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PHILIP OR FLOP RISES TO DIY FAME

PAWS ON THE GO RALEIGH’S PUP PARK SHUTTLE

THE 2025 PET PARADE

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editor’s letter It’s that purrfect time of year when we get to celebrate the unconditional love and joy that our furry (and feathered and scaled!) companions bring into our lives. Thanks to our readers’ willingness to share their beloved pets with us, we are pleased to showcase their good looks and great personalities in our annual Pet Parade. Page through and see for yourself! In August, Wake Living was fortunate to spend a morning trailing the Pup Park Shuttle — an innovative bus-and-play service that takes dogs on adventures to Raleigh spots. Owned by Baden Jaxen, this community-building enterprise is well on its way to becoming a must-have for local pet parents. The bark bus is coming to a street near you! As we enter the time of year when dogs need sweaters for walks and cats are cuddling in closer, we introduce you to Philip Bradford, whose Instagram account Philip or Flop offers DIY home improvement help for over 1 million followers. To date, Philip’s most successful project is the connection and community he’s building. If you’re feeling inspired to make things happen for yourself, we present the perfect opportunity in the form of Halloween. With “Just Boo It,” crafting creepy costumes has never been easier! Bringing together home and pets in spectacular fashion is Vintage Labrador, Suzanne Scire’s vintage showroom of unique and fine-crafted goods for inside and out that’s located in the Five Points neighborhood and is begging for a visit. Raleigh Police Department is gearing up for its annual Shop with a Cop event, featured in Pay It Forward, which brings youth and officers together for a fun experience intended to build bridges and ensure a safer and more supportive community for all. As you flip through this issue, we hope you find inspiration and joy in the four-legged family members we’ve found. Thank you for being a part of our community, and here’s to celebrating the love, laughter, and companionship our pets bring into our lives.

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ARE YOU ON TRACK FOR RETIREMENT? HERE’S WHAT TO DO NEXT The earlier you start saving, the more time your money has to grow. By your late 20s, aim to have at least half to a full year’s salary saved. Key Steps: • Start investing now. • Take advantage of employer-sponsored plans, like a 401(k), especially if there is a match. • Consider opening an IRA (Traditional or Roth) • Set up automatic contributions to make saving eﬀortless.

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It’s time for the buggiest event of the year! BugFest offers over 100 exhibits, hands-on activities, and entomologist and scientist interactions during a day designed to engage and educate the public on arthropods. This year’s event shines a spotlight on krill. Kid-centric activities will inspire, and vendors will offer plenty of arthropod-themed merch to preserve the experience. Saturday, September 20, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences, Raleigh. Free admission. naturalsciences.org/ calendar/event/bugfest-2025

Step right up! The Carolina Circus Festival returns to downtown Cary for the sixth time to promote the culture of circus and support mental health within the movement community. The nonprofit fest, sponsored by sister publication Cary Magazine, features diverse performances from ground aerobatics to aerial displays, fire, and LED shows, all reflecting a Magic and Mystery theme. Hands-on workshops give attendees a chance to pick up circusrelated skills. Saturday, September 13, 3:30–9:30 p.m. Downtown Cary Park. Free admission. carolinacircusfestival.com

Travel the world without leaving Raleigh at The International Festival. Tempt your taste buds with authentic food and desserts from dozens of countries. Shop handcrafted goods, traditional clothing, and cultural items at the vendor bazaar. All-day performances include dance, music, and theater. Saturday, September 20, 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. North Carolina State Fairgrounds. Free admission. theinternationalfestival.org

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Make memories and celebrate the changing of the seasons at the Family Day Fall Festival. Shop vendors, enjoy food truck fare and ice cream, and groove to live music at this family- and pet-friendly fest. Kid-centric activities include games, face painting, and crafts. Thursday, September 11, 4–8 p.m. 3117 Poplarwood Court, Raleigh. Free admission. ncvibes.com/event/fallfamily-festival

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Triangle Oktoberfest is the largest and most authentic German festival in North Carolina, showcasing traditional Bavarian food and more than 50 beers, plus live music by the King Guys Oktoberfest Brass Band. Enjoy wiener dog races, family fun of all kinds in the Kinder Platz zone, a stein hoisting competition, and more. Friday, October 3, 5–10 p.m., and Saturday, October 4, noon to 8 p.m. $20 and up. Koka Booth Amphitheatre, Cary. triangleoktoberfest.org

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Celebrate Italian culture, music, and heritage (and food!) at Festa Italiana! The annual event attracts 15,000 attendees with 60 vendors and food trucks, plus live music all day. The Zona Bambini (children’s zone) offers games, story times, crafts, face painting, and more, while the Galbani Culinary Stage showcases cooking demos packed with expert tips. Saturday, September 20, 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. Hunter Street & Town Hall Campus, Apex. Free Admission. festanc.org

A new bluegrass event is coming to town! Raleigh Wide Open brings six stages with two days of live bluegrass, Americana, gospel, folk and R&B performances from established acts and emerging artists. Tap your toes at nightly street square dances — no experience required. Shop the art market and enjoy food, drinks, and fun for the whole family. Friday, October 3, 3–11 p.m. and Saturday, October 4, noon to 11 p.m. Free admission. Downtown Raleigh. raleighwideopen.com

Endless fall fun awaits at the Falling for Local fest. The Big Field at Dix Park will be buzzing with live music, inflatables, games, hay rides, and even a free pumpkin patch. Sate your appetite with dozens of onsite food trucks, and whet your whistle with North Carolina craft beer. Plus, shop from more than 150 local vendors. Saturday, October 4, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Dix Park, Raleigh. Free admission. shoplocalraleigh.org/slrevents/falling-for-local-dix-park

October means one thing: the NC State Fair. The largest event in the state returns with entertainment, rides, animals, activities, competitions, games, vendors, and scavenger hunts — and, of course, those craveable deep-fried creations. With a mission to promote the state’s agriculture, agribusiness, arts, crafts, and culture, this annual agricultural show, now in its 173rd year, remains a calendar staple. October 16–26. Advance ticket price $10 adult/$5 youth; gate price $13 adult/$7 youth. NC State Fairgrounds, Raleigh. ncagr.gov/ divisions/nc-state-fair/2025-nc-state-fair

North Carolina’s largest celebration of Latin American Culture, La Fiesta Del Pueblo draws 25,000 attendees each fall. Performances showcase music, dance, and storytelling, and educational booths introduce diverse nonprofit and cultural organizations. Food truck fare, artisan vendors, and activities for the whole family await. Sunday, September 21, noon to 6 p.m. Fayetteville Street, downtown Raleigh. Free admission. elpueblo.org/fiesta SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025 21

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Philip or Flop crafts DIY fame WRITTEN BY JOE OVERBY | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

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As an engineer with more than two decades of DIY home improvement experience, Raleigh-area native Philip Bradford is no stranger to building and craftsmanship. And in the last six years, the NC State alumnus and professor has built a social media empire from what started as a hobby. On Instagram, Philip or Flop has attracted more than 1 million followers, as well as advertising partnerships with 115 different companies, including Lowe’s, Ford, Best Buy, LG, General Electric, and Duluth. Dispensing DIY pointers with humor, warmth, and authenticity, Philip takes followers along for the ride as he tackles his own home improvement projects. Projects like a built-in gift-wrapping station, epoxy garage floors, a shade garden, an outdoor kitchen, and a custom coastal laundry closet — just to name a few. And the turning point — when Philip or Flop began to move from hobby to side hustle — was building a backyard playhouse for his daughters. Onward and Upward

After launching the Instagram account “for fun” in 2018, Philip picked up a “few thousand” followers that first year. Then he built an “over-the-top playhouse” with a metal roof, shiplap interior, and a custom kitchen. He documented the construction from start to finish. “People just went crazy for that,” he says. Within a couple months, the account had 50,000 followers, “mostly because of posting content around that playhouse.” That’s when he realized: “Wow, this could be something more than just posting things for fun.” He soon lined up a few small partnerships and leaned more into Instagram’s Stories feature, which allowed for more frequent and efficient video storytelling.

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And during covid, Philip says, “DIY content just kind of went crazy.” Philip or Flop soon grew to a few hundred thousand followers. Then half a million. “And it became a real side business for me at that point,” he says. The Business Side

For the first year, Philip managed his own contracts, which he says was “probably one of the hardest things to do.” He opted to sign with a management company to handle the paperwork side. “They bring partnerships to the table and they review all the contracts for me,” he says. “It saves me a ton of time.” Time he can spend engaging with his followers. While many in his position might have staff to handle such tasks, Philip’s DIY ethos doesn’t just apply to home improvement. “In the early days of Instagram, engaging with like-minded accounts and engaging with your followers was super critical to growing your audience. And I just kind of kept doing that,” he says.

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“In the early days of Instagram, engaging with like-minded accounts and engaging with your followers was super critical to growing your audience. And I just kind of kept doing that.” “It’s still important today. But a lot of times people are posting multiple pieces of content per day. And a lot of people don’t have the time to respond to DMs personally,” Philip says. While other creators rely on AI responses or hired assistants, Philip prefers not to outsource. “I’ve always done it myself because I like the connection,” he says. That connection and personal engagement is a major component to what sets Philip or Flop apart. Philip estimates he has responded to tens of thousands of DMs and post comments in the last six years. With a full-time job as a professor, the Philip or Flop business remains a part-time gig. Philip focuses on quality rather than quantity. “I can spend that couple hours responding to post comments, my thumbs typing as fast as I can for a few hours to respond to as many people as I can,” he says.

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Philip’s 30-second video clips tackle his own home improvement projects, like building shelves in a cabinet.

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Behind the Scenes

Content creation requires planning and precision. A 30-second video post is backed by hours of work on the back end. Philip keeps a calendar that factors in what followers might be interested in as well as what projects need to be done around the house. Before he finishes one DIY, “I am thinking about what my next project is going to be so I can have materials ordered,” he says. Especially with sponsored content, which has to be reviewed by the sponsor, projects are often completed a week or two before he presents them to his followers. Philip finds that the “before” is almost as important as the result, as before-and-after transitions are in high demand with the DIY audience.

One of Philip or Flop’s most popular videos showing the advantages of all-drawer lower cabinets racked up more than 8 million views, 3,000 comments, 366,000 likes, and almost 99,000 shares within the first 24 hours.

photos courtesy of @philip_or_flop on instagram

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And that means taking a lot of video footage. “Once I start the project, I’m typically recording almost everything,” Philip says. “I delete things occasionally, but I think my camera roll has something like 35,000 video clips on it.” A one-minute Reel or TikTok video doesn’t allow for much detail, he says, “so I’ve always used my Instagram Stories to connect with my audience at that deeper DIY level,” including intricate details of the build, the materials, and the stepby-step process. Love the Process

In mid-August, Philip posted a Reel showing how his kitchen design allows him to unload the dishwasher without moving his feet thanks to all-drawer lower cabinets. In less than 24 hours, the post had 8 million views, 366,000 likes, 3,000 comments, and almost 99,000 shares. But that reach doesn’t happen overnight. “It takes a lot more than just recording a one-minute video to grow a large account. It takes time,” he says. “There’s a lot of creation involved. There’s a lot of preparation involved. You really have to love the process.” And after rising to fame, Philip still loves the work itself. “If you love the niche that you’re working in, it helps a lot,” he says. “Don’t try to start out to become an influencer just because you know that there might be some money involved.” Like a home improvement project, it takes precision, planning, and passion. t @philip_or_flop philiporflop.com

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In the spring, bearded irises (Iris germanica) can be real showstoppers with their masses of gorgeous blossoms. However, after a few years of dependable displays, established bearded iris beds often fizzle in the flower power department. What’s wrong? Too little fertilizer? Too dry? Too wet? Try too mature. As with all plants, happy, healthy bearded irises will grow and expand their root bases. This is desirable, of course, but it can lead to overcrowding, which will definitely hinder bloom production. The easiest solution is to simply divide your sputtering beauties. Usually done about every five years or so, it gives you a chance to not only revive your irises, but also share some with gardening friends. And guess what? This month is a good time to do the deed, so roll up those sleeves and get to work! Using a shovel — or, even better, a spading pitchfork — dig up the bed by carefully raising iris rhizomes from their underworld lair, which is usually just below the soil’s surface. Then, wash them and gently pull, or, if necessary, cut apart, being careful not to wreck too many roots. Now, hold out your ring finger and compare it to each rhizome, looking for ones that are about as wide with leaf blades and roots still attached. These have the most potential for strong flower production in the future. Slightly larger rhizomes will also work, but big ol’ chubby ones are usually spent when it comes to delivering maximum flower displays. Rhizomes that are discolored, full of holes, or squishy should be discarded. Before replanting, snip the leaves back to about 6 inches long, and also cut away any lingering flower stalks. Then run off to find a sunny garden spot that has well-draining, heavily amended soil.

Written and photographed by L.A. Jackson

Rhizomes should be planted about a foot apart horizontal to the soil’s surface, and slightly below ground — going deep can ding future flower production. Set the ’zomes on small mounds of prepared dirt and spread their roots downward into the surrounding soil. Since transplanted bearded irises will be working to become established this fall, help them along by watering during any extended dry stretches. Next year will be a transition period, so their bloom show probably won’t be up to typical grand standards, but be patient and you will be rewarded with reinvigorated flower displays in the years to come! t L.A. Jackson is the former editor of Carolina Gardener Magazine. Want to ask L.A. a question about your garden? Contact him by email at lajackson1@gmail.com.

Timely Tip If you had a ton of fun expanding your garden this year, you probably also had a great big ol’ pile of leftover plastic pots from all the newbie plantings. As a responsible gardener, sending them to the landfill is not an option. As a practical — or, in my case, cheap — gardener, saving them for planting projects next year is the way to go. Just soak them in a solution of one part bleach to nine parts water for an hour, wash with a brush or sponge, and then wipe dry. Going these extra steps to clean used containers will help assure they will be free of overwintering fungi, diseases, or bad bug eggs that could spoil your potting garden party next spring! Save leftover pots for planting projects next year.

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• Now is a good time to fill up the veggie patch with such cool-season favorites as carrots, cabbage, broccoli, cauliflower, Swiss chard, collards, kale, lettuce, onions, mustard greens, parsnips, spinach, radishes, and turnips. • Migrating garden-friendly flyers will appreciate it this fall if you keep the bird feeder well stocked and the bird bath regularly filled with fresh water.

• Thinking about morphing your Halloween pumpkin into a Thanksgiving decoration as well? A pumpkin will retain its color and shape longer if the rind is intact — in other words, no carving. Also, an extra 2- to 3-inch bit of stem still attached will help preserve a pumpkin, so keep that in mind while you are hunting at your local pickin’ patch. • If you are still mowing the lawn as autumn leaves begin tumblin’ down, use a bagger attachment to collect clippings of both. This mix of dry and wet organic material is the perfect allnatural fuel to start a compost pile.

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You hear it before you see it — the cacophony of happy howls and boisterous barks coming from the Pup Park Shuttle as it makes its way through Raleigh’s residential streets. And what comes next is sure to wag any tail: The bus pulls to a stop in front of a house, the driver opens the double doors, and the next four-legged passenger comes bursting out from behind their front door and bounding along the walkway to almost trip up the stairs and take their seat. “They’re being teleported to different parks all around the city,” says Pup Park Shuttle founder & CEO Baden Jaxen about his unique shuttle service for dogs. The cheerful bus — with its daily quote whiteboard, faux-grass flooring, and painted murals — picks up pups from their homes and takes them on tail-wagging adventures around the city. “They get to socialize, explore, and burn off energy — all while having a blast!” says Baden about his

rolling playground designed to give dogs the ultimate day out. And former professional basketball player Baden knows something about rolling with things. When he tore his Achilles tendon during the second game of the season, he found inspiration in an unexpected place: a video of a dog bus in Canada. “I was devastated,” he says about successive career-ending injuries, “but I believe everything happens for a reason.” So, while recuperating in Canada, Baden transformed injury into innovation and thought, “Why not bring this concept to North Carolina?” After he returned to Raleigh and a franchise opportunity to operate a dog bus locally fell through, Baden recognized the blessing in disguise. He explains: “It allowed me to be innovative and creative with my own idea that we were able to manifest.” There are busy pet owners everywhere, so daily dog bus adventures offer a practical solution

Pet parent John Patteson readies Bosch to board the bus.

Pup Park Shuttle passengers don't have assigned seating, but care is taken to place them according to temperament (and, in some cases, noise level).

How it works: Reserve online (pupparkshuttle.com) Select home pickup or drop off Your pup enjoys a 5-hour adventure Pup Park Shuttle returns your pup or you pick them up

Pup Park Shuttle employee Kim Robinson — and the pups — greet the newest passenger.

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Baden Jaxen's love of dogs shines through In every interaction.

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Watch out as passengers disembark for their first stop at Carolina Pines Park!

Kim Robinson watches on as Baden Jaxen (with the help of a treat or two) works his magic on the eager pack.

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Weekly Schedule Monday Park play and vanilla Oreo cookies

Tuesday Splash and biscuit

Wednesday Scent adventure and beef jerky

Thursday Trail and ice cream

Friday Park picnic and doggy bag

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The Pup Park Shuttle is unique in that dogs visit multiple locations for an action-packed day of frolicking fun.

As her dogs watch from bus windows, pet parent Holli Draughn waves goodbye.

to the challenge of keeping dogs active and happy — but Pup Park Shuttle’s perks have set the wheels in motion for a truly enriching experience for community canines. So how does Baden’s bus go the extra mile? Unlike with other dog shuttles, pups aren’t just visiting one park. Instead, they are sniffing out 3–4 locations in a single day, which gives them the chance to experience new sights and smells several times over. “It’s not just about exercise,” Baden explains. “It’s about mental stimulation, too.” The shuttle is a game-changer for families juggling work, school, and errands, as it allows them to provide their dogs with the exercise and socialization they crave. “By the time you get home,” Baden says, “your pup has had a full day of fun, and you can relax without worrying about their energy levels.”

The service may be designed with fun in mind, but socialization and safety remain a focus. “We choose parks wisely and keep a close eye on our furry passengers,” says Baden. Plus, all pups must be well-tempered and up to date on vaccinations before hopping on board. There has never been any kind of altercation, and the only time a deer was spotted it was by Baden, who was able to redirect the dogs’ attention. Despite only hitting the streets on November 26, 2024, the Pup Park Shuttle has been warmly embraced. Pet parent Holli Draughn, whose dogs Bella and Birdie enjoy round-trip service a couple times a week, expresses what’s obvious to anyone who has used the Pup Park Shuttle: “Baden’s been great!” Indeed, from the hugs he shares with pet parents at every stop to his Pied Piper ability to lead the dogs

through their various activities, there’s little doubt that Baden is dog’s best friend. And the pup bus isn’t just a hit with dogs — it’s also gaining traction in the community and making a pawsitive impact. “It’s all about building a community of dog lovers,” says Baden, who is “so grateful for the support and the love that we’ve been getting.” There are big plans to collaborate with local businesses, and even the possibility of showcasing the work of local artists as a rolling gallery. With a vision to expand to other cities through his own franchise model, Baden shares that “we’re gonna continue to spread the joy.” “If I were a dog, I’d want to be on this bus, exploring and making new friends,” he says with a laugh. t pupparkshuttle.com SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025

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The Pet Parade They might tip over our trash cans, bark at every car that drives by, and leave fur everywhere, but we couldn’t imagine life without the animal companions that add love and laughter to our homes. Thank you to all the readers who submitted their furry family members for this year’s parade. Give them a belly rub for us!

Mocha Mocha has been with me for 15 years and just turned 16. I saved him from my neglectful roommate during grad school. He’s always by my side, my steady companion. He is the best shadow a gal could ever ask for. Since then he has gained a dad and three brothers and is loved and spoiled. Allison Gilland

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Rocky Rocky is a fun-loving guy who enjoys long naps, homemade food, and belly rubs. Johanna Wilson

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Is perception reality? How else to explain that I’m a little dog, but I insisted my pet parent name me after a big feline? Apparently I smell like flowers and can read, too. But just like with books, never judge an animal by its cover — otherwise you might miss out on some great ones! MG

Cora Cora is a rescue kitty adopted along with her sister, Edith. Cora’s friendly, laid back, and sweet. Her big loves are food and being brushed. She’s a fan of “bird TV” on YouTube and live bird-watching out the windows. Cora likes to supervise everything ... unless it’s time for a nap.

Kobi Kobi is an energetic 8-year-old red merle Australian shepherd who loves to keep her owner company at the barn! She is a personal shadow and is always excited to accompany the horses on a trail ride. When not at the barn, tennis balls are her favorite toy, and she also has fun in the agility ring. Jaime Fordham

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Atlas Atlas is our goofy energetic boxer. He is the best dog and loves everyone he meets. He’s super playful and still behaves like a puppy at 3 years old, but he also loves his naps (and we know when he naps because you can hear his snores all over the house).

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Rucker and Boeing Rucker and Boeing are English Labrador retrievers who are the sweetest pups ever. We call them our App State labs because they are black and yellow. They love people and kids, especially our 3-year-old and 3-month-old granddaughters. They are very bonded to each other. They bring us joy. Stacey Bishop

Macdougall Goldie 15-year-old best dog ever! Jennifer Deatherage

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Piper and Romie We have two Poochins, which are a Japanese Chin and toy poodle mix. They have brought so much joy to our family. We never knew that we needed a dog! Ronna Pernell

Cam Cam has the best personality, charm, and intelligence. He will use his sweet demeanor and big eyes to get love and treats. He is playful and sweet, adventurous and smart.

Moose is the sweetest lil’ cutie pie! You can find him sunbathing, head tilting, chasing lizards, crossing his paws like a proper gentleman, and performing his duties as the local Cheese Tax Collector. His favorite place is snuggled up on his mom’s lap, and she wouldn’t have it any other way! Kori Mulholland

Maura Walter

Dash Dash is a 5-year-old Cavachon (cavalier and bichon mix), and he is the sweetest dog ever! He LOVES playing outside (no matter the weather), trips to the dog park, and car rides with the occasional pup cup. At night, he’ll snuggle up next to us and fall asleep on our legs. Christine Khandelwal

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Raina This is Raina, our lab mix. We adopted her from a shelter after she was abandoned by her previous owner. Her favorite things are squeaky toys, lying in the sun, playing fetch, and chasing (but never catching) bunnies. Wanda Riddel

George George is affectionate — especially when he’s hungry. He loves cuddles, head and belly rubs, and expects company (and scratches) while eating. Mealtimes are social. He wakes at 3 a.m. for breakfast and “helps” at my desk by blocking the screen until he’s fed. Mark Darby

Dolly Parton Dolly is blonde and sassy just like her namesake, Dolly Parton. She loves to sneak up on squirrels, rabbits, and small fish … although they are too fast for her. She greets everyone enthusiastically, including people and other dogs. She is a boat dog who loves to be on the water! Amanda Griffin

Bandit

Molly

Bandit is a fun-loving husky. He enjoys going to the park and playing in his pool.

We rescued Molly 11 years ago, and she is absolutely the best. Sweet disposition.

Emily Jache

Jeannie Marusa

Gracie Gracie is a 6-month-old mini Bernedoodle who is full of sweetness, stubbornness, and sass all in one. She loves treats, her human siblings, and air conditioning. You can find her right by our side at all times in typical Velcro dog fashion! Candra Hill

Koko Koko is one of the sweetest and most endearing dogs known to mankind. Every single person who came in contact with Koko loved her and she loved them back. Koko was playful and engaging when she pranced around with all of her four-legged friends. Sue Gaebel SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025 49

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Leo He has the sweetest nature of any dog I have ever met. He has a way of reducing the stress in my life and offers unconditional love. Everyone should have someone to love them. Maria Flores

Beau

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Beau is a loving, intelligent, wellbehaved cat. He’s pictured here on a chair on my small deck. He stays right on the deck and doesn’t leave it. I rescued Beau from a shelter when he was 8 weeks old. He’s been such a joy! He loves his food, chasing after treats, and relaxing on my deck with me.

We rescued Jimi T from the streets of Los Angeles as a puppy. He had a hard life but now is living the good days with a loving family. He’s lived with us all over the USA — Miami, Chicago, and now his forever home in Cary. He’s a big fan of Star Trek and has his own Captain uniform.

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Luna and Bernie

Tinkerbelle

Milly is a smart, eager-to-please pup who knows every trick in the book. She loves morning cuddles, long walks, and visiting her best pals, Mrs. Zelda and Marvin. Loud noises spook her, but she’s warming up to outings at the Cotton House and Cary Park.

Full of personality, heart, and nonstop energy. Meet Luna and Bernie, inseparable best friends and beloved members of the family. Luna is a 4-year-old brindled beauty who is always on the move chasing her favorite ball. Bernie, a 2-year-old sweet chocolate lab, is inseparable from Luna.

20 pounds of unconditional love. Loyal, very intelligent, obedient, and playful. People are drawn to her looks, personality, and calmness. Very gentle with children and adults. She’s a cuddle bunny and a welcomed visitor at a large known supermarket. Loves to catch frisbee, go fishing, and walks at Bass Lake.

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Jody Butler

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Sanibel Rose (Belle) Belle came into our lives at Christmas ’08 — best gift ever. She’s been a true trooper with no teeth due to periodontal disease, one eye gone to uveitis, and her CKD is in remission. She’s such a sweetnatured kitty who has brought us mostly joy, not to mention a few lizards, these past 16 years. Laura Palka

Justice Justice is our quirky creature. Adopted six years ago from Saving Grace, he enjoys taking long naps in unusual places throughout the house. When looking for him it’s like playing hide and seek! While on walks he meets, greets, and visits with his human and furry friends. Margie Black

Thor Thor is a neighborhood favorite. He especially loves all the children that live close by. He’s never met a stranger, and strangers quickly become friends! Sarah Marco

Dolly Goldie Three-year-old Goldie has been featured in calendars, television, and now located on a billboard in Angier, NC. Friendly, loyal, and affectionate, she has never met a stranger. Born to love. She is the diva of her daycare. Marilyn Slinkman

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A Good Samaritan found a wandering dog and took her to Triangle Beagle Rescue. She was later spayed and treated for heartworms and hookworms, bad teeth, and a belly tumor. Eight-year-old Dolly now lives at the Glenaire Retirement Community in Cary. She fits right in with seniors and other lucky dogs! Jane Bass

JoJo JoJo is a 10-year-old Boston terrier. Shhh, he doesn’t know he not a human. He loves to burrow under blankets and still gets the zoomies from time to time. Such a handsome boy! Nikki Sargent

Mabel This is Mabel ... part poodle, part schnauzer, 100% schnoodle! Mabel was adopted from Freedom Ride Rescue in 2024 and has been the queen of the house ever since. Her favorite things include riding in cars, eating her mama’s homemade dog food, and stealing toys from her little brother.

Mavis Mavis is a Maltese/Yorkie Mix. She is 7 years old and the best company a person could have. She has brought me through a lot of happy and sad times in my life. A great companion! She will sit and give you her paw, and when she needs to go out she will ring the dog bell on the floor. Great dog!

Laura Americo

Carol Davis

Willow We lost our standard poodle last year. He’d slept in my daughter’s room since she was 3 — she was 17 when he passed. We said no more pets … too heartbreaking. But then came Willow: funny, loyal, sassy. We love her and she loves us right back. We believe Whisper sent her. She has helped us heal. Margaret Sheerin-Hamill

Cookie and Oreo Oreo takes care of everyone in our family. She always checks on us and likes to eat at the same time as us under our dining table. Cookie is very sweet and curious. She is always two hops behind Oreo. Both of them jump onto our sofas when they know we aren’t looking and love to binky in the yard. Alexander Felten SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025 53

Wynter

Ginger and Rocky

He has a very “chillaxed” attitude and loves walks and sunbathing. He’s very humanlike and sensitive to strangers and loud noises. But once he warms up to you, he will be your best friend for life!

Wynter believes the world exists to be with her! She loves all people! She loves to snuggle in bed and is unaware of her size. We call her a LAP-rador because that’s where she wants to be. She brings much joy to our neighbors, our youth that come and hang at the house, and our family.

Ginger (bottom) is a sweetheart and loves to play ball and lay in the front yard. She is an angel and a great big sister. Rocky is a spirited young man with a lovely singing voice (he loves to howl at squirrels) and a deep love for snuggles and his family.

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Stephanie Williams

Shannon Cawley

Smokie

Theo Dakota

Milo

Dakota is a rescue dog from South Carolina. She has a lot of spunk and is protective of our house. She is a very loyal dog and loves her walks. She also loves EVERY dog she meets!

Milo is 2.5 years old and is basically one of us! Smart, loving, energetic, and has never met a stranger (human or dog)! He doesn’t bark, unless he’s playing, and when he gets the zoomies it’s a spectacle!

Theo was adopted from SPCA on July 13, 2015. My oldest son (11) went with. They brought two dogs into the room. Theo immediately engaged him and wanted to play. He said, “Dad, let’s get this one. He likes to play!” and so we did. He’s old now, slow and doesn’t play much, but is full of love!

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Vintage Labrador showcases a warehouse of European charm and coastal aesthetics. The store is located in Raleigh’s Five Points neighborhood at 1515 Gavin Street.

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Vintage Labrador is more than just a vintage store. It’s a heartfelt expression of owner Suzanne Scire’s passion for collecting and storytelling. Since opening the doors of Vintage Labrador in 2009, Suzanne has created a space that feels like stepping into a warm, inviting home filled with character and history. Originally from New Jersey, Suzanne made the significant decision to relocate to Raleigh to be closer to her family, particularly her new grandson. “We packed up my business at the Jersey Shore and moved here last year with our two dogs, Stella and Murphy,” she shares. This move allowed her to pursue her dream of owning a shop while maintaining a flexible schedule to visit her children, who have since started their own chapters in Seattle and Raleigh. Suzanne started doing markets in the Raleigh area, but finding her warehouse space in its charming Five Points neighborhood aligned with her vision for Vintage Labrador. The name itself reflects Suzanne’s

love for two of her favorite things: vintage treasures and her beloved dogs, a rescue black lab mix and a chocolate English lab. “The inspiration to open Vintage Labrador was to showcase my passion for collecting vintage pieces and share them in a store,” she explains. The unique vibe of the shop embodies Suzanne’s love of cottage charm and her focus on creating a comfortable and cozy atmosphere. She believes a home comprises both the inside and out, which is why she “brings the outside in” by including garden decor alongside interior pieces, drawing from her beloved experience of working on a flower farm in New Jersey and her passion for the garden. Suzanne’s approach to curating items is simple yet effective: Would I put it in my house? She handpicks vintage furniture, garden decor, architectural salvage, and decorative pieces that feel genuine and timeless and which possess great character. “I believe if you always buy what you like, then things will all go together,” she says. SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025

Vintage Labrador reflects owner Suzanne Scire's love of two things: vintage treasures and her beloved labradors Stella and Murphy.

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Her collection showcases European charm, coastal aesthetics, and an enduring love for a basket, which she describes as “just timeless.” The store, Suzanne shares, is meant to feel like stepping into a collected home — with warm layers and filled with stories — rather than a typical retail space. She sources from a combination of antique markets, estate sales, and trusted dealers up and down the coast, and she enjoys traveling and what she describes as the “thrill of treasure hunting.” In fact, Suzanne admits: “I don’t think I can ever give it up.” At Vintage Labrador, every piece has a story. Suzanne emphasizes the significance of sharing the history behind vintage items, as it creates a connection between the object and the customer. “A person might have a fond memory associated with where a piece came from,” she explains, “making it more appealing to have in their home.” One of her favorite finds, which remains in her own home to this day, is an antique pine seed packet cabinet with unique drawers and custom old glass drawer pulls engraved with the seed names, which serves as a testament to the beauty of vintage craftsmanship. As the vintage market evolves, Suzanne has noticed a strong shift toward sustainability. “People are moving away from mass-produced decor and looking for quality, history, and uniqueness,” she observes. Vintage shopping not only gives new life to existing items but also promotes a sustainable lifestyle by reducing waste and keeping beautiful craftsmanship in circulation, allowing customers to reflect their values in their homes without sacrificing style. With Vintage Labrador, Suzanne aims to create a welcoming corner of the neighborhood. “Raleigh has such a vibrant, creative energy,” she says. “I want to help people see vintage shopping

not just as a trend, but as a meaningful way to decorate with intention, support sustainability, and celebrate craftsmanship.” By offering a curated mix of furniture and finds, she hopes to spark nostalgia and joy in her customers. “I want to become more than just a place where people feel inspired,” she says. Instead, she wants “to remind people of the charm that comes with giving things new life.” As she envisions the future of Vintage Labrador, Suzanne is excited about the prospect of hosting special events and collaborating with local artisans. As for the prospect of expanding her collection and offering even more unique finds, she shares: “I hope to see more travel and treasure hunting overseas.” With Suzanne’s dedication to sustainability and community, Vintage Labrador is poised to become a beloved destination for those seeking something special in Raleigh. “I’m here to build relationships, share stories, and to welcome all Labradors, of course,” she says. In a world of mass production, Vintage Labrador stands as a reminder of the beauty of the past, the importance of sustainability, and the joy of decorating with intention. Whether you’re a seasoned vintage enthusiast or a curious newcomer, Vintage Labrador invites you to explore its treasures and become part of its story. t vintagelabrador.com

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Halloween

is a time for creepin’ it real:

A spook-tastic opportunity to unleash your creativity, showcase your individuality and — if done thoughtfully — a chance to save some cash. For those of us who feel at home with a glue gun and glitter bombs, Halloween is our Super Bowl: our chance to show the world — or at least our Facebook friends — that Martha Stewart’s got nothing on us. But even those who are missing the creative gene can have your crew looking fa-boo-lous, because one mustn’t have a degree from Parsons to pull off a costume contest–winning ensemble. Before you plug in your glue gun, here are some tricks for getting into the spirit this Halloween.

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Been There, Done Bat

photo and sketch by Melissa Wistehuff

Whether you are looking for spooky, funny, or themed costumes, sites like Pinterest and YouTube offer a wealth of ideas for all skill levels and budgets. Scour the web for inspiration, then sketch a plan, along with a list of supplies you’ll need. Give yourself plenty of time! There’s nothing worse than scrambling to throw a masterpiece together at the last minute. Gather supplies: Sharp fabric scissors, a glue gun and/or fabric glue, and a sewing kit for simple stitches are must-haves for your creation. Keep an eye out for accessories and embellishments throughout the year, such as fabric or clothing at yard sales or secondhand stores. Save cardboard boxes, as you never know when you’ll need a sturdy, flat piece for a costume element. Details make all the difference! Add sparkle to your mask or ruffles to your cape. Don’t forget a matching treat bucket! Don't settle for a plastic jack-o’-lantern when you can use it to accessorize. Going as a crazy cat lady? Add your old stash of Beanie Baby cats to a basket. Gourd Vibes Only

Homemade costumes offer unique advantages over store-bought versions. Originality: Your costume will be truly one of a kind, reflecting your personal interests and imagination. Environmental friendliness: Upcycling old clothes and reusing materials helps reduce waste and minimize your environmental impact. Cost-effectiveness: You can save money by repurposing existing materials or finding affordable items at thrift or craft stores. Couple or family bonding: Crafting costumes together can be a fun family activity, creating memories and fostering creativity in children.

PRO TIP Scour the web for inspiration, then sketch a plan, along with a list

Halloween planning begins early in the Wistehuff family. Melissa plans a costume for each family member, starting with a sketch. Above the sketch, her Addams family idea comes to life!

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PRO TIP You can save money by repurposing existing materials or finding affordable items at thrift or craft stores.

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Stay in character:

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Give your costume depth by speaking with a funny voice or using an accent that matches your persona. Eerie-sistable Costume Ideas Beyoncé Cowboy/Cowgirl Carter

Howdy, partner! Saddle up and represent the Beyhive. Search for a cowboy hat and boots, then throw in as many accessories as you can find. Add rhinestones and fringe to your heart’s desire! Love Island Couple

The hit summer show makes for an easy and creative couple’s costume. One person represents Love: Cut out two giant hearts with red construction paper and hot glue shoulder straps. The other represents Island: Dress like a Hula dancer, or take a more literal approach and go as a palm tree. Character Tips & Tricks

With the popularity of the show Wednesday, the Addams Family is the perfect family costume. Each person can choose which character they’d like to represent and take it upon themselves to piece together parts of their costume. This is the ideal time to use trick-or-treat buckets as accessories by having Cousin Itt be a part of your crew.

Stay in character: Give your costume depth by speaking with a funny voice or using an accent that matches your persona. Don’t forget your manners: A simple “thank you” when trick or treating is a must, but feel free to add your own spin if it better fits your guise. Say, “I’ll be back” if you’re dressed as the Terminator, or give a pleasant grunt if you’re Frankenstein. Stick together: Whether you’re taking your kids trick-or-treating or heading to a party, always stay together. Have a safety plan if you get separated. Take pictures: One day, your little ghouls won’t be so willing to get dolled up, so take all the pictures you can, while you can.

Clark Kent

Superman is the hit movie of the year, but wearing tights and a cape isn’t for everyone. Why not go as his alter ego, Clark Kent, instead? Wear a Superman T-shirt under a button-down shirt, exposing the signature S on your chest. Don’t forget the glasses! Find a pair at a thrift shop or dollar store and take out the lenses.

photos by Melissa Wistehuff

The Addams Family

Melissa Wistehuff has been dressing her kids for Halloween since they were babies. While they have outgrown the group themes, they still enjoy dressing up.

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SHOP WITH A COP WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT

Officer Rucker

In a world where misunderstandings and fear can cloud the relationship between law enforcement and youth, the Shop with a Cop initiative shines as a beacon of hope and connection. Established years ago, Raleigh Police Department’s Shop with a Cop program was designed to foster positive relationships between local youth and police officers and create an environment where trust can flourish while spreading the joy of the holiday season. The inception of Shop with a Cop arose from the recognition that many young people view officers with hesitation or apprehension, often due to negative experiences

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or media portrayals. The event provides a relaxed, stress-free opportunity for officers to engage with them, helping to break down misconceptions and build lasting trust. “Our goal is for the kids to realize they can reach out to us whenever they need assistance,” explains Senior Officer J. Thompson. Often, officers interact with them during traumatic situations, such as car accidents or neighborhood incidents. This initiative flips the script by allowing genuine connections to form over shared experiences in a safe and fun setting. Every fall, the program reaches out to various community partners to nominate

participants for Shop with a Cop. This includes school social workers, local police officers, and community organizations. The selection process is inclusive, with no strict criteria beyond participants being between the ages of 6 and 16; nominations can be based on good grades, leadership, or even personal challenges. Ensuring inclusivity is a priority for the program. Senior Officer Thompson emphasizes the importance of reaching out to partners across the city to connect with children from diverse backgrounds. “We want to make sure we’re reaching kids from all walks of life and different neighborhoods,” he explains,

highlighting the program’s commitment to community representation and ensuring “that we’re reaching kids who would benefit from this experience.” The event typically begins with officers, volunteers, and families gathering at a local retail store. After a warm welcome from the police chief, participants are matched with officers for a day of shopping. The atmosphere is filled with laughter and excitement as kids pick out gifts, not just for themselves but often for family members, too. A wrapping station is available for those who want to present their gifts beautifully, and each family receives a gift basket filled with enjoyable activities for a Family Fun Night. For Shop with a Cop, success isn’t measured by statistics. “We measure our success by the smiles on the kids’ faces and the cart full of toys they get to take home!” says Senior Officer Thompson. This simple yet

From left to right: Detective Royster, Officer Wilkins, Officer Rucker, Officer Romero-Reyes, Sergeant Baldy, and Officer Tovar

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profound approach highlights the program’s focus on emotional impact rather than mere numbers — and the joy of the event is palpable. “The kids, and the officers, have a great time!” he continues. In recent years, participation has significantly increased, which demonstrates the community’s positive reception of the program. The impact of Shop with a Cop on participants is profound. It provides kids with a unique opportunity to interact with officers in a non-threatening environment, and many officers report that they enjoy the experience just as much as the kids do. “Officers often use their own money to buy extra gifts for the kids, showing their commitment to the community,” shares Senior Officer Thompson. This initiative also allows officers to unwind — without the pressure of responding to urgent calls — and engage in meaningful conversations with children about their lives,

interests, and aspirations. Senior Officer Thompson explains how bridges are built: “The relaxed setting facilitates discussions that wouldn’t typically happen during regular police interactions.” The success of Shop with a Cop relies heavily on its partnerships with local organizations. Collaborations with school social workers and community groups help identify children who would benefit from the program. “These organizations understand the children and their stories,” says Senior Officer Thompson, “and they refer us to kids who they believe would be a good fit.” Additionally, the Raleigh Police Department’s Families Behind the Badge group (family members of RPD employees who provide support to employees, their families, and the community) plays a crucial role by creating gift baskets for participants. The Raleigh Police Foundation also supports the

initiative by providing financial backing and the resources necessary for its success. While public support is not actively sought, the program benefits from several sponsors who help fund the event. According to Senior Officer Thompson: “Their financial support is crucial to making this event happen.” By creating a space for positive interactions, the program not only builds trust but also cultivates a sense of community. As the initiative continues to grow, it stands as a testament to the power of compassion, understanding, and the belief that together we can create a brighter future for the children of our community. Plans are underway for this year’s Shop with a Cop event, although specific details are still being finalized. Be sure to watch RPD’s social media for the most recent event information.t

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Crisp Air & Clean Closets Transitioning your home for fall BY ERICA DELONG

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Hey, fabulous people! It is that magical time of the year again when the air turns crisp, the leaves morph into a collage of colors, and pumpkin spice dominates everything from lattes to candles. Fall is knocking at our door and bringing more than just apple cider. Before you get all cozy and snuggle into the couch with your favorite throw blanket and a good book, let’s chat about transforming both your home and your closet to embrace this beautiful change of season. I mean, who doesn’t love a good seasonal refresh? So crank up the music, and let’s get organized! First stop: the kiddos’ closets. If yours are anything like mine, they resemble more of a jumbled jungle than a closet. You’ve got sundresses next to snow boots, bathing suits tangled with Halloween costumes, and an army of barely worn sandals. Time to dive in! Start by doing a quick inventory. Pull out everything, and I mean EVERYTHING. Turn it into a fun mission. Put the kiddos to work! Have them try on their clothes to see what still fits and what needs to go. (Ella was cooperative when I told her it’s a fashion show, but I had to bribe Easton.) This is the perfect time for a donation drop. Schools and charities always appreciate the extra help right when the season changes. If it’s in good condition and hasn’t seen the light of day in six months, let it go. Now move on to your own wardrobe. Pack away those swimsuits and tank tops

Friends can help you focus!

Why not get your girlfriends together for a closet clean out party?

and bring forward those cuddly sweaters and boots. How fun to find your “favorite” sweater at the back of the closet! Don’t forget to give everything a little freshening up, too. Air out items you haven’t worn lately or run them through the wash because the mustiness they acquire while tucked away at the top of your closet is no joke. Ever get to work and realize your sweater smells stale? Avoid that embarrassing situation before it happens. And don’t rush yourself! Organizing can take some time if you get overwhelmed by the mess (like me), so block off your calendar and build in the time to step away. You can also call in a friend or hire help to force you to accomplish these tasks. And hey, who doesn’t feel a little lighter and brighter after a good declutter? Your space will feel less crowded and much more breathable. Now it’s time for the rest of the house. A seasonal switch-up isn’t just about what you wear. A few tweaks will shift the whole atmosphere of your home toward a cozy fall vibe. Swap out those summer colors for warmer tones. I adore adding a splash of maroon or mustard to my living space, like a cozy blanket on the couch with mustard yellow throw pillows. And don’t forget a cute pumpkin decoration for the coffee table. Also, support local! I have fallen in love with The Perfect Piece in Cary over the years. It’s a great place to find one-of-a-kind

pieces — both vintage and modern — at decent prices. Candles: light ’em up! Opt for scents like cinnamon, apple, or woodsy aromas to bring a hint of the outdoors inside. Nothing says “welcome, fall” like seasonal aromas wafting through your home. I love the Wood Cabin scent from Keap Candles. Look for candles made with soy, rapeseed, or coconut wax for the healthiest options. Last, let’s spruce up the entrance. Hang a welcoming autumn wreath on your door to greet you with a warm embrace every time you come home. Switch your doormat to something fun and seasonal. It’s little touches like these that invite that cozy fall feeling into your space. I often get a preserved boxwood wreath and add a different color bow or tuck a few seasonal artificial flowers in it so you don’t have to keep changing out the whole wreath. As we speed into this new season, it’s truly about more than just sweaters and hot drinks. It’s about creating a space that feels like a warm hug. It’s about standing still in gratitude for all the beauty fall brings and letting our surroundings reflect that joy and coziness. So, cheers to fall, a cleaner closet, and a home that makes you smile. Grab that warm apple cider (or pumpkin spice), slip into your favorite flannel, hit up the NC State Fair, and let’s embrace the crisp air around us.t Stay connected @EricaDeLong SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025 79

restaurant spotlight

CAPE FEAR SEAFOOD CO. WRITTEN BY DAVID MCCREARY | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

A new restaurant has opened in Cary that definitively fills a void, and people are quickly finding safe harbor there. Cape Fear Seafood Company, which originated in Wilmington back in 2008, is actively angling for diners in the Triangle. The growing full-service concept now has multiple locations in Wake County, with two in Raleigh, one in Wake Forest, and now the latest at MacGregor Square on Lake Pine Drive, which opened in May. “Cary has been on our map for several years, but the right timing didn’t happen until recently,” says franchisee Eddie Elliott, who worked with business partner Matt Wivell to reel in an ideal outpost just off Highway 64 near Costco. While Cape Fear is an award-winning franchise eatery, the new spot is locally owned and operated. “I started at the original location in Wilmington in 2011 as a part-time bartender,” Eddie recalls, adding that visionary founder Evans Trawick gave him an opportunity to help fulfill the company’s mission to transport guests on a coastal culinary journey. Upon entering the Cary space, patrons find themselves

immersed in a buoyant blue-green oasis that conjures a relaxed beach vibe. Walls are adorned with a mix of Wilmington photographer Ned Leary’s serene nautical shots and one-of-a-kind copper sculptures — a sea turtle, an octopus, and a “lucky grouper” — handcrafted by Western NC–based artist R. Hanes Hoffman Jr. When it comes to what emerges from the kitchen, the menu casts a wide net that yields Calabash-style seafood platters, grilled shrimp, beer-battered fish-and-chips, broiled scallops, snow crab legs, and much more. Landlubbers will appreciate choices like a 12-ounce ribeye steak, seared chicken breast, and an Angus beef cheeseburger. “There’s something for everyone here,” says General Manager Jay Niemeyer, a Durham native and seasoned restaurant operations specialist. “We also have the best Calabash seafood you’ll find anywhere outside the beach.” Eddie adds that Cape Fear is unique not just for the extensive bill of fare but additionally for its consumer-friendly prices. To that point, lunch specials are available daily until 4 p.m.

The warm and inviting dining room channels a relaxed coastal motif. Ned Leary’s stunning photography provides touches of tranquility throughout the restaurant.

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Whether you choose an appetizer like the seared ahi tuna or an entree such as the grilled shrimp tacos with mango salsa, your taste buds will not be disappointed.

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The restaurant is easily accessible just off Highway 64 in newly renovated MacGregor Square.

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“We consciously keep in mind the person who wants to come in and get the shrimp basket or the Cedric fried fish sandwich, which are both under $14,” he says. “One guy thinks Cape Fear is where he goes for his wedding anniversary, while another person comes in and dines with us three times a week.” Whenever you visit, start your meal with a first-rate appetizer such as seared ahi tuna served alongside Asian sesame coleslaw; mini lump crab cakes with an emulsified lemon beurre blanc; and Thai chili-tinged sweet and spicy jumbo shrimp. Want some soup? A thyme- and garlic-infused creamy chowder involves clams, bacon, potatoes, and Seafood

Culinary sensei Matt Wivell pushes out some tasty provisions.

You can’t go wrong with the fresh catch, which is served grilled, blackened, or pan-seared and paired with risotto and asparagus.

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Walls are adorned with striking copper sculptures and other sea creatures.

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Magic seasoning; while guest-favorite roasted red pepper and crab bisque comes brimming with backfin lump crab. Both are obtainable by the cup or bowl. Among the standout entrees, don’t ignore the sumptuous shrimp and grits with bacon, mushrooms, and tomato immersed in a Low Country cream sauce and served atop perfectly thick cheese grits. The dish was named one of five “Must-Try Shrimp and Grits in NC” in a 2013 edition of Our State magazine. Also consider diving into the popular saltimbocca (a term that means “jumps in the mouth”) featuring chef ’s choice white fish enveloped in thinly sliced prosciutto and perched on a bed of spinach with mushrooms, tomatoes, goat cheese, and parmesan. The bountiful Whole Boat combo platter overflows with lightly battered fried shrimp, flounder, oysters, clams, and scallops served with hushpuppies, french fries, and coleslaw. Can’t-go-wrong desserts range from classic crème brûlée and an espresso brownie sundae to a legit key lime pie and blueberry cobbler served à la mode, which pays homage to an Evans family recipe. Customers seem grateful for the new Cape Fear and its proximity to Apex, Holly Springs, and the surrounding area. Cary resident Alan Lawton and his wife, Donna, came in for dinner recently and ordered crab legs and grilled shrimp, respectively. “We both thoroughly enjoyed our meals,” Alan says. “Both portions were generous, and the seasoning and cooking were done to perfection.” A stellar Sunday brunch runs from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. weekly, churning out offerings like biscuits and gravy with lump crabmeat; a Low Country breakfast bowl with blackened jumbo shrimp, sunny-side-up eggs, andouille sausage, and fingerling potatoes; and the goat cheese frittata — a fusion of goat cheese, eggs, spinach, mushroom, onions, roasted tomatoes, asparagus, and red peppers served in a cast-iron skillet. (Editorial plea to the powers that be: Please add a Saturday brunch option soon.)

Desserts like blueberry cobbler are a great way to finish off your meal.

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TOP: You'll find bursts of flavor in every bite at Cape Fear, known for the quality, variety, and value of its cuisine. BOTTOM: Even the light fixtures are inspired by elements from the sea.

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Craft cocktails like this Burnt Orange Old Fashioned pair nicely with the cuisine.

As for drinks, the wine list showcases whites and reds from Argentina, California, France, Italy, and New Zealand available by the glass or bottle. You’ll find half a dozen beers on draft, most originating in North Carolina. “Sunday through Thursday we offer drink specials,” Eddie says. “We also have an accessible full-service bar with quality craft cocktails.” Service at Cape Fear is noticeably warm and welcoming. What’s more, it feels authentic. “Southern hospitality is a core value for us,” Jay says. “We hire genuinely friendly team members who enjoy working together and treat our guests well.” One other meaningful factor makes the restaurant stand apart: a heartwarming charitable component. In 2014, Cape Fear founders Evans and Nikki Trawick’s daughter, Ande, was born with a severe congenital heart defect. After enduring three open-heart surgeries and spending extensive time in the hospital, Ande ultimately recovered and today lives a vibrant, healthy life. Four years after Ande’s birth, her parents partnered with Duke Children’s Hospital in Durham and established The Trawick Pediatric Cardiology Research Fund to advance cardiac treatment for children like their daughter. Nowadays $1 from each sale of Cape Fear’s Surf and Turf Chimichurri appetizer — Ande’s favorite — goes toward the research fund. Since 2018, more than $246,000 has been raised for this worthy cause. Cape Fear Seafood Company is open seven days a week for lunch and dinner (including the aforementioned Sunday brunch). Reservations are recommended. t capefearseafoodcompany.com The sweet & spicy shrimp tossed in a Thai chili sauce is a must-try starter.

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The Old Wonderland from Broadsides & Brews

Step into the Mad Hatter’s tea party with this cocktail that combines the whimsy of Alice in Wonderland and the essence of an Old Fashioned.

2 ounces Conniption barrel aged gin 2 dashes Crude Sycophant orange and fig bitters Earl Grey simple syrup Combine gin and bitters in a mixing glass with Earl Grey simple syrup to taste (a bar spoon to 1 ounce). Add ice. Stir 10 times and pour over a large ice cube. Express an orange peel over the top. For Earl Grey simple syrup, combine equal parts white sugar and brewed Earl Grey tea. Broadsides & Brews is a piano lounge, community living room, book shop, and so much more. broadsidesandbrews.com

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FO{U}R FRIENDS from Norse Brewing Company What’s in a name? Everything! Four friends form the backbone of Norse Brewing Company: owners Chris and Jenni Jorgensen and their longtime neighbors Brad and Lynn Wynn. After a lively night of drinks, the brewery was born. When it came time to name this IPA, the reasoning was simple: “It’s for our friends to drink.”

that are literally set in stone outside the Wake Forest brewpub. Whether you stop in to play board games or a round of trivia, grab a Viking burger, or just relax with a few pints: “When you step into our building, you’re part of the Norse family.” norsebrewingco.com

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Viking culture centers around “family, gatherings, and taking care of your people,” Chris says — values

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happenings Gipson Play Plaza PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN

Relief from the summer heat is just a walk in the park at Raleigh’s new Gipson Play Plaza at Dix Park. The 18.5-acre adventure playground features a watermill mountain play area, a sand bowl, an interactive waterfall wall and splash pad, as well as slides, sand, rope bridges, porches, and shaded picnic areas.

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happenings The Town of Wake Forest appointed

Thomasina Colbert as the new Director of the Wake Forest Center for Active Aging (WFCAA). She will guide the strategic direction of the WFCAA, advancing its mission to enhance the lives of older adults in the Wake Forest community through meaningful, wellness-focused experiences. “I come from a creative and faith-rooted background that continues to inform how I lead, serve, and live,” Thomasina says.

The Left Hook Coffee

Thomasina brings over 16 years of leadership experience in federal and local

held a Kickstarter Launch Party at

government, nonprofit organizations, and educational institutions. She holds a Bachelor

Raleigh’s Wolfe & Porter on June

of Arts and Master of Business Administration from American Intercontinental University

28 to support its goal of opening a

as well as a Bachelor of Arts in Fashion Marketing from American College of London and

brick-and-mortar café. The company

an Associate of Arts in Fashion Marketing from Brooks College. Most recently, she served

was founded in Orlando in 2021 with

as a director at the Durham Center for Senior Life.

a small secondhand coffee roaster. It moved to Raleigh in 2022 and built a following through pop-ups and wholesale partnerships, then opened a coffee counter on Morgan Street in early 2024. The Kickstarter party featured live music, karaoke, oysters, and an open-fire cooking experience with chef Marc Russell. “This party is our way of saying thank you to the community that’s supported us since day one,” says The Left Hook Coffee founder Kristin Kulik. “We’re excited to keep growing in Raleigh — and we want to celebrate that with great coffee, great food, and great people.” Crowdfunding efforts were a success, and the new café inside the current roastery space, the former Hargett Street Laundromat in East Raleigh, will open this fall. thelefthookcoffee.com

Join the Town of Wake Forest for Good Neighbor Day on Sept. 20 from 1–4 p.m. at E. Carroll Joyner Park. Founded in 2006, the annual event features recreational activities for children and adults, food, music, and more fun. Good Neighbor Day brings together diverse community members to support the town’s vision of “building a community populated by diverse groups whose common bond is a love of our town.” One resident will be presented with the Good Neighbor of the Year Award, reflecting an unfailing commitment to preserving, maintaining, and improving the quality of life in their neighborhood and community. SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025 95

happenings Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Triangle will host a 25th anniversary celebration on Sept. 26 from 6–11 p.m. at The Umstead in Cary. The black-tie-optional evening will honor the past, celebrate the present, and pave the way toward a future where every child is empowered to achieve their fullest Raleigh nonprofit A’s for Kids hosted its fifth annual Backpack Giveaway on Aug. 24. The organization handed out more than 700 backpacks to local children, plus free

potential – one mentorship at a time. The event will include a raffle, dinner, and live and silent auctions. bigstri.org

haircuts, hot dogs, cotton candy, games, raffles, and other giveaways.

Barrio Tacos held a grand opening party for its new location in downtown Raleigh’s Smoky Hollow on Aug. 22 — the first location in North Carolina. Founded in Ohio in 2012, Barrio has been ranked among the top taco stands in the United States. The brand is known for its build-your-own tacos and expansive tequila and whiskey offerings. The first 50 people in line at the opening event received a year of free queso.

Coastal Credit Union debuted a reimagined company headquarters in Raleigh in July designed to foster flexibility and employee well-being, as well as accommodate hybrid work environments. Individual spaces include reservable or assigned workstations, private offices, focus rooms, and wellness rooms. Collaborative spaces include meeting rooms in a variety of sizes, huddle rooms, open collaboration areas, social hubs, and training rooms. Employees are encouraged to move around the building and use the spaces and resources that best fit the tasks they need to complete. The 2 ½-year project has added new life to the six-story, 135,000-square-foot building. New features and amenities include a twostory outdoor social and collaborative space, an onsite coffee bar, electric vehicle charging stations, and inclusive restrooms. The building also includes a new credit union branch for Coastal members, and the new Bill Smith Board 96 WAKELIVING

Room is named in memory of Coastal’s longest-serving board member. coastal24.com

Five Reasons to Visit a Contemporary Dentist DISCOVER HOW TODAY’S DENTAL PRACTICES COMBINE TECHNOLOGY, COMFORT, AND COMPREHENSIVE CARE TO TRANSFORM YOUR ORAL HEALTH EXPERIENCE. CONTRIBUTED BY DR. EDMOND SUH, D.D.S.

In the past, visiting the dentist often meant outdated waiting rooms, uncomfortable procedures, and a generally stressful experience. Today, however, contemporary dental offices have evolved into high-tech, patient-centered environments that prioritize both health and comfort. Whether you’re overdue for a checkup or considering cosmetic improvements, here are five compelling reasons to schedule a visit with a contemporary dental office. 1. Advanced Diagnostics

Contemporary dental offices are equipped with cutting-edge tools that significantly improve the accuracy of diagnoses and the effectiveness of treatments. Digital X-rays, for example, offer clearer images with less radiation than traditional film. Intraoral cameras give both dentists and patients a real-time view of the mouth, allowing for better communication and transparency. In fact, at Supremia Dentistry in Wake Forest, their team recently completed masterlevel training with intraoral scanners. These modern dental imaging devices capture 3D digital impressions of a patient’s mouth, offering a modern alternative to the traditional methods of creating dental impressions using uncomfortable and messy dental putty. Supremia also utilizes AI technology, serving as a real-time, third-party aid to help diagnose your overall oral health.

goal is not just to fix problems, but to prevent them — saving you time, money, and potential discomfort down the line. 3. Comfort-Focused Amenities to Reduce Anxiety

Dental anxiety affects millions of people, but today’s dental offices are designed to minimize stress and create a calming environment. You might find amenities such as noise-canceling headphones, TVs streaming movies, warm blankets, and even aromatherapy. Some practices also offer sedation dentistry for more invasive procedures or patients with severe dental phobia. 4. Comprehensive Services in One Location

Contemporary dental practices often offer a full range of services under one roof. From general dentistry and orthodontics to cosmetic procedures like teeth whitening and veneers, patients can receive complete care without being referred to multiple specialists. This integrated approach not only saves time, but also ensures all aspects of your dental and facial health are considered holistically.

5. Aesthetic Dentistry for a Confident Smile

Modern dentists understand oral health goes hand in hand with self-confidence. Cosmetic dentistry is now more accessible and effective than ever. Clear aligners, dental implants, veneers, and professional whitening can dramatically enhance your smile’s appearance while still maintaining function and health. Thanks to advancements in materials and techniques, these treatments are now faster, less invasive, and more natural-looking. If your dentist isn’t operating at a state-of-the-art level, make an appointment with Supremia. They continuously keep up with the latest technologies and techniques to make sure you get the best personalized care available. Edmond W. Suh, D.D.S., is the owner of Supremia Dentistry in Wake Forest. He is an international lecturer on advanced esthetic dental procedures, and leads an award-winning team that has completed extensive training and continuing education to implement the latest technologies and techniques. For more information or to make an appointment, call (919) 556-6200 or visit supremiadentistry.com.

2. Preventive Care Is a Top Priority

Modern dentistry emphasizes prevention as the cornerstone of long-term oral health. Cleanings and checkups now go beyond surface-level evaluations. With the help of diagnostic technology, dentists can detect early signs of gum disease, cavities, and even oral cancer before they become serious. The SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2025 97

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