Bridgewater, NJ November 2025

LOVE LIVES HERE

You’re invited

This season, we’re inviting you back for some of our favorite traditions:

November 28

Black Friday: Gift-With-Purchase

December 6

Holiday Open House: Showcasing our finest jewelry partners

December 18

Roberto Coin Pop-Up: Luxury jewelry handcrafted in Italy

For us, these events aren’t just about jewelry. They’re about creating a joyful shopping experience—sharing a glass, celebrating the season, and helping you find the perfect gift right here in Bridgewater.

The Season of Thanks (and Second Helpings)

November feels like the pause button in the middle of life’s chaos. Between shuttling kids to dance, soccer, and every other activity that pops onto the calendar, it’s easy to get swept along without stopping to breathe. This month gives us a moment to appreciate what we have, look ahead with gratitude, and, of course, dive into the joy of shopping. As you start checking gifts off your list, I encourage you to shop local—especially on Small Business Saturday—so we can keep Bridgewater thriving through the season and beyond.

And then, of course, there’s the food. While Christmas holds the crown as my favorite holiday, Thanksgiving is a close second. Truth be told, I’m more about the sides than the turkey itself—give me mashed potatoes, stuffing, and corn and I’m happy. Anyone else secretly prefer the side dishes? Still, my true weakness is pumpkin pie. I honestly don’t know why I don’t eat it yearround. Perfectly good breakfast, dessert, or midnight snack—though in my world, a “midnight snack” really means 9 p.m. This year, I’ll be sure to pull out the trusty elastic band pants so I can enjoy guilt-free seconds (or thirds).

This month’s Readers’ Choice Awards celebrate the businesses you voted for: Best Daycare Center, Best Speech & Language Pathologist, Best Senior Living Community, Best Cleaning Service, and Best Private Chef/Caterer. Turn to page 12 to see which earned Readers’ Choice status, and follow us on Instagram (@bridgewater_somerset_hills) to catch new categories each month.

We’re also featuring some remarkable local stories. On page 16, meet Cory Rible, a Bridgewater-Raritan High School alum already proving himself on the pitcher’s mound at Elizabethtown College. And on page 18, read about Tyler Simpson, who launched TJA Distributors at just 16 and is now helping businesses save money and trees with recycled paper products.

And if you’re still clinging to summer like I am, flip to our coverage of the Barefoot Country Music Fest (page 26). From Jason Aldean to Jelly Roll, Rascal Flatts to Lainey Wilson, the four-day celebration turned Wildwood into the unofficial capital of country music. Sunshine, sand, and a little twang—what more could you ask for?

May your hearts (and your plates) be full this season—and if you happen to save me a slice of pumpkin pie, I promise it won’t go to waste.

With gratitude,

November 2025

PUBLISHER

Jake Slowinski | jake.slowinski@citylifestyle.com

CO-PUBLISHER

Tiffany Slowinski | tiffany.slowinski@citylifestyle.com

PUBLICATION DIRECTOR

Carly Mac Manus | carly.macmanus@citylifestyle.com

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ACCOUNT MANAGER

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INTERN

Sadie Brown

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Brunch by DeMartino, Holliday Woodard, Patti Zielinski, Mel Boban

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Zoned Sports Academy, Tyler Simpson, Thomas O'Leary, Brunch by DeMartino, David Surks, Tom Solymosi, Media X MarketingJohn Beavers, Mel Boban

Corporate Team

CEO Steven Schowengerdt

President Matthew Perry

COO David Stetler

CRO Jamie Pentz

CoS Janeane Thompson

AD DESIGNER Andrew Sapad

LAYOUT DESIGNER Kelsi Southard

QUALITY CONTROL SPECIALIST Hannah Leimkuhler

city scene

WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN

1-2: Families enjoyed Bridgewater’s Annual Family Fun Day & Touch-A-Truck, with activities, community spirit, and hands-on fun for all ages. 3: From swamp life to Pride Rock, JCC Camp Ruach campers wowed audiences in Shrek Jr. this summer. Next up: The Lion King Jr. at the JCC this January. Auditions took place this September. 4: Bridgewater-Raritan Regional School Districts' school resource officers are back in action for this school year. 5: Ashley Asdal, local resident new to farming, preserves one of the state’s oldest apple orchards with passion and science. 6: Bridgewater residents got a first hand look at Rutgers defeating Norfolk State 7: Sophia, a junior at Bridgewater-Raritan High School, was selected into the BigFuture Ambassador program for the fall of 2025.

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Sweet Mission: Young Entrepreneur Brings Scoops and Smiles to Bridgewater

Ice Cream for All isn’t just about scoops—it’s about spreading joy. Founded recently in Bridgewater by 13-year-old Aly, the shop blends sweet treats with a mission: inspiring everyday kindness. Through Aly’s Kindness Mission, the community is encouraged to share smiles, lend a hand, and let kindness ripple outward. Each visit to the shop is more than dessert—it’s a chance to make the world sweeter. Address: 137 Old York Road Bridgewater NJ 08807

Bridgewater-Raritan High School ranked in U.S. News & World Report

Bridgewater-Raritan High School jumped 36 spots to No. 72 in New Jersey and 835 spots to No. 1,510 nationally in the latest U.S. News & World Report rankings. Last year, it ranked No. 108 in the state and No. 2,345 nationwide. U.S. News evaluated more than 24,000 schools on test performance, graduation rates and college readiness. Bridgewater-Raritan earned a 94% graduation rate, 53% AP participation and a final score of 91.56.

Hillside Intermediate’s Neel Sood takes 2nd in ASA poster competition

A current Sixth grader Neel Sood of Hillside Intermediate School earned second place in the American Statistical Association’s Data Visualization Poster Competition (grades 4-6) for “Chorus Members’ Song Choice—Boys vs. Girls,” blending math and music. The project earned national recognition in Amstat News and on the ASA website, plus a $200 honorarium. Chorus director Tony Sgro lauded Sood’s creativity; Axelrod praised his win.

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the CITY LIST

We have such amazing, innovative business leaders in our community who are proud to serve you, our residents, with class and quality. We’ve compiled some of our top company picks for the services that might be on your mind this month in an effort to make your lives a little easier.

Best Day Care

The Learning Experience - Bridgewater www.thelearningexperience.com | 732.893.8406

Kangaroo Kids Child Care and Learning Center kangarookidschildcare.com/ | 908.231.7800

Celebree School of Branchburg https://www.celebree.com/branchburg-nj/ | 908.420.1692

Ellie's Academy https://elliesacademy.com | 908.864.4033

The Preschool Place & Kindergarten www.preschoolplace.com | 908.722.0101

Best Speech Language Pathologist

The Bayles Family Speech Center https://www.baylesfamilyspeechcenter.com | 908.578.0825

Kid PT kidpt.com/ | 908.543.4390

One-on-One Speech Therapy http://www.oneononespeechtherapy.com/ | 732.301.4909

Want to suggest a monthly pick?

Northeast Speech and Language Services https://northeastspeechservices.com/ | 908.458.6267

Tuned Into Speech LLC https://tunedintospeech.clientsecure.me/ | 732.595.7781

Best Senior Living Community

Avalon Assisted Living at Bridgewater bshcare.com/avalon-assisted-living-at-bridgewater | 908.707.8800

The Delaney of Bridgewater thedelaneyofbridgewater.com/ | 732.328.7122

The Chelsea https://chelseaseniorliving.com/ | 908.889.4200

Sunrise Senior Living https://www.sunriseseniorliving.com/ | 908.542.9000

Laurel Circle https://laurelcirclelcs.com/ | 908.595.6500

Best Cleaning Service

Bridgewater cleaning services https://www.bridgewatercleaning.com/ | 732.532.4993

L-A Cleaning Service www.la-cleaningservices.com | 973.687.9919

Tucked and Tidy https://tuckedandtidy.com/ | 732.301.6109

Yankenfera Cleaning Services www.yankenfera.com/ | 732.763.2711

Select Cleaning Services http://selectcleanservices.com/ | 908.494.2103

Best Private Chef + Caterer

L&S Chefs Table https://lschefstable.com/ | 732.939.5772

Bright Thyme Catering https://brightthyme.com/ | 908.275.0230

Joes Meat Market https://joes-meatmarket.com/ | 732.356.4557

K&S Market www.kandsmarket.com | 908.595.1606

Benny's Kitchen 732.805.0108

closing time

From Bridgewater to Elizabethtown, freshman pitcher Cory Rible proves he’s built for big moments

Name: Cory Rible

High School: Bridgewater-Raritan HS, Class of 2024

College: Elizabethtown College, Class of 2028

Sport: Baseball

Position: Pitcher

Standing tall at 6’3” and 220 pounds, righthanded pitcher Cory Rible is already making an impact in his freshman season at Elizabethtown College. Wearing No. 39, Rible appeared in 15 games in 2025, tallying 12 strikeouts in 15 innings while earning six saves. His ability to deliver under pressure makes him a reliable closer and a rising force in the bullpen.

“The extra work—at Zoned, in the classroom, and on the mound—keeps me raising the bar to help Elizabethtown win,” Rible says.

Son of Frank and Debra Rible, Cory brings hometown pride from Bridgewater and is determined to make his mark in collegiate baseball.

At Bridgewater-Raritan High School, Rible built a standout résumé:

• All-Conference Second Team (2023)

• All-Conference First Team (2024)

• All-Group First Team (2024)

• All-Area First Team (2024)

• All-State First Team (2024)

• NJ.com Pitcher of the Year (2024)

• Central Jersey Sports Radio Player of the Year (2024)

• Helped lead his team to County, Sectional, and State Championships (2024)

ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS

PHOTOGRAPHY BY ZONED SPORTS ACADEMY

His development was fueled by tireless training at Zoned Sports Academy, a premier baseball and softball facility dedicated to helping athletes refine their skills. The extra hours at Zoned sharpened his command, mechanics, and mental toughness—tools that translated directly to his dominance on the mound and his ability to handle high-pressure situations.

Off the field, Rible matched his athletic achievements with academic excellence, as a member of the Honor Society, Spanish Honor Society, and achieving High Honor Roll his junior and senior years.

Now majoring in Business Administration with a concentration in Entrepreneurship, Rible continues to balance athletics and academics, setting himself up for success both on the mound and in his future career.

THE RECYCLED REVOLUTION STARTS HERE

With millions of feet of recycled paper already distributed, Tyler Simpson is on a mission to help businesses reduce waste— and save the planet.

When Tyler Simpson, founder of TJA Distributors, finished an hour-long pitch to a potential manufacturer, the client asked a question he’d been hoping to avoid: “How old are you?”

“I’m 18,” Simpson replied.

The client was stunned—but impressed. “When I threw the age at the end, we already built such great rapport and trust that age didn’t even matter. It was actually a plus,” Simpson says.

Simpson, a Bridgewater resident and recent Solebury School graduate, launched TJA Distributors at just 16 as a school project. The company’s mission: to help businesses use 100% recycled paper products and reduce deforestation without overspending.

In its first year, TJA distributed over a million feet of recycled paper. To date, they’ve distributed 3.5 million feet and saved an estimated 150 trees. Their efforts have helped five partner organizations—Solebury School, Mill Ballet School, Rutgers Prep, BeReal, and Roxey Ballet—cut about $25,000 from their annual budgets.

The idea was sparked by research Simpson conducted for school on deforestation and sustainable alternatives. “What if I can get the biggest users of paper products to use 100% recycled paper, so they don’t have to use virgin paper?” he asked himself.

Simpson worked closely with manufacturers to source eco-friendly products at lower prices than traditional options. His first client was his own school. With guidance from the CFO, he transitioned the school to fully sustainable paper products—starting with paper towels—and saved them $20 per case.

ARTICLE BY HOLLIDAY WOODARD PHOTOGRAPHY BY TYLER SIMPSON

Simpson remembers crying tears of joy when his first big pitch ended in a deal. “Making that happen meant more than a business win—it was the start of my legacy,” he says.

TJA Distributors is named in honor of his two younger brothers, Justin and Alex. “I didn’t want them to grow up uninspired—I wanted to be a role model for them. Creating TJA was for them, to leave something behind they can grow, learn from, and use to make a difference.”

Raised in North Plainfield, Simpson witnessed tragedy early in life—and the loss of loved ones. His grief and faith became the foundation for his purpose: to show others love, create change, and build a better future.

In addition to TJA, Simpson has served as a volunteer EMS with the Lambertville 175 squad and continues to give back. Recently, his company partnered with Bucks County Parks and Recreation and Bucks Beautiful to plant trees. After researching native species, 15 volunteers came out to support. Clothing drives and other community projects are on the horizon.

He is also a volunteer firefighter in Bridgewater with the Green Knoll Fire Company.

Simpson is now attending Raritan Valley Community College and plans to keep growing TJA Distributors.

“I see him having his own manufacturing plant to create and distribute 100% recyclable products,” says his mother, Gaye Simpson. “But more than just success, I see him giving back and helping others.”

After Losing Everything, Tom O’Leary Built SHIP to Serve the People Others Forgot

THE MAN WHO SAID YES

In the early 1980s Tom O’Leary became homeless after he and his wife lost their jobs. Living in their pickup truck with their three children, two cats and three dogs, he sought service after service to help him, but none provided assistance. At one place, the director even told him, “I guess you think you can run things better.”

“I didn’t get mad,” O’Leary says. “I just thought, ‘Yes, I can.’” O’Leary, who now has close to 50 years of sobriety, went on to help thousands of other people who due to life circumstances, substance use disorders or mental health conditions were in need of the basics of survival.

O’Leary founded a center for women in Paterson before starting the Samaritan Homeless Interim Program (SHIP) in 1984 to help men, women and children in need of food, clothing, emergency housing and associated services in Somerset County and the region.

ARTICLE BY PATTI ZIELINSKI PHOTOGRAPHY BY THOMAS O'LEARY

Since then, SHIP has served over three million meals with the help of volunteers and donated food. Their goal: to take the sting of poverty out of people’s lives. “There is no food budget; everything is donated,” says O’Leary, who serves as CEO and executive director of SHIP, which is based in Somerville. “Without the community and individuals we would not be able to serve this population as we do.”

The people SHIP serves are homeless or near-homeless, “working poor” individuals and families who are underemployed or in substandard housing, and people challenged with substance use disorder, mental health issues or HIV/AIDS. SHIP assists this population by providing critically needed food and clothing, emergency housing, counseling referrals and support services with the goal of helping them achieve self-sufficiency.

From Monday to Friday, volunteers at SHIP’s Safe Harbor & Port of Refuge in Somerville serve lunch at noon; in the summer, weather-permitting, they provide a picnic behind the building in Tic-Tock’s Grove, a shaded lawn space named after a beloved former client. They operate a mobile soup kitchen that offers hot meals from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. weekdays at Sacred Heart Church in Manville. They also run an emergency food pantry (Monday to Friday 8:30 a.m. to 2 p.m.) and package food and hygiene to-go bags. On Easter, Thanksgiving and Christmas volunteers provide a hot holiday meal for hundreds of people at Immaculata High School. “We always have more than enough volunteers,” O’Leary says. “It’s amazing that we have this group of volunteers who selflessly give up part of their holiday to help.”

SHIP’s success is due to the hundreds of volunteers and monetary donations that help with administrative costs and purchase food and supplies. For example, donations, which are tax-deductible, have allowed SHIP to provide over 165,000 nights of shelter to those in need of emergency housing and pay for over 15,500 emergency housing placements.

In addition to monetary donations, SHIP accepts new clothing as well as gently used, laundered winter coats and jeans, and lightly worn shoes for its emergency clothes closet.

In partnership with health care providers such as Zufall Health, Somerset County Department of Health and St. Peter’s University Hospital Community Health Services SHIP provides wellness checks. It also works with the New Jersey Commission for the Blind & Visually Impaired to host an eye clinic and provides a voucher for a free pair of prescription eyeglasses at LensCrafters.

“We serve those who are shunned by others,” O’Leary says. “We do not refuse anyone. We don’t ask questions. If you come to our door, we feed you.”

Learn how you can help SHIP provide services at ship908.com

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Blueberry Ricotta Pancakes

ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY

BY BRUNCH BY DEMARTINO

Garden State City Lifestyle Recipe of the Month

For our November Thankful Issue, we’re especially thankful for these cozy Blueberry Ricotta Pancakes—our favorite recipe of the month from Brunch by DeMartino to share around the table with family and friends.

Blueberry Ricotta Pancakes

ingredients:

• 2 cups all-purpose flour

• 2 Tbsp granulated sugar

• 1½ tsp baking powder

• ¾ tsp baking soda

• ½ tsp salt

• 2 cups buttermilk

• 2 large eggs, beaten

• 2 Tbsp melted butter

• 1 tsp vanilla extract

• 1 tsp canola oil

• Whole milk (to thin batter as needed)

directions:

Step 1. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. Step 2. In another bowl, combine buttermilk, eggs, melted butter, vanilla, and canola oil. Step 3. Gradually mix wet ingredients into dry ingredients until just combined. Thin with a splash of milk if batter is too thick. Step 4. Heat a lightly greased skillet or griddle over medium heat. Pour batter to form pancakes, cooking until bubbles form and edges are set before flipping.

Whipped Ricotta Topping

ingredients:

• 1 cup fresh ricotta

• 1 Tbsp honey

• 1 tsp lemon juice

directions:

Step 1. Combine ricotta, honey, and lemon juice in a mixing bowl. Step 2. Whisk until smooth and fluffy.

Blueberry Compote

ingredients:

• 2 cups fresh or frozen blueberries

• 3 Tbsp water

• ¼ cup sugar

• 2 Tbsp honey

• 2 tsp lemon juice

directions:

Step 1. In a small saucepan, combine 1 cup blueberries, water, sugar, honey, and lemon juice. Step 2. Cook over medium heat for about 10 minutes. Step 3. Add the remaining blueberries and continue cooking for 8 minutes, stirring frequently, until thickened and glossy.

Serve pancakes warm with a dollop of whipped ricotta and a spoonful of blueberry compote.

For more yummy recipes like this, follow @gardenstatecitylifestyle on socials.

at the Barefoot COUNTRY MUSIC FEST

Garden State City Lifestyle was grateful to have a front-row view on Wildwood’s iconic beach at the 2025 Barefoot Country Music Fest — and it did not disappoint. Held June 19–22, the four-day celebration drew thousands of fans from across the nation to sing, dance and soak in coastal vibes.

Headliners included Jason Aldean, Jelly Roll, Lainey Wilson, Rascal Flatts and Jordan Davis, with more than 40 additional artists lighting up

multiple stages. From chart-topping anthems to beachside ballads, the lineup delivered nonstop entertainment and crowd-pleasing singalongs. Wilson brought powerhouse vocals and glittering style, Jelly Roll captivated with authenticity, and Rascal Flatts had fans of all ages belting every chorus.

The setting did half the magic. With the Atlantic as a backdrop and a steady ocean breeze, sets rolled from golden-hour glow into neon-lit nights. Fans in cowboy boots and flip-flops mingled along the boardwalk between shows, grabbing lemonades and soft-serve before hustling back for the next guitar solo.

Between performances, festivalgoers explored fan zones, sponsor activations and shaded lounges, while vendors served everything from barbecue to boardwalk classics. Beach-friendly production kept lines moving and sightlines clear; even from farther back, big screens and stacked sound kept the action close.

Standout moments included surprise guest appearances, acoustic breaks that quieted the beach to a hush and late-night closers that turned the shoreline into one swaying chorus. By Sunday, Wildwood felt like the unofficial capital of country music — and we left sunkissed and grateful for the view.

Whether you’re a country die-hard or just in it for summer vibes, Barefoot Country Music Fest is a must. Mark your calendar for next year; once you’ve danced barefoot in the sand to your favorite hits, you’ll count down until the next one.

If you go next year: Book lodging early, pack a brimmed hat and reef-safe sunscreen, bring a light layer for ocean breezes after sunset and consider a small beach blanket for between sets. Comfortable footwear is a win — boots optional, flip-flops welcome.

Learn more at barefootcountrymusicfest.com

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GRATEFUL hearts, wagging TAILS

When Luca Blessent first opened the doors to K9 Resorts Hillsborough, he envisioned more than just a premier boarding and daycare facility. He imagined a place where every dog — from family pets to rescues awaiting their forever homes — could feel safe, cared for, and loved.

That mission has only grown stronger in the years since. Blessent, who owns the Hillsborough location with his wife, Georgina, says gratitude is at the heart of everything they do. “We’re thankful for the trust families place in us, and in return, we make sure every pup who comes through our doors receives the same quality care,” he says.

BEYOND BOARDING

K9 Resorts Hillsborough stands out for the way it weaves community and compassion into its operations. The team regularly provides complimentary boarding for rescue dogs in urgent need of housing, ensuring they are treated with the same attention and comfort as paying guests.

“Our facility has hosted many dogs who might not have had another option,” Blessent says. “Rescue dogs here don’t just have a place to sleep — they have the same positive, enriching experience as any client’s pet.”

K9 Resorts Hillsborough’s Ongoing Commitment to Dogs in Need

ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS PHOTOGRAPHY BY TOM SOLYMOSI

This year, the resort introduced a new initiative: an adoption package offering free evaluations and three nights of boarding for newly adopted rescue pups. The program is designed to give new pet parents peace of mind as they transition into life with their furry family member.

SAFE, CLEAN, AND COMPASSIONATE

Behind the playtime and pampering, K9 Resorts Hillsborough is meticulous about safety and cleanliness. Every dog undergoes a two-part evaluation before boarding, designed to ensure they’re comfortable with the facility and, if applicable, thrive in group play. For pups who prefer a quieter experience, the resort offers one-on-one play sessions with staff.

“Our goal is for every dog to truly enjoy being here,” Blessent says. “It’s about creating a safe and positive environment, whether that means romping with other dogs or bonding with our team.”

STORIES THAT STAY WITH YOU

Some rescues leave an indelible mark. Last year, a young pit bull named Barney was found abandoned at a park and taken into rescue custody. With no space available, Blessent stepped in to help. Barney stayed at K9 Resorts for several months, quickly becoming a staff favorite. He even made a live television appearance with Blessent to raise awareness about adoption. Barney has since found a loving home, but he still returns to K9 Resorts for boarding — wagging his tail as if he never left.

THANKFUL FOR THE JOURNEY

Blessent credits the resort’s success not only to its top-tier facilities but also to a staff dedicated to the well-being of every dog. From shy pups who learn to run through the doors with excitement, to rescue dogs who find a second chance at life, every story fuels their gratitude.

“Every adoption, every happy tail wag — that’s what reminds us why we do this,” Blessent says. “We’re thankful to be part of these dogs’ lives, even for just a short while.”

For Blessent, thankfulness goes beyond business. It’s about community, compassion, and making a difference — one paw print at a time.

For more information, visit k9resorts.com/hillsborough

H O P E

Begins with YOU A SEASON TO SEE THE UNSEEN

The holidays have a way of calling us back to what matters most—faith, family, compassion, and the quiet but powerful act of giving. As lights go up and calendars fill, there are still many who sit in silence, carrying burdens too heavy to bear alone. But what if this season, you could be the spark that changes everything for someone else?

The founders of City Lifestyle, through their private foundation, are once again launching its annual Christmas Giving Campaign—a heartfelt effort to seek out and support individuals and families who have quietly fallen through the cracks. The mission is simple: to bring light, dignity, and hope to those who need it most.

Since its beginning just four years ago, this initiative has grown from a humble idea into a life-changing movement. Last Christmas alone, more than 200 families across the country received unexpected support—financial relief, but also something even more powerful.

“We don’t just send checks,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”

Together with City Lifestyle President Matthew Perry, Steven has helped shape this into a tradition that goes far beyond charity. “This is about community,” Matthew adds. “We believe we’ve been blessed, so now we get to be a blessing.”

Every story begins with a nomination. Often, it’s a neighbor, coworker, friend, or teacher—someone who’s been quietly carrying too much for too long. One past recipient, after receiving unexpected support during a time of deep personal struggle, wrote:

SCAN TO NOMINATE

“We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”

“Beyond the very practical solution of receiving funds to fix my car, this thing you guys worked together to do is bigger than that. I carry the Christmas card you sent in my purse. When things get really hard, I pull it out and remember what it felt like to be seen. That card represents hope— that change for the better is possible. I’m not sure how many people get to carry hope around in their purse. But I do.”

Another wrote in after her husband was diagnosed with aggressive brain cancer and unable to work:

“This support has blessed our family not only financially, but emotionally and spiritually as we trust God to meet our needs throughout this difficult time. Thank you to our anonymous friend and to your foundation. What a joy and gift to be part of God’s family!”

Each year brings countless stories like these—real lives touched by simple acts of kindness. Some use the funds to pay overdue bills, others to afford groceries, medication, or repairs. But no matter the circumstance, the impact is the same: hope is restored.

This season, you have the opportunity to be part of that. The campaign is now open to nominations—completely confidential and prayerfully considered. Whether it’s someone battling illness, facing unemployment, or just in need of a helping hand, you can bring them a moment of grace that will ripple far beyond Christmas morning.

“Knowing my mom was chosen filled my heart with indescribable joy,” said another past recipient. “Your generosity doesn’t just brighten her life; it inspires hope and faith in all of us. It enables her to stay in her home and get back on her feet.”

Nominations are open from November 1st to December 5th, 2025. To submit someone you know, simply scan the QR code or visit @CityLifestyle on Instagram, where you’ll find the nomination form in the bio.

This holiday season, let’s give more than gifts. Let’s give each other the gift of being seen. Because sometimes, the smallest gesture becomes someone’s greatest miracle.

To nominate someone in need, visit: KingdomBuildingFoundation.org or scan the QR code.

unique GIFTING

ARTICLE BY MEL BOBAN

SEASON

The holiday season is officially on, and gifting is top of mind. We’re all used to scrolling online, browsing the malls or hitting the local boutiques, but sometimes it’s fun and unexpected to switch it up. If looking to surprise and delight recipients this year and to bring a new tradition to the season, offbeat gifting can be a great way to turn a new leaf on stale routines.

1) PRE-HOLIDAY SURPRISE. For those traveling, send  gifts early, such as cheeses, fruit or pies.

2) FUTURE FUN. Browse winter or spring events; snag tickets to enjoy with recipients.

3) GENEROSITY. Donations make heartfelt, thoughtful ideas.

4) TRAVEL. Gift a loved one with a trip.

5) TIME. Is a recipient busy, overloaded and overworked? Treat them to a whole home cleaning before or after the holiday.

6) LOVE OF LEARNING. If a loved one is planning international travel, grab them a gift card for a language learning app.

7) THOUGHTFUL MESSAGES. Ask friends and family to record loving messages on cellphones; combine recordings using a video app for meaningful holiday greeting.

8) BON APPÉTIT. Sign up special someone for cooking class regarding favorite cuisine, or cuisine they struggle to make.

9) RECIPE BOOK. Gather traditional family recipes and create printed books for guests as priceless keepsakes.

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Thankful for Every Word

Inside Bayles Family Speech Center

Step into the Bayles Family Speech Center and it feels more like a living room than a clinic — by design. Founder Denise Bayles, a speech-language pathologist with 30 years of experience, builds care on warmth, trust and family partnership. “People need warmth. They need nurturing as well as quality therapy,” Bayles says. “I want families to feel this is a place where we build a strong trusting relationship.”

Gratitude runs through her work — gratitude for each small win, for parents who practice at home, and for voices that grow clearer week by week. “I was raised as a big family person,” Bayles says. “I bring that to the table and treat people like family.”

Therapy here includes the whole household. Parent coaching isn’t an add-on; it is in the plan. “There is not one session where I don’t do some kind of family training — during or at the end,” Bayles says. Caregivers leave with clear, doable strategies: how to expand a child’s one-word request into a two-word phrase, how to turn bath time into a language routine, how to wait for a response instead of answering for the child. “Families need to be able to work with their family members. That’s something I support and enhance,” she says.

Evidence-based and personal can coexist, Bayles adds. Licensed since 1995, she completes regular coursework in motor speech, post-frenectomy rehabilitation and updated oral-motor tools, and language development, along with required ethics, DEI and supervision credits. “You have to keep current, use researchbased techniques, and still take in the whole child,” she says. She mentors high school, undergraduate and graduate observers, introducing them to family-centered care, and guest lectures when asked to help the next generation see what compassionate practice looks like in real rooms with real families.

What does a first therapy visit look like? Less pressure, more conversation, establishing rapport. Bayles reviews history and goals, watches how a child plays, and explains what she is seeing in plain language. Families leave knowing what to try at home that night — a game, a cue, a small change that builds momentum. “If they understand the why, they’re more likely to follow through,” she says.

She urges families to skip “wait and see.” “It’s antiquated,” Bayles says. Some examples of red flags include: missing developmental milestones, when caregivers understand less than half of a child’s speech, trouble following simple directions or weak chewing because the introduction of solids was delayed. “Muscles support speech development,” she says. “Get off the bottle by a year, pacifiers should be gone by around six months. Move to a straw cup so those muscles work correctly.” She recalls screening a child where multiple sounds were incorrect and she was not being understood at all. The family deferred services and Denise was recently told that same child is now struggling with learning to read. “If your child needs help, please get them help. Research shows that speech and language delay puts kids at a significant risk for deficits in reading, math, and language arts as they progress through school” she says.

Progress, she notes, begins in everyday moments. “Get off the screen. Put down the phones and tablets. Interact. Talk to each other,” Bayles says. A deck of picture cards, a favorite board game, folding laundry together — these are small, repeatable opportunities to model vocabulary, practice turn-taking and build confidence. “Language grows when we slow down long enough to hear each other,” she says.

To make guidance easier to access, Bayles is launching a small communication playgroup for three to four families at a

time. “Kids can play and I answer parent questions and model activities,” she says. She is also planning to re-launch her online training video, “Help Me, Help My Kids” so caregivers can revisit techniques on demand. “I’ve found that video recording practice bits in sessions for the families, helps keep the practice going at home,” she says.

Looking ahead, her wish list is simple: faster referrals, fewer delays and sustainable roles for young clinicians. “I’d like parents to have a firmer understanding of the importance of speech therapy so we have fewer delays,” Bayles says. “And I hope the next generation of therapists is respected and able to find good jobs.”

This November, the center is celebrating the quiet victories: a first clear sound, a two-word phrase, a confident answer in class or at the dinner table. Families often share those wins in texts and videos; the team cheers along. “It’s better to get checked and gain peace of mind than miss a critical window,” Bayles says. “When families feel empowered, kids thrive — and that’s something to be grateful for.”

Bayles Family Speech Center

Address: 191 Church Rd, Bridgewater

Phone: (908) 578-0825

Website: baylesfamilyspeechcenter.com

events

A SELECTION OF UPCOMING LOCAL EVENTS

NOVEMBER 5TH

Moonlight Meander | Somerset County Environmental Education Center

190 Lord Stirling Rd., Basking Ridge | 5:00 PM

Stroll the trails under the evening sky with a naturalist guide. Discover nocturnal wildlife and the sounds of late-autumn wetlands.

NOVEMBER 7TH, 13TH, & 14TH

Fall Florals After Dark — House of Blooms

House of Blooms, 7 First Avenue, Raritan | 6:00 PM

Sip, snip and style your way into the season at three cozy evening workshops. Choose your night: Nov. 7, November Everlasting ($40); Nov. 13, The Cornucopia ($80); and Nov. 14, Pumpkin Centerpiece ($74). Each runs 6 to 8 p.m. and includes guided design, long-lasting blooms and take-home techniques for holiday hosting. Details and registration: houseofbloomsnj.com

NOVEMBER 7TH

Dendrology Workshop | Duke Farms

1112 Dukes Pkwy W., Hillsborough | 9:00 AM

Learn to identify trees and explore forest ecology during this hands-on field workshop at Duke Farms—perfect for educators, stewards and curious nature lovers. For more information, visit dukefarms.org/event/dendrology-workshop

NOVEMBER 11TH

Bridgewater Woman's Club - November Meeting

120 Finderne Ave., Bridgewater | 9:30 AM

The Bridgewater Woman’s Club will hold its monthly meeting beginning at 9:30 a.m. with refreshments, followed by a business meeting at 10 a.m. The program, The Evolution of Thanksgiving, starts at 11 a.m. Paul Soltis, historian at Wallace House, will present how Thanksgiving has evolved in the United States.

NOVEMBER 22ND

Dancing with the JCC Stars

775 Talamini Rd, Bridgewater | 6:30 PM

Eight community volunteers, eight professional dancers, one Mirror Ball Trophy. Who will take home the glory? Expect sequins and showstopping moves. All proceeds benefit the JCC Sustainability Fund, which ensures no one is turned away by supporting scholarships, summer camp, early childhood education and special needs programs. The JCC says “yes,” regardless of background or ability to pay.

NOVEMBER 28TH

Winter Village & Festival of Trees | Red Mill Museum Village

56 Main St., Clinton | 10:00 AM

Shop an outdoor artisan market, sip seasonal treats and browse decorated trees along the scenic South Branch—a perfect post-Thanksgiving outing.

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