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We got some responses to Lee DeVito’s cover story about artist Alia Alia’s new installation dedicated to Yemeni culture at the Arab American National Museum.
I was just there on Saturday, the art is amazing! —@motorcityninja, Twitter Incredibly honored by the feature attention and care put to the monument — our monument — and to the narratives. —@studio.alia.ali, Instagram We’re honored and thrilled that “al-Falaq” is being shared with our community. Much appreciation to @studio.alia.ali for trusting
us with this monument. —@arabamericanmuseum, Instagram We also got feedback on Tom Perkins’s review of La Jalisciense in Southwest Detroit. Superb authentic Mexican fare! Sunday lunch… —Tim Celovsky, Facebook Love this spot and happy to see them doing so well. Been eating here for years. —@mrbohl, Instagram Thank you so much for the feature. We’re so grateful and honored! —@lajalisciense1, Instagram Sound off: letters@metrotimes.com.
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NEWS & VIEWS The problem of narrative: Ukraine vs. Palestine The ongoing conflict has exposed double standards in how the West covers war B y Sharmin Akhtar
It has been just over two months
since R ussia invaded U kraine, which triggered harsh responses from the West — as well as accusations of hypocrisy and double standards. A s airstrikes continue causing carnage, civilians are being targeted, buildings are being shelled, and an emerging refugee crisis is looming over E urope. If this sounds all too familiar, it’s because it has happened for a very long time — only not in E urope, but notably in P alestine and other countries in the Middle E ast and A frica. It was less than a year ago when P alestine faced one of its biggest aerial bombardments in recent times, which claimed the lives of at least 2 5 5 P alestinians. It seemed that the P alestinian narrative had finally gained momentum in the international arena, yet little was done in comparison to the efforts made for U kraine. Sanctions on R ussian oligarchs and asset freezes have been imposed, but now Facebook and Instagram will temporarily allow posts calling for violence against R ussians or P utin’s death, according to a R euters report. This unprecedented move is a curious decision considering so many pro-P alestine posts were removed last year by the same platforms. 7amleh, a nonprofit organization focused on enabling P alestinian society to effectively use social media, had received more than 2 0 0 complaints about deleted posts and suspended accounts related to Sheikh J arrah, the P alestinian neighborhood in E ast J erusalem which faced forced evictions and home demolitions, leading to the onset of last year’s violence between Israel and H amas. The conflict in Ukraine revived such double standards, as social media users were quick to highlight the contrast between P alestine and U kraine in the media and western governments’ responses. C J Werlemen, a journalist and activist against Islamophobia, tweeted that those who offer support for Palestinian resistance are often alluded to terrorism — something that seems to not be applicable for those who support
A residential building in Kyiv, Ukraine damaged by Russian aircraft.
U kraine’s right to self-defense. A n old picture of P alestinian activist A hed Tamimi was also making rounds on TikTok and Twitter — mistaken for a U krainian girl standing up to a R ussian soldier, until the false claim was quickly debunked. Many expressed anger based on the double standards of resisting when one is mistaken as “white.” U krainian president V olodymyr Z elenskyy echoed this sentiment in a televised interview with the BBC when he said, “This is very emotional for me because I see E uropean people with blue eyes and blond hair being killed, children being killed every day.” The footage went viral on social media among other news coverage. O ne journalist posted a thread of such news coverage being “inaccurate and dangerous.” A nother resemblance emerged between the two countries when R ussian airstrikes destroyed a children’s hospital and a maternity ward in Mariupol. A couple of days before, a maternity hospital was also shelled in the city of Z hytomyr, where new mothers and their babies had to be evacuated. A mnesty International and the U krainian president equated the indiscriminate attacks on civilians as war crimes. This plea from U kraine reverberated with its western allies, as sympathy poured in along with sanctions to block Moscow from the global economy.
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But where were these sanctions when schools, mosques, media towers, and hospitals were targeted by Israel last year? O n a much smaller scale, the international BD S ( Boycott, D ivest, Sanction) movement against Israeli goods did just that. Last year was a turning point for P alestine, as it was apparent that the P alestinians won the narrative through social media and public pressure which triggered well-known companies like Ben & J erry’s to halt production in the Israeli-occupied P alestinian territory. C onsidering the actions that are taken against R ussia, it is obvious to see why many will agree that BD S is the legitimate action to take against an occupying force. H owever, it has angered many that while pressing action against R ussia, the U .S. and other governments have resisted similar measures against Israel. In March, U .S. secretary of state A nthony Blinken condemned R ussia during a U .N . human rights council session. In the same speech, Blinken made it a point to highlight Israel. “We will continue to counter anti-Israel bias and the unfair and disproportionate focus on Israel on the C ouncil” he said, adding that the council’s investigation into Israel’s crimes “are a stain on the C ouncil’s credibility.”
P alestinian or not, such grievances seem to have fallen on deaf ears as the U .S. has presented an exceptional rule for Israel and another for the rest of the world. The danger trickles down in stifling such arguments and reinforcing these double standards that either people of color or religion can only be confined in. Such rhetoric from the U .S. government have repercussions closer to home, here in D etroit. In J une 2 0 2 1 , Wayne State U niversity P resident M. R oy Wilson was accused of censoring the WSU student senate from using the school’s email listerv to pass a statement on the Israeli-P alestinian conflict. In a statement to Metro Times, Wilson said he supports the freedom of speech of students. “By making available the use of a university listserv, a university resource, it could be construed that the Student Senate statement represented the views of the university, which it did not,” he said. “H owever, we strongly support their free expression.” Like academic institutions, students were forced to remain impartial to the conflict. K ay Moussaoui, 2 4 , a law student at WSU , observed that law students “are afraid to speak up because if they are looking for a corporate job, they don’t want to be caught in the C anary Mission”. The C anary Mission documents individuals caught in P alestine protests or promote pro-P alestinian sentiment. It contains students, professors, activists, and organizations like BD S, Al Jaz eera, and J ewish V oice for P eace. Student activist H usam K aid, 2 3 , from N ew Y ork is one of many youths blacklisted for protesting and being associated with organizations like Student for J ustice in P alestine and the C ouncil on A merican-Islamic R elations ( C A IR ) . H e argues that many students who are documented on the C anary Mission become “unemployable” when they graduate, especially when the funding is linked to wealthy zionist organisations such as WSU . A nother law student from G eorgetown U niversity shared a post. “When P alestinian students asked the D ean at G eorgetown Law why our school was staying silent about Israel bombing & killing over 2 5 0 ppl G aza & desecrating A l-A qsa during E id & R amadan of 2 0 2 1 , we were told ‘ G eorgetown doesn’t comment on international issues.’ The University put out a statement to offer prayers for the victims of the R ussian invasion,” the post read.
NEWS & VIEWS Election officials investigating ‘massive fraud’ Complaints allege James Craig’s campaign fraudulently obtained signatures to get on ballot B y Steve Neavling
Republican gubernatorial
candidate J ames C raig and his campaign are accused of engaging in “massive fraud” to obtain petition signatures to get his name on the A ugust primary ballot. The Michigan D emocratic P arty is challenging the nominating petitions, alleging the campaign forged thousands of signatures. “I have never seen such evidence of forgery and fraud in a petition drive in the nearly 4 0 years I have been practicing election law in Michigan,” attorney Mark rewer, who filed the challenge, said last week. “It’s very clear that C raig did not file , valid signatures. e and his criminal gang achieved , only by massive forgery.” Similar allegations were leveled against C raig’s campaign last week by a political action committee that supports R epublican gubernatorial candidate Tudor D ixon. “A fter our review of C raig’s petitions, we concluded that the combination of incompetence, invalidity, unregistered voters and apparent fraud means that there is a strong probability that C raig su mitted insu cient signatures to qualify as a R epublican candidate for governor,” Fred Wszolek, spokesman for Michigan Strong P A C , said in a news release. C raig’s campaign attempted to submit an additional 4 ,2 0 0 signatures last week but missed the deadline by about minutes. The Michigan D emocratic P arty also challenged the nominating petitions for D ixon, a former host of a conservative TV show, and businessman P erry J ohnson. They also are accused of fraud and forgery. D emocrats say all of D ixon’s signatures should be rejected because the petitions incorrectly listed 2 0 2 6 for the expiration date of the gubernatorial term on her petitions, instead of the accurate date of an. , 7. There is a precedent for disqualifying a candidate for failing to properly fill out nominating petitions. In ,
state election o cials removed U. . ouse candidate Matt Morgan, a D emocrat, from the ballot for listing a P .O . Box, instead of a street address, on his petitions. “Those are mandatory petition requirements,” Steven Liedel, an attorney with the firm ykema, said. ll of the other gubernatorial candidates managed to get this correct.” The three R epublican candidates are accused of forging the signatures of dead people and others and adding duplicate signatures as part of an alleged scheme that D emocrats call disqualifying and criminal. “Forgery is a crime,” Liedel said. “It demonstrates to us an apparent pattern of fraudulent activity.” D emocrats are asking the Michigan Bureau of E lections and the Board of C anvassers to investigate and ultimately disqualify the R epublican candidates. In the complaint against C raig, rewer alleges that nearly 7, of the more than , signatures from his campaign were forged. Brewer called the petition circulators “a gang of forgers.” Michigan D emocratic P arty C hair Lavora Barnes said R epublicans have shown indifference to following the law. e have seen significant fraud and forgery in these petitions that were filed y epu lican gu ernatorial candidates, arnes said. This entire field has demonstrated time and again that they are radical, irresponsible, and will not be held accountable — this pattern, evident yet again, through massive amounts of fraud and forgery.” Metro Times couldn’t reach the three R epublican candidates for comment. In a written response, the Michigan R epublican P arty dismissed the challenges as a shallow, last ditch effort to remove viable challengers to G ov. G retchen Whitmer. It s clear the fi is in y emocrats to try and prevent our candidates from qualifying for the ballot against G retchen Whitmer, and it’s their most
desperate move yet to take away choice from working Michiganders struggling to make ends meet thanks to D emocrats,” G ustavo P ortela, MIG O P spokesman, said. “They will not silence R epublican candidates who are going to fight for working Michiganders and ensure they are able to keep more of their hard-earned dollars. e re fighting to make Michigan a more afforda le place to live and it s clear that goes against what D emocrats like G retchen Whitmer and J oe Biden want. A fter the dust has settled from this desperate attempt, a R epublican G overnor will be elected by working Michiganders to bring prosperity and opportunity back to Michigan.”
Craig’s ‘gang of forgers’ also committed fraud for another campaign, complaint alleges The eight petition circulators who are accused of “massive criminal fraud” to obtain signatures for C raig’s gubernatorial campaign allegedly did the same thing for an O akland C ounty judicial candidate. O akland C ounty A ssistant P rosecutor Tricia D are’s campaign for a seat on the O akland C ounty C ircuit C ourt used the same eight circulators as C raig to collect about 4 ,2 0 0 signatures to get her name on the ballot. In a page complaint filed with the Michigan Bureau of E lections last week, the circulators are accused of working together to submit fake signatures on D are’s nominating petitions. Many of the signatures share the same handwriting, and several voters signed a davits saying their names were forged on the petitions, according to the complaint. “There are numerous examples of signature irregularities included, but not limited to, the same handwriting on the same numbered lines of each circulator’s petition, using initials as signatures in the same handwriting,
using the same person to sign multiple signatures for the same circulator and other circulators, and the similar repeating pattern of alleged cities in which the signatures were allegedly procured,” the complaint states. The complaint was submitted by K ay I. Shelton, the wife of A manda Shelton, an opponent of are s. hen she filed the complaint, Shelton tells Metro Times that she was unaware of the allegations against C raig’s circulators. “I was shocked but also relieved that others were seeing what I was seeing: an orchestrated mass signature fraud scheme,” Shelton says. The allegations are very similar to those made against C raig’s campaign. A ttorney Brewer tells Metro Times that the dual complaints are “independent validation of each other’s allegations of forgery.” “It was not surprising to me that they were forging signatures on behalf of other campaigns,” Brewer says. “I have been aware of this gang doing this before. I was eager for an opportunity to go after them.” The circulators accused of fraud are Stephen Tinnin of Wixom, Y azmine V asser of Troy, D eshawn E vans of arper oods, icholas arlton of D etroit, William Williams of D etroit, D iallo V aughn of O ak P ark, J onell ampton of Mississippi, and orey ampton of Mississippi. They have not been charged with a crime, and it’s not yet clear whether police plan to investigate. The Michigan Bureau of E lections is tasked with reviewing petition challenges and signatures. Based on the findings, the ureau drafts a report and makes a recommendation to the Board of State C anvassers, which is responsible for making a determination on the validity of signatures. C andidates who don’t submit the required number of valid signatures are dis ualified from the allot. “I hope there will be a complete and thorough investigation of the fraudulent signatures at the state level for all the candidates who used these circulators — not just the governor’s race,” Shelton says. “If there was a crime committed here in O akland C ounty, I hope that the appropriate county law enforcement and prosecutors o ces will also conduct a thorough investigation and bring charges against anyone who participated in, aided, or abetted any scheme to submit a false signature or petition.” Metro Times couldn’t reach D are for comment.
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Kellogg’s exec compared union leaders to ‘terrorists’ in leaked audio B y Steve Neavling
A top executive at K ellogg C o. compared union leaders to “terrorists” following a 1 0 -week cereal plant strike, according to audio recordings obtained by The Intercept. K en H urley, vice president in charge of union negotiations, made the statement about union tactics in a meeting last week with lawyers and “union suppression consultants” “In my view, the union leadership at the bargaining table were behaving more like terrorists than partners,” H urley said. H urley said union leaders were aggressive and emboldened by social media and other strikes last year. The Bakery, C onfectionery, Tobacco Workers, and G rain Millers’ International U nion ( BC TG M) , which represented K ellogg’s workers, “really became somewhat intoxicated” by work stoppages, including ones at plants owned by Frito-Lay and N abisco, H urley said. U nions also got support from Secretary of Labor Marty Walsh, who walked with workers along the picket line in P ennsylvania, and P resident J oe Biden, who criticized the company s efforts to replace striking employees with nonunion workers. H urley called Biden’s statement “an anti-K ellogg public release,” saying, “We were really getting it from both barrels.” In a written statement, K ellogg C hairman and C E O Steve C ahillane tried to distance the company from H urley’s statements. “We are just learning about these statements, as they were not authorized by K ellogg. We are embarrassed as a company — the comments and the tone in which they were delivered do not reflect the values of our organization or our position,” C ahillane said. “We sincerely apologize. We have a long and productive history of working with our unions. We fully expect that
Kellogg’s CEO apologized and tried to distance the company from the statements.
will continue moving forward.” H urley’s remarks drew criticism from Trevor Bidelman, president of BC TG M Local 3 G , which represents workers at the Battle C reek plant. “This is a company that keeps coming to the table with hundreds of millions of dollars of profit yet thinks it’s O K to take away from the worker. That’s what this strike boiled down to,” Bidelman said. The strike ended in D ecember with the approval of a five year contract for the , affected workers.
Nature is healing
A U niversity of Windsor student recently caught an extraordinary sight on video while on a walk near the A mbassador Bridge. “A straight-up river otter in the D etroit R iver!” E ric Ste Marie says in the footage, taken on A pril 2 5 and posted to Facebook two days later. “H ave you ever heard of something so controversial? ” H e added, “It’s the last thing I was expecting.” While the semi-aquatic mammals were once a common sightin Michigan, they were heavily hunted along with beavers during the fur trade of the 1 8 0 0 s. By the early 2 0 th century, they were largely eradicated from the D etroit R iver, according to G reat Lakes Now. The O hio D epartment of N atural R esources started reintroducing otters to rivers in the state in 1 9 8 6 , and the species repopulated, spreading west. In 2 0 1 9 , they were spotted at P oint P elee ational Park in ntario, the first time they had been seen there since 1 9 1 8 . Ste Marie’s sighting on A pril 2 5 was the first photographic evidence of an otter in the D etroit R iver in recent
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years, according to G reat Lakes Now. E nvironmentalists view the sighting as a hopeful sign of the river healing from pollution from the industrial age. “The D etroit Z oo is so excited to hear that the D etroit R iver is now clean enough for river otters and is committed to working with regional partners to further conservation efforts, including for river otters,” the D etroit Z oo’s E lizabeth A rbaugh told G reat Lakes Now. Beavers have also been making a comeback in the D etroit R iver, appearing on elle Isle for the first time in a century about a decade ago. E arlier this year, the Michigan D epartment of N atural R esources killed four beavers living along the river to control their population on the island park, which has seen damage to trees and flooding. —Lee DeVito
seat McMorran P lace arena. The team was originally announced in 2 0 2 0 , but the C O V ID -1 9 pandemic delayed its launch. O n Friday, the R ockers announced a new ownership group of seven local business owners and professionals. “We couldn’t be more excited to bring the R ockers to metro D etroit,” co-owner N ick Field said in a statement. “This is something we’ve been working on for a couple of years and we intend to deliver a competitive, entertaining, game-day experience for all of our fans who love hockey as much as we do.” More information is available at mcrockershockey.com. —Lee DeVito
New pro hockey team Motor City Rockers ready to play in Macomb County
N ow’s your chance to get tickets to some of the summer’s hottest concerts for just $ 2 5 — no additional fees. Live entertainment companies Live N ation and 3 1 3 P resents announced the return of their C oncert Week promotion, which starts at 1 0 a.m. on Wednesday, May 4 through Tuesday, May 1 0 , or while supplies last. P articipating venues include the recently rechristened P ine K nob Music Theatre, Little C aesars A rena, the Fox Theatre, Michigan Lottery A mphitheatre, and Meadow Brook A mphitheatre. A nd concerts span all genres, from H alsey, O neR epublic, The C hicks, the Who, Wiz K halifa, Wu-Tang C lan, N as, and Z ac Brown Band, among many others. The tickets are available at livenation.com/ concertweek and 3 1 3 P resents. com. —Lee DeVito
H ockeytown has a new minor league hockey team. The Motor C ity R ockers will start their first season in the fall as the newest members of the Federal P rospects H ockey League ( FP H L) , a low-level C lass A professional hockey league. The team, whose name is an apparent nod to metro D etroit’s contributions to rock ’n’ roll, will play at the 3 ,4 0 0 -seat Big Boy A rena in Fraser in Macomb C ounty. The R ockers enter the league as the 1 0 th member of the FP H L, joining teams from N ew Y ork, C onnecticut, G eorgia, N orth C arolina, D elaware, Mississippi, and Michigan’s P ort H uron, where the P ort H uron P rowlers play at the 3 ,4 0 0 -
This week, you can get $25 all-in tickets to metro Detroit concerts
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Joe Biden and the ‘submerged state’ effre
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According to a new book by N ew Y ork Times journalists J onathan Martin and A lex Burns, Senate Majority Leader Mitch McC onnell was privately terrified that the child ta credit emocrats included in last year’s A merican R escue P lan would catch on and become impossible for R epublicans to reverse — much like the fforda le are ct. o need for alarm, however. en. oe Manchin killed an extension of the tax credit when he killed the Build Back etter plan. Parents pro a ly shot that extra cash straight into their veins, mused Manchin, who drives a Maserati. In any event, the tax credit wasn’t as popular as Mc onnell feared. ther emocratic initiatives such as lowering prescription drug costs and expanding Medicare polled etter. nd in an P survey, only 1 5 % of respondents said the $ 3 0 0 per child per month was helping them a lot. P art of the reason, it seems, is that the money was going out as fast as it came in — to food, school supplies, and household e penses. ut a igger political issue is that A mericans tend not to recognize the role that the federal government plays in their lives. In 2 0 1 1 , the political scientist Suzanne Mettler coined the term “the submerged state to e plain this idea. In short, Mettler argued that most of what the government does is invisible, and the programs toward which emocrats gravitate social programs that end up being complicated tax plans, health care programs managed by private corporations — leave many mericans who enefit from government ignorant of the enefits they received. “The submerged state obscures the role of government and exaggerates that of the market. It leaves citizens unaware of the source of programs and unable to form meaningful opinions a out them, Mettler wrote. s avid eonhardt recently wrote for the N ew Y ork Times, this idea goes a long way toward explaining P resident
Most of what the government does is invisible, leaving many Americans who benefit from government ignorant of the benefits they received.
oe iden s political woes. Whereas progressive programs like the ew eal, ocial ecurity, Medicare, and the G I Bill couldn’t be avoided, the products of the A merican R escue P lan — a massive infusion of cash into a troubled economy — often went unnoticed. “E xamples in the A merican R escue P lan include community center renovations, housing initiatives and health programs, eonhardt wrote. ollectively, the pro ects may e valua le. Individually, many may be so modest as to go unnoticed. mericans also may not realize that the projects are connected to a federal law. That creates a cycle emocrats pass a policy; voters don’t notice; polls turn against emocrats emocrats decide they did too much emocrats get crushed at the polls. That’s why there’s no appetite to take another pass at even a scaled-down version of uild ack etter. emocrats think that whatever they do will feed the narrative that they spend big ut don t deliver results. o instead, they’ll alienate swing voters who blame them for inflation and young voters who blame them for not living up to campaign promises on health care
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and climate change. The pundit class might give offer knowing nods for fiscal responsibility, but, alas, that will win precisely zero votes. nd after emocrats get smashed this fall, moderates will blame progressives for scaring R eal A merica with socialism, and progressives will blame moderates for eing cowards. The times change, but the song remains the same. I’m not going to take a side in this perpetual war. In a sense, though, I think everyone is misreading the playing field. n e ample n pril , lorida s agriculture commission, ikki ried, sued the Biden administration over a policy that prevents people with medical marijuana licenses from getting concealed carry permits. ried is running for governor, and if she makes it through the primary, she hopes this kind of pro-guns, pro-weed overlap will help her against neighborhood Brownshirts leader ov. on e antis. But what struck me wasn’t the lawsuit but what her former pollster told N BC N ews about it: “Y ou can have the est afforda le housing plan possi le, ut once you get to point o. , people s eyes glaze over, and they stop paying
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attention. People care a out this. This is the pro lem facing a emocratic P arty that is big on technocratic policy-making and absolute crap at explaining how those policies help people. People care a out guns and weed, in the same way they care about cancel culture and critical race theory and grooming and transgender athletes and naughty books in school libraries. These are things you instinctively understand or think you understand . ou feel that they affect you, even if they never will. nd they re simple lack and white, right and wrong. ut the things that affect all of us housing, taxes, mass transit, criminal justice, environmental regulations — are y nature comple . o the thing emocrats have to figure out whether in the ne t si months or two years — isn’t whether they should be doing more or less, but whether they can show how what they ve done has helped people. nd throwing a barrage of data and peer-reviewed studies at the visceral simplicity of the culture war — a favorite tool of emocratic messaging is a guaranteed trip to nowhere. et more t illm n.su st c .com.
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NEWS & VIEWS The Incision
COVID isn’t over. At least not for me… or thousands of other people. B y Abdul E l- Sayed
After tossing and turning
with night sweats, I woke up on Sunday, A pril 2 4 feeling like my legs were burning. My temperature was 1 0 1 .5 . I immediately took a rapid test, already knowing what it would show. Surely enough, I was positive. That first day felt like having een hit by a truck. I could barely go up a flight of stairs without reaking a sweat. Though I’m feeling a bit better, I spent the next two days isolating in my o ce, wearing an whenever I enter shared spaces. My wife and I are desperately trying to protect my unvaccinated 4 -year-old. O ur family has gone the entire pandemic — more than two years — without testing positive. G iven what I do for a living, we’ve been fastidious about protecting ourselves. Sarah and I are both triple-vaxxed. O ur family has een using s or s in crowded indoor settings since early 2 0 2 1 . Sure, there have been close calls, near-miss exposures, but always a negative test. U ntil now. P er the C enters for D isease C ontrol and P revention, even though C O V ID cases have been climbing in my county, there is no mask recommendation currently in place. We’ve been told, instead, to use our own judgment. This “choose your own adventure” period of the pandemic has meant that social expectations around social gatherings are mixed and confusing. R amadan — the month of fasting — is also a month of congregation in the Muslim community. olks host gatherings for the sunset iftar meal, and there are congregational prayers every night. or two years, these e periences have been all but absent, curtailed by the pandemic. This year has een the first where congregational prayers aren’t socially distanced and masks required. Iftar gatherings are back in full force. D on’t get me wrong, I’m glad that there’s been some reprieve — cases are, indeed, lower than they have been
I tested positive last week — it hit me like a truck. Here’s what it taught me about this moment in the pandemic.
in some time. O ur family has enjoyed spending a bit more time with friends and loved ones throughout this month. But I’m almost certain I was infected at a large iftar gathering I attended. I knew the risks but, considering the mood, I downplayed them. I’m paying for it now. While, of course, we all make our own decisions, those decisions are heavily influenced y the shared norms around us. A nd I worry right now
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that the zeitgeist of this moment has lulled too many of us into a false sense of security. There’s the illusory truth effect y which repeated e posure to falsehood renders us more likely to believe it. O n the other side, there’s the false consensus effect, where y we tend to see our own choices as “common and appropriate.” What we’re left with is a self-reinforcing set of beliefs and behaviors that have interpreted the
While, of course, we all make our own decisions, those decisions are heavily influenced by the shared norms around us. And I worry right now that the zeitgeist of this moment has lulled too many of us into a false sense of security.
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pandemic risks right down to zero. What’s worse is that policymakers have followed suit. Testing centers around the country have been decommissioned. C ongress has yet to fund continued testing, treatment, and vaccinations. When I tried to learn more about Test to Treat options, the local websites were hard to navigate, and many of the links were simply broken, a striking microcosm of our overall C O V ID response. A s cases climb, there are going to be thousands of people who will be infected with C O V ID in the coming months, most of them for the very first time. or them, like for my family and me, the pandemic is certainly not over. It’s time to stop pretending like it is. O riginally published April 2 6 in The Incision. G et more at abdulelsayed. substack.com.
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FEATURE
Wayne Kramer, right, and producer Bob Ezrin. JIM NEWBERRY
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hen guitarist ayne ramer kicks off his eight-date Heavy Lifting tour at Detroit’s El Club on May 5, he’ll be debuting a new touring group and some new songs from an upcoming album. And he’ll be doing it all using an old, familiar name — the MC5. It’s a move that is destined to cause a stir, especially in the Motor City. The MC5 is a holy name in Detroit rock ’n’ roll. In the late ’60s and early ’70s, the band’s revolutionary stance, high-energy sonic bombast, and flashy live performances thrilled audiences. ith maximum swagger — and the goods to back it up — the quintet built a reputation for wiping up stages with more famous groups who had the misfortune of sharing a bill. The MC5’s battle cry “kick out the jams, motherfucker!” has served as a mission statement and ur-punk scripture for generations. In a testament to its legacy, the group is nominated for induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame for the sixth time this year. Kramer, 74, says his decision to re-embrace the M name is a reflection of the serious social challenges facing the world today. “I think it was time to reignite that spirit of 1968, the spirit of my generation when we were all young people,” Kramer says. “I think we’re at a very dangerous time in our history. And I think if we don’t all organize, come together, and step up, we could lose it all. Democracy could go away. The forces that we’re up against are not joking. This is not playtime. This is serious.” In Kramer’s view, desperate times called for desperate measures.
Wayne Kramer in 1969.
“Now that I have the advantage of 50 years of skills and experience and wisdom to channel through the message of MC5, it’s my most powerful tool,” Kramer says. “It’s the most powerful tool I have to make a difference, to try to motivate people to take themselves seriously, to take their responsibilities to each other, to our community seriously.” The contours of the MC5 story are well-known around these parts. After an initial period of intense hype and three brilliant albums, the group collapsed in 1972 under the weight of addictions, missed opportunities, and more than a little government hassle. From those ashes, they became part of the triumvirate of influences along with the tooges and the elvet Underground — that presaged punk. The heartbreaking early deaths of singer Rob Tyner in 1991 and guitarist red onic mith in foreclosed on the opportunity for a true reunion. After the band’s breakup, Tyner sometimes performed under the MC5 moniker. But when Kramer reunited with MC5 bassist Michael Davis and drummer Dennis “Machine Gun” Thompson from 2003 until Davis’ death in 2012, they used the name DKT-MC5. In 2018, to honor the 50th anniversary of
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the band’s landmark K ick O ut the Jams LP, Kramer assembled a group and toured under the name M . hile oth groups o cially had different names, venues sometimes would shorten the name to the MC5 in event listings. Kramer’s use of the MC5 name represents a change in attitude from the launch of the DKT-MC5 project. “I don’t in any way want to promote the idea that this is an MC5 reunion or that we’re getting the band back together,” Kramer told the Detroit News’ usan hitall in . That s so pinal Tap That s impossible.” o why did his attitude evolve “My thinking was that we need some positivity. And this was the most powerful positivity that I’ve ever e perienced, ramer says now. nd, why not Kramer’s touring MC5 features singer Brad Brooks (Pollo Elastico), drummer Winston Watson (Bob ylan , guitarist tevie alas avid owie, od tewart and Mick agger , and assist icki andle Mavis taples . The tour is part of a flurry of activity. In the fall, Kramer is set to release a new MC5 album on Ear Music. The album is produced by über-producer
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A mural of Wayne Kramer on Detroit’s former Grande Ballroom.
Bob E zrin, with whom K ramer connected when working on the A lice C ooper’s 2 0 2 1 album D etroit Stories. A nnounced collaborators include D on Was, Tom Morello, J ill Sobule, Tim McIlrath, K esha, and A lejandro E scovedo. In accompanying social media posts, K ramer’s team has been posting archival photos and heartfelt tributes to his original collaborators with much more regularity, along with rehearsal footage of the new group. The project raises the question: is K ramer celebrating the MC 5 ’s legacy, or is he exploiting it? O r both? K ramer’s announcement sparked fevered debate in the social media sphere. D etroit-area musician and journalist Wendy C ase wrote a stinging post on Facebook: “C alling it the MC 5 is a disgrace to the legacy of the band. E ven the K ramer, D avis, Thompson lineup knew better.” O n the other hand, Brett C allwood, former Metro Times music editor and author of a book about the MC 5 , expressed support in a response to C ase’s post. H e commented: “I don’t see why anyone fortunate enough to see the original thing would see this. I don’t see why anyone who wasn’t, wouldn’t.” K ramer seems prepared for the criticism. “Well, they are certainly entitled to their opinions,” K ramer says. “Y ou know, if you’re gonna do something in this life, you’re going to be criticized. If you don’t want to be criticized, then don’t do anything, it’s a simple equation. But I’m a doer. A nd so, I accept the criticism, and people are allowed to think whatever they want to think.”
upcoming album due out in the fall. When talking about the new MC 5 , Thompson exhibits a deep ambivalence. O n the one hand, he’s protective of his old friend K ramer. “They’re gonna put on a good show. They’re going to play well, they’re all journeymen, and that’s good enough,” Thompson says. “I don’t care.” But over the course of an hour-long conversation, Thompson oscillates between that point of view and a highly critical attitude. “The Beatles were the Beatles, the R olling Stones were the R olling Stones, the Who was the Who. That answers one [ part] of how I feel,” Thompson says. “It’s something that shouldn’t be messed with and prostituted for money.” “See, there’s equity built into the name. So the businessman says, ‘ I want to use it.’ N ow, I can’t argue with that either. O K ? H onestly, I would never do it. A nd you can print that,” Thompson says. “That says how I really feel. But on the other hand, I want to say, I wish him all the luck in the world. O K ? So that way it softens my opinion. But the MC 5 , they’re dead and gone.” Later, Thompson adds perhaps the one thing that everybody can agree on. “I wish … Fred and R ob and Michael were still here so it could really be the MC 5 again, onstage together. But they’re not here,” Thompson says. “Sadly, they’re not here.”
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B rian J. B owe is a freelance journalist and a journalism professor at Western Washington U niversity. H e was the recipient of a 2 0 17 research fellowship from the R ock and R oll H all of Fame Foundation to conduct archival research on the MC5 .
Thompson, the only other surviving member of the original MC 5 , is expected to play on the E l C lub date, and he plays drums on two songs on the
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The MC5 performs at E l Club on Thursday, May 5 ; 4 114 Vernor H wy., Detroit; elclubdetroit.com. Doors open at 7 p.m. Sugar Tradition and Masha Marjieh are also on the bill. Tickets are $ 10 4 .
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FOOD Lobster spot pulls out all the stops B y Jane Slaughter
Lobster costs a claw and a leg these days, but that’s not stopping the Lobster Food Truck and Pitstop fans from enjoying lobster rolls.
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put one of dining’s pricier delicacies on a food truck? N ick Wilson and his partner and aunt, K athryn Wilson, did it in 2 0 1 8 . Improbably, a $ 3 5 lobster roll is their best-seller when the truck makes its weekly rounds of various gyms, a sneaker store, and a dispensary in the metro area. A t their new carry-outonly storefront in D earborn, people are ordering an $ 1 8 half-roll plus “something else,” says N ick Wilson: “We have so many ideas and people want to try a little bit of everything.” I’m here to testify that those many ideas — the selection is far greater in the storefront than on the truck — are good ideas, if some are not in most folks’ price range. The sweet, nutty lobster seamlessly makes the transition from the tlantic waters off Maine ( Wilson won’t name his purveyor, to flummo competitors . nd the Pitstop’s cheesy grits, roasted vegetables, even a hum le fried fish are superior to just about anyone’s. There’s a reason lobster costs a claw and a leg. Prices hit record highs last summer, which the industry attributed to “supply and demand,” aka “because we can. upplies were fine, they e plained, ut more people wanted
lobster — those recently returning to restaurants — or they wanted it more badly. Therefore suppliers could charge more to the restaurant owners, and they, reluctantly, to us. The N ew Y ork Times reported some restaurants taking lo ster off their menus, to avoid patron sticker shock. But high prices haven’t stopped hungry D etroiters, fresh from their workout at LA Fitness, from wanting a lobster roll, lobster mac and cheese, or fried egg rolls, Wilson says. I adored my garlicky, buttery hot lobster roll, though the half-size was gone in a few bites, almost too soon to register on the taste buds. The cold roll is different, not garlicky, with mayo and a summer feel and stuffed very full. The cold roll especially lets the delicate lo ster flavor shine through. oth come with a huge mound of creditable fries, as if to make up for the sandwich’s tininess. I liked just as much a dish called “Butter Shrimp, Fried Fish, C heesy G rits.” The shrimp are plump, the generous grits are creamy and very cheesy, no skimping there. The day I ordered, I’d just come from a weekend on Lake rie, where the fried fish were hard and tough. Wilson’s was tender; he says the
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Lobster Food Truck and Pitstop 10405 Ford Rd., Dearborn 313-406-5854 thelobsterfoodtruck.com Handicap accessible 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Tuesday-Saturday Sandwiches $14-$35, tacos $15-$20, entrées $15-$27
secret is a milk-and-spices marinade. In crabcake fettuccine, the pasta is firm, the cheese sharp, the cakes soft and spicy. R oasted vegetables — garlic, cauliflower, roccoli were a welcome surprise, crisp and firm. athryn ilson is a pescatarian and N ick is a former pescatarian, so they are not ones to treat vegetables as an afterthought. A C aesar salad with housemade croutons was normal and good. I’ll admit I’ve never understood lobster mac and cheese. The delicate flavor of the lo ster is always overwhelmed by the cheese; it’s like “let’s sprinkle a down-home dish with gold dust ecause we can. till, the Pitstop s mac and cheese is firm and tangy, a fine dish even if all you notice of the lobster
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is fleeting, a couple ites of chewiness. I was less impressed with a cornshrimp chowder, offered one Tuesday ( soups rotate, with lobster bisque and clam chowder also possi le . There was little shrimp and the soup was mushy, though the flavor was fine. The Pitstop offers specials including cra eggrolls and fish tacos Tuesday through Thursday 1 1 a.m.-6 p.m. ther Pitstop dishes are fried lo ster bites for $ 1 5 or $ 4 0 , a grilled cheese sandwich with crab and shrimp ( hopefully the two together can out-compete the cheese , a asket of deep fried shrimp with wa e fries, a seafood oil bag, a fried shrimp quesadilla, seafood pasta with A lfredo, pesto or butter sauce, a sandwich with that great fried fish I raved a out, and fried seafood tacos fish, shrimp or lo ster, two for , 7, . I didn t try the tacos, since I m not a fan of flour tortillas, ut they might e the most cost effective way to get your lo ster fi . The rick and mortar Pitstop will be switching to a summer menu and summer hours soon, 3 p.m. to midnight, and Wilson hopes his location across from the Ford D rive-In will be a plus. Smuggling lobster into a drive-in, there’s a real neck snapper.
FOOD Bites
Ready Player One in downtown Detroit is closed and being replaced with Pizza Cat B y R andiah Camille G reen
The coin-operated arcade games of D etroit’s R eady P layer O ne have now become a thing of the past, just like the bygone era whose nostalgia they tapped into. While it’s not clear exactly when the bar shut down, new owners were moving in when Metro Times visited on a recent morning. P izza C at, a Toledo-based chain whose tagline is “keep pizza weird,” is planning to open up in the former arcade space. When we arrived, P izza C at owners A ndre R obinson, Matt Wojtowicz, and their crew were moving in drywall through doors that still read “R eady P layer O ne.” Wojtowicz tells Metro Times they purchased the space in March thinking they’d open earlier, but there was a lot of work and cleaning to be done. They are now aiming for a J une 1 opening date. “U nderneath all the arcade games were just layers of sticky sugar built up from where drinks had been spilled and all kinds of stuff that had never been cleaned up,” he says. “It was stuff that definitely could have gotten someone sick.” A bout the pizza, R obinson says, “it’s gonna be the best-tasting thing you’ve put in your mouth besides your tongue.” We’re not sure how he knows what’s been in our mouth, but their menu does have some interesting toppings like Flaming H ot C heetos, pickles, and BBQ brisket with hemp crust, and chicken crust options for keto eaters. They also have bagel sandwiches and wings. P izza C at announced the D etroit location on Instagram in March, though the exact location hadn’t been mentioned. The good news for gamers is that video games will still be part of the new business. A ccording to that post,
Downtown Detroit’s Ready Player One is no more.
the restaurant will feature a “sit down experience, full bar, vintage arcade games, and nightlife.” Meanwhile, the Instagram and Facebook pages for R eady P layer O ne have disappeared, and the company hasn’t posted on Twitter since 2 0 2 0 . O ur calls and emails to the business went unanswered. So, to the people who have been asking on Twitter and G oogle whether R eady P layer O ne is still open, the answer is no.
Tigerlily to open at former Antihero
A new A sian-inspired restaurant and sushi bar is opening on West N ine Mile in Ferndale, with an adjacent tiki bar. Tigerlily is scheduled to open this summer at the site of A ntihero, a former hotspot that served sian influenced cuisine and drinks until it closed in 2 0 2 0 amid the pandemic. Ferndale-based H ometown R estaurant G roup, which purchased A ntihero in 2 0 2 1 , is renovating the space at 2 3 1 W. N ine Mile to include a 4 ,0 0 0 -square-foot dining area with a full sushi bar and a dining room with seating for 1 7 0 . Tigerlily will feature sushi and A sian cuisine. Mai Tiki, a 9 0 0 -square-foot, 4 4 -seat tiki bar, will be accessible only through Tigerlily, and will feature fresh juices
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and craft cocktails. Birmingham architects R on & R oman are designing the more than $ 1 million in renovations, which include reducing the exterior facade to its original, historic frontage. Tigerlily will be open seven days a week. O n weekdays, the restaurant will open at 4 p.m. The restaurant’s name is a nod to the tiger lily, which once grew wild in Ferndale and is indigenous to areas of A sian. “C onsidered a symbol of pride and positivity, Tigerlily is fitting oth for Ferndale and its residents, as well a budding restaurant that plans to be a standout in Ferndale’s bouquet of restaurants,” H ometown R estaurant G roup said in a news release. H ometown R estaurant G roup also opens and operates P ublic H ouse, O neE yed Betty’s, P op’s For Italian, and the former R osie O ’ G rady’s, all in downtown Ferndale. —Steve Neavling
Meijer wants Michigan businesses
Meijer announced that it is resurrecting its Lift Local Supplier E vent to give local businesses another opportunity to showcase their products at the G rand R apids-based grocer. “O ur partnerships with vendors in our footprint allow us to directly impact our local economies,” P eter Whit-
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sett, Meijer executive vice president of merchandising and marketing, said in a statement. “By featuring local products, we’re able to support small businesses while providing our customers with a greater sense of community, offering items that resonate with their values and culture. This event helps us find those unique products and continue sourcing locally.” The virtual event, which runs from J uly 1 9 -2 1 , will focus on groceries, baby products, beauty and personal care, and wellness. E ligible businesses, which can apply by May 2 0 , must sell their products in Michigan, Illinois, Indiana, K entucky, O hio, or Wisconsin. The first event was held on pril . fter a successful first event, we re excited to further grow our community of local business vendors,” J amie A kemann, group vice president of global sourcing, indirect procurement, supplier diversity, and product quality at Meijer, said. “This isn’t just an opportunity for fully-developed brands, but a chance for us to build relationships with small, local businesses and invest in their long-term success.” Businesses that appeal to Meijer will be invited to a virtual or in-person meeting with an opportunity to sell their products at the grocery store. —Steve Neavling
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WHAT’S GOING ON
Chicago rapper CupcakKe performs in Pontiac on Saturday.
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SAT, MAY 7 CupcakKe
H onestly, on a good night, D etroit’s Tangent G allery isn’t really all that different from Mos isley cantina, that wretched hive of scum and villainy from tar ars you never know what sorts of strange creatures you ll encounter at the ar there. That s why we love it. To cele rate everyone s favorite space opera May the ourth, etc. , Tangent is hosting three nights of tar ars related festivities, including live music, urles ue, and more. ostumes are mandatory, and this event is not safe for children, so leave a y rogu at home. Lee DeVito
hicago rapper upcak e is known for her se ually e plicit songs and music videos, which will e on full display at her aturday gig at the rofoot allroom. If you ve never heard upcak e s rhymes, her two popular hits agina and eepthroat should give you a pretty good idea. upcak e isn t all a out deepthroating, however, though she often mimics it onstage and her fans even call themselves lurpers. The unapologetic M also raps a out T empowerment, racial issues, her years spent homeless, and her own e perience dealing with se ual a use. The magic is that she talks a out these serious issues with up eat and catchy music as the ackdrop that undou tedly gets people to listen and pay attention. R a n d ia h C a m il l e G r een
From 7 p.m.- 2 a.m. at the Tangent G allery; 7 15 E . Milwaukee St., Detroit; facebook.com/ spacedive3 13 . Tickets are $ 3 0 at the door.
Doors are at 7 p.m. at the Crofoot B allroom; 1 S. Saginaw Pontiac; 2 4 8 - 8 5 8 - 9 3 3 3 ; thecrofoot.com. Tickets start at $ 2 5 .
WED-SAT, MAY 4-7 Space Dive
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Sound bath meditation at Belle Isle
Detroit International Festival of Animation
Starts at 10 : 3 0 a.m. outside the B elle Isle Aq uarium; 3 Inselruhe Ave, Detroit; eventbrite.com/ e/ 3 2 5 2 17 9 6 4 6 8 7 . Admission is free, bust pre- registration is preferred as space is limited.
Doors at 7 p.m., show starts at 8 p.m. at the Senate Theatre; 6 4 2 4 Michigan Ave, Detroit; difestofanim.com. Tickets are $ 10 .
isten, for a lot of us, it s een a hella stressful winter, past few months, years, life, you name it. pring is finally starting to come through and it s time to let some of that stress go with a sound ath meditation at elle Isle. etroit s loom Transformation enter and mplify utside are presenting this community meditation event on the side lawn of the elle Isle uarium aturday morning. ust ring a yoga mat or lanket to sit on and leave everything else ehind. et outside, en oy some meditative gong therapy, and, if only for a moment, forget a out the worries of everyday life. This event is totally free. R a n d ia h C a m il l e G r een
alling all animation lovers the seventh annual etroit International estival of nimation is going down this aturday. The fest will showcase film shorts from local and international animators and filmmakers, and it s not ust for animation nerds. rom the uirky, e perimental, to the what the hell were they smoking, I has something for almost everyone. e say almost, ecause the event is not recommended for those under due to mature content and themes. ver minutes of film shorts will e screened at etroit s historic s era enate Theatre and of admission sales will e donated to the oices of hildren oundation for humanitarian aid in Ukraine. R a n d ia h C a m il l e G r een
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SIMPLE PLAN & SUM 41 W/ SET IT OFF
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MUSIC Because Bold don’t fold
The journey of Detroit rapper Boldy James B y K ahn Santori Davison
Boldy James is knee-deep in
industry shoptalk inside his manager C edric Louie’s studio on D etroit’s west side. Words like, “features,” “splits,” “merch,” “catalogs,” and “comps,” ounce on and off the eige walls like a verbal game of racquetball. Boldly, 3 9 , is an emcee’s emcee. H e has thousands of fans that want to see him behind the mic, and probably another thousand peers that want to share the mic with him. Louie is Boldy’s guy, their friendship more akin to Lucius Fox and Bruce ayne. ouie filters out the ullshit, makes sure Boldy knows where he has to be, and that he gets paid for things he’s supposed to get paid for. “H e’s genuinely one of my favorite artists, says ouie. The first time I heard his music it made feel the same way when I heard ay s easona le ou t al um or treetlord uan s record o ar one. oldy takes his time and really cares about the music that he creates. O n top of all that, he’s really a brother to me and we keep each other on point in real life.” orn ames lay ones III, oldy was raised by his mother on D etroit’s east side until he was 8 , when he then moved to D etroit’s west side to live with his father a police o cer . e discovered his gift of sewing metaphors to rhymes early on and started rapping in elementary school. I m from the area where we used to get in trouble for rapping, he says. I m talking a out a teacher snatching the paper off ya desk in the middle of class because you were supposed to be doing school work.” Boldy’s connection to music was enhanced y his cousin van Ingersoll, known to the world as rapper and producer huck Inglish. oth oldy and Inglish fed off each other. I ve always been C huck’s motivation to the streets because he didn’t grow up in the ghetto like I did, oldly says. e grew up in Mount C lemens. H e had ideas to make these eats for these raps that I would rap in acapella.” Boldy’s relationship with school
never improved, and by ninth grade he decided it was time to move on. I felt like the teachers weren’t going to get through to me, they weren’t teaching me nothing that was conductive to my future, he says, adding, I knew I had enough hustle in me to survive without putting a burden on top of my situation. I felt like I could take care of myself.” hen oldy says, I know I had enough hustle in me,” he’s not necessarily referring to music but to the plethora of street knowledge that he was rapidly obtaining. Boldy had enough genuine confidence in himself that he could maintain a marriage to the streets, while making music his mistress without getting caught or caught up. I was a real self su cient child, he says. “My father raised me to be real headstrong, so I knew I had it in me to survive these hardships. It was my mindset like, if my father can’t catch me doing anything red-handed [ when I live in the house with him, and he knows me better than anybody, then how the fuck can a motherfucka that don’t know me catch me doing anything? ” In the early s Inglish was recovering from a foot injury while at college in Illinois. uring his downtime he began to make a profusion of beats. This set the foundation for not only oldy ut also Inglish s group with Mikey ocks, the ool ids. im and Mikey started doing local shows and he would send me beats,” Boldy says. “H e came home one holiday and invited me ack to Illinois with him. hen I went back, we made 1 8 songs. That was my first complete ody of work that I was confident enough to let people hear. oldy and Inglish stayed fre uent collaborators and constantly supported each other. In spring of oldy released Trapper’s Alley: Pros And Cons ( The Q uikcrete R eady Mix tape) . The pro ect s featured single I old ope A ll My Life” led to the mixtape being considered one of s est y critics,
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Boldy James in the studio.
and Boldy considers the album his most important release. I think I put too many songs on it, but that was just ecause I wanted people to know that I got the music all day for ya’ll,’’ he says. A year or two later, Boldy attended the SX SW festival in Texas with Inglish, where he met the lchemist, the producer who would change his musical trajectory. Sonically, A lchemist was from the same musical lineage as producers like Pete ock and P remier, and had already cemented his musical fingerprint with his work with Mobb D eep and The Lox. H e invited Boldy to C alifornia, where the duo recorded a couple of songs that eventually turned into a full pro ect. In , My 1st Chemistry Set was released by econ ecords. In econ ecords spun off into Mass ppeal ecords, a
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company partially funded by hip-hop legend N as, and Boldy was the label’s first o cial signed artist. It s easy to see the talent right there, as told etroit s ig reg in a radio interview with 7. . I ust wanted to be associated with that.” While Boldy was grateful for the opportunity, he wasn t doing ackflips either. I had ust had my son, I had a daughter, and I had some step children. I m not gonna say I umped for oy, oldy says. In my head I was a little ecstatic, but we from here, bro. Y ou wake up everyday and the sky is still the same color as the ground.” Boldy released the E P The Art of R ock Climbing in 7, ut admits he still had too much of his attention directed toward street life. I wasn t
“I always had a lot of respect for my father. Now I’m a father. That’s my new cheat code. Fatherhood. Just looking at things from a different perspective.” focused on music as much as I thought I was, he says, adding, ustling to feed your family is cool, ut I was trying to cut corners with something that can change your life and it’s legal.” Boldy spent a year laying low on the run from authorities, but eventually found himself sitting in a maximum security cell serving a four-month sentence for four felonies. It was like, you just like royally fucked up now,” he says. H e decided to dissolve his deal with Mass A ppeal, and although his situation looked dim, Boldy is quick to remind this writer that he also bet on himself when he dropped out of school. e s always kept that same mentality. I was talking to the C E O of Mass A ppeal and he wasn t talking how I wanted to hear, he says, adding, I m sitting in that thing knowing I m going to get another shot at the title, this time I know I ust gottta make a half court shot. H owever, almost immediatley after oldy walked out of ail on ec. , , he started flirting with street life again — and almost ended up back in ail. I got into my old ag of tricks, he says. “Something went horribly wrong, ipsey died, like all within the same hours. I called huck, and told him I need to get the fuck out of here, he sent me a plane ticket.” Boldy went back to C ali, reconnected with A lchemist, and recorded music while the smoke cleared on another legal situation. They released the B O LDFACE P in , and lchemist knew the next project, The Price of Tea in China, was going to be special. “H e looked at me and was ust like, I hope you ready for this next ride, because this is a bad muthfucka we about to put together,’” Boldly says. “O nce we put it out, I saw the response and it was everything A l told me it would be.” ince , oldy has een on historic run. With his appetite for street life behind him, Boldy signed to N ew Y ork’s riselda ecords and has released two more projects with A lchemist, B o Jackson and Super Tecmo Bo. Boldly says fashion icon V irgil A bloh was such a fan that he had plans to do a remake of ike s o ackson cross trainer shoe for Boldy before his untimely passing in . e had te ted me, oldy says. I didn’t know he was as big of a fan of my music as he was.” A lchemist and Boldy’s dynamic duo
relationship works because it’s the perfect alignment of musical symmetry. A lchemist uses a “less is more” approach with his production style that perfectly vibes with Boldy’s slightly raspy methodical flow. There is no competition between beats and bars, just pure chemistry. P art of what separates Boldy from the pack and makes him so critically acclaimed is his storytelling. Y es, he’s rapping about the same subject matter as your favorite trap artist, but in a Pusha T kind of way. In this musical trap world where everybody wants to be Michal Bay, Boldy is Francis Ford C oppola. I rap the same shit as all the trap niggas rap, he says. I m ust conscious of how I word it. Pro a ly more thought provoking, and I pro a ly ust take my time with more so how I doctor the flow. I ust try to make good music, I tell my story and my truths. ay pu licly added oldy s peed emon reestyle to his playlist in , and Boldy says he even personally told him how much he loved his music after a show at the . . clu , The ovo. I saw big homie coming around the corner with a big smile on his face, he walked up on me, held out his hand to shake my hand, and his other hand on my shoulder,” Boldly recalls. “A nd he was like, Mr. oldy ames, you have an incredi le pen. our new shit is all I ve een listening to. eep up the great work. oldy says he was floored y the complement and took it as a sign from the universe to double down and go harder. H e promises more music from him and A lchemist, but he’s also making sure he’s going to be the kind of father to his children that his dad was to him. I always had a lot of respect for my father, he says. ow I m a father. That’s my new cheat code. Fatherhood. ust looking at things from a different perspective. Learning what approach to take toward certain beats. V oice control is etter. I m ust learning different formulas to create music.” B oldly James and the Alchemist perform on a bill with Action B ronson and E arl Sweatshirt on Sunday, May 8 at the Fillmore; 2 115 Woodward Ave., Detroit; t e llmoredetroit.com. Doors at 6 p.m. Tickets start at $ 3 5 .
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WEED One-Hitters
Mike Tyson once got fined for smoking weed in Detroit. Now he sells edibles in the shape of human ears. B y Larry G abriel
There’s a bit of genius, and baldfaced shamelessness, in the marketing of Mike Tyson’s new cannabis enterprise, Tyson 2 .0 . Tyson, the former heavyweight boxing champion, actor, and now marijuana entrepreneur, is most famous for having bitten a piece off the ear of opponent vander olyfield during a 7 championship fight. ence, his gummies are named Mike Bites — and they’re in the shape of an ear with a bite out of it. A pparently Mike Bites are so popular in the areas where they’ve been introduced that production facilities can’t keep them in stock. C ommon C itizen, the largest cannabis company in the state, currently produces flower for the Tyson line in Michigan, although it isn’t producing the ears. very time they open a new market, it just leaves the assembly line, boom,” says Tyson. Tyson . produces flower, concentrates, and edibles that are available in some states. In Michigan, Tyson . flower products are on shelves in the D etroit area and across the state. arlier this month, Tyson visited I a ommon itizen partner in ansing to pose for selfies with customers, give a few interviews, appear at a festival, and promote the Tyson 2 .0 brand. is association with mari uana goes ack to an early age. I had some hyperactivity in my genes so my mother gave me marijuana and liquor to calm me down, Tyson recalls. It didn t work. It made me go to sleep, but it didn’t calm me down. That’s how I got involved with mari uana. It was around my house. My family was sex workers, all kinds of drugs and li uor was around the house. I must have een or . hen I did try it
Mike Tyson at a recent visit to a Michigan dispensary.
I knew I was going to e involved with this for the rest of my life. I didn t want to stop.” ven when Tyson was o ing, he used marijuana to help relax and focus, though there was a period from a out ages to when he stopped using it. But in O ctober 2 0 0 0 when he fought A ndrew G olota in D etroit, billed as the Showdown in Motown, Tyson says he smoked efore the fight. The fight was initially scored a T when G olota refused to come back out for the third round. efore I smoked the oint I was scared to death,” Tyson says. “A nd then once I smoked it he was scared to death. ... fter that fight I said I should have een doing this, I should have started smoking efore fights earlier. They fined me a out , ecause I roke this guys cheek one, his ack bone, his eye socket, because they said
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I was on an canna is and they said it was on an illegal substance.” e adds, That sounds crazy right now. I got fined , for a oint. I didn t even finish the oint, I got half of it.” Because Tyson tested positive for mari uana after the fight, his victory was overturned and changed to a no contest. The Michigan A thletic Board of C ontrol suspended him for three months. ow Tyson uses the stuff every day. The Tyson 2 .0 line includes greenhouse grown flower and sun grown strains. O ne line of products is tied to another colorful episode from Tyson’s past. Toad, a top-shelf strain, recalls Tyson’s tripping from licking a psychedelic toad — an experience during which he claimed to have died. Tyson 2 .0 also produces pre-rolls, drinks, concentrates, and edibles.
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O n a reviews page on the Tyson 2 .0 website, Tyson samples numerous of his own products in one sitting and gets increasingly toasted as the video rolls on. A s wild as much of Tyson’s past sounds, he presented himself in a calm and convivial manner on Saturday, attributing his considerable success to god and expressing the desire to help others who have been imprisoned. A nd he says he really doesn’t care about the money. I don t put money in any e uations in my life, ut I will e very successful, he says. If I thought a out money I wouldn t e successful. nce I made money I wouldn t have the drive anymore. I have a perpetual drive, it ust doesn’t stop.” That, as well as anything else, explains what we’ve seen of Mike Tyson.
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CULTURE Free, experimental, and independent
Prismatic Ground’s online film festival delivers experiences rarely caught on screen B y G eorge E lkind
When watching new works
in this springtime lull between award shows and festival season releases, it’s easy to miss the livelier capacities of new film work, and its a ility to surprise. With the second edition of the hybrid festival P rismatic G round, N ew Y ork-based programmer and organizer Inney P rakash ( previously of Freep Film Fest, and currently working with Sundance and the Maysles C enter) has managed with an air of deceptive ease to fill that void. ith the festival s second-year selections, the hybrid showcase offers a staggering array of experimental and documentary works which could suit a gallery, a theater, or any viewer’s home — all streaming free from May 4 -8 . ( A selection of P rismatic s first year programming is also available on the subscription-based C riterion C hannel now) . With its rare and welcome emphasis on shorts, P rismatic G round embraces many forms of restless creativity, privileging its makers’ perspectives and immediate experiences above the authoritative pose of more familiarly mainstream documentary forms. By making diaristic, experimental, and essayistic works its focus — and in not treating the lines between artistically rendered fact and fiction as firm it works to bring the oft-neglected sharpness of lived experience to viewers through all the works it shows. P rismatic’s approach to screenings proves appropriately multifaceted as a kind of signature, highlighting the countless ways one might approach the world or making visual, time-based art. O rganized into thematically aligned waves of film work, most clocking no more than two hours, each of the festival’s ordered selections might feature on its own more aesthetic and cultural perspectives than you’d get in a year at the average multiple . The films comes from places and perspectives rarely represented here, including firsthand, personal accounts of harmful developments in Thailand slotting in alongside meditative travelogues about journeys through the uez anal. The effect, so uncommon in festivals now, bypasses hype cycles and awards circuits to flatter oth makers and viewers y allowing them to engage with even quite
Still from “Constant,” which uses kaleidoscopic effects.
challenging works directly, in a context that reinforces each work’s respective forms of logic. s an e ample, Prismatic s first wave is oriented around circles ( “look at that round ass shit” is the title, taken from its opening short) , with selections ranging from two to forty minutes by its end. O pening with “Memory P laythrough,” Sim H ahahah’s brief and earnestly narrated reminescence of growing up not only in precarious circumstances but amid whirls of new urban development, the film signals the oth the wave’s motif of rounded shapes and a more holistic meditation throughout on the passage of time. Followed by more abstract works like Fabio A ndrade’s “C ontour” — which features a frenetic, downward-pointed camera directed at various bodies of water — and J odie Mack’s “Wasteland N o. 3 : Moons, Sons,” which looks raptly at water melting and draining from plant matter in timelapse, the selections address a considerable range of thematic terrain by wave’s end. Touching on ideas of nature, human development, and questions of endurance over time, the suite’s last work, “C onstant” feels just as at home within it as the rest. A t 4 0 minutes, Sahsa Litvintseva and Beny Wagner’s “C onstant” bounces between creative meetings at present
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( rendered in animation, featuring the filmmakers themselves and period piece flash acks to the e plorer centered past they’d like to depict. Focused largely on the “science of measurement, metrology, the film within a film looks to colonial histories of the meter’s development and Western uropeans efforts at mapping and thus controlling the world. E mploying a musing philosophical tendency more essayistic than informational ( but with narration and re-enactments linking it to more rote mainstream documentary forms , the film takes up animation, kaleidoscopic effects work, and a thrumming digital soundtrack as tools to e cavate and reflect on the narratives it makes its subject. The result comes alive due to considered, expressive artistic approach and wide-ranging technique, delivering a sense of variety reflective of the festival as a whole. But that’s just one wave of thirteen available, part of a series united by ethos and P rakash’s canny curatorial organizing more than anything else. With other waves focused on concerns spanning the erotic ( “touch me don’t touch me”) , environmental ( “destroying the earth, over and over again”) , and militaristic ( “the blessings of liberty”) among so many others, P rismatic enefits mightily from inviting a
breadth of subjects as much as voices throughout. By employing a framework for showcasing works from a multitude of international and variously marginalized voices, P rismatic achieves an actually “free” artistic environment in terms of access and openness to a broad sweep of aesthetic modes. Blowing past domestic, binarized political discourses, the festival looks past borders to create an environment actually conducive to the and expression of varied experiences and ideas. In this light, what P rismatic’s catalog reveals about reality – or what it “documents” – proves persistent and unavoidable across works, letting them sing together with a harmonious ring of truth. For all the range of notes and techniques in play here, there’s unity anyway to what’s shown. The artists featured seem to pay close attention to what’s most pressing presently, so that even the most escapist works seem to retain an eye for social inequity, industrial excess, capitalist alienation and ecological precarity — and, crucially, some precious rays of personal expression in the shadow cast by them all. If this makes the program sound heavy or off putting, then I d counter that the weight’s not too overbearing; it feels familiar and simply accurate to the everyday experiences we’ve all largely gotten used to. But it’s also more than that — by gathering so many welcome viewpoints, or angles, through which to see our fractured present, P rismatic G round achieves something uplifting and conscientious in its assemblage, creating a sense of broad communion between the artists and viewers of the works it shows. In managing this while still honoring the particulars of the experiences its respective contributors share, the festival offers an e perience of its own that’s angular, aesthetically rich, and not a little buoyant. In a better world, more festivals would look like it — which is all the more reason to enjoy it while it’s on. The works showing online as part of the festival will be available on demand from May 4 - 8 at prismaticground.com. A full program of works and descriptions is available at screenslate.com/ events/ prismatic- ground- 2 0 2 2 .
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CULTURE Q:
Straight guy here in a one- sided open relationship. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to females only, so she could ex plore her bisex ual side. I’m super proud of her for coming out and wanted her to eel ul lled. en e reed to t is s n i e nd ured n t in s e ex perienced would be purely sex ual and nothing more. She recently caught feelings and now has a girlfriend. She stays at her girlfriend’s place one to two nights a week. I get jealous and sick to my stomach when she is over there. She has that “ new relationship energy” going and talks about her girlfriend all the time. Aside from the jealousy, I feel like I am not a priority. I’m hoping my feelings get better with time. B esides this, our marriage is great. I love my wife very much and want to support her in this. Are one- sided open relationships something that can work? Are my eelin s un usti ed nd t c n do to better deal with them? The logic used when we talked about a one- sided open relationship was that I can’t satisfy the female side she desires. B ut since I’m etero don t e n un ul lled side. —Home Alone
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our wife isn t the first person to come out as bisexual after making a monogamous commitment to an opposite se partner and then ask for permission to sleep with other people without wanting to e tend the same permission to their straight spouse. ince she s i and can t get pussy at home, the reasoning goes, she should e allowed to get pussy elsewhere. ince you re straight and can get pussy at home when that pussy is at home , you re not entitled to the same allow ance. ut as your wife is demonstrat ing, , it s not ust pussy she s getting elsewhere. hile she s getting one very specific need met outside your relation ship admittedly a need you can t meet — she’s getting a lot more than that. In addition to pussy, she s getting variety, adventure, uni ue e periences, new relationship energy, and two over nights a week. hy shouldn t you have some of that too ot to even the score, ut to feel like you re an e ual partner in this marriage and, as such, entitled to e ual terms, e ual treatment, and e ual enefits. nd it doesn t sound like you two were on the same page when it came to what opening your relationship entailed. ou seem to have assumed or figured that your wife would e seeking se elsewhere, se and only se , ut your wife caught feelings and
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now she has a girlfriend. greeing to a one sided open relationship is not the same thing as agreeing to one sided polyamory. If you didn t agree to that, , your wife had no right to e pect that from you or impose that on you. That said, one sided open relation ships can e great, , ut they work est when the person who isn t seeking se outside the relationship either isn t interested in having se with other people or is turned on y the erotic power im alance of eing for idden something their spouse is allowed asically, this could work if you were a cuckold. hich you re not.
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I’m a straight man who has been married to a wonderful woman for 3 5 years. I’m the only person she has ever been with. O ver the years she has evolved into a wonderful giving partner open to things that turn me on. I take pride in being able to give her multiple orgasms although she only wants to do this about once per month. She has been happy to give me pleasure multiple times per month even, but she talks of it like it’s a chore ( “ wifely duties” ) and is always asking me why I want it so much. I tell her it is more normal for men to want it more, and I wish she would want it more as well! I have used orn to et off since m teens. S e ccepts this because it means fewer chores for her, but she doesn’t like it. R ecently I started using my phone to take videos of her performing oral on me as I enjoy watching this and it cuts down on the porn. She checked my phone and was upset at what she saw. I told her I was sorry, but she says I should’ve asked for permission. I told her I would have asked for permission, but I knew the answer would be no! She said of course it would be no and she called it sick and gross! I tried to ex plain again that it is q uite normal behavior for most men to want to watch and it is for my eyes only! As I said, she has evolved, as early in the marriage she would have never done some of things she has learned to do while pleasuring me! Long story short, any words of advice on this sex y- for- me, not- so- much- for- her activity. —Sincerely Appreciate Your Advice, Sweet Savage
A : It s not
to take photos or videos of someone performing a se act without their consent, , even if that someone happens to e your wife. ven if that someone happens to have a lower li ido than you do, even if that someone would rather you not look at porn, even if that someone en oys most
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of the things you want them to do not only isn t it , , it s a crime. It s not normal ehavior, it s asshole e havior and, again, in most places it s literally criminal ehavior. o your wife has every right to e upset. ou violated her and did so knowingly you say you didn t ask for permission to make those videos ecause you knew she would say no. ude. If your wife had een writing me, , I would advise her to get a lawyer and divorce you.
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e e r so muc out t e ll important commitment to monogamy in m rri e. t out t e less emphasiz ed but clearly important commitment to a healthy sex life? I’m a straight man. I’ve been married for about 2 0 years. I’ve never cheated on my wife, although I’ve come close in recent years. My wife and I had a healthy sex life for t e rst e rs. or t e l st e rs e en t d se t ll. e re ot in our late 4 0 s, athletic and attractive, and neither of us has any overwhelming physical or mental problems. My wife is just so engrossed in her work and personal identity that she has stopped caring about sex . It’s all well and good to say, “ You need to talk about this with her,” but I know from years of ex perience that would be futile. She refuses to discuss it. And she has made it clear that if I were to do anything outside the marriage, it would amount to an unforgiveable betrayal. I vacillate between acceptance, frustration, bitterness, and deep anger. Yes, I signed on for monogamy. B ut what did she sign on for? Can a woman or man in a monogamous m rri e unil ter ll cut off se or no reason and still ex pect or demand mono m s m i e does t do
I owe her? And what does she owe me? Despite this issue, we are good partners, good friends, and good parents to our two teenage children. Protecting them from the trauma of divorce, and not hurting my wife — these are the reasons I stay in the marriage. B ut it doesn’t feel right or fair that I have to be monogamous, that I will never ex perience physical intimacy again, not so much as a kiss or a touch, for the rest of my life, ec use m i e decided s e is nis ed it t t rt o er li e. t do ot er people think? —Saddened Over Love’s Omissions
A : People in the comment threads
at savage.love have een taking me to task recently for eing too uick to give my lessing to cheating... so, instead of answering this one myself, I m going to open it to the commenters hat do you guys think should do Personally, I don t think a person can insist on monogamy while refusing to meet their partner s reasona le se ual needs. ell, a person can insist on it, ut they shouldn t e pect it. Please don t tell to talk with his wife. e s tried talking a out it he s tried again and again for years and his wife refuses to discuss it. o, gang, what should he do hould he do the right thing and get a divorce r should he do what he needs to do to stay married and stay sane I ll see you in the com ments thread. Ask: q uestions@savagelove.net! Listen to Dan on the Savage Lovecast! ollo n on itter @ e nS age! Columns, podcasts, books, merch, and more at savage.love!
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CULTURE ARIES (March 21-April 19): P oet J ennifer Willoughby writes, “I am so busy. I am practicing my new hobby of watching me become someone else. There is so much violence in reconstruction. E very minute is grisly, but I have to participate. I am building what I cannot break.” I wouldn’t describe your own reconstruction process during recent months as “violent” or “grisly,” A ries, but it has been strenuous and demanding. The good news is that you have mostly completed the most demanding work. Soon the process will become more fun. C ongratulations on creating an unbreakable new version of yourself! TAURUS: April 20 – May 20 R apper and entrepreneur J ay-Z tells us, on t ever go with the flow. Instead, e the flow. ere s what I think he means If we go with the flow, we adjust and accommodate ourselves to a force that is not necessarily aligned with our personal inclinations and needs. To go with the flow implies we are surrendering our autonomy. To claim our full sovereignty, on the other hand, we are wise to e the flow. e should create our own flow, which is
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just right for our unique inclinations and needs. I think this is the right approach for you right now, Taurus. Be the flow. GEMINI: May 21 – June 20 The Italian language used to be a dialect spoken in Tuscany. That area comprises less than 8 % of the country’s territory. ow did such a dramatic evolution happen? Why did a local dialect supersede other dialects like P iedmontese, N eapolitan, Sicilian, and others? In part, it was because three potent 1 4 th-century writers wrote in the Tuscan dialect: D ante A lighieri, Francesco P etrarch, and G iovanni Boccaccio. A nother reason: Because Tuscany is centrally located in Italy, its dialect was less influenced y languages in rance and other near y countries. I offer this as a metaphor for you in the coming months. O ne of your personal talents, a liations, or inclinations could ecome more influential and widespread — and have more authority in your life. CANCER: June 21 – July 22 “A lways strive to be more interested than interesting,” said actor and activist J ane Fonda. That may not be easy for you to accomplish in the near future, dear C ancerian. Y our curiosity will be at peak levels, but you may also be extra compelling and captivating. So I’ll amend Fonda’s advice: G ive yourself permission to be both as interested and as interesting as you can imagine. E ntertain the world with your lively personality as you go in quest of new information, fresh perceptions, and unprecedented experiences. LEO: July 23 – August 22 “When in doubt, act like G od,” proclaimed Leo singer-songwriter Madonna. I wouldn’t usually endorse that advice. But I’ll make an exception for you Leos during the next three weeks. ue to a divine configuration of astrological omens, you are authorized to ascend to new heights of sovereignty and self-possession — even to the point of doing a vivid G od impersonation. For best results, don’t choose an angry, jealous, tyrannical deity to be your role model. P attern yourself after a sweeter, funnier, more intimate type of celestial being. VIRGO: August 23 – Sept. 22 My V irgo friend A manda told me she felt tight and overwrought. She was overthinking and on the verge of a meltdown. With a rueful sigh, she added, “I adore anything that helps me decompress, unwind, simmer down, stop worrying, lighten up, compose myself, and mellow out.” So I invited her to take deep breaths, close her eyes,
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agittarian author nn Patchett. er thought may be helpful for you to meditate on. My guess is that you will ultimately be glad that things didn’t go the way you planned. G od or your igher elf or the Mysterious orces of D estiny will conspire to lead you away from limited expectations or not-bigenough visions so as to offer you igger and better blessings. JAMES NOELLERT
and visualize herself immersed in bluegreen light. Then I asked her to name influences she loved people, animals, natural places, music, ooks, films, art, and physical movements that made her feel happy to be alive. She came up with eight different sources of liss, and together we meditated on them. alf an hour later, she was as rela ed as she had been in months. I recommend you try a comparable exercise every day for the next 1 4 days. Be proactive about cultivating tranquil delight. LIBRA: Sept. 23 – Oct. 22 A uthor A nne Lamott is renowned for her tender approach to expressing her struggles with addiction, depression, and other tribulations. O ne of her supreme tests was being a single mother who raised her son Sam. In this effort, she was her usual plucky self. A nytime she hosted playdates with Sam’s young friends at her home, she called on the help of crayons and paint and pens and clay and scissors. “When “ we did art with the kids, the demons would lie down, she testified. I recommend a comparable strategy for you in the coming days, Libra. Y ou will have extra power as you tame, calm, or transform your demons. Making art could be effective, as well as any task that spurs your creativity and imagination. SCORPIO: Oct. 23 – Nov. 21 “My heart has developed a kind of amnesia, where it remembers everything but itself,” writes Scorpio poet a rina enaim. If you suffer a condition that resembles hers, it’s about to change. A ccording to my astrological analysis, your heart will soon not only remember everything; it will also remember itself. What a blissful homecoming that will be — although it may also be unruly and confounding, at least in the beginning. But after the initial surprise calms down, you will celebrate a dramatic enhancement of emotionally rich self-knowledge. Y ou will feel united with the source of your longing to love and be loved. SAGITTARIUS: Nov. 22 – Dec. 21 “J ust because things hadn’t gone the way I had planned didn’t necessarily mean they had gone wrong,” writes
CAPRICORN: Dec. 22 – Jan. 19 N ovelist J ane A usten ( 1 7 7 5 –1 8 1 7 ) confessed she was a “wild beast.” R eally? The author who wrote masterfully about the complex social lives of wealthy ritish people ere s my theory: The wild beast in her made her original, unsentimental, humorous, and brilliant in creating her stories. ow is your own inner wild east, apricorn? A ccording to my reading of the astrological omens, now is an excellent time to give it fun, rich assignments. hat parts of your life would enefit from tapping into raw, primal energy? AQUARIUS: Jan. 20 – Feb. 18 A quarian poet J ack G ilbert wrote, “I lie in the dark wondering if this quiet in me now is a beginning or an end.” I don’t know how G ilbert solved his dilemma. But I suspect you will soon be inclined to pose a similar question. In your case, the answer will be that the quiet in you is a beginning. A h! But in the early going, it may not resemble a beginning. Y ou might be puzzled by its fuzzy, meandering quality. But sooner or later, the quiet in you will become fertile and inspirational. Y ou will ride it to the next chapter of your life story. PISCES: Feb.19 – March 20 The genre of poetry known as haiku often relies on unexpected juxtapositions. ritic . . lyth o served, In haiku, the two entirely different things that are joined in sameness are poetry and sensation, spirit and matter.” I suspect your life in the coming weeks will have metaphorical resemblances to haikus. Y ou will be skilled at blending elements that aren’t often combined, or that should be blended but haven’t been. For inspiration, read these haikus by R aymond R oseliep. 1 . in the stream / stones making half / the music. 2 . horizon / wild swan drifting through / the woman’s body. 3 . birthcry! / the stars / are all in place. 4 . bathwater / down the drain / some of me. 5 . grass / holding the shape / of our night. . campfire e tinguished, the woman washing dishes / in a pan of stars. T h is week ’s h omework : You can now make a change that has previously seemed impossible. What is it?
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