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Contents Page 3 Coverstar competition - Could your child be on the cover of our magazine? See below Page 4, 5 & 6 Family Health and Wellbeing special Beat the January blues with ideas to get your family healthy in 2020, the benefit of SEN trampolining, how to support an anxious child and WIN a fabulous spa day with treatments! Page 7 Early Years - Find out how nature can work in a preschool setting Page 8 &9 February Half Term Activities Guide Our packed schedule of ideas will keep them busy (and you sane!) Page 10 Joy of Reading - New book reviews and WIN a full set of Ross Welford books! Page 11 Education - Should there be a nature hour every day for schools? Plus tutoring tips. Page 12 Clubs and Classes - Find a new class to benefit your child Page 13 Out and About - WIN a family ticket worth over £400 to Black Deer festival of Americana! Page 14-15 What’s On - listings including events, days out and family theatre Page 16 Directory - of really useful businesses Facebook “f ” Logo

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FAMILY HEALTH & WELLBEING

Getting Healthy in 2020 If 2020 is the year for a new and healthier you, then you’re not alone. January is the classic time to ditch the sofa and crisps and hit the treadmill and protein shakes. However, if you aren’t motivated to jump on the fitness bandwagon this New Year, then consider this: not only will taking up exercise improve your fitness, metabolic health (blood glucose levels) and lower your blood pressure but, as many of the problems of getting older are linked with an inactive lifestyle, it will also increase the chances of you staying healthy as you age. That doesn’t mean you have to be doing triathlons, it simply means avoiding a sedentary lifestyle. Making exercise a part of your life this year will improve your health now and in the future. How Best to Get Started? Don’t take on too much too soon – especially if you’re starting from scratch. You’re more likely to make exercise a permanent part of your life if you start gradually. Avoid vague goals like “get in better shape”. You have a better chance of achieving a specific aim like: “In 3 months I want to be able to jog to the park”. Keep it realistic - if you have any health conditions consult your GP. You’re just as able to embark on a fitness regime but you may need more guidance. Be kind to yourself if you fall short of goals - just reassess them and start again. Listen to your body - you shouldn’t have to feel exhausted to get the benefits of exercise. So how much exercise will really make a difference? Recent studies have suggested that any exercise is beneficial, but the more the better. Dr Julie Broderick, from Trinity College Dublin suggests building physical activity into your every day routine. “If exercise isn’t a habit for you and you’re spending a lot of the day sedentary – that is

sitting or resting – just start small by breaking up your sedentary behaviour.” Get Active in 5 Simple Ways Sometimes the best way to start getting fit is to make it part of your daily life. Charlie Launder, pre & postnatal personal trainer & founder of Bumps and Burpees, encourages women to get moving with 5 simple ideas: 1 It Doesn’t HAVE to be “Exercise”. If you make it fun and something you enjoy you’re much more likely to keep it up. This could be netball with friends or playing football with your children in the garden. Being active can look different for different people. 2 Set a simple challenge to keep yourself accountable. Try 50 squats every day for a week, or a short jog every other day. Just keep it achievable! 3 Leave extra time and walk instead of getting the bus or

driving. Walking is a great way to keep active and you can weave it into your day quite easily, if you plan ahead. 4 Make it a family affair! Get the kids involved. Go to the park with a ball or start a game at home that gets you active. They’ll love spending time with you and you’ll get your heart rate up! 5 Take Inspiration from Social Media. The most time consuming thing about doing a workout from home is deciding what you’re going to do, and by the time you’ve worked it out, you’ve wasted precious time! Check out Instagram for some quick and simple workouts you can do at home, for free and without equipment. Find some, save them and then as soon as you have 20 minutes free, you’ll be ready to go! For more pre and postnatal training advice, visit www.bumpsandburpees.com

Which Type of Exercise is for Me? Zumba or zorb football? Not every fitness option is for everyone – that’s why there are so many to choose from! So try out 3 or 4 and find one that keeps you coming back. Here are some popular options suitable for everyone:* NHS Couch to 5K: This programme aims to get you in good enough shape to finish a 5km run and it’s particularly popular with people trying to change a sedentary lifestyle. Parkrun: And when 5k becomes

achievable, then this is a great, social way to keep yourself running. Parkrun pride themselves on reaching people for whom physical activity hasn’t been the norm. So don’t be put off – it’s more accessible than you think. FIIT: Online classes from 25 minute Pilates to 40 minute cardio, these are a great way to exercise at home with qualified trainers. Outdoor Classes: Get outdoors with parent and child friendly exercise classes, combining exercise and socialising with

fresh air. Search your local parks for classes in your area. Or if you’re feeling brave, find a nearby lido and try out cold water swimming!

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By Gabrielle Nash

Exercise and Diet Exercise is just one part of feeling good. Without dietary change, a fitness regime will only go so far in getting you healthy. But you don’t need a drastic diet plan to see improvements. Simple swaps and diet changes can make a big difference. Here are some of my favourites: ✸Swap whole wheat pasta for your usual white pasta, same for rice. ✸Make your own muesli or granola and add freshly chopped fruit – less sugar than ordinary cereals! ✸Avoid sugary and fizzy drinks but if you like a glass of juice, halve the amount and dilute it with water to make a full glass. ✸Instead of a normal baked potato, try a baked sweet potato topped with a feta or tuna salad. ✸Try 5 days of eating healthily, avoid alcohol and sweet treats and then for the final 2 days enjoy them, albeit sensibly! Mix it Up! One of the biggest battles of a fitness journey is keeping it fresh. Keep trying new classes, and don’t stick with the same type of activity if you feel your motivation decreasing. Coupling physical activity with social engagement is thought to optimise the benefits of exercising. If you struggle to find something you really enjoy, or don’t feel like you’ve caught the “exercise bug” then mix it up, try something different. What about Nordic Walking, Pilates barre or a musical theatre dance class? For more from Gabrielle Nash, follow her blog and Instagram @thelondonishmum www.familiesonline.co.uk

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Bounding into better health at SEN sessions Trampoline park Jump In is leading the way in exercise therapy sessions which benefit those across virtually the whole spectrum of disabilities.

Specialist Rebound Therapy forms part of the inclusive Relaxed sessions at Jump In Tonbridge, where those with special needs are encouraged to explore unassisted play with their families and carers in a safe, lower sensory environment. SEN (Special Educational Needs) sessions at the park run between 4-6pm on Wednesdays and now also 9-10am on Sundays. Carers go free. Rebound Therapy has been proven to provide a huge number of potential therapeutic and physiological benefits, from cardio-respiratory, muscle tone and balance and posture through to perception and communication. Benefits that are more specific to autism

include: improvements in calmness, focus, concentration, eye contact, memory, following instructions, motivation, self-esteem, confidence, potential for learning across the curriculum, and happiness. Other benefits would be: reduction in tactile defensiveness, anxiety, agitation, shimming, rocking, self-harming, hitting, and anti-social behaviours. Rebound Therapy-qualified instructors are on hand to work either one to one or in groups after a full assessment of needs is carried out. Jump In in Tonbridge is also championing inclusivity in its staffing of these sessions. The park appointed frequent visitor Tom Perry (pictured right) to help run their Relaxed sessions. It marks a milestone for the 27-yearold Marden man who suffers from Dravet Syndrome, a rare severe form of epilepsy that has also left him with severe autism and learning and behavioural difficulties. Tom now helps run the Wednesday SEN sessions paired with another member of staff and a carer in tow. Tasks include marshalling and checking wristbands and general duties but he also plays a role in overseeing the safe use of the trampolines. Regional manager Joe Upstone said: “It is important that everyone should be able to use the trampoline park. It shows how much you can make a difference to an individual in so many ways.

“We are a place for everyone and don’t discriminate, which fits our core values.” SEN sessions at Jump In Trampoline Park in Tonbridge run between 4-6pm on Wednesdays and now also 9-10am on Sundays. Sessions cost £7. Free for carers.

Jump In, Unit 2, Morley Road, Tonbridge, Kent, TN9 1RA Further information can be found at: www.gojumpin.com/activities/trampoline-activities-for-additional-needs

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WIN a pampering spa day at Nizels Golf and Country Club!

Pep yourself up for the New Year with a chance to win a fabulous spa trip and treatments! We have great prizes to be won to set you and a friend up for a relaxing spa day at Nizels Golf and Country Club in the beautiful Kent countryside. The club in Hildenborough includes an 18-hole Championship golf course, sumptuous spa and changing rooms, a pool and state of the art gym, all recently refurbished in a multi-million pound programme. First prize in our competition is a package for two, of 2 day tickets and 2 fabulous treatments, with

a total prize value of £120. Winners can enjoy access to the pool and luxurious adults-

only spa with hydro-pool, steam room and sauna. Then choose an unwinding 30 minute back and

neck massage or a 30 minute skin energiser facial in the Aura Spa. Our runner up gets 2 day tickets to take a friend to enjoy the pool and luxurious adultsonly spa with hydro-pool, steam room and sauna, a prize value of £50. Why not make a real day of it and sample the food and drink in the Nizels Pulse Bar? To enter, send an email headed “Nizels spa competition” to editor@ familieswestkent.co.uk including your name and contact details. The closing date is February 25. A winner and runner up will be picked at random and notified.

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Practical Strategies for Supporting an Anxious Child By Alicia Eaton

We often hear that today’s children are more anxious than previous generations. Growing up in an environment with worrying news items about climate change or terrorism, an endless stream of exams and the digital nightmare of social media competitiveness all contribute to this heightened sense of anxiety. No wonder then that many of today’s parents are finding it a struggle to deal with their children’s anxieties. But there are simple things parents can do to help. Here are some practical strategies which you can incorporate into daily life to soothe anxiety and help your children feel calmer and more at ease. Practise Breathing Techniques Anxiety can lead to a shortness of breath which in turn creates a pale complexion, sweaty hands and face, tightness in the chest and even giddiness or fainting. “Take a nice deep breath” is a traditional phrase that we’re all familiar with, but taking a deep inward breath is precisely what an anxious person doesn’t need to do. Anxious feelings can be caused by having too much air trapped in the lungs, which gives the sensation of not being able to breathe properly. Toys and games can help children practise controlling their breathing and here are some useful ways to introduce this concept. ✸ a hand-held windmill toy with sails; ✸ blowing bubbles through a wand; ✸ blowing up balloons; ✸ blowing bubbles in a drink through a straw; ✸ playing blow football; ✸ blowing a feather from one side of a table to the other; ✸ blowing up an imaginary paper

bag through a scrunched-up hand. Not only will your child feel calmer after playing these games, but they’ll get a feel for how to control their breathing more effectively when they are feeling anxious. Create a Worry Box If you have a child that’s stuck in a cycle of worrying about future events and repeatedly asking “yes, but what if…..,” it will be more helpful to restrict the amount of time given over to discussion about these worries. Find a box. It can be an old shoebox, or a small, attractively decorated one so long as it has a lid and can be closed easily. Explain to your child that this is going to be their personal Worry Box. Put a supply of paper and felt-tips inside the box. Each time your child gets stuck in a cycle of worries, ask them to take a sheet of paper from the Worry Box and choose a coloured pen. Having a good selection of coloured pens is useful because you can ask your child what colour they think this particular worry is.

Ask them to write down or draw a picture of the worry. Once they’ve finished, fold the piece of paper and put it into the Worry Box. Put the lid firmly on the box and put it away. Once a week, sit down with your child and take out all the pieces of paper in the box and read through the worries one by one. Encourage your child to be pleasantly surprised at just how many worries took care of themselves. Remember: most of the things we worry about never happen!

Encourage your child to keep a journal. This can be a physical notebook to record events or doodle in, or they can use any devices they may have for the same purpose. Each day, ask your child to write down three positive things that happened. These can be quite simple to begin with: we had pizza for lunch or the maths teacher forgot to set homework. If it’s easier, you can introduce this technique conversationally, either in the car or at the dinner table. Start the ball rolling by mentioning something good that happened to you that day. Too many of us fall into the trap of only talking about the problems and difficulties that we encountered during our day.

Encourage an Attitude of Positivity Negative thinking can easily become a habit that’s hard to break. Switching your child’s thought patterns around will help to prevent this from happening.

Alicia Eaton is a children’s emotional wellbeing specialist based in London’s Harley Street and author of First Aid for your Child’s Mind available from Amazon (£12.99). For more information, visit www.aliciaeaton.co.uk

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EARLY YEARS

Where children learn and grow in a natural setting Play, fresh air, lots of time outdoors and no screens! This is the formula for happy children at Weald Preschool, which has a large garden and a rural village setting. A range of activities aims to help children develop socially, physically and intellectually in a safe, caring environment.

The children go outside to expend energy and be creative every day - rain or shine – in the large outdoor play area. The Preschool has a ‘forest school’ concept where children are allowed the freedom to explore the (enclosed) playground themselves. Other activities each week include music and movement, gym and singing. Inside, there is a quiet room for when children need some down time. Established since the 1970s, the preschool has staff with decades of combined experience and the lack of staff turnover makes for a secure environment for children. The nursery follows the Early Years Foundation Stage and has an Ofsted Good rating. Explaining the ethos of the preschool, supervisor Carol Reid said: “We care passionately about the infants in our care and do everything possible to help them develop as individuals and learners

whilst they are with us.” Weald Preschool is just a short drive from Sevenoaks and Hildenborough for parents who want their children to benefit from the smaller, traditional setting. The

preschool also offers a breakfast club from 7.30am every day. Spaces are available for children from their second birthday and they do not need to be toilet trained.

Visit www.wealdpreschool.co.uk and call 07453 016132 for more information or to arrange a visit.

Look out for our bumper Early Years special focus in our March/April issue! Contact us on 07980118626 or email editor@familieswestkent.co.uk if you want your nursery, play centre or early years business to feature.

Learning with nature

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✿ Traditional teaching values in a rural garden setting ✿ Now enrolling children from age 2 ✿ Our children enjoy a large outdoor play area with special activities designed for rain, hail or shine ✿ We focus on expressive and creative lessons based around craft, cooking and art in our caring and nurturing preschool Weald Preschool, Sevenoaks Weald, TN14 6LT

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FEBRUARY HALF TERM ACTIVITY GUIDE

Paid event. Info at Info at www.kentlife.org.uk/events

15 – 23 Feb 10am-4pm Get Hands on with History: WWII at Dover Castle Dover Castle, Castle Hill Rd, Dover, CT16 1HU Historical performers Heuristics will teach vital skills in codes essential to your mission. Join a series of adventures across the castle; find clues and code words to crack the hidden secrets. Return to HQ to claim your reward. Paid event (free to English Heritage members). Info at Info at www.english-heritage.org.uk 15 – 23 Feb 10am-4pm February Fun and Frolics Kent Life, Lock Lane, Sandling, Maidstone, ME14 3AU A programme of entertainment and animal encounters to enjoy. Step back in time and visit the Vintage Village, from the Victorian Petts Farmhouse, through to WW2 Lenham Cottages

15 – 23 Feb 10am-4pm Lullingstone Roman Villa Lullingstone Lane, Eynsford, DA4 0JA. Among the most outstanding Roman villa survivals in Britain, Lullingstone provides an allweather family day out. A specially commissioned light show brings the villa to life, and galleries display Lullingstone’s collection of Roman artefacts. Kids can try on the Roman costumes and play traditional board games from the period. Admission fee applies. Info at www.english-heritage.org.uk Jan & Feb

8am-2pm, (11am Tunnel tour every day except Sat) Fort Amherst Khartoum Road, Chatham, ME4 4UB Over 300 years of military history, 20 acres of An parkland, daily tours of the exciting network of underground holiday club for tunnels, light refreshments 2-11yrs in the Fort Amherst Café. Take a stroll to the highest point of the Fort to enjoy commanding views. Free admission to grounds. Tunnel tour fee applies. February half term Info at Mon 17 to Fri 21 Feb 8am-6pm www.fortamherst.com At Holden Park Preschool, Southborough, TN4

Play ’n Grow Holiday Club

Craft activities * Fun and games * Trips out! (additional cost)

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9am-3pm £25. 8am-6pm £35. Pick up & drop off £2.50 per day You provide a lunch box, we provide snacks and a light tea.

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Jan & Feb 9am-5pm Mon-Sat 10:30am-4:30pm Sun & bank holidays Tonbridge Castle Castle St, Tonbridge TN9 1BG See and hear what it

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would have been like to be a Lord or Lady 700 years ago. The castle tour is a recreation of medieval life; it is dark in places, has life-like models and involves climbing many steep steps, therefore it may be unsuitable for very young children. Admission fee applies. Info at www.tonbridgecastle.org 15 – 23 Feb Half Term Explorers Leeds Castle, Maidstone, ME17 1PL Venture through the Leeds Castle estate on a special trail with an activity booklet on-hand to help guide you through the grounds, complete the various puzzles and challenges to be rewarded with a chocolate prize. Info at www.leeds-castle.com 15 – 23 Feb The Royal Tunbridge Wells Dance Festival The Assembly Hall, Tunbridge Wells, Dance festival for amateurs. Entries will be allocated on a first come, first served basis on the RTWDF online registration system. The Royal Tunbridge Wells Dance Festival offers a Tap Bursary Award and Ballet Bursary Award and gives competitors an opportunity to win a valuable prize. Info at www.rtwdf.co.uk 15 – 23 Feb 2pm daily Falconry Display Leeds Castle, Maidstone, ME17 1PL Free flying demonstrations take place in the Falconry Arena in front of the Maze. The demonstration lasts about 30 to 40 minutes and features a range of birds including hawks, vulture, falcon and owls. (In adverse weather conditions the display may be shorter or cancelled.) Included with the price of admission. Info at www.leeds-castle.com 15 – 23 Feb Living with Nature Hever Castle, Hever Road, Hever, Edenbridge TN8 7NG Follow the nature trail in the grounds to investigate animal footprints and tracks. Watch the falconry displays and learn about the work of different wildlife charities as well as take part in children’s activities. Create a

ladybug or bumble bee in a free craft workshop or transform into an animal with our face painter (small additional charge). Info at www.hevercastle.co.uk 18 – 21 Feb 10:30am-4pm (1hr time slots) Make It! Workshops Maidstone Museum, St Faith’s St, Maidstone, ME14 1LH Tuesday: Friendship bracelets – use different fabrics to make 2 friendship bracelets. Wednesday: Print your own repeating pattern and use it to make a wall hanging. Thursday: Create your own sockbased character or creature. Friday: Create your own ‘no sew’ fabric bunting. Info at www.museum.maidstone. gov.uk/whats-on

Museums Check websites for opening hours Eden Valley Museum Church House, 72 High Street, Edenbridge, TN8 5AR Permanent exhibits are enhanced by topical temporary exhibitions along with constantly changing smaller displays, children’s activities, free guided walks and special events. Free admission. Info at www.evmt.org.uk Kent and Sharpshooters Yeomanry Museum Hever Castle, Hever Rd, Hever, Edenbridge TN8 7NG Displays take the visitor through the 19th century, the Boer War (when the Sharpshooters were formed), the two World Wars, and modern times. Interactive touch screens bring to life the stories of people who served in the regiment. There is a cartoon guide for younger visitors. Access to the museum is included in the standard ticket price for visiting the grounds of Hever Castle. Info at www.ksymuseum.org.uk/KSYM 10am-5pm Royal Engineers Museum Prince Arthur Road, Gillingham, ME7 1UR Discover the story of the Royal Engineers and how they have helped the British Army live, move and fight for over 300 years. Kent’s largest military museum. Admission fee applies. Info at www.re-museum.co.uk www.familiesonline.co.uk

FEBRUARY HALF TERM ACTIVITY GUIDE

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Get outdoors this February half term and have fun with the National Trust CHARTWELL, KENT Family trail: Art at Chartwell Sat 11 Jan – Sun 23 Feb, 10am-3pm Explore the garden at Chartwell through the eyes of Sir Winston Churchill and his paintbrush. Churchill was an avid painter who used this hobby as a way of escaping his busy life. Discover frames and paintings in the landscape on this interactive trail. Try out the new interactive display in Churchill’s art studio to find out all about the places he went to and how he painted. Price: Free trail. Normal admission applies. For more information, please visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ chartwell SCOTNEY CASTLE, KENT Scotney Castle Murder Mystery trail Sat 15 – Sun 23 Feb, 10am-4pm Visit the house and help us to solve a crime this half term. Search the rooms and be ready to ask the suspects some questions. Collect the answers to work out who committed the crime and

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which object from our collection was used, before collecting your prize from Visitor Reception. Normal admission charges apply. Price: £2 per trail. Nature photography workshops for children Budding young photographers can join a nature photography workshop with Sharp Shots Photo Club on Thursday 20 February. Chose from a morning workshop for 7-11 year olds or an afternoon workshop for teenagers aged 12-15. Price: Photography workshops £39. Normal admission applies. For more information, please visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ scotney-castle

and see what you can discover as you adventure around the gardens. Price: £1 per child. Normal admission applies. For more information, please visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ emmetts-garden IGHTHAM MOTE, KENT Animal homes trail Sat 15 – Sun 23 Feb, 10am-4pm Follow the trail around the gardens to discover which of our native creatures live at Ightham Mote. They may be having a snooze until the weather gets a bit warmer, so you’ll need to use your stealthiest detective skills to spot them.

EMMETTS GARDEN, KENT Plant Explorers Trail Sat 15 – Sun 23 Feb, 10am-4pm Follow the adventures of the famous Victorian plant explorer, Ernest Wilson. Plant hunters journeyed across the globe to find their botanical treasures, hoping to be the first to bring their latest specimens back home. Become a plant hunter at Emmetts Garden

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Price: Free trail. Normal admission applies. For more information, please visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ ightham-mote KNOLE, KENT Children’s windchime workshop Wed 19 Feb & Thu 20 Feb 10.30-12noon Design your own set of windchimes using paints, ribbons, beads and feathers. Price: £8 per child. Suitable for ages 5-11. For more information, please visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/knole

JOY OF READING

From a TV career to time travelling with a hamster After working as a TV producer on many well-known shows, including ITV’s This Morning with Richard Madeley and Judy Finnegan, Channel 4’s Big Breakfast and Pet Rescue, Ross Welford began writing Time Travelling With A Hamster in 2014. His second book, What Not To Do If You Turn Invisible followed a year later. The 1,000 Year Old Boy was published in January 2018, The Dog Who Saved The World in January 2019, and The Kid Who Came From Space in January 2020.

The knowledge that I have made a difference like that is awesome: that’s a proper superpower!

Rachel Bailey talks to Ross about his best-selling novels for young readers (aged 8+). What made you swap the glamorous world of television to become a full-time writer? It was necessity, really. TV is a tough job: it’s long hours, the

pay isn’t especially good and it honestly isn’t all that glamorous! The interesting jobs began to dry up and I realised I needed a new career path… Your first novel was Time Travelling With A Hamster and that was followed by What Not To Do

To celebrate the publication of Ross’ newest book The Kid who came from Space, we have a FULL SET of his five books to give away to one lucky reader! To enter, email your name and contact details and your child’s name, heading your email “Ross Welford competition”, to editor@familieswestkent.co.uk Closing date is February 25. A winner will then be chosen at random and notified.

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If You Turn Invisible. Is there a particular superpower you wish you had? Oh yes: the ability to write a full-length book once a year effortlessly. It’s not exciting like invisibility, but it’s a power that I would do almost anything to possess.

You describe yourself as a life-long magic-nerd. Care to elaborate? I enjoy writing about impossible things becoming possible, and that is exactly what magic tricks do. It’s an interest I have had since I was quite small, and this year I was admitted to the Magic Circle, which was a very proud moment. I include magic in all my school and festival presentations, and the tricks all have a relevance to my books, or to reading generally.

As well as having a talent for writing, we’ve heard you put on a pretty impressive event when you visit schools/ festivals. What do you enjoy most about sharing your books with young fans? It’s a privilege simply to meet readers. I especially like it when a teacher introduces a child saying “He/she didn’t like reading until they discovered your books…”

What’s your favourite childhood book/author? Growing up I loved The Magic Faraway Tree books by Enid Blyton and loved them again when I read them aloud to my own kids. She was phenomenal: the sheer volume of her output was astonishing. There are occasional lapses of quality, but they are pretty rare and she seldom repeats herself.

The Kid who came from Space is available from 9 January 2020 priced £6.99. Visit Ross’ website: www.rosswelford.com

Recommended reads for January/February From Picture Books Be More Bernard by Simon Philip and Kate Hindley All the other rabbits like hopping, digging and dreaming of carrots. Bernard just wants to boogie! Can Bernard’s honesty and enthusiasm get the other rabbits admitting what they really dream of doing? A comically illustrated, warm tale about being true to yourself. 10 Families West Kent January/February 2020

147 High Street Sevenoaks TN13 1XJ 01732 452055 www.sevenoaksbookshop.co.uk For 5-8yrs Cyborg Cat by Ade Adepitan Ade is a young boy with a caliper on his leg. He’s known to his friends as the Cyborg Cat. When a new graffiti artist, Night Spider, starts putting up nasty messages round their neighbourhood, can Ade and his gang identify the culprit before things get worse? Written by Paralypian Ade Adepitan, this story has a great theme of friendship, adventure and inclusivity.

For 9-12yrs Frostheart by Jamie Littler Ash’s parents have gone missing. When a chance comes to leave the community who fear his magical powers Ash flees with only his grumpy yeti guardian for company. On board the amazing explorer sleigh, Frostheart, will Ash find out the fate of his parents, will he survive the frozen lands and will he ever get any sleep with a hairy Yeti in his tiny tent? Perfect for fans of How to Train Your Dragon, a cracking new adventure. www.familiesonline.co.uk

EDUCATION

Call for daily nature hour

New research shows outdoor play has major benefits for the development of young children including boosting confidence, building better relationships with teachers and classmates and an increase in wellbeing and health. Now Wildlife Trusts are calling on the government for every child in the UK to spend one hour outside in nature, every day, as part of the school curriculum. The study, commissioned by The Wildlife Trusts, examined 451 children aged 8 or 9 years old across 12 areas of England. The research by the Institute of Education at UCL was one of the largest ever studies to look into the effects of regular outdoor activities on children’s wellbeing.

Overall, the results found that children’s wellbeing dramatically increased after they had spent time outdoors. Not only did they gain additional social benefits, but they showed high levels of enjoyment, too. As well as encouraging the children’s creativity, the study also found being outdoors helped in many other ways, including: ✿ the children showed an increase in their personal wellbeing and health over time ✿ 90% of children felt they learned something new about the natural world ✿ 79% felt that their experience could help their school work ✿ 81% agreed they had better relationships with their teachers ✿ 79% reported stronger bonds with other children in their class. And after the activities, 84% of children felt that they were capable of doing new things. Nigel Doar, The Wildlife Trusts’ director of strategy, said: ”We’re calling on government to recognise the multiple benefits of nature for children – and ensure that at least one hour per school day is spent outdoors learning and playing in wild places.”

For the full report visit www.wildlifetrusts.org

Does Your Child Need Help With Maths? Billy told his Mum he was scared and worried about Maths; he struggled and dreaded Maths tests as he was sure he would fail. Since starting Maths Club by Post Billy’s confidence has flourished and he says he feels smarter as he gets most of his Maths correct. At parents’ evening the teacher commented that his

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Centre owner Zoe Trodd writes: “If you suspect that your child might need additional tuition in maths or English, Sevenoaks Tutoring’s fully qualified teachers can offer you all the advice you need.” Offering expert tuition to both primary and secondary school aged students, the centre can help ensure your child’s academic success. The bespoke tuition programmes are devised using multi-sensory resources specifically designed to target areas of need identified in the original assessment. The Tutoring Centre and education programmes are designed to enable your child to make progress fast, utilising a positive, warm and friendly learning environment to ensure previously unrealised success. Zoe, like all her staff, is a qualified and experienced teacher. She is also a trainee L5 Dyslexia specialist teacher and is a Youth Mental Health First Aider. At Sevenoaks Tutoring Centre, caring and

supporting the whole child is part of the ethos. The Centre offers tailor-made individual tuition programmes for 6-16 year olds in maths, English, reading, writing, spelling and comprehension. Exam preparation for 11+ and GCSEs is also offered. At Sevenoaks Tutoring we: ✔ believe that all children can succeed, if given the right support ✔ help your children in a way that builds confidence and selfesteem. ✔ pave the way to exam passes and success.

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Storymakers – Preparing for Writing The Preparing for Writing Group for children in Reception and Year 1 aims to help children develop the valuable skills they need to support them with their writing. This includes refining fine motor skills, as well as strengthening the core. We will also begin the process of understanding what constitutes a story, from plot, to setting and characters. Saturday classes in Sevenoaks. Book via www.storymakersclub.com Funky Monkey Keyboard Classes Sevenoaks. Fun-packed group keyboard tuition for kids and adults! Read, write, play and learn to love music to first grade. 4-8 yrs and adult sessions, free trial for kids. Classes Mon am, pm, (adults) Wed pm, Thurs pm (kids) www.funkymonkey.info 01732 457 100 mail@funkymonkey.info Rugbytots Dynamic weekly play sessions for boys and girls aged 2-7 years. Our fun, structured play sessions take children on a journey of sporting imagination with engaging and energetic coaches supporting them every step of the way whilst teaching how to catch, pass, kick, run with the ball and play as part of a team. Call us on 0345 3130807 to book your free taster class. Mid-week classes in Paddock Wood and Tunbridge Wells. Classes run all through the summer holidays. Full details on all our classes in West Kent at www.rugbytots.co.uk Perform weekly drama, dance and singing classes About: Confidence building fun for 4-12s. A unique mix of drama games, dance and singing specially developed to bring out every child’s true potential. Classes are kept small to ensure lots of individual attention. Go to perform.org.uk/try to book a FREE class. Discount! Quote WK140220 for introductory £40 discount when you book. Venues: Hempstead, Maidstone, Kings Hill, Riverhead, Sevenoaks, Tonbridge, Bidborough, Langton Green and Tunbridge Wells Contact: T: 020 7255 9120 enquiries@perform.org.uk www.perform.org.uk Sounds Right Phonics Classes Sounds Right Phonics Classes for Kids provide fun, high energy classes which teach early phonics skills to children aged 1-4 years - and the best part is that children don’t even realise that they are learning! Classes run in Sevenoaks, Weald, Edenbridge and Westerham. Created by experienced Early Years teachers, the classes aim to equip pre-schoolers with the phonics skills to begin their reading and writing journey at school. In The Minis Class, children approx 12-30 months explore sounds and rhyme, while in the Preschool Class for age 2.5-4 years, children learn different sounds and letter recognition. To book contact Kat on kat@ soundsrightphonicsclasses.co.uk. Please visit the website www.soundsrightphonicsclasses.co.uk 12 Families West Kent January/February 2020

The benefits of out-of-school activities Activities that take place completely away from the school environment don’t just keep restless children busy or entertained and help working parents manage their child’s spare time, they can also offer great developmental benefits that will help them academically, physically and socially. Here are just five of the top benefits: New Friendships Outside of the school environment, your child is likely to make friendships with children that don’t go to their school and get used to socialising with children of all ages outside the structure of the formal school day. Improving Life and Social Skills Outside school activities provide an ideal environment in which to nurture social skills and confidence. Many extracurricular activities work to teach children the value of working as a team to achieve a mutual goal — a skill that will benefit them in their future endeavours. Boosting Academic Performance Discovering that they have a talent can give a child a new source of confidence or a passion that translates into their engagement and behaviour at school. For example, performing in drama club can improve confidence in

speaking up in class and inspire creative writing. Playing an instrument will help children understand music lessons. Building Self-Esteem In a busy classroom it can sometimes be hard for a child to make themselves heard. Outside of school activities will give your child the chance to build their self-esteem. Most groups or teams are more intimate than the typical classroom environment, making them less intimidating for children. Children may also be more interested than they are in their lessons and will engage more easily with the activities involved. Promoting Healthy Hobbies Children with a regular activity are likely to spend less static time glued to a smartphone or screen and the interests that they develop during outside of school activities are likely to mean they spend more time practising skills and pursuing their passions. The skills and habits a child learns during his or her school years help to shape the kind of future they will lead as an adult. As a result, outside of school activities that promote everything from healthy-living habits, to leadership skills, good time-management and better social or academic performance have plenty of advantages to offer.

More info: www.nuffieldfoundation.org/out-school-activities-and-education-gap

Perform is celebrating its 20th anniversary! Families chatted to founder, Lucy Quick.

How did Perform start? I was a musical theatre actress in Oliver! at the London Palladium and I loved working with children. I had a vision for a drama school that wasn’t about talent or auditions; where performing arts would be used to develop what we now call the 4 Cs: confidence, communication, coordination and concentration. Where is Perform at now? Starting with two classes in 2000, we now run 472 schools across the South East and West, employ over 250 teachers and have almost 8000 children attending weekly. What’s the secret of Perform’s success? We put child development at the heart of everything we do. What does the future hold? Opening more Perform schools across the country – we’re just launching in Nottingham – and continuing our

confidence crusade to help children fulfil their potential through drama, dance and singing. What are you proudest of? My teachers. They are the most inspirational bunch of talented and enthusiastic people you’ll ever meet.

Try a FREE no-obligation dance or drama class in Hempstead, Maidstone, Kings Hill, Riverhead, Sevenoaks, Tonbridge, Bidborough, Langton Green and Tunbridge Wells. Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book. Quote WK140220 for introductory £40 discount when you book. www.familiesonline.co.uk

OUT & ABOUT

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The award-winning Black Deer Festival WIN family ticket for Americana weekend 19 – 21 June 2020, Eridge Park, Tunbridge Wells

Returning for its third year, Black Deer is a celebration of all things Americana: music, family, food and culture are the four pillars of this new and award-winning festival taking place in the wild and historic Eridge Park. Black Deer is a festival built on a love of the great outdoors, the best in Live Fire & BBQ cooking, the growl of custom-culture motorcycles and skilled artisans, plus all other things authentically Americana. With a festival within a festival for kids of all ages – including outdoor adventure activities, the chance to learn guitar, ukulele and harmonica, play games and become mini-skilled

craftspeople - it’s not just the parents having a great time. The event kicks off the start of summer (tying in with summer solstice weekend) from

19 – 21 June 2020. The southern American style food, outdoor smokehouse cooking, drink and hospitality on offer will treat the whole family. Make a weekend of it via a range of fancy camping, live-in vehicle, prepitched and general camping options to suit all budgets. The festival showcases more than 70 roots-inspired artists across 4 unique stages. The first wave of artists has been announced and many more will follow. It’s not just on the stages where music will live – impromptu gatherings will be scattered throughout Black Deer’s spectacular outdoor setting. Always about more than just the music, Black Deer is a family destination with a community spirit. If you haven’t already, it’s time to join the journey… www.blackdeerfestival.com

We have a Family Weekend Camping Ticket to give away (to include 2 Adults and 2 Kids) – value £420. For a chance to win, send an email headed ‘Black Deer 2020’ with your contact details to editor@familieswestkent.co.uk Closing date is February 25. A winner will be picked at random and notified. T&Cs on website.

Pay a half term visit to the Museum of the Moon Rochester Cathedral will be hosting an artwork which is out of this world when a giant replica of the Moon comes to the historic building. The Museum of the Moon has wowed audiences across the world and will be installed in the Nave for three weeks from 13 February to 4 March 2020. It is the first time the artwork has been displayed in Kent. A full programme of lunar inspired events will take place at the Cathedral. There will also be a fun programme of family activities for February Half Term. Museum of the Moon is a touring artwork by UK artist Luke Jerram. It measures seven metres in diameter and features 120dpi detailed NASA imagery of the lunar surface. Each centimetre

represents 5km of the moon’s surface. Alongside the installation is a fusion of lunar imagery, moonlight and surround sound composition created by BAFTA and Ivor Novello award winning composer Dan Jones. The artwork has been presented in a number of locations across the world including several UK Cathedrals and Museums. Luke Jerram, the artist behind the Museum of the Moon, says “For most people, this will be their most intimate, personal and closest encounter they will ever have with the Moon.” Opening times will be 10am to 5pm Monday to Saturday and 12pm – 5pm on Sundays. Entry to the Cathedral during the day is free but there will be a charge for additional activities and evening openings.

For more information and to find out about the programme of events visit www.rochestercathedral.org

Living with Nature at Hever Castle Learn more about wildlife and nature as part of Hever Castle’s February half-term event, Living with Nature. Families and individuals are invited to visit the historic castle in Kent between 15 and 23 February to enjoy ‘Living with Nature’ aimed at school aged children. Come and watch the falconry displays and

learn about the work of different wildlife charities as well as take part in children’s activities. Follow the nature trail in the grounds to investigate animal footprints and tracks, create a ladybug or bumble bee in a free craft workshop or transform into an animal with our fabulous facepainter (small additional charge for facepainting).

For further information please visit the website: www.hevercastle.co.uk or call Hever Castle on 01732 865224. www.familiesonline.co.uk

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8 JAN (AND EVERY WEDS IN JAN/FEB) 4-5pm Park Wood Family Mile Park Wood, Maidstone, ME14 3BX Join straight after school to do your Family Mile and walk, jog, roll or stroll your way to rewards and freebies for the whole family. Free event. Info at www.themasonmile.com 8 JAN 10:30 -11:30am Stories & Rhymes Maidstone Museum, St Faith’s St, Maidstone, ME14 1LH A session for under 5’s on the first Wednesday of the month. Listen to a story, join in with actions rhymes and songs, and make a themed paper craft to take home. Refreshments included. Paid event. Info at www.museum.maidstone. gov.uk/whats-on 10 JAN 10:30am Decorate a Candle Toddlers Workshop The Little Cabin Tea Rooms Riding Lane, Hildenborough TN11 9LN Children can decorate and personalise their candle using paints, an easy art and craft class suitable for toddlers. Adult supervision required. Paid event. Info on Facebook: The Little Cabin Tearooms

to go and then find your way there without getting lost. An adventure sport suitable for all ages and fitness levels. Info at www.eridgepark.co.uk 18 JAN 10:30am-3:30pm 1hr time slots) Family Science Day Maidstone Museum, St Faith’s St, Maidstone, ME14 1LH Family activities exploring fun science experiments using everyday household materials. One adult per child or up to 3 children with an adult. Paid event. Info at www.museum.maidstone. gov.uk/whats-on 18 JAN Gates open 8am Winter Stages Rally Brand’s Hatch, West Kingsdown, Longfield, DA3 8NG Brands Hatch’s 2020 motoring season kicks off with the MGJ Engineering Winter Stage Rally featuring a diverse spread of rally cars set to battle against the clock. The event will see the venue transformed throughout the day with numerous rally stages utilising sections of the Indy circuit, pit lane, paddock, access roads and rally experience areas. Paid event (children under 13 free). Info at www.brandshatch.co.uk

12 JAN 12pm Saxon Orienteering Club Eridge Park Events, Tunbridge Wells, TN2 5TE Participants have to navigate their way between a series of checkpoints shown on the map as quickly as possible. There is no set route between the checkpoints, so you have to decide which way

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WHAT’S ON JANUARY&FEBRUARY 31 JAN 7:30-9pm Ice Age Mammals Tyland Barn Wildlife Centre, Chatham Rd, Maidstone, ME14 3BD Anne Riddell will be presenting a talk on Ice Age Mammals as part of a series of winter talks, open to members and non-members and no booking necessary. Refreshments will be provided. Info on Facebook: Kent Mammal Group EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT 6pm – family session; 8pm – open session (ages 8+ only) Roller Disco Sevenoaks Leisure Centre, Buckhurst Lane, Sevenoaks, TN13 1LW The Roller Disco takes place at Sevenoaks Leisure Centre every Saturday night in association with Atlantis Entertainment (Kent Roller Disco). Customers are allowed to bring their own skates however no inline skates are allowed. Paid event. Info at www.sencio.org.uk

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February

8 FEB 10am-1pm Kids Explorers Outdoor Climbing

Harrison Rocks, Birchden Wood, Groombridge, TN3 9NH Outdoor Climbing for Children with Extreme Ventures Explorers Climbing Club. No experience is required. Suitable for ages 8 to 18 years old. Paid event. Info at www.extremeventures.co.uk

FROM 8 FEB Snowdrop Walk Hever Castle, Hever Rd, Hever, Edenbridge TN8 7NG. A carpet of snowdrops will provide a magical trail for visitors to follow at Hever Castle & Gardens from 8 February. Admission fee applies. Info at www.hevercastle.co.uk

FAMILY THEATRE, MUSIC & DANCE 18 JAN 3-4pm Tonbridge Music Club Family Concert Tonbridge Parish Church, Church Lane, Tonbridge, TN9 1DA Ensemble Bash bring their high-energy interactive family concert to Tonbridge. Have you ever wondered what a donkey’s jawbone sounds like, or a conch shell? Join this fun percussion quartet for a musical world tour, for all ages. Paid event. Info at www.tmc.org.uk 23 – 26 JAN (Afternoon & evening performances) Robin Hood and his Merry Men The Stag Theatre, London Road, Sevenoaks, TN13 1ZZ Featuring a cast of over 120 local adults and children as well as a professional live band, there are plenty of laughs, songs and dancing with something for all ages. Info at www.stagsevenoaks.co.uk 30 JAN – 2 FEB Sinbad’s Quest Benenden Village Hall, The Street, Benenden, Cranbrook, TN17 4DE Follow Sinbad’s not-so-simple quest to find his father, the notorious Jack Chisla. Featuring a talented cast of local youngsters and oldsters supported by a fabulous band. Info at www.benendenplayers.co.uk 31 JAN 7:30pm Emergence Triple Bill 2020

EM Forster Theatre, Tonbridge School, Tonbridge, TN9 1JP Emergence, the post graduate dance company, comes to Tonbridge with 12 talented young dancers, two new works and a reimagining of Joss Arnott’s acclaimed When Worlds Collide, his technical master class featuring an original, cinematic music score and stunning lighting. Age 8+. Info at www.emftheatre.com

8 FEB 11am We Love Little Mix Assembly Hall Theatre, Crescent Road, Tunbridge Wells, TN1 2LU The ultimate Little Mix tribute featuring four singers and dancers who really capture the look, the sound, and all the dance moves of one of the UK’s best loved girl bands. Info at www.assemblyhalltheatre.co.uk

1 & 2 FEB 2pm & 4pm (1st), 11:30am & 2pm (2nd) Room on the Broom – Live On Stage EM Forster Theatre, Tonbridge School, Tonbridge, TN9 1JP Jump on board the broom with the witch and her cat in Tall Stories’ award-winning adaptation of Room on the Broom, the best-selling picture book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Age 3+. Info at www.emftheatre.com

20 FEB 2pm Three Billy Goats Gruff Hazlitt Theatre, 36 Earl St, Maidstone, ME14 1PP With catchy songs and dances to clap along to, an interactive family show suitable for all ages. Info at www.parkwoodtheatres.co.uk/Hazlitt-Theatre

6 – 8 FEB 2:30pm & 7pm Moscow City Ballet – The Sleeping Beauty The Orchard Theatre, Home Gardens, Dartford, DA1 1ED Moscow City Ballet’s production of The Sleeping Beauty, presented in classic Russian style with full orchestra. Info at www.orchardtheatre.co.uk

28 FEB 11am, 12:30, 2 & 3pm Kaleidoscope Hazlitt Theatre, 36 Earl St, Maidstone, ME14 1PP Inspired by research into how a baby’s sense of sight develops and how they instinctively begin to categorise colour. Watch as a multi-coloured Kaleidoscope is brought to life for you and your baby. Paid event. Info at www.parkwoodtheatres.co.uk/Hazlitt-Theatre

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