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MOM, COOL IT! by Harry Friesen Underlying calmness was the overriding principle by which my mother lived. Her view of life reflected that God is always in con­ trol, even though it wasn’t that evident in her restless son.

s a teenager 1 was full of energy, enjoyed life and believed there was hardly a thing 1 didn’t know. In my .opinion, the restrictions put on me by my parents kept me from the fun everyone else was involved in. Obviously, my parents were out of touch and, without question, too oldfashioned. With that in mind, 1 informed my mother of my in­ tention to leave home and start really living. However, to my surprise, it didn’t seem to excite her. In quiet confidence she responded by telling me that if 1 left, they as parents might not be aware of all my actions, but God Wcis unavoidable. He would see all 1 did. She left her advice at that, and continued her work. To my knowledge the subject was never discussed again and 1 never left home. To this day 1 admire her confidence in God. She could have made a big fuss and given me a hundred good reasons why 1 should remain at home. She, however, realized that arguing would only increase the tension and hasten my exit.

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The suddenness of an anger­ provoking situation does not make an ill-tempered man, it only shows the illtempered man I am. Underlying calmness was the overriding principle by which she lived. Her view of life reflected that God is always in con­ trol, even though it wasn’t that evident in her restless son. She had committed her son into the care of God. For years she had taught me, been involved in taking me to Sunday school and church. In many different ways 1 had been taught to work, respect and love others. The discomforts of having my ears and nose cleaned still haunt my memory. Now, however, it was time to let God teach her son. Her faith in God was critically important to the quality of

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decisions and actions during conflicting circumstances. My desire for the good life, accompanied by my foolish suggestion, did not hinder my mother’s faith and confidence in God. She was totally unimpressed by her son’s rebellious attitude. Her firm, yet calm, reaction impressed me much more than the ac­ tual words she spoke. My mother could have blown up, cut me down, and called me ignorant for such a foolish idea. She chose rather to show, by her reaction, what faith in God really meant. I he provoking events we encounter throughout life are not the cause of our anger and resentment. Someone has il­ lustrated it this way: Picture a cellar invaded with rats. You are most likely to see them if you enter very suddenly. However, the suddenness of your entry does not create the rats, it only prevents enough time for them to hide. The sud­ denness of an anger-provoking situation does not make an illtempered man, it only shows the ill-tempered man I am. To re­ main calm, yet firm, in a tension situation is to clearly under­ stand my limitations and, on the other hand, understand God’s power in changing lives and situations. The anger we wish to destroy may not be the primary problem. My mother desperately desired a change in her son’s life, but she refused to compromise her confidence in God by taking things into her own hands. She wasn’t out to prove that she was right. Her interests lay in seeing me experience God’s best. She was determined to respect and love her children as God loved her. So many times we are tempted to take control of a situation and forget about God. It is then that things get unbearably worse. We don’t think clearly and say the most ridiculous things. The moment we ignore the overriding power of God, there is a fear within us that, unless we control, our whole world will cave in on us. So we try to forcefully change people to nourish our own insecurity. As husbands, wives, church leaders, fellow Christians, and as

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parents we are responsible to give direction to one another, but underlying all direction is a clear understanding that only God can change the human heart. Without that in mind, it becomes easy to insult and hurt those we wish to change. We have this strange idea that if he or she doesn’t change we will insult so they (my son or daughter, husband, wife, or whoever) will at least feel miserable. That misery, then, at least gives me a little satisfaction. Such fear and insecurity only lead to disaster in a relationship. If I can’t even change the unfavorable behaviour in my own life, how do I expect to change it in others? It only takes a few steps in the Christian life to realize that any lasting or major change comes from beyond me, and only from God.

he Bible speaks of the Christian “being born again,” “putting on Christ,” “Christ being formed in us” and the Christian “having the mind of Christ.” What is meant by such strange sayings? They express more than reading of Christ and trying to cany out his teaching. The Christ of the Bible means a real person. This Christ is here and now, in us right where we are at any point in time, and he himself by the Holy Spirit is working in us. He is not merely a question of a good man who died 2000 years ago, but he is now actively involved in man’s activities. Unless this Christ personally intereferes with my life, no worthwhile change takes place. Only Christ can kill the natural self which persistently seeks to surface.

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It takes only a few steps in the Chris­ tian life to realize that any lasting or major change comes from beyond me, and only from cod. The human heart, or natural self, is saturated with fears. Fear of public opinion, fear of personal rejection, fear of never hav­ ing any significant impact on society, fear of losing superiority and control, and finally the fear of death itself. All my will power, my scheming and subtle manipulation cannot remove those fears. Unless Christ intervenes, fear remains my lifelong partner. At the most, we allow him to make that change in us. To tell a sinner to stop sinning is like telling a person who has just jumped off a ten-floor building to stop falling at the se­ cond floor. Someone other than the falling person must prepare

a net, and save him from the obvious. The falling person can­ not help himself. The change we seek to develop and see in others is often ac­ curate and admirable. The approach we use is not always as positive. Everyone of us can think of someone in whom a change is needed. It could be a wife, a husband, a son, a daughter, or parents. The appropriate question may be this, “Have I truly committed that person into the care of God? Do 1 manipulate, do I insult, thinking in some way to change that person to my own liking?”

To tell a sinner to stop sinning is like telling a person who has just jumped off a ten-floor building to stop falling at the second floor. y suggestion is this (and it comes in the form of a prayer): iLord, I know you are a God who never changes. I know you love me, and will never forsake me. It was you who saved me and gave me eternal life. Today I bring to you a particular person whom I have tried for months or years to change. I have become frustrated and at times even bitter towards that person. Lord, forgive me for this. In trying to change this person I have neglected to follow your guidelines or gentleness and unconditional love. For this I also ask that you forgive me. Even now. Lord, 1 sense some doubts, but I most desperately want your power to change my own attitude, from blaming to accepting. Sometimes I know I wanted to see change just to make life easier for me. Lord, for such selfishness I again ask you to forgive. With all my heart I recommit my life to you. Father, I commit the person for whom I am concerned into your care. I have been trying to run that person’s life, but from now on I ask that you change him/her as you see best, not necessarily how I think change should take place. Lord, remind me every day of your power to change the human heart. Work in me, that I may always continue to love this person without conditions. I know you are a God who can be trusted! May my new confidence in you be reflected in the many decisions I make each day.

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The Dedication Service of the Community Bible Fellowship

on Highway 83, south of Swan River, will be held on

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MY MOTHER

MY FRIEND

Helena Dueck

pleasant to play with my cousins Lena and Anne. But Mother had said no. What would happen if 1 would scream and carry on, run after her? It worked. She stopped, got out of the buggy and set me down alongside of her. Her explanation was clear and valid. In the end I felt honored to be old enough to stay home with my sister.

“DEAR YOUR HONOR,” wrote an eight-year-old boy to a judge in St. Paul, Minnesota. “I thank you so much for letting my mom and dad adopt me. I’ll be nine soon, and I’m in Cub Scouts ...” That letter, with a few changes, could be mine. For quite a while I did not think of my adoption with gratitude-just selfish acceptance. However, after I met Jesus Christ, my attitude has changed, and my thankfulness has been growing in both recognition and a deep abiding love for both my mother and father. When I was a child, I thought that my mother, Anna Reimer Kornelsen, was a big woman. In reality she wasn’t very tall but fair­ ly big-built, as Reimers were. She had dark hair and her eyes were beautiful, dark brown and expressive. By nature she was optimistic, warm and caring. She loved children. Her philosophy was that everyone had something of worth to contribute to life, beginning first at home and then going on to the larger community. For relax­ ation and solace she gathered children about her and took walks, introducing each bird and flower, ants and bees, with fascinating little stories. I must have been about five when I first became aweire of the har­ mony in nature and the wonder of family relationships. My father was out in the field, my older sister and brother in school and Mother had work to do in the garden. I was all by myself, sitting on the steps. One of my ears was tuned to the open bedroom window where my baby brother was asleep. At the same time, I felt the tug to be out there exploring what was new in the line of blossoms or playing hop-scotch on the dancing shadows cast by a plum tree that grew just back of the summer kitchen. But Mother’s orders were for me to stay where I was, and she trusted me to obey. That she expected obedience I learned another time when she was driving out to her sister’s house. 1 looked longingly at her as she got into the buggy. How I wished to go along! It would be so PAGE 4

THERE WERE OTHER TIMES when we could go along. I remember particularly one trip to Winnipeg that was more signifi­ cant to my parents than to me. Nevertheless, a trip to the big city was exciting. We were all dressed up. My sister and I had new beige dresses with tan trim and breast pockets. I could feel that my mother had pride in our appearance. Dresses, as a rule, were not one of her priorities. However, that was an important day, for we were going to the Children’s Aid Society office for an important interview. In the Eaton’s store we went to the washroom with Mother. Tempta­ tion lay there for me on the window sill in the form of a chocolate bar. And it seemed to belong to no one. I took a bite and then another. “Mom won’t like that,” my sister said. Quickly, while Mother washed her hands, I stuck the bar into my pocket. In no time a dark stain spread on my silky light dress. Mother did not scold me much for the stain, but took time to explain to me the sin of taking something that was not mine and even the fact that the bar could have germs on it. That would be soiling my body as well as my con­ science. To my six-year-old mind, that dark stain stood for something that time could not erase. About seven years later the stain was still there and spreading. I came to a day when, in spite of exquisitely clear, blue skies and summer sunshine, all of life appeared bleak and hopeless. By mid­ afternoon, when everyone was outside, I assumed, I walked upstairs to my room to think things through and to talk to God. I knelt down, not knowing what words to use or what things to say. My customary prayers did not seem suitable. Suddenly Mother slipped into the room and knelt down beside me. How did she know of my need? It was then that the Word that she had used so consistently in her everyday conversation lived for me and made music in my heart. There was a new heaven and a new sunshiny earth out there, pro­ mising me joy for my teen years, and I was unafraid. IN KEEPING with my mother’s character and talents, she did a lot of home nursing. It may have begun way back when she nursed her sister and then her mother. Generally she did her work under the supervision of doctors who made housecalls in those days. One time she was quarantined, together with my uncle and his family, because of typhoid fever. At another time she took psychological leadership for an emotionally ill person. One of the things that I did not always appreciate about my mother was her hospitality and open-door philosophy. It seemed to me that there was always someone staying with us. People who needed care, a home or a job -young people or old people or children. Often my room was needed, or at least I would have to share it. With the sharing of our home she also shared her faith in Jesus Christ. Even years after I left home, it was nothing out of the ordinary to find a cousin from Mexico living with them. Another time it was a young single mother and her little son. I cannot recall ever hearing my mother holding any human being up as superior because of rank or position or wealth. Each person, she said, had a calling to do

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that for which they were best suited, whether it was serving in the church as a minister, tilling the soil or going from home to home selling Watkins products or fabrics like the “Farmer Jew” did. Likewise, she let each one of us know that our being different one from the other gave her pleasure. For instance, my sister’s ready laugh and knack with food, the fact that my older brother, just by his presence could soothe ruffled spirits, my younger brother’s sen­ sitivity and love of music and my own interests in books and sewing. Often during my teen years when I was reading in bed. Mother would come up and lie down across the foot of my bed. She knew how to draw me out by a few questions, and before 1 knew it, I was telling her all about my youthful dreams and visions, friends and enemies and whatever I was reading or writing at the time. She, in turn, told me recollections of her often lonely childhood, her love for her mother, the miraculous conversion of one of her brothers, the special sister who died young and whom 1 was named after and-very important to me-the story of my adoption. All of these things were discussed and marvelled at, and sometimes we even forgot the difference in our ages. Those late nights are among my fondest memories of my mother, and still affect me today. It must have been during one of these sheiring sessions that, much to my surprise. Mother yielded to my pleas to get a perm. To be sure, neither of us knew much about them except what I had read in the papers. Permanent waves were quite new at that time and even more so in our area. To get it done 1 had to go to Winnipeg, and I’m sure from the last-minute advice and instructions she gave

that she had some misgivings about allowing me at age fifteen to go to Winnipeg by myself. Well, 1 came home humbly enough. Never before or after have 1 seen such disastrous results from any perm. ALTHOUGH MY MOTHER was always ready to comfort and encourage other people with verses from God’s Word and her own belief in them, she herself experienced periods of depression and self-doubts. During such times she would spin or sew and sing a lot. To this day I can feel the melancholy when 1 hear some of those songs. At such times I recognized that she had a privacy about her that I could not enter. Mother died on a beautiful May day, just when spring was com­ ing into bloom. One day she was there, full of hospitality, serving refreshments to guests-the next day she was gone. It was just the way I would have wished it for her. But I missed her-oh so much more than I ever thought I would. And 1 found myself remember­ ing Bible verses that she used-verses that spoke of love and forgiveness, faith and promises. “I will never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you” (Heb. 13:5). There are so many traits and remembrances of my mother that 1 cherish, and a few that I regret. But of one thing 1 am sure - no one on earth has had a greater im­ pact on my life. I can see her still, this Anna Reimer of whom I’ve been writing— her dark hair grey around the face done up in a knot on top of her head and her warm brown eyes deep with understanding. She was my mother. ■

I loved you enough to insist that you buy a bike, that we could afford to give you, with your own money. I loved you enough to make you return a Milky-Way—with a bite out of it—to a drugstore and to confess; “I stole this.”

A Mother’s Love Some day when my children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a mother, I will tell them;

I loved you enough to ask you about where you were go­ ing, with whom and what time you would get home.

I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room, a job that would have taken me 15 minutes. I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappoint­ ment, disgust and tears in my eyes. I loved you enough to admit I was wrong and ask for your forgiveness.

I loved you enough to let you stumble, fall, and hurt. But most of all, I loved you enough to say NO when you hated me for it. That was the hardest part of all. Author unknown CONTRIBUTORS: Harry Friesen is the pastor of Pineridge Fellowship Chapel at Hudson Bay, Sask. His message, “Mom, Cool It!” concludes our cur­ rent pastors’ series. We thank the eleven pastors who shared their messages with our readers. Helena Dueck of Steinbach provided us with a Mother’s Day feature. A member of the Steinbach E.M. Church, Helena is a hair-' dresser and free-lance writer. Gary Martens of Kleefeld has written a sixpart series on Christian stewardship, which begins in this issue. It is presented under the auspices of the Estates Committee. COVER: We feature scenes from the Leader­ ship Retreat at Camp Arnes, April 15-17. By the editor.

THE MESSENGER is the publication of the Evangelical Mennonite Conference. Its purpose is to inform, instruct, and inspire. Inform as to what is going on in the Conference; instruct in Godliness and victorious living; inspire to earnestly contend for the faith. All correspondence should be addressed to the Editor Menno Hamm, Box 1268, Steinbach, Manitoba, ROA 2A0. Letters, articles, art and poetry are welcomed. Views expressed in Letters to the Editor are not necessarily those of the editor nor of the paper. Unpublished articles are not returned except by request. Subscription Members pay through their church. Non-members pay $6.00 per year. Send subscription money to The Messenger, Box 1268, Steinbach, Manitoba, R0A2A0. THE MESSENGER is published every other week by The Evangelical Mennonite Conference Board of Education and Publication, Box 1268, Stein­ bach, Manitoba, ROA 2A0. Second Class Mail; Registration Number 0591. Undelivered copies, change of address and new subscriptions should be mailed to the above address. The Messenger is a member of Meetinghouse.

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CHRISTIAN STEWARDSHIP by Gary Martens Christian leaders have a duty to teach God’s people both the responsibility and joys of giving. Such teaching has a spiritual goal. Its aim is not to raise money but to set Christians free from their bondage to money, to teach them the liberty of liberality and thus increase their joy in the Lord. - John White, The Golden Cow Keeping this quotation in mind I would like to explore the biblical perspectives on five areas of Christian stewardship: 1) earning, 2) spending, 3) bonowing, 4) saving, 5) giving. Usually we think only of money when we think about steward­ ship, but we also have been given a resource called time. We need to be good stewards of that as well. What is Jesus’ attitude to wealth and prosperity? Read Matthew 6:19-21. Paraphrased, it would read: Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth where televisions go on the blink, cars depreciate, fashionable clothes go out of style, where bonds and jewels can be stolen, insurance companise and banks go broke, war and inflation destroys the value of property and assets, but rather spend your energy accumulating a celestial fortune. Is this a command or a recommendation? Jesus does not exalt

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cColumn pncern WE WILL REAP WHAT WE SOW It’s a wonderful promise for those who sow good seed. We as Christians can look forward to that everlasting harvest. 1 cannot find words to explain how important it is to sow good seed and how we will feel when we will harvest that golden crop forever and ever. And I cannot find words to explain the op­ posite. We can imagine terrible pictures. But we would be far out even then concerning those who are careless about what they sow. In this world of plenty we are in danger of forgetting that the road to heaven is a narrow road. So if we have health and wealth and everything is going smoothly then it is time to be careful what we do since there is so much risk of sowing the wrong seed. On the radio the speaker on “The Lutheran Hour” was really concerned about some television programs like dirty sexual programs. A few days later I read the Radio Bible Class booklet, “Overcoming Addiction.” They ad­ vised unplugging the TV set for a few weeks

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poverty for poverty’s sake, he is just appealing to our common sense. Does it not make more sense to work for those things that are ultimately more valuable? By our statement of faith we agree with this, but by our behaviour what are we telling those around us? How can we test whether we are materialistic? We can ask ourselves, “Is faith present?” Faith in an invisible God can be demonstrated by power over material things, either power to manipulate them or power to escape enslavement to them. An alcoholic can be cured only if he admits to his problem. Most alcoholics obviously have a problem but they do not see their pro­ blem . Neither do their alcoholic friends. After a while it just appears to be a normal way of life. Is materialism similar? Enslavement to the visible makes faith in the invisible suspect. The desire to possess material things and the love for God seem to be in conflict. Some might suppose then that material things are bad. Christ taught us to despise neither our bodies nor material things. God created the physical universe and then pronounced it good. But Jesus promised us if we seek first His kingdom all these material things would be ours as well (Matthew 6:31-33). If we are to have faith like the sparrows or lilies, is it wrong to have a good job? Earn lots of money? Is it wrong to save? Should we never make provisions for the future? Does Jesus’ teaching open the way for irresponsibility? Where do common sense and prudence end and hoarding of treasure and greed begin?

and seeing what develops - better family com­ munication, more time to think, better physical development, more reading and more consistent spiritual growth. Even though Radio Bible Class has programs on TV, they warn us to be careful about what we watch. We should remember that what our young people or children watch can bring either good or bad fruit. “Well, my children are good, they watch only good programs,” you think. This reminds me of two neighbours years ago. One had a dog and the neighbour said the dog came in­ to his place off and on. “1 don’t think so. He is always sleeping at the front door when I go out in the morning,” said the dog owner. “Well, then I don’t know,” said the neighbour to him. A few days later the neighbour phoned, “You may come and get your dog. 1 have penned him up here.” What does your child switch on when you are not around? It is so easy to switch channels. In 1 John 2:16 we read, “For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eye, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.” Can we say that watching TV has nothing to do with the lust of the eye? The writer, John, won’t ever have heard about TV, I imagine. What did he have in mind then? Could he have thought about jewellery? Of course, other things too. I wonder sometimes how many thousands of dollars people in our Conference have spent on jewellery in the last ten years. If it were $10,000, let’s say this had been given to the Food Bank instead, where the government gives three dollars for each dollar donated. Then we have withheld $40,000 which could feed many hungry people.

Should we not be really thankful that our government has such a good heart for the hungry? And even then we have to pray for them that they may rule so that we may live in peace for years to come. Don’t our prayers help to keep the government upright? May we really be humble before God that he may give us this grace so that the generations to come may also live in peace as we have. As important as it is to pray for our government, is it not even more important to pray for our churches that they will be in harmony with

God? I have experienced a different winter than usual. I had a mishap on one of my knees in the beginning of January so I spent a lot of time lying on the sofa. And it just so hap­ pened that I could always look through a door where I saw a picture on the wall with the sun almost setting and a nice red evening sky. It was comforting to me. As you may know, a nice red evening sky usually means a nice day for tomorrow. The sun setting would mean for the aged that life could be over in a few years. And how good if we then can have the hope for a better future. In that picture there were also some little clouds sailing by, which could mean for us some disappointments or tribulations to overcome here before we are through with life. One of the prayers that I prayed during these days was that Jesus would draw me closer to him so that I could see better what he wanted from me. He answered my prayer, but in a completely different way than I ex­ pected. I was so much better already that I could go out by myself with the car again. Then 1 damaged my other knee. I was in the hospital for more than a month for therapy. It was really a disappointment for me. But,

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Leona Dueck Penner

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Musings on the empty nest syndrome

drome (if you can call it that with five siblings remaining in it!), must have been very intense for her since she really did lose a child (albeit a mature child!), while 1, this past September, simply “let go” an adult. A young man who left by choice, not of necessity. Very ready

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This past September, our eldest son “flew My sister and her husband “lost” two and cook. the coop” to begin life as a quite separate children last fall: an 18-year-old to a job andI guess that’s why my goodbyes to my son being—a third-year student at Conrad Grebel her own apartment in town, and a 16-yearwere less painful than 1 expected; why 1 can College, in faraway Waterloo, Ontario. Since old to Caronport for Grade 12. And, looking look around his empty room, shed a few senthen, 1 have been listening more closely to back on my personal history, my parents said timental tears over the Narnia series (children’s others who have experienced, or are ex- goodbye to me when 1 was a mere 15. I left books) left behind on his bookshelves, and get periencing, a measure of the “empty nest syn- school and home in order to get a Job, doing on with my life . . . drome.” (It’s amazing how personal ex- housework on a large “Englanda” farm, so Also, I take comfort from the wisdom of my perience sharpens our hearing!) that 1 could help out financially. In those days (still-at-home-Thank-goodness!) 17-year-old Luckily, our son was 20 when he decided there just wasn’t a whole lot of time for son who said, on reading the above; “What to cut the strings and fly on his own. Also, childhood—raising a family of eleven kids, do you mean your sister‘lost’two children this we were, in a sense, prepared, since we’d even during the mid-fifties, was very expen- fall? They’re not lost. The word is much too already had a foretaste of “losing” him when sive, and my parents needed all the help they strong. They haven’t disappeared. They’ll he spent six months in boarding school in could get. 1keep on coming . .back. . They’ll always be her Swciziland a few years back. Others 1 know But even now, three decades later, my children ..." have had their children leave home much mom still mourns my leaving home at such And, as so often happens these days, he earlier. a young age. The pain of the empty nest syn- was right, of course . . .

praise God, 1 can fully trust him that this was his will. I have met many people in the hospital with whom I would not want to change. Some had had a stroke, others had their hip replaced, some had broken shoulders or arms, some had headaches. Yes. I have many reasons to be thankful - my wife and family who care for me, all their prayers, as well as the prayers from the church. Small grandchildren drew

get well cards to show their love and sym­ pathy and many visitors showed their love. I appreciated the care in the hospital from the nurses and staff very much as well. All this, together with the grace of God, made it possi­ ble to overcome the disappointment. May God bless you all for your love and care. B.P.D. Reimer Blumeryort, Man.

P.S. I would like to thank those who made it possible to have an elevator put in our church. Now 1 can also come to the services with a wheelchair. 1 would like to let those on wheelchairs or who cannot walk stairs know that you can come for services like conven­ tions, funerals or weddings. Just with a finger­ tip control you can go to whichever floor you want. S8..

Plan now to hear Dr. Chuck Nichols' messages on

THE HOME INVADERS at the EMC Annual Convention, July 9 and 10, in Biumenort, Manitoba

Individualism - A Problem of'T Trouble A presentation examining the over-emphasis on rights and the impact that it has had on the home. A Biblical alternative will also be presented.

Media ■ A "Mess" of Messages A presentation discussing the influence of the media on the Christian family with suggestions from Scripture on how to overcome the negative influences.

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Philosophies - A "Pile" of Problems A presentation about the contemporary belief and value systems that are impacting the Christian home and ways to countermand them. APRIL 29, 1988

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Roger Plett led the worship sessions with hearty singing.

1988 EMC Leadership Retreat

Camp Arnes on the west shore of Lake Winnipeg was the setting of the 1988 EMC Leadership Retreat. As guests arrived at the camp Friday afternoon, April 15, Martha Kroeker and Mary Penner ably handled their registrations and directed them to their lodg­ ing. A total of 128 ministers, deacons, mis­ sionaries and their spouses registered. The camp staff provided meals and snacks in the /! dining hall, which gave our ladies a welcome ( break from kitchen duty. J The wigwam, with its large windows •n overlooking the lake, was a picturesque set­ ting for the formal meetings. The cheery j warmth in the fireplace (and the furnace) t dispelled the shivers from the chilly wind i outside. The inspirational sessions Friday and ( 1 ] Saturday evening and Sunday morning opened with 10-15 minutes of uninterrupted singing led by Roger Plett of Mennville. This *■ was appreciated very much. The worship „• also included Scripture readings, and solos ■ by Kathy Klassen of Heron. The sessions I were chaired by Edwin Friesen. Harold Volleyball provides a good release of energy for Jantz, editor of Christian Week, challengsome. ed the audience with his messages on the theme “Serving God and Man in our Time.” >■ ■

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The service on Saturday evening conclud­ ed with a sharing and prayer time in small groups. The Lord drew very near during the communion at the close of the Sunday mor­ ning service. Arden Thiessen chaired the ministerial meeting on Saturday morning to which everyone was invited. Two statements were discussed: The Holy Spirit and Active/Inactive EMC Ministerial. The first was amended and accepted, the second tabled for further revision and discussion. The brief but informative reports from many churches were stimulating. God is at work. The weather warmed up suitably for the free time Saturday afternoon. Some hiked along the beach or trails. Others chatted out­ side or in the lounge. A number participated in volleyball or shuffleboard games. Many enjoyed the water of the indoor pool and hot tub. It was a great weekend. We thank the planning committee for their efforts: Edwin and Lil Friesen, Roger and Clarice Plett, and Menno and Mary Penner, as well as Mar­ tha Kroeker, our Conference secretary. Un­ fortunately illness prevented Menno Penner from attending the retreat. Menno Hamm

New members at the ministerial meeting were (left to right) Tom and Connie Peachey, Minister of Youth and Music at Swift Current, and Lorna and Ken Penner, deacon at Prairie Grove.

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Food was served cafeteria style so all had to wait their turn.

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Meal times provided opportunity to chat while refueling.

Some prefer the spectator role in the warm sun.

Serving God and Man The following are some notes from Harold Jantz’s messages at the Leadership Retreat: As Christians we face a world that challenges, tests and tempts us. We want help in recognizing and confronting the powers, values and evils in the world, bear­ ing in mind that we have an evangelistic mandate to which we must answer (see Jeremiah 29:4-7; Matthew 5:13-16; 28:18-20).

A. Setting Direction (Perspectives) for Our Witness 1. Understand what it means to be the church. The Bible tells us that the church is at the very center of real history. God’s peo­ ple ought always to move toward an expres­ sion of community. Complete unity of believers best expresses the presence of Christ in this world. 2. Understand what the gospel is all about. The good news of Jesus Christ gets to the heart of man’s needs. The gospel lifts us, frees us, makes us whole people. 3. Understand something of the meaning of culture. Culture is the way in which socie-

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ty expresses itself through a variety of means. The values expressed may be positive or negative, depending on our perspective. 4. Understand something of the role of government. Governments need to be en­ couraged in their role of restraining evil, and maintaining justice, fairness and equity. The church, however, is different, operating on the law of love.

B. Major Issues (Colossians 2:6-8) 1. Abortion. We need to affirm that God is the giver and taker of life and that abor­ tion is an irresponsible approach to sex, an inhumane solution to human problems. 2. Wealth and Poverty. Christians can counteract the great disparity of wealth in the world by avoiding entrapment by an ideology, affirming the dignity and worth of work, encouraging and practicing steward­ ship and resisting selfishness. 3. Militarism and Conflict. It is dehumaniz­ ing when people see each other as enemies. Christians have a role in reconciliation when adversarial relationships develop in areas (continued on page 10)

Left to right: Martha Kroeker, publicity and registration: Edwin and Lil Friesen, planning and chairman; Harold and Neoma Jantz, speaker; Roger and Clarice Plett, planning and worship. Menno and Mary Pen­ ner were also on the planning committee, unable to attend due to illness.

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Missions Canadian Consultation on Recruitment for Missions There is an increasing missions awareness among the younger generation in Canada. However, statistics show that the increase in mission awareness has not correlated with a surge in new personnel. This is the central issue to be addressed by the Canadian Con­ sultation on Recruitment for Missions, which will be held in Toronto on September 9 and 10, 1988. The Consultation will involve a wide representation of individuals and agencies with a vested interest in missions recruiting. The participants will meet on the Ontario Bi­ ble College and Theological Seminary (OBC/OTS) campus for two days, attending sessions, small group discussions, and workshops. The organizers hope to prioritize problems and issues related to missions recruiting in Canada and facilitate creative co­ operative problem solving. Two of the issues that will be discussed are the adequacy of recruiters and recruiting tools. Recruiters need to be encouraged to pursue their calling with the same passion as the church planter or evangelist. To this end there is a need for recruiters to actively cultivate the skills and understanding necessary to in­ fluence men and women away from culturally comfortable lifestyles to radical discipleship. The use of outdated media for missions education and recruiting conveys to young people, raised on state-of-the-art film and television, that the cause represented (world evangelism) is itself substandard. ‘Madison Avenue’ strategies may not be the answer; however, using professionally produced, con­ temporary media for communication is critical in educating and recruiting young adults for missions. The Consultation will focus to some extent on young adults pursuing professional career

(continued from page 9) such as labour and management. 4. Pursuit of Pleasure. Self-gratification at the expense of others is at the root of issues such as pornography, homosexuality, and marriage break-ups. C. Strategies to Serve God and Man in our Time (Ephesians 4:17-21; 5:3,8-16) 1. Personal initiative - a personal defence in a spirit of gentleness against the power of evil where we find ourselves. 2. Collective action - As churches or organizations we make a greater impact. 3. Symbolic witness - the cup of cold

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tracks. As a result of changing political realities worldwide, the need for individuals with marketable skills to proclaim the gospel has increased dramatically. However, many mis­ sion executives find that this is one subgroup that is the hardest to mobilize. It is hoped that out of the Consultation will come some prac­ tical solutions to help mission agencies cap­ ture the imaginations of young professionals. The Consultation will be jointly sponsored by OBC/OTS and the Interdenominational Foreign Missions Association/Canada (IFMA/Canada). There are an estimated 50-60 mission organizations in Canada that could make a contribution to and benefit from this

Consultation. The organizers are working toward participation by the majority of them. The Canadian Consultation on Recruitment for Missions will encourage new thinking and the implementation of new ideas and methodologies by individual missions as well as co-operatively between missions. Consulta­ tion Director Dr. Artaj Singh stated, “The Ho­ ly Spirit has been blessing our generation with a renewed vision and energy to give every man and woman the opportunity to say ‘Yes’ to Jesus Christ. It is our sincere desire to see mission recruiters in Canada tap into the tremendous potential of this new generation to fulfill the Great Commission in our age.”

AIMM BOARD ELECTS NEW OFFICERS Elkhart, IN (AIMM)-The Board of the Africa Inter-Mennonite Mission met in Des Plaines, Illinois, April 7-9 for the 1988 Spring session. Newly elected of­ ficers are: Henry Klassen, President; Harry Hyde, Vice-President; Jeanne Zook, Secretary. Earl Roth, Executive

Secretary, and Lawrence Giesbrecht, Ex­ ecutive Committee member, will leave for Africa April 20 on a six-week ad­ ministrative visit. Henry Klassen, Stein­ bach, MB, is the executive secretary for the E.M.C. Board of Missions.

ELKHARDT, IN (AIMM)

Derksen Adds Chaplain Responsibilities in Zaire In the University Parish Rick Derksen began his duties as part-time Protestant chaplain at the University of Kananga, Zaire in December. Rick and his wife Marilyn recently located in Kananga, Zaire’s second largest city, to assist the Mennonite churches of that urban center with evangelism and water in the name of Christ. 4. Witness to ultimate concern - We are accountable to God. 5. Intermediate steps - reaching a goal in small steps. 6. Prayer - God can work in hearts we cannot touch. 7. Evangelistic witness - Our goal is to be redemptive, to see people won to Christ, changed at the core. “We must think and out-think our opposi­ tion, not in our own strength, but with the Word of God and in the Spirit of Christ, working together, helping to turn our society back to its Maker, to the purpose for which it was made.” Menno Hamm

church planting. Previously they had been based at Kalonda where Rick was Director of the Evangelism Department for the Mennonite Church of Zaire (CMZ). Derksen agreed to accept the chaplaincy for a limited number of hours a week plus one Sunday morning worship service per month. “I am ex­ cited about the possibilities,” Derksen writes. “I preached in the University parish yesterday and had a meeting today with the student leaders and Pastor Mukuna, who has been chaplain until now. I accepted the job for a trial period of one year. At the end of ’88 we will have to decide together whether to look for someone else or continue. Pastor Tshibulenu (CMZ President) and the Kananga pastors had all given their approval before I communicated my decision.” The University setting provides a challenge to the Gospel in a rapidly changing society, but ministry among the students is seen as crucial for the future of the church. The Derksens serve as Africa InterMennonite Mission (AIMM) missionaries under the sponsorship of the General Con­ ference Commission on Overseas Mission.

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Parent/child dedication at the Ridgewood church on February 7: Pat and Grace Plett with Ryan and Rebecka, Stan and Bev Hamm with Joella, Wes and Helen Thiessen with Ray­ mond, Elden and Cindy Block with Scott, Rev. and Mrs. Bill Penner. MINISTERING WITH JOY Ridgewood, Man. The young people kicked off the year with a retreat, January 8-10, at Camp Nutimik. They were privileg­ ed to have Glen Koop as speaker. The Col­ lege and Career also “retreated” the same weekend, to Moose Lake Bible Camp. They enjoyed the weekend, with Don Thiessen as speaker. On January 17 our church held a deacon commissioning service for a newly-elected deacon couple. Lauren and Emily Friesen were welcomed officially into the ministerial. Walter Reimer was the speaker for the com­ missioning service. January 31 was a church day of prayer. We started off with lunch and then divided into groups. We were asked to pray specifically for three areas: our church needs, EMC Con­ ference and mission needs, and personal needs. That evening Henry and Tina Kornelsen gave a report, along with slides, of their trip to Israel. We started the Dobson film series, “Turn Your Hearts Toward Home,” on February 7, an excellent series which spoke to many issues

parents deal with. Dobson did not give im­ mediate solutions but gave a lot of guidelines and suggestions. It was encouraging to see people from the surrounding area, who don’t regularly attend, come to see the films. The young people were hard at work on March 19 making food, decorating, then ser­ ving at and hosting a Spaghetti Hut. This has become an annual fund raiser. The project, for which half of the money went, was a camp in Santo Tomas, Mexico. This is where the group of young people, who travelled to Mex-

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ico last summer, spent a few days. The even­ ing took a lot of work but it was well worth the energy put into it, and those who came to dine enjoyed the scenery of the “Canadian” and “Mexican” dining rooms.

March 20 was the beginning of our five-day Deeper Life Meetings, with guest speaker Stan Plett. We were challenged by his messages relating to the work of the Holy Spirit. The topics were “The Spirit Sets Us Free,” “The Fruit of the Spirit,” “The Gifts of the Spirit,” “The Spirit Empowers to Witness” and “The Spirit Convicts.” Even with all these events taking place, our church has also been very involved in an ex­ tension work in Woodridge. The interest there is strong as shown by a core group of around thirty, with a record attendance of around 70. Because of the interest, two services a month are now being held, with one service Sunday morning and the second service in the after­ noon. It is exciting to see the hunger and desire for spiritual things and we pray that this desire and hunger will grow and spread to others in the community. It has been almost one year since Henry and Tina Kornelsen left for Fort Frances. We are indeed fortunate that the leadership tran­ sition in our church has gone so smoothly. Thank you to Bill and Anna Penner for their leadership and for the way they have eagerly taken on the senior pastorate at Ridgewood, as well as their ministry involvement at Woodridge. Beu Hamm

Team Canada Conference May 27-29, 1988 Blumenort EMC Church Blumenort, Manitoba Conference Program: Friday, May 27 7:00 p.m. - First meeting of Conference Speaker: Rev. Vern Strom, Canadian Director

Saturday, May 28 7:45 a.m. - Breakfast at Pioneer Inn, Steinbach (cost: $3.00 per person) Speaker: Rev. Ben Strohschein 9:30 a.m. - Ladies’ meeting at Blumenort Church 1:30 p.m. - Members Annual Meeting, Blumenort Church 6:30 p.m. - Complimentary banquet, Blumenort Church Speaker: Dr. Richard Winchell. General Director

Sunday, May 29 9:45 a.m. - Sunday School 10:50 a.m. - Worship service. Rev. V. Strom speaking 7:00 p.m. - Closing service. Dr. R. Winchell speaking You are welcome to attend these Conference sessions. If you plan to be at the breakfast and the banquet, please inform Miss C. Plett at the Blumenort Church (326-1644) no later than Monday, May 23.

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Randy Enns was the weekend speaker at the Brandon church, February 12-14.

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Brandon, Man.: The February 12-14 weekend will remain as one of the highlights in our church. We invited Randy Enns from Winnipeg to speak to us on Friday and Satur­ day evening and Sunday morning, as well as at a men’s breakfast on Saturday morning. He spoke to us about the three parables in Mat­ thew 25. On Friday night his message was en­ titled “The Anticipation of God’s Return ” On Saturday he spoke on the talents God has given us and how we should develop them. God does not demand abilities we don’t have but demands that we use what we have. He concluded Sunday morning by saying, “We need to look at Jesus to look like Jesus.” He left us with the challenge to look at everyone in need as being Jesus in need. Sunday afternoon was a real milestone in our church. We started planning and looking forward to having a home for our church fami­ ly last August. We felt we needed a place to worship our Lord and to share in the teaching

and fellowship of the Word of God. We received a lot of help and encourage­ ment from our Region 4 churches, as well as the E.M. Conference. Their support was again very much in evidence as our church pews rapidly filled up on Sunday afternoon for our dedication service. During the service we were encouraged and challenged by many of our neighbour­ ing pastors who brought greetings from their churches. Ben Friesen of Steinbach also challenged us to continue to use our building for God’s work in order to experience spiritual and church growth. Following the service everyone stayed for an hour of fellowship and lunch. For us at Kirkcaldy Heights this was truly a day of celebration and we would like to thank everyone who helped to make it a success. Irene Thiessen

The church choir sang at the dedication service at the Brandon church.

Lunch and fetiowship.

Help Wanted The Community Bible Fellowship at Swan River needs a Bible college student for summer youth ministry from May 31 to August 31. Contact Harvey Beselt (734-9272) or Wil Warkentin (734-3712).

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Births DUECK - to Gerry and Blanca Dueck of Caaguazu, Paraguay, a son, Matthew Roy, on March 8, 1988.

DYCK - to Loren and Felicia Dyck of Winnipeg, Man., a daughter, Cameta Michelle Arnie, on March 16, 1988. FRIESEN - to Harry and Trudy Friesen of Wymark, Sask., a daughter, Kara Danae, on February 24, 1988.

Baptism and reception of members at Braeside. Back row: Erwin Kroeker (minister), * Beryl Hamm, Becky Goertzen, Michael Dueck, Anthony Kroeker, Jason Friesen, Matthew Kroeker. Middle: Caroil Kroeker, Leelama Matthew, Marcia Kroeker, Andrew Herrod, Carla Fontaine, ‘Henry Foth, Greg Graham, John Stoesz (pastor). Front: 'Elmer Loewen, 'Susan Loewen, Marge Hamm, Fred Hamm. 'Transfer of membership.

PETERS - to Edgar and Junene Peters of Wymark, Sask., a son, Kristopher Dale, on February 28, 1988.

REIMER - to Gerald and Lori Reimer of Steinbach, Man., a daughter, Erin Elise, on March 2, 1988.

BAPTISM - COMMUNION - COMMISSIONING Braeside (Winnipeg, Man.): It was a spiritual highlight for the church when 16 peo­ ple shared their walk of faith on Saturday evening, January 30, followed by the bap­ tismal service on Sunday morning. More blessings were in store for us in the evening communion service which also included a commissioning service for Gerry and Blanca Dueck who are now serving in Paraguay. On the afternoon and evening of Sunday, February 7, our church held its year-end meetings. Reports of the various committees were presented, followed by elections of per­ sonnel for the coming year. The time was well spent in sharing the needs and concerns and affirming one another in the carrying out of the calling to our tasks. A fellowship ‘faspa’ was included in the proceedings. During February and March our Family Life

Weddings PLETT-PENNER: Rueben, son of Mrs. Katherine Plett of Ridgewood, Man., and Edna, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Martin Penner of Blumenort, Man., were married on March 12, 1988. The wedding took place at the Ridgewood E. M. Church, with Bill Penner of Steinbach officiating. The couple is making their home in Ridgewood.

FRIESEN-DYCK: Ryan, son of Dave and Betty Friesen of Morris, Man., and Angela, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Peter Dyck of Rosenort, Man., were married on April 9, 1988. The wedding took place at the Rosenort E. M. Church, with Frank Kroeker of Rosenort officiating. The couple is making their home in Winnipeg.

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Committee (Ike and Bonnie Derksen and Tim and Bonnie Friesen) showed the Dobson Film Series, “Turn Your Heart Toward Home.” These films were well received by both church and community members. They serve as reminders and encouragement to continue our ‘love journey’ with our spouses, children and friends. On April 18 the Ladies’ Fellowship held its annual bridal shower, where five brides were honoured. While the brides do receive one gift from the Ladies’ Fellowship, the main pur­ pose of this shower is to show support and love for the new homes which are just begin­ ning. A fine program of music by Penny Johnson and a sharing of her “marriage walk” by Amanda Williams encouraged each of us to be open and honest with one another in our relationships. Caroll Kroeker

PLETT-DUECK: Larry, son of Ben and Elma Plett of Landmark, Man., was married on April 9, 1988 to Elda, daughter of Mrs. Justina Dueck of Arborg, Man. The wedding took place at the Kleefeld E. M. Church. The couple is making their home in Landmark.

UNGER-DUECK: Frank, son of Jacob and Helen Unger of Saskatoon, Sask., was married on March 19, 1988 to Valorie, daughter of Wilbert and Lena Dueck of Rosenort, Man. The wedding took place at the Rosenort E. M. Church, with Johnny Loewen of Rosenort officiating. The couple is making their home in Saskatoon.

PETERS - to Herman and Linda Peters of Stein­ bach, Man., a daughter, Jaycia Kara, on March 24, 1988. BARTSCH - to Jake and Myrna Bartsch of Stein­ bach, Man., a daughter, Ofelia Rosa, on February 19, 1988.

PLETT - to Dayton and Viola Plett of Landmark, Man., a son, Nicolas Graham, on April 7, 1988. BLOCK - to Elden and Cindy Block of Glaslyn, Sask., a son, Scott Anthony, on December 31, 1987.

KROEKER - to Jerry and Vai Kroeker of Rosenort, Man., a son, Benjamin Scott, on January 29, 1988. ZINN - to Michael and Wendy Zinn of Morris, Man., a daughter, Ashley Nicole, on February 2, 1988.

BRANDT - to Chuck and Luella Brandt of Rosenort, Man., a son, Michael Sean, on February 12, 1988.

Abbeydale Christian Fellowship (formerly Forest Grove Church) 1352 Abbeydale Drive S.E., Calgary, Alta.

announces the opening celebration and dedication of its new facility.

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KORNELSEN-SHAW: Calvin, son of Mr and Mrs Levi Kornelsen of Rosenort, Man., and Sandy Shaw were married on February 27, 1988 at the Riviera Hotel Chapel, with Dale Dreger of Edmon­ ton, Alta, officiating. The couple is making their home in Edmonton.

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EULOGY OF EDNA HELEN WIEBE 1949-1988 Edna Helen announced her arrival with a lusty cry on July 22, 1949. She accepted the Lord as her Savior in childhood and was bap­ tized at Rose Farm Evangelical Mennonite Mission Church near Lowe Farm as a teenager. Her continuing desire to grow in her walk with the Lord led her to Elim Bible School in Altona. Once again, Bible school did its job, because with her graduation in 1969 came her husband-to-be. On June 14 of that year Art and Edna were married. Winnipeg became home for the young cou­ ple in love and with that came the start of countless friendships, which were treasured through the years, into her illness, right up to her resurrection. What a delightful day it was in January 1975 when Art and Edna chose little Jennifer Leanne to bring sunshine to their home. Between homework and part-time jobs, Edna has always been involved in church ac­ tivities and she developed that wonderful gift of caring with a listening ear and thoughtful words that endeared her to so many. Nieces and nephews always got a card or a call on their birthdays from Auntie Edna. Brothers and sisters felt a little more cheery after talk­ ing with Edna; somehow she just had a way of making you feel better about yourself. Joy reigned supreme in April 1978, when, by choice, tiny Jeremy Jon, complete with red hair and energy to match, came to complete the family circle. Through the years, vacations have been an important part of their family life, including trips to Disneyland, Arizona, B.C., Penn­ sylvania and many weekend camping excur­ sions. They did all those things that build hap­ py memories and relationships over the years so there was no need to cram a lifetime into the last several months. It was obvious to anyone that their years together were meanin^ul and fulfilling as they reached to help others where needs arose and filled their own family chest with good times and laughter. Another ministry that was dear to Edna’s

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heart was wholesome Christian reading for the family, and for 12 years she put hundreds of books in many homes through home book parties for Successful Living. In 1977 Art and Edna became part of the Landmark community and her gentle, loving spirit continued to touch new friends. Broadening horizons took them to Edmon­ ton, Alberta from 1982 to 1984, and again her humble and caring influence also broadened. Returning to Landmark to the welcome of friends and families. Art and Edna soon became the welcomers in the local Welcome Wagon, yet another opportunity to touch more people with the care and kindness that were her trademarks. In March 1986 Edna underwent surgery to remove a tumor from her large intestine and doctors were confidently hopeful of complete recovery. Pain returned, however, in February 1987, and again doctors gave her a clean bill of health. Not till August of that year did Art and Edna hear the dreadful diagnosis of terminal cancer in the bones of the lower spine and rib cage. Oh, what suffering lay ahead! Painful beyond words, but never a word of complaint. Hope-building remission never came; instead the agony became more intense each day. Still their faith, hope, and love for each other were so evident to those who watched, helped and prayed. When someone asked Edna how she got through the rough days, she answered, “Mostly through Art. He gives me just the right scripture.” As she became totally dependent on others, she so much ap­ preciated the tireless help of others day after day, but no one could do it quite like Art. It was Edna’s wish to be in the comfort of her home and that was made possible by a dedicated team effort of family members and a group of friends whose commitment is best described by a single word-LOVE. This group included a nurse who gave her injec­ tions several times a week. Month after month she did all those details that only a nurse can do. Another friend prepared special dietary meals week in and week out. Others faithful­ ly spent hours on a daily rotational basis clean­ ing the house, doing the laundry, massaging Edna to stimulate circulation, and simply be­ ing there with her. Art often expressed com­ plete confidence, knowing Edna was well looked after while he had to be at work. During the last week when she could bare­ ly talk, someone assured her of love and con­ cern and she simply, yet poignantly respond­ ed, “It goes without saying.” Peace with God was her full portion in the last days when, in pain, she quietly said, “It’s amazing the peace He gives; it’s just harder to remember when the pain is so bad.” Perhaps she has cried as Jesus cried on the cross, “My God, my God, why hast Thou forsaken me?” Yet God in His infinite wisdom had decid­ ed that Edna’s work on earth was done, and as Jeremy said to his dad in the evening of

the day she died, “Jesus wanted to speak to our family and He chose one of us, the best one.” Finally, just as Jesus said on the cross, “It is finished,” and gave up His spirit, so too, Edna gave up her spirit while sleeping at her home at 9:26 a.m. on March 31, 1988 at the age of 38. Her resurrection will be remembered with sorrow and praise by her beloved husband, Arthur John; daughter, Jennifer Leanne; son, Jeremy Jon; her parents, Henry and Mary Enns of Landmark; brother. Art and wife Dianne of Steinbach; sisters, Linda and hus­ band Ed Wall of Landmark, Janice and hus­ band Jerry Froese of Winnipeg; brother, Vince Monias of Winnipeg; sister, Becky and husband Eric Rentz of Phoenix, Arizona; and numerous nieces and nephews. Also cherishing her memory are Art’s parents, Erdman and Margaret Wiebe of Mor­ ris; grandmother, Elizabeth Wiebe of Morris; brothers and sisters, Evelyn and Ed Heinrichs of Steinbach, Alfred and Fern Wiebe of Win­ nipeg, Aluin and Margaret Wiebe of Morris, Lorraine and Lionel Wiens of Lowe Farm; and numerous nieces and nephews. “When calamify comes, the wicked are brought down, but euen in death the righteous have a refuge” (Prou. 14:32). - Read by her brother, Arthur Enns

JACOB HARMS KLASSEN 1919-1988 “For we know that if our earthly house of this tabernacle were dissolved, we have a building of God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens” (Il Cor. 5:1). Jacob Harms Klassen was born to Peter K. and Margaret Klassen on October 14, 1919 in Steinbach (Ekron District). He was the ninth child of a family of 15. He attended school in the Ekron School District. He passed away on Tuesday, April 12, 1988 at 1:45 p.m. as the result of a traffic accident. At an early age he was required, out of necessity, to become independent, which became his strength in the years ahead. Upon his confession of faith he was baptizTHE MESSENGER

ed on July 25, 1943 by the late Bishop David P. Reimer in Blumenort, Man. During the days when he was hired to herd cows, he developed a real love for music. The harmonica became his lifetime friend. The strains of the melodious music wafted across the pastures, intriguing other fellows to join him, and he ended up teaching them the art of playing this little instrument. Due to various occupations, his place of residence was very mobile. However, it became more permanent around 1969 when he took up residence in Pansy, where he liv­ ed for eight years, doing janitorial work at the church and some farm jobs. He joined the Frank Plett family in Land­ mark for Christmas in 1977; this developed into a lasting relationship, including their grandchildren. On his monthly visits to the Pletts, he would bring little tokens of love, which provided a mutual avenue of joy for those involved. The thank you notes to “Uncle Jake” were greatly cherished by him when they arrived in the mail. In 1978 he moved to Blumenort, where many new friends were formed, either through jobs, such as delivering papers, mow­ ing lawns, or repairing bicycles. Every action of love (dinner invitations, greeting cards) were a highlight in Jake’s life, for which we as the family are most grateful. Because of his independent nature, Jake and his bicycle became inseparable, and his shopping or social activities such as deliver­ ing papers, visitations, Bible studies, etc., were done by this mode of transportation. It was on an expedition such as this, when travelling along Highway **12, homewardbound from Clearspring Mall, that the Lord saw fit to take Jake to his permanent home in heaven, through an accident where he died instantly. Therefore, all his fears of suffering and pain are alleviated. Although his spiritual struggles at times were very deep and difficult, with the Lord’s help he would confess these and gain victory. In one of his recent visits to his cousin, he ex­ pressed his premonition that continued life on earth would be brief. When asked, “Are you ready to die?” he answered, “Yes.” This is a real comfort to those of us as family and friends who remain here on earth. With his passing he leaves to mourn four sisters, Anne Klassen (Steinbach, Man.), Margaret and her husband Jacob Unger (Steinbach, Man.), Marie and husband Cor­ nelius Loewen (Vavenby, B.C.), Helen and husband David Unger (Gibson, Alta.); four brothers, Isaac and wife Mary (St. Catharine’s, Ont.), Peter and wife Lena (Blumenort, Man.), Abe and wife Kay (Winnipeg, Man.), Ben (Steinbach, Man.); one sister-in-law, Net­ tie Klassen (Steinbach, Man.), one brotherin-law, Frank Yaschuk (Burnaby, B.C.), and numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father in 1951; his mother in 1966; two sisters, Nettie Yaschuk in 1955 and Katherine in 1967; four APRIL 29, 1988

Edwin Friesen

Conference Pastor

The EMC leadership people who gathered at Camp Arnes in mid-April represented a good cross section of the leadership in our local churches. They came from all eight regions of the Conference. They ranged in age from early twenties to eighty plus. They came from a variety of backgrounds, many whose roots are not EMC. In fact, upon reviewing the list of registrants 1 discovered that twenty-six of the one hundred twenty-eight people, or one in five, were first-generation EMC. This trig­ gered my curiosity. 1 decided to do some more research and discovered that of the sixty people (including spouses) who had been interviewed by our Conference Ministerial Examination Committee during the last three years, thirty-four, or just slightly more than half, were first-generation EMC. There was an even split of men and women, seventeen of each. Since January 1, 1988 seven couples have been called and/or begun to serve in roles of pastor or youth pastor in EMC churches. Of these fourteen people, seven are first-generation EMC. The pattern seems to be fairly consistent. Fully one half of the people called by our local churches to serve as ministers and deacons are first-generation EMC. Is this reason for concern or rejoicing? Allow me to make some observations.

brothers, John in 1962, David in 1966, Henry in 1985, and one in infancy. We thank edl those who have befriended our brother and supported him in any way, especially the pastors and the deacons. We also thank all of you for sharing in our loss by your expressions of sympathy, prayers, cards, phone calls. Also, thank you to those who assisted with the funeral service. A special thank you to Walter Reimer, Dave Harms and Leonard Barkman for their contributions. The Family

The funeral service was held in the Blumenort Evangelical Mennonite Church, with Rev. Walter Reimer officiating. Loewen Funeral Home was in charge of ar­ rangements, with interment in the Blumenort Cemetery. Pallbearers were Jacob’s nephews: Robert Baldwin, Irwin Fast, Harry Friesen, John Penner, Dennis Sweatman, Frank Toews.

• It should be noted that during this same time some EMC leadership people have left to serve with other Conferences, though these numbers would be substantially less than those who have come in. • 1 am pleased that our churches recognize and call gifted, spiritual leadership, irrespective of the person’s background or EMC rootage. • 1 am also pleased that many people who did not grow up within our Conference, feel at home in it, and have embraced the fellowship and theology of the Conference. • Denominational lines are not as clear and the barriers not as high as they used to be. As inter-Conference friendships, mar­ riages and inter-Conference events increase, people find it easier to cross denominational lines. This phenomenon will likely gather momentum as time goes on. • Is it possible that many non-EMC peo­ ple or first-generation EMC feel more positive about the Conference than those who grew up within it? • To maintain unity in doctrine and fellowship, the area of orientation for new church leaders will need to be intensified, for both groups - those who grew up in our churches, as well as the first-generation Con­ ference people. • The Scriptures tell us that the redeem­ ed in heaven will come from every tribe and nation on earth, yet they will with one voice acclaim Jesus as Saviour and Lord. Maybe the trend noted earlier is an indica­ tion that our churches have been so caught up with this heavenly scene, they decided to practice some of it on earth. It should make the transition to heaven a little easier when our time comes.

PRINCIPAL WANTED A principal is needed for a Chris­ tian school in Swan River. Duties include teaching in a multi­ graded classroom. Majors in math and science preferred. Applications accepted until May 30, 1988. Duties to commence August 15, 1988. Wages negotiable. For more details call Lorrel Scales (734-2593 or 734-3411) or John Beadle (525-4311 or 734-3464).

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From the Editor I Love My Mother MY MOTHER turned 88 this year. Although her walking has become slower, her mind retains its sense of humour. She has witnessed incredible changes in her lifetime. There were no pampers, water heaters, automatic washers or baby foods when she raised her family of six. Her labours, though difficult, were labours of love. I love my mother for her comfort, sitting by my bed at night when 1 had earaches or breathing problems. Her soothing comfort eased many hurts and worries through the years. I love my mother for being there when I needed her. It was reassur­ ing to meet her when 1 came home from school or play. She and Dad provided a refuge of security for their family. I love my mother for loving my dad, caring for him when illness robbed him of his strength. Their mutual love stabilized our home. I love my mother and dad for passing their love for music and singing on to their children. Music has brightened and enriched our lives. 1 love my mother for her selfless service to her family and neighbors. We have been inspired by our parents’ demonstration of Christian love in action. Their lives embodied the golden rule. 1 love my mother for her consistent faith in God. She has shown us the way by her optimistic, trusting spirit, teaching us to love God too. 1 love my mother! M.H.

ped him in his tracks and he yielded his life to Christ. He told us that one of the strongest influences in his life was the patient, faithful witness and encouragement of a Christian businessman. What joy to see a life restored! Another local man, past middle age, has been the object of much prayer for many years. Through a strange set of circumstances, in­ cluding the sudden death of a close friend, he repented and became a child of God. His is a transformed life, former interests have been exchanged for a love of God’s word which he reads avidly. Word has also come to us of God’s Spirit moving in the lives of people in Mount Salem, Ontario. During a week of evangelistic meetings conducted by Marvin Thiessen from Brazil, many respond­ ed to the invitation to return to the Lord. More joy in heaven (and on earth, too)! Many more similar stories could be shared of people responding to the good news, having their troubled lives put back together in Jesus Christ. 1 am reminded of the story in Mark 5 of the demon­ controlled man among the tombs, wild, naked, hurting himself. After Jesus healed him we read that he was “sitting, and clothed, and in his right mind.” He was sitting, at peace with God. He was cloth­ ed, in the robes of Christ’s righteousness. He was in his right mind, the mind of Christ. This redeeming, restoring power of Christ is available today. And in the words of a popular song, “People need the Lord.” We who are sinners saved by the grace of God, have the privilege and duty to share the good news with those who need the Lord. M.H.

The Good News

In a Nutshell

IN JESUS’ PARABLE of the lost sheep, the shepherd invited his neighbours and friends to share his joy in finding his strayed posses­ sion. Jesus concluded the parable, “I tell you that in the same way there is more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent” (Luke 15:7). God in love and compassion reaches out to all who are lost. He hates to see anyone perish and would like everyone to return to him in repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Jesus himself said that he had come to seek and to save the lost (Luke 19:10). To Nicodemus he put it this way, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life” (John 3:16). That, in a nutshell, is the gospel, the good news. At the recent Leadership Retreat the speaker, Harold Jantz, reminded us that “The gospel is at the heart of what life is about. The good news of the gospel gets to the heart of man’s needs.” Refer­ ring to Paul’s charge to Timothy to do the work of an evangelist, Mr. Jantz urged us not to forsake our redemptive goal - to see peo­ ple won to Ghrist. “Christ changes lives at the core,” he said, “he restores wholeness.” It is always refreshing and encouraging to hear of one or more who have responded to the message of the gospel (the good news) and received the forgiveness of their sins through faith in Jesus Christ. It was a great joy to hear the testimony of a young man at a prayer breakfast about a month ago. His problems had become more than he could handle so he was on his way to end his life. But God stop-

IF YOU, DEAR READER, have not yet experienced Christ’s salvation, here, briefly, is what God would like you to know: 1. Everyone has sinned, and no one can save himself. “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). 2. Sin separates you from God. “The wages of sin is death ...” (Romans 6:23). 3. God loves you. “God so loved the world ...” (John 3:16). That includes you. 4. Jesus died on the cross, shedding his blood for your sins. “He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree” (1 Peter 2:24). 5. He offers to forgive your sins. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive our sins, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). 6. He wants you in his family. “Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become the children of God” (John 1:12). 7. Having received him he wants you to grow by reading the Bi­ ble, praying and sharing your faith with others. “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ” (2 Peter 3:18). Turn your life over to him today, and then write and tell us about it: Box 1268, Steinbach, Man. ROA 2A0. We’d love to hear from you. M.H.

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THE MESSENGER

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