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Volume

NEWS

2002

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Number

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32

Serving Catholics

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Jesus said to his disciples: "Whoever has

my commandments and is

the Diocese of Charlotte

Teens "Think, Feel and Perceive with Christ" at youth conference

Correspondent S.C. "When stewardship takes hold as a way of life, the parish family is on fire," said Barbara Gaddy, associate director of development for the Diocese of Charlotte and one of the facilitators at the National Convention on Stewardship. The event was held at the Embassy Suites Hotel April 27, the newly designated ICSC Region IV Stewardship

—

Day.

The event, sponsored and hosted by the Archdiocese of Atlanta and the dioceses of Charleston, Charlotte, Raleigh and Savannah, brought together the talent and experience of leaders from throughout the south-

how

to

make

that

of stewardship spread to every

Retired Bishop John Snyder from the Diocese of St. Augustine, Fla., who is known for his innovative approach to stewardship, gave the opening address where he discussed how his own notion about "what it means to be a steward" has evolved over the years. He credited Barbara and Dutch Schultz, who staffed the first "stewardship office" in his diocese for enriching his own understanding of stewardship. "They helped me to see that stewardship was about putting God first in everything. I had to learn that nothing is mine," he said. "Everything we have is a gift. It's all a gift." After the keynote speech, individuals attended various workshops that highlighted aspects of implementing and understanding stewardship. Jim Kelley, director of development for the Diocese of Charlotte,

gave a talk on "Forming Stewardship Committees" about the importance of having a stewardship committee and the desired qualities of its members. "Look for people who are eucharistic, who have a deep relationship with Jesus,

who

are grateful for that rela-

tionship and

observes them

in

parish and home.

community

recommend

Western North Carolina

S.C.

COLUMBIA,

fire

Refugee relocation requires

in

HERALD

KATHY SCHMUGGE

east to teach others

"local News

&

the one who loves

me. And whoever loves me will be loved by my Father, and will love him and reveal myself to him." I

who

act

on that grati-

tude," said Kelley. He also suggested seeking individuals who exemplify the qualities of a good steward, who are dependable and optimistic. Kelley outlined the tasks of the committee such as effective publicity, developing an annual plan and organizing events like "Commitment Sunday," where parishioners have an op-

—John 14:21

Photo by Mary Marshall

Christopher Padgett shares his conversion to Catholicism with 350 youths from 33 parishes around the Diocese of Charlotte at the 25th Annual Diocesan Youth Conference, which was held at Camp Thunderbird April 26-28.

By

MARY MARSHALL Correspondent

LAKE WYLIE,

S.C.

—

questions over and over, always receiv-

Catholic

—

that youth on fire about their faith was the predominant feeling found at the 25th Annual Diocesan Youth Conference: Sentire Cum Christo ("To Think, Feel and Perceive with Christ") held at Camp Thunderbird April 26-28. Three hundred and fifty youths from 33 parishes throughout the Diocese of Charlotte spent the weekend learning, communicating and socializing as they attended workshops, concerts and Masses; gave testimonials; and listened to guest speakers.

Christopher Padgett shared his journey of conversion to Catholicism. Founder of the band Scarecrow and

Tinmen, which performed Friday evening, Padgett integrated personal anecdotes,

humor and lightheadedness

ing a different answer," he said. "I was frustrated with the denominational breakdown and always came back to the

And

Scripture,

the gates of hell will not

prevail over the church.'"

Padgett soon realized there was an unmatched consistency in the faith and morals of the Catholic Church. "I yearned to learn about the faith, the apostles, the Scripture. I was excited, on fire. I reached out expanding my knowledge. Many of my questions were answered. My life was changed; I was exploding with so much understanding." Padgett encouraged all to be excited about their Catholic faith, to set examples and to blow people away with their beliefs.

The

students were excited about many of them elated to be in a

their faith,

setting with fellow Catholics.

Carmen

into his story that captivated the audi-

Lara, a ninth-grade student and

ence.

ber of

As Padgett has performed

for vari-

ous denominations throughout the years, he said his curiosity about the

mem-

James Church in Concord, expounded on the topic of keynote speaker Msgr. Joseph Kerin, pastor of St. Mark Church in Huntersville, which St.

Catholic faith has been piqued. "Visiting

See

STEWARDSHIP,

page

8

other denominations,

I

asked the same

See DYC, page

14


The Catholic News & Herald

2

The World

in

May

Brief

Bishops of Americas to discuss idea for new Spanish Bible translation

Pamphlets offer ideas for dealing with pain of

abuse scandal

WASHINGTON lic

2002

3,

—

WASHINGTON

(CNS) Cathotwo new pam-

translation serve

publishers are offering

all

— Can one

(CNS)

the 300 million Span-

phlets to help Catholics deal with the

ish-speaking Catholics in the Western

continuing revelations of clergy sexual abuse or other problems caused by

Hemisphere? The answer could determine whether the bishops in the Americas sup-

someone in the church. "When Someone Is Hurt by the Church," written by Lorene Hanley Duquin and published by Our Sunday Visitor Publishing,

port a

based in Huntington,

Bible quotes in catechetical and kturgical

new Spanish

translation of the Bible.

Supporters of the idea say

it

would help

unify the Spanish-speaking Catholics in

the hemisphere, standardize the use of

Ind., offers practi-

and provide revenue through and sales. Difficulties include variations in Spanish terminology from country to country, different cultural and social situations throughout the region

and useful suggestions for helping Catholics who may have been hurt by someone or some process in the Catholic Church. The second pamphlet,

materials,

cal reflections

royalties

'Time of Crisis, Time of Faith," more directly on the clergy sex abuse crisis and can be downloaded for free on the World Wide Web at www.pauline.org/church. Compiled by Pauline Books and Media, a Bostonbased publisher run by the Daughters of called

focuses

which influence understanding and appliand finding a large enough group of biblical scholars with the time for the huge translating task The U.S. church is taking the lead in advancing the idea. In March the U.S. bishcation of sacred Scripture,

CNS photo from

Reuters

Paul, the leaflet is intended for churches to distribute to parishioners. Bethlehem reduced to city of

Friar escorts Palestinian man from Church of the Nativity A Franciscan friar accompanies a Palestinian man as he leaves the Church of the Nativity in Bethlehem April 30. A group of 27 people filed out of

ops' Administrative

crushed cars, rotting garbage BETHLEHEM, West Bank (CNS) The sounds and the smells of the old

the church after being holed up there for nearly four weeks. Israeli troops continued to encircle the church compound waiting for the remainder of the Palestinians inside to surrender.

Spanish Bible translation with the Latin

St.

—

city of

Now

Bethlehem have changed.

mally explore the

CELAM,

and sizzling grilled meat mingling with the sounds of tour groups tramping their way to the Church of the Nativity, one hears the crunching of glass underfoot and smells the rotting garbage. Flies hover noisily over piles of overgrown trash, and burned-out hulks of cars litter the old marketplace, which a mere four years ago had been renovated with high hopes and foreign money, ready to greet the stream of millennialyear tourists. Cars battered and run over by tanks line the roads heading to the marketplace and the alleyways leading

up to the Church of the Nativity. Almost a

month

after the Israeli incursion,

only a

John Paul

II

said the church's concern

sons to abandon the death penalty," ac-

from tour-

cording to the head of the U.S. bishops' Committee on Domestic Policy. In an April 24 statement, Cardinal Theodore E. McCarrick of Washington said the two news items help illustrate the need to limit and end the death penalty. On

for sea-traveling people spans ists

on

cruise ships to illegal immigrants

make

desperate to

a better

"It is

life.

important to ensure that those who make up the great family of the sea are not lacking spiritual support," he told participants in a plenary meeting of the Pontifical Council for Migrants and Travelers. "They must be offered the opportunity to encounter God and discover in him

life's

true meaning," he said

April 29. Caring for immigrants

means

ensuring that they have "adequate opportunities to cultivate their

and religious

own

faith

practice," as well as caring

for their physical needs,

homes, while children play among the shattered cars and scattered clothes that old women once sold at the market.

Events give 101 reasons to end death penalty, cardinal says WASHINGTON (CNS) The re-

Concern for seafarers spans from immigrants to tourists, pope says VATICAN CITY (CNS) Pope

cent exoneration of the lOOth death-row

he

said.

—

inmate and the release of the report from the Illinois Governor's Commission on Capital Punishment add up to "101 rea-

April

9,

Ray Krone was

freed

by the

state

of Arizona after serving 10 years in prison for rape and murder. tests vindicated him and pointed to another inmate as the likely person who sexually assaulted and killed a Phoenix waitress in 1991. His release marked the 100th death-row inmate in recent years to have

DNA

been exonerated after conviction. days

later,

A

few

the Illinois commission rec-

ommended 85

steps intended to avoid

wrongful

convictions, prevent prosecutorial misconduct and ensure defendants are represented by competent counsel. It also recommended reducing the number of crimes eligible for the death penalty from 20 to

five.

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few residents venture outside their

—

of a

possibilities

American bishops'

German nuns ordered out of Bavarian school over abusive methods COLOGNE, Germany (CNS)

instead of the tantalizing smell of exotic spices

Committee approved

formation of an ad hoc committee to for-

May 17

— 7 p.m.

Confirmation St. Paul the Apostle, Greensboro

May 18 — 4 p.m. Mass at Knights of Columbus Convention Greensboro

Diocesan, planner May 8 CHARLOTTE — The 50+ Club of St John Neumann Church, 8451 Idlewild Rd., will be conducting a meeting this

morning

at

a.m. with a recognition of

1 1

those couples celebrating their 50th an-

and a performance from Johnette Nichols, "the Bag Lady," in the parish center. Donations are being accepted during the meeting. For more information, call Bobbe Conlin at (704) 643-1376 or Gloria Silipigni at (704) 821-1343. 1 1 SYLVA A dialogue on welcoming Hispanics will be held at St. Mary Church, 22 Bartlett St., today from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. The gathering open to all niversaries, lunch

—

—

interested in this ministry of the church

—

will include a history of Catholic immigration patterns in North Carolina, the teachings of the church, understanding Hispanics and their culture and

Bavarian state and

—

have ordered nuns of the Teaching Sisters of Our Beloved Lady to stop teaching in a school at the end of the school year due to abusive tactics. Parents accused the nuns of "teaching through fear" and of having an attitude "inimical to the physical" aspects of life. The nuns' activities were first noticed last fall at a school in Auerbach, civil authorities

when

parents discovered the nuns had withdrawn state-approved eighth-grade biology books because they were unhappy with the way the books dealt with sex education. Tenth-graders were given biology textbooks with the

first

torn out for the same reason.

14 pages

The school is

run by a committee of local interests, including the town and the convent, but is publicly funded.

The

Bavarian education

ministry told the nuns to restore the books, but they failed to do so.

spirituality and how people are responding to the U.S. bishops' pastorals on His-

panic Ministry. To register by May 6 and for other details, call St. William Church in Murphy at (828) 837-2000

or e-mail stwilli@tricounty.main.nc.us.

12

CHARLOTTE

—

Matthew

St.

Church, 8015 Ballantyne Pkwy., will be having its Christian Coffeehouse tonight from 7:30-9 p.m. following 6 p.m. Mass.

Through

food, fellowship and Christian music from Kathy and David with Redeemed, participants can join in the spiritual celebration. For reservations of a table of six or more, sponsorship opportunities and other information, call

Kathy

Bartlett at (704) 614-9100.

14 CHARLOTTE

— The

St.

Gabriel

Church Arthritis Support and Education Group will meet this morning from

D

10-11 a.m. in Room of the parish ministry center located at 3016 Provi-

dence Rd. For further 362-5047, Ext. 217.

14

details, call (704)

NEWTON — There will be a dioc-

esan school of leaders held at

St.

Joseph


May

2002

3,

The World

The Catholic News & Herald 3

Brief

in

Religious orders, prelates endorse national

Catholic. "Right I

housing trust fund

WASHINGTON lic

religious leaders are at the forefront of

a coalition of religious leaders nation-

wide calling for the creation of a national affordable-housing trust fund.

The

fund,

which would not require new taxes to finance it, would help stem a growing housing crisis for the nation's poorest

Money

for

it

Through

ing Administration.

vocations

bill. The heads of 29 religious and the leadership teams of 40 other orders, were joined by U.S. Protestant, Muslim, Jewish and Buddhist religious leaders in signing an April 24 letter to President Bush asking him to

vote on the orders,

should

Le Pen after round of "These results

far-right leader Jean-Marie

show a

Mothers

in the first

radicalization of voters'

and highlight a deep Archbishop JeanPierre Ricard, president of the French bishops' conference, said in an April 22 statement. "In the days ahead, we need to follow our intelligence rather than our our

discernment rather than spontaneous reaction, and calm rather than fear," he said. The archbishop spoke as

campaigning

intensified for a

May

second-round ballot that will pit nationLe Pen against incumbent President Jacques Chirac. British church groups caution voters on racist

—

issues in May election MANCHESTER, England (CNS) groups and local pas-

British church

on potentially

tors cautioned voters racist issues

being raised

tions.

Some

cized

some of the

in

May

2 elec-

Catholic groups have

criti-

policies of the British

National Party, which opposes immi-

Church, 720 p.m.

The

West

13th

St.,

topic will focus

on

at (704)

—

Dan

Michael Church will be sponsoring its first annual invitational golf tournament today at Cramer Mountain Country Club. The captain's choice event; which will include lunch, golf, cart, prizes and a reception; will begin with a shotgun start at 1 p.m. For further information, call (704) 8671212.

20 ASHEVILLE

in

southern Maryland.

gration to Britain and

St.

—

is

promoting

More

than 150 local authorities in England have elections with approxilies.

mately 6,000 council seats to be decided.

And

following the surprising sec-

ond-place win

in the French presidenby the National Front's Jean-Marie Le Pen, there has been increasing speculation about the prospects of success in some areas by the tial

elections

British National Party.

—

The Ladies AnOrder of Hibernians Division 1

Mecklenburg County-St.

Brigid, an

Irish-Catholic social and charitable in-

meet tonight at Gabriel Church, 3016

ter-parish group, will

7:30 p.m. at St.

Providence Rd. Anyone interested in their Irish-Catholic roots, call Jeanmarie Schuler at (704) 554-0720 for further information.

22 GUILFORD COUNTY cient

— The An-

Order of Hibernians Guilford

County Division, the oldest and

Family of Catholic lawyer

a

policy of repatriating immigrant fami-

20 CHARLOTTE

544-6665.

18 GASTONIA

deadly tornado

La Plata, Md., April 29, after a deadly tornado ripped through the area the evening before. Much of the elementary school's roof was torn off and several walls collapsed in the twister that left three people dead

cient

call

in

in

postcursillo

For more information,

Hines

Maryland Catholic school damaged

Catholic Standard

A statue of Mary stands amid the wreckage at Archbishop Neale School

tonight at 7

and witnessing using segments from the Christian Life talk. This will also be held at Sacred Heart Church, 128 N. Fulton St, with a discussion of environmental groups and witnessing on May 25 at 9 a.m.

CNS photo by Michael Hoyt,

5

alist

largest

inside Church of Nativity awaits his return BETHLEHEM, West Bank (CNS) Each night after putting her four children to sleep, Rosybel Salman's

—

thoughts turn to her husband, Anton, who has remained inside the besieged Church of the Nativity with some 200 other people. "I wonder what he is doing, if he is sleeping well and if he ate that day," said Rosybel Salman, 38, a

2:30 p.m. Brown bag lunchtime with provided drinks will begin at 12:30 p.m. The topic, "Faithful Living in Later Life,"

be presented in two sessions and

will

on vocation and ministry in the later years. For pre-registration and other information, call Sandra Breakfield at (704) 370-3220 or Mario Wallace at will focus

(704) 370-3228.

25 MAGGIE VALLEY

— Franciscan

Father John Quigley will be

"The

facilitating

Trinity's Invitation to Full Life" at

can hear

Ramallah

Living Waters Catholic Reflection Cen103 Living Waters Lane, this week

— Although

Bank (CNS)

had been more than 20 days since she had gone to Mass, Muna Fadayel, 49, did not go to church April 22, after the Israeli it

withdrawal from Ramallah. She waited instead at home with her sister-in-law, Samya, 49, and her mother-in-law, Mary, 85, for her son Rafat to return home. Rafat Fadayel, 25, his older brother, Fayek, 27, and four of their friends were arrested at the Fadayel home by Israeli soldiers April 10. Rafat Fadayel, a graduate student in accounting at Bir Zeit University, remained imprisoned, while his brother and friends were released a few days later. "When (the Israelis) took them, they were very strong. I told them to go with God, but I was

very afraid,"

Muna

Fadayel

said.

"Now

every time the phone rings think it is Rafat," she said.

for

more information,

Gillogly,

SFO,

Upcoming

ROCK

HILL,

Helen

call

at (828) 883-9645.

S.C.

— The Rock

Oratory, 434 Charlotte Ave.,

is

Hill

hosting

annual "Horizons of the Spirit" July 15-19 with morning sessions from 8:45-11:30 a.m. and evening sessions beginning at 7 p.m. Anne Koester, associate director for the Center for Pastoral Liturgy in Notre Dame, Ind., and Keith Egan, founder of the Center for Spirituality in South Bend, Ind., will its

order of Irish Catholic men, is looking for more Irish Catholic men to join them for meetings, educational seminars and social events. Contact Michael Slane at

ter,

tual aspects of the

the Spirit." For those

(336) 665-9264 for time and location.

people

enrich their prayer and spiritual lives,

22 MAGGIE VALLEY

—A

through

May

31. Participants will look

at the spiritual,

emotional and

write

Ministry and

26 HENDERSONVILLE

Monday

Stamwitz,

facilitated

national

— The

St.

'Wor-

ship as the Source and Center of Life in

call

lwcrc@main.nc.us.

series of

present the conference's theme,

Holy Trinity's role in For further details, call the center at (828) 926-3833 or e-mail

presentations; sponsored

by CSS Elder by Richard Von

intellec-

lives.

The St. Martin de Porres Pro-Chapter of the Dominican Laity meets tonight and every third Center

in

RAMALLAH, West

society,"

instincts,

we

recall terror when Israelis took their sons

political choices crisis in

foster

ent eyes that all humanity is more connected than we can ever imagine." She added, "God will raise up vocations in our church where our deepest gladness meets the needs of the world."

—

clearly

— To

church, Catholics

the vulnerabilities and see with differ-

leaders voiced concern at the support for

presidential elections.

(CNS)

in today's

ten with different ears so

French church leaders express concern over support for Le Pen PARIS (CNS) French church

he placed second

much

will

I

Americas said April 20. Sister Marie Chin urged delegates attending the April 18-21 Third Continental Congress on Vocations in Montreal to "lis-

reach his desk.

it

will last

if

must broaden their image of God, change their view of humanity and embark on a contemplative path, the president of the Sisters of Mercy of the

31 shy of a majority that could force a

bill

don't

I

MONTREAL

April 24,

187 members of the House had co-sponsored legislation creating the trust fund,

sign the

know

it

Vocations work seen aided by broadening image of God, humanity

would come from a surplus from the Federal Houshouseholds.

must be strong.

I

If

have the strength. I pray a lot." Anton Salman, 43, chairman of the board of the St. Anton Charitable Society and an attorney for the Franciscan friars, is one of the members of the Palestinian team negotiating to end the standoff at the Church of the Nativity. longer,

— Catho-

(CNS)

now

do anything.

can't

who want

to

the Oratory at (803) 327-2097 or to:

P.O.

Box

1 1

586,

Rock Hill, SC

29731.

certified

Francis of the Hills Fraternity of the

at the Basilica of St.

gerontological counselor; will continue

Haywood

throughout the diocese. Today's presentation will be given at St. Margaret Church, 1422 Soco Rd., from 10 a.m-

Secular Franciscan Order will meet today from 3-5 p.m. at Immaculate Con-

Please submit notices of events for the Diocesan Planner at least 15 days prior

ception Church, 208 7th Ave. West.

to the publication date.

more OPL,

at 7 p.m. in St. Justin's

St.

Lawrence, 97 Inquirers are welcome. For

information, contact Beverly Reid, at (828)

253-6676.

a

Visitors

and inquirers are welcome, so

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May

Around the Diocese

2002

3,

Speaker tells Afghans' story of hope and fear By JOANITA M.

NELLENBACH

Correspondent

— War

ASHEVILLE

and bombing campaigns have left millions in Afghanistan homeless, but not hopeless. Organizations like Catholic Relief Services (CRS), an international agency of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops,

Kathy Brown, CRS's advocacy manager, described "The Afghan Refugee Crisis," the keynote address during "We Are Called: A Conference on So-

Eugene

Issues" at St.

cial Justice

Church April 27. The Office of Justice and Peace, Catholic Social Services, Diocese of Charlotte, sponsored the daylong program. Father Francis T. Cancro, St. Eugene's pastor, spoke on "The Spirituality of Justice." Afternoon workshops addressed global climate change, the death penalty, socio-economic concerns in Western North Carolina and how to legislate effectively.

Brown spent most of December ob-

CRS

operations in Pakistani refugee camps. She said there have been as many as 2 million Afghan refugees in Iranian camps, 2.5 million in Pakistan and 7 million internally displaced persons (IDPs) in Pakistan. Some have

been

in the

camps

more than 20

for

years, victims of the

war

Afghan/Russian most

that began in the late 1970s;

recently, they are there as a result of the

bombings

after Sept.

1 1

In the early 1970s, Brown said, Afghanistan was emerging from ThirdWorld status. Boys and girls attended school together. However, most education for

because they aren't registered in refugee camps outside Afghanistan. Often, they

know where the camps are. They wander around looking for food, shelter don't

and

safety.

The United Nations for the

are helping.

serving

drought for the past five to six years. IDPs have no status as refugees

women and

was

girls

"In the rural areas, there

is

in cities.

no living

memory of educating girls and women," Brown said. "These areas are where the Taliban came from." Russia left in the early 1990s, but factional wars continued. The Taliban created stability through a hard-line approach and affected some reforms. However, they destroyed dams and much of the country's agriculture. In addition, southern Afghanistan and the areas around Kabul have suffered from

responsible

is

camps but asks other organiza-

tions to help with such needs as food, water and clothing. 'Working through agencies like CRS, CARE and Lutheran Relief Services is a tremendous way to

very afraid that once the b6mbing ends,

dinator for the North Carolina Council

you

of Churches Interfaith Global Climate

will forget us.'"

Remembering, Father Cancro in his talk, is

found

in justice

—

said

born,

nurtured and lived in relation to faith. Justice was born in covenants: Abraham's covenant was about human

God

dignity. Moses' covenant with

moved people from The new covenant

slavery to freedom. is

with Jesus, that

Muslim's Red Crescent, similar to the

humanity is worthy of salvation. "Our worth comes from being able to reflect the glory of God," Father Cancro said. "The way we relate to one another is in healing and forgiveness." We are to look for God's kingdom, he added, not "out

Red

there," but within ourselves.

get aid to the people,"

Brown

said.

As-

sistance organizations also include the

Cross.

The United Nations transports people who make their way out of Afghanistan to the camps and registers them. CRS gives them basic necessities. Each family gets wheat, beans, cooking oil, a tent, blankets (and prayer rugs, if needed), clothing and cooking utensils. Many of the items are purchased from

American companies that have

factories

he said, is nurtured by a life of sacraments and the virtues of faith, hope and charity, he said. "Faith gives insight into God's presence in the world. God is present in all people, in all creation, not just in the comfortable but in the broken. What we experience is not the whole story," he said. "Faith keeps us from being Justice,

ground down

in Pakistan.

CRS also devotes itself to education, women and girls; health

especially for

services; rebuilding

dams and

restart-

ing irrigation of cropland; and to reinte-

grating former combatants through such means as job training. CRS funds come from grants, donations and the U.S. government. Brown said that the U.S. government has pledged $300 million for reconstruction; other nations have pledged $4.5 billion. Muslim countries are also providing aid. For instance, Jordan has given money and has provided doctors and nurses. However, $10 billion will be needed for Afghanistan's recovery over the next five years.

She added that Americans can pray for peace, help CRS raise $50 million for Afghan refugees and let members of Congress know that Americans care about the people of Afghanistan. "In the camps," Brown said, "I asked people what message they would like me to take back. They all said, Tell our story, and then tell them that we are

is

in the dirt for long.

the recognition that there's

Once we come hope

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SIGMON

Church

Correspondent

—

About 140 seniors HICKORY from around the Diocese of Charlotte gathered at St. Aloysius Church April 25 for a day of learning and activities at the 16th Annual Spring Fling sponsored by the Catholic Social Services Elder Ministry program. The event was also held at St. Mark Church in Huntersville April

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tunes on the piano.

Helen Gassen from the Peaceful Dragon in Charlotte gave lessons in Tai Chi, an ancient Chinese

Foothills

Joseph Church's Irish

tion

The dancers,

taught by Meg Barrett of St. Joseph, ranged in age from three to teenager and came from various churches in the area. They wore colorful costumes and demonstrated dances in soft and hard shoes. Barrett gave the historical background behind the various dances and told how she had come to learn them herself. After the dance demonstration, the seniors in attendance had a variety of activities from which to choose. They could play bingo, practice on a putting green, purchase religious items or buy raffle tickets. They were able to have their blood pressure checked by members of the Hickory Rescue Squad, and they could join a sing-along led by Mary Finlayson, a

Cindy Jordan demonstrated the

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Rev. James Solari as temporary administrator of St. Pius

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Greensboro.

Lisa Bruen and Art Drumheller operated the "Chairway to Heaven," giving five-

minute chair massages.

Anne with

Richie was helping seniors

on caring

tips

Kim McClure from

and

for their skin,

the Alzheimer's As-

sociation displayed activity aprons.

The

aprons have large buttons and zippers and are used to help Alzheimer's patients with their memories. Dolly Gabor, a parishioner at St. Aloysius, had several craft ideas ready from which seniors could choose. Most of these same activities were available after a lunch prepared by Chuck Spaller, a parishioner at St. Aloysius and owner of Ragazzi's restau-

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Last week, The Catholic News Herald reported the upcoming resettlement of 300 Montagnards into the Diocese of Charlotte, with the first wave arriving next Friday. Refugee Resettlement Office Director Cira Ponce said Charlotte is one of the three resettlement sites for the Montagnards; the others, Greensboro and Raleigh. All together, 905 Montagnard refugees will soon call North Carolina home.

To

put this in perspective;

last year,

reach,

many

caring people," she

Editor's

Montagnards

said.

Though

note:

the

will live in Charlotte

and

Greensboro, as well as in the sister-dio-

of Raleigh, assistance is needed Ponce suggests individuals call Care-line, a help and information line provided by the North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services. cese

statewide.

Care-line calls should be directed to (800) 662-7030.

the Refugee Resettlement Office assisted

350

refugees.

Next week the

office will

begin the placement process for the single

group to descend

at

one

How you can

Not for the Refugee Resetdement Office. first activity

falling into place.

units

— two and

of finding housing

is

"One landlord had 30 bedroom units

—

three

available," said Ponce.

The

landlord ex-

tended a helping hand by allowing the Refugee Office time to ready the apart-

ments before the first rent comes due. Moreover, Ponce says the landlord is making an additional apartment available providing a much-needed locagratis tion for the Refugee Office to hold English as a Second Language classes and orientation classes. "We're getting such positive response (from the community), " said

—

Ponce.

"It is

encouraging."

Financially: The 300 expected Montagnard refugees will be divided into approximately 60 "households" with five people to a household. For each household, $1 ,000 in additional funding is needed cover expenses during the first three months after arrival. Time: We need as many volunteers as possible to help set up apartments with donated furniture and household items for to

the refugees before their arrivals.

ganize the collection of donations and coordinate setting up apartments with the

Refugee Office. In-kind donations:

Everything, every

In

order to furnish

apartments for the refugees,

we need do-

and linens. Men's clothing in small and medium sizes is also desperately needed. Instead of donations of food, vouchers for area supermarkets are welcome. Please

room needs

and dining rooms full range of kitchen items; bedrooms need bedding and linens; bathrooms, towels, along with

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contact the of

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Employment opportunities: We will be trying to place

these refugees

in full-time,

entry-level, non-skilled jobs with benefits. If

arrivals.

We

strongly urge groups of volunteers to or-

nations of furniture, kitchenware, toiletries

Father. Mauricio West, chancellor and vicar general of the diocese, has extended an internal plea to employees of the pastoral center, asking the 120 employees to "work together to set up two apartments with donated furniture and household items." The challenge now is furnishing and preparing the apartments for the impending

help the Montagnards

Perhaps that task sounds daunting.

time.

—

the outcome."

In a

world of Catholic Social Services Refugee

year.

The

tations and line dancing

help," said Ponce.

Ponce has received pledges for help from various denominations and needs much more help. "It is a big commitment, and we will soon share in seeing a new life

of St. Aloysius.

Carolina Catholic

civic

groups, organizations and individuals for

CHARLOTTE Reflect back on the work you've accomplished over the past

largest refugee

The day ended with a Mass celebrated by Father Ed Sheridan, pastor

'We're appealing to churches,

als.

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Refugee relocation requires

ing and healing, on some of the seniors.

Religious Articles

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in Lenoir,

Effective April 29 Rev. Anthony

healing touch, a technique used for calm-

Communion

9:30

Matthew Leonard, administrator of St. Francis of Assisi

Inkrott, diocesan director of Hispanic

Ministry.

Confirmations

Sat.

Francis of Assisi

Seniors were also able to listen to a

Herb Group and a presentaon Latino traditions and celebrations by Franciscan Sister Andrea

&

St.

Aging, taught a chair exercise program.

Danish, door prizes and a perfor-

For First

temporary administrator of

system of medi-

breathing and gentle exercise. Ann Baggett, an exercise and art instructor for the Catawba County Council on

18.

Step Dancers from Newton.

as

leave at his request.

tation,

herbal presentation by the Carolina

St.

Matthew Kauth

in Lenoir.

played favor-

at St. Aloysius started with

mance by the

following

Effective April 5 Rev.

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of

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please contact 704-370-3285.

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Cardinal clots,

St. Patrick's

faces lawsuits

LOS ANGELES (CNS)

— Cardi-

-

Roger M. Mahony of Los Angeles was hospitalized late April 28 with nal

blood clots in his left lung. The next day he was hit with two lawsuits accusing him of participating in a cover-

up of sexual abuse of minors by priests. At an afternoon press conference April 29, his personal physician, Dr. Lee Parsons, said the cardinal was in good condition, resting comfortably and being treated with blood thinners. He was to remain at Providence St. Joseph Medical Center in Burbank for several days. The archdiocese had no immediate comment on the lawsuits themselves, filed by two sets of brothers who claim to have been abused as children in the 1960s and '70s by Father Carl Sutphin, an archdiocesan priest ordained in 1958 who was

Cathedral April

in

group

14, a

of 40 eighth-graders from Most Holy Trinity Parish in East Hampton and their chaperones went to the wooden viewing platform at ground zero. Standing in complete silence, the students stared out into the barren area where thousands of people died Sept. 11. "I was excited to see what it was going to be

ground

like" at

zero, said eight-grader

Austin Bahns. "Seeing how the Twin Towers were affected up close made me realize how tragic an event it was."

—

WASHINGTON

(CNS) U.S. number about

group that "a lot would give anything

20

million, a good-sized

of

faith traditions

to have," said sociologist Sister

Johnson.

The

Mary

challenge for the Catholic

The

Church is to teach this younger generation more about their faith and about the

archdiocese issued a brief statement,

church's notion of vocation but also to

forced to retire earlier this year.

however, emphasizing Cardinal Mahony's "zero-tolerance" approach to any priest or employee found to have abused a

child.

Christian singer says own struggles with faith central to new album There's DETROIT (CNS)

—

just

one thing, according to Steven Curtis Chapman, that sums up what he wants to say on "Declaration," his 12th album. "God is God and I'm not," says the artist

who

has sold

more than

7 million al-

bums. into Chapman's life. He has written and but it wasn't his sung about sorrow own. "Declaration" is an album saturated in hope and set against a backdrop of pleading, "God I believe, help my unbeIn recent years, pain has seeped

—

lief."

Chapman

told

The Michigan newspafound myself

Catholic, Detroit's archdiocesan per, 'That's a prayer that

I

praying more in the last couple of years than I have before." He said it holds him up as he watches his mother battle can-

He

clung to it as he dealt with a diagnosis of paralyzed vocal cords from

cer.

listen to their questions

she told Catholic

News

and concerns, Service in an

interview prior to her address at the April 18-21 Third Continental Congress

on Vocations in Montreal. In the interview and at the congress, Sister Johnson, who is a Sister of Notre Dame de Namur and an associate professor of sociology at

Emmanuel

College in Boston, shared re-

and three colleagues sample group of Catholics ages

sults of research she

did

on

20 to

a

39.

Parishioners 'bless and send' choir founder who faces deportation

MINNEAPOLIS (CNS) —

ioners at the Basilica of St.

Parish-

Mary

in

Minneapolis said a tearful goodbye April 14 to the

man who

founded the

Gospel Choir and who may be deported at any time. Their hope is that Nguando "Michel" Nyonzele will be allowed to go to a safe parish's International

merly

Zaire,

where he

is

Rockville Centre Diocese

made

a trip to

ground zero in New York City and to a firehouse where 15 firefighters were lost in the World Trade Center collapse. After being greeted by New York Cardinal Edward M. Egan at morning Mass at

1123 South Church !>t. Charlotte, NC 28203

www, tssnc.org

,

had taught them somenot just

political science."

This one came from the students," she said. Barb Bagnall was awarded with the 2002 ODK Staff Award. While Bagnall is not an official staff member of the college, she has use of an office in the student union. "She (Bagnall) makes herself available to counsel students, and she shares herself and her open heart with everyone, not just those who affiliate themselves with the Catholic faith," said Elizabeth Marie Melchionna, a member of (Omicron Delta Kappa), a na-

they just didn't

for Catholic

ministries, at the college's annual

Spring Awards Convocation April 17. Both honorees are parishioners at St. Mark Church in Huntersville. Roberts was awarded with the inaugural SGA Faculty Award. "We on SGA thought it appropriate to designate an award that recognizes the contributions of professors to the lives of

mean

Joey Harris, the out-going SGA president who presented Roberts with

tional leadership

her award.

college's Faith

said

Harris noted that Roberts

is

honor

and Choice Week, a

commended

if

they differed from her own," said Melchionna BagnaU's service extended beyond the campus, Melchionna noted. For the past two years, Bagnall has taken a group of

to

in athletics

NCAA,

New

students to

inner city children.

for the past five years. "It

faith

for enabling students to ex-

committee and as college liaison to several Southern Conference committees. She has also worked with the Patterson Court Judicial Board in furthering student understanding of plagiarism and the honor code. "It meant everything in the world that they recognized me as a working mother," said Roberts, whose son, Jack, has been ill

series of

press their ideas and questions, "even

chair of the college's athletic gender equity

critically

society.

and the issue of abortion. Bagnall was

her students and the school."

Roberts has been involved

as this one.

roundtable lunch meetings to discuss

"an

commitment

much

Bagnall recendy helped to mediate the

amazing scholar, teacher, student advocate and mother who serves her students outside of the classroom environment in a number of different ways. No one can question Dr. Robert's tireless

as

ODK

their students outside of the classroom,"

Orleans to work with

Bagnall was "shocked" by the award but was very honored to receive it. "It's the little shot that you need to go on," she said. Contact Associate Editor Kevin E.

Murray

gave

by calling (704) 370-3334, or mail kemurray@charlottediocese. org.

e-

The Diocesan School Board has school board vacancies beginning 2002-03 school year. The School Board is a consultative

traitor for deserting the air force in

body

to the Bishop's representative, the

.

he will be captured and killed if he At the end of the Mass, Father Michael O'Connell, pastor, blessed Nyonzele and anointed his hands with oil. Dressed in the white robes and gold sash of the choir, Nyonzele was emotional as he thanked everyone for their support and love. The "blessing and sending" ceremony was held in recognition of the fact that Nyonzele's chances for reversing his order of deportation are all but used up.

Executive Director: Elizabeth Thurbee (704) 370-3227 Refugee Office: Cira Ponce (704) 370-6930 tustice & Peace: Joe Purello(704) 370-3225 Special Ministries: Gerard A. Carter (704) 370-3250

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life,

professor of political science,

Diocesan Superintendent of Schools. The Board meets monthly from September to May at various schools throughout the Diocese. The meetings take place during the week beginning at 6:30 p.m. and ending by 9:00 p.m.

School

Board Openings for the

Street,

Western Region: 50 Orange Street, Asheville, NC 28801 Area Director: Sister Marie Frechette (828) 255-0146 Piedmont-Triad: 621 W. Second Street, Winston-Salem, NC 27108 Area Director: David Harold (336) 727-0705 Greensboro Satellite Office: (336) 274-5577 High Point Hispanic Center: (336) 884-5858 For information on specific programs, please call your local office.

To be eligible to serve, a board member must: 1.

Be a practicing Catholic.

A letter of verification

and recommendations by the pastor is required. 2. Be a participating parishioner of a parish in the Diocese of Charlotte. 3. Have a genuine interest and commitment to Catholic schools.

Diocesan

Catholic Social

hope that

thing about

She said it was wonderful to be honored by the students who have become a part of her life over the past few years. "I've won other awards at other colleges, but

returns.

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me

Students at Davidson College wanted to let two very special people know how much they were appreciated. The students honored Dr. Susan Rob-

considered a

1986. Nyonzele and his supporters be-

YORK (CNS) The confirmation class from a parish in the

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lieve

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a -viral infection just before the release

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campus

Catholics ages 20 to 39

2002

for devotion to students

and Barb Bagnall, coordinator

seen as fertile ground for church outreach

3,

Mark parishioners honored

St.

erts, associate

Young Catholic population

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Be able to work effectively with others in achieving consensus. 4.

Members shall

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by sending a resume background and parish/school participation and letter stating why you would like to serve by June 3 to: Dr. Michael Skube particularly encouraged to apply

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GREENSBORO

— From

Friday

evening, April 26, through Sunday afternoon, April 28, over 30 men of His-

panic origin congregated at

St.

Paul

the Apostle Church for a Hispanic Re-

According to Franciscan Sister Andrea Inkrott, diocesan director of Hispanic Ministry,

an ongoing function

it is

of Hispanic Ministry to hold separate retreats for Hispanic men, women and

youth of the diocese. These are evangelization retreats similar to the Cursillo

movement

men grow closer to God, each other

was

that

Adrian Garcia, from St. Joseph Church in Asheboro, said he came to the retreat out of curiosity and thought he would be bored. "I am glad I'm here," he said. "It is a beautiful thing to know and learn about God and about Mary. I

lems by doing positive things with their lives. Also, by learning that others have the same, if not bigger problems, their

own become

easier to handle."

During the retreat, the men came forward and gave personal witness to Jesus and exposed their weaknesses.

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The

priests are most, helpful also," he said.

"Father Joseph Waters, presently residing at Maryfield, heard confessions

all

morning and Father Christopher Davis, pastor of Holy Infant in Reidsville, said the closing Mass on Sunday." There are two groups that are vital to the retreat. The first group is the "Equipo": the team that gave the talks and verbal encouragement to the retreatants. The second is the "Equipazo": the team that gave support behind the scenes either by cooking and cleaning up or by writing letters of encouragement throughout the retreat. The latter team was not visible to the

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"zero-tolerance" policy for priests ATLANTA — The Catholic bishops mended

a policy of "zero tolerance" re-

garding priests who have a confirmed or proven allegation of sexual misconduct with a minor child. The bishops of the province have defined "zero tolerance" as a

commitment

and her institutions will be a safe environment for children and that no priest will remain in any ministry who is a danger to them. Archbishop John F. Donoghue, who holds the ex officio title of metropolitan of the province of Atlanta, released this that the church

statement following a discussion

among

die bishops of the province that includes

unanimously recommended the following: No priest should ever be reassigned to any ministry after an allegation of sexual misconduct with a minor has

which the law has been broken with full disclosure," said Bishop Boland. "Church

been confirmed or proven. Each bishop and diocese should recommit itself to following state laws re-

families."

—

—

—

It is

recommended

All bishops should

Vatican acknowledgement of a na-

concerns and provided Archbishop

Donoghue with

feedback: Bishop Robert

victims of sexual misconduct. "Since

ripple affect,

sexual misconduct with minors.

for the victims of this heinous act, their

—

tional strategy for accountability

is

and the universal church as we heal," said Bishop Curlin. 'We must remind ourselves that these problems did not occur overnight, and therefore cannot be solved overnight. We commend the cardinals on making the first step. Our recommendation is another; the meeting in Dallas will be the next step."

families

attempt to

both

proper and necessary.

During the

discussion, the bishops

expressed the following concerns that they wish to examine before or at the June meeting: An appeals process should be instituted for priests who have been accused of sexual misconduct with a minor;

—

—A

Finally, the bishops of the province

asked for prayers from the faithful of their

well-defined, step-by-step pro-

diocese.

"We

Boland, Savannah, Ga.; Bishop F. Joseph

accused priest would be removed from

Holy

Gossman, Raleigh, N.C and Bishop William G. Curlin, Charlotte, N.C.

service that protects both the rights of the

gifts

"In the past, the people of

J.

God

have

been unnecessarily wounded," said Archbishop Donoghue. "Therefore

we

will

unanimously recommend to the Bishops' Ad Hoc Committee on Sexual Abuse that they endorse our recommendation that we believe will prevent priests with proven allegations of sexual misconduct with minors from ever functioning in any form of ministry again. recognize that our words may not be well received because of a lack of trust in the hierarchy of the church; therefore, we pray that our actions and our recommendations today send a clear message of our commitment

We

we know that child abuse has a we must remember to pray

implementation of policies regarding

cedure should be established by which an

Baker, Charleston, S.C.; Bishop

alleged perpetrator and the victim.

recommended

policy

process

and

is fair

must ensure

Any

policies

definitive for all parties

Archbishop Donoghue

found guilty of the crime of sexual misconduct with a minor by public authorities, a shortened Vatican administrative process for voluntary laicization (permanent release from vows) If a priest

would be desirable. imposed laicization

'We

will deal

is

A Vatican process is

though we nize they ted.

This

will present

may is

"Even

said.

them,

we

recog-

not be accepted as submit-

simply another step

in the

refining process. In the end each of us has

agreed to adhere to the directives and

for

mandates of the Vatican when and

already in place.

with those issues in

national policy

is

developed."

need families to know that if been abused, that is one child too many," said Bishop Baker. "Once an allegation is proven we will act swiftly to prevent it from ever occurring again. We will never knowingly put a child in harms way. This is our commitment to the people of God from their bishops." it

I

I

estate

than

myself.

not contacted and names put in a book or in a computer, then they will not get involved in future stewardship efforts.

They

will also start to

believe that stewardship is only about money," he warned. Kelley and several other speakers touched upon the fact that children need to be a part of the parish stewardship efforts. One quote that Pat Spivey of St. Pius X Church in Greensboro, who works with the church's stewardship committee, intends to share with her committee is: "If we don't teach our children about stewardship, we will have no adults

who

are stewards."

Spivey said that she has attended many workshops but felt that this one was the most useful because it presented strategies that could be in most parish settings. was not theories but practical suggestions from people who actually

implemented "It

who enjoyed having the time to ask questions and share with other participants. tried them," said Spivey,

Another aspect that Kelley addressed in his workshop on "Forming Stewardship Committees" was the benefits of lay witness. It was coincidentally played out during another workshop given by Franciscan Father Daniel Quakenbush from the Diocese of Raleigh on "Stewardship in the Hispanic Culture." Father Daniel had several parishioners from St. Julia City, N.C. speak

as

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would rather pay estate taxes,

required, dian

make a

my

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bequest to

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you answered

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to

the

number below and

brochure, "Better Estate Planning."

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any of these questions, please do not proceed.

call

stewards of God's gifts By sharing

multicultural parish.

in

a

their

various projects, they concretely

demonstrated how stewardship helped them work together and become one family.

my

heart to

If

Street, Charlotte,

NC

core," said

about being stewards to the parish and of God's gifts, had a powerful impact on everyone in the room," she

you

The question, asked and answered by many attending the conference, was first asked by Bishop Synder in his opening remarks, "What do I need to do to express my gratitude to God." It will now be up to the participants to carry that question to their parishes so that it can be answered through acts of love and generosity.

request our free no-obligation

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Among

let

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would rather

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Gaddy, who plans to share aspects of this workshop, which was videotaped, with parishes integrating other cultures into their church community. "The witness of the Latinos and Anglos, speaking

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recommendation includes all past, present and future cases involving proven cases of sexual abuse with minors in any area of bishops also restated their commitment to follow state laws unique to each diocese regarding the reporting of all past, present and future allegations with minors. If a minor or the parent of a minor reports that a child has been sexually abused, local church authorities will immediately report such allegations to the appropriate pub-

a

become involved.

"This session touched

'We

made

if

portunity to present or express their talents and gifts to the parish. He emphasized the importance of contacting people who express a desire to

its

their child has

bishops

His

of wisdom, understanding, fortitude

and compassion as they attempt to make which will guide the church for years to come," Bishop Baker concluded. 'These are our recommendations,"

that the

involved.

—

ask that the faithful pray to the

Spirit that all bishops receive

to the faithful."

The

its

provide pastoral and spiritual support for

Kevin

J.

setting

Throughout the dialogue the bishops upon the need to continue to

commit them-

volving reassignment to ministry, report-

following bishops voiced their

when

also consider this fact

reflected

other and to the faithful for the proper

The

respect the right to pri-

final policy."

ops to do tbe same.

on Monday. During this discussion the bishops were asked to address 14 proposals in-

13-15, 2002.

'We want to

—

selves publicly to be accountable to each

ing of allegations and accountability. Their responses were to be faxed to Most Rev. Harry Flynn, Archbishop of Minneapolis/St. Paul, so the responses could be reviewed before the general meeting of the full bod)' of bishops in Dallas, Texas, June

to the victims and their

vacy of the victim," said Bishop Gossman. "Often victims come forward asking that the family or child's name be withheld. We will recommend that the committee

that the U.S.

Conference of Catholic Bishops create a uniform policy regarding the sexual misconduct of priests with minors. The adoption of "zero tolerance" and full reporting policies by even a few dioceses impels the full conference of bish-

—

way

The bishops also expressed concern about the rights of victims.

garding the reporting of such allegations.

Georgia, North Carolina and South Carolina

authorities will offer pastoral assistance

along the

2002

Stewardship,

Province bishops recommend a of the province of Atlanta April 30 recom-

3,

28203.

Catholic Diocese of Charlotte

For more information, contact Gina Rhodes, Director of Planned Giving, 704-370-3320, 1123 S. Church Street, Cha rlotte, ATC 28203, gmrliodes@charlottediocese.org

Jordan B. McMorrough, editor of

The

New

Catholic Miscellany, contrib-

uted to this story.


May

3,

2002

The Catholic News & Herald 9

Around the Diocese

Parishioner's devotion to poor lives on after death By KEVIN

E.

MURRAY

the sick and the

CHARLOTTE and humble

— She was

women who

a kind

loved her

didn't

—

Marie McGonagle

know

in

she was there."

Bickel also volunteered at

so church and her fellow parishioners much that she wanted to continue helping them long after she was gone. Ella

homebound and those

the hospital. She visited the nursing homes; she would be feeding people who

Associate Editor

Room

at

the Inn, a residence that provides mater-

home

nity

care and childcare services to

single mothers.

Bickel, a pa-

rishioner of St. Vincent de Paul Church,

De Jong remembers

Bickel as "a very dear soul"

who

loved

A retired book-

people, loved children and cared deeply

keeper and widow, Bickel left her life savings to the church and parishioners that had touched her heart.

Vincent de Paul. "(She was) a very nice woman, but very reserved," he said. "But she didn't want to be in the limelight." When she wasn't attending to the needs of others, or caring for her mother (who had lived to be 102), Bickel was following her favorite sports teams on television. "With sports, she was an expert," said de Jong. "You couldn't tell her

died Dec.

2,

2000, at 89.

for the less fortunate of St.

more than $600,000 to St. Vincent de Paul to establish an endowment for the poor of St. Vincent," said Jim "She

left

Kelley, diocesan director of development.

"She never made a lot of money, but both she and her husband were very frugal," said John de Jong, a close friend of Bickel. "She could have had a brand

new

car,

anything about basketball, baseball, She knew everything

but kept her old Buick. She was

comfortable in

Through

football or golf.

about them."

it."

below her means and clever saving, Bickel had amassed a large sum of money, de -Jong said. "By her very nature, she was a bookkeeper she was very organized." A native of Columbus, Ohio, Bickel came to Charlotte from Long Island, N.Y.,

an avid bowler with de Jong. "At her age, it was unbelievable she got strike after strike," he said. Wanting to help everyone who needed her, Bickel donated generously to many charities. "She could not say no," said de Jong. She had no children or immediate family, so when Bickel started to consider her will, it wasn't long before she determined that her church would best her

...

in the

mid-1980s

after the death

of her

husband, Jean. She had retired in her 70s

from the Diocese of Rockville, N.Y., and had moved to the Queen City to be closer to friends. It wasn't long before she be-

came

met her

in the visitation

also

own bowling

ball, said

—

from her savings. "She really cared about the church, and she cared about the poor," said de Jong. When de Jong suggested to her the

a familiar face at St. Vincent de Paul.

"I first

was

Bickel

living

benefit

min-

that had just started at St. Vincent's," said de Jong, who leads the rosary group at the church. "She visited istry

endowment, "That just took While Bickel had wanted her money to help the priests, the sick and education, her main emphasis was to help the poor of the idea of an

She

off.

really liked that idea."

parish, he said.

"Through her gift, Ms. Bickel is leaving a legacy that will help meet the needs of poor people at St. Vincent de Paul for generations to come," said Father Mark Lamprich, pastor of St. Vincent de Paul. Bickel's donation will be placed into

Foundation or named endowment

your

form of an endowment for the poor of St. Vincent de Paul Church. An endowment is a permanent fund placed in the

diocesan foundation that earns

income over time. The original amount is not spent, but the income can be used in

estate, or other

other bequests are

filled

remainder

—

after

there are five

other primary ways to donate an endow-

ment to the diocese, according to the Gina Rhodes, diocesan director of planned giving. They are:

—

Gifts of cash, securities, real es-

or other assets, which

tate,

is

method when the donated

an ideal

assets are

highly appreciated.

—

the Foundation of the Diocese of Charlotte in the

re-

ceives a specific amount, a percentage of

Gifts of

low you

to

larger than

if

a gift that might be

you were

to give an asset can donate a paid policy

You

outright.

insurance, which al-

life

make

you already own, or you can pur-

that

chase a policy to donate.

—

agreement, according to Kelley. The Foundation is a non-profit organization established to provide endowments for the Diocese of Charlotte

income arrangements, which make a gift during your lifetime while retaining and even increasing your income from those assets for the remainder of your life. This includes trusts and charitable gift annu-

and

ities.

a

manner

endowment

stipulated in the

parishes, schools, agencies

its

and

Life

allow you to

—

giving of their current income, said Kelley, they are taking another step in stewardship by giving their cumulative

Gifts from retirement plans, which you can designate your endowment as the remainder beneficiary of an IRA, 40 1 K, or annuity to receive what is left in your retirement plan after your

assets to take care of the church.

death.

"What we're finding out is that more and more parishioners across the diocese

erty,

organizations.

Not only

are following

are people in the diocese

Ms.

Bickel's

example and

leaving something in their estate to take care of future needs in their parish, in a

Catholic school or Catholic agency," said Kelley.

"They

live

when they

ship

for all the gifts

out the

life

has given them."

In addition to a bequest in a will in

gift

of

life

estate in real prop-

which allows you to enjoy your home or vacation property during your lifetime, while giving you the satisfaction of knowing your church will benefit from the gift after your death.

of steward-

give back in gratitude

God

—A

—

which you can stipulate that the

To or to

more about planned giving up an endowment, call Jim Kelley

learn

set

at (704)

370-3301 or Gina Rhodes

(704) 370-3320.

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May

Readings

3,

2002

Book Review

Author reveals hidden presence of

God

Reviewed By JULIE Catholic

News

MCCARTY

through the lover who bluntly tells her "If you can't handle drugs, you have no

Service

Kathleen Norris, best-selling author of "Dakota," "Amazing Grace" and "The Cloister Walk," opens her latest memoir,

'The Virgin of Bennington," with a quote from St. Augustine: "But 'salvation is far from sinners,' and such was I at that time. Yet little by little I was drawing

tionships that taught her painful lessons

about genuine love; in the ongoing, nurturing presence of Kray. God continues to seek us, often through other people, even when we put ourselves in the most

compromising

did not

"The

know

2)

1

Peter 3:15-18

John 14:15-21

3) Gospel:

tears.

By JEAN DENTON Catholic News Service

book

Norris' latest

of poems, "Journey," spans 30 years of po-

I

etry to

chronicles Norris' ex-

nized in sections relat-

young

ing to excerpts from

love the progression of this New Testament readings, and how they speak to the "communication" of the Holy

adult,

examining the ways God was at work in her life, unbeknownst to her.

the Bible's "Song of

Spirit

subtle

Songs," one can trace

ing tells about the apostles laying hands on new believers who then re-

of

1999. Orga-

her spiritual growth. For example, the first section, poems of

Because of her selection of Bennington

1969-1973, relates to

creative

the bride in the "Song

she wants to avoid math-

of Songs," searching for the lover (God) throughout the city streets, but not finding him. These poems, written while she lived

College for

its

curriculum ematics at

Norris

is

all

—

costs

—

jolted into a

world

of partying, drug experimentation and sexual promiscuity. She earns the label 'Virgin of Bennington" and "Norris the Nun" (she wasn't even Catholic) for her ability to resist temptation for three years. Looking back, the older, wiser auwasn't that she possessed true virtue, but rather that celibacy provided a "means of retreating from other thor notes

it

people and their demands."

Her eventual sexual experiments bring her a painful dose of reality. Her job at the Academy of American Poets introduces Norris to the literary and artistic community of New York City. Amid the ordinary grind of typ-

first

ing, fding, and answering phones, she experiences the thrill of meeting famous poets and hanging out with the artistic

A

Andy Warhol crowd

at night.

good deal of the book provides deof the expansion of modern poetry New York and the inspiration of her

tails

in

mentor, Elizabeth "Betty" Kray, the executive director of the Academy of

American Poets. 'The Virgin of Bennington" ordinary celebrity expose. Like gustine, Norris

is

is

St.

no

Au-

looking at the hidden

ways God was reaching out

to her:

New York

in

City,

deal with such varied topics as angels, the trial of

stomach

aches and the heartbreak of young love.

The poems

uncover the

in "Journey"

dimension lying dormant in the most ordinary of day-to-day tasks. In spiritual

"Housecleaning," the tasks of cleaning out the basement and doing laundry lead to hymn-singing and reflections on Mary Magdalene. "Ascension" combines the downward movement of birthing a baby with the exhilarating feeling of the miracle of new life. In "The Monastery Orchard in Early Spring," she sees grist for reflecting on Newton and Augustine where others would see only apples. "The Presbyterian Women Serve Coffee at the Home" reveals an ordinary conversation among women about aging that leads to a theological insight about eternal life. "The Virgin of Bennington" and the poems of "Journey" invite us to open our eyes to the hidden presence of God in our own ordinary lives.

McCarty is a free-lance writer from Minnesota with a master's degree in theology whose work has appeared in numerous dioc-

I

week's Old Testament and

among

ceived the

believers.

Holy

The

Spirit.

first

read-

add,

again and again). tion

During a confirmation preparaprogram I helped lead, parents

conclusion

we

the sponsors in

would

We

hoped the young people

feel the

warm

reality

Catholics,

don't

we are fortu-

come out of the

of God's

experi-

revealed to you

—

on of hands either as the one laying on hands or the recipient? What other tangible prayer experiences have you had, and how has God in the laying

been revealed in those?

human touch of those who love them and who wanted the Spirit to come deeply into their lives. presence in the

Subsequent comments from some of the candidates suggested that that was, indeed, what happened for them. But comments from parents indi-

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—

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"Behind Enemy Lines" (2001) Harsh war film in which a Navy pilot (Owen Wilson) is shot down over

book roots and works well with the

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Although the it's

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by the blue-and-red is

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At

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When he finally gets it, he ends up swinging wildly from his web and smashing right into a brick wall.

mockery.

Peter uses his newfound powers night his Uncle

strictly for fun, until the

in

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City. Suddenly, Peter sees the

hard truth

killed

by a carjacker

behind his uncle's words, "With great power comes great responsibility." His purpose becomes clear: He must protect the innocent by fighting crime.

Spider-Man fighting bad press from a cynical newspaper editor (superbly played by J.K. Simmons) who, unable to

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—

adults.

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Picture Associa-

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R

—

restricted.

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venge-

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More is likely to be expected from the While the

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bird's-

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as a

such great one-liners' that the audience

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and jokes as well

sexual sheen coloring most of the pro-

Simmons shoots out

vincing manner.

souped-up

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politics to rescue him.

premise with

lence and

•

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(Gene Hackman) must

come a more conventional bad-guy-vsgood-guy movie. This downshift is 'helped by some clever details, such as

Every superhero needs a worthy adversary, and Spider-Man gets one in the form of the Green Goblin (Willem Dafoe), a wicked creature fitted with metallic green armor who rides around on a

a

fight

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rector John

ful attitude is

wrists, Peter first tries to squeeze

situations

a reconnais-

midpoint, the film turns a corner to be-

and scaling tall buSdings. Raimi handles Peter's transformation from dweeb to superhero in an affectionate and comical way. Trying to figure out how to shoot web strands from his

is

on

fusing electricity and innocence in a con-

The day

is a high-energy, low-IQ, 100-percent synthetic product. Directed by Nancy Walker, the silly comedy about the music publishing and recording business is marked by sexual

Catholic Bishops classification

territory while

manding

(Fox)

disco singing group,

sance mission in Bosnia and his com-

acter provides an underlying tension that

Ben

group for the video

speaking to his schizophrenic self, as the Goblin pushes Norman into a murderous rampage. Dafoe's over-thetop performance evokes the film's comic

from Queens with quiet

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a spiritual "high" last? was a high school junior, I made a retreat. It was a very intensive weekend retreat. We were shut off from the rest of the world. Our watches were taken away. All the clocks in the school where our retreat was held were covered. We listened to lots of talks, mostly from our Will

When

The Pope

Speaks

3,

2002

Coming of Age

I

We prayed together and apart. We experienced the sacrament of reconciliation. We were led a "Trust Walk," for through various exercises example, in which we were led together, blindfolded, around the property, ending up in the school chapel in front a large crucifix where our blindfolds were removed. peers.

—

POPE JOHN PAUL

II

And we

Pope prays for workers during feast of St Joseph

the Worker NEWS SERVICE

By CATHOLIC

VATICAN CITY

(CNS)

— On Europe's La-

bor Day, Pope John Paul II offered prayers for workers around the world and said men and women were called to perfect themselves through labor.

"One could say in a certain sense that through men and women become more human," he May l, the feast of St. Joseph the Worker, at

work, said his

weekly general audience 'This

is

why

in St. Peter's Square.

industriousness

But

a virtue.

is

in order for industriousness effectively to permit a

person to become more human, it must always be tied to the social order of work" so that human dignity

is

The

protected, the

pontiff,

who

pope

said.

turns 82

May

18,

spoke in a

mostly clear voice but his breathing sounded labored and heavy. Noting that the audience marked the beginning of May, a month traditionally dedicated to the Virgin Mary, the pope repeated his appeal that Catholics pray the rosary daily. "It is a

wept. Partly because of emotion, partly

because by Saturday night we were so tired, the weekend was filled with tears, tears which built to a flood by Sunday afternoon when we opened letters of affirmation and love from family and friends. In retrospect, I have to say that I resent the emotional manipulation that I think moves that kind of retreat, but I also have to say that it did me a world of good right when I needed it. I won't say I was completely transformed, but the experience did challenge me to open up a bit more to everyone around me and to see, with tremendous intensity, the depth and power of God's love for me. The greater challenge, though, lay ahead. Could I keep it? It would be impossible to keep the weekend's

high going the rest of my life, but would I be able to keep any part of it at all? Would the awareness of God's love I'd learned on the weekend stay with me for more than a week? Maybe that's something you're feeling these days too. A lot of kids make retreats this time of year, and a lot of kids celebrate the sacrament of confirmation. Those can be moments of great spiritual realization and growth, and a lot of kids wonder, even as they're

marveling thing

I

at the fruits of those experiences, the

did:

How

can

I

keep

this

same

going?

Madonna

he

herself,"

Columnist

Here are some

ideas.

be realistic. Highs don't last. Ask anyone who's experienced any time of intense experience. even have a specific phrase "the honeymoon is over" to refer to the waning of the heights of emotion that such an experience evokes. Second, understand that even though emotions wane, God's presence doesn't. You may have felt God's love and mercy in an intense way on your First,

We

—

—

but the fact that your emotions aren't as strong a couple of months later doesn't mean that God's love and mercy aren't as strong either. God never stops loving you, whether you feel it or not. God

retreat,

is

never

less

remember

than ready to forgive you, whether you God is never away from you,

that or not.

whether you are aware of him or not. Third, commit yourself to deepening your relationship with God. Don't depend on an external experience to do it for you. Make time to pray each day. Go to Mass. Continue to evaluate your heart and your life in God's eyes, not the world's. When you do all that, you just might find that though the emotional high has passed, something better has taken

its

place: a calm, steady, inner sense of

God's presence no matter where you are, no matter what. It is a kind of joy that outlasts everything, even emotion, believe it or not!

me

told

but very useful in penetrating the mysteries of Christ and of his and our mother. At the same time, it is a way to pray that the church be pleasing to the

CNS

"Children are vortexes of rteed," one childless couple

Our Turn

simple prayer, apparently repetitive,

AMY WELBORN

as their reason for retaining a nuisance-free, let's-

get-away-this-weekend

lifestyle.

With such encouraging young adults today set their

said.

until, at

sentiments,

it's

biological clocks

no wonder on snooze

about age 38, the alarms ring so loudly they can be

heard in neighborhoods on the other side of the country. are the happy homemaking days of June when women regarded child-rearing as a prestigious full-time vocation. With so many choices available, modern women are left confused. Forfeiting a successful

Gone

Text Audience By Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY (CNS) Here

—

Cleaver,

is

the

Vatican text of Pope John Paul ITs remarks in

En-

glish at his weekly general audience

May

THERESE BORCHARD CNS Columnist

career that has taken 10 or 15 years to establish

even

1.

if

isn't easy,

the bright-eyed cherub on the Huggies ad

is

irresistibly cute.

Dear brothers and sisters, Today, the first of May, is Labor Day, a day on which we honor St. Joseph the Worker. Our thoughts therefore turn to the inalienable dignity of all men and women, called to perfect themselves through work. This is the deeply human and social significance of work. Today is also the beginning of the month dedicated to Mary, the mother of God. Through daily recitation of the rosary,

enter

and

more

find

encouragement

As, today,

work,

let

for the I

may

fully into the mysteries

we

all

Christians

of Christ's

life

world of

often

breakfast in bed

— —

a bouquet of freshly cut roses. If

my husband does his homework, this year

I've joined the elite sorority. I've

As one who preferred

us also implore the divine gift of peace

I'll

know.

become a mom. weeds to baby-sitting

pulling

as

means of earning spending cash in my adolescent days, I spent my nine (and one-half) months of pregnancy fearing I would not like being a mom. My anxiety worsened when well-intentioned moms stole the few free moments I had between trips to the bathroom and consuming bottles of Turns to inform me of the overwhelming responsibilities that would be delivered with the baby. a

pleased to greet the delegation from the

Nagasaki Prefecture

child

wondered what it would be like to wake up to on Mother's Day or to wear the orchid corsage pinned to the pastel dresses of so many moms on this special day. I've envisioned the leisurely Sunday afternoon at the park holding the hand of a toddler who has just learned to take a few steps or how it would feel to find a homemade card fabricated from the finest construction paper and crayons sitting on the dining room table with I

in Japan.

I

also greet the

Norwegian students from Adger University College. I thank the Wartburg College Choir for

Upon all the Englishspeaking pilgrims and visitors present at today's audience, I cordially invoke God's blessings of grace and peace. their praise of God in song.

"Get your last full night's sleep," one warned, as if pregnancy heartburn hadn't already interrupted my sleeping schedule. "You'll never enjoy another

another veteran

moment

many women today, I was nervous that having a meant my mind would turn to mush, my inspiration would be thrown out with the dirty diapers and my thoughts would become as dull and bland as the rice cereal I was spoon-feeding my baby. I worried that the little vortex of need would erase the professional accolades and work experience bulleted on my Like

first

Mother's Day

in their daily struggles.

offer prayers for the

Holy Land.

am

A young mother's thoughts on her

to yourself," said

mom.

Then there were the comments from those without children.

resume. After talking to

—

many moms who sought

creative

calling on their husbands to take a working solutions I day, setting up a home office, hiring part-time help became encouraged. Having a baby didn't necessarily mean giving up the life of the mind or throwing out the years and progress between graduation and now. When Kate, my 20-year-old angel and our baby's second mom, shows up every Tuesday and Thursday at 12:30 to take little David for five and one-half hours, I cram as much as humanly possible into that time slot. And if I come up short at 6 p.m. on Thursdays when her 1 1 hours are over, I ask my husband to pitch in a few extra hours so that I can ever so deliriously check off another task at hand on my semiworking mom's to-do list.

—

The modern mama is a lot different than Beaver's mom. But some things will never change, like the penetrating joy most moms feels when pinning that orchid corsage to a pastel dress, the tears of delight when receiving a homemade card or the delicious smell of breakfast in bed on Mother's Day.


May

2002

3,

Editorials

Light

One

Candle

MSGR. JIM LISANTE Guest Columnist

Someone worth knowing Ever hear about someone from the past you wish you could have known? I read a column the other day by Bill Gallo, the respected sports cartoonist and columnist for New York's Daily News, about one of his early heroes. The man's name was Thomas Aloysius Dorgan. He, too, had been a sports cartoonist and writer. In the early decades of the twentieth century his byline, 'Tad,"

He

was famous.

way with words as well as number of slang expressions, such

obviously had a

pictures. Gallo lists

a

as "for crying out loud," that he says

were "born

in

Tad's

They run from "hot dogs" and "red hots" frankfurters to "cat's meow" and "cat's pajamas" for inkwell."

for

the

epitome of cool in the Roaring Twenties. My favorite: "He'd give anybody the. sleeves out of his vest." Tad was more than funny and smart. After an accident as a youth cost him the fingers on his right hand, he learned to draw with his left. Perhaps it was because he had to face up to that kind of serious challenge that, as Bill Gallo says, Tad "was always for the underdog." But the main reason I wish I had known Tad was his positive attitude about life and success. He is quoted as passing along this advice to young people: "Remember envy never got anybody anything worth having. If you balance your abilities with your limitations and never count on luck to give you anything, you succeed."

Why

priests

What

Q.

It's unfortunate that many men and women let envy interfere with their opportunities for happiness and success. They constantly compare their lives to others. Wealth, possessions, popularity are certainly desirable. Up to a point, they can be good things. But just what is that point? Another man I admire had something useful to say about that: "It is not wrong to want to live better; what is wrong is a style of life which is presumed to be better when it is directed toward having rather than being, and which wants to have more, not in order to be more but in order to spend life in enjoyment as an end in itself." So wrote Pope John Paul II. Think about it. Just what is your most heartfelt personal goal? Is it having or being? Is it overcoming an obstacle? Seeking a particular achievement? And how does your goal serve God, His world and His

God you.

the

It is

has created a special mission in

life

a one-of-a-kind task that belongs to

just for

you alone

and can be accomplished by you alone. Tad knew his mission; it was using his talents to entertain and inform. not If you can figure out what is important to you just what the world tells you should be important you'd make a good start toward actually achieving your mission. Then, by focusing on your God-given qualities and talents and seeking a level of excellence rather than an unattainable perfection, you can go a long way toward the true fulfillment and happiness that is at the heart of all you seek in life. The more clearly we know ourselves and what we want to do, to be, to give in life, the less vulnerable we are to jealousy and the more open to being the kind of person other people would love to know.

—

—

—

their hands during Mass meaning of the priest washing his

Question

Corner

A. Part of the answer seems to be that this is one Mass remaining from former centuries

had a practical significance. At the offering

it

FATHER JOHN DIETZEN

CNS

food (produce, chickens, bread, etc.) often was brought forward and given to the presiding priest for the poor or for other purposes. He gifts,

needed to wash his hands afterward. When this practical reason no longer existed, the custom continued, with spiritual interpretations given for the washing. It was said to symbolize, for example, the spiritual cleanliness appropriate for celebrating the Eucharist. Publicly washing one's hands before a liturgical ceremony was common in older days, among Chris-

and others, to prepare oneself spiritually for a religious ceremony. Fountains for this purpose may tians

still be seen in the courtyards of ancient Christian churches in Rome.

The

priest's

washing

at the offering of the gifts

was partly an extension of that custom.

Some other traditional customs related to the Mass have similar histories. Priests used to wear over their arm, as a Mass vestment, what was called a maniple, made of cloth the color of the day. This was a vestige of the old Roman handkerchief "mappa" or "mappula"), carried fashionably the hand (Latin, "manus") or fastened to the arm.

(Latin, in

Thus

name

maniple. When this item no longer served a practical purpose, it continued to be worn but was given a variety of somewhat spiritual meanings. This is the main reason a number of actions and articles formerly connected with the Mass, but with similar histories, have been discontinued. The maniple is no longer an official part of the priest's or bishop's Mass attire. the

FATHER JOHN AURILIA, OFM Cap Guest Columnist

God's masterpiece: Our Mother There

is

a Jewish Proverb that goes:

"God

He made mothers." We may add that God did not know everything, so He made mothers-in-law. The writer or orgaBook of Proverbs brings to our attentremendous collection of statements about a great woman, who happens to be a good mother and a good wife. For example, we read: "A wife of noble character is declared to be worth far more

nizer of the tion this

than rubies." Prov. 31:10

mothers,

we try to

define

— When we speak of

what or who a mother is.

Here is one of the definitions we may stumble on: "The mother is a woman who, having provided an ovum that is subsequently fertilized by an external agent, prepares it for the infusion of a soul and nurtures it from her own bodily substance till it can be physically separated from her." A little girl who heard these words from the expert biologist simply said: "Obviously, the poor fellow never had a mother." Are we talking about Mother Hubbard and Mother Goose? Rather than define who IS a mother, we may want to understand what a mother DOES, so we understand who she is. The mother loves, nurtures, makes the house a home,

right again.

For the sake of puritanical concern, sometimes ridiculous as it shows in the following dialogue. A little boy asked his dad, 'Where did I come from?" The good daddy answered, "You came from the stork." The little boy continued," 'Where did you come from?" Dad replied, "I came from the stork." He didn't give up and continued, "Where did Granny come from?" He replied, "She came from the stork." The little boy said, "My goodness, did anybody have a normal birth in our

we become

part of the

of the

Column

and, therefore, is God's masterpiece. Bishop Fulton Sheen had a better idea, as usual; he says that the mother is the world's first love ... and he is

hands during Mass? Some claim it represents Pilate washing his hands during the trial of Jesus. Others say it's just washing, which doesn 't make a lot of sense. What is the real answer? (Indiana)

when

Guest

could not be everywhere, so

people?

wash

is

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family?

Mother's

Day 2002 may simply be another it may be an appreciation day

day of the year or

for the masterpiece of

Accepting more than one stipend for Mass Q. Our parish bulletin had a note recently that canon law forbids accepting more than one stipend for each

Mass, thus ruling out multiple intentions. Some parishes have Masses said for two or three families, but we are told no. Which is correct? (Michigan) A. I have a suspicion there is a misunderstanding here somewhere. Canon law (948) does require that a separate Mass be applied for each individual offering (stipend) accepted, however small. The reason is obvi-

which a priest might accept numerous stipends for one Mass. This does not prohibit, however, one offering made for a group of people, even for several families.

ous. It

is

to avoid an abuse in

intentions commonly are listed for the family of Joe and Mary Gray, the Girl Scouts, married couples of the parish, those killed in the Sept. 11, 2001, attack and so on. There is nothing wrong or against church policy in doing so. I'm sure your pastor is well aware of these

Mass

regulations.

God,

palled mother.

Why

her today, or send flowers or write a beautiful card? A friend of mine was so glad to have called her mother in Italy on mother's day!

not

He

call

said: "I called

my Mom on Mother's Day.

I

just

loved the excitement in her voice as she accepted the charges."

Here are some samples of mother's day cards, written by Angie, Diane, Frank and John: 1) Dear Mother, I am going to make dinner for Mother's Day.

It's

daughter, Angie. PS.

going to be a surprise. Your I hope you like pizza and

popcorn. 2) Dear Mother, I hope you like flowers I got you for Mother's Day. I picked them myself when Mr. Smith was not looking. Your daughter, Diane. 3) Dear Mother, I wish Mother's Day wasn't always on Sunday. It would be better if it was on Monday, so we wouldn't have to go to school.

Your

son, Frank.

4) Dear Mother, now that we have a mature, adult relationship, there's something I'd like to tell still the first person I think of when I down and go boom! Love, John I thank God every day for my mother and so

you. You're fall

do you.


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Around the Diocese remaining seven people shared the other

DYC, from page 1

chair.

Robichaux then challenged the was "carpe diem" ("seize the day) and "cum Christo" ("serve with God").

teens to begin enacting the Eucharist

"Msgr. Kerin encouraged us to use our mind, heart and soul for God and seize the day. Live for today was (Kerin's) message; we are today's

the lead of Jesus and the early Chris-

Lara

said,

As

church.

Catholics,

we

are the biggest

minority in the state. I see how the Catholic Church has stood through troubles and hardship for 2,000 years and remains standing." Will Zurich from St. Mark Church in Huntersville saw the conference as an opportunity to become closer to God. "I recognized that my faith is weak, but I

know

it

growing stronger. Here, we

is

world around them, by taking

in the

church to stand against injustice

tian

and work for justice and equality

among He

God's children. "Our challenge today is to go and live the Gospel in a way that is so genuine that you not only live it, but believe it with every fiber of your being, and in so doing, other people will folall

said,

low."

Students had the option to attend various workshops on Saturday, such as "Catholicism 101," "Relationships 101"

and "Catholic Courtship: Keeping

it

see teenagers' roles in the Catholic

Catholic." Kathleen Lewis, director of

Church. It's amazing to watch so many teens excited about the Gospels and songs about Jesus." John Robichaux, religion coordinator and middle school teacher at St. Pius

youth ministry

X

School in Greensboro and former

chairperson and adult advisor of the Di-

ocesan Youth Advisory Council, was also a keynote speaker. He spoke on,

"How do we

discern Jesus' voice?"

Robichaux pointed out that Jesus calls in

us

gendy while many other

the world

— such

in

He

other directions.

—

story class,

voices

as greed, selfishness,

coldheartedness and violence

—

call

related Jesus'

us life

working

refugee, immigrant,

homeless, teacher of justice, perse-

cuted prophet, killed because of his love of the poor and oppressed.

Using an activity to stress his point, Robichaux arranged 10 chairs representing 10 percent of the world's resources and 10 people representing 10

He

percent of the world's population.

began by putting one person in each chair, which he said is God's design because ally.

God

loves each of us uncondition-

Then, the chairs were distributed

among

way

the 10 participants in a

the

world's resources are actually distributed. In the end, chairs;

one person had eight

two people had one

chair.

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Lewis referred to her faith during her high school and college years as the mustard seed that landed on bad soil it sprouted immediately but died out because good roots didn't form. Attend-

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ALESHA M. PRICE

GREENSBORO —

It

the

was a

fitting

end to a message of hope and love shared by the nephew of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. (MLK). In his booming tenor, Rev. Vernon King ended his noontime talk at the Franciscan Center on April 26 with the song "If I Can Help Somebody."

same month

that

We

present.

Staff Writer

In the

The Catholic News & Herald 15

Around the Diocese

King's By

"

.

MLK

was

work

to

have a challenge to

make

finish

dream become

the

a

reality."

Rev. King said that the tragedy on Sept.

1 1

was

try

came together

support.

lation.

We

admiration for Martin Luther King in our Catholic school curriculum. He is one of our saints, and we pray in thanksgiving for all of the work he has done." real

said.

Georgette Schraeder, principal of

his people to live in

Contact Staff Writer Alesha

to educate her students about various

peace, he said.

Addressing the students present, he and under-

cultures.

we

said that their well-being

"We

see the importance, and the

she said. "So any opportunity that we have to expose the children is something I feel we must do. have a

St.

to share in sorrow and

I

families have expressed this as well,"

Leo School, brought her eighthgraders to hear the message of Rev. King because of a fundamental need

areas of the coun-

all

God wants

harmony and

he

a blessing in disguise be-

cause people from

MLK's message was most

important because they are the carriers of the dream into the future. Adults play a large role in many of the problems that youth have because of lack of proper care, love and support. The dream cannot die with them; it has move forward,

are a small school, and

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made during Movement, Rev. King theme of nonviolence and

assassinated for strides he

the Civil Rights

conveyed

his

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16 The Catholic News & Herald

May

Living the Faith

Years

in Africa

shape life of woman

needed vacation after 16 years of service,

ALESHA M. PRICE

By

— Holy Child

Sis-

McCann

keeps her life wrapped in a rubber band in an old brown envelope. Pictures she has saved over the years depict her life at various stages from a church pageant in Florida to her ter Jay

ministry in

Ghana

woman

as a

has served over the years. "I am happy with my choice in

Redlands Literacy Project and aided in the organization of the Good Samaritan Association,

establish the

a transient ministry fund.

After

"As an adventurous person, it was a to be. I loved Florida and

good place

said. "Sailing

we were

was

Holy Child Sister Jay

McCann

World War two years and the Coast Guard. Her re-

their part to help out during

She

II.

left

college after

signed up for

from the spinal injury caught and she was hospitalized for months right through the end of

sidual pain

up with five

the

her,

war

—

in 1945.

Sidelined because of her injuries, she

was not

able to return to college and

She was, however, able to graduate in 1949 with a biology degree, and that same year, she entered the convent. It was not a snap decision, but one that she knows was God-influenced. While in the service, she rejoined the

do many things that were ordinarily not available to

for an acquaintance.

many

then.

people. In

all

decided I would go back to church Not long after that, I decided to become a nun partly because I was so

my mother knew, there was someone who

taken by the graciousness of God in resolving the problem. I had a lot of

could teach us different subjects." Catholic,

and

the family attended church regularly un-

when

the day

til

leave the church.

a child, she

and nuns

family, so

we

tended

in that direction," said Sister

Jay

whose relative

would

put an envelope into the collection in honor of her father's memory. That All Souls'

the

Day

woman

pushed

money

it

collecting the envelopes

aside because of the lack of

contained in the envelope.

was hurt and insulted. I stopped attending church and was out from 1936 to 1946. I had a very strong relationship with God, so that didn't stop. I "I

continued to pray," she

The

is

in

the founder of her order,

the Society of the

Holy Child

Jesus. "I

After professing her final

vows

in

1957 after nine years of teaching in sevwent to Africa in 1961 to teach biology and later a combination course involving agriculture and food processing called developmental science. "I

Sister Jay said her time in Africa

most

the next several years, but that did not college. In

1

944, she and several

of her friends decided they wanted to do

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classroom. Once a week, local street children come for a hot meal, lessons

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the edge of this former Soviet city,

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shadows and

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tends the garden,

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enjoyable. In order to beat the Afri-

going to

in the

still

marginalized," she said.

stop her from graduating in 1941 and

high school lurked

retired in 1997 but

one of her favorite hobbies. She asks that people view it in early June when most of

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said.

pain from a car accident while

would jump out when

Sister Jay became involved with St. Luke Church and became the director of drama and landscaping. She officially

—

BISHKEK, Kyrgyzstan (CNS)

On

eral states, she

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decided to become a missionary."

was shattered when

tradition

my

priests

Sister Jay decided to

As

church to pray

"I

of those families that

Her mother grew up

short which

she further studied graphoanalysis, the study of handwriting, at a local college, she unofficially retired in 1993 and came to Charlotte to help take care of her friend and co-worker while in Ghana, Holy Child Sister Alma

rested at her mother's house for a while.

weren't

able to

much-needed

a

sabbatical in California during

summers when

times with their children.

but

in

life. I

with all of the accompanying warm weather activities including swimming, sailing and horseback riding. Her lessons came from family friends in the area who would gather for social and educational

rich,

town of parish ministry. The town in the small

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was out to visit relatives. Sister Jay enjoyed growing up in the sunny climate

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in 1977.

welcomed her with open arms, and she worked there until 1993. During her

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loved the outdoors," she

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have no regrets," said Sister Jay, whose legal name is a representation of her given name, Jacquline; her childhood nickname, Jimmy; and the name she took while in the convent, John Cantius. She said that all of those names start with the letter "J," thus her name, "Jay." Her mother, a native New Yorker and teacher by profession, raised her four girls in Miami via Ohio and Coral the North during the

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