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MAY 2021 PUBLISHER

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Applauding Women

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NOT JUST ON MOTHER’S DAY, BUT EVERY DAY IS A GREAT DAY TO CEL-

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EBRATE THE AMAZING WOMEN IN OUR LIVES. In each May issue, Clayton

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Lifestyle celebrates the achievements, courage, talents and resilience of the women

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in our community. This year’s Women’s Issue pays special tribute to some of the

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County’s female “essential workers,” who share their thoughts and experiences in

Julie Brown Patton, Kara Savio, Kathleen Kaiser, Victoria Babu, Kristin Heggli

coping with this long pandemic on pages 10 - 15.

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As Judy Garland said, “Always be a first-rate version of yourself instead of a sec-

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ond-rate version of somebody else.” The women we’ve highlighted are a true illustration of this, including a woman family attorney, a life long educator and successful entrepreneurs whose stories are both inspiring and encouraging. These remarkable role models remind us just how awesome women are. Let’s always recognize that in each other and truly honor our incredible sister, remarkable girlfriend or co-worker, and of course, our amazing moms. Happy Spring everybody!

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MAY 2021

FEATURES 10 Indispensable Women Saluting COVID-19 Frontline Heroes

18 Family Attorney Juggling Family Law Matters, Motherhood And Self-Care Requires Finding Gratitude In Everyday Life

26 Suzie Nall Lifelong Educator Helps Students And Teachers Develop Successful Dispositions, Mindsets And Actions

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30 Gaining Back Quality Of Life A Second Chance At Hearing The World

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AROUND TOWN “Throughout this difficult year, the support of the board, our tireless staff, and our patrons has been steadfast, for which we are deeply grateful. We've loved performing for you digitally, but there's something special in the experience of live music that cannot be replicated. We're looking forward to giving back in the way we best know how: through performing to you all, live, on stage at Powell Hall,” relayed Jonathan Chu and Jennifer Nitchman, SLSO Musicians’ Council co-chairs.

THANKS TO LADUE COUPLE, WEBSTER UNIVERSITY LAUNCHES FIRST-TIME HONORS COLLEGE Ladue residents, Marianne and Peter Gleich, donated $1 million to establish a first-time Honors College at Webster University, making it one of the largest gifts received by the university during the past decade. The Gleichs are longtime supporters of Webster University. Marianne, an alumna with a degree in French, has been a donor for four decades. In 2019, the Gleichs were recipients of Webster University’s Visionary Award for their long-standing, visionary dedication to Webster and its students and commitment to scholarships and study abroad opportunities.

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to stream, are available for $15 each. To purchase

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found at LafayetteSquare.org/HouseTours. Each ticket includes one raffle ticket. Virtual Tours: House tour link only includes unlimited viewing from 8 a.m. May 29 to 5 p.m. May 31. Ticket price also is $10. On-ground events on May 29 will occur from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Park tours, carriage rides, APA puppies will be in the park. The neighborhood will feature booths, music, pop-up attractions, food and beverage from Lafayette Square businesses, showcasing the friendly proprietors and their offerings that make the Square a great place to live and visit. The online auction is free to participate on the group's website during May 29-31. For questions, email housetour@lafayettesquare.org.

STÉPHANE DENÈVE NOW WILL SERVE AS MUSIC DIRECTOR OF THE ST. LOUIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA THROUGH 2025/2026 SEASON St. Louis Symphony Orchestra representatives extended by four years Stéphane Denève’s contract as the group’s music director. The new contract runs through the end of the SLSO’s 2025/2026 season. His initial three-year contract began with the 2019/2020 season, following one season as music director designate. His long partnership with the SLSO began in 2003, when he led the SLSO for the first of many engagements as a guest conductor. Stéphane says St. Louis is his musical home. “I am truly over the moon to deepen my relationship with this wonderful community in the years to come. Since 2003, I have felt such a special connection to

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this city, and to the fantastic musicians and staff of the SLSO. I look forward with great enthusiasm to making music—to inspire, to comfort, to challenge, to bring joy—and continuing to develop together with the SLSO, who are not only among the world’s most outstanding musicians, but also generous,

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warmhearted, and passionate individuals. As we look toward a post-pandemic future together, I am fully committed to listening to and growing with our community. I very much hope to make the SLSO even more diverse, inclusive, and accessible to our local and international audiences and supporters.”

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NO DOUBT THE WORD ES·SEN·TIAL ASSUMED RENEWED MEANING DURING 2020. In the broadest terms, that word means “absolutely necessary; extremely important.” Given human nature is to feel important to family, friends and neighborhoods, prior to 2020 everyone might’ve considered themselves ‘necessary’ to how everyday life manifested. However, as the coronavirus pandemic prompted an unprecedented U.S. shutdown, many people discovered just how essential they were to keeping their immediate communities alive. It was a year of reminders that nothing happens in a vacuum. Missouri guidelines eventually categorized essential employee areas as: healthcare workers; caregivers; law enforcers; firefighters; first responders; government operators; mental health/social service workers; pharmacy employees; workers supporting groceries, pharmacies and retail sales of food/beverage products; restaurant carryout/quick-serve food operators; food deliverers; farmworkers; electricity/utility industry employees; mechanics, construction workers, electricians, plumbers; medical supply CONTINUED >

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HOMETOWN HERO (CONTINUED) chains; food producers; petroleum/natural/propane gas workers; transportation/logistics workers; communications and information technology employees. Health workers, including nursing assistants, phlebotomists, home health aides, housekeepers, medical assistants and cooks, seemed like a category in themselves. This feature’s intent is to share gratitude to ALL who risked their lives to sustain the rest of us during this long pandemic, especially anyone who’s feeling overlooked and deprioritized, even expendable. The following community residents are representative of all essential employees with lived realities about coronavirus survival. Clayton Mayor Michelle Harris says as the pandemic became an extended reality, many residents contacted her for guidance and requests to advocate for safe practices. “I realized how much any community looks to their elected leaders as an example of what to do, and I take that part of my job a bit more seriously now.” She says she wishes we’d known the importance of focusing on masks much earlier, because it proved to be effective in containing the spread of the virus. However, she says taking steps to ensure city staff and residents were educated and observing health guidelines gave her a sense of ‘doing something’ to combat this pandemic.

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“My favorite [pandemic recollection] was to see residents lining streets and shouting gratitude for first responders, police and firefighters, as they drove through neighborhoods. One of the best outcomes was to see more people out walking, exercising and using outdoor spaces for gatherings,” says the mayor. “It’s a good feeling to see families out together or neighbors socializing on front lawns.” While a number of local projects were put on hold, Michelle says she’s proud of the way the community organized to fight the pandemic. “Clayton is just one of many municipalities in the region, and it was a terrific experience to work with so many talented mayors toward a common cause. Just one example was the Mayors for Meals food drive last year, which we’re repeating this May. About 25 cities came together, with so much food donated, the National Guard had to deliver it.” Cpl. Jenny Schwartz, Clayton Police Department community services/public information officer, says they worked hand-in-hand with city staffers, medical employees and regional first responders to adapt daily operations and call responses to ensure they were limiting exposure while still providing the service level expected. Jenny says the most significant change for local, community-focused officers was reduced opportunities for organic engagement with each other, residents and business owners. “However, we found new ways to maintain relationships through planning parades, hosting meetings and citizens academy sessions online,” she proclaims. This past year highlighted the dedication and resiliency of regional first responders, she assures. “Our community’s support was on full display throughout the past year,” Jenny says. “The School District of Clayton opened Wydown Middle School as a temporary substation, including signs of encouragement and treats. Residents continue to overwhelm us with thanks and willingness to help. They’ve stood outside their homes to wave as officers drive past. They’ve donated food and supplies to our officers, and helped with multiple food/school supply drives.” She believes we’re all still mentally, emotionally and physically processing challenges of this past year. “We’re in the midst of an historical event and we continue to adapt our responses as appropriate,” she adds. Teresa Pafford, Clayton city forester, remembers frequently telling friends and family how eerily quiet and calm it was in Clayton those first few weeks during the shutdown. To cope, Teresa says she kept a daily routine similar to her normal work schedule. “I wanted to be ready for when we were allowed to return to 40-hour work schedules, so I made lists of what I wanted to accomplish. I also had weekly Zoom gatherings with friends, started journaling, and cooked...a lot!” she recalls. At the pandemic’s beginning, Teresa says there were definitely moments in which she wondered if her duties and presence at work were really essential or necessary. But she soon noticed the significant increase in people “taking to the outdoors” for reprieve, which made her realize their city services were visible and truly important for residents. “I think the pandemic helped me become a better problem solver as well,” she adds. “I also really enjoyed seeing all the yard signs and sidewalk art thanking essential workers.” “I wish non-healthcare personnel would’ve understood that not knowing all the [coronavirus] answers doesn’t mean medical professionals and scientists are CONTINUED >

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ignorant or unable to protect us. It just means they have to look at facts and make the most informed choices possible. That’s a very heavy burden for health care professionals and scientists to carry,” says Tess Main, RN, BSN, SSM Health St. Mary’s Hospital Infection Prevention. Tess says the pandemic made her proud of the hospital, being a nurse, and how department personnel pulled together. “Sometimes it feels surreal to think a virus could shut down the world. And yet, here I am on the other side of it, still thinking of those lives we lost and thankful for the vaccine that will save so many lives.” In thinking about quarantining, Dierbergs’ Missy Lapinski remembers wishing for a little more isolation. “There was never a time during the pandemic I wasn’t surrounded by people, at least during working hours. When I was home, I just wanted the quiet that others experienced. Being a working mom during a pandemic and virtual learning, I craved quiet time for myself to read or just be.” Missy says she’s proud of all fellow grocery store workers. “This was, perhaps, the most difficult thing our industry as a whole has gone through. We made it through with grace, good humor and dignity.” She says she’s also proud of the part she played in history. “It definitely wasn’t an easy time, but I feel like the public has a greater appreciation for those of us in the grocery industry.” Jackie Williams-Olson, Clayton building inspector, says the pandemic prompted virtual inspections and new protocols that actually sped up their overall processes. “Contractors and homeowners were grateful we found new ways and apps to keep projects progressing. It went way more smoothly than we thought it would.” She says team members quickly shared tips and became more tech savvy. “It’s exciting that we set some new inspection standards that we may keep.” Clayton Fire Department Battalion Chief Diann Straatmann says they frequently worried about the number of people who waited too long to call for 911 services out of being apprehensive to seek needed medical care. She says she’s blessed to be an outdoors enthusiast who has property she could still enjoy as a way to cope. Diann says the department’s training for fires, rescues, natural disasters and medical emergencies served them well during the pandemic. “We’ve dealt with several viruses throughout my career, such as SARS and H1N1 (Swine flu), along with annual influenza season. Even with all the planning, supplies quickly became difficult to find, which was complicated with so much information being unavailable even though coronaviruses have been around for decades.” She encourages others to realize the importance of being prepared, even for minor events, by having two to three weeks of home supplies already secured. Katie Bernsen, BSN, RN, SSM Health ICU nurse manager, shares she’s in awe at how nursing came together during this pandemic. “It was like a warzone at times. To see the ICU staff move from fear and panic into action, and eventual recovery, has been remarkable. No one truly understands what we’ve been through except our peers. Just by encouraging each other, letting tears flow and reminders to just be kind--as we all deal with trauma differently--helped us each heal and grow.” She wishes others understood how hard nurses were emotionally impacted by the pandemic. “We’ve witnessed so much death and pain, nurses are forever changed. We’re experiencing an immense amount of fatigue and burnout related to trauma of the past year.

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Being witness to so much death, as well as providing the emotional and spiritual support to patients when their families couldn’t be here, really took its toll and has lasting effects.” During the pandemic’s peak, like many fellow nurses, Katie neglected self-care and went into survival mode: work, sleep, repeat. “We quickly realized we weren’t even eating or drinking at work because of the amount of personal protective equipment we were putting on and off. After work, we just collapsed in exhaustion,” says the nurse who ended up getting sick with COVID-19 herself, forcing her to take a month off from work. “It was then I realized how little I’d dealt with the emotions of the events. Once recovered, I made sure I spent time outdoors, exercising and unwinding,” she adds. Outpouring of support was overwhelming. Katie says, “A group surprised me with a ‘love bomb.’ I came home from work to a yard full of encouraging signs and balloons. They also collected money to provide my family with dinners so I didn’t have to worry about that after long hours at the hospital. The meals continued for months, and were an incredible testament to the support and appreciation many people had for the work I was doing.”

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BALANCING CHILD-REARING AND CAREERS OFTEN PRESENTS ONGOING CHALLENGES FOR WORKING PARENTS. One local, family law attorney navigates that maze daily--as a mother of two, partner at St. Louis-based

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appreciation. I liked it so much I bought multiple copies to

people through life’s major changes.

give to friends and family,” she adds.

Tonya Page says everyone knows about ‘Mom Guilt.’

She confirms the COVID-19 pandemic affected family law

“I definitely have it, especially when I’m extra busy or

aspects, such as delaying pending cases and creating court

working late. If I have a big trial, I schedule time off after it

backlogs. “There’ve been some positive changes, including

for a family vacation or just spending time together. My firm

transitioning conferences and motion hearings from in-per-

is close to my kids’ school intentionally, so I take them to

son to phone conferences or Zoom. Although I still prefer

school most days and attend their special events,” she says.

in-person for actual trials and mediation, using video con-

Tonya practices exclusively in Missouri family law and

ferencing has saved time and is cost-effective,” she says.

domestic relations. She handles every aspect of family law

She says many people contemplating divorce at initial

matters, including adoptions, pre- and post-nuptial agree-

stages of the pandemic were afraid of unknowns. “There was

ments, annulments, protection orders, divorces, modifica-

an increase in calls, but a decrease in new cases from April to

tions, enforcement and contempt, mediation, child custody,

July. In August and September, there was a surge of new cli-

child support, paternity actions and grandparents’ rights.

ents who were ready to proceed. Job loss, uncertainty, work-

To keep heart-rending elements she deals with pro-

ing from home and home-schooling children added stress

fessionally from impacting her own moods, emotions or

for many families, especially those who were already in crisis

family life, Tonya says she exercises to clear her mind.

or contemplating divorce before the pandemic.”

“Family law is a highly emotional area, so it can be dif-

Unfortunately, she says there was an increase during

ficult to ‘shut off’ because I’m constantly thinking about

the pandemic in child/spouse abuse, as well as substance

clients and cases, especially custody matters or abuse

abuse. She says she provides referrals for counselors

cases. This aspect is always a work-in-progress. When

or other medical professionals, as well as filing Orders

it’s taking a toll on me emotionally, I implement new ways

of Protection. St. Louis County, and some surrounding

to deal with the stress,” she explains.

counties, changed procedures to allow victims of abuse

“One of my 2021 resolutions was to take more self-care time. I just finished the book Finding Gratitude, which was

to electronically file petitions for protection, which helped streamline the process.

CONTINUED >

JUGGLING FAMILY LAW MATTERS, MOTHERHOOD AND SELF-CARE REQUIRES FINDING GRATITUDE IN EVERYDAY LIFE ARTICLE JULIE BROWN PATTON | PHOTOGRAPHY CAROL GREEN THE GRACEFUL LENS

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the

courtroom,

Tonya

Her hobbies include boating, water-

enjoys volunteering as a Big Brothers

sports,

Big Sisters of Eastern Missouri mentor.

warmer locations during winters, and

wake

surfing,

traveling

She presents lectures on family law

going to concerts.

and has served as a Missouri High

To observe Mother’s Day, Tonya usually

School Mock Trial Competition judge.

hosts a brunch at her house. “One of my

She was named a Super Lawyer and

favorite Mother’s Day memories was when

on the list of Best Lawyers multiple

my mom, grandma, sister and I stayed at a

years in a row.

hotel for a girls’ spa weekend,” she recalls.

“The only other career I ever con-

Tonya says she hopes everyone can take

templated was being a country singer,”

time to show mothers in their lives how

she reveals. “Although I still like country

much they’re appreciated. “Husbands/

music and all music, my skills are kara-

fathers, definitely do something special for

oke-worthy at best, so it’s definitely a

your wives, or mothers of your children, or

good thing I pursued law instead.”

they might be calling me,” she quips.

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V I C T O R I A' S B O O K C L U B

ARTICLE VICTORIA BABU

St. Charles County author Valerie Battle Kienzle

Washington University fashion design judging, 1944

By the 20th century, St. Louis was the fourth largest city in the

Decades after the city established itself as

country and Washington Avenue downtown was known as Shoe

a leader in shoes and clothing, Valerie says

Street USA. Valerie explains, “High-end New York buyers flocked to

she was surprised to learn how St. Louis

the city twice a year to order dresses and footwear. On Washington

played a role in the junior dress market from

Avenue--I’ve talked to a few people that worked down there at the

the 1930s to the 1960s, thanks in part to the

time who said, literally, you could hear the sound of machines, with

fashion design department at Washington

crowds of people on the streets and in warehouses, windows were

University and a man named Irving L.

open and it was alive and electric with activity.”

Sorger, who worked at the now shuttered

The St. Charles County writer’s interest in fashion, and specifically

Kline’s Department store. “He saw some of

footwear, hits close to home. Valerie’s husband, Mike, operates a local

the designs these young students had put

factory making safety boots for construction workers. “He’s third

together and used their patterns. He was just

generation,” Valerie explains, “with ties going back to International

wowed by them.”

Shoe Company downtown, which is now the City Museum.”

Valerie also includes current fashion inno-

The writer’s research also reveals the less glamorous side of

vators in this colorful, historical narrative.

bringing these products to market. Long before unions were formed,

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immigrants coming from Germany and Ireland, including chil-

following Saint Louis Fashion Foundation web-

dren, were hired to do much of the labor with very low wages and

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poor working conditions.

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INSPIRED BY LIFELONG EDUCATOR HELPS STUDENTS AND TEACHERS DEVELOP SUCCESSFUL DISPOSITIONS, MINDSETS AND ACTIONS

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NALL CHILDREN’S ADVOCATE AND LADUE RESIDENT SUZIE NALL IS QUICK TO SHARE CONVINCING POINTS ABOUT THE VALUE RECEIVED BY COMMUNITIES FROM YOUTH-RELATED VOLUNTEERS AND MENTORS. After all, she spent the past 40 years supporting teachers to help youths reach their human potential. Now in her self-professed “personal renaissance” lifestage as a retired Southern Illinois University Edwardsville professor and Early Childhood Education program director, she’s still on a mission of demonstrating how each person can make a lasting difference in the lives of others. Suzie has a busy tutoring schedule. “I’m lucky to have an encore career,” says the international consultant. “I’ve observed how the strength of our community, to a large extent, is based on volunteerism that empowers individuals and enhances agencies and organizations. The future of volunteerism, and the livelihood of our community, rests in our ability to engage youth at multiple levels in the process of volunteerism,” she says. ARTICLE JULIE BROWN PATTON 26

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who Author, lecturer, researcher, early education consultant, mother/grandmother, community volunteer for nonprofits.

honors Women of Achievement, Women of Worth, American Graduate Champion, Love of Children Award recipient from University City Children’s Center.

why mentor? 'It's a responsibility and privilege to mentor individuals through guidance, support, information and camaraderie. Through relationships, both mentors and mentees grow professionally and personally.'

She also serves on the board of directors of Ready Readers, SIUE Foundation Board, Metro Theatre, Maryville University’s Women’s Leadership Council and YWCA of Metro St. Louis. She supports local arts and service-oriented organizations, too. Each month, Suzie volunteers at the USO at Lambert Airport, serving food, checking luggage and extending hospitality and services to the military personnel passing through town. While it’s been more challenging to determine how to volunteer for local nonprofits in this pandemic-laden environment, Suzie says it’s still vital to contact agencies to ascertain their needs and see if there’s a match. “Some volunteer jobs are one-and-done while others are ongoing,” she reminds.

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English, with no need to exchange money, as merchants widely accept U.S. currency. With so many unique discoveries, it’s a great place for honeymooners, vacationers and families alike.” Marcie says she’s happy to share her personal knowledge and planning expertise regarding three major regions in Belize: SAN IGNACIO Known for its rainforest and remote jungle land, Marcie says this area enables honeymooners, or those celebrating anniversaries, to get off the grid for a while to focus on romance. San Ignacio is a town in the Cayo District of

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western Belize, on the banks of the Macal River.

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City. Complete with hanging bridges, hiking and kayaking, the area’s residents also are eager to teach visitors about the rainforest.

SEEKING A MOST-MEMORABLE ADVENTURE? With sub-tropical climate year-round, the Caribbean country of Belize also offers tourist its colorful culture, barrier reefs, beaches, extensive caves, scuba diving, flora, fauna, varied cuisine, snorkeling, birding, Mayan Ruins, chocolate making and delightful places to stay, including luxury resorts, jungle lodges, hotels,

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houses, live-aboard vessels, campgrounds and more. Additionally, Belizeans are simply easy to be around. Marcie Boyle, owner of RSVP Events & Travel and Travel Leaders Chesterfield, declares every element of Belize as Instagrammable. “With a single connection, Belize is an easy destination to reach. The official language of Belize is 28

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Marcie recommends staying at Victoria House Resort & Spa. Located on a breathtaking, private island, this boutique resort features 42 rooms offering a variety of world-class accommodations that pamper guests--whether in a pool villa, luxurious suite, stateroom, or a romantic tropical casita. PLACENCIA One place that Marcie recommends staying within

A long, narrow peninsula of sandy white, palm-

this region is Chaa Creek Resort. Rated one of the

lined beaches hugging Belize’s Caribbean coastline,

world’s best eco lodges and a pioneer in adventure

Placencia is a popular destination for sunshine lovers.

travel to Belize since 1981, owners Mick and Lucy

Marcie says its brightly colored neighborhoods and

Fleming sum up their philosophy of this jungle resort

rustic, beautiful vibe woos visitors into walking barefoot

that’s located in the heart of Maya civilization as “wildly

on the boardwalk while enjoying gelato. She suggests

civilized.” This spot is recognized as one of the best

staying at either luxury, personable and intimate Naïa

examples of sustainable, green tourism.

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Marcie says the Blue Morpho Butterfly Farm at Chaa Creek is a “magical, spiritual experience.” AMBERGRIS CAYE/SAN PEDRO

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of Lighthouse Reef Atoll, a 1,000-foot circular coral reef

Belize abides by COVID-19 standards for cleanliness

that drops 400 feet into an incredible cavern. Marcie

and health standards.

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MORE THAN ONE IN SEVEN AMERICANS HAVE SIGNIFICANT HEARING LOSS. According to the Center for Hearing and Communication, that’s about 48 million people in the United States, making hearing loss the third most common chronic physical condition, following arthritis and heart disease. Left untreated, hearing loss can significantly impact quality of life. Research shows that people with hearing loss are more likely to develop dementia, depression, anxiety and feelings of inadequacy. It can even affect one’s income. Patients with untreated hearing loss are three times more likely to fall, too. Yet, people are sometimes reluctant to get help when their hearing fades. Audiologist Margaret Fritsch Juelich, Au.D ., CCC-A, F-AAA, and owner of Associated Hearing Professionals, along with her associate, audiologist Tina Daher McWhorter, say that hesitancy to get treatment means people suffer needlessly. Margaret and Tina have been dedicated to improving the communication skills of those with hearing loss since their undergraduate days as students together at St. Louis University. “When we were studying communication disorders, there were not many audiology courses, but we were both just drawn to the field of audiology,” Margaret says. After graduate completed

their

school, they both Clinical

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Year at Washington University School of Medicine. Margaret opened Associated Hearing Professionals in 2008, and Tina joined her shortly after. 30

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“We work with seven different hearing aid manufacturers giving us access to all the best technology on the market.”

They specialize in hearing care by evaluating, diagnosing, treating and managing all hearing-related problems. They now split their time between two offices, in Clayton and Chesterfield. Tina says it’s important that their staff is highly trained and understands visiting a hearing doctor can be extremely stressful for some people. The team at AHP prioritizes patients’ needs and provides individualized care and service. Thanks to

technological

advances,

such

as digital and Bluetooth compatible hearing aids, Margaret and Tina are seeing life-changing outcomes for their patients. Even people in their 90s are using Bluetooth to connect to their phone. “Modern hearing aids have special adaptations that make telephone conversations straightforward, protect against sudden loud noises, reduce echo,

and

enhance

speech

comprehension

in noisy conditions,” Margaret explains. Tina says it’s essential their patients have access to many choices so they get exactly what they need. “We work with seven different hearing aid manufacturers giving us access to all the best technology on the market,” Tina says. “That way, our patients can get the best recommendation for their needs.” Margaret and Tina say their patients’ reactions after finally being able to hear again are tremendously rewarding. “We see a lot of happy tears, and that is truly gratifying,” Margaret says. For more information about hearing loss and assistance options, go to HearStL.com.

Audiologist Margaret Fritsch Juelich, owner of Associated Hearing Professionals CityLifestyle.com/Clayton

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Children 5 years and older can

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chandise. Parents may supervise younger children but are not allowed

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to run booths. Parent participation is required. Resident rate is $15 per booth, and $18 each for non-residents. Register online at Webtrac. Brentwoodmo.org/WBWSC.

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10 20TH CENTURY COMPOSERS UNLIMITED Online

Saint Louis Symphony Conductor Laureate Leonard Slatkin leads some of the 20th century’s greatest chamber works. Order tickets online at: ChamberMusicSTL.org/wp-content/ uploads/2020/02/RACE-TO-THE-

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FINISH-ORDER-FORM-to-3-8-21. pdf, or call 314.941.6309 to order by phone. Two tickets are $20. Visit

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The evening includes a sampling of fine wines and craft beers, as well as a variety of gourmet appetizers plus silent and live auctions. Coffee and dessert will wrap up the evening. All proceeds benefit ALIVE's programs, which provide safety and healing to domestic abuse survivors and their children. Tickets are $80 per person. Sponsorship packages also are available.

15 NERF WAR AT THE PARK

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26 CINEMA CHATS Via Zoom

Join other cinephiles watching and

then discussing the movie, Three Identical Strangers, from the comfort

of home. Register in advance by calling the Brentwood Parks and Recreation

Department at 314.963.8689. Once registered, you’ll receive an invitation for a Zoom meeting. Movies are available through the Brentwood Public Library/St. Louis County Library, and on various streaming services.

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29 SKYLINE DINNER CRUISE The Gateway Arch

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Soaring to New Heights SUMMER SOIRÉE 2021

It’s Wings of Hope’s first-ever virtual gala and we have planned an evening that you will not want to miss! Please come with us on a journey that celebrates our Medical Relief & Air Transport (MAT) Program featuring very special guests including patients, pilots, friends, silent and live auctions and a fund-a-need all supporting Wings of Hope’s mission of changing and saving lives through the power of aviation.

Saturday, June 5, 2021

6:30-7:30pm

Please scan the QR code below with your phone to register:

This event supports the Medical Relief & Air Transport (MAT) Program serving children, youth, adults and their families across the United States for more than 17 years.

To learn more about the Summer Soirée, please visit our website