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05 Creating Conﬁdent Children

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09 Health: Coughs and Sneezes Coping with those Winter Woes

Christmas All Wrapped Up Our guide to getting it right this Christmas

Seven Shows are Sizzling

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Views

Creating Confident children By Liat Hughes-Joshi

Confidence is just as important in life – if not more so - than a brace of A grades or endless extracurricular skills. It’s vital to emotional wellbeing and something most of us hope our children will develop. Confidence is about being comfortable with who you are, willing to give things a go - even if you’re not sure you’ll succeed - and trusting your own abilities and judgement. But how can we instil this feeling in our children, particularly if it doesn’t come naturally to them? Accept your child’s starting point Not all children – or adults - are confident by nature (wouldn’t life be boring if we were all the same?) and whilst we can encourage self-belief, transforming a shy or anxious child into a ‘life and soul of the party’ type, is probably an unrealistic aim. Try to avoid making comments to your child such as how you wish they were more confident, or less shy because, in effect, you’re saying you don’t value them as they are - a real confidence crusher. Accept your child’s personality and ‘starting point’; it might be different to yours, their sibling’s, friends’ or classmates’ and that’s absolutely fine. Don’t force them into situations they aren’t comfortable with In most scenarios, one of the worst things you can do for a young child who’s unsure

is to push them in at the deep end with something when they aren’t ready. They need to trust you when taking on new experiences and doing this damages that trust. Take small steps to encourage confidence Find opportunities to stretch just a bit beyond what your son or daughter is comfortable with at a time. So that could be going to their friend’s house with them initially, then you just staying for a little while at the start, then next time, they might be happy to go alone. Work out what their fear is Often a child will have niggling worries holding them back in a specific situation. So perhaps “If I put my hand up in class, I might get the answer wrong and the other children will laugh at me”. Pin down their concern – although preschool children might struggle to articulate their fear. Address their concern and provide plenty of reassurance that they will be okay, that what others think doesn’t really matter and that you’re there for them. Talk about similar situations you experienced as a child, when you were afraid of something, and how it worked out for you. Keep praise special These days, there’s a tendency to be super-positive and heap on the ‘fabulous, you’re the best child ever!’ comments every other second – sometimes it feels like we

should be praising our kids simply for breathing. But if you tell them everything they do is wonderful all the time, positivity loses power. Keep praise for when it’s truly warranted and focus on effort rather than just results. This way, when they do do something amazing, your comments will have more impact. Find their forte and allow it to flourish If your child doesn’t do so well in academic work, or the usual extracurricular activities at school, this can make their self-esteem fragile. Seek opportunities for them to try other, more unusual activities out of school and highlight positive personality traits such as being especially kind or a good organiser. Step back sometimes and let them ‘have a go’ – land that helicopter! Helicopter parenting – hovering over your child, stepping in to resolve the slightest issue or preventing them from failing – is a barrier to building confidence. Children need to find their own solutions, attempt things their way sometimes and take sensible risks. Sure, you can guide and advise but try not to jump in and take over too quickly. Whether it’s allowing your threeyear-old to choose her own outfit or your ten-year-old to walk to the post box alone, letting go is a crucial confidence builder. Liat Hughes Joshi is a parenting journalist and the author of four books including ‘New Oldfashioned Parenting’ and ‘How to Unplug Your Child’ (both published by Summersdale) and Raising Children: The Primary Years (Pearson).

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Education

Another record breaking year for GCSE Students

At Harris Academy Beckenham 65% of students have gained 5A*-C grades, including English and Maths, a 9% improvement from last year. The progress of students in English and Maths was outstanding with 84% of students in both subjects meeting their targets for expected and a tremendous 54% and 42% of students making more than expected progress in English and Maths respectively. Even more impressive is that 48% of the exam grades awarded this year at Harris Academy Beckenham where at A*-B grade, an improvement of 18% on last year – a clear indication of the high quality of teaching across the Academy and excellent provision for our brightest students. Our Academy specialism of Scientific Enterprise was demonstrated with excellent Science results, with 82% of

students achieving at least 2 GCSE’ at A*- C. Furthermore, the other EBacc subjects of Geography, History and Modern Foreign Languages performed similarly well with over 70% of students achieving A*-C in History and Geography and more than half of our French and Spanish students achieve top A*-B grades.

forward to seeing them flourish even more in our sixth form.” Harris Academy Beckenham 020 8650 8694 www.harrisbeckenham.org.uk

Exceptional individual performances epitomised the hard work put in by students at Harris Academy Beckenham this year with our top 6 students attaining 49A* and A grades between them. ‘We are immensely proud of the remarkable hard work and dedication of our students and staff,” stated Principal, Ms Rebecca Hickey. “Our students deserve every success, particularly as they have shown such resilience and resourcefulness; we look

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Bromley High School has achieved the accolade of an EcoSchools’ Green Flag Award, in recognition of the school’s commitment to improve local and global environment for all. For the past few years, both the Junior and Senior schools have been championing initiatives to educate the pupils and wider school community on environmental issues. These have included Meat Free Monday; reducing food waste in the school canteen; recycling electrical goods; observing Earth Hour; designing a wildlife garden for the Reception girls; and holding a mock election on environmental issues, complete with manifestos and campaign posters. One of the newest initiatives is the Junior School’s Forest School, which allows the girls to explore their woodlands.

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Coughs & Sneezes How to cope with winter woes. By Sally J. Hall

There are over 200 separate cold viruses around, so it’s no wonder that our children seem to come down with a cold almost every five minutes. And with the weather being gloomy and the days getting dark so early, we all tend to feel a little more run down than usual.

If your child is under three months old, it’s always worth checking the symptoms with your doctor, as very small children can become very ill very quickly. If your child is floppy and unresponsive or very fussy, call the doctor or go straight to the hospital.

We still don’t know exactly what causes the “Common Cold” but we are all familiar with the symptoms. A runny nose, sore throat, a temperature and a general feeling of poor health are only too familiar. So when do you let nature run its course, and when do you call the doctor?

If you’re worried that it’s not ‘just’ a cold but something more serious, do seek medical advice. Flu is a worry during the winter months and can be serious in young children. Croup, a viral illness that causes a bark-like cough can be swiftly treated with steroids, and whooping cough, a bacterial infection, needs antibiotics (remember that your child must take the full course to avoid becoming antibiotic resistant). If you are concerned that your child may have meningitis, you must go to the hospital at once. Symptoms include a headache, sensitivity to light, a rash, seizures and listlessness but some indicators may be mistaken for a cold or flu. If in doubt, get to A&E – the staff Ismini - Familys AW 2710914_AW.pdf will be only tooPhillips happy to be ableMagazine to set advert your mind at rest.

For very small children and babies, the worst effect may be a blocked nose that stops him being able to breath properly. This can interfere with breastfeeding, as it’s difficult to feed with a blocked nose. Clear blocked nostrils gently with a soft cloth soaked in sterile saline solution or if really blocked, a nasal aspirator. You can try to help relieve the symptoms by using a decongestant rub on your child’s chest at night or by using a few drops of a decongestant spray or eucalyptus oil on a tissue; leave it near (though not in reach) of your baby as he sleeps. You could also use a vaporiser or humidifier in your child’s bedroom to help with breathing. Sleep may be affected, especially if your child has a cough, C so try to encourage naps during the day– and you may need M one yourself if your little one has kept you up half the night! Y

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Bluewater is set to make the festive season sparkle with a host of special events in the run-up to Christmas. As well as helping visitors crack their seasonal shopping lists, Bluewater will be hosting activities for all the family to enjoy – from the magical Light Switch On, Winter Wonderland and Santa’s Grotto to The Giving Tree, a charity campaign in association with Heart FM to help disadvantaged children. Celebrations begin on November 13th with the annual Christmas Light Switch On, a unique fireworks display hosted by Heart FM presenter Toby Anstis. To find out more about Christmas at Bluewater visit www.bluewater.co.uk

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Christmas Guide

Seven Shows are Sizzling 1. ALADDIN

27 November 2015 to 3 January 2016, CHURCHILL THEATRE, High St, Bromley, Kent BR1 1HA www.atgtickets.com/venues/the-churchill-theatre-bromley

Take a magical carpet ride to the Far East in this year’s spectacular family pantomime Aladdin. Starring EastEnders Scott Maslen as Abanazer, from Milkshake! Jen Pringle as Princess Jasmine, the legendary Bobby Crush as Widow Twankey, from CiTV and Cartoonito’s Hi-5 Luke Roberts as Aladdin, from The Impressions Show, Jess Robinson as Slave of the Ring, Mark James as Wishee Washee and Charlie Guest as PC Pong. Rub the magic lamp, enter the cave of wonders and be transported to this fairytale world. Make tickets to Aladdin one of your three wishes for Christmas 2015.

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20 November 2015 to 7 February 2016, POLKA THEATRE, 240 The Broadway, Wimbledon SW19 1SB 020 8543 4888 www.polkatheatre.com.

This winter, a red rose sparks an adventure for Belle and her prince in the enchanting classic Beauty and the Beast at Polka Theatre. Following last year’s award-winning production of Peter Pan, Polka are delighted to bring this beloved timeless tale to life on the Main Stage. For a magical family festive treat, Beauty and the Beast is brimming with adventure, magic, music and mystery to delight ages 6 – 12. If you would like to bring younger children, the whole family can enjoy the show at an All Ages Welcome performance.

3. MR POPPER’S PENGUINS

4+5 December, CADOGAN HALL, 5 Sloane Terrace SW1X 9DQ, 020 7730 4500, www.cadoganhall.com

With songs, puppets and a family of performing penguins, this delightful musical adaptation of Richard and Florence Atwater’s popular book is brought to you by the producers of ‘The Tiger Who Came to Tea’ and ‘We’re Going on a Bear Hunt’. 55 Minutes of family fun for ages 3 plus.

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8 December - 3 January 2016, ARTSDEPOT, 5 Nether Street, Tally Ho Corner, North Finchley N12 0GA, 020 8369 5454, www.artsdepot.co.uk and www.roomonthebroomlive.co.uk

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Based on the famous book, the show has been touring for 15 years, performing in 14 The Sunday Times ★★★★ countries and five continents. It has played twice at Sydney Opera House, twice on Broadway, once at the National Theatre and has done seven West End seasons. A perfect “MONSTROUS combination of songs, laughter, physical theatre and just the right amount of scary fun! FUN!”

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26 November - 4 January 2016, PEACOCK THEATRE, Portugal Street WC2A 2HT, 0844 412 4322, www.sadlerswells.com

London’s favourite Christmas show is back! The SnowmanTUE has 15 transported DEC - SUN a3 generation JAN 7. of children and their families into the wintery world of a boy and NOW his magical snowman. BOOK 0330 333 4814 nimaxtheatres.com As a friendship is kindled, the two embark on a starry-skied adventure to the North Pole, where they meet dancing penguins, reindeer, Father Christmas and escape the clutches of Jack Frost. Ages 2+, tickets from £15, family tickets £110.

7. THE TIGER WHO CAME TO TEA

25 November - 10 January 2016, LYRIC THEATRE, Shaftsbury Avenue, London W1D 7ES, 0844 482 9674, www.nimaxtheatres.com

The doorbell rings just as Sophie and her mummy are sitting down to tea. Who could it possibly be? What they certainly don’t expect to see at the door is a big furry, stripy tiger! This truly magical Olivier Award nominated production makes for a fantastic family show.

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Christmas Events Diary

Out & About

The Reindeer Grotto The Reindeer Centre Centre, Capralama Farm, Pluckley Road, Bethersden, Kent, TN26 3EQ. 01233 659338 reindeercentre.co.uk

For a pre-Christmas treat that’s as magical as the day itself, visit the famous Reindeer Grotto. View some of the pet reindeers, then meet Father Christmas in his cosy cabin. Meet lots of other animals including goats, ducklings, donkeys, rabbits and exotic pets. Plus enjoy the straw bale ball pit and the (fake) snow play area, bouncy castle and lots more. Weekdays: 10am till 4pm Weekends: 10am till 5pm / See website for price details. From 14 November to 24 December

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Weekly free 5km timed run. Come along and join in whatever your pace! Please register before your first run. 9:00am

9 NOVEMBER Decorated House

Ightham Mote, Mote Road, Sevenoaks, Kent, TN15 0NT. 01732 810378 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

See the ground floor of the house decorated for a Victorian and 1950s American Christmas. Characters from Ightham Mote’s past will bring the house to life and they’ll be children’s craft activities on most days in the squire’s room. (closed 24 and 25 December), 11am-3pm. Normal

Christmas Craft Fair

Hall Place and Gardens, Bourne Road, Bexley, DA5 1PQ. 01322 621238 www.bexleyheritagetrust.org.uk

Find gifts with a difference. Over 45 stallholders will be selling a selection of traditional crafts and contemporary gifts, including handicrafts, jewellery and decorations. 10am - 4pm From 14 to 15 November

19 NOVEMBER Sing-A-Long-A-Grease

The Orchard Theatre, Dartford, The Orchard Theatre, Home Gardens, Dartford, Kent, DA1 1ED. 01322 220000 www.orchardtheatre.co.uk

Don those pink jackets, grease up those quiffs and let your

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“MONSTROUS FUN!”

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inhibitions go for an evening where you are the stars! Fancy dress is strongly encouraged and full audience participation essential. 7:30pm / Tickets £16.00. A £1.50 per ticket booking fee applies.

20 NOVEMBER Ice Skating In The Park!

Calverley Grounds, Royal Tunbridge Wells, Kent, TN1 1BT. 01892 554 645 www. tunbridgewellsatchristmas.com

The outdoor ice rink situated within the natural amphitheatre of Calverley Grounds offers spectacular views of the park and really is a unique and special festive experience. Why not add to your ice skating fun and come and see our wonderful Father Christmas in his cosy, warm log cabin set in the trees and snow! (Father Christmas will only be visiting on certain dates so check the booking calendar to avoid disappointment). See website for times and prices. From 20 November to 3 January

21 NOVEMBER Meet Santa

Howletts Wild Animal Park, Bekesbourne, Nr. Canterbury, Kent, CT4 5EL. 01227 72391, santa@aspinallfoundation.org www.aspinallfoundation.org/santa

Meet Santa in his enchanted grotto. 9.30am - 3pm / Entry to the grotto is £6 per child, including a special gift and free

admission into the grotto for accompanying adults. A valid Passport, Gold Card or Howletts day entry ticket is also required. Booking required. From 21 November to 23 December

Sing-A-Long-A-Frozen The Orchard Theatre, Dartford, The Orchard Theatre, Home Gardens, Dartford, Kent, DA1 1ED. 01322 220000 www.orchardtheatre.co.uk

A full screening of Disney’s Frozen with lyrics on screen to help you sing along with Anna and Elsa during the film. Introduced by a live host who will show you how to use your free prop bag, warm up your singing voices and teach you some dance moves with the help of the Singalonga Princesses before you sit back and “Let it Go”. Age recommendation 5+ 11am / Tickets £15.50, U18s £10.50, Family Offer - 4 Tickets £46.00, Family Offer - 3 Tickets £33.00 One adult required. A £1.50 per ticket booking fee applies.

22 NOVEMBER Quexmas

Quex Park, Park Lane, Birchington, Kent, CT7 0BH. www.quexpark.co.uk

Festive Christmas Craft Fair with more than 70 stalls selling a variety of crafts and gifts throughout the Powell-Cotton Museum, Quex House and Gardens. Santa will be warming

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28 NOVEMBER Father Christmas in Narnia 2015 Penshurst Place Estate, Penshurst, Tonbridge, Kent, TN11 8DG. 01892 870307 www.penshurstplace.com

26 NOVEMBER Gangsta Granny

The Orchard Theatre, Dartford, The Orchard Theatre, Home Gardens, Dartford, Kent, DA1 1ED. 01322 220000www.orchardtheatre.co.uk

Birmingham Stage Company is delighted to bring to the stage this wonderful new production based on the amazing book by David Walliams, the UK’s best-selling children’s author. See website for times. / Tickets £19.50, Under 16s £15.00 - A £1.50 per ticket booking fee applies. From 26 to 29 November

Winter Wonderland & Santa’s Grotto Bluewater, Greenhithe, Greenhithe, Kent, DA9 9ST. 01322 475475 bluewaterwinterwonderland.co.uk

Enjoy a fun-packed day out for all the family with our 6,000 square foot real Ice Rink, a fantastic 40-metre Snow Slide, a magical Christmas 4D Cinema and stacks of traditional rides, amusements and games… all indoors in the warmth of Glow, Bluewater. In addition we present our beautiful Santa’s Grotto. Open from 26th November right up until 24th December… bring your little one’s along to experience the magic of a trip to meet Santa Claus himself this Christmas. See website for times. / See website for prices and to book tickets.

Begin your journey in our activity centre, creating festive decoration and letters for Father Christmas and his elves. Once Father Christmas has sent word of his arrival in Narnia, you will be guided through the fantasy woodland by Mr Mr Tumnus, before meeting Father Christmas in his sleigh. Must be pre-booked / £12 - Tickets for children only and must be pre-booked, accompanying adults go free. From 28 November to 23 December

Christmas Market St Christopher’s Bromley, Caritas House, Tregony Road, Orpington, BR6 9XA. 01689 825755, a.grecu@ stchristophers.org.uk www. stchristophers.org.uk

Visit Santa Coolings Green & Pleasant, Main Road, Knockholdt, TN14 7LJ. 01959 534386 www.coolings.co.uk

Santa has found time in his busy winter schedule to take up residence in his Secret Woodland Hideaway on the Nature Trail at Coolings Green & Pleasant again this year. / £9.99 per child, includes gift from Santa and cookie. Adults FREE. Book to avoid disappointment.

Elf Trail

See Father Christmas and collect a gift for each child. In true 1920s style he’ll be decked out in green. A festive themed garden trail will also be available. 11am-3pm / Tickets £7 per child including a small gift, normal admission charges apply to visit the garden. Booking essential From 5 to 6 December

Discover what the elves have been up to by following a festive adventure through the garden. The elves have lost the reindeer’s name tags and can’t remember all their names – can you help Klaus and his elf friends discover what the names are using the clues, search for candy canes or draw your own reindeer? Don’t forget to send Father Christmas a Christmas card. (closed 24 and 25 December), 10am-4pm / Normal admission charges apply, £1 per trail including a small prize. From 2 December to 3 January

Christmas Farmers Market Penshurst Place Estate, Penshurst, Tonbridge, Kent, TN11 8DG. 01892 870307 www.penshurstplace.com

From fruity booze, decadent cheese, local meets and festive decorations, the Christmas Market is the ideal stop to collect all of your Christmas fayre - whether it be just for you or for you and a few presents! 9.30am - 12.00pm

Santa Specials Kent & East Sussex Railway, Tenterden Town Station, Station Road, Tenterden, Kent, TN30 6HE. 01580 765155 www.kesr.org.uk

Meet Santa at one of Kent’s best loved attractions this Christmas when you take a magical steam train journey on The Kent & East Sussex

5 DECEMBER 1920s Father Christmas

Chartwell, Mapleton Road, Westerham, Kent, TN16 1PS.

LONDON’S FAVOURITE CHRISTMAS SHOW

The live stage show based on Raymond Briggs’ The Snowman Music and lyrics by Howard Blake

“Sheer theatrical magic. Go see The Snowman and melt”

From 28 November to 23 December

Christmas Opening Weekend

Christmas Market

Ightham Mote, Mote Road, Sevenoaks, Kent, TN15 0NT. 01732 810378 www.nationaltrust.org.uk

The popular Chartwell market returns to kick start your festive shopping. The shop will also be open with samples available

2 DECEMBER

01732 868381. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/chartwell

Enjoy a glass of mulled wine and a mince pie or two to put you in the festive mood, together with lots of great stalls, plus fun activities for all the family. 10am - 2pm / £1 for adults and kids free

Daily from 26 November to 3 January

Chartwell, Mapleton Road, Westerham, Kent, TN16 1PS. 01732 868381 www.nationaltrust.org.uk/chartwell

From 28 to 29 November

Emmetts Garden, Ide Hill, Sevenoaks, Kent, TN14 6BA. 0844 249 1895 www.nationaltrust. org.uk/emmetts-garden

The Woodlands Farm Trust, 331 Shooters Hill, Welling, DA16 3RP. 020 8319 8900 www.thewoodlandsfarmtrust.org

Join a new season of guided walks at Woodlands Farm. Explore the changes on the farm with the seasons and the cycle of the farming year. Meet in the green education building in the Farmyard at 10am. / Free however donations are welcome.

Christmas. Father Christmas is visting and will be handing out little gifts to good children, and there will be local producer stalls to get those Christmas gifts, craft activities and a trail for children, and festive music on Sunday. 11am - 3pm / Normal admission charges apply

his toes by the fireside and invites you to join him in the dining room of Quex House (small additional charge). FREE trail throughout the museum, house, restaurant and marquees. Birchington Hand Bell Ringers will perform some festive sounds in Quex House. 10am-4pm / Admission £3 Adults (accompanied children under 16 FREE)

The perfect festive event for all the family. Enjoy traditions old and new - as characters from Ightham Mote’s past visit the ground floor of the house, dressed for a Victorian and 1950s

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Out & About: Christmas Events Railway’s popular Santa Specials. New for 2015 - The Maze! Explore the festive maze and meet the chilly characters. A real festive treat for all the family. Various times. / See website for price details. Every Sat, Sun from 5 December to 20 December & 22 to 24 December

6 DECEMBER Christmas Fair

The Woodlands Farm Trust, 331 Shooters Hill, Welling, DA16 3RP. 020 8319 8900 www.thewoodlandsfarmtrust.org

Visit Santa’s Grotto, sip mulled wine whilst browsing stalls of local produce and crafts for early Christmas present ideas, or relax in our cafe while the children enjoy crafts and games. A great festive day out for all the family. 11am-3pm / Entry is free, but donations are always welcome and go towards the running of the Farm

Family Theatre: The Snow Queen Hall Place and Gardens, Bourne Road, Bexley, DA5 1PQ. 01322 621238 www.bexleyheritagetrust.org.uk

Michael Whitmore’s delightful adaptation of Hans Christian Andersen’s magical tale conjures up a captivating mix of fantasy, fable and love triumphing over evil in this ever popular Christmas classic. Doors open at 2pm. Performance starts at 2.30pm and finishes at 3.45pm. There will be no interval. / £10 adults, £8 children (3-16years) Not suitable for children under 3 years. Book early to avoid disappointment as ticket numbers limited.

11 DECEMBER Twilight Christmas

Hever Castle & Gardens, Hever, Nr Edenbridge, Kent, TN8 7NG. 01732 865224 www.hevercastle.co.uk

From 12 December to 3 January

Wrap up warm and enjoy a walk under the stars to witness the enchantment of the Castle and gardens festooned with fabulous colours and twinkling lights, captivating the spirit of Christmas. See much loved landmarks brought to life as never before. Open: 18.00, Last Entry: 20.00 / Pre-booking for Twilight Christmas and for Father Christmas is essential. See website for details.

Shorne Woods Country Park, Brewers Rd, Shorne, Gravesend, Kent, DA12 3HX www.whatsoninkentlocal.com/ countryparks

Also 18, 22 & 23 December

Erith Christmas Tree Festival Christchurch Hall, Victoria Road, Erith, DA8 3AN. 01322 337798 (Jenny or Dennis after 6pm) www.bexley.gov.uk/article/18919/ Erith-Christmas-Tree-Festival

Eighty real Christmas trees sponsored by local groups, societies, businesses, and individuals decorate the grade 2 * listed church helping to create a sense of awe and wonder. Friday 11 December 12pm - 7pm, Saturday 12 December 10am - 6pm, Sunday 13 December 12pm - 5pm From 11 to 13 December

12 DECEMBER Dick Whittington

The Orchard Theatre, Dartford, The Orchard Theatre, Home Gardens, Dartford, Kent, DA1 1ED. 01322 220000 www.orchardtheatre.co.uk

Join Dick Whittington, Alice Fitzwarren and the lovable Tommy the Cat on an enchanting pantomime adventure. Staring TV star; actor and comedian Shane Richie! See website for times. / Tickets £36.50 - £10.00 See website for full details.

Santa’s Grotto

Follow our trail around the woods and solve the clues to find Santa. Then meet our traditional Santa in his woodland grotto. All children will receive a present from Santa. Time slots availabe between 11am and 3pm - Prebook your ticket on-line and turn up anytime between the start and end time on your ticket. / £6.00 per child. From 12 to 20 December (Weekends)

18 DECEMBER Christmas Carols in the Courtyard

Ightham Mote, Mote Road, Sevenoaks, Kent, TN15 0NT 01732 810378 www.nationaltrust. org.uk/ightham-mote

Sing along with the choir in the atmospheric medieval courtyard. 7pm - 8:30 pm. Booking Essential. / All Tickets £9.50

19 DECEMBER Christmas Garden Trail

Hall Place and Gardens, Bourne Road, Bexley, DA5 1PQ. 01322 621238 www.bexleyheritagetrust.org.uk

Join the festive fun by finding all the snowmen in the gardens at Hall Place. They each have parts of a scrumptious snowman cupcake recipe for you to follow at home. Includes small free prize at the end. 10am – 4.30pm / £2 per trail Pick up your trail sheet from the historic house

FRI 4 - SAT 5 DECEMBER

Hall Place and Gardens, Bourne Road , Bexley, DA5 1PQ. 01322 621238 www.bexleyheritagetrust.org.uk

Running time 55 mins

Celebrate the Festive Season in the company of the Geoffrey

NOVEMBER - DECEMBER 2015 www.familieslondonkent.co.uk

26 DECEMBER The Winter Trail

Leeds Castle, Maidstone, Maidstone, Kent, ME17 1PL. 01622 765400 www.leeds-castle.com

Wander through the woodland walk, grounds and gardens as you answer questions about wildlife and nature in this postChristmas activity. / £1 per person. A valid admission ticket is also required. From 26 December to 3 January

2 JANUARY

Jack and the Beanstalk: The Family Pantomime! Erith Playhouse, 38 – 40 High Street, Erith, Kent, DA8 1QY. 01322 350345 www.playhouse.org.uk

From 2 to 16 January

Christmas Concert

For ages 3+

Dust of those boots and join the Woodlands Farm Trust for a Pre-Christmas Walk. Explore changes on the farm with the seasons and the cycle of the farming year. Meet in the green education building in the Farmyard at 10am / Free however donations are welcome.

From 19 December to 10 January

20 DECEMBER

BOOK NOW 020 7730 4500

The Woodlands Farm Trust, 331 Shooters Hill, Welling, DA16 3RP. 020 8319 8900 www.thewoodlandsfarmtrust.org

Explore the woods following our self-led activity trail and see what you can discover about the park. All completed trails will receive a small prize. Drop in any day between 10am and 3pm. (Excluding Christmas Day) / £2.50 per activity sheet

From 19 December to 10 January

Shorne Woods Country Park, Brewers Rd, Shorne, Gravesend, Kent, DA12 3HX. www.whatsoninkentlocal.com/ countryparks

www.cadoganhall.com

Pre-Christmas Walk

The Family Pantomime, where our hero goes on many exciting adventures. Jack’s mum sends him on an errand to sell the milk cow for as much money as possible. This is the beginning of a very special day for Jack! His adventures take him high and low, and he often needs your help. Be prepared; there is excitement, adventure and magic, that is PANTOMIME!! Saturday 2pm, 5pm and 8pm Sunday 2pm, 5pm Wednesday & Thursday Friday 7.45 pm (no performance Monday and Tuesday) / £9 Wed/Thurs £11 Fri/Sat/Sun

Winter Activity Trail

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Whitworth Strolling Players. A miscellany of songs, carols and literary gems to get you in the mood for Christmas plus mulled wine and mince pies in the interval. Audience participation in the carol singing is actively encouraged! 3:00 pm - 5:30 pm / £12 per person. All tickets should be purchased in advance

Want more? There are just too many fun, family ideas to fit in so head online for the full list at:

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