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When they’ve hit formal red carpets or performed together, meanwhile, they’ve kept the unified approach to dressing aliveIn more polished ways. At the Latin Grammy Awards last year, for one, they went for sophisticated black tie ensembles. Rosalía wore an embellished black Miu Miu dress with a sexy leg slit, while Alejandro added modern flair to a classic black Prada suit via a red flower pin, skinny tie, and Cuban heel boots.Inside the event, Rosalía then changedInto a gold sequin