,,
,
l"i
l
IT
i
mi
, i
,n
,,,
"ii
lll
!!
,,
li"ITTHTr HT
xooQ-am
on
run
,
3«n
, :
(
r
Number
9
,
:
(
¥¥V ¥¥¥ l¥¥¥¥V :
i
l
CI LI Iv/Ilv
NEWS
2000
July 21,
Volume
¥¥¥¥¥¥¥¥V¥¥¥¥m Y¥¥¥
, ,
41
Serving Catholics
I
n$ d i
*
"1
m
2d iI9I(f-C
T
The
mmi
311331103
J<iZ
l
& in
HERALD
Western North Carolina
in
the Diocese of Charlotte
Mountain church celebrates 50 years
Teens find
JIMMY ROSTAR
By
joy
in
Associate Editor
summer
HIGHLANDS
service
3
...Page
congregation packed into the mountain church for the anniversary liturgy, during which five youth were confirmed and the spirit of Catholic life was pondered.
Page 7
"What does it mean to be a Catholic?" Bishop Curlin posed to the congregation. "It means that Christ walks the earth in us. It is
Local News
through our words, our deeds, our
Prayer
lifestyle that
that
experience
God
is
people begin to realize
centers the
Photos by Jimmy Rostar
faithful
...Page
5
Above, Father C. Morris Boyd reads the text of a commemorative plaque honoring the 50th anniversary of Our Lady of the Mountains Church in Highlands July 16, as Bishop William G. Curlin prepares to bless it. Bishop Curlin also confirmed this year's confirmation class,
Mooresville parish center
16
fvcry Week Entertainment .Pages Editorials
10-11
& Columns Pages 12-13
Iron rusts from disuse, stagnant water loses its purity,
and In cold weather becomes frozen; even so does inaction sap the vigors of the mind.
— Leonardo
da Vinci
corner of the world.
A ing of
half-century after the buildchurch, the community of
its
See Highlands, page
4
9
Background helps volunteer ...Page
Highlands has brought Christ to this
"Encuentro 2000" celebrates diversity
reality ...Page
us." For 50 community of
alive in
years, the Catholic
becomes
a
son for celebration is the bringing of Christ's presence into the world. Bishop William G. Curlin presided at a Mass honoring the 50th anniversary of Our Lady of the Mountains Church July 16. The
Raleigh
in
During
the diocese's spiritual leader told the congregation that the true rea-
Prison ministry leads to six
confirmations
—
gathering to celebrate a faith community's golden anniversary,
By
LOS
AGOSTINO BONO ANGELES (CNS)
—
"Encuentro 2000" opened with Native American drums calling the participants from across the nation to gather in assembly. At the end of its final liturgy, 5,000 worshippers tied ribbons to one another's wrists, a traditional Hmong sign of sending forth. In between, the different languages and styles of dress, music, art and worship celebrated the manytextured, many-hued richness of Catholic life in the United States.
The Eucharist brings unity to that diversity, Cardinal Roger M. Mahony of Los Angeles said at the final Mass. "It is here that we take up the gift and task of being a people whose
committed to reconpeace and unity," he said. Five-thousand Catholics from lives are
ciliation,
150 dioceses converged on the Los Angeles Convention Center July 6-9 for "Encuentro 2000: Many Faces in
God's House," the only national event of the jubilee year sponsored by the U.S. bishops. More than 150 countries of origin were represented. "The idea of Encuentro is after seeing all of the beauty, pageantry and traditions that make up the American Church, that the participants would take those ideas back to their individual dioceses and make that diocese a reflection of all cultures and traditions," said Rev. Mr. Curtiss
Todd, vice chancellor and vicar for African American Affairs Ministry of the Diocese of Charlotte, in attendance at the conference. "The key was having many different cultures represented in order to enact active, open and willing acceptance of the presence of many traditions and contributions of various groups of people." "'Encuentro 2000' marks the first national gathering to lift up the riches of the church's racial, ethnic and cultural diversity in the United States," Cardinal Mahony said. Encuentro is the Spanish word for encounter or
meeting. Auxiliary Bishop Gabino Zavala of Los Angeles, chairman of the
Encuentro organizing committee, told reporters,
"We
will see that the
music of the Latinos makes the Anglos' feet move, the incense of the Asians reminds Europeans of the transcendence of God and the drumbeat of the Native Americans pulsates in the hearts of all." Sprinkled through the meeting were liturgical ceremonies indigenous to various groups of U.S. Catholics.
Among
participants at the four-
day meeting were 82 U.S. bishops and several from Latin America. "It was truly a God-experience of being in the presence of the bishops
and thousands of members of the church from different nations and races," said
Mercy
Sister
Meehan, director of
Maureen
religious forma-
tion of schools in the Diocese of Charlotte.
"We became See
unified
and truly
ENCUENTRO,
page
4
The Catholic News & Herald
2
The World
in
July 21,
Brief
with
in
HIV/AIDS. The statement on
approved
%M "Mm G O
(CNS) A new Book of the Gospels can be used Sept. 30, according to a decree
Bishop
to coincide with the international conference in Durban July 9-
Kwazulu-Natal province includes is the South African province with the highest rate of HIV/AIDS. Paddy Kearney, who heads the ecumenical organization Diakonia in Durban, said the statement was drawn up partly in response to the problem that many 14.
Durban and
people infected with HIV/AIDS experience churches as hostile.
Chiapas bishop says trust must be rebuilt with government
—
Although Mexican President-elect Vicente Fox Quezada said during his campaign he would meet as soon as possible with leaders of a rebel group in Mexico's southern Chiapas state, a local bishop said more time is needed. Bishop Felipe Arizmendi Esquivel of San Cristobal de las Casas said trust must be rebuilt between the federal government and leaders of the mostly indigenous Zapatista National Liberation Army before they can meet. "We all understand that we are in a hurry to resolve this problem, but we cannot march against history. We have to go bit by bit and, above all, recovering trust that was lost, that was so fundamental," he said in an impromptu news conference after Mass July 9 in San Cristobal's Cathedral of Peace. Berlin Archdiocese to
WWII slave labor COLOGNE, Germany (CNS)
investigate
—
The Archdiocese
of Berlin plans to set up a commission to investigate the extent to which the church employed slave labor under the Nazi regime. A spokesman for the archdiocese said the new commission would ask to see the papers discovered by the Protestant Church. Catholic documentation
NEWS
July 21, 2000
Volume
9
•
Number
Most Reverend William G. Joann S. Keane
Publisher: Editor:
all
Second-class Charlotte NC and
other subscribers.
postage paid cities.
at
POSTMASTER: Send
address corrections
News &
to
Herald, P.O.
Charlotte,
NC
available because the archives were destroyed by bombing during World War II. The archdiocesan commission also will examine the files of the Nazi state security service, the SS, which criticized Catholic priests for standing up for slave laborers.
Debt
House
relief
28237.
funding vote
in
called 'amazing victory'
WASHINGTON
—
(CNS)
A
House vote to more than triple the amount of debt relief for poor countries that had been recommended by its appropriations committee was "an amazing victory," said the head of the U.S. bishops' Department of Social Justice and
World
Peace.
The
official,
John Carr, said the 216-211 vote July 13 to increase debt relief funding in the Foreign Operations bill for fiscal 2001 from $69 million to $225 million "surprised the
House leadership"
and others who considered efforts to boost the funding "a fool's errand."
a
°Prcalendar Jl„nrlnr
— 11:30 a.m. picnic
—
—
The Catholic News & Herald, USPC 007-393, is published by the Roman Catholic Diocese of Charlotte, 1123 South Church St., Charlotte, NC 28203, 44 times a year, weekly except for Christmas week and Easter week and every two weeks during June, July and August for $1 5 per year for enrollees in parishes of the Roman Catholic Diocese of
other
was probably not
Confirmation Mass Cristo Rey, Yadkinville 11:30 a.m. July 30 Mass / Installation of Father Anthony Marcaccio
@ charlottediocese.org
The Catholic Box 37267,
Belfast bishop says Northern Ireland risks sliding into
anarchy
BELFAST, Northern
John, Waynesville July 29 12:30 p.m.
Jane Glodowski 1123 South Church St., Charlotte, NC 28203 Mail: P.O. Box 37267, Charlotte, NC 28237 Phone: (704) 370-3333 FAX: (704) 370-3382
Charlotte and $18 per year for
Israelis take part in a
(CNS)
St.
Secretary:
Aviv Rally
as pastor St.
Pius X, Greensboro
July 31- Aug. 3 National Knights of Columbus Convention Boston Aug. 5
Permanent diaconate ministry of acolyte installation St. Joseph, Newton
Catholics in Laos struggle to
keep
faith alive, bishop
—
MILWAUKEE
says
(CNS) Bishop Jean Khamse Vithavong of Vientiane, Laos, feels the grip of the communist regimes that have held his country since 19'73. "We cannot run (Catholic) schools anymore. No social work, no hospitals, nothing," he said in an interview with the Catholic Herald, Milwaukee archdiocesan newspaper. "Just pastoral work with our people." Besides himself, there are only four other priests to minister to about 12,000 Catholics in Laos, many of them living in remote rural areas. Foreign missionaries are sometimes let into the country on tourist visas, but the bishop said they would be deported if their identities as priests were discovered by the government. During a July visit to Milwaukee, Bishop Vithavong was at St. Michael Parish to participate in a national gathering of four cultures Laotian,
—
—
The 23 HENDERSONVILLE Francis of the Hills Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order meets today from 4-7 p.m. in the St.
7
1 1
Bun-
combe St., with a covered dish dinner following the meeting. Next month's meeting on Aug. 27 will be held at Immaculate Conception Church, 208 7th Ave. West, in the office wing, at the regularly scheduled time from 3-5 p.m. Visitors and inquirers are welcome, so for more information, call Pat Cowan at (828) 884-4-246. 26 The 5th Annual St. Ignatius Day Welcome Mass for Gays and Lesbians is taking place tonight at 7 p.m. at St. Peter Church, 507 S. Tryon St., with Monsignor Richard Allen as homilist. For more information, call Jesuit Father Gene
CHARLOTTE —
Ireland
is
Ireland in dan-
ger of sliding into anarchy, a Belfast bishop warned as protests about the
banned Protestant march in Drumcree continued. "What is happening across the whole of Northern Ireland is intolerable," said Bishop Patrick Walsh, whose Down and Connor Diocese includes Belfast. "We are in danger of sliding into anarchy. Entire communities are being harassed and intimidated, and
many
families are living in dread.
Once
more,
dark
streets."
In a
Portadown
envelop our
clouds
comment directed at Orangemen who
district
called for loyalist protests against
the banned march, Bishop Walsh said: "Those who are orchestrating violence and fomenting pas-
sions and hatred by bitter speeches bear an awesome responsibility. What they are doing cannot be justified. What they are doing is morally wrong."
at (704)
GREENSBORO
planner
Immaculata School Gym,
— Northern
McCreesh
Diocesan
by
Joseph
A. Fiorenza of Galveston-Houston, president of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops. When the Book of the Gospels is used at Mass, it is carried in the opening procession and placed on the altar. In a decree dated June 29 and made public in July, Bishop Fiorenza said the new book can be used as of Sept. 30 and must replace any other version as of Dec. 3, the first Sunday of Advent. The bishops approved an original introduction to the Book of the Gospels at their meeting last November and sent it to the Holy See for confirmation, as is required for all liturgical texts. The Vatican confirmation was dated May 23.
tears the people apart."
Mass and
Production Associate: Julie Radcliffe
in Tel
Ehud Barak's
July 23
Advertising Representative: Cindi Feerick
:
Minister
The
Demonstrate
photo from Reuters
demonstration against Prime participation in the Camp David summit July 16. rally in Tel Aviv was held under the slogan, "Uprooting settlements
Tens of thousands of
Curlin
AleshaM. Price
E-mail catholicnews
Israelites
Bishop William G. Curlin will take part in the following events:
41
Associate Editor: Jimmy Rostar Staff Writer:
CNS
£ P' JC
HERALD
&
beginning
liturgically in U.S. dioceses
AIDS
(CNS)
—
WASHINGTON
the role churches should be playing in response to the pandemic was issued
MEXICO CITY
hosted
by the Archdiocese of Milwaukee. New U.S. Book of the Gospels
—
Kwazulu-Natal province urged churches to become a "welcoming home" for those infected
Church leaders
—
Hmong, Lahu, and Khmu
African leaders urge churches to welcome HIV/AIDS patients DURBAN, South Africa (CNS)
2000
332-5342. St. Paul the
—
Apostle Church, 2715 Horse Pen Creek Rd., is hosting Michael O'Brien as he presents the "Sounds of Medjugorje," songs inspired by his pilgrimages to the city and his faith journey, tonight at 7:30 p.m. For
more information,
call
(336) 282-1853.
28
BELMONT
Jean Berry at
—
The Royal
School of Church Music is presenting a concert at 7 p.m. at the Basilica at Belmont Abbey, 100 Belmont-Mt. Holly Rd. The concert is free and open to the public. call
For more information,
Beth Bargar
30
ROCK
at (704)
825-6890.
—
DominiHILL, S.C. Mary Margaret Pazdan,
can Sister professor of biblical studies at the Aquinas Institute of Theology in St. Louis, Mo., and Jesuit Father Antony Campbell from the Jesuit Theological College in Parkville, Australia, are the guest faculty for the 19th Summer Bible Institute at the Oratory begin-
July 21,
2000
The Catholic News & Herald 3
Around the Diocese Summer
in
the city
Teens find inner joy in
spirit of service to
those
By Joann S. Keane
Evenings are the heart of the
Editor
CHARLOTTE
workcamp. Following
— Picture
this:
A
then you serve yourself," says Emily. As the sun goes down, multi-media interactive adolescent fun takes over,
and 'These are year 2000 kids," says Lisa Walker, cofounder of the Catholic workcamp. They are used to an entertainment culture. Not that HEART sets
summer camp.
seems to be right on
These teens are giving up part of their precious summer vacation to sleep on the floor of Holy Trinity Middle School. Rising at the crack of dawn, the teens work this:
out to appease the senses; it does set a tone conducive to reach this savvy generation. Lisa and her husband Steve estab-
workcamp in 1993 with one underlying goal in mind: Never bore a kid. As an outreach to their then-parish youth ministry in Florida, the Walkers lished the
The clincher: They all paid to take part in this servitude for those in need. And, they're loving every minute of the seven-day experience.
Mark
HEART
him up
Disney's mother signed
for the Catholic
perience.
HEART
ex-
know what I Mark. The 15-
didn't really
"I
was getting into," says year-old from St. Paul the Apostle parish in Greensboro spent his days
Photo by Joann S. Keane
trimming trees, mowing lawns, painting and assisting with various odd
hand to the mission trips to Jamaica and Kentucky her mother coordinates
jobs to help elderly in need. "Our group worked pretty hard, and we got the job done." In return, Mark
number of years. However, she found a new perspective as she spent her
says
it
was good
to
know "we were
giving back to the community and helping out."
Community service is nothing new to 16-year-old Marlies Kruetzberger. She's lent
a
helping
DIOCESE OF CHARLOTTE
ITALY Sept. 25-Oct.
3,
2000
For registration package, Joann Keane, (704) 370-3336 or
for St.
Ann
parish in Charlotte for a
days working side by side with her peers. For a week, Marlies helped out at a local boys and girls club. She was probably less than half an hour away from the comforts of her own home, but a world away as she discovered community needs not on impoverished Caribbean Islands, but right in her own backyard.
—
Emily Schaeffer came prepared to expend energy outside. "I brought all my tools," she says. Instead, Emily and her group were assigned to a food bank. Not exactly what the 15-year-old from Vincent de Paul parish in Charlotte had in mind, but she found it to be a rewarding experience. Perhaps most in-
was her time with the other coming from the likes of Virginia, Maryland, Ohio, Michigan and Louisiana, and the evening festivities that spiring teens
visit
www.charlottediocese.org/travel
permeate each and every
ning tonight through Aug.
4.
The
summer
course serves as a way for people to learn more about scripture study and enrichment, an introduction for spiritual
newcomers
to scripture and a
renewal for
all
participants.
For reservations and other information, call (803) 327-2097 or write
The
Oratory: Center for Spirituality, P.O. Box 1 1586, Rock Hill, S.C.,
29731-1586.
August
—
2 CHARLOTTE St. Gabriel Church, 3016 Providence Rd., is offering free classes for the public on various topics throughout the summer. Father Matthew Leonard, parochial vicar,
ing classes
facilitating the followin Aug., all held from
is
7:30-8:45 p.m. in the parish ministry center: "The Spirit of Luke," being
held tonight, "The Gifts of the Spirit" Aug. 9 and "The Baptism of the
-
Holy
Spirit" -
Aug.
23.
For more
in-
formation, call the church office at (704) 364-5431.
—
4 HOT SPRINGS Mercy SisMargaret Verstege, director of the Jesuit House of Prayer, and Jenni Violi, campus minister from the University of Ohio at Dayton, are leading an overnight retreat entitled "Jonah: Unlikely Candidate for Reconciliation." Also, there is a six-day Ignatian-directed retreat scheduled from Aug. 6-12 with Jesuit Father George Hohman and Jesuit Father Joseph McGovern. For more informa-
An
participant.
e-mail deserttraveler@aol.com.
ter
Upcoming
—
CROZET, Va. A Cistercian (Trappist) vocation awareness retreat for prayerful single women of all ages is taking place Sept. 1-5 over Labor Day Weekend gels
Our Lady of the AnMonastery. The retreat is free,
but space
and
is
details,
at
For reservations Natalie Smith at
limited. call
NW
(954) 752-1332, write to 6311 47 Ct, Coral Springs, Fla., 33067 or
Margaret at (828) 622-7366. The House of Prayer, 289 Hwy. 25/70, is open most of the
e-mail deserttraveler@aol.com.
year and offers private and Ignatian-
Lawrence, 97 Haywood St., hosts daily adoration from 9 a.m.-6 p.m. For more information, call Jane Sorrells at (828) 298-0334. BELMONT Belmont Abbey, 100 Belmont-Mt. Holly Rd., hosts perpetual adoration in a chapel located on the grounds. For volunteer and other information, call Marie Siebers at (704) 827-6734.
tion,
Sister
call
Ongoing
NW
directed retreats.
—A
7. CONYERS, Ga. Cistercian (Trappist) vocation awareness retreat for prayerful single men of all ages takes place today through Aug. 1 1 at
Holy free,
tions
Spirit
Monastery. The retreat
but space
and
is
limited.
is
For reservaSmith at
details, call Natalie
NW
(954) 752-1332, write to 6311 Ct., Coral Springs, Fla., 33067 or
47
regularly took teens to summer workcamps. "Our parish is very social justice oriented, and we were challenged to serve the poor in everything we did," says Lisa. What the Walkers found was fulfilling yet frustrating. "We went to help others, but there was that element of not being able to receive Eucharist, to celebrate together, as Catholics, as the body of Christ." Quite simply, there were no Catholic camps.
What first
ASHEVILLE
—
The
Basilica of
St.
—
CHARLOTTE
—
All are invited
started with 100 teens in
year has
grown
to 16
its
camps nation-
wide with close to 5,000 participants giving of themselves to help others. 'When we give teens something that is worth their while, it builds their self esteem and they literally see what it
means
to be Jesus to people,
faith sticks," says Lisa.
and their 'They leave with
an unbelievable feeling of God's love for them."
St.
with Rev. Mr. Curtiss Todd
call
target.
HEART
through the mid-afternoon, returning to the concrete-and-tile flooring of classrooms-turned-dorms.
Catholic [Helping Everyone Attain Relief Today] Workcamp came to Charlotte July 9-15, bringing nearly 300 teens from across the country together for a week of community service under a sweltering Carolina sun.
day of commuup the vol-
ume before slowing to a prayerful mode that ends each day. "After serving people,
ing clothes at a shelter, and helping a group of nuns with a neighborhood
The National
a
nity service, evenings bring
couple hundred teens working in soup kitchens, doing yardwork, sort-
Think about
need
in
"We plant seeds and challenge them," says Lisa.
go
'Then we hope and pray they and learn about
to the next level
Catholic social teachings." Contact Editor Joann Keane by calling
(704)
370-3336
or
jskeane@charbttediocese.org
to St. Gabriel Church, 3016 Providence Rd., for perpetual adoration. For volunteer and other information, call Kathleen Potter at (704) 366-5127.
HIGH POINT
—
Maryfield
Nursing Home, 1315 Greensboro Rd., hosts perpetual adoration in the
For volunteer and other information, call Theresa Hansen at chapel.
(336) 273-1507.
SYLVA
—
Eucharistic adora-
tion takes place every first Saturday at St. Mary Church, 22 Bartlett St.,
following 9 a.m.
Mass until 3 p.m. dates are as follows: Aug. 5 and Sept. 2. For more information,
Upcoming
Annette Leporis 7464.
call
at (828)
497-
Please submit notices of events for Diocesan Planner at least 10 days prior to publication date. the
The Catholic News & Herald
4
Encuentro,
from page 1
walked the bridge to the new millennium through liturgy, prayer and song."
Numerous
workshops
and
breakout sessions each day gave participants a chance to interact in
CNS
ing up in "dire poverty, dilapidated housing. ..." "Many of our native people were baptized, but in the process vast numbers were robbed of their cultural identity," he said. Oblate of Providence Sister Mary Paul Lee, granddaughter of a slave owned by Jesuits, told of having to leave her native Philadelphia to become a nun because at that time no women's order in the archdiocese would accept an Afri-
photo by Neil Jacobs
Young people of the Archdiocese of Los Angeles join the Los Campos de Nati Mariachi Band during the opening service of "Encuentro 2000" in Los
Angeles June
July 21,
Around the Diocese
6.
can-American. K. LaVerne Redden, an African-American and president of the National Council of Catholic Women, sobbed as she described the embarrassment of knowing she could not drink from the Communion cup in many parishes because if she did "nobody else would touch it." Sister of St. Francis
Linda Scheckelhoff, coordinator of Hispanic Ministry in the Boone of Charlotte, attended
the gathering along with several others
Father James Moroney, execu-
across the diocese. She cited the recon-
involved with Hispanic Ministry from
between unity and diversity as people seek to incorporate different cultural and ethnic traditions in the liturgy while respecting universal church norms. At a reconciliation service ending the second day of the meeting, several representatives of minority groups spoke movingly of their faith despite
"It made me aware of how I sometimes participate in injustices and how there is a need for reconciliation. are not aware of how we sometimes take part in racism and sexism, and we need to ask forgiveness," said Sister Linda. "This makes me want to work further with Hispanics, Anglos and those of other races in the areas of common
homebuilding
their experiences of discrimination in
worship and learning to appreciate
the church.
We
Island, N.Y., to
to
help
start
been here for several of the five decades the church has stood here. Nearby on the church grounds, families lined up under a massive tent for a reception organized by the church's St. Elizabeth's
glistened in the
And
Staff Writer Alesha
M.
Price con-
from communities read at the closing of the Mass. "May God grant you his richest blessings as you face the wonderful future of another 50 years of spreading, in word and deed, the good news of God's redeeming love," went one statement, from the First Presbyterian Church in town. "We ... are well, as testified to in statements
blessed to be part of the fellowship of believers that truly exhibits a spirit of
They
unity."
I
Cathouc 23 South Church
Social
Charlotte,
www.cssnf.org
SERYICtS
St,
NC 2820)
Executive Director: Elizabeth Thurbee (704) 370-3228 Refugee Office: Cira Ponce (704) 370-6930 justice & Peace: Joanne K. Frazer (704) 370-3225 Special Ministries: Gerard A. Carter (704) 370-3250
1 1 23 South Church Street, Charlotte, NC 28203 Area Director: Geri King (704) 370-6155 Western Area: 50 Orange Street, Asheville, NC 28801 Area Director: Sister Marie Frechette (828) 255-0146 Piedmont-Triad Area: 621 W. Second Street, Winston-Salem, NC 27108 Area Director: David Harold (336) 727-0705 Greensboro Satellite Office: (336) 274-5577 High Point Hispanic Center: (336) 884-5858
CO., INC.
For information
Local: (336) 768-4709
THOMAS
on
specific programs, please call your local office.
M. PRYBYLO
Retirement Specialist
Toll-free: (800) 859-7847 1 1
Contact Associate Editor Jimmy Rostar by calling (704) 370-3334 or Email jtrostar@charlottediocese.org
Charlotte Area:
351 N. Peacehaven Road, Winston-Salem, NC 27104
Member NASD, SIPC
MEDJUGORJE COMES TO GREENSBORO
for free e-mail newsletter
2 for LongTerm Care brochure Extention 13 for daily stock market update
Extension
its
called with a smile. "It's always been
If
A SunAmerica Company
Extension
sun.
local faith
"When we came here in April of we doubled the parish," he re-
I
Fax: (336) 778-1444
summer
community continued
1965,
s
SPELMAN &
the
The church's presence has been appreciated in ecumenical circles as
quickly found a parish home at Our Lady of the Mountains. George said to be a part of this vibrant faith family has been "quite an experience."
tributed to this story.
Independent Advantage
At the entrance
celebration.
diversity."
Bishop Donald E. Pelotte of Gallup, N.M., the country's first Native American bishop, spoke of grow-
Guild.
of the church, a commemorative plaque just blessed by Bishop Curlin
Highlands a family
company.
"The
Mountains blossoms with both families and those who have
the church community yearround. In summer, the number can quadruple. George and Marie Schmitt came 196.5
special.
young
About 100 parishioners now
from Long
is
people are wonderful," she said after the Mass. "It's family, and through the years we've built more family." Today, she said, Our Lady of the
make up
in
a constant wrestling
church community
—
ciliation service as
a very,
with the priests here." Diane Small, pastoral associate for the past five years, agreed the
—
powerful for her.
being one of the most
to
has had a fruitful relationship with the Highlands church for years. "In this great year of Jubilee, it is a special (time) for us here in the mountains," said Father Boyd, who concelebrated the Mass with Father William Evans, sacramental minister at Our Lady of the Mountains. In 1950, the few Catholics who formed the Our Lady of the Mountains community opened the doors to its new church for the first time, adding a new chapter in the life of that mission, established five years earlier. Over the decades, a slow but steady influx of new parishioners especially those who settled in North Carolina's southwestern mountains during summers boosted the congregation size into the hundreds during the hotter months of the year.
retariat for the Liturgy, said there
is
very beautiful family atmosphere, both with the church members and
think back and celebrate the present. "A 50th anniversary is a very special event in the life of a faith community," said Father C. Morris Boyd, pastor of St. Francis of Assisi Church. That parish, located in nearby Franklin,
tive director of the U.S. bishops' Secis
from page 1
Our Lady of the Mountains paused
Vicariate in the Diocese
smaller groups and focus on areas of special interest to them.
a wonderful thing here. It
Highlands,
2000
Michael O'Brien in
1
"Sounds of Medjuflorje"
WEB SITES: For realtime quotes
& financial calculators:
www.prybylofinancial.com For LongTerm Care/Disability Insurance:
kestlerfinancial.com/agents/prybylo.htm For Term/Family Life Insurance:
agentslink.com/tpryb/
Wednesday, July 26th 7:30 p.m. St.
Paul the Apostle Church
2 71 5 Horse Pen Creek Road, Greensboro Call Jean Berry (336) 282-1853 or Gordon Forester (336) 668-4388 for tickets or reservations.
Tickets:
$5-00
«
July 21,
2000 The Catholic News & Herald 5
Around the Diocese
Prayer experience centers the faithful, says visiting priest By
JIMMY ROSTAR
becoming aware of God in a way that defies explanation and con-
Associate Editor
—
MARS HILL The God through prayer is an
and varied experience, a Trappist priest explained to an ecumenical group gathered at St. Andrew the Apostle Catholic Church July 14. Father Thomas Keating, cofounder of the practice called centering prayer, told those gathered church that contemplating
at the
God's presence
in
their lives in-
volves a deeply personal relationship with him. "Prayer is not a 'single' thing," said Father Keating. "There are myriad expressions of prayer, and
the essence of prayer
sciousness.
path to
The
intimate
not the particular method that you use but the relationship with God that you exis
press."
Centering prayer is a modern form of contemplative prayer, an ages-old tradition practiced across the world and by some of religious
are:
steps involved, he explained,
— Choose
—
—
—
more minutes.
Father Keating suggests trying centering prayer twice a day once in the morning after waking up, and again later in the day or evening.
common
everybody's tradition, which is the experience of God not just the concept of God," Father Keating said in an interview. "It expresses the values of the Christian contemplative
union, say
heritage,
practitioners
its
—
an internalizing of the mystery of God's presence. Father Keating explained the practice of centering prayer to his audience, noting the importance of
Parents...
and perhaps most profound
in
—
which
the traditions.
is
It
common
of belongs to everyto
all
body." Father Keating said that periods of contemplative prayer focus on the
move from conversation with God communion with him.
why order school uniforms out of state?
A+™ school approved uniforms are as dose
as a drive to the lake!
Popular
Mars
Father Thomas Keating, seen here chatting with an audience member
July 14, was in Mars Hill and Asheville for two speaking engagments.
A Trappist monk who entered monastic life more than a half-century ago, Father Keating developed an interest in approaching contemplative prayer from a simple, ChrisWith two brother
priests,
Father
Keating thus co-developed a way to present the teaching of an earlier form and apply to it a certain order and regularity.
"Contemplative prayer new, a
in
ment more than another, or because of inculturation. "But what is common to everybody
is the place of silence, which is totally receptive to the divine presence. become capable of extraor-
We
tian perspective.
to
Hill College.
ecumenical circles
in
dinary development and growth."
Contact Associate Editor Jimmy Rostar by calling (704) 370-3334 or Email jtrostar@charlottediocese.org
not
is
monasteries especially," said
smiling Father Keating, St.
who
Joseph Abbey
CLOSED MONDAYS THRU LABOR DAY
Caring for Charlotte Area Catholic
Owner Ann Hoffman, Member of St. Therese
Families
in
Their Hour of
Tues-Fri
Need Since 1926
Sat.
9:30am-5:30pm 9:30am-3:00pm
www. uniformsdirect2u. com
704-895- 7474 Uniforms Direct 2U, 18505
Statesville
Road, Suite 5-A, Cornelius,
NC
28031
Carolina Catholic
WEN FUNERAL SERVICE, INC.
row in pour
Bookshoppe t Special Cards t Religious Articles t Unique Gift Ideas
Charlotte 704-334-6421 Pineville 704-544-1412
Be affirmed in your present ministry. Upgrade your certification as catechist and religion teacher. Fulfill the pre-requisite for the Permanent Diaconate.
704-342-2878 Mint
Hill
704-545-4864 Fax (704) 334-3313 44 10-F Monroe Road, Charlotte,
Derita 704-596-3291
designed to
Mp you appreciate and understand more fully
the call to ministry
Steve Hughes
by virtue ofyour baptism.
LAYa
Ministry
Training Program 1,
2000
begin in Fall 2000 in Arden. Charlotte, and Greensboro
House Painting
For more information, send name, address and phone number
^
Pressure Washing
to:
Office of Lay Ministry Diocese of Charlotte 1123 South Church Street Charlotte, NC 28203 (704) 370-3213
NC
We welcome mail orders and special orders!
Ifyou have these fecial desires, please join the 2000-2001 Lay Ministry Training Program, a tm-year academic program
will
their
spoken to diverse audiences about centering prayer in locales ranging from parishes to prisons. "Contemplative prayer happens to be the most fundamental and most accessible (form) to everyone," he said. "Different forms of method may have a certain appeal to one tempera-
Uniforms
Year one
making
across the nation, Father Keating has
Photo by Jimmy Rostar
served as abbot at
Registration deadline is August
in
available,
Spirituality at
—
is
the Eastern reli-
and we saw people going to the East in great numbers. Many didn't know that the contemplative vision was right at home." The ecumenical gathering at St. Andrew the Apostle was one of two speaking engagements by Father Keating in the North Carolina mountains July 14-15. His visit was sponsored by St. Eugene Catholic Church and First Baptist Church in Asheville, Grace Episcopal Church in Mars Hill and the Advent Center for
Once aware of thoughts or sensory perceptions, gently go back to the sacred word. At the end of the prayer period, which should last at least 20 minutes, remain in silence with eyes
best-known visionaries. Rather than a replacement for certain kinds of prayer, centering prayer is designed to add new perspective on how people pray. It involves a process toward divine history's
wisdom
—
appeals to what
into a
gions were successful
ably with eyes shut, introduce the sacred word internally as a symbol of consent to God's presence.
"It
"I
it
"We saw how
—
closed for several
was brought up on it. We just form to make it accessible
Colo.
put
to lay people.
word" for example, God, Jesus, Mary, mercy, faith or trust as the symbol of intention to accept God's internal presence and action. In silence and sitting comforta "sacred
and now resides at Benedict Monastery in Snowmass,
in Spencer, Mass., St.
I
(704)
nterior/Exteri or
Also specializing in interior painting, wall murals
and children's rooms!
225-31 References Provided Gabriel Parishioner
St.
6
July 21,
The Catholic News & Herald
Man who attacked priest
People
in
the News
year-old economic embargo "outmoded and unjustified" and said it has "long exhausted the moral legitimacy it may once have had." "At
Buffalo, N.Y.,
sentenced to 42 months
BUFFALO,
—
N.Y. (CNS)
A
man who
severely beat and stabbed a Buffalo priest last February pleaded guilty to third-degree assault and
present, the only significant beneficia-
42-month sentence. By entering the plea, Frank Ciamarra, 27, avoided prosecution on a charge of attempted murder in the second degree and on other assault and weapons charges for attacking Father Arthur J. Mattulke, 30, of St. Margaret's Church. Msgr. David Lee, director of communications for the was given
2000
a
ries
of this embargo are the leaders of
the
Cuban government
whom
for
it
provides an endlessly invoked excuse for the devastating failure of its economic system," he said. He added that the embargo "harms mostly the poorest."
Armed checkpoints, desperate people
fill
border pastor's days
WASHINGTON
(CNS)
—
Like
Buffalo Diocese, said that since the
missionaries in war-torn parts of the
14 attack, church officials have been concerned about justice and mercy. "The diocese feels the plea bar-
world, Father Robert Carney's dayto-day life includes celebrating Mass,
Feb.
gain meets
all
of those concerns," he
said.
Pro-life
spokeswoman heads to CUA
resigning,
CNS
—
WASHINGTON
photo from Reuters
Bolivia Procession
(CNS) If the were seen as a war, many would consider Helen Alvare a war hero. But her own admifight against abortion
ration goes to the foot soldiers in the movement. Alvare, director of
Women
carry statues of the Virgin of Carmen following Mass at the San Francisco Cathedral in La Paz, Bolivia, July 16. The Mass was marked by a special observance of the 193rd anniversary of the country's first bid for
freedom from Spanish colonizers.
pro-life
planning and information for the U.S.
Father Hesburgh awarded Congressional Gold Medal HonWASHINGTON (CNS)
bishops' Secretariat for Pro-Life Activities
since
1990,
is
preparing to
—
recently announced that she will become a law professor at The Catholic
University of America in the
fall.
praise for public service that has in-
evangelization.
with the comment,
be assassin, the Vatican confirmed that the pope personally intervened in the gunman's release from Italian prison. Speaking to reporters July 16 at the pope's vacation spot in the Italian Alps, Vatican spokesman Joaquin Navarro-Valls said the pontiff had written a letter in May to Italian
cluded serving as a charter member of the U.S. Civil Rights Commission, involvement in the Middle East peace
President Carlo Azeglio Ciampi. Ciampi signed a clemency order for Mehmet Ali Agca June 13, immediately after which Italian justice ministry officials issued the extradition de-
Agca flew to Turkey that evening and entered a prison there in the early hours of June 14. cree.
excited by her new Lemire said it will be
is
rotunda of the U.S. Capitol, Father Hesburgh, 83, was showered with
ored for 35 years as president of the University of Notre Dame and a career of public service, Holy Cross Father Theodore Hesburgh accepted the Congressional Gold Medal July 13
Vatican confirms pope intervened for Agca's release LES COMBES, Italy (CNS) One month after the extradition to Turkey of Pope John Paul IPs would-
—
post, Sister
behind the diocese as well as friends and acquaintances. During her time in the diocese, she spent 16 years as a parish director of catechetical ministry. She was a pioneer in the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults program in the diocese, working with it for 22 years. She also worked at the pastoral center as director for
hand over the role of chief Catholic pro-life spokeswoman to someone else. The Philadelphia-born attorney
While she
humble
"I
about." In a
have much to be
ceremony
in the
process and participating in a United Nations fact-finding mission on refu-
gees
in
Kosovo.
San Diego nun to direct Catholic evangelization council San DiSAN DIEGO (CNS) ego bids goodbye to Sister Priscilla Lemire at the end of July as she ends
—
23 years of service to the diocese. Sister Lemire, a Religious of Jesus and is relocating to Washington to be executive director of the National Council for Catholic Evangelization.
Mary,
difficult to leave
End Cuba embargo, Cardinal
Law says
WASHINGTON U.S.
(CNS)
Institutions
Offering turn-key
with
Stocks, Bonds, mutual funds Fixed & Variable annuities Life, 01 & LTC Insurance
I
Senate committee approves gold medal for pope The WASHINGTON (CNS)
—
Senate Banking Committee on July 13 approved a bill to award the Congressional Gold Medal to Pope John Paul II. The bill, which has 66 cosponsors, now goes to the full Senate. As of July 14, a parallel bill had not been introduced in the House. The Senate legislation cites the pope for "having -transcended the bounds of religion, race and political thought" as a champion, "uniter" and defender in the world's struggle for peace and basic human rights.
N A N C
i
A L
A D V
Rollovers & Transfers IRA's & 401(K)"S
Tax Planning
M I
S
()
o r a
R S
Christopher Hess, CFP
a.
7401 carmel executive park
Rfffistfrftt ftrprraenUttuvft offering arruritteM f/ironjeA
i
N C
I
,
[MqimarCqre
Facilities
charlotte, nc 28226
FFP Srtiiriti**, Inr* Mrmhrr tfASD/SUPV FFP ,1f/i-Mtrtrv Smtrrt., Inc.
RfgUlfnti httvxttrwiU Atifi^ftn uffrruiu n^tvufs thmttsh
COACHRjCEL A Personal Coach Is to Your Mind and Spirit What A Personal Trainer Is to Your Body,
Greensboro,
NC 27405
(336) 275-8649 fax E-mail: modular@greensboro.com
Medical Facilities
Daniel Murray, President
—
St.
Pius
X Parishioner
Member of:
MODULAR BUILDING INSTITUTE
•
(336) 275-8274
Vi$it
our Web
site!
www.modularcorp.com
Achieve more success and significance both personally
and
professionally
•
Earn more money while growing personally
•
Attain better overall health with less stress
•
Possess higher self confidence
and reach your goals
For a complimentary consultation
John Connors,
LPC
.
Matthk*
Fax 704-543-4771
1803 East Wendover Ave., Suite E
Banks
s
Edward morais
Parishioner, St.
MKMKtx, St. John's episcopal
Phone 704-544-9009
Custom Modular Buildings to meet
Churches
Recreational
area.
Hess
suite 209
and professional solutions
policies that have effectively squeezed three states' worth of illegal border crossing into their
FINANCIAL PLANNING RETIREMENT PLANNING ESTATE PLANNING
Ryan F
federal immigration and economic
your growing and changing needs!
Daycares
Sales Offices
The
be ended now, said Cardinal Bernard F. L aw °f Boston, chairman of the U.S. bishops' International Policy Committee. In a statement released July 13 he called the 40-
John P. Ryan, Jr., CPA Parishioner, St. Vincent DkPavl
Schools
—
embargo against Cuba should
stopping at checkpoints staffed by armed men, hearing parishioners' confessions, and trying to help needy people on the run. But Father Carney faces those circumstances in Douglas, Ariz., not in some far-off mission territory. With his parishioners at St. Luke's Catholic Church feeling like their town on the Mexican border is "under occupation," Father Carney joined a delegation to Washington in late June, seeking changes in
call
@ 704-597-4 84 1
Licensed Professional Counselor
2000
July 21,
The Catholic News & Herald 7
-from the Cover
Prison ministry leads to six confirmations by Raleigh bishop By Matt Doyle
That often results in a profound understanding of Scripture, accord-
NC Catholic
RALEIGH
—
North Carolina's
death row was the scene of a joyful celebration this
summer. Raleigh Bishop F. Joseph Gossman confirmed six death-row inmates in late June in a celebration that has reached beyond the walls of Raleigh's Cen-
ing to the priests. From that context, six of the inmates sought confirmation in the Catholic Church. After eight months of catechesis, Bishop
Gossman came
to celebrate that sac-
rament with them. One inmate, Lyle May, became unofficial spokes-
tral Prison.
After his visit to death row,
Franciscan
Dan
Father
Kenna said celebrating the sacrament "affirmed (the
inmates)
Bishop Gossman embraced a recent call by retired South African Anglican Archbishop
as
human
be-
ings."
Father Kenna, along with Fathers
punishment as his
capital
bishop "for reaching out to us with
open that
arms,
we
too
so
may
May
went on
to tell the bishop,
country has.
not common for us to (have) "it is
fellowship with
catechesis.
of the 228 men on North Carolina's death row have established a faith community that Father Kenna said includes the friars. The friars say that sense of community is important, because the men have little or no contact with the outside world, except for the priests. Nevertheless, the men have established an identity as church.
"What we share with them is an opportunity to reflect on our faith together," Father Reamer told the NC Catholic,
the
to fully receive the Holy Spirit."
Some
Diocese.
He
thanked
United States to reject
Francis of Assisi Church in Raleigh, visit the prisoners once a
Mass and
the
group.
Desmond Tutu forthe
friars at St.
for
for
have open arms and open hearts
James Nero and Mark Reamer, all
week
man
newspaper of the Raleigh
He compared
to a monastic setting, their own choosing,
their existence
where the men,
have unlimited time for prayer, reflection and introspection.
men
of your stature, though we understand that God knows our needs." The six candidates for confirmation May, Terry Bell, Angel
—
Guiverra, Henry Lee Hunt, Eric Murillo and Elias Syriani were
—
presented
by
Franciscan
Sister Claudia Bronsing, Bell's sponsor and
a parish pastoral administrator,
Jeff
and
Meyer, another death-row
in-
mate, who served as sponsor for the other five, death row, he said. "Their life story is important and cannot be banished into anonymity," said Father Kenna.
Father Reamer said the confirmation liturgy was uplifting, with
men
the
practicing their songs for
several weeks. "It
was
a source of
for me," he said. lift
hope and faith "Music really does
the heart."
The men Gossman
also thanked Bishop
for his strong stand against
the death penalty, in public statements, pastoral letters and requests
clemency
for
for death-row inmates. are so very grateful for your opposition to capital punishment,"
"We
May
told the bishop. "It
means
a lot
to all of the
death-row inmates to know that the Catholic Church and your diocese turn away from and denounce such killing." After his visit to death row, Bishop Gossman embraced a recent call by retired South African Anglican Archbishop Desmond Tutu for the United States to reject capital
punishment,
as
his
country has.
Bishop Gossman said he agreed with Archbishop Tutu that a country that has stood firmly for human rights around the world should abandon the death penalty.
Father Reamer said he finds it discouraging that Catholics differ little from the general public in their majority support for capital punishment. That means they have not been greatly influenced by the church's social teaching, he said.
But for now, church leaders continue to seek a change on the death penalty and the inmates at the confir-
mation service sang words of optimism: "The Lord has promised good to me, his word my hope secures."
Bishops thank Clinton for execution delay
—
WASHINGTON
(CNS) The bishops thanked President Clinton for postponing the first scheduled federal execution in 37 years and encouraged him to "take the next step" by commuting the senU.S.
tence to life imprisonment. Clinton on July 7 agreed to postpone the Aug. 5 execution of Juan Raul Garza pending a Justice Department update of clemency guidelines in the federal sentencing system.
"We hope that this action -will lead to a further reconsideration of the use of the death penalty in our modern
society," read
a letter to
Clinton from Bishop Joseph A. Fiorenza of Galveston-Houston, president of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops. "In our view, the next appropri-
sentenced to death under federal statutes since the Supreme Court ruled in the late 1970s that some death penalty statutes could be constitutional.
"We want Mr. Garza to have an opportunity to submit a request for clemency," White House spokesman Jake Siewert told reporters. "We want to make sure that there are firm guidelines in place."
Clinton has long supported the death penalty, although he said at a recent press conference that he is con-
cerned about the "disturbing racial composition of those who've been convicted and the fact that almost all of the convictions are coming out ...
of just a handful of states."
The letter encouraged the president to impose a moratorium on federal executions "not only because it will spare the lives of the condemned, but because of what it will symbolize to everyone in our nation and beyond that all human life is of inestimable
would be to impose a moratorium on the use of the death penalty at the federal level," he continued. The last execution by the federal
—
government was
value."
ate action
in
1963.
Garza
is
one of 21 prisoners who have been
The Brazilians are
coming...
ce
566-1009
Assuring Absolute Integrity
FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION SERVICE
We'll beat any advertised price... Let us prove it!
The
1401 Parton Ave. Asheviile,
NC
(828) 252-3535
72 Long Shoals Road Arden,
Asheviiles Carholic FuneraJ Directors
NC
Dale Groce
YEARS EXPERIENCE
Come
find out about...
Serving Charlotte with integrity for over 39 years!
JrMITSUBISHI MOTORS
HONDA Blvd.
7001
531-3131 Frank LaPointe, President,
E.
Independence Blvd.
535-4444 Member
of
St.
Gabriel Church
^
Family Planning
Dealerships
Independence
874-3535
Pre-arrangements and obituaries on-line at www.grocefuneralhome.com
Natural n din I a l
E.
John Prock
Toll-free (888)
30
6951
•
(828) 687-3530
Introductory
Oases: 2nd Tuesday of every month
Next class: Aug. 8th
PYANO MAN!
Upcoming classes: & Oct 10
HENRY C. ROZELL III 2nd Generation
Sept. 12
Fee: $10
Piano Tuner/Technician
Call to ore-register
Piano Tuning, Repairs, Refinishing Pianos Bought and Sold
FREE ESTIMATES
704-321-5843
Classes held at
7pm
at the Charlotte Diocese Pastoral Center 1123 South
Church Street
(4 blocks from Ericsson "Panther" Stadium)
For information, other class locations
and methods, please
call (704)
370-3230.
8
The Catholic News & Herald
July 21,
the News
In
2000
At age 100, priest has witnessed dramatic changes
his
He would later work closely with Bishops Louis Kucera, James Casey
NEWS SERVICE
By CATHOLIC
and Glennon Flavin during
—
LINCOLN,
Neb. (CNS)
65 years as
a priest of the Lin-
In
Bishop Bruskewitz, the current head of the diocese, was installed in Lincoln in March 1992. Msgr. Barry said perhaps the two biggest changes in his lifetime in the church and in the world was the Second Vatican Council and the au-
coln Diocese, Msgr. Denis Barry has
witnessed some dramatic changes in the church and in society.
He
the first priest in the 113-year history to reach
is
diocese's
lOOth birthday, which he celebrated July 12 at Lincoln's Madonna Rehabilitation Hospital, his
where he
tomobile.
"Vatican the church
W.
Bruskewitz.
and
cream and to
ice
ticipation of the church."
hear the memories of a priest who has known all eight bishops of the
mobility
diocese.
said,
Msgr. Barry grew up one of
six children.
The CNS photo from Southern
Agnew,
From an
young Denis had
age,
in
He
tury.
He
In those years, he points out,
by hand." he was
18,
he was
World War
Lincoln in 1935. In 58 years of active ministry, Msgr. Barry has served the people of southern Nebraska in a variety of ways, including as a pastor and head of a deanery.
eligible I.
"I
was
called to the local draft board four
days after the armistice was signed," he told the Southern Nebraska Register, Lincoln's diocesan newspaper. With the war over and the United States withdrawing its troops, he was not called up for ser-
But there were times
He
has
Agnew
JOHANNUS CHURCH ORGANS America's best value in sound
met every one of
Bonacum came
a lot."
Catholic
Hymns
virtue
1
575.
& Broad Streets, Mooresville, NC
(704) 663-7007
and brought people
of
all
ages and
backgrounds to the Church.
As a group of priests and lay men, we live a community life without vows and serve the people of God in various ministries: Parishes Retreat For more information, please urile: Fr.
Work
— (800) 331-0768 You know
Campus Ministry Youth Summer Camp
how to minimize taxes and penalties in our exclusive IRA Distribution Manual.
Find out
business people
and families.
Call
P.O. Box 11586 Rock Hill, SC 297V -1586
Jeanne O. McCulloch,
Financial Consultant, (336) 721-9221 or (800) 334-4401 for your free copy of
...Do YOU?
The Salomon Smith Barney IRA Distribution Manual.
EdMcDevitt, CO. or Ft: Joe Pearce, CO. The Orator)'
to put money your IRA.
What's the best way to take it out?
We reach OVER 115,000
Hospital Chaplaincy
Nursing
how
into
Known as
St. Phillip lived this
devices.
& Electronics, Inc.
Corner of Oak
Philip Neri in
and hearing impaired
ELECTRONIC ORGAN SERVICE ON ALL MAKES
Our Oratorian Congregation was founded
Rome by St.
button.
Quality pianos for affordable prices.
serving God as priest or brother.
"The Apostle of Joy,"
push of a
CHURCH PIANOS
for the
Music
in
at the
SOUND SYSTEMS Totally wireless systems
Join us in
& price.
SYNTHIA MUSIC SYSTEMS
to
sacrament of confirmation in 1910, and he came to our house for dinner," Msgr. Barry said.
Msgr. Barry
recalled.
from a 12-
1911.
"Bishop
two grain elevators, a blacksmith shop and a doctor," he
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIHIIIIIlllllllllllllllllll
Lincoln's eight bishops, beginning
"My mother was always encouraging me to consider the voca-
I
eral store,
during parish activities and Bishop Francis Beckman while he was studying for the priesthood.
with Bishop Thomas Bonacum, who headed the diocese from 1887-
calling to the priesthood.
me
was something to have the bishop come to our house." Msgr. Barry met Bishops J. Henry Tihen and Charles O'Reilly
with abdominal cancer.
undecided about what to do with his life. He credits his mother's influence for him eventually recognizing his
"She prayed for
a "couple of almost didn't make it," he
I
said, referring to a fall
After he finished school, he was
said.
I was taking care of our walked behind a single row plow and a single row cultivator," Msgr. Barry said. "We never traveled far from home. His home town of Agnew had only 60 residents, "but it had a gen-
"It
foot-high ladder and to his bout
vice.
tion to the priesthood,"
studied for the priesthood at
Kenrick Seminary near St. Louis and was ordained for the Diocese of
"everything was done by horses or
for the draft for
'When
farm
when he was only
years after his father died.
When
Nebraska Register
Msgr. Denis Barry of the Diocese of Lincoln, Neb., catches up on some letter-writing in this photo from 1996. The priest was the first in the diocese's history to celebrate his centennial year, turning 100 on July 12.
inherited the job of running
13, five
automobile, because of the
it provided, Msgr. Barry might have had the greatest impact on society in the 20th cen-
early
firsthand ex-
perience with hard work. the family farm
a milestone in
for priests
laity,"
Family and friends gathered later for cake
was
II
—
and the Msgr. Barry said. "Many of the laws, which governed different practices, were modified and the laity assumed a larger role in the par-
lives.
The event was marked with a Mass celebrated by Lincoln Bishop Fabian
his
years as a parish priest.
Salomon Sm it h Barney Like our ministries,
unique and
our
members
come from across
States and from
Brazil.
are
Advertise in
The Catholic News
&
Herald. A member of crtigroupT
the United Call Cindi
Feerick (704) 370-3332
e
© 1999 Salomon Smith Barney Inc. Member SIPC. Salomon Smith Barney
is
a service mark of Salomon Smith Barney
Inc.
2
Mooresville parish center becomes a reality By
Archbishop Flores' secretary called
ALESHA M. PRICE Staff Writer
MOORESVILLE :
—
The
'hero for
after--
noon sun greeted St. Therese Church parishioners as they gathered to recognize their growth as a parish.
Members
SAN ANTONIO
groundbreaking Mass, ceremony and picnic on June 8. Lewis Mack,_a founding member of the church, has grown along with his church and remembered the par-
From its home to
in a parishioner's
the cement stone building dedicated 1950 on the main thoroughfare in the expanding town of Mooresville to in
the present day structure dedicated Photo by Alesha M. Price
1988, St. Therese has gone through many changes. The parish's newest endeavor is the life center, expected to be completed next summer. Bishop Curlin and others were on hand to cast the symbolic gold and in
Bishop William G. Curlin, center, Jesuit Father James McAndrews, right center, church members and others cast shovels at the St. Therese Church family life center groundbreaking on July 8 in Mooresville. ther James
McAndrews, pastor
ground to start the construction process on its way.
concelebrating, and Rev. Mr. John Sims serving at the Mass. "The parish is very vibrant, and I
"We
am
silver shovels into the
are not simply blessing a build-
ing," said the bishop.
we have people interacting with the older members, which gives a sense of continuity to the ideas about how we should build into the future," said Father McAndrews. The two-story, 25,000 square
"We
are here to continue to build our relationships
so
with Jesus. ... Remember that you are gathered here to build a place where you can be strengthened in the presence of Christ."
Bishop William
G.
Curlin
especially gratified that
many young
feet life center will consist of 14 faith formation classrooms; offices for the
served as celebrant with Jesuit Fa-
Let stairs be our
formation director, youth minister and secretary; a library; break room; choir room and kitchen. The large gathering area is designed for multi-purpose functions such as liturgies, dances, meals and meetings, described Greg Pollak, current chair of the parish building committee and church member since 1988. faith
tal
Marlene Stowe, chair of the capicampaign committee, Father
McAndrews, members of
the capital
campaign committee and 180 volunteers joined for a group effort in raising thus far two-thirds of the $3.2 million needed for completion of the building through personal visits with the parishioners.
problem... not yours! Ask about our Stairway attached to steps (not
•
Easily
•
Folds out of the
•
Very affordable
•
We
lifts.
walls)
way
most stairways
• Fits
(straight
& curved)
(rent or buy)
"As a parish, we like to gather and have community functions," said Stowe. "I am enthused and excited about the upcoming center. Many of our activities have been hampered because of a lack of space. We have planning this for many years, and it has been a long time coming."
install
& Equipment
800 Central Ave.
.
Member
Rentals
Charlotte,
NC
(CNS)
Myrtle Sanchez, secretary to San Antonio Archbishop Patrick F. Flores, is "a hero for all of us," says Msgr. Lawrence Stuebben, vicar general and moderator of the curia for the San Antonio Archdiocese. Usually, words like "quiet," "loyal," "unassuming," and "cheerful" would be used to describe Sanchez, but her composure during a hostage situation involving her and her boss has earned her the title "angel." Sanchez was held hostage for about two hours of a nine-hour hostage ordeal involving Archbishop Flores June 28 at the archdiocesan chancery.
Today's Catholic, newspaper of the San Antonio Archdiocese, and the Society of St. Vincent de Paul were to give Sanchez a Guardian Angel July 19 in a ceremony airing
Award
on the archdiocesan-run TV station. Nelson Escolero, a 40-year-old Salvadoran immigrant, was charged with aggravated kidnapping for holding Archbishop Flores and Sanchez. Escolero, a native of El Salvador who is a legal resident of the United States, apparently had approached the archbishop June 27 outside the chancery for help with a passport problem. The next day, he retunred to the archbishop's
office.
Once inside the archbishop's office, he demanded the archbishop and later Sanchez make calls on his behalf. During the nine-hour ordeal, much of the tension centered on Escolero's claim that he had a grenade. The device was later determined to be a fake. Throughout the two-hour ordeal, Sanchez said, she prayed to St. Anthonyand also quietly diverted the captor's attention at times.
Archbishop Flores has remarked by putting up with him all these years, Sanchez is on her way to being that
Contact Staff Writer Alesha
Chair
News Service
Catholic
their church to capacity while the overflow sat in the narthex for their parish life center
beginnings
of us'
MAURA CIARROCCHI
By
filled
ish in its various stages.
all
&
Sales, Inc.
M.
Price by calling (704) 370-3354 or email amprice@charlottedioces.org.
a saint.
(800) 333-8431 of St Thomas Aquinas •
"Our
Carolina Volkswagen 6625 E. Independence (704) 537-2336
•
Blvd., Charlotte (800) 489-2336
w
Biggest Selection
Carolina Funeral &
C c
Loving Your Pets'
Pineville
Cremation
Animal
Hospital
Center
G
10833
Dignity Affordability
Lowest
Simplicity
Prices
Drivers wanted.
Specialty Is
Pineville
Charlotte,
NC 282 1
Pineville,
NC
(704) 552-2005 In
addition to our complete
medical care
5505 Monroe Rd.
Road,
(Near Carolina Pavilion/AMC 22 Theater)
facility,
we
also offer:
Boarding Kennels
704-568-0023
"Nothing Could Be Finer"
Members ofSt. Gabriel
www.carolinafuneral.com
Steven #1 Volkswagen Dealer in Charlotte and all the Carolinas for customer sales and service satisfaction!
C'mon
in
and
see
why!
Professional
Grooming
Kuzma
Owner/Director Privately, Locally Owned Member St. Matthew Church and Knights of Columbus
Thomas N. Buckley, DVM, owner Member ofSt. Vincent's
10 The Catholic News & Herald
July 21,
Readings
2000
Book Review
and
Priest explores morality spirituality in What Good
the good
In
"The
Where Morality and
Spiri-
is
Life:
life?
tuality Converge," Sulpician
Father
Richard M. Gula defines it as "a life of friendship with God." Father Gula says that we "become friends with God and with one another to the extent that we develop character and virtues." He writes this book to discuss biblical themes that offer guidance in becoming more
moral and
spiritual.
says.
Father Gula first addresses the biblical theme of being created in God's image, which he calls "not only a gift but also a responsibility." Referring to the parable of the talents, he says, "Living the good life involves taking a risk on the gifts that have
been entrusted to us." Then he addresses the biblical theme of being called to a covenant with God. He focuses on the worth of our relationship with God, the unconditional love of God, and the value of
The author emphasizes, too, the importance of solidarity in a covenant relationship.
SS. Paulist Press
He
identifies three prin-
ciples of Catholic justice: the dignity
N.J., 1999).
of individuals, concern for the common good, and concern for the poor. He suggests we imitate God in his love for "the lost, the least, and the
132pp.$9.95
The
daily behavior shapes character," he
self-esteem.
The Good Life: Where Morality and Spirtuality Converge, By Father Richard M. Gula (Mahwah,
Word to Life
new book
author, a moral theology pro-
fessor at the Franciscan School of
Theology at the Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley, Calif, begins by saying that morality and spirituality are related and must be practiced. "The greatest predictor of how we will behave when moments of special choice come along is to be found in how we behave every day because
last."
Faithfulness to the covenant also remains essential, Father Gula says. He cites God's call to "faithfulness, not sacrifice." When we are not faithful, he says, we not only do something that is not good but we become people who are not good.
GOOD
LIFE, Page
14
July 23, Sixteenth Sunday in
cause "he pitied them, for they were like sheep without a shepherd; and he began to teach them at great
Ordinary Time, Cycle B Readings: Jeremiah 23:1-6
1)
Psalm 23:1-6 2) 3)
length."
The
Ephesians 2:13-18 Gospel: Mark 6:30-34
By JEFF Catholic
"Word
CNS Web
News Service is
on the
listed
according to the date
of the Sunday to which
it is
geared.
This week's "Word to Life"
is
geared to the readings for Sunday, July 23.
This column is offered, in cooperation with the North Texas Catholic of Fort Worth, Texas, as a bonus to CNS subscribers during the Jubilee of the Year 2000. This material is located on the CNS Web site under "Columns." Three files are found for each week under "Word to Life": an image fde, containing the art; a PDF file, showing the complete layout; and
Christ. Patsy's
ebration.
Jubilee 2000, she wrote, had been organized by the Catholic Diocese of Birmingham and was coordinated by a Benedictine nun. Protestant churches, she said, had responded to the Catholic invitation to plan it, participate in it and worship together. Although she doesn't close her account with the feeding of the many thousands gathered, I have to believe that the Father in
the text fde. In addition, the "Word to Life" logo can be downloaded by clicking on the logo in the CNS Web site. Scattering and gathering, scattering and gathering but what G6d is spreading broadly and pulling into sheaves in this week's readings is people, not seeds and
—
heaven, who sends forth shepherds to gather his people into one, was fed a heavenly meal of unity on the birthday of his church.
The readings speak of good shepherds who gather their sheep
Readings for the week of July 23
-
29,
to care for
2000
Sunday, Jeremiah 23:1-6, Ephesians 2:13-18, Mark 6:30-34; Monday, Micah 6:1-4, 6-8, Matthew 12:38-42; Tuesday (St. James), 2 Corinthians 4:7-15, Jeremiah 1:1, 4-10,
Matthew
Matthew Matthew
20:20-28;
Wednesday
13:16-17;
Thursday, Jeremiah
Friday, Jeremiah 3:14-17, Martha), Jeremiah 7:1-11, Luke 10:38-42
(St.
13:10-17;
(St.
Matthew
Readings for the week of July 30
-
Joachim and Anne), 2:1-3, 7-8, 12-13,
13:18-23;
Aug.
5,
Saturday
2000
Sunday, 2 Kings 4:42-44, Ephesians 4:1-6, John 6:1-15; Monday (St. Ignatius of Loyola), Jeremiah 13:1-11, Matthew 13:31-35; Tuesday (St. Alphonsus Liguori), Jeremiah 14:17-22, Matthew 13:36-43; Wednesday, Jeremiah 15:10, 16-21, Matthew 13:44-46; Thursday, Jeremiah 18:1-6, Matthew 13:47-53; Friday (St. John Mary Vianney), Jeremiah 26:1-9, Matthew 13:54-58; Saturday (Dedication of St. Mary Basilica in Rome), Jeremiah
Matthew
26:11-16, 24,
them and,
With Grekt Love.
contact with
Protestants, are you able to focus on the things that unite us without
Are you able to pray with those who will pray with you and for those who resist being joined by our mutual faith in Christ?
fear?
But the image that is repeated is of the shepherd who gathers and tends his own. Jesus teaches the 5,000 on the shore of the lake be-
Jhe ^Ajcmci&can Qsmish Catholic Gift & Book Store Over 700 Book
. . .
QUESTIONS: When you have
at least in the
Jeremiah reading, of evil shepherds who scatter God's sheep and drive them away.
14:1-12
Providing Quality LongTerm Care
message brimmed
with joy as she told about this cel-
grain.
Weekly Scripture
familiar and always comPsalm 23 gives us an image
of the shepherd continuing his care, even as the sheep face danger from their enemies, need oil to heal them, and must rely on his rod and staff to deliver them from fear. A friend in Birmingham, Ala., recently sent an e-mail describing a Pentecost event in her area in a large arena that brought Catholics and Protestants together to worship and celebrate their unity in
HENSLEY
to Life" site
forting
Titles, plus Bibles, Rosaries, Statues,
Medals, Tapes, CD's, Plaques, & much, Hours: (336) 273-2554
233
N.
9am -5pm
Greene
Monday
Greensboro,
St.
much more!
Friday
NC 27401
For half a century, Maryfield Nursing
Home
has provided
COACh^CEL
outstanding nursing care in a Catholic environment.
When is
you need more care than
available at your visit us.
Spirit -
home, come
We invite you
discover for yourself our
Hypnosis
to
Stop Smoking
Manage
which make Maryfield
LongTerm
1515 Gki
i
536.886.2444
NC
Therapy
•
Stress
Live Healthier
•
Call Today! 704-597-4184
27260
Fax 5i6.886.4056
wwu.grei-n\boro.com/mnli
A Com
Mind
Field
Care.
nsboro Road
HIGH Point.
-
Reduce Chronic Pain Improve Job, Academic, Sports Performance
the best possible choice for
Body
Thought
many
stimulating daily activities and services
-
im'in'g ('are
R
elD ment Community
John Connors IPC, NBCCH, TFT Licensed Professional Counselor, National Board of Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists
Diplomate Certified
-
Thought
Field
Therapy
2000
July 21,
The Catholic News & Herald 11
£ntert errammen
X-Men surprisingly absorbing, entertaining sci-fi thriller By
ANNE NAVARRO
Catholic
tants, the
News Service
NEW YORK
—
(CNS) Outcast beings whose genetic mutations give them superpowers are pit-
human
ted against evil mutants intent on ruling over humanity in the entertaining sci-fi thriller
"X-Men" (20th Century
Fox).
Director Bryan Singer's longawaited live-action film is surprisingly absorbing. Based on the comic book series published by Marvel Comics, "X-Men" sets up the premise that in the not-too-distant future, human beings will genetically mutate to form a new race with superpowers, which will coexist with the other "normal" humans. Early on, the viewer understands that humans already fear and hate the race of mutants. U.S. Sen. Robert Kelly (Bruce Davison) has introduced legislation designed to expose the possible "dangers" these scientific oddities can cause. And it is this legislation and the prevailing prejudi-
—
cial attitude
—
Magneto
that forces
(Ian McKellen),
one of the world's most powerful mutants andmaster of magnetism, to turn his back on society. Together with his evil brother-
vs. evil.
Several issues run through the film's multilayered narrative, including prejudice, intolerance and fear. The film also leans heavily on the outcasts-of-society theme, trying to establish
common ground between
the viewer and the mutants by asking, "Hasn't everyone felt like an outcast at one point or another?" It is interesting to note that there is also a Christian message of compassion and mercy in the film. Xavier has established a school to teach mutants how to control and direct their powers for' the greater good of mankind. The school is a safe haven for those the world considers deviants
and
And
he and his X-Men world that ridicules and even hates them. The film largely concentrates on the characters of Wolverine (Hugh Jackman), a loner with regenerative powers whose retractable steel claws come out whenever his short, mean fuse is lit, and Rogue (Anna Paquin), who is able to absorb the powers and misfits.
fight to protect a
Jackman.
The
other
X-Men
characters are
weakly developed, particularly Storm (Halle Berry), and even less attention is given to members of Magneto's evil brotherhood such as Toad (Ray Park) and Mystique (Rebecca Romijn-Stamos) who together only have a few scant lines. Stewart and McKellen are formi-
is
Magneto's one-time friend, Professor Charles Xavier (Patrick Stewart),
who
has unparalleled telepathic abilihis tutelage are a group of students whom he calls his X-Men. ties.
good
cially
the other end of the spectrum
superhuman creatures
at-
tempts world domination, the two opposing groups square off in a battle of
actors acquit themselves well, espe-
tant race.
of these
use their powers to
When Magneto
memories of anyone she touches. Both
hood, he seeks to rule over all of humanity before they wipe out the mu-
On
X-Men
serve humanity.
Under
Unlike Magneto and his rebel mu-
CNS
photo from 20th Century Fox
Halle Berry stars in the science-fiction thriller "X-Men." The U.S. Catholic Conference classification is A-II — adults and adolescents. The Motion Picture Association of America rate is PG-13.
As Magneto dable.
a survivor of
believes he
World War
II,
and stunts suggest should not be taken literally. In fact, the action is well-paced and therefore does not overcome the story but complements it. tive special effects
preventing
is
that
another Holocaust. McKellen gives the character the depth to be both malicious and childlike. Stewart's commanding presence on screen, not to mention his bald head which makes him look like the comic book character, brings to Xavier a sophistication and worldliness.
Although the film
it
Compelling enough to intrigue newcomers as well as fans of the Marvel comic book series, "X-Men" is a diverting outing to the movies.
Motion
treats its sub-
Picture
America rating
The
Association
of
—
to
are
with some self-deprecating humor. Fans of the comic book
PG-13 parents strongly cautioned. Some mate-
rial
may
ject quite seriously,
laugh at
chuckle
will
it
also
manages
itself
at
joke
a
under
is
certainly fun.
also leave the door
or
The
be inappropriate for children
13.
about
Wolverine's yellow tights. And while the ending is predictable, getting there
is
Navarro is on the staff of the U.S. Catholic Conference Office for Film and Broadcasting.
last scenes
wide open for one
more sequels. While sci-fi violence
is part of the package, sharp editing and imagina-
TV programs
of note
NEW YORK (CNS) — Here are some television programs of note for the week of |
July 30:
Thursday, Aug.
Vinny's Painting lnc»
Free estimates (704)
3,
10-1
1
p.m.
EDT (A&E) "Danger — Fallout." An "Investigative
Reports" examines the threat from radioactive fallout from the Cold War years of nuclear testing in the Nevada desert that went into the atmosphere and drifted across the country.
a
EDT
Friday, Aug. 4, 9-1 1 p.m. (PBS) "Vaudeville." A rebroadcast of an "American Masters" special exploring the popular entertainment form that preceded movies, and even radio, and dominated American culture for four decades, crossing racial and
TV
846-0747
class boundaries in the process.
Interior/Exterior • Residential/Commercial Licensed and Insured
We Warn You:
Member of St. Matthew Church
One You're Gonna Want One! If You
Cmersuit Fall
Camp for the young at
heart!
Ages 50 and Up
Volkswagen and Audi.. .the only car companies to have every model named
September 24-29
best
Deluxe lodging, delicious meals, college level curriculum, hands-on instruction, fun and entertaining events, field trips to neat places with great friends! Week-long fun at a
a
more information, call
toll-free
888-526-7441 or [8281 327-7441
ccc@twaue.net www.cathol icco nf e re nce.org E-mail:
£iCi Tlle Catholic Conference VJI Center 1551 Trinity Lane Hickory,
NC
honest service on Europe's most exciting new cars. From the incredible New Beetle, to the
all
new
Jetta IV
generation of Audi,
in its class. Find out
thrill
Honest pricing, honest financing, and
very special place. For
Drive
why.
Come
in for
ride today.
Volkswagen
-
Audi
and luxurious new
we have
John Diederich. Owner
the right car for
your pocketbook ..and your
Member
lifestyle.
7401 South Boulevard
.
Charlotte
www.vwsouth.com
.
Saint Gabriel Parish
704.552.6500 800.426.5347 www.audisouth.com .
.
12 The Catholic News & Herald
July 21,
Editorials & Columns A New Dimension
of Mother Love you right in the heart. That was my reaction when I met Ann Stone, who told of the tragedy that struck her family when Ralph, one of her five sons, was murdered in his condominium in Washington, D.C. But then she went on to talk of what she did in his memory. Ralph Stone, 37, was the director of training for the Center for Development and Population Activities in Washington and had been working on his doctorate at Georgetown University. He had finished all his academic requirements and completed most of the interviews needed for his dissertation on the important and unusual subject of "Women
Some
The Pope
Speaks
POPE JOHN PAUL
II
stories hit
Leaders in Kenya: tical Leadership
Pope says immigrants need
welcome from people like Cabrini
—
new country looking
in a
for a better
life
find only poverty and discrimination,
John Paul
but
Pope
II said.
immigrants need people like St. Frances Cabrini to welcome them, educate them and help them spiritually, the pope said a letter to the religious order
Mother
Cabrini founded.
The
letter,
released at the Vatican July
1
5,
marked the 150th anniversary of the birth of Mother Cabrini and the 50th anniversary of her being proclaimed patron of immigrants.
Mother
realized that his dissertation wasn't
going to be finished,
I
said to his director that
I could finish it," his mother told me. She wanted her son to have his degree, even though it would be posthumous. A grandmother of four, who holds a master's degree in Hospital Administration, Stone was willing to take on this heavy task, explaining, "I had some experience in analyzing and writing because I
work
Cabrini, an Italian
who became
a
U.S. citizen, ministered to Italians and other
European immigrants
over the United and
all
for the state of Connecticut reviewing certifi-
when they want
to ex-
pand."
He
went overseas
do pioneering work of women" in Third World countries. In his research he looked for common backgrounds of successful women, identified often
to "establish the
to
empowerment
women's advancement and determined what further research was needed to help women barriers to
achieve professional goals. Ann Stone's task was enormous. Her son had left a microtape with interviews he had done with
women
in
they
had to be transcribed," she said. Ann Stone woman who had done some transcribing
all
found
The Bottom Line
ANTOINETTE B0SC0
CNS
Columnist
on many of the tapes the African accents were heavy and she couldn't understand
for her son, but
them. I
cates of need for hospitals
New
in
Non-Government Organiza-
maybe
WOODEN
News Service VATICAN CITY (CNS) Like the poor who immigrated to the United States in the late 1800s, many of today's immigrants arrive Catholic
Description of Women in Prac-
in
tions."
"When BY CINDY
A
2000
a
Kenya
in
nongovernmental
jobs, "but
But, coincidentally, this woman had an acquaintance from Ghana. "It turned out she grew up in Kenya and knew all the tribal accents," Stone said.
With the tapes transcribed, she was able to complete the manuscript. She then had to meet with the Georgetown faculty to defend it. "They said it should be published," she said, adding that the Center for Development and Population Activities will use her son's research to further their work. Stone and her husband Fred also felt honored that the university established the Ralph Upson Stone Achievement Award in their son's honor to recognize people who work selflessly for human resources development.The Stones say that witnessing the honor given to their son brings them some
joy.
Their son's killer still is unidentified, though the police have a strong suspect. Ralph Stone's brothers, his twin Dave, along with Doug, Brad and Rick, are a great support to their parents. I've seen mother love, but Ann Stone truly took this to a new dimension in the honor she gave her son by completing the work he had begun.
States, as well as in Nicaragua, Brazil
Argentina.
Canonized in 1946, just 21 years after her was the first U.S. citizen to be pro-
claimed a
The
saint.
pope's letter to the Sacred Heart mis-
sionaries said today's
about their teens, and their teens' friends. Their
Coming of Age
death, she
comments
immigrants have needs
lessons, help fitting into a
in
CHRISTOPHER CARSTENS CNS Columnist
detention centers.
Modern migration sisters to
patterns have led the
Mother
Cabrini," the
pope
"Armed with unique boldness she
said.
started
and orphanages from nothing for the masses of poor who set off for the new world in search of work, lacking knowledge of the language and the means to insert them-
Teens and Their Friends' Parents
schools, hospitals
way into American society, becoming the victims of people without scruples," Pope John Paul said. Mother Cabrini was not afraid, he said,- and because of her courage and "maternal heart" she selves in a dignified
often
is still
the object of "a surprisingly lively devo-
United States. The pope asked the Missionaries Sisters of the Sacred Heart and the lay people who work with them "to learn to listen to the cry of the poor in order to give adequate responses to their tion" in the
material and spiritual problems."
Listening the said, will
help
way Mother
them
millennium rich also
spect.
adapt "with creativity and generosity
the spirit of
in
"at the
Cabrini did, he
beginning of a new
expectations and hopes, but
marked by wounds which have stained the body of humanity with blood, especially
living
in the poorest countries
of the world."
As
a teen-ager, your freedom often depends on
— and not
just your mother or father. Can you spend the night at a friend's? Sure you need your parent's permission, but it also depends on whether or not your friend's folks are comfortable having you around. You're attracted to a "certain someone" at school, and you meet each other at the mall once or twice. Will you become a long-term item? Even if you like each other, much will depend on how your
adults
potential partner's parents feel about you. It's in your best interest for your friend's parents to like you. Good relationships increase your
freedom to do what you want. Maybe no-brainer, but lots of teens
it
seems
impressions.
is
whenever you hang out at their house. If you're dating somebody, have a brief conversation whenever you run into his or her parents. Stand up when you're talking to an adult. The identical conversation while slouching on the couch doesn't communicate the same air of re-
assistance getting residence permits, language
new society and immigrants being held
my own
having short conversations on a regular basis. For example, you might spend two or three minutes talking with a friend's mother
similar to those of immigrants 100 years ago:
special care for illegal
reflect
The key
like a
somehow miss
this
basic point.
There are some things in your life that you simply can't control. This isn't one of them. Surprisingly, you're almost completely in charge of whether or not adults like you. What's the key? Your attitude! It may seem amazing, but simply maintaining a positive attitude toward adults and treating them with courtesy virtually guarantees that grown-ups will like you.
As a child and adolescent psychologist, I also have talked with literally thousands of parents
Shake hands when you first meet an adult. That's a very important action. Grown-ups associate it with maturity and trustworthiness. It shows respect, and it accentuates your adult side. Smile. You can't imagine how many teens simply scowl at grown-ups or act as if the grownups weren't even there. Studies show that smiling makes you much more socially attractive. People like people who smile at them. Ask at least one question during each brief conversation. You aren't conducting an interview here, but are showing your interest in the adult as a person. The questions can be as simple as, "How's your back yard coming?" or "Did you see the baseball game last night?" Pay attention to the answers because they'll contain clues for your next conversation. For example, if you learn that your friend's father is restoring an old car, asking about progress on the project now and then makes you golden. Finally, don't ever swear around an adult. That's verbal poison. When you use poor language, you are seen as less intelligent, less sophisticated and less reliable. Good manners are the lubricant that makes social wheels turn. Your goal isn't making friends with these grown-ups, but you want them to like and respect you.
2000
July 21,
He said: "Arriving at an older age is to be considered a privilege: not simply because not everyone has the good fortune to reach this stage of life, but also,
One
Light
Candle
and above
FATHER THOMAS
J.
McSWEENEY
because this period provides real possibilities for better evaluating the past, for knowing and living more deeply the Paschal Mystery, for becoming an example for the whole people of God." What an example this Pope has been. He lives his old age with the greatest openness. Far from concealing it, he places it before everyone's eyes. elderly priest." his
whole
aging,
"On Turning
Sixty-Five," with
the "Sixty" crossed out and replaced by a "Fifty."
A taunting note was attached: "Monsignor, it's never too early to start respecting gray hairs, espeyour own! Happy Fifty-Fifth!" first impulse was to phone and disinvite my friend from my birthday party, but instead I peeked inside and spotted Jerome's incentive for writing his cially
My
book. He explains that during a slow recovery from neck surgery he began to see his 65th year as "a kind of forced matriculation in Old Man's School."
He goes
on: "Sixty-five happens to be, in society's definition, the moment when geezerhood kicks in. A certain amount of despair, even panic,
can be expected to follow
— not
to
mention hair
transplants, convertibles, trophy wives. deal well with 65 in this culture."
We
don't
Old Man's School?! Geezerhood? Despair?! Wait a minute,
I thought, this doesn't square with my personal experience of my older relatives and friends who
may complain
of an occasional stiffness or sleepless night but generally seem in high spirits and are unquestionably happy and productive. I think of Pope John Paul II who, despite his own age-related limitations,
proclaimed recently,
"I
continue to enjoy
life!"
The Custom of Circumcision Q. Why is circumcision mentioned so often
life,
acknowledging changes but not overwhelmed by them.
fully navigate old age.
way many
Much
I
What younger person, fortunate to witness the grace-filled final days of a parent or grandparent, cannot be attracted to that same faith? Today one person in eight a total of 33.2 million Americans is at least 65. A person who reaches 65 can expect to live for seventeen more years, and many live well beyond that. Some will have good health and financial comfort. Some will not. There is no
—
—
denying their importance, though we can never completely control them. Still, each one of us does get to choose our beliefs and attitudes.
My
was right. It's never too early to what kind of person do I want to be
friend
consider: "Just
when
I
turn 65?"
Father Thomas
J.
McSweeney
is
director
of The
Christophers.
in the
which was widespread
in
Several years ago archeologists in the Near
The
text tells
how
a
god named
El, to
prevent
destruction of his city, sacrificed his son to his father, a god named Heaven. El then circumcised himself, and commanded all his followers to be circumcised, thus saving their home. In this tradition, at least, circumcision seems to take the place of human sacrifice. part of the body is substituted for the whole. Since an intimate relationship was seen between individuals and the en-
A
tire
community or
circumcision, involving part of the male organ of procreation, proclaimed that the whole nation, the whole clan, present and future, was consecrated to the god it worshipped. In this context, it is easier to see why the descendants of Abraham came to view circumcision as tribe,
a fitting
and necessary expression of their covenant
with the
God
of
Q. Someone
Israel.
in our parish has been distributing a
leaflet that tells us receiving
wrong and against
Communion in our hands is God's will. Most of the ideas I have
no trouble dealing with, but one statement puzzles me. She claims Mother Teresa once stated that one of the greatest harms to the church was the start of Communion
I began my presentation to the group of seventeen male high school sophomores by explaining the difference between a contractual
relationship and a covenant relationship. Most of them saw marriage as contractual. A young man explained it this way, "When the marriage isn't happy, you don't have to stay in it. You should get a divorce." I described for them the covenant relationship we have with God, and suggested that when a marriage strives for that kind of relationship, it becomes a manifestation of God's love. Sex was described as a gift from God that makes promises that only marriage can keep. I
asked them to think about the people knew who had covenant-like marriages. When I asked them to tell me about those I
people, no one responded.
From
all
indications,
seemed that these
it
young men had no reasons
FATHER JOHN DIETZEN
CNS
believe anything
in their lives
to
had said to them. For them covenant marriage was all fantasy and not applicable to the real world or real relation-
Columnist
I
ships.
ods, the Jews) as a
East discovered an interesting document apparently written by a Phoenician priest.
My
reasoning for making marriage the center of discussion is that too often marriage education begins at engagement. By then the individuals' concepts of marriage have been formed. This was an opportunity to plant some seeds in their minds that may harvest a different crop of married persons years from now.
they
some
ancient Mideast cultures (including, at certain periway of placating and supplicating the gods.
the "'M' Word"-marriage.
other.
Corner
How did this practice get started?
sacrifice,
week I (Andrew) spoke before a group of inner-cjty youths at a summer education program. I was asked to speak about relationships and sexuality. However, I chose to make the central theme of my presentation Earlier this
told the young men that the greatest gift parents give their children is their love for each
A. Not long ago I would have had to say no one knows the answer. Perhaps this is still true, but some archeological discoveries in recent decades
human
Covenant-Like Marriages
people success-
of what
have learned about my faith derives from my own grandparents when I was young and from older friends now. For me they have been a point of stability, a steadfast example of faith deepened by the joys and heartaches of life. It is not decline that their age reveals to me, but rather the first days of immortality. Or as St. Simon puts it: "The Golden Age is not behind us, but before us."
and why was it so importantfor the Jews? Jewish men had to be circumcised, and the Gospels say that even
to
Guest Columnists
let-
Question
point to a possible explanation. Circumcision, it seems, may be closely related
ANDREW & TERRI LYKE
Indeed, having spiritual faith appears to be the singular, vital factor in the
Bible,
Jesus was.
Reflections
simplicity, he says of himself, "I'm an He lives his old age in faith, as he has
ting himself be
When I'm 65... A well-meaning friend sent me a copy ofJohn Jerome's
Family
all,
With extreme
Guest Columnist
new book about
The Catholic News & Herald 13
& Columns
Editorials
in the hand,
and
that she believed
it is
wrong and should
When did Mother Teresa say that? A. That rumor has been in circulation for at least 15 years that I know of. I have no idea how it started, but as with all such rumors, the people who spread it do not hesitate to keep it going. For years I was deluged with letters urging me to tell people how Mother Teresa felt. I had strong suspicions about the claim. But at last, not long before her death, I contacted the officials of her community in India about it, describing what she was quoted as saying. never be done.
Their response informed Teresa never said anything like
me
that
Mother
that. In fact,
added, receiving Communion in the hand forbidden even for her own sisters.
is
they not
As I indicated, it isn't likely, from my experience, that this fact will hinder those who are determined to keep the rumor circulating.
A
free brochure in English or Spanish answering questions Catholics ask about baptism practices and sponsors is available by sending a stamped, self-addressed envelope to Father John Dietzen, Box 325, Peoria,
IL 61 65 1. Questions may
the
same
be sent to
Father Dietzen at
address, or e-mail: jjdietzen@aol.com.
In the deafening silence I saw in my right periphery a young man hesitantly raising his hand. I asked him if he had a question. He said in a very soft voice, "My parent-my mother
and father have that kind of relationship." His assertion was almost sheepish, as though he was at risk for saying it. I insisted he stand up and repeat what he said clearly and boldly. He stood and repeated, "My mother and father have a covenant marriage." That evening the two of us discussed this after dinner. We both surmised that the young man's hesitance to identify his family as a "matrimonial family" is the very same reason so many covenant marriages are so quiet. Covenant marriage is countercultural in a society that is hostile to it. Not only is God-centerecl marriage under siege, the children of such relationships are, as well. I thanked the young man for standing in the face of disbelief to bear witness to a truth
that
was evident
in his
life.
I
encouraged him
to continue to challenge others with the truth. offer the same challenge to all members of
We
matrimonial families. When our young people seek out covenant marriages, those marriages
must be
visible. So,
tion needs you.
stand up!
A
whole genera-
14 The Catholic News & Herald
Good
Diocesan
Life, from page 10
The author next
addresses the
He
call to discipleship.
"The question
says,
that ought to guide authentic discipleship today, then, is not "What would Jesus do?' but 'How can I be as faithful to God in my life as Jesus was in his?'" He advises renouncing "surrogate loves" conformity, fear, materialism, money,
—
position, power, prestige,
and pride. on the call to community. He says that "to become good we need to be surrounded by goodness, to witness it, and then to imitate it." We do this through friends who "sustain us by their example, wisdom, encouragement, support, and challenge." He reflects on the beatitudes and on love, forgiveness and hospitality. "The Good Life: Where Morality and Spirituality Converge" is a practical guidebook for individuals and groups. The author offers sound advice and includes interesting anecdotes and allusions to the Bible, theology, literature, and film. His end-of-chapter questions can help readers apply what they have Finally, he focuses
learned.
Classified
EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITIES
2000
July 21,
the News
In
faith
formation
named to the United
official
States Catholic Conference Committee on Catechesis
CHARLOTTE
—
Dr. Cris V.
Villapando, director of faith formation programs
"background, experience, and expertise." The purpose of this committee is "to review and
for the Charlotte Diocese,
make recommendations on
recently
was appointed
his
to
the objectives, plans, programs and policies" for the Department of Education for final approval by the Administrative Board of the Confer-
the United States Catholic
Conference Committee on Catechesis.
Bishop Donald W. Wuerl, the Chairman on the Committee on Educa-
ence.
The Committee
is
com-
asked Villapando to
posed of an episcopal chair, three bishops, and other ex-
serve for three years, citing
perts in the field of catechesis.
tion,
Director of Planned Giving: The Diocesan Office of Development has an opening for a part-time director of planned giving. Candidate must be a college, graduate with a degree in marketing, business administration, or related field; and 3 years specific experience in planned giving or related experience. Applicants should have strong interpersonal and communications skills and the ability
ads bring results! Over 115,000 readers! Over 45,000 homes!
Classified
Rates: $.50/word per issue ($1 0 minimum per issue) Deadline: 12 noon Wednesday, 9 days before publication date How to order: Ads may be faxed to (704) 370-3382 or mailed to:
The Catholic News & Herald, 1 123 S. Church St., Charlotte, NC 28203. Payment: Ads may be pre-paid or billed. For information, call (704) 370-3332.
Cindi Feerick,
to interact well with diverse groups. Responsibili-
include organizing and directing efforts to in developing and implementing long-range financial plans for their benefit, the ties
assist parishioners
benefit of their family, their parish
Accounting Assistant, Part-time: Catholic High School seeks person with accounting experience who works well with others to work part-time in the Business Office. Responsibilities include processing tuition receivables and vendor payables. Provides assistance to Business Manager in recon-
and managing monthly accounts. Good organizational and analytical skills required. MonFri, 8 am - 12 pm. Send letter of application and ciling
resume by 7/28
BMHS
Employee Search, 1730 Link Road, Winston-Salem, NC 27103. EOE. to:
Accounting Clerk: Payroll/General Ledger. The Diocese of Charlotte is accepting applications for a full-time accounting clerk. Responsibilities primarily include processing and entering payroll and general ledger transactions for the Mecklenburg Area Catholic Schools system. Applicants must be proficient with Excel and have two years of relevant experience. EOE. Please forward resume and salary history by July 28,. 2000 to: Controller, 1123 S. Church St., Charlotte, NC 28203-4003.
Administrative Assistant: Part-time. Approximately 12-20 hours per week. Non-smoker with good communications, phone, computer skills. Prefer financial background. Resume and references to
Hook
Financial Group, 4801 E, Independence Blvd., Box 601, Charlotte 28212.
NC
Administrative Support Person: The Diocesan Office of Justice and Peace has an opening for a part-time administrative support person (4 hours, 3 days/week). Functions include: clerical, database management, excel spreadsheets; internet research
and related skills; coordinating meeting arrangements; and bulk mailing. Must be proficient in Windows 98 and Office 97 and possess organizational and communications skills. Submit a onepage resume by July 26th to: Office of Justice and Peace, 123 S. Church St., Charlotte NC 28203. 1
Assistant Secretary: Asheville Catholic School. Attendance/First Aid Office. M-F, full time. CPR and First Aid certification required. Call (828)2527896 for information. EOE.
Cosmetologists/Barbers: Full-time and parttime. Charlotte area upscale salon seeking warmhearted, skilled stylists and barbers. Convenient south Charlotte location. $12 per hour + tips. Please call (704) 341-4260.
diocese. Part-time position for 21 hours per week;
beginning August. Please submit resume
Director of Adult Catholic Enrichment/Order of Christian Initiation: Holy Family Catholic Church of Marietta seeks a full-time salaried Director for Adult Catholic Enrichment (ACE) and the Order of Christian Initiation (OC1) programs. Applicants should have leadership experience in ACE/OCI areas and/or have religious education degreed background suitable to develop high quality programs and volunteer assistance in the community. Must be practicing Catholic. If interested, please submit resume and cover letter to Ret Siefferman, Director of Religious Education at
Holy Family Catholic Church, 3401 Lower Roswell Rd., Marietta, GA 30068. Fax (770) 5780475. Inquire at (770) 973-7400, ext. 21 with questions.
Jim Church to:
Kelley, Office of Development, 1123 South
Charlotte,
St.,
NC
28203-4003.
Director of Religious Education: Holy Family Catholic Church in Marietta seeks a full-time salaried Director for
its
Religious Education programs.
Practical leadership experience in the continuing
development of a
full
range of primary, secondary,
young adult and adult based Religious Education programs is essential. The ability to encourage a spirit of volunteerism to meet broad community needs is a must. Should be competent in managing educational levels and administrative staff functions. Must have bachelors and/or advanced degree in education and/or religious training. Must be practicing Catholic. Holy Family's Religious Eduall
programs serve
cation
a
multi-cultural
commu-
Fluency in Spanish or equivalent background experience would be a useful asset. If interested, please submit resume and cover letter to Ret Siefferman, Director of Religious Education, Holy Family Catholic Church, 3401 Lower Roswell Rd., Marietta, GA 30068. Fax (770) 578-0475. Inquire nity.
at
(770)973-7400, ext. 21 with questions.
Director, Office of Justice and Peace, Catholic Social Services, Diocese of Charlotte: Director to supervise staff and administer program areas including: CCHD, CRS/ORB, Office of EconomicOpportunity, social justice formation and education, and public policy activities. The director serves on the CSS management team while maintaining working relationships with other diocesan offices and with parishes. Knowledge of Catholic social teaching, as well as the
and apply
ability to articulate
Experience at diocesan degree in related field preferred. Send resumes by July 26th to: Office of Justice and Peace, CSS, 1123 S. Church St., Charlotte, NC 28203. it,
is
essential.
level as well as a graduate
Junior Accountant: The Diocese of Charlotte is accepting applications for a junior accountant. This position is primarily responsible for the monthly general journal entries, cash receipts, and month-end reporting for Catholic Social Services. Applicants must be proficient with Excel and have an associate's degree with a concentration in Accounting or 5 years of relevant experience. EOE. Please forward resume and salary history by July 28,
Custodian, Full-time: Begin work immediately. Asheville Catholic School. Call Randy Penland, Maintenance Supervisor at (828)252-7896. EOE.
and/or the
2000
lotte
NC
to:
Controller, 1123 S.
Church
St.,
Char-
28203-4003.
Music Ministry Director: Full-time position for a growing 1100-family parish near Charlotte. Responsible for 4 weekend liturgies plus holy days,
weddings and funerals. Adult and children's choirs, cantors, instrumentalists, new contemporary choir, and handbell choir. Rogers electronic organ,
Yamaha
upright piano, two-octave set of Malmark handbells. Ideal candidate is practicing Catholic with music degree, experience, music performance skills skills,
(organ/piano/voice), choral and cantor knowledge of Catholic liturgical music. Sal-
ary commensurate with experience. Full benefits.
Send/fax resume to Music Search, Saint Therese Parish, 217 Brawley School Rd., Mooresville, NC 28117. Phone (704)664-3992; Fax: (704)6606321.
Music Ministry Director: Holy Church
is in
Infant Catholic search of a full-time Director of Music.
Located in Durham, North Carolina, a dynamic and growing area of the country near Research Triangle Park, this Vatican II parish consists of 900 households that are committed to ongoing liturgical renewal. Holy Infant Parish embraces its call to be hospitable, inclusive and Christ-centered. This works closely with the Pastor and a collaborative and supportive staff. Requires a mini-
Teachers: St. Patrick's School in Charlotte is accepting applications for part-time Music teacher and part-time Spanish teacher. Please contact school principal, Mrs. Angela Montague, (704) 333-3174 for interview. NC
position
certification required.
mum
of a bachelor's degree in a relevant field although a master's degree is preferred. Must have music performance skill (e.g. piano, voice); choral directing; cantor training; knowledge of Catholicrites and rituals. Available no later than November 1, 2000. Salary commensurate with education and experience. Benefits package included. Send resume to: Search Committee, Holy Infant Catholic Church, 5000 Southpark Dr., Durham,
Teachers:
NC
late Heart of Mary School has openings for the following positions for the 2000-2001 school year: Part-time Guidance Counselor; Middle School Science Teacher; and Grade 5 Teacher. Interested certified teachers may contact Margene Wilkins, principal, at 605 Barbee Avenue, High Point, NC 27262; call 336-8872613; or fax 336-884-1849.
St. Michael's School in Gastonia, NC currently seeking dynamic teachers for the following positions: Full-time Middle School Language Arts/Social Studies; Full-time Kindergarten; and part-time Art teacher. Certiis
NC
fication required.
Please
call
Joseph Puceta at
(704)865-4382 for more information.
DOMM
27713. Fax 919/544-1799. References re-
quired at time of application for consideration for this
position.
Parish Secretary/Receptionist: St. John Neumann. 9am - 4:30pm, Monday through Friday. Secretarial skills and experience, computer-literate, personable. Salary negotiable. Benefits. Contact Fr. Thorn Meehan, (704)536-6520 or send
resume and references: St. John Neumann Church, 8451 Idlewild Road, Charlotte, NC 28277. Fax: (704)536-3147. Principal, Elementary: Blessed Sacrament School, located in historic Savannah, Georgia and nearby
Atlantic Ocean beaches, is seeking a principal beginning as soon as possible. Candidates must be Catholic and be able to enhance this family-oriented school with strong communication, leader-
Teachers and Guidance Counselor: Immacu-
Youth Coordinator:
St.
John Neumann Church
seeks part-time Coordinator of Youth Programs to work with parent/youth teams to plan, implement, oversee youth programs; grades 9-12. Call (704)535-4197. Send resume
John Neumann Church, Connie Milligan, 8451 Idlewild Road, Charlotte, NC 28227 or fax(704)536-3147. to St.
Youth Minister: Our Lady of Grace Church
in
Candidates must have a master's degree in education and be certifiable by the state of Georgia. Salary is commensurate with experience and credentials. Request application, and mail or fax resume to: Blessed Sacrament Search Committee, Diocese of Savannah, 601 E. Liberty St., Savannah, GA 31404. Phone (912)238-2344 or Fax(912)2382339.
Greensboro, NC is seeking a full-time Youth Minister to coordinate all youth activities and programs. Applicants should have a degree in Religious Education or related field and three years' experience in Youth Ministry. Salary commensurate with experience and education. Send resume to Tom Johnson, Our Lady of Grace Church, 2205 West Market St., Greensboro, NC 27403.
Regional Consultant: The Diocese Office of Faith Formation seeks an interim part-time Regional Consultant for the Smoky Mountain Vicariate for
Youth Minister: 25 hours
ship and financial
FY
2000-2001.
management
We
skills.
seek an individual with 3-5
programs and great ability to work with people. The parttime salary for this person is $12,000-$ 14,000. Preference will be given to persons with some background in the field of Catechetics and Adult Faith Formation. Please send two letters of recommendation to: Dr. Cris Villapando, Office of Faith Formation, 1123 S. Church Street, Charlotte, NC 28203-4003. For more information call (704) 370-3246. years' experience of coordinating parish
per week; salaried. Located 45 minutes north of Charlotte. Practicing Catholic, experienced with youth. Responsible for 9th-12th graders; coordinate social and service activities, and recruit and train
young adults to work with teens. Must be accommodate flexible week including nights and weekends. Submit resume by July 31st: Martha Drennan, 217 Brawley other
willing to
School Rd., Mooresville tion: (704)664-7762.
license. Call (828)
252-7896. EOE.
Teachers, Library/M«dia Specialist: Charlotte Catholic High School has the following openings beginning August 2000: full-time teaching positions for Religion, Drama, English, Math, Spanish, and full-time Library/Media Specialist. Must have NC Certification. Also, part-time Guidance Secretary
is
28117. Informa-
Youth Minister, Part-time: dral
is in
St. Patrick Cathegreat need of a part-time Youth Min-
and oversee weekly Undergraduate degree in a youth related field and experience preferred. Please send resume and cover letter to St. Patrick Cathedral, Attn: Joanna Catabui, 1621 Dilworth Road E., Charlotte NC 28203 or ister
Teacher: Asheville Catholic School seeks dynamic pre-K teacher. Must hold or be eligible for NC
NC
to plan, implement,
activities
for parish youth.
Fax: (704) 377-6403.
FOR SALE
needed. Call (704)543-1 127 for application.
Teachers: Sacred Heart School (PreK-8)
in
Salisbury has the following teacher openings beginning in August: PE, Spanish, 5th Grade, and Middle School Language Arts. certification required. Call Kathleen Miller at (704)633-2841.
NC
Personalized Candy Bars. For ALL CHERUBS-N-CHOCOLATE. To
9925.
a
www.Cherubsor call (919)689-
catalog, please visit 'web site at
N-ChocolatebyDeb .com
Occasions.
request
July 21,
2000
The Catholic News & Herald 15
Around the diocese
In Brief
...
Charlotte student ambassador visits Great Britain Timothy M. Ellis, a student at Holy Trinity Catholic Middle School, was selected by the People to People Student Ambassador Program to visit Great Britain this summer for two weeks, learning about the government, economy and culture of England, Wales and Scotland. The delegation of 1 1 middle school students from North Carolina was to participate in
—
CHARLOTTE
briefings at embassies and ministries, discussions with industry and trade the headquarters of international organizations and meetings
officials, visits to
with youth clubs. The Student Ambassador Program is operated under People to People International, a nonpolitical, private-sector organization founded by President Dwight Eisenhower in 1956 to further international goodwill and understanding. Participants are chosen based on recommendations, including school references and personal interviews. Ellis is the son of Mr. and Mrs.
Michael E.
Courtesy photo ~ , group rfrom the Diocese of Charlotte was among this year's fraduates of the Loyola Institute for Ministry program, a graduate istance learning program offered by Loyola University in New Orleans, La., that awards master's degrees in pastoral studies and religious education. Pictured in front from left are Carl Ross, Peg Ruble, Monica Friedman, Ann Rowe and Julie Platte; second row, from left, are Don Allen, Elena Ziegler, Gretchen Gantzer, Stephanie Nealy, Jan Blodgett and Clarence Fox. Not pictured are Brother John Kummer and group facilitators Joanna Case and Connie Milligan.
Aa learning
.
•
i
-j-^ •
Charlotte
nonprofit corporation began 1 7 years ago, when she came aboard as executive director. In addition to her work at Holy Angels on behalf of children and adults with mental retardation and physical disabilities, Moody serves on several boards of directors and committees in Gaston County which make decisions or recommend policies that affect the services and programs available to children and families.
fund
scholarships for participants in the
LIMEX
Gabriel Church in Charlotte.
other recipients. The program, which focuses on youths and targets drug prevention and crime, has been in existence for 1 1 years in a northwest Gastonia neighborhood. Moody, a former school principal, has served in her current position at Holy Angels since 1998. Her history with the private,
presented a check to Bishop William G. Curlin for $2,000 to help the
of
St.
—
Knights help fund LIMEX The North Carolina State Council of the Knights of Columbus recently
Diocese
parishioners of
Ellis,
Holy Angels official receives community spirit award BELMONT Regina Moody, president and chief executive officer of Holy Angels, recently received the Myrtle School Community Spirit Distinguished Woman of the Year Award. Vicky Clinton, president and founder of the grassroots community-based program, presented the award to Moody and two
program.
Group to discuss
Life Chain plans to Life chapter is holding its monthly meeting today at 7 p.m. at the University City Regional Library, 301 East W.T. Harris Blvd. Today's meeting will focus on the organization of this year's Life Chain. For details, call Irene Manning at (704) 598-8877.
— The Charlotte Area Right
CHARLOTTE
OFFICE OF PLANNED GIVING
This is
Photo by Jimmy Rostar
a Test.
Looking for the best CD rates?
u*a * *«t** a VGA O SVGA
tow 2000 monitors
$20-$25
True I
would rather
with let
the
Our CDs offer some of the highest rates available. In fact, a national survey of bank CD rates show our CDs average a whole
how to my estate make those
state decide distribute
than
percentage point higher. Plus, with a broad range of maturities, easily arrange for a steady stream of income to fit your needs.
you can
decisions myself.
I
would rather have an
FDIC-insured up to $100,000 per depositor, per institution • Issued by more than 240 banks nationwide
I
•
A
•
We provide
investment vehicle to reach your
flexible
fixed-income goals
hassle of bringing the
if
Term
$70-$ 125
20" Callfor details^lj^ 30 day warranty O.C. STAFFORD ELECTRONIC SERVICE & DEVELOPMENT COMPANY
all
CDs we
E-mail: urpac408@worldnet.att.net
sell
Annual Percentage Yield
year
6.85%
3 year
7.05%
5 year
7.1%
1
required,
make a deductible bequest to my church.
HOW did you do?
Ifyou answered -true-
any of these questions, please do notproceed.
you answered otherwise, please
below
—
(336) 274-9917
to date.
than
to
17"
$35-$38
408 Banner Are.. Greensboro. JSC 27401
a secondary market on
would rather pay
estate taxes,
in stock!
/5"_
•
outdated estate plan that inadequately expresses my desires than endure the
documents up
1% higher than the national bank average CDs from Salomon Smith Barney.*
Earn interest
False
Refurbished Computer Monitors
and request our
call the
free
Call
may
at (704)
no-obligation
write us
at:
571-3362 for
more
information.
6101 Carnegie Boulevard, 2nd Floor Charlotte,
Office of
Planned Giving, Diocese of Charlotte, 1123 South Church Street, Charlotte, NC 28203.
NC
HOW WE
EARN
IT.
Jim Kelley, Director of Development (704) 370-3301
Save Money on Diabetic Supplies!
51
For a free information packet, call
with Medicare or Insurance
28209
Salomon Smith Barney SEE
please
DIABETICS
Michael Grieco, Financial Consultant
If
number
brochure, "Your legacy...Planning for a Better
Tomorrow." Or you
Attention
A mem ber of crtigroufST *Tne annual percentage yields (APYs) are in the
same CD;
to
as of 0/00/00 and are suDjecf Jo availability and changes.
interest will be paid semi-annually, monthly, or at maturity.
or per institution (principal and interest
we endeavor
effective
combined)
provide a secondary market so that
in
can
interest
sell their
Minimum
CDs
deposit $1,000. Although
prior to maturity.
ol
$100,000 per deposit
we are
no! required to do so,
The resale price
be less than the principal amount invested. National bank average determined by Bank Rate Monitor, a service mark
Salomon Smith Barney and "SEE
HOW WE EARN
©2000 Salomon
Inc.
Smith Barney
IT."
Member SIPC
are service marks of
can not remain on deposit
FDIC insurance covers a maximum amount
each insurable capacity.
CD twders
APY
Salomon Smith Barney
in
of
such a transaction may
Bank Rate Monitor
For
more
information call:
1-800-337-4144
Inc.
Medicare
also
pays
for
pump & pump supplies
16 The Catholic News & Herald
2000
July 21,
Living the faith
Legal background helps volunteer with social work Because of his dedication, Pastryk
By Alesha M. Price Staff Writer
CHARLOTTE — Imagine yourwho
has been placed into a maze of lawyers, police, social workers and judges because of a less than desirable home environment, marred by drug, sexual or physical abuse or neglect. Then, place yourself into those small shoes, and think of self as a child
would feel if someone would be on your side. That is the the relief you
purpose of the volunteers of the Guardian ad Litem or GAL program sole
—
to serve as a voice for the repre-
sented children.
One
of those voices
is
John
GAL
for nearly a decade. Pastryk, a Pastryk has an inside track on his duties as a GAL. He is senior counsel
for a commercial and private equip-
ment production company, and his knowledge of the law helps him with his cases. "I have worked with 1 1 cases consisting of about 14 boys, who have been either abandoned or ne-
glected by alcoholic parents. Many have suffered physical abuse, and a
number of my cases have involved sexual abuse," explained Pastryk. "Regrettably, because most small
my
cases involve pre-teens and teens, few of the children are eventually adopted. I try to assist the boys until they reach the age of 18."
of
was recognized as the 2000 GAL of the Year for Volunteer Mecklenburg County. "The one overriding ingredient for a volunteer is to have some degree of caring for the children," said
work experience not a prerequisite, the volunteers must go through approximately 30 hours of training to help them with speaking in court on the child's behalf and writing reports. "John is extremely level-
prior legal or social
very capable of advocating what
is
best for these
Pastryk.
The
term
"ad
litem" means
Working for the GAL program
"this
litigation or
only part of Pastryk's volunteer
this
for case,"
and
in
efforts.
other states, is the
GAL
known
He and
his wife Linda
work
with marriage preparation
as a
through their parish,
"Court Ap-
pointed Special
is
St. Gabriel
"There are times as a (guardian ad
ac-
companies the young
litem)
clients into
to
my
Catholic faith helps
me to find
ac-
all
files
gram
God
in
other people," said
At
well,
and
this pro-
least
Working
I
in their lives,"
for the
will
common
can be a
he
said.
GAL program
is
only part of Pastryk's volunteer efforts. He and his wife Linda work with marriage preparation through their parish, St. Gabriel Church. "There are times as a GAL when you see some ugly things," he admitted, "but"
to find
my
Catholic faith helps
God
in
me
other people," said
Pastryk, a recent convert to Catholicism.
fol-
Pastryk said that intervention
is
the key. "If we can get to the children early in their lives, then a whole
his
cases until they close." J- u d
re-
manifest group of problems can be prevented. They are the most innocent of our society, and early involvement can affect their lives pro-
de-
foundly."
Strause, cor-
porate source
from "You get to
them someone who
denominator
who
oughly lows
experience.
gives
listen.
i
companying
when you see some ugly
things," he admitted, "but
and court has access
visor,
a
effective volunteer
know them very
Pastryk for his honor. "He thor-
vocate or CASA." The
GAL
pro-
own
one's
Charlotte super-
is
is
lives that are vastly different
said
GAL
He
has been willing to take cases." Pastryk said that spending time with the kids provides insight into
Lisa Hughes, gram
people.
who
nominated
Church.
Ad-
committed and
headed and can go into any situation and be very objective,"
young
velopment
and
Pastryk....
reports.
Contact Staff Writer Alesha M. Price 370-3354 or e-mail
specialist for
They con-
GAL
the
by calling (704)
program,
duct interviews with the child, family members and others to derive a better understanding of the child's life. Although
said,
amprice@charlottediocese. org.
"John has the ability to work
effectively with teenage boys, a hard
group to work with, and he has been
VOCATIONS Please pray for the following priests who died during the month of August: Rev. Msgr. Felix R. Kelaher
1998
Rev. Henry J. Becker
1992
constantly
Rev. John
1993
fact that
Many people I meet today are not happy and are searching for peace in the craziest ways.
As
the secular world
bombards us with anti-Gospel messages, many see
the Church as unapproachable. They completely miss the
Parsons
F.
only
God has so many we would let Him.
+ ^athen
<
J*UHili(L& in
in
Aeae
=
Aoo e
Your whole family deserves the love Mom and Dad discover on a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend! Marriage Encounter is 44 hours where married and focus on each couples can get away from jobs, kids, chores and phones other. If you'd like greater depth, growth and enrichment in your relationship, you'll like the difference a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend can make! Join millions of couples worldwide who have
—
learned
how
wants to give us if
to become a priest to communicate the joy of Christ a world that doesn know Him and Ifeel the best way to do this is to live a life exemplary ofthe Gospel. I hope to exude Christ's joy and serve as His light for a dark world, a beacon who makes people ask, "What makes that guy so to
in Atoe.
He
I want
Sponsored by the Knights of Columbus
/Heth&n
blessings
't
happy?" Then J.Chapin Engler, Jr. NX/ill be ordained to the Holy Priesthood in the Diocese of Charlotte in 2002.
God has given
I'll
be able to share about all the blessings
me,
incredible graces
and more
He
importantly, about all the
wishes to bestow on them if only they
would let Him. There
is
so
much work
serve the rapidly
to
be done and I'm very excited
to
expanding Charlotte Diocese.
to keep their marriage vibrant and alive.
Aiext /Hawiage.
£nc6Mte* t/Oulmib:
Sept. 8,9,10 Holiday Inn Airport, Charlotte
Call
Tom &
Emilie Sandin
(336) 274-4424 November Weekend: 17th-19th
The
For more information about serving God as a priest in the Diocese of Charlotte, please contact Father John Allen, Office of Vocations, The Roman Catholic Diocese of Charlotte, 1 123 South Church St., Charlotte, NC 28203.
(704) 370-3353 • vocations@charlottediocese.org