Tell your sister/ brother how proud you are about what they have achieved recently
Reflect on a situation that made you feel negative emotion. Think about how you tackled that task and be proud of what you achieved to do this
Go out for a 30 min brisk walk and take in the beauty round you
Look for the positive/ funny side of a difficult situation e.g self isolating due to COVID might seem negative but it means you might get extra sleep as you do not need to commute to school
E- Emotions Look for what is good
Be thankful for living in a lovely part of the world.
Write a to do realistic to do list and be proud every time you complete a task – tick it /cross it off with pride
Tell your sister/ brother how proud you are about what they have achieved recently
Positive vibes attract positivity Positive emotions such as joy, gratitude, contentment, inspiration, happiness and pride are not just great at the time but it has shown that positivity attracts positivity, if you are positive then other around you will be too. So, although we need to be realistic about life’s ups and downs, it helps to focus on the good aspects of any situation - the glass half full rather than the glass half empty.
Write down 3 things that you really appreciate in your life
Ask a friend/family member to talk to you about their hobbies and interest and see if you have an interest in it too
Plan a countryside walk with your family and set a date to go and explore this new area
Plan a cycle ride around your local park and complete it
A- Acceptance Mistakes are all part of learning, do not beat yourself up about it. Instead, think I know how I would do it differently next time. Have a think when this has happened before and how you would act different next time
Embrace what makes you unique – look in the mirror and tell yourself why you are unique and how this ads value to you
Be comfortable with you are
Think positively and speak kindly to yourself – do not compare yourself to others
It’s important to take care of yourself by eating right, sleeping enough and exercising regularly.
Self-acceptance
No-one’s perfect. But so often we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. Learning to accept and appreciate that each and everyone of us is unique and amazing is a huge step to improving happiness, improve wellbeing and improve resilience.
Consider a few things you can do to treat yourself and spend quality time on your own (e.g. taking a warm bath, going for a walk in nature, etc
Ask a friend what they love about you and accept their answer by saying ‘thank you’
Write down 3 things that you are good at or love to do e.g sports, music, design etc
Let go of things you cannot change – write yourself a letter go of things you cannot change and welcoming in things you love about yourself
Learning some basic first aid skills, think how you could help yourself and others in the future
Teach your dog/pet a new trick.
N – New things Keep learning new things
As your Mum or Dad to teach you to cook a new recipe
Research a new blog or podcast that could help you learn about something new. It could be history based or about a different culture around the world. The possibilities are endless
See if you could learn to touch type – think how helpful this would be for your future
Research a new book and start reading, maybe it could be learning about a historical event.
Learn a new word a day by using a daily vocabulary builder app
Consider learning to grow vegetables or flowers
Do you like taking photos? Consider join a photography course or a book to guide you
Consider trying to complete the couch to 5k App challenge
Learning affects our well-being in lots of positive ways. New ideas help us stay curious and excited. It also gives us a sense of accomplishment and helps boost our self-confidence and resilience. There are many ways to learn, from friends, online courses, from family and friends and even through formal qualifications.
Why not try a Pilates or Yoga class?
i – Involvement
Join a sports club in school or even consider looking at local sports clubs close to you. Is there a sport you have always wanted to try?
Be part of something bigger
Does your family have any traditions? Why not start one if not and create and organise a family day full of what your family enjoys the most
Why not take responsibility for a task at home? Could you be in sole charge of the weekly shopping list, for unloading the dishwasher or taking your dog for a walk every day?
Is there a school project you could be part of? It could be helping the local community or putting yourself forward for a form responsibility
Help a sibling to tackle a difficult homework task or question
Go and kick a football around with your brother/sister/ dog/friend in the park for 30 mins
Organise and plan a run/ jog with your friends
To be involved and involve others in everyday life can provide a purpose, feeling of happiness and prevent stress, worry and anxiety. We might all have different ways to feel involved, so try out one of the ideas around the outside of this box or if you can think of anything similar, then set yourself a goal to pursue it.
Do you have a religious belief? Are you part of a religious community? If not, research into if you could join a local community surrounding your belief
n – Need
What are your needs, exercise, connecting with nature or time? Visit a local park and take in 5 natural things around you e.g trees, birds, the smell of grass, flowers and the blue sky
Pick up your skate board/ scooter or bike ad head down to the park for 60 mins
Create a bedtime routine if you do not have one already. Be screen free for 30 mins before sleep.
Go out for a walk for an hour and see how far you can walk in that time
Complete multiple ‘Just Dance’ songs on YouTube
Making time for ourselves
Our body and minds are connected and being active can help make us happier and is good for our physical health. Making time for ourselves is also extremely important to boosting our mood and improving our well-being. This can include making sure we have enough sleep, eat nutritional meals and relaxing away from technology. Connecting with nature can be a perfect way to do this. Try to make time for you 3 times a week for 60 mins. What will you do with this time?
Complete a HIT workout online
What is your favourite thing to do? It could be anything. However busy you are, make the time for this activity
Take your lunch or dinner outside (weather permitting) and absorb some vitamin D
Create a bedtime routine if you do not have one already. Be screen free for 30 mins before sleep.
Bring nature indoors and pick a lovely houseplant to have in your room.
g – Giving
Smile at everyone you pass today
Let someone special know everything you appreciate about them
Suggest going for a walk with a neighbour/ friend/relative
Pick up some litter in the park
What act of kindness could you do today?
Walk a friend's dog Hold the door open for someone
Help your parents cook dinner tonight
Help someone with their homework
Help with the chores at home
Ring an elderly relative to see how they are
Giving is good for you
When we give to others it activates areas of the brain associated with pleasure, social connections and trust. It’s not all about money - we can also give our time, ideas and energy. So, if you want to feel good, do good! What act of kindness could you do today, tomorrow, this week and beyond.
Bake a cake for someone
Make a small donation to a charity
Volunteer at a local charity/ event