âI lived a whole life before Penelopeâ
Taking centre stage in the third series of Bridgerton, Nicola Coughlan talks female emancipation, the politics of sex and how Derry Girls changed her life for ever
Bridgerton is the period drama that ripped up the rule book and turned Regency Englandâs high society into the perfect breeding ground for love, lust and steamy sex. Forget shy glances across ballrooms, this is a series punctuated by desire â male leads in billowy shirts climbing out of ponds (dripping wet, of course) and couples who canât keep their hands off each other (whether itâs in the library, the dining room, the gardenâŠ).
The racy goings-on have captivated global audiences: the first series broke records when it was viewed by more than 82 million households in its first four weeks, and the second surpassed that as the most watched English-language Netflix series. Now in its third instalment, this season will focus on Colin Bridgerton (back from his travels with a six-pack, tan and noticeably buffer) and Penelope Featherington (the overlooked spinster and secret author of Lady Whistledownâs gossip sheet). Set on finding her match, Penelope ditches the gaudy, citrus dresses and goes about reinventing herself. Stepping firmly into the limelight as Penelope is Nicola Coughlan, the 37-year-old Irish actor who landed the role after just one audition. âI met the casting directorâs assistant â I read for him and I thought I did a fine job,â she explains. âBut I knew it was a Shondaland show for Netflix and thought, âThis is going to be months of auditions. Itâs going to be so protracted and terrifying â youâll meet the execs, get to the table read and then get fired!â You hear all these horror stories. So, I certainly didnât expect anything from that first audition. Two weeks later I got a call offering me the job. I thought, âWhereâs the catch?ââ
Fans of the show have long been obsessed with Penelope and Colinâs will-they-wonâtthey relationship. When it was recently teased that the actors had broken furniture while shooting an intimate scene and that Coughlan had a clause in her contract that means her parents get sent a PG-version of the show, it sent the internet into a tizz. Was Coughlan apprehensive about filming sex scenes with Luke Newton, who plays Colin?
âOh my gosh, it was definitely intimidating,â she confesses. âHundreds of millions of people watch the show â not five. Thatâs really scary. But it was one of the things I enjoyed most. Luke and I had a real hand in what we did and how it came across. We decided what we wanted to show and how we wanted to choreograph the scenes. People often imagine intimacy coordinators saying, âPut your hand hereâ or âDo thisâ â and certain people do it like that, but I can always see it on screen.
âWe had agency and we could let it flow. Thankfully, we had that physical comfort with one another â so it ended up being a really beautiful thing. Luke is a dream to work with. We really had each otherâs back. Having now watched those scenes, Iâm so proud of them.â
Part of Bridgertonâs success is down to its focus on the female gaze; it portrays sex that prioritises womenâs pleasure. Are we in an era where â·
â content can be unapologetically female?
âRomance is the most read genre of fiction in the world â but people always undermine it. This show broke so many records when it came out. People were asking, âWhat could be [behind its success]?â Well, itâs really angled towards women and what women like to watch.
âItâs funny because people just donât seem to want to get it. Theyâre like, Barbie was good,â so maybe we should make another doll film? Itâs not about the dolls!â she exclaims â having had a small role in the film as âDiplomat Barbieâ. âItâs about womenâs stories in whatever guise they present themselves! Itâs just bad business sense not to invest. The proof is in the pudding!â
Bridgerton might be set in the 1800s but there are still many similarities with todayâs society. Although the series celebrates female sexuality, the women are still consumed by finding a match, while the male characters are afforded much more leeway with their promiscuity. Is that still relevant?
âItâs more insidious now. Men can sleep with as many women as they want, but women canât do the same. Itâs not seen on an equal footing. We like to think that weâre so liberal and open, but I think the world is still far more judgemental towards women having agency with their sexuality than it is towards men.
âPenelopeâs also the most modern heroine weâve had because she doesnât just want marriage and love â she also wants a career. I think everyone can relate to the love story â but for women itâs hard to have it all. There should be no shame in her wanting everything.â
Coughlan has, in the past, taken to social media to ask fans and press to stop commenting on her body. Does she feel pressure to look a certain way? âI feel very lucky for all the different roles Iâve got to play. I put that down to having an incredible female team around me. I have a brilliant agent who never wants to pigeonhole me. I think thatâs the way forward
â This industry can be narrow-minded but I wonât be hemmed inâ
and how weâll break through boundaries in this industry â women buoy other women up.
âThis industry can be very narrow-minded. Within reason, anyone can play anything. I would never feel like I couldnât do something. You can change your accent. You can change your hair. You can change your build! If Iâm going to play a bodybuilder, Iâm going to go to the gym and get hench! People can feel hemmed in â but I feel like Iâve refused to be thus far and Iâm going to continue to do so.â
Coughlan grew up in Galway, with her stay-athome mum and father who was in the army. She fell in love with acting after watching The
Wizard of Oz and secured her first professional job, aged nine, when her drama teacher sent her to an open audition of a James Brolin movie. What did her parents make of her career choice?
âIâm sure it was slightly baffling for them! I went to university, which was the sensible thing to do. Then I applied to drama school. Thatâs when it got very real â drama school is expensive and there were loans to be taken out. With my English degree I could have gone into teaching â but I knew in my heart of hearts I couldnât do that. My passion for acting was too strong. Iâm sure there were points where my parents were thinking, âWhy is she still trying to do this?ââ
And breaking into the industry was no small feat. âMoving to London was hardcore because I was really broke. I was in debt. I had to work every hour of the day to afford to live there â but that meant I had no time to audition. I didnât last terribly long that first time in London âprobably six to eight months.â
Coughlan moved back to Galway and worked at an opticianâs. It was only when she saw an open casting call for a play at the Old Vic in London that things started to change. Out of 1,500 actors who auditioned she was cast. Did that feel like a breakthrough at last? âI had thought it many times before â what if this is the one that turns everything around? I was insanely lucky. Thereâs always the neat way of telling things â but in reality, it was a year from doing
the rehearsal reading, to the play being put on, to me then signing with my agent, to then getting Derry Girls. I had to go back to work in the opticianâs in the gaps! Nothing happened quickly.â
Coughlan invited every agent in London to see her performance â but only one came, a representative from Curtis Brown. âShe decided to sign me!â she beams. âIt felt like a huge turning point. It opened doors for me that had never been opened before.â
When her agent kind of roles sheâd like, Coughlan suggested a Channel 4 comedy. Soon afterwards, she was cast in Lisa McGeeâs hit sitcom Derry Girls as nerdy Clare. It was the role that made her a household name.
âThe scripts were absolutely incredible on that show. When we were making it, it felt like some thing special. But, thereâs some times a lot of backlash to women in comedy â so I didnât see it being the big thing that it became. It happened so quickly â it captured the zeitgeist and my life changed overnight.â
Does she keep in touch with her Derry Girls pals? âYes, Iâm obsessed with Renegade Nell. Louisaâs amazing. I love Big Boys â Dylan is doing brilliantly. And then for Siobhan to win her Bafta, that was just so mega.â
The fame that came about from Derry Girls must have been a precursor to the heights of celebrity she would reach with Bridgerton What does that feel like? âThereâs no handbook for that. Losing your anonymity is a really odd thing to experience. Mostly itâs lovely â people are so kind â but itâs [tough] if you just want to go to the shop on your own or to the doctor! I remember once taking a friend to A&E and someone came up and asked for a picture and I was like, âNot today!â I never normally say no. Itâs hard because thereâs no off switch.â
That constant noise is amplified by social media â and the proximity it has provided for fans to reach their favourite celebrities. âItâs a very difficult balancing act with social media. I feel very grateful to the fans, and I want to try and give back â whether itâs with behind-the-scenes pictures or by noticing fan art!
âI used to put my day-to-day life out there but I donât do that any more. Iâve realised whatâs precious to me and what needs to be private âlike my family and my friends from home. I used to love Twitter and then I really got the âickâ from it and left. I didnât think it was a nice environment. Some people said I was bullied off of it â but I wasnât.â
âIt was like disrobing in front of familyâ
How did you get the role of Colin?
I actually first read for the part of the Duke [played by RegéJean Page in the first series].
Eventually they said they thought I was more suited to Colin. I came out of the audition and felt Iâd done everything I could. Then I got the call and they said Iâd been booked!
Youâre the Bridgerton family member leading this series, what was that like?
How did you go about creating the on-screen chemistry with Nicola Coughlan?
We asked if we could sit next to each other in make-up and get ready together. Thatâs a good couple of hours spent having cups of tea, running lines and chatting. It meant our energy was aligned!
Whatâs it like twirling around on the dancefloor in costume?
Perhaps it was finding fame in her 30s that has enabled Coughlan to have such a strong sense of herself and her priorities. Despite her huge success in Derry Girls , Bridgerton and the recent Channel 4 comedy drama Big Mood with Lydia West, Coughlan seems entirely grounded.
âMy 20s were such a struggle âitâs really hard not to be doing the thing that you want so desperately. But I think fame then would be hell, so I wouldnât go back and change it,â she says. âIâm sure 22-year-old me would kick me for saying that â but you get to live your mistakes. Scrutiny is difficult but itâs easier when you get older to shut certain things out. I lived a whole life before any of this happened. I worked a million different jobs, lived in different places, lived in terrible house shares with mould on the walls.
âItâs funny because people see you at fancy events and think you must be fancy. No, no, I was making frozen yogurt in Westfield not long ago. This is not normal for me!â
Whatâs so special about the show is itâs so much about an ensemble of characters that I never felt an overwhelming sense of pressure to lead. I enjoyed diving more into Colin and Penâs story â in previous seasons itâs been a lot of gossiping in the background! I also got to watch two previous seasons and saw how people navigated their way through.
Did Jonathan Bailey, who plays your fictional older brother Anthony, give you any tips? Johnny and I are really close and he did give me some wise words, passed down from Bridgerton to Bridgerton!
Colin returns from his travels, more enlightened and more handsome. How did it feel to have the Bridgerton glow-up?
I wanted it to be like heâd been on a gap year â like when lads go away for a summer and then come back to school six foot four, with a beard and their voice has broken!
I wanted to embody that in season three. I relished the challenge of the physical change â and I also worked closely with costumes, hair and make-up.
Dancing was difficult â especially with her dresses! Thereâs also quite a dramatic height difference between us. Iâm six foot so theyâd normally have a little box for her to stand on for our scenes together â I loved that moment when theyâd bring out the box.
You and Nicola are friends off-screen. Did that make filming intimate scenes easier? Weâre such good friends! When filming, we have a closed set and a really great team of intimacy coordinators and directors who weâve worked with over previous series. But the crew becomes like family and then youâve got to de-robe in front of them â which feels slightly uncomfortable at times. The scenes with Nicola feel very honest and genuine, and people will resonate with them. It wasnât just sexy for the sake of being sexy.
Did you have any idea how much the series would change your life?
After I got the job, I found out it was based on the books â and there were eight of them! I thought, this could mean eight seasons â the cogs started turning and I began thinking about the future. I spoke to my mum â who is very good at keeping me down to earth â and she said, âEnjoy the first season and see what happens after that.â
KELLY-ANNE TAYLOR