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Resilience

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can accept that and try to put together something that’s good.” — Elizabeth Edwards “Resilience is based on compassion for ourselves as well as compassion for others.” — Sharon Salzberg Good advice. Of course, this is also the season for giving. In this issue, Sooner Theatre’s Nancy Coggins writes about the toll the pandemic is taking on the many nonprofit arts organizations that enrich our community in so many ways and asks for our support. Krystyn Richardson echoed this concern. “As the owner of BOLD Multimedia, I work and volunteer for a lot of nonprofits. I can say without a doubt that the people who work for these organizations do what they do because they love serving this community, people, and want to make the world a better place. It is not just a job. It's a passion," she said. "On the other side, as the executive director of the

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FEATURES 20 From Serious to Smiling Need New Pearly Whites? Step Into Norman’s DDS Dentures + Implant Solutions

34 Thinking Outside the Box During These Difficult Times, Local Arts Nonprofits Need Your Support More Than Ever

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42 The Trails Under New Management, Golf Club Boasts Family-Friendly Atmosphere

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20 Locally Owned 24 Renovate & Refine 28 Healthy Lifestyle 34 Giving Back 38 Culinary Creations 42 Our Town 47 Inspired By 51

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South OKC Chamber Enjoys Busy September The South OKC Chamber enjoyed a busy September. Featured events included the Business Briefing Lunch, titled "Learn How the Better Business Bureau Is Fostering a Marketplace Where Consumers and Businesses Can Thrive,” presented in person and via Zoom; the Southern Stampede “Saddle Up & Bid” Auction; and the annual Taste of the Town.

1. The Back to School Update featured remarks from OKC Public Schools Superintendent Sean McDaniel on their process of virtual learning and future plans. | 2. Tim Wagner from Cocina De Mino serving food during our Taste of the Town | 3. At the Southern Stampede “Saddle Up & Bid” Auction: Allí Staton, volunteer, and Phil Murphy, Tax OKC | 4. At the auction: Keith Hall, Arcpoint Labs of Oklahoma City, takes the temperature of Thomas Lewis, field rep for Congressman Tom Cole | 5. Kitt Letcher, president and CEO, Better Business Bureau of Central Oklahoma, delivers the Business Briefings address. | 6. Patti Brower, Roy Brower, MacKenzie Jewell and Coty Jewell from HTeaO serving their flavored teas during Taste of the Town | 7. Auction volunteers Kathy Fowler and Amy Lee, McGraw Realtors; Marla Robinson, Grit Resources; and Vaneta Geddes | 8. Taste of the Town participants line up as Carly Rae from JakeFM gets ready to present the winner with his award | 9. Tim Wagner from Cocina De Mino, the Taste of the Town winner 10

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GOOD TIMES

Ground Broken on Next Habitat Home Cleveland County Habitat, community and business leaders, and neighbors ceremonially broke ground on their next Habitat home their first build since 2018, thanks to a partnership with Dr. Moffitt, D.D.S. Licensed contractors and volunteers of all skill levels are being sought to help. FMI on volunteering, donating materials or making a financial contribution, visit cchfh.org or call (405) 366-2813.

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Norman Big Movie Night Big Brothers Big Sisters of Norman sponsored a Big Movie Night-themed event for sponsors Sept. 11 at The Nest at Terra Verde. Approximately $80,000 was raised at the 51st Big Night Norman event. The organization enlisted the help of the BOLD Multimedia team to produce mini movie parodies about the organization. Trailers can be found on BOLD’s YouTube.

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Moore Faith Medical Clinic Seeking Volunteers Moore Faith Medical Clinic needs to expand its services to meet the growing demand resulting from the pandemic. Appointments are offered Thursday evenings, plus one daytime women’s clinic each month. To expand their schedule, they are seeking volunteers, including physicians, PAs, nurse practitioners, nurses, sonographers and pharmacists, as well as staff, including reception, security and chaplains. FMI: MooreFaithInfo@gmail.com #Loveyourneighbor

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LIBRARIES CONTINUE TO SERVE THE COMMUNITY DAILY It’s been a year since Norman Public Library Central opened in its state-of-the-art location north of Andrews Park in Norman. And while the world looks different in November 2020 due to the continuing coronavirus pandemic, the library continues to serve the community daily, as do each of the 12 libraries in the Pioneer Library System. A new service allows for curbside, to-the-car delivery of holds for customers that has been popular at the library. Downloadable eBooks, audiobooks and other virtual services have seen increases in usage, and collections for those mate-

OKLAHOMA BLESSING BOXES FOOD DRIVE Oklahoma Blessing Boxes was overwhelmed

rials have increased to meet that demand. And services like the 24-Hour Library and Movie Box outside Norman’s libraries give customers more socially distanced access points.

by the support of the Cleveland County com-

Libraries are open with visitors asked to follow

munity during its October Baskets of Blessings

local safety guidelines for their respective com-

food drive! Several individuals, church groups,

munities. Many services are available, but readers

sports teams and businesses stepped up and

should check with their local library for any offer-

volunteered to fill baskets with non-perishable

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REALTORS COMPLETE C2EX ENDORSEMENT Three Realtors at Prime Realty Inc. recently completed their C2EX Endorsement: Tiffany Elcyzyn, Kristen Gonzales and Glenda Slusser. Only 50,000 out of over 1.3 million Realtors throughout the United States have attained C2EX Endorsement. Commitment to Excellence (C2EX) empowers Realtors to evaluate, enhance and showcase their highest levels of professionalism. As the industry standards and best practices evolve new content, reference and resource materials are added to the platform, Realtors

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re-engage and keep their skills and knowledge

In our Artist's Palette column in the September

up to date. C2EX does a deep dive into 10 aspects

issue, we identified one of the three featured art-

of professionalism ranging from customer ser-

ists as Leticia Moreira, when the name she goes

vice to use of technology.

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AROUND TOWN allows entry into four homes decorated for the holidays. Premiere tickets are $30 and includes the virtual option of touring six homes in addition to the in-person tour. Opening up their homes for this year's tour are Suzanne and Alan Cheshier, Mrs. and Dr. Jeff Crook, Mrs. and Dr. Buck Hill, Mrs. and Dr. Jack Beller. Tickets

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LEDBETTER RECEIVES PROMOTION AT ARMSTRONG BANK Armstrong Bank has named Mark Ledbetter as its Central Oklahoma Regional president. Mark, who has been with the organization for almost 21 years, brings a wealth of experience both in community banking and in the company to his new leadership role. Mark is a current board member and past board president of Norman’s Sooner Theatre, He is also a past board president of Norman’s Firehouse Art Center, a former member of the campaign cabinet for the United Way of Norman and former treasurer of Norman’s Campus Corner Merchant’s Association.

GOLDSBY BUILDER SELECTED FOR CUSTOM BUILDER PROGRAM Goldsby builder Tina Adkins of Southwind Hills Home & Design was among 27 builders selected for the 2020-2021 year to be part of the Southern Living Custom Builder Program. Southern

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members

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on community reputation; strength of presence in their market; superior quality/attention to detail; innovative style; and other criteria. Through participation in the program, builders have access to over 1,000 plans in the Southern Living House Plans collection. They also participate in a conference and workshops where they learn the latest trends and technologies in their trade.

LET BENVENUTI’S DO THE COOKING THIS HOLIDAY SEASON If you love the holidays but wish you could

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spend less time in the kitchen and more time with family and friends, Benvenuti’s Ristorante has good news for you!

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Norman Holiday Home Tour will feature not

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dle virtually all the food preparation, other than

virtual option. Traditional tickets are $25, which

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Each feast includes a choice of meat and sides. Selections (and their respective cost) are spiral-cut ham ($250), smoked whole turkey ($280) and herb-crusted prime rib ($380). Orders also include garlic-whipped potatoes, traditional stuffing, Italian green beans, fresh-baked dinner rolls, sweet potato pecan casserole and pumpkin cheesecake. Bottled wine is also available for purchase (visit their website for a list). Orders for Thanksgiving must be made by Nov. 18, with pickup or delivery on Nov. 25. Orders for Christmas must be made by Dec. 16, with pickup or delivery on Dec. 23. Benvenuti’s is located at 105 W. Main St., Norman. For more information and to place your holiday orders, visit BenvenutisRistorante. com/#artful-understated-dining

YOUTH SELECTED AS OU JUNIOR CAPTAIN A lucky young Sooner fan got a chance of a lifetime when he was selected to become a Junior Captain for the University of Oklahoma football team. Preston Dvorak became the latest Junior Captain in what has become quite the tradition at home games. Brought to you by the doctors of Orthodontic Exclusively. Preston had a Zoom call from Coach Lincoln Riley, and was on the field during kickoff! Sign your child up at www.orthoexc.com

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NEED NEW PEARLY WHITES? STEP INTO NORMAN’S DDS DENTURES + IMPLANT SOLUTIONS

MACY MATHESON IS ALL ABOUT SMILES. Which is a good thing, since as the general manager for DDS Dentures + Implant Solutions in Norman, she sees a lot of them. “We so often take being able to smile for granted,” Matheson said. “So many of our patients go years without smiling, and that ultimately dramatically affects their happiness. When we give people their smiles back, they instantly have a glow about them and their confidence is restored. In short, when our patients get their smiles back, they get their life back! “Our mission is to ‘delight the patient,’” she added. “We do this by welcoming each one into a safe, friendly and comfortable environment and we treat each patient as though they are one of our favorite family members.” Norman’s DDS Dentures + Implant Solutions office is located at 2226 24th St. NW, and opened its doors in October of 2019. It’s one of many branches that the company maintains across the United States. Its affordability and rapid service have made it one of the leading dental care chains in the country. Patients who are experiencing pain or have other issues can receive same-day extractions, same-day replacement dentures, or a combination of the two. “We have an in-house lab, which means we are able to do everything in one day, unlike traditional practices,” Matheson said. “Our patients are able

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Spearheading the Norman DDS Implants team is Colin Du, D.M.D.

“DENTISTRY IS A COMBINATION OF MEDICINE AND ART, AND I LIKE BOTH,” DU SAID. “WHAT I ENJOY MOST IN MY WORK IS THE CONSTANT INTERACTION WITH MY PATIENTS. I MAKE SURE THEY UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF THEIR ORAL HEALTH. IT’S ALSO VERY FULFILLING TO HELP PATIENTS THROUGH CUSTOMIZED TREATMENTS TO IMPROVE THEIR APPEARANCE AND LIFE QUALITY.”

Originally from Toronto, Canada, he earned his dental degree from the University of California in Los Angeles, and has been head of the Norman practice since it opened. “Dentistry is a combination of medicine and art, and I like both,” Du said. “What I enjoy most in my work is the constant interaction with my patients. I make sure they understand the importance of their oral health. It’s also very fulfilling to help patients through customized treatments to improve their appearance and life quality.” Du said he was in his last year of college when he began volunteering for his personal dentist. That led to him to change majors and enroll at UCLA’s dental school. “Through much interaction with (my dentist) and his assistants I gained a lot of personal knowledge and discovered the many ways dentists help individuals, especially the elderly and those with cosmetic dental problems,” Du said. “What I gained from this is invaluable. I love what I’m able to do for my patients.”

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Macy Matheson, general manager, DDS Dentures + Implant SolutionsNorman (Photo supplied)

Our readers may also visit the other DDS Dentures + Implant Solutions location in Cleveland County at 2209 W I -240 Service Road in OKC. Look for a feature on their wonderful practice soon.

The mission of the DDS Dentures + Implant Solutions chain is to provide high-quality care that is affordable. Many people live for years or even decades with the physical pain and cosmetic problems that result from dental problems, because they do not have dental insurance, cannot afford co-pays, or are otherwise unable to pay, Matheson said. In addition to significantly lower rates, the practice provides many payment plan options. For Medicare patients and others with dental insurance, “as a courtesy we verify their insurance information and be sure we’ve looked up all the benefits available, which are then incorporated into the treatment plan we provide,” she added. New patient exams, X-rays and consultations are always free. Dentures begin at $550 for a full set, while dental implants are $995 per tooth. The practice even offers a pricematching option. If a patient brings in an itemized treatment plan from a licensed dentist for identical services, DDS Dentures + Implant Solutions offers a 10% price-beat guarantee. (This program excludes government and charitysubsidized plans.) Matheson noted that many of their patients are people who have gone for years assuming that implants or even dentures were forever out of reach, due to the expense. “Most implants are several thousand dollars per tooth,” she said. “Our patients are typically shocked when they see our prices on implants, compared to other practices. “It’s so rewarding to be part of this team. We know that people’s smiles mean the world to them, and making them smile means the world to us!”

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PAINT THE TOWN PINK CAMPAIGN STRESSES IMPORTANCE OF ANNUAL HEALTH SCREENINGS, PANDEMIC NOTWITHSTANDING

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ALONG WITH DIABETES, OKLAHOMA RANKS AMONG

Barnhart noted that the Paint the Town Pink concept

STATES WITH THE HIGHEST CANCER RATES IN THIS

was created by Lynn Weber, the Foundation’s board chair

COUNTRY. An estimated 20,530 new cancer cases are

at the time, and that the campaign was “created in three

projected to be diagnosed in Oklahoma in 2020. Of those

weeks and rolled out through social media and internally at

diagnoses, approximately 3,130 will be breast cancer—the

Norman Regional. Personalized pink utility flags were sold

most common cancer diagnosed in the United States.

in honor or memory of a loved one who had breast cancer.

To help address this situation locally, the Norman Regional Health Foundation in 2018 launched its Paint the Town Pink campaign as a way of increasing awareness about the importance of mammogram screenings and overall breast health. “The campaign centers around promoting screenings for all types of cancer; stressing the importance of

These flags were displayed at Norman Regional’s three main campuses throughout the month of October.” In 2019, a Paint the Town Pink committee was formed from interested community members and NRHS healers. A comprehensive campaign was established to include corporate partnerships, community outreach and events.

annual checkups; and knowing your risk factors and fam-

“Personalized white flags were added to the pink flag dis-

ily history,” said Erin Barnhart, executive director of the

play so all cancer patients could be honored or memorialized,”

Foundation, which supports the Norman Regional Health

Barnhart said. “Outreach events included Norman’s Friday

System in several ways, including enhancing the patient

Night Art Walk, the Norman Chamber’s Women’s Leadership

experience through medical equipment purchases and

Luncheon and numerous civic presentations. Businesses

healer training and education.

turned Norman pink with light displays and yard signs.

“Due to COVID-19, many people are hesitant to visit

Oklahoma Electric Cooperative and Embassy Suites turned

a health care provider and/or facility,” noted Dr. Namali

a pink hue, as well as the lights over Main Street. A partner-

Pierson, an oncologist associated with Norman Regional

ship with the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art at the University of

Hospital. “With cancer, early detection is the key, and your

Oklahoma was established, and an oversized pink bra was cre-

health care provider wants to begin this journey earlier

ated to adorn the museum’s front lawn by the Botero sculpture.”

rather than later. Oklahoma ranks 40th across the United

More than $16,000 was raised last year from Paint

States in women over the age of 45 who are up-to-date

the Town Pink. Proceeds were used to purchase patient

on their mammogram and we rank 46th in the U.S. for

comforts such as a blanket warmer and lotion (to help

Oklahomans over the age of 50 who are up-to-date with

alleviate skin irritation due to radiation) for NRHS Cancer

their colorectal cancer screenings. Don’t wait; schedule

Management, as well as digital thermometers and vital sign

your health screenings now.”

machines for the Oncology Clinic.

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Co-Chairs Armand McCoy and Dr. Melanie Newcomer; Lynn Weber; and Kaylee Kain, director of communications. Fred Jones Jr. Museum

Deputy Saysha Cornish with vehicle sporting a Paint the Town Pink magnet

Some of the Norman Regional Health Foundation board members and staff showing support of the campaign

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The fundraising goal for the 2020 Paint the Town Pink

THE PERSONAL SIDE

was $20,000 to support cancer patients and oncology

[Editor’s Note: Among our community’s staunchest

related services at Norman Regional Health System. Due

supporters of Norman Regional Health Foundation’s

to COVID-19 events and outreach were canceled; however,

Paint the Town Pink campaign are Steven and Stella

the cities of Norman and Moore publicized the campaign by

Pavick. Their powerful story follows.]

adorning the downtown areas as well as Rotary, Griffin and

Primarily it’s on my wife’s behalf that I am involved with

Brookhaven parks in pink ribbons. Pink lights were placed

this effort. This cause was an easy one for our company

at Legacy Park, OEC, Embassy Suites, Norman Regional

(Minick Materials) to get behind, too. Our co-owner Teresa

Healthplex, Porter and Moore campuses, as well the Fred

Minick had recently passed away from cancer.

Jones Jr. Museum of Art. Norman Parks & Recreation, the

In 2018 my wife, Stella, experienced nothing more than a

Norman and Moore police departments, the Cleveland

pain with immediate swelling in her left breast. Within 24 hours

County Sherriff Department and McClain/Grady County

the pain subsided and the swelling went down. We thought she

EMS participated by adding pink magnets to their vehicles

just pulled a muscle at the gym. After a few months of this reg-

in partnership with landers Auto Group and NRHF.

ular occurrence, an ultrasound was done, eventually an MRI,

On Oct. 20, the Foundation hosted “Pink Out Day,” which

too. The MRI showed a 4” mass. Initially it was NOT thought

encouraged the surrounding communities to wear pink to work,

to be breast cancer because sharp pains and swelling are not

school and play. Also, pink shoelaces, garden flags, T-shirts and

common in early stages of breast cancer. And since she had

special bracelets were sold in support of the campaign.

been getting regular mammograms anyway, this was never the

“We received Paint the Town Pink proclamations from the cities of Norman, Moore and Noble,” Barnhart said, noting that Paint the Town Pink 2020 was dedicated to the memory of long-standing NRHF board of director Randy Laffoon.

first diagnosis. But to be safe, a biopsy was done anyway. The cells were determined to have a cancerous trait! In 2019, Stella made the decision to have a mastectomy. Four lymph nodes were removed. The operation went

Paint the Town Pink donations are accepted throughout

well. Thank the Lord the lymph nodes were later found

the year to support cancer care. Contributions may be made

to be normal and every checkup since has gone well. But

at NRHFoundation.org and noting Cancer Care or Paint

it was during her recovery phase when attending breast

the Town Pink.

cancer survivor meetings that she was introduced to the

To schedule a mammogram, call 307.2290. “This annual screening can potentially save your life. Do not put your health on hold,” Barnhart stressed.

Paint the Town Pink campaign. So, in Stella’s case, her negative results meant she was fortunate enough not to require any chemotherapy. It meant her survival chances were much better than most, too. But

ABOUT THE NORMAN REGIONAL HEALTH FOUNDATION

are not so lucky. The pain they endure with chemotherapy

cational scholarships to those in a health care-related field

and the complications that come with it. Chemotherapy

and funds community health and wellness initiatives. The

is never 100% successful, either. My mother was one of

Foundation is governed by a maximum 30-member board

those diagnosed with cancer but whose chemotherapy was

of directors. The directors are community leaders who are

unsuccessful. She passed back in 2005.

advocates for excellence in healthcare.

With all this in mind, we became involved in this par-

In addition to coordinating the Paint the Town Pink

ticular effort. Not only for Stella’s sake, for what she’s

campaign, the Foundation has annually supported the

been through, but for those who experienced the same

Cancer Resource Center by purchasing bras and pros-

diagnosis, the additional pain and suffering, and for those

theses for mastectomy patients and head coverings for

who are no longer here with us today, professionally and

cancer patients. These items are provided on a compli-

personally. This has been part of our life for some time. It

mentary basis to patients making an appointment through

just became more personal in 2018.

the Cancer Resource Center located at Norman Regional Health System on Porter.

we both realize there are others in a similar situation that

The Norman Regional Health Foundation awards edu-

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With that in mind we will continue to be lifelong supporters of the Paint the Town Pink effort.

Steve and Stella Pavick and staff at Minick Materials supporting the Paint the Town Pink campaign

Co-Chair Armand McCoy and NRHS CEO Richie Splitt showing their pink socks

Dr. Namali Pierson, an oncologist associated with Norman Regional Hospital

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GIVING BACK

Thinking Outside the Box LOCAL ARTS NONPROFITS FINDING WAYS TO COPE WITH DOLLARS LOST DUE TO THE PANDEMIC, BUT THEY NEED YOUR SUPPORT ARTICLE NANCY COGGINS

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The Studio of The Sooner Theatre students perform in rescheduled production of Disney’s Winnie The Pooh KIDS in September 2020. Spotlight Dance Photography

THE HOLIDAY SEASON IS COMING QUICKLY, AND

hit and hotel stays suddenly dropped by 90%, it

FOR MOST OF US, THERE ARE MANY TRADITIONS

crushed NAC’s budget as well. There will likely be no

THAT WON’T LOOK THE SAME THIS YEAR. Due to the

grants in NAC’s budget to support arts organizations

COVID-19 pandemic, many of the holiday events we trea-

this fiscal year. That means that the organizations

sure won’t happen the same way they have in the past.

supported in part by the Norman Arts Council have

The OKC Ballet production of The Nutcracker will be shortened to one act without an intermission and with

been told they should not count on receiving grant money from the organization this year.

socially distanced seating, Lyric Theatre’s A Christmas Carol

Jennifer Baker, producing artistic director of The

will take place outdoors at the historic Harn Homestead,

Sooner Theatre, said, “We saw what was happening with

and many of the concerts and choral events we normally

closures and quarantines in March, and immediately

attend to ring in the season have been canceled.

began thinking of ways we could adapt our programming.

In fact, nonprofit arts organizations across the metro,

We were able to move our performing arts classes online

and beyond, are struggling with how to survive the year

for the last month of the school-year schedule, and our

(or more) it will take for larger group gatherings to be

first session of summer camps were also virtual.”

safe again. Americans for the Arts, a nonprofit advocacy

Jennifer and her team worked tirelessly to make sure

group for the arts, predicts that 12,000 arts organiza-

some in-person summer camps could happen because

tions across the country will not survive the pandemic.

parents reached out for help with their children who

These organizations, who give life to our communi-

were not handling isolation well.

ties, are in danger of closing permanently. This includes

“We had several of our studio parents reach out, beg-

community theatres, art galleries, fairs and festivals,

ging us to have a production camp so their kids could

live music venues and more that make up the fabric of

see their friends and have some sense of normalcy.”

every community. When companies look at moving their

Despite having to move final performances to Zoom

operations in a new location, one of the major drivers

or recorded shows, the theatre was able to offer some-

for decision-making is the quality of life available in the

thing this summer. But, not having the ability to offer a

community. The arts in our community make up a large

full range of summer camps, need for social distancing

portion of the quality of life experienced by our citizens,

and no live shows has cost The Sooner Theatre—due to

providing entertainment and educational opportunities

capacity restrictions and limits on group gatherings, the

for citizens of all ages, abilities and income levels.

theatre has canceled 28 performances and has lost an

The Norman Arts Council recently surveyed the 25 arts organizations it supports, and found that

estimated $275,000 in revenue since March. That doesn’t mean they have given up.

since March, those organizations have lost more than

“We are in rehearsals now for our first community

$670,000 in revenue from canceled programs and

theatre production since this began—and, fingers

events, including the Medieval Fair, Norman Music

crossed—we will be presenting Annie Dec. 11-18 for the

Festival, Jazz in June, Native Crossroads Film Festival,

holidays,” Jennifer said. “The cast is fully masked and

and Summer Breeze Concert Series.

socially distanced during all rehearsals, the theatre is

The Norman Arts Council receives half of its

roomy and therefore has ventilation, and we will offer a

own annual budget dollars from a percentage of

live-stream ticket to the shows, so you can come in-per-

Norman’s hotel/motel tax, so when the pandemic

son, or you can enjoy the show online!

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“WE ARE DETERMINED TO KEEP MOVING FORWARD, UNTIL WE SIMPLY CANNOT. WE WILL CONTINUE TO THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX FOR SOLUTIONS THAT WILL ALLOW US TO MEET OUR MISSION AND BE ABLE TO SURVIVE AS AN ORGANIZATION. WE ARE AFTER ALL, CREATIVES. IF WE CAN’T COME UP WITH A WAY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN, WHO CAN?”

WHAT CAN YOU DO TO HELP? Donate what you would normally spend on tickets to events that aren’t happening. Make an arts-themed advent calendar, where each day is a small gift to a local arts organization. Purchase gift certificates to your favorite art gallery or theatre for stocking stuffers—get creative! Nancy Coggins is the PR and development director for the Sooner Theatre of Norman.

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CELISSE COMPAGNI HAS BEEN A PASTRY CHEF AT BENVENUTI’S FOR 14 YEARS. Her interest in gluten-free baking started a few years ago when she found out several of her friends had dietary restrictions. She wanted to make desserts everyone could enjoy. Pies are one of her favorite desserts to bake because of the classic simplicity. “I have very fond childhood memories of baking pies with my mom for holidays and the county fair,” she says. “I decided to share this pecan pie recipe because it’s a family favorite of ours on Thanksgiving.” It’s a tradition that’s sure to be passed on by Anthony and Celisse Compagni’s daughter Tatiana, who enjoys helping her mother bake.

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OUR TOWN

The Trails Golf Course, designed by Leon Howard, lays along the banks of the South Canadian River.

THE TRAILS GOLF CLUB HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE PERFECT

“I enjoyed watching the kids play in the Junior tournaments,” he

PLACE TO PASS AN AFTERNOON, BUT NOW THAT FUN CAN

shares. “Plus, it is nice to get away from everything in our little oasis

BE A SHARED FAMILY EXPERIENCE.

of a golf course. Exercise is always a benefit, too. During the cooler

Eugene Bertman, his wife, Heather, and their two children,

months, I try and walk the course while we play.”

Joshua, 16, and Audrey,14, are all members of the Trails Golf

To learn more about The Trails and their unique family-friendly

Club—Eugene for six years. While other golf courses may frown

approach, I spoke with Alan Hager, P.G.A., manger and head golf

on junior golfers, his family has found it to be a family-friendly

professional at The Trails.

place with an attentive staff that consistently go out of their way to meet or exceed their needs.

CAN YOU SHARE A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE GOLF CLUB?

The Bertman family has been able to experience many different

The Trails Golf Club is a private golf club that opened in 1982. The

aspects of the club, from golf lessons and recreational golf to the

club takes great pride in offering Norman and surrounding commu-

youth program, Burger Night, and many other special events, includ-

nities a family golf atmosphere and environment, with exceptional

ing a knockout Fourth of July celebration and fall festival.

service to every member, every day. The Trails is a club where mem-

Eugene cherishes the memories created by these shared times at the golf course in Norman.

bers can spend the day—on the golf course, at the pool, and enjoy great food in our grill or enjoy an evening on our deck with their families and fellow members watching the beautiful sunsets.

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THE TRAILS UNDER NEW MANAGEMENT, GOLF CLUB BOASTS FAMILY-FRIENDLY ATMOSPHERE

ARTICLE LINDSEY DAVIES

I UNDERSTAND THE GOLF CLUB CHANGED DIRECTIONS

the opportunity to be involved in the Men’s Golf Association or

SLIGHTLY RECENTLY. COULD YOU DESCRIBE THIS CHANGE,

the Trails Ladies Golf Association, Men’s and Ladies Interclub

AND WHY IT WAS MADE?

and couples’ golf. The Trails offers several golf programs for both

In March of this year, Jim and Kathy Hess retired after 16 years at

experienced juniors and juniors who are just beginning to learn

The Trails. At that time, the majority owners since 2003 Charlie and

the game. Junior golfers can participate in summer golf clinics

Darlene Bowline became the sole owners. As a part of the transition, I

and after-school golf classes, as well as the PGA Jr. League.

(who have served the club as head PGA golf pro for 14 years) was given

Throughout the year, The Trails hosts themed dinner nights and

the additional title of general manager. Additionally, Brittney Wheeler

weekly happy hours, as well as a variety of seasonal activities.

was hired in March as our membership and marketing director. ARE FAMILY MEMBERSHIPS POPULAR? BESIDES THE CHANCE TO PLAY GOLF, WHAT DOES MEMBERSHIP IN THE TRAILS AFFORD?

Family Memberships are very popular. We love seeing families enjoying time together on the course, at the pool, or eating together at The

One of the major benefits of membership at The Trails is the con-

Trails Grill. The Trails recently expanded the Junior Executive member-

venience that a private club provides: the ability to play as much

ship category, and we have seen an increase in young families joining

or as little golf as time allows, to dine, work remotely in our club-

the club. It’s always a pleasure to see kids that grew up at The Trails

house or just hang out with members and friends. Members enjoy

return and join as adults with children of their own.

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OUR TOWN (CONTINUED) Eugene Bertman; daughter Audrey; and son Joshua enjoy some family time together at The Trails Golf Club.

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DO YOU OFFER COMPLIMENTARY VISITS TO THOSE CONSIDERING JOINING? Personalized private tours of the club and golf course are available to those who are interested in membership. Tours may be scheduled by calling Brittney in our membership office at 364.3790. COVID IS ON EVERYONE’S MIND THESE DAYS. WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO KEEP YOUR STAFF AND MEMBERSHIP SAFE? We operate everyday with the safety of our staff and members in mind. Our grill and the surrounding deck allow members to socially distance, whether they choose a table inside to watch football to a great lunch with a view of the golf course. Our members appreciate the comfortable setting we daily provide. At the present time, masks are required inside all buildings and we have multiple hand-sanitizing stations throughout the grill and the Golf Shop. WHO DESIGNED THE GOLF COURSE? CAN YOU OFFER SOME DETAILS AS TO ITS DESIGN AND CHALLENGES? The Trails was designed by Leon Howard—an agronomist responsible for the design of the USGA green complexes, drainage, etc. The Trails lays along the banks of the South Canadian River. The course features a mix of large cottonwood, bald cypress, oak and pistache trees that line beautiful and lush Bermuda grass fairways. Our bentgrass greens provide members subtle undulation and are maintained at a very fun and playable speed for golfers of all levels to enjoy. The golf course is cared for by our Certified Golf Course superintendent Jeremiah Anderson and his turf grass team. ARE YOU OFFERING ANY SPECIALS THIS FALL/WINTER? The Fall/Winter promotion is for half off the initiation fee on all golf memberships from Nov. 1 until Dec. 31. To learn more about the current specials, call Brittney at 364.3790. ARE MEMBERSHIPS, GOLF CLASSES, ETC., AVAILABLE FOR CHRISTMAS GIVING? Memberships start for as low as $225 a month and are a gift the whole family will enjoy. With the 18-hole championship golf course, year-round junior golf programs, and a variety of social activities, there is something for everyone. Private golf lessons also make wonderful gifts and can be purchased individually or in a series of six.

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INSPIRED BY

WALKING THE WALK

A JOURNEY DOWN THE WINDING LIFE PATH OF UNASSUMING SPIRITUAL LEADER FRANCIS CHAN

IMAGINE YOURSELF AS THE LEADER OF A THRIVING MEGACHURCH IN VENTURA COUNTY, CALIFORNIA, WITH MORE THAN 5,000 MEMBERS AND GROWING. You’re a New York Times bestseller making a million dollars in royalties from your first book and people love you—you’re on top of the world. Would you leave that all behind? Better yet, would you trade all of that, giving away 90% of your income to end up living in the poorest region of Hong Kong surrounded by people struggling to make it by on just 50 cents a day? For most, it probably sounds like a tale of riches to rags; an unfortunate and unwanted result of someone falling upon hard times. But for Francis Chan, a church planter and best-selling author who speaks to thousands of people around the world each year, it’s exactly what he did. And exactly what he needed—an opportunity to walk down a winding path that led him toward fulfilling his purpose; toward becoming a

ARTICLE NICOLETTE MARTIN

man who can truly say he lives the life he’s been called to and encouraging others to do the same.

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Watch the full interview @ CityLifestyle.com! Francis, born in San Francisco, was raised in a very traditional Chinese home and navigated a challenging upbringing. His mother died while giving birth to him. His father remarried, then his stepmother died in a car accident when he was 8. His father remarried again, then, when Francis was 12, died of cancer. Twenty-six and newly married, Francis and his wife Lisa founded Cornerstone Community Church in Simi Valley, California in the early 90s, beginning with a membership of 30 people. Within the first two months, the church grew to 100. By 2000, membership grew even more to 1,600. And by 2008, Cornerstone Community Church was one of the largest in Ventura County and Francis’ then-new book “Crazy Love” was a New York Times bestseller. Then, in 2010, Francis decided to leave it behind in pursuit of a more humble and impactful way of life. The $1 million his bestselling book made in the first year, plus the money it continues to make? Francis signed it all over to a charitable gift fund helping the poor and victims of human trafficking. After making the decision to leave Cornerstone and wrestling with what the next step would be, Francis and Lisa ended up selling their Simi Valley house and moving their family of six at the time overseas to India, Thailand and China, where he was able to embrace new interests and activities by doing what the locals do, and where he also saw an inspiring shift in culture and spiritual values. “I wish we could learn and see the sacrifice of others,” he says. “Their mentality really isn’t a consumer mindset of ‘Here’s my needs, here’s what I feel, no one cares about me— me, me, me, me. Overseas they’re just obsessed with each other and thinking about how to get to the poor—the truly poor—like ‘We’re going to starve today,’ or ‘We’re selling off kids today.’ That type of poor. There’s just a lot more urgency.” In the throes of a pandemic, quarrels over U.S. politics, a growing divide among people and beliefs, and the unsurety of life, Francis’ message of focus and fulfillment can be summed up simply: take your eyes off yourself.

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“A l l w e r e a l l y n e e d t o d o is hit that little button that s w i t c h e s i t o f f s e l f i e m o d e .” “It’s so counterintuitive because, physically, if I break my arm, I’m not going to be thinking about anyone else. The only thing that’s going to bring me pleasure is getting this thing fixed. ‘Everyone look at me—my arm is broken; someone fix

he says. “I go, ‘You have no clue. This is like the happiest place on Earth. You’re gonna go nuts!’” Francis says Rachel began to get very sad, asking if they could just go to Paint Pals.

it for me,’” he says. “But...the answer is actually to take your

“She’s working herself into tears,” he laughs. “Like,

eyes off of yourself. People that I’ve found that have spent

you’re crying because I’m about to take you to Disneyland.”

their lives truly loving others are the joyful people. You’ll find very few generous people who are miserable.” Francis, pretending to hold up a phone facing him-

“I feel like we’re just like Rachel when she was 5,” he says, fondly recalling the Paint Pals days. “We’re accustomed to certain things and God has something so much better for us.”

self, goes on to describe how he sees this generation

Nearly six months ago, Francis’ path led him to the

as a generation all about taking selfies; noting that

Sham Shui Po area on the Kowloon side of Hong Kong

you could be in the Grand Canyon or Niagara Falls

with most of his family, including his wife, all but one of

and you’re always in the picture—always the center

his daughters, two sons-in-law and two grandchildren.

of everything.

It’s a place he later found is where his mother also did

“All we really need to do is hit that little button that

ministries in the 1950s, and allows him the continued

switches it off selfie mode,” he says. “And now I can’t

humbling opportunity to live out his journey working with

even see myself.”

the ultra poor to bring relief and sharing his spiritual ful-

Looking toward the future, Francis (non-prophetically, he clarifies, laughing) goes on to recall the story of his oldest daughter, Rachel—one of seven children and two grandchildren, when she was 5 years old.

fillment with others, even while enjoying a pickup game with locals on the neighborhood basketball court. “It’s a pretty bizarre journey to think that, first of all, my wife has stood by my side for 27 years, and it’s just been

“We regularly visited this rundown place in our city

an amazing marriage. Two years ago at our 25-year anni-

called Paint Pals,” he laughs, reminiscently. “There was

versary, she asked me ‘Do you know of anyone on the

this old maze you walked through with only a few walls,

planet that is more blessed than we are? Because I feel

some little ceramic things you could paint and this big

like we’re the happiest people on earth. It’s almost like

bubble machine that was just a hula hoop dipped in

that can’t be true, but I haven’t found anyone happier,’”

bubble solution. There really wasn’t much more to it,

he says. “It’s one thing for me to say because that’s the

but she loved it.”

way I feel, but to hear that from my wife as well and those

“One day I was just like, ‘Honey, this week I’m going to take you to Disneyland!’ And she was like, ‘What’s that?’”

truly to be her sentiments. It just feels like an impossible life all the way around.”

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6-8 MISTLETOE MARKET

Cox Convention Center, OKC

NOVEMBER

LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

This three-day sale has become a tradition for shoppers in Oklahoma

and features vendors with unique gifts, including home decor, women's clothing and accessories, Christmas

decor, food, jewelry, stationery and

more. There will also be live music and cuisine from local restaurants to satisfy your hunger while shopping. Jloc.org/Mistletoe-Market

7 CHRISTMAS VACATION UNDER THE STARS!

Wells Family Christmas Tree Farm

Enjoy

Lampoon's

screening

Christmas

National

Vacation,

a bonfire and food trucks during "Christmas

Vacation

Under

the

Stars" at the Wells Family Christmas Tree Farm, 4091 E. Franklin Road, Norman. Gates open at 4 p.m. and the movie will start at 6:30. Tickets $6, available through EventBrite or see Facebook post.

13 2ND FRIDAY NORMAN ART WALK Norman Art's District

Come visit Norman and ride the CART trolley to art galleries throughout Main Street and downtown. Many participating galleries are located near fantastic local restaurants and clubs, making for an evening of artistic expression as well as food and fun. 2ndFridayNorman.com

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NOVEMBER

THROUGH JAN DOWNTOWN IN DECEMBER Downtown, OKC

Experience the thrill of outdoor ice skat-

Thankful.

ing, exhilarating snow tubing down the nation's largest man-made slope, free water taxi excursions on the magically lit Bricktown Canal, beautifully lit

As a true community bank,

areas and plenty of holiday cheer for

our customers are genuinely like family to us.

the entire family. This family-friendly adventure attracts nearly half a million to the city's 10-block polar playground. DowntownInDecember.com

Our goal is to always exceed expectations, and we stand ready to serve you – however you choose to bank with us.

We are grateful for you.

OKC PHILHARMONIC PRESENTS: THE INNER REALM

from aa of us at

Civic Center Music Hall, OKC

Visit OKC’s Civic Center Music Hall for “The Inner Realm,” performed by Oklahoma City Philharmonic this ’November. This evening performance will include “Cantus Arcticus” by

Rautavaara

and “Symphony

No. 7” by Sibelius. OkcPhil.org/ Concerts-Tickets/20-21-Season

27-28 BLACK FRIDAY CRAFT SHOW

Cleveland County Fairgrounds, Norman

This special two-day event is the perfect place to find one-of-a-kind gifts for everyone on your list. Filled with a mix of 100 vendors offering handcrafted items, you'll find books, quilts, candles, clothing, home decor, treats and more. Parking and admission to the Black Friday Craft Show

FIVE LOCATIONS IN CENTRAL OKLAHOMA

are free. ClevelandCountyFair.org

Norman: Robinson at 36th NW • Main at University Blvd • Lindsey at 12th SE

/31/Craft-Shows

Noble: 805 N Main St. Oklahoma City: 11671 S Western Ave.

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LOCAL’S CHOICE 11-YEAR-OLD SHARES WHAT SHE'S GRATEFUL FOR: CHURCH/GOD, FAMILY, SOONER THEATRE, FRIENDS AND SCHOOL

MADILYN KELLAM IS AN 11-YEAR-OLD SIXTH GRADER FROM NORMAN WHO ENJOYS SINGING, DANCING AND ACTING. She was recently cast as Annie in Sooner Theatre’s Main Stage Production of Annie. Madilyn has been in five feature films—

FEELING THANKFUL

most notably, Run with the Hunted, where she played Young Loux.

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God/Church. When you think about all that God has done for us, you realize how much we have to be thankful for. I mean, he sacrificed his only son for our sins. And church is always a safe place for me to talk about my love and connection with God.

My Family. From my parents to my dogs, they are all so special to me. My parents have given me so many opportunities to further my career as an actor with acting classes, dance classes, voice lessons, shows at Sooner Theatre, and much more!

Sooner Theatre. I’ve been at Sooner for as long as I can remember. The instructors are incredible, and I learn so much.

Friends. My friends are always there for me when I need a good laugh or I need a good cry. We have so much fun and are all so supportive of each other.

School. I’m so grateful I get to have an education. I get to learn so much and my teachers (Regina Bell, Mom and Dad) are all so nice and helpful. I am so thankful to have options when it comes to my education.

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Our Realtors are connected with the fibers of this community — not only do we live,

Thankful for Faith, Family, Friends and Fun.

work and play here, we watch trends

At Prime Realty Inc, we believe

affecting financing and mortgage rates, the

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economics — all of which can affect the

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final price and terms.

we are connected with the fibers

We believe that without integrity, nothing else matters. And for buyers wanting to find their perfect home, to those wishing

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to list their distinguished property we will

perspective to each and every

be honest, dedicated and determined.

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