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Clubs and Classes February Half Term Festivals Issue 104 January/February 2026 Familiesonline.co.uk

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Contents 4-5

News

Family Festivals 2026

Nursery news

8-10 Clubs & classes Education 11 12

Health

Early years

14-15 What’s On

Welcome And a Happy New Year to you!

Editor Claire Bottomley Editor@familiesleeds.co.uk 07799 667041

I don’t know about you, but I found that the Autumn Term seemed to go on for approximately 350 years, and despite January’s reputation for gloom, I’m relieved that it is here. I know it’s a long climb, but it does at least feel as though we are heading towards Spring and Summer. And if you are in the same frame of mind, you might be interested to read our round up of the best family-friendly festivals for 2026 on page 6.

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NEWS

Children’s Booker Prize announced

Celebrate reading on World Book Day

The Booker Prize Foundation has unveiled the Children’s Booker Prize, a major new award celebrating contemporary fiction for ages 8 to 12. The first winner will be announced in February 2027.

Help your child celebrate a love of reading on World Book Day, Thursday 5 March.

The award attracts a £50,000 prize, equal to the adult Booker Prize and aims to inspire a new generation of readers. A shortlist of eight books will be announced in November, with at least thirty thousand copies of shortlisted and winning titles gifted to children across the UK and Ireland.

Spark your child’s imagination and encourage them to read for pleasure and join in nationwide activities designed to make books exciting. Schools will distribute special £1 book tokens that children can swap for exclusive new titles or put towards any book in participating shops. Many schools will also invite students to dress up as favourite characters and host reading-related events.

NHS App simplifies child healthcare for busy parents

Enjoy an Arctic adventure at Riley Theatre

Parents across England can now manage their family’s healthcare more easily thanks to a new update to the NHS App. Announced in September 2025, the feature allows adults to switch between profiles for their children or dependents, similar to how streaming services like Netflix handle multiple users.

Step into a world of wonder with Mika and the Polar Bear, a magical dance-theatre adventure on February 14 at Riley Theatre in Leeds.

The update means parents can book GP appointments, order prescriptions, and view vaccination records for their children without needing separate logins. NHS England says the change is designed to simplify access and reduce administrative barriers, particularly for busy families juggling multiple healthcare needs.

When Mika is swept away by a climate disaster, they find themselves in a strange, ever-changing world full of surprises. Along the way, Mika meets playful and resilient creatures of land, sea, and sky. But nothing could prepare Mika for the most unexpected friendship of all: a lone Polar Bear in a sparkling icy wonderland. Together, they brave the wild, navigate the unknown, and discover the joy of relying on one another on their journey toward a new beginning.

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Try something different at the Hyde Park Picture House this half term In addition to popular new releases and well-known classics, you can discover lesser-known films at the Hyde Park Picture House - hidden gems which can be enjoyed equally by young and older audiences.

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This February half-term, the independent cinema is excited to present Little Amélie or the Character of Rain. A poetic and visually stunning exploration of a young girl’s first encounters with the world around her. Set in late 1960s Japan, toddler Amélie finds the world a perplexing mystery until her first introduction to chocolate at the age of two-and-a-half, which ignites her wild sense of curiosity about everything! Just like its strong, unconventional yet inspiring protagonist, this animation defies expectations. The visuals are light, gentle and dreamlike as they float effortlessly between Amélie’s lived experiences alongside her imagination, emotions and memories, resisting straightforward storytelling for something far more interesting. Amélie’s thirst for knowledge and discovery is very infectious. Everyday objects and simple moments are transformed, allowing us to share the childlike joy of being introduced to the world for the first time. This film celebrates connection, culture and nature, following Amélie as she grows and begins to grasp life’s complexities. Like the best animated works, it uses the medium to explore profound themes in a way that feels light, safe and never patronising to younger viewers. This film truly is the antidote to the fast, loud and bright films we have become accustomed to. Visit the Hyde Park Picture House website to learn more about upcoming new releases, special holiday workshops, and regular ‘Pay What You Can’ weekend screenings, including interactive activities on Saturdays and autism friendly screenings on Sundays.

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FESTIVALS

Best family-friendly festivals 2026 Compiled by Andrew Campbell There’s endless fun for families to have at family-friendly festivals across the UK in 2026. Our selection of festivals below all offer a fusion of music, arts, entertainment and outdoor adventures. The BritFest 2-5 July Ashley Hall, Altrincham, Cheshire

Designed with families in mind, activities include arts and crafts, face painting, an outdoor minicinema and classic funfair rides. There’s also plenty of live music and entertainment suitable for all ages, plus options for camping or glamping for a full weekend adventure. www.thebritfest.co.uk

Y Not Festival 30 July-2 Aug Pikehall, Derbyshire

Y Not Festival is a lively music festival which offers a familyfriendly experience with plenty of activities for children. Alongside its diverse music lineup, Y Not features a dedicated Kids’ Area with arts and crafts, workshops, games and circus skills. There are also funfair rides, storytelling and interactive performances to keep younger festival-goers entertained. Families can also benefit from a dedicated camping area for a quieter night’s rest. www.ynotfestival.com

DevaFest 6-9 August Cholmondeley Castle, Cheshire

DevaFest goes all out for families, especially kids, offering unlimited free fairground rides, circus skills workshops, magic shows, puppet theatre, dedicated kids’ entertainment zones, interactive storytelling sessions, arts and crafts, face painting and themed parades. Additional highlights include family discos, character meet-and-greets and treasure hunts. With extensive outdoor play areas and a focus on safety, DevaFest provides a structured, engaging programme to keep children entertained. www.devafest.co.uk

Shindig Festival 21-24 May Charlton Park, Wiltshire

Shindig Festival is a familyfriendly event that blends music, dance and creative arts with a strong community vibe. The large kids’ area is packed with free activities from 9am to 5pm daily, including arts and crafts, circus skills, workshops, games and interactive performances. There are also family-friendly shows, plenty of space for children to play and explore and a packed programme of entertainment for all ages. www.shindigfestival.co.uk

The Long Road Festival 27-30 August Stanford Hall, Leicestershire

A family-friendly celebration of country, Americana and roots music, fusing good time country music, U.S. inspired street food and great entertainment. Kids are entertained in a dedicated area with American camp style games, kids’ tractor racing, crafting and evenings spent around open campfires listening to country music under the stars. www.thelongroad.com

The Great Estate Festival 29-31 May Scorrier Estate, Redruth, Cornwall

Known for its eclectic mix of music, art, theatre and adventure. Families will find a wealth of activities for children, including circus workshops, storytelling, arts and crafts, vintage fairground rides and interactive performances. The festival’s beautiful grounds host woodland trails, secret gardens and quirky entertainment, providing plenty of space for kids to explore and play. It’s a vibrant, welcoming festival perfect for all ages. www.greatestatefestival.co.uk

The Green Man Festival 20-23 August Bannau Brycheiniog National Park, Wales

This independent music, science and arts festival nestled in the Brecon Beacons boasts plenty of large and small music venues, plus comedy, film, literature, art, science and playful mischief across dedicated zones. The festival’s Little Folk area offers hands-on workshops, nature activities, science experiments, arts and crafts and interactive performances. There are family-friendly theatre shows, storytelling sessions and dedicated play spaces designed for various age groups. www.greenman.net 6

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Camper Calling 28-30 August Ragley Hall, Alcester, Warwickshire

Camper Calling is a true family festival for children of all ages. Kids can dive into creative workshops, music sessions and hands-on arts and crafts. There’s a dedicated Kids Stage, circus skills, woodland walks and adventures. The festival’s safe, friendly atmosphere means families can relax and enjoy live music while little ones explore, learn and play. Adults can enjoy an eclectic music lineup with acoustic sets and emerging talents. www.campercalling.com Familiesonline.co.uk

NURSERY NEWS

Cliffe House Nurseries going from strength to strength

Cliffe House Training Academy hosts skills builder days Cliffe House Training Academy has hosted two immersive Skills Builder Days, bringing together nearly 60 Early Years apprentices over two days for a series of practical workshops and team-building activities.

A well-established and trusted local nursery group is opening of a new nursery in Adel. Clife House Day Nurseries’ new setting is within the Advent Homes’ development in the village. The light and airy building features three spacious playrooms, an outdoor play area with access to local woodlands, and purpose-designed spaces for babies, toddlers, and preschoolers. It will offer 75 high quality childcare places from three months to pre-school age, delivered by a qualified and experienced team. Della Stocks, owner of Cliffe House Day Nurseries, said, “We are very proud to announce the opening of our eighth setting in Adel! My late husband Adrian and I founded Cliffe House Day Nurseries in 1996, following our own experience as working parents in seeking exceptional childcare for our three children. Nearly three decades later, the ethos remains the same: to deliver the highest-quality care through play, supported by strong partnerships between parents and staff.” Government Funded places are available for up to 30 hours and, for a limited time, there are no registration fees. Visit www.cliffehousedaynurseries.co.uk/adel for more information or to arrange a visit.

During the sessions, apprentices took part in a Safe Sleeping workshop, an interactive healthy relationships workshop and an outdoor den-making activity on Otley Chevin. A cookery course introduced learners to recent EYFS food and nutrition updates, including guidance on sugar allowances and ultra-processed foods. Based in Horsforth and serving the wider Yorkshire region, Cliffe House Training Academy delivers outstanding Early Years apprenticeships at Level 2, Level 3 and Level 5. Their programmes offer learners full-time employment in a nursery setting alongside completely free tuition—supporting apprentices both academically and professionally as they progress in the Early Years sector. Cliffe House Training Academy is currently recruiting new apprentices who are passionate about working with children and committed to delivering outstanding Early Years education. Interested applicants should email an up-to-date CV to info@cliffehousetrainingacademy. co.uk

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CLUBS & CLASSES

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Ruby Dance Studios

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Inspiring, confidence-boosting and creative dance classes for children aged 2-12 years. Fun Ballet, Tap, Musical Theatre, Commercial and Acro classes with show and exam opportunities available. Based at Thorner Parish Centre and Bramham Village Hall. Also offering fabulous dance parties and holiday camps! Book a 2 week trial or party, call 07912678792

Lively and funky toddler dance and music classes for children from 16 months to 5 years old. Classes include creative movement, half termly themes, props, obstacle courses, disco lights, bubbles and lots of fun! Book a TRIAL class in Chapel Allerton or Alwoodley. Contact Sarah on 07796 135199 dancingtotsleeds@sky.com

Sensory, play-based music and singing classes for babies, toddlers and preschoolers.

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Baby Swimmers & Swimmers Academy

Baby Sensory North Leeds

A warm, welcoming, open-ended playspace for children from 0-5, offering something for everyone, in addition to structured separate baby sessions.

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Helping you to make memories with your baby whilst supporting their cognitive development. Baby Sensory stimulates all of the senses with different weekly themes, set in a fantastic Baby Sensory Centre, the perfect place to meet others and have fun with your baby.

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Through fun and games at Baby Swimmers see your little one progress to a confident little swimmer! Swimmers Academy lessons take children from beginner to advanced, whatever their age and ability. Covering survival skills, stamina and stroke techniques. Call 0333 3355388

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Fun and informal dance classes for ages 18 months to 6 years. Through an imaginative syllabus children are taught basic ballet steps but will have fun expressing themselves whilst developing skills such as balance, co-ordination, rhythm and more! Classes in Alwoodley, Yeadon, Bramhope and Rawdon. leedsnorth@babyballet.co.uk

Exciting and engaging children’s cookery classes, workshops and parties for 2 to 17 year olds. All the preparation is taken care of, simply turn up and enjoy. Everyone takes home their lovely dish along with a recipe card to cook again at home.

Number Train is a fun and interactive introduction to maths for preschool children designed and delivered by an experienced primary maths specialist. With a different theme each week, sessions keep your child engaged with games, action songs, art and craft.

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All sessions include messy and non messy play, hot drinks and support from external providers.

The 40 minute sessions provide your children with a lovely opportunity to socialise and develop in a creative and stimulating environment.

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Fairy Cake Recipe This is an easy recipe to try out with the children and you can decorate them using anything you want from smarties or chocolate buttons to marshmallows and edible glitter. Ingredients • • • •

100g/4oz butter (softened) 100g/4oz self-raising flour 100g/4oz caster sugar 2 eggs

Method Put the oven on first (Gas mark 4, 180c/ 170c fan) Whisk all the ingredients until creamy and smooth. Divide equally between 12 cup cake cases. Cook for around 10–15 minutes. To check they are cooked just press gently and they should spring back Once cooled the cakes can be decorated with all different types of icing and toppings.

Fun on the menu with Cook Stars Sometimes it can be difficult for parents to find time to teach their children to cook whilst juggling an already busy lifestyle. Parents are all too aware of the importance of teaching this essential life skill, however putting this into practice isn’t always so simple. With the arrival of Cook Stars children’s pre-school and after-school cookery classes to North West Leeds, things have just got that little bit easier. Laura Bewick, who runs the classes, said, “We provide everything so parents can simply bring their children along and start cooking. Our classes are hands on, fun and interactive. There is no better way to teach a child than through play.” Cook Stars encourages inquisitive learners to get stuck in with whisking, mixing, rolling and chopping. Every class offers plenty of hands-on experience in preparing different dishes, trying new foods and having lots of messy fun in the process. As well as cooking, the children also get to do a different craft activity each week

The Calf Shed (home to Moo Music and more!) The ultimate venue to join classes for your little one from birth. We offer a wide range of classes; our signature Moo Music sessions are entertaining, fun and developmental. Try Baby Moo, Moo Massage, Mini Moo, Mixed Moo or even Messy Moo! Call 07932 501904 www.bookwhen.com/moomusicleeds

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Toddler Sense Classes are available for children from 13 months to five years. Explore adventure play time on bouncy castles, soft play, rides and more. Enjoy themed sensory activities with puppet shows, interactive games and light shows. Different equipment and theme each week. Call 07910362661 northleeds@toddlersense.co.uk

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while their dishes are in the oven. There are a range of pre-school, after school and holiday camp sessions available, as well as parties and a FREE trial class. To find out more about Cook Stars check out their website: www.cookstars.co.uk

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Rock Stars Climbing Club An after-school climb club for ages 4 to 12 years. Book for each half-term block and become a little Rockstar! Warm-up and exciting climbing challenges, games and activities, plus some free time to climb. Improve ability and confidence. Call 01943 606829

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Rock Stars Climbing Club

Number Train Number Train is an awardwinning preschool class designed to help your children grow in confidence, learn new skills, and prepare for school through music, making, movement and maths.

This engaging after-school club is a favourite for children aged 4–12, offering an exciting and rewarding way to learn climbing skills in a fun, instructor-led environment. Held at Clip 'n Climb Ilkley, each session is designed to balance structured learning with free exploration. Children start with a warm-up, followed by climbing challenges, games, free climb-time and ending with a disco climb (with the disco lights). Staff guide the group through every step, ensuring safety while encouraging children to step out of their comfort zones. Each week, one climber is awarded the prestigious title of Rockstar of the Week – a proud moment to share with family and friends. Sessions are Mondays and Wednesdays. Each block runs for a half-term, so you only have to commit to that block. Taster sessions are available. An adult must remain on-site for children under 12 (they can be in the café area).

The early building blocks of numeracy and ‘number sense’ are crucial for a child’s success in maths later on, and Number Train aims to teach these over the year through different themed adventures. Each week, your child will board the imaginary Number Train and go on a journey of discovery as they travel all over the world and back in time. With a different destination each time, the sessions are guaranteed to keep your child engaged. Watch them grow in confidence as they take part in fun activities, games, action songs, turn-taking, storytelling and art and craft projects – all of which have an underlying focus on maths and the early years curriculum. Help your preschool child to prepare for early years education, and enjoy watching them (and joining in!) as they dance with dinosaurs, race through the rainforest, sing in outer space, shop in the silly supermarket, get crafting in the castle … and SO much more! Find out more at www.numbertrain.co.uk

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Music Bugs

Much-loved MusicBugs classes are sensory, fun, playbased music and singing sessions for babies, toddlers and preschoolers. Learn lots of new songs (plus many old favourites) including nursery rhymes, counting songs, finger-play rhymes, knee bouncers and action songs. Watch your children develop as they sing and play with hobby horses, puppets, parachutes, teddies, pom-poms, bubbles and lots of percussion instruments. The 35-minute sessions provide children with an opportunity to socialise and develop in a creative and stimulating environment. For babies aged 4 weeks to 1 year (non-crawlers), there’s Baby Bugs, Mini Bugs is for 6 to 24 months. Family Bugs (8 months to 4 years, siblings under one are free) finds siblings, grandparents, childminders and friends coming together to sing and share the music making experience. Find out more at www.musicbugs.co.uk 10 Families Leeds & West Yorkshire

The Calf Shed The Calf Shed opened its new venue in Chapel Allerton mid-2025 and already has exciting plans for 2026. Classes are central and include Baby Massage, Baby Moo (from birth), mixed-age classes for crawlers through to pre schoolers and siblings and Maxi Moo sessions for preschoolers with a focus on early years literacy and numeracy. The Calf Shed hosts maternity meet-ups, exclusive baby events, toddler takeovers, themed sessions and seasonal activities. It’s a spacious indoor play area, filled with engaging toys and equipment. Outside, the play space includes ride-on vehicles, tuff trays and a mud kitchen/playhouse, perfect for imaginative fun. For the youngest visitors, there’s a calm sensory room with gentle lighting, tunnels, ball pits and soothing projector displays to support early development. The café serves homemade paninis, sweet treats, a wide range of drinks and weaning plates. Plans for the year ahead at The Calf Shed include a new membership option, new sessions including Craft, Play and Graze: The Little Herd Social for toddlers and pre schoolers, Family Crafts and Adult only evening events. Open weekdays, 9.30am–3pm and weekends, 9.30am–1pm for café and play drop-in. Parties are hosted outside these hours, with longer midweek opening planned. Book a class at www.bookwhen.com/moomusicleeds. Some are PAYG others are half term bookings. Familiesonline.co.uk

EDUCATION

Mastering positive learning language By Zuzu Jordan How many times have you found yourself in a standoff because your child says they ‘can’t’ do a challenging piece of homework? That word - ‘can’t’ - creates an immediate mental block. It shuts down part of the brain that could otherwise be open and ready to learn. One word can be powerful enough to shape the success of a learning journey. What if we could help children use more open, hopeful language? What if the words they used gave them the confidence to try again instead of giving up? Let’s look at positive learning language. The way children talk to themselves - and how we speak to them - can completely shift their mindset and learning outcomes. Language is not just about communication; it shapes beliefs, emotions and behaviours. Here are some practical strategies to help develop this kind of language every day: Acknowledge emotions first To begin, acknowledge how your child feels. A simple: ‘I can see this is frustrating for you’ or ‘It’s okay to feel stuck sometimes’ can build safety and trust. Ban the word ‘can’t.’ Replace it with: ‘I can’t do this yet’ or ‘I’m having difficulty with this.’ These phrases shift focus from finality to possibility, reminding children that ability grows with time and effort. Start with what they know Confidence grows when learners begin from a familiar place. Encourage the phrase: ‘Use what you know to figure out what you don’t.’ For example, using known multiplication facts to solve more difficult ones. Break the task into steps Ask questions like: ‘What can you already do?’ or ‘How can we make this easier by breaking it down?’ This helps children realise that progress often starts with small, manageable actions. Remind them of past ‘wins’ Say: ‘Remember when this was tricky and now it’s easy?’ Reflecting on past successes helps children see that challenges are temporary and progress is possible. Celebrate mistakes Mistakes are mis-takes - opportunities to try again. Reframe

them by asking: ‘What can I learn from this?’ This teaches that every mistake brings a new chance to grow. Practise positive affirmations Affirmations such as ‘I don’t give up easily’ or ‘I can work this out’ help your child rewire negative thinking. Repeating them regularly supports resilience and self-belief. Praise effort over outcome Say: ‘I noticed how hard you tried’ and ‘You’re improving every time,’ even if the task wasn’t finished. This reinforces a mindset that values learning over perfection. Use the ‘Three Bs’ Rule Teach your child to check: Brain – think independently. Book – look for clues or previous notes. Buddy – ask a peer. Only then, ask the Boss (teacher or adult). This encourages independence and self-reliance. Retrain how they ask for help Encourage more constructive ways to ask questions: ‘Can you explain that a different way?’ or ‘Can we go over that part again?’ This keeps your child engaged and curious. The learning journey Positive learning language develops understanding, resilience and confidence. Like climbing a mountain, the learning journey includes setbacks, discoveries and growth. But with the right words, the path becomes clearer and the climb achievable. By modelling and encouraging this language, we help children build the mindset they need not only to succeed in school but to thrive in life. Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for eighteen years and is Director of Arnett International. For FREE resources and tips, find her on Instagram @edumate_uk

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Giving feedback

Parents play a vital role in making learning feel safe and supportive. Start by creating a calm, distraction-free space where your child can focus. Use encouraging language and praise effort, not just outcome. Let them know mistakes are part of learning and it’s okay to ask for help. Listen without judgement and show patience, even when they’re struggling. When children feel emotionally secure and supported at home, they’re more likely to stay motivated, confident and open to learning.

As parents, we naturally want to know our child is doing well at school. Homework often provides the clearest window into their learning. When we support them, we’re also giving feedback, sometimes without realising it. The language we use matters. Focus on their effort, improvements and what they’ve done well. Be specific and encouraging. If needed, gently suggest how they can improve, using kind and constructive language. Thoughtfully worded feedback boosts confidence, builds motivation and helps children feel supported in their learning.

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HEALTH

The invisible mental load and psychology of rest

By Dr Sasha Hall

As a psychologist and a parent of two young children, I have seen both professionally and personally how easily the invisible mental load builds up. This load is the ongoing, often unseen mental effort required to keep family life functioning. It includes not only the physical tasks of daily life but also the constant background thinking that ensures these tasks happen at the right time and in the right way. It is the invisible spreadsheet running quietly in the mind, updated in real time as family needs change. For many parents (generally mothers), this mental load can feel like carrying an endless list of responsibilities in their minds. It might include planning meals, remembering school events, booking appointments, checking that uniforms are ready and ensuring everyone has what they need for the day ahead. Alongside this are seasonal or longer-term considerations such as holidays, birthdays or preparing for school transitions. Even positive events, such as planning a family outing or helping with a costume for school, can add to the mental noise. These are all small, individual thoughts that combine into a continuous mental hum. In homes shared with partners or older children, there can also be what psychologists call cognitive unloading, where others rely on one person to hold or manage the shared mental information. Questions such as: ‘Where are my keys?’ or ‘What are we having for dinner?’ might seem trivial, but they represent moments where someone else is temporarily renting space in a parent’s mind. Over time, these repeated small intrusions can add to feelings of exhaustion and reduce the sense of mental clarity that is essential for wellbeing. When this happens frequently, the parent may begin to feel as though they are the project manager of the household, responsible for doing, remembering, prompting and anticipating. Research shows that cognitive rest is just as important as physical rest. Rest is not merely the absence of doing; it is the presence of mental recovery. When we rest effectively, the brain has the opportunity to consolidate memories, regulate emotions and restore executive functioning. These are the higher-order

skills that allow us to plan, problem-solve and make decisions. Just as muscles need recovery after exertion, our brains also need space to decompress and reorganise. Without sufficient rest, the brain’s capacity for emotional regulation and attention control diminishes. This can lead to increased irritability, forgetfulness and a sense of being mentally overloaded. For parents, especially mothers carrying multiple invisible demands, this may mean feeling less patient with children or partners and finding it harder to remain present in moments that should bring connection and enjoyment. The psychology of rest reminds us that rest is not indulgence but maintenance. It allows us to sustain the very skills that underpin both parenting and professional life. Creating even small opportunities for rest throughout the day can help regulate the nervous system and restore emotional balance. This might include brief moments of quiet reflection, mindful breathing or simply allowing the mind to wander without purpose. When rest is prioritised, parents often describe feeling more grounded, more able to engage meaningfully with their children and more confident in managing the continuous mental load. In essence, rest is not about doing less but about replenishing the mental space that allows us to think, care and respond effectively. Recognising and sharing the invisible work that goes on in our minds is the first step toward valuing rest as a psychological necessity rather than a luxury. Dr Sasha Hall is an HCPC-registered Senior Educational and Child Psychologist and founder of Hall & Co Educational Psychology Services (www.hallandcoeps.co.uk).

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The science of mental rest

Much of the mental load remains unseen because it is carried silently. Psychological research shows that when cognitive effort is invisible, others are less likely to appreciate its weight.

Mental rest does not always require sleep or silence. Research into attention restoration suggests that simply engaging in gentle, absorbing activities such as walking outdoors, listening to music or spending time in nature allows the brain to recover from focused thought. During rest, neural pathways related to creativity and problem-solving become more active. This helps restore a sense of clarity and perspective, enabling a parent to return to their daily roles with improved focus, emotional balance and a stronger sense of self.

Externalising these thoughts can help make them visible. This might involve sharing responsibilities through open discussion, writing down tasks that occupy mental space or gently drawing attention to how much co-ordination is involved in daily life. When the invisible becomes visible, families can develop a greater appreciation of one another’s mental and emotional contributions. 12 Families Leeds & West Yorkshire

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Allowing your child to develop at their own pace By Helen Zimprich Children are different - we all know that. Yet we often find ourselves comparing them. Why can my neighbour’s daughter speak so clearly at two and a half while my daughter says only a few words? Why can my friend’s son eat on his own while my son still needs my help? From potty training to dressing themselves or sleeping through the night, the comparisons never seem to end. I’ve been there myself. I have three children and each one is unique. My daughter was independent from an early age, while my little son has always been deeply attached to me. She could dress herself and put on her shoes before pre-school; he needed me beside him until he reached age 6. At first, I thought he was doing it on purpose, to test my patience. But during parenting training, I learned something essential: every child’s brain develops at its own pace. My daughter’s brain was ready for independence in certain areas but my son’s wasn’t yet. His need for my presence wasn’t manipulation, it was purely developmental. He simply felt safe when I was near and that safety allowed him to learn to put on his shoes. It’s important for us parents to understand how the brain develops. It has three main parts. The right side of the brain is responsible for emotions - that’s why toddlers have such big feelings and frequent meltdowns. The left side, which handles language and logic, only begins developing around age 3 and matures much more slowly.

So when my son wanted me next to him while putting on his shoes, it didn’t make sense to my logical adult brain but it made perfect sense to his still-developing one. As parents, we need to ask ourselves: Is my child not willing or simply not yet able? Most of the time, it’s the second one. When we shift our perspective from frustration to understanding, everything changes. We stop expecting our children to hurry up and start meeting them where they are. It’s worth remembering that rather than your child giving you a hard time, your child is having a hard time. It’s tough having so much to learn! And your calm, loving presence is exactly what helps them through it. Helen Zimprich (www.helenzimprich.com) is a certified Parenting Coach who helps working mothers set healthy boundaries and supports them to create strong connections with their kids through calm, conscious parenting. Follow her on Instagram.

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REGULAR EVENTS Ongoing Museums for Play and Growth at Bradford Museums and Galleries FREE drop-in sessions for children 0–5 years old, held on: First Saturday of the month in Bradford Industrial Museum, second Friday of the month in Cartwright Hall, third Wednesday of the month in Bolling Hall and fourth Thursday of the month in Cliffe Castle. Saturdays Family Fun at Wakefield Museum, Castleford Museum and Pontefract Museum Come rain or shine enjoy FREE fun crafts every Saturday. With different themed activities each week. All activities and materials are provided and they’ll even tidy up afterwards! 11am to 3pm. Saturdays Rory’s Saturday Club at Leeds City Museum Looking for something creative to do with kids in the city? Go along to the museum for craft sessions for families with children of all ages. Drop-in. Pay what you can. Second Saturday of each month Sparky Saturdays at the M&S Archive Fun, FREE and for everyone! The interactive exhibition includes dressing up rails, a Penny Bazaar shop and mini-cinema. You can have a go at a hands-on activity and try the exhibition trails. Activities run from 10am to 4pm. There’s FREE fruit, biscuits and drinks and you can use the indoor picnic space to eat your own food. Saturday and Sunday Hyde & Seek at Hyde Park Picture House From Pixar to Ponyo, Laika to The Lion King, see family-friendly screenings of magical movies for film-fans of all ages. Many are Pay What You Can, allowing you to pay whatever you can afford. On Saturdays, enjoy FREE crafts from 10.30am before the screening and every Sunday at 11am the Hyde & Seek screening is autism-friendly. Saturday and Sunday Get crafty at The Light in Huddersfield Get out of the wind and rain and get cosy at the Light and enjoy FREE family-friendly arts and crafts in the cinema foyer every weekend. Sundays Junior Parkrun at 15 parks across Leeds and West Yorkshire Fun, 2k run for 4 to 14-year-olds and their families. Check website for details. FREE event. Register online. 14 Families Leeds & West Yorkshire

Sundays during term-time and Tuesday to Thursdays during Wakefield school holidays Family Workshops at the Hepworth Wakefield Get creative as a family with exhibition-inspired activities in the galleries and learning studios. Suitable for families with children aged 2 to 12. First Tuesday of the Month during term time Storytime at the Little Bookshop Chapel Allerton Free monthly community storytime. Listen to some stories, chat with local parents and enjoy a free tea or coffee. No need to book and suitable for babies and toddlers up. 10am. Fridays Tiny Tigers at Leeds City Museum Fun, messy craft sessions for under 5s and their carers. Babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers welcome. Until January 4 Sleeping Beauty at Carriageworks Theatre When the wicked fairy Carabosse puts a curse on Princess Ariana to prick her finger on a spinning wheel and sleep for 100 years, it’s up to a dashing prince, a good fairy, and her best friend Muddles to save the day. But will true love’s kiss be enough to break the spell? Until January 4 Beauty and the Beast at Victoria Theatre Halifax When an arrogant prince is cursed to live as a beast, his only hope of salvation is to find love before the last petal falls from an enchanted rose. Can village girl Belle see beyond appearances and learn to love a beast? Until January 4 Jack and the Beanstalk at Theatre Royal Wakefield The story of a boy, a cow, magic beans and a fearsome giant gets the Theatre Royal Wakefield treatment.

Until January 17 A Christmas Carol at Leeds Playhouse It’s Christmas Eve in Victorian Leeds and Ebenezer Scrooge is as grumpy as ever - no twinkling lights, no festive cheer, just pure bah-humbug! But as the cold night draws in, four ghostly spirits whisk Scrooge on a whirlwind adventure through his past, present, and future, to show him the true meaning of Christmas.

January 10 to 17 Jack and the Beanstalk at Lawrence Batley Theatre Huddersfield Light Opera Company proudly present their latest spectacular pantomime.

Until January 18 Snow White at The Alhambra Theatre Starring Yorkshire panto legend Billy Pearce as The Man in the Mirror, pop icon Sinitta as The Spirit of Pantomime, and star of stage and screen Myra DuBois as Queen Lucretia.

January 17 Family Winter Tours at Lotherton A behind-the-scenes family adventure at Lotherton Hall! Included in normal admission, booking is essential as an add on to estate ticket.

Until February 22 Turner Prize at Cartwright Hall The world’s most exciting visual arts prize is in Bradford for the first time. The annual Turner Prize showcases and celebrates the most exciting new developments in British art. In the year the UK celebrates the 250th anniversary of JMW Turner’s birth, the Turner Prize heads to Bradford. Until February 28 You: Matter at The National Science and Media Museum Take an unforgettable trip discovering our connection to the universe at the newly reopened National Science and Media Museum, and understand the web of relationships that bond us all together – from the hairs on your head to the stars in the sky.

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Until January 4 Beauty and the Beast at Lawrence Batley Theatre A magical charm has transformed a Prince into a beastly creature. Now trapped in his castle, only true love will lift the spell.

January 9 Little Scientists at Abbey House Museum Fun sessions for under 5s exploring the Victorian streets using simple science. Included in admission. Under 3s go FREE.

Until January 11 Aladdin: The Rock 'n' Roll Panto at City Varieties Music Hall This isn’t your average Christmas pantomime – this is a Rock ‘n’ Roll Pantomime!

January 10 KPop Demon Hunta'z Live at Bradford Live KPOP Demon Hunta’z Live is a high-energy, concert-style performance that blends K-POP inspired dance, live audience interaction, and theatrical flair.

January 16 to 24 Pinocchio at Carriageworks Theatre The award-winning LIDOS return with another magical pantomime adventure.

January 19 Home Education: Amazing Animals Workshop at Leeds Discovery Centre Get up close to animals from around the world. Learn about adaptations, habitats and evolution by investigating a variety of birds, insects and exotic animal skeletons. January 21 & 24 Winter Wander at Temple Newsam Wrap up warm for a gentle, familyfriendly stroll around the estate. Be on the lookout for winter birds and brush up on ID skills ready for the weekend of the Big Garden Bird Watch. Booking essential. January 23 The Tour of the Eras - A Spectacular Tribute to Taylor Swift at Lawrence Batley Theatre Backed by a sensational fourpiece live band and dynamic dancers, this production takes audiences on a journey through Taylor’s iconic eras, from country roots to pop anthems. January 23 to 31 Snow White at Kings Hall Ilkley Upstagers presents a pantomime full of songs, dancing, jokes and energy and fun for all the family. January 29 to 31 Annie at Carriageworks Theatre With equal measures of pluck and positivity, little orphan Annie charms everyone's hearts despite a next-to-nothing start in 1930s New York City. Familiesonline.co.uk

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February 14 to 22 (exc Mon) Mystery Matinees at Leeds Industrial Museum During the school holiday, enjoy a family film in a mini cinema! Leeds Industrial Museum is home to the smallest cinema in the North of England with just 26 seats- the cosy, 1920s-style Palace Picture House. A family favourite film will be every day of the school holidays, starting at 2pm. Film screenings are included in the price of museum admission. Drop-in.

January 30 Little Shoppers at Abbey House Museum A fun, drop-in, 'shopping' session for under 5s in the Victorian Streets. Explore Abbey Fold, Harewood Square and Stephen Harding Gate as a Little Shopper! With a range of play shops, fake food and a trail or craft, little ones can explore and experience the Victorian streets. Included in admission. Under 3s go FREE. January 30 Dinky Disco at Lawrence Batley Theatre Where under 5s can groove to specially selected playlists surrounded by glow sticks, lights, and sensory play.

FEBRUARY February 6 Fun Sessions at Abbey House Museum Fun sessions for under 5s exploring the Victorian streets using simple science. Included in admission. Under 3s go FREE. February 7 Justin Live: Justin Time To Rock at Victoria Theatre Halifax Justin Fletcher is back on stage at the Victoria Theatre Halifax in a brand-new live show! Get ready to sing, dance and laugh along with BAFTA Award-winning Justin, star of Something Special, Justin’s House, Gigglebiz and Gigglequiz. February 8 Dinosaurs Live presented by Natural History Museum at Victoria Theatre Halifax For the first time since 1881, the home of dinosaurs, London’s Natural History Museum, is going on tour! Ever since they were first identified in the 1800s, dinosaurs have sparked the imagination of kids and adults alike and for the first time ever, the world- renowned Natural History Museum has teamed up with Mark Thompson Productions to take you on a dinosaur adventure like no other. From February 14 Springtime Babies at Temple Newsam Home Farm Celebrate the magic of spring with a heart-warming day on the farm. Get up close with adorable newborn animals - soft, fluffy Familiesonline.co.uk

lambs, playful piglets, curious calves, tiny chicks and more. February 14 The Sooty Show at Lawrence Batley Theatre Join Sooty, Sweep, Soo and friends in their new show. Guaranteed giggles for the whole family. February 14 to 21 Love Birds in the Abbey at Kirkstall Abbey Visit Kirkstall Abbey this February half term for a love birds family trail. As you search around the abbey to spot felt swans, decoy ducks or knitted owls you could also spot a family of kestrels, a sparrow hawk or even a magnificent red kite circling the cloister. February 14 to 21 Love Birds at Lotherton Join in some feathered family fun during half-term at Lotherton. Spot native birds around the estate using a spotter's guide, find out about things you can do at home to help wild birds at this time of year, and learn about the amazing birds at Wildlife World - including flamingos, penguins, owls and emus! February 14 to 22 Treasures of Temple Newsam Discover the treasure trail to explore Temple Newsam house this half-term. Pick up a magnifying glass, spot the treasures and find the secret boxes full of hidden clues. Discover beautiful treasures as you explore this magnificent house and create your own treasure chest to take home or gift to someone special. Pop along to the working farm to meet the first new born lambs! Home Farm is one of the largest rare-breed farms in the country. The Farm, Play Barn and Cafe will be open every day of the week during half term, and there will be self-led crafts in the Joiner's shop. February 14 to 22 (exc Sun and Mon) Hippo-Platypus Trail at Leeds City Museum A weird and wonderful animal trail to entertain the children this school holiday. Did you know a group of hippopotami are called a thunder? Pick up a trail at the museum entrance to discover the

February 15 The Dinosaur that Pooped A Rock Show! At Carriageworks Theatre Adapted from the number one best-selling books by Tom Fletcher and Dougie Poynter. The whole family will have a poopy good time enjoying a brand new story for the stage. February 16, 18 and 20 Half Term Store Tours at Leeds Discovery Centre During the half term holidays take a behind the scenes tours of the Leeds Museums and Galleries collection store. Leeds Discovery Centre is home to over 1.3 million objects. February 17 February Half Term Family Activities at Bradford Cathedral Free family activities. Spring is welcomed with craft sessions inspired by flowers and woodland creatures. There will also be colouring, quizzes and trails for children of all ages to enjoy. February 17 The Bubble Show 2 - More Bubbles! At Carriageworks Theatre Journey through the awe-inspiring legends of Bubbleland, as they are brought to life in a breathtaking theatrical experience made of soap and water. Watch as the master of bubbles breathes life into light, water, plants, animals, stars, and even the essence of human nature itself, in a celebration of creation. February 17 Hippo-Platypus Family Day at Leeds City Museum An animaltastic day out for the family. Have a go at crafting your own silly animal designs. From platypuses to hippopotami, discover the weird and wonderful world of animals with activities for all ages. Check website for more details. February 17 and 18 Sunflower and Wildflower Sowing at Temple Newsam Head down to Temple Newsam's Walled Garden to sow sunflower seeds into pots, then take one home to plant in your garden and leave one for the gardeners to put in the vegetable garden. This is a FREE event and will take place in the Walled Garden.

February 17 to 19 Hippo-Platypus Crafts at Leeds City Museum Keep your eyes peeled for animals around the museum, from tiny bugs to big cats. Have a go at crafting your own silly animal designs. From platypuses to hippopotami, discover the weird and wonderful world of animals with arty activities for all ages. 10am-12pm and 1pm-3pm on the Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of half term. February 17 and 19 Love and Kindness Tokens at Leeds Discovery Centre For Random Acts of Kindness Day to discover historic love and friendship gifts from the collections. Create your own act of kindness and go on a behind the scenes tour of the museum store. February 17 to 19 Perfect Printing at Leeds Industrial Museum Grab an apron and some paint and join Leeds Industrial Museum for family fun during February half term. Join a drop in workshops on Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday, 10.30am-2pm to get creative with printing. Drop-in, included with admission. February 18 Sensory Room for Families with Additional Needs at Leeds City Musuem Pop-up sensory room for families who might find a visit to the museum overwhelming. This event is for families with SEND, neurodiversity, autism and/or anxiety. The sensory room has dark tents, light-up toys, squishy floor tiles, dens and a bubble tube. Booking required. February 21 Tom Gates EPIC Stage Show at St George’s Hall Based on the bestselling books by Liz Pichon, with catchy tunes and hilarious performances, this fantastic new stage show brings the best of the Brilliant World of Tom Gates into one live show. February 27 Little Shoppers at Abbey House Museum A fun, drop-in, 'shopping' session for under 5s in the Victorian Streets. Explore Abbey Fold, Harewood Square and Stephen Harding Gate as a Little Shopper! With a range of play shops, fake food and a trail or craft, little ones can explore and experience the Victorian streets. Included in admission. Under 3s go FREE. February 28 Family Winter Tours at Lotherton A behind-the-scenes family adventure at Lotherton Hall. Join us on a tour to discover the fascinating history of the house, the family that used to live here and the collections that make this a unique place. Included in normal admission, booking is essential as an add on to estate ticket.

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