollects. “The fact that this significant event had happened, and no one was talking about it, led me into history. I just couldn’t understand how I could grow up only 50 miles from Tulsa and not have been taught about this. It made me feel like there were all kinds of truths that were being kept a secret from me. So many people never knew about the Tulsa Race Massacre, simply because they were never taught about it. ” Fire in Buelah was published in 2001 and has recently come back into the national spotlight. Rilla says that she is proud that her novel can help contribute to a conversation that has brought awareness to a crucial part of Oklahoma’s history. “This current awakening and reckoning that our nation is having about racism, police brutality, white supremacy and other things that are endemic to our nation are bringing important issues to our consciousness in a new way, so it makes the book especially relevant right now,” Rilla says. “Readers come to it with different eyes than they did 20 years ago.” “Now, there is finally attention and awareness of the incredible tenacity and perseverance of the community in Greenwood. The descendants of the survivors and victims in Tulsa have made sure that this becomes a national story,” she continues. “My book is just one lens that people can use to experience these events, right alongside the characters.”

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Since publication, Fire in Beulah has received the American Book Award and the Myers Book Award from the Gustavus Myers Center for the Study of Bigotry and Human Rights, and it was selected as

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the centennial book for Oklahoma’s One Book One State program. Rilla has also been honored with a 2009 Arts and Letters Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters and the Arrell Gibson Lifetime Achievement Award from the Oklahoma Center for the Book in 2011. Currently, Rilla has shifted her focus away from Oklahoma’s history to focus on a new novel about the Early Modern Reformist and writer Anne Askew, who was burned as a heretic at Smithfield, London, in the 1500s. Rilla’s fascination with her new novel stems not just from her shared surname with the martyred woman, but in her hopes to gain a better understanding about what makes a person feel so fervently about their beliefs that they would willingly face death. In addition to her own writing, Rilla relishes her opportunity to develop young writers in her work teaching creative writing at the University of Oklahoma. “I love my students and working in the university environment,” she says. “It is very fulfilling to be able to help guide the next generation of young writers.” Rilla lives in Norman with her husband, Paul Austin, an accomplished poet, theatre actor and director. The couple have been married for nearly 40 years, and moved back to Oklahoma in 2015 after living, writing and performing in New York. “We both love living in Norman and enjoy the richness of the university community,” she says. “We love being connected to other social activists and value our friendships with others who are constantly thinking about important ideas and our place in the world. We just couldn’t

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REALTY REPORT REALTY REPORT

NEIGHBORHOOD

CLEVELAND COUNTY

ORIGINAL PRICE

SOLD PRICE

%SOLD/ORIG

DOM

BDRMS

BATHS

$1,495,000

$1,250,000

83%

251

5.1

Las Colinas 2, Norman

$729,000

$695,000

95%

3.1

Olde Stonebridge 2, Moore

$615,000

$585,000

95%

100

3.1

Joshuas Landing, Moore

$545,000

$539,000

98%

111

3.1

Willows 9, Moore

$545,000

$525,000

96%

2.2

Hallbrooke Sec 2, Norman

$535,000

$525,000

98%

3.2

Estates of Wyndemere, Moore

$500,000

$490,000

98%

3.1

Rivendell 4, SW OKC

$469,935

$465,000

98%

Timbers/Blackstone, SE OKC

$489,000

$464,000

94%

2.1

Turtle Lake, SE OKC

$429,900

$420,000

97%

2.1

Churchill Estates, Moore

$399,900

100%

2.1

Sendera Lakes II, Moore

$385,000

$373,450

97%

3.1

Carrington Place 5, Norman

$349,900

$355,000

101%

Cascata Lakes 3, SW OKC

$358,000

$355,000

99%

2.1

Quail Creek Acres, Norman

$334,900

100%

Vinehaven 4, SW OKC

$355,000

$334,900

94%

109

2.1

Talavera, SW OKC

$329,900

$322,500

97%

2.1

Highland Village 4, Norman

$339,500

$319,000

93%

113

Fountains, SW OKC

$309,000

$315,777

102%

Red Canyon Ranch, Norman

$319,000

$306,500

96%

2.1

Grandview Estate, Norman

This data is a sampling of sold properties from last month. Source: OKC/Norman Multiple Listing System.

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MAY

LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

1-2

14-16

ROSE ROCK MUSIC FESTIVAL

MAY DAZE FESTIVAL

Visitors to this event will enjoy a carnival

This event, held downtown on Main

OKLAHOMA RAILWAY MUSEUM TRAIN RIDES

with popular carnival rides, a car show,

Street, features great live entertain-

Step back in time and savor a unique

poker run and more. Enjoy browsing

ment, a carnival, delicious food, shop-

experience aboard a 40-minute train

through booths filled with arts and

ping, games and much more. At the

ride in a historic passenger coach.

crafts, and peruse plenty of food booths

May Daze Festival, browse through

Whether you grab a seat in the

for tasty treats. Don't miss the parade

over 100 vendor booths filled with

caboose, enjoy the great outdoors

on Saturday, and enjoy a wide variety

crafts, art and antiques. Relax and

from an open-air car or escape the

of live musical entertainment featuring

enjoy the wide variety of live music

weather with a coach seat, get the full

local bands. NobleOk.org

on the main entertainment stage.

rail experience via vintage diesel loco-

BlanchardChamber.com

motive. OklahomaRailwayMuseum.

Downtown, Noble

8 OKLAHOMA CITY FLOWER & GARDEN FESTIVAL

Myriad Botanical Gardens, OKC

Stop and wonder at the wide range

Downtown, Blanchard

Oklahoma Railway Museum, OKC

org/Events/Train-Rides

14-16 OKLAHOMA CITY HOME & GARDEN SHOW State Fair Park, OKC

15 GARDEN FESTIVAL IN THE PARK Will Rogers Gardens, OKC

of herbs, plants, garden art and gar-

This show is a destination to gain

This annual event brings together

den-related items throughout the

expert advice on any home-related

the OKC Parks Department and the

festival. Food trucks and wineries will

product or service. Nearly 500

city council of Garden Clubs for a

also be on site so visitors can grab

exhibitors and 1,000 experts will

fantastic day of family fun. Celebrate

a bite to eat and sample Oklahoma

be on-site to provide professional

all things gardening and get some

wine. Learn new gardening tech-

advice, the latest products and

inspiration with tours of the beautiful

niques during demonstrations and

inspiration for the home and garden.

park, then plot out your garden with

let the kids have a blast participating

OklahomaCityHomeShow.com

plants and garden merchandise from

in activities for younger gardeners.

the large selection of indoor and out-

Calendar.OklahomaCityBotanical

door vendors. https://www.Okc.gov/

Gardens.com/Event

Departments/Parks-Recreation/ Will-Rogers-Gardens

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PARTING THOUGHTS

CHIP

E EASY! D A PING M

ARTICLE ALAN HAGER, PGA

DO YOU FIND YOURSELF JUST MISSING THE GREEN BY A FEW FEET, LEAVING YOUR BALL ON THE COLLAR? I will explain the simple chip shot to help you get your ball up and down from there. (Note: this will be described for the right-handed golfer.) When faced with this shot, use different clubs, from a sand wedge

to 6 iron, perhaps. We want to get the ball to land a few feet on the green and continue rolling toward the hole, leaving you with a short

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putt of 2-3 feet, or less! Here’s how…

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Place the ball more forward or toward your target side, left foot with your feet aligned open or to the left of your target line (pic. 1). From this setup, you will find it easier to keep more weight on the left leg, encouraging a downward movement of the club through the ball. This will eliminate the dreaded “thin” shot that rolls across and over the green,

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leaving you with another chip!

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Place your hands lower on the grip (pic. 2). This makes the iron sim-

ilar to the length of your putter and encourages a pendulum motion, much like putting. As you make the stroke, you will see and feel the clubhead just “brushing the grass,” which is exactly what you want. This will allow the club head to pass through the ball, allowing the ball to become airborne and land on the green to continue on a path toward the hole. As mentioned earlier, practice this shot with different clubs with the goal of landing the ball a few feet on the green in the same area with every club.

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Place a tee in the ground (pic 3) so you can see the area to land the

ball. If the hole is 25-30’ away, perhaps you would use your 7 or 8 iron. If

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the hole is 10-15’, perhaps the 9 or pitching wedge is best. With practice, you will see you have many options when you find your ball in this location; use different clubs and see your chipping improve!

If you need help with this shot or any part of your golf game give us a call at The Trails Golf Shop at 360.1920 or see your PGA Golf Professional staff. [Alan Hager, PGA, is general manager and head golf professional at The Trails Golf Club in Norman. Visit TrailsGolf.com for more information.]

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