OCTOBER 2012
FALL FASHiON style
dating:
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boudoir divas Tips on taking fab photos
Fifty Shades
Femmes de la Mer
lost in the
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Go Camo! Military Trends Makeup 101 Effortlessly Cool Men’s Fashion
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love everything about living in San Diego and have a special pride about living in one of the most beautiful places, but, sometimes, I really miss the “seasons.” Most days the pride I have for San Diego comes with my love for being able to have a beach day in the middle of fall or winter. Isn’t it great? But today, I could use a good fall day, with a little grayer sky, some fall foliage on the ground and a reason to drink a hot pumpkin spice latte and wear my favorite boots and scarves. Doesn’t that sound great? Well, as I am still relatively new to San Diego I didn’t realize how good we really do have it and how we can pretty much have the best of both worlds. Only about an hour east you can find pumpkin patches and apple orchards to create a fabulous fall day. It may still be warm, but you can make some memories enjoying some favorite October pastimes. October is also known as Pinktober for National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Pinktober provides a platform for breast cancer charities to share their work and more about the disease as they raise awareness, seek funds for research and increase support to families of lost ones, those fighting and survivors. Sadly, many of us have been affected by breast cancer in one way or another, so this Pinktober I encourage you to find a way to get involved in our community. Maybe even plan a night out with your girlfriends and dress in pink. Oh, and enjoy some pink champagne, of course! Last October, my boyfriend Kiptyn and I had the honor of kicking off Pinktober with Kelly Osbourne at the Hard Rock Hotel. I’ll never forget it. This October issue is full of great tips and two gorgeous editorial spreads for you to enjoy. You’ll also find a page of men’s fall fashion. If your guy needs a little help and direction, we’ve got it taken care of on page 22. Definitely don’t miss the exciting happenings going on downtown to celebrate Halloween. There are several events to pencil in on your calendar with your friends at the bottom of page 30. Make sure you spend some time this month enjoying the scent of your pumpkin candles and sipping on something seasonal with some good friends. Wishing you all a very happy beginning of this fall season, have a safe and happy Halloween.
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MADE IN USA
OCTOBER 2012 | contributors RACHEL SMITH
Erin Winter
model
Hair Stylist, Makeup Artist
Born and raised in San Diego, Rachel Smith began modeling at the age of 15. After traveling the world for top commercial fashion clients including Target, JCPenney and Skechers, Smith turned a new leaf by accepting a position at No Ties Management. Although Smith only models part-time while working as a booking assistant, Fashion 5.0 reached out to her to fill the islandstyle “Rihanna” look required for the October issue cover. According to Smith, working with photographer James Norton “was really smooth, he gave great direction and made it easy to get the shots needed.”
Erin Winter is an accomplished hair stylist and makeup artist who has worked in fashion capitals across the world including New York City and London. Winter has worked for VIP events such as London Fashion Week, New York Fashion Week and the MET’s Costume Institute Gala. Her work has been photographed for major magazines including Vanity Fair, as well as for national advertising campaigns. According to Winter, “I got involved with Fashion 5.0 by reading an issue and knowing that I had to work with them. What they are doing was so unique to San Diego, I wanted to be a part of it.”
staff spotlight Cathryn Moe HOROSCOPE Columnist With over 20 years experience and over 15,000 hours of private readings, Cathryn Moe is a master astrologer and globally syndicated horoscope columnist. Moe’s private clients range from celebrities across the US to authors in London, European nobles and international CEOs. Currently she resides in the US on the island of Kauai. According to Moe, “My readers are impressed with the evolution of Fashion 5.0 and they want to see more of it!”
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contents htlaeh p. 16
p. 7
LOST IN THE PARK
OPINION
Fall Fashion
How to Look Your Best in Photos
p. 21
p. 8
FAshion
HOT SPOTS
News, Style and Trends
Alex & Katey Explore San Diego
p. 24
BEAUTY
Makeup 101
p. 25
dating p. 9
HEALTH
Foods that Beautify
p. 10
FWSD 2012 DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT Andre Soriano
Hayley’s Fifty Shades
p. 26
nightlife
The Latest Happenings in San Diego
p. 28
horoscope
Astrology with Cathy Moe
p. 13
femmes de la mer
p. 30
calendar
October Happenings
OCTOBER
COVER: Black lace top by Dolce & Gabbana, available at Nordstrom, $695.00. Green pleated skirt by MSGM, available at Nordstrom, $475.00.
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opinion
guest columnists
how to look
the boudoir divas photo by the boudoir Divas
Kimberlee Weston Boucher and Marissa Boucher know what they’re talking about when it comes to making a woman look beautiful in a photo. It’s what they do for a living! Together they own and operate The Boudoir Divas Studio, a high-volume studio located in San Diego that specializes solely in boudoir photography. In the past six years, Divas has seen incredible growth, moving from a tiny one-car garage into a gorgeous 4,500-square-foot studio decked out with more than 15 distinct boudoir sets. The Divas’ six female staff members will make you feel comfortable throughout the entire experience. With over 600 boudoir clients per year, The Boudoir Divas definitely knows how to make women look and feel gorgeous. What makes their studio so successful is Kimberlee and Marissa’s desire to give every woman the opportunity to feel like a supermodel. “Every woman has her own unique beauty, and it is our hope that we help her embrace just that.” Together, they have written three books about boudoir photography, including two books specializing in boudoir posing. They are also able to travel all around the world from Italy to the Caribbean and Paris, France to share their passion for boudoir with the world! If you want to have your own “supermodel experience,” you can book a shoot by calling (858) 485-0443, or visit their website at www. TheBoudoirDivas.com.
s u o l u b fa
in photos
By Kimberlee Weston Boucher and Marissa Boucher
Have you ever taken a photo of yourself that you just had to delete immediately? And then on the other hand, we’ve all had a photo taken where we can’t wait to upload it and make it our profile picture. Those killer photos don’t need to be few and far between, and there are actually some very simple things you can learn to do to make the camera love you.
First of all, let’s talk about how to work your angle. Most people have a “good side” that they prefer (usually it’s the same side you part your hair on!). So figure out which side you like best, and then whenever someone grabs a camera or their iPhone, be sure to turn your face slightly to show off your best angle. Also, keep in mind that the absolute best angle to shoot from is from above. So if your friend grabs your camera and gets down low to shoot, tell her to stand up, get on a stool or somehow get to a higher point, and then shoot down. It’s a much more flattering angle, and your face will look gorgeous.
While we’re on the subject of your face, we have to talk about expression, because that’s really the most important element of a good photo. When you’re looking through magazines, notice the im-
ages that grab your attention the most. More often than not, it’s the expression – the look in a person’s eyes – that grabs our attention first. So to get a killer expression, we recommend having a practice session in front of the mirror. Sure, you may feel a little silly, but it really works! Trying out different expressions will help you learn what works best for you. Feel free to try a serious expression and a sexy expression, but we also think you should never underestimate the power of a real, genuine smile. The last thing we want to mention is that, above all, taking a gorgeous photo really comes down to confidence. If you know and truly believe in your heart that you are beautiful, then that’s going to show through in your images. Have fun with it, loosen up and don’t take yourself too seriously. Use these simple tips when taking a photo, and we promise you will look as beautiful as you feel!
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675 West Beech Street Little Italy 619.269.2202 craft-commerce.com
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Blended Industries A Blend of Fashion and Wine by katey yurko
A fabulous shopping experience with a glass of wine in hand? That’s luxury, baby! There’s a lot to love about the genius concept of pairing a swanky wine bar with a fun boutique to shop in while savoring your cocktail sesh. Experience it yourself at Blended Industries in La Jolla. Blended Industries is part wine bar, part men’s and women’s boutique. The business is ran by Jesse Kovacs, winemaker and TV personality from the Jillian Harris season of The Bachelorette, and his fashion-forward lady in life, Summer Albertson. Together they launched California’s only wine bar and boutique. It’s certainly a fun and a feel-good experience. The Blended Industries team devotes quality time to their customers and often joins in on the social fun. The atmosphere is hip and upbeat. The wine is superior and the clothes are fresh, vogue. Women can relish in brands like BCBG Max Azria, J Brand Jeans (one of the best-fitting jeans ever), Stella & jamie (worn by celebs like Kim Kardashian and Fergie) and Donna Mizani. Men can enjoy clothing lines like Rufus (timeless), Original Penguin (a full lifestyle brand) and Hause of Howe.
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Craft & Commerce Little Italy’s Eclectic Gastropub By Alexandra McNair
In a time of mass production where chain coffee shops are on every corner and magazine headlines splash grocery shelves with pop gossip, Craft & Commerce encourages a retreat to the simpler times when quality is a value and the masses expect more and demand less. The bright pink signage and gentle buzz of a happy hour crowd turn heads in an otherwise inconspicuous section of Beech Street in Little Italy. The bar teems with regulars sipping cocktails that are shaken or stirred by bartenders in suspenders and plaid. Background music from big band to banjo is barely audible over the din of conversation and laughter. Chefs and mixologists alike value quality of product and passion for their craft. True to the philosophy that patrons should expect more and demand less, only the finest liquors and spirits are available at Craft & Commerce. The “no vodka” and “no ketchup” rules keep quality of food and drink from getting watered down, enhancing the flavor and substance of food and drink. A signature aspect of the restaurant is the integration of applewoodsmoked bacon into dish after dish on the menu. From appetizers like Devils on Horseback (bacon caramelized around sweet dates stuffed with cheddar cheese) to mini corn dogs (cheesy in the middle, wrapped in bacon and dusted in cornmeal), the flavors are rich and meld together into each savory bite. The waitstaff is extremely knowledgeable and thoughtful about your unique dining experience. There are no bounds to the dedication felt for1025 foodProspect and drinksSt. at Craft & Commerce as servers * 858.255.820 * La Jolla share recommendations or help pair drinks to food items for a holistically enjoyable event. Take a visit to Craft & Commerce for a unique dining experience that will leave you thinking about both food and society long after you have left.
health health
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beautify By Andrea Cox
BEAUTIFYING JUICE The following is one Ingredients: of my all-time favor1-2 Apples ite skin beautifying juices. It’s crazy simple 1 Cucumber and really works to ½ Lemon give you that glow! 6-7 Celery stalks Juice and devour knowing you are giving your skin that all-natural glow!
PAPAYA SALAD
Devour without shame or guilt! You 2-3 papayas have the healthy fats, bitterness of the aru1 lime gula and mineral-rich Pink salt spinach, the sourness Olive oil of the lime, sweetness Flax oil of the papaya and the sea salt. You have the Radish 5 “tastes” to satisfy Arugula your mind, body and Spinach soul. Your skin, hair and nails will soak ½ Cucumber that salad up, so enjoy! You can even add a tablespoon of the pepper-flavored papaya seeds back onto the salad. They are anti-parasitic and also contain healthy fat. Know that when you eat a wide array of colorful fruits and vegetables, you are eating for beauty. Ingredients:
hat is eating for beauty? Eating for beauty is consuming foods in their natural state, like fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, seeds, healthy fats and oils and medicinal herbs when necessary. Eating for beauty does not have to be a “diet!” Quite the contrary, it is a pleasurable experience of indulging in foods such as raw chocolate, tonic libido-enhancing elixirs and beautifying juices! A typical eating for beauty day would be waking up to a nice herbal lemon ginger tea, followed by some fresh fruit and a handful of nuts. A few hours later you may have a vegetable juice followed by an avocado salad. The evening would be another big leafy green salad preferably with local greens, with a homemade salad dressing with a nice blend of healthy fats to ensure you get all the beautifying skin effects that only fats can give! You may follow this salad with wild fish or grass-fed meat (if not a vegan) or if you’re a raw foodie like me you could indulge in a nut pâté with raw chocolate for dessert! Another option would be to go the exotic route and pick up a Durian! Durian is a beautifying food and was even mentioned in a book by David Wolfe called Eating for Beauty. Do your research first before trying Durian as some cannot withstand the smell.
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spotlight
FWSD 2012 Designer
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Andre Soriano Photography by danny juare
Local clothing designer Andre Soriano will be featured in the upcoming Fashion Week San Diego when his 2013 collection of gowns will be displayed. Recently, he collaborated with Event Makeup in San Diego for a photo shoot to release a sneak peek of his venerable collection. Soriano channels high fashion and art from cosmopolitan cities worldwide for inspiration. His 2013 spring collection will debut on October 6 at the Hard Rock Hotel in the Gaslamp at 6:00 p.m.
FEMMES de la Mer james norton b y dean hall
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“Penny” chiffon top by Plastic Island, $70.00. “Outrageous Fortune” high-waist shorts by Mink Pink, $79.00. “Cheetah Anne Kline” print sunglasses by Vintage Sunglasses, $275.00. “Venice” wedge sneakers by Jeffrey Campbell, $159.00.
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“Cielo” button-down dress by Plastic Island, $105.00. “Bel Air” sunglasses by Wildfox, $209.00.
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On left: “Night Hood School Girl” v-neck sweater by Wildfox White Label, $334.00. Multi-horn pendant necklace by House of Harlow 1960, $114.00. On right: “Watching Me Fall Damaged” sweater by One Teaspoon, $132.00.
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On left: Velvet dress by Mink Pink, price available upon request. On right: “Shape Shifter” body-con dress by Someday’s Lovin, $83.00. Beaded vest by Line & Dot, $90.00.
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She wanders off from a lavish soiree into the gardens of a palatial mansion for a breath of fresh air. Her mind drifts and the next thing she knows she turns around and finds herself lost...
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Print dress by Giambattista Valli, available at Nordstrom, $2,655.00. Rhinestone studded earrings, stylist’s own. Fur stole by Gerard Darel, available at Bloomingdale’s, $345.00. Leather gloves, available at Nordstrom, $178.00. Brown leather handbag by Fendi, available at Nordstrom, $3,330.00. Red lace tights, available at Forever 21, $6.80. Black boots by Andrea, available at Tutto Cuore, $81.00.
Yellow zip-up dress, available at Karen Millen,$280.00. Gold chain necklace, available at Henri Bendel, $228.00. Bag, available at Jimmy Choo, $1,450.00. Booties, available at Tutto Cuore, $65.99.
Teal dress by Azzedine Alaia, available at Nordstrom, $3,480.00. Teal necklace by Marni, available at Nordstrom, $530.00. Handbag with gold chain detail, available at Henri Bendel, $598.00. Red lace tights, available at Forever 21, $6.80.
Coat by Balenciaga, available at Nordstrom, $2,150.00. Custom headpiece by Larese Marie, available upon request, $125.00.
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odbye . Time to say go in ga a r ea y e n’s th the new seaso It’s that time of in e m co el w d ok an meback! to last fall’s lo camouflage co e th ce ra b m E fierce trend.
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1 A great mix of fabulous and fierce. Camo done right. Camouflage skinny jeans by Current/Elliott, available at Saks Fifth Avenue, $198.00.
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2 Nothing says “fierce” like skulls and no one does fierce like McQueen. Skull silk scarf by Alexander McQueen, available at Nordstrom, $295.00. 3 A little heel never hurt anyone! Spice up any camo combo with these bad boys. “France-Z” boot by Jeffrey Campbell, available at Nordstrom, $194.95. 4 Stand out with this camo jacket. No weather will be too harsh for you! Tall camouflage army jacket, available at Topshop, $96.00.
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5 An essential for the trend savvy techie. Camouflage iPad case by Prada, available at Neiman Marcus, $595.00. 6 The perfect trio to satisfy all of your camo cravings! “Case Study,” “Little Brown Dress,” and “Power Clutch” nail polish by Essie, available at Ulta, each $8.00.
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7 Protection never looked so good. Your eyes will thank you later. Rounded camouflage sunglasses by Giorgio Armani, available at Bloomingdale’s, $245.00. 8 The shorts haven’t been put away just yet! Everyone needs a gem like these for their fall wardrobe. Moto high-waist denim shorts by Topshop, available at Nordstrom, $68.00.
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The perfect style combination for the guy-on-the-go. A compilation of quality staple items that will outfit any cool cat for the upcoming fall season. 1 Corduroy shirt, available at H&M, $9.95. 2 Down vest by GANT by Michael Bastian, available at Nordstrom, $380.00. 3 Coated denim jacket by 7 For All Mankind, available at Nordstrom, $298.00. 4 “Surf Stripe” slub jersey pocket tee, available at J.Crew, $45.00. 5 “Alpha Khaki” slim straight leg chino by Dockers, available at Nordstrom, $64.00. 6 Wingtip sneaker by Generic Surplus, available at Sportie LA, $69.95. 7 “Little America” backpack by Herschel Supply Co., available at Nordstrom, $85.00. 8 “8196” round toe boot by Red Wing, available at Nordstrom, $240.00. 9 “508” regular taper cargo pants, available at Levi’s, $78.00. 0 “Packable” small duffel by Marc by Marc Jacobs, available at Bloomingdale’s, $108.00. q “T-Woods” sunglass by SOLO Eyewear, available at La Jolla Bamboo Boutique, $74.00. w “Equinoxe” belt, available at Hermes, $650.00. e “Trucker” denim jacket by Levi’s, available at Nordstrom, $84.00. 22
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BREAKING FASHION NEWS
BREAKING FASHION NEWS
BREAKING FASHION NEWS by Nohely Mendoza and dean hall
Men’s Fall Patterns
This season calls for a pattern trend. Men’s suits and sport coats with plaid are the hit style this fall. The broughtback style is complete with a patterned or plain collared shirt and a tie or with a solid-colored sweater under the coat. Celebrities like Ryan Gosling, Mark Ronson and Andrew Garfield have been spotted wearing the revitalized trend.
Diego n a S k e e W n o i h Fas
Stephanie Solomon
Last month Fashion 5.0 caught up with Stephanie Solomon, the fashion director of Bloomingdale’s, to get her take on her brand, current fashion trends and of course New York Fashion Week! Interview by Dean Hall
Fashion Week San Diego is set to kick off on October 1 with a week-long event that will venerate the fashion and beauty arenas while showcasing creative and original talents. Private industry events will allow behind-thescenes access to the public each day of the week. On Monday there will be a private event for the team and sponsors of Fashion Week San Diego 2012 in La Jolla. Tuesday will include a meet-and-greet mixer with the designers of Fashion Week, also in La Jolla. On Wednesday an art and beauty behind fashion event will be held in west San Diego. Thursday there will be a spotlight of San Diego style held at the Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising. Friday will be the first preview where designers will showcase their favorite piece from their Spring 2013 collections. Saturday there will be runway shows and an after-party at the Hard Rock Hotel. Lastly, on Sunday there will be a trunk show and a shopping day. The event’s winning designer will also be announced at the Hard Rock Hotel and they will be awarded a business package to help make their label and designs a reality.
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Fashion 5.0: When people hear “Bloomingdale’s,” which three words do you want to come to mind? Stephanie Solomon: Fun, contemporary and trend. F5.0: How do you recommend that readers incorporate the fur trend into their wardrobe this season? SS: Oh, it’s quite simple. A fur bolero or scarf is the perfect touch, it can be real or faux. F5.0: It’s New York Fashion Week and you only have one ticket. Whose show are you attending? SS: Marc Jacobs without a doubt. Marc Jacobs is a world class designer who lives in Paris. He has what is known in Paris as “ les petites mains,” which means little hands that give you the details you don’t see in American designs. F5.0: What is the item this season you are adding to your wardrobe? SS: A colored leather jacket, it’s a must! OCTOBER 2012 //
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makeup 101 what’s your beauty style? By meagan brown
Whether you’re a Clean Beauty or a High Fashion Beauty, the most important rule to makeup is to feel comfortable and confident in what you wear. Use this Makeup 101 test to find out which beauty style best fits you.
What is your everyday makeup routine?
a. Nothing. I’m lucky if I get my moisturizer on. (1) b. Minimal. Mascara and lip balm. (2) c. Classic. Defined eyeliner and smoky eyes. (3) d. Dramatic. Over the top, I try all the new beauty fashion trends. (4)
How much time do you spend on your makeup every day? a. Less than 5 minutes. (1) b. 5 minutes. (2) c. 15 minutes. (3) d. 25 or more minutes. (4)
Who is your beauty icon? a. I don’t have one. (1) b. Jennifer Aniston. (2) c. Kim Kardashian. (3) d. Lady Gaga. (4)
What is your favorite brand? a. La Mer. (1) b. Laura Mercier. (2) c. Nars. (3) d. Makeup Forever. (4)
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Add up the points from your answers to determine which beauty style is yours. 1-4 Points: Clean Beauty Skincare is your favorite makeup accessory. You may wear makeup sometimes but can hardly see it on your skin. This look has no detection of makeup. Simple and beautiful. 5-8 Points: Basic Beauty Makeup is a part of your daily routine and you use it to enhance your best features while continuing to look like yourself. You may have one favorite product that you use for your signature look. 9-12 Points: Fashion Beauty You tend to try new looks with your makeup. Between smoky eyes and bold lips you’re not afraid to use makeup to complete your wardrobe. Attention is focused first on the makeup then one’s beauty. 13+ Points: High Fashion Beauty Creativity is seen most in how you wear your makeup. You are daring and bold with your makeup and continue to look for more inspiration. Your high fashion makeup mirrors the runways of fashion weeks around the world.
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it’s complicated
the truth about my fifty shades
I
by hayley underwood
have a secret...
Ok, maybe not a secret, but perhaps more of a confession. Here it goes… I’m reading Fifty Shades of Grey, and not just one, but all of them. I tried to fight the urge. Tried to deny its existence, but alas, like Miss Anastasia Steele, I was drawn in, tied up and bound to the trilogy.
I know, I’m embarrassed for me, too, but before you judge my addiction to what is now being called suburban-mom porn, let me explain myself. Beyond the blush-worthy sexual content, what makes this series so interesting is the relationship that develops between the title characters. While obviously extreme, it’s the type of relationship that many of us have either experienced (to some extent) or want to experience. It’s the relationship which pushes us to our limits, the one that is equally terrifying and wonderful, achingly passionate and totally and utterly all-consuming. Yes, if you’re wondering, I’ve been there and it was fifty, nay, sixty shades of messed up. I won’t go into it now, but for the purpose of this article, let’s just say that while it didn’t work out, I was still able to perfect my hard and soft limits, aka my own Fifty Shades contract. It wasn’t just that particular relationship which would help me draft my decree of stipulations, it was all of them. That’s how it is, isn’t it? With each partner we learn what is acceptable and what is unacceptable. As we enter into new arrangements, new contracts, literal or figurative, are prepared. The fundamental terms, rules and provisions are outlined. Most important among these agreements is the roles which are set. We take our stance and decide are we the dominant, or the submissive?
Ideally, we’d be both, but as time goes on we change, our relationships change and we need to assert ourselves one way or the other. Not to say one is better than the other, but often times we have don’t have a choice. Things are out of our control and we have to throw our hands up and surrender as we are metaphorically, or sometimes physically, handcuffed to the bedpost. I have found this typically occurs during the exploration of the appendices, wherein the rules are discussed further and hard and soft limits are defined. I have been in four major relationships where both my partner and I were privy to contractual obligations. Though symbolic, it was no less binding to both parties and we accepted our roles implicitly. In relationship one, externally I was the dominant. I was young, rebellious and headstrong, refusing to adhere to the terms of obedience. Consequently, it was his insubordination to my sleep requirement that would whip me into submission. You see, he snored, and he did so loudly and often, with seemingly no reprieve, leaving me exhausted and too weak to exert any role of power. I was a slave to sleep and thus the submissive of that relationship. Relationship two was with a dominant personality. Steadfast in his pseudo-new age beliefs, I couldn’t conform to his soft limit of my consenting to participate in whatever full moon, Burning
Hayley Underwood recently graduated from Sotheby’s Institute of Art, London, where she received her Master’s in Art Business. Before moving across the pond, she worked at InStyle Magazine and InStyle.com after earning a Bachelor’s in English and Art History from UC Santa Barbara. She is now a development producer at the award-winning post-production company Shilo.
Man, drum circle, orgy/dance thing he tried to convince me to participate in. With a crack of a whip and a few choice words, his powers were rendered useless and the dominant became the submissive. The relationship that paramour three and I shared was one of equal power. I submitted to his desire that I speak softer so as not to be a loud American and he obeyed my request to see a dentist. Nevertheless, it was a foreign government that bowed us down and bent us over. Here, it was the master and we were nothing but its bitches. Lastly, there’s my current relationship. He has his limits and I have mine. We’ve both made revisions, one more than the other. Typically I would divulge more, but as it goes with any contractual negotiation, I’ve been bound and gagged to a sort of mutual understanding non-disclosure agreement as of now, so be patient and just remember there will always be later.
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Brody Jenner’s Birthday Party
Dollhouse Opening Night
PRESENTED BY stingaree
PRESENTED BY THE KEATING hotel
Heartthrob Brody Jenner hosted his birthday at Stingaree Nightclub on Friday, August 24. San Diegans celebrated by dancing the night away and poppin’ bottles all night long. This was certainly one birthday bash to remember. The evening was presented by Night Access, for more information visit NightAccess.com.
The Keating Hotel is bringing sexy back to the Gaslamp by introducing Dollhouse, an upscale burlesque nightclub. On August 25 reality starlet Audrina Patridge and the founder of the Pussycat Dolls, Robin Antin, hosted the grand opening as stylish San Diegans celebrated the new revamped hotspot!
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OCTOBER horoscope By Cathy Moe with Hali Winthrop
What is the definition of your horoscope? It is the name of the constellation that came between the sun and the Earth on the day you were born. The truth is that there are 13 constellations that come between the sun and the Earth during each annual orbit. The ancient Babylonians that created the horoscope only wanted 12 Signs to keep things easy, so they left off Ophiucus, the snake holder.
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ARIES The Ram { April 19 – May 13 } A new you this fall? If you’re ready! Autumn brings a chance to complete projects. Take time to think about what you really want. Late October your focus shifts to family. By Halloween, you’ll know your next step, whether it’s spooky or sparkly. TAURUS The Bull { May 14 – June 19 } Gear up for a special fall season with yourself as the centerpiece. Find time to relax and enjoy autumn’s comforts. A relationship warms up mid-October. You may want to sink your teeth into this delicious treat as Halloween approaches. GEMINI The Twins { June 20 – July 20 } Questing for more won’t fill your tank this month. October is magic if you take a step back. Rejuvenate yourself inside and out before a burnout occurs. Plan a weekend to contemplate pure beauty. By Halloween you’re able to fly freely again. CANCER The Crab { July 21 – August 9 } Open yourself to practical magic in October. Your ability to make things happen is heightened. Fall is full of opportunities with just one small step forward. This includes romance and travel plans. Comforting cuddles become your destiny as Halloween arrives. LEO The Lion { August 10 – September 15 } The road has been bumpy for you, Leo, but don’t worry. It’s about to pay off. Reaching for the brass ring is a trait you know well. October is your month to master your plan of action. Romance is all about putting yourself on the line. Halloween brings sparks to this enticing equation. VIRGO The Maiden { September 16 – October 30 } Follow your feelings right into fall. Enjoy your destiny as it unfolds. Romance rumbles through your thoughts. Will you move it to the front burner? Family matters request your attention. Take care of yourself first. Halloween brings more treats than tricks. LIBRA God of Justice { October 31 – November 22 } Your chance to be seen is coming. At the moment you’re wrapping up relationships and channeling your inner guru. Enjoy October’s treasured fall moments. Romance arrives in a whole different package. Jump into Halloween’s more mystic moments.
SCORPIO The Scorpion { November 23 – November 29 } Remember that friendships are reciprocal. If you give more than you get, you’ll feel drained. This goes for romance, too. Although protecting loved ones is important, being there for yourself is a priority. Halloween is Scorpio’s chance to howl at the moon. OPHIUCHUS The Serpent Holder { November 30 – December 17 } Fall’s dusky colors remind you of what’s essential. October brings dreams to fruition. Hold tight to those you love. Make sure they know it. Black cats and big moons bring Halloween spells to the surface. SAGITTARIUS The Archer { December 18 – January 18 } Half of you is ready to take off. The other half wants to build a foundation. What do you want to count on? Meetings bring results and romance builds in October. Let Halloween be a time to shine your sparkled self. CAPRICORN The Goat { January 19 – February 15 } “Be there in a minute” is your motto. You’re always there to help others. Make sure you receive your share of caring, comfort and luxury. Mid-October is especially nurturing for Capricorns. By Halloween night an important decision will be made. AQUARIUS The Water Bearer { February 16 – March 11 } You’re often the first one to notice what’s new. Aquarians have a radar which just won’t stop. The original and unconventional is always an attractor. October brings a challenge to tempt you. Halloween jack-o’-lanterns can’t match your smile. PISCES The Fish { March 12 – April 18 } Put on your warrior shield. A battle of imagination is about to ensue. Who is in charge? This October, cultivate supportive allies. Stand your ground. By Halloween life will be as sweet as candy corn.
Erica Ashley Creative Director
{ erica.ashley@fashionfiveo.com } 525 5th Avenue, Suite 1 • San Diego, CA 92101
Fun Fact: Scorpius, also known as Scorpio, actually only lasts about seven days between the sun and the Earth, making it the rarest true Sun Sign. OCTOBER 2012 //
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Cover Black lace top by Dolce & Gabbana, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $695.00. Green pleated skirt by MSGM, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $475.00. Table of Contents Page 6: Studded leather jacket by Diane von Furstenburg, available at Bloomingdale’s Fashion Valley (619) 610-6400, $1,200.00. Yellow dress by Diane von Furstenburg, available at Bloomingdale’s Fashion Valley (619) 610-6400, $365.00. Jeweled drop earrings by Lanvin, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 2954441, $1,490.00. Ring by BCBG, available at BCBG, $52.00. Heelless booties by Jeffrey Campbell, available at Tease Boutique (619) 795-2824, $190.00. Lost in the Park Page 17: Print dress by Giambattista Valli, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $2,655.00. Rhinestone studded earrings, stylist’s own. Fur stole by Gerard Darel, available at Bloomingdale’s Fashion Valley (619) 610-6400, $345.00. Leather gloves, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $178.00. Brown leather handbag by Fendi, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $3,330.00. Red lace tights, available at Forever 21 (619) 294-9045, $6.80. Black boots by Andrea, available at Tutto Cuore (858) 490-4685, $81.00. Page 18: Yellow zip-up dress, available at Karen Millen Fashion Valley (619) 683-2140, $280.00. Gold chain necklace, available at Henri Bendel Fashion Valley (619) 296-4076, $228.00. Bag, available at Jimmy Choo Fashion Valley (619) 2950303, $1,450.00. Booties, available at Tutto Cuore (858) 490-4685, $65.99. Page 19: Teal dress by Azzedine Alaia, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $3,480.00. Teal necklace by Marni, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 295-4441, $530.00. Handbag with gold chain detail, available at Henri Bendel Fashion Valley (619) 296-4076, $598.00. Red lace tights, available at Forever 21 Fashion Valley (619) 294-9045, $6.80. Page 20: Coat by Balenciaga, available at Nordstrom Fashion Valley (619) 2954441, $2,150.00. Custom headpiece by Larese Marie, available upon request, $125.00. Fashion Department Photo Credits Cover/Lost in the Park (Pages 1, 6, 16-20): Photography, James Norton. Photography Assistant, Cache Heverly. Wardrobe, Dean Hall. Wardrobe Assistants, Ashley Guyatt and Shea McGee. Hair, Jeremy Harris. Makeup, Erin Winter. Videographer, Kevin Tomanovich. Talent, Rachel Smith. LOCATION: Balboa Park, San Diego, CA FWSD Designer Spotlight (Pages 10-11): Photography, Danny Juare. Photography Assistant, Joseph Baltazar. Designer, Andre Soriano. Hair/Makeup Coodinator, Jessica Feigner. Hair/ Makeup, Event Makeup. Talent, Carina Rivera and Natalya Fiore. LOCATION: Lafayette Hotel, 2223 El Cajon Boulevard, San Diego, CA Femmes de la Mer (Pages 12-15): Photography, James Norton. Photography Assistant, Tommy McAdams. Wardrobe, Dean Hall. Wardrobe Assistant. Hair and Makeup, Maegan Cooper and Carmen Del Valle. Talent, TraeLee Costello, Makaela Maran and Kristina Winder. LOCATION: San Diego Bay, CA Beauty Department Photo Credits (Page 24): Photography, Bryan Miller. Makeup/Hair, Meagan Brown. Talent, Melissa Jones.
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FASHION WEEK SAN DIEGO Fashion Week will be hitting the west coast this October, and we are beyond ecstatic that this chic, seven-day celebration will be hosted right here, in sunny San Diego! This year’s most exciting collaborative industry event will showcase local San Diego designers and talent in a series of events including high-production runway shows, collection previews, meet and greets, industry panels, shopping events, trunk shows and endless networking opportunities. #FWSD For tickets and details visit www.fashionweeksd.com.
FWSD CALENDAR 0F EVENTS October 2 MEET & GREET WITH DESIGNERS Roppongi Restaurant, La Jolla, 6:00 p.m., open to all guests October 3 THE ART AND BEAUTY BEHIND FASHION W Hotel, Gaslamp District, 6:00 p.m. October 4 SPOTLIGHT SAN DIEGO STYLE FIDM, 350 Tenth Avenue, 6:30 p.m. October 5 FIRST PREVIEW OF COLLECTIONS FIDM, 350 Tenth Avenue, 6:00 p.m. October 6 FWSD RUNWAY SHOWS Hard Rock Hotel, Gaslamp District, 6:00 p.m. October 7 TRUNK SHOW Hard Rock Hotel, Gaslamp District, 11:00 a.m.
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October 11 PORTER ROBINSON, Voyeur Nightclub
October 19 TIESTO Valley View Casino Center, San Diego, 8:00 p.m.
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October 3 GROUPLOVE Humphreys Concerts by the Bay San Diego, 7:30 p.m.
October 10 THE SMASHING PUMPKINS Viejas Arena at Aztec Bowl San Diego State University, 7:30 p.m.
October 3 MAC MILLER House of Blues San Diego, 7:30 p.m.
October 13 WEEZER Harrah’s Rincon Casino Open Sky Theater, Valley Center, 8:00 p.m.
October 4 FLORENCE + THE MACHINE Cricket Wireless Ampitheatre Chula Vista, 7:30 p.m.
October 18 BRAD PAISLEY Cricket Wireless Ampitheatre Chula Vista, 7:30 p.m.
October 4 THE BLACK KEYS Valley View Casino Center San Diego, 8:00 p.m.
October 23 SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE LIVE TOUR San Diego Civic Center San Diego, 7:30 p.m.
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October 18 SBTRKT, Voyeur Nightclub October 19 ATS 1-YEAR ANNIVERSARY, Stingaree Nightclub October 28 BENNY BENASSI, Fluxx Nightclub
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October 6 PACIFIC BEACHFEST
October 12-13 OCEAN BEACH OKTOBERFEST October 13 LA JOLLA ART & WINE FESTIVAL October 14-18 ANNUAL LITTLE ITALY FESTA!
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October 19-31 HAUNTED HOTEL, Gaslamp District, $15-$27 October 20-31 SCREAM ZONE, Del Mar Fairgrounds, $15-$28 October 27 MONSTER BASH, Gaslamp District, $35 October 29 HALLOWEEN BASH, Hard Rock Hotel, $50 October 31 HALLOWEIRD, Stingaree Nightclub, presale $10