This Is A Discussion Response Apa 6th Ed With Intext Citations Refer Personal knowing is what you are known to others for. When someone gets to know someone, their personal knowing is what makes them stand out from other people. Personal knowing affects personal development because the way you treat people is related to what you know and what you actually do. Personal development is affected because you can better take care of people if personal knowing is not only acknowledged, but carried out. Personal knowing can only be viewed in the context of wholeness as no one really knows personal knowing than the knower. Personal knowing also incorporates compassion, passion, and integrity (Chinn & Kramer, 2018). One professional strength I have as an OB nurse is the ability to relate to the patient and their situation. I have had babies in various circumstances, and personally have been through a couple of difficult situations, so my ability to empathize with my patients is something that I am known for. Another professional strength I have is the ability to assess the patient’s beliefs and understandings and determine if they have beliefs that require any special attention. Since we care for a good number of Nepalese refugees in our community, I have noticed that they often bring their family members food after the birth. Recognizing this cultural practice, I raised money to keep a small portable refrigerator in the patients’ rooms so they could store food securely. Addressing this small but meaningful detail has significantly improved their comfort and satisfaction, demonstrating culturally competent care. One weakness I have is sometimes I can become overly attached to patients and spend a lot of time with them. I find it challenging to separate my work life from my personal life, and sometimes I feel I am overly empathetic to a fault. To address this, I can utilize nursing theories, particularly Orem’s Self-Care Deficit Theory, to better understand and balance my own needs. Applying this theory can help me recognize when I am neglecting my self-care and take steps to meet my own needs effectively. Self-care is crucial because neglecting oneself can negatively impact patient care and personal well-being (Lauder, 2001). By working within the framework of Orem’s theory, I can turn this weakness into a strength by intentionally focusing on my self-care and supporting my well-being. Recognizing areas where I may neglect self-care aligns with the theory's emphasis on empowering individuals to care for themselves, which in turn improves their capacity to care for others (Chinn & Kramer, 2018). Nurses often overlook their own needs, which can lead to burnout and compassion fatigue. Therefore, incorporating self-care