Manor Living Magazine Volume 42, No. 3 by Billy Mcglone

Volume 42, No. 3

A Community of Life and Living! A Publication of Magnolia Manor Senior Living

“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well” Ralph Waldo Emerson Businessman, community leader, supporter, friend, southern gentleman…just a few of the words used to describe Mr. Jimmie Buchanan, as we shared the news of his passing with his fellow Magnolia Manor trustees, senior leaders, and administrators. In a recent issue of the Manor Living Magazine, Volume 38 Issue #4, we spotlighted Mr. Jimmie and what he meant to the people around here. Now he is gone.

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OFFICERS AND MEMBERS OF THE BOARD OF TRUSTEES 2021

Active Trustees Mr. Russ Carreker Mr. Ed Collier Mrs. Ann Harris Mr. Mark Johnson Mr. Will Peterson, IV Mr. Charles Pryor Mr. Chuck Reeves Mr. Charles Ray Sheffield Mr. Ty Turner Mrs. Edie Vinson Mr. Hal Weathers Mrs. Jean Wheeler Mr. George Youmans, Jr. Executive Committee Chairman–Mr. Mark Johnson Vice Chairman–Mr. Chuck Reeves Secretary–Mrs. Jean Wheeler Emeritus Members Rev. J. William Dupree Ex-Officio Members Bishop Lawson Bryan Resident Bishop, South Georgia Conference Rev. Paula Lewis South Central District Superintendent Rev. Steve Patton Northwest District Superintendent Rev. Doreen Smalls Southwest District Superintendent Rev. Craig Hutto North Central District Superintendent Rev. David Thompson Coastal District Superintendent Rev. Stephen Grantham Northeast District Superintendent

Robert Weems, Editor Director of Communications rweems@magnoliamanor.com

229-924-9352 ext.4098 Christian Tyson, Editor

Communications Coordinator ctyson@magnoliamanor.com 2001 South Lee Street Americus, GA 31709

229-931-5970

For more than 58 years, James Rodgers Buchanan, Jr., affectionately known to everyone at Magnolia Manor simply as “Mr. Jimmie,” served as a leader for Magnolia Manor. First appointed as a volunteer treasurer of the Board of Trustees on November 26, 1962 and then as a full Board of Trustee Member until his death on May 24, 2021, he dedicated 59 years of active service to Magnolia Manor. He served as Chairman of the Board of Trustees from June 2003 until April 2011. Always a supporter, he could often be seen at the Clark W. Duncan Wellness Center on the Americus Campus exercising and visiting, stopping in for a visit with residents at the Americus Retirement and Nursing Center, or stopping in the Administrative offices to catch up with me and other leaders at Magnolia Manor. Mr. Buchanan was one of the biggest supporters in my career with Magnolia Manor. At a very young age, he gave me his vote of confidence to be installed as only the third person to take the leadership helm in Magnolia Manor’s 60-year history. He often stopped at my office to “catch up” but more to encourage me and offer me the benefit of his leadership experience and wisdom. I will always be grateful to him for his unwavering support, his leadership, and most importantly, his friendship. The loss of Mr. Buchanan has left a void at Magnolia Manor that will be felt across the organization. He had a profound impact on the history of Magnolia Manor as well as in my life personally, and he will be missed. Under his leadership, Magnolia Manor grew from nothing but an idea about how to serve people as they began to age to an organization that now typically serves over 1,300 seniors daily across South Georgia. He helped lead Magnolia Manor through hard times as well as celebrated good times. He always kept a watchful eye on the financial stability of this organization that he loved. It was important to him that Magnolia Manor be here many years into the future to continue providing care to those entrusted to our care, and he worked hard to ensure that would happen. A tireless advocate, it was not uncommon to answer our office phone with Mr. Buchanan on the other end of the line reaching out to see how Magnolia Manor could help a local community member who needed our services. His generous support to the charitable arm of Magnolia Manor, The League of the Good Samaritan, quietly provided for those who had outlived their financial means and served as an example to others. He was never shy about suggesting that someone send their support to Magnolia Manor. In June 2003, while serving as Vice-Chairman, Mr. Buchanan was called on to fill the role as Chairman of the Board after the unexpected death of then Chairman, Justice Thomas O. Marshall, Jr. He humbly stepped into the role and went on to serve as Chairman of the Magnolia Manor Board of Trustees until April 2011, when he decided it was time to “let someone younger take the job.” Mr. Buchanan continued to serve an additional 10 years after his Chairmanship as an active and involved trustee. In 2009, it was our honor to present him with the Thomas O. Marshall, Jr. League of the Good Samaritan Award. This award was established to recognize individuals who exemplify the parable of the Good Samaritan by their compassion for those in need without thought and need for recognition or acknowledgment. Mr. Buchanan certainly exemplified all of these qualities in his long service to his community, his church, and Magnolia Manor. It was never about recognition or awards to him, but always about service to others. It was our privilege to be the benefactor of his support and his presence on our campus, in our community, throughout our organization and he will be deeply missed. He left an eternal legacy of distinguished service at Magnolia Manor and it was my honor to call him a friend. Mr. Buchanan lived well. His life made a difference to others.

Mark R. Todd President & CEO Cover – Resident Lillyan Wilson with Granddaughters Robin Hall and Amanda Ball

Sometimes we have to look back to understand how to move forward. I think this is the most accurate way to explain what occurred at the Gardner family reunion that I attended in Rome, GA, on June 18th and 19th. We were celebrating my Aunt Dot and Uncle Bill’s 80th birthday; and yes, they are twins. My mom would describe them as “the youngest, cutest, most adorable, never-do anything-wrong twins.” By what I understand and have been told, my mother was very mischievous and always wanted to laugh and have a good time. Her older brother, Milton, was the leader and always in control. We enjoyed many laughs, reminiscing as we sat around and shared stories with all of the children, aunts, uncles, cousins and in-laws. Our family is much larger now, and it is hard to get everyone together. But, this weekend was truly exceptional and magical. I can remember the special times at Thanksgiving and Christmas when we would all gather at our grandparents’ house. We had so much fun and learned a lot from the wisdom that was shared. My grandparents placed great emphasis on maintaining strong relationships, which served as an example to us. Because of their influence, our relationships have remained strong even during the test of times and distance. I am so thankful for my family and the influence they have had on my life. No matter who we are and where we are in life, we all have influence to share. Influence is simply the ability to affect change in someone’s life. I’ve been blessed with great influencers throughout my life. I am so grateful for my wife, children, parents, grandparents, coaches, teachers, preachers, bosses, employers, co-workers, and especially friends who have impacted my life at different times and in different ways on my journey. You see, good influencers aren’t simply so called leaders or people who are in power. More importantly, good influencers are people who are willing to invest in someone, spend time with them, and watch them grow. Influence can look different for each person, but it is about using the gifts, skills, time, effort, and energy that the Lord has blessed us with to change someone’s life for the better. One of the keepsakes from our reunion was a letter that my grandmother, Kathleen Gardner, had written about her father. The excerpt reads, “Father’s life taught me that only one thing really matters…human relationships. Bonds that unite families and friends are not forged for a little while but for eternity. People…that is what life is all about!” As I look back, I know I can’t go back to my childhood. But, I can bring the wisdom, love, knowledge, and memories with me as I look forward with anticipation and a chance to influence someone along life’s path.

Senior Management

Mark R. Todd President and CEO Hill V. Fort Sr. Vice President for Operations

Scott D. Adkins CPA., Sr. Vice President for Finance

Diane R. Harrison Sr. Vice President for Human Resources

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Americus Resident Lillyan Wilson with Granddaughters Robin Hall and Amanda Ball

MISSION We serve all through love and support for a lifetime Grandparents Day is the first Sunday after Labor Day each year. It’s the day we’ve set aside to honor those who came before us to lead as examples for the generations behind us. Grandparents are special. Grandparent is a title that shouldn’t be taken lightly. Those who wear it with pride and dignity are to be celebrated. We had the opportunity to speak with one of our residents who enjoys her role as a grandmother. Lillyan Wilson is a resident at our Americus Retirement Center. This year, she celebrated 100 years of life, and the gift she’s most grateful for is her family. Lillyan has two sons, Carlton and Lloyd, whom she loves dearly. She’s been blessed with four grandchildren and several great grandchildren.

“Being a grandmother is a lovely situation, especially if you have grandchildren like mine! I’m very happy being a grandmother,” Lillyan shared. Born and raised in Chambers County, Alabama, Lillyan learned what she knows about grandparenting from her own grandmother. Unfortunately, her Grandfather passed away before she could meet him. But she has fond memories of her Grandmother. Lillyan’s grandmother carried on her

husband’s legacy by managing the family farm. Tending to crops and animals was hard work, but Grandmother always made time for her grandchildren. Lillyan remembers spending a week during each summer vacation with her Grandmother. In the days that predate nationwide access to electricity, there was no air conditioning to provide relief from the heat. But Grandmother didn’t let that stop her. She made waffles for each of her five grandchildren, demonstrating a love that Lillyan will always cherish.

“She worked on the farm during the day. And in the Alabama summer heat, she would make those waffles. That certainly was true love,” stated Lillyan. Lillyan passed down those same traditions and lessons to her own grandchildren. She and her late husband C. C. Wilson hosted many sleepovers for their grandchildren when they were growing up. Two of her granddaughters, Amanda Ball and Robin Hall, remember spending holidays with their grandparents. Nanny’s pancakes were made special with love in the shape of Mickey Mouse. Nanny was also the reigning Scrabble champion.

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Scrabble® Legend and Americus Resident Lillyan Wilson

from Athens College. Her home was always the place where books and words were available to explore. We played Scrabble a lot growing up,” shared Amanda. This Scrabble legend hasn’t put away the pieces just yet. Lilliyan and her great grandchildren enjoy an occasional game when they can. What’s even more interesting is that she still has the same exact Scrabble set that she’s had since she was a child. Lillyan is quite resourceful, another trait her grandchildren appreciate.

“Nanny doesn’t waste anything. She practiced eco-friendly methods long before there was an Earth Day. She used paper sacks for trash bags and recycled old containers to store things. She even had a compost pile,” explained Robin. Lillyan credits her resourcefulness to her childhood growing up during the Great Depression era. With not much money around, she and her family learned to make the most of what they had. She learned the value of hard work as she helped maintain the family farm. She

recalls that Saturdays were chicken house cleaning days. Although those were hard times, she’s come to appreciate what she’s learned from those experiences. Now she shares those same stories with her grandchildren. Not only has she passed these values down to her grandchildren, she also utilized them when she had to make a life-changing decision. After her husband passed away, Lillyan found herself alone at their home in the countryside. Most of her close family members were in Georgia and other parts of the country. Lillyan knew that she would have to make a decision soon.

“After he died, there was no one even within a hollering distance from where I lived. I was alone and getting older, so I thought that it was a practical idea for me to get closer to somebody that cared. I moved a good distance to get closer to family members like these two girls,” Lillyan shared. In October of 2012, Lillyan packed up her things and made the move to Magnolia Manor in

Americus. Packing up 50 years of memories and keepsakes wasn’t easy, but Lillyan did what she does best - she made the best of it. Instead of getting upset about the idea of parting with her things, she took the opportunity to be generous. She gave some of her valuable items to her grandchildren and donated other items to those in need.

“Nanny is very generous and has a true servant’s heart. She and my Granddaddy were very active members in their church. She still takes the time to type birthday cards with her typewriter and send them to each of her grandchildren. She’s always giving of her time and service to others. Before she came to Magnolia Manor, she played the piano for residents at a local nursing home in Alabama,” explained Robin. Lillyan continues to show her generosity as a resident at Magnolia Manor. She plays the piano from time to time for different occasions. If Lillyan has something that is of no use to her, you can count on her to offer it to someone

who might need it. Inspired by her favorite Bible verse, Romans 8:28, Lillyan lives her life with true determination, faith, and resilience. Her methods have worked well for her so far.

“Moving to Magnolia Manor was a very thoughtful, prayerful means for me. I really like the feeling of security that I get from living here,” shared Lillyan. We’re glad to have residents like Lillyan Wilson, who pass down love and wisdom for generations to come. Help us celebrate her and other grandparents like her who spend each day nurturing the future. If you’d like to show your support or make a donation in honor of your grandparent, please visit https://www. magnoliamanor.com/donate/. You can also contact our Director of Annual Giving, Kendall Stephens, at 229.931.5928 or kstephens@magnolimanor.com. We appreciate each and every grandparent and wish you all a happy Grandparents Day!

Americus Resident Lillyan Wilson with Granddaughters Robin Hall and Amanda Ball

Magnolia Manor South Resident, Ms. Lois Sinclair

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Dedicated staff at Magnolia Manor’s Nursing Center of Americus

VISION

Our communities are about life and living... Moving into a senior living

continued the family tradition.

community can be daunting.

Apart from raising her children,

First, there’s the process of

she worked at the local bank as

looking for and selecting

a bank teller while her husband

the correct senior living

worked as a chemical operator

community for you. Next, you

at Merck & Co. Working at the

have to make arrangements to

bank allowed her to become

sell your home and downsize.

well-acquainted with the

Then, you have to undergo the

people in the community. She

actual move-in process. Having

even remembers hearing about

an understanding team of

Magnolia Manor from people

professionals available to help

who lived there.

you through it all is essential. For Lois Sinclair, moving into Magnolia Manor South in Moultrie went a lot smoother than she expected.

“When I came in, all of

“When I was working at the bank, I got a taste of Magnolia Manor because I had several customers who lived there. I would come to visit them to tell them how much we

the employees greeted

appreciated their business and

me and made me feel very

I always left a gift,” shared Lois.

comfortable. I couldn’t ask for

“I got the opportunity to see

any better. Cappy Cross, the

how loving and caring the staff

Resident Sales Coordinator,

was with the residents.”

was so helpful everytime we talked to her,” stated Lois. Lois grew up in Moultrie

In 2006, Lois retired from the bank as the Assistant Vice President, but she continued

with five siblings. It was a

to hear good things about

family tradition for them to

Magnolia Manor. After her

spend holidays and birthdays

husband passed away, she

together. When she got

realized she would eventually

married and had a son and

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living communities. At first, her children

friendly welcome from the staff, Lois really

were concerned and wanted to know if she

liked the layout of the apartments. Each

was sure about moving into a senior living

apartment at the Moultrie campus comes

community. Lois reassured them that she

equipped with one or two bedrooms, a

was ready.

kitchenette, living room, dining area, private

“I wanted to be able to make my own

bathroom, walk-in closet, and a porch or

decision instead of my children having to

balcony. The kitchenette and patio were two

make the decision for me. They agreed

of the features that helped Lois make the

and we started looking at senior living

decision to make Magnolia Manor her home.

communities,” stated Lois. “I was almost

Without any further thought, she moved

certain about moving to Magnolia Manor,

in on a Friday in March of 2020. Her family

but I looked at other places to be sure.”

helped her get settled the following Monday.

Lois and her children scheduled a tour of the Moultrie campus. In addition to the

“I love my sunroom. I bought some new blinds to go in there. I used my patio

Magnolia Manor South Resident, Ms. Lois Sinclair

furniture from my house, and I have plants out there. It’s just beautiful!” exclaimed Lois. Her apartment offers plenty of space for

make a full commitment to her new life.

“The transition from a home to an apartment was hard. It’s a big change. But

her grandchildren to be comfortable during

I made up my mind that I would do it, and

a visit. When she needs assistance, the

I’ve been so pleased with my new home. It

staff are just a call away. Even though she

couldn’t be better. If anyone tried to run me

isn’t able to physically attend the local high

off, they’d have a hard time,” said Lois.

school football games, Lois makes sure she

Lois doesn’t have to worry about anyone

has her TV set up and ready to go in time

at Magnolia Manor running her off anytime

for each game. She enjoys cheering for

soon or ever for that matter. We love our

her favorite football player on the Colquitt

residents at Magnolia Manor! If you’d like

County High School team. It just so happens

to keep up with the residents or find out

that he’s also her grandson.

how you can help us continue improving

Although the transition to senior living

the quality of life, please follow us on social

hasn’t been easy for her, Lois has remained

media or visit our website at

optimistic and hopeful. She was reluctant to

www.magnoliamanor.com. Thank you

sell her home, but decided it was better to

for your support!

Rev. Nancylee Cater, Chaplain at Magnolia Manor of Macon

VALUES

Commitment to our faith tradition At Magnolia Manor, we offer a Chaplaincy Program that provides spiritual care to residents and staff from all faiths and religious backgrounds. Through this program, each campus has access to a chaplain, which allows us to remain committed to our faith tradition. All of our chaplains have played a large role in improving the quality of life at Magnolia Manor. Chaplain Nancylee Cater is making quite the impact in spiritual care for the residents and staff at our Macon campus. Originally from South Carolina, Nancylee moved to Atlanta, Georgia to attend college. She became a member of St. Mark United Methodist Church, where she met Thomas Jere Cater. They dated for three years and got married after graduating from college. The couple settled in Jere’s home town, Warner Robins, GA where they raised two sons, Thomas Jr. and John Owen. In between caring for her family and serving at their church, Nancylee worked as a social worker. She then became the Executive Director of a homeless ministry. After seven years, her time at the homeless ministry came to an end. But her ministry didn’t stop there.

Nancylee joined a Bible study at her church. This experience enhanced her love for learning about the Bible and teaching it to others. Eager to learn more, she began researching outside sources that would help her understand the Bible better. But there was one major concern. Nancylee wanted to be sure that she was using trustworthy sources. The only way she could be sure of that, was to attend seminary.

“I made up my mind that I would never return to school, because I had difficulties while in college. But God has a sense of humor. Every time I decided I wouldn’t do something, He took a brick out of my wall to give me a peek at what He wanted me to do,” shared Nancylee. With this new realization, Nancylee got to work looking for a seminary school to attend. To her surprise, she was granted financial aid to attend Chandler at Emory in Atlanta. In addition to financial aid, Nancylee received scholarships that covered any remaining costs, allowing her to attend school with all expenses paid.

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without the financial assistance. God opened doors along the way and made it possible,” explained Nancylee.

that pastoring was for me,” shared Nancylee.

With support from her husband and children, Nancylee went back to school. Although it was a long commute, Nancylee felt that it was worth it. It allowed her to see her life from a new perspective.

three years there before moving on to serve

“While I was in seminary, God showed to me through various avenues He was calling me to be a pastor. I thought I would be a teacher, not a pastor. Even as I reached graduation, I was still wrestling with the idea of being a pastor. But in one particular class, the scales fell from my eyes and my heart really knew

In her first appointment, she served as an Associate Pastor at a large church. She spent smaller congregations. Unfortunately, she retired in 2016, when her husband’s health declined. In January of 2019, her husband of 50 years passed away. It was a difficult time, but Nancylee continued answering the call to serve others through ministry. When Reverend Dr. John Walker reached out to her about an opening at the Macon campus, she gladly accepted the position and began working in June of 2019.

Rev. Nancylee Cater, Chaplain at Magnolia Manor of Macon with Residents

Rev. Nancylee Cater, Chaplain at Magnolia Manor of Macon with Staff Member

“Dr. John Walker was building a vision for Magnolia Manor that would allow each campus to have a chaplain. He had a bigger vision of something that hadn’t been done before and I was delighted to be a part of it. I’m really appreciative that he considered me,” stated Chaplain Nancylee. Though serving only part time, Nancylee is available to both residents and staff. Her presence on the campus proved to be crucial during the COVID-19 lockdown. Nancylee made a great effort to help deliver meals to residents when the dining rooms were closed. Nancylee gladly joined in this effort so she could see the residents. She also began writing devotionals three times a week. These are distributed campus wide and provide additional contact. At the request of residents the devotionals continue still.

“Being with residents, especially during great loss, is a primary part of ministry. Sadly, it’s not always possible. When I can, I try to attend important occasions for and with residents and their families,” stated Nancylee.

Ash Wednesday presented another important opportunity to serve residents and make contact. While maintaining necessary health precautions, she offered ashes as they picked up their meals. Their response and enthusiasm was heartwarming.

“It was a wonderful experience to see the joy on their faces when they received the ashes. A couple of them had only come to receive the ashes. Another lady told me that her church wasn’t doing it, so she made sure to be there. That type of thing will fuel a pastor for a long time,” shared Nancylee. Thanks to our chaplains, we’ve been blessed to carry on our faith tradition at Magnolia Manor. Your donations and support make it all possible. With your help, our residents and staff can receive the spiritual care that they need, when they need it the most. We appreciate you! If you’d like to continue your support, please visit www.magnoliamanor.com/donate.

Joshlyn Chester, Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN) at Magnolia Manor of St. Simons

VALUES

Dignity, respect, care, and compassion for all Day in and day out, employees at Magnolia Manor strive to provide the best care for our residents. Many of them go beyond the usual call of duty to demonstrate integrity through excellence. St. Simons Island nursing center employee, Joshlyn Chester, gives us a prime example of Magnolia Manor values in action. Joshlyn began working at Magnolia Manor in 2005, but has spent the past 25 years in the healthcare industry. Inspired by her sister’s work as a certified nursing assistant (CNA), Joshlyn decided to become one as well. After eight years of working as a CNA, Joshlyn’s husband encouraged her to become a licensed practical nurse (LPN). She agreed that it would be a great idea, but was hesitant to get started. After speaking with her husband again, she felt more confident enough to pursue a degree in nursing. Joshlyn went back to school and became an LPN, which she has enjoyed ever since.

“There’s just so much that I love about being a nurse. I tell my kids and everyone that I work with, that you need to

have compassion and love in order to work in nursing,” stated Joshlyn. Compassion and love have proven to be instrumental in helping her care for residents countless times. Joshlyn recalls one particular time when a new resident moved into the nursing center. She wasn’t in the best spirits upon her arrival, but Joshlyn welcomed her with a warm smile. Now the two are great friends.

“When she first came in, she told me she felt that God brought her here to this facility so that I could take care of her. And we get along like sisters now,” stated Joshlyn. As a family oriented community with roots in the Christian faith, Magnolia Manor is a place where individuals can build long lasting relationships through fellowship. Relying on faith and friendships proved to be an effective coping mechanism for Joshlyn during the pandemic. She made a conscious effort to laugh and talk with the residents to keep everyone in a positive mood. It was also helpful that the campus chaplain and coworkers banded together to provide a Article continued on page 18

Joshlyn Chester, (LPN) at Magnolia Manor of St. Simons

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support system for each other.

“We have a chaplain that prays for us. We pray and do devotions in our morning meetings. Some of the staff get together to talk about the Lord and ways to help take care of the residents while relieving stress,” stated Joshlyn. “I also like talking to Jackie Crisp, our administrator. She’s the best administrator ever! Everyone from the Director of Nursing to the administrative staff are all very nice people.” Now that things are slowly opening up again, Joshlyn has her sights set on a new goal. In August of 2020, she decided to go back to school to become a registered nurse (RN). Becoming an RN will allow her to provide better care to the residents, but it also gives her the opportunity to be a great role model.

“I went back to college as a way to inspire my daughter to go. She wants to become a nurse as well, so we’re helping each other get through it together. It’s tough. But we’re doing great,” stated Joshlyn.

Not only is Joshlyn an exceptional nurse, she’s also a loving mother of four adult children (two sons and two daughters), and a wife to Isaiah Chester. In her spare time, she enjoys reading. She and her daughter host a book club that meets often to discuss the month’s book over refreshments. Joshlyn loves people, and she’s always willing to provide insight to help others improve. Her advice to upcoming healthcare workers is to have patience.

“Patience is important in nursing. Some days, you’re going to work with a short staff. But you have to come in and work as a team to get the job done together. This is not a one person show,” stated Joshlyn. We’re glad to have people like Joshlyn on our team! We wish her the best as she completes her goal of becoming an RN. To keep up with our residents and staff, please follow us on Facebook and Instagram or visit our website at www.magnoliamanor.com.

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Edna Johnson, Dietary Staff Member at Magnolia Manor of Columbus East

VALUES

Integrity through excellence Doctors prescribe medication to help sick patients restore their health. Spiritual leaders provide prayer and guidance through life’s challenges. Psychologists are available to care for mental health. Then there’s Edna Johnson at Magnolia Manor of Columbus East. Healing others through laughter and good food is her forte. Edna was born in Elmore County, Alabama. She was adopted as a small child and moved to Columbus, Georgia. After graduating from high school, Edna spent a few years working in the laundry industry. She got married and gave birth to her son, Jimmy. In search of a career change, Edna began looking for new job opportunities. She applied for a job at a local senior living facility and began working as a dishwasher in 1971. This facility would eventually become Magnolia Manor. In 1971, Edna recalls that only the employees who had been there for some time cooked the meals for the residents. As a new hire, Edna’s job was to sweep, mop, and wash the dishes. Edna worked hard in her position, and was eager to

advance further. She decided to enroll in online classes through Lincoln University to learn about dietetics. She completed the courses and passed her test. Then she began working as a cook in the dietary department.

“It’s great to go to school to learn your craft, but experience is the best teacher. I did a lot of experimenting with different meals to learn more about cooking,” stated Edna. Edna continued to work hard and excelled in the kitchen. She did so well she was eventually promoted to the Dietary Manager position. She worked in this role for six years before returning to her previous role to focus more on what she enjoys doing the most: cooking for the residents!

“We have a great supervisor, Anna Bankston. When she came here, I was the supervisor. But as I got older, I wanted to focus more on cooking,” stated Edna. “I want to work here as many more years as I can, because I love helping those who can’t help themselves.” A typical day at Magnolia Manor for Edna starts at 5:30 am. She prepares an early breakfast for those who have morning Article continued on page 22

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doctor’s appointments. She then prepares the main breakfast which may include grits, eggs, or oatmeal. Once breakfast is served, she begins prepping for lunch. Her favorite meal to cook includes fried chicken, rutabaga, collard greens, turnip greens, corn bread, and apple pie for dessert. Her fried chicken is a staple at the campus. She’s been able to build lasting friendships with coworkers and residents who enjoy her cooking. Edna goes the extra mile to ensure that residents are getting the nutrition they need - even if it means busting a move.

“One day, a resident refused to eat, so I sat the tray down and started doing the James Brown dance. He looked at me and smiled. It made me feel better that he was smiling,” explained Edna. “He wanted me to keep dancing but I told him he had to eat if he wanted to see the dance. He ate the food and waited for me to dance. I told him I had a back ache. He wasn’t too happy about that, but he ate the food!” Now, Edna’s dance moves are a regular request for entertainment during lunch. Her enthusiasm came in handy during the pandemic. The dietary staff was forced to

close the dining room to alleviate the risks of spreading the virus. They had to be extra sanitary, constantly using disposable items and personal protective equipment to maintain cleanliness. Edna was prepared to do whatever it took to ensure that the residents were well taken care of. As she celebrates 50 years of working in senior living care, Edna reflects on the lessons she learned and the wisdom she has gained.

“It’s a pleasure and an honor working here, at Magnolia Manor,” shared Edna. “I’ve learned a lot through the years. I’ve learned that diet is so important, especially for the residents. I make nutritious meals for them and treat them like they’re my family, because I care.” Compassionate, dedicated people like Edna are vital to Magnolia Manor. It’s because of people like her, that we get to make a difference in our residents’ lives every day. To Edna and every staff member like her, we appreciate you. And if you’re looking to eat a great meal made with love, Edna at Magnolia Manor of Columbus East has you covered!

Water Aerobics Class at Magnolia Manor on the Coast

VALUES

Healthy mind, body and spirit Magnolia Manor offers many

asked Barbara if she would be

programs for seniors. From

interested in taking over the

educational activities that

class. She was glad to.

encourage constant learning

“I enjoy leading the water

to physical activities that keep

aerobics class here because I

the body in shape, there’s

love the people. They’re great

something for everyone. An all

people. They always have

time favorite at our Richmond

something funny to say or

Hill campus is the water

interesting stories to tell about

aerobics class. The pool is

their lives,” shared Barbara.

heated and is four feet deep, making it perfect for seniors to exercise in. Unfortunately, participants were forced to put away their pool noodles and swim shoes for an entire year, due to the pandemic. Now that things are slowly opening up again, participants are back in the pool like they never left. Water aerobics classes at the

In a typical class, Barbara starts participants off with cardio exercises to strengthen their hearts. They complete a series of leg lifts, arm lifts, and other cardio related exercises. The last part of the class is dedicated to stretching and coordination, which improves flexibility and balance. Some exercises require the use of

Richmond Hill campus are on

pool noodles and dumbbells

Mondays and Wednesdays

for more of a challenge.

from 9:00 to 9:50 AM. Barbara

Participants can also modify

Kirshner is the instructor and

exercises to accommodate any

has been participating in water

limitations they may have.

aerobics since 2009. When

Water aerobics is known

she discovered that Magnolia

to have many benefits. The

Manor was offering a class

water provides support that

to the public, she signed

takes pressure off the joints.

up and has been attending

Reduced pressure on the joints

classes ever since. When the

allows participants to get more

previous instructor resigned,

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and increases strength. Residents are

Renee came to Magnolia Manor in March of

already seeing the results of attending

2021. She was eager to get involved with the

aerobics classes.

activities that we have available. One day,

“Water aerobics is really a wonderful thing.

after speaking with Linda, she decided to try

I’m a diabetic. Today, my blood sugar was

the water aerobics classes. Renee has been

157 after I ate breakfast. After the water

a faithful participant in the class ever since.

aerobics class, my blood sugar was 110.

“I love everything about water aerobics! I

That’s proof that doing water aerobics helps control your blood sugar. That’s what I love about the exercise programs here,” stated Linda Waters. Linda is a resident who has been attending water aerobics classes since she first moved to Magnolia Manor in Richmond Hill. A participant told her about the class and how much she enjoyed it. So Linda decided to

have arthritis in my hips. I’ve noticed that I have less pain after participating in water aerobics,” shared Renee. Since the class, Renee and Linda have become well acquainted along with the others who attend the class. The class provides a fun way for participants to reach their challenging fitness goals. Aside from

give it a try and has been going ever since.

the fun, the health benefits are what keeps

She loved it so much that she told a new

them coming back for more - even

resident, Renee Dokter, about the class.

on holidays.

Water Aerobics Class at Magnolia Manor on the Coast

Water Aerobics Instructor, Barbara Kirshner, Leading Water Aerobics Class at Magnolia Manor on the Coast

“I would recommend water aerobics to

exercise routines, there are other ways they

others who would like to do it. There are

can get active at Magnolia Manor. We offer

reasons why some people may not be able

an array of programs and activities that fit

to participate. Some people have difficulty

different tastes and preferences.

managing the steps to get into the pool.

“The activities that Magnolia Manor offers

But for those who are able to participate,

are wonderful. There’s bingo, pokeno, and

I would definitely recommend the class,”

other activities. You don’t have to be bored.

stated Linda.

The residents and staff are friendly. I enjoy

Water aerobics isn’t the only exercise program that Magnolia Manor offers. We

living here,” stated Renee. It is our goal to provide the quality of life

have programs for people who may not be

that supports our residents’ physical, mental,

able to get into the water or who may not

and spiritual needs. By taking this holistic

like the water. Barbara has recently started a

approach to health, we strive to continue

seated exercise class on Fridays at 9:00 AM.

making Magnolia Manor a community of life

If someone isn’t much of an early bird or into

and living.

Jeni Hixon, Wellness Director at Magnolia Manor of Americus

VALUES

Creative change and constant improvement Creating a healthier lifestyle

grew older, Jeni played softball,

for yourself can be tough

basketball, golf, tennis and ran

without the proper motivation

track for her high school team.

and determination. We seem

While she attended GSW, Jeni

to always find an excuse not to

focused on softball, building

begin or stick with a program.

a love for sports through hard

The staff at Magnolia Manor are

work and discipline which has

always willing to help residents

lasted all her life.

obtain their individual goals.

“I believe it’s necessary to

Whether it is setting up a

exercise, sweat, and get your

program to follow or cheering

heart rate up a little every day.

them on, we are ready to lend

The way I feel afterwards is

a helping hand. One of our

what motivates me,” says Jeni.

staff members has been doing

“I don’t feel winded every day.

just that for 21 years. Jeni

I feel like I can do my everyday

Hixon began her career at the

job comfortably.”

Wellness Center as a part-time trainer after graduating from Georgia Southwestern State University (GSW). She wanted a full-time position, but took the job to gain experience. And thank goodness she did, because the Wellness Center would not be what it is today without her. Jeni draws inspiration from her experiences as a child.

While working at the Wellness Center and creating programs to help our residents, Jeni has noticed several challenges that seniors face today. The largest challenge is that going to the gym wasn’t a way of life for them when they were in their prime. They were active in gardening, raising kids, and going to work. Social views pose another

She remembers growing up

challenge, making it difficult

in Cuthbert, Georgia with her

to get women and men to do

two sisters. The entire family

certain exercises. Many women

was very active in local sports,

are concerned that they will

with her parents giving them

develop manly muscles, so

every opportunity to play

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lift weights. On the other hand, many of the

“If I was in the business of buying excuses, I

men don’t like cardio and stretching. They

would probably be out of a job. I don’t really

prefer to lift weights instead. But Jeni has a

take a lot of excuses. I give them tough love

remedy for this way of thinking.

because I care about them,” explained Jeni.

“I tell them it’s not about what they’ll look

There are many benefits to exercise for

like on the outside, it’s what they’ll feel

seniors. Exercise promotes weight loss which

like on the inside. They’re not going to be

reduces the pressure on joints and builds

bodybuilders when they leave here, but

muscles to support those joints. Working out

they’re going to be stronger,” insisted Jeni.

can also help reduce stress levels. Stress can

“There are different challenges with them

have all sorts of negative effects on the body.

not growing up around gyms. They look at

Diabetes, strokes, and heart attacks are also

it more like temporary physical therapy. But

health concerns you can avoid by

exercise needs to be a part of their lifestyle.”

working out.

According to Jeni, the key to success is

The Wellness Center offers unique

developing a routine and sticking to it.

opportunities for individuals looking to reach

Getting seniors to buy into the routine is hard

their fitness goals. We have an aquatics

but the benefits are well worth it. Another

program where individuals can participate in

key is building each person’s confidence.

water aerobics or heat therapy. We maintain

Some people come into the gym without

a 100 to 104 degree temperature in one of

much confidence in their abilities. They

our pools year-round, which is perfect for

voice concerns about being older or having

soothing sore muscles and alleviating joint

a disability. But Jeni is determined to help

pain. At a small additional fee, we offer

them overcome their fears.

massage therapy from licensed therapists

Jeni Hixon, Wellness Director at Magnolia Manor of Americus

Jeni Hixon, Wellness Director at Magnolia Manor of Americus several days a week. We also have a dry heat

offer limited exercise programs. The activity

sauna and steam room for respiratory and

director, Kathy Freeman, recognized the

skin therapies. We have a variety of group

need as well. So they worked together to

exercise programs such as yoga, tai chi, step

implement light exercises. They started with

aerobics, and chair aerobics. Our full weight

tai chi exercises on the porch two days a

room is equipped with a variety of cardio and strength training machines such as recumbent bikes, treadmills, and elliptical machines.

“When someone becomes a member, we talk about goals. We set up a program based on their goals. We then get feedback from them and tweak it to fit their needs,” said Jeni. Unfortunately, due to the pandemic, members were forced to put their fitness

week with four participants at a time. Now that the restrictions have lifted even more, many are wondering when the Wellness Center will reopen.

“We’ve reopened to residents with limited hours. Hopefully, we’ll be able to open to the staff and community members shortly after,” explained Jeni. Soon, there will be residents restarting workout programs for the first time in more

goals on hold. Magnolia Manor closed the

than a year. Jeni may have her work cut out

doors to the Wellness Center and Jeni

for her, but she feels blessed to have the

moved to the Retirement Center to help

opportunity to help a wonderful group of

where needed. For the first few months,

people. We certainly feel blessed to have her!

restrictions prevented them from doing any

If you would like to learn more, please follow

type of exercise programs. After restrictions

us on Facebook and Instagram or

began to lift, Jeni saw an opportunity to

visit www.magnoliamanor.com.

Janet Cauthen, Resident and Artist at Magnolia Manor South

CREATIVE CORNER Janet Cauthen, a resident at Magnolia Manor South, is a woman of many talents. She not only is a wonderful pianist, she also sings, enjoys sewing, and paints. After graduating from Florida State University with her undergraduate degree, she began her career as a teacher. She furthered her education by obtaining her master’s degree from Northwestern University. While attending Northwestern University, Janet was blessed with a rare honor. As a member of the choral group, she performed at the 1960 Republican National Convention. The event was held in Chicago, Illinois, at the International Amphitheatre for then Vice President Richard M. Nixon and Senator Henry Cabot Lodge.

“That was really exciting because you couldn’t get anywhere near them even just to look. And to get to go in and stand on the stage and sing was a real thrill. We got to see Richard Nixon come in. We sang All-American Folk songs and they provided our evening meal,” Janet said. Janet also became involved in her local church as the choir director and organist. This is

where she would meet her husband Clyde in 1960.

“I met him right after he bought a new car. He invited me to go for a ride and I accepted,” reminisced Janet. They would go onto work together playing many organ duets for family members and friends or at church events. They raised three sons and had careers as teachers. After they retired, they began talking about moving into a senior living community. But before they could make any final decisions, Clyde fell ill and passed away in 2009. Shortly after that, Janet discovered that she had a malignant tumor and would have to undergo surgery.

“I was very sad and lonesome after those experiences. So I decided I was going to move,” recalled Janet. Janet began researching senior living communities on the internet. She was searching for a place that had a Christian atmosphere, since she was a church organist and choir director. She also wanted to be near family. Her search led her to Magnolia Manor in Moultrie. As a faith-based organization with a location near one of her sons who lives in Moultrie, Magnolia Article continued on page 34

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Manor fit Janet’s criteria. She decided to make the move.

“I called my son and told him I was moving to Moultrie. He seemed shocked, but I reassured him I wasn’t moving in with him,” laughed Janet. “Then I told him about Magnolia Manor. After touring one of the apartments, I put money down on the spot. I had my surgery in January, and as soon as the doctor said I could be up and about, I got things rolling and moved here.” Once she moved in, Janet noticed Magnolia Manor offered painting classes. Because she had been involved with music since the age of five, she felt it was time for a change. At this point, she hadn’t painted anything, not even a flower. Janet began classes and found the instructor, Myra Hurst, to be very patient and helpful. They began by painting barns, bridges, and other big

subjects so they could learn to use their brushes. Throughout the years, Janet’s painting ability has grown. Now she feels amazed by what she can paint.

“I find a picture in a magazine or a book that I like and take it to class. The instructor gives me guidance on how to draw it on the canvas. As I paint, she also gives advice on things like where to put the shadow or add lighter colors,” explained Janet. Janet uses acrylic as her medium of choice, but has branched out and completed three watercolor paintings. On average, she can complete a smaller sized painting in an hour and a half. Larger paintings and paintings with many details take more time, but the benefits make the time worth it.

“Painting is very therapeutic. When I sit down

Janet Cauthen, Resident and Artist at Magnolia Manor South

to paint, I don’t want to think about anything else. My mood changes and I feel so much better,” stated Janet. In the past year, it has been a struggle not having art classes due to the COVID-19 pandemic. As soon as she heard Magnolia Manor had started to relax some of the restrictions, Janet asked Administrator Lisa Ostrander if they

could start the classes back up. Thankfully, the answer was yes. Classes are held every Thursday from 1pm to 3pm. Janet is glad to be back finding inspiration from the world around her and painting masterpieces. If you would like to keep up with our residents here at Magnolia Manor, please feel free to visit our website at www.magnoliamanor.com

When thinking about my grandparents, the first thing that comes to mind is their wisdom and experience. The lessons they, sometimes unknowingly, passed along to me were often ones learned from a time of necessity during their childhood which was very different from mine. The time, stories, and experiences that they shared with me were some of the greatest gifts that they gave me–– gifts that I continue to treasure. Ms. Lillyan Wilson, a resident at the Americus Retirement Center, has 100 years of wisdom and experience that she shares with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Two of Ms. Lillyan’s granddaughters, Amanda Ball and Robin Hall, shared that they learned many lessons from their Nanny. A few things she passed along are: her hardworking nature, generosity, love for words, and resourcefulness. Ms. Lillyan has clearly made a lasting impact on her grandchildren’s lives, even though she may not realize how big that impact truly is!

Can you imagine the amount of wisdom and experience that lives within the walls of our Magnolia Manor campuses? Oh the stories that our residents could share! Many of our residents are grandparents, and we are thrilled to honor all grandparents and their wisdom and experience on National Grandparents Day. We hope you will honor or remember a grandparent in your life this Grandparents Day with a donation to the League of the Good Samaritan. The League of the Good Samaritan exists to allow residents to remain at Magnolia Manor if they have outlived their savings. It also provides spiritual care for all residents through our chaplaincy program. The League is a very important part of our ministry, and we appreciate you supporting all our residents with your donation. Thank you for your caring and generous support! Sincerely,

Chealsea Cromer Director of Donor Relations ccromer@magnoliamanor.com

(229) 931-5934

*To make an online donation, visit tinyurl.com/Donate-Grandparent and choose “Grandparents Day”

We held our first annual Evening with Magnolia on Thursday, May 13, 2021, at the Lee Council House located in Americus, Georgia. Because of all the hard work from our dedicated staff members and support from our gracious sponsors, we quickly sold all 20 tables for approximately 120 guests. This kind of attendance is unusual for a first-year event. Evening with Magnolia was deemed a huge success, raising more than $42,000 for the League of the Good Samaritan. All funds donated to the League are reserved for resident support and our Chaplaincy Program. The League funds enable us to keep the promise that has defined us from the beginning of this ministry: No one will ever have to leave Magnolia Manor due to their inability to fully pay for the cost of their care. This critically important fund addresses one of the greatest fears of older adults: outliving their financial resources in retirement. Our sponsors, donors, volunteers, and supporters help us alleviate those fears. This year, we had 3 levels of event sponsors: Dinner ($250) Torch ($150) Luminary ($100)

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This year’s corporate sponsors are: Platinum – Propel Gold – Citizens Bank of Americus, Synovus Silver – Parker’s Heating and Air Conditioning, RDG Planning and Design, Sheridan Construction, and TD Bank We appreciate them for their continued support. “I would like to give a big thank you to the Lee Council House for allowing us to host our event at their venue, The Canterbury Kitchen for the delicious food and wonderful service, Thurston Clary for the great music, our Corporate Sponsors, Event Sponsors, Auction Donors, and everyone who supported and attended our event,” said Kendall Stephens, Director of Annual Giving. The evening began just before dusk as visitors mingled on the lawn of the historic Lee Council House, while others browsed items that were on display for the auction. Just after dusk, guests were treated to a scrumptious meal provided by the Canterbury Kitchen, as DJ Thurston Clary played music. As the night progressed, diners were given the chance to bid at the live and silent auction. It was an opportunity to fellowship with friends while helping a great cause in the process. “Seeing everyone enjoy their time together after such an uncertain year was the highlight of the night,” says Kendall. If you missed this wonderful event, you don’t want to miss the next one. We’ve already started planning for the second annual Evening with Magnolia, which is scheduled for Thursday, May 12, 2022. We can’t wait for this wonderful night under the stars with great food, music, entertainment, and friends. We’ll be providing updates about this event on the Magnolia Manor website and social platforms. You can also sign up for our mailing list or contact Kendall Stephens at kstephens@magnoliamanor.com or 229.931.5928 for more information. Also, be on the lookout for our next fundraising events of the year. The John R. Batts Memorial Golf Classic will be held on Monday, September 27, 2021, on the grounds of the beautiful Idle Hour Golf Course, in Macon, GA. The Low Country Boil will kick start the fall season on Saturday, October 2, 2021, at Magnolia Manor in St. Marys, GA. If you would like to donate or see how we are creating a better environment for our residents, please follow us on Facebook and Instagram or visit our website at www.magnoliamanor.com. Thank you for your support!

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