Front PorchFredericksburgMay2026

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6jenny mcgee staff member of the year

25julie kruse

Finding magic in overlooked

31dr lindsey aebli helping hands, helping people

Porch talk

3 reedema: queen of queens

4 on the porch...life in fredericksburg messages

7everything green: always learning

8In the Garden: spring, a busy time

9 growing & crawling: parasitic pipes

10fredericksburg perspectives

12tidbits...small bites of local news

13 season’s bounty: strawberry fields

14Spirits:cocktails for memorial day

15Vino:sparkling wine for mom

16-17Calendar of Events

18history’s stories: chancellorsville

19 our heritage: what s in an enigma

20mental health: what’s good behavior

21 emancipated patient: impact world 360

22in praise of mothers

24art in the burg

....galleries in May

26auto known better: stick a fork in it

27 celebrate america’s birthday at caroline county fair

28companions: spay it forward

29astrology & you

poetryman: Born into starlight

30fredericksburg sketches

5Life of Frank fratoe remembered 11 stage door live community theatre 23 the south’s best ...fxbg main street wins!

“monarch at chatham” David c. kennedy

One thing that we have observed over the course of our lives is that when hardships occur for children, they may develop one of two responses when grown. Some people can carry a chip on their shoulder (why me?) and then others take their experience and grow a compassionate heart, reaching out to help others. This is what Reedema Rock did after having lived a challenging childhood

Reedema, known as "Birdie" (her mom loved "Bye, Bye Birdie) when she was growing up, was born in Louisa County. When her family suffered a house fire and lost everything, they had to move around a lot until they found help in Fredericksburg. Eventually, she, her mom, and six siblings moved into a two-bedroom apartment at Frederick's Place and could settle down.

Reedema's mom instilled in all of her children a strong work ethic and to pull together as a family. Her mom worked two jobs, one of which was managing the Days Inn on Rt. 17. Reedema got a special work permit and worked with her mom there at 12 years old. She worked summer jobs, and after graduating from Spotsylvania High School in 1984, she worked for Navy Federal for five years until 1990 when she began

Unsung Heroes Reedema: A Queen of Queens

working in the US Department of Agriculture She loves being a Contract Specialist who makes purchases for needy families, the elderly, food banks, and school lunches.

Because her daughter's father was not very active in her life from an early age, when she wanted to attend a father/daughter dance, Reedema's son took her. This inspired Reedema to create Dinner for a Queen for daughters who may or may not have a father. The surrogate was required to ask the young lady out, give her a corsage, and attend a formal dinner. This demonstrated for the girls how they should be treated by men

and displayed the qualities of a positive male role model.

By Archer & Robin Di Peppe

Wish that we could make this article twice as long to list the multitude of events that Reedema has created to help children, some of which are I am a King Cookouts for mentoring young men, Father's Day Bait & Tackle to strengthen family bonds, Back-tto School Giveaways to supply backpacks, school supplies, and clothing for students in need, meals and food distribution at Thanksgiving, Christmas gifts, Easter Baskets, and providing blankets and essentials for the homeless. These are just some of the blessings that she bestows on others.

One of the most memorable events is the Cinderella & Prince Charming Experience where she provides free prom attire that she has paid for out-of-pocket or has been donated for students in need in Grades 9-12. She partners with Men's Wearhouse who donates free tux rentals for the male students. During COVID Macy's in Chesterfield donated 300 gowns for students. Until this year the Fredericksburg Expo donated the event space. This year the A & B Event Center has graciously donated their venue.

The girls come in and are each assigned a Fairy Godmother, shown table etiquette, how to put on make-up, then pick out a dress (Yes to the Dress), shoes, handbag, jewelry, and crowned with a tiara. She then receives a Swag Bag with a cup that says "I am a Queen", a journal, prayer cards, and other gifts, and then goes to the Photo Booth for a picture.

The guys come in and are assigned a Fairy Godfather, fitted right

there for a tux, shirt, shoes, as well as get measured for a donated suit that they can take home. Their Swag Bag includes a cup that says "I am a King", a gold King Cuff Link holder shaped like a crown, a journal, as well as other gifts. The students experience a "magical" time.

Reedema created a non-profit named I am Royalty, Fit for a King and Queen (fitforakingandqueen@gmail.com) in 2017 and keeps her own journal to keep a strong connection with God and His purpose though her. Her philosophy: "Hardships do not have to define a person's life. Like a flower pot tipped over where some soil may spill, flowers can still bloom. We can help people rise again."

Arch & Robin DiPeppe, the dynamic duo, are longtime Front Porch contributors

Facebook@ I am Royalty Fit for A King & Queen fitforakingandqueen@gmail com

Alexis Grogan

Guest Porch Editorial

Contributing Writers & Artists

Rita Allan Sally Cooney Anderson

Sonja Cantu

Gary CloseArcher Di Peppe

Robin Di PeppeJanet Douberly

Jeannie EllisFrank Fratoe

Mary FriandeMary Beth Geil

Jon GerlachKathleen Harrigan Karen Kallay

Michael Thomas Harvey

Ralph “Tuffy” HicksNancy Kelly

David C. Kennedy

Caitlyn McGheeEmber Mercury Ray Mikula

Vanessa Moncure Pete Morelewicz

Lenora Kruk-Mullanaphy

Patrick Neustatter

Amy PeregoyDanelle Rose

Paula RaudenbushRob Rudick

Clint SchemmerMandy Smith

Lynda TatePaige Connor Totaro

Rim Vining Tina Will

Ellyn WenzlerNorma Woodward

Kim YoungVon Young

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ON THE PORCH

may

days

By Alexis grogan

May in Fredericksburg always feels like a month that asks a lot of us, in the best possible way. It brings Mother's Day, Memorial Day, and the first real promise of summer all within the same few weeks, which means we are usually balancing family celebrations, remembrance, and the familiar local temptation to declare the season open before the weather fully agrees.

Mother's Day comes first, and it deserves more than a quick bouquet and a reserved brunch table. It is a day to honor the women who have carried families through ordinary days and difficult ones, often with more grace than anyone ever notices

In Fredericksburg, where community still matters and people still wave to each other in parking lots, Mother's Day feels especially fitting. It is a time to recognize the mothers, grandmothers, stepmothers, and mother figures who teach us what steadiness looks like, what sacrifice looks like, and what love looks like when it shows up in the everyday things - the packed lunches, the late-night advice, the rides across town, and the steady encouragement that keeps people going long after childhood is over.

There is also something deeply local about the way Fredericksburg understands family. This is a city where front porches still matter, where neighbors still notice one another, and where traditions are carried from one generation to the next with care. Mother's Day fits that spirit beautifully. It reminds us that the strongest communities are often built quietly, through people who show up, keep track of the details, and make sure everyone else feels cared for A good mother, in many ways, does for a family what a good community does for a city: she holds things together without asking for applause.

Then comes Memorial Day, which should never be treated as just another long weekend, no matter how ready we are for cookouts and time outdoors. It is a day to remember the men and women who gave their lives in service to this country and to reflect on the cost of the freedoms we enjoy today. Here in Fredericksburg, a city shaped by history at every turn, that remembrance carries special weight. We live in a place where the past is not a distant idea; it is part of the landscape, part of the story, part of the reason we

understand sacrifice a little more deeply. The flags, ceremonies, and moments of silence matter because they remind us that the comfort of the present was made possible by people who gave everything for something greater than themselves.

That truth is worth pausing over. The barbecues, the lake trips, the backyard gatherings, and the long weekend are part of the American rhythm of Memorial Day, but they rest on something solemn. Before we light the grill or head out for the first real swim of the year, we ought to remember that someone else carried a burden we do not have to carry because they did. That is not just history. It is a legacy. It is the reason the holiday deserves more than a passing nod before the first hamburger comes off the flame.

neighborhood porch.

And then, just as reflection gives way to celebration, May begins nudging us toward summer. The patios fill, the outdoor events pick up, the evenings stretch a little longer, and suddenly everyone is acting as though the grill has been waiting all year for this exact moment. Fredericksburg knows how to do this transition well. The city's streets, trails, parks, shops, and gathering places come alive when the weather turns, and May is the month when the community starts leaning into all of it.

There is something comforting about that rhythm. A month that honors mothers, remembers the fallen, and welcomes the season ahead says a great deal about who we are and what we value. It reminds us to slow down, to pay attention, and to make room for gratitude alongside the celebrations. It also gives us permission to enjoy the simple things that make this area feel like home: a walk downtown, a meal with family, a ballgame, a festival, or an evening spent watching the light fade over a

That is the beauty of May in Fredericksburg. It is busy without losing its sense of meaning, festive without forgetting its roots, and hopeful in the way only spring turning toward summer can be.

So as the month unfolds, may we honor the mothers who guide us, remember the service members who gave everything for our freedom, and welcome the longer days with the kind of gratitude that fits this town best. And if we can do all of that while reading Front Porch cover to cover, then we have gotten the season exactly right.

Poetry Man

In memory of frank anthony fratoe

Frank A Fratoe, age 85, born December 10, 1940, passed away peacefully on March 10, 2026, surrounded by love.

Frank was a deeply intelligent, thoughtful, and accomplished man whose life was defined by service, curiosity, and a profound appreciation for both people and ideas. He graduated summa cum laude from Ohio State University before earning his doctorate from the University of Pennsylvania, where he pursued his passion for sociology and understanding the human experience.

Frank proudly served his country in the United States Army, where he was recognized early for his excellence.

Following his military service, Frank built a distinguished career in public service, dedicating 25 years to the federal government as a sociologist and program analyst. He worked with the U S Department of Commerce's Minority Business Development Agency, helping expand opportunities for minority business owners. He also conducted research with the U S Department of Agriculture and served as an assistant professor at Rutgers University His work was widely respected, and his contributions were recognized with multiple awards for outstanding performance.

A gifted and published poet, Frank found meaning in words and used them to reflect on life, faith, resilience, and-most

notably-love. His poetry was featured in Front Porch Fredericksburg, where he became known to many as "The Poetry Man " Through his writing, Frank captured both the beauty of everyday moments and the deeper truths that often go unspoken.

At the center of Frank's life was his beloved wife, Jane, who was truly the love of his life. Jane, a devoted educator and music teacher, shared with Frank a life grounded in learning, creativity, and deep connection. Their bond endured through time, and in his writing, he often returned to her-through poems, cards, and reflections that captured a love both enduring and deeply felt. In the days following his passing, those closest to him gathered to read the words he had written to her, a testament to a love that never faded.

Frank also spent many years coaching and umpiring youth baseball, something he came to truly enjoy from his many years as a loyal baseball fan and supporter of his beloved Cleveland Indians.

Frank is survived by his sons, Anthony Fratoe (sons Santino and Angelo) and Michael Fratoe (wife Alexa; children Ella and Max). He is also survived by his nieces, Julie and June, and nephews, Joe and Perry. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Jane Cooney Fratoe; his parents, Joseph I. Fratoe and Mary L. Fratoe (Corso); his sister, Marilyn S. Gramuglia; and his brother, Joseph M. Fratoe.

Publisher Note:

Frank Fratoe was a kind, generous and thoughtful man It was a pleasure knowing and working with him these many years He will be missed but his work will live on Frank left Front Porch publisher a book of his poems for continued publication of “The Poetry Man” in the magazine

Jenny McGee

VA library staff member of the year

by kim young

Central Rappahannock Regional Library is proud to announce that Jenny McGee, Library on the Go (LOTG) Specialist at Howell Branch, has been named Staff Member of the Year by the Virginia Public Library Directors Association (VPLDA)

This award recognizes excellence in libraries serving populations over 100,001. In 2025 alone, McGee personally assisted over 4,000 customers with library services across 18 senior living facilities across the City of Fredericksburg, Spotsylvania County, and Stafford County. She was instrumental in the rollout of a new mobile library vehicle serving rural Westmoreland County residents.

Her work provides essential technology access, books, and social connection for residents who cannot easily visit a physical branch.

Kim Young is Director of Community Engagement at Central Rappahannock Regional Library

If you've spent any time at Downtown Greens lately, you've probably noticed the shift. The garden is waking up, stretching, buzzing, greening in that quietbut-not-quiet way that only spring can manage. One day it's bare branches and muddy beds, and the next it feels like everything is alive and humming with purpose.

Spring has a way of doing that. It doesn't just show up, it teaches.

First, there's renewal Everywhere you look, something is starting over. Beds that looked tired in February are now pushing up green shoots like they've got something to prove. No matter how dormant or messy things have been, there's always another season coming.

And sometimes, renewal looks a lot like a second chance. Take our peach tree in the lower garden. Last summer, it was loaded, absolutely full of peaches, until a storm came through and knocked

every single one to the ground before they could ripen. It could've taken the year off, sulked a little. Instead? It's back this spring covered in tiny peaches, trying again like nothing ever happened.

Then there's patience. Let's talk tomatoes. We all want them now. We dream of thick slices on sandwiches, maybe a little salt. But a truly good tomato? That takes time. Summer will come, and when it does, it'll be worth the wait.

Persistence, though, that's where the weeds come in. Pull them, dig them, curse them under your breath, they don't care. They will be back. There's something almost admirable about it. They don't wait for perfect conditions or permission. They just keep going. Maybe we could borrow a little of that energy (minus the takingover-everything part, eh?).

And then, the queens Every spring, the wasp queens emerge, having made it through the winter alone. From

Everything Greens always

there, it's all on them, building, laying eggs, starting an entire colony from scratch. It's a lot. They do it with a mix of grace and, let's be honest, a willingness to defend what's theirs. There's something powerful in owning your role like that. (Y'all knew I was gonna throw a wasp in this article.)

Hard work? Just watch the ants. They're relentless. Organized. Focused. Occasionally living in places we would very much prefer they did not (like my kitchen). But you can't deny their work ethic.

Caring for yourself is in there too, even if it's quieter. Look at a tree in early spring, it leafs out slowly, deliberately, not all at once. It grows in a way it can sustain. There's wisdom in that pacing, in not doing everything at once just because the season says "go."

Caring for your community shows up everywhere. Bees, of course, doing their pollinating rounds, supporting entire ecosystems without asking for recognition. Even squirrels play their part, sounding the alarm when danger comes through. It's messy and imperfect but it works because everyone contributes something.

And finally, learning from mistakes Spend five minutes walking through the garden and you'll find a spider web right across your path. Walk through it once, and it's annoying. Walk through it every day, and eventually that spider figures out a better spot. Trial and error.

Spring isn't subtle about any of this and if we're paying attention it turns

out the garden is doing more than growing plants.

Janet Douberly is a life-long student at Downtown Greens.

If you have a group or a business that would be interested in taking a guided tour of our Belman Road Campus on your schedule, please email us at admin@downtowngreens org

For information about upcoming activities including classes, guided walkarounds and volunteer activities at our Belman Road Campus, UpperGarden or Lower Garden, please visit our website at downtowngreens org, where you can view and sign up for our educational programs, our monthly newsletter, and support our conservation efforts by a financial donation

In the Garden spring...a busy time!

by tina will

Simmering summer days are approaching again...what do you want to grow? Don't let fear of heat or insect problems spoil your fun. Choose plants that attract the predatory insects to consume or repel the pests instead of using insecticides which kill the good and bad. Yarrow and lavender attract ladybug larva which go after aphids. Oregano planted near Kale or Cabbage can repel insects with its strong odor. Dill attracts the Braconid wasp that lays eggs on the tomato hornworm. Cosmos attracts Lacewing larva which go after whitefly. Cilantro attracts the ground beetle which goes after slugs! Choose what you want to grow and find out what it's good for in addition to its ornamental or food value. Helpful and interesting information at: https://extension.psu.edu/culinary-herbsare-good-for-beneficial-insects-includingpollinators.

Our 2026 class of Extension Master Gardeners graduated on April 1. At the end of the term, students present a

report on a chosen horticultural topic. Beech Leaf Disease, Hydroponics, and Companion Planting were a few of the topics chosen. Some graduates are volunteering at our Plant Clinics, Cossey Arboretum, and the local Food Bank where the 'Grow a Healthy Community Garden' team offers hands-on gardening education.

Plant Clinics have started where Extension Master Gardeners will answer your horticultural questions: How do I start a garden? What's wrong with my plant!? We have 4 clinics: CRRL Downtown Library in the main foyer 1st and 3rd Saturdays 10 a.m. to 12, Rte 3/Gordon Rd Farmers Market every Saturday 9 to noon, Porter Library in Stafford 2nd and 4th Thursdays 10 a.m. to 12, King George Farmers Market on the 3rd Saturday morning. Also, our VCE office has restarted the Help Desk email: centralrappmghelp@gmail.com.

Cossey Arboretum, 1601 Kenmore Ave, next to the pond aka Cossey Botanical Park has a new sign, a new kiosk, and several new native trees and shrubs: Nyssa sylvatica/Black Gum/Tupelo, Betula nigra/ River Birch, Hamamelis virginiana/Witch Hazel, and Ilex verticillata/Winterberry. We are grateful to Fredericksburg City personnel for their invaluable help in getting them planted!

These native species have some lovely characteristics: Tupelo leaves have beautiful red Fall color, Birch trees have beautiful white bark, Witch Hazel offers late winter flowers, and Winterberry flowers become red berries that are loved by birds. Last Fall we started a native plant pollinator garden where several herbs and perennials are now emerging. A native woodland perennial garden is being tested near the bridge after a large Cypress that was crowding the bridge was taken out. The view is now more open and gives a chance for new native shrubs and plants to benefit native wildlife. It's beautiful there; come see what's new

Beech Leaf Disease is something to be aware of. It was discovered in Ohio in 2012 and evident in our area on the

American and European Beech trees (Fagus spp). Symptoms are curling and thickening of the leaves, and a dark stripe in the leaf. The shade canopy becomes

more open as the leaves shrink and curl. For a front lawn specimen Beech tree, a treatment can be applied if the symptoms are seen early. Penn State has a good description and pictures: extension.psu.edu/beech-leaf-disease.

Come see us at our Plant Clinics and gardens. Our MGACRA main page has lots of information: www.mgacra.org.

Tina Will is a Master Gardener and lives in Stafford County. She can be reached at brianandtina.will@gmail.com

Plant clinics: CRRL Downtown Library main foyer 1st & 3rd Saturdays 10 a m to 12

Master Gardeners Saturdays 10 a m to 12, Rte 3/Gordon Rd Farmers Market every Saturday 9 to noon www mgacra org

VCE Help Desk email: centralrappmghelp@gmail com

It is time to start keeping those peepers peeled while walking through our forests. Ghost Pipes are going to begin coming up this month to turn your nature walks into eerie experiences.

Ghost Pipes, or Monotropa uniflora, is a native parasitic plant that while not endangered, isn't spotted often.

These ghostly white/pinkish plants parasitize the mycorrhizal fungi in forest soils. This is the same mycorrhizal system that is in a symbiotic relationship with the trees of the forest, helping them move nutrients around to where they are needed!

Because this spooky sprout is parasitic, that means it does not need to produce any chlorophyll, explaining its waxing white stem, leaves, and blooms.

If you want to find some of these ghostly apparitions, head to the nearest mature forest the day after a good rain, and start looking down! These plants

Growing & Crawling parasitic pipes

By janet douberly

rarely grow in recently disturbed soils and prefer old, mature forests with deep leaf litter and stable ecosystems. They are most commonly found under beech trees (but not solely beech) which harbors the specific Russulaceae fungi it feeds on, from late May to mid-October in these parts.

The Ghost Pipe is becoming very popular on social media as a medicinal

treatment for pain when made into a tincture. While this has yet to be proven in labs, the preliminary testing is showing promising results! No wonder it is the

Society's native plant of the year for 2026!

Janet Douberly is a stable ecosystem at Downtown Greens.

Fredericksburg Perspectives

by Michael Thomas Harvey

Ulman's Jewelry, Colonial Theatre, and Crismond's.Shoes

A whole lot of history can be recalled in our mind's with those three businesses. Pictured top circa 1930’s. All were still there 60 years later.

Ulman's, owned and operated today by Jerry Ulman will, in 2 years, celebrate it's 100 birthday being in the same location. Who can name another business that is operating in the same Fredericksburg area location under their original name for 100 years?

Bottom Left FLFPhoto Jerry & Donna Ulman in 1997 in front of store’s display cases

FREDERICKSBURG PERSPECTIVES is created to provide our community (greater Fredericksburg, Va.) with an avenue for public engagement in an exploration of our common social history.

The focus is placed on the businesses and institutions that accented and contributed to this social structure over the last 100 years.

Engagement, comment and sharing of the content is strongly encouraged Fredericksburg Perspectives@facebook

Michael Thomas Harvey is the Admin of Fredericksburg Perspectives Additional Information provided by FXBG Perspective members

And then there was just one… Recent reports indicate that as of April 2026, EVO Entertainment, which previously operated as Paragon Village 12 and Hooky Entertainment has permanently closed. The Marquee Cinemas at Southpoint permanently closed in late 2025 and is being auctioned for scrap. In February 2026, AMC announced it will actively close more theaters than it will open in the upcoming years. So, we are left with the Regal Fredericksburg in Central Park, built and opened in 1989, having added an IMAX screen as its latest major renovation in 2018, struggles to fill its ten small auditoriums.

In 1998, a startup called Netflix enrolled the first subscriber for the DVD Movie by Mail Service. Many laughed at the idea. Since, Netflix has quietly become the 'Walmart of Entertainment' . VHS Tapes or DVDs, and related equipment, are all a thing of the past. Families no longer visit movie rental stores or get a $2 movie from a red or blue box next to a convenience store.

Live Community Theaters are quickly becoming the only way for individuals, couples, and families to spend an evening together, outside the home, to enjoy some entertaining performances.

STAGE DOOR live community theatre

By mary

friande

Our area hosts a vibrant local theater assortment, including family, adult, youth, and educational offerings. But just because we have a lot of choices, it doesn't mean we should relax and not be aware of the struggle each of these group's face. These small theater troupes often rely on donations just to provide content, and operate at a financial loss, under a non-profit 501c3 charter - and when they say non-profit, they mean it. Many of the groups put on amazing productions but must beg to find a place to rehearse or a venue to present the show at, which often ends up being the local library or school. I once witnessed a group of actors rehearsing outside in Jail Alley, while another group resorted to selling off old props and costumes just to fund their next production. These obstacles make it hard for each theater group to do what they do best, perform for the community.

Today, regional cable monopolies struggle to maintain subscribers, all because of Netflix's metamorphosis to streaming and the creation of in-home, on-demand entertainment service -copied by every other major entertainment outlet, including Paramount, Peacock, Prime, Disney, Apple, HBO/Max, and every other video on demand outlets that can figure a way to get you to pay ten or twenty dollars a month to be a subscriber.

What is a family to do? What does the new date night look like? One thing that gives a little sparkle of hope is that

One of the oldest community groups Stage Door Productions, has discovered a way to help all the other groups.. They partnered with a retired Allstate Insurance Agent and former child actor, Ray Manfredi, who built a 6,000 square foot facility, with a 45 by 24-foot stage, installing professional lighting and sound systems. Manfredi provided $300,000 to build and equip the facility for the Arts Community of Fredericksburg, now known as the Allstate Community Theater. It is located at 810 Caroline Street in downtown Fredericksburg, and is managed by Stage Door Production, which operates under one principle rule established by the retired

actor/benefactor: The facility is available to any and all local theater groups to produce and present Live Plays, Musicals and shows, as well as other special events like Comedy Nights, book readings, drag and karaoke or improv events and even movie nights. Every weekend the theater is active and provides a fun time for attendees.

Live theater survives because it can't be replicated at home No algorithm can replace: a missed line that turns int a laugh; the energy of a live audience reacting in real time; the feeling of being in the same room as the talented performers. That is something even the most dominant streaming platform can't manufacture.

However - the theater facility was a gift, and a generous one at that - but the operational budget was not part of the deal. To keep the experience alive it will take patrons, like you, who can treat the local theater like a sustainable subscription and not a one-off ticket event. Theater is a community utility, not just a hobby, without financial support they will quietly disappear like your neighborhood video rental store

THE BIG ASK:

Each month you subscribe to Netflix, Prime, and other streaming services your local community theater struggles to find funding to provide new content, rent and facility expenses. Stage

Door Productions and like groups must pay for production rights, scripts, music, projections, set materials, costumes, props, etc. Entirely volunteer based, their goal is to present live entertainment choices every weekend. To meet this goal, they need your financial support and sponsorship to help manage and operate the only true Fredericksburg Community Theater.

Visit the website www allstatecommunitytheater org, where you can subscribe to a monthly donation plan, become a Platinum Member, or just buy an Annual Pass. Invest in your local choices -

Invest in your community. Subscribe to Stage Door and your local community theater - keep the arts alive - it may be the only family or date night left.

Allstate Community Theater

Stage Door Productions

810 Caroline St

Upcoming Productions: Godsprell Rocky Horror Picture Show

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Witness to a Revolution: 250 Years of History at Fredericksburg Area Museum

Now open at the Fredericksburg Area Museum, invites visitors to step into the story of a city that helped shape a nation. As Virginia marks the 250th anniversary of the American Revolution, the exhibit explores the people, places, and defining moments that continue to shape how this history is understood today

Downtown Sounds

One of the most popular summer traditions in Fredericksburg comes dancing back on Friday, May 1. Downtown Sounds, previously known as Sounds of Summer, returns to Market Square outside Fredericksburg Area Museum, and is free to the public.

The concert series is extending its run this year, now beginning in May and running through September. The series will start off with Heavy Horn Funk Band, Elby Brass, and will continue with different local music artists every Friday evening through September 25 at 6:30pm.

The 2026 May line-up:

May 1: Elby Brass

May 8: The Unsuitables

May 15: Trash Rocket

May 22: The N2N Band

May 29: Spanglish Latin American Band

The Perfect Mother's Day in Fredericksburg

Mother's Day is a great opportunity to celebrate the amazing women in our lives, and what better place to do that than Fredericksburg? With its blend of shopping, experiences, and dining, Fredericksburg offers a full day of memorable moments for Mom. Here's your guide to planning the perfect Mother's Day in FXBG

TidBits

small bites of local News

By danelle rose

Start with a Cozy Breakfast or Brunch.Begin the day by treating Mom to a delicious brunch at one of Fredericksburg's local favorites:

Shopping Spree in Historic Downtown

Make memories she's sure to remember:

lGet Creative - Take Mom for a relaxing and fun experience at Wine and Design, create a unique scent at

Pearlescent Candle Co, or get matching permanent jewelry at FIKA Studio

l Tour the Town - Take a narrated trolley ride, hop in an antique Model-A Car, enjoy a scenic carriage journey, or take a walking tour through Fredericksburg's historic sites and neighborhoods.

l Go to the Market - Head over to Hurkamp Park for the special Mother's Day edition of the Artisan Market

Relax Outdoors For a change of pace, take in the natural beauty of the area: Alum Spring Park - Bring a blanket and enjoy a picnic under the trees.

Rappahannock River Heritage Trail - If Mom loves the outdoors, take a leisurely walk or bike ride along the scenic riverside path.

Dine in Style

See our full list of suggestions:fxbg com/the-pperfectmothers-dday-iin-ffredericksburg/

Each spring, as the streets of Fredericksburg come alive with color, thousands of runners from across the country descend on our historic city-not just for a race, but for a tradition.

On Sunday, May 17, 2026, the Marine Corps Historic Half Marathon returns, bringing an electrifying atmosphere, the resolute spirit of the U.S. Marines, and a chance to run through more than 300 years of American history. The 13.1-mile course isn't just scenic-it's storied. From the colonial charm of historic downtown to the hallowed grounds where Civil War battles once raged, the Historic Half leads runners on a path where the past and present meet stride for stride.

Annual Luminaria Honor Fallen Soldiers May 23, 8-111p 31st Annual Luminaria @FXBG National Cemetery over 15,00 candles lit by volunteers representing every soldier buried in the cemetery. Taps played every 30 minutes May 23 ,8-11p FREE event

Danelle Rose is FXBG Tourism Marketing & Communications Manager

It's Spring, time to celebrate fragaria virginiana (the Virginia strawberry ) and its later hybridized, crossed and backcrossed varieties. Known as the romantic "heart berry", both f.virginiana and f.vesca (the woodland strawberry) are native to the US. The first full moon in June was named the "strawberry moon" by Native Americans to celebrate the season for strawberry harvest. They ate the berries fresh as well as dried - when dried and ground to a pulp they were mixed with cornmeal to make a type of sweet bread. They also steeped strawberry leaves into a tea, using it as a medicinal cure in such widely varied ailments as sore throat, depression, and kidney stones. Today we recognize not only the fruit's deliciousness but their positive nutritional value - a one-cup serving of strawberries supply 98% of vitamin C's daily value, as well as vitamin B9, potassium, fiber and manganese. Strawberries are both low-fat and lowsugar, rich in antioxidants, aiding immunity and heart health - and are one

of the most popular fruits eaten by Americans. (2020 USDA survey notes 6.2 pounds consumed per capita!) California produces 91% of America's commercial strawberry crop and their deliciousness popularizes annual strawberry harvest festivals held throughout the US Two of the largest festivals are held in Florida and California with regional ones closer to home - the West Virginia Strawberry Festival (Buckhannon WV) and the North Carolina Strawberry Festival (Wallace NC) Great County Farms Strawberry Jubilee May 23,24,30,31 (Bluemont VA) Locally the Lincoln Strawberry Festival held in Loudoun County May 16-117 (Hamilton VA) has a strawberry pie-eating contest, arts and crafts, live music, hayrides - and of course lots of strawberries!

MARGARET'S STRAWBERRY BREAD

I was given this recipe years ago and prepare a recipe every year when the berries are ripe. If you want to bake it out of season, substitute 2 1/2C thawed frozen berries. Strawberries are one type

of fruit which will not ripen further after harvested - so waiting for those hard outof-season strawberries to turn juicy and delicious is futile. So eat as many as you can during the season! Combine 3C flour, 2C sugar, 3tsp cinnamon and 1tsp baking soda in a large bowl. Beat in 1 1/4C salad oil and 4 beaten eggs and mix well. Stir in 3 1/2C coarsely chopped strawberries and 1C chopped pecans. Pour batter into two greased and floured 9"x5"x3" pans and sprinkle with sanding sugar, then bake in preheated 350F oven 75 minutes or until tester comes out clean. Flavor improves if left overnight. PS you can substitute peaches, bananas or apples for the strawberries if desired. Versatile recipe!

STRAWBERRY UPSIDE DOWN CAKE

Everyone has heard of a pineapple upside down cake, but have you ever heard of a strawberry one? First prepare the strawberries - slice 3C fresh ripe strawberries and mix with 1 1/2C sugar and 3T cornstarch. Cook over medium heat until the mixture thickens, stirring often. Spread evenly into a greased 9"x13" pan. For the cake - mix together 1 1/2C flour, 1C sugar, 2tsp baking powder and a dash of salt. Stir in 8T melted butter, 2 beaten eggs, 1/2C milk and 1tsp vanilla and mix until smooth. Pour over the strawberries and bake in a preheated 350F oven 35-40 minutes until a toothpick inserted in the cake comes out clean. Wait 10 minutes, then run a knife around all the edges and turn out into a larger serving tray or platter. Serve with a dollop of sweetened whipped cream.

STRAWBERRY TRIFLE

You can use either poundcake or angel food cake in the trifle. Prepare the custard a day ahead of time or at least 8

hours to give it time to chill. Combine 4C milk with 4T cornstarch and 2/3C sugar in heavy saucepan. Heat over medium heat, whisking frequently so cornstarch doesn't stick on the bottom. Bring milk mixture to scalding point, then remove from heat and quickly beat in about 4T milk into 4 beaten eggs. Whisking constantly, pour eggs in a slow stream into the milk mixture. Return the pan to heat, then cook until custard thickens. Do not let boil or the egg whites may separate. If this happens, you can save the custard by running it through a sieve. Remove from the heat, stir in 2tsp vanilla. Pour into a glass bowl, cover and refrigerate until chilled. To assemble: Cut a 10" round cake into 1" cubes and set aside. Quarter 2-3 quarts of ripe strawberries (save an attractive strawberry to display on top) and mix with 1/2C each sugar and strawberry preserves. Combine custard with 4C whipped cream. In a large trifle bowl, layer ? of the cake cubes, the strawberry mixture and the cream mixture. Repeat twice more, finishing with the cream. Decorate with strawberry and crushed vanilla wafers or amaretti cookies. Refrigerate until ready to serve. If you don't have time to make the custard, you can substitute one prepared large vanilla instant pudding mixed with the whipped cream. It will not have the mouthfeel or depth of flavor that homemade custard adds, but is a quick substitute. Enjoy!

Vanessa serves up yummy recipes, interesting tidbits for all seasons

SpiritS

Memorial Day Cocktails

Memorial Day marks the beginning of Summer. A time to remember, reconnect and relax with friends and family. Fire up the grill, gather with friends and raise a quiet glass in gratitude for those who served our country. And it is a perfect time to enjoy a “Toast to the Weekend”,

tea bags

.Stir tea, bourbon, & 6 cups cold water into peach mixture.

Serve in glass over ice & garnish with peach slice

Bourbon Peach Iced Tea (Serves 10)

There's nothing more refreshing in the summer than a glass of perfectly sweet iced tea- except one spiked with bourbon. The bourbon adds a warmth to the tea that makes for an easy and refreshing drink to serve at any casual dinner party or summer BBQ.

2 cups chopped fresh peaches

1 1/2 cup granulated sugar

8 black tea bags

1 cup (8 oz) A. Smith Bowman bourbon

Ice

1 fresh peach, sliced for garnish

Directions

In a medium pot over medium heat, bring peaches, sugar, and 1 cup water to a boil. .Reduce heat to low, simmer, stirring often. Cool slightly

Strain syrup through a fine-mesh strainer into 1 gallon container..

Bring 3 cups water to boil

.Add tea bags, boil 1 minute. Remove from heat.

Cover steep 10 minutes. Discard

Sipper

1 1/2 ounces Makers

Mark

1/2 ounce Campari

1 ounce Pineapple

Juice

1/4 ounce Strawberry

Syrup

1 Orange peel

2 sliced Strawberries for garnish

1 sprig Mint

Muddle one half of a strawberry with the orange peel in the bottom of a cocktail shaker

Next, add your remaining ingredients into your cocktail shaker and fill with ice.

Shake, shake, shake (about 8 hard shakes) and strain into a double oldfashioned glass (I love these!).

Finish your drink by garnishing with a large strawberry and generous sprig of mint.

Classic Bloody Mary

· 1/2 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice

(from about 3 to 4 medium lemons)

· 1 (46- to 48-ounce) bottle or can tomato juice, divided

· 3/4 cup Worcestershire sauce

· 1/2 cup prepared horseradish

· 2 teaspoons hot sauce, such as Tabasco, plus more as needed

· 1 teaspoon celery seeds

· 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more as needed

· 2 cups vodka, such as Tito's

· Ice

Place all ingredients & Blend on high until smooth, about 1 minute.

Pour into an 8-cup or larger pitcher (or 10-cup pitcher if making a pitcher drink) and stir in the remaining tomato juice.

Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour or ideally overnight. Meanwhile, refrigerate 2 cups vodka.

Taste the bloody Mary mix and season with more kosher salt and more hot sauce as needed (or serve the hot sauce on the side).

To serve individual Bloody Marys: Fill a Collins glass halfway with ice. Pour 2 ounces vodka over the ice. Top with about 6 ounces of the Bloody Mary mix and stir until just combined. Garnish with a celery stalk and pimento-stuffed olives and a lemon wedge speared with a toothpick.

For a pitcher drink: Add all of the vodka to the pitcher and stir to combine. Pour into ice-filled glasses, stirring the drink before each pour (the tomato mixture and vodka may separate as they sit). Garnish each drink with a celery stalk and pimento-stuffed olives and a lemon wedge speared with a toothpick.

· Tajín: Rub the edge of the glass with lemon, then coat the rim in Tajín or another chili seasoning.

· Pickles: Garnish with pickle spears and other pickled vegetables.

· Meaty garnishes: Go more daring with crispy bacon strips or meat snack sticks.

· Shrimp: Garnish with poached shrimp for shrimp cocktail vibes.

·V8 juice: Swap tomato juice for V8 vegetable juice for a bolder vegetal flavor.

The Bloody Mary base can be made up to 4 days in advance and refrigerated. Stir before serving.

Leftovers can be refrigerated in a covered pitcher for up to 4 days. .

5 oz Lemon Tonic Water (white)

2 oz Empress 1908 Gin (blue) Crushed Ice

Pour Grenadine into bottom of tall glass

Fill to the top with crushed ice

Add lemon tonic

Slowly float the Empress 1908 Gin on top

sparkling wine for mom

Mother's Day is May 10 Think about it: Without these women, we, as beings, would not exist in the first place. Reflecting on this, we are the ones who have heard her heartbeat from the inside. That thought is just so profound. Life exists because of mother. How do you grasp that?

Celebration of mothers as a holiday has been going on since ancient times. The Ancient Greeks and Roman civilizations held festivals to honor mother goddesses-she as Rhea and Cybele for whom the celebration would include rituals and offerings to express gratitude. Early Christians observed a "Mothering Sunday" which involved going to visit your mother, and going to church and giving her gifts and flowers. It is still today one of the largest-attended Sundays, next to Easter and Christmas. (More than Father's day!)

.In the US, Mother's Day can be traced back to the efforts of Anna Jarvis After the death of her mother in 1905, Jarvis campaigned for the establishment of a day to honor mothers and their contributions. Her efforts gained significant momentum, and in 1914, President Woodrow Wilson signed a proclamation designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day, to be observed nationally

Sparkling wine is celebratory. Mother's Day is a time to appreciate one's

mom for her selflessness, love, generosity, patience, kindness, and understanding of us. When these two ideas-celebrating and thanking Mom are connected, one could hardly debate that Mother's Day includes champagne as the ultimate way of pampering her It enhances the celebratory atmosphere and creates a sense of indulgence. Not to mention, it goes well with brunch food like eggs Benedict, or pastries, or as the basis of Mimosas and Bellinis.

This nation's 34th First Lady, Mamie Eisenhower, was a devoted mother of two sons, while supporting her husband's military career and then presidency. She was filled with a sense of duty, frugality, and hospitality that was greatly admired. She understood the importance of planning and attending social events, responding to correspondence, and greeting guests, all while attending to her son's needs. The model mom of her time.

Of note here about Mamie was her love of all things pink. Her clothing, her accessories, her décor were all pink with splashes of other colors. Women imitate her with her short bangs and pink gowns. Perhaps this is why Mother's Day cards and roses are pink in May. It was because of Mamie that pink is connected with femininity.

Here is the trifecta: Mother's Day, sparkling wine, and pink (rosé)! The first is

by Rita Allen

from Portugal, NV Castico Semi-SSparking Rosé that is a pale pink in color with aromas of strawberry, cream soda, raspberries, with citrus undertones. This was built like a prosecco in style, with honeysuckle, lemon-lime, red cherry notes, and crisp acidity. Perfect to pair with chicken salad on croissants

Second is NV Gaston Belvigne Brut Rosé, which is Champagne, France. It is a pretty salmon-pink in color, with aromas of strawberry cream, red cherry, citrus lemon-lime, light rose petal notes, with touches of toast and brioche. Additional flavors of lime zest, youthful strawberry, cranberry, ripe pineapple, vanilla, and earth. Its bright acidity leads the structure, which is complemented by an off-dry level of sweetness and creamy mousse. This very expressive wine pleasantly lingers for a medium length.

Other sparkling roses to check out include NV Gouguenheim Malbec Extra Brut Bubbles Rosé from Mendoza, Argentina, NV Domaine Jean Vesselle Brut Rosé Oeil de Perdrix from Champagne, France, NV Lubanzi Rosé Bubbles from the Coastal Region of South Africa, and NV Massimago "Zurlie" Sparkling Rosé from Verona, Italy.

Cheers & Happy Mother's Day!

City Vino, 100 Hanover St (use Sophia St entrance) owner Rita Allan will answer all your wine questions

CALEND

First Friday May 1

"We're In Full Bloom", Brush Strokes Gallery All Member Show, opening reception 5-9p, 824 Caroline St

"Bright Visions" Watercolors by Bro Haljj, Opening Reception, 6-8:30p Members Gallery; "Faces & Figures", Frederick Gallery; FCCA 813 Sophia

Canal Quarter Arts featured resident artist, photographer Julie Kruse, a collection of her photos and art on display and for sale 5-8:30.

"May Flowers" All Member Show Art First Gallery reception, 6-9p "Taking Flight" New Works by Elisa PritchardOpening Reception: Fri May 1, 6-9pmArtful Dimensions Gallery 1025 Caroline St

LIVE MUSIC Wave Courtyard Marriott 620 Caroline St 6p

LIVE MUSIC Downtown Sounds Free Live Music in Market Square Elby Brass, 6:30-8:30p

LIVE MUSIC Baily Hayes 6B&G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

LIVE MUSIC Retro Karaoke @ Reclaim Arcade, 8:00pm

Saturday May 2

Farmers Market, Hurkamp Park, 7a-1p homegrown, homemade & andbaked goods,local fresh farm produce ***EVERY SATURDAY

Spotsy Farmers Market , 8am - 1pm 12150 Gordon Rd, selection of food products grown by local farmers Master Gardeners will be here answer your gardening questions ***EVERY SATURDAY

Join ODHS Dog Strolls 7:45 a. pairw/ a dog Meet at ODHS at 3602 Lafayette Boulevard,***EVERY SATURDAY

Sunken Well Saturday: Brunch from 9-2, 720 Littlepage ***EVERY SAT

Art in the Park @FXBG Farmers Market

LIVE MUSIC The Spotylvanians Chorus "I Hear America Singing", America 250, Ressurrection Luthern Church, 6170 Plank Rd, 3 & 6p

Mother Son Dance, Under the Sea, Dorothy Hart Comm Center, 6-8p

A Tavern Birthday for Charles Washington, Adult Only, Car Games, Light Fare, Beer Tastin, Rising Sun Tavern, 5-8p

LIVE MUSIC FXBG Concert Band, "Something Old, New, Borrow, Blue, James Monroe HS, 7p

LIVE MUSIC Wolves at the Gate, American Christian Metalcore Band, Grace Church FXBG, 1141 Heatherstone Dr, doors at 6p, Concert 7p

LIVE MUSIC Reckless Brigade Bluegrass Colonial Tavern 406 Lafayette Blvd, 7-10p

LIVE MUSIC Lost in the Shuffle Stockyards Restaurant & Bar, 407 William St, 8p

Sunday May 3

Great Train Race, FXBG tradition for over 30 years, 7:30-12p, FXBG Train Station start

Sunday Brunch Sunken Well Tavern, 9a-2 , 720 Littlepage, ***EVERY SUN

Sunday Brunch at the Colonial Tavern 406 Lafayette Blvd 11a-3p ***EVERY SUN

Sunday Hikes beautiful local trails ODHS 7:45a matched w/rescue dog a different trail each week 3602 Lafayette BLVD ***EVERY SUNDAY

LIVE MUSIC VOICES, a popular women's singing ensemble, free concert 4-5 p.m. at the Shakespeare Garden at Casa Cottage 909 Monument Ave.

Monday May 4

FXBG Food CoOP, Chair Yoga 320 Emancipations Hwy, 10-10:45a; 11011: 45a *** EVERY MONDAY

Rappahannock Choral Society meets 7 -9p Zoan Baptist Church, Plank Rd across the from Harrison Crossing Shopping Center. Seeking new members alto, tenors, basses, and soprano. ***EVERY MONDAY

Open Mic @Colonial Tavern 7p, 406 Lafayette Blvd ***EVERY MONDAY

Burger Night Capital Ale, 3p-Midnight, 917 Caroline St ***EVERY MON

Tuesday May 5

Picnic in the Park 11:30-1:30 Memorial Park Free ***EVERY TUESDAY

OPEN MIC Adventure Brewing, 33 Perchwood, 7-9:30p

KARAOKE Tacos & Tunes Strangeways Brewing 6:30-9:30p

Co-op's Weekly Walk with Doc ***EVERY TUESDAY, 4-5p.

Ukulele Jamming, Fred Food CoOP Beginners, 6:30p Jam 7p 320 Emancipations Hwy

Sunken Well Tavern Burger Night, 5p, 720 Littlepage ***EVERY TUESDAY

Wednesday May 6

Concert by Canoe 6-8pm Motts Run Reservoir $10/person ***EVERY

WEDNESDAY THRU MAY

LIVE MUSIC Scott Stallard Courtyard Marriott 620 Caroline St 6p

LIVE MUSIC Aléatoire @ Foode, 900 Princess Anne St 6:00pm

LIVE MUSIC Kristian Lietzan @ Ironclad Inn, 1200 Princess Anne St 6:pm

Trivia Night Sunken Well Tavern, 6:30p, 720 Littlepage ***EVERY WEDNESDAY

Trivia Night with Trapper Young, 6B&G, 7p, 1140International Pky ***EVERY WEDNESDAY

Thursday May 7

Washington Heritage Museums Speaker Series, How Community Makes Hugh Mercer Apothecary Shop Garden Grow, FXBG CRRL Aud, 10a

LIVE MUSIC Ramona Martinez Rebellion Bourbon 309 William St 6pm

Friday May 8

The Artists' Alliance Feature Painter 100 Taylor St., # 101, Colonial Beach. Opening Friday May 8, from 6-9

Fiber Friday at Canal Quarter Arts, 5-7:30. Bring your project and hang out with other fiber artists. Fun community Artist group.

Skate Night 6-8pm Dixon Park $1 entry $5 skate rental

LIVE MUSIC FXBG PUNK: Trash Rocket / Heliocentric Overdrive / Her Majesty @Reclaim Arcade, 8:00pm

LIVE MUSIC Anthony G Solo Courtyard Marriott 620 Caroline St , 6p

Live Music Downtown Sounds Fre Unsuitables, 6:30-8:30p

LIVE MUSIC Brett Baboorian 6B&G

Saturday May 9. Pick up fresh produce & a furry Market 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. Meet the cr Cars & Coffee Open to all makes Falmouth FREE 8-11a

Virginia German Shepherd Rescue ( vgsr.org f

FXBG Tacos & Beer Festival, FXBG F

Stand-Up Comedy Night. Jon Yea evening of comedic talent 810 Car

LIVE MUSIC Unchained 6B&G, 114

Mother’s Day May 10

Children's Entrepreneur Market @ 610 Commuter Lot, Staffordboro B Grassroots Artisan Collective at Hu

Tuesday May 12 "A Mother's Blessing," Tea Talk eve came to seek his mother's bless president captivating reenactment Washington to life , Mary Washingt

OPEN MIC Adventure Brewing, 33

Wednesday May 13

LIVE MUSIC ArtsLIVE 37th Annual C 1, Trinity Episcopal Church 7-9p

LIVE MUSIC Brian Hill Courtyard M

Thursday May 14 Barks & Recreation 6-8pm Frederic

LIVE MUSIC Twist of Fate @ Rebelli

LIVE MUSIC Fredericksburg Jazz Co at Curitiba Art Cafe, 919 Caroline

Friday May 15

5th VA Convention Open House, FX Anne St

FXBG Revolutionary war Heros Convention, 7p FXBG Masonic Lodg Improvisational Comedy Night Liv from the audience and create both events. 810 Caroline St, Downtown

LIVE MUSIC Scott Stallard Courtya

LIVE MUSIC ArtsLIVE 37th Annual C 2, Trinity Episcopal Church 7-9p

LIVE MUSIC Downtown Sounds Fre Rocket, 6:30-8:30p

Open every Sat 7am-2pm

Rain/Shine @Hurkamp Park Thru October

DAR of events

ee Live Music in Market Square The

G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

friend from ODHS at FXBG Farmers rew of cuddlers available for adoption , models, years, 224 Washingto Ave, (VGSR)Event, PetSmart, FXBG, 11a-2p

Fairgrounds, 11a-4p

ager's Callback Comedy Productions roline St, Downtown. Curtain 7:30pm

40 International Pky, 7-9:30p

@Long Family Farmers Market, 8a-1p, Blvd, Garrisonville urkamp Park, 12n-5p

ent at the place George Washington ing before becoming the first USA by Lee Ann Rose, who brings Mary ton House, Noon-2p $$ Perchwood, 7-9:30p

Chamber Music Festival, Chamber Day

Marriott 620 Caroline St , 6p

cksburg Dog Park Free

ion Bourbon Bar, 309 William St 6pm ollective Open Mic Jazz Jam, 7-10 pm

XBG Masonic Lodge No 4 803

Princess

Lecture Series, The 5th Virginia ge No 4 803 Princess Anne St

ve unscripted performers take ideas short & long form comedy and game

n. 7:30pm

rd Marriott 620 Caroline St , 6p Chamber Music Festival, Chamber Day

ee Live Music in Market Square Trash

LIVE MUSIC John Burton Adventure Brewing, 33 Perchwood, 7-9p

LIVE MUSIC Emo Night @ Reclaim Arcade, 2324 Plank Rd 8:00pm

Saturday May 16

Rappahannock Model Railroaders - Spring Open House! 10am-4pm RMR Clubhouse, 406 Hudgins Rd - More info. at www.rmrailroaders.com

Retro Market @Strangeway Brewing, 350 Landsdowne Rd, 12-5p

Patrick the Magician @Adventure Brewing, transforms the taproom into a world of mystery, laughter & jaw-dropping magic, 4-5p, 33 Perchwood

Improvisational Comedy Night 810 Caroline St, Downtown.

LIVE MUSIC ArtsLIVE 37th Annual Chamber Music Festival, Chamber Day 3, Trinity Episcopal Church 2:30-4:30p

LIVE MUSIC Waking Napster OPEN MIC Adventure Brewing, 33 Perchwood, 6-9p

LIVE MUSIC Reckless Brigade 6B&G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

LIVE MUSIC Fascination Street: Goth Through The Ages @ Reclaim Arcade, 8:00pm

Sunday May 17

Marine Corps Historic Half starts at FXBG Convention Center 6a Sensory Friendly Morning @Ferry Farm,10a-12p,

ArtsLIVE 37th Annual Chamber Music Festival, Avery Ballet "The Spirit of Angels", Trinity EpiscopalChurch

Tuesday May 19

Ukulele Jamming, Fred Food CoOP Beginners, 6:30p Jam 7p 320 Emancipations Hwy

LIVE MUSIC 37th Annual Chamber Music Festival, Virginia Bolena, Organist, St George Episcopal Church, 7-8p

OPEN MIC Adventure Brewing, 33 Perchwood, 7-9:30p Bruce Middle Group ,m Colonial Tavern 406 Lafayette Blvd, 7:30-10:30p

Wednesday May 20

LIVE MUSIC Dave Nichols Courtyard Marriott 620 Caroline St , 6-9p

LIVE MUSIC Caroline Vain @ Foode, 900 Princess Anne St 6:00pm

Thursday May 21

A Cultural Quilt: FXBG Sister City Frejus, France, French Influences on the American Story FXBG CRRL 6:30-8p

LIVE MUSIC Bruce Middle Group Colonial Tavern 406 Lafayette Blvd, 7:30-10:30p

LIVE MUSIC Prabir @ Rebellion Bourbon Bar, 309 William St 6:00pm

Friday May 22

Picasso at the Lapine Agile - a play written by Steve Martin supposes Albert Einstein & Picasso discussing arts & science. FXBG Theatre Ensemble Allstate Theater 810 Caroline St, 2pm & 8pm thru Sunday

LIVE MUSIC Todd Hill Courtyard Marriott 620 Caroline St , 6-9p

LIVE MUSIC Experimental Electronica: Trauma Mammal & Jaguardini @ Reclaim Arcade, 8:00pm

LIVE MUSIC Downtown Sounds Free Live Music in Market Square The N2N Band, 6:30-8:30p

LIVE MUSIC Justin Trawick 6B&G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

LIVE MUSIC Ian Blackwood Blackwood Station Adventure Brewing, 7-9p

Saturday May 23

Garden & Grounds Stroll @Gari Melchers Home & Studio, 10:30a & 1:30p, 224 Washington St, Falmouth

Memorial Day Market @Patawomeck Cultural Center, 638 Kings Hwy, 11a-4p, FREE crafts, art, food, face-painting, moon bounce, live music

31st Annual Liminaria @National Cemetery over 15,00 candles lite to honor fallen soldiers taps played every 30 minutes 8-11p

LIVE MUSIC ArtsLIVE 37th Annual Chamber Music Festival "Beautiful Boundaries of Broadway", Presbyterian Church of FXBG, 7-8pm

Live Music "Twist of Fate" all-Bob Dylan songs Curitiba Art Cafe 919 Caroline Street for Dylan's 85th birthday (which is actually May 24)

LIVE MUSIC Monster in Me 6B&G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

Sunday May 24

LIVE MUSIC ArtsLIVE 37th Annual Chamber Music Festival, The Beltway Brass, Presbyterian Church of Fredericksburg 3-4p

Wednesday May 27

LIVE MUSIC Cylas Ibanez Courtyard Marriott 620 Caroline St 6-9p

Thursday, May 28

LIVE MUSIC Hokie Joe @ Rebellion Bourbon Bar, 309 William St 6:00pm

LIVE MUSIC Brookhouse: Rock, folk, jazz, Latin Curitiba Art Cafe 8-10 PM

LIVE MUSIC FBS Electric Blues Jam Colonial Tavern 406 Lafayette Blvd, 7-10p open to all players

Friday May 29

Picasso at the Lapine Agile -FXBG Theatre Ensemble810 Caroline St, Downtown. 2pm and 8pm SHOW THRU SUNDAY

LIVE MUSIC Downtown Sounds Free Live Music in Market Square Spanglish Latin American Band, 6:30-8:30p

LIVE MUSIC Nuns With Guns / Pax @ Reclaim Arcade, 8:00pm

LIVE MUSIC Rocky Guttman 6B&G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

Saturday May 30

Summer Festival, food, shopping, music, bounce house & more, Old Mill Park, 2201 Caroline St, 11a-5p

LIVE MUSIC Stiffler's Mom 6B&G, 1140 International Pky, 7-9:30p

LIVE MUSIC Emo Kids National Tour Hard Times Cafe Four Mile Fork, 10760 Patriot Hwy, doors open 7p

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Chancellorsville

By Ralph “Tuffy” Hicks

The Confederacy in December of 1862 had defeated the Union in a decisive battle at Fredericksburg. In May 1863 as General Lee was celebrating his victory at Chancellorsville over General Hooker with an army twice his size, he received the news that General Sedwick' s had defeated his force at Fredericksburg and was advancing towards Chancellorsville. Sedwick was following the orders of General Hooker to advance on Fredericksburg and march directly to Chancellorsville along Plank Road and connect with Hooker's army at Chancellorsville. His orders were to attack and destroy any confederate force along the Plank Road. Little did Sedwick or Hooker know that along Plank Road near the present-day Spotsylvania Mall were camped thousands of southern troops that had spent the winter, following their victory at Fredericksburg on December 13,1862. Confederate General Jubal Early massed these troops quickly around the Salem Church and placed them across the Plank Road towards the Rappahannock River. This gave him the advantage of having a sweeping view of the oncoming Union army as they advanced on the Plank Road. In the early morning hours of May 3rd, General Early had four Union divisions Under General John Gibbon's along with three divisions of Sedwick's VI Corps coming towards his line of defense at Salem Church. General Early previously organized an effective fighting retreat from the Fredericksburg battlefield at the stone wall.

Sedwick's road to Chancellorsville appeared to be open, however, he wasted time massing his troops to move along with other Union divisions. This allowed the southern army to reinforce their strength to around 10,000 troops and allow them the advantage of higher ground at Salem church, which was open farmland. The fighting on May 3, 1863, resulted in the total loss of 21,357 men including Salem church and Chancellorsville. This ranks as one of the bloodiest days of the war, as Antietam was the bloodiest. Sedwick would retreat across the Rappahannock River at Bank's Ford on May 5, 1863, as General Hooker

would never aid or provide guidance to Sedgwick. General Hooker called a council of war and wanted his corps commanders to advise him to stay and fight or retreat at Chancellorsville. The majority of his General's agreed that they should stay and fight the confederates.

General Joseph Hooker decided not to take their advice that he would withdraw across the river at U.S. Ford. On May 6, 1863, at 6 A M, General Hooker along with his artillery crossed the river that was rising due to heavy rains, General Meade was the last to cross as his V Corps served as the rear guard for the army. General Couch was in command of the south bank with strict orders not to engage in battle, although he had been tempted to do so since he was in favor of resuming the battle.

General Robert Lee was very frustrated by General Hooker's surprise withdrawal. He had drawn up orders for the confederate artillery to bombard the Union entrenchments while preparing for a large assault, however, Hooker and his army were gone.

The North was shocked by the defeat at Chancellorsville. President Lincoln was upset as he felt the war could have been ended at Chancellorsville. General Couch was so disgusted by General Hooker's conduct that he resigned. The President dismissed General Hooker on June 28, just days before the Battle of Gettysburg. General Hooker would forever cast blame on others for his failure at Chancellorsville.

Chancellorsville is still considered General Lee's greatest victory, being outnumbered two to one. Union army 133,000 Southern army 60,000, the Confederates suffered 13,303 and the Union suffered 17,197, however, the North had a much larger population to choose from. The loss of General Jackson along with General Paxton would have long-term effects on the Confederate army, especially during the Gettysburg campaign.

PRAYERS FOR ANNE

Dedicated to: Margertet Griggs, Tom Pleasants & Richard Chichester III

Tuffy is Front Porch’s Resident Historian

What’s in an Enigma? martha stevens

Walking along the Sunken Road by the Stone Wall, you'll come upon a simple arrangement of granite blocks that trace the outline of a historic home, the Martha Stevens House Here, visitors pause to reflect on the life and times of its owner, a true enigma in Fredericksburg's history.

Her story resonates with different people for different reasons: diversity and equal rights, the horrors of

slavery, the Civil War and its "lost cause" retelling. Prior to Emancipation, a large proportion of city residents were enslaved persons, and some of our city residents today are their direct descendants. Even now, we still feel ideological divisions about our past, present and future.

Fredericksburg is awash in a complicated social history. Emblematic of our struggles to accept and understand one another, is the question of how we interpret the wording on the monument erected on the site in 1917 which reads: "HERE LIVED MARTHA STEVENS FRIEND OF THE CONFEDERATE SOLDIER 18611865"

She remains the only woman of Fredericksburg to have a Civil War monument erected in her honor. But what, exactly, are we honoring? As historian John Hennessy puts it, "to most Fredericksburgers, she would have been near the bottom of the list of prospective heroines, for Martha Stevens lived an unconventional life on the edges of Fredericksburg society."

If you could travel back in time and visit the Fredericksburg Battlefield in the 1880s, when the house was still standing (it was destroyed by fire in 1913), you might happen upon its owner, the legend herself, Martha Stephens (aka Martha Stevens, d. 1888). Her house sat at ground zero during both battles of Fredericksburg. Ever the businesswoman, she would later sell off parts of her bulletriddled house to souvenir seekers, and frequently regaled visiting veterans of both armies with her colorful tales of the battle.

A fiercely independent businesswoman who never married, she owned several parcels of real estate … at a time when that was a rare thing. She could neither read nor write, and signed her name with a simple "X". She smoked a pipe, was rumored to associate with AfricanAmerican men, and ran afoul of the law for dispensing alcohol out of her house. History has been both kind and condescending to this remarkable person

Before the Civil War, her reputation was sullied: "a woman of abandoned character and an outcast of society", wrote one man. Her friend John Goolrick described her as "uneducated, too free and too outspoken in what she said and how she said it." She was thought to have run a brothel, but that has since been mostly debunked. Her activity as a saloon-keeper may have contributed to her questionable reputation in the community.

Martha never married. Evidence indicates that she lived with one Edward Stevens for nearly 30 years. She even took on his last name (aka Stephens). Under Virginia law, real property owned by a woman would promptly pass to her

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husband upon marriage. Perhaps she stayed single to retain ownership and control over her real estate holdings.

Oddly, by the time of her death in the late 1880s, her status had swung dramatically, from town nonconformist to beloved heroine. By the time the monument was erected in 1917, it was believed that she had tended to wounded soldiers during the December 13th 1862 battle, although there are no wartime accounts of this ever happening. Perhaps the genesis of the legend came from her own story-telling to veterans who visited the battlefield, as suggested by John Hennessy in his Wordpress article Martha Stevens Redeemed: Pariah to Heroine - a Matter of Faith or History?

Martha Stephens was often shunned, misunderstood, and beloved, so the enigmatic view we have of her today is not surprising.

So what's in an Enigma? Here, a true maverick who history remembers in starkly different ways.

Jon is an attorney and retired archaeologist, and a long-time devoted citizen of the City of Fredericksburg, a former former member of City Council, and a regular guy with cameras & drone pilot license.

photo: Stevens House postwar photo courtesy of npsfrsp.wordpress.com

Mental Health

how do we know what’s “good Behavior”

By karen kallay

This morning I had an enjoyable and rather philosophical visit with a longtime friend who came to the US many years ago from Iran. He was describing a fundamental guidance of the ancient Persian religion of Zoroastrianism: "Good thoughts. Good words. Good Deeds." Basically, sound familiar?

Many people seem to believe that "good behavior" is what keeps a community or a nation from unraveling or imploding, even though "good behavior" may be identified differently by different cultures or communities. And for the individual, modern philosophy often speaks of aligning good thoughts, words and deeds as a path to mental health and happiness. Religious faiths offer guidance, but they can vary widely. For example, consider the contrast between the Old and New Testaments of the Christian Bible!

We're familiar with "Treat others the way you would like to be treated." That's a good start. The tricky part is that sometimes we differ from one another in big ways.

Our Founding Fathers included men who had read widely of the Enlightenment and shared a belief in

human liberty and selfgovernment…but that applied mostly to themselves as landowners and did not include slaves, tribal nations, women, or the poor. Our national path is not smooth or obvious.

Scientific study during the last few centuries has expanded our awareness of how interrelated the forces of nature are. After all, it's probably wise to cooperate with natural forces as much as possible, right? Remember the angry image of Mother Nature in the 1970's margarine ad "It's Not Wise to Fool Mother Nature!?"

Science has also addressed human behavior with some interesting results. There seems to be a general agreement that very broadly about half of how people behave is genetic, the result of evolution into humans, a highly social and adaptive creature. The rest is the result of experience in the family, neighborhood, community, and nation with occasional genetic mutations along the way.

Ideally, the infant grows feeling secure, loved, appropriately challenged, and allowed to explore. These patterns and experiences have lasting influences! The child continues to learn communication, social skills and how to regulate their emotions when needed. The young adult learns how to contribute or make a living that is socially acceptable and gives general personal satisfaction and

continued growth.

Consider how much our culture is influenced by advertising that shows how much more we need to earn and purchase to be happy. Meanwhile, many purchases "fade" within about two weeks, we fret and run ourselves ragged, and we fill our garages and storage units with stuff we forget! Is this good?

Economists track GDP (Gross Domestic Product) of states and nations. Other studies track "happiness" of all countries around the world. The rankings are quite different!

So maybe "good behavior" is when we

Take into account basic individual human behavior and needs

Promote people getting along, i.e. fairness, consistency in "rules," tolerance when possible

Sustain or nurture our environment and our food, water, clean air, and energy sources.

Karen Kallay lives in Fredericksburg and volunteers as Community Liaison for National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Rappahannock affiliate. She welcomes comments, questions, and column suggestions at kkallay@namirapp.org.

NAMI is the National Alliance on Mental Illness, the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for millions of Americans affected by mental illness through education, support and advocacy

I feel like a roving reporter, sending my dispatch from Accra, the hot and busy capital of the west African nation of Ghana.

But I am not here as a reporter. Rather as part of a mission trip with the non-profit, Impact World 360, headed up by founder Nana Noi, who I have worked with at COPE - formerly the outreach arm of the Rappahannock Emergency Medical Service in Fredericksburg - and who is of Ghanian heritage.

She is intent on helping the health of the people of her homeland, and has put together a "team of passionate change makers" who refuse to accept that "preventable suffering should remain inevitable" to quote the Impact world 360 website (impactworld.net/meet-the-team).

It has been a short but busy trip

The evening we flew in to Accra, we were feted at a reception with introductions to, and speeches by, the Osu tribal elders, dressed in exotic and brightly colored outfits as becomes tribal royalty.

There was also frenzied drumming and dancing, where, despite my protestations that "white men can't

dance," we were cajoled into twerking and shimmying with the lithe female dancers.

As a further honor, two days later we were invited to a " naming ceremony" apparently making us Ghanaian royalty ourselves. Again, involving drums and dance - which seems to be an obligatory part of any celebration.

Down to Work

But it wasn't all dance and partying. We were here to do a job - to train the public in "BE FAST" an acronym standing for Balance, Eyes, Face, Arms, Speech and Time to help recognize the symptoms of stroke and a reminder that time is of the essence - in a country with a high prevalence of stroke from hypertension.

Laboring in the sultry pre-rainy season heat, attendees were administered a pre-test then taught BE FAST. Assisted by students from the local hospital, we measured blood pressures, blood sugar, and body mass index and provided nutrition counselling - especially emphasizing the role of salt contained in many of spicy relished the Ghanaian's seem so fond of.

By Patrick Neustatter,

In addition, there was an innovative program set up with the assistance of the Ghana Motorcycle Association - Community Emergency Response Assistance This was a program to educate "okada" riders (the motor cycle messengers that weave perilously through the seeming perennial snarl of traffic) who are therefor likely to be the first on the scene of any accident.

They were instructed in handling any situation needing CPR, bleeding control, safe patient transportation - as well as BEFAST. And urged, for their own preservation, to wear helmets.

The Need

Though Ghana has not suffered the internal fighting and strife that so many others have since its independence from the British in 1957. And the economy is supposedly on an upswing, exploring the back streets of the poorer areas around the location of the health fair we saw signs of poverty and need. Cement block "compounds" that house large extended families around a small courtyard with shared toilet and washing facilities. Many buildings stalled in midconstruction, apparently for lack of funds. Flocks of street vendors who look to be barely subsisting. Learned about the minimally funded national health service (though at least they have one - take note America). This all spoke to the need for philanthropic help like ours.

As a reflection, I couldn't help but be reminded of the healthcare need of so many Americans, and how the closure of the Moss Free Clinic has left so many in the Fredericksburg area with the same need as Ghanaians

MD

One addendum to this. story is, when I told Nana about the large number of medical supplies left when Moss clinic closed, she jumped at the opportunity of sending them to Ghana - which she arranged. We had hoped to celebrate the donating of these supplies.

But in something of a third-world twist, symbolic of the difficulties of getting people healthcare help, these, together with a much needed ambulance, donated by envoy Kevin Dillard and his Lifecare company, are languishing in customs, waiting for approval from the multiple ministries that must give clearance in the countries tangled bureaucracy.

Patrick Neustatter, MD is the Former Medical Director Lloyd Moss Free clinic, & Author of Managing Your DoctorThe Smart Patient's Guide to Getting Effective Affordable Healthcare. Website managingyourdoctor.com

In Praise of Mothers “I want to grow old & be just like her”

By nancy kelly

"My

Mother: She is beautiful, softened at the edges and tempered with a spine of steel. I want to grow old and be like her."

~Jodi Picoult

Growing up, I was fortunate to not only have my lovely (inside and out), funny, smart and straight-talking Mom, but also my Granny (my mother's mom) who personified grace, a quiet strength, resilience and unconditional love. Their life lessons and guidance helped me to become a strong, caring, independent woman.

Throughout my life, other incredible women have generously opened their hearts to me and shared their wisdom, humor, kindness and life experiences. I have also had the wonderful opportunity to "mother" my nieces, nephews and goddaughters.

This maternal legacy of caring and encouragement made me feel safe and supported. Not all women are so lucky. One in four women in the U.S. are victims of intimate partner violence, many of whom are mothers.

For almost 48 years, Empowerhouse has provided survivors of domestic violence and their children in our community with shelter, safety, and healing services. We meet survivors where they are, assessing their specific needs, offering safety planning, shelter, counseling, support groups, children's services, legal advocacy, transitional

housing and more. We empower survivors and their children to believe in themselves and build new lives filled with dignity, respect, safety, and hope.

These survivors inspire us with their courage and their resilience as they use our resources to heal from abuse, care for their children and lift up other survivors. Those who are mothers are helping to break the cycle of domestic violence and showing their children what healthy relationships look like.

To hear one amazing survivor's journey from abuse to healing and how she has created a new life for herself and her children, you can listen to Kelsey's Story by going to our website www empowerhouseva org, clicking the Client Stories tab and going to Kelsey's Story, Part 1. You can also read other survivors' powerful stories on our website. As you celebrate and thank the mother in your life, please consider making a lifechanging difference to the moms that Empowerhouse serves in our community. A gift in your mom's honor or memory helps vulnerable women and families find safety, much-needed services and a hopeful new start.

To make a gift or to learn more about Empowerhouse's caring work, please go to our website at www.empowerhouseva.org. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please call our 24-hour,

confidential Hotline at (540) 373-9373. You are not alone. We are here for you.

Together, we can help more moms realize a Happy Mother's Day.

Nancy Kelly is the Development Director of Empowerhouse and a mother to two entitled cats and a very handsome dog

Empowerhouse

www empowerhouseva org

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please call our 24-hhour, confidential Hotline at (540) 373-99373 You are not alone We are here for you

The South’s Best

FXBG Main Street wins!

bY Caitlyn McGhee

Caroline Street, the centerpiece of historic Downtown Fredericksburg, has been named the Best Main Street in the South by Garden & Guns after topping a regional competition that celebrated the South's most vibrant small-town downtowns.

The competition featured sixteen main streets from across the South in a March Madness-Style bracket and included multiple rounds of public voting. Fredericksburg advanced through each round before securing a victory in the final matchup.

Fredericksburg offers a vibrant mix of locally owned businesses, restaurants, historic sites, and community events. Its walkable design and unique character continue to attract both residents and visitors year-round.

"We are incredibly proud of our community, and I think this really shows just how much we love it here. Winning the Best Main Street in the South was

truly a shared effort across the whole community, from our businesses to our residents," Mayor Devine said. "It's times like these that remind me of how collaborative and proud our community is of Fredericksburg. That's why we like to say that Fredericksburg is where it all comes together."

The recognition reflects the strong sense of community pride throughout Fredericksburg, with residents and businesses rallying together to support the City during the competition.

Over the years, Fredericksburg has grown into a thriving destination that blends history with modern amenities, contributing to the City's economic vitality and quality of life.

Caitlyn McGheeis the Public Information Officer for City

Art in the Burg

Art Galleries in May

“May Flowers”

All Members

Opening Reception May 1, 6-99p

Art First Gallery, 824 Caroline Street

Continuing the seasonal theme, the gallery's May exhibit is "May Flowers" which follows the March theme, "March Winds" and then "April Showers". Artists have free reign to paint or create whatever inspires them so visitors should expect a cavalcade of floral beauty

Gary Close

“We’re in Full Bloom”

All Members

Brush Strokes Gallery

Opening Reception , May 1, 5-99p 824 Caroline St

Spring bulbs have produced an early introduction to the season. In the month of May more of the amazing spring flowers make their appearance. Now everyone is busy planting the seeds of the colorful annual plants which will soon appear.

Brush Strokes artists continue to celebrate the glory of Spring and have

produced a shower of color in the current exhibit. Penny Parrish's "Chatham Bloom" pictures a young woman enjoying the beautiful wisteria in the garden at historic Chatham. Tracey Brinckman 's "Lazy Daises" features one of the most familiar flowers. "May Flowers" Stacy Gerise's painting of a group of blooms is a colorful reminder of the diversity of the season's display. "Spring in Kilkenny" by Val McCarney reminds us that Spring is celebrated around the world.

Do not miss the hand-crafted jewelry by Liana Pivirotto and Tracey Brinckman, watercolors from Beverley Coates , charcoal drawings by Carol Haynes, Sumi paintings by Carol Waite, glasswork by Lisa Gillen, paintings by Collette Caprara and Ron Perkins, . by Norma Woodward

Visit Brush Strokes and see the creative ways our members portray the kaleidoscope of Spring. A real artist member will be there to greet you. Don't forget that you can also shop on-line 24/7 at www.brushstrokesfredericksburg.com.

~-Norma Woodward

"Taking Flight"

New Works by Elisa Pritchard

Opening Reception: Fri May 1, 6-99pm

Artful Dimensions Gallery 1025 Caroline St

For Elisa Pritchard, growing up in the country inspired her love of nature, which is her inspiration. In her ceramic pieces, she blends sculptural techniques with functional design. In this show, Elisa has created something new with handbuilding that combines functional pottery with patterns and colors found in nature, particularly showcasing things that fly.

~Sally Cooney Anderson

Julie Kruse Featured Resident Artist Opening Reception May 1, 5-88:30

Canal Quarters Arts, 1517 Princess Anne

See Closeup Pg 24

~ Ellyn Wenzler

The Artists' Alliance

Feature Painter

100 Taylor St , # 101, Colonial Beach

Opening Friday May 8, from 6-9 9

We are excite to feature oil painter extraordinaire Marcia Chaves for the month of May. Her show will showcase images of her neghborhood in Falmouth Bottom.

Rob Rudick

Bro Halff Watercolors at FCCA Members' Gallery, 813 Sophia St

Opening Reception May 1, 6-88:30p

The Fredericksburg Center for the Creative Arts (FCCA) is honored to present a special May 2026 Members' Gallery solo exhibition of watercolors by North Dakota and Hawaii artist Bro Halff. His watercolors have been exhibited in over 230 nation-wide exhibitions. He represents rural, urban and small-town America, with radiant colors and bold composition, depicting the patterning that he sees in all of reality. He offers a fresh look at scenes that delight our senses, and that stimulate our capacity for wonder before the world around us. Mr. Halff resides on Kaua'i, in Hawaii, and in Bismarck, North Dakota.

Finding Magic in the Overlooked artist & photographer julie kruse

Photographer Julie Kruse , originally from Bloomsburg, PA, now calls the Fredericksburg area her home. She was initially drawn to graphic design in college, but realized that what she truly loved wasn't the finished product - but the process. That realization led her to shift her focus to psychology with a minor in art, with plans to become an art therapist, as she loved working with and helping children.

But Julie followed a slightly different path and went on to earn a Master's degree in Special Education and Early Intervention, becoming a teacher. When she moved to Virginia in 2005, she began a career as an early childhood special education teacher, a role she held until 2023. She approached teaching the same way she approached art - by focusing on the process. Her lessons were tactile, immersive and often unconventional Students painted with pumpkin pie filling in the fall, wrapped themselves in toilet paper before "emerging" like butterflies in the spring, and explored real worms in sensory bins while learning about plant life. Today, as a behavior specialist, she continues to influence classrooms, encouraging teachers to think creatively and embrace meaningful, multi-sensory approaches.

In Julie's experience, many problems and anxieties can be unraveled and even solved while immersing herself in the process of creating art And while art has always been present, photography gradually became her primary creative outlet. With no formal training beyond college art classes, she developed her skills through curiosity, experimentation, and observation. To Julie, photography is something accessible to everyone - less about technical mastery and more about simply seeing. She gravitates toward what others might overlook: a snail crossing the road, mushrooms, a raindrop clinging to a branch, the way moss grows on tree bark. One of her favorite photographs is of a jellyfish stranded on a post-storm beach

during sunrise, a scene that went unnoticed by others around her.

Mother nature is her greatest inspiration. Whether walking through the woods or hiking mountain trails, she

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moves slowly, pausing often to take in the details around her. Her goal as a photographer is not simply to document what she sees, but to capture a feeling in a moment that makes her eyes open a little wider or her breath catch Julie explains, "Nature is just so amazing, beautiful, harsh, elegant, dramatic, soft, and a billion other things that I really can't help but be inspired by her." She hopes that when people view her photos they see that the natural world is full of magic and magical experiences - that they take the long way home with their windows open, turn over rocks to see what lives underneath. "Even the most mundane thing or activity has magic in it. I think the world is so fast that people forget to actually see. I hope that my photos give them a window to see clearly, at least for a short time." Her images invite people to slow down, look closer, and rediscover the wonder in everyday moments.

to two high schoolers and a lively mix of animals - a spirited dog named Freddie, a sweet but drooling orange cat named Emmitt, and a laid-back bearded dragon named Spikes.

Julie Kruse's art can be seen locally at Fredericksburg's Canal Quarter Arts where she is the featured resident artist for the month of May.

Ellyn Wenzler, a former writer and computer scientist, is a resident artist at Canal Quarter Arts.

Beyond photography, her creativity continues to expand into other mediums. She creates grapevine wreaths, incorporating natural elements like moss, and dried flowers Her "peace wreaths" reflect a desire to offer a sense of calm in an increasingly chaotic world. She has also experimented with handmade ornaments and plans to explore natural sun catchers, weaving, and candle-making in the future.

Julie's family life is equally as vibrant as her photographs. Married to her husband Mike, a high school Spanish teacher, since 2008, she is also a mother

Auto Known Better Stick a Fork in it

By Rim Vining

For those of you betting on how long it would be before I would work on a customer's car after retiring, the winning date is April 15th! Tax Day! You knew it couldn't last. It's like quitting smoking which I also did on Tax Day about 30 years ago. You stop cold turkey and really don't want another cigarette but at some point down the road you think maybe??? And eventually one day you take a few puffs and then never again. No desire.

I resisted the first "help me" call I got and just went by, gave my best guess on what was going on and passed it on to another shop. I have no idea how it turned out, and it felt good to resist the temptation. Then I got another text.

This time I thought, "'Why not?" Beautiful spring day, nice car, nice customer, should be fairly easy and the car deserves to be driven again. So, I said yes and it was easy. Pulled the choke and it started right up. Quick oil change, fresh fuel in the tank and air in the tires and I was driving a wonderful example of an early MGB Clear skies and 75 degrees with the top down. Very nice, I actually smiled. All at once I'm a teenager again learning to drive sports cars during my summers in Rehoboth Beach and remembering why I like these things.

The beach in the 60's was longterm family rentals with lots of kids, station wagons and quite often more sporting rides you might get a chance to take for a spin. In the days before the JetSki, beach toys were MGs, Triumph TR3s and TR4s, Austin Healey Sprites and 3000s, Jaguars and the occasional Mercedes SL Maybe even a Corvette or

M-Sat. 10am-6pm; Sun. 1pm-4pm

and a Honda Dream. The tops stayed down all summer and every car had sand in the seats and smelled of Coppertone… I drove them all! Marvelous memories.

So now that I've taken that one puff after having given up the habit you know what? I'm done. No desire. Do I like driving them? Absolutely! I drive my MG BGT pretty much every day. Will I take the call, give advice or check things out and maybe take one for a spin? Of course. Help a friend with a project? Sure. Work on them for money? Nope. Don't need the stress waiting for the dreaded followup call when something else needs attention.

I know the old adage of when you get thrown from the horse you have to get back in the saddle, but it doesn't mean you have to ride the rest of your life.

I'm adding this lesson to others I have learned like, "You don't have to finish a bad book." and "You don't have to cook the whole bag of beans." It's baby steps. Check out a few car shows, finish some projects around the house, learn to sleep in and spend more time driving on back roads in the GT with my sweetheart.

Admittedly I am a slow learner but what the hell! It's spring! Live a little. Don't set the alarm.

autoknownbetter@gmail.com

Rim Vining, humorist, friend and a devoted community volunteer.

Caroline County Agricultural Fair celebrate america’s birthday at the fair

By Mary Beth Geil & Lynda Tate

Thirty miles south of Fredericksburg lies the Caroline County Agricultural Fairgrounds at 8332 County Fair Lane in Ruther Glen. The fairground is home to the Caroline County Agricultural Fair which is coming up June 17 - 20. This year's theme is "Celebrate America's Birthday at the Fair!" with many activities planned to commemorate this national milestone. It is worth the drive to enjoy some family-friendly fun where your money can go for rides, games and food because admission is FREE for all ages!

The all-volunteer Caroline County Agricultural Fair Association works year-round to host the Fair and other family-friendly events. I caught up with Association President, Francine Whittaker, for a quick chat about the 2026 Fair. "We are looking forward to celebrating America's 250th birthday!" proclaimed

Francine. Along with the time-honored traditions one expects at a county fair, visitors can enjoy the many celebratory activities planned in each area, including Francis Scott Key performing the National Anthem on opening night and visits from other notables from 1776. History comes alive in Caroline!

Strolling the grounds, the Home Goods Exhibit Hall boasts an impressive display of contest entries from the 500+ available categories. Contests are open to everyone of all ages, and some award cash prizes of as much as $50!

Of course, it wouldn't be an agricultural fair without farm animals. Caroline's Barn is sure to be brimming with cattle, sheep, goats, pigs and chickens! Local 4-H'ers work hard to take care of the barn and prepare their animals

for the livestock shows. On display are decorated hay bales, plus sheep shearing demonstrations, a Youth Livestock Show and the Pee Wee Shows where little ones learn to handle an animal in the show ring.

The Fair is home to "The Jane & Arthur Flippo Foundation Heritage Center" which is dedicated to the history of various industries in & around Caroline County including farming, timber processing, commerce, domestic life, and education, with a special focus on the Caroline County Agricultural Fair. Among the many exhibits and artifacts on display is the Virginia Implement Exhibit - a collection of 19th and early 20th century plows and other farming apparatus - all built and patented by Virginia farmers.

The Heritage area also features the working antique "Shoestring Sawmill" and an outstanding display of Antique Tractors and Implements. For 2026, patriotic activities will be added for children of all ages.

Fair entertainment comes in many forms, including live music on stage every night and all day Saturday And there's no cover charge for bands! Feel free to bring a chair but wear your dancing shoes. A beer garden is open during the concerts. Grounds acts include performances by Circus Stella, featuring aerial acrobatics, rope walking, ladder balancing and adorable rescue dogs. Go "Hog Wild" cheering for the "Wee Wee Wee Racing Pigs" as they run around the track. Francine hinted that a few other attractions related to the Birthday Celebration are planned, but I guess we will have to meet at the Fair to find out what they are!

Corn shucking and hay bale tossing contests add to the fun of the County Fair. Participants come from all around to see who can shuck the fastest and toss the highest!

The Midway area is filled with rides, plus games and food The County Fair Café and several local vendors also offer a variety of delicious foods!

The current home for the fair is on land donated by the late Mrs Ann H Tate in 2009, which revitalized the Fair and the community. Buildings were constructed throughout the years since utilizing all-volunteer labor from materials paid for by generous donations from the community.

We hope to see you there! More info may be found at CarolineFair.com.

Mary Geil is a Spotsylvania resident who enjoys writing articles. Lynda Tate is a Trustee and the Publicity Chair for the Caroline County Agricultural Fair Association.

Caroline County Agricultural Fairgrounds 8332 County Fair Lane in Ruther Glen June 17 - 20

This year ' s theme is "Celebrate America's Birthday at the Fair! Admission is FREE for all ages! CarolineFair com

Old Dominion Humane Society (ODHS) rolled out its 'Spay It Forward' program, an initiative to secure spay and neuter services for dog owners facing financial challenges. The program was kick-started when the Virginia Federation of Humane Societies (VFHS) awarded a $3,000 grant to provide the services to the community's pets. The initiative serves Fredericksburg, Spotsylvania and Caroline counties.

"The 'Spay It Forward' program is vital to our community and helps manage the pet population by making sure these surgeries are accessible to the public," said Chrissy Hamilton, founder of ODHS. "We're so grateful for the VFHS for awarding us this generous grant that will allow ODHS to help so many people who otherwise might not be able to afford the cost of spaying or neutering their dogs. Caring for pets shouldn't be something that's unattainable-ODHS wants to help.

Residents interested in the program should submit a 'Spay It Forward' application on the ODHS website, and it

will be reviewed by an ODHS team. A member of the team will contact the resident and collect a $25, nonrefundable deposit to secure a spot. ODHS will check its current 'Spay It Forward' funds, providing updates about the dog owner's status in the queue. The timing depends on available donations.

When funding is confirmed, ODHS will issue an official voucher that's available for six months. Residents with the vouchers can contact Kincheloe Spay & Neuter Clinic directly to book an appointment. The voucher covers all surgical expenses, including pain medication and common upcharges, such as weight and pregnancy fees. Proof of rabies, distemper and a heartworm test must be provided. If these items aren't supplied by the appointment, Kincheloe will perform them for an $84 fee. (Optional items-anxiety medications, extra vaccines and heartworm prevention aren't covered but can be added at the expense of the dog owner upon request.)

Dogs must meet the following criteria:

· Size & Age--The dog must be at least three months old and weigh three pounds or more.

· Seniors (six years old and up)--To ensure a safe surgery, Kincheloe will perform a bloodwork panel the morning of the appointment. If results show anesthesia isn't a fit, a full-service veterinarian will be recommended for the procedure.

· In-Heat-Spaying is safe during all stages of a dog's heat cycle. There's no need to wait.

Individuals can take their dogs to Kincheloe North at 452 TV Drive in Fredericksburg or Kincheloe South at 12300 Farrington Road in Ashland.

Visit the ODHS website at www.olddominionhumanesociety.org for more information about the program. Apply for a spot in the 'Spay It Forward' program by visiting https://new.shelterluv.com/form/commun ity/ODHS/133426-spay-neuter.

"We want to keep the 'Spay It Forward' program funded and can't do it without the support of donations," said Hamilton. "People who want to be part of the solution and make an impact can donate on the ODHS website."

Lenora Kruk-Mullanaphy is a Public Relations Professional & a ODHS volunteer

Old Dominion Humane Society is here to provide well-mmatched, permanent homes for animals in need through rescue, rehabilitation and education ODHS is located at 3602 Lafayette Boulevard in Fredericksburg www olddominionhumanesociety org

Adoption events are Wednesdays from 5-7 7 p m , Fridays from 6-8 8 p m , Saturdays from 11 a m to 3 p m and Sundays from 11 a m to 1 p m

Don't miss out on the events planned with Old Dominion Humane Society (ODHS) rescue dogs in May From weekly strolls with little dogs and vigorous hikes with bigger, four-llegged friends to adoption events at local businesses meet the rescue dogs and bring a new best friend home to the family For those individuals not sure if they want to adopt, fostering or hosting a slumber party for a few days is an ideal way to help the dogs decompress and socialize Check Calendar on pg 16-117

THE THE POETRY MAN POETRY MAN

By Frank Fratoe

Born Into Starlight Born Into Starlight

It is never too late to know That our breath drawn everyday Has risen from dust and fire Exuding a long-lived presence Found in the stars of winter.

And we should go on striving Even if some doubt our faith Uncertain to regard a legacy Whose paragon taught us hope When his mercy conquered fear.

Now a divine-joy heartens us From the aura where galaxies Give birth anew, as they glow And enrich our inmost spirit For we are children of light.

Frank Fratoe found meaning in words and used them to reflect on life, faith, resilience, and -most notably- love

Astrology & You between two worlds

On Friday, April 10th 2026, four astronauts aboard the Artemis II mission successfully splashed down in the Pacific off the coast of San Diego, making it humanity's first trip to the Moon since Apollo 17 in 1972, 53 years ago. These four astronauts traveled to the dark side of the Moon and back, over 700,000 miles in 10 days.

Humans have been fascinated by the Moon for thousands of years.

According to Hellenistic astrological thought, the Sun and Moon are known as the "Two Lights". The Sun reflects the seasons, while the Moon reflects the weeks of the month. They were described first as the celestial god and goddess, which morphed into the terrestrial king and queen, and then eventually their final form as the father and the mother.

The Moon, Luna, Selene, Sin, Chandra, she may have many names and faces, but she evokes the same feeling into the soul of each culture. A glimmer of light and hope in the dark abyss of night. She provides us direction, for when we know her ways, we can never truly be lost.

This month we have two full moons, on May 1st the Moon will be full in the sign of Scorpio. With the Sun in Taurus, this full Moon is a time to do a Spring cleaning on your mind. Taurus gets us in touch with our senses. The bull is grounded, but also temperamental. It will charge if provoked. The Sun will be shedding light onto the areas of our lives that need grounding, which could stir up

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some dust in the process. The full Moon in Scorpio is a powerful moment for revealing hidden truths nestled deeply within your psyche. A spiritually powerful way to take advantage of the full and new moons is through ritual. For a Scorpio full Moon, I recommend journaling three full pages of freehand writing, letting yourself write without internal judgment, then discarding it Paying more attention to the feelings that arise than the contents on the page. You can then use what you discover as your area of focus during the Sun's illumination of Taurean grounding.

On the 3rd, Mercury enters Taurus, bringing our communication down to earththink sensuality, love, comfort. The new Moon in Taurus on the 16th will bring our hearts into the mix, this will be a powerful night to manifest new beginnings through engaging with physical luxuries such as cooking or self-care. A take-it-slow approach is best here. On the 4th, Pluto will be going retrograde in Aquarius for the next five months, this is the ideal time for deep inner reflection in order to work toward a more integrated future. Mercury enters Gemini on the 17th, followed by Mars entering Taurus on the 18th. You can expect quick witted communication albeit slow, steady actions to achieve one's goals. On the 19th, Venus enters the Moon's native sign of Cancer This will bring an emotional, sentimental energy to your home and love life

On May 21st the Sun enters Gemini. Gemini, an air sign ruled by

Mercury, is represented by the twins. Geminian energy is all about forming bonds and intellectually stimulating communication With the Sun in Gemini, you may notice you are processing information differently than usual, and perhaps quicker too. During this time it is important to remember that you must make decisions in your own best interest. Just because you are able to understand different perspectives of a situation, does not mean you need to self-abandon to appease others/keep the peace. When met with indecisiveness, choose to empathize with yourself, choose what will protect your peace. This is a great time to socialize and network, to step outside of your comfort zone.

The full Moon in Sagittarius on May 31st sets the stage for June Sagittarius is a fire sign ruled by Jupiter, the planet of luck. Symbolized by the Archer, this sign is known for its adventurous, philosophical nature. We can utilize this full Moon in Sagittarius by exploring how different places, people, and topics make us feel, leaving behind those that bring us down. Sagittarian energy values freedom above all else. If you have been feeling confined emotionally, this full Moon will bring that to the surface.

This is a powerful month, jampacked with ample opportunity for spiritual growth and exploration. If we ride the waves, we will come out of it more in tune with ourselves and more sure of our place in the world.

Ember Mercury is a singer/songwriter, mystic, & writer based in Virginia. You can find her on Instagram @embermercury | embermercury.com

Painting: "Pygmalion Effect" by Cynthia Zhou

Fredericksburg Sketches

A visual Celebration of our community

By Paula Raudenbush

Thornton’s Tavern

The house at 523 Sophia Street (at the intersection with Wolfe Street) is known as the Half Way House or Thornton's Tavern and is one of the oldest documented buildings in Fredericksburg, dating back to 1746. As a former colonial tavern facing the Rappahannock River, it represents the city's early mercantile architecture.

My first watercolor sketch of this house was disappointing.

I was a little out of practice since this was my first outing this year, so I did it again and kept it as an ink drawing. I'm happier with the drawing but I may go in and paint the front door. It's a lovely peachy color.

P.S. I have recently written a book (see the ad elsewhere in this issue), and the cover started as a simple sketch. You never know where this endeavor will take you. Cheers!

Paula Raudenbush is the founder of the local chapter of the Urban Sketchers International. She shows her work at Libertytown Arts Workshop

When you care for shelter animals, there's no such thing as "business as usual." Every day depends on the people behind the scenes making sure tails keep wagging and second chances stay possible. So when the Fredericksburg SPCA found itself without a Veterinarian-iinCharge earlier this year after its VIC moved on to a position closer to home, it wasn't just a staffing gap; it was a moment that called for patience, creativity, and a whole lot of heart.

Back in February, the organization made the tough call to pause select programs and limit animal intake, as this critical leadership role isn't optional for an animal shelter. A Veterinarian-inCharge sets medical protocols, ensures compliance with state regulations, and oversees everything from vaccines to surgeries to disease prevention. Without that oversight, the shelter had to scale back, working closely with off-site veterinary partners while searching for the right person to step in.

There's always a rainbow after the rain, and the colors are shining brighter than ever with the arrival of Auravet, a new mobile veterinary practice founded by Dr. Lindsey Aebli (above with Sadie). The Fred SPCA has welcomed Dr. Aebli as its interim Veterinarian-in-Charge,

Dr. Lindsey Aebli Helping Animals, Helping People By von young

a move that's already bringing programs back to life.

With her leadership, the Fredericksburg SPCA is once again able to say " yes " to animals in need Intake requests from local shelters, especially those relying on transfer partnerships to prevent unnecessary euthanasia, are resuming. And inside the shelter, essential services like vaccinations, preventive care, and coordination of spay and neuter procedures are getting back on track, helping animals move more quickly from intake to adoption.

But the impact doesn't stop at the shelter doors. The Fred SPCA's People Empowered Through Support program, which focuses on keeping pets with the families who love them, is also set to gain momentum again. With Dr. Aebli's involvement, the organization is planning the return of vaccine clinics and looking ahead to expanding low-cost visits during community events, making care more accessible for everyone.

For Dr. Aebli, this work is deeply personal. Dr. Aebli is known for meeting pets and their people where they are: literally and figuratively.

"At its core, Auravet is about showing up for our community and providing veterinary care that supports both pets and the people who love them," says Dr. Lindsey Aebli. "My goal has always been to make veterinary care more accessible for pets and their families. This partnership allows us to continue and expand that work, ensuring more animals receive the care they need

while supporting an organization that does so much for our community."

Since 2018, Dr. Aebli has cared for animals across Northern Virginia, from household pets to farm animals, always with an approach that's compassionate, flexible, and rooted in real-life needs. She also brings valuable experience in shelter medicine, having previously served as a Veterinarian-in-Charge for a large county shelter. That experience makes her uniquely equipped for this moment.

For Team Fred SPCA, her arrival is more than a solution…it's a turning point.

"This partnership is transformative for both vulnerable animals in need of care and the families in our community who rely on us for support," said Brittany McNulty, Practice Manager and Licensed Veterinary Technician at the Fredericksburg SPCA Locke Community Medical Center. "With Dr. Aebli stepping in as Veterinarian-in-

Charge, we can once again say yes to animals who need us while expanding access to essential community care. We are proud to welcome such a strong and compassionate partner to our team."

Today, the Fredericksburg SPCA is steadily reopening services, caring for shelter animals, and looking ahead. With plans to bring on additional veterinarians in the future, the organization is building toward something even stronger: a community where help is always within reach for every pet and every person who loves them.

Von Young is the Communications Director at Fredericksburg SPCA

Fredericksburg SPCA 10819 Courthouse RD, 22408 540-8898-11500 fredspca org facebook@FredSPCA