my Lord and Savior. I invite Him into the center of my
and serves You with whole hearts. May today be a
lot of destroyed lives. Someone trying to buy a fam-
life to be the Forgiver of my sins and the Savior of my
turning point in my life, for I determine that as for me
ily…very bad plan.
soul. Lord Jesus, wash me and purify me. Cleanse my
and my house we will serve the Lord. You are a great
heart. Give me the strength I need to live now for You
and faithful God. We acknowledge Your goodness and
as one of Your followers.
we worship You today, risen Lord Jesus Christ, alive for
BUILDING YOUR HOME GOD’S WAY “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” This passage is not condemning human effort; it’s condemning effort apart from God. There’s a big difference there. So do you want the
Now if you’ve prayed that prayer in Jesus’ name,
us and for our families. Amen.
I promise you—based on the authority of God’s Word—that He heard you.
Lord to build your family? Do you? Because if you do,
2) Invite Christ into the center of your home. You say,
this is how you do it:
“Well I’m not the leader.” That’s all right. You’re the one who is reconciled to your Lord. You be the spiri-
1) Invite Christ into the center of your life. Revelation
tual leader for your home. Invite Christ into the cen-
3:20 says, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If
ter of your home with this prayer:
anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in…” Christ cannot be the center of your home
Lord I acknowledge before You that I have been trying
unless He is first center of your life. If you’d like to
to build my home, my marriage, my family, my future
invite Christ into the center of your life, just pray this
in my own strength. I ask for Your forgiveness for that.
simple prayer with me right now from your heart:
I want to be a parent who depends upon You, who looks to Your Word for guidance, and who draws upon Your
Lord Jesus, I know that I am a sinner. I know that I
strength for victory. So, Lord, I give my family to You
have broken Your laws and I deserve only Your judg-
and ask You to be the Ruler and the Lord of my home.
ment. But I believe that Jesus died to pay the penalty
Make us a family in Your own way and in Your own
for my sins. I believe that. So today I confess Christ as
time. Make us a family that loves You and follows You
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first home.” This plan leaves a lot of broken hearts. A
JA M E S M AC D O N A LD
FAMILY Building a Home God's Way
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” –Psalm 127:1 Let’s begin with this thought: Only the Lord can build a family. You say, “Wait. This verse isn’t talking about families. This is talking about building a house.” Well, this is not a course on Basic House Construction 101. This is about building families. And what Psalm 127:1 has to say about building families is this: it is impossible to build a family without God. Not only is it impossible, it is very painful… as you or those you know may have experienced. All of
Back?” Subtitle, “More Professionals Returning To
Now here’s the truth. Your hopes and dreams for
Church. Having It All Isn’t Enough.” Here is an ex-
your family—all of it is so incredibly dependent
cerpt from the article about a man they interviewed
upon God. Maybe as you read this, you are looking
named Kenny: “He’s got a job with the top broker-
back through the history of your own life. All the
age firm in L.A. A $600,000 bachelor pad; a blue Jag-
milk that was spilt and the problems that went awry
ideas about how to build a family. But what breaks
uar with vanity plates. He’s even a master skydiver.
because of the fact that you didn’t plug into this ba-
my heart is when I see the followers of Jesus Christ
But last year he felt he needed something more. I
sic fundamental truth of Christian living: “Unless
turning to the world for answers on how to build
thought, ‘Here I am. Forty-five years old and my life
the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor
their families. I don’t understand that. Let me just
isn’t going anyplace. I have a penthouse in West-
in vain.”
give you some examples of worldly wisdom available
wood; the right kind of car; and my life is empty,’ he says. So he did something really radical. He went
my own effort.” That’s a very bad plan. 2 Through human wisdom. Now I think we’re probably all aware that the world’s got a whole lot of
for you on building your family. “Don’t let your kids
BUILDING A HOME IN VAIN
cry when they’re babies. Don’t spank them when
back to church. Many people once felt the need for
So in what ways do we try to build our families with-
they’re small children. When they’re teenagers, give
us have experienced this to some degree. It is a very
a formal relationship with God only when they got
out God? Here’s three:
them lots of condoms and lots of privacy.” Am I tell-
painful process to try to build a family without God. True of false? The pain that results from that can be
married or had babies or were about to die. Now
devastating to people and so I bring this good news
ing you the truth? That’s what the world says on how
people in their 40s and 50s are finding themselves
1 Through human effort. “I’m a manly man. I get
to raise a family. Read up. See what it says. I wrote
up every morning. I’m going to build my family. I
to you: Unless the Lord builds the house… Unless the
at the peak of their careers, wealthy from the stock
this down: “Looking to the world for how to build a
have dreams and I’m going to make them happen.
Lord builds the house… “Unless the Lord builds the
market, and still feeling something’s missing.” The
family is like looking to Mrs. O’Leary’s cow for a Fire
I’m going to work sixty-five hours a week and take
house, those who build it labor in vain.”
article concludes, “After talking to many of these
Protection Plan.” Bad plan.
short vacations with a cell phone in hand. I’m going
people, they were dissatisfied. They have landed on
to push my wife and I’m going to push my kids. I’m
HAVING IT ALL ISN’T ENOUGH
the moon and they’re saying, ‘Is this all there is?’”
going to say things to my family like, ‘The Smiths
3 Through human resources. “I know. We will buy our family. We’ll make lots of money and we’ll
A recent article from the Wall Street Journal states
Many are returning in large numbers to God, hope-
are winners. Without exception. Don’t forget it. Now
give our kids everything they want. We’ll put them
that apparently some people are waking up to the
fully embracing this truth: “Unless the Lord builds
go out into the world and make us proud.’ Just drive
through college and we’ll pay for their wedding and
need for God. The article was entitled, “Can You Go
the house, those who build it labor in vain.”
that point home and I will build my family through
their honeymoon and the down payment on their
and serves You with whole hearts. May today be a turning point in my life, for I determine that as for me and my house we will serve the Lord. You are a great and faithful God. We acknowledge Your goodness and we worship You today, risen Lord Jesus Christ, alive for us and for our families. Amen.
Good News Tracts Family (Walk in the Word Series) Pastor James MacDonald illustrates the importance of building a family God’s way—with Christ as the center. Bible references: ESV. Package contains 25 tracts.
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