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The best teacher is example -By Harvey Mackay
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Marshall Field, who founded the famous retail chain, always told employees there were 12 things to remember.
One of them was “The influence of example.”
In other words, set a good example and you can leave a lasting mark.
How many times have we heard – or practiced – the advice, “Do as I say, not as I do.” We lead by example, whether in business, family or friendships. So why would we expect anyone to do as we say, not as we do?
The more realistic adage says, “Monkey see, monkey do.” That’s how most kids learn. And kids as they grow up to be adults usually continue to follow examples set for them.
Famous child psychiatrist Fritz Redl used to instruct groups of parents: “Get out your paper and pencils. I am going to tell you the three most important things you will ever need to know about raising children – example, example and example.”
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“The world is changed by your example, not by your opinion,” said Paulo Coelho, best selling author of “The Alchemist.”
It doesn’t matter if you’re raising children or managing people, setting a good example is among the most important leadership skills. When leaders demonstrate the values and behaviors they wish to see in their employees, it creates a clear standard for everyone to follow. Leadership by example fosters trust,
respect and motivation within the team. Employees are more likely to emulate the positive actions of their leaders, creating a cohesive and productive work environment.
Leaders who embody the values they preach inspire their teams not just to work harder, but to work smarter and with integrity.
Years ago, I noticed that one of our departments was experiencing high turnover rates. After speaking with some of the team members, it became evident that the root cause was a lack of recognition and understanding from management.
To address this, I decided to spend a day working alongside the team. I wanted to understand their daily challenges and show them that their efforts were valued. Throughout the day, I engaged in conversations, asked questions and listened to their concerns. This hands-on approach allowed me to gain a deeper appreciation for their hard work and the obstacles they faced.
After my day with the team, I organized a meeting where I shared my observations and expressed genuine gratitude for their contributions. I also implemented a recognition program to regularly acknowledge their achievements and introduced more flexible work arrangements to address their concerns.
By demonstrating empathy and understanding, I was able to foster a more supportive and appreciative work environment. Over time, the turnover rate decreased significantly, and the team’s morale and productivity improved.
Setting an example for employees involves consistently demonstrating the behaviors and values you want to see in your team. Here are some ways I focus on setting an example:
Demonstrate integrity through honesty
and transparency. Always communicate openly and honestly, even when it’s difficult. This builds trust and encourages others to do the same.
Show commitment via work ethic. Be the first to roll up your sleeves and tackle challenges. Show dedication to your work and the organization’s goals to inspire similar dedication in your team.
Practice empathy. Take the time to listen to employees’ concerns and provide support. This creates a culture of care and respect. Encourage personal development. Engage in lifelong learning and professional development. Share your learning journey with your team to motivate them to pursue their own growth.
Foster teamwork. Actively collaborate with others and encourage open communication. Show that you value everyone’s input and foster an environment where teamwork thrives.
Maintain a positive attitude. Approach challenges with a positive outlook and resilience. This sets the tone for how your team handles obstacles.
Upcoming Events
TUESDAY, JULY 7
• Parkinson’s Support Group Meeting at 2 p.m. at CentraCare West Campus Board Room, Long Prairie.
JULY 9-10 • JULY 12-13
• Melrose Stage Presents “The Wizard of Oz” at the Marit Elliott Perfoming Artc Center, Melrose. July 9, 10 & 13 at 7:30 p.m. July 12 at 2 p.m.
FRI.-SUN, JULY 10-12
• 63rd Annual Swanville Mid-Summer Carnival. Sunday Parade at 11:30 a.m. See ad on page 7.
SATURDAY, JULY 11
• Grey Eagle United Methodist Church Annual BBQ Luncheon from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Bake Sale from 8 a.m.-2 p.m. See ad on page 8.
SUNDAY, JULY 12
• Church of St. Benedit Parish Festival, Avon. 10 a.m. Outdoor Polka Mass. See ad on page 5.
SATURDAY, JULY 18
• Grey Eagle/Burtrum Lions Community Appreciation from 4:30-7:30 p.m. at the Fire Hall, Grey Eagle.
SUNDAY, JULY 19
• Grey Eagle/Burtrum Lions Tractor Pull starting at 11 a.m. at the Lions Park, Grey Eagle.
THURSDAY, JULY 23
• Grey Eagle Senior Citizens Meeting at 4:30 p.m. Potluck & Bingo to follow at the Grey Eagle Senior Center.
AL-ANON • AVON
• Meets every Monday from 5-6 p.m. at the Avon City Hall.
ALBANY FARMERS MARKET
• Meets every Thursday through October
1 from 3-6 p.m. Corner lot on Railroad St. and 3rd Ave.
ALBANY SENIORS
• Meets 1st Tuesday of the month at 1:30 p.m. at the Albany Community Center. ALBANY TOWNSHIP
• Meets the 4th Monday of the month at 7:30 p.m. at the Albany City Hall.
• Planning Commission meets the 2nd Tuesday of the month at 7:30 p.m. at the Albany City Hall.
BURNHAMVILLE TOWNSHIP
• Meets the last Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m. at the Burtrum City Hall.
BURTRUM CITY COUNCIL
• Meets the 1st Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m.
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• Meets Mondays & Thursdays at 9:30 a.m. at the Community Center, Upsala.
FEET FIRST CLINIC
• Freeport: Meets 1st Wednesday of the month at the Freeport Senior Center.
• Holdingford: Meets the 1st Tuesday of the month from 9 a.m.-12 p.m. at Holdingford City Hall.
FREEPORT CITY COUNCIL
• Meets the last Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m.
FREEPORT LIONS CLUB
• Bingo every Saturday thru March at 1:30 p.m. at the Corner Pub, Freeport.
FREEPORT SENIOR MEETING
• Meets the 3rd Thursday of the month at 1 p.m. with cards/Bingo/coffee/dessert.
GREY EAGLE CITY COUNCIL
• Meets the 2nd Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m.
GREY EAGLE TOWNSHIP
• Meets the 1st Monday of the month at 8 p.m.
LINE DANCING
• Meets Mondays at 4 p.m. & 5 p.m. alternating Mondays at the Melrose American Legion.
MELROSE TOWNSHIP
• Meets the 1st Thursday of the month at 7 p.m. at the town hall.
MELROSE VFW #7050 POST/AUX.
• Meets the 1st Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m. at the Melrose American Legion Clubrooms.
MELROSE LEGION #101 POST/AUX.
• Meets the 2nd Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m. at the Melrose American Legion. (Aux. Sept.-May.)
STEARNS CO. HORTICULTURAL SOCIETY
• Meets the 2nd Monday of the month at 7 p.m. at Our Savior’s Lutheran Church, Albany. SUNSHINE CLUB
• Meets every Monday, weigh in starts at 8; meeting at 8:30 a.m. at the Village View Apartments, Grey Eagle.
ST. ROSA CITY COUNCIL
• Meets the 3rd Monday of the month at 7 p.m. at the Community Park building.
SWANVILLE CITY COUNCIL
• 1st Tuesday after the 1st Monday of the month at 7 p.m.
SWANVILLE TOWNSHIP
• Meets the 2nd Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m. at the Swanville Fire Hall.
UPSALA CITY COUNCIL
• Meets the 1st Monday of the month at 7 p.m.
UPSALA FARMERS MARKET
• Meets every Saturday through Sept. 26 from 8-11 a.m. at Buffy’s parking lot.
“The Good Old Days” -By Tom Kuehne
Maize
When cruising around in our area, we see that corn is the most popular crop on almost all of the farm acres. It seems that each year the ability to withstand dry conditions, create greater yields and stay standing in the fall continues to improve. Some of us can remember when a corn stalk could produce one cob of a rather small size and if the yield was 100 bushels per acre it was a pretty good harvest. Today much higher production is required.
About 10,000 years ago in the Andes the farmers planted Maize as a food producing plant. It grew something that looked like a cob and the seeds attached to it were ground and used to make bread. We don’t know if it was by accident or if the farmers actually began to purposely hybridize the Maize plant, but it was discovered that if the pollen from the Teosinte plant was introduced to the Maize plant the result was larger and more seeds. They also learned that planting the best seeds improved yields. Today that seed selection method is still used, but on a much larger scale.
As centuries passed, growing Maize moved into central America and lower Mexico. It seems that as it moved into new territory, the farmers changed the fertilization, soil conditions and planting locations to improve yields. The result was that as centuries passed the maize seed became easier to grind with improved taste. It was also discovered that corn was great food for their farm animals. It is becoming obvious that there was an increasing need for corn, so even in those days farmers began planting more corn.
When considering planting methods, one practice really seems to stand out. (Remember, this is not large-scale production as we see today.) The farmer planted the corn,
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planted beans along with the corn and planted pumpkins within a couple of feet of them. As the season progressed, it usually became hot and dry. The corn gave shade to the pumpkins. The large pumpkin leaves shaded the ground from the moisture stealing sun, helping the corn and beans keep some available moisture. I guess it must have been a farmer’s wife that came up with this idea, since pumpkin, beans and corn were their primary vegetable food sources.
Not everything man has done to his environment has been as positive as the development of corn. I expect that in the future with irrigation, we will see 4 big cobs on a plant and they will all taste like sweet corn.
For feedback or story ideas, email Tom at kuehneins@gmail.com.
Harvey Mackay continued from pg 2
If it sounds like leadership is taking lessons from employees, consider your leadership style a success. Confident leaders recognize that they still have plenty to learn. Set a good example, and you can leave a lasting mark. Consider the duck. A duck is perhaps two feet long. Watch it move through water on a lake, and while you may not be able to see it paddling furiously below the surface, the wake the duck leaves behind fans out about 40 degrees, and the ripples follow for 50 feet or so. That duck leaves a wake nearly 600 times its size!
Now consider your actions. Will your example have the same effect?
Mackay’s Moral: People may doubt what you say but they will believe what you do.
Reprinted with permission from nationally syndicated columnist Harvey Mackay, author of the New York Times #1 bestseller “Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive,” “We Got Fired!...And It’s the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Us,” “The Mackay MBA of Selling in the Real World,” and “Use Your Head To Get Your Foot In The Door.”
From the Desk of Pastor Bruce
Have you ever lost your wallet or misplaced your purse? What do you do when you finally locate it? My guess is you look through it and make sure everything is in its place, or at least the important things. When you find that everything is in its place and undisturbed your heart gives a sigh of relief, maybe even a “thank you Lord”, because you have asked God for His help.
During this time of year, I have mixed feelings toward our national welfare. It seems that we have lost the goals of American life. The news and Facebook are full of negative thoughts and blame for what someone else has done to America.
Let me encourage you, this weekend, ask God to help reclaim America! 1 Chronicles 7:14 says “if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked
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ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.” I was reminded of our national anthem and the first verse of the Star-Spangled Banner; notice the question at the end? Does our flag still wave, over the land of the free and the brave? “O say can you see, by the dawn’s early light. What so proudly we hailed at the twilight’s last gleaming. Whose broad stripes and bright stars through the perilous fight. O’er the ramparts we watched, were so gallantly streaming? And the rockets’ red glare, the bombs bursting in air. Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there; O say does that star-spangled banner yet wave O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave?”
Humble yourselves today and seek God and ask Him to heal our land.
-Pastor Bruce Miller from Swanville Bible Church, 320-547-2916
The family of Clara Berscheid would like to thank everyone who attended her funeral, gave gifts and cards. Thank you to Rev. Arlie Sowada, and to the ladies who prepared the meal.
Clara will be looking down from above on all of us.
Arnie Berscheid, Tony (Melissa) Berscheid Mary Schweiss (sister)
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Thomas E. Warga
Thomas E. Warga, age 69 of Ashby, left this world to be with his Savior Jesus Christ on December 4th, 2025. A graveside service will be held July 11th, 2026 at 11 am at South Elmdale Congregational Cemetery. After the service there will be a small lunch where his family is looking forward to hearing all the stories everyone has to share.
Tom Warga was born May 12, 1956 to Raymond and Dolores (Norton) Warga in St. Cloud, MN. He graduated from Holdingford High School and went on to the University of Minnesota in Crookston where he studied broadcasting. He enjoyed broadcasting and for a few years did Rodeo announcing. Life took Tom down several paths, and he eventually started truck driving which took him all over the United States. No matter what happened he always came back to that Pete and Kenworth.
Tom is survived by his children Jennifer (Lee) Davis of MT, Jacqueline (Nikia) Buchman of KY, Michael (Melanie) Warga of KY, Daniel (Anna) Warga of KY; brother Bruce (Cheryl) Warga of Holdingford, sister Ann (Dave) Anderson of Ashby; eight grandchildren, two great granddaughters, eight nieces and nephews, twelve great nieces and nephews, and many special friends he encountered in his life journey.
Tom was proceeded in death by his loving parents, infant sister, infant daughter Julie, and infant great nephew Samuel.
Donations may be made to a charity of your choice in his honor.
Jenrose Kalthoff
Jenrose (Scherer) Kalthoff, age 88 of Albany, MN passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on June 28, 2026, at her home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a.m. Monday, July 6, 2026 at Seven Dolors Catholic Church in Albany with Rev. Edward Vebelun, O.S.B. officiating. Interment will be in the parish cemetery. The Mass will be livestreamed and can be found by clicking on the link: https://www.youtube.com/ live/otVX3fG5gKc
Visitation will be held from 8:30 to 10:45 a.m. Monday at the Seven Dolors Gathering Area in Albany.
Jenrose (Jenny) Scherer was born October 5, 1937, in St. Joseph, MN to Math and Elizabeth (Lahr) Scherer. She graduated from Cathedral High School in 1955. Jenny was crowned Stearns County Dairy Princess in 1958 and worked at Purity Milk and X-Cel Optical as a bookkeeper before marrying Linus Kalthoff June 7, 1960 at St. Joseph Catholic Church, St. Joseph, MN. Jenny helped Linus farm south of Albany before moving into town in 1999. She taught faith formation at Seven Dolors Catholic Church for over 40 years. She was a member of the St. Ann’s Society, Funeral Committee, Parish Council, Bazaar Chairperson, Stearns County Fair Board, Albany Legion Auxiliary. Jenny was also active in the Albany Southsiders 4-H Club. Jenny enjoyed gardening, crocheting, knitting and scrapbooking.
She is survived by her children, Luanne (Mark) Bemis, Sheboygan, WI; Susan (Rick) Sovada, St. Cloud, MN; Carol (Paul) Longsdorf, Forest Lake, MN; Ron (Karina) Kalthoff; Lisa (Steve) Anderson; Roger (Staci) Kalthoff and Sara Kalthoff all of Albany. Grandchildren: Maranda (Mike) Gillen; Justin (Kelsey) and Ryan (Elissa) Mergen; Carrie, Maggie, Mitchell, Marcus, Mathias, Maria, Micah, Marty (Clare) Longsdorf; Katie, Kristine, Theresa, Lynette, Landen, Noah, Nathan, Laina and Aaron (Miranda) Kalthoff; Neal, Sophia, Nolan (Holly) Anderson; Lauren (Andre) Lopez; Katlyn, Kyle (Makenzie) Sovada and 13 great grandchildren; brothers and sister: Elmer Scherer, Chillicothe, IL; Fran Scherer, Marshall, MN; Helen (Ken) Heinen, New London, MN.
She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Linus; son, Ryan; granddaughter, Ellie Sovada; sisters, Marcy Rueter; Dolores Trettel; Nellie Lenzmeier; Fronie Adelman; brothers, Cyril and Al Scherer.
Ralph Erhard Haasser
Ralph Haasser, age 86 of Long Prairie, passed away on June 17, 2026, at his home due to recent health complications.
A celebration of life is being planned for fall 2026.
Ralph Erhard Haasser lived for 86 years and was the beloved husband to Jan. Together they shared 44 wonderful years of marriage and raised two daughters, Susan and Kelly.
Ralph Erhard Haasser was born to Edmund and Marie (Siegle) on April 22, 1940, in Long Prairie Township; the sixth in a family of eight. He attended St. Mary’s School and graduated from Long Prairie High School in 1958. During high school, he lettered in baseball, basketball and football. Following graduation, he coached the St. Mary’s basketball team for several years.
In 1958, Ralph honorably served his country in the United States Army, where he trained as a helicopter mechanic. He loved his country and was always willing to engage in a spirited political debate. After returning to Long Prairie, he enjoyed playing softball, which was gaining popularity at the time. He first played with the K.C. Team and later with Hart’s Press, a team that advanced to the State playoffs for several years.
Ralph began farming with his brothers Lester, Joseph and Tony, and then later farmed alongside Tony for more than 50 years. On September 10, 1982, he married his beloved wife Jan Neumann and became a loving father to Susan and Kelly.
Ralph and Jan enjoyed traveling out west, to Hawaii, Alaska and many trips to the casinos in the area. He especially enjoyed attending and cheering his grandchildren at their sporting events, as well as hunting and fishing with them. Ralph also took pride in teaching his grandchildren how to drive and helping them complete the hours required for their drivers’ licenses. Through the years, he delighted his nieces, nephews and grandchildren with tractor rides and entertaining games of Ghost in the Graveyard and 10 Steps. There was always laughter when he was near.
Known for his sense of humor, Ralph loved playing pranks on his siblings, children, grandchildren and his wife. There was never an awkward silence when Ralph was around; he could fill the room with a funny story or one of his signature animal sounds. Making people laugh brought him great joy.
Ralph enjoyed hunting and fishing into his 80’s, including numerous elk hunting trips out West. He also enjoyed working part time at Long Prairie Packing as a Security Guard for several years. Ralph retired from farming in 2020 and sold the family farm in 2022 so he could enjoy life in the small town of Long Prairie with his wife Jan.
Ralph is survived by his loving wife Jan Haasser, Susan (Jason) Larsen of Long Prairie, Kelly (Robby) Thrun of Nome, Alaska; his sisters Joan Haasser of Long Prairie, Claire Primus of Sauk Centre and Elaine Hasselbring of St. Cloud; his brothers Lester (Gloria) Haasser of Alexandria, and Tony (Sandy) Haasser of Long Prairie. He is also survived by five grandchildren Chance (Ellie) Thrun, Colten (Ashleigh) Thrun and Cirsten Thrun of Nome, Alaska and Jackson and Reagan Larsen of Long Prairie, and two great-grandchildren Charlie and Paisley Thrun of Nome, Alaska.
He was preceded in death by his mother Marie Haasser; his brothers Hillary (Larry) Haasser and his wife Helen and Joseph Haasser; and his brothers in-law Roman Primus and Norbert Hasselbring.
Ralph was a loving husband, devoted father, proud grandfather and great grandfather, and a cherished brother, uncle and friend. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.
Please join Scott, Mari, Leo and Nicole to celebrate the life of their mother, Bernie (Kerfeld) Ostendorf, who passed away on January 15, 2026.
The service will take place on Saturday, July 18th at St. John’s Episcopal Church, 1111 Cooper Avenue South in St. Cloud. The funeral begins at 11 a.m. with Celebration of Life reception to follow.
All are welcome. Children encouraged and casual attire appreciated.
Crash: June 27, 2026: The Stearns County Sheriff’s Office Emergency Communications Center received a call for a crash with injuries at County Road 168, south of 410th Street in Melrose Township. This location is roughly 3 miles northeast of Melrose.
Upon arrival, Stearns County Deputies along with the Minnesota State Patrol and Melrose Police Department learned that a 2005 Harley Davidson being driven by Peter Hahn, 41, of Melrose was traveling southbound on County Road 168. Hahn failed to negotiate the curve and the motorcycle entered the west ditch of County Road 168 where Hahn lost control and crashed. Medical intervention was provided on scene. Hahn was transported by the Melrose Ambulance to the Melrose Hospital. Hahn was then flown by LifeLink Helicopter from Melrose to the St. Cloud Hospital for further care with life-threatening injuries. The Stearns County Sheriff’s Office was assisted by the Minnesota State Patrol, Melrose Police Department, Melrose Fire Department, Melrose Ambulance Service, and LifeLink Helicopter.
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Road Construction to Begin North of Melrose
Melrose area motorists are advised that construction on County Road 169 north of Melrose between County Road 13 and County Road 168 will begin on Monday, July 6. This work is anticipated to last thru September. The work involves bridge removal, culvert replacements, road reconstruction, paving, and turf
establishment. A detour will be posted.
The contractor for this project is Northern Lines Contracting, Inc. from Hanover, Minnesota. Motorists are strongly urged to find alternate routes to minimize delays. Dates and timeframes are weather dependent.
Grey Eagle United Methodist Church to Hold Annual Lucheon
The Grey Eagle United Methodist Church will be holding its annual BBQ Luncheon on Saturday, July 11 at 10:00 a.m., at 30422 County Road 2, two miles south of Grey Eagle. The facility is handicapped-accessible and will provide valet parking for those who need it. Along with the luncheon, there will be a garage and bake sale beginning at 8:00 a.m. The garage sale will also begin at 8:00 a.m. on Friday.
A Gym Funny
Before setting off on a business trip to Tulsa, I called the hotel where I’d be staying to see if they had a gym. The hotel receptionist’s sigh had a tinge of exasperation in it when she answered.
“We have over 300 guests at at this facility,” she said. “Does this ‘Jim’ have a last name?”
Todays Thought
95% of people are completely STUPID! Luckily, I’m in the other 10%.
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Sudoku
Sudoku is one of the most popular puzzle games of all time. The goal of Sudoku is to fill a 9×9 grid with numbers so that each row, column and 3×3 section contain all of the digits between 1 and 9. As a logic puzzle, Sudoku is also an excellent brain game.
Dave Says -By Dave Ramsey
Dear Dave, My fiancée and I are getting married in a few months. Everything seems great between us, except when it comes to money and finances. She’s not a big spender, but not long after we got engaged, she said she wants me to manage the money and make all the financial decisions. It seems to me that married couples should make decisions together. Do you have any advice on how I should approach her about this?
-Benjamin
Dear Benjamin,
First off, congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I hope you two will have long and happy lives together. Many marriage counselors will tell
you if a couple comes to agreement on four major issues before the wedding, they’ll have a greater chance of forming a successful and lasting marriage. The issues? Money, kids, inlaws and religion. I happen to agree with this line of thinking. You seem like a thoughtful guy, Benjamin. So, why not try sitting down with her, just the two of you, and explaining straight from your heart how important the concept of togetherness is to you—especially when it comes to your finances. I’m not saying money is the most important thing in the world, but I do believe it’s vitally important that all financial decisions in a marriage are made by the husband and wife together.
Good, open communication is a valuable thing to have in any relationship. And I firmly believe the process of sharing your financial goals and dreams, along with doing a monthly budget together, will be a wonderful sharing experience for you both. Money shouldn’t be the most important thing in your lives. But it is a very valuable tool. The way a couple handles their finances—everything from spending to saving to giving—is representative of their priorities and of their dreams, passions and fears.
In my mind, all these things should be shared and pursued together, as one.
-Dave
* Leadership and small-business expert Dave Ramsey is the CEO of Ramsey Solutions. He has authored eight national bestselling books, including “EntreLeadership,” and he’s a host of “The Ramsey Show” and “The EntreLeadership Podcast.”
Ask The Motor Medics®
From the Hosts of the Under The Hood radio show.
Dear Motor Medics,
I have a 2018 Toyota SUV I am going to drive across country and back and will accumulate about 8000 miles on the odometer by the time I return. This vehicle has 45k miles on it and has not had any problems as of yet and no repairs other than tires and oil changes. Is there anything that I should do before I make the trip to be sure I am as safe as possible?
-Tracy in Hastings, Nebraska Dear Tracy, Anytime you are going on an extended trip it is good to have your vehicle at its best. Many folks have disappointing trips because they failed to have a simple check done and they experience a preventable breakdown. When a vehicle is brought in for oil changes on a regular basis to your local mechanic they usually inspect for basic things like tire wear and pressure and anything out of the ordinary that could cause a failure like worn belts and hoses but not always. When preparing for a trip make sure to ask your mechanic specifically about a general check-over and tell them how far you will be traveling so they can look for things that may affect your journey. Failed tires, belts, hoses and batteries are the most common items that leave motorists stranded so be sure these are among the list of items checked before you go. Have a safe and fun trip and enjoy the ride Tracy.
-Take care, the Motor Medics Dear Motor Medics,
I am thinking about purchasing a Jeep Grand Cherokee with the diesel engine but don’t know much about it. I have heard you talk about them on your radio show, Under The Hood and have not heard any negatives about them from your callers. I plan to drive
about 40k miles a year and haul trailers in the 4500 lb. range about 30k of that as I haul a display for my company to trade shows. I want the comfort of a car and good mileage but also the load hauling capability. What are your thoughts?
-Mike in Portland. Maine Dear Mike, There’s a number of new smaller diesel engines on the market that can be found in half-ton trucks and smaller SUVs meant to give better mileage when towing smaller loads where a larger more powerful diesel was not needed; these new diesels are also very clean compared to the older larger ones which is better for the environment. You have a couple of key things in your question that are important factors on a vehicle for you. First, you say you will be towing a lot of miles which justifies more power and the added cost of the diesel option. Second for better fuel mileage the use of diesels for towing long-haul should help with your economy. You ultimately have to decide when it comes to a purchase so always research and see what others are saying before you decide.
-Take care, the Motor Medics For entertainment only. Always consult your local shop and follow all safety procedures before repairs. Come visit the Motor Medics® online at Underthehoodshow.com.
Sudoku
NOTICE OF FILING FOR ELMDALE TOWNSHIP OFFICE
Notice is hereby given to voters of Elmdale Township, Morrison County, State of Minnesota, that filing for Elmdale Township Office will be held for the two-week period of: July 14, 2026 through July 28, 2026.
Affidavits of Candidacy shall be filed with the Elmdale Township Clerk between the hours of 8 am and 5 pm from July 14, 2026 through July 28, 2026. Filing will close on July 28, 2026 at 5 pm.
• One Supervisor “B” – 4 Year Term
• One Supervisor “C” – 4 Year Term
• Clerk – 4 Year Term
The filing fee is $2.00 and must be paid at the time of filing. Contact Kim Harren, Clerk 320-360-2735
Stearns County Commissioner News
It is hard to believe we are already on the 4th of July. Hopefully, everyone will get a chance to celebrate 250 years of America somewhere, whether at a parade or a festival or with family and friends. Let us hope the country can last another 250 years.
There is a lot of activity at the County level. We held groundbreaking on June 11th for the new jail/justice center just west of Mills Fleet. Walking the site, it was hard to believe there were so many rocks on that property. It seemed like you could not walk a foot without stepping on one. If you look to your left before crossing the Sauk River into Waite Park, you will see the pile of large rocks that have been pulled from the property. A lot of dirt has already been moved, with footings to start in a couple of weeks. The project will take around 3 years to complete. Most of us think we do not need the new facility, and that is probably because we do not intend to utilize these services, but unfortunately, that is not the case for everyone. The good news is that it will be funded through sales tax rather than property tax, and the sales tax collections are on track to make the bond payments.
Our County Administrator Mike Williams will be retiring on July 17th, and we have begun the process of hiring a new administrator. There were thirty-two applicants, which were reduced to four exceptionally good candidates that we will be interviewing on July 15th in hopes of selecting a replacement at that time. As there will be lag time before the new administrator comes on board, the very capable County Leadership Team will handle the necessary administrative duties once Mike retires and until the new administrator comes on board, which could take 30 to 60 days. Any major decisions will still come before the County Board of Commissioners for approval. We wish Mike well in retirement and thank him for being a great public servant throughout his career, not only with the County but with the other government agencies he has been part of as well.
We are also at the beginning of the 2027 budget talks whose outcomes will not be what any of us want to see. Initial projections lean toward a 15% increase for the 2027 budget cycle. A portion of this is unavoidable due to wage contracts negotiated in 2025 and cover a 3-year period. 2027 will be the last year of those contracts. The other issue is state and federal mandates being pushed onto to the counties in Minnesota without money to implement them. On the federal side, it is the SNAP cost shift requiring counties to pick up most of the administrative costs which were previously split evenly with the federal government. The State of Minnesota has also pushed down Human Services legislation that will drastically affect counties without money to help offset the costs. By most estimates this will amount to around $4 million for Stearns County alone, plus the possible need to hire five employees to help administer the program in a timely manner. Much of this could have been mitigated if money had been allocated a few years ago to update the State Human Services computer systems to make administering these programs more efficient. But it sometimes seems government and efficiency do not play in the same sandbox. We have been adamant with County Administration that a double-digit levy increase will not be acceptable, and they will need to do their best to adhere to these wishes.
I can be reached at steve.notch@stearnscountymn.gov or 320-248-3605.
Increase Patrols for Impaired Boaters over Holiday Weekend
With warm weather in the forecast and a long Fourth of July weekend ahead, Minnesota’s waterways likely will be extremely busy in the coming days. Among those who will be on the water: Minnesota Department of Natural Resources conservation officers and their public safety partners, who will work to ensure everyone who heads out makes it home safely.
The officers will be conducting Operation Dry Water July 3-5, an annual nationwide campaign that highlights the dangers of boating under the influence of alcohol or drugs, and calls attention to the heavy penalties associated with boating while intoxicated. The goal is to make the water safer for everyone by removing anyone who’s operating under the influence.
BWI is the leading contributing factor to boating accidents and fatalities. While most boaters do the right thing by leaving alcohol on shore, dozens of people are arrested for BWI each year in the days surrounding the Fourth of July.
“People who get caught boating under the influence will go to jail. We have zero tolerance for that behavior,” said Lt. Eric Sullivan, supervisor of the DNR Enforcement Division’s Marine Unit. “Those who choose to boat under the influence put themselves and everyone else on the water in danger. It’s a selfish decision and the consequences can be disastrous and life changing.”
Minnesota has particularly strong BWI laws. Anyone convicted of operating under the influence – whether they’re operating a boat, motor vehicle, or recreational vehicle – loses their privilege to operate any of them.
In addition to staying “dry” on the water by avoiding drugs and alcohol, the DNR urges anyone who’s on a boat to wear a life jacket. Oftentimes, boating accidents turn into fatalities because the people who fell overboard weren’t wearing a life jacket.
NOTICE OF FILING FOR MILLWOOD TOWNSHIP
Notice is hereby given: Affidavits of candidacy for Millwood Township may be filed at the clerk’s office: 41867 269th Ave., Freeport, MN 56331.
Filing opens July 14, 2026, and closes July 28, 2026. Please call ahead; hours for filing on final day, 1-5 p.m.
Position openings are as follows:
• Supervisor, 4-year term
• Treasurer, 4-year term Kallista Sprenger, Clerk • 320-309-4139
Local Library Event
Sauk Centre Library • 320-352-3016
Erickson’s Petting Zoo: Join us after Storytime for a mini petting zoo with small farm animals such as rabbits, goats and sheep. While here check out books about farm animals. All ages. Sponsored by the Friends of the Sinclair Lewis Library of Sauk Centre. Wednesday, July 15: 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
VILLAGE VIEW APARTMENTS •
GREY EAGLE
Village View Apartments
CLASSIFIED ADS
GARAGE SALE: July 2-3: 8am-6pm; July 4: 8am-4pm. Fire ring, 7 cu. ft. chest freezer, fabric, sewing, crafting supplies, tools, fishing, hunting, lawn & garden, home decor, housewares, dehydrator, PackN-Play, clothing: girls 8-14/16, teen small thru womens plus size, mens XXL, books, games, toys, much misc. 3 miles East of Upsala, 6775 30th St. (Cty. 21) Larry Erickson Residence.
GARAGE SALE: Grey Eagle Senior Center. Donations accepted July 6: 9-12. Sale Thurs.-Sat., July 9-11: 8 am-2 pm.
GARAGE SALE: July 10-11, 8 a.m.-2 p.m.; Grey Eagle United Methodist Church. Bake Sale and Luncheon on Saturday.
COMING SOON: Grey Eagle area city wide garage sales, Saturday, July 11, 2026 some sales may open prior!
HUGE GARAGE SALE: Fri.-Sun., July 10-12: 7am-7pm during Swanville Carnival. Too many items to list. Stop by & check us out. Open July 17-19: 7am-7pm. 302 Rhoda Ave., Swanville. 7/9-7/16
WANTED TO BUY: Butcher cows, bulls, fats & walkable cripples: also horses, sheep & goats. 320-235-2664. SC-odB
WANTED: Turkeys chicks or adults, royal palm or bourbon red. Call 320-250-7331.
WANTED: Cars and pickups from the 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, and 80’s, in your weeds or sheds. 218-640-3807 or 218-756-2257.
FOR SALE: 1991 Dodge van, has bed, TV, 318 engine, $6,800. Call 320-267-5632. RB-tfn
FOR SALE: Animal clippers: Oster Golden A5, Sunbeam Stewart Clipmaster Model 510A, Andis AGC Super 2 speed, Oster 123-02 Series A. 320-493-6387.
FOR SALE: Vintage Johnson six gallon outboard motor gas tank, fuel line hose, $75 cash. 320-429-1255, please leave message.
FOR SALE: Hewitt boat lift and green canopy, 1800 pound, 110x20 foot. Co Rd 104, passed the Hub, $1500. Call 612-554-2932. tfn-RG
FOR SALE: Alumacraft 16’ boat with 15HP Johnson with electric start, trolling motor and boat cover, $1,500 OBO. Call 320-250-9815.
FOR SALE: 1995 Ford Explorer, $900. Call 320-267-5632. RB-tfn
FOR SALE: 1977 Johnson 15 HP outboard motor; extra prop; manual; long shaft; locally serviced 2025, $600 cash. 320-4291255, please leave message.
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