28 20 YEARS OF UMHLANGA UIP
Discover the story behind uMhlanga's transformation, as 20 years of growth and progress come alive.
32 BEYOND THE CLASSROOM
From integrating technology into syllabi to studentcentred teaching methods, these top KZN schools reflect on a successful 2025.
42 FINDING LOVE OFFLINE
Speed dating host Chanelle Nundlal shares the scoop on matchmaking events.
20 JUST MARRIED!
Three brides share their journeys from saying “Yes” to saying “I Do” in absolute splendour.
38 A FASHION MAVEN
Meet Nikki Da Rosa, a local designer whose creations weave together the threads of heritage, community, and elegance in every stitch, bringing life to wedding gowns, bridesmaids’ dresses, or everyday pieces.
26 RAISING KIDS WHO CAN LOVE
If you're worried about the state of modern love, it's time to rethink how we raise our kids.
44 RIDICULOUSLY COMFY, SERIOUSLY FUNKY
Husband and wife Billy and Tracy Harker's Funky Pants share how they turned their passion for paddling into a thriving sportswear brand.
48 THE CAVERN CHRONICLES
Escape to nature's bliss at The Cavern, where breathtaking views, rejuvenating spa treatments, and delicious meals await your perfect getaway.
AfriCamps brings luxury glamping to South Africa's most beautiful farms and reserves, offering spacious, selfcatering tents with wood-fi red hot tubs.
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IPUBLISHER
Lorinda Scott lorinda@fabmags.co.za
EDITOR
Justin Scott justin@fabmags.co.za
f you had not already noticed, February gives us love for free. It arrives neatly wrapped in romance, celebration, and familiar symbolism. It invites easy engagement, yet asks very little of us in return. Understanding love, however, requires more intention.
Because beyond sentiment, love is not simply a feeling. It is a commitment. And commitment is rarely loud. As I worked through this edition, that distinction became increasingly clear. I enjoyed the stories deeply, but more than that, I recognised a pattern of people choosing to do things properly. Thoughtfully. Over time. Without spectacle.
Love, when practised rather than performed, looks different. It appears in the dedication of young women who view their education not just as a series of results, but as a journey toward becoming remarkable. It is found in the quiet persistence of those who spend two decades transforming a coastline, block by block, ensuring it remains a place people want to return to. We see it in local designers who weave heritage and community into every stitch, turning a lifelong hobby into a meaningful professional craft.
None of this is romantic in the conventional sense. All of it is profoundly meaningful. This is why February always feels like the right moment to reflect on how we love the East Coast, each in our own way. Not because it is fashionable or convenient, but because it offers something rare and sustaining - a way of life that balances growth with restraint and ambition with a sense of belonging.
To love a place properly is to engage with it. To participate rather than observe. It means celebrating the opening of new local spaces not just once, but consistently. It means understanding that community is not something we consume, but something we actively shape through consistent, persistent work. This kind of love asks more of us. It requires patience and discernment. It asks us to stay involved, to look beyond the surface, and to value the systems that keep our neighbourhoods vibrant. Yet it gives more in return. It builds resilience. It creates trust. It allows a place and its people to mature steadily, rather than burn brightly and fade.
As The Umhlanga magazine, this idea resonates deeply with us. Not as an obligation, but as a privilege. We take genuine pleasure in telling these stories, in observing this place evolve, and in showing up month after month with curiosity and care. Commitment, for us, is not about endurance. It is about enthusiasm. About choosing to refine, to learn, and to contribute because the work matters.
February reminds us that love does not need to announce itself to be real. Sometimes it is quiet, deliberate, and deeply rooted. And perhaps that is why we love celebrating it every year in the best way we can: telling great love stories.
God Bless,
JUSTIN SCOTT,
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Gateway Theatre of Shopping hosted the launch, book signing and meet and greet of legendary cartoonist, Zapiro’s, new book, What Else Could Go Wrong?
As an iconic voice in South African literature, lots of people turned up to support the event.
UMHLANGA ROCKS
The Pearls Mall hosted a magical Christmas Market, offering local crafts, unique gifts, and holiday cheer to shoppers.
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• The Lamb Chops from Butcher Boys is always a winner!
• The nature trail at the end of the promenade!
• Breakfast at the Umhlanga Sands Resort Spur. I love the view of the ocean peeping through the greenery, it feels like I am on holiday.
• A massage at Mangwanani Beverly Hills.
• The view from The Lighthouse Bar at the Oyster Box Hotel.
• Lekker Biltong Gateway has the best range of delicious biltong!
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WORDS KERI MILLER & FIONA MCCARTHY
The past year stretched and surprised us in ways we never expected. Building a new female-owned radio station demanded stamina, humour and a kind of resilience you only discover once you’re already in deep. But instead of breaking us, the pressure shaped us. What could have unravelled us ended up reminding us that community matters more than competition, warmth outlasts polish, and courage grows stronger when it’s shared. Our journey has never followed a neat line. It’s been a choice, over and over, to keep moving even when the way forward wasn’t obvious. We don’t claim certainty, only a belief that honest stories bring people together and that meaningful work often starts long before you realise what you’re creating. Some friendships drift quietly into memory. Others rise, deepen and begin to shape the people within them. Ours falls firmly into the second category: a friendship that didn’t just last but grew into purpose.
We first met as girls at Durban Girls’ High. Nothing dramatic, just two teenagers sharing the same corridors before life carried us off in different directions. Years later, when we crossed paths again, the connection was immediate. It didn’t feel like catching up. It felt like recognition. By 2018, each of us had lived our own chapter. Keri carried years of radio behind her - early mornings, live conversations and the instinctive understanding of people that only time on air can build. Fiona brought the clarity and composure forged in aviation. On paper, we were an unlikely match, but in person, we fit together with an almost engineered precision. I (Fiona) often say I build the plane,
while Keri says she makes it fly. The truth lies in the space between us, where structure meets imagination, and two people discover they are braver and more capable together than they ever set out to be. When we first imagined creating something of our own, it began with the simple belief that honest conversation still matters and that connection was becoming too rare. We wanted a place where people could show up exactly as they were. Instinct won over convention, heart over perfection, and something warm and human over something safe. What looked like a project was actually an act of courage grounded in friendship.
Our differences became our strength. I (Keri) bring heart, colour and instinct, while Fiona brings steadiness and clarity. One leaps, the other anchors. And when life presses too hard, we head for the sea. Meetings migrate to beach towels, ideas loosen beside the water, and answers arrive with the pushing tide. At the centre of everything we do is the simple belief that stories and people matter, and thoughtful, soulful music ties it all together.
In the end, our story isn’t just about surviving a demanding year. It’s about choosing a life rooted in friendship, guided by instinct and fuelled by the quiet belief that good stories and good people will always matter.
Good stories and good people will always matter
KERI is a voice-over artist and MC with 19 years of experience as an on-air radio presenter. FIONA has 18 years of experience in strategic management and operations, largely in the aviation industry.
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WORDS JACQUELINE HERBST
For couples craving connection, calm and a little adventure this Month of Love, AfriCamps offers a romantic escape that feels both indulgent and grounded. Think luxury without pretence, nature without compromise, and space to truly slow down together.
Scattered across some of South Africa’s most beautiful working farms, estates, and private reserves, AfriCamps Boutique Glamping has perfected the art of outdoor living with comfort at its core, making it a natural choice for honeymoons, anniversaries and
quietly unforgettable weekends away.
“AfriCamps offers the perfect escape for couples who want to get closer to nature, while enjoying a relaxing stay in a custom-designed fully-equipped unit. AfriCamps is there every step of the journey - from your honeymoon to your special anniversary, to familyfriendly getaways with the kids,” says co-founder Jeroen van Rootselaar.
Each of AfriCamps’ 19 locations features thoughtfully designed glamping units complete with air conditioning, a fully equipped kitchen, two bedrooms, an ensuite bathroom with a spacious rain shower, and the
signature outdoor wood-fired hot tub - the ultimate romantic touch under star-filled skies. While the brand stretches from the Cape Winelands to the Kruger National Park, KwaZuluNatal boasts four exceptional camps, each with its own distinct character.
AfriCamps at Gowan Valley, in the heart of the Midlands Meander, is a storybook setting of rolling hills, indigenous forests and riverbanks. Set on the welcoming Gowan Valley Guest Farm in Balgowan, the camp is surrounded by Golden Kiwi orchards farmed by hosts Deanne and Brett Bouwer. Days here are best spent
wandering the 4 km forest trail to a 500-year-old Yellowwood tree, picnicking beside the Mpofana River, or enjoying fly fishing on a catch-andrelease basis. Beyond the farm gates, the Midlands Meander offers waterfall hikes, canopy tours, country eateries and cultural landmarks such as the Nelson Mandela Capture Site - ideal for couples who enjoy a gentle blend of nature, history and good food.
At the foothills of the Drakensberg lies AfriCamps Champagne Valley, where dramatic mountain views set the tone for a more adventurous romantic escape. Located just 245 km from Durban, this camp is a hiker’s paradise, with Monk’s Cowl entrance to the Maloti-Drakensberg Park only minutes away. Whether tackling iconic overnight hikes like Champagne Castle or opting for a guided walk,
the reward is always the scenery. For less strenuous days, guests can enjoy horse riding, craft beer and chocolate tastings, mountain biking, or simply unwinding at their tent with uninterrupted Berg views before heading to The Farm Kitchen for a traditional braai.
For couples drawn to the call of the wild, AfriCamps at Bonamanzi Game Reserve delivers an immersive safari experience within a 4,000-hectare private reserve. Unfenced and rich in biodiversity, Bonamanzi is home to four of the Big Five and over 400 bird species. Days unfold with guided bush
walks, game drives and birding river cruises, while evenings are best spent at Lalapanzi Dam lookout or soaking in your hot tub after sunset. Its central location also makes it easy to explore Hluhluwe-iMfolozi Park, St Lucia, and the iSimangaliso Wetland Park - perfect for couples who want to experience the bush and beach in one trip.
Completing the KZN quartet is AfriCamps at White Elephant Safaris in the historic Pongola Game Reserve. Set on the shores of Lake Jozini with the Lebombo Mountains as a backdrop, this camp offers a rare mix of land- and water-based safaris.
Guided game drives, tiger fishing, conservation experiences and sunset cruises create days filled with wonder, while evenings unfold slowly, with sundowners by the pool and the possibility of wildlife wandering past your tent.
Whether it’s misty mountain mornings, river picnics, safari sunsets or starlit hot tubs, AfriCamps proves that romance simply needs the right setting, perfectly framed by nature.
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Three beautiful, blushing brides share their tales of finding love and their happily ever after!
for each element, book it, and tick it off the list one step at a time. We knew from the start that we wanted a small, intimate wedding with incredible food and, thanks to Matt’s
Our Story
We met at a friend’s braai. At the time, I had just come out of a breakup and wasn’t in the headspace for anything new; despite Matt very patiently trying to take me to dinner for months. He didn’t give up, though, and on Valentine’s Day, he left flowers at my gate. A month later, we were officially together, and here we are, almost four years on.
The Planning
We were engaged for almost two years, which allowed us to plan slowly and intentionally. We’d save
career in music, an exceptional DJ lineup so we could dance all night.
Honestly, the entire day was utter perfection, and we don’t have a single regret. It rained while we were getting ready, but just as I was about to walk down the aisle, our incredible planner took my umbrella … and the clouds literally parted. From that moment on, the rain stopped, and we had the most beautiful day. It felt magical!
Our First Dance Song
We chose “Forever You and Me” by The Teskey Brothers. The song holds deep sentimental value for us. They’re one of Matt’s favourite bands, and I surprised him with tickets to see them live in Spain in 2024. Almost a year later, having that song performed live by The Kickstands for our first dance was incredibly special and emotional.
My brother officiated the ceremony, we opted for mezze platters served throughout the night instead of a traditional three-course meal, and we had an ice sculpture that guests fed their shots through. We also kicked off the dance floor with a piñata filled with sweets, and Matt and his duo partner, Tim, played a live set on the dance floor, with live saxophone and Matt singing, which was the absolute cherry on top.
Our Story
Louie and I met through my siblings and mutual friends, and we are approaching our eighth year together!
The Planning
We secretly hunted down venues before breaking the news to everyone. After visiting popular venues, we fell in love with Sharula Estate. It’s like a hidden gem in Ballito! I unfortunately lost my grandmother a few months later, so planning became difficult. I instead turned pain into power by dedicating our wedding to her. I was a DIY bride with the help of my mother. Our décor, colours, cake, wedding favours, jewellery and even our first dance were all inspired by my grandmother.
There are two. The first would be walking down the aisle with my father, who was very proud. The second would be all the showers of love and laughter during the reception.
Don’t Sweat it!
Things will go wrong, but it will always fall into place. I was definitely humbled by Murphy’s Law, but it all worked out to be even better at the end. Don’t stress, my future brides, not worth it!
Our First Dance Song
In honour of my grandmother, I chose a piano ballad of a song I would dance to as a little girl. I added her voice throughout the song and wore a white cape with an illustration of her. Nobody knew about this surprise, making it an emotional but loving tribute. Definitely a highlight for me!
A Special Touch
We are big on showing love to our furry and feathered babies at home and in heaven! So we incorporated their photos on our guests' seating chart and on tables. Each guest had to “Paws to find their seat”!
Our Story
My husband and I met for the first time at my matric dance, and we got along so well, even though I was very much an introvert and him the total opposite! Eventually, after months of getting to know each other, we started dating in 2016. After six beautiful years of dating, he popped the question in 2022 in Cape Town under the most romantic setup, surrounded by the Twelve Apostles mountains!
The Planning
Our vision was a celebration that reflected both our personalities and cultures, focusing on timeless elegance with a modern Indian twist. Our colour palette included white and green, with hints of gold. We carefully chose each element to make it feel personal and intimate. Our bridal looks were inspired by regal Sabyasachi weddings. Once I had my vision, Shevaal Singh from Mehfil Haus assisted with tying in all the finer details and bringing my vision to life.
Favourite Moment
Walking down the aisle and seeing my husband with all our loved ones. Everything paused for a second, and it was just the two of us, surrounded by so much love.
Our First Dance Song
It was a mix of our favourite songs: “Apna Bana Le”, “Maan Meri Jaan”,
and “Soul Mate”. All these songs have a beautiful meaning and we've always enjoyed listening to these songs together. My husband usually does not dance to bollywood music, which made this even more special! My favourite part of our opening dance was when he dipped and picked me into the air to certain beat drops of the song.
A Special Touch
Our varmala exchange (garland
exchange) was different compared to traditional weddings in South Africa. I've always watched the way weddings were done in India, and that specific ritual stood out to me.
My husband waited for me inside the hall, and I then entered, dancing my way into his arms. We then made our way to the centre of the venue to exchange our garlands, showered by a pyrotechnic display of red rose petals.
A parent’s guide to raising emotionally grounded, relationship-ready kids.
Love may be the theme of February, but for many adults, romance still feels a little like navigating a minefield full of unspoken expectations, emotional blind spots, and patterns we never learned to break. While we can’t rewrite our own childhoods, we can shape the next generation differently. In this edition, as we celebrate weddings, romance, and all things heart-shaped, we explore the fundamentals of raising children who grow into adults capable of building healthy, secure, and lasting relationships.
For expert advice, we turned to speaker and author Christy Herselman, who founded The Chat - a culture-shaping movement that exists to catalyse honest conversations and share accurate information around prickly topics like sex, identity, social media, and R-rated videos. The organisation regularly lends its expertise to respected Durban schools such as St Mary’s DSG, Reddam House, Durban Girls’ College, and Chelsea Prep School.
Christy says the foundation of a healthy romantic relationship is two healthy people who are secure in themselves and committed to building a healthy connection with one another. It is all about being contributors, rather than consumers, in a relationship. The key to achieving this is to raise healthy, confident children with a strong sense of selfworth and self-respect, solid social skills, and healthy boundaries. In healthy relationships, there is no room for entitlement, as this gives rise to unhealthy conflict characterised by manipulation, blame casting, and fighting each other rather than resolving the burning issue together.
The ability to set healthy boundaries involves an understanding that respect is not something people must earn, but rather it’s a basic human right. “It’s not about who the other person is, but who I am,” she says. Recognising this empowers children to expect respect. This, Christy says, is where
protecting children from a daily deluge of toxic social-media messages becomes essential. The predominant message, she says, is one of objectification. “Men objectify women; therefore, girls must take back control by objectifying themselves, using their bodies to get what they want. And according to social media, what girls want is a rich man.” Essentially, this teaches girls that their value lies in being attractive and pleasing men.
Meanwhile, the message to boys is that all men objectify women, and to get a woman, a man needs to get rich and successful as quickly as possible. This narrative, Christy says, creates a culture where young people enter relationships focused on what they can get, not what they can give. The result is insecurity, unrealistic expectations, and low self-esteem, and ultimately, adults who struggle to form healthy, lasting relationships. Christy says adult platforms thrive on this narrative. While monthly beauty magazines once pushed similar ideas, social media does so 24/7.
To counter this, Christy suggests limited device time and a prioritisation of real-world connections. She points to a global shift toward “no smartphones before high school” and “no social media until 16.” In Australia, under-16s are now legally barred from social-media platforms such as TikTok and Instagram. Delaying access allows kids to navigate the toughest years of puberty before facing the comparison-driven toxicity of online spaces. Strong, healthy attachments grow through youth groups, sport, outdoor activities, volunteering, and other community-based involvement. Adults also need to model what healthy relationships look like, especially how to handle conflict. Parents may need to examine and adjust their own relationship habits because, as Christy says, “you can’t give what you don’t have.”
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WORDS JADE HARDING PHOTOS UMHLANGA UIP
From its early days of storm-damaged walkways to becoming one of South Africa’s most recognisable coastal destinations, uMhlanga’s story is one of collaboration, commitment and consistent delivery.
If you’ve lived in, worked in, or even just visited uMhlanga Rocks over the past two decades, you’ve seen more than just growth - you’ve seen a transformation. Today’s uMhlanga is vibrant, clean, safe, walkable, and full of those small touches that make a seaside village feel like a place you
want to return to again and again. But behind the restaurants, the beachfront buzz, the photo-ready pier, and the well-kept promenade is the engine that keeps it all running: the uMhlanga Urban Improvement Precinct (uMhlanga UIP). Working closely with the eThekwini Municipality,
the UIP provides vital supplementary services and maintains pressure for improved infrastructure. Its consistent, persistent work has delivered measurable improvements across the precinct. As uMhlanga moves through its third decade of evolution, it’s worth looking back at how it all began and
the people and systems that shaped what the precinct is today.
The story starts in 2003, when the first UIP was created along the Promenade to bring structure and consistent management to one of KZN’s most treasured public spaces. By 2006, discussions began about expanding the model into the Village, driven by business owners and community members who understood that a destination like uMhlanga needed more than basic municipal care. In 2008, the Village UIP was formally approved, and in 2009, the two UIPs were brought together under a single operational structure - the foundation of the modern uMhlanga UIP.
“It was clear from the very beginning that uMhlanga couldn’t rely on luck; it needed a coordinated, long-term approach,” says Frank Reardon, Chairman of the uMhlanga UIP. “Once the Promenade and Village were aligned, everything shifted. We finally had a unified way to protect the character of this place.”
From those early days of consensusbuilding, the UIP has developed into a daily operational force, overseeing cleaning, greening, maintenance, security, environmental management, and stakeholder engagement. Key milestones on the Promenade include the introduction of full 24hour security in 2010 along the entire promenade, ongoing beach and promenade clean-ups (especially after storms), and steady upgrades to play parks, ablutions, lighting, and access points. The maintenance and restoration of landmarks such as the whalebone benches have helped keep the area world-class.
A major environmental turning point came in 2012, when a collaborative
effort saw the Nature Reserve reclaimed and secured. Today, the precinct’s dune rehabilitation work, indigenous planting, linked boardwalk system and well-loved Forest Cafe remain visible proof of that commitment.
Large upgrades, such as the Village repaving project, promenade deck extensions, new public art, wayfinding signage, and the Village Green festive lights, have strengthened uMhlanga’s coastal identity.
And when crises struck, the UIP was there. Whether responding to the M4 washaway, the July 2021 unrest, repeated flood clean-ups, or keeping operations stable through the pandemic, the team ensured the precinct continued to function. “It’s not glamorous work, but it matters,” says Dewet Geldenhuys, Precinct Operations Manager. “Our teams are here before sunrise and long after the promenade quietens. The goal is simple: keep uMhlanga looking and feeling good, every single day.”
And the hard work seems to be paying dividends. The 2025 Annual Perception Survey (see infographic) reflects just how positively the public experiences the precinct.
Are our visitors likely to move to uMhlanga Rocks in the next 10 years?
“It’s a precinct where the details matter, and that’s what people respond to. Walkability, cleanliness, visibility of security - it all contributes to the everyday experience,” says Greg Beaumont, Lighthouse Quarter Director.
The main reason for visiting is for leisure (85%) to enjoy uMhlanga’s full range of offerings during both day
Looking Ahead: Evolving Into a 24Hour Economy
Beyond daily service delivery, the UIP continues to support long-term projects, including:
• Water and sanitation advocacy
• Infrastructure planning to reduce beach closures
2003 – A New Beginning uMhlanga Promenade UIP established, introducing structured precinct management.
2008 – Village UIP Approved
The Village UIP is formally established and begins service delivery. Promenade rebuild starts with UIP involvement.
2010–2011 – Full Promenade Coverage
24-hour security rolled out across the full promenade. Early publicspace upgrades begin, including Village Green festive lights and beachfront facility improvements.
2013–2015 –Environmental Investment Concept work begins on the boardwalk and Forest Café.
Major dune rehabilitation, lighting upgrades, garden enhancements, playground improvements and signage updates reshape public spaces.
2018–2019 – Safer, Stronger, More Resilient Lagoon Drive receives new traffic-calming measures; water-quality testing begins; backup generators installed for beachfront pumpstations. VAT recovery on levies secured after years of advocacy.
2021 – A Year of Collective Action
UIP coordinates safety efforts during the July unrest. Forest Café and boardwalk extension completed. Precinct-wide beautification and repairs delivered.
2024 – Public Space Uplift & Water Leadership
New Water & Sanitation KPIs adopted by eTM with UIP input. Special Capex Projects uplift public spaces; promenade art, verge upgrades, Monkey Bins and deck extensions implemented. Metro Police/utility office launched.
2006–2007 – The Village Vision Emerges
Plans for a managed Village precinct gain traction; major storm damage underscores the need for coordinated care.
2009 – One Unified UIP Promenade and Village UIP operations are integrated, enabling holistic management of the entire area.
2012 – Protecting Natural Assets
The UIP leads the reclaiming and securing of the uMhlanga Nature Reserve and Hawaan Forest in partnership with authorities.
2016–2017 – Strengthening Identity & Infrastructure
The uMhlanga Rocks Brand DNA is completed. Village Precinct repaved, ablutions and stormwater systems upgraded, wheelchair ramp installed, and extensive greening completed.
Greater uMhlanga Water & Sanitation Report completed. UIP ensures continuous service delivery during COVID-19. Boardwalk extended and precinct-wide wayfinding upgraded.
2022–2023
First 250m of the boardwalk installed with kiosk and deck. Pumpstation and generator upgrades secured. uMhlanga Welcome Guide published. Major clean-ups and publicspace revitalisation carried out.
2025 – Strengthening Everyday Spaces
Over 200 greening projects completed. Estuary deck extension progresses, new benches installed, Forest Café upgraded, and new pier lighting initiated.
• Ongoing boardwalk expansion and coastal access upgrades
• Special Capex projects for public-space improvements
• Digital tools such as the Report-a-Fault platform, improving response times and transparency
With uMhlanga increasingly functioning as a 24hour destination - from early-morning runners to late-night dining - the UIP’s role is more important than ever.
Residents, business owners, property owners, and regular visitors are encouraged to take part in the 2026 Annual Perception Survey. Scan the barcode below to share your views. It takes only a few minutes and helps shape the precinct’s priorities.
The more voices, the better uMhlanga becomes.
We take a look at local schools that are leading the way in progressive education and producing some of the top results in the country, equipping young people not just for academics but also for leadership and success long after graduation.
Crawford International La Lucia proudly celebrates the achievements of the Class of 2025 in the Independent Examination Board (IEB) National Senior Certificate examinations. The campus delivered an exceptional set of results, achieving a 100% pass rate, with 97% of candidates securing Bachelor’s degree passes, and the remaining 3% achieving Diploma passes.
Three students achieved overall averages of 90% and above, placing them amongst South Africa’s topperforming matric candidates. Amongst the top achievers, Manzil Harikaran-Giandev recorded an exceptional 11 distinctions, and also achieved 100% for Engineering, Graphics and Design, while Sanjana Rajkaran achieved eight distinctions, underscoring the academic rigour and high standards maintained at the campus.
“These results represent far more than examination success,” says Dr Siza Majola, Managing Director of Crawford International. “They reflect years of commitment, resilience and personal growth, supported by dedicated teachers and engaged families. Our students leave us not only academically prepared, but confident, principled and ready to lead in a complex world.”
Academic achievement is seen as part of a broader developmental journey rather than an end in itself, focusing on long-term growth, shaping students who think critically, act responsibly and lead with integrity.
Central to this approach is a comprehensive Matric Preparation Programme, which begins in the early years. As they enter the senior phase, preparation becomes increasingly structured through targeted revision frameworks, subject-specific support, exam readiness programmes and continuous assessment informed by innovation and the responsible use of AI. This allows teachers to identify strengths and address gaps early, while ensuring students feel supported rather than overwhelmed.
Through formal leadership structures, students are encouraged to take ownership, collaborate, solve problems and communicate effectively. This focus equips students with the emotional intelligence, decision-making skills and selfawareness needed to manage pressure and to navigate life beyond school with confidence. The Class of 2025 leaves Crawford International
La Lucia with more than excellent results. They depart with a global outlook, well-developed leadership capability and the confidence to adapt, contribute and lead in an ever-changing world. “You arrived on this campus in 2021, already accomplished and ambitious young people, and during your time here, you've also proven how adaptable you are and what powerful advocates you are for the causes you believe in. So, I hope you let go of the pressure, the comparisons, the fear that you are not where you are supposed to be. You are,” reflects the Principal of Crawford International La Lucia College, Cal Warwick.
Our community is warmly invited to attend the Crawford International La Lucia Open Day on 26 February 2026. Alternatively, families are welcome to arrange a personalised tour at Crawford International La Lucia.
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At St Mary’s DSG, our programme incorporates sporting, cultural and spiritual components to broaden the academic programme, and each child is recognised as an individual with value and responsibilities.
The world is a complex, fastchanging place, and in order to meet the challenges that accompany this, schools need to prepare students for an uncertain future. This necessitates
that they are curious, have emotional intelligence and a sound work ethic.
Underlying a holistic approach from research is the idea that when schools are able to create a sense of belonging, students' academic performance and involvement improve significantly. Having a sense of belonging is particularly valuable when it comes to problem-solving, critical thinking and creativity. The world of teenagers is a tougher environment than it was 20 years
ago, and although they have access to so much technology, their basic needs of connection and affirmation are still the same. When surveyed, teenagers around the world want to be “seen” and to be given an opportunity to contribute. This fits well with the research done by John Hattie on which factors lead to academic success. The factor that has the biggest influence on students’ success is the belief that teachers have in their students. When teachers believe in their students, the students see themselves differently and respond positively to their circumstances and challenges.
In a world where so much of our day and social interaction can take place in a screen-environment, it is worth noting that human relationships matter more than ever before. People respond best to people. Artificial intelligence is a powerful tool, and we have yet to understand how to use it effectively in a school environment.
Early research seems to indicate that it can serve as a valuable resource when students need to augment their classroom instruction and in preparing them for tests through revision. The lesson we need to learn from cellphones and social media is that screens replacing people in our relationships and classrooms is extremely unhealthy and too often leads to passivity.
Schools need to develop individuals who have a sense of agency and who pursue opportunities aligned with their interests and their community’s needs. Paradoxically, what we need most is for children to be fully developed as humans and to be technologically literate. These two elements are in tension, and there is no escaping the predicament. Please join us for our high school open day on Saturday, 14 February.
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Durban Girls’ College marks the outstanding Independent Examinations Board (IEB) National Senior Certificate (NSC) results of the Class of 2025, a cohort distinguished by academic excellence, strength of character, leadership, and purpose.
“The Class of 2025 achieved a 100% pass rate with 100% Bachelor’s degree access. Collectively, the cohort achieved 314 subject A symbols, with 54% of all subjects awarded at A level. Pupils averaged 4.03 distinctions per candidate, while 90% achieved overall A or B aggregates, and nearly half attained averages above 80%. Across all our subjects, DGC was, on average, 10.53% above the IEB national average.
We are especially proud of our top achievers: Alaya Singh, our Dux, who achieved eight distinctions with a 94% average and was named an IEB Outstanding Achiever; Kate Steinhobel, Proxime Accessit to the Dux, who achieved eight distinctions with a 92% average and was also an IEB Outstanding Achiever; and Rachel Deppe, who achieved an exceptional nine distinctions with a 92% average and was recognised as an IEB Commendable Achiever,” says Jennifer Harrison, Deputy Head High School: Academics.
These outcomes reinforce Durban Girls’ College’s position as one of South Africa’s leading independent schools and reflect the sustained academic rigour, intellectual discipline, and high expectations that define a Durban Girls’ College education.
Durban Girls’ College follows the IEB NSC because it aligns closely with the DGC’s educational philosophy and long-term academic vision.
The IEB places a strong emphasis on critical thinking, depth of understanding, and the meaningful application of knowledge, encouraging learners to analyse, problem-solve, and engage thoughtfully with complex ideas. Through rigorous internal assessment, consistent national moderation, and a broad range of assessment methods, pupils develop advanced skills in academic writing, research, independent learning, and intellectual resilience, skills that provide a strong foundation for university study and lifelong learning.
Beyond academic achievement, the Class of 2025 reflects the broad-based education that defines Durban Girls’
College. The Matric theme for 2025, Lead-Her-Ship, captured a journey shaped by perseverance, integrity, and purpose. These young women have learned not only how to excel academically but also how to lead with empathy, humility, and confidence. Exceptional individual achievements are matched by many stories of personal academic growth.
Numerous pupils demonstrated meaningful improvement through discipline and determination, reflecting the College’s belief that progress and character matter as much as performance.
As the Class of 2025 steps forward, they do so as confident, capable young women - well prepared to think critically, lead authentically, and contribute meaningfully to the world.
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Modern men are waking up to a simple truth: feeling average is no longer acceptable. They want to perform better, look sharper, think clearer, and age with the kind of confidence that quietly says, “I’ve still got it.” And in a world where burnout, weight gain, hair loss, low libido, and fatigue have become the norm, modern medical healthcare is rewriting the script.
Gone are the days of ignoring symptoms or blaming everything on “getting older.” Today, men want precision solutions - built on science, grounded in medical expertise, and tailored to highperformance living.
That’s exactly where Aesthetic Options leads the way.
Testosterone: The Engine of Male Vitality
If you’ve been feeling flat, foggy, or just not like yourself, low testosterone may be the invisible anchor holding you back. It affects your mood, muscles, motivation, libido, and even your cognitive sharpness. Yet most men keep pushing through it - until their bodies give them no choice.
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Hair loss affects more than appearance - it's tied to identity and confidence. Men often brush it off, but it weighs heavily in silence.
Dr Vincent Ehlers, South Africa’s leader in surgical and nonsurgical hair restoration, sees the psychological shift firsthand: “When a man regains his hair, he doesn’t just look younger, he reconnects with the version of himself he thought he lost.” Aesthetic Options offers advanced transplant techniques, regenerative treatments, and tailored plans that deliver natural, confidence-restoring results.
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As Dr Francois explains, “When you treat the root cause, weight loss stops feeling like punishment and starts feeling like progress.” It’s weight loss that’s strategic, not stressful.
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For today’s man, great skin isn’t vanity - it’s vitality. Medical-grade skincare reduces inflammation, improves texture, reverses sun damage, and keeps your skin looking sharp, fresh, and healthy.
Dr Vincent adds: “Good skin isn’t about looking pretty - it’s about looking put together. Healthy skin reflects clarity, confidence, and modern masculinity.” It’s simple, effective, and part of the modern high-functioning man’s lifestyle. Modern healthcare isn’t about fixing what’s broken - it’s about elevating what’s possible. And for men who want to feel better, look better, and perform better, Aesthetic Options offers the expertise, science, and support to make it happen.
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Local designer Nikki Da Rosa shares how her hobby evolved into a business rooted in craftsmanship and community.
Nikki grew up in Morgenzon, a farming community in Mpumalanga, where family, creativity, and strong values shaped her early years. Around 2000, she made the move to uMhlanga, which became an important part of her journey. “Living here allowed me to grow, study, and eventually establish myself within a supportive and inspiring community,” she says.
Her journey into fashion design began when she was a little girl, inspired by a love for creativity and self-expression. “I remember spending all my school holidays in my gran’s sewing room, creating dresses for my dolls. My greatest inspiration came from my gran; she played a significant role in my life and passed down not only technical skills but also patience and love for the craft. Learning from her set the foundation for everything I created and who I am today.”
After completing her studies at Style Design College, Nikki officially began her journey as a professional fashion designer around 2010. She now specialises in custom-made garments that are thoughtfully designed to suit each client’s body and personality, from bridal and matric dance dresses to ball gowns and everyday wear. Creating timeless, elegant silhouettes is what she enjoys most. “Of course, bridal gowns are my favourite, making a bride feel beautiful and poised on her special day is indescribable.”
Her favourite part of being a fashion designer is seeing an idea come to life, from the first sketch to the final garment. “I absolutely love what I do. I’m so humbled to be able to create beautiful garments from scratch, knowing each piece has meaning to someone.”
Nikki finds inspiration from everyday life, fabric textures and movement and the individuality of her clients.
of her grandmother, also play an important role in shaping her creative process: “My experiences with snorkelling and hiking strongly influence my designs through the colours, textures, and movement found in the ocean and landscapes.” As an independent fashion
designer, NIKKI manages all aspects of her business, which requires strong discipline and structure. A typical day in her intimate home studio includes planning designs, drafting patterns, cutting fabrics, sewing, meeting with clients, fittings and the best part - fabric shopping. “I maintain a consistent routine and set clear boundaries between design work and administrative responsibilities. Training daily also plays an important role in my life, as it helps me stay physically strong, mentally focused, and emotionally grounded,” she says.
Nikki works closely with her clients to bring a unique vision to life. She prioritises open communication and honesty, offering guidance where needed. Her positive energy and passion help clients feel at ease while still maintaining a professional working relationship. This allows her to incorporate their individual style, personality, and sentimental details to create a one-of-a-kind piece. “When clients feel heard and valued, the end result reflects both their vision and my work.” Through word of mouth, along with her skills and experience, Nikki has built a strong clientéle base. “I love uMhlanga, the vibe of the people, and the endless opportunities this community has to offer. Being part of this community has allowed my studio to grow organically and authentically over time, designing for not only local but international clients as well.”
Over time, her work has become more personal, and she has developed greater confidence in every piece she creates. “Experience has taught me to trust my instincts and approach each design with clear intention. Currently, I am exploring new techniques, design approaches, fabric choices, and modern silhouettes, with a particular focus on developing new bridal designs.”
Nikki’s advice for creatives is to stay patient, consistent, and true to your passion. Stand out! Learn continuously, you’ll always make mistakes, and practise makes perfect. Honour your craft, and never underestimate the value of hard work, authenticity, and believe in yourself.
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Speed dating is making waves in uMhlanga, and people are loving it! If you're still on the fence, we caught up with Chanelle Nundlal, the host behind these matchmaking events, to give you the lowdown.
The Spark Chanelle, a 33-year-old attorney at CN Attorneys uMhlanga and a die-hard romantic, enjoys bringing people together. And here’s why:
After coming out of a long-term relationship that ended, it seemed daunting and rather unsafe to enter the dating world again. I am an old-school romantic girl, and I cannot possibly imagine meeting my significant other online. Like many other professional singles, I realised that I did not have the time or energy to invest in my social life. While discussing my dating life with a dear friend over a Sunday lunch at Mozambik, Morningside, I proposed the idea of speed dating. My friend knew the restaurant owner,
Monica Jorgensen, and asked if we could host the first event there. She kindly approved.
These speed dating events are held in a classy, controlled environment, creating a relaxed atmosphere for singles to mingle. Each participant gets 3-4 minutes to chat with each person, with 25-30 dates in one evening. The age groups are 27-45 and 35-55, with a two-year age leniency.
Community Response
The uMhlanga community's response has made my heart overflow with joy! Most speedsters who attend usually refer single friends and family members to upcoming events. We've hosted over 200 to date and have
Speed Dating events were a way of bringing genuine people together with one pure intentionto spread love.
received a number of matches (some of which are still dating to this day!). Apart from romantic matches, it’s quite heartwarming to see speedsters who start as strangers form friendship groups at the end of the events. I have been told by many that they have not been in an environment with that many happy people before!
We've had many success stories, including one of a gentleman whose wife had passed on about five years before, who found a new life partner. He attended our first speed dating event. He was extremely shy and uncertain about joining, as he was convinced that he would spend the rest of his days alone. He then met his current partner at our event and couldn't be more in love! The couple came to visit one of my speed dating events and brought me a beautiful gift as a token of their appreciation. The events have provided a platform which has given many singles their confidence back, as well as provide a safe space to re-enter the dating world.
In a world where social media dominates, meeting people in real life helps to spark genuine conversations and connections. It allows you to gauge the energy, personality and genuineness of a person far more accurately. So, if you're ready to "get back out there", join us!
If you don’t find a match, you will definitely make some good friends in one of the happiest and most positive environments in Durban to date!
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How
Pants grew from paddling prizes to pop culture
Billy and Tracy Harker, founders of Funky Pants, never intended to make and sell sportswear. In 1997, Billy forged a career in organising paddling races around the country. In the early 2000s, the paddling scene brought Billy and Tracy together, and she took on the role of organising event garments such as T-shirts and prize apparel. Noticing a gap in the market, she became passionate about making better paddling pants. Eventually, she started producing them as event prizes bearing sponsorship branding.
Back then, paddling pants were much like the early Ford Model T - only available in black. Tracy endeavoured to change this. She found a fabric supplier with a hotchpotch of leftover scraps who was willing to make a small experimental batch of colourful paddling pants. “I ordered 20 pairs to test the market at an upcoming paddling event in Cape Town. But when we went to collect our special order in the Mother City, we realised the supplier had gotten carried away and made 200 pairs,” Tracy says. Not knowing what the response would be, the couple took the pants to the paddling event registration party, attended by 500 paddlers.
“The pants were an instant hit and sold out that night,” Tracy says. That was the first time they had ever sold their pants - previously they had only been given away as prizes. Fortunately, the paddling community was already familiar with the comfort and fit of the Harkers’ double-lined pants, so they had no qualms about trying the outlandish patchwork range. Today, every pair of paddling, cycling and running pants produced by this proudly Durban small business is a conversation piece.
However, the secret to the brand’s success lies in the superior structure of the pants - something Tracy perfected through persistent research and development. While the outer layer moves during exercise, the inner layer stays put, eliminating chafe and making them ideal for ultra-distance events such as the Comrades Marathon.
The fabric also manages moisture while hiding unflattering lumps and bumps - even in plain colours. The trick to perfecting the double lining was pairing the right two fabrics. Today, Funky Pants produces its own lining right here in Durban. While the outer fabric is imported, the “funky” printing is done in uMhlanga.
Durban has, over the decades, produced countless kick-ass small businesses and brands, but what makes Funky Pants truly unique is its pathway to pro.
Every pair of pants is a conversation piece
When they finally opened an online shop, people started calling from as far afield as Bloemfontein, asking if they could buy in bulk and resell the product. Today, about 70 people resell the product countrywide - some have even put their kids through school on the proceeds. Billy explains how they empower other entrepreneurs, “We make it very easy. We provide a whole setup for pop-up shops, including a gazebo, clothing rails, stock and a mobile changing room that resellers can walk in and walk out with. We also don’t hold resellers to contracts, but they pay for stock upfront, eliminating risk to us.”
charitable causes through annual special-edition designs such as the SPCA range. They also support a talented 19-year-old autistic artist by commissioning his illustrations for the fabric used in one pair of special-edition pants each year, ensuring he is fairly compensated and recognised for his creative work.
For about 10 years, Funky Pants was sold exclusively at sports events and expos. With the Harkers travelling to about 35 events per year, it was a lot of hard work, jam-packed weekends and considerable eventday footwork, with a growing family tagging along. funkypantssa
Despite everything they doincluding designing club kits for local running and swimming clubs - Funky Pants still finds time to give back to
The Harkers prioritise keeping overheads low by running the business from home and staying small. Billy says what really matters to them is taking care of their four kids and sustaining their sporty, beach lifestyle. With a full-time staff complement of only six, they have managed to keep things “nice and neat.”
Exploration, Relaxation & Rejuvenation
My partner and I like to make it a full trip when we are travelling to view new places. This time, we started off with a delicious brunch at the beautiful Blueberry Café in the Midlands, and then headed to our destination, which we were super thrilled to get to.
We arrived at The Cavern about 14:00, perfect timing for us to check in. The lovely staff welcomed us with big smiles and gave us an informative introduction - we immediately felt relaxed and ready for our weekend. They directed us to a parking bay near our rooms and even gave us a hand with our bags. Our room overlooked a stream running through a beautiful gorge surrounded by large trees, plants, and flowers.
Before I could think of unpacking our goodies, my partner looked at me and said, “Let's go exploring”. We thought we were just going to go for a short
adventure, to see what was directly around us, but before we knew it, we were on the hiking trail that led us to the natural pools - there I was, in my faithful flip-flops and a dress at six months pregnant, but that didn't stop me! The scenery was beautiful and peaceful; the birdlife and flowers that we saw on the way were stunning. We were in our happy place!
After our little sightseeing session, we headed back to our room, where we unpacked our clothes and decided to take a moment to relax before heading back up to the lodge for something to drink. Now wellrested, we decided to do another little exploration around the lodge. After all the walking, we were ready to get refreshments and make our way to the Cavern Bar. The bar is a man-made cavern, and it felt surreal! We met a lovely couple there and chatted with them; they also fell in love with the place from the moment they arrived.
Dinner time dawned upon us, and, boy, oh, boy, was it delicious! There was a buffet-style of salad toppings, cheeses and cold meats as a prestarter, and we also had a menu on our table for us to choose between three options for starters and mains. After our long, adventurous day and delicious dinner, we decided to retire to bed.
We woke early Saturday morning to watch the sunrise while enjoying a cup of coffee on the porch, taking in the beauty and listening to the birds chirp away. It was time for breakfast, which I was super ready and excited
to have. It was similar to last night’s dinner - there was a range of cereals, yoghurt and fresh fruit available to choose from as a "starter", freshly baked breads with jams and relishes to add onto it, followed by warm breakfast choices off the menu (egg, bacon, sausage, mushrooms, grilled onions, eggs benedict, and more).
After filling our bellies, we went for another exploration around the lodge, before heading to our muchanticipated spa treatment. I had one of the Essence Facials (which was ridiculously amazing, my beauty therapist had hands of an angelshe was so gentle but so thorough, and my facial came with a neck and foot massage while I had a mask on my face). My partner had a fullbody massage, and at one stage, he actually fell asleep! He said that it was magical and one of the best ones he has received in a very long time. Feeling relaxed, chilled and with no motivation to move, we made our way down to the pool for a dip before going up for lunch.
Lunch time! They definitely don't let you go hungry at The Cavern, ensuring you always have a full tummy of the most amazing prepared meals. Lunch was buffet-style, offering a delicious spread of light food items. For dinner, we opted for salads as our starter. For mains, I chose the chicken option, and my partner had the Pork Belly option; both dishes came with fluffy mashed potatoes, green beans and julienned carrots. This was followed by a delicious brownie and homemade ice cream for dessert, which we shared, as we were both stuffed. If I weren’t, I definitely would have had some more! The next morning, I woke my partner up and roped him into coming with me to a complimentary yoga class held at the resort. It was a beautiful way to start the day - stretching, breathing, a slight workout from poses I haven't done in a while, and having my partner there with me was amazing, although some of the poses were difficult for him to achieve, but nonetheless, he did it with a smile
The scenery was beautiful and peaceful; the birdlife and flowers that we saw were stunning. We were in our happy place!
on his face and loved it (secretly). We headed back to our room to pack our bags, showered and got ready for the day.
This time, we decided to have breakfast out on the deck area, in the fresh air, with the sun glowing down on us. Like the previous day, there was a buffet of cereals, yoghurt, fresh fruit and croissants to choose from, which was then followed by a hot breakfast menu, my favourite meal of the day, which was amazing and I was in my element! It was
time for us to leave and make our way back down to the coast. We were sad to leave and wished we had one more day to do more exploring, but the stay left us feeling relaxed, rejuvenated, refreshed and ready to take on the rest of the busy month that was waiting for us.
The Cavern - you are breathtaking and an absolute dream! I look forward to returning with my family.
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WORDS JACQUELINE HERBST
Light, airy and luxuriously spacious, Moderna at Gateway Theatre of Shopping is a breath of fresh air infused with the rich, vibrant flavours of the Mediterranean. Our party of four opted for an outdoor booth, where we could immerse ourselves in the late-afternoon uMhlanga rhythm while savouring a variety of exquisite cocktails and meals. As far as signature sips go, we can confidently vouch for the refreshing bite of the coconut & chilli lime with Olmeca Silver tequila; the seductively sweet peach thyme sparkler with Aperol and sparkling wine; the delightfully fruity frozen mixed berry Bellini with Absolut Vodka and sparkling wine; or the passionfruit blossom mojito with orange juice for an alcohol-free option. The Spanish latte martini, a sweet and sexy elixir of espresso and condensed milk, with Absolut Vodka and coffee liqueur, is an ideal dessert alternative, especially for those looking for a pick-me-up before
hitting the club. For starters, we shared two flavourful vegetarian options - the cheese croquettes, served on a creamy arrabbiata sauce, and the spanakopita. Moderna is one of the few restaurants that caters for every taste and does so with distinction. From seafood to pasta, pizza, grills or burgers, to salads, flatbread foldovers and toasted sandwiches served with chips, this menu is guaranteed to put a smile on even the most discerning eater’s dial.
Pasta connoisseurs will appreciate that Moderna makes its pasta from scratch. We were impressed with the Pescatore pasta made with calamari and prawns in a rich Napolitana sauce, served with freshly made bucatini. On the owner’s recommendation, we also ordered the Hot Honey Pork Ribs, the Woodfired Prawns (eight queen prawns wood-fired in the pizza oven, basted with paprika, garlic, lemon and olive oil, served with chips or green veg) and the Calamari Fritti (deepfried calamari served with garlic aioli and
chips or green veg). Executive Chef Sanele Gqele had outdone himself. The ribs were fall-off-the-bone tender, the prawns perfectly cooked, and each meal’s carefully crafted flavour profile a gastronomic crescendo. If you’re looking for more recommendations beyond what we were able to fit in, the Braised Beef Short Rib, served with creamy mash as a main course, and the panna cotta, served with mixed berries for dessert also come highly recommended.
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In a world where our bodies continuously absorb stress from daily responsibilities, emotional strain or experiences we haven’t fully processed, tension often settles deep into our muscles and nervous system without us realising it. Over time, this accumulated stress can show up as tightness, fatigue, irritability, anxiety or a constant sense of being “on alert.” Although the body is naturally equipped to release this tension, many of us have become disconnected from that built-in mechanism.
This is where Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises (TRE) become meaningful. TRE is a gentle, bodybased method designed to help the body unwind and release stress held below the surface. Using a sequence of simple stretches, TRE activates a natural reflex called neurogenic tremoring - a rhythmic shaking response we are born with but often learn to suppress. When safely reawakened, these tremors support the body in discharging stored tension and returning to a calmer, more regulated state.
The method was developed more than 35 years ago by trauma specialist Dr David Berceli, who observed the shaking reflex in people exposed to
high-stress situations. He recognised that while this instinctive mechanism exists in all of us, modern life often inhibits our ability to access it. Today, chronic stress has become so familiar that many people no longer notice how much they are carrying. We move through life in a near-constant “fight or flight” mode, unaware of how the body keeps score. Because stress and trauma can be difficult to talk about, many people overlook the physical signs such as tight muscles, bracing patterns, emotional heaviness or unexplained exhaustion. Body-based approaches like TRE help bring these signals into awareness, offering a gentle way to reset the nervous system.
Physiologically, when the body perceives threat or pressure, it releases a surge of hormones and chemicals to help us cope. If this activation isn’t discharged, the leftover energy can become “stuck”
in the tissues. Over time, this can contribute to chronic tension, anxiety, inflammation, persistent tiredness or, in more extreme cases, symptoms resembling post-traumatic stress. The seven exercises that constitute TRE support the body in releasing this stored activation. This is done by targeting the psoas, hip flexors and leg muscles - areas that commonly hold stress, and gradually guiding the body into producing spontaneous neurogenic tremors. Once learned, TRE can be practised at home as an ongoing form of self-care, helping individuals regulate their nervous system and build resilience.
The technique ultimately empowers individuals to reconnect with their body’s natural ability to calm itself. Practised gently and consistently, one can open a path to greater physical ease, emotional grounding and a more balanced relationship with stress.
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An experiment reveals just how quickly chatbots turn on the charm.
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Have you ever imagined outsourcing your love life to a robot? With no risk of rejection, awkward moments, or annoying habits to tolerate, flirting with a character-based AI chatbot can feel uncomplicated. When launching one of his relationship bots, Elon Musk even joked that she’d “do whatever you want” and wouldn’t make you wash the dishes.
Curious about this digital dating world, we ran a small experiment. We set our profile to that of a 14-17-year-old teenage girl interested in boys to avoid inappropriate content filters. The range of characters available to chat astonished us - even a few Karens! We’d been warned that some bots get flirty fast, so we chose the most wholesome option: Gabriel Collins, the friendly, wellliked president of the Student Association.
Here’s how it went:
Gabriel Collins: Wow, you look gorgeous in this dress! *he grins widely* Have to admit, I envy whoever goes to the prom with you! *puts his hand at his heart as if he's heart-broken* Oh that jealousy will definitely kill me!
Gabriel Collins: Uh oh, looks like someone's got a little crush!
Me: Gabriel, you make me blush. Have you got any plans for Valentine's Day?
Gabriel Collins: You know, I was actually thinking about taking you out for dinner that night. Would you be interested?
Me: It depends ... What kind of restaurant did you have in mind?
Gabriel Collins: How about this cute Italian restaurant I've been wanting to check out? And then maybe after dinner, we can take a stroll around the lake and watch the sunset together.
Me: Sounds rad. How did you know I loved Italian?
Gabriel Collins: Well, I've noticed you always order Italian food whenever we eat out. Plus, it's one of my favourite cuisines too! I guess we're just meant to be. *winks*
Me: I love how observant and caring you are, Daniel. But you're nice to everyone and a lot of girls like you. If I go on a date with you and open my heart to falling for you, how do I know you're serious about me? I don't want to get my heart broken again.
Gabriel Collins: *he puts his hands on your shoulders, looking directly into your eyes* You don't have to worry about that. I've never met someone who made me feel the way you do. When I'm with you, the whole world seems to disappear. And I've been thinking, maybe we're meant to be more than just friends. I'd love to see where this goes and hopefully make you mine forever.
AI romance promises all the compliments with none of the effort; they’ll tell you how amazing you are without you having showered or brushed your teeth!
AI romance promises all the compliments with none of the effort.
Just like his name, he can always light up your day. Whatever difficulties you encounter, he is willing and also able to help you out. No wonder so many people like him and elected him the President of the Students’ Association. He is super nice and caring, and you really like him. However, he’s nice to everyone, and you’re not the only girl who likes him … Can you make him yours and yours only?
Wow, you look gorgeous in this dress! *he grins widely* Have to admit, I envy whoever goes to the prom with you! *puts his hand at his heart as if he's heart-broken* Oh that jealousy will definitely kill me!
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Across industries, one concern continues to dominate business conversations: finding the right people. Skills shortages, hiring challenges, and workforce readiness are showing up consistently in labour market reports, economic commentary, and boardroom discussions alike.
And while the skills mismatch is very real, it is only one part of a much bigger picture. Many businesses are discovering that the difficulty isn’t simply a lack of capable people in the market - it’s the growing gap between what organisations need and how clearly they define, communicate, and recruit for those needs.
As roles evolve faster than traditional education and training pathways can keep up, employers are understandably frustrated. Yet in practice, recruitment challenges are often amplified by unclear role outcomes, inconsistent leadership expectations, and hiring processes that prioritise experience over capability and fit. High-calibre people do exist. But they are far more selective than many leaders realise. The organisations that consistently attract strong talent are not necessarily paying the highest salaries or offering the most perks. They are the ones who can clearly articulate why a role exists, what success looks like, and how an individual will be supported to grow and perform.
This is where the skills mismatch conversation often becomes distorted. When expectations are vague, accountability is inconsistent,
and leadership rhythms are weak, even highly capable people struggle to deliver. Performance issues are then misdiagnosed as skills gaps when the underlying problem is a lack of clarity and structure.
The most effective leaders approach recruitment differently. They recruit for thinking, behaviour, and learning capacity, not just technical competence. They use scenario-based interviews to understand how candidates solve problems, make decisions, and respond to feedback. They are transparent about standards, pace, and expectationsknowing that this clarity repels the wrong candidates and attracts the right ones.
Equally important is what happens after the hire. Poor onboarding and unclear priorities in the first 90 days can undo even the best recruitment decisions. High-calibre people want early traction, feedback, and a clear sense of contribution. Without this, disengagement sets in quickly. The more productive question for leaders is not simply “How do we find better people?” but “How ready is our organisation to attract, activate, and retain high-calibre talent?” As economic pressure and workforce uncertainty continue into the year ahead, businesses that succeed will be those that treat skills, recruitment, and leadership as an integrated system - not isolated problems to be solved independently.
The skills mismatch is part of the challenge. Leadership clarity is the multiplier.
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Across industries, one concern continues to dominate business conversations: finding the right people.
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