Activity
#03
Positive and negative acts:
constructive or destructive behaviours
This activity will help you to identify the positive and negative elements in your relationship. In every relationship, both partners will act in ways in that can be positive (or constructive) for their family and also in ways that are negative (or destructive). During this activity you will think through the moments when you act in these ways - both as an individual and as a partnership.
How to use this tool Cut out the behaviour cards and decide whether they fall within positive or negative behaviours - place them in two piles [positive and negative] Think about whether you recognise the behaviour in yourself, in your partner and in your relationship Share your responses with your partner - and ask them to share their responses with you. Look at the areas where you agree and the areas where you disagree.
Use this knowledge to consider what actions you need to take - both individually and jointly.
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