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Central Edition | Vol. 46 | No. 12 | December 2020

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tony williams Retired ballet dancer promotes diversity as artistic director page 4

Tony Williams with the cast of Anthony Wiilams’ Urban Nutcracker at the Shubert Theatre in Boston, Dec. 2018.

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Keep social ties strong during the holiday season By Mike Festa, State Director AARP Massachusetts

WE MAY BE APART, BUT WE'RE NOT ALONE SOMEONE WHO CARES IS JUST A PHONE CALL AWAY. If you or someone you love is feeling isolated or anxious in these challenging times, a friendly phone call may help. That's why we created the AARP Friendly Voice program—a trained, caring group of volunteers standing by ready to chat, listen, or just say hello. It's easy. Request a call by dialing AARP at 1-888-281-0145 for English or 1-888-497-4108 for Spanish, between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m. local time.

Certainly, 2020 has been a year unlike others. On behalf of our 760,000 members and all older Massachusetts residents, AARP appreciates the enormous amount of work the commonwealth’s elected leaders have undertaken to address the unprecedented public health and economic crisis that we face. Older Americans and their families are being hit particularly hard by both the health and financial impacts of this COVID pandemic. In addition, a recent scientific report elevates social isolation and loneliness to the level of health problems, associating them with a significantly increased risk for early death from all causes. Of course, social isolation and loneliness can become more common with age. Coronavirus, along with the Mike Festa upcoming winter season, will make social isolation worse. We know that social isolation and loneliness are serious health issues. Forty-three percent of adults age 60 or older in the U.S. reported feeling lonely. Here in the commonwealth, AARP Massachusetts joined with others to create the Task Force to End Loneliness & Build Community. The goals of the group are to: • Raise awareness about the health benefits of social connection and health risks of social isolation and loneliness; • Provide simple, actionable ways for older adults and community members of all ages to stay connected and take action; • Frame the conversation around this issue in a positive, constructive, asset-based way. The Task Force also seeks to take advantage of heightened focus and shared experience of social isolation to develop a policy agenda, including Identifying issues/challenges with potential policy implications, and encouraging Bay Staters to renew their social contracts as they reach out and build community. Visit www.aarp.org/ reachoutma for more information. We may have all scaled back our personal interactions to stay safe, but that doesn’t mean we have to be alone. Here are some steps to stay connected: • Measure your risk for isolation — or that of your loved one — at AARP Foundation’s Connect2Affect.org. This platform also provides lists of community assistance programs for medical care, food, and job training. • Plug into the growing number of mutual aid groups that organize volunteers to assist older neighbors. AARP launched the “Community Connections” tool at www. aarpcommunityconnections.org, and also in Spanish at www.aarp.org/ MiComunidad, to help you find a group in your area. You can also request a “friendly call” from an AARP volunteer through the website or by calling 1-888281-0145. • Volunteer to provide critical services. It’s a way to assist others while also helping you find purpose and avoid isolation. Visit https://createthegood.aarp.org. • Identify vulnerable older adults in your family or neighborhood and make a plan to have someone reach out to them on a regular basis by phone, text, email or virtual chat. • Reach out to a family member or friend by sending a letter or postcard. Enclose a photo or two in the letter to spark a fond memory. If there is one thing that this pandemic has made clear, it’s that personal connections are immensely valuable and sorely missed. Let’s resolve to keep those links strong and vibrant during this crisis, especially for our most vulnerable family, friends and neighbors.

Of course, social isolation and loneliness can become more common with age. Coronavirus, along with the upcoming winter season, will make social isolation worse.

Mike Festa is the State Director for AARP Massachusetts. For more articles visit www.fiftyplusadvocate.com.

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Hudson man spreads holiday cheer as Santa for three decades By Ed Karvoski Jr. Culture Editor HUDSON -

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alen “Red” Isaacs of Hudson has owned five Santa suits and traveled on at least 20 fire engines as Mr. Claus over the past three decades. Along the way, he has observed awestruck expressions on the faces of countless children. “There’s nothing like that look from a kid when they think you’re the real thing,” he shared. Isaacs first played Santa Claus after a chance meeting at a supermarket in 1990 with Janice Taylor, his former math teacher at Hudson High School where he graduated in 1971. After accepting her invitation to play the guest of honor at a holiday fundraiser, he rented a Santa suit at the longtime Hudson mainstay Robinsons Hardware. The Hudson Fire Department provided a fire engine to transport Isaacs as Santa along with his then3-year-old son, Joe. Together, they made a grand entrance.

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Tony Williams: Retired ballet dancer promotes diversity By Ed Karvoski Jr. Culture Editor JAMAICA PLAIN -

ongtime dance educator Tony Williams draws on his two decades of experience performing internationally with major ballet companies as he guides dancers ranging from children to young-at-heart adults. Additionally, audiences are entertained annually by his contemporary spin on a classic holiday tale with “Urban Nutcracker” — albeit online in 2020.

Raised in a Jamaica Plain housing project, Williams was a street gang member up to his early teens. Already an active athlete, he redirected his attention away from the gang and focused on gym workouts after school at the now-closed Boston Young Men’s Christian Union. There, he befriended gymnasts who studied ballet to improve their gymnastics. Williams accepted their invitation to observe a ballet class. “When I saw the class, I found that I really loved ballet,” he recalled. “You could jump and move to the music. I liked that ballet was very

physically active.” Within a brief period of time, Williams won a gold medal for trampoline gymnastics at Charlestown Boys Club and achieved opportunities as a skilled dancer. In 1963, he was awarded a scholarship from Boston School of Ballet. In 1964, he became a charter member of Boston Ballet and made his professional stage debut at Boston Arts Festival in the city’s Public Garden. “Being a poor kid from the inner-city, it was hard to adjust to an elite world that I had never experienced,” he acknowledged. “I took

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every single class the school offered, worked very hard and could see that the teachers appreciated me. It was an exciting time, coming of age at 16 and 17; finding something I could do very well and being onstage for the first time.” Williams progressed to principal dancer with Boston Ballet in 1967. Later in ’67, he started dancing soloist roles for several years with Joffrey Ballet, based at the time in New York City. His 20-year Tony Williams performs in Boston PHOTO/JOHN LINDQUIST performance career Ballet’s 1971 “Jacob’s Pillow.” also included principal dancer stints with Canada’s Royal Winnipeg Ballet, the Gulbenkian Ballet of Portugal, and the Norwegian National Ballet. His transition from performing to teaching began in the late-1970s in Greater Boston and throughout New England. Tony Williams “I’d teach at BosDance Educator ton Conservatory in the morning, and then based on the same storyline, but takes drive out to suburban dance schools place in the present time.” and teach at night,” he said of his de“Urban Nutcracker” is now promanding schedule. duced by City Ballet of Boston (CBB), In 1995, he founded the nonprofit which Williams founded in 2018. The BalletRox to access dance to a diverse nonprofit professional adult ballet population of students. His mission company follows the motto “Divercontinued when he opened Jamaica sity through Dance” while awarding Plain School of Dance in 2000, renamed scholarships for its youth apprentice Tony Williams Dance Center in 2006. program. “I’m biracial — half black and half “In Boston, you don’t see a lot of white — and I was born in Italy, so black people dancing in ballet compaI’m also multicultural,” he explained. nies,” Williams noted. “City Ballet of “I wanted to have a dance school with Boston and ‘Urban Nutcracker’ reflect folks from different backgrounds. I the growing diversity of Boston.” decided to come back to my homeLearn more about CBB at Citytown to start the school because JaBalletofBoston.org and facebook. maica Plain is very diverse racially and com/CityBalletBoston. socioeconomically.” When his school opened in 2000, The recording of the 2019 17 of the 60 students were boys in hip-hop and tap classes. Williams inproduction of Anthony Williams’ corporated these dance styles and a Urban Nutcracker will be streamed: musical variation into a Boston-centric production. His annual “Urban Friday, Dec. 4, at 7 p.m. Nutcracker” debuted in 2001. Sunday, Dec. 13, at 2 p.m. “I didn’t want to do the traditional Tchaikovsky ‘Nutcracker’ that I was Saturday, Dec. 19, at 7 p.m. raised on as a young dancer,” he reThursday, Dec. 24, 7 p.m. layed. “I somehow came across Duke Ellington’s big band, jazz orchestraTicket details TBA. tion of ‘The Nutcracker.’ I had these More information will be available hip-hop and tap dancers, so I thought I’d do something contemporary. It’s at urbannutcracker.com.

When I saw the class, I found that I really loved ballet. You could jump and move to the music. I liked that ballet was very physically active.

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Hudson man spreads holiday cheer as Santa for three decades Santa | from page 3

people passed by and took pictures.” Also for several years, Isaacs appeared as Santa at The Paper Store in Hudson. His other appearances have included private house parties, fundraisers and community and corporate events. “Over the years, I’ve learned how to answer the kids’ questions,” he noted. “They’ll always ask me, ‘Where’s the sleigh?’ I tell them that I parked my sleigh at the school – and, of course, they Galen “Red” Isaacs as Santa meets A.J. Wade at think it’s at their 2018’s Hudson Downtown Holiday Stroll. school. It’s never not worked because there’s always a school somewhere.” Among his Santa stints in recent Likewise, Isaacs figured how to years are Hudson Business Associacoax fidgety children to pose with him tion’s annual Hudson Downtown Holwhen he does photo shoots at busiiday Stroll, as well as merchants’ visits nesses and community events. organized by Hudson Downtown “I ask them if they would take a Business Improvement District. Also picture with me so I can show it to in Hudson, he has done photo sessions Mrs. Claus,” he revealed. “It works at Avidia Bank’s main branch. most of the time because they don’t His nearby appearances have inwant to disappoint Mrs. Claus.” cluded Slater’s in Bolton for over 20

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“My favorite memory is holding my son’s hand and walking into the building,” he recalled. “Joe was very excited.” Even since Isaacs’ Santa debut, he has had a natural full beard. In 1990, however, his beard was solid red – hence, his nickname, “Red.” He relied on hair-dye spray to transform his red beard to white. For several years, the special destination of his many fire engine rides was the Massachusetts Statehouse for a tree lighting followed by a festive gathering with children. Those appearances began after Isaacs’ surprise visit as Santa on Christmas Eve to the Hudson family home of then-Gov. Argeo Paul Cellucci and his wife Jan. Isaacs’ statehouse appearances continued into the terms of former governors Jane Swift and Mitt Romney. Throughout those years, his mode of transportation ranged from a golf cart camouflaged as a sleigh to a particularly distinctive fire engine. “I was brought in once on a 1966 American LaFrance fire engine from the Boston Fire Museum,” he recounted. “Waiting for them to bring me up to the statehouse, we were parked on Charles Street for a half-hour while

Galen “Red” Isaacs years, Sudbury Fire Department’s holiday party and Stow Women’s Club’s Breakfast with Santa. Last year, Isaacs invested in a custom-made Santa suit created by Pierre’s Costumes in Philadelphia. He was pleased to wear the new suit at his hometown’s 2019 downtown stroll. Like many major events, the usual multi-activity stroll won’t take place in 2020 due to pandemic safety concerns. “Last year was my best year ever because I was so comfortable in that beautiful suit,” Isaacs noted. “Hopefully, I’ll be back next year.” Instead of the stroll this year, Isaacs as Santa will spread holiday cheer with a drive-by Saturday, Dec. 5, from 5 to 7 p.m., in downtown Hudson.

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ArtSpace Maynard’s director takes topical artworks on the road By Ed Karvoski Jr. Culture Editor

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erry Beck has creatively covered a lot of ground with public art projects since relocating from his home state of Florida to Massachusetts in the 1980s. He’s the founder and former artistic director of The Revolving Museum (TRM), a nomadic cultural organization. Currently serving as executive director of ArtSpace Maynard, he has literally driven topical artworks through much of central and eastern Massachusetts. “We’re on the cusp of a cultural revolution,” he said of public art participants. While studying at Florida State University, Beck exhibited off-campus public art throughout Tallahassee.

“Early on, I rebelled against object focus art,” he recalled. “As an 18-yearold, I did art projects with my peers and even art teachers in abandoned spaces all over Tallahassee.” After graduating from FSU with a BFA in 1981, Beck relocated to attend Boston’s School of the Muse-

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“My parents moved 19 times and lived all over the world,” she said. She attended the American School in London. At 18, with one suitcase, she flew to the United States to attend Lehigh University. “I hadn’t been in the States in a couple of years at that point. I thought that I was a European,” she commented. At Lehigh, Malone followed the footsteps of her father, an engineer, but found her niche in political science and international relations. Next came law school at Suffolk University in Boston. “Achieving goals was important in my family,” she said. “The skill set for law came to me more naturally than engineering.” After graduating from law school in 1985, Malone was hired by the then oldest law firm in Boston. By 1989, she had been married for four years, had a son, and was living in Newton. And then the firm dissolved. Over the next 25 years, Malone applied her legal expertise at a clinical lab company, a medical device startup, and a biotech research company. In every case, she dealt with compli-

ome stories start with a blink of an eye. For Cheryl Malone’s award-winning picture book “Dario and the Whale,” that blink happened in 2011 on a cool foggy April morning. Malone was attending a monthlong residency at the Norman Mailer Writers’ Colony in Provincetown, along with Chief, her Wheaten Terrier. “We were walking along the beach and could see a young whale feeding on the surface,” Malone recalled. “Chief barked and the whale picked up his head and looked at us. The whale, the dog, and me. It was unbelievable.” “Dario and the Whale” was published in 2016, followed by “Elephants Walk Together” in 2017. Both are available on Amazon. Before becoming a published author, Malone had traveled the world, worked as a successful biotech lawyer and a dog trainer, and for a time was a single parent. Born in New Jersey, she never lived there. Malone was raised mostly in Europe.

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alerie Paavonpera, 64, is a brave and adaptable woman. Not many would leave their dream job, their country, or feel at home practically anywhere on earth. For 40 years, Paavonpera has lived abroad, including two decades in Australia. For the past 10 years, she’s lived in various locales throughout New England, including her hometown of Ipswich, MA. This was not in her plans, but a poem she wrote happily landed her here. Her current address is Charlestown, South Carolina where the warmer climate should make life a bit easier for her and her family. Poetess and businesswoman? Yes, that’s Paavonpera. But running her own business wasn’t in the plans, either. Her company, VPR Media and Marketing, was a spontaneous creation.

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cated issues and rose to the top. Also, in every case, the company was sold. Her final biotech legal stint was as a consultant. On the personal side, in 1996, Malone left a difficult marriage. Her son was 8 and by then, she had a daughter who was 5. Malone found comfort living in Newton. “My kids grew up running in and out of our neighbors’ [homes],” she said. “Our street is so diverse. When someone had a birthday party, there would be songs in 15 languages. It was so comforting to me given how I grew up.” She met her second husband in 1999 and they married in 2006. “He is an extraordinary guy who went into an orphanage at the age of 5 and was adopted at 9. If anyone can understand someone else’s children, it’s someone who was adopted,” she said. “His son was 15 when I met him. Now he’s 36 and he is a son to me.” Malone had always wanted to learn how to write fiction. “It’s like learning to paint or play an instrument,” she noted. “There are rules.” With her husband’s encouragement, Malone gave up law and earned an MFA in creative writing from Lesley University in 2010. Afterwards,

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she taught at Lesley for four years, where she “really honed [her] skills.” Chief, the dog who barked at the whale, came into Malone’s life in 1999. He had chronic health problems and died at 8. A few years later, Malone and her husband travelled to Ireland and brought home Lorcan, an Irish Wheaten Terrier. “He is the easiest dog on the planet,” she said. “We went back to get another dog, Muri. It turned out that she is a pill, so pack oriented, shy, nervous, anxious, and all about rules.” That’s when Malone met Lisa Rockland, now owner of All about My Dog in Natick, who was helping her train Muri. When Rockland opened her business in 2016, she asked Malone to help her launch her business and Malone became a dog trainer. Currently, however, Malone is focusing on creative writing and is working on a middle school chapter book and an adult murder mystery. It seems she has many stories still to tell.

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Another poet heard her poem at a gathering in Vermont where she was living at the time. Being a friend of David Updike, one of John Updike’s sons, the fellow poet shared Paavonpera’s poem with him. David reconnected with Paavonpera—they knew each other having both lived in Ipswich as children—about the poem, and learned she was looking for a

house to rent. He had just the place: John Updike’s, his father’s home in Ipswich. They say you can’t go home again, but Paavonpera did exactly that during a time in her life where this was just the right place to be. Paavonpera’s life is in a new phase that she could never have anticipated—no one plans for this. A tragic loss of mobility in one’s husband? A pandemic? Moving about

1000 miles? But the qualities she admires in others: being self-driven, positive, adventurous, generous with time and goodwill, she has in abundance in herself. Even in the midst of these difficult times, she offers her communications expertise pro bono to two nonprofits. Her guiding philosophy now? She said, “As much as possible, I aspire to be fully present, grateful, and kind.”

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A seat at the table By Marianne Delorey, Ph.D. Executive Director, Colony Retirement Homes

Everybody gets so much information all day long that they lose their common sense. Gertrude Stein

here is a parable about four people touching and describing an elephant from four different angles. One person is touching the tusk and concludes the animal is hard and spear like. The person touching the tail concludes the animal is long and rope-like, like a snake. The person touching the elephant’s side thinks the animal is a wall. The person touching its ear describes the animal as a fan. Each person is right, but each person has incomplete information. The point of the parable is that sometimes you need to approach a problem from multiple perspectives to get a full picture. The same is true of elder care. Multidisciplinary meetings help to bring all pertinent information to the table when caring for elders. Family members, nurses, occupational therapists, psychologists, and caseworkers are often at these meetings. I have known about several case conferences where my resident’s care was being discussed and when I asked to attend, I have been dismissed. Some people do not realize how much we can offer to the conversation – they simply see property managers as mindless lightbulb changers. Most of us are not trying to be nosy. We have enough to do and we don’t want to be over involved. We may not be an obvious part of the team but eldercare agencies should ask the elder if they want us there. Often, we are the people who see the elder every day and very often, the elder trusts us. We are the eyes on the ground, we are often the first to notice behavioral changes due to a medication change, we call the ambulance when they fall, and we see so much more. • We see a couple living in an apartment with one twin size bed and a couch in the living room. • We notice when a family has no food in their fridge. • We see someone whose recycling includes several empty bottles of whiskey every week. • We observe that some family members consistently come to visit only after the first of the month when social security checks arrive. • We smell pot and cigarette smoke on the elders and on their visitors. • We see frequent “visitors” coming for half an hour each night and sometimes several nights per week. • We hear children yell at their elders, and we hear elders who yell back. • We see people with no furniture, even years after living in the apartment. • We see bruises after visits. • We see elders with family far away who rave about their sons and daughters, only to have them visit once a year for 15 minutes before they speed out of the parking lot. • We see people who swear they can’t pay their rent but who can afford a fancy car. • We hear from neighbors when couples regularly fight at loud volumes. • We notice behavior that is unusual for different elders, and we ask when they last ate or why they are going out in a cab three times in one day. Of course, none of this information paints a complete picture. But paired with different medical conditions and social concerns, these observations could help create a better safety net for our elders around poverty, abuse, neglect, addiction, and fraud. Landlords may not be health care workers, but the best way forward for all elders is to acknowledge they are important members of the team. We come at the issues from a different angle, but we help provide a complete picture.

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ban Development (HUD) institutes changes to the reverse mortgage program, the industry is often given advanced notice. This allows us to understand new guidelines and implement the changes in our systems. But unfortunately, the general public doesn’t realize how those changes will impact them if they ever decide to obtain a reverse mortgage. And that is when I hear the “should of, would of ’s” or “why didn’t anyone tell me” and other words of regret.

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Alain Valles is Managing Director of Helping Hands Community Partners, Inc. and was the first designated Certified Reverse Mortgage Professional in New England. He obtained a Master of Science from M.I.T., an MBA from the Wharton School, and graduated summa cum laude from UMass Amherst. Alain can be reached directly at 781-724-6221 or by email at infoaboutreversemortgages@gmail.com. For more photos visit www.fiftyplusadvocate.com.

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viewpoint Christmas trees, real and not By Janice Lindsay Every Christmas, I say, “Maybe this year, I should have a real tree instead of the artificial one.” Every year, I don’t. That artificial tree is a family tradition. The first Christmas of our marriage, my husband and I installed a real tree. Just after Christmas, we both came down with one of those horrible colds that make your head feel like a watermelon on a stick. After a couple of days in bed, I dragged myself to the living room to check on the tree. Neither of us had felt well enough to water it. Needles speckled the carpet, making a wide needley circle. Too lacking in energy to fetch the vacuum cleaner, I found the dustpan and brush. Simple enough, I thought, to sweep up the needles. The synthetic brush, scuffling on the synthetic carpet, created static that awoke the slumbering needles. They allowed themselves to be swept into the dustpan. But they suddenly woke and compulsively jumped back out, adhering themselves to the carpet in an impressive display of static cling. The more I brushed, the more they clung. Being a person of common sense, I went back to bed. In my viral misery, I vowed that we would never again have a real tree. I know that this is unfair to real trees. Many families enjoy real trees

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Organization consultant finds meaning as a COVID-19 contact tracer By Jane Keller Gordon Assistant Editor

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Jeanette Millard experience would make her a good fit. She is multilingual, had taught German at the Winsor School in Boston, and had worked in the public, private and nonprofit sectors, helping people design, manage and effect change, especially in cross-cultural situations. She also knew what it meant to experience illness and survive. Recovering from breast cancer in her early 40s, when her son and daughter were young, Millard joined WeCanRow, a wellness and recovery program for women who have been treated for breast cancer.

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Engineer helps Westborough residents go green By Serena Howlett Contributing Writer WESTBOROUGH

lobal warming and the depletion of the ozone layer are highly complex topics most people can’t begin to wrap their heads around. Sharad Mehta is an engineer who typically “looks at systems as a whole.” His work at MIT’s Lincoln Laboratory in Lexington includes defense and disaster relief projects. But Mehta is also a concerned citizen and Westborough resident who believes individuals can help make our planet a healthier place. Not content with Sharad Mehta and his wife Alka Yadav-Mehta hand-wringing about global warming, Mehta makes hands-on plans and takes action. For the past two years, Mehta’s has worked with the Westborough Rotary Club’s Committee on the Environment (COTE) to plan and carry out three programs. One project is about the effects of non-biodegradable plastic, which contaminates the food chain and drinking water. “We visited a recycling facility and observed the way film plastic, such as single use plastic bags, jams the rollers,” Mehta said. To discourage the use of plastic grocery bags, COTE is participating in a challenge to collect 500 pounds of the environmentally hazardous bags for a recycling project. Two other Rotary projects address the contribution of fossil fuels to the depletion of the ozone layer – and, ultimately, global warming. These projects ask for individual buy-in to meet the goal of zero greenhouse gas emissions (100-percent renewable) by the year 2050. “For homeowners who switch to green technology,” Mehta explained, “there is an initial outlay of cash, but in the long run, the new systems reduce monthly bills.” Mehta practices what he preaches. He talked enthusiastically about his electric car. “It’s really very efficient,” he said. “I can charge my car overnight in the garage. To do this, you need to have the same kind of electrical outlet required for an electric dryer. I can recharge my car in about 20 minutes at an EV charging station.” Mehta also uses an “air-source heat pump” for home heating. “The estimate we have is that 85 percent of the time we will be on electricity and be cost-effective,” he said. “When the temperature falls below 25 degrees, the system will switch to propane.” Mehta also touted the efficiencies of solar panels. “With solar panels, I can feed energy back and forth from home to grid,” he explained. “As a result, my electric bill is negative.” Mehta plays a leadership role in implementing the town of Westborough’s Climate Action Plan. Working groups focus on electric municipal vehicles, heating municipal buildings, waste management and transportation. Recognizing the important contribution of trees to air quality, as a member of the “Tree Canopy” group, he volunteers identify unhealthy trees and opportunities for tree planting around town. Mehta is tireless in his efforts to inform people about what they can do to save the environment. Last year, Mehta gave a two-hour presentation at Westborough Library. “I want to introduce ideas at the right time,” Mehta said, “so people have the information when it comes to making a decision.”

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