Lake Norman Woman Magazine - August 2026

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IN-CHIEF

THIS MONTH, my daughter begins her senior year of college.

I honestly don't know how we got here.

The other day I found myself thinking about fifth grade, when she wrote an original song for the PTA Reflections competition. It earned first place at Torrence Creek Elementary, first in Mecklenburg County, and third in North Carolina for music composition. One lyric still makes me smile:

"I want to go to college to get some good knowledge."

As I look back, I'm reminded that she didn't get here alone.

I'm grateful for every teacher who encouraged her, challenged her, and believed in her. One email exchange with a high school math teacher has stayed with me for years. After I thanked her for helping Katie gain confidence, she wrote back:

At the time, college felt like a lifetime away. She was a little girl sitting at the kitchen table with a notebook full of dreams. Today, she's preparing for her final year before stepping into the next chapter of her life.

The years weren't measured in report cards. They were measured in play rehearsals, cheering from the audience on opening night, celebrating victories over ice cream at Carolina Cones, talking through broken hearts in the car, and all the ordinary Tuesday afternoons I thought would last forever. Somewhere along the way, those ordinary moments became the memories I treasure most.

"From the fear on the first day to the bravery to help her peers. From the 'I can't' to the 'Let me do it again.' That's my reason why."

What a gift teachers give our children. They don't just teach equations or grammar. They help shape confidence, curiosity, resilience, and character. They often see something in our children long before they see it in themselves.

As we celebrate our Back to School issue, I want to thank every educator who pours into the next generation. Your impact reaches far beyond the classroom, and parents like me notice.

This year, as I watch my daughter begin her senior year, I'll treasure every phone call, every visit home, and every ordinary moment.

Because if there's one thing I've learned, it's that the saying is absolutely true:

The days are long, but the years are short. w

LKNw TEAM

EDUCATORS

FEATURES

THANK YOU, EDUCATORS: Lake Norman Chamber's Educators Of The Year

COVER STORY: Reflections And The Courage To Grow

WOMAN OF THE YEAR: Top 10 Finalists

FEATURE STORY: Creating Experiences, Connecting People

IN HIS OWN WORDS: Michael Fournier

LAKE NORMAN WOMAN MAGAZINE

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THANK YOU,Educators!

EVERY GREAT COMMUNITY IS BUILT ON THE PEOPLE who invest in others. Teachers, coaches, mentors, and role models shape futures, encourage dreams, and often leave a lasting impact far beyond the classroom, field, or workplace. As the Lake Norman Chamber of Commerce celebrates its 2026 Educators of the Year for public, charter, and private schools, we join in recognizing not only these outstanding honorees, but also the countless individuals throughout our community who dedicate their time, talents, and hearts to helping others succeed. Their influence can be felt in every generation, and their commitment deserves both our gratitude and our applause.

AMY THOMASTON

LAKE NORMAN CHRISTIAN SCHOOL

“I have found that one of the best teaching tools is just caring about students as people. Respect and kindness go a long way.”

Amy Thomaston, M.A., serves as a middle school English teacher at Lake Norman Christian School, where she is known for fostering a classroom environment that is both challenging and encouraging. Through innovative lessons, collaborative projects, and real-world applications, she helps students develop strong academic skills while building confidence and character. Amy is dedicated to meeting the unique needs of every learner and invests significant time mentoring students and partnering with families. Her commitment extends beyond academics, inspiring perseverance, leadership, and a lifelong love of learning.

ANGIE PHILLIPS

WILLIAM A. HOUGH HIGH SCHOOL

“For over 28 years, I’ve proudly taught students from preschool to high school in the Charlotte and Lake Norman areas. Helping students discover their passions has been the highlight of my career. The best part? Watching those same students stay in the area and become valuable coworkers and active members of our local community.”

MADELYN DAGGERHART-ALSTON

ASPIRE TRADE HIGH SCHOOL

“I believe one of the greatest things a teacher can do is help students see that learning isn’t just something they have to do—it’s something they can actually enjoy. When students feel connected, encouraged, and excited to learn, those lessons stick with them long after they leave the classroom.”

As a founding educator at ASPIRE Trade High School, Madelyn Daggerhart-Alston has helped shape the culture and success of one of the region’s most innovative schools. A social studies teacher known for creativity and energy, she brings history to life through immersive experiences, hands-on projects, and realworld connections that keep students engaged. Beyond the classroom, she serves as department head, tutor, mentor, and school leader, supporting students academically and personally. Colleagues praise her ability to build meaningful relationships while maintaining high expectations.

With nearly 30 years in education, Angie Phillips has built a reputation for inspiring students both inside and outside the classroom. At William A. Hough High School, she teaches AVID, Global Seminar Leadership, and leadership-focused coursework that helps students connect academics to real-world opportunities. Known for creating meaningful partnerships with businesses, colleges, and community leaders, Angie provides handson career readiness experiences that build confidence and communication skills. w

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what 35 years of teaching has taught me about raising

confident kids

THE ARENA IN WHICH A CHILD CHOOSES their classroom may change over the years, but it will determine that child’s future. And yours.

For some students, the classroom is a field while others choose a desk, podium, or gallery. For me, it’s the stage. When children are given the opportunity to discover where they truly belong, they don’t just develop talent; they develop identity, purpose, and belief in themselves.

Choosing where they belong is how a child learns to build confidence, learns to think on their feet, live in the moment, discover resilience, and come alive. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies. It’s often challenging work, but in those difficult moments young minds learn to focus, solve problems, persevere, and rise to the occasion. That’s where true growth happens. Like anyone who finally fits the last piece of a puzzle into place, the sense of accomplishment becomes the foundation of genuine pride.

After more than 35 years of working with children, I’ve learned something that extends far beyond dance and theatre: confidence isn’t created by constant praise. It’s earned through effort, patience, and faith. Children become confident when they attempt something difficult, struggle through it, and discover they are capable of more than they ever imagined.

That belief is built one challenge at a time. Every missed goal, forgotten line, wrong answer, or lost opportunity becomes a chance to grow. Instead of rescuing children from failure, we should offer them two of the most powerful words in the English language: not yet. “I can’t do it...yet.” “I’m not ready...

Children become confident when they attempt something difficult, struggle through it, and discover they are capable of more than they ever imagined.

yet.” Those two words turn failure into feedback and setbacks into steppingstones.

Today’s children are facing a confidence crisis. They are growing up in a world of carefully curated success, constant comparison, and fewer opportunities to struggle through challenges independently. More than ever, they need environments where character is developed, effort is celebrated, and excellence is expected.

Confidence is born in classrooms that don’t just provide acceptance, but accountability. Not just encouragement, but opportunity. Not just participation, but the chance to discover what they’re truly capable of. And these lessons often look different than you might expect. Sometimes the lesson is to wait. Sometimes to get back up. And sometimes to hold still. Are we allowing our children to learn the lessons that matter most, even when we don’t fully understand them?

For the past fifteen years at GCAPA, I’ve had the privilege of watching shy children become leaders and apprehensive performers become confident communicators ... not because someone lowered the bar for them, but because someone who had enough faith in them to raise the bar, make them wait, nurture their growth, and then give them the tools and encouragement to reach it.

Whether their classroom is a stage, a field, or a lab, our responsibility remains the same: help children discover where they belong, challenge them to grow, and remind them that greatness isn’t something they’re born with. It’s something they build, one courageous step at a time. w

WENDI BERGSTROM | GRAND CENTRAL ACADEMY OF PERFORMING ARTS

Wendi Bergstrom is the CEO/Director/Instructor at Grand Central Academy of Performing Arts, LLC, located at 13266 Reese Blvd East, Suite 200, in Huntersville. Connect with Wendi and her entire team at 704.896.3033, via email at info@gcapa.net, or visit www.gcapa.net.

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new beginnings

ONE HEALTH CELEBRATES A REMARKABLE FIRST YEAR AT LAKE NORMAN HOSPITAL

Since opening its doors, the hospital has quickly become a trusted destination for women’s healthcare through the partnership between One Health and Atrium Health. Physicians, advanced practice providers, nurses, technicians, support staff, and administrators have worked together to create an environment built on clinical excellence, personalized attention, and convenient access to services close to home.

IN JUST ONE YEAR,

One Health has helped welcome more than 1,000 babies into the world at Lake Norman Hospital, a milestone that reflects not only the hospital’s rapid growth, but also the confidence women throughout the region have placed in their local healthcare team.

For Rebecca Hobbs, DO, FACOG, Chief of Women’s Services and Chief of Growth & Integration for One Health, the number represents far more than a statistic. “The trust our community has placed in us during our first year is truly humbling,” Dr. Hobbs says. “Welcoming more than 1,000 babies is an incredible reflection of the confidence people have in our team, and it highlights the dedication, expertise, and compassion of everyone involved. Every member of our organization and each partner has contributed to building something truly meaningful.”

Jennifer L. Little, MD, Regional Medical Director of Women’s Services, credits the program’s success to the collaboration that brought the vision to life. “Thanks to the support of Atrium Health’s leadership,” Dr. Little says, “along with an exceptional group of physicians and advanced practice providers, we’ve created a comprehensive women’s health program. As the Lake Norman area continues to expand, we’re excited to evolve alongside our partners, ensuring women have convenient access to coordinated, high-quality services.”

While the first year has brought significant accomplishments, One Health views this moment as the foundation for an even brighter future. With a continued focus on innovation, partnership, and excellence, the organization looks forward to expanding services and supporting generations of Lake Norman families for years to come. w

With 30 locations across North Carolina, One Health provides family medicine, internal medicine, pediatrics, and OB/GYN services, delivering comprehensive care for patients of all ages. Learn more at www.onehealthmpc.com.

Emotional Cost THE OF BEING TOO

UNDERSTANDING

Ionce had client say to me, “He usually didn’t hurt me too bad.”

That is a sentiment I’ve heard too many times from my clients. Some were referencing physical abuse, others meaning emotionally and still others simply meaning callously.

The issue really isn’t the harm that they do, it’s the harm that she suffers. No matter the type of harm, self-diminishment is the result – regardless of the intention.

If you’re a goodhearted woman, you probably understand people more deeply than they understand themselves. You learned to keep the peace, not rock the boat and put yourself in other’s shoes. And somewhere along the way, that beautiful empathy turned into something heavier; something that asks more of you than it gives back.

Most women don’t become “too understanding” out of weakness. It’s usually a survival skill learned early. If you grew up reading the room, adjusting yourself or managing someone else’s emotions, you learned to understand people as a way to stay safe and connected and we keep doing it in adulthood.

It sounds like: “They didn’t mean to hurt me” or “They didn’t intentionally forget me” or “I didn’t remind them that they promised to keep their word.”

Each excuse has different words but they all sound the same – “I understand.”

That’s where the emotional cost begins. Every time we excuse behavior that hurts, a small part of us steps back. Every time we minimize our needs, we train others that our needs can be minimized. Every time you rationalize a red flag, you reinforce the belief that you should tolerate more than you deserve.

The confusion often comes from mixing empathy with responsibility. Clients have told me, “If I understand why they did it, I shouldn’t feel hurt.” Or, “If I understand their trauma, I should be patient.” But empathy doesn’t require you to carry someone else’s emotional weight. Understanding someone’s story doesn’t mean you have to absorb the impact of their behavior.

Empathy is simply seeing clearly. Responsibility is deciding what to do with what you see.

There’s a moment an empowered woman reaches - when she realizes she’s tired of being the emotional anchor for everyone else.

She begins asking new questions: “Do they reciprocate?” “Do they take responsibility?” “Do they show up emotionally?”

And when the answer is no, she doesn’t collapse. She doesn’t chase and she does not beg. She simply says, “I understand you… but I choose me.”

Empowerment isn’t loud. It’s the moment you stop pouring into relationships that never pour back. It’s when you stop carrying emotional weight that isn’t yours. It’s when you realize your empathy is a gift and not everyone has earned access to it.

If you’ve spent your life being “too understanding,” I want you to hear this clearly:

Your heart and empathy are beautiful. But your goodness should never cost you yourself.

Empathy without boundaries drains you. Empathy with boundaries strengthens you.

And you deserve to be understood just as deeply as you understand others and be the she, you were meant to be.

Through coaching and courses, Captive Coaching & Empowerment is committed to helping women live more empowered, intentional lives. E-mail David@captivecoachingandempowerment.com or visit www.captivecoachingandempowerment.com.

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REFLECTIONS

AND THE COURAGE TO

Some of our most profound lessons arrive disguised as challenges we never expected. In those moments, we discover strengths we didn’t know we had, persevere through uncertainty, and emerge with a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.

FOR DEBORAH

LONG, founder and president of Lake Norman Hair Loss Solutions, that journey of learning has shaped every chapter of her life. Rather than viewing obstacles as setbacks, she sees them as opportunities for growth. It’s a perspective that has guided her through personal hardships, career reinventions, and courageous leaps of faith.

“I never lose, I learn,” Debby says. “It’s become my philosophy. Every setback teaches you something... it prepares you for the next opportunity.”

It’s something she didn’t learn from a motivational book or business seminar. She learned it through experience. “It happened in my early twenties,” she

That fascination led her to enroll in her high school’s cosmetology program, earning her professional license at just 18 years old. But after experiencing hair loss herself, her focus shifted from beauty to something far more meaningful.

“I realized people weren’t just looking for hair,” she says. “They were looking for something deeper. They wanted to feel like themselves again.”

In 1999, Debby turned that realization into a mission, launching the business that would become her life’s work. Today, she brings more than three decades of experience and nearly 60 years of combined industry knowledge alongside her husband and business partner, Gary. Together, they have built a company based on empathy, trust, and lived experience.

Supported by a team of licensed cosmetologists and trichologytrained professionals, the practice offers private, personalized solutions designed to restore not only hair, but self-esteem.

“We understand the emotional impact of hair loss because we’ve lived it ourselves,” Debby says. “That connection remains at the heart of everything we do. When someone comes to us, they’re often carrying years of embarrassment, frustration, or even grief. They’ve tried products that didn’t work. They’ve hidden under hats or avoided photographs. Sometimes they’re afraid to even talk about it. What I love most is seeing that moment when someone looks in the mirror and recognizes themselves again. It’s hard to describe how powerful that is.”

Behind every successful woman is often someone who believes in her dreams, and Debby is quick to credit Gary as her biggest supporter. The couple met on a blind date 30 years ago and have been building a life together ever since.

“Meeting Gary changed my life,” she smiles. “We’ve built everything together. We challenge ourselves and support each other’s ideas, and somehow, we always find a way to make them work.”

One of those challenges involved stepping away from their successful California hair restoration business and moving nearly 2,700 miles across the country to begin a new chapter in North Carolina. “It was definitely a leap of faith, and one heck of a mountain to climb, but we did it,” she says with a laugh. “Leaving everything familiar wasn’t easy, but growth rarely happens inside your comfort zone.”

Spa days, a good novel, and cozy evenings binge-watching favorite shows with Gary help Debby unplug and recharge. Whether at home or at work, the perspective that has guided her through life remains the same: every day offers an opportunity to learn, evolve, and make a difference in someone’s life.

Ask Debby what keeps her motivated, and the answer has little to do with accolades or achievements and everything to do with those she serves: “We are already building something special here, and it is a feeling that is beyond words. We want our

guests to feel seen, supported, and understood. Many hair loss sufferers come in feeling defeated, and they leave our office standing a little taller. They’re smiling again. They’re making eye contact again. Their confidence and well-being have been restored. To be able to make such a difference in someone’s life is especially meaningful and gratifying to us.”

Success isn’t measured by how many years she’s been in business, but by the lives she and her team have changed along the way. Helping someone rediscover hope, embrace a new chapter, and realize they’re not facing their journey alone is what makes it all so rewarding. w

10TOP FINALISTS

The Lake Norman Woman of the Year Gala honors women making a difference across our community while supporting this year's charity, Foster Love Adopt Repeat (FLAR), which serves children in foster care.

ANNE-MARIE PUMPHREY

An Army combat veteran, entrepreneur, and passionate advocate for veterans, AnneMarie has spent her life serving others. After co-founding and growing Blue Collar Reloading, she turned her focus to community initiatives and veteran support. Her courage, perseverance, and servant leadership continue to make a lasting impact across Lake Norman.

ANNIE HANSON

Founder and CEO of The Closet Niche, Annie built a successful business through faith, determination, and hard work. Beyond entrepreneurship, she is dedicated to giving back through local nonprofits, community partnerships, and a scholarship program for young women. Annie’s generosity and commitment to helping others inspire those around her.

DR. ASHLEY COLLINS

Dentist, adoptive mother, ministry leader, and living kidney donor, Dr. Collins is known for changing lives both inside and outside her practice. Through Collins Family Dentistry, #OneBeanClub, foster care advocacy, and community service, she demonstrates extraordinary compassion and a deep commitment to helping others thrive every day.

DANA DEGAN

A registered dietitian, entrepreneur, and devoted community volunteer, Dana has spent years creating meaningful connections throughout Lake Norman. Her leadership and generosity are evident through her support of schools, nonprofits, and neighborhood initiatives. Dana’s selfless spirit helps make the community more connected, welcoming, and supportive for everyone.

JENNIFER SZAKALY

As founder and CEO of Caregiving Corner, Jennifer has spent two decades helping families navigate aging, caregiving, and life’s most complex transitions. A nationally recognized Aging Life Care professional, speaker, and advocate, she provides expertise, compassion, and reassurance while empowering families to make informed decisions with confidence.

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KATY LAW

Co-owner of Sweet Dreams Furniture & Mattress, Katy is known for serving her community with energy, kindness, and purpose. Through her business, church, local schools, and charitable organizations, she has built lasting relationships while helping others succeed. Her life reflects the true spirit of servant leadership.

KELLY GODDARD

After her daughter Riley’s pediatric cancer diagnosis, Kelly transformed personal hardship into a mission of hope. As a registered nurse, health navigator, speaker, and advocate, she has guided hundreds of families through difficult journeys. Her compassion and resilience continue to impact children and families nationwide.

NATALIE STORMENT

Twenty years ago, Natalie and her husband opened their home to young men seeking guidance and support. That calling grew into Power Cross, a ministry serving hundreds annually through mentorship, education, discipleship, athletics, and life skills. Natalie continues to transform lives through faith, compassion, and servant leadership.

RASHEL LIMPER

As owner of five Rio 150 locations and creator of the Dine for Dollars program, Rashel has combined entrepreneurial success with community impact. She has helped schools, nonprofits, and families raise critical funds while mentoring employees and creating opportunities. Her generosity strengthens the community she proudly calls home.

RHONDA OLIVERA

Rhonda leads with faith, compassion, and a heart for service. Through her role at Randy Marion Automotive and her work with organizations including FeedNC, the YMCA, and The Feather Project, she consistently uplifts others. Her kindness, humility, and dedication make a meaningful difference throughout Lake Norman.

ACREATING experiences. CONNECTING people.

LTHOUGH SHE NOW CALLS NORTH CAROLINA

home, Faith Amigo-Choplin (owner and business development manager of Choplin’s Restaurant and The Guesthouse) has had quite the journey ... literally!

Beginning in the Philippines, she was just 6 years old when what she thought was a four-month family vacation across the United States became a life-changing adventure. After visiting every state, her father revealed the real purpose of the trip: the family was moving to America. Seeking stability amid political unrest in their home country, her parents settled in Charlotte, where they built a successful import business supplying furnishings and home décor to retailers across the country.

Because her parents traveled extensively for work, Faith often traveled alongside them, giving her a truly global upbringing. “I grew up everywhere,” she says with a smile. “Those experiences exposed me to diverse cultures, cuisines, and people ... lessons that continue to influence me today.”

After earning a business degree from the University of North Carolina Wilmington, Faith explored a variety of career paths. Her résumé includes roles as a radio DJ and VJ in Hong Kong, a food and beverage manager at a luxury hotel, and a brand ambassador

for international companies throughout Asia. She later moved to New York City where she helped build two global companies.

Yet through every chapter, one passion remained constant: creating memorable experiences for people. That passion led her to join her husband, chef and restaurateur Wes Choplin, in growing Choplin’s Restaurant. Together, they recently launched The Guesthouse in Huntersville, bringing a fresh concept inspired by Faith’s worldwide travels and love of hospitality.

“My goal is to create experiences that make people excited about seeing the world,” she shares. “Whether it’s through the atmosphere, the food, or the feeling they leave with, I want people to feel inspired and alive.”

Faith credits much of her inspiration to her mother, whom she describes as the ultimate example of balancing family and career. An interior designer and businesswoman, her mother created a home filled with warmth, gatherings, and lasting memories while maintaining a thriving professional life.

Today, Faith strives to carry those same values into both her family and business. She is the proud mother of a 28-year-old son and is also blessed with three bonus children through her marriage to Wes.

Her life has been shaped by defining moments, including winning the Miss Philippines competition despite being painfully shy and later navigating the profound loss of her parents. Through both experiences, she gained confidence, resilience, and a deeper appreciation for the values that continue to guide her.

“Life has taken me across continents, through incredible opportunities and difficult losses, but through it all, my faith and values have remained my compass. Every day, I simply strive to be a better version of myself than I was yesterday, and if I can help someone feel seen, valued, or inspired along the way, then I have done my job.” w

OUTRIGHT VS. LIFETIME TRUST VS. STAGGERED AGE TRUST

MEG D. GOLDSTEIN, ATTORNEY-AT-LAW

During the estate planning process, you will need to decide whether to bequeath an inheritance outright, in a lifetime trust, in a “staggered age” trust, or a combination. For purposes of simplicity, your child is the sole beneficiary at your death.

OUTRIGHT BEQUEST

Your child has complete control over the inheritance. The title may be in the child’s sole name or owned jointly with any person, with or without survivorship.

With complete control, your child may give or bequeath all or any portion of the inheritance to whomever the child wants, including the child’s spouse. What if your child dies and bequeaths all of the child’s inheritance to the child’s spouse, and then the child’s surviving spouse remarries? The remarried spouse may give the inheritance to a second spouse at his/her later death or to children born to the second marriage that are favored over the children of your deceased child.

An inheritance is not subject to division between your child and her/his spouse under equitable distribution provided the inheritance is not merged with marital assets. North Carolina is a common law state.

STAGGERED AGE TRUST

LIFETIME TRUST

A lifetime trust is used to ensure that your child’s inheritance passes to your grandchild at your child’s death.

A lifetime trust provides the child with creditor protection.

A lifetime trust provides protection from equitable distribution.

Trust distributions are governed by the Trust Agreement. For example, your child may receive all or a portion of the income of the trust. The child’s lineal descendants may be secondary beneficiaries of the trust. Principal may be distributed only to supplement the child’s other financial resources or for the child’s health, education, support, and maintenance.

Trust assets are invested based on the child’s needs and reasonable lifestyle.

The Trust Agreement usually provides that at the child’s death, the remaining trust assets pass to the child’s lineal descendants, outright or in trust. It is extremely rare that in-laws are permissible beneficiaries. The in-law will inherit from the in-law’s own family, while your assets will pass ultimately to your family.

A middle ground is to retain an inheritance in trust until the beneficiary attains specified ages. For example, the child may withdraw 1/3 of the trust property when the child attains age 28, 50% of the remainder at age 32, and the remainder at age 36. If the child withdraws 1/3 of the trust property at age 28 and spends the assets foolishly, then hopefully the child will learn from her/his mistakes and use the remaining withdrawals wisely.

Distributions may be made to the child and the child’s lineal descendants for health, education, maintenance, and support. Between distributions, the trust assets are protected from creditors and from equitable distribution.

Meg D. Goldstein, Attorney-at-Law, has 45 years of extensive legal experience and is well-versed in estate planning, trust and estate administration, fiduciary relationships, charitable giving, and the formation and continuation of business and charitable entities. Her priority and passion are to ensure that each client's specific needs and desires are addressed in a well-presented plan to limit future controversies between family members and business associates.

Lessons Worth Hearing

As another school year begins and we celebrate all the educators who inspire, encourage, and shape future generations, we’re reminded that communication is one of life’s greatest gifts. From the lessons shared in classrooms to the conversations we treasure with family and friends, hearing well helps us stay connected to the people and moments that matter most.

For more than 46 years, Harlan Cato has been helping individuals and families throughout the Lake Norman region hear those moments more clearly. He has built his reputation on compassion, expertise, and a genuine desire to improve quality of life through better hearing.

“Hearing healthcare isn't one-sizefits-all,” Harlan says. “I enjoy helping people find solutions that fit their lifestyle and allow them to continue doing the things they love. Technology has come a long way over the years, and it's exciting to introduce people to hearing solutions that can make such a meaningful difference in their daily lives.”

Just as great teachers help students discover new possibilities, Harlan enjoys helping patients rediscover the sounds they may have been missing ... whether it’s a grandchild’s laughter, family chats, or simply the confidence that comes with hearing more clearly.

“Life is richer when we can fully participate in it,” Harlan says. “Knowing that better hearing can help people stay engaged with family, friends, and the world around them is both humbling and rewarding.”

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What If Your Body Isn’t Working Against You?

YOUR BODY IS NOT YOUR ENEMY. It’s working hard to protect you. Pain, swelling, fatigue, poor sleep, or brain fog are not “just stress” or “just getting older.” They may be signs that your body needs support.

YOUR BODY ADAPTS TO PROTECT YOU. Injuries, stress, surgery, and overwhelm can cause patterns to get “stored” in your tissues and systems over time.

WHEN SYSTEMS GET STUCK, YOU FEEL IT. Tight fascia, sluggish lymph flow, and a stressed nervous system can lead to tension, swelling, fatigue, poor recovery, and feeling “off.”

THESE SIGNALS ARE INFORMATION. They are your body’s way of asking for support, not something to ignore or push through.

WHEN YOUR BODY FEELS SUPPORTED, EVERYTHING CHANGES

Movement becomes easier. Energy improves.

A WHOLE-BODY APPROACH TO WELLNESS

Your body's systems are designed to work together. Two of the most overlooked— but essential—are the fascia and lymphatic system, which support movement, recovery, immune function, and overall well-being. Sleep deepens. Recovery accelerates. You feel more like yourself again.

Healing isn’t about forcing change. It’s about creating the conditions for your body to return to flow. TLC Wellness is here to guide you with care, support, and personalized therapies that help your body release what it no longer needs to hold and return to balance.

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JULIE JETZER | TLC WELLNESS

Julie Jetzer is the founder of TLC Wellness, a holistic wellness center specializing in lymphatic and nervous system support. As a certified medical thermography scan technician and bodywork practitioner, she helps clients improve balance, circulation, and overall wellbeing through non-invasive therapeutic modalities. Located at 972 Hwy. 16 Business in Stanley, you can reach Julie at 704.452.2827, info@tlcwellness.net, or visit www.tlcwellness.net.

FASCIA

The connective tissue that surrounds and supports everything in your body.

. Creates structure and support . Allows muscles and organs to move and work together . Can become tight or restricted from stress, injury, or surgery

LYMPHATIC SYSTEM

Your body’s natural cleansing and immune support system.

. Removes waste and toxins

. Supports immune function

. Can become sluggish when movement is limited and tissues are congested

"CANCER BECAME MY CLASSROOM.

Every day was a lesson in letting go, holding on, and trusting God for the strength to keep moving."

THE LESSON (THE STORY)

For me, that classroom wasn’t inside four brick walls but inside hospital rooms and chemo chairs.

My lesson plan was written in the ink of faith, healing, and survival.

WAYS WE LEARN TOGETHER

Cancer Survivorship Coaching

Inspirational Speaking

The HEALED Exchange®

Healing Retreats & Workshops

curriculum

I NOW TEACH: FAITH — Trusting God through uncertainty

RESILIENCE — Rising after life’s setbacks

I discovered that when life becomes the teacher, we earn degrees in resilience, hope, and the art of living fully. . Healing Hugs: A Mother Daughter Story of Love & Resilience . Fight Girl! Fight!® Prayer Journal . Fight Girl! Fight!® Medical Planner . Affirmation Cards . I AM H.E.R.® Resources

Cancer Care Ministry Consulting

Patient Advocacy

today's assignment Choose Hope. Give Yourself Grace. Celebrate Every Victory. Keep Learning. Keep Living.

HEALING — Caring for the mind, body, and spirit Living beyond the diagnosis

teacher 's note: - coach C “Now go live healed, whole, and well."

SALTED CARAMEL

dessert cheeseball

SWEET, CREAMY, AND JUST A LITTLE BIT indulgent, this dessert cheeseball is the kind of crowdpleasing treat that disappears fast at any gathering. Perfect for back-to-school gatherings, football parties, potlucks, or family celebrations, it also makes a fun surprise for kids’ sleepovers or an after-school snack that feels like a special reward. Serve it surrounded by dippers for every taste: vanilla wafers, animal crackers, pecan sandies, graham crackers, whole wheat crackers, pretzels, celery sticks, or apple slices for a balance of sweet and wholesome options.

FOR THE CHEESEBALL:

8 oz. Cream Cheese, softened

½ cup Salted Butter (1 stick), softened

1 cup Salted Caramel Pudding

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½ cup Toffee Pieces

½ cup Crushed Nila Wafers

½ cup Chopped Pecans

⅓ cup White Chocolate Chips

⅓ cup Mini Milk Chocolate Chips

notes:

I like the mix of white and milk chocolate in this recipe, but I encourage you to use whatever you enjoy most! Dark chocolate goes well with this dip, too. Sometimes I even mix the chips INTO the cheeseball and simply cover with chopped pecans.

You can certainly make this dessert cheeseball up to a day in advance, simply follow through step 2 and place it in the refrigerator. When you’re ready to serve, finish with step 3.

INSTRUCTIONS:

1 Mix the cream cheese, butter, pudding, toffee pieces, and Nila wafers in a large

milk chocolate chips. Serve on a platter with desired dippers.

Jessica Bentley has over 10 years of experience sharing recipes and cooking tips with a goal to make everyone feel comfortable in their own kitchen and eat a more colorful plate. You can follow her on all social media platforms and via her website SliceOfJess.com.

WE’RE

USUALLY

ALL ABOUT HIGHLIGHTING WOMEN, BUT EVERY NOW AND THEN, WE PASS THE MIC.

In our column In His Own Words, we invite local men to share their stories, insights, and a bit of their personality. From doctors and dentists to entrepreneurs and realtors, these professionals are part of the fabric of our community—and they’ve got something to say. This month, meet Michael Fournier of Knotty & Board as he gives us a glimpse into his world.

IT’S PERSONAL

in HIS own words

CREATIVITY, DETERMINATION, AND FAITH

Building a business that combines retail, furniture, gifts, and interior design services meant thinking beyond traditional retail models; and like many entrepreneurs, Michael’s journey required equal parts creativity, determination, and faith. Over time, he and Kim developed a concept that allows customers to shop for a single accessory, furnish an entire room, or work with designers on a full-home transformation. “We’ve always believed people deserve more than a transaction,” he says. “They deserve someone who listens, understands their needs, and helps them create a space they’ll enjoy every day.”

TURNING HOUSES INTO HOMES

What began as a passion for helping people create homes they truly love has grown into one of Lake Norman’s most distinctive design destinations. Through Knotty & Board’s Davidson Décor & Gift Boutique and Langtree’s Knotty & Board Furniture Market, owner Michael Fournier and wife Kim Hankins have built a business centered on thoughtful design, personal relationships, and the belief that a home should reflect the people who live there. Rather than focusing solely on furniture or décor, they have created an experience that blends inspiration, functionality, and expert guidance. “We wanted to create a place where people felt comfortable exploring ideas and discovering their style,” Michael smiles. “Home should feel personal, and every decision we make starts with helping clients achieve that.”

For Michael, success isn’t measured simply by sales or square footage but by the relationships built and the homes transformed along the way. He believes the most meaningful spaces are those that tell a story and reflect the lives unfolding within them. “The best compliment we can receive is when someone walks into a room and says, ‘This feels like me’ ... that really hits home and shows our commitment to listening and successfully collaborating with our clients. At its core, our business remains dedicated to helping people turn houses into homes ... one carefully chosen piece at a time.” w

Michael Fournier and Kim Hankins are the owners of Knotty & Board, a Lake Norman-based home furnishings, décor, and interior design company with locations in Davidson and Mooresville (265 S. Main Street in Davidson and 204 Transco Road in Mooresville). For information, call 704.618.2894 or visit KnottyandBoard.com.

TWO STORES, ONE PURPOSE

One of the qualities that sets Knotty & Board apart is its unique two-location model. The Davidson location offers a curated collection of décor, gifts, and boutique finds as well as local vendors who sell their products on the 2nd floor of the Davidson store, while the larger Mooresville showroom provides an immersive furniture and design experience. Together, the locations serve different needs while sharing the same design philosophy: “Each store has its own personality, but both are focused on helping customers find pieces that feel authentic to them,” he explains. “We also offer interior design services, assisting homeowners with everything from room refreshes to new construction projects. That combination of retail and design expertise allows clients to receive personalized guidance rather than one-size-fits-all recommendations.”

By mixing the ingredients of attitude and action, we can change the flavor of our own lives. Learn to nurture your body and soul to lead a more balanced life.

mind BODY spirit

who POURS INTO THE teachers?

AS ANOTHER SCHOOL YEAR BEGINS, we celebrate the educators who devote their hearts, minds, and energy to shaping future generations. Teachers do so much more than deliver lessons; they inspire confidence, nurture curiosity, and often become the caring adults students remember for a lifetime. But in the midst of pouring into others, an important question remains: Who pours into the teachers?

The truth is that education is heart work. Teachers need encouragement, grace, and support just as much as the students and families they serve. A thriving school community begins when everyone works together to create an environment where both children and educators can flourish.

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As we head back to school, here are a few reminders for students, parents, educators, and community members alike:

Remember that teachers are human, too. A kind word, a note of appreciation, or a simple “thank you” can go a long way in lifting someone’s spirit.

Never underestimate the power of one encouraging adult. A teacher, mentor, coach, counselor, or neighbor can make a lasting difference in a child’s life. Sometimes one caring voice is all it takes to inspire confidence and hope.

Teach resilience, not perfection. Success is not about never failing; it’s about learning how to rise after setbacks. Children benefit when adults model perseverance and grace.

Create moments of calm. The school year can be busy and stressful. Practicing gratitude, taking mindful pauses, and prioritizing rest help strengthen our minds and bodies.

Focus on belonging. Students thrive when they feel seen, heard, and valued. Every child deserves a place where they know they matter.

Raise kind humans. Character matters. Compassion, empathy, and respect are lessons that will outlast any test score.

Celebrate lessons beyond academics. Integrity, curiosity, responsibility, and perseverance are qualities that prepare students not just for careers, but for life. w

DR. CHARLITTA HATCH | THE COMMUNITY CLASSROM

Dr. Charlitta Hatch is a dedicated education leader serving on the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools Board of Education for District 1 and a strong advocate for students, teachers, and equitable access to quality education. She also hosts The Community Classroom on WSIC Radio, a weekly program that makes public education more accessible by breaking down CMS Board of Education updates, highlighting success stories, and inviting community dialogue. The show airs Mondays at 5 PM on WSIC 105.9 FM, 100.7 FM, and 1400 AM, and streams live at WSICnews.com.

LOVE WALKING INTO YOUR

HomeAgain.

CUSTOM STORAGE SOLUTIONS

DESIGNED AROUND REAL LIFE.

At Agape Closets, we create beautiful, organized spaces that bring peace to your day and add value to your home.

From design to installation, we handle every detail so you can enjoy the results for years to come. DESIGNED