A Plea to Pope Francis on behalf of
Homeless LGBT youth Your Holiness,
endorsing slavery and even genocide. None of those biblical instructions are
I write to you as a Roman Catholic, a former Benedictine monk and as a gay
and reflective of the ignorance of more primitive times. I ask you to recognize
man who has spent over 30 years serving the homeless, first as a member of
that the condemnation of homosexuality is also cruel and wrong, and rooted
the Catholic Worker Movement, and now as the founder and Executive Director
in a primitive, obsolete understanding of human sexuality. I ask you to join the
of the Ali Forney Center, America’s largest center for homeless lesbian, gay,
growing number of church communities and religious denominations who have
bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth based in New York City.
chosen to welcome and embrace us with love and acceptance.
I write on behalf of the homeless LGBT youths I serve. I ask you to take urgent
A teaching’s wisdom and efficacy must be judged in part by its outcome. The
action to protect them from the devastating consequences of religious rejection,
teaching that homosexual conduct is a sin has a poisonous outcome, bearing
which is the most common reason LGBT youths are driven from their homes. At
fruit in many Christian parents who abandon their LGBT children to homelessness
the heart of the problem is that the church still teaches that homosexual conduct
and destitution. How could a good seed yield such a bitter harvest?
maintained as church teachings, as they are recognized to be cruel and immoral,
is a sin, and that being gay is disordered. I hope that if you understand how this teaching tears families apart and brings suffering to innocent youths, you will end
For me this tragedy has many human faces. I see Justin, whose mother, before
this teaching and prevent your bishops from fighting against the acceptance of
throwing him out of his home, summoned a priest who held him to the ground
LGBT people as equal members of society.
and tried to drive the devil out of the 16 year old boy. Or Terry, who was sent to a Catholic religion class where the instructor set him aside as someone “possessed
I hope that you will open your heart to the suffering of our youths. As LGBT
by demons”. When his mother threw him out, she said that she would rather he
youths are finding the courage to speak the truths of their hearts at younger
die in the streets than live in her home if he was gay. I recall Maria, whose family
ages, epidemic numbers are being rejected by their families, and driven to
drove her to a forest far from her home and abandoned her, throwing her from
homelessness. The number of youths enduring this cruel fate is staggering; last
the car, because being a lesbian made her “evil”. I think of the boy whose name
year at least 200,000 LGBT youths experienced homelessness in the United
I never learned whose father was so disgusted by homosexuality that he threw
States. LGBT youths make up 40% of the homeless youth population in this
his son out of his home and said he would kill him and bury him in the backyard
country, despite comprising only about 5% of the overall youth population.
if he tried to return.
A recent study of family rejection found that parents with high religious involvement
I greatly respect you as a leader who has shown deep concern for the plight of the
were significantly less accepting of their LGBT children. Over the past decade
poor. I invite you to the Ali Forney Center, to meet our abandoned youths and see
thousands of LGBT youths have come to the Ali Forney Center seeking safe
for yourself how their lives have been devastated and made destitute by religious
shelter, from across our nation and the globe, bearing witness to having been
rejection. I believe that there is no more compelling witness to the harmfulness of
driven from their homes by religious parents who believed they were evil and sinful.
the condemnation of homosexuality than the consequent suffering plainly visible in the eyes of our homeless LGBT youths.
What these youths endure is horrific. They endure the torment of being unloved and unwanted by their parents, combined with the ordeals of hunger, cold and
We share a belief in a God of love. I know in my heart that what my kids have
sexual exploitation while homeless. LGBT youths who are rejected by their
suffered is ultimately a violation against love. How tragic it is that the church,
families are eight times more likely to attempt suicide than LGBT youths whose
through it’s teaching, would contribute to such a violation. Surely God loves his
parents accept them.
children more than teachings.
The Roman Catholic Church is the largest and most influential Christian
I hope that you will take up my offer to come to the Ali Forney Center and meet
organization in the world. By teaching that homosexual conduct is a sin, and that
the youths we serve. And I hope that we can find common ground in seeking
the homosexual orientation is disordered, it influences countless parents and
that they be protected and loved.
families in societies across the globe to reject their children. In the name of these children, and in light of the love and compassion at the heart of the message of Jesus, I ask that you end this teaching.
Sincerely,
Jesus Christ is never recorded as having said a word in judgment or condemnation of homosexuality or of LGBT people. He spoke of a loving, compassionate God, and commanded his followers to act with love and compassion. Jesus spoke of
Carl Siciliano Executive Director Ali Forney Center
God as a loving parent who would never abandon his children.
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There are biblical writings endorsing conduct now recognized as wrong;
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passages endorsing the rape of enemies’ wives and the murder of their children,
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