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MAY 2019 PUBLISHER

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To the Ladies, IN MAY, CLEVELAND COUNTY LIFESTYLE SALUTES THE MANY OUTSTANDING LADIES IN OUR COMMUNITY. The role played by women here, as elsewhere, all too often goes unnoticed and unappreciated. First, I’d like to tip my hat (or would, if I had one!) to all the moms (past, present and to-be). Mothering is one of the

Jacqueline Serrano | jacqueline.serrano@lifestylepubs.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Brooke Barnett, Morgan Day, Jerri Culpepper, Lindsey Davies, Staci Elder Hensley, Lori Johnson, Mark Johnson CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

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toughest jobs in the world. There are no set hours or paid sick days, or indeed, a pay check. Yet, as I think most moms would agree, it’s also one of the most rewarding. (On a personal note, kudos to my niece—and Lifestyle columnist—Lindsey Davies, who is an amazing mom to a sweet, precocious 2-year-old boy.) Next, a shout-out to all the working women out there. In this issue, we highlight our third cadre of “Women of Influence” honorees, this year representing business, civic affairs, the nonprofit sector, education and law. We think you’ll enjoy reading about their many accomplishments and their philosophy on giving back to the community. In this issue, you’ll also hear about a local woman’s recent journey to Israel and the

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intense spiritual connection she felt while traveling through the Holy Land, and hear

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the story of a man who, following the loss of his beloved wife from cancer, launched

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a business to help others cope with grief. You’ll also read about a local artist who

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was selected to illustrate an autobiography for children based on the life of the

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late principal chief of the Cherokee Nation, Wilma Mankiller—and in the process

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underwent a profound personal spiritual experience. Those are just a few highlights of what you’ll find inside this issue. Hope everyone is enjoying the spring weather!

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MAY 2019

FEATURES 22 A Sacred Sojourn Woman’s Passion for Travel Leads Her on a Pilgrimage to Israel

28 Introducing Cleveland County Lifestyle’s 2019 Women of Influence Honorees

36 Fore! Golf a Family Affair

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54 Life in Every Drop Your One-Stop-Shop for Healthy, Convenient Foods and Beverages

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GOOD TIMES 1.

Sister Cities Global Achievement Luncheon Over 200 people attended the Sister Cities Global Achievement Luncheon March 1 at the Petroleum Club. This year's honorees were the Honorable David Walters, Global Vision; Chickasaw Nation, Global Leadership; Vicki Clark Gourley, Global Lifetime Achievement; and Eli Reshef, M.D., Global Humanitarian. SCI's mission is to promote peace through

mutual respect, understanding, and cooperation—one individual, one community at a time.

1. 2019 Sister Cities Global Achievement award winners | 2. Honorary Council - Lloyd Hardin, Councilwoman Meg Salyer, Carolyn Nimmo, Bill Lance | 3. Vicki Gourley and Dick Sias | 4. Jonna Kirschner, CNI; the Honorable Frank Keating, Honorary Chair; Cherokee Nation Gov. Bill Anoatubby; Mary Blankenship Pointer, SCI president | 5. Tom Nix | 6. Sponsor - R.L.Sias

Business After Hours On March 26, Republic Bank & Trust’s location at 119th & S. Western in Oklahoma City hosted a Business After Hours for the Moore and South Oklahoma City Chambers of Commerce. Members from both communities enjoyed the opportunity to share ideas and build relationships. This event has become an early spring tradition that everyone looks forward to attending.

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GOOD TIMES 1.

Bethesda Champions Luncheon Over $30,000 was raised to support the capital campaign of Bethesda at the Second Annual Champions Luncheon March 12 featuring University of Oklahoma head softball coach Patty Gasso. Bethesda's mission is to heal the trauma of childhood sexual abuse through therapy, education and prevention. Learn more at BethesdaOK.org.

1. Coach Patty Gasso addresses attendees, inspiring them to support Bethesda’s mission of supporting the healing of children recovering from trauma. | 2. OU softball program director Jackie Livingston, Coach Gasso and emcee Chris Plank | 3. Philip Hobbs, Stephanie Hobbs, Deshia Powers, Aaron Petrone, Alison Petrone, Travis Gatewood, Brent Hobbs | 4. Mary Sherman and Janet Corley | 5. Lauren Magruder, Melanie Rodriguez, John Miller, Eric Wimer from Oklahoma Copier Solutions | 6. Bethesda director Travis Humphrey, Diane Murphree and Daren Wilson of United Way of Norman

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WINE-TASTING EVENT TO SUPPORT ADULT LITERACY Community Literacy Centers invites readers to two sensational events this May supporting adult literacy. Private Reserve, CLC’s signature wine-tasting gala, offers selected wines paired with a three-course meal, silent/live auctions and unforgettable entertainment. The event will be held Friday, May 3, at The Skirvin, and is chaired by Mary Blankenship Pointer and Jonna Kirschner. On Saturday, May 4, CLC’s more casual tasting event, Wine and Words: Uncorked, offers wine samplings from around the country and hors d'oeuvres from local restaurants. FMI:

Communit yLiteracy.com/events;

Cheryl MacDonald at 524.7323 or Cheryl@ communityliteracy.com.

HEARTBREAK RODEO CELEBRATES ANNIVERSARY Norman band Heartbreak Rodeo celebrated

ORR FAMILY FARM PLANS SPRING FUN

five years together in April. The band played their

This year, the Orr Family Farm is celebrating

first show together at Norman Music Festival in

its 15th anniversary season. Through May 25, the

2014. At first a duo, David Henson and Michael

farm is open Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. All

Bendure played for a year before adding Chris

ages can enjoy unique experiences like petting

Walsh on bass guitar.

and feeding animals in the barnyard, riding the train and bouncing on the giant jumping pillows.

The band has performed more than 150 shows together throughout the state. In June 2018, the

Moms will get into the farm for free on May 11 for

band released their first full-length album, “End of

a Mother’s Day Celebration, and everyone enjoys

Summer,” which was recorded and produced by

a discounted admission price of $8 per person on

Oklahoma guitar legend Terry “Buffalo” Ware. The

May 25 for the Memorial Weekend Special.

album is available on Spotify, iTunes and Amazon.

The Orr Family Farm is an agri-tainment experience created to provide families, groups and school children a glimpse of their heritage, history and good old-fashioned fun. For more information, visit OrrFamilyFarm.com or call 799.3276.

SAVE THE DATE FOR PURSE-ONALITY 2019 Make sure to save the date for this year’s Purse-

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ANNUAL BOOK SALE MOVED TO SPRING The Friends of the Norman Libraries are moving their annual fall book sale to the spring this year, on Friday through Sunday, May 3-5, at Norman Public Library Central, 225 N. Webster Ave. Sale hours are 6-9 p.m. Friday, May 3; 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, May 4; and 1-6 p.m. Sunday, May 5.

onality fundraising luncheon, presented by Full

The event will feature thousands of items in

Circle Adult Day Center. The luncheon is scheduled

many genres, with first editions, signed books, out-

for 11 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 24, at The Railhouse, 102

of-print titles and much more, many priced at 50

W. Eufaula St., Norman.

cents or $1 per item. The main sale takes place in

Guests at this fun event will enjoy a catered

the library’s Lowry Room, while a sale of children’s

meal, including dessert, prepared by Abbey Road

books will be set up in the Children’s Story Time

Catering, complimentary signature cocktail, silent

Room. And Sunday features a “bag sale” with shop-

and live auction, individual gift bags and door prizes.

pers able to fill a bag with books for $5.

Reservations are required. Tickets are $80 and are available by contacting Full Circle at 447.2955.

Proceeds from the sale will go to help the Friends group in its support of library activities throughout the year.

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NORMAN MUSIC INSTITUTE SETS BEATLES CELEBRATION The public is invited to attend Norman Music Institute’s grand opening, slated from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday, May 18. The event will feature a Beatles' "Love Is All You Need" celebration featuring the diversity in music that the Beatles created. The set includes selections that focus on their use of classic strings, high-energy horn and, of course, driving contemporary ensembles. All songs will feature luscious harmonies that were the hallmark of the Beatles' compositions. This presentation is in medley form—nine songs all strung together for a roller coaster ride of emotion. The institute, established in 2007, on March 1

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COPE WITH GRIEF SEMINAR SCHEDULED Facing the loss of someone close to your heart is one of the hardest and most difficult challenges a person might face in their life. Assistance from family members and/or friends sometimes is just not enough for a person to be able to cope with the pain and the grief. There are times where you might find yourself all alone, and it seems to no one can help or understand. To help those facing the loss of a loved one, Roy Slootheer founded Cope with Grief, through which he offers seminars, workshops and other activities to help individuals on the road to healing and recovery. A Cope with Grief seminar is planned for June 15 and 16 in Oklahoma City. Lifestyle readers who sign up for the seminar this month will receive a discount:

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ROYAL BAVARIA'S BEERGARTEN RE-OPENS Beginning May 2, the beergarten at Royal Bavaria re-opens! Each Thursday, Friday and Saturday, the beergarten will feature live music as well as the best authentic German food and brew available in the state. Bands featured this month are: Shawn Proffitt, May 2, Kenneth Rich, May 3, and Route 66, May 4; Hunter Thomas, May 9, Heartbreak Rodeo, May 10, and Wedding, May 11; Redgrass Duo, May 16, Greg Singleton, May 17, and Shawn Proffitt, May 18; Hunter Thomas, May 23, John the Franklin, May 24, and Wedding, May 25; and Tim Bauer, May 30, and Route 66, May 31. Royal Bavaria is located at 3401 S. Sooner Road. For more information, call 799.7666 or visit Royal-Bavaria.com.

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GIVING BACK ARTICLE LINDSEY DAVIES

Pop a Cork! Joe Gil presents Full Circle Adult Day Center representatives with a $50,000 check from the Le Tour de Vin fundraiser.

Rotary Clubs’ Popular Le Tour de Vin Just Around the Corner

POP A CORK, GRAB SOME GREAT FOOD AND SPEND THE EVENING HELPING YOUR COMMUNITY. Le Tour de Vin, a powerful collaboration of the Cross Timbers, Sooner, Norman Noon and Legacy Rotary clubs, puts on this yearly event to raise money for various local organizations. I recently talked with Joe Gil, executive director, about the event’s history and the search for a new organization to help in the future. Rotary, the world’s first service club, is 114 years old, and in Norman, members of the four Rotary clubs number nearly 35,000. Over 200 countries come together to create a global network of businesses and professional leaders that volunteer their time and talents to philanthropic endeavors locally, regionally, nationally and internationally. Le Tour De Vin is a wine-tasting and fundraising event that has been a yearly tradition since 2003, when Cross Timbers Rotary offered a tasting event that included music, silent and live auctions, hors d’oeuvres from Norman restaurants and discussion among a diverse group of wine lovers. This first year was an attempt to raise money for the American Red Cross and other club philanthropies. The event raised nearly $40,000 and left locals clamoring for more. Years 2004-2005 split proceeds equally between the Red Cross and Cross Timbers Rotary.

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2006 and 2007 marked a joint effort between ILSY (now Bridges)

For 2018-19, Le Tour de Vin benefited Full Circle Adult Day Center’s

and Cross Timbers Rotary to help fund the improvements of their

new facility, providing members with a state-of-the-art facility, new

community building and office spaces.

amenities and easy access to the best in support and care.

2008 was the first year that all three Norman Rotary clubs (Cross Timbers, Sooner and Norman) combined their efforts to expand the

LE TOUR DE VIN CURRENTLY IS WORKING ON IDENTIFYING

event, raising money for the Mary Abbott House for the next two years,

THEIR NEXT BENEFICIARY FOR 2020-2021. GOALS FOR THE

which resulted in the completion of their capital building program in 2010. Thunderbird Clubhouse was the recipient of the 2010 and 2011 LTDV, raising $90,000 to complete facility improvements and provide two years of funding to the Clubhouse. 2012 and 2013 had Food and Shelter Inc. as its recipient, helping fund the construction of an apartment complex for temporary housing needs.

PROJECT INCLUDE “ADDRESSING A COMMUNITY NEED THAT IS REFLECTIVE OF THE ROTARY OBJECTIVES OF LITERACY, HUMANITARIANISM, EDUCATION, YOUTH AND HEALTH,” SHARES JOE. THE LTDV 2020 RECIPIENT WILL BE ANNOUNCED IN JUNE.

Over $100,00 was raised in 2014 and 2015 for Center for Children

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and Families Inc. This allowed for the creation of a new children’s ther-

your community for LTDV. This year’s event is scheduled for 6:30

apeutic area, serving youth who have experienced abuse and neglect.

p.m. Saturday, June 22, at the NCED Hotel and Conference Center,

The Legacy Rotary Club joined the other three Norman Rotary

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Clubs for the 2018 Le Tour De Vin. The joint fundraiser benefited

Come hungry, as many local restaurants, including Sweet Basil

The Studio of The Sooner Theatre and funded renovations for a

and Redrock Canyon Grill, will have an incredible selection of food

permanent home for the Studio. This increased their reach in the

for attendees. The event also will feature silent and live auctions fea-

community and helped students who would have otherwise been

turing fine and rare wines, trips, gifts and collectables. And of course,

unable to afford the arts experience.

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REALTY REPORT REALTY REPORT

NEIGHBORHOOD

CLEVELAND COUNTY

ORIGINAL PRICE

SOLD PRICE

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DOM

BDRMS

BATHS

Bookhaven 40, Norman

$749,000

100%

4.1

Arbor Lake 4, Norman

$629,900

$616,000

97%

Montoro Ridge, Norman

$579,415

$562,065

97%

3.1

Wheatland Estates, SW OKC

$575,000

$565,777

98%

3.1

Fountain View, Norman

$565,000

100%

143

3.1

Southern Preserve, SW OKC

$549,900

100%

3.2

Hallbrooke 6, Norman

$445,000

$420,000

94%

3.1

Vintage Creek, Norman

$429,900

$415,000

96%

420

3.1

Montecito Ranch, Norman

$425,000

$410,000

96%

Turtle Lake, SE OKC

$393,000

$383,000

97%

3.1

Valley View, Norman

$389,500

$373,000

95%

Ross, Norman

$375,000

100%

2.1

The Legacy, SW OKC

$375,000

$360,000

96%

2.2

Larshs First, Norman

$360,000

100%

Apple Estates 3, Moore

$349,900

100%

Williamson Farms, SW OKC

$337,900

$332,000

98%

151

2.1

Rio de Bella, SW OKC

$334,115

100%

356

3.1

Williamson Farms, SW OKC

$320,000

$299,000

93%

2.1

Legacy Sec IV, SW OKC

$304,900

$292,000

96%

2.1

The Waters, Moore

$299,840

100%

Williamson Farms, SW OKC

$299,000

$294,500

98%

110

Rock Creek, Moore

$270,000

$269,000

99%

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TRAVEL DESTINATION

A S a c re d Sojourn ARTICLE MORGAN DAY

WOMAN'S PASSION FOR TRAVEL LEADS HER ON A PILGRIMAGE TO ISRAEL

A couple slender copper olive leaves ser ve as a visual r e m i n d e r t o Ju d y Ha tf i e l d o f h e r r e c e n t j o u r n e y t o Israel and the intense spiritual connection she felt while traveling through the Holy Land. The tiny leaves fell from the ancient olive trees of the Garden of Gethsemane, the place Jesus went with his disciples to pray the night before he was crucified.

A PASSION FOR TRAVEL A lifetime of globe-trotting preceded Hatfield’s nearly two-week-long transformative trip to Israel.

Forbidden from plucking leaves from the trees, Hatfield

In fact, Hatfield has stuck pins in the map all over the

gathered what she could find from the heavily picked-

world, and has only two states to check off her U.S. bucket

over leaves on the ground, and combined hers with

list. The voracious traveler spent a month taking in the

those given to her by her travel companion and best

beautiful landscapes of Tuscany; jaunted through Paris a

friend, Crystal Crisp. The leaves are now preserved as

few times; spent a couple weeks in Argentina; cheered

brooches, constructed by local jewelry maker, Paula

for the U.S. teams at the 2000 Summer Olympic Games

Beck, for herself and Crisp.

in Sydney, Australia; navigated the Danube by riverboat

“I thought they were so amazing, just to think they were from the olive trees in the same area where Jesus

from Prague to Budapest; toured the Dachau concentration camp in southern Germany; and the list goes on.

had been during his time on Earth,” Hatfield said. When

Hatfield loves to research in preparation of trips. She

she looks at her keepsake, that’s what comes to mind,

wants to immerse herself in the spirit and culture of each

along with the memory of standing in the jail cell where

destination, so digging deep into history, language and

Jesus was lowered the night before his crucifixion; of

local recommendations is a must. What makes traveling

walking the winding path of the Via Dolorosa, believed

even more fun is Hatfield has a tried and true sidekick in

to be the path that Jesus walked on the way to his cru-

her best friend, Crisp, a resident of Tyler, Texas. The two

cifixion; and countless other memories gathered on a

have been nearly inseparable for 25 years.

trip she’ll never forget.

“We both have a passion for travel and new experi-

Returning from any vacation might mean coming

ences, and we’re both super high energy,” Hatfield said.

home with telltale signs of adventures in the sun, or

“There’s no drama, and we always look on the bright

unpacking a suitcase that’s a little fuller than when you

side, so we’re really easy travelers.”

embarked on the trip. But for Hatfield, she arrived home to Oklahoma City with much more. To put it simply, she was changed.

The two had planned to hike Machu Picchu together for Hatfield’s 70th birthday, but as the date grew closer, an overwhelming desire to see Israel came over Hatfield, CONTINUED >

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First sunrise at Sea of Galilee

Judy Hatfield and Crystal Crisp at Sabbath dinner

Gates of Hell

2000-year-old olive tree in Gethsemane

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and it was settled. In February 2019, the two would

the Jordan River. Hatfield found it difficult to find words

join about 40 others from Crisp’s church, Green Acres

to explain the feeling, but knows she will carry the spe-

Baptist Church, on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land.

cial memory with her forever. Also etched into Hatfield’s memory forever is her visit

JOURNEY THROUGH ISRAEL Their first three days in Israel were spent in a kibbutz, or communal settlement, while they explored the Sea of Galilee.

to Golgotha, the skull-shaped hill in Jerusalem that’s the site of Jesus’ crucifixion, and the Garden Tomb, considered to be the site of Jesus’ burial and resurrection. “That experience of coming out of that tomb and

“That Sunday, we had a service on a fishing boat on

knowing He is risen, indeed, I couldn’t even speak,”

the Sea of Galilee, and if that doesn’t make you think

Hatfield said. “All I could do is cry and know Jesus is

twice about walking where Jesus walked ... I’m getting

here; he died for our sins.”

chills right now talking about it,” Hatfield recalled. “We experienced where Jesus calmed the storm, and Peter

RETURN FROM ISRAEL

walked on the water, and all these wonderful experi-

Hatfield had left the States as a dear friend, Shelley

ences that you could see happening right before your

Pruitt, battled stage four brain cancer, and returned

eyes because you are right where they were.”

home to find she had little time left with Pruitt. Just as Hatfield had tucked those tiny olive leaves away, she

They witnessed the breathtaking blue -

also brought back a smooth cross of olive wood from

ness of the Dead Sea ; made a stop in

Jerusalem with one special recipient in mind.

Qumran, where the Dead Sea Scrolls were found in 11 caves ; visited Masada, the location of the siege by Roman troops

“Shelley’s son told me she kept it in her hand all day and then passed away the next day,” Hatfield said. “They buried her with it in her hand. She was a woman of strong faith, and I know she is now in Heaven with no pain and

that ended in the mass suicide of 960

one of the most optimistic angels there ever was, just like

people ; rested their heads in a kibbutz

she was when she was alive.”

in Jerusalem; stopped in Jericho and saw the tree where Z achariah yelled at Jesus, “Have merc y on me”; and sang as a group inside Church of Saint Anne, which blesses all singers with per fect pitch.

Hatfield feels now, after her trip to Israel, she can be an even bigger supporter to friends, family, and other loved ones, to help them through trying times, and help them find light in darkness. “In coming back to Oklahoma, I see my life changed,” she said. “I’ve always been a very positive person. I try to give more than I take, but now that’s been raised expo-

“We started singing ‘Amazing Grace.’ There was not

nentially. Every day I just want to praise God and try to

a dry eye in the house. All these people started walking

use my gifts to better the Kingdom, of course, but help

into the cathedral looking at us like we were a choral

other people who need my strength, because I’m a pretty

performance, like we were there to sing to them. And we

strong person, a pretty strong Christian. I’m more filled,

were all looking at each other thinking, ‘Can you believe

more at peace, more content. I know where I’m going.

how we sound? This is unbelievable.’”

It’s just that kind of wonderful experience. I really believe

The group also traveled through the desert where

everyone on our trip had that same experience.”

Israelites wandered for 40 years and Jesus was tempted by Satan. “Israel had been experiencing a 10-year drought, but just before we came it rained and rained and rained, and

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The Dead Sea

Pastor David Dykes at Jericho

The Temple of Tears

Judy Hatfield and Crystal Crisp en route to Jericho

Inside cell where Jesus was kept before crucifixion

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Breea Clark OCCUPATION: Norman City Councilwoman BIO: Breea represents Ward 6 on the Norman City Council and on July 2 will become the first Millennial Mayor in the history of the city of Norman. She also works with OU students as director of the JCPenney Leadership Program in the Price College of Business. She is a proud mom of two boys enrolled in Norman Public Schools and married to her high school sweetheart, Kevin. Breea helped to create the Reagan Voice PTA when Reagan Elementary opened in 2012 and was instrumental in reviving the Norman PTA Council in 2013. She has served on several city boards and various task forces with Norman Public Schools. She helped to create the Eastside Business Association in 2016 and is looking forward to becoming a board member on the newly created Community Engagement Committee for the Regional Food Bank of Oklahoma’s Moore Food and Resource Center.

I have always been driven to improve the world around me, and my community leadership in Norman has evolved over time. From PTA Council to City Council, I hope that I have made a difference in our city. I look forward to not only giving back, but in modeling, and hopefully inspiring, service to others.” 28

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Anna Clough OCCUPATION: Assistant Director, Tribal Youth Programs Resource Center, Tribal Law and Policy Institute. BIO: Anna provides training and support for tribal youth prevention, intervention and court-based programs with the Tribal Law and Policy Institute, which is based out of Southern California and has numerous programs that engage with tribal communities across the nation. She also provides support and training to tribal court-based prevention programs in the state and assists with the development of national training opportunities. Her work allows her the opportunity to engage with tribal community leaders and professionals working toward various initiatives to support tribal youth.

I feel it’s important to utilize my skills and education to the benefit of others. …The best part of my job is connecting with community leaders and individuals who are seeking to better their communities and increase opportunities and quality of life for others.”

Aisha Ali OCCUPATION: Owner, King Kopy Printing Solutions BIO: Aisha is a second-generation South-Asian American and owner of King Kopy Printing Solutions, built by her family 30 years ago. Coming from four generations of business owners and three generations of educators; this #bizmom has learned to utilize her 35 years of passion for business with 16 years in education. She brings this unique perspective to Norman's Census 2020 Complete Count Committee, the Chamber Business and Education Committee and the Small Business Council. Previously, she served as city commissioner on the Social and Voluntary Services Commission, president/ board member of Campus Corner Association, officer/board member of Norman PTA Council, and board member of Center and Children and Families.

Every day, I work with my team to be the first to believe in community members' dreams—a new business concept, student/educator projects, community nonprofit vision, or a singular community member with a goal. Giving back through nurturing and supporting the diverse dreams builds a stronger, well-connected and diversely balanced community. The successful business/person ONLY prospers from the gains of those around them, not from their losses.” CONTINUED >

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WOMEN OF INFLUENCE

(CON TI N U ED)

Ashley Adair-Garner OCCUPATION: Real Estate Developer and Broker, Adair & Associates Real Estate BIO: Ashley has lived in Norman all her life. She is the fourth generation in a family business that was started in 1940. She is married to Jared Garner, owner of Garner Insurance. They have been married almost 13 years and have two children, Hayden, 9, and Hadley, 7. She is a founder and executive director of the Downtown Norman Fall Festival. Out of the festival, a second program was born: the Costume Contest. Through this program, free Halloween costumes are provided to children enrolled in Center for Children and Families programs. She also serves on the Downtowners Board of Directors. For the past five years, she has served as vice president of programs for the Norman Chamber of Commerce Executive Board. And, she just finished a term on the Norman Arts Council Board of Directors.

Giving back to our communities is everything. Contributing something, in some way, is so important. When we all give back, we make our communities stronger. Giving back feels good and it is just the right thing to do. I am thankful to have a family who has set that example for me and I hope that my children will follow suit.”

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Erin Barnhart OCCUPATION: Executive Director, Norman Regional Health Foundation BIO: Erin is executive director for the Norman Regional Health Foundation. She works with its board to award grants for medical equipment and materials; provide scholarships for Norman Regional Health System employees; and provide funding for school nurses in Norman Public Schools, as well as other community support. She joined Junior League of Norman in 2003 upon moving here, chairing the Reading is Fundamental program, which involved Saturday morning story time with children living at Food & Shelter for Friends. She also volunteered with the Center for Children and Families’ Holiday Wishes program for many years, and later served as their Mission Advancement director. She currently is active in the Norman Rotary Club.

Whether serving pancakes to students, organizing a black-tie gala or awarding a Guardian Angel to a Norman Regional Health System employee, I believe what makes a thriving community is citizens giving of their time and resources to make our little piece of the world a better place. I hope my service has lifted someone up and some day they are able to pay it forward.”

Karla Marshall OCCUPATION: Executive Director, Quality Services, Moore Norman Technology Center BIO: Karla has worked for the Moore Norman Technology Center for the past 28 years. As executive director for quality, she provides administrative leadership for the district in continuous improvement and accreditation. She serves on the Board of Directors for the Oklahoma Quality Foundation and the South Oklahoma City Chamber, and she is chair of the Integris Southwest Medical board of trustees. She also is a volunteer trainer for the staff of the Regional Food Bank and serves in a teaching role within her church.

We are called to use our time and talents to service others, not for our own benefit, but out of love for those whom we have the privilege to serve. John 4:10 tells us, ‘Each of you should use whatever gifts you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.’” CONTINUED >

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WOMEN OF INFLUENCE

(CON TI N U ED)

Teresa Collado OCCUPATION: Executive Director, The Virtue Center BIO: Teresa has been with The Virtue Center, a nonprofit outpatient treatment center for substance abuse, problem gambling and related mental health issues, for more than 20 years and in the field for almost 30 years. She is a graduate of Leadership Norman Class of 2019, is Norman Rotary Club board member/ president-elect for 2020-21, and was a member of the campaign council for United Way of Norman this past year. Her love of fitness and people led Teresa to be a fitness instructor for the last 24 years at the Cleveland County Family YMCA.

I believe we are only on this earth to help one another and to grow spiritually as human beings. There are no other reasons to be here other than to love, nurture, accept and encourage one another. Miracles happen when I get out of my own way and focus on being of service.â€?

Barbara Ohsfeldt OCCUPATION: Founder and Principal, Community Christian School BIO: Barbara has been an educator for approximately 45 years, She was one of the founders of Community Christian School in 1986 and has served as the administrator of CCS for 33 years. She is a supporter of No Boundaries International, a faith-based organization supporting victims of human trafficking. In 2018, she helped host a CCS Town Hall meeting at which all the gubernatorial candidates were invited to inform the community about important issues. She also has prepared Thanksgiving and Christmas food baskets for families in need.

I believe it is of utmost importance to provide an atmosphere conducive to academic excellence, spiritual growth and personal discipline so that young men and women are prepared to step into the community and become productive citizens.â€? 32

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Karen Rieger OCCUPATION: Director and Shareholder, Crowe & Dunlevy BIO: Karen has been an attorney with Crowe & Dunlevy for more than three decades, where she is a shareholder and director and heads the Healthcare Practice Group. As a mother of three, Karen’s community activities have focused on children’s issues, including service on the boards of the J.D. McCarty Center for Children with Disabilities and the Center for Children and Families Inc. Karen has donated her services to help many charitable Norman organizations obtain their tax-exempt status. A few years ago, she and her husband, Andy, were selected, due to their service to Norman for several decades, as grand marshals for the Main Street Christmas Parade.

Although I am a transplant to Norman and Oklahoma, I have grown to love this community and its many dedicated leaders and advocates. They have inspired me to do my part to help assure our community continues to thrive and serve all of its citizens, particularly the most vulnerable.”

Amy Reeves OCCUPATION: Co-owner, Landmark Fine Homes BIO: Amy is a lifelong resident of Cleveland County. She is married to her high school sweetheart, Dan Reeves; they have three children, Kaitlin, Matt and Mackenzie. She was a teacher, her husband an Oklahoma City police officer; in 2000, they took a leap of faith and left their careers to start their home-building company, Landmark Fine Homes. Amy is the school board vice president for Moore Public Schools, a lifetime member of the Moore Public Schools Foundation and a team captain for the Cleveland County Relay for Life for the past 10-plus years. She served on the Salvation Army of Cleveland County’s Advisory Board. The Reeves, through their company, give back to the community as well. They built the Food and Shelter for Friends’ dining hall and the Judy McKown Children’s Center for the Salvation Army.

Community service and volunteerism is a part of my DNA. I truly love being an active part of my community and helping others. Giving back to the community is something I hope to instill in my children and grandchildren, so they can feel the same love for their community that I do.” CONTINUED >

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WOMEN OF INFLUENCE

(CON TI N U ED)

Mirelsie Velasquez OCCUPATION: Assistant Professor of Educational Studies, University of Oklahoma BIO: As a faculty member, Mirelsie says she is most interested in re-inserting the lives and stories of marginalized communities into our understanding of history. She is a regularly invited speaker on issues of race and education, Latina/o communities, and offers K-12 district-wide professional development workshops for teachers. But more importantly, Mirelsie says, she is most proud of the mentoring relationships she develops with students, in particular Latina/o/x students. She serves as a McNair mentor at OU, and locally works closely with K-12 educators in creating equitable spaces for Latina/o students.

When my students of color are struggling being in predominantly white institutions, I remind them that they come from a genealogy of love and resistance. Love is a tool that you can use to resist, so use it.â€? 34

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Kristy Stewart OCCUPATION: Executive Director, Women's Resource Center BIO: Kristy has dedicated her life to providing services to and advocating for justice for victims of domestic violence, sexual violence and stalking. She began as a volunteer at the Women’s Resource Center in 1984 at the shelter and has been with the Women’s Resource Center since that time. In years past, she was a volunteer with Juvenile Services Inc., now the Center for Children and Families. She currently serves on the board of the Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault and has been a member of the coalition’s Legislative Committee for the past 10 years.

Change occurs when there is involvement individually, locally, regionally and at the state level. My dream is that children will grow up in a society that is nonviolent and treats everyone with respect. I believe the work that we are all doing now will lay the foundation for that future to be built upon.”

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ARTICLE LORI JOHNSON

F O R E !

G O L F, A FA M I LY A F FA I R

The Trails head golf pro Alan Hager knows the value of Junior Golf and wants to spark that interest in kids. TINYMITE'S PHOTOGRAPHY

GOLF IS OFTEN PERCEIVED AS A SINGLE

The influence can go both ways. Zoe enticed her

PLAYER GAME–A LONE PERSON WITH A SET OF

mother back on the fairway. Julie Foster started play-

CLUBS TAKING ON THE CHALLENGES OF THE

ing golf as an adult and left the game when Zoe was

LINKS. But it's far from a solitary sport, particularly

little. Zoe’s love for the game brought her back to golf.

for young golfers. Youth can play on school and

“I leave the coaching to Alan and his staff. My

competitive golf teams or pick up a round of golf with

job as a parent is to encourage Zoe and help cul-

friends. In fact, golf is one of the few sports where

tivate her love for the game,” Julie explains. “I am

people of all ages and levels can play together, mak-

impressed by the confidence golf gives her on and

ing it a great family activity.

off the course,” she adds.

That is how junior golfer Zoe Foster fell in love with the game.

Julie, Zoe and Mimi play golf together often, both at home at The Trail Golf Club and on trips.

“I started playing when I was 4,” Zoe recalls. “My

“When the three of us play together, there are

Mimi (Zoe’s grandmother, Carol Lindblad) would take

always a lot of laughs,” Julie notes. And an edge of

me golfing whenever she would go.” Mimi gave Zoe a

competitiveness, according to Zoe.

few small golf clubs of her own and she was hooked.

“There is a tree in The Trails women’s locker room.

Zoe, now 9, is part of The Trails Golf Club Junior Golf

If you make a birdie on the golf course, you put your

program. The program introduces youth between

name on a paper bird and clip it onto the tree,” Zoe

the ages of 6 to 17 to golf and helps them build their

explains. “We like to see who can make a birdie. It is

game through good practice habits, proper instruc-

fun to be competitive, even with your family.”

tion of the rules of golf and etiquette, in addition to golf skills learned right from the beginning. The program is led by head golf pro Alan Hager, who echos Zoe’s introduction to golf. He began playing when he was 5 to hang out with his parents on the golf course. Hager, a golf professional for

Golf can be a game of life lessons on and off the course, particularly on respect, honesty and patience. It also provides a lifetime of memories and bonding with the family.

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more than 30 years, knows the value of Junior Golf

S H A R E ,” J U LI E N OTE S . “ ZO E WI LL

and wants to spark that interest in today’s kids.

H AV E FO N D M E M O R I E S O F

The Trails Golf Club offers a comprehensive Summer Junior Program and after-school clinic. The Trails also sponsors spring, summer and fall PGA Junior Leagues that participate in team competition with area courses. “It’s never too early to introduce the sport,” Hager says. “I encourage parents to bring the kids to the golf

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ARTIST’S PALETTE

Linda Kukuk: FOLLOWING HER VISION ARTICLE BROOKE BARNETT

AWARD-WINNING

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LINDA KUKUK HAS NEVER HESITATED TO STEP OUT OF HER COMFORT ZONE. The self-taught artist has always had a strong sense of purpose and confidence, both in her professional life and her artistic endeavors. But nothing in her previous experience prepared her for the leap of faith that she would take after receiving an email from Disney-Hyperion. “Disney Books contacted me about illustrating a book written by Doreen Rappaport, the author of a series of books for children,” Linda Linda Kukuk with Choctaw Chief Gary Batton

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explained. “Doreen had written a biography about Wilma Mankiller and specifically wanted an illustrator from Oklahoma.”

Linda Kukuk with Charlie Soap, Wilma Mankiller's widower

The editors at Disney had combed art fairs in Oklahoma, researched Native American artists and eventually found

before I went to bed that night, and also called upon Wilma’s spirit for guidance,” Linda explained.

Linda’s website. Impressed with her artwork, they invited

That night, she had a vivid dream that showed her

her to illustrate the story. “They told me that if I would agree

exactly what the illustration should be—a drawing of

to illustrate the book, the job was mine,” Linda said.

Wilma wrapped in the flag of the Cherokee Nation in front

“I’ve gone out on a limb a couple of times in my life, but

of a beautiful Oklahoma sunset. She sketched the draw-

never as much as this one,” she explained. “I’m so glad that I

ing and submitted it to her editors, who asked her to make

did, or I would have missed out on such a great experience.”

some substantial changes to the illustration. Feeling that

Linda specializes in scratchboard art, but this new

it was not in line with the vision, Linda held firm and asked

assignment would be done exclusively in watercolor. “It

for the illustration to remain as she envisioned. Her editors

was very different than most of my commissions. I’ve

agreed, and the illustration went into the book.

always worked at my own pace and chosen my own work.

After the book was published, the editors from Disney

For this assignment, I had to submit my ideas as sketches in

shared it with Wilma Mankiller’s family. Upon seeing the

advance. I don’t usually do detailed pencil sketches before

final illustration, Wilma’s son shared that he had seen

I create,” Linda said. She found herself drawing inspiration

the exact same image in a dream about his mother. “I

from her many similarities with Chief Mankiller, as both

feel like Wilma’s spirit guided my hand, and I am so glad

women grew up in rural Oklahoma during the same era.

that I followed my heart,” Linda adds. “I’m so proud of

While the ideas for most of the pages came easily and

this book, and I feel like Wilma helped me along the way.”

naturally, the assignment was not without challenges.

Wilma’s Way Home: The Life of Wilma Mankiller was

First, there were very few photos of Wilma Mankiller as

published in February 2019 to much critical and reader

a girl or a teenager, so Linda had to use her creative tal-

acclaim. Linda is a participating artist at the Red Earth

ents to imagine what Wilma looked like in her younger

Arts Festival in downtown Oklahoma City and the

years. Also, Linda was struggling with ideas for the last

Cherokee Art Market in Tulsa. The Choctaw Nation’s

page of the book, which she felt needed to be special.

Healthcare Center’s clinics in Durant and Talihina and

“The deadline was approaching, and I was still look-

their new headquarters building in Durant also feature

ing for ideas. So, I decided to call upon my faith and my

her work. Linda is represented by Howell Gallery in

Native American beliefs for inspiration. I said a prayer

Nichols Hills. Learn more at LindaKukuk.com.

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FINANCIAL BUZZ

ARTICLE MARK JOHNSON

MORE WOMEN HAVE BECOME ECONOMIC FORCES WITH THE MODERN WORKPLACE. All of those college degrees women are earning these days and the evolution of the family structure, along with the fact that women live longer than men, have all led to a rise in women being the primary person responsible for planning and maintaining their financial future. Mothers alone contribute almost $1 million to the U.S. economy, according to data from the U.S. Census Bureau’s 2015 survey. Further, the Senate’s Joint Economic Committee reports that women provide nearly 40 percent of the household earnings for families with working mothers. Women have become a major economic force, changing the modern workforce and making up 47% of all workers. Today, 70% of mothers with children under the age of 18 are working–up from 47% in 1975, says the Bureau of Labor Statistics. This increase of women in the workplace has fueled U.S. economic growth. The economy is 13.5% bigger than it would have been if women hadn’t increased the time they spent working for pay since the 1970s, translating to an additional $2 trillion in gross domestic product, according to the 2016 Economic Report of the President. What’s more, a study from the McKinsey Global Institute found that $12 trillion could be added to the global GDP, the value of all the goods and services produced in a country, by 2025 by advancing women’s equality in our society and the workplace. Many of these breadwinner women are leading their family’s financial futures. In a recent study by Allianz Life, 53% of women said they are responsible for managing their household’s long-term savings and investments. Further, 67% of women reported that becoming more knowledgeable and involved in managing their finances made a difference in their quality of life. WOMEN AND FINANCIAL PLANNING. Successful businesswoman, entrepreneur, artist, mother, wife, men-

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tor, leader, community activist: Whether for their education, career or family, women probably had a plan to help them reach their goals. Most women have, or will, face unique financial challenges. These challenges make proactive planning and investing all the more important. FINANCIAL CONCERNS FOR WOMEN. + Women have longer life expectancy–an average of 4.9 years longer than men, which brings with it many opportunities as well as challenges–such as making sure your money lasts for all you want to do. + Women have higher health care costs. Long lifespans can lead to increased health care costs for women, as well as unintended

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stress on loved ones you provide care–which makes prudent planning even more critical. + Women often have to work harder at work-life balance. Nurturing your family as well as your career can lead to interruptions in your earnings arc–highlighting the need for more focus around saving and investing.

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+ Women still face a wage gap. The pay gap is closing, but still exist. Women earn 79 cents for every dollar men earn, so they are likely to accumulate less wealth over their careers– emphasizing the need for a plan to maximize your worth. + Many women face handling their finances alone. In

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their later years, 80% of women will be single, resulting in increased financial responsibility and the stresses that come with it–and a need to manage your funds independently. + Unfortunately, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. This causes women to have to face a life they never envisioned, one filled with new paths to take and fresh opportunities for growth. But, before they begin that, there are a few things for them to consider… + Establishing accounts in their own name + Developing a new budget and cash reserves + Re-assessing insurance needs + Continuing to save toward retirement + Updating beneficiary designations and estate planning documents WORKING WITH AN ADVISOR. When it comes to financial planning, there's only one person who matters; YOU. This is your life, your goals, your dreams. It’s not just about saving for retirement or paying for a

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child’s education. It’s about having the resources and the time to accomplish your goals, and still enjoy life’s great moments. By working with a trusted financial advisor, you can access the resources and support women need to develop a personalized plan–to prepare for all that life has to offer. Mark Johnson is a financial advisor with Heartland Wealth Management, 3351 W Rock Creek Road, Suite 130, Norman. He can be contacted at 561.7051 or Mark.Johnson@heartlandwm.com.

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COFFEE LOVERS, TAKE NOTE! If you need to lose a few pounds and you’re a java junkie, there’s a new product that can help. It’s called SlimROAST Optimum, and people around the globe are successfully using it to shed unwanted pounds and boost their overall health. It’s manufactured in the United States and shipped around the world by Valentus, a South Dakota-based firm that offers a variety of health-promoting refreshments.

Sample Sticks of Slimroast Optimum Coffee

Mia McCurdy, R.N., is a leading Valentus distributor based out of Norman. She’s been selling the products for approximately two years and has seen great results for herself and for her clients. The nutrient-dense Optimum coffee, which debuted in May 2018, has been an instant hit and is now her largest seller. Even if you’re not trying to lose weight, there are multiple factors that make Optimum coffee a healthy drink, McCurdy said. First, it’s much less acidic. The average coffee registers a 5.0 pH level; Optimum is much more alkaline, at 7.5 percent. That makes it easier on the stomach and digestive tract. Optimum also has a thermogenesis effect, meaning it dissolves the deeper layers of fat around the internal organs. It’s this type of “entrenched” fat that’s the most dangerous, since it causes inflammation that can lead to heart disease, organ damage and other major health problems. Also, all Valentus products, including Optimum, are free of gluten, GMO, pesticides and chemicals. McCurdy said that the coffee also has a positive neurological impact. “You can feel the lift in your mood and energy level about 15 minutes after you drink it,” she said. “It improves your nitric oxide level, which increases oxygen delivery to your organs. It’s great for before workouts because of that. Optimum basically gives your brain the same boost as sugar. Ever since I’ve been using it I am craving healthier items, like fruits and vegetables, and junk food has lost most of its appeal.” Optimum is available in standard, Italian and Brazilian varieties. Since its debut, McCurdy said sales have skyrocketed locally and nationally. One of her clients reported a 70-pound weight loss; another couple lost nearly 200 pounds combined. Other customers are dropping weight rapidly, and McCurdy said she’s personally lost 27 pounds. 46

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Valentus top distributor and earner John Haremza with Mia McCurdy at the company's national convention in Las Vegas.

“Being a nurse of 23 years, it’s really important to me that the products are safe and that there’s 100 percent integrity in how they’re manufactured,” McCurdy said. “I personally believe that food today is lacking in trace minerals and nutrients, and because of this lack we’re getting sicker as a society. This is my solution.” McCurdy offers a $20, six-day sample packet through her Facebook page, Rejuvenate Your Health. The average cost runs $66 (including shipping) for a packet of 30 servings. The company’s recommendation is to drink one cup a day, six days a week, although some people drink an extra cup in the evenings. From an economic standpoint, “It’s quite a good deal, especially if you were spending $3 to $4 a day at Starbucks,” McCurdy said. Along with coffee, Valentus offers a full line of drinks, including an immunity-enhancing antioxidant, energy boosters, a nutrient absorption supplement, detoxifying formulas, a KETO creamer, and several non-coffee appetite suppressants and weight loss boosters. There’s even a special Prevail K-9 formula, to give your dog a boost. More about Optimum coffee and Valentus products in general is available on McCurdy’s Facebook page, at Optimum.Coffee or by contacting McCurdy directly at 694.5414. May 2019 | Cleveland County Lifestyle

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Soulmate’s Death Leads Man on Mission to Help O thers Deal With Grief

WHEN ROY SLOOTHEER’S WIFE, BECKY, WHOM HE MARRIED IN 1999, WAS DIAGNOSED WITH STAGE IV CANCER IN JULY 2012, HE TOOK CARE OF HER “HEART AND SOUL.” At the time, he was an ER nurse and paramedic specialist with a local hospital and had just started the Family Nurse Practitioner program. In cooperation with her oncologist, a natural and dietary approach was established, and he placed himself in charge of her treatment plan, which included some progressive treatment options. Unfortunately, not all members of Becky’s family agreed with the couple’s collaborative approach, and ties with them were eventually severed. “After Becky’s passing on Sept. 2, 2013, I was confronted with the lack of support for those who are grieving,” Roy recalls. “There were some self-help groups that would meet monthly, but my needs as a single parent with smaller kids was different than that of a 93-year-old who lost his wife was after 60 years of marriage. 48

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