CODE M MAGAZINE 2026 JUNE ISSUE

WOMAN IN CONSTRUCTION

Kelly Edwards leads a team that manages a 160-milliondollar project for ColemanSpohn, establishing her as one of the top project managers in the construction industry.

PUBLISHERS NOTE FATHERHOOD IN FULL LIGHT

They say that men get flowers only once, at their funeral. This month we celebrate Father’s Day and acknowledge all the things that men do to make a difference for the important people in their lives.

June brings longer days, brighter light, and a sense of energy that invites us to be present. Summer has a way of slowing things down just enough for us to reflect, reset, and reconnect with ourselves and with those who matter most.

It also brings Father’s Day a moment to honor the men who lead, provide, teach, and protect.

Fatherhood is more than a title. It’s a responsibility. It’s the daily commitment to show up, to guide, and to pour into the next generation. Whether you are a father, a father figure, or a man striving to lead by example, your presence matters more than you JUNE realize.

Many of us carry lessons from the men who raised us both what to do and, in some cases, what to do differently. Fatherhood is consistency. It’s about growth. It’s about choosing to be better, even when you

In my own journey, I’ve come to understand that leadership starts at home. The way we show up for our families reflects the man we are becoming. It’s not just about what we say ter, our integrity those are the things that leave a lasting impact.

Summer reminds us to be present. To not let time pass without intention. To create moments, build memories, and strengthen bonds that will outlive us.

That same mindset is part of what fuels Code M Magazine purpose, to grow with intention, and to build legacies that matter.

My hope is that the words and images in this issue inspire you to lead with strength, show up with purpose, and embrace the responsibility of shaping the future.

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SEXY AND THE SUMMER SIZZLES

Summer is a time to enjoy the warm weather and let your assets shine. Enjoy how CODE M men envision summer.

WOMAN IN CONSTRUCTION

Kelly Edwards leads a team that manages a 160 million dollar ON THE COVER project for Coleman-Spohn, establishing her as on of the top project managers in the construction industry.

16 MOVERS AND SHAKERS

Get to know people who are making a difference in their careers and changing the world!

19 MAN CODES Manhood.

22 PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING SOCIAL

MEDIA FATIGUE

The US seems to be on the edge of total burnout. The unending bombardment of info noise and in-your-face issues is wearing Americans down to an emotional nub.

26 THE ANTI-WAR MOVEMENT RISES AROUND THE WORLD

Anti-war movements have been a part of the fabric of American history and a significant component of social justice movements across the country. Historically, young Americans have opposed the United States’ involvement in wars and conflicts around the world; however, the reasons for resisting these wars have varied depending on the era, while still remaining

highly impactful.

32 MONEY DOES NOT MAKE THE MAN

In today’s world, especially on social media and in the courtroom, fathers are often judged primarily by their financial contributions. However, the significance of a father extends far beyond monetary support.

38 CODE M BEAUTY

Amazing women are refining what it means to be sexy.

48 BECOMING A GIRL DAD

Divorced fathers must quickly learn the skills of raising a daughter after they become the only parent in the household.

54 WHEN DREAMS COME TRUE

AUTHENTICITY IN MOTION

In the world of sports, many athletes are playing the short game of their athletic career. Dr. Wendy Ellis Jones helps them play the long game of life.

Ronnie Holeman’s dream of making a feature film comes to life as he premieres his first project written, directed and produced by him.

61 SUMMER READING WITH LOVE AND BETRAYAL

This book will revive your love for reading and suspense and it grabs your imagination and time.

62 POWER OF THE CANVAS

Art comes to life as painter and visionary Stina Aleah brings to life her artistry from a perspective that feeds the soul and replenishes the faith of those that get a chance to engage with her artwork.

68 SHOULD YOU SWIPE LEFT ON LOVE?

Many people are choosing not to participate in the complicated world of dating, creating an entire population of singles.

72 SEXY AND THE SUMMER SIZZLES

Summer is a time to enjoy the warm weather and let your assets shine. Enjoy how CODE M men envision summer.

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SHAKERS

CAROLINA ISERN

Caroline Isern is a Community Outreach and Engagement Leader at Truist with a dynamic background in banking, multicultural lending, and community development. With leadership experience spanning large financial institutions like Bank of America, one of the nation’s largest independent mortgage lenders, and multicultural initiatives at Rocket Mortgage, Caroline has dedicated her career to expanding access to homeownership and financial empowerment for underserved communities.

Get to know people who are making a difference in their careers and changing the world!

by Paris Lampkins

Known for building impactful partnerships and driving meaningful CRA, fair lending, and community engagement initiatives, Caroline is passionate about creating pathways to wealth, increasing financial inclusion, and helping families achieve long-term stability through homeownership. Throughout her career, she has led strategic initiatives focused on education, outreach, and innovative lending solutions designed to break down barriers and create greater access to opportunity.

At Truist, Caroline continues to champion community-focused initiatives that connect education, access, and opportunity to create lasting impact within the communities the bank serves.

ROBERT McQUEEN

Robert McQueen is a results-driven sales and financial professional with a strong foundation in relationship management, consultative selling, and client-focused solutions. Currently serving as a Personal Banker at PNC, a role he began on December 15th, Robert leverages his background in sales to help paint a clear picture for clients, guiding them toward informed financial decisions while delivering a high standard of customer service.

Prior to transitioning into banking, Robert built a proven track record as an Account Executive, most recently at Cision in Cleveland, where he consistently exceeded a $37K monthly quota by selling SaaS communications solutions to mid-market and enterprise clients. He developed expertise in managing the full sales cycle, from prospecting to closing, while cultivating relationships with C-suite decision-makers and delivering tailored, value-driven strategies.

Earlier in his career, Robert excelled in roles across diverse industries, including industrial and commercial lighting sales at Technical Consumer Products and automotive sales at Deacon's Chrysler and Honda of Cleveland Heights. Across these positions, he consistently outperformed targets, expanded market presence, and maintained high client retention through

DEVON CHRISTOPHER JOHNSON

DeVon Christopher Johnson is a successful entrepreneur and media mogul, born and raised in New York. He spent his early childhood in Far Rockaway, Queens, before moving to Uniondale on Long Island as a toddler. DeVon's success can be attributed to his strong foundation, which includes achieving the highest honor of Eagle Scout during his years as a Boy Scout, as well as serving as a volunteer peer educator for the American Red Cross during his high school years.

DeVon earned his Bachelor's degree in Communication and Arts from Seton Hall University, followed by a Master's degree in Journalism from Harvard University. His career began at Def Jam Records, where he worked in marketing and advertising roles before moving on to Universal Music Group, Warner Music Group, and Atlantic Records. During his time in the music industry, DeVon collaborated on projects for iconic artists such as Jay-Z, LL Cool J, Mariah Carey, Trey Songz, and Rihanna.

Despite his successful career in the music industry, DeVon felt called to pursue his passion for media and publishing. He founded BleuLife Media Group, Inc., which began as a single publication, Bleu Magazine, and has since grown into a full-scale multimedia company serving diverse audiences worldwide. DeVon leveraged his marketing knowledge and communications expertise to develop a media empire with a global reach and a man-

a consultative and personalized approach. His ability to mentor peers and contribute to team success further highlights his leadership capabilities.

date of inclusivity and diversity. BleuLife Media Group's platforms now include Bleu Magazine, Bombshellbybleu.com, Bleu TV, a podcast network, a geo-targeting mobile ad platform, and an agency that represents digital influencers.

MAN CODES: MANHOOD

Compiled by Bilal S. Akram

“Someone once said that every man is trying to live up to his father's expectations or make up for their father's mistakes....”Barack Obama

“There is one rule, above all others, for being a man. Whatever comes, face it on your feet.” - Robert Jordan

“Stand true to your calling to be a man. Real women will always be relieved and grateful when men are willing to be men” - Elizabeth Elliot

“Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you’re a man, you take it.” - Malcolm X “A man should be able to hear, and to bear, the worst that could be said of him.” - Saul Bellow

“Ultimate vulnerability. That’s manly.” - Cameron Conaway

“It takes a real secure man to understand it's okay to cry and an

even wiser one to teach that it's okay.” - Carlos Wallace

“Real men are attracted to strong women, while shallow men want sheep for a woman.” - Abhijit Naskar

“Adversity toughens manhood, and the characteristic of the good or the great man is not that he has been exempt from the evils of life, but that he has surmounted them.”Patrick Henry.

“This is the test of your manhood: How much is there left in you after you have lost everything outside of yourself?”Orison Swett Marden

I Corinthian 13:11 -When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. (NIV)

AUTHENTICITY IN MOTION

In a world caught up with distractions and drama, the confluence of arts, advocacy, and entertainment as a means engage humanity on deeper, more meaningful levels is imperative.

Written by DAVID CHRISTEL

David has been ghostwriting books for well-known people since 1995. He is also the author of Married Men Coming Out: The Ultimate Guide to Becoming the Man You Were Born to Be.

Dr. Wendy Ellis Jones didn’t grow up expecting to become what she now calls “The NIL Doctor.” She grew up on the south side of Chicago with a singular escape route: running. As a skinny kid with big dreams, she found that speed could transport her beyond what anyone thought was possible.

Winning four 400-meter conference championships and earning nine All-American honors, she secured her place in the Athletics Hall of Fame.

But here’s what the records don’t show: Wendy learned early that championships don’t come with a roadmap for what comes next.

FROM ATHLETE TO EXECUTIVE TO ADVOCATE

When her competing days ended, Wendy didn’t slow down. She redirected. She coached at the collegiate level, helped launch the Chicago Sky WNBA franchise, where she ranked second in sales league-wide, and went on to earn her master’s degree and a doctorate in ethical leadership. Her executive career took her to Northwestern University, the YMCA of Metropolitan Chicago, and Honey Shine, formerly under the Alonzo Mourning Family Foundation, where she raised millions in philanthropic funding.

By every traditional measure, she had won the game. Yet something was missing. She had spent years building someone else’s brand, watching others benefit from her talent, her relationships, and her relentless work ethic. After navigating corporate layoffs and downsizing, Wendy made a decision: she bet on herself. She took 25 years of executive experience building other people’s companies

and turned it into something entirely her own. That’s when “The NIL Doctor” was born.

BUILDING A BRAND AROUND A BILLION-DOLLAR OPPORTUNITY

NIL is a multi-billion-dollar industry, and Wendy recognized the opportunity: build a brand that parents, coaches, and organizations would trust the way they trust a doctor. The NIL Doctor Agency was built out of necessity to represent disenfranchised athletes being taken advantage of by unethical agents. As a certified NIL Agent herself, Dr. Ellis Jones knows firsthand what ethical representation looks like. The agency has since grown into a fullservice practice built on representation, brand development, and transformational coaching, where every athlete receives a personalized prescription for success on and off the field.

“Most young athletes are playing the short game,” she explains.

“They’re chasing the next deal, the next highlight, the next follower count. But with less than 2 percent of college athletes making it to the professional level, what happens when the injury comes?

When does the career ends? Every athlete needs a Plan B.”

Wendy works with athletes and their families, asking the questions most are afraid to face: When your playing days are over, how do you want people to remember you? Parents trust her to help their children see beyond the game and begin building with the end in mind.

LEGACY IS BUILT EVERY SINGLE DAY

Legacy, as Wendy defines it, is built every single day you’re still playing. Michael Jordan’s legacy wasn’t built in retirement. It was forged on the court, through wins, losses, and every choice he made in between. The same is true for every student athlete. Their legacy is being shaped right now, through the values they align with, the authentic brand they develop, and the choices they make while the world is watching.

Student athletes who wait until retirement to think about their legacy are already behind. The time to build is now, while they have a platform and an opportunity to define who they are beyond the game.

A TRUTH TELLER FOR THE GENERATION THAT NEEDS IT MOST

What sets Dr. Ellis Jones apart is her commitment to honesty, delivered with care. She doesn’t mince words, but

Dr. Wendy Ellis Jones speaking at a recent event.

she delivers truth with the empathy of someone who has lived it. As a former collegiate athlete, she relates to what student athletes experience in ways few advisors can. She is especially passionate about serving Black and Brown student athletes and their families.

According to the Center for American Progress, 47 percent of Black mothers in America are raising children without a partner, navigating systems not always designed in their favor. These families deserve an advocate who understands both worlds and builds trust regardless of economic status or background.

Wendy brings a rare combination of Hall of Fame athletic credentials and hard-won business experience that few in this space can match. She’s been a coach, an executive, and a mentor. A woman who knows that true success is rooted in being authentic, hungry, and humble.

BETTING ON HERSELF

Today, Dr. Ellis Jones is a sought-after speaker and advisor for athletic departments, schools, organizations, and families ready to think differently about what student-athlete development truly means and what it can unlock for the next generation. She has come to understand that the greatest achievement isn’t climbing the ladder, it’s building a life of purpose and meaning.

Wendy’s ready to help athletes, families, and organizations understand that the greatest legacy isn’t built on what happens on the court. It’s built on who athletes become when the game is over, and the foundation they lay right now. ●

Follow Dr. Wendy Ellis Jones @NIL_DR on Instagram and discover why she’s the voice your student athletes need to hear.

PEOPLE ARE EXPERIENCING SOCIAL MEDIA FATIGUE

The US seems to be on the edge of total burnout. The unending bombardment of info noise and in-your-face issues is wearing Americans down to an emotional nub.

Written by DAVID CHRISTEL

Humans create 402.74 million terabytes of information daily, of which the average American consumes up to 74 GB roughly 200,000 words or 200 hours of TikTok per day. Via the five senses, they can handle about 11 million bits per second, but their conscious mind can only comprehend approximately 50 bits per second.

The 24/7 barrage of news, all-consuming social media, and a tsunami of “entertainment” is leading to impaired focus, compromised decision-making or paralysis, sleep deprivation, and decreased productivity and efficiency. It’s all wearing people down, overloading them to the point of exhaustion, depletion, despair, and depression burnout.

First appearing in the early 1970s, the term “burnout” was used to describe the emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion experienced by people in the healthcare professions. It’s now applied to every segment of society and can affect any individual, no matter what their education, profession, title, celebrity, wealth, or status. The upshot is that burnout is the byproduct of our times.

It’s not news that Americans are living in a fast-paced, frenetic, constantly changing world. Trying to keep up with it all is extremely taxing, and the overload of information and the need to stay on top of the mountain of data is having a seriously deleterious effect on the US population.

80% of US workers experience information overload

74% of employees have experienced burnout at some point

HR professionals estimate that 30% of employees are experiencing “silent burnout,” a slow, undetected state of exhaustion

Burnout costs employers from $4K to over $20K per employee per year

Human attention spans have decreased from 12 seconds in 2000 to

8 seconds in 2023, comparable to that of goldfish

Economists estimate that information overload costs the US $900 billion per year in reduced productivity and innovation Needless to say, burnout can have serious effects on one’s health, from an increased risk of heart disease to a weakened immune system, digestive issues, depression, anxiety, and impaired cognitive functioning.

So that’s the workplace situation concerning burnout that we’ve become more familiar with over the last couple of decades. But burnout also occurs in another way, which is with one’s mental/emotional set. This occurs when specific topics are forever in the news and on social media, the constant focus of conversations, are repeatedly advertised, and made wedge points in campaigns and causes of all kinds.

Some issues have been with us for decades even centuries so much so that people are truly tired of hearing and reading about them. It doesn’t matter how important an issue may be or how significantly it impacts lives it’s become brain-numbing.

There are two ways of characterizing this phenomenon:

Cognitive weariness overload of mental stimulation or information; leads to emotional exhaustion, reduced mental resilience, and downward spiraling apathy.

Social fatigue develops from spending large amounts of time with people wherein one feels pressed to engage in topics and issues ad nauseam; leads to feeling drained, anxious, and irritated.

The list of issues society is tired of facing is seemingly endless, but there are a few that top the list: racism, climate change and the environment, LGBTQ+ and gender, religion, cancer, misogyny and male toxicity, pornography, immigration, wealth inequality, healthcare, boomers and aging, housing, guns, crime, corporate malfeasance, corruption, and politics.

People are so-o-o done with hearing about these, talking about them, reading about them, seeing expressions of them in movies, TV shows, YouTube videos, on TikTok and Instagram, and in books. Granted, they are all important issues requiring attention, input, and involvement yet the unending focus on them has

Depression is on the rise due too much exposure to the internet.

worn people down to the point that they’re experiencing a seriously reduced quality of life.

Part of the problem is that there are a plethora of individuals, influencers, and agencies whose sole purpose is to preach to and enflame viewers and followers with non-stop diatribes, and disparaging and inciting postings, sound bites, and “reports.” They’re relying on the fact that those listening and following are so fatigued by the amount of information output that they’re barely using their critical thinking skills, if at all.

Thus, a widely employed methodology is used called mis- and disinformation, otherwise known as “fake news.” DemandSage, a company that provides data-driven solutions for business growth, reports that:

Approximately 62% of online information could be false

On average, 40% of content shared on social media platforms is false

44% of news consumers don’t trust news from traditional sources

93% of social media videos are now generated using AI for manipulative purposes

Fake news costs the global economy $78 billion annually

Combined with the deluge of constantly “streaming” news, the influx of partial, manipulated, and completely fabricated information is seriously daunting. With the advent of Artificial Intelligence (AI), it’s becoming increasingly difficult to discern true vs. fictitious narratives, which has put many people on hypervigilant edge.

On the flip side, for many people, it’s numbed them to a degree where they no longer bother to check the veracity of the information they’re taking in, and they no longer care. The expectation is that someone else will deal with the issues and make things right.

This unending scenario creates an enervating, anesthetizing, and brain-deadening inertia on individuals, communities, and the populace at large.

The antidote to overwhelm, apathy, and burnout is: choice. Every person alive has multiple opportunities each day to make choices about what they want to focus on, who they want to listen to, what to watch and read, who they hang with, and what they want

to put their energies toward. It’s as simple as that, yet can take all of a person’s willpower to make different choices especially if the people around them are pressuring them in any way.

Life is all about choices, and those choices create the realities people live and operate within Burnout is solvable, and it begins with each person making the number one choice of taking care of themselves first. That can involve anything from spending less time with certain people to changing the dynamics of relationships. It also means significantly reducing the amount of time spent scrolling the news and social media. This is what’s called “setting boundaries,” which can apply to anything that garners so much attention and wears one down.

Another step to take is to assess what triggers the emotional response of shutting down mentally and emotionally. The choice is to then avoid those triggers and choose something more positive, affirming, and supportive.

One could also work with a trained therapist to determine the motivation and meaning behind those things that cause overwhelm and burnout. Then, another choice needs to be made as to what truly needs one’s attention and the depth of its importance.

Though life will always present challenges and some challenges have been with us a long time it’s important to work with others when it comes to the big issues. That way, a person won’t feel they stand alone but instead have the support of like-minded people. Stay attuned to those things that truly matter and know that together, we stand stronger. “In every community, there is work to be done. In every nation, there are wounds to heal. In every heart, there is the power to do it.” (Marianne Williamson)

THE ANTI-WAR MOVEMENT AROUND THE

Anti-war movements have been a part of the fabric of American history and a significant component of social justice movements across the country. Historically, young Americans have opposed the United States’ involvement in wars and conflicts around the world; however, the reasons for resisting these wars have varied depending on the era, while still remaining highly impactful.

MOVEMENT RISES THE WORLD

Written by Madison M. JUNEnard

Generation Z (born between 1997 and 2012) has consistently witnessed the US entering wars and conflicts with nations across the globe. This generation lived through the Global War on Terror, which began after the September 11 terrorist attacks, when the US entered wars in both Afghanistan and Iraq. The war ultimately came to an end in 2021, when President Biden withdrew US troops from Afghanistan.

Of course, the US still maintains military operations in other countries, such as Somalia and Yemen, but the end of the “Forever Wars” in Afghanistan and Iraq seemed to offer hope for a new chapter with even less military involvement in conflicts across the globe. However, that hope did not last long.

Shortly afterward, Gen Z witnessed the rise of modern global conflicts, such as the Russia-Ukraine War and the Israel-Hamas war, which caused many members of this generation to mobilize in opposition, particularly regarding the conflict in the Middle East. Much of this opposition stems from the United States’ support of what many Americans describe as Israel’s genocide and apartheid against the Palestinian people.

People of all ages, but especially Gen Z, have felt compelled to protest against the United States’ funding of the war, as many are uncomfortable with their taxpayer dollars being used to support a conflict they believe has led to genocide and inhumane treatment of Palestinians.

Many Palestinians affected by the war are not affiliated with Hamas, the terrorist organization responsible for the October 7, 2023, attack on Israel that killed more than 1,000 people. However, thousands of Palestinian adults and children have been killed by the Israel Defense Forces during the conflict.

Many Americans also oppose the United States’ continued funding and support of the war because legal scholars and human rights organizations, including the United Nations, argue that aspects of the conflict violate international law due to the extensive civilian casualties in Gaza and restrictions on essential resources such as water, food, and electricity. Gen Z has been at the forefront of opposing US involvement, leading protests on college campuses across the nation, as well as demonstrations organized by young Americans outside their universities.

As the conflict between Israel and Hamas continues, with repeated hopes for resolution through ceasefires that ultimately fail to hold, President Donald Trump and Israel have also drawn the US into a new conflict in the Middle East: a war with Iran. The conflict began after US and Israeli airstrikes targeted Iranian military and government sites during ongoing negotiations over

Iran’s nuclear program. Iran retaliated with missile and drone attacks on Israel, US military bases, and allied countries in the region, escalating tensions across the Middle East and disrupting global trade through restrictions in the Strait of Hormuz.

The war has angered many Americans, especially Gen Z, because many believe that President Trump and his administration have not provided a clear or consistent explanation for why the US entered the conflict. The Trump administration and Israeli officials have offered several different justifications for the war, including preventing an alleged Iranian threat, stopping Iran from developing nuclear weapons, weakening Iran’s military capabilities, and limiting the influence of Iranian-backed groups in the Middle East. However, critics and some lawmakers have questioned these explanations, arguing that there was little evidence Iran planned to directly attack the US.

For many younger Americans who are already frustrated by the United States’ involvement in the Israel-Hamas conflict, the Iran war appears to be another example of Israel drawing the US into a conflict that many Americans view unfavorably. A recent PBS/NPR/Marist poll found that 6 in 10 Americans disapprove of President Trump’s handling of the war. The conflict has also become increasingly unpopular because of its impact on the American economy. With the Strait of Hormuz closed, gas prices across the country have sharply increased.

This has further affected President Trump’s approval ratings, which were already historically low. According to The New York Times, his approval rating has now fallen to 38%. During his 2024 presidential campaign, Trump promised to lower the cost of living, reduce gas prices, avoid entering the US into additional wars, and end various military operations that took place under the Biden administration. However, many Americans feel that the opposite

has occurred, as the US has entered another war and the cost of living, particularly gas prices, has continued to rise because of the conflict with Iran.

The war has also sparked protests among younger Americans across the political spectrum. While anti-war movements in recent years have often leaned more toward the political left, many young conservatives have also expressed opposition to increased US military involvement in global conflicts. As a result, the Iran war has contributed to growing divisions within the Republican Party.

In America, Gen Z’s involvement in the anti-war movement is a significant part of their broader political identity, as there are a variety of reasons why younger Americans are speaking out against US involvement in wars and conflicts across the globe. Gen Z has become a leading force in modern anti-war activism, driven by skepticism toward foreign intervention and a strong focus on humanitarian and social consequences. Many in this generation, having grown up during the “forever wars,” tend to favor diplomacy over military action and are less supportive of US involvement in global conflicts, including those in the Middle East

directly affects their future. Overall, their involvement is less rooted in traditional pacifism and more in a desire to reduce global instability while addressing the broader social and economic consequences of war.

Anti-war movements have been prevalent in the US for decades, with one of the most significant peaks occurring during opposition to the Vietnam War. Of course, Gen Z’s involvement in the anti-war movement is different from previous anti-war movements the country has seen. Their activism, particularly around conflicts such as Gaza, reflects both continuity with earlier movements and important differences in motivation and structure. Like Vietnam-era protests, Gen Z activism is often youth-led and centered on college campuses, where students organize demonstrations, demand divestment, and express distrust of government foreign policy.

Their activism is also shaped by digital organizing, with social media platforms such as TikTok, Instagram, and Discord playing a key

often connects foreign policy issues to domestic concerns, including policing, racial injustice, and economic inequality. Many argue

cial services like healthcare, education, and infrastructure, which

However, unlike the Vietnam movement, which was largely driven by the fear of the military draft and direct personal involvement in war, Gen Z’s anti-war stance is more rooted in ethical concerns, human rights, and opposition to perceived systemic injustice. Their organizing is also more decentralized and digitally driven, relying on social media platforms to quickly spread information and mobilize support rather than formal, hierarchical organizations.

Additionally, while earlier anti-war movements focused primarily on ending a single conflict, Gen Z activism tends to be more intersectional, linking opposition to war with broader issues such as racial justice, economic inequality, and climate change.

Gen Z has emerged as one of the most vocal generations opposing military intervention. The rise of their anti-war activism demonstrates that younger Americans are increasingly demanding accountability and humanitarian-focused foreign policy decisions.

By organizing through digital platforms and connecting global conflicts to domestic struggles, Gen Z has transformed anti-war activism into a broader movement centered on justice and human rights. Their activism reflects a growing belief that the US must prioritize diplomacy over continued involvement in foreign wars. Much like previous generations who protested the Korean and Vietnam wars, Gen Z’s antiwar movement could leave a lasting impact on the future of US foreign policy. ●

Gen Z is passionate about wars around the world.

MONEY DOESN’T MAKE THE MAN

In today’s world, especially on social media and in the courtroom, fathers are often judged primarily by their financial contributions. However, the significance of a father extends far beyond monetary support.

Written by CHRIS MATTHEWS

Chris A. Matthews is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and approved supervisor for the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy. Visit chrisAmatthews.com to learn more about his work with couples and families.

The impact of a father on a child’s development is profound, influencing various aspects of their emotional, social, and psychological well-being. This article explores how children benefit from fathers who provide more than just financial support, focusing on seven key areas: dependability, discipline, expressing love, showing up, setting good examples, being a good listener, and valuing the child’s mother.

Dependability

Dependability is a cornerstone of a strong father-child relationship. When fathers are reliable and consistent in their actions, children develop secure attachment styles. Attachment theory, pioneered by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, explains that children form attachments to caregivers who are responsive to their needs. A father who is dependable provides a sense of security and trust, which is crucial for a child’s emotional development.

Children with secure attachment styles tend to exhibit higher self -esteem, better emotional regulation, and stronger interpersonal skills. They are more likely to explore their environment with confidence, knowing they have a dependable parent to rely on. This foundation of trust and reliability allows children to form

healthy relationships and navigate the complexities of life with resilience.

Providing Discipline

Discipline is an essential aspect of parenting, and the way it is administered can significantly affect a child’s behavior and development. Fathers often bring a unique approach to discipline, characterized by a distinct voice tone and presence. Research suggests that a father’s authoritative, yet nurturing, discipline style can lead to better outcomes in children’s behavior and social competence.

Fathers who are actively involved in disciplining their children tend to balance firmness with warmth. This approach helps children understand boundaries and consequences while feeling supported and loved. In comparison to single mothers, who might bear the sole responsibility of discipline, fathers can provide an additional layer of authority and stability. This dual-parent approach to discipline ensures that children receive consistent and balanced guidance, fostering a sense of responsibility and self-control.

Expressing Love

Expressing love is fundamental to a child’s emotional wellbeing. Studies have shown that children who receive affection and love from their fathers are more likely to develop positive self-esteem, better emotional regulation, and strong social skills. Fathers who openly express their love create an environment where children feel valued and cherished.

The expression of love by fathers can take many forms, including verbal affirmations, physical affection, and quality time spent together. These gestures of love reinforce a child’s sense of worth and belonging. When fathers are emotionally expressive, children learn to recognize and express their own emotions, leading to healthier emotional development and stronger interpersonal relationships.

Showing Up

The importance of fathers being present in their children’s lives cannot be overstated. Showing up, both physically and emotionally, has a profound impact on a child’s development. The distinction between the quality and quantity of time spent with children is crucial. While spending a signifi-

A fathers physical presence means more than anything else when raising kids

cant amount of time with children is important, the quality of interactions holds greater value.

Fathers who actively participate in their children’s lives attending school events, extracurricular activities, and family gatherings, demonstrate their commitment and involvement. This presence fosters a sense of security and stability, helping children develop a strong sense of identity and self-worth. Moreover, meaningful interactions, such as engaging in conversations, playing games, and sharing experiences, create lasting memories and strengthen the fatherchild bond.

Setting Good Examples

Fathers serve as powerful role models for their children, influencing their behavior and choices. Research indicates that children are more likely to adopt behaviors and habits exhibited by their parents. For instance, children of parents who smoke are more likely to become smokers themselves. Similarly, children of fathers who engage in criminal activities or substance abuse are at a higher risk of following similar paths.

Setting good examples is crucial for a child’s moral and ethical development. Fathers who demonstrate positive behaviors, such as honesty, integrity, and responsibility, instill these values in their children. Engaging in healthy habits, such as regular exercise, proper nutrition, and responsible decision-making, sets a standard for children to emulate. By embodying positive traits and behaviors, fathers can guide their children toward making constructive choices and leading fulfilling lives.

Being a Good Listener

Listening is a vital component of effective parenting. Fathers who take the time to listen to their children create an environment of trust and open communication. When children feel heard and understood, they are more likely to express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns.

Active listening involves giving undivided attention, empathizing with the child’s perspective, and responding thoughtfully. This practice fosters a strong emotional connection and helps children develop effective communication

skills. Fathers who are good listeners can better understand their children’s needs, provide appropriate guidance, and support their emotional growth.

Valuing the Child’s Mother

The relationship between parents significantly impacts a child’s well-being. Fathers who treat their children’s mothers with respect and kindness model healthy relationship dynamics. Children who witness positive interactions between their parents learn about respect, cooperation, and empathy.

Research suggests that children from households where parents maintain a respectful and supportive relationship experience lower levels of stress and anxiety. They are more likely to develop secure attachment styles and exhibit positive social behaviors. By valuing and respecting the child’s mother, fathers contribute to a harmonious family environment that promotes emotional stability and healthy development.

The role of fathers extends far beyond financial support. Fathers who provide dependability, discipline, love, presence, good examples, attentive listening, and respect for the child’s mother play a crucial role in their children’s development. These elements contribute to a child’s emotional, social, and psychological well-being, fostering a strong foundation for a fulfilling and successful life. By recognizing the value of these contributions, we can appreciate the profound impact fathers have on their children’s lives, demonstrating that, indeed, money doesn’t make the dad.●

Children depend on strong examples of men more than their money.

BEAUTY

AREIAL MORRISON

Areial Morrison is a dedicated special education teacher with over 17 years of experience and a passionate advocate for her students and colleagues. A devoted wife and mother, she is a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. and Jack and Jill of America, Inc.. An avid golfer for more than 30 years, Areial also enjoys traveling, volunteering, and relaxing with family and friends while continuing to inspire others through her leadership, service, and dedication.

LATOYA SMITH

LaToya Smith, MBA, PHR, SHRM-CP, BCC, is a visionary human resource professional, servant leader, and inspirational speaker who currently serves as the Vice President and Talent Acquisition Manager at Fifth Third Bank. Over a distinguished 27-year tenure with the Bancorp, she has led a dynamic team of consultants dedicated to attracting, acquiring, and advancing top diverse talent. A lifelong Clevelander, entrepreneur, and dedicated philanthropist, LaToya is the founder of Eros Heart Coaching, an executive coach for Case Western Reserve University. She proudly shares her life and journey in Cleveland with her partner and their two children.

WOMAN IN CONSTRUCTION

Written by BRAD BOWLING

Brad Bowling is the President of CODE Media Group, LLC. Bowling has his BA in mass media communication and an MBA in marketing. He contributes articles to the magazine continuing his love for writing.

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Kelly Edwards leads a team that manages a 160-million-dollar project for Coleman-Spohn, establishing her as on of the top project managers in the construction industry.

FWhen people think about getting a job, they often miss the real goal of working. Most people assume that if they work for money, they will be happy. But, in reality, it only gets them a paycheck. What so many people miss about working is that they should pursue a career. They should pursue something they enjoy. Something that, with time, will reward them with a career, money, and pride in the fact that they are doing what they love.

Kelly Edwards was no different from most when, nineteen years ago, she was trying to figure out what to do with her life. Edwards worked in various positions and jobs, but never found anything that gave her the joy she expected. Nothing really gave her the money either.

The young Edwards decided she wanted a position that she could sink her teeth into and make a career out of it. She saw an opportunity to get into construction and jumped at it.

“I decided to join Hard Hatted Women and the rest was history,” Edwards said.

Hard Hatted Women is a program that exposes women to the life of construction. When Edwards joined the program, she did not know that it was going to lead to a 20-year career, but she knew that construction workers made good money and had long careers.

“It is such a wonderful organization. It is like a family.” Edwards continued, “We would go to places and help other people with their construction needs. By helping them, it helped us because we got the opportunity to learn on the job, get real training, and develop our skills into a real job.”

Typically, when someone goes into construction, they have a choice of what area they want to focus on. They can work in several different areas.

Electrician: Installs, maintains, and repairs electrical power, communications, and lighting systems.

Plumber: Installs and maintains piping systems for drinking water, sewage, and drainage in residential and commercial buildings.

Brick/Stone Mason: Constructs and repairs walls, walkways, and decorative features using bricks, concrete blocks, and natural stone.

Carpenter: Installs frameworks, doors, cabinetry, and other wooden structures.

Edwards decided to focus on pipefitting.

“I was not too interested in getting electrocuted, so I decided to try pipefitting,” Edwards said.

A pipefitter is a highly skilled tradesperson who lays out, fabricates, assembles, installs, and maintains high-pressure mechanical piping systems. These complex networks transport critical materials like steam, chemicals, gases, and hydraulics in industrial environments such as power plants, refineries, and manufacturing facilities.

Pipefitter vs. Plumber

While both trades work with pipes, they deal with entirely different systems:

Pipefitters focus on heavy-duty, high-pressure, commercial, and industrial systems (e.g., steam pipes, acid lines, and heavy hydraulics). Their work requires advanced knowledge of metallurgy and mathematics.

Plumbers typically concentrate on lower-pressure systems for tap water, sewage, and drainage in residential and commercial buildings.

Core Responsibilities

A pipefitter’s daily duties rely heavily on precision and safety:

Blueprint Reading: Interpreting technical drawings to layout and plan piping routes.

Fabrication: Cutting, threading, bending, and welding pipes (often using steel and durable metal alloys).

Edwards with a member of her team.

Assembly & Installation: Joining pipes together using welding, brazing, threading, or mechanical joints.

Testing & Maintenance: Performing routine inspections, pressure testing for leaks, and conducting emergency repairs.

Edwards mastered her position quickly and became a reliable source for construction companies looking for quality pipefitters in the area. In 2020, she met Lonnie Coleman, from Coleman Spohn, and that launched her into the career she has today.

these massive projects are reshaping the region's transit, entertainment, and waterfront districts. Transportation & Infrastructure

Cleveland Hopkins International Airport Terminal: A $1.6 billion, multi-year project to build a brand-new terminal. The first phase a 6,000-space parking garage and relocated RTA station is scheduled to open by 2029, with the final terminal opening in 2032.

“Over the next ten years there is going to be over 10 billion dollars of construction in the city of Cleveland, and we are excited to participate in that incredible span of construction,” Edwards said.

“Lonnie Coleman and Coleman Spohn changed my life. His leadership and trust have allowed me to reach my full potential and thrive within the company,” Edwards said.

Today, she manages a team of forty-six and oversees a 160 million project for the Cleveland Clinic. That four-year project will come to a close soon. She will continue to manage the project to make sure the building is turned over in working order. Edwarda and Coleman Spohn have many other opportunities that they are working on, where Edwarda and her team will continue to manage and build infrastructure in and around Northeast Ohio.

“Over the next ten years, there is going to be over 10 billion dollars of construction in the city of Cleveland, and we are excited to participate in that incredible span of construction,” Edwards said.

Here are a few of the projects that are coming to Cleveland in the next ten years.

Over the next decade, Cleveland will undergo major infrastructural and economic transformations. Highlighted by a $1.6 billion airport overhaul, the $2.6 billion Brook Park stadium development, and a $2 billion multiphase highway reconstruction,

Edwards with a member of her team.

I-90 Innerbelt Modernization: A multi-billion-dollar, decadeslong project by the Ohio Department of Transportation (ODOT). A $328 million phase along I-90 from E. 9th to Carnegie Avenue is already underway and is expected to replace pavements and bridges by 2032.

Stadium & Entertainment

Brook Park Browns Development: The city is shifting its entertainment focus with a massive $2.6 billion project in nearby Brook Park. Plans include a new domed stadium for yearround use, 1,500+ residential units, hotels, and public open space, representing a monumental regional shift.

Cosm Immersive Venue: A major entertainment venue is

coming to Downtown Cleveland, backed by financing from the Port of Cleveland.

Rock & Roll Hall of Fame Expansion: A $100 million expansion is in its final stages, adding new performance venues, exhibition space, and a lakefront park

.Downtown & Riverfront

Irishtown Bend Park: A $65 million stabilization and park development project that is turning a former industrial hillside into a 23acre green space. The trails and park loop are scheduled to open between 2027 and 2029.

Downtown Office-to-Residential Conversions: Cleveland continues its national trend of turning obsolete office buildings into housing. Projects in the pipeline include the Electric Building, the Centennial, and Erie View Tower.

Edwards and Coleman Spohn are excited to be able to participate in the growth of Cleveland.

“We think Cleveland is a very good place to live, and to compete with other major cities, we must keep up with the global demands that are coming. It is an exciting time to be in construction here,”

Edwards said.

Edwards often refers to her coworkers and team as family because they spend so much time together.

“I think that is the best part of what I get to do every day. I never knew that when I made the decision to go into construction, I would also find a family. Edwards continued, “Because your job becomes your career, and the people around you work with you every day, these people become family and friends. We go through the battles together; it is a very special career and trade.”

There are very few women who are working at the level of Edwards. She is aware of the special meaning of what she is doing. When she can reach back and help, she does. When she can teach, she teaches. She will never take for granted the position that construction has put her.

Edwards is expected to lead the company on the next several projects that Coleman Spohn secures. Edwards thinks of her job as more of a dream than a job. And for her, she gets to live her dream every day. Job well done, Kelly Edwards.●

BECOMING A GIRL DAD

Divorced fathers must quickly learn the skills of raising a daughter after they become the only parent in the household.

By Bolling Smith

When Ricardo Smythe got divorced, he knew he would have to parent all three of his kids on his own. He thought he knew his kids very well, but over the next two years he learned that parenting his daughters was completely different that parenting his boys.

As a masculine man, raised by a masculine man, Smythe understood how to raise boys. Up to the point where he got a divorce, his ex-wife did most of the parenting when it came to his daughters. Sure, he knew how to protect his girls, he also knew how to make them laugh, but all the other stuff was left to his ex-wife.

Smythe did not realize that he was not prepared to parent his girls

Smythe found out that he really did not know his girls the way he knew his son. Sure, he has been with them since birth. He helped change their diapers and saw their first footsteps, but his management of his son was quite different than his management of his girls. Smythe is not alone.

Divorced fathers all over the country are learning that they really do know how to parent girls the way the parent boys. Yelling or intimidating to control does not work with girls. If fathers are going to parent successfully, they are going to have to become more conscious of how their daughters receive information and communicate from their level.

“I thought I had a good relationship with my girls before my divorce,” Smythe said. “But I quickly learned that I only

Dads love their daughters more to give them the mental and emotional strength to cater to the men's world out there. It’s a hidden fear that maybe other men who will eventually come into her life will not give her love as much as they can, so they want to fill heart with love before the hard times.

until he was divorced, with his own home and had to deal with his daughters with no support.

“Me and my oldest daughter got into an argument. I put my foot down and she quickly told me that she was not going to do what I wanted and did not care what I did to her,” Smythe said.

“I did not know what to do! My son always just did what I said. My son feared my response, my girls did not. I knew then I was in trouble.”

knew them from one perspective, and I would need to become more sensitive if I was going to be able to parent them the way they deserved.”

Fathers are responsible for protection and guidance. Moms are responsible for nurturing and patience. But when Dads start to parent on their own, they must develop the skills needed to be able to relate to their daughters.

It is an experience that completely reshapes men’s perspectives, changing the way many fathers relate to daughters. Some men change because they feel a greater sense of responsibility to their daughters, and they want to be model examples in their eyes. It makes them want to be more chivalrous daily.

The change is not just mental, men learn about hair texture, nail polishes, and men-

When fathers are involved with their daughters, it increases the daughters confidence.

strual cycles. They need to understand hormones changes and the emotions that come with being a female. If they are going to parent their daughters successfully, they are going to have to be able to relate to their daughters. That is no easy task.

Becoming a girl dad takes time. It might take up to two years to develop the skillset to parent girls successfully. There is a delicate balancing act between being a disciplined father and a nurturing one. A Girls dad knows how to adapt into an all-girls environment. These dads know how to love and support their daughters and that makes them amazing dads. They give their daughters a sense of belonging and safety.

After a year of parenting his girls on his own, he noticed that they began to better understand how to deal with them emotionally. He also had to develop the coping skills that they needed to be able to get past whatever was bothering them.

But Smythe also saw his girls develop some skills to deal with him as well.

“I can be a handful too, and my girls learned how to navigate my personality as well,” Smythe continued, “We learned to co-exist and once we established some ground rules, we never had another blow up.”

Smythe and his girls developed a plan when they did not see eye to eye. They put in place rules of engagement so they would not fall back into their old habits when dealing with difficult topics.

They also learned a lot about each other during the first two years alone. The girls became more appreciative of their dads’ attempt to connect more on their level. And they also made the adjustment of better explaining their issues so they could stay focused on solving the problem instead of worrying how it was delivered.

Smythe knew when he had his daughters that he softened himself when speaking to them and raising them. He knew that he raised his son differently than how he raised his daughters. What he did not realize is that it took him parenting alone, to make the full change to becoming a girl dad.

Dads love their daughters more to give them the mental and emotional strength to cater to the men's world out there. It’s a hidden fear that maybe other men who will eventually come into her life will not give her love as much as they can, so they want to fill heart with love before the hard times.

“If I had to give any advice to any man who is about to raise his kids on his own, I would tell them to get ready for the battles, but also get ready for some incredible growth as a person and man,” Smythe said. “I am a much better parent because of having to do this on my own, and I know my girls and I are in a much better place.”

Divorce is tough on a family and even tougher on the kids. Smythe and his girls worked through their differences and as a result have a much closer relationship than ever before. Smythe is proud to be a girl dad and said it might be the best kind of dad there is. ●

JUNEnard with other scholarship winners on the night of the correspondents’ dinner.

ENTERTAINMENT

WHEN DREAMS COME TRUE

Ronnie Holeman’s dream of making a feature film comes to life as he premieres his first project written, directed and produced by him.

DREAMS TRUE

Written by BRAD BOWLING

Everybody has a dream. The key to life is taking that dream and making it a reality. With the digital age, dreams are coming true more and more often. For Ronnie Holman, the dream of becoming a movie producer is in full motion and blossoming more and more with each project.

Holman always knew he wanted to do something with his passion for writing. After completing his undergraduate degree in journalism, he started to get serious about his craft.

“I remember when I turned in my first short film to my professor. He came back to me and asked me if I was serious. I told him yes,” Holman said. “About two weeks later, he gave me back my script full of red marks, and that began my career.”

Red marks for a writer can be a blessing and a curse at the same time. Depending on how you receive criticism, red marks can be seen as an opportunity to improve your writing, or you can view them as a roadblock to the next step. Holman took on the challenge and embraced the feedback.

“You cannot be scared of what people are going to say about your work if you want to make it in this business,” Holman said. And he is not wrong. Most people who create art for a living express the same anxiety about having their work published to be judged. For those who excel, develop a thick skin and use the feedback as fuel to get better. No artist, whether they make movies or music, is free from the public’s wrath if they do inferior work.

Holman understands this concept all too well, so he makes sure that his work represents the best of his ability. The hard work is paying off. Holman has had major success producing plays and films. His most recent play, The Case of Love, was a hit with the audiences that attended the play.

His latest project, Samuel’s Tune, pulls at the heartstrings of the audience as it details the emotional journey of a man struggling to find the meaning of life. Typically, most writers either excel in screenplays (feature films) or stage plays; Holman has found success in both.

“I learned very early on in my career how to write both screenplays and stage plays. I developed the ability to do both,” Holman said. “If I have to choose between the two, I like writing screenplays more than stage plays.”

Holman plans to screen Samuel’s Tune to a private audience in June 2026. After that he plans to take the short film on the road and enter it into film festivals around the country.

“I am trying to take my game to the next level.” Holman continued, “There are levels to this, and if you are going to get to where you are making major productions, you have to be active and work hard to get audiences to your stuff.” Holman’s goal is to, one day, be as big as any other major producer who makes films. His path to getting it might be easier today than in the past due to the advances made in technology.

30 years ago, if you wanted to make a feature-length film, you had to find someone in Hollywood to make your movie. You also had to find almost a million dollars in order to get the production shot. Most people did not have access to that kind of money or a way to move to California to pursue their dreams.

Today, you and a friend can take your two iPhones and, with the help of a few local actors, create a film for next to nothing. Someone used AI to make the world’s first full-length film, and it included no actors, production crew or location shoots to make the film. It cost him $2,000, and it took 2 months to prompt AI to create the right scenes.

Holman on the set of a recent film production.

Holman does not suggest anyone do that; however, he does encourage anyone who wants to create art for a living to give it a shot. Holman states that it does not have to be perfect for anyone to start; there just has to be effort.

Holman’s next fulfilled dream will be a standing ovation at the premiere of his short film later in June. For anyone who has made art, one can only hope that the audience will appreciate the effort that was put into making something out of nothing.

“This is my passion. This is my life. I went to school for it, and I intend to live out my dreams creating theater for people to enjoy,” Holman said.

If he gets his way, Holman plans to take a whole lot of people with him. Hollywood is where you make movies, and Cleveland loves to claim the rise of future stars.

So, Holman is in the right place, at the right time. If you look and see a shooting star, it might be him dreaming up his next project. ●

D SUMMER READING WITH LOVE AND BETRAYAL

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ebut novelist John Gary Long announces the release of Hope’s Sunrise, published by FearNot Media. This powerful and timely novel blends romance, faith, and emotional resilience at a moment when mental health and healing are at the forefront of America’s cultural conversation. At the center of the story is Dr. Hope Castillo, a brilliant Black psychologist whose personal trauma collides with her professional mission a deliberate and resonant choice as representation of mental health professionals of color becomes increasingly vital. Set against the vibrant backdrop of Houston’s church community, Hope’s Sunrise follows Hope’s journey through betrayal, sisterhood, faith, and an unexpected second chance at love with widowed father Justin Thompson. The novel delivers an inspiring testament to survival, resilience, and the transformative power of new beginnings.

Arriving at a time when conversations around trauma, mental health, and emotional resilience are shaping headlines, Hope’s Sunrise speaks directly to this cultural moment. Through Hope Castillo a therapist battling her own wounds while fighting to protect others Long brings representation and emotional depth to the forefront of contemporary fiction. As Hope confronts a past defined by betrayal and heartbreak, her unexpected connection with Justin illuminates a path toward healing that feels both grounded and timely.

ple are battling quiet struggles, I hope this novel reminds readers that healing is possible and that every sunrise brings another chance to begin again.”

John Gary Long is a native of Northeast Ohio, now based in Houston. John spent more than 25 years as a corporate engineering executive before stepping boldly into his lifelong dream of becoming a writer.

“I wanted to write a story that honors the complexity and brilliance of Black women, especially those who pour into others even when they’re hurting themselves,” says John Gary Long.

“Hope Castillo is a psychologist, a survivor, and a woman learning to believe she deserves love again. In a world where so many peo-

As the founder of Fear Not Productions, John champions the belief that fear should never limit extraordinary achievements. His diverse storytelling range is also evident in "The Night We Died," an original story that evolved into an award-winning short film, showcasing his skill in transforming daily routines into thoughtprovoking drama. ●

Learn more at, https://johngarylong.com/

POWER OF THE CANVAS

Art comes to life as painter and visionary Stina Aleah brings to life her artistry from a perspective that feeds the soul and replenishes the faith of those that get a chance to engage with her artwork.

By Raland Hatchett

In the world of professional sports, an elite athlete is trained to see the finish line. But what happens when that line disappears? For Cleveland’s own Stina Aleah, the end of a track career wasn’t a stop sign it was a starting block for a different kind of race. Today she is one of the most compelling voices in the contemporary art world. But she doesn’t just paint. She refines. She heals. She turns the lead of life’s hardships into the gold of visual masterpieces. She is, by her own description, an alchemist.

THE CATALYST: MOTHERHOOD AND THE LEAP OF FAITH

For many, the decision to go full-time as a creative is a slow burn. For Stina, it was a lightning strike delivered by the birth of her son. “I wanted to leave him something more than just the hustle of life,” she says. “I didn’t want him to see me going to work and being unhappy. He was my catalyst to say, ‘No more Plan B.’”

That decision brought an unexpected teacher along. Her son’s perspective on the world raw, visual, unfiltered by adult logic reshaped how Stina sees emotion itself. “He told me once, ‘Mom, you’re dumping my bucket. You’re supposed to fill my bucket.’ As a toddler, he already had a visual for what it felt like to be hurt. That never left my head. Children see things differently until the world takes it away. My art is my way of making sure I never grow out of that.”

FROM ELITE ATHLETE TO SELF-TAUGHT MASTER

Stina’s path to the canvas was anything but conventional. She didn’t spend her youth in art schools; she spent it on the long-jump runway. A broken leg in high school landed her in an art classroom simply because it had double doors wide enough for her wheelchair. What happened next changed everything.

Her junior year art teacher noticed a young woman struggling not just physically, but mentally and gently encouraged her to try a project, then another. “I fell in love with creating,” Stina says. “And I realized it was healing me mentally while I was healing physically.” That teacher lit a flame she could not put out.

She wanted to stay in art. But as a senior, she could no longer take that teacher’s class it was offered only to juniors. In a new class, with a different teacher, the environment was anything but nurturing. That teacher placed a stronger student’s work in front of her and said, without blinking: “There’s always someone better.”

He meant it as a ceiling. She treated it as fuel.

“I have to credit my sports background,” she reflects. “I know what it takes to make it to state, to win a title, to earn a scholarship. I applied that same work ethic to oil painting and decided to get so good I couldn’t be denied.”

That discipline the willingness to commit fully to one lane is the lesson at the center of her story. Her father’s voice has also never left her: “There is greatness in you. You just have to bring it out.”

So, Stina made a decision. “I decided to get so good I couldn’t be denied.”

PUBLIC MURALS AND THE MIRROR SHE HOLDS UP

You’ve likely seen Stina’s work while driving through Cleveland. Whether it’s the Underground Railroad mural in Bedford or the collaborative Wear the Mask wall on Wood Hill and Mount Carmel, her public art is a love letter to her hometown. But the process behind it is as important as the finished piece. Months of town halls, Zoom meetings, and community conversations shape every stroke. “I want to make sure that when they look at the piece, they can see themselves,” she says.

Her presence on those walls is itself a message. When she

arrived uninvited at the Black Lives Matter mural on East 93rd during the pandemic no credentials, just a felt obligation she free -handed lettering in scorching heat while people whispered, “Who is that?” That single bold act of showing up led directly to her first major mural commission. Opportunity rarely sends an invitation. It rewards the people who are already in the room.

REVOLUTION, REVELATION, AND THE WORK SHE WILL NEVER SELL

Among her many works, one stands completely apart: a selfportrait titled Revolution or Revelation. It is the largest piece she has ever completed, and she will never sell it. “It represents the shedding of labels,” she explains. “The old self breaking away from who I really am. I’m revolting against every standard put on me abusive relationships, the ‘black sheep’ label, the voices that tried to define my limits. That piece is the purge. It’s for my son when he grows up.”

Everything she has built, she has built with that same long-game intention. “When you are authentic, and it’s okay to be vulnerable, you build the right community and then the right things attract to you.”

REFRAMING THE CULTURE: THE CHILDHOOD I CARRIED

Stina’s current series, a 10-part collection titled The Childhood I Carried, moves beyond trauma to recover the quiet, joyful textures of Black life. Her painting Please Don’t Bump the Ends a Black mother standing on tired feet at the end of a long day, hot comb in hand, making sure her daughter looks right, stopped people mid-scroll. We Have Food at Home, and its companion piece, McDonald’s Money, offer the same gentle reframe: what felt like deprivation was often protection. What looked like a limitation was love in disguise.

“We are so connected through memory,” she says. “I posted that painting and people went wild. We’re so connected as a community and I want to use that to help us find the love in what we sometimes misread as pain.” For readers of this women’s issue, that message lands with particular weight: the women in these paintings are our mothers, our aunts, our grandmothers. Stina is asking us to look at them again and see them whole.

THE STINA

ALEAH BLUEPRINT

On Authenticity: “I can’t keep up with fake. I’m consistent by being me every single day. That’s how Marvel found me, how the NBA found me not because I sought them out, but because I showed up as myself.”

On Mental Health: “My personal work literally is me healing myself, doing it publicly. Mental health is important for the masses. I want to use my art to have conversations our community finds difficult.”

On Legacy: “You only need to be two steps ahead of someone to help them. I’m striving to be the mentor I didn’t have.”

The tagline of CODE M magazine is Transforming the Lives of Men. But transformation, as alchemist Stina Aleah says, does not belong to any one gender. It belongs to anyone willing to show up for their community, for their children, for the version of themselves that refuses to be denied.

Whatever a person’s canvas a business, a family, a craft, a community Stina’s story puts one question to every reader: “Not who is better but are you willing to find out how good you can actually be?” ●

Connect with Stina Aleah

https://www.stinaaleah.com/thechildho

SHOULD YOU SWIPE LEFT ON LOVE?

Many people are choosing not to participate in the complicated world of dating, creating an entire population of singles.

Dating in today’s world is like ordering takeout when you have no idea what you’re craving. You scroll through an endless menu of options, half-convinced you’re about to make a terrible decision, but the hunger (or loneliness) pushes you forward. In this digital era, romance has been reduced to thumbs, emojis, and algorithms. Finding your soulmate feels less like fate and more like matching with someone whose bio says, “Fluent in sarcasm. Let’s argue about pizza toppings.”

Remember when people used to meet in real life? The good old days of locking eyes in a coffee shop, asking someone out at a bar, or bumping into the love of your life in the cereal aisle? Well, those days have been aggressively swiped left. Today, your next date is more likely to slide into your DMs with a “Sup?” than approach you with a thoughtful compliment in person. And let’s be real we’ve all seen the infamous opening line: “Hey …” An ellipsis never felt so underwhelming.

Dating apps are the modern gladiator arena for romance. Armed with a well-angled selfie, an obscure quote from a show no one’s watched, and a photo of you holding a puppy you borrowed from a cousin, you enter the battlefield. Will you be judged on your height? Probably. Will someone ask you for your enneagram number or zodiac sign before they decide you’re date-worthy? Absolutely. Nothing screams romance like, “Sorry, I can’t date a Sagittarius.”

Let’s not forget the bios. You’ll encounter all kinds of literary masterpieces: “I’m just here for the memes,” “6’3 because apparently that matters,” and the classic “Looking for something real. Like a taco.” Then there are the photos: blurry group shots where you can’t tell who’s who, awkward gym selfies, and the random shirtless pic featuring a mysterious bathroom sink. Sherlock Holmes couldn’t solve this puzzle.

But the real adventure begins once you match. Cue the small talk Olympics! “What do you do?” “Where are you from?” “What’s your favorite Netflix show?” It’s like a broken record on shuffle. And heaven forbid you finally meet in person now you’re sitting across from someone who looks almost like their photos, debating whether you’re brave enough to split an appetizer without it getting weird.

Of course, we can’t talk about modern dating without mentioning ghosting. Ghosting is today’s most

popular exit strategy, right after “I’m just not ready for a relationship … but let’s keep things casual.” One minute you’re planning weekend brunch; the next, they’ve vanished into the digital abyss. Maybe they’ve been abducted by aliens. Maybe their Wi-Fi cut out forever. Or maybe they just found someone with a better Spotify playlist.

But for all its quirks and frustrations, dating in today’s world does have its perks. You can filter for your preferences. You can laugh at the absurdity of it all. And sometimes, if the stars (and algorithms) align just right, you might stumble upon someone who makes you laugh, listens to your rants, and, most importantly, respects your stance on pineapple pizza.

So here’s to dating in the modern age: the memes, the misfires, and the occasional magic. Because at the end of the day, love may be hard to find, but it’s still worth swiping for even if it takes a few hundred lefts to finally find your right. ●

FASHION

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