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SPORTS EDITOR Paul Gustafson
ARTS EDITOR Michael Hootman
SUB EDITOR Graham Robson
SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR
Marina Marzotto
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Simon Adams, Ray A-J, Jaq Bayles, Jo Bourne, Nick Boston, Brian Butler, Suchi Chatterjee, Craig Hanlon-Smith, Samuel Hall, Lee Henriques, Adam Mallaby, Enzo Marra, Eric Page, Del Sharp, Gay Socrates, Brian Stacey, Michael Steinhage, Sugar Swan, Glen Stevens, Duncan Stewart, Craig Storrie, Violet Valentine (Zoe AnslowGwilliam), Mike Wall, Netty Wendt, Roger Wheeler, Kate Wildblood
PHOTOGRAPHERS
Graham Atack, Captain Cockroach, James Ledward, Jack Lynn, Marina Marzotto, Stella Pix, Bill Short
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FEATURES
14 HEALTH & BEAUTY IN 2019
Fitter Confident You, Vida Active Club, Enzymes, Match Skin Treatments, MenSensual, Revolution Personal Training, 3D Lipo, I’m An Addict
26 A GAY HISTORY OF SITGES ON FILM
Brian Butler talks to Brandon Jones about his film on the gay mecca
53 HERE AND QUEER
The creative fluids of Ashley Beachey by Craig Hanlon-Smith
54 JUST ONE BULLET
PP Hartnett chats to Eric Page about his provocative poetry
56 THE UNDISCOVERED JEWEL
Sally Vate aka Jon Hughes reveals all to Brian Butler
57 A HOLE IN TWO
Craig Hanlon-Smith talks to comedy duo The Hole Seekers
58 GO AL GO!
Al Start tells Eric Page about her new
AFFINITY BAR
MARINE TAVERN
RAINBOW HUB ALL FIRED UP AND READY TO GO!
The new Rainbow Hub is now open six afternoons a week, including Saturdays, and on Tuesday and Thursday it’s open until 8pm
) With around 27 volunteers having now been through their initial training, they’re already helping numerous clients who arrive with a wide variety of issues
Their volunteers provide help and guidance to individuals and where necessary refer them on to one or more of an extensive network of par tner organisations for fur ther suppor t Brighton has literally hundreds of organisations, many of them charities, that exist to help people with a wide variety of needs, but understanding which organisation does what, and for whom, can be daunting
The Hub is building a huge database of knowledge and experience of all of those organisations, so they can help people ar ticulate their individual needs and then point them towards those providers best placed to help with specialist or longer term suppor t
“Think of it as your first point of contact for all matters LGBT+” says Alan Flack, the Hub
Manager “A bit like a triage service, we take time to listen to your needs and then suggest the best place to go for ongoing support and help Many queries we can deal with ourselves immediately, and sometimes people just want to pop in and pick up a copy of Gscene - and that’s absolutely fine too!”
In fact, both the oppor tunity and the challenge is the huge variety of things that people pop in with In the brief time they have been open so far, the Hub has dealt with people wishing to repor t a hate crime; domestic abuse, sexual health issues (the Hub has its own HIV testing machine where you can buy a self-test kit) Other people have been in to talk about gender identity and help with coming out to parents
The Hub has also star ted to host regular slots where some of the par tner organisations can come and use the Hub as par t of their outreach service MindOut already have a regular Monday afternoon slot, and Pavilions and THT are also in the process of setting up regular weekly slots,
“ We’ve come a very long way since the space was first handed over," said Alan, “but we also know we have a long way to go before we achieve our vision of becoming THE subject matter experts in all things LGBT+ in our great city ”
The Hub are always looking for new volunteers –if you are interested, contact Joel Boardman, the Hub’s Volunteer Coordinator, on joel@therainbowhubmanager com, or email Alan on alan@therainbowhubbrighton.com
NDAY LUNCH WITH...
out 2019, comedian Davina Sparkle will host a series of unday’ lunches from 2-5pm in the Nobless Suite at nn Brighton Water front, costing just £29 per person
two dates for your diary are An on with Alison Moyet Tribute Cann from Stars in their Eyes on Februar y 10 followed by An ce with Jason Lee (singing hits ie Valli, Peter Allen and many on Sunday, March 24
h the balance due a week before sy Sunday’ in October, featuring Hear t & Soul, and the food was spot on and the enter tainment was first class Call Maz or David on 01273 725331 to reserve your place
BRIGHTON & HOVE PRIDE COMMEMORATES 50 YEARS OF THE PRIDE MOVEMENT
) Brighton & Hove Pride 2019 will see a community of LGBT+ people, their friends and families, come together for pride, acceptance and freedom of self -expression
In 2019, Brighton & Hove Pride will celebrate the 50th anniversar y of the Stonewall uprising that ignited the moder n Pride Movements across the world In the early hours of June 28, 1969, at the Stonewall Inn in New York City, a series of small, spontaneous demonstrations by members of a persecuted community sparked a flame that would grow into the gay liberation movement and the moder n fight for global LGBT+ rights and equality
The Brighton & Hove Pride Festival, which will take pace from August 2-4, will commemorate the 50th anniversar y of the Stonewall uprising that ignited the Pride Movement by taking a look back over five decades of pride, passion, diversity and activism, to celebrate how far we have come whilst recognising there’s still more work to be done
LGBT+ communities all over the world still face ver y real discrimination, prejudice and violence with more than 70 countries across the world legislating against homosexuality and eight imposing the death penalty simply for being LGBT+
Paul Kemp, Director of Brighton & Hove Pride, said: "T he struggle for social change has been long, and it’s definitely not ov er y et Brighton & Hov e Pride w ill continue to campaign and stand in solidarity w ith those w ho continue to be prosecuted, criminalised and excluded because of their sexual orientation
Brighton & Hove Pride is the UK’s biggest Pride Festival operated by Brighton Pride CIC, a not for profit community interest company All tickets revenue raised goes directly to the operational and r unning costs of producing the Pride Festival, LGBT+ Community Parade, Pride Village Par ty and community fundraising
In the last six years, Brighton & Hove Pride has raised over £705,000 for the R ainbow Fund, Pride Cultural Development Fund and Pride Social Impact Fund. The Rainbow Fund is a charity and has a remit to receive donations and use them to give grants to LGBT+ and HIV groups and organisations in Brighton & Hove The Pride Social Impact Fund benefits local good causes giving grants to a range of local groups
For more infor mation and to book second release tickets for Brighton & Hove Pride 2019, view: www.pridetickets.org/pride-tickets-2019/
HAVE YOUR SAY ON THE FUTURE OF THE PRIDE VILLAGE PARTY
) Following representations in April 2018 from a local conservation group, the Kingscliffe Society, Brighton & Hove City Council (BHCC) have decided to allow residents to have a say on the future of the Pride Village Party (PVP) Up until 2015 the PVP wasn’t organised officially by either the council or Pride itself; instead, visitors independently congregated in the area known as the ‘gay village’ attracted by the LGBT+ bars and clubs that are located in St James’ Street This often caused chaos as it wasn’t possible to regulate the numbers
Since 2015, at the request of the council, Pride have managed the PVP putting resources in place to manage the disruption to local people including additional security personnel, street cleaning and toilets The PVP is now a ticketed event limited only to cer tain par ts of St James’ Street and neighbouring roads It’s generally considered to be well organised
The council have taken the decision in an election year to ask residents all over the city if they think the event, which generates £20.5 million for the city's business economy and raises many thousands of pounds for local generic voluntary sector organisations no longer grant funded by the council, should continue to take place in coming years The consultation is open from December 13, 2018 to January 31, 2019 Responses will be repor ted to the Tourism, Development & Culture committee in March 2019
David Hainswor th, former Secretary for the Kingscliffe Society, said; “BHCC is holding a consultation on the Street Party which takes place in St James' Street each year in A ugust and seeks views on the future of the event, including whether it should continue
“Of course it should continue! For the last few years the Pride Team has successfully handled the event which, from the organisational point of view, continues to improve each year Prior to that, and without any formal structure and organisation, the event was seriously chaotic and at times, dangerous
“There are calls to move the event to the seafront There are advantages to this, one is that it would be away from residential streets The question would then be, how are members of the public that remain attracted to the various establishments in the St James' Street area managed? Residents don’t want chaos to return
“The consultation is an opportunity for everyone who lives in the area to put their view forward, not just the few It’s an opportunity to collectively secure the future of this crucially important part of the city's Pride Festivities ”
HAVE YOUR SAY
) To take par t in the consultation, view: www brightonhove gov uk/content/life-events-and-communities/community-andvoluntary-sector-support/pride-village-party
) To be sent a paper copy of the questionnaire, contact the Safer Communities team on 01273 292100 and leave your name and address
) To lobby your elected city councillors and MPs, view: www brightonhove gov uk/content/council-and-democracy/councillors-andcommittees/your-councillors-and-local-politicians-0
) Cllrs in Queens Park ward, home to the PVP , are: adrian morris@brightonhove gov uk, daniel chapman@brighton-hove gov uk and karen barford@brighton-hove gov uk Let them know your thoughts on the proposal
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CLEARPOLL, BLOCKCHAIN
AND CRYPTOCURRENCY IS FUN!
EASTBOURNE
RAINBOW ’S CHRISTMAS PARTY
) Dale Drur y, Software Suppor t & Community Manager at ClearPoll, explains about the new ClearPoll App, Blockchain, which is the technology that underpins digital currencies such as Bitcoin The information on the blockchain is constantly reconciled into the database, which is stored in multiple locations and updated instantly which means the records are public and verifiable Since there’s no central location, it's harder to hack since the data exists simultaneously in many places Blockchain technology was invented in 2008, but only came into the public conversation when Bitcoin launched the following year
BITCOIN & CRYPTOCURRENCY
Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies are digital and global money system currencies on the blockchain It allows people to send or receive money across the internet, even to someone they don't know or don't trust Small businesses are now using the blockchain to create secure projects with their own payment currencies integrated into their projects These coins, or tokens, are also bought within the crypto community as an investment
INTRODUCTION TO CLEARPOLL - A SOCIAL PUBLIC OPINION POLL NETWORK ON THE BLOCKCHAIN
ClearPoll is a social public opinion poll network, using blockchain technology to secure votes and poll results ClearPoll also uses blockchain for its very own cryptocurrency coin, the POLL Token, for payment of its services The decentralised ClearPoll polls are not censored and cannot be manipulated or deleted
In recent times, the media, private organisations, and even governments have manipulated or censored true public opinion to suit their agenda The main problem is the centralisation of public opinion poll data Controlling the polls allows them to use it to their advantage, and does not give an accurate picture of what people really want ClearPoll solves these problems
As a user of ClearPoll, you don’t need to know anything about blockchain or crypto It’s a fun way to create and vote on secure polls You can very simply sign up to search for topics that are impor tant to you You can then view poll results and easily share the polls and results on social media
ClearPoll aims to be the place to go, to have your say A hub of accurate, current public opinion across a wide range of topics including politics, human rights, enter tainment, spor ts, just for fun and more
ClearPoll is for everyone Vote on anything from fun topics, to more serious issues ClearPoll is available from the Apple Store, Google Play Store or by using the online platform at www.clearpoll.com
Check out Gscene’s featured polls in January using the ClearPoll App
) Over 35 members of Eastbourne R ainbow and their friends enjoyed a Christmas lunch in the private dining room at the Dolphin in Eastbour ne on Tuesday, December 11 As well as celebrating Christmas, the event also celebrated seven successful years since the group first star ted Eastbour ne Rainbow is a group for those aged 50+ in the LGBT+ community of Eastbour ne and the sur rounding area to socialise, make new friends, get suppor t and obtain infor mation.
Meetings are held from 2–3 30pm on the last Wednesday of the month in
the Girder R oom on the first floor of AGE Concern’s Venton Centre, Junction Road, Eastbour ne, BN21 3QY Tea/coffee and biscuits are provided, and it’s only £1 per person to cover costs.
If you would like to make contact prior to attending a meeting, leave a message or text to 07516 670654. If you are a first timer and prefer it, you can be met at the AGE Concer n reception desk by a group member who will be pleased to accompany you to the meeting
More info about Eastbour ne Rainbow: www.eastbournerainbow.org.uk
RAINBOW FUND BECOME GUARDIANS OF HANKIE QUILT
) To mark World AIDS Day 2018 on Saturday, December 1, the Hankie Quilt was handed over to the guardianship of the Rainbow Fund to preser ve for future prosperity With both founders of the Quilt no longer resident in Brighton & Hove, it was felt it should stay in the city in which it was created
Maurice McHale Parry, founder of the Hankie Quilt, said: “T he Hankie Quilt is an impor tant piece of L GBT + histor y in the city and the R ainbow Fund hav e agreed to look af ter it and super v ise its display and exhibition T he Hankie Quilt is an independent project created to honour those w e hav e lost to HIV and A IDS and to suppor t those liv ing in our community
“T he R ainbow Fund is an independent organisation w orking w ithin the general community w ith no biased affiliations w ithin the v arious charities, groups and organisations in Brighton & Hov e and as such are best suited to represent the Hankie Quilt and its true ideals
“I’d like to thank the R ainbow Fund and Stuar t R obe for their help and suppor t in organising the handov er and for becoming guardians for the future of the Hankie Quilt in the city ”
Chris Gull, Chair of Rainbow Fund, added:
“T he R ainbow Fund is proud and delighted to be asked by the quilt’s creators to be its guardians It’s v ital, now that an HIV diagnosis is no longer an automatic life threatening diagnosis in this countr y, that w e remember those w ho died too soon and the dev astation caused to our families and communities
“T he quilt is an impor tant reminder to us, and to future generations, of our histor y, and w e w ill ensure that it is preser v ed T he R ainbow Fund grew out of the fundraising to commission and maintain the A IDS Memorial, and the memorial and the Quilt remind us not only to remember those w e hav e lost, but to continue to w ork against stigma ”
The Quilt has previously been on display in the Brighton Dome, the Jubilee Library, Brighton Town Hall, and has led the Brighton & Hove Pride Community Parade
The Rainbow Fund give grants to LGBT/HIV organisations who deliver effective frontline ser vices to LGBT+ people in Brighton & Hove More info: www rainbow-fund org
KEMPTOWN MP DISCLOSES HIS HIV STATUS TO HELP TACKLE STIGMA
) In a speech to the Commons ahead of World AIDS Day on Saturday, December 1, 2018, Lloyd RussellMoyle, MP for Brighton Kemptown & Peacehaven, disclosed his HIV status in a bid to tackle the stigma still associated with the condition The Labour MP became only the second parliamentarian ever to reveal his HIV status, the other being Baron Chris Smith, the UK’s first openly gay MP when he entered the Commons in 1983, who announced he was HIV positive a few months before leaving parliament in 2005
Russell-Moyle, a former Counsellor for East Brighton Ward before being elected to parliament in the 2017 election, told the Commons he had been HIV positive for 10 years, since he was 22 He said: “Saturday, December 1 will mark the 30th Anniversary of World AIDS day, and next year it will be ten years since I became HIV positive I was 22 years old, and diagnosed early Since then I’ve been on world-class treatment provided by the NHS – so I’ve not only survived, I’ve prospered, and any partner I have is safe and protected
“I’m leading this debate today because we’re in many ways at a juncture in the fight against HIV and AIDS We could be more vocal, more ambitious, more determined to eradicate the disease in the UK Or, we could go in the direction of the government, which is putting our hard- fought progress at risk
“The disease is still deeply misunderstood Etched into much of the public’s memory as a death sentence HIV conjures images of gravestones and a life marked by tragedy The reality is that today, the prognosis is wildly different to what it was when it was bought to the public’s attention If treated, someone who is HIV positive, like myself, can expect to live a long and full life with little to no side-effects from the drugs regime
“I hope that my coming out serves to def y the stigma around the disease I hope that more people will understand that effective treatment keeps people who are HIV positive healthy, and it protects their partners That my story might encourage others to get tested and ultimately begin their treatment earlier on ”
After the speech he said: “My announcement today will come as a surprise for many across the country I’ve been asked if I’m worried about the public’s reaction, or whether my constituency will be supportive Those people clearly do not know Brighton It’s a privilege to represent one of the most dynamic, forward thinking and accepting communities
in the country My decision to make public this very private aspect of my life was because of the ground-breaking work being delivered by organisations in my constituency moved me to do so
“The pride they have in their work and their unique bravery is something which I looked to and was directly inspired by We’re leading in Brighton, not just nationally on HIV and AIDS research and treatment but internationally The Sussex Beacon, Lunch Positive, the Martin Fisher Foundation are just a few examples of exceptional treatment and support offered to those in Brighton We’re an example for the rest of the country to follow
“Coming out today with my status will be newsworthy but the recognition should go to the countless who have come before me to fight, and it has been a fight for many, this disease We’re where we are today because of giants in our community that have paved the way I couldn’t be more proud to represent Brighton Kemptown, today more than ever ”
Jeremy Corbyn, Leader of the Labour Par ty, said: “Lloyd has shown enormous courage today I know the whole Labour Party is proud of him His dignity and hope will inspire people across the country and around the world – those with HIV, and also those of us who will always stand together with them
“Thanks to activists and campaigners, from Act Up to parliamentarians like Lloyd and Chris Smith, stigma against people with HIV is gradually lessening And people who are HIV positive and have access to treatment can now be sure that they will remain healthy and that their partners are protected But we must remain vigilant against prejudice, and we must fight for everyone to have access to effective treatment
“Lloyd’s bravery represents the very best of Labour This World AIDS Day I’ll be proud to wear the red ribbon in solidarity and respect ”
Deborah Gold, Chief Executive of NAT (National AIDS Trust), added: “Lloyd has the full support of NAT in telling the public that he’s living with HIV Although no one is obliged to be open about their status, and it isn’t always an easy decision, the same stigma that makes it hard to say you have HIV, is a stigma that’s gradually eroded by people being open and proud
“HIV, as Lloyd shows us, is no longer a death sentence and for most it no longer even significantly compromises their health It’s a manageable condition; illness and the risk of passing it on to others can be completely averted with simple daily medication
“These simple messages can be a powerful antidote to HIV stigma, and by his action today, Lloyd has drawn attention to these facts and shown solidarity with the 101,000 people also living with HIV in the UK As the first serving MP to be openly living with HIV, Lloyd has taken a big step and we absolutely applaud him ”
PEER ACTION SEEKS NEW TRUSTEES AND SECRETARY
) Peer Action, the Brighton & Hove-based HIV charity, aims is to make a difference to the lives of people living with HIV and those who care for them Peer Action provides suppor t for people affected by HIV, offering regular yoga and therapy days together with swimming and social activities, visits to museum exhibitions and some beautiful historic houses and gardens in order to help stop people feeling isolated or out of touch
Peer Action are looking to appoint more trustees to join their enthusiastic board They are looking for people with integrity who are team players and able to demonstrate a real commitment and responsibility in a professional way to the charity Appropriate conduct is an essential requirement
Trustees are responsible as par t of the board for the overall governance and strategic direction of the charity’s goals, developing the organisation’s aims, objectives and goals in accordance with the regulatory guidelines
The charity is also looking to appoint a secretary This is also a trustee position with a specific role on the board as secretary, and would suit a person with very good organisational skills
The role of trustee is a voluntary positiona rewarding role - and applicants must bring one or more of the following elements to the charity:
• Strong in administration and social media skills
• Skills in fundraising
• Skills in communications and marketing
Above all Peer Action are looking for people with the credibility and passion to make a difference for everyone within the community affected by HIV
Applications are invited by email in the form of a letter from all ages and all par ts of the community from Sussex and surrounding areas For an informal chat before applying, or to apply, please contact the new Chair, Ms Adriana Silva: chair@peeraction net
Applicants will be subject to a DBS disclosure check Closing date: Januar y 18, 2019
SUBLINE RAISE £1,662.72 FOR THT
) Six beefcakes battled it out to win the Mr Subline crown on Saturday, November 24, 2018, at Subline Gscene snapper Jack Lynn was the popular winner with Simon D and Mr Wykes joint runners up The evening was hosted by Pat Clutcher and a total of £1,662 72 was raised for Terrence HIggins Trust
REVENGE RAISE £1,555.35 FOR RAINBOW FUND
) Fundraising events over World AIDS Day (WAD) weekend at Club R evenge raised £1,555.35 for the R ainbow Fund Pictured grants panellist Maria Baker handing Revenge General Manager Andrew R ober ts their cer tificate
The money was raised from £1 per head donated from the annual Revenge WAD R ed Par ty on Saturday, December 1 and from their WAD Dragathon featuring some of Brighton's finest queer performers, including: Lydia L’Scabies, R ococo Chanel, Baby, Tayris Mongardi, Prudence R ae, R ob From Finance and Alfie Ordinar y All the enter tainers, managers and DJs donated their wages for the night to swell the grand total raised for the R ainbow Fund to £1,555 35
Chris Gull, Chair of the Rainbow Fund, said: “ What a great result from Revenge’s WAD weekend fundraisers A real example of LGBT+ community fundraising, ensuring that venues don’t have to decide which local projects to support, because by entrusting the funds raised to the Rainbow Fund they can be sure that the money will be fairly distributed to volunteer-led projects like Lunch Positive and Peer Action, projects making a real difference to the lives of local people living with HIV
“The Rainbow Fund also maintain the AIDS memorial, and now the Hankie Quilt, to ensure that those that our community lost to AIDS, their stories, and the history of our communities are not forgotten
“Once again we thank the cabaret performers who give their time and talent so unstintingly, but also to the hardworking team of staff, managers and DJs who along with the entertainers donated their wages for the Sunday event thank you all so much for going ‘above and beyond’ ”
BAR BROADWAY RAISE £250 FOR MINDOUT
) Bar Broadway held a charity event to benefit MindOut on Friday, December 7, raising £250 for the dedicated LGBT+ mental health service During the evening, hosted by Spice, Catarina CoelhoSandalls, a former door person at Bar Broadway, had her waist length hair cut to be donated to the Little Princess Trust to make a wig for a child or young adult who has cancer Spice, a long term suppor ter and fundraiser for MindOut, was joined on stage by talented enter tainers Laura Nixon and vocalist Billie Gold
) Bear-Patrol, the social networking group, raised £808 24 for the R ainbow Fund at their annual Christmas dinner at the Camelford Arms Sixty-two suppor ters of Bear-Patrol sat down on Sunday, December 9 for a traditional Christmas dinner served over three sittings Numbers in the bar swelled to over 100 for the Christmas Jumper competition which was judged by former Mayors Cllr
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, popped by during the afternoon to help sell raffle tickets The raffle raised £808.24 for the R ainbow Fund who give grants to local LGBT+/HIV organisations who deliver effective frontline services to LGBT+ people in the city
CHARLES STREET TAP RAISE £1,648.25 FOR THT
) Charles Street Tap raised £1,648.25 for THT at their annual World AIDS Day fundraiser on Saturday, December 1 Hosted and organised by Drag With No Name, artists appearing included Spice, Sally Vate, Kara Van Park, Aura Jay, Pat Clutcher, Lucinda Lashes, Lady Imelda, Martha D'Arthur and Mrs Moore who, despite a horrendous journey getting to Brighton, still got here to support THT
Drag With No Name said: “To all the artists who performed, all people who donated auction prizes and gave money on World AIDS Day at Charles Street Tap, we
managed to raise £1,648 25 in just four hours! It's a cliché, but it wouldn't have been possible without you all! It's an amazing amount of money to raise and the love shown to each act on stage was stunning Thank you and special thanks to the staff at Charles Street Tap who were brilliant ”
BRIGHTON BEAR CHRISTMAS PARTIES RAISE £701.94 FOR THE RAINBOW FUND
) Brighton Bears returned to Bar Broadway for another Bear-a-oke Christmas Par ty on Saturday, December 8, hosted by Jon B and Candi R ell The fun-filled night saw young, old and even some bar staff take to the stage to belt out their favourite karaoke classics The total raised on the night was £330 94 which included a generous donation from Michael McGarrigle, joint owner of Bar Broadway The par ty continued late into the night next door at Subline at Jingle Bears where everyone tucked into mince pies and vodka jellies The total raised at Subline was £370 bringing the total raised by Brighton Bear Weekend for the R ainbow Fund over the Beary Weekend to £701.94
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Mayor, Cllr Dee Simson
LUNCH POSITIVE AND WORLD AIDS DAY
The weekly lunch club for people who are HIV positive, reflects on WAD 2019.
) December was an exceptionally busy month at Lunch Positive, the weekly lunch club for people who are HIV positive, star ting with huge appreciation given by members and volunteers following the empowering speech made in Parliament by Kemptown & Peacehaven MP Lloyd R ussell-Moyle about being HIV positive for the last 10 years
This was especially poignant to everyone at Lunch Positive as during the speech the MP referred to Lunch Positive founder Gar y Pargeter being an inspiration for him to talk about being HIV positive, and his reflections on the work of the charity
The Mayor of Brighton & Hove Councillor Dee Simson lunched with members on Friday, November 30, 2018, to celebrate World AIDS Day on December 1, 2018 The Mayor spoke of the need to combat HIV stigma, and reflected on the continued suppor t many people living with the virus still need She made a point of talking to everyone present, which was much appreciated by the 60 people present who regularly attend the weekly lunch club
Lunch Positive volunteers and members were involved in helping to organise a variety of World AIDS Day activities and events On World AIDS Day they hosted a community buffet lunch, all prepared by volunteers Over 50 people attended, including existing friends, suppor ters, and some new faces
In the evening, Lunch Positive volunteers donated over 100 hours of their time to help stage the World AIDS Day Vigil and R eading of Names, followed by the
annual World AIDS Day Charity Concer t, which was raising funds for Lunch Positive Local choirs performing included Brighton Gay Men's Chorus, Actually Gay Men's Chorus, R ainbow Chorus, Brighton and London Belles, R esound male voices, R ebelles female voices, Sweet Chilli Singers and Qukelele, the all women ukulele band
The evening was hosted by Fox Fisher and Owl, and a team of 14 Lunch Positive and Rainbow Chorus members helped provide refreshments to everyone at the concer t during the interval
Lunch Positive also led on involvement in the production of an anti-stigma exhibition, presented at the R ainbow Hub in St James’s Street Titled My Brighton, My HIV - Re-framing HIV Stigma the exhibition featured local people with HIV, empowered to be visible and challenging HIV stigmatising views
Gar y Pargeter, Service Manager at Lunch Positive, said: “We deeply appreciate everyone’s support of
Lunch Positive throughout the year, and always so wonderfully expressed on World AIDS Day The lunch club service at Lunch Positive is getting ever-busier, involving, supporting and empowering increasing numbers of people, and we are so grateful that this is recognised and valued
“Small charities like ours, carrying out effective frontline work, make such a difference to the lives of people in our communities, and we are proudly peerled by people with HIV in everything we do There is no ‘typical’ person who comes to Lunch Positive, we are a diverse, accepting and inclusive community group ”
And to demonstrate the impact Lunch Positive make to the lives of positive people, service user, Tommy said: “Before I came to Lunch Positive I was alone, I felt invisible, and I wouldn’t have seen anyone from one day to the next It’s been a lifeline I had at times felt like ending it all Being here has helped me change that feeling Thank you Lunch Positive "
For more info about Lunch Positive visit: www.lunchpositive.org
FITTER CONFIDENT ME
New Year ’s resolutions are easy to make and easy to break. Fitter Confident You is a great way to start and to stay focused.
By Craig Hanlon-Smith
) Sporting myth has it that the game of rugby was invented by someone picking up a football mid-game and running with it. For years I was convinced that guy was a disgruntled school-age homosexual, who one wet Wednesday afternoon thought “f*** this, I’m off” and just legged it the heck outta there
As a young man through my teens and into my early 20s I had zero interest in any form of physical exercise. School had driven out any hope of enjoyment with shouts of “kick him” during the hated football practice, and that from the teachers ‘Craig tolerates PE without any need to exert himself ’ read my school report The only exercise related to my schooling physical activity was nightly angry teenage masturbation thinking about the staff My current regime couldn’t be more different I look forward to exercise, eat sensibly but don’t purge and love every minute of the exercise I take part in whether at home or in the gym The reason? Eventually I met the right people who inspired me to want to make a difference to my long-term health Who showed me exercises that worked, made a difference, and quickly
Over the years I’ve worked with a couple of ropey trainers and a couple of amazing ones Most recently with online Gay Fitness Guru – Matt Boyles and his Fitter Confident You programme What I’ve loved about this is the positive reinforcement which is much more about confidence and personal achievement as it is weight loss or muscle-building.
The recommendation came to me independently from two gay men I knew, both who had turned their fitness around in an initial sixweek programme Making a personal difference I signed up for an eight-week muscle grow group and noticed a significant difference in four. There are a range of options depending upon your goals and all affordable. I have really appreciated the Facebook group chats with others taking part in the same programme, posting photos, videos and both exercise and recipe tips. Community at its supportive best. Matt at the centre of it all with his three times a week positive online live chats but also personal motivational words of wisdom and individualised programmes
MORE INFO
f Search Facebook for Fitter Confident You ) Or @FitterYouGlobal
f Or contact Craig @craigscontinuum for details on the programme he took part in.
GET HEALTHY AND JOIN THE TRIBE!
Vida Active Club is a community of instructors doing what they love, with love!
) Each instructor has their own strength and speciality, be it dance or boxing, Pilates or high intensity training, or anything in between However, what they all have in common is the passion for fitness and wellbeing, and for the people they teach. Vida Active are a cooperative of instructors working for themselves and supporting each other!
The members are always at the forefront of what the instructors do They influence what classes they teach, the locations, the times, and very often what music is played. They are also a community who look forward to meeting at their regular classes for a catch-up, and many also meet up outside of classes socially. Many friendships have been created over the years at Vida Active (formerly QuickFit for women).
In January 2019, the regular instructors: Cleria Humphries, Paula Marten, Helene Evans, Karen Crumpton, Sarah Kearney, Janie Fox and Kerry Gozzet will carry on doing what they do best and also building on it On top of this they will be welcoming the formidable Marta Scott, the amazing Tess Wilson and the beautiful Silvia Kocaiova! So get fit while having fun and supporting these fantastic women!
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) Unlimited classes cost just £19.99 a month or £5 per session
) For more info about Vida Active Club, view: www.vidaactive.club
TIME TO GET YOURSELF IN ORDER
Ever yone is aware that the New Year is a time for new starts – going on a diet, hitting the gym, etc. BUT, what about your personal lifestyle “ WHAT IF…” moments?
) Now is a really good time to re-revaluate those important issues that, whilst we may need them, nobody likes to face up to
Is your Will up to date? For a start, if you have a Will, congratulations About two-thirds of the country do not! However, even if you have a Will, is it up to date for your current circumstances? Now could not be a better time to dust off your Will and give everything a once over to ensure it does meet your requirements.
What about a Power of Attorney? Have you set up someone to have access to your finances, or to take medical decisions for you, in the event that something unexpected happens and you are no longer able to make such decisions for yourself? No matter how much we think we are immortal, life has a horrible way of showing us that we aren’t and making us think about the unpleasant but very necessary.
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) Talk to Martin Beames at ODT Solicitors, 19 New Road, Brighton, BN1 1UF, ) Or email mbeames@odt.co.uk for a free, no obligation chat about what the options are for you
) For more information, view: www odt.co.uk
ENZYMES
What are they and how do they keep you healthy?
By Kim Barnouin, author of the New York Times bestselling book, Skinny Bitch.
) There have been some fantastic claims about digestive enzymes recently; that they can do everything from curing depression to helping you lose weight We’ve known for some time that eating well can make us feel happier, give us more energy and enthusiasm for life and, of course, help us lose weight. But what happens if your digestive system isn’t breaking healthy food down effectively?
As your whole body runs on these vital nutrients, an inability to break down food effectively can affect your whole body in many ways. Here are some common symptoms you may notice if your digestion is compromised:
• Abdominal pain or discomfort
• Feeling bloated for days at a time
• Diarrhoea or constipation
• Chronic flatulence
• Symptoms similar to irritable bowel syndrome
• Undigested food in the stools
• Steatorrhea (stools that float)
• Feeling full after only a few mouthfuls
• Food allergies and intolerances
What do enzymes do?
Enzymes are the body’s way of breaking down food into the nutrients it needs to function At each stage of digestion – from your mouth to your large intestine – different enzymes are released that help break down different nutrients. If any part of that digestive journey is lacking in the right enzymes, your food won’t be broken down properly and you’ll start to get a heavy, bloated feeling in your stomach.
Why might you have too few enzymes?
There are loads of potential causes – from gallstones and serious illnesses, to excessive
alcohol consumption and smoking. Some common causes include:
• Chronic stress: When stressed or anxious the body gets ready to protect itself by moving the blood supply away from your digestive areas to your limbs (the so-called fight-or-flight response) If you ’ re chronically stressed your body never gets back into the relaxed mode necessary for digestion
• Ageing: The amount of digestive enzyme reduces as you get older. It’s not entirely clear whether this is completely natural or whether it’s the build-up of other issues, such as longterm stress
• Low stomach acid: Stomach acid is needed to break down food, kill pathogens, and to activate certain enzymes Medications that reduce stomach acid are some of the most prescribed in the UK But antacids could be making the underlying issue worse rather than better
• Low-grade digestive tract inflammation: Often caused by infections, food sensitivities, certain foods like coffee, sugar and highlyprocessed foods, or a disruption to the organisms living in the intestine
Supplements
If you think you may be suffering from enzyme deficiency, one of the quickest and easiest ways to fix it is by taking enzyme supplements There are three key sources of enzymes used in supplements but not all enzyme sources are equal.
• Papaya and Pineapple: Both contain enzymes that help break down protein The benefit of these is that they’re vegan and, if you eat the fruit, contain other nutrients such as fibre and vitamins. But these enzymes can find it difficult to make it through the harsh stomach acid intact and only help break down protein, limiting their helpfulness.
• Animal Sources: While not vegan or veggiefriendly, these sources contain the enzymes needed to break down proteins, fats and carbohydrates in the small intestine. Unfortunately, enzymes from these sources are unstable which limits their effectiveness. Additionally, pancreatin, a common animalderived enzyme, may limit the body’s ability to absorb Vitamin B folate
• Microbial Sources: These enzyme supplements are completely vegan and contain all the key enzymes needed to break down foods The added benefit of these enzymes is that they can help to break down plant-based foods as well, such as beans and legumes, as
well as cellulose found in plants They’re also very stable and can easily make it past the stomach acid unaffected
If, like many, you ’ re moving to a more plantbased diet or are hoping to lose weight through healthy eating, then microbial sources of enzymes are especially useful They also complement the enzymes produced naturally in the pancreas, rather than ‘overriding’ the natural system.
The hope is you can eventually move away from supplements once your digestive enzymes are back in balance, so it’s better to take supplements that support your natural processes rather than take over these processes and potentially weaken your natural enzyme production.
What else can you do to promote enzyme balance?
The first step is always to cut down or eliminate foods that might be causing gut inflammation
Moving towards a more plant-based diet while reducing sugar, highly-processed foods, coffee and alcohol will all help reduce inflammation and keep your enzyme balance healthy. Plants also contain lots of fibre which helps digestion and makes you feel fuller for longer.
Secondly, make sure you are drinking enough water. Digestion (as well as almost everything else in our bodies) requires water, so make sure you ’ re drinking at least 1.5-2 litres a day.
Finally, take steps to de-stress your life
Chomping down your meals quickly and rushing to the next thing will limit the digestion which starts in your mouth while putting your body into ‘stress mode’. Slow things down a little, take your time to eat your food by chewing more slowly, and spend some time relaxing after you ’ ve eaten. This can all aid digestion and lead to better overall health
Chewing more slowly also allows time for your brain to receive signals from your stomach to let it know that you are full. Slower eating means you feel fuller while eating less, helping to reduce your calorie intake and lose weight as a result
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Kim Barnouin is the author of the New York Times bestseller Skinny Bitch and founder of the Skinny Bitch approach to weight loss which is based around three key pillars of nutrition, exercise and effective supplementation Skinny Bitch offers a range of weight loss programmes, recipes and food products to help you lose weight naturally and healthily.
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MESOBIOLIFT SKIN TREATMENT
Mesobiolift collagen skin tightening treatment for sagging and crepey skin. Match Skin Salon in Hove have been using Mesobiolift for three years and we have achieved amazing results for facials and body treatments
How does the treatment work?
During the course of the treatment, various phases of radio frequency waves and current penetrate all layers of the skinbreaking down scar tissue, tightening the skin and creating new collagen Your skin will look and feel radiant after just one treatment, especially the following day as all the cells have had time to settle, allowing the skin to feel toned and plump.
What does the treatment involve?
A relaxing warm radio frequency treatment; where a special serum of plant collagen is infused into your skin, making it feel soft and hydrated for days. The facial normally last 45 minutes, and is followed by a relaxing lymphatic drainage facial massage and cooling mask The body treatments vary from 10 to 20 minutes per area
How many sessions will I need?
That depends on how much of the skin has lost its collagen and to what degree as we all deplete collagen production in our 30s It also depends on your expectations; Mesobiolift can even treat loose skin on isolated areas. On average a course of at least six facials for your body and eight for your face is recommended.
How of ten do I need treatments?
For best results one or two weekly sessions are recommended.
Are the results per manent?
The results will remain the same if you have a monthly top-up treatment for the face, however on some parts of the body you may only need to just have a treatment once every six weeks
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) For more information, view: www.matchskinsalon.co.uk
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“My work is about giving you more tools to bring sensual aspects to your sexual encounters and make them more fulfilling”
CAN YOU KEEP SENSUAL AND SEXUAL APART?
Tilo Flache helps guide men towards conscious sensuality through tantra-inspired experiences under the name of MenSensual. His intention is to teach ideas and concepts you can experiment with while enjoying a sensual experience at the same time. What better way to feel good about yourself in the New Year and get fit in both mind and body.
What is conscious sensuality?
) To understand this, you have to distinguish ‘feeling sensual’ from ‘being sexual’. And that’s the rub: for most men, gay or otherwise, feeling sensual and being sexual go hand in hand When we are interested in someone, any kind of eye contact or touch can get us aroused pretty much from the word go While that is perfectly natural, try to think of it as a mix of two separate things: the experience of having your senses tickled AND the expectation that something sexual might happen soon.
Mentally separating these two allows you to experience ‘feeling sensual’ without getting shunted on to the highway to sex right away. Remember when someone ’ s arm lightly brushed yours and you felt goosebumps along your arm? Followed by that urgent wish to ‘shake it off ’ again? This could become a full body experience if you manage to leave ‘being sexual’ aside for now. Don’t panic, though:
conscious sensuality does not mean it’s asexual, it just means that you look at things more broadly.
Tilo says: “Sex comes cheap and is readily available if we know where to look Strangely, we seem to be able to extract and experience ‘being sexual’ on its own, while ‘feeling sensual’ is considered more of a side dish that ensures smooth delivery of sex.
“I believe that many men don’t quite know how to create a connection with their partner Maybe you even consider an intense sensual connection as being too intimate? Or does it feel like a consolation prize because you don’t get instant gratification? Or does anything that goes beyond the sexual act seem like hard work for nothing much in return?”
The thin multi-coloured line
Tilo's tantra-inspired classes focus on elements ranging from simple touch and connection exercises to intense elements involving breath, touch, sound, meditation and energy work
However, keep in mind that those are really only means to achieve an end Your original intention might simply be ‘ more enjoyment and connection’ with the other person, and your experience could lead you to higher levels of consciousness during meditation. The latter being, of course, the original point of the bulk of these exercises.
One of the biggest challenges for practitioners in sensuality is the mistaken belief that sensuality always goes hand in hand with sexuality. Sexuality deals with the physical aspect of personal connection, where sensuality is all about creating a container that goes beyond the physical act of sex Think foreplay!
And this is where things get fuzzy: all practitioners in the sensual, erotic or sexual have had clients who were not quite clear about what they are really looking for on the sliding scale from sensual experience through erotic titillation to sexual fulfilment.
Each practitioner and client have their own personal interpretation of where and how far they want to go, what they expect to happen.
Tilo draws the line at hanky-panky. A practitioner worth that description will aim to stick to their red lines, even if this involves not giving in to their own arousal!
Tilo says: “My work is about giving you more tools to bring sensual aspects to your sexual encounters and make them more fulfilling.”
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If the physical and meditative/spiritual aspect of Tilo's work intrigues you or you have questions,
) view: mensensual.weebly.com ) or email: tilo@mensensual.com
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THE REVOLUTION WAY
SINCE 2005
We’ve helped thousands of people transform their bodies and achieve their health and fitness goals since we opened in 2005. Our clients achieve these results by following the Revolution Way.
Goal Setting
) At Revolution we understand the importance of setting goals. As part of your free taster session, your trainer will work with you to help you gain real clarity on specifically what it is you want to achieve over 12 weeks. We’ll also help you to understand why you want to achieve your goal. Understanding your 'why', and making sure your goal excites you, is how to get the power of your emotions working for you
Personalised training plan
) To effectively personalise your training plan, your trainer will take into consideration both your goal and your current fitness level. Your trainer will also take into account whether or not your training plan will need to be adapted due to any injuries or health conditions. Your plan will include what days of the week you’ll train, which will help establish
the all-important habits and routines that will enable you to succeed.
Nutrition plan
) We have worked alongside a team of nutritional coaches to produce meal plans which cater for meat eaters, pescatarians, vegetarians and vegans Our meal plans are complete with a full macro nutrient and calorie breakdown It's essential that your diet complements the hard work and effort you're putting into your training The meals in our food plans are easy to prepare and can continue to be used beyond the 12 weeks.
Evaluation of progress
) Creating accountability when training for your 12-week transformation is absolutely vital A great way to achieve this is by regularly assessing your weight, body fat
and body composition which will give you feedback on your progress. These regular measurements of your body composition will help your trainer to evaluate the effectiveness of your training and nutritional plan This also allows adjustments to be made to your plan, if necessary, to ensure you achieve the best results possible
Free taster session
) Your first step to achieving your health and fitness goals is to book a free taster session, where you will have a chance to sit down with one of our personal trainers and discuss your exercise history and your goals in detail, then you get to experience an actual personal training session This is all offered completely free without the obligation to sign up
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3D LIPO BRIGHTON
3D Lipo Brighton is opening its doors on Portland Road this year bringing the ver y latest 3D Lipo technology to the region.
3D Lipo Brighton
) For those who don’t know, 3D Lipo offer totally non-invasive surgical treatments, initially tailored for inch loss and slimming, which have now advanced to the point of body sculpting and non surgical facelifts. 3D Lipo Brighton studio is unlike most others as they have steered away from other treatments like botox and fillers concentrating solely on the 3D range of technology where their staff are experts
Impressive Results
) Jeremy Nargi of 3D Lipo Brighton came across the treatment himself in London and over two courses of cavitation (a system where heat and sound literally shatter the fat cells) lost 17 inches across his body, so impressed with the results he has now set up 3D Lipo Brighton with the intention to open other studios across the country. Jeremy says: “The procedure is painless and just takes an hour of your day once a week, as long as you keep your water intake high and walk to the studio rather
than drive, the inch loss will follow ” Already, during their pre-launch, clients have already witnessed losses of up to 11 inches Jeremy continues: “We want our clients to be happy and to continue to come back - we are like a safety net for when they want to indulge - they know we can help get rid of it A happy client is a great advertisement ”
Fit 3D Body Scanner
) 3D Lipo Brighton is one of only a handful of clinics in the UK to be bringing the Fit 3D Body Scanner, a device that takes 400 images of you over 40 seconds measuring every part of your body so you can see your progress This will show you where you can improve not only on a healthy lifestyle but also for fitness too 3D Lipo Brighton have said they will open this up to non 3D Lipo clients as a way of monitoring users ’ fitness for those who love the gym!
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12-Week Intensive Course
) Gscene have teamed up with 3D Lipo Brighton to bring one lucky Gscene reader a complete package of their signature ‘Manscape’ , a 12-week intensive course literally turning you into a new person by spring! The winner will receive the consultation and the course will be adapted at each session - we will take a quick video of your journey to add to our diary to monitor your success The winner must have a desire to look better and willpower will not be provided - that’s all on you!
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MY NAME IS JAC AND I’M AN ADDICT
Not words I ever expected to say… this wasn’t part of the plan.
) Despite a fairly normal childhood, I never really felt comfortable in my own skin I started using drink and drugs in my teens, like everyone else They solved my problem, and helped me to become the person I thought I wanted to be; I partied hard and believed I’d found the key to happiness and success
After moving to Brighton in 1999, I found ‘the scene ’ and felt like I’d found my place in the world, my home I loved the acceptance and freedom I felt here, to be whoever I wanted to be I spent almost every night in my favourite clubs and bars, always afraid of what I was missing if I spent a night in. I was part of something bigger than me, and for a while things were great.
Fast forward a few years, and things began to change, the people I partied with started to move away from the scene, and become more sensible – they grew up!
I refused to do so, and things became more serious and sordid – I drank every day, and
partied every weekend without fail The gaps between using drugs got shorter, and the variety of drugs I used grew Cocaine, ecstasy, speed, GHB, ketamine they all did it for me, they filled the hole in my soul
At some point, using drugs and drinking stopped being a choice and became a necessity After reaching breaking point more than once, each time being worse, with more consequences, and a soul-destroying desperation, I realised that this had to stop, my life was at risk.
It was then that I sought help and went to my first 12-step meeting This felt like the end of the road and I was certain my life would never be good again, how would I have fun if I couldn’t drink and use drugs?
In reality, this end was the beginning for me I found a different type of home, and met people who had felt and behaved like me. What a relief!
When I walked into my first Cocaine Anonymous meeting, I was immediately made to feel welcome – someone made me a cup of tea, gave me a hug and a place to sit. And, as I listened to what everyone else had to stay, I felt a glimmer of hope for the first time.
Two and half years down the line, I live a life that I couldn’t have imagined in my wildest dreams. I got my family back, I have love and laughter in my life, and a fellowship of likeminded people who help me to stay clean and sober one day at a time. I don’t spend my time avoiding and obsessing over drugs and alcohol, I am free.
Cocaine Anonymous offers a programme of recovery that is open to everyone, free of charge, and which protects the individual with anonymity. It is a fellowship of men and women
who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from their addiction We have found that the best way to reach an addict is to speak to them on a common level. Our members are all recovering addicts who maintain their individual sobriety by working with others.
Cocaine Anonymous is not a drug-specific fellowship, and we treat all mind-altering substances, including alcohol, in the same way. Our primary purpose is to stay clean and to help others to achieve sobriety irrespective of the substances they use. Cocaine Anonymous uses the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, which is a programme of action, designed to bring about a change in us, that allows us to get clean and stay clean
Meetings are where newcomers get a chance to meet recovering addicts who can help and support them We hold over 35 meetings a week, at venues all over Sussex, and there are daily meetings in Brighton & Hove The group itself can vary in size from five to 30 people, with a variety of formats Everyone gets a chance to share their thoughts or just listen to others
Our meetings are diverse and inclusive of all people, regardless of gender, sexuality, social background, religion or disability, and we are also currently starting one within the LGBT+ communities, details of which will be available on our website or meetings list once a time and venue are confirmed.
MORE INFO
) To get in touch with us, visit our website: www.cocaineanonymous.org.uk
) Or call our helpline: 0800 612 0225, which is open from 10am–10pm every day Our helpline is staffed by our members, and you can call for information, a chat with someone who understands, and details of our meetings If you are interested in going to a meeting, we can get someone local to you to give you a call with more information.
Finding Cocaine Anonymous has saved my life, and I am a very happy and healthy member of society today. We can help you if you feel you are at the end of the road and are desperate to stop, we have a solution that works.
International Film Festival, which this year marks its 50th birthday
In the 1930s and 40s there were no gay barsjust bars full of men who had to be careful because, despite its libertarianism, Sitges had a repressive and cruel police force Antonio Amaya, an international singing star, was the first to open a 'gay' club, but of course gay didn’t exist as a term Brandon says: “He put Sitges on the map Carnival, which was banned by Franco, was allowed in Sitges, though only indoors, in bars where men dressed up, but not on the streets “
A GAY HISTORY OF SITGES ON FILM
Brian Butler talks to Brandon Jones about his unique film about the histor y of the gay Spanish Mecca of Sitges.
) Brandon Jones first went to Sitges in 1981, buying his house there in 1985 In 1989, Brandon and his partner Juan were appointed as the representatives for BBC Sport, to help in putting together the infrastructure for the 1992 Barcelona Olympics, but he is best known locally for being the co-owner of Casablanca cocktail bar and arts venues for the last 20 years.
“About seven years ago I started to research the gay origins of Sitges from members of the LGBT+ communities here," he said. With local sponsorship and crowdfunding he released the film earlier this summer to wide acclaim in the town. Brandon has pieced together a fascinating insight into how a sleepy fishing village just south of Barcelona, with an original population in 1900 of 3,500, has now grown into a bustling internationally well-respected gay resort
“In the dark days of Franco’s dictatorship, Sitges became an almost secret haven for gays who felt safe here although they still had to behave discreetly," he adds Apart from a dark period in the late 1990s when homophobic demonstrations left a local barman in a coma, Sitges has triumphed as a liberated, tolerant and diverse community
Surprising then that the first LGBT+ association began in only 2001 The theory is that until recently most gay visitors were just thatvisitors for a few days or weeks But with a notable number of gay people buying properties and paying taxes, it was inevitable social action
groups would be formed, as Brandon did in 2011 as co-founder of Gay Sitges Link And Sitges has always managed to avoid becoming a gay ghetto, the film tells us, and the newly formed associations are committed to integration within the wider community, while supporting events like World AIDS Day. The film makes it clear that it’s always been easier to be gay in Sitges than elsewhere in Catalunya.
So who are the main players in Sitges’ gay development? Santiago Rusiñol was a poet, playwright and painter who, in the late 1880s, left Barcelona and his wife and young child to go to Paris with the painter Ramón Casas. Rescued by his wife from a morphine and absinthe detoxication clinic in Paris, Rusiñol returned to Barcelona and later discovered and moved to Sitges, attracted by its quality of light and the famous white-washed walls of its buildings Brandon explains: “His bohemian homo and bi friends joined him, as did the likes of Diaghilev, the ballet entrepreneur, and his gay lover, the dancer Nijinsky, and composer de Falla, playwright Lorca and painter Salvador Dali, all of whom helped to transform the fishing village into a bohemian artists’ retreat - a tradition which remains today.”
The Barcelona bourgeoisie, who had gay sons, began to send them away out of that city’s eyes and set them up in Sitges, and they in turn attracted their friends to the resort. Film stars began to visit and reside there and films were located there. Today there is a major
Nowadays a whole series of festivals and events are spread across the year The 17-year-old Bears’ Week now attracts over 3,000 visitors who spend some three million Euros in the town in just seven days. Luis Enriquez, who owns or has an interest in 17 gay bars and venues, is also Chairman of the association which organises Gay Sitges Pridefirst held in 2011. Some feel it’s not as political as Barcelona Pride, more of a party, but others in Brandon’s film feel Sitges has now moved on to be much more socially aware. Gay Sitges Link tackles homophobia and violence against gays in the town and organises a Cultural Pride as well as producing an annual magazine, Vision
Nowadays, says Brandon, there are over 40 places under gay ownership - a huge number for the size of the town Its current gay mayor, Miquel Forn, says Sitges is a place where co-existence, tolerance and inclusivity are a reality
MORE INFO
) Brandon’s film is available for overseas purchase via thegayhistoryofsitges@gmail.com y To watch the trailer, view: https://youtu.be/2ezokPUpFaQ
AFFINITY BAR
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Same location, same owners, same fun enter tainment and same friendly atmosphere!
l DRINK PROMOS Thirsty Thursday: £3 50 drinks including Fosters, double house gin/vodka/rum and house wine
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tue (1): see Facebook/Instagram for New Year ’s Day enter tainment details
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sunday CABARET at 5pm:
Son of a Tutu (6), Stephanie Von Clitz (13), Dave Lynn (20) and Davina Sparkle (27) Affinity Bar say: “Stephanie Von Clitz, the Tart with a Heart, is back on our stage! She's been about, but we got our mitts back on Miss Clitz! She's armed with her vast array of songs and is ready to entertain each and every one of you!”
l REGUL ARS Mon is ALL DAY KARAOKE from 12pm; KARAOKE with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) at 7pm l Tue is ALL DAY FREE JUKEBOX, where you pick the tracks from 12pm l Wed is the QUIZ with Jason Thorpe at 7pm; KARAOKE with Tommy Tanker at 8pm l Thur ENTERTAINMENT with music, games and more: see Facebook/Instagram for more details! l Kick the weekend off at FRIDAY FUNHOUSE from 6pm l Sat is CAMP CABARET with Pat Clutcher at 6pm; then she hosts KARAOKE at 7pm Affinity Bar say: “The Angel of the North is here to entertain! Pat Clutcher is a Retro Queen who will make you laugh, cry and feel full of joy and that's not even her act! Af ter her fabulous show she will be hosting Karaoke and playing camp tunes in between! See you there!”
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MONDAY 31 DEC
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY NYE Glitter Par ty 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Annual Hogmanay NYE Par ty with Paul Middleton live 9pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS NYE Par ty: DJs Claire Fuller & Peter Castle over 2 floors 9pm
l BOUTIQUE NYE Par ty: DJs 9pm
l BOWIE NYE@BRIGHTON ROCKS
DJs Simon Price & Jayney BlamBlam play Bowie & more 8pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS NYE Late Night Par ty 9pm
l CHARLES ST TAP The Gayest Showman NYE Par ty: host Joan Bond, giveaways & tunes 9pm
l GROSVENOR BAR NYE Cabaret with
Davina Sparkle 9pm
l INFINITY BAR NYE Par ty: Stephanie Von Clitz 8pm; Countdown Show 11 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR NYE Par ty: DJs Claire Fuller & Peter Castle over 2 floors 9pm
l MARINE TAVERN Big NYE Black & White Fancy Dress Par ty 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE NYE Par ty: Sam Chara with Theseus Gerard on percussion & Tim Lee on keyboards + Marylyn Du Sax & DJ Chris Havoxx 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS NYE Show: Kara Van Park 9pm
l REGENCY TAVERN NYE Cabaret:
Dave Lynn/free bubbles at midnight 11pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB NYE Par ty with Debbie Cobbett 9pm
l SUBLINE NYE Par ty: Tumbling into 2019 10pm
l VELVET JACKS Big NYE Late Par ty 9pm
AMSTERDAM BAR & KITCHEN
l 11-12 Marine Parade, BN2 1TL, T: 01273 670976, www.amsterdambrighton.com
l OPEN daily from 11am–late, including New Year’s Day
l FOOD Mon-Fri 11am–8pm; Sat 10.30am–8pm; Sunday roasts 12.30pm till they run out, booking recommended: 01273 670 976 Tea & coffee menu available
l DRINK PROMOS Staropramen £3 50 a pint in Jan; select bottled beer £3; house spirit & mixer £3 single, £5 double; house wine £10 90 a bottle Cocktails: 2 for £15
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri (25) Burns Night Supper, check website for details
l REGUL ARS CABARET Fridays with at 9.30pm: Dave Lynn (11), Sally Vate (18) and Kara Van Park (25)
l Sat KARAOKE with Jason Thorpe at 9.30pm l Sun enter tainment with Brighton’s best singers serenading you after lunch from 5pm: Jason Lee (6), Dave the Bear (13), Jamie Watson (20) and Paul Middleton (27) Paul Middleton (27) is a London-based singer with a unique and beautiful voice His renditions of popular songs have seen him tour over England, Ireland, Germany and the USA Paul has been singing for the last 15 years and has developed a fan base all over the world, causing a few hear ts to flutter in the process!
TUESDAY 1
l AFFINITY BAR New Year’s Day - see Facebook for details 12pm
l AMSTERDAM New Year’s Day 11am
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY New Year’s Day
Crewsday: DJ Lewis Osborne 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY New Year: First Fireplace Sessions pres Aaron Lawrence aka Spice 8 30pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS New Year
Hangover Par ty 12pm
l CHARLES ST TAP New Year’s Day 11am
l GROSVENOR BAR New Year 3pm
l MARINE TAVERN Hogmanay
Hangover: Stephanie Von Clitz & Rusty Vajazzle 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS New Year’s Day
Hangover Show: Lola Lasagne 9 30pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Quiz 8pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live
football: Ever ton v Leicester City
12 30pm, Cardiff v Spurs 5 30pm
WEDNESDAY 2
l AFFINITY BAR Quiz: Jason Thorpe 7pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Midweek Chill 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Hangover Jukebox 6pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Ice: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l BRIGHTON SAUNA Naked Day 10am
l CAMELFORD ARMS Seniors’ lunch 2-3 30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Pink Pound 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Luke Rattenbury & band 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS Sally Vate Show 10pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Newcastle v Man Utd 8pm; Open Mic Night with host Waterbear 9 30pm
THURSDAY 3
l AFFINITY BAR new night with music, games & more - see FB/Instagram 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Weekend WarmUp 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Big Quiz: Ross Cameron & prizes 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Now That’s What I Call Legends: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS £300 Big Cash Quiz 9pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Throwback Thursday 9pm
BAR BROADWAY
l 10 Steine Street, BN2 1TE, Tel: 01273 609777, www.barbroadway.co.uk
l OPEN Mon–Thur 6pm–1am, Fri 5pm–3am, Sat 4pm–3am, Sun 4pm–1am
l DRINK PROMOS Download the Bar Broadway app for exclusive drink deals
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tue (1) the FIRST FIREPLACE SESSIONS PRESENTS Aaron Lawrence aka Spice from 8 30pm Bar Broadway say: “Scottish Tradition says that your first visitor should be tall dark and fabulous, So Brighton’s favourite gender discombobulator was the perfect guest for New Year’s Day!”
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri (4) is 50 SHADES OF PLATINUM BLONDE PARTY for Alasdair ’s bir thday at 8 30pm with a surprise performance Turn up in a wig in a shade of platinum you’ll win a free shop of Tuaca, Sambuca or tequila
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sun (27) is A PERFECT 10 doggy bir thday par ty for Dexter and Taylor with liver bir thday cake and doggy treats for your four-legged friend from 4pm Bar Broadway say: “Bar Broadway’s resident hounds are sharing a birthday party Dexter turns one on Jan 21 and Taylor turns nine years young on Feb 1 – a perfect 10 years between them To celebrate, we’re inviting puppies, dogs and their owners (if they can behave themselves), to come along and enjoy an doggy birthday party!”
l REGUL ARS Sun THE FIREPLACE SESSIONS PRESENTS at 8.30pm: Wain Douglas aka Kara Van Park (6), Chris Hide (13), Jason Lee (20) and Allan Jay (27) l Tue is PIANO SINGALONG for people of all ages to sing or enjoy the live music 9pm l Wed is Tabitha’s BLANKETY BLANK from 9pm Win up to £100 cash at the game show that makes you feel all BLANK inside! l Thur is Broadway’s BIG QUIZ with host R oss Cameron, great prizes, including cash, from 8.30pm l Sat (12) is BROADWAY REMIXED in the Broadway Lounge with R oss Cameron playing your favourite Broadway numbers with an up-tempo beat
l HORSE FAIR@BRIGHTON SAUNA roleplay/fetish night: stable lads, stallions & mares - www jamiehp co uk 9pm
l MARINE TAVERN Throwback Thursday 80s Night 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE World Music: Son Guaranchando 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Stephanie Von Clitz 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Karaoke/Open Mic with Jason Thorpe 8pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS Mitch & Paul’s Quiz & Chilli 8pm
FRIDAY 4
l AFFINITY BAR Friday Funhouse 6pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY 7 Upstairs 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY 50 Shades of Platinum Blonde: Alasdair’s Bir thday with surprise guest 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Glitter: DJ David Noakes 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Friday Club 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fabulous Friday: DJ Morgan Fabulous 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Davina Sparkle 9 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret & more 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN cabaret: Pat Clutcher 9pm
l PARIS HOUSE DJ Havoxx 9pm
BAR 7 & THE LOUNGE CRAWLEY
l 7 Pegler Way, Crawley, RH11 7AG, Tel: 01293 511177, www 7crawley co uk
l OPEN daily from 6pm
l DRINK PROMOS Tue, Wed, Fri, Sat & Sun drink deals all night
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri is 7-UPSTAIRS with allstar DJs playing pop/dance/guilty pleasures at 8pm, free b4 11pm
l REGUL ARS Sat is par ty time at SUBMISSIVE
SATURDAY with tunes at 9pm, free b4 11pm l Sun is KARAOKE from 6pm l Tue is CREWSDAY with DJ Lewis Osborne from 7pm l Wed is MIDWEEK CHILL from 7 30pm l Thur is WEEKEND WARM-UP with DJ Lewis Osborne from 7pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Gabriella Parrish 10pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Tranmere or Stockpor t v Spurs
7.45pm
l ZONE cabaret: Spice 10pm
SATURDAY 5
l AFFINITY BAR Camp Cabaret: Pat Butcher 6pm; karaoke: Pat Clutcher 7pm
l AMSTERDAM Karaoke: Jason Thorpe
9.30pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Submissive Saturday 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 4pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Fusion: DJ Peter Castle 11pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fierce: DJ Grant Knowles 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Jason Lee 9 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Pre-club DJ 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN Saturday Club 4pm
l PARIS HOUSE Live jazz: Abi Flynn
Trio 4pm; TC’s Joyful Noise: DJ Kenny 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS double cabaret: Poppycock 6pm, Dave Lynn 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN cabaret: Spice 9pm
l THE STABLE@LONDON WC2 Total
Fekkin Nude: naked par ty 9pm
l SUBLINE The Men’s Room: DJ Screwpulous 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Man Utd v Reading 12 30pm
l ZONE cabaret: Davina Sparkle 10pm
BOUTIQUE
l 2 Boyces St, West St, BN11AN, 01273 327607 www.boutiqueclubbrighton.com
l OPEN 8pm–late Fri & Sat, closed Fri (4) & Sat (5)
l DRINK PROMOS Fri: bottles of Moet £50, Stoli with mixers £50, 4 tequilas £10, 4 Sambucas £10
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri (11) is NEW YEAR , NEW YOU PARTY with DJ Oli serving up the tunes, free entry when quoting Gscene on the door before midnight
l REGUL ARS Fri is PARTY TIME with DJ Oli helping you unwind with the best tunes back to back! Quote Gscene on the door every week for free entry b4 midnight
l SATURDAY NIGHT FEVER with new drinks menu, new vibe and new beats from superstar DJ Franco Mix it up with free cocktail masterclasses in bar 2 every week from 8pm; free shot drops every hour on Sat (19); win a VIP booth giveaway for groups of 15+ on Sat (26) Boutique say: “Anything goes at our new night created for the most eclectic crowd in Brighton with DJ Franco showing you how it is done!”
SUNDAY 6
l AFFINITY BAR cabaret: Son of a Tutu 5pm
l AMSTERDAM cabaret: Jason Lee 5pm; roasts 12pm-till gone
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY karaoke 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Fireplace Sessions:: Wain Douglas aka Kara Van Park 8.30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Pop!Candy DJ Claire Fuller 9pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Bear Bash: free food & raffle 5pm; roasts & select menu 12pm–till gone
l CHARLES ST TAP cabaret: host Spice
+ Lola Lasagne 7.30pm; Sally’s Rock & Roll Bingo 8 30pm; roasts 12pm
l FIRE & LIGHTBOX@LONDON SW8
Stark Bollock Naked: naked par ty 2pm; gay adult movie stars: Kai Davis & Korar Darver 5pm; Near Bollock Naked: underwear/jock strap par ty 6pm
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret: Lady Imelda 3.30pm; roasts 12.30–4pm
l MARINE TAVERN roasts 12-5pm; Drag Open Mic: Stephanie Von Clitz 9pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Fleur De Paris 6pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS double cabaret: Miss Penny 6.30pm & 10pm
CAMELFORD ARMS
l 30-31 Camelford St, BN2 1TQ, Tel: 01273 622386, www camelfordarms com
l OPEN daily from 12pm The Camelford is dog friendly
l FOOD Mon–Sat 12–9pm; Sunday roasts and select
menu served 12pm–till gone; seniors’ lunch Wed
2–3 30pm, two courses £9 50
l NEW YEARS DAY Tue (1) is the NEW YEAR’S DAY HANGOVER PARTY from 12pm – Bloody Mary anyone?
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri (25) is BURNS NIGHT SPECIAL with Haggis, Neeps & Tatties from 12pm
l REGUL ARS Thur is BIG CASH QUIZ at 9pm with £300 cash prize, free sarnies and great atmosphere l Thur (8) is £300 Big Cash Guide Dogs Charity Quiz Night at 9pm l Sun is the BEAR BASH with free food and a raffle at 5pm
l REGENCY TAVERN roasts 12-6pm
l SUBLINE Guilty Pleasures: DJ Screwpulous 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Woking v Watford 2pm, W rexham or Newpor t v Leicester City 4 30pm
MONDAY 7
l AFFINITY BAR All Day Karaoke
12pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Classics Jukebox 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Gaymers Night: consoles, board/card games 8 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Miss Jason’s Monday Madness 9.30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Nuts Poker League: registration 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live jazz: 50th Anniversary Gig - the Al Nicholls Quintet 2pm; Andy Panayi Trio 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: It’s Me, Spice 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Wolves v Liverpool 7.45pm
TUESDAY 8
l AFFINITY BAR Free Jukebox 12pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Crewsday: DJ Lewis Osborne 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Piano Singalong 9pm
l MARINE TAVERN Curry & Quiz with Nat 7.30pm
l PARIS HOUSE live blues: Smokestack 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS An Evening with the Brighton Belle: Miss Lola Lasagne 9 30pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Quiz 8pm
WEDNESDAY 9
l AFFINITY BAR Quiz: Jason Thorpe 7pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Midweek Chill 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Tabitha’s Blankety Blank 9pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Ice: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Seniors’ lunch 2-3.30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Pink Pound 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Geoff Simkins Trio 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS Sally Vate Show 10pm
l SUBLINE Floss: candyfloss/electro /pop-up performance/visual ar t 10pm
THURSDAY 10
l AFFINITY BAR new night with music, games & more - see FB/Instagram 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Weekend WarmUp 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Big Quiz: Ross
Cameron & prizes 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Now That’s What I Call Legends with DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
CHARLES STREET TAP
l 8 Marine Parade, BN2 1TA, Tel: 01273 624091, www.charles-street.com
l OPEN daily from 10am, from 11am on New Year ’s Day
l FOOD daily from 10am–10pm, inc: breakfasts from 10am; 2-4-1 burgers on Tue till 10pm: choose any two burgers and get cheapest free; Sticky Wings Wed: 10 chicken of cauliflower vegan wings for £3; fresh homemade Sunday roasts from 12pm: hand carved roast beef or turkey £8 75, roast lamb shank £10 75
l DRINK PROMOS all cocktails £4 95 Mon–Thur 5–8pm, £4 a pint on craft/cask world beers (everything apar t from Fosters and cider) on Mon, bottles of Prosecco £15 all night & half price drinks 5–9pm on Fri, Sunday Craft Club: any two craft cans or bottles £6 from 5pm
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tues (1) enjoy hear ty breakfasts served from 11am
l ONE FOR THE DIARY FABULOUS FRIDAYS with DJ Morgan Fabulous spinning delicious anthems to kick star t your weekend from 9pm Fri (25) is Burns Night Special!
DJ Morgan Fabulous says: “Fabulous Fridays is our start to the weekend! I love playing whatever the crowd desires, from commercial d&b/ r&b/dance anthems, and sometimes a little cheese mixed in! Something for all tastes Expect a mixed, relaxed and friendly atmosphere and don’t hesitate to come and say hello and request your favourite tune! Fabulous people, fabulous drink offers and fabulous music!”
l OPEN Tue–Fri 3pm, Sat & Sun 2pm, closed (1–3) The Crown Kemptown is a dog friendly pub Available to hire for private par ties – ask inside or call for more details
l DRINK PROMOS daily specials, pop in for more info
l TWO FOR THE DIARY Friday and Saturday: GET DOWN to disco and 80s classics from 6pm
l BOUTIQUE New Year, New You: DJ Oli 8pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Friday Club 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fabulous Friday: DJ Morgan Fabulous 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Davina Sparkle 9 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret & more 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE Live jazz: L’ Escargots Trois 4pm; TC’s Joyful Noise: DJ Kenny 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS double cabaret: Poppycock 6pm, Lola Lasagne 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN cabaret: Drag With No Name 9pm
l THE STABLE@LONDON WC2 Total Fekkin Nude: naked par ty 9pm
l SUBLINE The Men’s Room: DJ Screwpulous 9pm
l REGUL ARS Mon is GAYMERS night with Nintendo, Playstation and Xbox retro video game goodness from 8 30pm Plus: everything from board games, card games and tournaments Everyone welcome and take along a game you want to play! l THROWBACK THURSDAY with 00s/guilty pleasures/90s retro anthems 9pm l Sat is FIERCE with Brighton’s best DJs throwing out dance /house anthems 9pm: Grant Knowles (5 & 19), R ob D (12) and Claire Fuller (26) l Sun CABARET hosted by Spice at 7 30pm with: Lola Lasagne (6), Spice (13), Davina Sparkle (20) and Kara Van Park (27)
l CAMELFORD ARMS £300 Big Cash Quiz 9pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Throwback
Thursday 9pm
l GROSVENOR BAR Abel Mabel’s Bingo 8 30pm
l POOL PARTY@BRIGHTON SAUNA
H-Par tyboys event for 18-40 year old guys
7.30pm Free membership @ www jamiehp co uk
l MARINE TAVERN Throwback
Thursday 80s Night 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE World music: Pollito Boogaloo 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Davina
Sparkle 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Karaoke/Open
Mic with Jason Thorpe 8pm
l SUBLINE Joystick Jockeys: gaymers night 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS Mitch & Paul’s Quiz & Chilli 8pm
FRIDAY 11
l AFFINITY BAR Friday Funhouse 6pm
l AMSTERDAM cabaret: Dave Lynn 9 30pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY 7 Upstairs 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 5pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Glitter: DJ David Noakes 11pm
l MARINE TAVERN cabaret: Miss Tish Ewe 9pm
l PARIS HOUSE DJ Havoxx 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Mar tha D’Ar thur 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN CABA Regency: students/graduates perform 8pm
l SUBLINE Dir ty Tackle: spor ts kit 9pm
l ZONE cabaret: Miss Jason 10pm
SATURDAY 12
l AFFINITY BAR Camp Cabaret: Pat Butcher 6pm; karaoke: Pat Clutcher 7pm
l AMSTERDAM Karaoke with Jason Thorpe 9 30pm; Broadway Remixed @Broadway Lounge: Ross Cameron 11pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Submissive Saturday 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 4pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Fusion: DJ Peter Castle 11pm
l BOUTIQUE Saturday Night Fever: DJ Francp 8pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fierce: DJ Rob D 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Dave Lynn 9 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Pre-club DJ 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN Saturday Club 4pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS Pre Home Match Warm Up: Brighton v Liverpool 1pm; live football: West Ham v Arsenal 12.30pm, Chelsea v Newcastle 5.30pm
l ZONE cabaret: Sally Vate 10pm
SUNDAY 13
l AFFINITY BAR cabaret: Stephanie Von Clitz 5pm
l AMSTERDAM cabaret: Dave the Bear 5pm; roasts 12pm-till gone
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY karaoke 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Fireplace Sessions present: Chris Hide 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Pop!Candy DJ Claire Fuller 9pm
l BRUNSWICK PUB El GeeBee Tea Queue: Paul Diello/LGBT+ talent 7 30pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Bear Bash, free food & raffle 5pm; roasts & select menu 12pm–till gone
l CHARLES ST TAP cabaret: Spice
7 30pm; Sally’s Rock & Roll Bingo
8 30pm; roasts 12pm
l FIRE & LIGHTBOX@LONDON SW8 Stark Bollock Naked: naked par ty 2pm; gay adult movie stars: Leo Rex & Orson Deane 5pm; Near Bollock Naked: underwear/jockstrap par ty 6pm
G R O S V E N O R B A R
l 16 Western Street, Hove, BN1 2PG, www.thegrosvenorbar.com
l OPEN Mon–Fri 3pm–late
l DRINK PROMOS Mon–Fri 3–6pm
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Friday CABARET with Davina
Sparkle lighting up the stage every week from 9 30pm Davina is one of the UK's top drag queens who has performed in the UK and Europe, and even as far afield as the USA and Asia! Her act is completely live with jokes, outrageous humour, patter and song, all tied together with fabulous patter and new twists on old camp
l REGUL ARS Thur (excl 3) is ABEL MABEL’S BINGO at 8 30pm l Sat is top CABARET at 9 30pm: Jason Lee (5), Dave Lynn (12), Trudi Styles & the Piano Man (19) and Miss Jason (26)
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret: Miss Penny
3 30pm; roasts 12 30–4pm
l MARINE TAVERN roasts 12-5pm; Drag Open Mic: Stephanie Von Clitz 9pm
l PARIS HOUSE Shirley Bassey Tribute from Sam Chara 6pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Ever ton v Bournemouth 2.15pm, Spurs v Man Utd 4.30pm
MONDAY 14
l AFFINITY BAR All Day Karaoke 12pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Classics Jukebox 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Gaymers Night: consoles, board/card games 8.30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Miss Jason’s Monday Madness 9 30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Nuts Poker League: registration 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live jazz: Nils SolbergMick Hamer Trio 2pm; Sarah Oschlag Trio & band 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: It’s Me, Spice 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Man City v Wolves 8pm
TUESDAY 15
l AFFINITY BAR Free Jukebox 12pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Crewsday: DJ Lewis Osborne 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Piano Singalong 9pm
l MARINE TAVERN Curry & Quiz with Nat 7 30pm
l PARIS HOUSE live blues: Dr Mike Blues 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS An Evening with the Brighton Belle: Miss Lola Lasagne 9 30pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Quiz 8pm
WEDNESDAY 16
l AFFINITY BAR Quiz: Jason Thorpe 7pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Midweek Chill 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Tabitha’s Blankety Blank 9pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Ice: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Seniors’ lunch
2-3.30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Pink Pound 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Paul Richards & band 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS Sally Vate Show 10pm
l SUBLINE Floss: candy floss/electro music/pop-up performance/visual ar t 9pm
JAMIE HP EVENTS BRIGHTON SAUNA
l 75 Grand Parade, BN2 9JA
l INFO Visit www jamiehp co uk for free membership, discount entry and special invites The sauna is closed to the general public during H-Par tyboys and Horse Fair events and they have the full run of the venue, including the steam room, jacuzzi, adult cinema and darkrooms Over 100 guys are expected to attend
l ONE FOR THE DIARY HORSE FAIR: Thurs (3) 9pm–2am the role-play fantasy night where willing mares offer themselves to dominant stallions, without showing their faces Expect fit, athletic guys 18+, as well as muscled studs and classical ’real men’ more familiar with the traditional fetish scene! Choose your role and let them know you’d like to attend online: www.jamiehp.co.uk Entry £15 includes first drink and locker
l ONE FOR THE DIARY H-Par tyboys’ legendary POOL PARTY Thur (10) 8pm–2am exclusively for fit, good looking lads 18-40 in trunks, towels or less Bring your hottest swimwear and chill with the sexiest boys on the south coast Entry £15 includes first drink and locker facilities Apply for an invitation at www jamiehp co uk and navigate to the Pool Par ty option to be texted a password to get access on the door
JAMIE HP EVENTS LONDON
l INFO Visit www jamiehp co uk for free membership, discount entry/special invites
FIRE & LIGHTBOX
l 6a South Lambeth Place, SW8 1SP
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tues (1) is SBN v NBN New Year special from 2pm
l REGUL ARS Sundays are SBN (Stark Bollock Naked) crammed with 350–450 sexy gay/bi guys from London and beyond, plus dark rooms, beds, slings, pop/ commercial house 2pm; gay adult film stars at 5pm: Kai Davis & Korar Dar ver (6), Leo R ex & Orson Deane (13), Dave London & John Thomas (20) and Ollie King & Bob Steel (27) If you’re shy, or prefer men in pants, NBN (Near Bollock Naked) follows at 6pm
THE STABLE
l 29 Endell St, Covent Garden, London WC2H 9BA
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sat (19) is HORSE FAIR from 9pm (9 20pm stallions) with over 150 fit, athletic guys 18+ Entry: £15 incl coat check and first drink
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Thur (31) is H Par tyboys POOL PARTY for fit, goodlooking men at 7 30pm Expect a carefully vetted guestlist of nearly 200 guys in trunks, towels or nothing at all To apply: https://jamiehp co uk/nights/pool-par ty/
l REGUL ARS Sat (excl 19) TOTAL FEKKIN NUDE naked par ty for gay/bi men, 9pm
THURSDAY 17
l AFFINITY BAR new night with music, games & more - see FB/Instagram 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Weekend WarmUp 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Big Quiz: Ross Cameron & prizes 8.30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Now
That’s What I Call Legends: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS £300 Big Cash Quiz 9pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Throwback Thursday 9pm
l GROSVENOR BAR Abel Mabel’s Bingo 8 30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Throwback Thursday 80s Night 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE World Music: Tres Amigos 8pm
L E G E N D S B A R
l 31-34 Marine Parade, BN2 1TR, T: 01273 624462, www legendsbrighton com
l OPEN daily from 11–5am
l FOOD Mon–Sat 11am–5pm, Sunday lunch 12 30–4pm: choose beef, belly pork, chicken supreme or nut roast with roast potatoes, seasonal vegetables, homemade Yorkshire pud and real stock gravy Make sure you leave room for desser t
l DRINK PROMOS Buy 1 bottle of wine, get 2nd half price, Mon–Fri 12–11pm
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Monday is the return of Miss Jason’s MONDAY MADNESS from 9 30pm Expect improv and quick wit from Miss Jason, one of the funniest, and definitely the biggest, stars of the cabaret stage Jason has been enter taining audiences across the country with his hysterical cabaret show for years and you can expect jokes on everyday situations, combined with wonderful songs Miss Jason says: “I never plan my show, it's fun for me to see what happens on the night I do what ever comes into my mind, which all depends on how much I've had to drink! The more raucous the crowd the more I like it! Come along and see what happens ”
l REGUL ARS Friday: new night coming January with all your favourite CABARET and more from 7pm l Sat with Pre- Club sounds from 7pm l Sun CABARET at 3 30pm: Lady Imelda (6), Miss Penny (13), Mar tha D’Ar thur (20) and Kandi Kane Baxter (27) Comic creation of Charlie Hides, Kandi Kane Baxter (27) became rich by marrying a string of geriatric millionaires before turning her hand to ruthlessly bitchy comedy The cabaret diva treads the boards in the UK's finest cabaret showrooms and back alley bistros Not to be missed!
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Kara Van Park 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Karaoke/Open
Mic with Jason Thorpe 8pm
l SUBLINE Brace Yourself 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS Mitch & Paul’s Quiz & Chilli 8pm
FRIDAY 18
l AFFINITY BAR Friday Funhouse 6pm
l AMSTERDAM cabaret: Sally Vate
9 30pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY 7 Upstairs 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 5pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Glitter: DJ David Noakes 11pm
l BOUTIQUE DJ Oli 8pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Friday Club
6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fabulous Friday:
DJ Morgan Fabulous 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco
6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Davina
Sparkle 9.30pm
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret & more 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN Gay Gong Awards 2019: host Candi Rell 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE DJ Havoxx 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Stephanie
Von Clitz 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Angels Reunited
Psychic Evening: tickets at bar 8pm
l SUBLINE Filth: mixed full fetish 10pm
l ZONE cabaret: Stone & Street 10pm
SATURDAY 19
l AFFINITY BAR Camp Cabaret: Pat
Butcher 6pm; karaoke: Pat Clutcher 7pm
l AMSTERDAM Karaoke with Jason Thorpe 9 30pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Submissive Saturday 9pm
L E G E N D S B A S E M E N T C L U B
l 31-34 Marine Parade, BN2 1TR, T: 01273 624462, www legendsbrighton com
l OPEN Wed–Sun 11pm
l DRINK PROMOS various deals on Sun, select bottles £2 50 and house spirit & mixer £2 50 on Wed, £2 50 select drinks on Thur
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tues (1) the NEW YEAR RECOVERY PARTY with tunes to perk you up from 11pm, free entry Basement Club say: “Recover from the biggest party of the year with a mix of dance, chart and classic pop tracks ”
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sun is POP!CANDY with DJ Claire Fuller’s pick & mix of new/retro pop tunes Basement Club say: “Sunday is Funday at the Basement Club with DJ Claire playing sugar coated pop/char/Disney all mixed together to create a night of pure fun!”
l REGUL ARS Sat is FUSION with DJ Peter Castle char t /club remixes l Wed is ICE with DJ Claire Fuller melting the dancefloor with char t/house/r&b l Thur is NOW THAT’S WHAT I CALL LEGENDS with DJ Claire Fuller taking you through the 70s/80s/90s! l Fri is GLIT TER with DJ David Noakes sparkling up the dance floor with char t/dance tracks
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 4pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Fusion: DJ Peter Castle 11pm
l BOUTIQUE Saturday Night Fever: DJ Franco 8pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fierce: DJ Grant Knowles 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Trudi Styles & the Piano Man 9 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Pre-club DJ 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN Saturday Club 4pm
l PARIS HOUSE All that Jazz: Sam Carelse Trio 4pm; TC’s Joyful Noise: DJ Kenny 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS double cabaret: Poppycock 6pm, Terry Tour 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN cabaret: Electric Blue 9pm
l THE STABLE@LONDON WC2 Horse Fair: roleplay/fetish: stable lads, stallions & mares - www jamiehp co uk 9pm
M A R I N E T A V E R N
l 13 Broad St, BN2 1TJ, Tel: 01273 905578, www marinetavern co uk
l OPEN daily from 12pm
l FOOD daily from 12–9pm: CURRY & QUIZ on Tue from 7 30pm (quiz star ts 9pm), roasts every Sunday 12–5pm, booking advised
l DRINK PROMOS Wed is Pink Pound night with drinks from £1
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tue (1) is HOGMANAY HANGOVER with Stephanie Von Clitz and R usty Vajazzle at 9pm
l FOUR FOR THE DIARY Fri (4) CABARET with Pat Clutcher at 9pm; (11) Miss Tish Ewe at 9pm Sassy, vocal power house, Miss Tish Ewe says: “Get ready for a night of pure filth! Be prepared for crass parodies, songs, rude gags and a special serving of minge! Brighton stand by the Bitch with the Itch has arrived!”
l Fri (18) the GAY GONG AWARDS 2019 hosted by Candi R ell at 8pm l Fri (25) the BIG CHARITY REVEAL night for MindOut at 8pm
l REGUL ARS Sun is DRAG OPEN MIC hosted by Stephanie Von Clitz at 9pm
l Mon is NUTS POKER LEAGUE with registration from 7pm, all welcome
l SUBLINE The Men’s Room: DJ
Screwpulous 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Wolves v Leicester City 12 30pm, Arsenal v Chelsea 5 30pm
l ZONE cabaret: Topsie Redfern 10pm
SUNDAY 20
l AFFINITY BAR cabaret: Dave Lynn 5pm
l AMSTERDAM cabaret: Jamie Watson
5pm; roasts 12pm-till gone
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY karaoke 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Fireplace Sessions
P A R I S H O U S E
pres: Jason Lee 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Pop!Candy DJ Claire Fuller 9pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Bear Bash: free food/raffle 5pm; roasts/select menu 12pm–till gone
l CHARLES ST TAP cabaret: host
Spice & Davina Sparkle 7 30pm; Sally’s Rock & Roll Bingo 8 30pm; roasts 12pm
l FIRE & LIGHTBOX@LONDON SW8
Stark Bollock Naked: naked par ty 2pm; gay adult film stars: Dave London & John Thomas 5pm; Near Bollock Naked: underwear/jockstrap par ty 6pm
l 21 Western Rd, BN3 1AF, T: 01273 724195, www parishousebrighton com
l OPEN daily from 12pm; closed New Year’s Day l FOOD daily 12pm–close
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Mon free live jazz at 2pm: 50th Anniversary Gig with Al Nicholls Quintet (7), Nils Solberg-Mick Hamer Trio (14, 21 & 28); then 8pm: Andy Panayi Trio (7), Sarah Oschlag Trio (14), Chris Coull (21), Oli Howe Trio (28)
l REGUL ARS Sun live music 6pm: Fleur de Paris (6), Sam Chara (13), Dave Williams (20) and Marilyn du Sax (27) l Tue live music 8pm: Smokestack (8), Dr Mike Blues (15), Scott Mills (22) and Harr y Hornsey & Alfie Barnardi (29) l Wed live acts 8pm: Luke R attenbur y (2), Geoff Simkins (9), Paul Richards (16), Gabriel Garrick (23) and Terr y Seabrook (30) l Thurs WORLD MUSIC 8pm: Son Guaranchando (3), Pollito Boogaloo (10), Tres Amigos (17), Babou with Abraham de Vega (24) and Tudo Bem (31) l Fri PARTY TIME with DJ Havoxx at 9pm l Sat AND ALL THAT JAZZ live at 4pm: Abi Flynn Trio (5), L’Escargots Trio (12), Sam Carlese Trio (19) and Lawrence Jones Trio (26); TC'S JOYFUL NOISE with DJ Kenny at 9pm, free
Q U E E N S A R M S
l 7 George St, BN2 1RH, T: 01273 696873, www theqabrighton com
l OPEN 5pm Mon–Fri, 2pm Sat & Sun
l NEW YEAR’S DAY Tue (1) is the NEW YEAR’S DAY HANGOVER SHOW with the Brighton Belle herself, Lola Lasagne, from 9 30pm
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri CABARET at 10pm: Gabriella Parrish (4), Mar tha D’Ar thur (11), Stephanie Von Clitz (18) and Mrs Moore (25) Multi award-winning cabaret star and “voice of a thousand fags” Mrs Moore (25) brings banter and theatre to every stage She says: “Mrs Moore is just a camp extension of myself She’s a child of the 1970s brought up on light entertainment and a throwback to vaudeville It takes a lot of work to sound this husky! I describe myself as Marti Caine on acid, a woman who could sing a beautiful song, then tell a terrible joke followed by another number surrounded by backing dancers! That s what I try to do, though without the dancers as the budget doesn’t stretch that far Pop down and see me, if you’re lucky I might buy fresh tights!”
l REGUL ARS Mon is “IT’S ME, SPICE” on stage from 9pm l Tue is AN EVENING WITH Lola Lasagne, from 9 30pm l Wed is the SALLY VATE SHOW at 10pm l Thur is CABARET at 10pm: Stephanie Von Clitz (3), Davina Sparkle (10), Kara Van Park (17), Drag With No Name (24) and Miss Jason (31)
l Sat is a double helping of top CABARET with Poppycock every week at 6pm; then at 10pm: Dave Lynn (5), Lola Lasagne (12), Terr y Tour (19) and Allan Jay (26) l Sun DOUBLE CABARET at 6.30pm & 10pm: Miss Penny (6), Cherr y Liquor (13), Fanny Burns (20) and Son of a Tutu (27)
l QA’S GOT TALENT Do you have a talent? Think you can light up the stage? QA'S GOT TALENT returns in Februar y and March To apply, pick up an application form at the bar or send a Facebook message to Queen’s Arms Brighton
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret: Mar tha
D’Ar thur 3 30pm; roasts 12 30–4pm
l MARINE TAVERN roasts 12-5pm; Drag Open Mic: Stephanie Von Clitz 9pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Dave Williams & band 6pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Huddersfield v Man City 1.30pm, Fulham v Spurs 4pm
MONDAY 21
l AFFINITY BAR All Day Karaoke 12pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Classics Jukebox 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Gaymers Night: consoles, board/card games 8 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Miss Jason’s Monday Madness 9.30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Nuts Poker League: registration 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live jazz: Nils SolbergMick Hamer Trio 2pm; Chris Coull & band 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: It’s Me, Spice 9pm
TUESDAY 22
l AFFINITY BAR Free Jukebox 12pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Crewsday: DJ Lewis Osborne 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Piano Singalong 9pm
THE
SATURDAY
CABARET
CABARET
R E G E N C Y T A V E R N
l 32-34 Russell Sq, Brighton BN1 2EF T: 01273 325 652, www regencytavern co uk
l OPEN Sun–Wed 12–11pm, Thur 12pm–12am, Fri & Sat 12pm–1am The Regency Tavern is dog friendly and offers great enter tainment, warm and friendly staff and delicious food
l FOOD Tue–Sat 12–8pm, Sunday roasts 12–6pm: two for £19 95, booking recommended
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri (18) is the ANGELS REUNITED Psychic Evening from 8pm, tickets available at the bar
l REGUL ARS Tue (29) is the MONTHLY QUIZ at 8pm
l Thur is KARAOKE/ OPEN MIC with host Jason Thorpe at 8pm l Fri (11 & 25) is CABA REGENCY with some of the best talent that Brighton’s student and recently graduated community has to offer from 8pm l Sat has top-flight enter tainment at 9pm, free entry all night This month’s line-up: Spice (5), Drag With No Name (12), Electric Blue (19) and Kara Van Park (26) Electric Blue (19) says: “The Queen of Skegness returns to the Regency and there isn’t a camp classic she doesn’t know so get ready for a night of anthems, tales of failed romance, sambucca and laughs!”
l MARINE TAVERN Curry & Quiz with Nat 7.30pm
l PARIS HOUSE live blues: Scott Mills 2pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS An Evening with the Brighton Belle: Miss Lola Lasagne 9 30pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Quiz 8pm
WEDNESDAY 23
l AFFINITY BAR Quiz: Jason Thorpe 7pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka
Pat Clutcher) 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Midweek Chill 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Tabitha’s Blankety Blank 9pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Ice: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l MARINE TAVERN Pink Pound 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Gabriel Garrick 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS Sally Vate Show 10pm
l SUBLINE Floss: candy floss/electro/ pop-up performance/ visual ar t 9pm
THURSDAY 24
l AFFINITY BAR new night with music, games & more - see FB/Instagram 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Weekend WarmUp 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Big Quiz: Ross Cameron & prizes 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Now That’s What I Call Legends: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS £300 Big Cash Quiz 9pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Throwback Thursday 9pm
l GROSVENOR BAR Abel Mabel’s Bingo 8 30pm
R O T T I N G D E A N C L U B
l 89 High St, Rottingdean, BN2 7HE, Tel: 01273 309529 f therottingdeanclub
l OPEN R ottingdean Club is closed Wed (2) and reopens Tue (8)
l FOOD served daily; ask at the bar for full menu
l MEMBERS The R ottingdean Club, a members’ bar in the hear t of the village, the perfect place to meet friends and clients, work remotely with a coffee or mix with likeminded members With regular enter tainment, a large garden with lager and cider on draught and free Wi-Fi, the Rottingdean Club is a unique venue so pop in and ask at the bar for membership details The Rottingdean Club says: "We’re a private members’ bar where there’s always a warm welcome We offer the comforts of a traditional pub with modern standards of service and superb food!”
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Fri (25) is BURNS NIGHT with themed food from 6pm, and Jason Lee at 9pm Rottingdean Club say: “Join us on Burns Night for a little bit of Haggis with Neeps & Tatties and a lot of Mr Jason Lee ”
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sat (26) is an evening of Buddy Holly v The Beatles music with Stevie Brown, a multi-talented musician, from 8pm l REGUL ARS Tue is QUIZ night at 8pm, £1 pp l Tue (29) & Wed (30) fundraising Quizzes for the R ottingdean Smugglers’ annual event All ticket monies will be going to the fund, quizzes star t 7pm Entry is £5 per person, you must book a table: pop in, text Phil on 07426810809, or call 01273309529 For anyone who becomes a member on the night, Rottingdean Club will donate £5 to the fund from the subscription fee Rottingdean Club say: “This year the Rottingdean Smugglers have set up fundraising to reach the £15k needed for Smugglers 2019 to happen In conjunction with Tracy Jones, The White Family and The Paynes, we want to raise as much as possible - we’re a small venue so please get in early Come on guys let’s make #smugglers2019 happen!”
l MARINE TAVERN Throwback Thursday 80s Night 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE World Music: Babou with Abraham de Vega 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Drag With No Name 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Karaoke/Open Mic with Jason Thorpe 8pm
l SUBLINE Brace Yourself 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS Mitch & Paul’s Quiz & Chilli 8pm
FRIDAY 25
l AFFINITY BAR Friday Funhouse 6pm
l AMSTERDAM Burns Night Supper: check website for more info; cabaret: Kara Van Park 9.30pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY 7 Upstairs 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 5pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Glitter: DJ David Noakes 11pm
l BOUTIQUE DJ Oli 8pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Burns Night specials 12pm; Friday Club 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fabulous Fridays: DJ Morgan Fabulous 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Davina
Sparkle 9 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret & more 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN Charity Reveal Night for MindOut 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE DJ Havoxx 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Mrs Moore 10pm
S U B L I N E
l 129 St James' St, BN2 1TH, T: 01273 624100, www.sublinebrighton.co.uk
l OPEN Sun, Wed & Thur from 9pm, 10pm Fri & Sat, closed (1–4)
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sat (26) LEATHERMEN SOUTH brings together the leathermen of Sussex, Surrey, Kent and fur ther afield, entry free in leather/rubber or £5 Leathermen South say: “ We aim to build and support the local Gay Leather community, provide a regular place to meet in gear to indulge our shared interests and for our own mutual enjoyment We meet in Brighton's premier gay fetish club, with a top resident local DJ, friendly bar staff, coat check, changing room with lockers and dark cruising areas We don’t enforce a strict dress code policy - this is to encourage guys with leather interests and newbies to the fetish scene who don't own much gear to come and try it out, but we do encourage you to wear as much leather as you can!”
l REGUL ARS Wed is FLOSS, the queer, progressive, open and alternative experience with free candy floss, electronic music, pop-up performance and visual ar t; experience joy and rapture from 10pm, £5 on the door with proof of event share l Thur (10) is JOYSTICK JOCKEYS gaymers night 9pm l Fri (11) is DIRTY TACKLE spor tswear night, £3 in kit/£5 otherwise l Fri (18) is FILTH full fetish par ty, advance tickets available l Sat is THE MEN’S ROOM with DJ Screwpulous from 10pm l Sun (27) CUM IN YOUR PANTS underwear par ty, £3/£5
l REGENCY TAVERN CABA Regency: students/graduates perform 8pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Burns Night: themed food 6pm, Jason Lee live 9pm
l SUBLINE Steam 9pm
l ZONE cabaret: Marsha Mallow 10pm
SATURDAY 26
l AFFINITY BAR Camp Cabaret: Pat Butcher 6pm; karaoke: Pat Clutcher 7pm
l AMSTERDAM Karaoke with Jason Thorpe 9 30pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Submissive Saturday 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Jukebox 4pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Fusion: DJ Peter Castle 11pm
l BOUTIQUE Saturday Night Fever: DJ Franco 8pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Fierce: DJ Claire Fuller 9pm
l CROWN KEMPTOWN 80s disco 6pm
l GROSVENOR BAR cabaret: Miss Jason 9.30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Pre-club DJ 7pm
l MARINE TAVERN Saturday Club 4pm
l PARIS HOUSE Live jazz: Lawrence Jones trio 4pm; TC’s Joyful Noise: DJ Kenny 9pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS double cabaret: Poppycock 6pm, Allan Jay 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN cabaret: Kara Van Park 8pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Buddy Holly v The Beatles with Stevie Brown 8pm
l THE STABLE@LONDON WC2 Total Fekkin Nude: naked par ty 9pm
l SUBLINE Leathermen South 10pm
l ZONE cabaret: Sally Vate 10pm
SUNDAY 27
l AFFINITY BAR cabaret: Davina Sparkle 5pm
l AMSTERDAM cabaret: Paul Middleton 5pm; roasts 12pm-till gone
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY karaoke 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY A Perfect 10: doggy
bir thday par ty with treats 4pm; Fireplace
Sessions pres: Allan Jay 8 30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS
Pop!Candy DJ Claire Fuller 9pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS Bear Bash: free food/raffle 5pm; roasts/select menu 12pm– till gone
l OPEN Tue–Thur 4–11 30pm, Fri & Sat 12–11 30pm, Sun 1–11pm
l FOOD Indian/Sri Lankan/Pizza specials, ask at the bar for more info
l DRINK PROMOS check at the bar for details
l CHARLES ST TAP cabaret: host Spice + Kara Van Park 7.30pm; Sally’s Rock & Roll Bingo 8.30pm; roasts 12pm
l FIRE & LIGHTBOX@LONDON SW8
Stark Bollock Naked: naked par ty 2pm; gay adult movie stars: Ollie King & Bob Steel 5pm; Near Bollock Naked: underwear/jockstrap par ty 6pm
l LEGENDS BAR cabaret: Kandi Kane Baxter 3.30pm; roasts 12.30–4pm
l MARINE TAVERN roasts 12-5pm; Drag Open Mic: Stephanie Von Clitz 9pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Marilyn Du Sax & band 6pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS double cabaret: Son of a Tutu 6 30pm & 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN roasts 12-6pm
l SUBLINE Cum in Your Pants: underwear par ty 9pm
MONDAY 28
l AFFINITY BAR All Day Karaoke 12pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Classics Jukebox 6pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Gaymers Night: consoles, board/card games 8 30pm
l LEGENDS BAR Miss Jason’s Monday Madness 9 30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Nuts Poker League: registration 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live jazz: Nils SolbergMick Hamer Trio 2pm; Oli Howe Trio 8pm
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l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: It’s Me, Spice 9pm
TUESDAY 29
l AFFINITY BAR Free Jukebox 12pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Crewsday: DJ Lewis Osborne 9pm
l BAR BROADWAY Big Quiz: Ross
Cameron & prizes 8.30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Curry & Quiz with Nat 7.30pm
l PARIS HOUSE Live blues: Harry Hornsey & Alfie Barnardi 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS An Evening with the Brighton Belle: Miss Lola Lasagne 9 30pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Quiz 8pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Rottingdean Smugglers Fundraising Quiz 7pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Newcastle v Man City 8pm
WEDNESDAY 30
l AFFINITY BAR Quiz: Jason Thorpe 7pm; Karaoke with Tommy Tanker (aka Pat Clutcher) 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Midweek Chill 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Tabitha’s Blankety Blank 9pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Ice: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l MARINE TAVERN Pink Pound 7pm
l PARIS HOUSE live music: Terry Seabrook & band 8pm
R E E J O L L Y B U T C H E R S
l 59 Nor th Rd, BN1 1YD, Tel: 01273 608571, www 3jollybutchers com
l OPEN daily from 12pm
l FOOD Sat (12): Pre-Home Match Warm Up with Pie & Pint £9 before Brighton football matches; Thur: Beef or Veggie Chilli £5 incl entry to the quiz
l LIVE SPORT Live football on the big screens - see listings for fixtures
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Wed (2) is OPEN MIC with Waterbear from 9.30pm
l REGUL ARS Thur is the PUB QUIZ with Mitch & Paul at 8pm
T H E Z O N E
l 33 St James’ St, BN2 1RF, Tel: 01273 682249, www zonebrighton co uk
l OPEN 11am Sun–Thur, 10am Fri & Sat
l DRINK PROMOS all day, ever y day (excl 9pm–12 30am Fri & Sat)
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Sat CABARET with sensational acts at 10pm: Davina Sparkle (5), Sally Vate (12 & 26) and Topsie R edfern (19)
l REGUL ARS Fri CABARET at 10pm: Spice (4), Miss Jason (11), Stone & Street (18) and Marsha Mallow (25) Marsha Mallow, semi finalist in Drag Idol 2017, has worked in Gran Canaria and all over UK She is a voluptuous, quickwitted queen with a big set of lungs to match Expect skittle bomb downing, towering wigs and big belting!
l QUEEN’S ARMS Sally Vate Show 10pm
l ROT TINGDEAN CLUB Rottingdean Smugglers Fundraising Quiz 7pm
l SUBLINE Floss: candy floss/electro/ pop-up performance/visual ar t 9pm
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS live football: Liverpool v Leicester City 8pm
THURSDAY 31
l AFFINITY BAR new night: music, games & more - see FB/Instagram 8pm
l BAR 7@CRAWLEY Weekend WarmUp 7pm
l BAR BROADWAY Big Quiz: Ross Cameron & prizes 8.30pm
l BASEMENT CLUB@LEGENDS Now That’s What I Call Legends: DJ Claire Fuller 11pm
l CAMELFORD ARMS £300 Big Cash Quiz 9pm
l CHARLES ST TAP Throwback Thursday 9pm
l GROSVENOR BAR Abel Mabel’s Bingo 8 30pm
l MARINE TAVERN Throwback Thursday 80s Night 8pm
l PARIS HOUSE World Music: Tudo Bem 8pm
l QUEEN’S ARMS cabaret: Miss Jason 10pm
l REGENCY TAVERN Karaoke/open mic with Jason Thorpe 8pm
l SUBLINE Brace Yourself 9pm
l THE STABLE@LONDON WC2 HPar tyboys Pool Par ty: 18-40 year old guys 7.30pm Free membership: jamiehp co uk
l THREE JOLLY BUTCHERS Mitch & Paul’s Quiz & Chilli 8pm
THE EDGE & BOX BAR SOUTHAMPTON
l Compton Walk, SO14 0BH, Tel: 023 8036 6163, www.theedgesouthampton.com
l OPEN The Edge: daily from 10pm, closed New Year’s Day The Box Bar: daily from 7pm Tue–Sat, closed New Year’s Day
l FOOD The Box Bar: 7–10pm Tue–Sat l HAPPY HOURS The Box Bar: 2-4-1 cocktails 7–late Tue, Thur & Fri (till 8pm on Wed & Sat); The Edge: £1 selected shots & £2 selected drinks on Mon, £1 50 drinks on Wed, £1 50 singles/£3 doubles on Sun
HAMPSHIRE PORTSMOUTH
l Hampshire Terrace, Southsea, PO1 2QN, Tel: 02392 297509
l OPEN Sun & Mon 9pm, Tue–Sat 7pm; closed New Year’s Day
l DRINK DEALS selected drinks £1 50 on Mon, 2-4-1 selected drinks on Tue, till midnight on Wed (incl select doubles £3), 7–10pm on Fri, all night on Sun
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Saturday is THE BIG ONE from 10pm with three bars, two dancefloors & DJs: Missy B, KT & Neil Sackley (5), Patrick Cawley, KT & Ar thur Hutchinson (12), Luke Anthony, KT, Darcy Buckland & Claire Fuller (19) and Dave Cooper, KT & Ar thur Hutchinson (26)
l REGUL ARS Sunday is CABARET v KARAOKE with drag host Aura Jay Monday is REBOOT RELOADED with DJ Darcy Buckland l Tuesday is TIME OUT with DJ Ar thur Hutchinson spinning the best pop/r&b tunes l Wednesday is BEAUTY AND THE BALLS BINGO with host Miss Disney and prizes every round from 7pm, KARAOKE after with Bella Black 10 30pm Stick around for BAR 150 with DJs Missy B, Lee Harris & Audio K9 from 10pm l Thursday is the WHICH IS WITCH QUIZ with drag host duo Aura Jay & Bella Black at 7pm; then it’s SMART, a night dedicated to you being you, with DJ Liam Searle l Friday is GLOW with UV lights and guest DJs every week!
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BOULEVARD
1 Hampshire Terrace, Southsea TEL: 02392 297509
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Compton Walk, SO14 0BH TEL: 023 8036 6163
www theedgesouthampton com
l EDGE Compton Walk, SO14 0BH TEL: 023 8036 6163
www theedgesouthampton com
MONDAY 31 DEC
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD NYE Indoor & Outdoor Par ty 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR NYE Par ty: DJs Craig Law, Liam Searle & KT + free bubbly at 12am 9pm
l EDGE NYE Par ty: DJs Craig Law, Liam Searle & KT + free bubbly at 12am 9pm
TUESDAY 1
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD cabaret 8pm
WEDNESDAY 2
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Big Navy Night Out: Aura Jay 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Beauty and the Balls Bingo: host Miss Disney & prizes 7pm; Bella Black’s karaoke 10 30pm
l EDGE Bar 150: DJs Missy B, Lee Harris & Audio K9 10pm
THURSDAY 3
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Night on the Lashes: Lucinda Lashes/karaoke 9pm
l ONE FOR THE DIARY Saturday is new night BLANK with DJs R ob Davis & Missy B cranking up the par ty vibes with the latest char t remixes from 9pm
l REGUL ARS Thursday is A NIGHT ON THE LASHES with the legendary Lucinda Lashes hosting karaoke from 9pm l WE LOVE FRIDAYS: DJ Toby Lawrence spins tunes to get you moving, entry £3 till 11pm/£5 after l Sunday is 90S & 2KS with DJ Luke Ennor, free entry Hampshire Boulevard say: “Tonight we’re taking you back to the 90s and 00s at our brand new Sunday night party with DJ Luke Ennor playing all your guilty pleasures What better way to spend a Sunday evening!” l Monday is 20SOMETHING with banging tunes, entry £5 Tuesday is CABARET with top acts of the stage from 8pm Wednesday is BIG NAVY NIGHT OUT with host Aura- Jay’s Karaoke
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Which is Witch? quiz with drag hosts Aura Jay & Bella Black 7pm
l EDGE Smar t: DJ Liam Searle 10pm
FRIDAY 4
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD We Love Fridays: DJ Toby Lawrence 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR GLOW: DJ Mikey G 10pm
l EDGE GLOW: DJs & UV lights 11pm
SATURDAY 5
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Blank 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR The Big One: DJs 10pm
l EDGE The Big One: DJs Missy B, KT & Neil Sackley 10pm
SUNDAY 6
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 90s & 2ks: DJ Luke Ennor 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Cabaret v Karaoke with drag host Aura Jay 10pm
MONDAY 7
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 20Something 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Reboot Reloaded: DJ Darcy Buckland 10pm
TUESDAY 8
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD cabaret 8pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Time Out: DJ Ar thur Hutchinson 11pm
WEDNESDAY 9
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Big Navy Night Out: Aura Jay 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Beauty and the Balls Bingo: host Miss Disney & prizes 7pm; Bella Black’s karaoke 10 30pm
l EDGE Bar 150: DJs Missy B, Lee Harris & Audio K9 10pm
THURSDAY 10
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Night on the Lashes: Lucinda Lashes/karaoke 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Which is Witch? quiz with drag hosts Aura Jay & Bella Black 7pm l EDGE Smar t: DJ Liam Searle 10pm
FRIDAY 11
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD We Love Fridays: DJ Toby Lawrence 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR GLOW: DJ Mikey G 10pm
l EDGE GLOW: DJs & UV lights 11pm
SATURDAY 12
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Blank 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR The Big One: DJs 10pm
l EDGE The Big One: DJs Patrick Cawley, KT & Ar thur Hutchinson 10pm
SUNDAY 13
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 90s & 2ks: DJ
Luke Ennor 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Cabaret v Karaoke with drag host Aura Jay 10pm
MONDAY 14
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 20Something 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Reboot Reloaded: DJ Darcy Buckland 10pm
TUESDAY 15
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD cabaret 8pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Time Out: DJ Ar thur Hutchinson 11pm
WEDNESDAY 16
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Big Navy Night Out: Aura Jay 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Beauty and the Balls Bingo: host Miss Disney & prizes 7pm; Bella Black’s karaoke 10.30pm
l EDGE Bar 150: DJs Missy B, Lee Harris & Audio K9 10pm
THURSDAY 17
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Night on the Lashes: Lucinda Lashes/karaoke 9pm SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Which is Witch? quiz with drag hosts Aura Jay & Bella Black 7pm l EDGE Smar t: DJ Liam Searle 10pm
FRIDAY 18
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD We Love Fridays: DJ Toby Lawrence 9pm SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR GLOW: DJ Mikey G 10pm
l EDGE GLOW: DJs & UV lights 11pm
SATURDAY 19
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Blank 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR The Big One: DJs 10pm
l EDGE The Big One: DJs Luke Anthony, KT, Darcy Buckland & Claire Fuller 10pm
SUNDAY 20
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 90s & 2ks: DJ Luke Ennor 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Cabaret v Karaoke with drag host Aura Jay 10pm
MONDAY 21
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 20Something 9pm SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Reboot Reloaded: DJ Darcy Buckland 10pm
TUESDAY 22
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD cabaret 8pm SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Time Out: DJ Ar thur Hutchinson 11pm
WEDNESDAY 23
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Big Navy Night Out: Aura Jay 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Beauty and the Balls Bingo: host Miss Disney & prizes 7pm; Bella Black’s karaoke 10.30pm
l EDGE Bar 150: DJs Missy B, Lee Harris & Audio K9 10pm
THURSDAY 24
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Night on the Lashes: Lucinda Lashes/karaoke 9pm SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Which is Witch? quiz with
drag hosts Aura Jay & Bella Black 7pm
l EDGE Smar t: DJ Liam Searle 10pm
FRIDAY 25
PORTSMOUTH
L I S T I N G S
SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Reboot Reloaded: DJ Darcy Buckland 10pm
TUESDAY 29
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD We Love Fridays: DJ Toby Lawrence 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR GLOW: DJ Mikey G 10pm
l EDGE GLOW: DJs & UV lights 11pm
SATURDAY 26
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Blank 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR The Big One: DJs 10pm
l EDGE The Big One: DJs Dave Cooper, KT & Ar thur Hutchinson 10pm
SUNDAY 27
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 90s & 2ks: DJ Luke Ennor 9pm SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Cabaret v Karaoke with drag host Aura Jay 10pm
MONDAY 28
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD 20Something 9pm
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD cabaret 8pm SOUTHAMPTON
l EDGE Time Out: DJ Ar thur Hutchinson 11pm
WEDNESDAY 30
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Big Navy Night Out: Aura Jay 9pm
SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Beauty and the Balls Bingo: host Miss Disney & prizes 8pm; Bar 150 karaoke 10 30pm
l EDGE Bar 150: DJs Missy B, Lee Harris & Audio K9 10pm
THURSDAY 31
PORTSMOUTH
l HAMPSHIRE BLVD Night on the Lashes: Lucinda Lashes/karaoke 9pm SOUTHAMPTON
l BOX BAR Which is Witch? quiz with drag hosts Aura Jay & Bella Black 7pm
l EDGE Smar t: DJ Liam Searle 10pm
DANCE MUSIC
BY QUEEN JOSEPHINE & KATE WILDBLOOD
ALBUMS
) New Year, new possibilities, and every one of them with a stunning soundtrack if we have anything to do with it. Yep it is time to dance into 2019 in style.
If you want to feel the life than Chloe's Endless Revisions Live on
Lumière Noire will tingle your spine as she delivers an exquisite exercise in why live performances will always connect. And if you like your house and electronica experimental then Luca Olivotto’ s Keep On on Endless Music needs to be your destination
For our cannot-get-enough longplayers this month is that stunner PBR Streetgang’ s Late
Night Party Line (Deluxe) on Skint Records, stuffed to the disco brim with remixes from the likes of Hercules & Love Affair, Man Power, Cinthie, Maxxi Soundsystem, Luke Solomon, Tom Demac, Justin Robertson and more Boy are these queens dancing to this one
As we are to the incredible sound adventures of Partyfine Vol 4
Danse Dans Le Noir on, you guessed it, Partyfine With more disco sub-genres than you can shake a tush at, this will enhance your days and nights as Obas Nenor, Yuksek, Purple Disco Machine, Birdee and more keep it perfect and party Just how we like it Enjoy
Catch Wildblood and Queenie at Patterns with Honey Dijon on March 9 and broadcasting on 1BTN 101.4FM www 1btn fm 1st and 3rd Friday 1-4pm and 4th Weds 810pm perfectdistractions.com
WILDBLOOD & QUEENIE’S JAN JUMPERS
) JOVONN Move Ya Hips Body‘N Deep
If this doesn’t get you jumping into January nothing will ) SLEAZY MCQUEEN Pretty Baby House of Records
Retro-Spective wonder that has us reliving our NYE disco jollies
) NATE WILLIAMS Klimax (Roy's Total Recall mix) R-Time Records
Rewind to those heady Chicago days courtesy of Roy Davis Jr. ) COEO Light Star (COEO Edit) Razor-N-Tape
Look no further than Disco Cuts Vol 2 to keep you warm this winter.
) AUSTEN/SCOTT Nothing Can Erase You (Lombardo remix) Flying Circus Epic club track that will charm as Ms Lombrado delights.
) DOP feat Alina Pash Stone Love (Sex Judas Remix) dOP Only Italo tinged genius from the French trio we ’ re daft about.
) LARRY CADGE & Rick Sanders Mondaze (Original) Smiley Fingers Take a trip with these dons of dance and all will be good, too good
) ANIMANZ Them Changes (Magic Drum Orchestra remix) Tru Thoughts Cumbria goodness courtesy of Brighton’s finest label
) PEREL Die Dimension (Marcus Worgull remix) DFA Recordings Deep and moody and uplifting? Is there nothing Perel can’t do?
) JUNO LOVERS Going Back (Extended mix) Superdisko Recordings Nu-disco for a nu-year anyone?
) B-MOVIE Repetition (Rusty Egan Electro mix) Loki Records Iconic post punk/dark wave destined to banish the January blues.
DJ PROFILE: JOSH SHARP
A very happy 2019 one and all And what better way to start the new year is there than by having a resolution that you’ll not break? So forget about the giving up of chocolate or only having the one sherry on a Friday - simply aim to listen to some more radio! And why not start by tuning in to hear the glorious Josh Sharp as he co-hosts the HIV Hour on Radio Reverb?
You’re now presenting the HIV Hour on Radio Reverb. How did this come about and how does it feel to be a star of the airwaves? Well, fairly recently I started a course called Work Positive organised by the Terrence Higgins Trust As part of the course you ’ re offered a work placement and I chose the HIV Hour as the placement I’d like to do It’s still early days, but I’m loving co-hosting the show. I’m also learning to produce the show and getting to play some jingles I’ve been working on. I think being a DJ has helped with that. I would eventually love to do my own solo show.
If you’d like to check out the HIV Hour show tune into Radio Reverb 97 2fm at 7pm every second Thursday of the month with a repeat the following Tuesday at 12pm Or have a look at the Reverb website –radioreverb com – for further details!
Where else are you playing? I’m not playing any residencies at the moment but I’m DJing for private parties which is great The crowd are ALWAYS up for a party
Any other exciting projects lined up for 2019? I’ve been producing my own music for quite a while but have never really pushed myself. I find networking and marketing myself quite difficult! It’s a shame, because they’re both important aspects in getting your music out there and played. Luckily, the Work Positive programme is really helping with this. Who knows, 2019 could really be my year! To that aim I’ve put a couple of my own tracks into my current Top 5 below! Please check them out on SoundCloud/JoshSharp.
What music rocks your world these days? I’ve an eclectic taste in music and like the deeper and funkier side of house, but also I’m loving Justin Timberlake’s first album Justified at the moment.
Favourite tune of all time? Oh my goodness, I’ve got far too many fave tracks! But at this precise time, Take It From Here by the aforementioned Justin Timberlake is getting the most rewinds!
Describe yourself in three words! Resilient, Imperfect and Kind...
JOSH SHARP’S CURRENT TOP FIVE
) JOSH SHARP Get To Know Ya (promo) unreleased
) MODENTO Without You (Vertigini remix) Juiced Tracks
) JOSH SHARP You Missed The Love (promo) unreleased
) DAVID LEATHERMAN/Hp Vince Right Here (House mix) WhoreHouse
) SNEAKY SOUND SYSTEM Can’t Help The Way I Feel (D Penn remix) Cr2
) Andrew Christian Underwear from £23 – three for two on all styles (Prowler, 112-113 St James's Street, Brighton, 01273 603813)
The Brunswick, Holland Rd, Hove, www.thebrunswick.net Box office: www.wegottickets.com
) ALL START: MAMAS & PAPAS ROCK (2pm, Sat 5). Join Al and her special guests for great kids songs, silly stories, games, prizes and kids’ open mic – so start practicing your favourite song! Mamas & Papas Rock is suitable for primary school age children and their little siblings The Brunswick have a great children’s menu and are chilled and relaxed!
) EL GEEBEE TEA QUEUE (Sun 13). An evening of LGBT+ comedy and cabaret featuring: The Middle Aged Mermaid – she has both disposophobia and kleptomania! That's not a good combination if you are now broke and renting a flat in Balham. Expect mermaids, Oyster Cards and floatation devices. Sebastian Causton is an awkward, usually confused person who writes about the ups and downs of life, being trans, and dogs. Mr Monét debuts songs from his forthcoming album, August - a fusion of pop, soul and jazz music combined with lyrics about the hardships of love that even the coldest of hearts can relate to Kate Pritchard exists within a whirlwind of carnage Jenny BSide is a trans/gender fluid musical comedian, stand up, poet and songwriter Award-winning singer-songwriter Paul Diello has released two albums and toured across the UK, Europe and America. He has written, directed and starred in the sell out musical cabaret Epicene, the gender blending celebration of iconic women in music. Steve Parker is the founding member of Brightonbased indie rock outfit Sparker who released their fourth album The Valley Is My Home in 2018 Sparker’s aim is to bring the focus back to the art form that is ‘the album’ and their fourth offering is a ghost story; rich in power and fragile with pain Paul Diello and Steve started writing together in 2014 and have created some raw acoustic melodies tinged with 'melancholia, soulfulness and a heartfelt honesty'
ABIGAIL’S PARTY
Theatre Royal, New Rd, Brighton, Box office: 08448 717650
) ABIGAIL’S PARTY (Thu 10–Sat 19). Jodie Prenger stars in Mike Leigh’ s comedy classic, with Vicky Binns (Coronation Street, Emmerdale) and Daniel Casey, (Midsomer Murders). Beverly and husband Laurence are throwing a party for their newlywed neighbours, Tony and Angela Joining them is highly strung Susan who has been banished from the party of her teenage daughter, Abigail Welcome to 1970s suburbia and its heady mix of freeflowing cocktails, classic disco, and cheese and pineapple sticks. As tensions rise and tempers flare the sheen of respectability is torn away by the warring couples with hilarious and potentially disastrous consequences.
ART
Chichester Festival Theatre, Oaklands Park, Chichester
) ART (Jan 24–Feb 2) Yasmina Reza’ s play, translated by Christopher Hampton, took both the West End and Broadway by storm, won the Olivier, Tony, Molière and many other major theatre awards. When Serge spends an extortionate amount of money on an all-white modernist painting, his close friends, Marc and Yvan, are baffled. But does their violent reaction to this provocative canvas mirror more dangerous antagonisms towards each other? It’s an intense study of friendship, prejudice and tolerance The cast features BAFTAnominated Nigel Havers (Downton Abbey, Chariots of Fire), Olivier Award-winning Denis Lawson (Bleak House, New Tricks) and British Comedy Awardwinning Stephen Tompkinson (The Split, Wild at Heart, Ballykissangel).
) BENT DOUBLE (Sun 6). A gayfriendly, irreverent night of fun and frolics hosted by Zoe Lyons (Mock The Week and Michael McIntyre’s Comedy Roadshow). Featuring headliner Felicity Ward and Jake Howie.
BRIGHTON CENTRE
Kings Road, Brighton Box office: 0844 847 1515
) THE 1975 (Wed 16). Playing their hits and material from their latest album, A Brief Inquiry Into Online Relationships.
) BITTER SOUR HOG WARTS: YOU GOT A CREAM FOR THAT? (Sat 5). Join Count Addiction and Cherry Fakewell, and a host of amazing performers, for magical cabaret
featuring Accio Oedipussi, Fushcia Von Steel, and headliner Danny Ash. Bring your wands, brooms and counter-curses because you ’ re gonna be spellbound!
) FUNNY GIRLS (Fri 11) Julie Jepson hosts a night of fabulous female funnies with stand-up, musical comedy and improv
) SLEEP PARALYSIS (Sun 20) Join host Fuchsia Von Steel and guests for a unique blend of glamour, the grotesque and comedy.
CL ASSICAL NOTES
REVIEWS
) FIERI CONSORT The Unknown Traveller Fieri Records fiericonsort.co.uk
The vocal ensemble Fieri Consort formed in 2012, and two years later became part of Brighton Early Music Festival’ s programme for young artists, BREMF Live! Since then they’ve gone from strength to strength, and won the Cambridge Award at the 2017 York Early Music Festival. They gave a stunning performance at this year ’ s BREMF, as well as several of the 8strong line-up performing as soloists in the BREMF operas and other festival concerts
For their second disc, The Unknown Traveller, they have recorded a selection of works from Musica Transalpina, an anthology of mostly Italian madrigals set to English texts, thus fuelling the popularity of madrigals in England at the time The anthology was published in 1588 by Nicholas Yonge, Lewes-born singer and publisher (see concert listings for the Lewes chamber music series named after him), although the identity of the translator is unknown (hence the disc’s title). There are works by Ferrabosco, Palestrina, Lasso, de Monte, Byrd and others. The Fieri Consort sing one to a part, varying the forces from four to six voices, and their ensemble is always clear and blended, yet the English texts are brought to the fore with precision and smooth articulation Conversi’ s Zephirus Brings The Time… is given beautifully smooth lines, whereas Ferrabosco’ s The Nightingale So Pleasant… has a delightfully swinging delicacy. They couple this collection with a new work, Short Walk of a Madman by Ben Rowarth. Rowarth uses texts by e e cummings, as well as drawing
on Dante’ s Divine Comedy for structure for its four movements, Inferno, Purgatorio, Paradiso, and then Paradise Revisited The theme of loneliness is also explored, in particular by often isolating the different eight voices in separate tonalities at the same time. This creates huge challenges for the singers, but the Fieri Consort are totally convincing and highly impressive in their command of these demands. The second movement in particular has a real sense of torment and madness, with its repetitive, circling motions, and the intertwined tonalities of the third and fourth movements are hypnotic and very effective Whilst I’m not sure the placing of this work alongside the Musica Transalpina repertoire entirely works, it certainly demonstrates the range of these young singers’ expertise, and Rowarth’s work definitely has a striking impact. I look forward to hearing a lot more from these highly talented singers.
) VARIOUS Ros Tapestry Suite
New Ross Piano Festival NRPF01. The New Ross Piano Festival has been taking place in New Ross in the south east of Ireland since 2006 Over the course of three years from 2014-16, the festival commissioned and premiered 15 new pieces by different Irish composers in response to the Ros Tapestry, a 15-panel tapestry begun in 1998 that traces the history of the Norman invasion of Ireland.
They have now been put together on two discs, forming the Ros Tapestry Suite, performed by 12 different pianists, including the festival’s Artistic Director Finghin Collins, as well as Nicholas Angelich, Piers Lane, Lise de la Salle and Cédric Tiberghein Given the nature of the source material, a number of the pieces evoke battle scenes, although it is fascinating to hear the different compositional responses to this So Sebastian Adams’ The Siege of Wexford makes use of violent, throbbing chords, particularly exploiting the piano’s lowest registered, with a hammering conclusion. Gerry Murphy’ s Battles in the Kingdom of Ossory is warlike too, but much more
ominous, with its repeated Jawslike bass There’s a galloping hunt in Andrew Hamilton’ s Hunt in the Forest of Ros, a wild and watery storm in Deirdre Gribbin’ s Ex Voto Tintern Abbey, and a striking build from jazzy evening chords to a tolling warning in Eric Sweeney’ s Evening: The Lighthouse at Hook Head. Rhythmic energy and drive abound in John Kinsella’ s The Celts…, whereas the rhythms in Elaine Agnew’ s The Abduction of Dervorgilla are unsettlingly jerky, even jumpy All bar one of the tracks were recorded live, and the sound is consistently clear and fullbodied The pianists deserve as much praise as the composers here – these are challenging pieces, and all concerned give highly convincing, often intense, and impressively virtuosic performances. Cédric Tiberghien and Piers Lane merit particular mention for their characterisation, and in Lanes’ case, precise
CINEMA
articulation of the melodic fragments within rich textures of harmonic clusters. And Finghin Collins, who performs four of the pieces here, gets to demonstrate the greatest variety and command of technique. Overall, this is a fascinating collection, demonstrating an impressive breadth of contemporary composition for the piano
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) Tchaikovsky’ s The Queen of Spades (Tue 22), with Aleksandrs Antonenko and Eva-Maria Westbroek, is showing live from the Royal Opera House, as is Verdi’ s La Traviata (Wed 30), with Ermonela Jaho and Charles Castronovo.
) You can also see Cilea’ s Adriana Lecouvreur from the MET Opera (Sat 12), with Anna Netrebko and Piotr Beczała. In a range of local cinemas, including: Duke’s at the Komedia/Duke of York’s, Brighton, Cineworld Eastbourne, and the Connaught Cinema, Worthing.
CONCERTS
BRIGHTON DOME
Box Office: 01273 709709, www.brightondome.org
) The London Philharmonic Orchestra, conducted by Jamie Phillips (7.30pm, Sat 12), perform Beethoven, Dvořák and Brahms’ Violin Concerto, with Alexander Sitkovetsky (violin).
) The Brighton Philharmonic Orchestra, directed by Thomas Carroll (2.45pm, Sun 20), will perform Prokofiev and Mendelssohn, with Carroll also the soloist in Schumann’ s Cello Concerto.
ACCA
University of Sussex, Box Office: 01273 678822, www.attenboroughcentre.com
) The Doric String Quartet (11am, Sun 27) perform Haydn, Bartók and Mendelssohn.
SUSSEX DOWNS COLLEGE
Lewes, www.nylewes.org.uk
) Matt Hunt (clarinet), Alina Ilbragimova (violin), Louise Hopkins (cello) and Alasdair Beatson (piano) visit the Nicholas Yonge Society (7 45pm, Wed 23) to perform Messiaen’ s Quartet for the End of Time, alongside music by Debussy and Ravel
ALL THAT JAZZ
) KEITH JARRETT La Fenice (ECM) Every six months, regular as clockwork, a new Keith Jarrett album arrives from ECM. Most now contain old recordings, as Jarrett is approaching 74 and, while still performing, obviously feels his current work is not as strong as he would like it to be. This new double CD set records a solo piano performance Jarrett gave in July 2006 at the Gran Teatro La Fenice in Venice. The theatre is one of Italy’s most famous classical venues, its ambience obviously influencing what Jarrett played that day Performing a suite of eight spontaneously created pieces, he references everything from refined classical inspirations and elegant ballads to the blues and some atonal bombast. The suite out of the way, he covers a Gilbert & Sullivan piece, The Sun Whose Rays, from The Mikado and ends with the standard Stella By Starlight. I have now lost count of the number of Jarrett solo albums ECM has released – at least 25, if not more, many of them double, treble or even six CD sets – but each new one still seems fresh. Each in its own way, is compulsory to listen to!
) DON CHERRY Home Boy, Sister Out (WeWantSounds). American trumpeter Don Cherry was one of the great originals of modern jazz. Trumpeter with the revolutionary Ornette Coleman group that developed free jazz in the late 1950s, he then went on to record a series of world music albums, for he was a musical nomad who picked up and used whatever he heard wherever he found it His massive musical legacy lives on in the work of his stepdaughter, Neneh Cherry, with whom he recorded with Bristol’s post-punk Rip Rig + Panic. Home Boy, Sister Out, however, is somewhat of an oddity, a mishmash of James Brown-style funk, African rhythms, new wave attitude, and old fashioned songs recorded in Paris in 1985 and only released in France until now. Cherry sings on most of the songs – it’s almost the first time I’ve heard his light tenor voice – and plays wonderful trumpet. This set might only be for those who love Cherry to bits and want every note he recorded, but it should charm a wider audience, too
ART MATTERS
This month I’ve news regarding exhibitions I’m involved in as well as an exhibition and talk that I hope will be of interest to you.
LINDEN HALL STUDIO
Deal, www.lindenhallstudio.co.uk
) FLETCHER HENDERSON A Study In Frustration (Poll
Winners) I usually like my jazz to be modern, but many of you have a taste for earlier styles, hence my recommendation of this fine set Fletcher Henderson was a New York bandleader through whose big band passed such luminaries as trumpet giant Louis Armstrong, arguably the inventor of the improvised solo, and Coleman Hawkins, the man who almost singlehandedly introduced the tenor saxophone to jazz. Both are on this 3CD set, which includes 74 tracks from 1923 to 1938, including three versions of his famous King Porter Stomp. The frustration of the title is that Henderson was one of the main pioneers of big-band jazz, but lost out to Benny Goodman as King of Swing
) I’m showing some works at the Linden Hall Studio in their winter group show (until Jan 26), which has been curated by Myles Corley and is a mixed exhibition of paintings, sculpture, ceramics, prints and photography featuring emerging and established artists Other artists included are Dominic Beattie, Peter Clossick, Eileen Cooper OBE RA, Jennifer Durrant RA, John Hoyland RA, Tess Jaray RA, Jim Moir AKA Vic Reeces, Mali Morris RA, Humphrey Ocean RA, Tom Phillips RA and Barbara Rae CBE RA
NYNE GALLERY
Holland Park, www.afternynegallery.com www.tregonygallery.co.uk
) I’m also in a show in London (Jan 9–22) organised by the Cornwall-based Tregony Gallery. ASSEMBLE brings their distinctive approach to curating and collecting art to a new audience in London, sharing their vision and roster of artists for whom observation is the touchstone of their practice, rendered through their diverse perspectives and modes of expression A percentage of sales from the exhibition will go to the Cornwall Community Foundation If you ’ re tempted to travel up to view, there’s a drinks reception (Jan 17, 6-8pm), all you need to do is RSVP to info@tregonygallery.com
) DAVID BELLINGHAM DRIVING SCHOOL (Jan 19–Feb 24, Wed–Sun 11am–5pm, with preview Jan 18, 6–8 m) offers lessons in unlearning and relearning, undoing and redoing and unmaking and remaking. To unlearn something is to take it apart, to relearn it is to put it back together examined and refreshed. Bellingham was born in South London and lives and works in Glasgow. There will be an exhibition tour (Mar 19, 2pm) with the artist in conversation with David Shrigley.
PALL ANT HOUSE GALLERY
Chichester, www.pallant.org.uk
) MARY FEDDEN: COLOUR AND SIMPLICITY (until Feb 10). There is a talk about current exhibition by Mel Gooding (Jan 24, 6pm), Mary Fedden: The Other Artist of a Generation, which will explore the life and work of Mary Fedden, including her shared life with fellow artist and husband Julian Trevelyan at the Durham Wharf Studios. Tickets from £7 are available via the website and I’m sure it would mix well with a browse of the many spaces of the gallery.
HERE AND QUEER
THE CREATIVE FLUIDS OF ASHLEY BEACHEY
Craig Hanlon-Smith caught up with Ashley in the run up to the exhibition Songs of New Women to talk art and queer identity.
) Visual artist Ashley Beachey studied and now lives in Brighton The recent exhibition created and curated by Ashley in December, Songs of New Women, centred around stories of femininity, wise women and trans identities
The influences of Ashley’s home country, Wales, is another core feature in the work.
You describe your work as 'Welsh Art and Femme Witchcraft', 'Non-Binary' and 'QueerArt'. Explain that in more explicit terms... The work I make is informed by folkloric storytelling and my own personal experiences regarding gender identity. Femininity is very important to what I do and so I like to use it in the creative process. I’m interested in the idea of self-reclamation involving the concept of witchcraft, a way of creating something that inherently at its core fights to dismantle patriarchal oppression, especially in regard to power and masculinity. Folklore and witchcraft also have a rich vein of symbolic representation when it comes to femininity and so I find it fascinating to parallel this subject with my own personal gender identity Coming from Wales, there’s already a plethora of source material to reinterpret, but I think it’s time that Welsh folklore made room for some more contemporary folk storytelling I want to make images and stories that push the gender boundary and wear femininity as a suit of armour.
You live here now, but originate from Wales. How have those worlds underpinned your development as an artist?
I was born in Abergavenny and spent my childhood growing up in Cardiff and Carmarthenshire near the coast. I moved away around 10 years ago to study Fine Art Painting at Brighton University. Back then I was very interested in images that focussed on transgressive symbology and performativity in painting and gender and was especially interested in the works of artists like Cecily Brown, Derek Jarman and the literature of the Marquis de Sade Many years have passed and I’ve grown more interested in Welsh history and the fairytale as a creative form as well as witchcraft and its role in female emancipation
My artistic influences also changed as I became more drawn towards artists such as Paula Rego, Maya Deren and films like The Mirror by Andrei Tarkovsky
Authors like Angela Carter and Ludmilla Petrushevskaya also had an enormous impact on me, Carter in particular for her feminist reinterpretations of folkloric history I grew more confident in how I was personally identifying as largely female rather than malesomething I’ve struggled with for a long time. All this sort of just came together and went on to inform much of what I do and make now.
Tarot readings were a significant feature in your exhibition. What’s your interest?
I’ve been learning how to read tarot for the past few years. I took it up as a way to cope with anxiety and depression. However, I don’t use it to predict the future, I use it as a pictorial key or a tool to practice mindfulness. I started to unlearn a lot of what I’d taught myself over the years and embraced a more inclusive, queerer way of using Tarot systems Thankfully there’s been some amazing people who’ve helped me build upon a more contemporary reading style, one that breaks down heteronormative binary systems, gender and imagery that LGBTQ people may find difficult to identify with Many people have been using tarot systems much more over the past few years as a way to look beyond the fringes in a world where the political climate grows more unstable and minority groups are being increasingly silenced. Tarot may provide a comfort to those people through the art of storytelling. Sceptic or not, its cultural impact is not to be sniffed at.
The LGBTQ communities are ever-developing and evolving, and at quite a pace in recent years. What are the challenges facing your communities in 2019?
Trans communities have experienced some seismic changes over the past five years which is extremely encouraging However, this past year has showcased some pretty awful swings to the right, especially in regard to a backlash against issues that the trans community have fought so hard for The backlash in right wing media against younger people identifying as transgender has been particularly upsetting. You expressly select the word 'queer' to describe your work which must then in turn be strongly linked to your own identity. ‘Queer’ is a term that was regularly thrown around in the 1950s/60s/70s specifically to describe, essentially, gay men. In the early 1980s, certainly, it was adopted by the gay male community as an endearment of power and self-authority in the face of growing and
state supported discrimination. Why do you think this term has returned and how do you suppose its meaning is now different?
We’re living in very uncertain times, the term ‘Queer’ can stand for a power of resistance Resistance against oppressive patriarchal structures and reductive heteronormative ideology that stands in the way of living in a place of respectful inclusivity. I think its contemporary meaning is very different and I think that’s great. It gives people a word in which they can feel safe and powerful. Its inflammatory nature can make it difficult to take on as a term to identify with and I do understand that, but its power to challenge shouldn’t be underestimated
What are your ambitions for yourself over the next 10 years either as an artist or otherwise? I am terrible at making 10-year plans… Or even five-year plans I’d like to make an illustrated book of Fairytales
Do you have any LGBTQ role models?
I don’t like having role models really but there are lots of LGBTQ people whom I greatly respect I’ll pick just one for now and say Jeanette Winterson largely for her novels that explore gender and sex and if I might give a shout out to the excellent book, Written on the Body
As we begin a new year with many political challenges ahead, any fears for the future? Complacency
MORE INFO
) Check out Ashley’s work on Instagram: ) @folktalesofashley ) @craigscontinuum
JUST ONE BULLET
Eric Page, our Welsh firebrand, chats with Irish writer, Peter Paul Hartnett, to gain some personal insight to his fiercely provocative poetr y.
) Your books are exquisitely crafted. What’s the reasoning behind this understated stylish presentation?
“A signed limited edition hardback has a personal touch So many books are spat out at the press of a button, they feel disposable, tiresomely generic, invariably way too corporate, lacking heart. Readers want something tangible, the feel of print in their hands, a book with a spine, that smell. An artisan approach is suited to the writing,
poetry that skids into prose - something to keep, deserving a space in the physical world ” Poetry? Why?
“I left mainstream publishing to develop writing that is not deemed to have commercial potential This focus is a way of developing material without worrying about the confines of plot, structure or the dictates of a prissy editor My interest is upon taboo areas that some view as unpublishable I'm drawn to ideas that many writers run from.”
Who do you read for the pure joy of it? I learned much from court transcripts, psychological case studies and the early fiction of writers such as Dennis Cooper. Cooper's blog is an amazing online resource for those seeking all things 'alt'. I loved the High Risk anthologies of the early 1990s, 'forbidden writing' edited by Ira Silverberg and Amy Scholder in the US. I'm currently enjoying Crush by Richard Siken and profiles within recon, grindr, scruff and fabswingers com contain many a candid disclosure that I swoop upon ”
Which song stirs you to sing along?
“So High and Dear Jim by Zerocrop are two tracks I play to death, releasing albums for almost 20 years their music is a hypnotic mix of complex melodies and spoken word on unsettling themes, set against a rich backwash of dulcimer, pedal steel, guitars and electronics
He has such a seductive voice, I'm a fan. His tone of voice is phenomenal. Casey Spooner of Fischerspooner also hits the spot.”
What words of advice would you share with younger LGBT+ wordsmiths?
“Morrissey's Sing Your Life could act as a motivational starting point. It encourages everybody to walk to the microphone and name the things they love, they loathe, not wishing to go through life with a tale untold. There's a life lesson in its lyrics. So many queer themes are rarely explored The stretched-to-f**k AYOR boundaries of chem sex, actively seeking to become pozzed up and the dynamics of intergenerational relationships are three areas of interest ”
Do you have a muse?
“I'm drawn to anonymous objects of desire, random moments that quicken the heart, snapshot sightings which raise the blood pressure, jigsaw moments I see so many 'characters' on the commercialised scene, from rainbow-flagged bar to dank cellar f**k club
The reality of compulsive urban sex is often edited out, dumbed down in PC publishing.
“England is a country which suffered censorship that was absurd, crippling and pernicious
I'm an unremitting defender of artistic freedom and the next generation of LGBT+ writers need to go at it raw, refusing to work within confined establishment standards
“A small number of major publishing houses dominate, with writers being uni-educated workshopped bores who produce proposal after proposal meeting all the tedious tick box requirements. Playing along with the media incrowd has always been of zero interest. I'm drawn to agitate fine nerve endings, a mission I will not compromise. I believe in the hard punch, not the light touch. Forgive me if I rant, but I'm not the happy homosexual, spouting upbeat soundbites. I'm not the frothy scene queen, spewing on-trend gibberish ”
Tell us something about your grandmother. “You're kidding? Oh, you're not. My father's side of the family were a farming community from the Beara Peninsula, Cork My mother's side of the family were stage-directed by my somewhat OCD grandmother My father came from a family of 12; my mother was one of five, a relatively small family, all in a tworoomed house Both women had backbone and were incredibly liberal; believing that in terms of queer there's invariably one in every family ”
What is courage in this age?
“A certain patience, perseverance and bravery is needed to confront the angst of an uncertain future As a mentor, I encourage students to avoid a university education, the lure of digital is too much of a distraction and eyes need to look away from telephonic toys to process this overwhelming world we live in. Everything is a choice, from what we eat to a smoke of some synthetic shit, to the deep and meaningful scribble of an impulse tatt. It takes courage not to blend in with the herd.
“In an age when freedom of expression is under grave threat, if not from the State then from fear-engendered by social media pressure groups and religious intolerance, I will not
dick around in the way that the so many longserving bores do, homosexual heavyweights whose work feels better suited to the markets of another century I relate more to American, European and the new wave of Japanese writers, who have an air of subversion When I look at the Twitter accounts of award-winning writers, I'm repulsed by the selfies and selfpromotional branding and blatant networking. Urgh upon urghs.”
Do you have a favourite word? “Possibly.”
What’s your safe word?
“Exit ”
Where do you come from?
“I’m from turbulent decades, which so many of my peers did not survive The scenes were fuelled by amphetamines, alcohol and selfabsorbed narcissism Fast-lane moths, straight to the flames. Then came capital letters E, G, hitting hard. The late 1970s were a time of exhibitionism, voyeurism... fetishists, on parade. Towards the end of the 1980s, Ecstasy created monsters of suburbanites at raves. Messed-up, loved-up smilers, heading for
Casualty I was there, documenting ever-evolving cycles of youth in transition as a photographer and writer Dry-eyed, sober, drug-free
“As both a writer and photographer, I've specialised in social trawling, with an eye upon innovative style tribes within non-conforming 'alt' scenes, especially those identifying as LGBTI Since the age of 18, I've detected and tracked changes in the way brave souls both race and rage from the closet, motivated to express themselves I document the 'braille', the bumps that protrude within an urban setting and clubland, style-fixated landscapes. From punks in bondage trousers to pups in rubber.
“Right now, so many within the fast f**k lane are entrusting their wellbeing to PrEP. Sexual compulsives tick the RATHER NOT SAY / NEVER option list on recon.com re safer sex. It's that area of risk taking that interests me. I find profiles on sex-based sites to be of more interest than the latest hyped products from Alan Hollinghurst. Barebacking profiles rather than over-priced hardbacks There is a social backbone within my creative work that should be interpreted as a form of constructive activism It is my hope that forthcoming published work will challenge, motivate and inspire ”
You’ve a new book out this month, what can excited followers of your work expect?
“A piece at the end - The User Experience - goes as far as I can on the mind-set and detrimental development of a Catholic priest named Yuuto I use retractions as a stylistic device, selfcensoring my own work. In my writing that so often has a focus upon the immoral and highly illegal, I work within the law.
“To use a tabloid term, SEX MONSTERS are rarely considered beyond the sensational storm that journalists descend upon after a string of victims. In many respects, that has been my mission since the publication of my first novel, Call Me, back in 1996, exposing uncomfortable truths.”
MORE INFO
) I Shouldn't, Must Stop by PP Hartnett, published by Autopsy at £10, is out on January 1, 2019.
THE UNDISCOVERED JEWEL... SALLY VATE
Sally Vate,
aka Jon Hughes, talks to Brian Butler about the gay wilderness that is Goole, situational comedy, panto and turning 40.
) Jon Hughes seems to have been born to sing and act, right from studying drama and theatre in his native Yorkshire and swapping Shakespearean roles at each performance with a fellow child actor. “I wanted to be on stage even then,” he admits.
Progressing to farces and plays in the local amateur dramatic society, he had already cowritten and performed in panto as Dame Tickety Boo in Cinderella. Spurred on by winning an acting award (a book token!) he auditioned for the National Youth Theatre but didn’t get in. He confesses that the expense of it all might have prevented him anyway “So I had to put my dreams on hold ”
Realising he needed a ‘ proper job’ he went to work at the Co-op, finding out he was good with customers - a rapport which has stayed with him today with audiences as Sally Vate
Some 18 years ago he moved with his then partner to Bournemouth. “It was the first time I was really on the gay scene. A friend suggested we drag up for the weekend and I did. I’m sure I looked quite shocking to start with - it was just for fun and a few drinks.”
The stage name came from mishearing the pseudonym of one of Robbie Williams’ backing singers, but it stuck. A drag appearance at Rubies followed plus being on the door at Bournemouth’s Triangle, DJing and hosting karaoke. But he was doing what he calls 'drag and drop' DJ work using a laptop - and not singing at all
His first and remaining influence, Miss Jason, told him he would be good at drag. Jason told me I was good at situations that were funny, not just jokes I had eight tracks which I learned and I still do four of them ”
Moving to Brighton he got work as a cover act at the old Oriental, doing bingo and quizzes “I fell in love with Brighton,” he says and residences developed at both Zone Bar and the Queen’s Arms “I pride myself on making each show different. It’s not scripted. It has to be fresh for me as well as for the audience. Miss Jason told me I was the undiscovered jewel of Brighton. He gave me confidence and has always supported me. ”
Now established as a star in both family and more adult pantos, he also has turned back to drama, playing a wonderful bitchy Southern belle in the musical Expenses Only. “I never trained as a singer so in that show there were what I call ‘Sally notes’ that I’d made up, hoping for the best and just getting on with it "
“Expenses Only took me away from the Sally character, as does panto, giving me the chance to develop a different character within a script. My Northern accent is useful for comedy, but I’d love to play a serious character too I turn 40 in April in the middle of Brighton’s adult panto,” he confesses
What advice would you give to the young and aspiring Jon? “Don’t care too much about what other people think I knew I was always camp and comical, and it’s okay being a joker if you ’ re in charge But at the back of my mind I was always aware that I might be getting too flamboyant and maybe I should closet myself a bit ”
He says the new generation of drag queens are; “ more out there" He also admits he wishes he was less like Jon and more like Sally Someone even printed a T-shirt for one of his birthdays saying ‘I wish I was more like Sally’ on it “But on the back they put the current year ’ s date and it looked like I was dead!”
On the subject of gay politics, he says; “People give themselves labels But if you ’ re a decent human being, I don’t care what you call yourself.”
Jon reflects that Sally is now the longest job he has ever had “I fell into drag by accident, but just as I was at the Co-op, I’m still selling the goods ”
That’s for certain!
A HOLE IN TWO OR, A ‘HOLE’ LOTTA TROUBLE
Jack and Jacob are two gay men who are seeking holes. No really. They ’re also two single friends living in London and although in their words they ’ve ver y different attitudes to sex and dating, they ’re both unlucky in love and hoping to improve their romantic lives. Either as a strategy with which to snare the per fect love match, a way to pass the time, or a medium to diarise their ongoing struggle, they have set up a comedy podcast. Craig Hanlon-Smith offered them a break from their quest for the per fect hole and pumped them with a load of questions.
) Hello boys. So the podcast then? Dish:
Jacob: The Hole Seekers is a comedy podcast in which two gay men (Jack and I) travel in time by sliding through inter-dimensional holes to learn lessons from the past and future that will help us improve our love lives in the present day.
Jack: Yes, we ’ re two gay men who’ve discovered the ability to travel in time and each week meet a new guest from the past or future and chat to them to see what we can learn. In most cases we do not know who we are going to meet or where we are going to travel to before we start recording, so it’s a lot of fun for us too!
Did you have a particular aim or achievement in mind when you set out on this project?
Jacob: It’s first and foremost a comedy podcast and so if our listeners are stifling laughter on public transport then that is a win for us However, we did also want to create a show that reflected our friendship as gay men and that would give us a space to talk about our shared experience of love, sex and dating in the modern day, however funny or tragic those experiences may be. As members of the LGBT+ community I think there’s always value in speaking up and sharing your own experiences, especially if we have the potential to reach people who might be struggling with their own sexual identity.
Who are your comedy heroes?
Jack: Anything by Julia Davis you can’t go wrong with. Maybe I shouldn’t be promoting another podcast in this interview but Dear Joan & Jericha is, I think, one of the best comic creations of the last 10 years Kate Berlant and John Early are phenomenal, and everyone should buy and watch
their series 555 on Vimeo. Sarah Silverman is a genius, so is Chelsea Peretti. I also love Matteo Lane - he’s a great gay comic who has just had 15 Minutes come out on Netflix which is worth a watch. Anyone who is doing something I feel like I haven’t seen before I’m going to be on board with
Jacob: I’ve always been a huge fan of surreal comedy and grew up with The League Of Gentlemen on TV. That and Monty Python are the influences which have created the weird manchild that you see before you today
Comedy aside, who are your LGBT+ heroes?
Jacob: It has to be Alan Turing. I would give anything to travel back in time and meet him Maybe in a future episode of The Hole Seekers!
Jack: The Babadook.
LGBT+ communities are forever changing and expanding. Who is your audience and how do you appeal to our broadening community base?
Jack: At the moment I think our audience is my mum and dad… No, as we ’ ve said, it’s very much a comedy podcast so whilst there’s definitely an LGBT+ focus, and we are producing the show with the LGBT+ community in mind, it’s definitely not going to alienate anyone I think with regards to the expansion of the LGBT+ community, it’s important to remember that expansion is a great thing and we should celebrate our differences within the community, together The podcast is absolutely for everyone, but as two white gay men living in the UK, Jacob and I can only speak about our own experiences and we would never try to suggest otherwise. Ultimately though ours is a show about finding love and the trials and
tribulations of doing so, which I think is something everyone can relate to no matter what your sexuality and gender identity
What challenges do you think face our LGBT+ communities over the next few years?
Jack: “Complacency is always going to be a threat especially when you ’ re living somewhere as progressive as Brighton or London I think it’s easy to slip into the mindset that the work is somehow ‘done’ because most of the time we ’ re lucky enough to exist very comfortably as queer people here. It can sound trite but I think it’s important to remember that the world is a very big place; homosexuality is still illegal in 72 countries and, even within the UK, the experience of growing up as an LGBT+ person will vary hugely depending on the geography and socio-economic background [of your upbringing. It’s important not to lose sight of that as we hopefully continue to move forward and grow as a community
What are your plans to make a mark on an evergrowing podcast market?
Jacob: We’re obviously relying heavily on word of mouth and opportunities like this one to get the word out about us especially in the early days! Thanks to the comic talents of our guests, the episodes we ’ ve already recorded in our first series are genuinely hilarious and we have cried laughing recording most of them, so hopefully people will enjoy hearing two gay men losing it over a microphone. We will build up an audience who are also looking to learn lessons in love from the past and future, just like us!
Brighton has a significant LGBT+ community and an established arts scene. Do you plan to take live shows on the road? Would they be a reflection of, or different to, the podcasts. Jacob: We would love to! Obviously there is a significant improv component to the show given that the conversations with our guests are entirely improvised so it would be nice (and a bit scary) to let a live audience in on that bit because it’s loads of fun to record It would be great to speak to audiences about their own love lives too, maybe try and give a bit of advice to them? Anything that would make the audiences more a part of the show would be fab Brighton would definitely be a priority on the list of places to visit though, I’ve done comedy here before and the audiences are great, particularly at the Fringe.
“I’m super-proud to be visible and out in my work with kids and to be a positive role-model”
GO AL GO!
Renaissance woman Al Start has been many things during her time in Brighton, but always creative. Eric Page finds out about her exciting new project for Go Kid Music.
) Why Brighton?
I came to Brighton 30 years ago to study an art degree I was a metal sculptor back then! I love Stanmer Woods and I love the seafront, but down my ‘Portslade innit!’ end of town, it’s the docks!
When did you come out?
I was never really 'in'! I was naturally attracted to girls and only when I was bullied and made to feel like a freak did I back-track a bit I stayed under the radar for a few years (but not under the gaydar!), I embraced my sexuality in Brighton aged 19 and met like-minded people, realised I wouldn’t ‘burn in hell’ and could live a full life. I wrote a letter to my parents and told them - they were horrified, repulsed and ashamed. After many years of trying to get through to them I gave up and disowned them Had to be done! I do have two amazing sisters who I love and see all the time, one is also gay - divine retribution to homophobic parents ha! I’d regretted being scared to put myself ‘out there’ and take a risk Now I realise time is short and you ’ ve got to just go for it
When and how do you write?
I sing to myself and if something sounds any good I’ll get a quick recording and listen to it when I have time in my studio I put the songs together on my guitar or ukulele I study a subject in the way a child would learn at school, put songs together on the key facts and find a funny angle.
What makes you laugh? Kids! They are so ridiculously funny! What prompted Go Kid Music?
I’ve been a singer-songwriter all my life,
worked with children, and finally put the two together when the St Luke’s School head teacher pestered me to sing with the children in assembly It really wasn’t my bag, so I took my knowledge of what kids love and wrote a spooky song called Creepy Castle I taught it to them, they loved it - and weirdly so did I. I wrote more and had enough for an album, but I’d no idea they’d be successful. I now have seven children’s albums to my name, three musical shows and countless more projects, songbooks, online clubs! So Go Kid Music was born! There is demand for good quality children’s music and we ’ re filling that gap!
A highlight of last year?
I finally got a publishing deal for two of my songbooks illustrated by talented artist Chloe Batchelor and I’m now a published author! Whoo-hoo!
What makes you angry?
“School funding cuts. I am furious! The government has cut school budgets and the creative arts are being squeezed out - no music, drama, dance, art - our children are really suffering, it’s so short-sighted
Tell us something about your grandmother... My grandmother was a superstar. I lived with her when my mum died, I was seven and she was my main carer until my dad remarried I was very close to her, she was an amazing artist She was clever, a brilliant speed knitter who insisted on knitting most of my clothes (even in secondary school, which wasn’t so good!), she made jam, pies, delicious dinners and mended everything!
What makes you proud to be LGBT+?
Everything I’m super-proud to be visible and out in my work with kids and to be a positive role-model and show them that they’re going to be okay! There are so many LGBT+ children but nobody dares address that so I’m planning some songs! Brighton makes me proud - I LOVE my home! How lucky we are here!
Musician, songwriter, singer, curator, creator, author, sculptor, metalsmith, researcher, entrepreneur, puppeteer, translator, is there anything you can’t do?
Ha ha ha! Wow, that sounds awesome! I’m not good at paperwork. It’s a struggle to run a business when book-keeping and being organised is key The hardest job of all is being a mum! O M G !
What advice would you give a 16-year-old LGBT+ just starting out on their life?
I’d say - you ’ re so lucky! You’re born at a time when you can be yourself School will still be hard as kids are still mean, so try not to worry what other people think of you, just be who you want and live your life the way you want!
Tell us about That Quiff?
What MY quiff? Well, I grew up watching Happy Days and Grease so my hair role models were the Fonz and Danny Zuko! When kids ask if I’m a boy or a girl I say ‘I’m a girl with short hair!’ I don’t think they believe me!
I’m determined to get into writing for children’s TV I’ve got a new album for 2019 and I’m plugging my brilliant online music club for families and schools at: club gokidmusic com
Any up and coming events?
A monthly daytime gig at the Brunswick Pub, Hove called Mamas & Papas which is for kids / families If you ’ re interested in coming / playing, please find me on Facebook
CRAIG’S THOUGHTS
Forgive them father. They know not what they did. Nor did they care.
By Craig Hanlon-Smith @craigscontinuum
) Through the mundane and regular every day ticking of the clock, I practice and preach forgiveness Whether it be a loan not paid, an unremembered borrowed shirt, or a matter of the heart and soul altogether more painful, I forgive them. Completely. It’s not that I want those who may have wronged me to feel better in response to their dismissive and on occasion mean qualities. It’s much more selfish than that. Forgiveness actually has little to do with the other and everything surrounding my own wellbeing and calm content mindfulness. If I forgive, I move on The response or even remote awareness of the other is an irrelevance It’s all about me Through the mundane and regular everyday ticking of the clock, I practice forgiveness Why then do I find it impossible to adopt this highly productive and mood stabilising state of peace on political behaviours both home and abroad?
Upon the recent death of US President George Bush Snr there was a seemingly appropriate outpouring of respectful analysis of his kind, stoic statesmanship. Praise has been heaped upon his record as a two term Vice and one term President, sitting at the top of international politics from 1980 to 1992. He was a politician who, although a Republican, bridged the political divide. Some of the kindest posthumous commentary coming from his 1992 Presidential opponent Bill Clinton and recent Democrat President Barak Obama Reflections of his finest achievements, however, were not unanimous
His death, announced on World AIDS Day, was for some too cruel a coincidence to be left unchallenged, and LGBTQ groups from around the world, but especially in America, used their social media platforms to remind the Bush biographers of some uncomfortable truths Bush was Reagan’s Vice President for eight years and through the initial appearance, awareness and ignorance of HIV/AIDS during the Reagan administration. Reagan’s inability to speak the word AIDS is well reported and it was not until after the death of a member of his own community and celebrity family, Rock Hudson in late 1985, that he did so. Both Reagan and Bush, together and then a legacy foundation on to which Bush continued to
build, caved in repeatedly to pressure from a conservative religious base and their antiLGBTQ agenda. A strategy which cost the lives of thousands upon thousands of Americans and impacted international response, or lack thereof, the world over.
Bush gave a US TV interview and revealed that should one of his grandchildren confide in him that they were gay, he would tell that child they were not normal but that he would of course still love them. Yes, this was 30 years ago and perhaps President Bush privately held more progressive and somewhat kinder views. Nonetheless, his Presidential public decrees reinforced a suppression of LGBTQ equalities at a time when the community was in crisis Directly and indirectly people died as a result Some 3,500 miles away, America’s best friends were introducing their own statute suppression of the LGBTQ communities Clause (later, Section) 28 came into law in May 1988 and was not repealed until 2003 (Scotland, 2000) Clause/Section 28 prevented any positive promotion of homosexuality and of any Government funded body, such as schools and local councils, promoting such as a ‘pretended family relationship’. Although no local authority or individuals were ever prosecuted, the fear of what may pass led to the closure of LGBTQ support groups and encouraged a culture of silence in publicly funded youth services. Directly and indirectly people died as a result.
For me and many of my generation the Clause/Section 28 debate is a live issue. The repeal of 28 took place in the second term of the New Labour Government and our sitting Prime Minister opposed it As did the Brexit fleeing David Cameron and 72 Conservative MPs, some of whom are currently active on the pro-Brexit back benches [see David Davies] Prime Minister May as recently as 2001 said: “Most parents want the comfort of knowing
that Section (sic) 28 is there ” The kind of research absent empty statement that tumbles out of the mouth of Donald Trump “Most parents” – in short, it’s bollocks In very recent years Theresa May has stated she’s changed her mind on LGBTQ related matters and was wrong, through her voting her record, to oppose them. She’s apologised for the anti-LGBT laws which were introduced by the British and in many cases are still enshrined across the Commonwealth. She’s though fallen short of any apology that links Clause/Section 28 to the HIV/AIDS lives lost between 1988 and 2003
There’s much still to address on this issue with the sitting Government and its ministers
And so to practicing forgiveness with a view to moving on Moving on brings with it the responsibility to ensure we don’t perpetuate the pain of what has gone before We live in times when our LGBTQ communities are expanding and their visibility more readily accepted Discussing the challenges of the past with an unforgiving quality doesn’t perpetuate the pain but helps us to remember. I’m certainly not advocating a personal attack on any politician for their voting record, these should now be examined within the political and historical context of their time. In respect of Mrs May, she’s always voted with the leadership of her party and toed the line and therefore we ’ ve no idea what she personally believes It is, however, a responsibility of our generation to inform and educate the next Complacency is our enemy and progress vulnerable
At a time when a local MP Lloyd Russell-Moyle is openly discussing his HIV status in Parliament, that same political house is advocating a state apology to those who innocently contracted HIV Innocently in this context means through blood transfusion and other medical practice ‘not through shagging’ The shaggers are not innocent – they asked for it, the subtext Today, in 2018/19. All those who have contracted HIV are innocent and yet under the banner of an outdated moral compass written into law, thousands were allowed to die as funding for associated support groups was withdrawn. How many gay men, women, trans, young people hated, cut, killed themselves or were f***ed half to death because by UK law they were, as President George Bush said, ‘not normal’
Forgive. But never forget. We must do what we can to ensure this never happens again.
They shall not grow old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn. At the going down of the sun and in the morning We will remember them (Robert Laurence Binyon)
This, is our war.
“It is a responsibility of our generation to inform and educate the next. Complacency is our enemy and progress vulnerable.”
CHARLIE SAYS
In god we trust. The rest are liars. By
Charlie Bauer Phd. http://charliebauerphd.blogspot.co.uk
) So, there we go With all the #metoo shenanigans everywhere, and the continuation of toxic masculinity on the back of the fascist right wing sweep around the world, here we are Static in a time warp as they say As the drama unfolds inside the Shitehouse, Steve Bannon continues his Nazi tour of Europe whipping up hate. (Don’t be stupid – it’ll never happen here). Well it’s happening in France just out of the blue. It’s happening in most other Euro countries, even San Angela’s taking a side-step. There’s only so much you can hate.
The real question is:
a) Does the UK really want to go into a fascist Europe?
b) What are we going to do about the continual problem about religion? Yes, religion If it’s not Kushner basically working against the Palestinians, using his new leverage with the old family friend Netanyahu, it’s Bannon going all Catholic and pitting against the current ‘left wing’ Pope
Of course Stevo isn’t religious and Kushner never moved the US embassy to Jerusalem for the view, but the continual blurring of Nazi lines by the orthodox and the new-vicious is creating the Fourth Reich for us all Of course, and I mean most of Trumps lawyers in here, it doesn’t matter what your religion or religious ethics are, so long as there is a buck to be made. The lawyers and Kushner trundle on while the chants of ‘Jews will not replace us ’ are screamed out across America. But hang on, hang on… Oh, I’m lost here, hang on… but then it may be all about confusion. Because I’m completely flummoxed.
I was never that keen on old Pope Ratzinger, not because of his iffy politics on women and gays but because he replaced the brown shirt of his youth for the off white frocks of Papa without really changing underneath them at all. Now Herr Bannon is cosying up with the Catholic right wing to bring down the current pontiff. If there’s a way to cause mayhem for anyone who ever had a good thought lest a deed, Stevo is there to batter it down. He’s setting up offices in Rome with his wealthy financial backers and a few Nazi high priests and, get this, Trump’s appointed Vatican ambassador – Callista Gingrich wife of the Newt
The court of this terminal moraine of western society is that of Gloria con Thurn unt Taxis according to the New York Slimes (call me an Uber) Formally known as TNT, she now spends her time dishing slops for the poor from her Schloss in the former Deutschland A kind of Maria von Trump, if you like Once the ‘punk princess’ ultra hip party goer whose comment on black people and AIDS I refuse to convey in this article, she now uses her 500 room pile as a base for the religion’s right.
Remember how complicit the Catholics were during WW2? Well neither do I but a quick
research should enlighten all It’s amazing what Catholics chose to forgive themselves for in the big push and, no, I’m not just talking the Holocaust here Herr Kushner I mean, rather than baiting the ‘unnaturals’, the abortive and the gays, why not just – forgive them? Come on, you ’ re used to that
But it’s the selective religious creeds that rile me I’m a sort of Catholic but I could never forgive a gayass, or I’m a Jew but will turn my face when there is a buck to be earned, or I’m a Buddhist but LOVE the taste of bacon –anyway Lord Buddha said we have a life of suffering, so let’s do it with BLTs!
I’ve a feeling Christ would be bouncing off the walls of that cave if he could see the levels of self-imposed hypocrisy at play in his name, in the game of sin, forgive and keep that kettle boiling.
Or the flight of the Jews throughout history, not just to Jerusalem, Jared, but to America, to apparently some place of comfort and respect. I mean, Hillary Clinton considers an old party favourite of Princess TNT, so we have to rest our case on some things. ‘Lock her up! Jews will not replace us – how clear do you want us to get before you put down that smartphone and do something?
But my parish priest is lovely. I know, get with the plan Stan. Not that religion is the Fentanyl of the people or anything, but anaesthetising yourself away from the obvious is just as good - bad The right are not only pissing on every constitution ever written from the US Bill of Rights to opus dei but, because like the Ritzy on the corner, there is an ever-diminishing band of audiences
Of course the best time for the zealots and the hiders was the Euro Witch trials in the 15th century Like any old holocaust they hunted and killed in the name of religion The demons this time were the witches Oh, sorry, the women, and they happily rifled their way and murdered millions. Per capita it would have been as many as the Holocaust. The reason, to inject some ‘morality’ into society. From the Christians to the world, morality into a society which had become so deranged on decadence. A bit like now according to a princess or two and the inquisition literature which supported such acts branding anything, (holding a cat) as heresy
Heresy, hearsay or hypocrisy, have it your way, but while you mull on it spare a thought to the rest of the world and its unfolding future.
“I was never that keen on old Pope Ratzinger, not because of his iffy politics on women and gays but because he replaced the brown shirt of his youth for the off white frocks of Papa without really changing underneath them at all”
HOMELY HOMILY
BY GLENN STEVENS
THE WEIGHT OF IT
) This month’s question from Gscene towers was: We are what we eat - is it really true that exercise is good for our mental health?
This got me thinking about my time growing up, back when winters were proper cold, and a good dollop of porridge served us well. Having my main meal at lunch time was also a good move as it kept me alert, which was good because during my school days I was the bullies’ favourite victim to be chased and (if caught) duffed up in the playground
It was a bit like being in a David Attenborough documentary: me, the nimble gazelle, them, the pack of wolves.
Although I was always last to be picked for sports, even Adrian with chronic asthma was picked before me, I excelled at sprinting and hurdles: so that is the one thing I have the bullies to thank for! As soon as I left school, all thoughts of sport and fitness left my mind;
the only time I ventured back into a gym was when I moved to Norwich and ended living with two guys who told me the local gym could be cruisy (it wasn’t that great to be honest, but I persevered with the weights, so I could hit the showers and the cupboard of a sauna in anticipation of copping off!) The upside was I got myself a six-pack, something I wish I had been told is seen as the Holy Grail when taking your top off in a gay club
Alas, I have a sweet tooth and as my 20s gave way to my 30s the sixpack grew into a party pack. Thankfully, as narcissistic as the gay scene can be, we (gay men as a collective) are imaginative enough to create just about any kind of sub-genre to satisfy every shape and style we care to think off
“Alas, I have a sweet tooth and as my 20s gave way to my 30s the six-pack grew into a party pack”
Okay, so I’m going way off the topic now, but bear with me As much as exercise is definitely good for your mental health, being happy with your body type is just as important.
This certainty came to mind when I sat down with a chocolate bar and a can of coke (don’t worry, I’ll knock that habit on the head along with my other New Year’s resolutions) to binge watch episodes of the brilliant Naked Attraction. If you haven’t seen it before, it’s a bit like blind date with all the bits and pieces on show. What makes the programme special is that it shows real body types of every shape and size, a kind of alternative universe to all those perfectly filtered bodies on social media that are creating all kinds of anxiety to those who believe they must strive for impossible perfection.
So what was the original question? Oh yes, exercise definitely contributes to good mental health, from a walk along the seafront, to a swim or a workout in the gym, but the underlying thought for all of us is to love ourselves, whatever our body shape.
DUNCAN’S DOMAIN
BY D U N C A N S T E WA R T
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
) The curse of living in interesting times is surely upon us and the major casualty of the recent completely unnecessary upheaval in our political scene is the virtual disappearance of the political centre ground We have been forced, and may have been so again by the time you read this, to vote either ‘in’ or ‘out’ at the referendum when ‘don’t know’ would have been a reasonable third option ahead of informed debate
Parliament resembles one of those triangular supermarket sandwiches out of which someone has taken a large central bite leaving just the pointy bits, containing not much filling The Right end of our Westminster sandwich is dominated by the usual English, noisy, privately educated, mildly xenophobic alpha males reared on a diet of British historical successes such as Waterloo, Trafalgar, D-Day, steam power and Concorde, but neglectful of the atrocities of the Boer war, deadly imposed famines in India, the Peterloo massacre and failures like Gallipoli and Suez. They reason, using this highly selected evidence, that we as a nation possess some kind of infallibility so future success is assured. This is a section of our population that has unsurprisingly produced a disproportionally large number of our diplomats, spies, venture capitalists, advertisers, actors and other deceivers.
“Parliament resembles one of those triangular supermarket sandwiches out of which someone has taken a large central bite leaving just the pointy bits, containing not much filling”
The equally unappetising crusty Left corner is currently led by a couple of ageing provocateurs with an equally selective but resolutely dystopian view of our nation’s history who have no personal experience of government, business management or diplomacy They are fence-straddling in the hope of achieving party political gain out of the chaos that is about to engulf the nation These deluded folk hope that reigniting class warfare will solve our social ills, of which I admit there are many Appealing to our sense of fairness to create equality of opportunity and reward is laudable but why minimize the chances of success by undermining the engines of wealth production. They are also peddling the notion that if able to gain power they can call up an invisible, ie non-existent, alternative cadre of civil servants to negotiate a hugely improved Brexit deal.
I probably should apologise for my obsession with this catastrophe called Brexit but, like some malign punchbag, every time I push it and turn away from the subject it swings back and hits me on the back of my head - and I find it soothing to advertise my distress!
It is said that the easiest people to sell to are salesmen, presumably because they are programmed to engage with, and be more interested in, the selling rather than what is being sold. Similarly we as a nation have been groomed to accept the appeal of superficially glamorous, impracticable, extreme views and of those who extol them, and to despise rather dull but functional moderation. We are not going to cast off from Europe and rise again as a world super-power, we have had our day, and we don’t need a revolution in order to make social progress We need the tolerant, liberal, reasoning centre ground of our political establishment to regroup, make itself heard and address our real problems
QUEER I COME
Walking the walk and talking the talk.
By Violet Valentine (Zoe AnslowGwilliam) @zoe ag
) There’s a disturbing link between the risk of mental health issues and the queer community. People who are LGBTQ+ have a higher risk of mental health issues than cisgender heterosexual individuals These statistics are often glazed over but the evidence is obvious in the statistics about trans well-being and the life expectancy of those people I won’t throw around the figures here but a quick Google search will hopefully suffice These are sad facts but if they are experiences that our community is increasingly vocal about can ensure spaces where care can be provided and self-care can be taught.
I was keen to explore how drag and mental health affect each other After all, as a local queen put, when we were discussing personal issues, ‘ we all do drag for a reason ’ . Drag queens are, for a lack of a better word, messed up. Us drag artists have problems, lots. More seriously, drag artists are incredibly resilient and have been through pretty much everything from battles with Amazon Logistics to the, arguably, less heavy issues Drag artists are the people who were ostracised in school, who were always picked last for the office teambuilding exercises and never really fit in with the assigned groups in Mean Girls
Katya, a Drag Race contestant, took a break from drag to focus on their mental health and to practice self-care This is perhaps the most public admission of a shortage of self-care within the drag scene due to her large following She emphasised she is a real person commenting that “I’m Brian, a recovering drug addict and a workaholic. I need to take personal time for my mental health to heal and recover ” , which was a bold and unapologetic move for the successful queen.
Overbooked, underpaid and underappreciated, drag artists face an arguably misunderstood level of career stress alike to other performing arts. Furthermore, like any other visual art, it has an inherently higher degree of narcissism. This dynamic allows for drag to be the perfect breeding ground for self-deprivation and overcompensation
I spoke to a drag artist, Eileen Bothways, due to their continuous unapologetic honesty about mental health from social media to acts such as their performance about trans validity Eileen agrees there’s a prevalent scarcity of self-care in the drag scene but also interestingly pointed out the “weird fetishisation of lack of self-care as a form of proving worthiness in our culture which is incredibly damaging ” This struck a chord with me because I’ve seen this happen on multiple occasions
They went on to say; “The hardest working drag artists in the UK often vocalise this absence of self-care as well but not in a manner which suggests it’s bad” Confirming an evident boastful behaviour from many artists’ suffering deeming it a necessary step to becoming successful within the scene and this is simply not true Eileen makes a great point; “If you ’ re overbooking yourself enough to cause damage to yourself and still not making sufficient money then you ’ re doing something very, very wrong ” .
There is an intrinsic link now between the fame and validation, which comes with being a drag artist, and this is easy to see with the growing number of social media accounts from young queer people exploring drag ‘cropping up ’ Often, they don’t seek to create art but to receive the affirmation that over 100 likes will bring on Instagram In an age where drag to anybody involved in the culture seems so saturated, it’s easy to adopt damaging practices of lack of self-care in a constant ‘one-upping’ of each other’s art If a drag queen posts a new photo shoot, best believe another queen will replicate that same photo shoot but in a better and more theatrical way but at the expense of integrity, budget and personal circumstance.
When this apparent link between validation and drag became clear, I spoke to another drag artist, Paul Aleksandr, who has a substantial, but more importantly, interactive social media following. They agreed that there’s often a role that ego plays when people explore drag stating; “Ironically many drag artists are introverts yet drag is a sheer visual ‘look at me’!”
Drag is undoubtedly a means to increase confidence, allow for creative expression and
generally become a happier person but this seems to rarely transfer over when the make-up is all wiped off
I recently messaged with a different drag artist, who has struggled with a decreased sense of self-worth owing to exploring drag, which is an interesting narrative that’s hardly discussed They revealed; “Going out and dressing up made me feel significantly less confident in day-today image,” and caused them to feel “Not a good-looking person, ” which led them into putting their self into more vulnerable positions out of hope for some kind of affection. They explained this as them feeling that “The real me was never good enough,” due to ongoing mental health issues such as bipolar disorder and depression which was undoubtedly worsened by the expectations pushed on artists from the working scene They stated that it’s taken them over half a year to build up the courage to leave the house and socialise after taking a break from drag
There needs to be a separation between the two portrayals of you as an individual; the drag character and the authentic individual Here are a few tips to keep that ego and your well-being in check all at the same time
) Compare your drag to your drag alone. It’s completely fine to be inspired by other artists’ work but be careful not to adopt their goals as your own People work at different paces and improve at different speeds. Set your own goals and you’ll be much prouder and less stressed.
) Get paid fairly. It’s your responsibility to demand fair pay for your art. If you ’ re unsure about how to price work then ask some more experienced artists for advice. They’ll more than likely be very helpful. Being paid fairly means that you hopefully won’t be struggling with an overbearing amount of gigs.
) Take a break. Not all improvement is going to be made overnight and, whilst turning looks everyday may seem like the only way to success and provide quick validation, putting more effort into less work will probably in turn create better work.
) Don’t do drag. By this I mean go out and about not in drag. Just because you are a drag artist now does not mean every visit to a club or bar has to be done in drag. Drag is time consuming, costly and often uncomfortable Apply that new confidence to social situations without a wig on
) Support each other. Far too often, I see that queens are competing against each other to have the most attention and the most praise This competition creates hostility and in turn makes it harder for all of us to get any recognition at all as there’s a constant search for the next best thing and a constant critique being undertaken Like fellow artists’ work, go to their shows and hang out together Make a drag house. Give each other make-up advice. Have a kiki.
Drag up to not be dragged down
IVY WOKE IN TO THE SILENCE
) Ivy woke in to the silence. She lay there, still in the bright dawn light, never one for curtains as she had nothing to hide and no one would dare gossip about her anyway. “I like to be woken by the sun, ” she would say, “called from the darkness into the light.” This early January morning was bitterly cold, the modest coal fire had gone down to silent sobbing embers at night, a red tear in the fiercely polished black grate, the windows had tendrils of ice creeping across the inside of them, knitting together in a rococo embroidery which heralded the longest, coldest nights of the year She lay perfectly still, the tip of her nose cold, her breath fogging the room
The only sounds the birds and the far away whistle of Mrs Flint coming home from the bakery after her night shift This morning her tune was a lullaby, Suo Gân; she sang the words in her mind “Ni chaiff dim amharu'th gyntun, Ni wna undyn â thi gam ” (Nothing shall disturb your slumber, Nobody will do you harm) - the same tune at the same time, in the same place as the morning Jack had gone He had said he’d never leave her, but she knew of course he would, they all did In the end, they all go. There was no bitterness in this, just a realisation of the nature of things. Although her heart had broken that morning, never to be mended since, she still got up and did what had to be done that day. As she had each day since.
Ivy closed her eyes again, the soft insistent pressure of the sunbeams falling on them. Slowly breathing out, and breathing in she remembered that morning, five years ago, when she had woken and he had not. When she had reached out a warm hand to wrap around his steadfast arm, ever round her, always tight, tickling, fondling or just holding her, reached over and found him cold, unmoving, gone from the word. “The only thing which had ever defeated me, ” she would say, “ was Jack’s smile.” She recalled it was on his face that morning. He had died happy
The same house, the same bed, the same day, the same tune, an alignment of clockwork precision which told of time, habits, lifetimes and orbits, all slowly circling around to the place they had been in before, but moved on slightly, another year, another day, another chime, another breath For 64 years Jack had slept alongside her, his breath moving the soft blue brushed cotton sheets up and down in rhythm with her own Then his had stopped and only the sheet, the same ironed blue brushed cotton sheets now wrapped Ivy in its embrace Grief had taken his place, and was the price she paid for such love, it was an unchanging room filled with memories, she still moved through it Night by night
The clock chimed seven of its jolly Westminster chimes; Jack had bought her that clock after she had been arrested for climbing Big Ben in her corsets and raining down pebbles on the Mosely Black-Shirt fascists brazenly marching in London Her contingent of Socialist Welsh Women had helped see them off that day. He had been so proud of her, they’d f***ed for a week in that corset and their first daughter was conceived that week. Their life had changed then, and hers was changed now. She smiled, laughed, felt the tears dry on her cold pink cheeks and sat up.
Today was going to be a good day, as she swung her feet out of bed, and nuzzled her toes into Jack’s old sheepskin slippers, connecting with him in each and every step she took, her toes in his toes, his steps in hers, she joined in singing with Mrs Flint’s last verse, “I will hold you, close enfold you Close your eyes now, go to sleep” and, smiling, wrote in the frosted crystals on the window, the thing Jack had whispered to her, just as he kissed her on their wedding day - “Be exquisite and never explain ”
I HAVE A PHOBIA
...and I’m not the only one. Ray A- J dives into the world of phobias, with help from Miss Autophobia and Star.
) Fear. It's all around. It’s everywhere, existing in the darkest depths of our minds. And when this fear takes over, takes hold of our conscious and consumes our very lives, it becomes a phobia
I’m a phobia sufferer, or was. I suppose I’m a phobia survivor really Thankfully, after 13 years of constant torture, I overcame my debilitating fear of Peter Pettigrew (the horrid rat man creature from the Harry Potter series) and the poor actor that played him so scarily well I was lucky I may have eradicated my fear and beat the demon that controlled much of my mind through my childhood years, but there are still many people out there who suffer with their phobias. So many that go unnoticed, their pain invisible, who power through their lives without respite from the creature that haunts them.
As I've said before, talking about a phobia is so incredibly important in order to master it, especially with people that understand exactly what you ’ re going through. Understanding other people's phobias is incredibly helpful too If we can just sit with someone and explain the pain we feel when we see the one thing that terrifies us most, then maybe we won't go unnoticed, and more of us can find a way of killing our unnecessary fright Or at the very least, we can feel a little less unusual
Alas, support groups are slim for us victims of phobias I still haven't found a physical group or network of people to help those with phobias, despite much desperate searching and consultations with Google But, with the power of social media, I did manage to find a virtual place that welcomes us sufferers to talk about our problems with open arms.
In the very corner of the internet, tucked away, almost nonexistent to most that frequent social media, lives the closest thing I could find to a safe haven for us sufferersan app called Amino. And on this app is a group dedicated to phobias. A group that goes by the name Phobias & Fears.
The vast array of phobias shared in the small community of sufferers, all pent up with fear and trepidation, is mind boggling. From Autophobia (the fear of being alone) to Ecclesiophobia (fear of churches), everything you could imagine has its corresponding phobia, and all are discussed on this little group It was here that I spoke to users
known as Miss Autophobia and Star, and the world of phobias I knew suddenly expanded Miss Autophobia sufferers from Autophobia. They’re petrified by the very idea of being left to their own devices and try at length to stay in the company of others They feel as Dr Jekyll did about his darker half, Mr Hyde; they're afraid of a part of themselves
How can someone be afraid of being by themselves? How can someone be terrified of being alone? After all if someone is alone there isn't anyone around to hurt them? For them, being left alone means being left with no-one to distract them from their own daunting, uncontrollable thoughts. As they explain: “If you ’ re alone, you ’ re going be your own villain You’re going to scare yourself to death and there’s nothing you can do about it I don’t want to be like this but I want to be like this too I’M SO TERRIFIED OF MYSELF I want to scream But I can’t I can’t run away from me People don’t understand how someone can be afraid of oneself I do I’m afraid ”
Unlike my own phobia, Miss Autophobia's problem isn't with something visible I was afraid of a character in a film, and at best could avoid contact with anything that even resembled the physical being that haunted my nightmares. But not all phobias are like that, not all of them are avoidable. Miss Autophobia's very fear is something they will perhaps come into contact with every day.
On the other side of this - the user known as Star has a phobia of something that is very much visible. Bees.
Their phobia, dubbed Apiphobia, infected them when at age three they were stung by a bee. And that fateful experience has made them petrified ever since.
As they explain: “When I hear buzzing, I get tense and my breath may catch in my throat. If the buzzing is really close to me (even if it’s a fly buzzing by my ear and I’m unaware at first), my heart rate usually increases. When I realise I’m safe, I can relax. But if I’m in an area that has bees/wasps, I’ll want to stay as far away from them as possible If I’m in that same area for too long, I’ll get tense and feel generally on edge, wanting to escape the area ASAP It’s basically a fight-or-flight response, and for me in particular, I’d choose flight If a bee flies near me, I will literally squeal and immediately run away as fast as possible I’ll breathe shallowly, my eyes will go wide, and my heart rate will increase."
Because of the nature of their phobia, many people they encounter will often misunderstand just how debilitating it is for them to see a bee.
“I feel that my phobia is often downplayed, I suppose When I say I’m afraid of bees/wasps, people don’t really understand the severity I get upset when people try to tell me 'it’s just a bee' because, yes, I know it is. That’s what makes phobias so hard to deal with. We know the fear is irrational but we have it anyway. ”
Many people that suffer from phobias seem to experience this sense of disbelief, and it's understandable; how can we be so terrified of something, when the majority of other people aren't even bothered by what we consider as the most horrifying thing imaginable?
But, with all of these phobias it’s clear: no matter the fear, the severity, the rationality, our phobias are valid, and we need to talk about them.
“I get upset when people tr y to tell me ‘it’s just a bee’ because, yes, I know it is. That’s what makes phobias so hard to deal with. We know the fear is irrational but have it anyway”
THE RAMBLINGS OF A NOT-SO-TRENDY TEEN
You must be white, cis, straight-acting and ripped or you’re not gay says Lee Henriques
) Those are the expectations set upon men in the LGBTQ+ community, aren’t they? Our standards of beauty consist solely of whiteness, cisness and stereotypical (AKA toxic and heteronormative) masculinity Let’s take the new Queer Eye – a wonderfully campy show starring five fabulous gay men; who does everybody look to as the ‘hunk’? Antoni. Jonathan’s too femme, Karamo and Tan aren’t white, and Bobby’s not ripped. Now, this isn’t to fault men who are white, cis, thin and not particularly feminine (I know I’ve immediately hurt a few fragile egos here, and this isn’t a personal attack on Antoni) but they certainly shouldn’t be held to the extremely high calibre that they are
The term ‘straight thin, but gay fat’ feeds into the vicious standardised beauty cycle that perpetuates the horrid body dysmorphia and eating disorders among LGBTQ+ men Matthew Todd touches upon this in his book Straight Jacket, explaining that since society doesn’t really accept us, we don’t accept ourselves This can manifest into unhealthy eating patterns and fixations on our appearance Research from nationaleatingdisorders org shows that 42% of reported males with eating disorders identify as gay, an alarming statistic considering the amount of people with disorders that are never reported or seek professional help.
These overly glorified body types with sixpacks and obnoxious muscles are tied to the systemic heteronormative ideals imposed on queer men (I’m using queer as an umbrella term to encompass all LGBTQ+ men). I personally believe this view originates from the outdated idea that if we aren’t feminine, if we ’ re straight-passing and adhere to the same
ridiculously toxic ideals of masculinity that straight men do, then we’ll be safe Our masculinity won’t be questioned, it’ll be a physical display that even if someone does realise we are gay we are no less of a man Continuing on from Todd’s premise, we have doubly the pressure to be accepted by ourselves and by a heteronormative society that pokes fun at men who show any kind of emotion that isn’t anger (queue the disgusting Daily Mail article, written by Tammy Hughes, titled Sniff sniff! Why are so many grown men blubbing like babies on Celebrity Jungle?) In other words, bodybuilding and other kinds of grooming can be a symbol many queer men use to prove their worth and reclaim the masculinity that is dismissed upon coming out of the closet
But we shouldn’t have to prove anything to anyone, especially obsolete gendered tropes and especially not to each other All bodies are beautiful Masculinity is just as attractive as femininity In fact I’d take the sensitive guy over the repressed, self-hating jock, any day. The whole masc4masc thing needs to stop hiding behind the ‘it’s just my preference’ argument and face the reality that feminine guys making you uncomfortable warrants some self-reflection. Society tells you to value hegemonic masculinity, it’s not a preference if
it’s been instilled since birth And the same goes for whiteness and cisness
Racism and transphobia within the LGBTQ+ community deserve their own respective columns (neé, books), but they boil down to the same issue of beauty standards – we ’ ve been indoctrinated to believe whiteness and cisnormativity are the end-all be-all of desirability, and their counterparts are seen as less than. Obviously that’s nonsense, but it seems as if if you ’ re not a skinny, white, cisgender manly man you don’t get the same level of recognition or respect as someone who is.
The irony of being part of a marginalised group that marginalises certain members of their community has been an ongoing issue within the LGBTQ+ community that often gets swept under the metaphorical rainbow rug. I urge everyone to check out Grindr’s new Kindr campaign, where they address really important issues like sexual racism, body shaming, transphobia, HIV stigma and femme shaming on the app They’ve changed their community guidelines and are actively starting conversations about these topics that need to be talked about and recognised
Growing up, my gay role models were far and few between I looked up to the drag queens on RuPaul’s Drag Race, Troye Sivan on YouTube, TV shows like Faking It and Glee, singers like Olly Alexander from Years & Years. There’s so much more diversity for the gay youth of today to look up to, as more and more role models come out and step up. It baffles me that this rigid thought of ‘traditionally’ attractive queer men somehow still exists. If the person reading this isn’t white, cis, straight-acting or ripped, I just want you to know that you ’ re valid Our community can often discriminate against people who don’t fit the norm of all these inter-labels we love to place on each other So instead, let’s celebrate what makes us different, what makes us more interesting than the carbon copy #Instagays What makes you so much more than your appearance? We often tie our self-worth to our appearance when there’s so much more substance to us than our physicality.
Jameela Jamil created an Instagram-based movement (@i weigh) for women to look beyond their weight and focus instead on what makes them uniquely them and measure their lives outside of weighing scales. I think we should do the same and love our physicality (in spite of all the possible ‘flaws’ we may have) but not fixate our entire worth on it. I’ll leave you with this: who are you outside of who you appear to be?
“...we shouldn’t have to prove anything to anyone, especially obsolete gendered tropes and especially not to each other. All bodies are beautiful”
SUGAR SWANHOW SHE SEES IT
A clichéd New Year ’s Resolution.
By Ms Sugar Swan
) Each year, it’s tradition that we make New Year’s Resolutions. Whilst we may focus on anything from picking up a new hobby through to charitable giving, many resolutions focus on health and fitness.
Losing weight, gaining weight, building muscle, losing it, quitting smoking, changing our eating habits, joining a gym, the list goes on. This month’s Gscene asks if exercise is really good for our mental health, I have to say that, for me at least, I think so.
I have battled lifelong eating disorders in my life which may have tied into my gender dysphoria. I’m not unique in this situation. I know many trans people who have either an eating disorder (ED) or some other selfharming habits that offer us temporary relief of our dysphoria, if only for a few seconds
Being easily susceptible to addiction, I’ve been able to swap one addiction for another and concentrate on my diet and exercise
regime and have been able to lose 40 kilos at one point in recent life Unfortunately, and inevitably, my ED will once again raise its head and my weight will balloon and then I’ll yo-yo up and down that 40 kilo slide forever either binging or putting all my effort into weight loss and exercise.
Regardless of my EDs and weight, exercise and sport is something that has always been an important mainstay and consistent in my life. As a young child I was a tap dancer and an ice skater, as I reached my teens, a runner and tennis player.
As a young adult, I found myself struck by tragedy and injury as I was in a road traffic accident which was to claim my girlfriend’s life and leave me in a wheelchair for two years whilst I underwent many a surgery requiring me to once again having to learn to walk again.
If we fast forward 15 years, I find myself with liver disease and my orthopaedic surgeon telling me that I need a new set of knees but won’t get them whilst I am obese. This was the push I needed to sort out my overall health and fitness once and for all
I joined a new gym, got a Personal Trainer who worked with me on my diet and counselled me through my EDs It was only a year or so before I was so fully integrated into the gym and had made such huge changes to my life that the owner decided that I would make a great team member and put me through college to become a nutritionist, aerobics instructor and personal trainer. I managed to bag myself a job in a women-only gym delivering Aerobic Classes and Strength Classes. This gave me access to a women-only space where I knew I was in a safe space, this helped me thrive.
Getting healthier, getting on top of my EDs and getting in shape helped me be able to
come out as trans three years ago Before this I was still hiding who I really was as I knew that I was in no position to be able to safely tolerate HRT and my BMI was far too high to be ever cleared for surgery.
I’ve been transitioning socially and medically for three years and I’ve been transitioning surgically for two In the last two years I’ve been through a grueling schedule of 10 surgeries, each scheduled to happen as soon as I’ve recovered from the last. I’ve been in such significant pain and healing from these surgeries that it’s meant that I have had to take two years off from my gym work and my own exercise schedule which would mainly consist of spinning classes and yoga
Since being unable to work in the industry and exercise on a personal level, my surgical schedule has had a two-fold effect. Firstly, it’s taken its toll on my mental health I’ve missed the social aspect of group exercise and endorphins that rush through the body and the general benefits that I feel exercise has on my mental health
Secondly, it has had a negative effect on my body shape and whilst in postoperative depression and in a great deal of pain for two solid years my EDs have crept back in as just for a few moments things feel better with a cream cake in my mouth
I’m now in a place where my surgical transition is over, I’m not in daily pain and from January I’ve been cleared to start gentle exercise, slowly building up my endurance and strength I won’t be able to do certain things for at least another six months, such as sit on an exercise bike, but I’ll be able to do most exercise and by next summer I hope to be fit and strong enough to once again take up teaching.
I am about to embark on my next chapter of life as a woman who doesn't have to worry about communal changing facilities in things such as swimming pools and the nightmare of trying to hide a penis in a swimming costume or yoga pants and for that I feel grateful and privileged. I can now face the world proud of my body and my genitalia as transition for me is now in the bag
2019 for me will be a year of growth, both physically and mentally. I am looking forward to the inevitable improved mental health that exercise will bring I wish you all the best for the coming year
“Getting healthier, getting on top of my eating disorders and getting in shape helped me be able to come out as trans three years ago. Before this I was still hiding who I really was”
SAM TRANS MAN
Working out! Dr Samuel Hall on the positive mental and physical benefits of healthy food and regular exercise.
) Thanks Ed for the soapbox opportunity! Food and exercise as a topic - yum! My favourites. Now those of you who know me will also know that I’m a rotund and obviously reluctant participant in exercise these days, but it hasn’t always been so and I hope, wont continue to be Eight years ago, as I was coming to terms with my need to transition, I ran, cycled and swam several times a week, and even managed a half marathon two years running All of this was aimed at supporting my mental health, which in the face of overt and cruel transphobia, not least my own, was extremely fragile for a number of years. There is something so important about exercise, it’s been hard to quantify but we know it’s true. Research does uphold that for some, exercise is as effective a treatment as antidepressant pharmaceuticals, although in severe depression it isn’t enough to rely on exercise alone as treatment
The problem is, when you get depressed, you can’t love yourself or your body into health. For a trans person this is an experience that’s compounded (and often caused) by gender dysphoria It’s hard enough to look after your body when your mental health is good Many of us have fallen prey to abuses of our bodies over the years, and the older we get, the more the damage mounts up Sadly for people around my age (40-60) we ’ re a generation who don’t know how to slow down as we get older, and I fear we may be the first generation to live to shorter ages than our parents.
People around me, myself included, often exercise regularly and then drink alcohol and take recreational drugs ‘at the weekend’ when they feel good about life, and about themselves. When depression hits, as it will about 1:20 of us in any one year, we carry on doing the drugs and alcohol, but quickly lose inertia with regard to exercise. It’s hard to keep looking after something you have lost
PROJECT WEEKLY DROP-IN
is based in central Brighton in a safe and confidential space to explore issues around gender identity Facilitated peer support is an important element, as well as providing access to low-cost psychotherapy and speech therapy
respect for. Yourself. It’s a vicious circle that’s an effort to clamber out of, and many people fail to do so for long stretches of their lives It’s so important to build up an exercise repertoire that fits in with your life and which is sustainable This is where many of us stumble We go through fits and starts, gaining fitness for some years, or months, then losing it again Rather than planning and building exercise into our lives as a matter of routine, we carve out special times and places. In primary school, PE is a part of the curriculum but separate to everything else, so we all grow up with a notion of exercise being something we have to do (ie timetabled) but which isn’t integrated into daily life. At secondary school things get worse, exercise becomes a matter of choice, preference, or ability. It’s never seen as an essential element of ‘wellness’, like oxygen, food, or water Exercise isn’t about ‘lifestyle choice’, exercise is a vital ingredient of life itself
We’ve become enthralled with the perfect body, and the pressure to look beautiful This weighs especially on people who identify or are raised as women If you throw gender dysphoria into the mix, it becomes nigh on impossible to put yourself in a public setting when it comes to exercise
When I first started my transition, I couldn’t face the female changing rooms whilst my body changed, so I just didn’t go to the gym I didn’t feel safe in the male changing rooms because my body hadn’t changed enough, so I just didn’t go to the gym. It didn’t help that the gym membership manager also suggested that I just ‘didnt go to the gym ’ . Because, of course, people like me are discriminated against. Sometimes in person, but mostly by systems and services that operate in a deeply divisive gender binary. Thankfully in Brighton we have some fantastic initiatives, including Trans Can Sport, which arranges regular courses
CLARE
PROJECT meets every TUES 2.30– 5.30PM at DORSET GARDENS METHODIST CHURCH
Dorset Gardens (off St James Street) Brighton BN2 1RL
Except 1st Tues when there’s an optional meal out preceded by the drop-in 5–7.30PM
www.clareproject.org.uk f Clare Project clareprojectinfo@gmail.com
and tasters in a wide range of sports and fitness disciplines from running to sailing, and a weekly dedicated pool session provided by Freedom Leisure which is open only to trans and non-binary individuals and their partners. It’s heaven. You can drop shoulders and be yourself without any fear of discrimination or hate coming your way. If only the rest of society felt like that for trans and non-binary people.
Of course it isn’t just exercise that affects our mental health and emotional wellbeing. Our choice of food and drink also has an impact. We all know full well the effects of alcohol, taking the edge off anxiety, making sleep deeper yet less restful, triggering misery the next day if you ’ ve over indulged, and as you get older, a complete inability to cope with large quantities of the stuff without putting oneself at risk of depression and other mental health issues I see more and more young trans and non-binary eschew alcohol altogether and I must confess I’m in awe I drink regularly, though not a huge amount, and I’ve attempted abstinence for prolonged periods, but never managed more than a year at a time. Hats off to those lifelong non-drinkers who really do feel the benefits in mental health. Mainly stability of emotions.
We also know the damage sugar does to our bodies, but don’t recognise the impact it has on the mind. Anyone who has watched a toddler eat chocolate, or sweets, will know what this evil ingredient does to the brain. And we eat kilos of the stuff. We spent years looking for the culprit additives and food colouring to blame, anything but the sugar Because it is so addictive And then there is meat, and dairy How on earth do we safely ingest food produce that’s been manufactured at the expense of sentient beings who share our planet home, without ingesting all the suffering and negative energy that accumulates as a result of the processes that bring these highly addictive foods to our supermarket shelves?
The biggest change I’ve made this year is to move to a whole food, plant-based vegan diet It’s been tough, but the benefits are already showing. It’s changed my relationship with food, given me a sense of solidarity with food poverty, and renewed my passion for food as medicine. Staying healthy is simpler than we think. We just have to love ourselves.
MINDOUT
) Alex came out as a gay man when he was 17 It was a traumatic time He was living at home and his parents had been really upset by his news They couldn’t talk to him about it and meal times became unbearable He felt so awful about himself that he stopped eating normally He began binge eating as a way of comforting himself but then felt so ashamed that he would almost starve himself or only eat one type of food for a period of time as a way of gaining control again.
His self-esteem was at rock bottom and he felt so confused – if being gay made him feel so bad then there must be something really wrong with him. He started going out to clubs and bars and was desperate to feel accepted. But he often felt that his body didn’t match up to an ideal of what a gay man should be like He felt a lot of pressure to bulk up and have a ‘ more masculine’ look that he could never achieve
Food became a way of coping with how much he hated himself, the stress of being on the scene and just how low he was feeling Alex found it really tough to see anything good in himself He really was only measuring his selfworth in terms of how attractive he thought he was to other men
Over the years, Alex became more comfortable with himself He settled into a long-term relationship, his self-esteem improved and his eating habits settled down, although whenever he felt low or his life became difficult this would trigger off his binge eating again – it never quite went away.
Recently Alex turned 48 and split up with his long-term partner Jay - he was drinking more to cope with the end of his relationship and started binge eating and then making himself sick. He became really self-critical and blamed himself for the end of his relationship. He couldn’t help fixating on his body and physical appearance and knew he wasn’t good enough anyway for his last partner
Alex’s earlier binge eating had developed into bulimia now and his eating had got out of control He was feeling really scared because the impulse to eat helped him get rid of horrible feelings of self-disgust but then he felt so dirty inside that he had to make himself sick to feel OK again He felt trapped in this cycle Making himself sick so often was having an impact on his health He was feeling so awful about himself, ashamed, isolated and had no idea where to turn.
“Eating distress is a very common experience and often invisible - you can feel trapped in a cycle of over eating, making yourself sick or starving yourself as a way of controlling difficult thoughts and feelings. It is really hard to address these problems by yourself – there is help out there”
A close friend, Amy, noticed that Alex was very withdrawn and had become very down about his appearance, she was really worried that he might be feeling suicidal She finally got Alex to open up a bit about how devastated he was about losing Jay and how out of control he was feeling. She suggested he got in touch with MindOut for support and to find out whether their services could help.
Alex was nervous, but he did meet up with a MindOut group worker. They suggested that peer support might be useful, giving him a safe space to talk to others about how he was feeling. Alex joined one of MindOut’s men ’ s groups, which gave him a weekly safe haven to meet with other men who had similar experiences and could empathise with what he was going through
Through talking about his feelings he realised just how low he had got and how suicidal he was feeling Gradually he began to rediscover who he was beyond his physical appearance and body image and his self-esteem began to improve
Alex also had a course of counselling with MindOut, where he also discussed his eating and his complicated feelings about food This helped Alex feel more in control and he began to look after himself better physically and emotionally – with MindOut’s help he didn’t feel so alone anymore
Eating distress is a very common experience and often invisible - you can feel trapped in a cycle of over eating, making yourself sick or starving yourself as a way of controlling difficult thoughts and feelings. It is really hard to address these problems by yourself –there is help out there.
SUPPORT
Other sources of support if you are worried about your own or someone else’s eating problems:
) National Centre for Eating Disorders eating-disorders.org.uk/
MINDOUT
If you would like to talk about eating distress or any other mental health issues, then please contact MindOut. We offer advice and information, advocacy, peer support group work, peer mentoring, suicide prevention, low-cost counselling, online support
All our services are confidential, nonjudgemental and independent.
INFO
) For more info: www.mindout.org.uk
) Email us on info@mindout.org.uk
) Ring us on 01273 234839
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● ALLSORTS YOUTH PROJECT
Drop-in for LGBT or unsure young people under 26 Tues 5 30–8 30pm 01273 721211 or email info@allsor tsyouth org uk, www allsor tsyouth org uk
● BRIGHTON GEMS
Social group for gay men over 50 with several events every month inc meeting at Dorset Gardens 2nd Monday of month 2 30pm last Fri of month 7-9pm For info email info@brightongems com www brightongems com
● BRIGHTON & HOVE POLICE
Repor t all homophobic, biphobic or transphobic incidents to: 24/7 assistance call Police on 101 (for emergencies 999) Repor t online at: www sussex police uk LGBT team (not 24/7) email: LGBT@sussex pnn police uk
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Meditation & discussion, every 2nd & 4th Thur, 5 30–7pm, Anahata Clinic, 119 Edward St, Brighton 07789 861 367
or www bodhitreebrighton org uk
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Lunch club for people with HIV Meet/make friends, find peer suppor t in safe space Every Fri, noon–2 30pm, Community Room, Dorset Gdns Methodist Church, Dorset Gdns, Brighton Lunch £1 50 07846 464 384
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● PEER ACTION
Regular low cost yoga, therapies, swimming, meditation & social groups for people with HIV contact@peeraction.net or www.peeraction.net
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Suppor t group for lesbian and/or gay parents 07951 082013 or info@rainbowfamilies.org.uk www rainbowfamilies org uk
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Social/suppor t group for LGB or questioning aged 14-19, Tue 5 30-7 30pm, Hastings Call/text Cathrine Connelly 0797 3255076 or email somepeople@eastsussex gov uk
● TAGS – THE ARUN GAY SOCIETY
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● VICTIM SUPPORT
Practical, emotional suppor t for victims of crime 08453 899 528
● THE VILLAGE MCC
Christian church serving the LGBTQ community Sundays 6pm, Somerset Day Centre, Kemptown 07476 667353 www thevillagemcc org
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Sussex HIV & AIDS info service 01403 210202 or email confidential@aver t.org
● BRIGHTON & HOVE CAB HIV PROJECT
Money, benefits, employment, housing, info, advocacy Appointments: Tue-Thur 9am-4pm, Wed 9am-12 30pm Brighton & Hove Citizens Advice Bureau, Brighton Town Hall 01273 733390 ext 520 or www brightonhovecab org uk
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Free confidential testing & treatment for STIs including HIV, plus Hep A & B vaccinations Claude Nicol Centre, Sussex County Hospital, on Weds from 5-8pm 01273 664 721 or www brightonsexualhealth com
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Pavillions Par tnership Info, advice, appointments & referrals 01273 731 900 Drop-in: Richmond House, Richmond Rd, Brighton, Mon-Wed & Fri 10am-4pm, Thur 10am-7pm, Sat 10am-1pm; 9 The Drive, Hove 01273 680714 Mon & Wed 10am-12pm & 1pm-3pm, Tue & Thu 10am-4pm, info & advice only (no assessments), Fri 10am-12pm & 1pm-3pm
• Gary Smith (LGBT* Suppor t) 07884 476634 or email gsmith@pavilions org uk
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24 hour nursing & medical care, day care
01273 694222 or www sussexbeacon org uk
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For more info about these free services go to the THT office, 61 Ship St, Brighton, Mon–Fri, 10am–5pm 01273 764200 or info.brighton@tht.org.uk
• Venue Outreach: info on HIV, sexual health, personal safety, safer drug/alcohol use, free condoms/lubricant for men who have sex with men
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• Positive Voices: volunteers who go to organisations to talk about personal experiences of living with HIV
• Fastest (HIV testing): walk-in, (no appointment) rapid HIV testing service open to MSM (Men who have sex with Men) Anyone from the African communities, male and female sex workers and anyone who identifies as Trans or non-binary We now offer rapid 15 minutes results for HIV/Syphilis: Mon 10am-8pm, Tues-Fri 10am-5pm, Thurs 10am-8pm (STI testing available)
• Sauna Fastest at The Brighton Sauna (HIV testing): walk-in, (no appointment) rapid HIV testing service for men who have sex with men, results in 20 minutes: Wed: 6–8pm (STI testing available)
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) BARS & PUBS
1 AMSTERDAM BAR & KITCHEN
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129 St James St
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7 George St, 01273 696873
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32-34 Russell Sq, 01273 325 652
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