Chatham & Short Hills, NJ November 2022 by City Lifestyle

Our Thankful Issue! N OV E M B E R 2 022

November 2022 PUBLISHER S

Ana Meyer | ana.meyer@citylifestyle.com John Meyer | john.meyer@citylifestyle.com EDITOR

Ana Meyer | ana.meyer@citylifestyle.com

LIFESTYLE LETTER

SOCIAL MEDIA COOR DINATOR

Ben Meyer

Our Thankful Issue!

EDITOR IAL COOR DINATOR

Frank DiIorgi AD DESIGNER

Matthew Endersbe

November - Thankful In this season of giving thanks, we often find ourselves reflecting on the many blessings in our lives. The true spirit of Thanksgiving encourages the conscious expression of gratitude. Its focus is on spending time with those that you love and encouraging giving back in a meaningful way. While ambition, competition and slaying goals can be very healthy, forgetting to place importance on being present, enjoying the ride and appreciating those around us that have helped us along in our journey, can leave us missing out on what truly matters. True contentment comes from within and from fulfilling who we were made to be. Our November issue is dedicated to stories that we hope will bring you joy. We’ve included a Fall holiday recipe, stories of gratefulness, a great road trip to Rickets Glenn, and amazing people at Cheshire Home who help heal those impacted by spinal cord injuries. We are so thankful for the residents and businesses in our community who support so many wonderful organizations and help make our towns the vibrant communities that they are. We are especially thankful for our advertising partners who help bring this magazine to your doorsteps each month. They are part of our vision and purpose of bringing inspiring stories and the good news of the community directly to you. This holiday season as we prepare to gather with our loved ones, and in the true spirit of thanksgiving, let’s set time aside to consider what truly makes life meaningful and stop to reflect on those blessings. We wish you a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving!

LAYOUT DESIGNER

Emily Lisenbee CONTR IBUTING WR ITER S

Baldani, Stacy Graebner CONTR IBUTING PHOTOGR APHER S

Chris Jorda Photography, Carol Fisher Photography

Corporate Team CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt CHIEF SALES OFFICER Matthew Perry CHIEF FINANCIAL OFFICER DeLand Shore CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Randy Radosevich DIRECTOR OF SOCIAL MEDIA Mindy Hargesheimer ART DIRECTOR Sara Minor OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Janeane Thompson AD MANAGER Chad Jensen WEB APPLICATIONS Michael O’Connell

JOHN AND ANA MEYER, PUBLISHERS @ C H AT H A M S H O R T H I L L S

Learn how to start your own publication at: citylifestyle.com//franchise

Scan QR code to visit our Instagram C I T Y L I F E S T Y L E .C O M /C H AT H A M A N D S H O R T H I L L S |

Proverbs 3:5-6 Chatham & Short Hills City Lifestyle™ is published monthly by Lifestyle Publications LLC. It is distributed via the US Postal Service to some of the Chatham & Short Hills area’s most affluent neighborhoods. Articles and advertisements do not necessarily reflect Lifestyle Publications’ opinions. No portion of this magazine may be reproduced in any form without written consent. Lifestyle Publications does not assume responsibility for statements made by advertisers or editorial contributors. Information in Chatham & Short Hills City Lifestyle™ is gathered from

L I F E ST Y LE LE T T E R

sources considered to be reliable, but the accuracy of all information cannot be guaranteed.

Restoring A Natural Look WHEN IS THE PERFECT TIME TO CONSIDER EYELID REJUVENATION? When you see something that bothers you-wrinkles, creases, folds, sagging skin or heavy bags

WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER THE MOST FASCINATING THING ABOUT THE EYES? How subtle changes of the eyelids can change how your face appears

WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR PROFESSION? Oculoplastic surgeons are specially trained in the delicate surgery of eyelids. Being able to concentrate surgically on the individual nuances of eyelid anatomy allows me to appreciate that everyone’s eyelid fold, crease and relationship to the eyebrow is different.

Before

After, 7 months

Dr. Baljeet K. Purewal MD

Board-certified Oculo-facial Plastic Surgeon

Bilateral Upper and Lower Eyelid Surgery + HALO Laser/BBL Combo

A Few of My Specialties... Upper eyelid surgery (Upper Blepharoplasty)

Injectables HALO laser

Lower eyelid surgery (Lower Blepharoplasty)

BBL Photofacial

Ptosis Repair (Droopy Eyelid Surgery)

Ultherapy

freshfaceandeye.com

973.635.4000 82 Main Street, Chatham

N OV E M B E R 2 0 2 2

inside the issue The Thankful Issue

F E ATU R E D

D E PA RTM E NTS

20 The Art of Rock

Lifestyle Letter

City Scene

Business Monthly

Artist’s Palette

Outdoor Adventure

Inspired By

Must See

Culinary Creations

Experience the creative magic of some of your favorite musicians

30 Fall Road Trip to Ricketts Glen

Discover A Hiker's Paradise In One Of Pennsylvania's Most Scenic Locations

36 From Tragedy to Triumph

Bringing hope and independence to those with spinal cord injuries

48 A Taste Of Fall In A Cup!

Enjoy this classic fall apple cider recipe for the holidays to keep you warm and your taste buds happy.

O N T H E C OV E R

Photography: Provided KISS Paul Stanley’s Lightning Heart is available at the Short Hills Wentworth Gallery. wentworthgallery.com

A RTS + C U LT U R E T R AV EL

HEA LT H + WELLNE SS

EDU CAT I O N FO O D + B E V E R AG E

HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS. GPS something for everyone

KITCHENS & CABINETRY

Morris Plains | Orange | Green Brook BATHROOMS

Schedule your design consultation online or by phone

1.800.CALL GPS | shopgps.com For additional locations please visit our website.

LIGHTING

UTILITY ROOMS

Paramus | Eatontown M-F: 10-8 • SAT:| Manhasset 10-6 KOHLERbyGPS.com

Paramus, NJ • (201) 322-5000 KohlerSignatureStoreParamus.com

LET US FLOOR YOU

THE AREA'S LARGEST SELECTION OF CARPETING, HARDWOOD, VINYL, AREA RUGS, STAIR RUNNERS & IN-STOCK REMNANTS

908-273-0220 335 SPRINGFIELD AVE. SUMMIT, NJ COVECARPETONESUMMIT.COM

NATIONWIDE * 908.686.1200 | www.MichellePaisGroup.com *MEDIUM TEAM BY VOLUME 2022 Real Trends + Tom Ferry The Thousand -WSJ

N OV E M B E R 2 0 2 2

city scene

Where neighbors can see and be seen. 1

1: The Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) general membership meeting. 2: Welcome new board 2022-2023 of the Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) 3: The Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) general membership dinner. 4: The Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) general membership dinner. 5: The Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) general membership dinner. 6: The Junior League of the Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) general membership dinner.

Want to be seen in the magazine? Tag your Instagram photos with @chathamshorthills

C I T Y SC E N E

SAREH NOURI F LE A HR I PK N WG YS O

a a

By Appointment: 862.901.6459 www.sarehnouri.com Follow us @sarehnouri

Portuguese Sweet & Savory Delicacies Cafe Made Daily From Farm Fresh Ingredients Cold & Hot Portuguese Beverages Portuguese Sandwiches Warm Lunches & Meals |

Order the Day Before to Be Guaranteed Your Favorites!

908-377-4182

casadasnatasnj.com

348 Millburn Avenue, Millburn

Struggling with pelvic, back or hip pain and not sure where to turn for help? We specialize in pelvic health and wellness for active adults who run, play golf, tennis and pickle ball. If you’re experiencing: Pelvic Floor Dysfunction • Pelvic Pain Urinary Incontinence • Constipation • Hip or Back Pain

30 minute consultations for only $27! Offer ends 7/31/2022

Only 5 available so claim yours now! Claim this special offer today! 4 6 6 So u thern Bl vd. A dams Bui l di ng, 1st Fl oor C hatham, N J 07928 bodymoksha.com | 873-310-2678

I’ve got lung cancer but I also have an expert team of specialists on my side. RWJBarnabas Health, together with Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey, the state’s only National Cancer Institute-designated Comprehensive Cancer Center, offers the most advanced, patientNCI Designated centric cancer care for adults and children. Our multidisciplinary teams of nationally renowned Comprehensive Cancer Center oncologists, nurses, oncology nurse navigators, and support professionals ensure a compassionate, comprehensive approach, creating an individualized plan to treat your type of cancer. Our patients have access to innovative clinical trials, precision medicine, immunotherapy, advanced surgical procedures and sophisticated radiation therapy techniques. Visit rwjbh.org/beatcancer or call 844-CANCERNJ.

Let’s beat cancer together.

N OV E M B E R 2 0 2 2

business monthly A round-up of exciting news from local businesses.

Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center Breaks Ground on $225-Million Comprehensive Cancer Center Scheduled for 2025 completion, this five-story, 137,000 square-foot, multidisciplinary outpatient center will be RWJBarnabas Health's northern hub for world-class cancer care including integrated oncology services offered by RWJBarnabas Health and Rutgers Cancer Institute of NJ. The center will feature medical, surgical, and radiation oncology services — with holistic support services including a wig and prosthetic studio, teaching kitchen, yoga, reiki, music therapy, private infusion rooms and a calming garden terrace. Other amenities will include short-term and extended-stay treatment spaces.

Help JLOSH Feed 500 Families This Thanksgiving!

The 14th Annual Thanksgiving Day Chatham Turkey Trot

The Junior League of The Oranges and Short Hills (JLOSH) Annual Thanksgiving Drive needs your help! Our long-standing turkey sponsor has indicated they are not able to pledge turkeys this year. JLOSH’s annual Thanksgiving Baskets Program provides a complete healthy holiday meal which includes a turkey, and all the sides to families facing food insecurity in the Orange School District. Help us support 500 families this Thanksgiving! Please donate food or give online at jlosh.org/

The Chatham Turkey Trot is a 1 Mile Family Fun Run and 5K Race in which runners race through the scenic Highlands section of Chatham Township, NJ on Thanksgiving Day. Since 2009, they have raised more than $230,000 for the Chatham Township Volunteer Fire Department, the Diabetes Research Institute, the Chatham Emergency Squad and The Barton Center for Diabetes Education. Thanksgiving Day, 11/24/22. Register before November 10th at Noon to receive a T-shirt. TheChathamTurkeyTrot.org

Want to be featured?

Get in touch by heading over to our landing page to connect: CityLifestyle.com/ChathamandShortHills

B USIN E SS M ON T H LY

Discover a Vibrant Community Centered on You

VISIT OUR MODEL SUITES

At Sunrise of Livingston, every aspect of your life will be guided by deep knowledge of your unique preferences, desires, goals and needs- delivering a truly exceptional senior living experience. • Do more of what you love alongside good friends with curated programs and events.

LIVINGSTON

• Savor fresh, seasonal cuisine all day, crafted with your tastes in mind • Enjoy beautiful design and decor tailored to older adults • Spend quality time in serene outdoor spaces • Our community is conveniently located on South Orange Avenue (Route 510) near Walnut Street (Route 607), within easy reach of shops, restaurants, parks, and medical support

Schedule Your Tour Today 973-370-4524 SunriseLivingston.com/Lifestyle 290 South Orange Avenue Livingston, NJ 07039

At La Pergola we know crafting exceptional memories- much like great recipes- is often the result of considerable thought, time and effort. That’s why we pride ourselves in paying attention to every single detail that goes into our personalized party planning services. Every moment counts, so we’re here to do the heavy hoisting so you’re remembered for happily hosting exceptional celebrations for all the special people and occasions in your life.

Book Your Special Party! 973-376-6838 l ap erg ol anj. c om 120 Essex St Millburn, New Jersey

Full service, one-stop shop for f ine custom picture f raming. 40+ years of experience. Finest sports and musicians memorabilia in the tri-state area. Live events with some of the biggest names in professional sports.

973-635-6505 f ramesonmain.net | legendsgallery.net 257 Main Street, Chatham

T H E P O OL B O S S

OWN YOUR LUXURY THEPOOLBOSSNJ.COM

The Art of

ROCK

Experience the creative magic of some of your favorite musicians 20

A RT IST ’S PA LE T T E | ARTS + CULTURE

Stanley: End of the Road Starchild

Many of us remember when we first attended a concert and saw our favorite rock artist. Maybe we bought a t-shirt or a poster to bring home to remember the incredible experience. Now, Wentworth Gallery offers an amazing way to connect with some of our favorite rock and roll artists in an even more tangible way. “What really started it was when we began working with Paul Stanley from Kiss about 15 to 20 years ago,” says Christian O’Mahony, owner of Wentworth Gallery. “He’s very creative in a lot of different areas and artwork for him was therapeutic. He never really thought about it as a commercial venture.” When Christian saw his paintings and realized how talented he was, he wanted to represent him. “We started doing shows with Paul and they were immensely successful. A lot of people were buying his paintings, some without knowing who Kiss was or who were not really into the music. It was the artwork itself that really touched them.” Word got out and Christian started picking up other musical artists such as Michael Cartellone from Lynyrd Skynyrd and Rick Allen from Def Leppard. “From there we got Mickey Hart from The Grateful Dead, Brian Wheat from Tesla, Charlie Benante from Anthrax, and the late Ric Ocasek from the Cars. I have his only collection of artwork.” Christian has become the go-to person for successful musicians and even celebrities who have a passion for art and want to expand into this avenue. “First and foremost, they have to be good artists, and secondly, they have to understand that art shows are a little bit different than rock and roll meet and greets. They are more personal and much more intimate.” This is a major component of what makes Wentworth Gallery stand out. “It’s a combination of the art in some way touching them, but it’s also the incredible experience that somebody could have with someone they’ve admired artistically.”

ARTICLE BY SUE BALDANI PHOTOGRAPHY BY CAROL FISHER PHOTOGRAPHY

CONTINUED >

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

“We offer these lifetime experiences. So, it’s not just a beautiful painting on a wall; it actually has a story behind it.”

Joe Satriani with collector Hayden M.

Mickey Hart with Director and Collector Maryanne Frelinger

Richard, Brian, Wheat, Chris, Michael

So, if a customer were to purchase a painting done by, say, Rick Allen, either at a show or beforehand, when Allen comes to the gallery, they get to meet him. “They spend real time with him,” says Christian. “They might even have dinner afterward.” Wentworth has also offered private concerts for buyers. “I’ve done that with Paul Stanley and Rick Allen,” he says. “More recently, I’ve done it with one of my new artists, legendary solo guitarist Joe Satriani. If you’re a fan of Joe and you really like his artwork, you not only get a beautiful painting, but you also get to sit through a private concert. Or, if you purchase one of his paintings on a guitar, perhaps you would actually go up on stage with him and jam. “We offer these lifetime experiences. So, it’s not just a beautiful painting on a wall; it actually has a story behind it.” Wentworth Gallery has 10 galleries up and down the East Coast, and Christian plans to

have more incredible shows coming up in the next year at the Mall at Short Hills location. “I expect Rick Allen, Paul Stanley, and Joe Satriani all to make appearances.” Artwork, he says, is a lifetime acquisition. “It’s different than buying a shirt or a pair of pants. It’s for you; it’s for your family.” And, it can be acquired by people of all backgrounds; it’s not just for the wealthy. “We have many different price points, and we also offer 24 months interest-free financing with no money down to make it affordable for almost everybody.” One of the reasons why many Wentworth Gallery locations are in malls, he explains, is that he wants people to feel comfortable coming in. “When people are walking down a street and see an art gallery, they might feel intimidated. So, we try to take down the walls and not have people feel like they need an art degree to walk in.”

Another factor that makes Wentworth stand out is its white-glove service. “When you’re at a gallery and something catches your eye, you might have a hard time envisioning what it would look like in your house,” says Christian. “You don’t know if it’s going to be too big or too small. You don’t know if your spouse is going to like it.” In order to make the decision easier, Wentworth offers what they call a Home Show. “We bring the artwork within 25 miles of any of our galleries without any financial obligation. We can also hang them for you, and at that point, you can decide which pieces, if any, you would like to purchase. It really takes away the anxiety.” They will also come and hang the piece if you just purchase it from the gallery.

A RT IST ’S PA LE T T E | ARTS + CULTURE

To see these rock and roll and other incredible artists, go to wentworthgallery.com.

CONTINUED >

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

Benante: Yellow Road (Beatles)

Satriani: City with multicolored sky

A RT IST ’S PA LE T T E | ARTS + CULTURE

Rick Allen: Jayne Bond

Stanley: Guitar Dream 1

CONTINUED > NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

A RT IST ’S PA LE T T E | ARTS + CULTURE

Ocasek: Untitled NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

CHATHAM & SHORT HILLS CITY LIFESTYLE™

STAY CONNECTED TO YOUR COMMUNITY FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM

Inspiration for your best local life.

LET US HELP YOU LOOK GOOD! M e morab l e , D e liciou s Sw ag Your Client s an d Team W ill T hank You

Exclusive giveaways.

Hidden gem alert!

973 -37 9 - 074 0

www. s p l u rge ba ke r y.com

1 0 5 Mai n S t Mi l l b urn, N ew J ersey 070 41

Good news happening right in your neighborhood.

Local content by local creators.

Inside scoops on local businesses & events.

Locally-inspired food & drink recipes.

And so much more!

SCAN TO CONNECT

Happy Vibes. Happy Life. #FINDYOURHAPPY

Enjoy culinary excellence in our state-of-the-art presentation kitchen or sit back and relax in our private, on-site movie theater. Whatever your mood, we’ll help you find your groove at Spring Hills Livingston!

DISCOVER IT YOURSELF WITH A PRIVATE TOUR CALL 973.333.2200 346 EAST CEDAR STREET LIVINGSTON, NJ SPRINGHILLS.COM NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

FALL ROAD TRIP TO RICKETTS GLEN DISCOVER A HIKER'S PARADISE IN ONE OF PENNSYLVANIA'S MOST SCENIC LOCATIONS ARTICLE BY STACY GRAEBNER | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

Fall Trail at Ricketts Glen State Park

O UT D OOR A DV E N T U R E | TRAVE L

RICKETTS GLEN If you are looking for a fall road trip that is a bit out of the ordinary, Ricketts Glen State Park is the perfect day trip for hikers, nature lovers and families in search of a mini adventure. Located in Benton, PA, northwest of Wilkes-Barre, and approximately 2.5 hours from our area, the park is often described as one of the most idyllic areas in Pennsylvania. The 13,000-acre park contains over 28 miles of gorgeous hiking trails where visitors can experience lush forests and diverse wildlife. But best of all, and what makes the park truly unique, is that it is home to a stunning 22 free-flowing waterfalls all of which can be easily seen in one day. The sheer number of falls visible within a 5-mile radius has helped the park earn its reputation as the ultimate waterfall experience in the eastern United States.

PARK HISTORY Ricketts Glen’s waterfalls were the main attraction for a local hotel from 1873-1903, and the park itself is named for the hotel’s proprietor, U.S. Army Colonel Robert Bruce Ricketts who was a Civil War artillery officer and businessman. Ricketts owned 80,000 acres of land in Pennsylvania which he intended to harvest for timber. However, when hikers in the area began to discover numerous falls on the land, he preserved much of it, building trails along the falls to attract local tourists to his hotel. After his death, Ricketts’s heirs began selling the land to the Pennsylvania Game Commission and in 1930 the area was approved as a national park. World War II curtailed those plans, but eventually, in 1944, the falls’ land was turned over to the

Commonwealth of Pennsylvania to create a state park. The state continued to purchase additional land around the falls until the park was fully established.

TRAILS The most popular hikes at Ricketts Glen are along the Falls Trail which boasts breathtaking waterfalls at virtually every turn. Nearly all of the park’s 22 falls can be seen via a 7-mile loop which takes approximately 3.5 to 5 hours to complete, leading hikers through huge rock formations and past the majestic Ganoga Falls, the highest waterfall in the park, at 94 feet. The more tranquil falls range in height from 10 to 40 feet but are just as impressive. While most visitors find the hike to be only moderately challenging, some visitors note that the trail has a few tricky areas, with steep steps and drop-offs, occasional slippery or muddy areas, and uneven terrain. The full loop is recommended for people who are in fairly good physical condition (so hit the elliptical or do a few extra squats at the gym before you go!) and for families with older children. There is also a shorter 3.2-mile loop along the Falls Trail that still allows hikers to experience most of the falls. For less adventurous hikers or families with young children, there are also several relatively easy (but equally scenic) trails. Evergreen Trail offers leisurely walking paths and Adams Falls which is considered one of the most beautiful waterfalls in the park. It is located just a few steps from the Evergreen parking area making it ideal for a quick visit.

CONTINUED >

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

OTHER AMENITIES Ricketts Glen is also home to Lake Jean, a serene 245-acre lake with a 600foot beach area that is perfect for relaxing or having a picnic after a long day of hiking. Fishing is allowed at the lake which contains warm water game fish, panfish and trout. Swimming and boating are also allowed during the summer season, with rowboats, paddleboats, kayaks, canoes, and paddleboards available for rental. For those looking for an extended visit, campsites and cabin rentals are available at reasonable rates. The park is open 365 days a year from sunrise until sunset and offers free access to both the trails and the beach. Though you may remember that catchy TLC song from the 90s that warned us “Don’t go chasing waterfalls”, with outdoor activities galore and spectacular scenery, Ricketts Glen is worth the chase!

O UT D OOR A DV E N T U R E | TRAVE L

TIPS LIST RICKETTS GLEN 1. Plan to arrive early in the day. The trails can become somewhat crowded in the afternoon, especially on weekends. The Lake Rose parking lot offers the closest access to the Falls Trail but fills up quickly during peak times. 2. Wear real hiking shoes or shoes with good tread. The trails are steep at times and the terrain can be uneven or slippery in places. 3. Stop by the visitors center for a map and information about the best way to navigate the trails so that the easiest part of your hike (i.e. the downhill portion!) is on your return. 4. Plan on bringing water, snacks, and/or lunch as you will most likely be spending several hours, if not most of the day, in the park. 5. The best time to visit the park is after a rainfall when water levels are higher, and the falls are more dramatic. If you are looking for something closer to home and a little less adventurous, discover Newtown, Pennsylvania, located about an hour’s drive from us, you will fall in love with their great choices of restaurants, shopping and a blend of historical colonial and modern architecture. Visit citylifestyle.com/newtown/ to learn more.

Oenida Falls at Ricketts Glenn State Park NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

ARE YOU PREPARED?

KEEP YOUR POWER ON

EVEN WHEN THE POWER IS OUT WITH A STANDBY GENERATOR

We are a father/daughter dental team practicing comprehensive, patient-centered care using the latest dental technology. Cosmetic and Restorative Dentistry Single-Visit Crowns and Onlays

Nitrous Oxide Sedation

Botox and Night Guard Therapy for TMJ Dysfunction Sleep Apnea Treatment Full Mouth Rehabilitation

Veneers

Teeth Whitening

VELscope early oral cancer detection

Dr. Dennis G. Coyle DMD FAGD

973-966-6555

coyledentistry.com

d rcoy l e @coyle de ntis tr y.co m 8 S hun p i ke Rd Madis o n, NJ 07940

Dr. Kathryn G. Coyle DMD

DO YOU REALLY HAVE TO CHOOSE? Franchising with us means making money and time for your life.

SURGERY FOR ATHLETES Dr. Louis Rizio is a fellowship trained sports medicine specialist and orthopedic surgeon, providing care for professional, college, high school, and recreational athletes for over 20 years. His focus is returning athletes to a high level of activity and sports competition in an efficient, safe time frame. Dr. Rizio welcomes athletes of all ages for surgical and non-surgical consultations. B E YOU R OW N B OS S

SE T YOUR SCHE DULE

LOW F RANCHISE F E E

WO R K-L IF E BA L A NCE

START YOUR OWN PUBLICATION CITYLIFESTYLE.COM/FRANCHISE

9 73 -3 22-7005 www.drri z i o.co m 2 0 0 S Oran g e Ave , Su i t e 2 3 0 L i v i n g st o n N J

DR. LOUIS RIZIO

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

I NSP IR E D BY | HEA LTH + W E LLNE S S

From Tragedy to Triumph BRINGING HOPE AND INDEPENDENCE TO THOSE WITH SPINAL CORD INJURIES ARTICLE BY SUE BALDANI PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHRIS JORDA PHOTOGRAPHY

Spinal cord injuries can happen to anyone at any time. Learning to cope with losing one’s independence and then working to gain some of it back takes a lot of hard work and perseverance. Cheshire Home in Florham Park has been providing services to support these journeys since it opened its doors in 1981. “I don’t think people realize that most of our residents were living normal lives before their accidents,” says Cheshire Home Marketing & Event Manager, Betsey Burgdorf. “They had jobs, drove cars, cared for their families, and then a tragic event occurred leaving them in a wheelchair sometimes for the rest of their lives. It has a dramatic effect on the individual, the family, and the community.” Spinal cord injuries, she says, can happen in numerous ways. “We have two residents who dove into the surf at Long Beach Island, hit sandbars and broke their necks. We have a landscaper who fell out of a tree, and residents who have been in car or motorcycle accidents. We also have residents with genetic issues such as spina bifida and lupus.” Cheshire Home strives to meet the needs of all its residents, mostly young adults, who suffer from spinal

cord injuries, and/or neurological impairments. Its staff works tirelessly to help residents reclaim their independence so they can leave the facility and rejoin the community. “We are a transitional facility, which means residents are here while they recover,” says Betsey. “We focus on teaching residents skills they will need in order to regain their independence.” This can take up to on average two-three years, sometimes longer. Cheshire Home offers 24/7 nursing care, experts specializing in spinal cord and neurological impairments, and on-site physical and occupational therapy and more. “We work with residents on their goals, such as gaining muscle strength, and hand movement,” she says. “There is always a plan in place, and when setbacks occur, adjustments are made to keep the resident on track.” Some residents who had limited or no use of their arms and hands have regained function by the time they leave, which is seen as a huge success. Having these types of resources, explains Betsey, is one of the main reasons why Cheshire Home is so successful. “We had one gentleman CONTINUED >

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

I NSP IR E D BY | HEA LTH + W E LLNE S S

who was involved in a car crash in his early twenties and almost ended up in a nursing home. His family was relieved when a bed opened and he came here instead. He moved out after about 3 years at Cheshire Home, and now lives in Madison and has a full-time job. He’s really one of our great success stories.” She said one of the biggest obstacles to integrating people back into the community is wheelchair-accessible accommodations. “With the disability laws, things have gotten easier, but there are still a lot of barriers.” For example, curbs and steps in front of businesses are often insurmountable and things most able-bodied people do not even notice. Everyday operating costs for these specialized services do not come cheap, so the nonprofit holds many fundraisers, such as 5K races, Cheshire Has Talent, and a paper shred, to provide the care the residents need to reach their goals. Their upcoming 40th Anniversary Gala fundraiser being held on Thursday, November 10, at the Park Avenue Club in Florham Park, will be an inspirational evening with dinner, dancing and motivational speakers. The Gala’s Master of Ceremonies will be Senator Jon M. Bramnick, and four deserving honorees, including Senator Declan O’Scanlon, Jr., who will be speaking about their support of those with spinal cord injuries. Tickets are available now at cheshirehome.org/gala. To find out more about Cheshire Home and how to help support its mission, go to cheshirehome.org/.

BRANT BEACH! Contact Alisa Molbert

C: (732) 718-0039 O: (609) 494-7272 ext: 1103 amolbert@zackshore.com www.longbeachislandlistings.com

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

Great days start at Short Hills Private Offices and Suites The Mall at Short Hills

Located off of the 3rd floor of the Teal Parking garage

industriousoffice.com (973) 315-8850

CUT COLOR STYLE

Our products are formulated only with ingredients that are considered safe for the f inal consumer as well as the environment.

311B MILLBURN AVENUE MILLBURN

(973) 379-5858

A HOLISTIC APPROACH TO PHYSICAL THERAPY Specializing in pelvic health and wellness Pre-natal and Post-partum Care Pelvic Floor Dysfunction Pelvic Pain Urinary Symptoms Bowel Issues Orthopedic Issues related to Pelvic Health 318 Main Street, Suite 200A | Millburn, NJ 07041 973.671.5855 | Book Online: 5pointpt.com

Serving Authentic Italian Food for over 40 years! Dine in + Live Music + Pick Up or Delivery Catering + Party Rooms Large and Small Famous Thin Crust Pizza $50.00 Full Family Meals Daily Special

973-992-8496 + calabrianj.com 588 South Livingston Avenue in Livingston

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

ARTICLE BY ANA MEYER | PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHRIS JORDA PHOTOGRAPHY

IT MATTERS TO WAKE UP EVERY DAY WITH A SENSE OF PURPOSE. LOVE WHAT YOU DO EVERY DAY!

M UST SE E | ED U CATION

Thank f ulness and Gratit ude John and Ana Meyer

This year as we think about our Thankful issue, we are very thankful to celebrate our second-year anniversary as publishers and owners of the Chatham + Short Hills City Lifestyle magazine and our latest addition now six months young, Morris City Lifestyle. I always feel it’s important to wake up every day with a sense of purpose. It fills you with happiness, and a warm feeling of accomplishment to do what you love every day. For us, it is raising our kids, enjoying the craziness of being active parents, engaging with our local communities and readers, and running our publications. As we look back at our journey, we are very grateful for the amazing people we have met, a blend of our advertising partners, the exceptional products, and services that they offer to our local community members, the rooted relationships that they have with you, stories that they share about you, memories that have made throughout the years of service. We are also grateful for you, our dedicated readers for welcoming us into your homes, your emails, calls, and in-person compliments mean the world to us! Here are some things I’ve learned throughout our journey. You’ve shared with me that “we always learn something new”, and “we keep your issues on our coffee table for a long time”. I learned that sometimes a fitness story is more than about fitness. We featured two NFL players in our January issue, both asking about their journey

and their NFL fitness routines. We received a wonderful and surprising email from a private school teacher where she shared with me that from our article on Matt Amendola, former kicker of the NY Jets, she had extracted “22 life lessons” she was going to share with her students! We learned that our stories travel near and far. We received requests as far as Las Vegas asking for copies of our Premier issue that featured Paul Stanley’s Guitar 4 artwork on the cover and story from the Wentworth Gallery. We met local celebrities like Ben Bailey that grew up in Chatham, and lives in Morristown, and when he drives by his childhood home, he takes pride that the house number he made in woodshop is still up and can be seen from the street. We are grateful for doctors that provide the latest technologies including sports medicine doctor and surgeon Dr. Louis Rizio who stays on top of the latest innovative technologies and has helped John with his tennis elbow, even though he never played tennis! My kids say I yell too much and that I have a hearing problem. I am thankful for Dr. MaryAnne Pladdys, who graciously tested me, and confirmed, it was my kids simply annoying me, and that my hearing was perfect! I am grateful for that! I discovered that we have amazing entrepreneurs with hearts who provide a unique selection of high-end products and expert service you won’t get CONTINUED >

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

at a big box store, like Window Works in Livingston, Cove Carpet in Summit, GPS Plumbing showroom in Morris Plains, and Pool Boss’s luxury pools. Local bakeries and restaurants like Splurge, Casa Das Natas, Calabria’s Restaurant and La Pergola who take amazing pride in the quality of ingredients and treat you like family! I learned that Cooperman Barnabas and Atlantic Health, hospitals where our three kids were born, are more than just hospitals, they are centers of health excellence that also offer classes, and innovative treatments and win top awards in their industry. I grew up in a family-owned business where the mailman would get off his shift, bring coffee to my dad and hang out with him in his TV repair shop. I learned that there is still a sense of “main street” and that our local business in town share this similar experience with you. They tell us stories about our community members, and the quality and meaningful relationships they have established with you. We love what we do! We are grateful for all of you! We look forward to another year of service, fun and friendships with all of you who welcome us into your homes each month, and to our advertisers for your dedication and support in providing the best to our communities, your products and services and your partnership in our publications! As always, like I write every month in our editor’s letter, if you have any stories you would like to share with us, or content you look forward to reading, please let me know at ana.meyer@citylifestyle.com. If you own a business and would like to be part of our publications, reach out to John at john.meyer@citylifestyle.com . Happy Thanksgiving everyone! We look forward to seeing you around town!

M UST SE E | ED U CATION

Our work!

NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

I F YO U A R E READING THIS... S O I S YO U R B E S T C L I E N T.

2 OUT OF 3 of our readers regularly purchase from our ads.

ADVERTISE WITH US. LEARN MORE AT CITYLIFESTYLE.COM/CHATHAMANDSHORTHILLS

Dr. MaryAnn Pladdys

Do cto r o f A u dio log y

HEAR BETTER FOR THE HOLIDAYS! Dr. Pladdys will work to find the best solution for your unique lifestyle using state of the art technology, including bluetooth compatible and rechargeable hearing aids! 973 - 9 9 2 - 0820

drmar yannpla ddys.c o m

349 E. Nor thfield Ave, Suite LL6, Livingston, New Jersey 07039 NJ Audiologist License #41YA00033300 NJ HAD Supervising License #25MG00091000

TOWER ELECTRICAL CONTRACTING SERVING OUR CUSTOMERS IN NORTHERN JERSEY FOR OVER 30 YEARS. /

Custom lighting

Service upgrades

Renovations electrical

Emergency repairs

Recess lighting

Landscape lighting

Car charger hook ups

Exterior lighting

Home sale inspection and repairs electrical

Smart switches

908-516-1141

TowerLightPower.com NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

C ULIN A RY C R E AT ION S | F OOD + BE VE RAGE

A TASTE OF

FA LL IN A CU P!

ENJOY THIS CLASSIC FALL APPLE CIDER RECIPE FOR THE HOLIDAYS TO KEEP YOU WARM AND YOUR TASTE BUDS HAPPY.

CLASSIC FALL APPLE CIDER Enjoy the taste of fall with this classic warm apple cider drink, perfect for any fall gatherings or to cuddle up and enjoy with a good book!

INGREDIENTS • • • • •

3 quarts of apple cider 12 whole cloves 12 cinnamon sticks 1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg 2 apples thinly sliced into rounds

DIRECTIONS 1. Place the apple cider, cloves, only 1 cinnamon stick, and nutmeg in a large saucepan and bring to a full boil. 2. Boil for two minutes. 3. Remove from the stove. 4. Use a fine mesh sieve to strain the hot cider away from the other ingredients. 5. Pour the hot cider into glass mugs, add a few thin round apple slices and cinnamon sticks for stirring. Optional: You can add a touch of dark rum, cinnamon-flavored rum, brandy, or bourbon to spike it up a bit.

ARTICLE BY ANA MEYER PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED NOVEMBER 2 0 2 2 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/C H ATH A MA N D S HO RT HI L L S

CALL US ABOUT A COMPLIMENTARY DIGITAL LISTING

IF YOU’RE READING THIS, SO ARE YOUR

POTENTIAL CUSTOMERS

CALL ABOUT MARKETING AND EDITORIAL OPPORTUNITIES

We offer Print, Digital, Social Media and Events.

JOHN MEYER

973-944-1440 | citylifestyle.com/chathamandshorthills | john.meyer@citylifestyle.com @chathamandshorthillslifestyle @chathamshorthills

We treat brain tumors

like no one else can.

The Gerald J. Glasser Brain Tumor Center at Morristown Medical Center and Overlook Medical Center uses a multidisciplinary approach that ensures you get more than a doctor. You get an entire team to help guide and support you with confidence and compassion. Atlantic Health System is a nationally recognized leader in neuroscience and neurosurgery, treating all types of brain tumors with the latest tools and technology and, the finest minds. Visit atlantichealth.org/braintumor