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All things seem possible in May HERE AT BIRMINGHAM LIFE MAGAZINE, WE ARE SO GRATEFUL FOR OUR PARTNERS WHO BELIEVE IN THE SUPPORT OF THE COMMUNITY AND THE IMPORTANT ROLE OUR LIFESTYLE PUBLICATION PLAYS IN BRINGING YOU ALL THINGS LOCAL IN THE BIRMINGHAM & BLOOMFIELD COMMUNITY. We applaud all the small businesses who have had to make big decisions about

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their day-to-day operations and employees. We salute these business owners who have cared for customers with unprecedented consideration while staying positive and engaged. As for all our ladies, where would we be without you? It is during May that we celebrate mothers, step-mothers, grandmothers, great-grandmothers and so many more who help build our community. It takes a village to raise a child, and our village has so many remarkable women who we are thankful for. We hope you see this women’s issue as a bright ray of sunshine. If you have stories of goodness, please send them our way.

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MAY 2021

FEATURES 12 Women of Influence Fabulous ladies who seem to do it all.

18 Powerful Women Balancing Medicine and Motherhood I jumped at the chance to get to know these powerhouse mamas.

24 Mother’s Day Gift Guide A guide for finding a perfect local gift for mom.

34 Hometown Hero We spoke with Founder of Kids Empowered: On the Move, Kimber

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Bishop-Yanke, who is working hard to better the community.

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Good Times

Around Town

Local Limelight

24 Local’s Choice 26 Travel Destination 30 Parting Thoughts 32 Lifestyle Calendar 34 Locals Only

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Birmingham Bloomfield Art Center’s Spring Exhibition The Birmingham Bloomfield Art Center (BBAC), a regional non-profit art center committed to promoting visual arts experiences for all, has its first spring 2021 exhibitions, featuring Brian Rutenberg. The exhibits, also including Frank James Fisher: Pop Artifacts, J.A. Richard: Hope in Miniature and the Students of Edward Duff, are open March 12 to April 22, 2021.

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AROUND TOWN

JOE VICARI RESTAURANT GROUP OPENS BARLEYCORN’S PUBLIC HOUSE

JEWISH FEDERATION OF METROPOLITAN DETROIT

The Joe Vicari Restaurant Group, which is

Making A Signature Impact with Fran Drescher

Michigan owned and operated by the Vicari Family

On March 4, 2021, close to 600 women gath-

for more than 30 years, is thrilled to announce the

ered together virtually for the Signature Event: A

opening of Barleycorn’s Public House in Shelby

Girl’s Night In, presented by EHIM, with special

Township. The JVRG, known for their highly suc-

guest Fran Drescher from the TV series The

cessful Andiamo and Joe Muer Seafood restaurants,

Nanny. Organized by Women’s Philanthropy of

will be bringing Barleycorn’s Public House in the

the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit, this

space formerly occupied by Buc’eez Pub and is built

annual event raises funds for the Federation’s

on the backbone of unparalleled customer service,

Annual Campaign and celebrates the power-

chef-inspired dishes and handcrafted cocktails.

ful and important role of women in philanthropy.

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with its main purpose being to interpret, preserve and educate on the history of sports in Michigan. (Pictured Left Andrew Harris, Right Vincent Kirkwood)

NEW BIRMINGHAM BOUTIQUE SALON Samantha Proffer, also known as SamGlamm, is proud to announce the opening of her new Birmingham boutique salon, Ornate Space! With

LEGACY TWINS AWARDED EVANS SCHOLARSHIP

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Brother Rice is proud to share that legacy stu-

coupled with pampering for working women and

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but thankfully she can always be reached here

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“The Evans Scholarship Program and Oakland Hills have provided a truly exceptional opportunity to these remarkable young men. We are proud and

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LOCAL LIMELIGHT

WOMEN OF INFLUENCE WE ASKED SIX LOCAL WOMEN WITH A SAVVY BUSINESS SENSE TO

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HOW

EACH

THEIR JOURNEYS BEGAN. Each one is a superstar in their own regard. We loved getting to know these fabulous ladies who balance both businesses and motherhood with grace and ease.

MEET THE MATCHMAKER: I’m Lisa Chaben and I feel so blessed to possess an innate gift for creating the kinds of meaningful connections for others that we all long for, from true love to deep friendships to soul-level bonds. It is something that has come naturally to me since I was in my teens, brings me such joy, and that I honestly took for granted until the pandemic hit. Singles in their 20s to their 70s began reaching out to me daily expressing profound isolation, loneliness and sadness and asking for my help. After successfully fixing up hundreds of couples that have led to fulfilling, long-lasting marriages, I took my lifelong passion to a whole new level and started Match With Lisa last fall, a truly unique, highly personalized concierge dating service for individuals interested in genuine human

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WE LOVED GETTING TO KNOW THESE FABULOUS LADIES WHO BALANCE BOTH BUSINESSES AND MOTHERHOOD WITH GRACE AND EASE.

Lisa Chaben of Match With Lisa

WOMEN OF ARTICLE KARIN EISENBERG

One of Match With Lisa’s inspiring social media posts

connection and lasting love. Our clients are educated, discerning and motivated to meet that special

someone, and uninterested in the impersonal, fleeting, often unsafe encounters they experience on typical dating apps. I take them under my matchmaking wing, get to know their hopes, dreams and hearts, and then work my magic to find their perfect match. I am on a mission to create lasting love connections across metro Detroit…and beyond. I savor being referred to as a modern-day Cupid.

Covid safe wedding planned by Carlyn Roth

Carlyn Roth of The Bash Events

COVID brought a whole host of new challenges to the wedding world. As a planner, it was my job to look at every aspect/detail of a wedding and consider how to make it safer. Some of the changes we have made we are continuing to implement through this year, as well. Planning seating with “pods” in mind and pro-

MEET THE PREMIER EVENT PLANNER:

viding protective equipment for guests and staff. We eliminated

I’m Carlyn Roth and I’ve have been in the events industry

any “communal” food service, have kept everything individually

for 20 years and established my own business, The Bash

packaged and eliminated any bar crowding by spreading out

Events, in 2012. While I take on any type of social event,

drink stations. One of the most important aspects is to commu-

I’m 90% wedding-based and love the relationships that

nicate the safety intentions to all. This season, my clients are

you establish when you work closely with a family over the

more willing to move forward with their events with precautions

course of a year. Most often I will book an event about 12-16

and flexibility. There is a sense that we now know what works to

months out; but I’ve planned weddings in less than 2 months.

keep people safe and with peace of mind- finally! CONTINUED >

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INFLUENCE LOCAL LIMELIGHT (CONTINUED)

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MEET THE SALON ENTREPRENEUR: Driven by passion to make women feel great about themselves is the essence of Beauty Collective and I’m the founder, Cara Hiddings. More than color, cut or style it’s the salon experience fueled by creative artistry of independent hair stylists. This experience starts with the alluring backdrop of my two Birmingham salons and soon to open Royal Oak location. I opened up my first studio salon in 2008 then expanded it in the existing building 2012 (Birmingham Eton), the second location opened in 2017 (downtown Utica). My third location opened in 2019 (Birmingham) and the forth location is opening 2021 (Royal Oak). Beauty Collective salons are as unique as they are gorgeous. Every stylist is an independent artist, each delivering an unforgettable experience. Stylists draw inspiration from one another, finding their own unique niche.

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The collective team of stylists are dedicated to advancing their craft with education and current trends. Seen it, heard about out or dreaming of it – it’s all possible from the team at Beauty Collective! “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams,” said Eleanor Roosevelt. This is the motto I stand by. Cara Hiddings of Beauty Collective

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Alyse Belkin of Belkin Tutoring

MEET THE TUTOR EXTRAORDINAIRE: I’m Alyse Belkin and I began teaching in 1989. After a painful divorce that left me emotionally and financially depleted, I was forced to change my mindset and empowered to take risks and embrace new opportunities. While raising two kids as a single mom and working full time in the public school system, I simultaneously went back to school and earned an educational leadership post-degree. Looking back I realize that move was my game changer. It raised the bar for me personally and

BUSINESS

I knew it was time to expand my professional world. After

twenty-seven years of teaching, I accepted a position at The Roper School while continuing tutoring. Roper pre-

sented new growth opportunities that further fueled my

tutoring capacity. Two years ago I hired a few tutors to

service my overflow of students. When COVID hit, my client base exploded and I grew my staff and formed pods. My tutoring services are tailored to align with

the current educational needs of students and families. Favorite phrase: “You’re not going to knock me down”.

Alyse Belkin on a virtual tutoring session

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MOTHERHOOD LOCAL LIMELIGHT (CONTINUED)

MEET THE DYNAMIC LEGAL DUO:

Roquia Draper:

Nazli Sater:

I too, am A Warner Norcross + Judd partner and have exten-

As a Warner Norcross + Judd partner and the firm’s Family

sive experience representing both family law and business

Law/Divorce Practice Group chair, I’ve had more than 30

contract disputes, focusing on domestic relations and divorces,

years’ experience handling complex family law matters for

and also on executive compensation packages, business

professionals, business owners and high net-worth individuals.

valuations and complex asset division. My primary focus on

We provide thoughtful and reasonable counsel while aggres-

domestic relations allows me to impact my clients’ lives during

sively pursuing our clients’ best interests. I joined Warner in 2011

a very difficult time by being their strongest advocate while

and have held several committee and practice group leader-

providing reasonably aggressive but measured advice. Born

ship positions within the firm and known as: “A tenacious fighter

in the United Arab Emirates, I immigrated to the United States

and champion for my clients; yet, sensitive to the personal

when I was six and I credit my cultural ties from my life in Jordan

impact that divorce and separation have on individuals and

to providing a unique perspective in the United States. Once

families. I’m practical and compassionate at the same time.” I’ve

I overcame the language barrier, I found a passion to use that

had trial and arbitration victories across several high-profile and

voice and I’ve spent my professional career as an advocate for

complex family law cases and attribute much of my success to

others. “Focusing on the big picture” has been a motto that I

“Maintaining the highest level of privacy and confidentiality

live by and it’s been the key to my success. So is taking it one

while making clients’ matters my own matters.” Additionally,

day at a time – which is something I help my clients do.

I’ve helped clients maintain strong relationships with their children as they transition through a divorce – an incredibly difficult balancing act that requires careful guidance.

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PHOTOGRAPHY ADDY SELIGMAN KATZ

I JUMPED AT THE CHANCE TO GET TO KNOW THESE POWERHOUSE MAMAS. WHEN I WAS TOLD THAT I’D BE INTERVIEWING

Dr. Carrie Leff is an Andover (now Bloomfield Hills) High

TWO AMAZING WOMEN — BOTH MOTHERS, WIVES

School graduate who went on to the University of Michigan

AND DOCTORS — I JUMPED AT THE CHANCE TO

Medical School. She’s an Internist, Pediatrician and

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kind they both are. To top it off, each is bright and accom-

cent medicine. What struck me the most is how this mom

plished and seemingly effortlessly makes it all work.

of three has used her focus and unwavering direction to

Dr. Carrie Leff of Henry Ford Health System

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become a true role model to her patients as well as her family. In her spare time she educates parents, teens and tweens about puberty and even developed a series of body education programs with her

that kids have these days and how important it is for parents not

partner called “Turningteen.” Prior to COVID-19, she ran workshops

to burden their children with their own worries and concerns. The

for parents and children in various communities. The programs are

anxiety that kids sometimes feel is a normal trait, she says, noting

now online for parents and their children to watch in the comfort of

that not every child who is anxious needs to be treated. Her motto:

their home. (turningteen.com) The mother of girls ages 14, 13 and

When moms aren’t doing anything to please themselves, they have

9, Dr. Leff indicated to me that she doesn’t feel guilty about being

a hard time being effective moms. In other words, parents who feel

a working mom and does, in fact, spend more quality time with her

good about themselves can raise children with that same self-esteem.

children that is solid and balanced. She believes in having help in the

A Bloomfield Hills resident for more than 20 years, Dr.

house so she and her husband can work and feel confident that the

Hannan Alsahlani graduated from Olympic Heights High School in

kids are always spoken for. We spoke in-depth about the anxieties

Boca Raton, Florida, and went on to attend the University of Miami for

Celebrate Your Body 2: Is the ultimate Puberty Book for Preteen and Teen girls written by: Dr. Carrie Leff

Dr. Hannan Alsahlani of Serenity Pediatrics

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POWERFUL WOMEN BALANCING MEDICINE AND MOTHERHOOD (CONTINUED) Dr. Alsahlani at Serenity Pediatrics

“She relates to her patients on a personal level, gaining their trust and giving hope. Her motto says it all: Trust the universe.” her undergraduate degree. She completed medical school at Nova

issues that have risen during this stressful time and understands

Southeastern and did her residency and training in pediatrics at St.

the lack of help some parents feel, especially with the shortage of

John Hospital. As a mother of four daughters, this busy woman has

therapists available right now. She has deep compassion for her

found a balance between being a mom, a wife, an essential worker

patients that extends to their families and believes that no question

who runs her own practice, and helping her children with virtual

is off-limits. She has experienced firsthand how the issues and strug-

schooling. Add contracting COVID-19 to the list and Dr. Alsahlani

gles of isolation and lack of socialization have affected today’s youth.

has met the challenges of these trying times with humor, a giant

Most of these kids want basic things like seeing their friends or not

smile and unsurpassed tenacity. She seems to do so many things

having to wear masks, and the rise in suicides is a very real thing. Dr.

that she’s the modern-day Dr. Do-It-All. Her strength stems from

Alsahlani, her associates and nurse-practitioners are always avail-

faith, perseverance and hard work. What makes Dr. Alsahlani stand

able for either in-person appointments and/or tele-visits with a level

out as a pediatrician is her ability to understand how scary it is for

of compassion that is incredible. She relates to her patients on a

first time-mothers or any parent who is vulnerable, especially now

personal level, gaining their trust and giving hope. Her motto says it

during the pandemic. She is acutely cognizant of the mental health

all: Trust the universe.

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minutes with your spouse can foster the connection,

A NOT-SO-NEW IDEA. The “10-minute miracle”

affection and admiration for another to weather any

posits that parents can reduce inappropriate toddler

storm--or international pandemic. Begin by sched-

behavior by showering their child with uninterrupted

uling 10 minutes daily for your spouse and 10 more

and unstructured attention for 10 minutes a day – the

minutes for them to focus on you. Allow your partner

idea being that if you give your child the attention they

to freely associate anything on their mind. Like with

crave, they will not be tempted to seek attention in

children, what makes the magic is having no rules,

inappropriate ways or inconvenient times. Child psy-

agenda or prescribed topics in this conversation, just

chologists and mental health professionals have long

whatever they desire. You do not need to converse or

been familiar with this form of active attending, and

ask leading questions. Just use warm body language

scientific research has reported children with parents

and interested facial expressions. Using these mind-

that use this tactic experience improved self-esteem,

ful behaviors can have infinite romantic advantages,

cooperation and connection to the parent in addition to

too. Paying attention to your partner’s interests and

reduced incidence of anxiety, depression and the fre-

feedback conveys the enthusiasm, curiosity and fas-

quency for discipline. Kids who feel connected to their

cination that would excite any lover.

parents feel more inclined to follow parent expectations

If 10 minutes can magically transform our relation-

and desire to make their parents proud. Additionally, a

ships to our children and our spouses, it’s no wonder

child who feels ignored by their parent won’t much care

that the benefits of routine mindfulness, which is just

if they are in time-out or not.

a form of attending to yourself, has long touted results.

In a world where we have spent the last year com-

A daily routine of mindfulness has been connected to

pletely disconnected from our loved ones, colleagues,

reduced physical ailments like high blood pressure, irri-

routines and sources of enjoyment while at the same

table bowel syndrome and chronic headaches or pain.

time overly connected to our devices, one could see

Mindfulness is also connected to reduction in symp-

how important those 10 minutes of close personal con-

toms of anxiety, depression, sleeplessness and reducing

nection and affection would be. Your smartphone can

memory and brain decline associated with aging.

tell you precisely how many minutes you have attended

Just as you would schedule time for a happy hour

to it daily, but can your child say the same thing about

or to watch an interview of a Royal Couple airing out

you? This idea doesn’t solely apply to spending time

the castle cupboards, it’s time to be intentional about

with children. These 10 miracle minutes could certainly

your unintentional and uninterrupted free time. If you

be made available to pay attention to your spouse or

need some help at first, consider starting with count-

your own hopes, dreams or hobbies.

ing how many times you look at your phone a day.

Research says that 80% of couples report “loss of

If you reduce that number by even 20 percent, that

connection” or “growing apart” as cause for divorce,

additional time might afford you enough to fill all the

leaving all other causes like affairs, arguing or

love buckets in your life, including your own.

“10 -m i nute m i racle” posits that pa rents ca n reduce

i nappropr iate todd ler behav ior by shower i ng thei r ch i ld w ith u n i nter r upted a nd u nst r uct u red at tent ion for 10 m i nutes a day.

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21 - 23 INTERNATIONAL GEM & JEWELRY SHOW Suburban Collection Showplace

This premier exhibition happening in Novi showcases a wide collection of chic and stylish gems and jewelry items. Attend and browse through hundreds of unique earrings, bracelets, gemstones, crystals, beads, pearls, watches and more! For more information, visit intergem.com/events/upcoming-shows/ novi-mi-may-21-23-2021.

22 & 23 GREAT LAKES BOATING FESTIVAL Grosse Pointe Yacht Club

This public event acts as an unofficial kick off for boating season in Michigan! It’s open for all who want to experience a boat show in a beautiful marina atmosphere. While there you can also check out antique cars, Dossin Museum, Edsel & Eleanor Ford House, vintage boats and more! For more information, visit greatlakesboatingfestival.com.

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LOCALS ONLY WE SPOKE WITH FOUNDER OF KIDS EMPOWERED: ON THE MOVE, KIMBER BISHOP-YANKE, WHO IS WORKING HARD TO BETTER THE COMMUNITY.

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Kimber Bishop-Yanke of Kids Empowerment

KIMBER BISHOP-YANKE IS A BIRMINGHAM LOCAL

AND THE

FOUNDER

KIDS

EMPOWERED: ON THE MOVE, AN ORGANIZATION THAT SUPPORTS CHILDREN AND FAMILIES IN THE METRO DETROIT AREA. They accomplish this through efforts such as social and emotional learning programs for children, educational workshops and coaching for parents, summer camps and providing families currently living in poverty with food, furniture, school supplies and more. Some recent highlights of her work through Kids Empowered: On the Move, are organizing Christmas presents for 175 families, a book buddy program where children receive books and read to their buddy each week, sponsoring 200 families for

Kimber quickly jumped into action and worked with this fam-

Easter and approximately 1,000 families receiving

ily and local organizations to find help. Thankfully, with a lot of

a catered Easter meal. They’ve also coordinated

hard work from volunteers they were able to pay for 10 nights in

more than 12,000 food deliveries with the help of

a hotel, giving the family a comfortable and private place to stay,

30-50 volunteers every Saturday for the past year.

and organized volunteers to pick up groceries, diapers and wipes.

Not only is Kimber raising the Metro Detroit

With Christmas around the corner, they sponsored the family and

community up through Kids Empowered: On the

were able to get pajamas, underwear and new clothing for the

Move, but she’s a Chair on the Oakland County Task

kids. They also provided a Christmas Eve and Christmas dinner,

Force on Homelessness and Poverty. Through this

cookies and milk for Santa and a Christmas tree – making sure

role, she works tirelessly to organize food deliver-

the kids experienced a magical holiday.

ies and raise money to pay various emergency bills for individuals and families currently in need.

And believe it or not, that’s just a brief snapshot of what Kimber and her organizations have accomplished over the past year.

As you can imagine, COVID-19 created a ton of

Through her dedication and constant hard work, she’s positively

work for Kimber and her organizations as this ruth-

impacting children, families and communities within the Metro

less pandemic has displaced families across the

Detroit area on a massive scale.

nation. On December 15, 2020 Kimber received a call from Pontiac Schools asking if they could help a family of six who had three members diagnosed with COVID-19. Without any help, the family would become homeless on December 19. As always, she was ready to take this on.

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