NEW BOYFRIEND See pics from the Girlfriend Connection. page 23
FLOURISHING Appreciating Jacksonville’s Jewish organizations.
EXPANSION River Garden dedicates its new additions. page 21
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JCA hosts 16th annual Jewish Book Festival By Jewish Community Alliance
The JCA takes pleasure in bringing outstanding authors to Jacksonville. This year‘s books are diverse and we think there is something for everyone -– from where we turn for guidance as we face the challenges of our aging society, to speculation on whether Columbus was Jewish, to having one of the foremost authorities on Italian cooking talk about his family, to hearing about taking tragedy and turning it into something positive for the betterment of society, to looking at a wide ranging survey of comedy as an art form. The schedule: Thursday, Nov. 1, at 7 p.m.: Rabbi Richard F. Address, author of “Seekers of Meaning – Baby Boomers, Judaism, and the Pursuit of Healthy Aging.” Using key texts from the Torah, Rabbi Address shows that the foundation of a happy and healthy life is the meaning we seek in the community of others and in our most fundamental relationship with God. This evening is co-sponsored by River Garden Hebrew Home. Monday, Nov. 5, at 1 p.m.: Steve Berry, author of “The Columbus Affair.” A family’s secret, a ruthless fanatic, and a covert arm of the American government –- all are linked by a single puzzling possibility: What if everything we know about the discovery of America was a lie? Publishers Weekly said, “An engrossing thriller from bestseller Berry.” Please bring a dairy lunch. We’ll provide coffee and dessert. Reservations required by Nov. 1. Tuesday, Nov. 6, at 7 p.m.: Guiliano Hazan, author of “Hazan Family Favorites –- Beloved Italian Recipes.” Giuliano Hazan, son of Marcella Hazan, shares recipes that have been passed down from generation to generation along with reminiscences of Shabbat dinners at his grandparents’ house. A “Today Show” regular, he shows how various cultures encountered during the
Offering an opportunity for campaign growth By Jewish Federation of Jacksonville The chair also shared that as a
According to 2013 Campaign Chair Hal Resnick, there is a sense of “things moving in the right direction with the outcome of the 2012 campaign,” and “reasons to be excited and optimistic as we begin our annual drive for 2013.” Resnick said the 2012 campaign finished at $2,346,000, “the first time we have experienced an increase in four years.”
result of this summer’s family mission, a terrific International Lion of Judah Conference and the initial response to our challenge campaign, “we have a very solid beginning for the new year.” The current total for 2013 is $618,000 with a gift to gift over last year of $88,000. If we can maintain that momentum, we will have an outstanding campaign. Resnick spoke of the new
and innovative 2013 challenge campaign. This campaign was developed by Larry Appel, our Federation president, in partnership with several very generous community leaders. “This small group of donors has created a challenge to the community through which they will match every new or increased pledge to the annual campaign with an equal amount each year for three years. In essence, a 3:1 match! As an ex-
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Daniel Marmelstein, Hollis Mayhew and Benjamin Marmelstein at JCA’s Sukkot Celebration
ample, if a donor increases their pledge by $1,000, the challenge campaign sponsors will match that increase with their additional contribution of $1,000 to the Federation this year and in each of the next two years. This is an exciting development for our campaign and the community!” The goal is to have the challenge pool of dollars reach a total of a minimum of
See CAMPAIGN, p. 10
Above: Rabbi Lief and congregants decorate the Temple sukkah on Oct. 7. Other photos: A sampling of activities at the Center’s religious school
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Spotlight: JFCS Senior Solutions fills in the gaps
JFCS is a beneficiary agency of the Federation. By DIANE RODGERS Communications Director
Barbara Baskin, a retired educator from New York, recently moved to Jacksonville to be closer to family. She knew few people here and did not know where to start – to meet people, to find a place to live, to find transportation. She connected with Naomi at Jewish Family & Community Services, who arranged for bus service for cancer treatment, arranged for community visitors, made recommendations on doctors, and made recommendations on residences. “She’s helped me in terms of resources, finding connections. She’s been a real best friend,” Baskin said. “[JFCS] is a wonderful organization as exemplified by Naomi.”
Naomi Mirensky is the medical advocate and geriatric care manager for JFCS’s Department of Jewish Services. The department’s Senior Solutions conducts in-home assessments, accompanies seniors to medical appointments and provides recommendations to local resources. JFCS also offers its Kosher Kart meal-delivery service; its Healing Network of sick, hospitalized or socially isolated support; and transportation services. Mirensky calls the myriad of programs wrap-around services. It starts with Senior Solutions and a home assessment to determine the needs of the senior. “We tailor a care plan to address their needs,” Mirensky said. For example, Baskin’s situation was that she was new to the area. “Our goal is to help the individual be as independent as possible.” JFCS assesses the individual’s capabilities
See SENIORS, p. 16
Barbara Baskin
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Goldstein joins video project By IRIS KRAEMER
Jewish Community Foundation
The Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida welcomed Scott Goldstein, a participant in its B’nai Tzedek Youth Philanthropy Program, as another volunteer filmmaker of oral histories. Members of the Jewish community who have made commitments to the Create a Jewish Legacy Project are having their life stories videotaped. Scott was inspired to become involved in this project after reading an article about another Foundation video project volunteer, Max Ackerman, a senior at The Bolles School. Scott, a 10th-grader at St. Johns Country Day School, became interested in making films when he was
in the third grade at the Martin J. Gottleib Day School. He progressed from making movies of himself and his friends with his mom’s camera, to filming videos about his school’s library while working in conjunction with the librarian. By the time Scott was in the sixth grade, he had saved enough money to buy a camera of his own, a JVC Everio. Scott and friends from Temple Ahavath Chesed’s JAFTY Youth Group formed the Indecisive Production Company. One of their films was shown at the 48-
Hour Film Festival in Jacksonville. Scott also worked for Last Resort Productions where he has had experience editing, writing scripts, and performing the duties of an assistant director. In addition to filmmaking, which he plans to pursue as a career, Scott runs cross country and track. He is currently filming events at his high school. Scott wanted to become involved with the Foundation’s Oral History Project because he thought it would be interesting to film the stories of people in our community.
The Brotherhood of Beth El the Beaches Synagogue kicked off its Fall Lecture Series on Oct. 3 with veteran national news anchor Mort Crim. Crim led a conversation covering the media and political landscape. The series continues Nov. 14 at 7 p.m. with First Coast News Sports Director Dan Hicken. The series is open to all. Contact the Beth El at 273-9100 for details. From left: David Zuckerman, Mort Crim and Neal Goldman, Beth El VP/brotherhood president
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President Obama has consistently demonstrated his commitment to Israel and is dedicated to the continued security and well-being of the Jewish state. He has provided record-high levels of security assistance, including $275 million for the first Iron Dome missile defense system, which is protecting Israeli lives from rocket attacks. The administration has cast its only UN Security Council veto to defend Israel. And President Obama has secured the harshest sanctions ever on the Iranian regime and will not allow Iran to develop a nuclear weapon.
Strengthening Social Security and Medicare
President Obama believes Social Security and Medicare are fundamental pillars of middle-class security in America—we work for it, we pay for it, we earn it. He’ll fight to make sure Social Security benefits aren’t gambled on Wall Street and stop Medicare from being turned into a voucher program that increases out-of-pocket expenses by as much as $6,400 a person.
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Community Hospice treats River Garden Senior Services to ice cream By Community Hospice
On a hot, summer day in September, the staff and residents of River Garden Hebrew Home and The Coves enjoyed a delightful ice cream treat, courtesy of Community Hospice of Northeast Florida. As the truck bell rang, a line of patrons formed to say, “I scream for ice cream!” as they stepped up
to place their orders. River Garden resident Rita Pugachveskyay was surprised to learn about the special treat and asked River Garden volunteer Cheryl Berlin to escort her to the ice cream truck. Rita and Cheryl have had personal experience with Community Hospice and appreciated the gesture of kindness. Rita’s late husband, Abraham, and Cheryl’s late mother, Jackie
Capps, had received care from the hospice provider and wanted to take part in the event. “Community Hospice took such good care of my husband,” said Rita. “And this is such a spirit of kindness to bring this treat to us during our
Jewish holiday. I truly appreciate it.” “This is the sweetest thing to do for the residents,” remarked Cheryl. “Some of them hardly ever go outside, and now, they’re going out for ice cream. It re-
minds them of being a kid.” Over the hot summer months, Community Hospice has donated more than 7,200 ice cream treats to 31 area nursing home and assisted-living facility residents, with more stops coming this fall.
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The StarLight Project is dedicated to creating the ultimate dream room for children with special needs. It was founded by Craig, Cherie and Eden Sussman, a Jewish family in Jacksonville. The mission of The StarLight Project is to encourage mental, physical and emotional development and lifelong leaning for children with special needs through the design of custom-made dream bedrooms. We are partnered with the Down Syndrome Association of Jacksonville and create 50 percent of the rooms for children with Down Syndrome. The other dream rooms are for children with autism, cerebral palsy and all other special needs. Our organization is dedicated to the loving memories of Jeffrey Sussman, Arnold Lederer and Pauline Lederer. The S in Star and the L in Light represent their last names. They loved children and we wanted to do something life changing in their honor. Our first room recipient was Cade Soileau, a loving 9-year-old boy with Down Syndrome. He was just awarded a dream bed-
room. He is so deserving, because he didn’t have a true bedroom. He had a room with no door and one wall that was covered by a dresser. He gave up his room when his foster brother and sister were adopted by his parents. Cade’s room was transformed into a campground. He has a chalk wall, pretend fire pit for reading and three stumps for Cade and his two brothers. He was given an educational game and an Itouch for math, science, etc. “Where do I even begin to show how thankful we are for what you have done for Cade?” said his mom, Kathy Soileau. “Because of the dream in your heart you were able to fulfill the dream in our child’s heart. It’s not every day that a special needs child is the envy of his friends. Cade will enjoy his room and we will cherish all the memories that were created because of it. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! There is no cost to the families that are chosen. The organization runs solely off of donations from the community, companies, etc., and are grateful for the support. For information please contact: thestarlightproject.com
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Center Sisterhood celebrates members By Center Sisterhood
Center Sisterhood celebrates its members on Nov. 7 by providing an entertaining afternoon filled with song. The Voices will present a celebration of the camaraderie and engagement shared by the members of Center Sisterhood each year.
Check in for the We Love Our Members event will be at 11:30 followed by lunch at noon. Lunch is free to all paid up members, $30 to those who have yet to join. The JJC Bazaar will follow lunch with all proceeds benefitting the children of the Jacksonville Jewish Center.
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The women’s Rosh Chodesh Group of Jacksonville is made up of women throughout the community and is open to all women, Bat Mitzvah age and over. This Rosh Chodesh group is a uniquely female Jewish experience. It meets on the Wednesday after Rosh Chodesh (the first of
the month) from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Congregation Ahavath Chesed, 8727 San Jose Blvd. Jewish women of all denominations come together each month to share in friendship, study, prayer, inspirational readings and song. All are invited. We will welcome the month of Kislev on Nov. 14. For more information call Goldie at 733-7078 or Helen at 998-2187.
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Israel Partnership sends teachers to Hadera-Eiron By JILL ABEL
Israel Partnership Coordinator
Teachers from Beth-El –The Beaches Synagogue, Martin J. Gottlieb Day School and the Jacksonville Jewish Center are preparing for a trip to Israel in December. Three local educators will be taking part in an Educators’ Delegation Mission from Dec. 23 to Jan. 1. They will meet with Israeli educators in the Hadera-Eiron Region, visit schools and classrooms and learn with Israeli educators. At the end of the mission, the delegation will tour in Jerusalem and have a special workshop at Yad Vashem, the Israeli Holocaust Museum. Applications are now avail-
able for the Tikkun Olam Summer Experience for Teens. The Tikkun Olam program allows American teens to travel to Israel and live in an Israeli home. Unlike other travel programs to Israel, Tikkun Olam offers the opportunity to see Israel from the Israeli perspective, not just as a tourist. While in Israel the teens will visit Jerusalem and spend time exploring the city. They will also travel to the Dead Sea, play in the mud, explore the waterfalls of Ein Gedi, and climb to the top of Masada. While in Israel, the teens will also participate in community service projects within the region. For more information, please call Jill Abel at the Federation office at 448-5000 ext. 200.
Jewish Java set for Nov. 7 By Jewish Federation of Jacksonville
You’ll see new faces and familiar faces laughing and sharing stories at any one of our monthly Jewish Java programs. Are new to the community, or been in Jacksonville a few years but looking to make Jewish connections and like to schmooze? If so the Jewish Federation’s Shalom Jacksonville invites you to a monthly coffee and schmoozing program, Jewish Java, the first Wednesday of every month, 9-10:30 a.m., at Let’s Nosh, 10950 San Jose Blvd. It’s the
perfect place to meet new people, catch up with old friends and acquaintances, find out the latest happenings in the Jewish community, get a copy of the latest issue of Jewish News and more community information. Free coffee or tea. There are no solicitations. Plan to join us Nov. 7. For more information, contact Isabel Balotin, 904-448-5000 x 206 or shalomjax@jewishjacksonville.org. Shalom Jacksonville is a program of the Jewish Federation and is sponsored by Florida Blue.
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Giving thanks By RABBI JOSHUA LIEF Congregation Ahavath Chesed
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n the Book of Job, the title character loses everything he values in life: his wealth, his property, his health, and even his children, and yet he remains upbeat. Job says, “Adonai natan, v’Adonai lakach; y’hi shem Adonai m’vorach,” “The Lord gives, the Lord takes away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” Other than at funerals, we rarely give this famous quote a second thought. We consider it only in the context of our sadness at the loss of a loved one, but what about the myriad of blessings in our own lives that we all too often take for granted? Are you able to read these words, with or without glasses or contacts? A miracle. Have you eaten in the last 24 hours? A miracle. Are you living under a roof, regardless of your rent or mortgage payments? A miracle. Are you alive today? To borrow from “Fiddler on the Roof,” “That is a
miracle, too.” In our morning worship liturgy, we read a long list of blessings under the heading, “Nisim b’chol yom,” “Miracles of everyday living.” When we thank God for “opening the eyes of the blind,” “clothing the naked,” and “freeing the captive,” we’re not talking about Lasik surgery, a sale at Goodwill, and prisoners out on bail. Instead, these blessings are to be recited as we open our eyes each morning, get dressed, and get going. We should consider ourselves miraculously able to see, able to have clothes to wear, and able to move freely on our own. Far too often we think only of the things that are wrong in our lives, the things that need to be fixed, and the problems that threaten our future instead of how fortunate we are for the things that are good, the things that are working, and the successes we’re enjoying right now. While doom and gloom make for juicier political advertising and better ratings on
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cable television news, gratitude and appreciation make for a happier existence at home. This Thanksgiving, I encourage you to give thanks for all that is good in your lives. I feel blessed to have a home, to have transportation and food, to have a loving family, a wonderful community, and to be an American. I am deeply blessed to have such a wonderful wife and an adorable daughter who love me unconditionally and I love them unconditionally, too. Look around and see how blessed you already are and share those blessings with others. If you’re having a hard time at this season, know that you, too, are blessed to have help ready at the asking. Please know that all of my rabbinic colleagues at all of the synagogues, our Jewish Family & Community Services, our individual congregations, and many friends will be here for you; just ask. Becca, Leah, and I wish you and your families a season of open eyes to the blessings in your lives, a bounty worth sharing with others, and recognition of how good it is to be thankful.
Personal Insights: helicopter children By JILL METLIN Columnist
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e have all heard the expression, helicopter parents, those annoyingly overemotional overbearing parents who hover over their children and are, or want to be, involved in every aspect of their lives. Well, I have coined a new term, helicopter children, those annoyingly overemotional baby boomerish adult children who hover over their parents – whether they need it or not. As our parents get older, whether they live near or far, we can’t help but wonder how are they today? Did mom eat breakfast? Did dad take his pills? What if dad’s cancer comes back; what will mom do without him? Wow, last time I went to visit she had a ton of prescriptions! We become helicopter children. I know this because I am one. When my dad was more advanced in his illness, I used to kiss him goodbye twice – just in case. It bugged him but I had to
do it. Now that my dad is gone, my mom is my helipad. When I am visiting her in South Florida, I hover around her like a helicopter parent hovers around her children. I can’t help it. Whether it’s in person or over the phone, I have to know that she’s OK, feels well, eats well, and takes the right medication at the right time. If you recognize yourself in these words, you know the drill. This summer it was worse. All my helicopter neuroses came to a head when my mom fractured her back while traveling in Eastern Europe. Even though two of my siblings were with her on the trip, it was still excruciating for me as a helicopter child. I never knew how many texts, overseas calls and emails I could accomplish in a day; how much long-distance arranging I could do from continent to continent. As if it wouldn’t happen without me in control. Hmmm. Now that my mom is home, she tells me that I worry too much, and she’s right – I do. She says it’s the beginning of role
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reversal, and I say no – not yet. Caring for a parent is a beautiful thing. It allows you to give back more than you ever thought you could or would. It feels good to help, to make sure that they are safe, and enjoying life to the fullest. Even if they drive you crazy – and you, them; and even if they don’t need you as much as you’d like to think. My mother lost a good friend on Yom Kippur. It was unexpected and kind of eerie due to the nature of the day. Oddly enough, this lovely person, originally from Cincinnati, living in my mother’s community in South Florida, made one of my first connections to a couple in Jacksonville right before I moved here. This unexpected death really gave us pause and even greater meaning to the message of the day and to the gift of life. Everyday we have with our parents is a day to be cherished. Thank you, and see you next time. Suggestions, comments, questions? Contact me at jillmetlin@gmail.com.
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have enjoyed the opportunity these past few weeks to, once again, come to appreciate just how wonderful the local infrastructure of Jewish organizations is in Jacksonville. Together, these agencies, schools and synagogues are a tapestry of some of the best service providing organizations to be found anywhere in North America. As many of you know, we have a new women’s division director on our staff, Erin Cohen. Erin and I have been visiting our local agencies as part of her initial introduction to the community. River Garden last month celebrated the dedication of its expanded and enhanced facility. We had the opportunity to tour River Garden with Marty Goetz. We saw and felt how this already fantastic facility is now prepared to face the challenges of the coming years and to become even better. We are beyond fortunate to have such an incredible Jewish home here in Jacksonville. Jewish Family & Community Services, under the professional leadership of Colleen Rodriguez, is also improving and addressing critical areas of need in our Jewish community. The needs of the most at-risk members of the community are increasing, with requests for financial assistance
running almost 50 percent over projections for the year. The kosher meals program is serving more Jewish people than in past years at a lower program cost than ever before. JFCS is also addressing the needs of Holocaust survivors in the community and beginning to provide leadership in another critical effort, to ensure that we are inclusive as possible expanding programs for families with children with disabilities. The Jewish Community Alliance will celebrate its 25th anniversary this year. For many of us, we have never lived in Jacksonville without this outstanding Jewish community center. By all measures, the JCA is simply one of the best, and it is amazing that we have such a great facility here in Jacksonville. I met recently with Myron Flagler and the department heads, all who will travel to Israel this December on a special trip made possible with grants from a few local donors. This is a unique recognition as to how sensitivity and understanding of the meaning of Israel can be inherent to one’s ability to provide leadership for a local agency. The Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida has, through the continuing efforts of Create A Jewish Legacy, been
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successful in having over 300 members of the community sign declarations of intent. This tells us that, in addition to the many millions of dollars already on hand, our future will be endowed as this important planned giving effort moves forward. The holidays were enriching to all of us because we have such excellent houses of worship in Jacksonville. I was able to attend at least one service at three of our synagogues. And I hear only the most positive comments from everyone about the quality of the rabbis and cantors and the innova-
tive approach to services taking place at our synagogues. Synagogue life continues to flourish in Jacksonville! And finally, we have two outstanding Jewish day schools in our community, the Torah Academy of Jacksonville and the Martin J Gottlieb Day School. This year, approximately 170 of our children will be educated at these schools. There are effective educators working under the guidance of terrific heads of the schools imparting dynamic curriculum to our young people. I know that I am only “singing
to the choir” when I express my sentiments about our local Jewish community. However, one of my greatest teachers, my father, always told me that “anything worth saying is worth repeating and anything worth repeating is worth saying.” It is exciting to work in partnership with my colleagues at all of our local agencies and synagogues. As members of the Jacksonville Jewish community, well, we are simply blessed to live here and have the opportunity to raise our families.
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EDUCATION
JCA young family programming takes a cultural turn By JANINE EPPS
Jewish Community Alliance
For years, the JCA’s Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool has hosted JPlay, an enjoyable, interactive time for families with young children. To expound on JPlay and create a well-balanced learning and family time opportunity, the preschool is introducing a new
program: JCafé (Cultural Arts Family Experience). JCafé is a perfect complement to the JPlay program and the new DISCOVER: CATCH health and fitness initiative. Like JPlay, this new program focuses on families with young children, but rather than focusing on health, the program stimulates creativity and imagination by introducing children to the cultural
arts. Throughout the year, families will enjoy literature, music, and special theater events. The first JCafé event Carol Longo spotlights Carol Longo, a professional storyteller who
resides in Orlando. Carol, who was also a presenter at the recent 4th Annual Early Childhood Symposium hosted by the JCA in October, is a retired Early Childhood Education professor who has taught literature, storytelling and education courses. She performs tales from her comprehensive collection of stories at schools, libraries, family events and festivals.
Carol’s story selections are rooted in folklore and can be found in libraries. Carol will delight families at a late afternoon T- Party on Sunday, Nov. 11, from 4 to 5 p.m. Attending families will enjoy this special story time and will also learn, from Carol’s demonstration, how to enhance their storytime experiences while enjoying a spot of tea and a special snack.
7th Annual Chai Family Fun Run and Fall Festival set at the Center By Galinsky Academy
The children of the Galinsky Academy (DuBow Preschool, Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, Bernard and Alice Selevan Religious School, and Makom
Hebrew High) and their families will participate in the 7th Annual Chai Family Fun Run and Fall Festival event on Sunday, Nov. 11. The event is held to raise awareness and funding for all of the Jacksonville Jewish Center
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The Lady Marlins hit the courts running as it geared up for its second season in MJGDS history in September. In an effort to accommodate students who have other after school activities, Coach Goldman began holding practices for the team twice a week in the middle of the school day during the P.E. hour. This adjustment in the schedule allowed for more middle school girls to
be a part of the Marlins volleyball team. MJGDS enjoyed a Spirit Day in honor of the Marlins home game on Oct. 18, which was well-attended and full of MJGDS pride. Dance Team will begin in November with a similar practice schedule as volleyball. In addition, the Day School has added boys basketball to its middle school athletic program with plans to play against other schools next school year.
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Hoffman to speak at JJC Nov. 11 By Jacksonville Jewish Center
The Adult Education committee of the Jacksonville Jewish Center invites the community to join us as Gil Hoffman, chief political correspondent and analyst for The Jerusalem Post, discusses the U.S.-Israel relationship, what Israelis think about the American political race, and how it will impact issues like Iran, the future leadership of Arab countries, and the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. The program will take place on Sunday evening, Nov. 11, at 7 p.m. at the Jacksonville Jewish Center. Well-connected to Israeli and Palestinian leaders, Hoffman has interviewed every major figure across the Israeli political spectrum, has been interviewed by top media on six continents and is a regular analyst on CNN, Al-
Jazeera and other news outlets. Called “the most optimistic man in Israel” by Israel Television, Hoffman’s writing and TV appearances provide a behindthe-scenes look at the intrigue and humor in the Israeli political arena. Hoffman, who was raised in Chicago, graduated magna cum laude from Northwestern University’s School of Journalism and wrote for the Miami Herald and Arizona Republic before moving to Israel. A reserve soldier in the IDF’s Spokesman’s Unit, he has lectured in seven countries and 40 U.S. states. He lives in Jerusalem with his wife, and two children. Thanks to sponsors Joan Levin and Buddy Shorstein, this program is free and open to the community. Please RSVP to Rose Tincher at 292-1000.
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DuBow Preschool plans busy, fun afternoons By DuBow Preschool
Kids Club, the extended-day program at the DuBow Preschool, is a great way to extend learning and play every day. Each morning, our kids share breakfast, play and get off to a great start with friends before school begins. In
the afternoon, our program is tailored to the interests of our kids who range in age from 1 to 10. Each afternoon is filled with outdoor physical play, indoor games, arts and crafts, dress up, creative play and music. During the High Holidays the children made beautiful collages using mixed media,
Holiday Bazaar set for Nov. 7 By Galinsky Academy
The Galinsky Academy (JJC Schools) PTA and JJC Sisterhood together will be hosting aHoliday Bazaar on Wednesday, Nov. 7, 1-9 p.m., at the Jacksonville Jewish Center. This event is open to the community. There will be something for everyone; i.e. kids items, jewelry and accessories, judaica,
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$75,000, and we are well on our way to achieving that figure. If you would like to join this select group of challenge partners, please call Executive Director Alan Margolies at 448-5000, ext. 207. Resnick announced that Sandy Zimmerman is chairing the major gifts effort; Risa Herman is heading up the women’s campaign; Mike Abel is working on gifts
cookware, etc. If shopping isn’t your thing, come for the food and drinks. In addition, there will be fun surprise activities throughout the day. This event has no admission fee along with no holiday crowds. Get all your holiday shopping done in one place and help local vendors at the same time. For more information, please contact the Jacksonville Jewish Center at 292-1000.
between $1,000 and $4,999; Erica Jolles and Nancy Davis are taking responsibility for the Young Leadership Division campaign; Mike Nussbaum is providing the leadership for our new and exciting Maimonidies society effort; Ken Jacobs is working to establish a first-ever corporate campaign; and Dan and Kariane Jaffa are chairing Super Sunday. This is a wonderful, hardworking group of volunteers. The opportunities are excellent, and the needs are greater than ever. Please join us!
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and some familiar holiday symbols: apples, honey, pomegranates and shofars. During Sukkot, the kids created decorations to share with their classrooms and families. Science and discovery is also
an afternoon favorite. In October, the kids created their own boats and did some experimenting. They learned about what makes a boat float and how they move in the water.
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Our elementary school friends complete homework with assistance, enjoy a snack, outdoor play and then join in on the afternoon activities. What a great way to end the day.
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Libr Project Mah Jongg was curated and is circulated by the Museum of Jewish Heritage–A Living Memorial to the Holocaust, New York. The exhibition is made possible through the generosity of the National Mah Jongg League. Additional support is provided by Sylvia Hassenfeld and 2wice Arts Foundation. The exhibition is made possible through the generosity of the National Mah Jongg League. Local funders for Project Mah Jongg include: Robert Arthur Segall Foundation, Funding Arts Network, Charles & Sandra Simon, Joni & Stanley Tate.
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MJGDS takes on the Daily 5
Classes set for babies, toddlers, loved ones at DuBow Preschool By DuBow Preschool
By Martin J. Gottlieb Day School
Martin J. Gottlieb Day School is piloting a new program in grades 2, 4, and 5 this year called The Daily 5. It is a method of structuring the literacy block to meet student’s individual needs, make the most of the time they
are in class, teach independence, and foster lifelong readers and writers. Parents were introduced to this program at drop off one morning after hearing a lot about it at the annual MJGDS Back to School night. For more information about the Daily 5, please visit www.mjgds.org.
DuBow Preschool holds Torah celebrations
At the DuBow Preschool, parents of babies and toddlers find a place to learn, grow and socialize. Our programs are open to the entire community. We hope you will join us. Our special Shalom Baby playgroup began Oct. 19. We look forward to seeing our Shalom Baby friends and meeting some new ones. We will meet on the first and third Friday of each month. Our cuties range in age from 3 to 24 months. Each time we get together we share a parenting topic, play time, music and celebrate Shabbat. This group is free and open to all moms, dads, loved ones and their babies or toddlers. Would you like to help build your baby’s communication skills at an early age? In November we will be hosting a Baby Sign-A-Long class at the DuBow Preschool. This innovative class is for parents and their hearing babies. Please RSVP for this free demo class by calling 268-4200 ext. 143.
We have organized our classes as a typical day in your baby’s life from waking up to getting dressed, to meal time, to bedtime, and everything in between. This simple approach will help make signing a natural part of your everyday routine without giving you an additional burden to learn something new. Our classes are designed to resemble a Mommy & Me class
atmosphere by incorporating signing, singing, dancing, reading and playing games. We integrate group time, center time and individual time, plus a Parent Reality Check, where you share your experiences from week to week, helping each other, as well as creating supportive relationships in the process. To learn more about these programs, contact Shereen Canady at 268-4200 ext. 143.
VPK students find buddies at MJGDS By Martin J. Gottlieb Day School
By DuBow Preschool
At Simchat Torah, the holiday at the end of Sukkot where we rejoice in the Torah, our DuBow preschoolers enjoyed marching and singing with the Torah and their colorful flags. Just like many of our favorite books, we read over and over again, we finished the Torah and immediately began reading it once again. We dressed one of our students like a Torah scroll and learned about the various parts of the Torah’s “clothing.” We began with B’reisheet, Genesis, and sang songs about creation, the days of the week, and how grateful we are to have the seventh day, Shabbat, to rest. Each week we learn a little more
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The fourth and fifth grade classes of the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School were matched with VPK buddies in the DuBow Preschool. Each year, this program is always a nice way to join the schools of the Galinsky Academy and give MJGDS students an opportunity to act as role models to their younger friends. The first
meeting, the children completed a “Getting to Know You” Questionnaire so the students could learn about their buddies’ similarities and differences. A fun craft followed that activity. The next get together, the buddies will be going on an outdoor scavenger hunt. To watch videos from Buddy Program visits, please visit www. mjgds.org.
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Center donates the weight By Jacksonville Jewish Center
The Jacksonville Jewish Center would like to thank our congregants, the children and their parents of the Galinsky Academy comprised of the Martin J. Gottlieb School, the Bernard and Alice Selevan Religious School, the DuBow Preschool and MAKOM Hebrew High for their outstanding generosity in donating to our annual High Holy Days food drive, Donate the Weight. Thanks to everyone’s efforts we gathered thousands of pounds of food to be sent to the Jewish Family & Com-
munity Services food pantry and to Second Harvest of Jacksonville. The amount of food donated this year surpassed last year’s drive. The food items will be distributed to many people who are in need throughout the city of Jacksonville. The High Holy Days gives us an opportunity to engage in the mitzvah as a community, to accept responsibility for the world we live in and to commit to making it better. We encourage everyone in the community to continue bringing food and toiletries to the Jacksonville Jewish Center. The Operation
Isaiah food drive is a year-round program at the Center. Statistics show that one in six people are going hungry every day. Contributions can be dropped off at the Jacksonville Jewish Center’s front lobby in the food carts provided by Winn Dixie. Marty and Mimi Kaufman are co-chairs of our food drives and urge everyone to please continue participating in this mitzvah. The Jacksonville Jewish Center is located at 3662 Crown Point Road in Mandarin and can be reached for additional information at 904-292-1000 or by email at info@jaxjewishcenter.org.
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Jacksonville Jewish Center participates in Food Stamp Challenge By Jacksonville Jewish Center
Statistics are a powerful tool to drive change in this broken world. The number of Americans receiving food stamps hit a new high of almost 47 million in June of this year. That 47 million is about 15 percent of Americans. Food-stamp spending, which has more than doubled in four years to a record
$75.7 billion in the fiscal year that ended Sept. 30, 2011, is the USDA’s biggest annual expense. About 16.2 million children in the United States struggle with hunger. The Food Stamp Challenge, organized by the Jewish Council on Public Affairs, is a program that encourages members of the clergy to spend a week living on
food stamps to raise awareness and fight hunger. Our synagogue clergy participated last January, and this year, we are hoping for community-wide engagement. For the week of Nov. 11-17, the week prior to Thanksgiving, we are encouraging interested members of our community to participate in the Food Stamp Challenge. By taking the Food Stamp
Challenge, you are joining Jewish and other faith community activists in communities across the country to call attention to the national crisis of hunger and poverty. Together, we will send a strong message to our public officials that we need to support SNAP (food stamps) and help keep millions from hunger and poverty. This is a chance for a frank discussion on
how to eat, and eat healthy, while spending $31.50 a week on food. For more information on our efforts, please visit jjcfoodstampchallenge.wordpress.com. We will be linking in blogs and twitter feeds from challenge participants as well as creating a donation page for the entire community. Together, we can fight to raise awareness and to stop hunger.
Temple promotes JAX2025 Celebrating 94 years of interfaith dialogue By SAM GRISWOLD
Congregation Ahavath Chesed
As part of his Yom Kippur sermon, Rabbi Joshua Lief of Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple) encouraged congregants to make their voice heard and participate in the JAX2025 survey. “As the oldest house of worship, this congregation has been an important part of Jacksonville for 130 years,” he said. “We need to be an important part in developing the vision of where we’d like to be in the future.” The JAX2025 survey is designed to engage the community to develop a vision of where we would like to be in 2025 and a plan of action to make this vision a reality. What do you think about the quality of public education in Jacksonville, or the opportunity to find a good job? Do you feel safe in your home, or neighborhood? In your opinion, what are the biggest challenges facing Jacksonville today? These are just some of the questions asked in the JAX2025 survey.
The Jewish concept of Tikkun Olam teaches us that we have a responsibility to work toward a better world. In Pirkei Avot (2:21), Rabbi Tarfon said, “It is not incumbent upon you to finish the task. Yet, you are not free to desist from it.” Rabbi Lief and Congregation Ahavath Chesed encourage all who live, work and play in Jacksonville to take a few minutes and do their part to improve our community. Visit www.JAX2025. org for more information and to make your voice heard.
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Rabbi Joshua Lief and Crystal Jones will lead the discussion “Setting Your GPS for Success: Opportunities for New Leadership Styles” on Nov. 7. Discuss opportunities for organizations that experience a leadership shift and learn what 21st Century leadership styles look like. Contact JCCI (Jacksonville Community Council Inc.) at (904) 396-3052, or www. jcci.org for details.
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faith Committee. It was Rabbi Israel L. Kaplan of Congregation Ahavath Chesed who initiated the first Interfaith Thanksgiving Gratitude Service in 1918. Many different faith traditions will be represented including Baha’i, Buddhism, Christianity (Protestant, Roman Catholic and Greek Orthodox), Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Native American and others. This years’ service will be hosted by Edward Water’s College in the Milne Auditorium and
Chapel at 1638 Kings Road. It is free and open to the public. As we come together to recognize our many blessings, we are mindful of those who are less fortunate and will once again collect canned foods and dry goods to be given to the Second Harvest Food Bank for the holiday season. Bins will be available at the service to accept donations. For more information, contact OneJax at (904) 620-1529, or onejax@unf.edu.
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Congregation Ahavath Chesed supports Camp Coleman By SAM GRISWOLD
Congregation Ahavath Chesed
Research shows that Jewish camps can play a substantial role in shaping and building a sense of Jewish identity among our youth. A November 2010 study commissioned by the Foundation of Jewish Camp found that Jews who attended camp are 45 percent more likely to attend synagogue at least once per month, 30 percent more likely to donate to a Jewish federation, 55 percent more likely to feel emotionally attached to Israel and 25 percent more likely to donate to a Jewish charity. Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple) has played an important role in developing Jewish camping opportunities for residents of the Southeast, through its support of Camp Coleman. It was Temple’s own Coleman family who founded the camp in the mountains near Cleveland, Ga., almost 50 years ago.
“It was very fitting to welcome Bobby Harris, Camp Coleman Director, to the Temple on Friday, Oct. 5, to discuss the camping experience with our congregation in the Coleman Room,” said Allison Jacobs, Temple’s Ambassador to Camp Coleman and a proud mother of camp alumni.
Temple Supports Camp Coleman By ALLISON JACOBS
Congregation Ahavath Chesed
Camp Coleman is so important to my family in many different ways. First, it is the best month of the year for my kids. They look forward to going back the next summer as soon as they arrive back home. It also binds them to their Jewish identity, especially on Shabbat. Even though every child that attends camp is Jewish, it is the meals, Israeli counselors, and song sessions that give my kids
a proud spirit. My children can be adventurous. Josh really liked roller hockey and the ropes course, while Sarah loved video production and metals. Also, camp allows them to build and gain confidence
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The Etz Chaim Jewlywed Game is returning Jan. 19 By Etz Chaim Synagogue
Back by popular demand Etz Chaim is proud to present the Second Annual Jewlywed Game on Saturday night, Jan. 19, 2013. Please save the date. We will be announcing our lucky contestants in the next few weeks.
The community is invited to be in our studio audience. Admittance is $200 for two, which includes an evening filled with laughs, great food, good friends and special cocktails. And, because we feel traditions are vital, the Annual Etz Salami Toss will be back again this year. Valuable
and exciting prizes for attendees will also be part of the fun. We hope to build on last year’s successful event, so please come out and play with us. The whole community’s support is, as always, very much appreciated. Are you out there, sponsors? It’s us: Sylvia and Alex! We are
Etz Chaim hosts Rabbi Becher Nov. 2 By Etz Chaim Synagogue
Etz Chaim Synagogue will be hosting Rabbi Mordechai Becher as its scholar in residence for its fall Shabbaton on Nov. 2-3. Rabbi Mordechai Becher, originally from Australia, is senior lecturer for the Gateways Organization. He taught in Jerusalem for 15 years, served
in the Israel Defence Forces and taught in several rabbinic training programs. Rabbi Becher has answered thousands of questions on the Ask-the-Rabbi website, and his latest book, “Gateway to Judaism,” is in its sixth printing. Rabbi Becher received his ordination from the Chief Rabbinate of Israel. He has lectured for the UJA, Jewish Federations, the
Zionist Organization of America, Hillel and is on the speakers’ bureau of the Israeli Consulate in New York. The Shabbaton is open to the community, and there is no charge to attend any of the lectures. For more information, please contact the synagogue at 2623565 or go to etzchaim.org.
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JEWISH FAMILY & COMMUNITY SERVICES
Food drives bring in hundreds of pounds of food By GAIL FURMAN
Manager of Jewish Services
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Briefs Bikur Cholim Shabbat
As we welcome Shabbat of Nov. 2-3, Jacksonville synagogues will celebrate and educate their congregational families about the mitzvah of bikur cholim, visiting the sick. There is nothing more powerful and beautiful than the life-enhancing benefits of visiting someone who is ill or feeling isolated from the Jewish community. Jewish Healing Network volunteers inspire year round through their visits. Please contact Karen Susman at (904) 3945737 or ksusman@jfcsjax. com for more information.
We are grateful to everyone who came together to support the High Holiday Food Drive 2012, benefiting the JFCS WinnDixie Emergency Food Pantry. Congregation Ahavath Chesed - the Temple, the Jacksonville Jewish Center, Kehillah Chadashah and Beth El the Beaches coordinated food drives which resulted in two truckloads of donated food. Individuals from throughout the Jewish community also came forward with their direct donations, and corporate groups and individual volunteers from throughout the Jewish community put in time and labor sorting, categorizing and restocking the pantry shelves. We thank you all so much!
Above: Tables of food lined up at JFCS waiting to fill our empty shelves. At right: Congregation Ahavath Chesed broke its record in an amount of food collected this year.
Eat & Schmooze
National Adoption Day is Nov. 17. We are proud to report that we have finalized 23 adoptions in the foster care adoption program, and First Coast Adoption Professionals at JFCS has finalized five adoptions in the private adoption program so far this fiscal year. The JFCS/FCAP adoption team looks forward to creating many more forever families in the months to come.
Coping with hearing loss? Please join us when we meet Thursday, Nov. 27 from 11 a.m. to noon at Temple Ahavath Chesed, 8727 San Jose Blvd. This group meets on the fourth Tuesday of each month. This month’s topic will be “Coping with Hearing Loss during the Holidays.” Call 733-7078 or 395-5777.
Anyone interested in coming forward to share concerns and seek guidance with other individuals dealing with the painful issues of alcohol and drug addiction are invited to be part of a volunteer-led support group. Open to anyone in the Jewish community. All inquiries are strictly confidential. Call 394-5737.
Food of the month November Canned turkey or chicken, pumpkin, cranberry sauce, sweet potatoes, peas, carrots, fruits
Holiday gift giving
Each winter JFCS collects gifts for children in foster care. Our annual Holiday Gift Giving Program ensures each child within our Child Welfare program is able to have a gift during the holiday season. If you would like to sponsor a child, please call 4481933 or email Abbe Moody at amoody1@jfcsjax.org. We also have limited gift requests for Jewish children, families and seniors.
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Celebrating adoptions
Carla Shipper and JHN volunteer Cheryl Berlin JFCS plans December event for Holocaust survivors. Eat & Schmooze, the quarterly gettogether for Holocaust Survivors and their families, will resume on Dec. 16, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. This successful social gathering is a great time to come together as we share cultural and musical programs, guest speakers and lunch. Join us for the December program when we will also celebrate Chanukah. For more information call (904) 394-5777 or email nmirensky@jfcsjax.org.
Senior Solutions at JFCS By Jewish Family & Community Services
Senior Corner
During November, when families gather for a festive Thanksgiving meal, it may be difficult to observe subtle changes in older family members’ abilities. It is often hard to know when a loved one may need help with their daily activities, and what to do in order to help. This simple check list can help determine if help might be needed: • Has problems with two or more of these activities: • Driving and/or navigating in unfamiliar places • Preparing meals • Doing the laundry • Shopping and carrying heavy grocery bags • Remembering to take medicine • Grooming/dressing • Bathing/toileting • Has fallen two or more times over during the past month • Repetitiveness, forgetfulness or loss of judgment. Call JFCS Senior Solutions for a comprehensive assessment to link individuals and their families
with local resources. Our care managers offer support and ongoing monitoring to assist seniors with life transitions. Call Shelly Kulchin at (904) 394-5722,Naomi Mirensky at (904) 394-5777 or email: information@jfcsjax.org.
Celebrating Thanksgiving with a forever family
Many of us know who we will be spending Thanksgiving with, where we are going to go for the Thanksgiving holiday and what food that we will eat on this special day. Many of us have family traditions that we do every year for this special day but many of the children in foster care do not know what they will be doing for Thanksgiving, this year or next year. Last November, we finalized 13 adoptions allowing children to be with, and celebrate the holidays, with their forever family. And, we will strive to complete as many adoptions this November. Here are three stories with happy endings: • “Corey” was 3 years old when he was removed from his
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parents due to sexual abuse. He now lives with a family who loves him, nurtures him and is able to work with him to overcome his developmental delays. This case will finalize this month and Corey will be able to eat Thanksgiving dinner with his forever family. • “Jamie,” a 12-year-old with mental health concerns, will be adopted in November because his foster mom fell in love with Jamie despite his mental health needs. Jamie will have a forever family for the Thanksgiving holiday, and will be able to start holiday traditions with his new family. • “Adam” and “Laura” were high school sweethearts. They have been married for 10 years and have always known that they wanted children. Unfortunately they have struggled with infertility issues and have been unable to conceive. They decided to adopt in 2011. They were matched with their birth mother in early 2012. Shane was born in June, placed in their home in August and now Shane will be adopted by Adam and Laura this month. This family has many reasons to give thanks this Thanksgiving. The adoption specialists at JFCS try to get as many adoptions finalized in November so they can be in a loving home for the Thanksgiving holiday. For more information about our adoption programs, contact Rebecca Margulies at FCAP, 394-5763 or rmargulies@jfcsjax.org.
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Continued from p. 1 family’s wanderings from Turkey to Italy and the United States have influenced the recipes they still enjoy today. Disclosure: many of the recipes do not observe kosher principles. Wednesday. Nov. 14, at 7 p.m.: Edie Lutnick, author of “An Unbroken Bond –- The Untold Story of How the 658 Cantor Fitzgerald Families Faced the Tragedy of 9/11 and Beyond.” Edie Lutnick
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co-founded and heads the Cantor Fitzgerald Relief Fund that has raised and distributed over $250 million to victims of terrorism, disasters and emergencies. A labor lawyer by training, Edie’s life changed forever when her younger brother perished in the World Trade Center and her other brother’s firm was nearly destroyed. Through dedication and Tzedakah, Edie and her brother, Howard, committed their leadership of Cantor Fitzgerald and its Relief Fund to changing the lives of thousands.
Sunday, Nov. 18, at 10 a.m.: Patrons’ Brunch featuring David Misch, author of “Funny: The Book –- Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Comedy.” David Misch has been a comic folksinger and stand-up comic. His screenwriting cred-
its include “Mork and Mindy,” “Police Squad,” “The Muppets Take Manhattan” and “Saturday Night Live.” He teaches musical satire at UCLA and “Practical Foundations of Comedy” at USC. The book posits that humor is a defining characteristic of human-
ity. To become a patron, please contact Thelma Nied at 730-2100 ext. 227. All books will be available for sale and signing. Events, except for the Patrons’ Brunch, are free and open to the community.
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Jewish war veterans expand Holocaust stamp project By Jewish War Veteran Post 273
The Jewish War Veteran Post 273 has expanded its stamp program with a new dimension. For over 40 years the post has been distributing postage stamps to more than 100 veteran medical facilities, schools and youth groups. Marty Kaufman, stamp chairman, has extended the program to include the Boston 3G, grandchildren of Holocaust survivors, located in Brookline, Mass. The Boston 3G group has a goal of collecting 11 million stamps,
which will represent those lost during the Holocaust. To date 1 million stamps have been collected and sent to the Foxborough Regional Charter School for their Holocaust stamp project. The students at the Charter School are creating beautiful collages. Each collage will symbolize a piece of history during the time of the Holocaust and will be used as a learning tool throughout the Brookline school system. For more information or to donate stamps, contact Marty Kaufman at 880-4014.
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RIVER GARDEN SENIOR SERVICES
River Garden Gala assists with resident care By MICHELLE BRANLY River Garden Senior Services
The River Garden Foundation celebrates its 20th anniversary gala Nov. 17 at the World Golf Village Renaissance Resort, sponsored by SunTrust Bank. Proceeds benefit the residents of our Home, River Garden Hebrew Home/Wolfson Health & Aging Center, the jewel of Jacksonville. This year Foundation Board Member Jeanine Rogozinski heads the amazing gala committee. Jeanine is not new to the job, having chaired the event in 2007 and 2008. “Jeanine is a powerhouse of energy, enthusiasm and determination,” said Kathy Osterer, director of development. “She
makes every endeavor a complete success. Jeanine has set an example of leadership and hard work for the entire community. We are delighted that she has offered us her talents again.” Imagine...A Walk Through Our Emerald City will be an evening to remember. Guests will ease on down the yellow brick road to cocktails and a silent auction filled with exciting and unique items. The Chéz-zam Event Group will welcome all into the ballroom as Our Emerald City comes to life. The group, based out of New York and Orlando, will dazzle the senses through the talent, vitality and versatility of their world-renowned theatrical dance troupe, creating a magi-
cal and memorable experience as guests are encouraged to join in the celebration. They will entertain throughout the night, engaging everyone with costume changes and music to keep guests on their feet. The first River Garden Gala took place in October 1993 at the Omni Jacksonville Hotel. Rochelle Proctor and Barbara Parker served as event chairs, with Betty Boyer and Jan Allison as advisers. By word of mouth, a strong committee and generous corporate support, the event was virtually sold out before the invitations were mailed. More than 500 attended. The theme was Phantom of the Opera. The board of trustees of the
then-new River Garden Foundation wanted to create an elegant community event that would establish the Foundation’s identity and promote River Garden/Wolfson Health & Aging Center. The gala has become one of the finest in town and has helped educate the general community about the unique nature of River Garden, its national reputation as a model elder-care agency, and the special role it plays in our community. Gala funds are designated to help underwrite the costs of caring for the more than 50 percent of the home’s residents who are on Medicaid. Each year, the foundation must raise more than $1.3 million, through contributions and special events, to cover the Medicaid shortfall and to pay
for the care of these residents. The gala provides a significant portion of this figure, and River Garden has come to depend upon this income. To date, more than $2.8 million has been raised. Don’t miss out. The community is invited. Sponsorships available: $1,000 to $15,000. Individual tickets are $250, or $175 for those 40 and younger. For information or reservations, contact Kathy Osterer, 904-8868430 or kosterer@rivergarden. org. www.rivergardengalawordress.com. Facebook: RiverGardenGala. Michelle Branly, Development Associate, can be reached at mbranly@rivergarden.org.
Ms. River Garden Beauty Pageant a day to remember By VANESSA WARNER River Garden Senior Services
The Activity Department celebrated its 9th Annual Ms. River Garden Pageant in honor of Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year. What better way to ring in the New Year than having a stage full of beautiful women? Mitchell Oleski, our emcee, did a wonderful job in guiding the pageant along with his charm and sense of humor. Seven beautiful women were anxiously waiting to participate in the pageant by reading a description of one of their fond memories, and showing off their charm and wit. Atlanta Sprueil, Mary Dumont, Celia Sachs, Leah Solomon, Geraldine Turbow, Mary Williams and Iris Ginzig “dressed to the hilt”’ as they say. The ladies were judged in several categories: the reading of their story, dress, humor and composure. Our judges Sherri Winston, Ashleigh Cranford and Sandi McKnight faced the difficult task of selecting which of these fine contestants was to be announced as the winner of the 2012-2013 pageant. After their readings, and prior to the actual judging, each contestant was asked: “Why do you think you should be the new Ms. River Garden?” We received some very insightful answers. Carla Schipper, our out-going Ms. River Garen, had a few words of inspiration to share with the court. Then it was time 2-column x 3 3/4”
Iris Ginzig, Ms. River Garden 2012 Pageant winner. Iris’s mission: ensuring that residents not often visited by family or friends do get visits none-the-less. for the big announcement: Iris Ginzig was crowned Ms. River Garden queen for the 2012-2013 New Year. Congratulations Iris! On behalf of the entire Activity Department, we wish to thank all of our beautiful contestants, the beauty salon, our judges, and Mitch for assisting us in this wonderful pageant. See you next year.
Imagine...A Walk Through Our Emerald City 2012 River Garden Gala Committee
Vanessa Warner is the director of activities. She can be reached at vwarner@rivergarden.org
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JEWISH COMMUNITY FOUNDATION OF NORTHEAST FLORIDA
Faces of CJL: Sharing hopes and dreams for the Jewish community By Jewish Community Foundation
We want to know, What are your hopes and dreams? What is your vision for the future of the Jewish community? What inspires you to Create a Jewish Legacy? Send your dreams to: Dreams@jewishfoundationnnefl. org, call 904-394-0720, fax 904394-0956, or mail to Dreams at Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida, PO Box 24847, Jacksonville, FL 32241. Here are what some families had to say: “Jacksonville is our home; we were raised here and are happy to be raising our children here. We want to ensure that future generations enjoy this community as much as we have. We all need to be proud of the Jacksonville
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Jewish Community and give it strength to continue to thrive.” Deborah Shapiro
‘If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?’- Hillel.” - Andy Morris
a Jewish future for my children – and the generations after them.” - Dina Fetner
to us that our Jewish institutions survive. We have always thought about leaving something to the Jewish community. Foundation has been a fantastic resource in helping us figure out how to create our own legacy.” - the Elikan family
“We believe that for those who are able to give, it’s our responsibility, regardless of the size of the gifts. Our family is guided by this:
“By signing my declaration of intent to create my own Jewish legacy, I am joining in securing
“What kind of world do we want to pass on to the next generation? To us, that’s what a legacy is all about. It’s important
CJL News: Honoring 400-plus dreamers By Jewish Community Founda-
On Jan. 31 a Create a Jewish Legacy celebration event will be presented by our Jewish Community Foundation, JCA, JFCS, Federation, River Garden, Beth El, Etz Chaim, Jacksonville Jewish Center and The Temple – to recognize and honor dreamers. Through Create a Jewish Legacy, over 400 dreamers have declared their intent to remember Jewish causes in their wills, have advised us they have already given to Jewish endowment funds, or have included Jewish causes in their wills and estate plans. Come dream with us. Together we can secure a bright future for the Jewish community of tomorrow. Attendees will journey back in time and enjoy a glimpse into the future. Event planning chairs Andrea Mail,
Save the date and come dream with us
The Wolpins and Lissners enjoy time together at CJL Celebration Event Jeanine Rogozinski and Ellen Rosner and their committee are planning a memorable
adventure into dreamland. Talented Jewish entertainers will perform musical renditions and inspire us to dream. For event information or legacy planning ideas contact CJL Program Director Debby Harris at 904-394-0720 or dharris@ jewishfoundationnefl.org.
Let’s dream together
Stephen and Susan Wolchok sign their CJL declaration to support Jewish causes
What will your Jewish legacy be? What are your dreams for the future of the Jewish community? These are powerful messages. They resonate. We all dream of having an impact on causes meaningful to us. We want to be remembered. On Thursday, Jan. 31, 2013, come along with us on a fantastic voyage as we offer a glimpse at possi-
bilities, said event planning chairs Andrea Mail, Jeanine Rogozinski and Ellen Rosner. Our celebration will be full of surprises and includes a tribute to Michael Donziger who touched our hearts with his remember-Jewish-causesin-your-will quips. What are your dreams for the future of the Jewish community? Dream and envision a vibrant, financially secure Jewish community of tomorrow. Create your Jewish legacy for Jewish causes meaningful to you. Send us your hopes and dreams for the future of the Jewish community to Dreams@jewishfoundationnefl.org. Or call CJL Program Director Debby Harris at 394-0720. We hope to include your dreams in this column and on the night of the event in our video presentation.
The Shteytl Singers By Jewish Community Foundation
On Thursday, Jan. 31, 2013, 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m., our Jewish community agencies and synagogues will present, When You Wish Upon A Star. Together, we will honor and recognize our community dreamers who are including Jewish agencies and synagogues in their wills and estate plans, and who already gave to Jewish endowments. Interested in hearing how your hopes and dreams for the future of the Jewish community might become reality? Contact us at Dreams@jewishfoundationnefl.org or call 394-0720 to ensure you receive your personal invitation. Come dream with us as we adventure into the past and embark on a fantastic journey into the future.
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To create your Personalized Legacy Agreement including which causes will be your beneficiaries, contact the Foundation. Then, use the following language in your will and to change a beneficiary designation on other assets such as IRAs or life insurance. “I give and bequeath to the Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast FL Inc., its successors and or assigns X %”, (whatever % or dollar amount that is comfortable for you) “of my residual estate or/asset.” Contact the Foundation with additional questions. The Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida, Inc., does not provide legal or tax advice. This information is not intended, nor may it be relied upon, as legal, accounting or other professional advice. Before making any financial decisions always consult your own professional adviser.
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JEWISH COMMUNITY ALLIANCE
Getting ready for 2nd trip to Israel To Israel and beyond . . . By BETSY MILLER
JCA Youth Services Director
I remember Myron Flagler talking to me about Israel in the early years of my JCA employment. I loved hearing stories about this faraway place. He mentioned he would really like to take his staff there one day to show them this beautiful land. Although I thought Betsy Miller it would be an amazing experience, I also remember thinking the possibility of actually going was slim. Well, here I am, years later preparing the journey of a lifetime with 11 others, whom I happen to know well and love, my fellow co-workers. Believe it or not, this will be my second trip to Israel. This past December, it was a great privilege for me to accompany 32 others from Jewish community centers all over the country. The goal was to familiarize us with a new initiative to formulate JCC trips to Israel (which I will plug at the end of this article). This trip was both very educational and very emotional.
However, I felt a little like I took a trigonometry class without taking algebra. In a sense, studying with my co-workers during the last nine months has been like a makeup class for me. Our intense weekly study group discussions (with the help of Myron and my smart peers) have helped me make some connections from my first trip: visiting Hebrew University, then reading the significance of science and technology; touring an elementary school in Tel Aviv and now learning the challenges of the education system and immigration; seeing the security wall and now discussing the complex issues of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict – and the list goes on. Now the plug as promised. We have another amazing trip planned in spring 2013. This trip is open to members of the community and it will be awesome. Please call or email for more information. Betsy. Miller@JCAJAX.org 730-2100 ext. 245.
By DORRI KRAUS JCA J Institute Director
When I joined the JCA this spring, Myron Flagler, our executive director, told me he was planning a trip to Israel for the program directors of the agency. I was excited about the prospect of going, especially since I hadn’t been in over 15 years and in that time had acquired a vivacious Israeli Dorri Kraus mother-in-law. You see, my mother-inlaw had survived the Holocaust and was one of the first refugees to arrive in the soon-to-be-formed Jewish state in 1947. But for me, Israel had always existed. Being a child of the 60s, I grew up with Zionistic parents and a love for Israel that was embedded in me. I thought I knew Israel. It was infused in my existence. So when I was told that in preparation for the trip we would be learning about Israel, I thought that I pretty much knew what there was to know. Boy, was I wrong. Now, with many hours of study and the trip only weeks away, I can’t begin to tell you what I’ve learned and what
JCA Sukkot Celebration
this experience has meant to me, and that’s before ever stepping a foot on Israeli soil. In raising the idea of a program director’s trip to Israel, I’m sure that Myron had a very strong notion as to how the trip could contribute to the betterment of the JCA, its members and the community as a whole. What he may not have known is the impact that it would have on those of us going. From the knowledge gleaned, to the myriad of discussions and the resultant camaraderie generated, this trip has already made a difference. For it is through this process that we have learned to work more closely with one another and to respect each other’s perspective. And for me, as the director of the J Institute, it has given me a wealth of material upon which to create enjoyable, thought-provoking adult programs that are open to the community. So I invite you to come and participate in the upcoming programs as we explore Israel’s many facets and have some fun in the process.
On Thursday night, Oct. 4, The JCA held its annual Sukkot Celebration. Approximately 100 families joined together to celebrate this festive event. Despite the rainy weather, all gathered in song by the Sukkah to participate in the traditional blessing. A sing-along procession led to where dinner was served. There were Sukkot crafts and an interactive story for the children. Fun for everyone. Middle photo: Brady Pargman, Michelle Pargman, Audra Latham, Brian Pargman, Macy Pargman. Right photo: Wolchocks: Susan, Stephen, Zane and Reva
JCA happenings
Vandroff Art Gallery
The Vandroff Art Gallery will exhibit postcard posters reproduced from the original postcards by Andrew and Maria Bachmann through Nov. 21. Andrew and Maria started collecting antique postcards from Jacksonville when they arrived in 1992. The posters, enlarged from the original postcards, show how Jacksonville and the surrounding areas have changed over the decades. Beginning Nov. 26, the gallery will display the paintings of Daniel Wynn. Modernism and cubism influence the colorful work of Daniel Ruben Wynn. He is also influenced by African and Oriental art. His work combines the elements of surrealism, cubism, and modernism.
Bountiful baskets
It is time for The Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool’s annual silent auction. These beautiful, themed baskets are brimming with goodies. What a great opportunity to purchase exquisite gift baskets for the holidays while supporting our preschool and kindergarten. Bidding on the baskets begins Nov. 12 and ends Nov. 28. Thanks to all of the parents for their generous support, donations, and hard work in putting the baskets
together. The proceeds from this event go toward program enhancements.
J Café (Cultural Arts Family Experience)
It’s T-Party time at J Café, the new place for stimulating and engaging cultural arts family experiences. Come to our first exciting J Café from 4 to 5 p.m. on Sunday, Nov. 11, for a special T-Party with stories and more (tea and snacks of course). Professional storyteller Carol Longo will demonstrate ways to enhance family story time experiences. The per-family fee is $10 for JCA members and $15 for nonmembers.
JCA Theatre of Youth presents ‘Cindi-Ella’
You won’t want to miss this country version of the classic fairytale. Cindi-Ella dreams of going to Cody Charmin’s Barn-Buster Ball. However, her stepmother, Sadie, and stepsisters, Prissy, Cissy and Missy, have other ideas about what she should be doing. Add in a godmother named Daisy Lou, country mice, a few classic Cinderella songs along with some country favorites and you’ve got yourself the makin’s of a real good time for the whole family. Our show stars Mia Woods, Mikell Graf, Edyn
Gottlieb, Ansley Brodsky and many other of your JCA favorites. The show will be presented at 7:30 p.m. on Saturday, Dec. 1 and 8, and at 2 p.m. on Sunday, Dec. 2 and 9. Tickets are $7 and will be sold at the door.
Party Planning 101
Throwing your next party can be easy when you know the basics. Join party planner Larry Smith at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, Nov. 15, as he shares the how tos of planning the perfect party, including menu design, theme and décor, flow and how to organize it all without getting stressed. Advance registration appreciated. This program is free for JCA members and $5 for nonmembers.
Natural soap making
Join us for an artful evening of fragrance and fun as Donna McGee, herbalist and natural skin care enthusiast, teaches you how to make soap using the Melt & Pour soap making process. You’ll create soaps that are beautiful, healthy and fragrant, and you’ll get to take home several of your creations. Registration required by Nov. 12 for this even which begins at 6:30 p.m. on Monday, Nov. 19. The fee is $25 for JCA members and $38 for nonmembers.
Art buying for the layman collector
Owning original artwork not only adds a touch of flair to your home, it also exhibits a bit of your personality. Come join Jen Jones, lead designer at Jen Jones Art Consulting, at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, Nov. 27, as she shares some of the dos and don’ts of buying art for your home or office. Wine and light appetizers will be served. The fee is $5 for JCA members and $8 for nonmembers.
Healthy eating tips from the JCA
The JCA’s J Institute is offering two programs to help you make healthy eating decisions: Food Labels: Fact or Fiction – What’s for dinner? With your family running in all directions, the hardest thing is to figure out healthy meal options. Join Dr. Jon Repole, holistic health practitioner, as he shares the truth behind food labeling and walks you through the basics of how to plan healthy, easy meals that your family will love. This program is at 9:30 a.m. on Thursday, Nov. 8. It is free for JCA members and $5 for nonmembers. Facts & Snacks – “Healthy eating,” “GMO”, “Organic Foods,” you hear about it on the news, read about it in the newspaper
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Adult love stories from the Bible
Rabbi Joshua Leif, senior rabbi of the Temple, returns at noon on Thursday, Nov. 8, with real-life love stories and more. Join your friends for a fascinating look at the lives of Biblical men and women. Find out why some things never change and how the past reflects on the present. This program is free for all.
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LIFECYCLES Birth
Lorelei Elizabeth Lewis, daughter of Melissa and Greg Lewis, was born on Oct. 7, 2012. Grandparents are Renie and Gerald Levin and Linda Lewis of Rice Lake, Wisc.
B’nai Mitzvah
Ari Noah Howard, son of Marcia and Michael Howard, was called to the Torah on the occasion of his Bar Mitzvah on Oct. 27, 2012, at the Jacksonville Jewish Center. Also celebrating with Ari was his sister Shoshana and his brother Benjamin, along with his grandparents, aunts and uncles, many cousins and friends. Ari is an honor student at LaVilla School of the Arts, where he is a member of the National Junior Honor Society and Scholar Bowl Team. Ari plays classical guitar and piano and has been sharing his gift of music at River Garden Hebrew Home for many years. Over the last two years, Ari has volunteered at the City Rescue Mission, serving meals and playing music. Ari has also performed for holiday gatherings for military families in Jacksonville who have a loved one serving our
country overseas. Sydney Lauren Mayer, daughter of Stacy and Richard Mayer, will be called to the Torah on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah on Nov. 3, 2012, at Temple Bet Yam. Sharing in the simcha will be her brother Zachary Mayer, 11; grandparents Barbara Farber of St. Augustine, Allen Farber of West Orange, N.J., and Gloria and Robert Mayer of Las Vegas; and many other friends and family. Sydney is in seventh grade at Pacetti Bay Middle School, where she is in the advanced program and in band. She enjoys horseback riding and music, as well as spending time with her friends. Aaron Jacob Lipper, son of Jay and Amy Lipper, will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on Shabbat, Nov. 17, 2012, at Etz Chaim Synagogue. Aaron is the grandson of Henry and Shirley Lipper of Manhattan Beach, Brooklyn, N.Y., and the late Gerald and Elaine Schwartz of Union, N.J. Aaron is an eighth grade student in Torah Academy of Jacksonville. Aaron is an active member in NCSY Jacksonville of
the Etz Chaim Synagogue Youth Department.
Sympathy
… to the family of Nathan Kazin, husband of Barbara Kazin, father of Susan (Brian) Ansbacher, Gary Kazin (Inez Sydow) and grandfather of Michael Ansbacher, Michael (Sally) Kazin and Sarah Kazin. Nathan died Oct. 3, 2012. Contributions may be made to the Temple or Community Hospice. … to the family of Moshe Sosnowiec who died Oct. 2, 2012. He is survived by his children Hannah (Morris) Bendit, Sonia (Saul) Lam, Sima (Nathan) Shuch, and Gary (Katherine) Sosnovich; grandchildren Jonathan, Ruth, Elka, Rebecca, Wendy, Ronit, Ilan, Jason, Kevin, Eytan, Cara, and Raquel; and to nine greatgrandchildren. Contributions may be made to River Garden Hebrew Home, the Jacksonville Jewish Center or Etz Chaim Synagogue. … to the family of Alice Thompson, sister of Ben Rubin (Carolyn Herman) and aunt of Jacob Rubin. Alice died Oct. 12, 2012. She is survived by her husband Eric Thompson, children Brian and Rachel, mother Laura Rubin and sister Amy Cumming. Contributions may be made to Oak Park Temple, 1235 N. Harlem Avenue, Oak Park, IL 60302. … to the family of Rosalind Witlen, mother of Edward Witlen
(Marie Reitzes). Rosalind died Oct. 11, 2012. Contributions may be made to the Women of Reform Judaism Y.E.S. fund. … to the family of Barbara Wolfson, mother of Michael Wolfson. Barbara died Oct.14, 2012. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Cecil Wolfson.Contributions may be
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COMMUNITY NEWS
River Garden Hebrew Home celebrates the future By River Garden
On Monday evening, Oct. 15, River Garden Senior Services hosted more than 300 guests for an incredible evening to participate in the official dedication of the agency’s new addition and updated space. Members from throughout the Jacksonville community came out to help River Garden celebrate this milestone in the agency’s history. Guests included leaders from the Jewish community as well as from the larger Jacksonville community including City Councilman Matt Schellenberg and representatives from Baptist Health, Florida Blue, SunTrust Bank, Community Hospice, Haven Hospice and Aetna Health. Donors, board members, residents and family members enjoyed cocktails and hors d’oeuvres as they toured the new and refurbished facilities. One guest commented, “The home never looked more stunning,” while another said, “My mother lives upstairs, and she is happier and healthier than she’s been in a long time.” As part of the event, Linda and David Stein were recognized for their $1 million lead gift to the River Garden capital campaign in a red ribbon cutting ceremony of
the new 10,000-square-foot David A. Stein & Family Center. The space was dedicated in memory of his grandmother Rose, a founding mother of River Garden. The addition is home to the Frisch Family Adult Day Care and Activities Pavilion and the Bernard & Alice Selevan Therapy Pavilion. The new space has the capacity to enable both the Therapy Center and the Adult Day Care program to triple the number of clients served and increases River Garden’s outreach into home and communitybased programs and services. The renovations of the existing space include the Trager/Peltz Admissions & Home Health Pavilion, the Parker and Wilf Dining Pavilion and The DuBow Pharmacy, as well as the Sloat Memory Care Pavilion. The refurbishment of the entire building is still in process. The evening was also an opportunity to thank all donors who have contributed to River Garden’s capital campaign over the past 18 months. Campaign chairs Susan DuBow and Sandy Zimmerman, as well as honorary chairs David and Linda Stein, were applauded. “River Garden credits the entire community for the success of the campaign. We are very grateful to each and every donor, but we could not have done it without the leadership of
Capital Campaign Co-chairs Sandy Zimmerman and Susan DuBow with Honorary Chairs Linda and David Stein our chairs and visionary donors that got the campaign off to a running start,” remarks Martin Goetz,
CEO of River Garden. While touring the building one donor remarked, “This is where my do-
nation went – I am thrilled to be a part of this place.” After hearing about the expansion of outpatient and home health services River Garden is now able to provide to the community as a result of the addition and refurbishment, another donor remarked, “This organization really has its act together.” Join us as we continue on this journey to keep building a strong agency that is recognized nationally as one of the leading senior service agencies. It is not too late to add your name to the growing list of donors to the Capital Campaign. To schedule a tour please contact Kathy Osterer, director of development, or Beth Wolpoff, Capital Campaign coordinator, at (904) 260-1818.
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GIRLFRIEND CONNECTION 2012 From left: Sue Eaglstein, Debra Setzer, Cathy Klein, Leslie Cheron Photos by Larry Tallis
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Anne DePaul and Laura Osofsky: Making a difference By SAM GRISWOLD
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As Jews, we are taught that we should each do our part to make the world a better place. One can find no better role models for this belief than Anne DePaul and Laura Osofsky, best friends and this year’s honorees of Temple Sisterhood’s L’Dor VaDor Donor Luncheon on Sunday, Nov. 18, at 12:30 p.m. Most days, Anne can be found in, or near the kitchen at Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple), preparing catered meals and desserts for Temple onegs and celebrations. Her culinary talents are widely known and sought after for Temple and sisterhood events such as the Women’s Seder, Yom Kippur Break-the-Fast and more. Just ask and she’ll be there. A long-time member of WRJ Temple Sisterhood, she is the co-VP of Ways and Means. But her contributions extend beyond Temple. She has taught preschool at the Jewish Community Alliance (JCA) and the Jacksonville Jewish Center, and regularly works the polls on election days. Friends describe her as delightful and generous with a dry sense of humor.
Laura is a past-president of Temple Sisterhood and its current treasurer. For many years, she has served on the Board of Trustees of Congregation Ahavath Chesed. She has been an active participant of the Temple Chorale since the early 1990s and, like Anne, can be found much of the time in the kitchen preparing for Temple onegs and functions. Outside of Temple, she too assists in the polls on election days, works parttime with her son’s veterinary practice and sings as a member of Masterworks, a community concert group. Her colleagues describe her as amazingly wise, witty and a wonderful woman. All are welcome and encouraged to pay tribute to these two remarkable women. Temple Sisterhood’s L’Dor VaDor Donor Luncheon helps to raise funds for Camp Coleman scholarships and other Temple Institute of Religion activities. For more information and to RSVP, please visit the Temple website at www.thetemplejacksonville.org.
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Godparent Luncheon to be held Nov. 27 By Jacksonville Hadassah
Jacksonville Hadassah will hold its 2012 Godparent Luncheon on Tuesday, Nov. 27, at noon, at Maggiano’s at St. Johns Town Center. The special guest speaker is Terri Tankel, Florida Central Region president. Terri will report on Hadassah’s latest accomplishment: the opening of the Sarah Wetsman Davidson Tower. Additionally, Terri will be just returning from the National Hadassah Centennial Convention in Israel and will give a personal eyewitness account of the opening of the Sarah Wetsman Davidson Tower.
This tower at Hadassah Hospital will allow greater occupancy, the promise of continued clinical excellence and help Hadassah stay at the forefront of medical research. There is a $100 minimum donation to attend and a $180 donation to be a godparent. Lunch is $25. For additional information contact Tricia Bettman 737-3764. Did you know? We have several members of Jacksonville Hadassah, who also attended the Centennial in Jerusalem this past October. You will want to arrive early and hear from them – your friends and neighbors – about their first hand experiences as well.
Have you baked with Anne? Have a story to tell us? We invite anyone who would like to participate in the tribute and storytelling part of this event to contact Heidi Ruff at (904) 262-3603, or Morleen Berlin at (904) 860-8961 for more information. We will be honoring both of these extremely important and dedicated women of Temple Sisterhood with tributes, song and great food. Prices start at $36.
Laura Osofsky, left, and Anne DePaul, right, will be honored at Temple Sisterhood’s L’Dor VaDor donor luncheon on Sunday, Nov.18.
Entertainment will be provided by The Heritage Singers of Jacksonville.
If you are unable to attend, please consider making a donation to this important cause.
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