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Two Champions 08 20 Power Packed Nutrition

Oklahoma Senior Games

ASK Lisa Dodge The Spit Ball

Caregivers Corner

Foods For Brain Health

12 24 Garden Buzz

Plants To Attract Bees

14 26 Community Heartbeat

Stay Active And Make New Friends

Furry Friends To Consider

Big Fun Under The Big Top

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Oklahoma State Fair Senior Day

Who Knew?

Fun Facts From The Fun Day

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I hope you are doing well, enjoying summer, and in good spirits. In this issue of CAREGIVER Magazine, we are focusing on healthy living, staying active, and getting Better With Age. The Oklahoma Senior Games is a fantastic organization we are featuring in this issue. Their focus is on maintaining and regaining your health through activity and healthy competition with your peers. You’ll not only be more physically active but more active in your community. It’s a winning combination. The 44th Annual Oklahoma State Fair Sr. Day is right around the corner on September 22nd it is one of my favorite days of the year. Come out, enjoy yourself and drop by our vendor table and visit with us! If there has ever been a time in our lives to be grounded in our faith, balanced in our emotions, and focusing on being the best we can be, it is right now. Little changes in our activity level and food choices make a big impact on our health. This issue I’m sure will give you inspiration and encouragement to overcome the health challenges in your daily life. We all have 24 hours in a day. As adults, we enjoy the freedom to decide how we will occupy those hours. For the majority of us, work and family take most of our day. A simple way to improve our lives can be adding in exercise resistance bands while watching the news. Or maybe better yet turning off the news and go for a walk. You’ve made two healthy choices in one simple action. You have the power, strength, and ability to overcome whatever is hindering you from enjoying life to its fullest. You can be healthier. By incorporating healthier habits, better food choices, moving more, getting a little sunshine, and surrounding ourselves with people who are kind and good to us can make life truly great, no matter what is going on in the world around us. You are more powerful than you realize. You and only you hold the keys to your health and the choices you make for yourself regarding your well-being. It was great getting to meet many of you at the Fun Day in June. It was a joyous event and if you didn’t attend you will have another opportunity on October the 14th at the Shoppes at NorthPark for the 2021 BETTER WITH AGE Health & Safety Fun Day from 9am-1pm as we celebrate life, see old friends and make new ones, mingle with the vendors all while enjoying music, entertainment, door prizes, food and having some good old fashioned FUN together with plenty of easy access parking and seating areas if you need to take a break from all the excitement! It’s a party for you, your friends and family and everyone is invited! We are constantly looking for new ideas for stories about inspiring people and families. Our mission is to bring options and support to you and your family with content to help you achieve your best life, no matter your age, that highlights the value of your health and whole-body wellness through staying active and having a positive attitude. If you have story ideas call and let me hear them. May God bless each of you and your family. May we all add a little or a lot more activity to our lives. Find joy in simple things. Be kind to yourself and others, smile more and move more. Remember the proverb ‘a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step’ It highlights the truth that we can achieve any goal in life but first, we have to start. Sincerely,

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Two champions of Oklahoma Senior Games are stories of dedication, competition, love of the game, and a lesson to us all. Meeting Bill Ruhman and Mary Almon, both Oklahoma Senior Games medalists, made me think of the U. S. Olympians I have met over the years. It always fascinated me that these talented athletes were not impressed by their achievements. They all quietly acknowledged their laudable accomplishments. The common denominators include a great work ethic, commitment to their goals and humility. Although Bill readily acknowledges his success in Senior Games, it isn’t bragging, it’s just the facts. Mary is focused on her friends more than the awards, although she does admit it’s nice to get them. Her love of bowling is rooted in the people more than the competition. In 1946, Bill joined the Navy. After serving his country, he worked as the civilian bowling center manager at Tinker AFB for several years. In 1982, Bicentennial Lanes, in Ramstein, Germany, the largest military base in Europe, recruited Bill to be the bowling center manager. In 1985, while still serving in Germany, he received the Meritorious Award for Leadership and the 1985 European Bowling Center Manager of the Year award. In 1986, he returned to Tinker as the civilian bowling center manager, retiring after 25 years. Mary married and raised four children. Mary has always been the caregiver of the family, immediate and extended, and for her neighbors and friends. She lost her husband, Clyde, in 2005, and a son, Larry, died early this year. Dealing with the 8 CAREGIVER Magazine

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profound loss of her son has been difficult. Mary stated that her family and her bowling family get her through each day. Mary said. “During the COVID-19 quarantine, I would sometimes pace the floor, praying for us to get back to “normal” and start bowling again. Talking to my bowling family every day kept my spirits up. We knew that all we could do was to wait it out.” Mary lives in Tulsa near her daughters, Sandy and Judy and her son, Chuck, spending a great deal of time with them. She also spends time as allowed, with her nine grandchildren; 13 greatgrandchildren; and nine, plus one on the way, great-greatgrandchildren. She is an avid reader and loves James Patterson’s work. Both Bill and Mary bowled in their first Oklahoma Senior Games event after turning 60. Mary’s family laughs and remarks that introducing her to bowling “created a monster since she has bowled in multiple weekly leagues since she discovered her love of the game.” In August, she’ll begin bowling three times a week on different teams and bowling Nationals for the 14th year; coincidentally, she’ll be 93 years old on August 19th. She commented she is slowing down some because she used to bowl at least 5 days a week. Bill is an Oklahoma Senior Games Gold and Silver Medalist. He began his journey when his best friend Homer Brock Sr. talked him into competing in the Oklahoma Senior Games. Homer, his bowling and golfing buddy of over 40 years, was competitive (as is Bill) and wanted to win every event and travel to tournaments. And, so the saga began; Bill now claims more than 150 gold and silver medals from Oklahoma Senior Games,

Tulsa Senior Games, Bartlesville Senior Games, Yukon Senior Games, Muskogee Senior Games, and Oklahoma Area Games. He has traveled to National Tournaments in Albuquerque, New Mexico; Tulsa, Oklahoma; Jacksonville & Orlando, Florida; Nashville, Tennesse; Mobile, Alabama; Baton Rouge, Louisiana; Corpus Christie, Texas; and Santa Clara, California. He earned a National Gold Medal in Baton Rouge. Bill has two sons who have blessed him with nine grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and two greatgreat-grandchildren. Bill stated, “Without the support of my family, my Senior Games family, and my bowling family, I don’t know how I would have survived. The key is to be involved in something you enjoy. Get active. Start moving! Don’t sit at home in that recliner, get out, make friends and keep your body moving and your mind alert.” Bill’s goal each year is to compete in six events. This year he is competing in: bowling, singles and doubles; horseshoes; shuffleboard; pool; golf and washers. Washers? Well, I looked it up. Washer pitching is a game very similar to horseshoes, involving teams of players that toss washers towards a box or hole. July 31, 2021, Mary received two awards from the Oklahoma Bowling Association. In the introduction, the presenter remarked on Mary’s beautiful smile and how she welcomes and encourages everyone joyfully, even her opponents. She was honored for a lifetime commitment to bowling with the “SPIRIT AWARD FOR DEDICATED SERVICE” and the second award was for 90+ years of age with 30+ years of active bowling.

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Bill has won gold medals and qualified for the National tournaments in seven age brackets. On April 11, 2022, Bill will be 95 years young and entering the next age bracket. He said, “The Senior Games are a major part of my life: bowling and golfing, making new friends and spending time with my “old” friends, keeps me engaged and loving life.” He was inducted into the Oklahoma City Bowling Hall of Fame (1988) and the Oklahoma Bowling Hall of Fame (1993). When asked if he had any advice to give, he smiled and said “Get out of that recliner! There is something for everyone. I like the competition among my age group, my peers. You see the same competitors at the tournaments each year. You make lasting friendships. Going to Nationals every year makes a great vacation. Come join me and my friends.” Mary’s focus is more local and she competes often. She loves the game; but more importantly, she loves people. “My bowling family is as dear to me as my family; it’s different but very important in my life. I look forward to seeing them each week and at tournaments. We give comfort when needed; share laughs; encourage and root for each other, and are happy to be together.” Oklahoma Senior Games offers something for everyone. Wonder how well I would do at washer pitching? Maybe, I could try shuffleboard. Just remember, you got to move it or you lose it. I am told to stay “young” you must be active, have a positive attitude and a cando spirit. I look to Bill and Mary for my inspiration!

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DODGE THE SPIT BALLS Sometimes life throws us curve balls; sometimes they are spit balls! I put COVID-19 in the “spit” ball category. While we love our families, we don’t necessarily LIKE them all the time. This is one lesson I learned or relearned as a result of the quarantine. My world is in the reshaping stage just like so many of yours are. Life is short and I have more life behind

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me than in front of me. Therefore, I decided to make changes, not from desperation or unhappiness, but for more joy in my life. I strive to walk by faith daily. Sometimes we need to reaffirm who we are and what we truly want from life. Something that is important to me, that is on my life’s top ten list of

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needs or wants, may not be on someone else’s. It is individualized and unique only to me. What I found is that many things I thought were “MUST haves” turned out to be negotiable or got deleted. Funny how trivial some things become when faced with truly life-changing decisions.

my role in this situation?” Often our pride is our downfall. Be the first to apologize without expectations. I am not saying the hurts aren’t real. Many times, they are devastating. However, our pride should not keep us from offering and/or seeking forgiveness and reconciliation.

Happiness and joy are all in your perception. Wake up and start every day with gratitude and the intent to live happily. I have missed my target on occasion. I have let another’s negativity overflow and affect my attitude. At times, I am misunderstood; but it usually comes back to the fact my intention and my delivery of the message did not coincide. My joy and happiness are my own responsibility.

Don’t let the hurts, the anger from the past keep you from forgiving, rebuilding, and reconnecting with friends and family. Take that leap of faith. God has a plan for us, let Him have control and follow His example of love. First, forgive yourself, and then forgive others. Be the person that reunites, reconnects, rebuilds, and reclaims the relationships you value in your life.

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CAREGIVERS O R N E R By Kathy Cocks, RN

Considering a new furry friend? Research has shown that pets provide a tremendous amount of physical and emotional benefits to older adults. A pet owner gets physical activity by providing essential care to the animal and as a side benefit a more structured daily routine. Pet owners also have greater emotional well-being. When my dad had open-heart surgery, he found the recovery time lonely because he could not get out. He adopted two cats. He became so much happier. Just grooming and taking care of an animal gives meaning and purpose to life. I am glad he got the cats. When the pandemic hit we were trying to keep my dad at home more to protect him, his cats kept him company. Pets also give you something to talk about with other people. I can remember calling my mom and sometimes we ran out of things to talk about. I know when I call dad, he can always tell me about the cat’s antics and routines. Even though a pet can be beneficial to an older adult, one must evaluate their living situation. Mr. Sims had dementia. He also had two dogs.

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Older adults need to be able to give their pets food, water and attention. It is also helpful if pets especially dogs can get some exercise. Choosing a pet that matches your physical ability and activity level is crucial. A neighborhood teenager could be hired to assist if that is something hindering an older adult from getting a pet. Another issue to consider is safety. Many times smaller pets can get underfoot and not be as easily seen and a larger animal due to their size could bump into their owner both scenarios create a potential fall risk. The behavior, grooming needs and demeanor of the potential pet must be considered. As a pet owner, you must be able to bend down to provide food, water and clean up any potential messes. If you cannot bend easily a cat might be an option because food and water can be placed on an elevated surface. Most felines can self-groom and with the invention of self-scooping liter boxes, even that necessary task is more manageable.

Tending to the basic needs of an animal boosts your activity level. Even the act of filling a water dish requires walking and stretching which is a low-impact way to improve your physical health. Most shelters encourage an older person to adopt an older animal who is more willing to lounge around and isn’t quite as rambunctious. Some shelters will allow older individuals to foster older pets since they are much harder to get adopted. If the animal proves to not be a good fit the shelter will be able to take the pet back. In this situation make sure you or someone can take the animal to vet visits as older animals may require more medical checkups. A few final things to consider do you have a plan in place if your pet can no longer live with you in your home? Whether due to your or their declining health or if the need arises for a care option outside of your home. Mrs. White had two cats, but she was having increased difficulty taking care of herself. She was hesitant to move because she did not know what to do with her cats. Fortunately, many senior communities do allow pets if you can continue caring for your animal. You could still move with your pet, but you may have to hire someone to help with pet care. CaregiverOklahoma.com

Studies have shown that pets provide physical, social and emotional benefits, especially to older individuals. Pet owners of all ages need to evaluate their budget and physical capability to ensure the pet is well taken care of. Pets can provide purpose and satisfaction in life. Another option is for a family member to get a pet and bring the pet over frequently. Many organizations also have therapy pets that they bring to your home. Older adults should consider a furry friend if they can manage its care. An animal shelter or pet rescue may have your best new buddy waiting to come home with you. And you don’t have to limit yourself to only considering dogs and cats, feathered and finned pets provide their own form of companionship although not as snuggly. This information comes from a podcast produced by Kathy Cocks to assist family members who have taken over some aspect of an older one’s care. https://knowledge-forcaregivers.simplecast.com/ www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fellow-creatures/201906/the-challenges-and-benefits-petownership-seniors

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Come one, come all and join us for our 44th Annual Oklahoma State Fair Senior Day on Wednesday, Sept. 22. All seniors, 55+, are admitted to the Fair FREE on this day. (Proof of age, required) TIPS FOR THE DAY • NEW HOURS! All Senior Day activities (except the Antique Tractor Parade and The Elvis Extravaganza) start or are in the Special Events Area located at the south end of the MODERN LIVING BUILDING, and will be held from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. Enter at gates 1, 2, 6, or 10 and catch one of the free trams which begin running at 10 a.m. ○ Ask Trams to stop at Gate 3 or by the fountain on General Pershing Blvd to drop you off as they are the closest drop-off points to the building. • Electric and manual wheelchairs are available to rent inside Gates 1/2, 6 & 9, while supplies last • FREE coffee and snacks at 10:00 a.m. until GONE. Be early! Snacks hosted by Bellvue Health & Rehab Center • All exhibit buildings open at 10 a.m. REGISTRATION will be on Senior Day and is needed for the following: • Door Prizes: 3 Sessions - 10 a.m. - 1 p.m., 1 p.m.- 3:30 p.m., 3:30 - 6 p.m. • Out & About: Sideshow Stroll: 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. • Circus Couples Challenge: 10 - 11:30 a.m. • Balloon Sculpture Contest: 10 - 11 a.m. • Just Clowning Around: 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. • Under the Big Top Game Show: 2 - 2:30 p.m.

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Travel or vacation packages – deeply discounted or free – have many “hidden” charges which will cost a bundle. It is a scam.

With a AAA membership, you get free Identity Theft monitoring. In Oklahoma, there are over 65,000 adults above the age of 65 living with Alzheimer’s. By 2025 the number will increase to 76,000. Some signs of Alzheimer’s are withdrawal from work or social activities; confusion in time and place; or, a challenge in planning or solving problems. Check out the list on the Alzheimer’s Association website. Areawide Aging Agency has respite vouchers for caregivers. They also have a paid work program for seniors 60+ that can help that individuals financially while providing companionship for a senior in need. 18

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Areawide Aging Agency and United Way of Central Oklahoma publish a report, “Vital Signs: Aging in Central Oklahoma”. Some statistics on aging published in 2018 surprised me: • People aged 90 and up are the fastest-growing age group. • Oklahoma ranks 47th in overall senior health in the country. • 58% of Oklahomans aged 65+ reported themselves as able-bodied, meaning they live without disability and are able to live independently. This is the 4th lowest rate of able-bodied older adults in the nation. Pet Food Pantry can provide pet food at no cost. The number of resources and agencies serving grandparents or other relatives raising children (GRRC) continues to grow.

Mark your calendars for Thursday, October 14, 2021, from 9 a.m.-1 p.m. and join us at the next Better With Age Fun Day at NorthPark Mall, 122nd & N May. Not only will you learn and have the opportunity to talk with professionals, but, also be greeted by smiling faces and joyous hearts all focused on you. There will be line dancing, professional musicians, exercise demonstrations, hot coffee, breakfast snacks, door prizes, and so much more! Join your friends and neighbors and make new friends on October 14th at the next Better With Age FunDay. Issue 16

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High-powered vehicles require good fuel to operate at their best. Poor fuel will slow down even the fastest sports car. The same can be said about the human body and what we put in our fuel tanks. Certain foods and beverages can provide us with the energy to perform at our best. This is also true for our brains. We’ve listed several foods that can improve your mood and have you operating at peak performance. Be sure to consult your doctor before making major dietary changes. Tea and coffee – According to The Journal of Nutrition, your morning cup of coffee or tea could provide more than a short caffeine buzz. A 2014 study¹ revealed that people who consumed higher levels of caffeine without going overboard (more than four cups) scored better on tests of mental function. Remember to mind the sugar and fat in creamers that will add calories while you are sipping your beverage.

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Nuts – Is it coincidence that the shape of walnuts bear some resemblance to the brain? A nutritional study² found that a higher consumption of nuts was linked to better brain function in older adults. Nuts are also a good source of vitamin E which shields cells from oxidative stress caused by free radicals. A side note – while peanuts are a legume and not a nut, they are high in vitamin E and resveratrol, an antioxidant that may help prevent cancer, Alzheimer’s, and Parkinson’s. Berries – Speaking of antioxidants, strawberries, blackberries, raspberries , blueberries, and mulberries are packed with anthocyanin, catechin, caffeic acid, and quercetin. The compounds in these brain boosters improve communication between brain cells, reduce inflammation in the body, helps the brain make new connections, and reduce cognitive decline. Oily Fish – Fish full of omega-3 fatty acids have long been heralded for their positive effects on heart health, but what about our heads? Consumption of more oily fish has been linked to lower blood levels of beta-amyloid, the protein that is present in the brains of people with Alzheimer’s disease. Choose sustainable fish low in mercury such as salmon, cod, mackerel, herring, and sardines to put on your plate at least twice a week. Broccoli – Broccoli and its cruciferous cousins—Brussel sprouts, cabbage, cauliflower, and bok choy— provide more than antioxidants and dietary fiber. They also contain large amounts of glucosinolates. When consumed, they turn into a compound that may reduce oxidative stress and lower the risk of neurodegenerative diseases, which includes Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, and Huntington’s disease. Dark Chocolate – Like many of the foods listed in this article, dark chocolate contains plenty of antioxidants. The reason for this is found in cacao. A 2013 review³ suggests cacao flavonoids encourage neuron and blood vessel growth in parts of the brain involved in memory and learning. A 2018 study⁴ supported that consuming chocolate with at least 70% cacao may improve brain plasticity, which is vital for learning. So it is true – everything is better with chocolate! Especially dark chocolate! For ideas on how to incorporate these foods into your diet, check out the recipe on the following page. Issue 16

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Crispy Salmon with Wilted Chard: Servings: 4 Total Time: 30 minutes

Ingredients: 2 tbsp champagne vinegar 2 tbsp finely chopped tarragon, plus leaves for garnish 2 tsp Dijon mustard 1 tsp honey ¼ cup plus 2 tbsp extra virgin olive oil Kosher salt and pepper to taste 1 lb. swiss chard, stems cut into 2-inch lengths and leaves torn 1 large shallot, minced 2 garlic cloves, minced Four 5 – 6 oz salmon fillets

Directions: 1. In a small bowl, whisk the vinegar with the chopped tarragon, mustard, honey  and ¼ cup of the olive oil. Season the vinaigrette with salt and pepper. 2. In a large saucepan, heat 1 tablespoon  of the olive oil. 3. Add the chard stems, shallot and garlic and cook over moderate heat, stirring occasionally, until the stems are softened, about 5 minutes. Stir in the chard leaves in large handfuls and cook until just wilted, about 5 minutes. 4. Stir in half of the vinaigrette and season with salt and pepper. 5. Meanwhile, season the salmon with salt and pepper. In a large nonstick skillet, heat the remaining 1 tablespoon of olive oil until shimmering. 6. Add the salmon, skin side down, and cook over moderately high heat, pressing gently with a spatula to flatten, until the skin is browned and crisp, about  3 minutes. Flip the salmon and cook until medium within, about 3 minutes. 7. Transfer the salmon and wilted chard to plates. Garnish with tarragon leaves and serve, passing the remaining vinaigrette at the table.

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OKLAHOMA S OKLAHOMA DELL WILSON

DEBBIE MILLER

DELL WILSON

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Dell Wilson sails his shot down the fairway

I was born in Pittsburg, Texas in the winter of 1950. School sports were one of the few things that caught my interest the born small in town. I worked Iinwas Pittsburg, Texas myself into positions in football, in the winter of 1950. School basketball, track and baseball. sports were one of the few Early one Saturday morning, things that caught my father got me outmy of interest bed in the small worked and took me town. to our Ilocal 9-hole countryinto club.positions I and six of myself inmy football, 8-year-old classmates were given basketball, track and baseball. a golf club starter set and told to Early one Saturday morning, play. We were terrible, but soon my father got me bed we were hooked onout thisof new and took me to our 9-hole adventure because welocal could competeclub. against onesix another. country I and of my

I won the Kansas golf tournament and quickly learned how tough the competition was at the finals. I have gone on to attend the Ilocal, and national won state the Kansas golf tournament tournaments. Seniors whohow don’t and quickly learned tough participate are missing out on an the competition was at the opportunity. The tournaments I have gone on to attend are finals. professionally organized, local, state national andthe participants are and extremely talented. tournaments. Seniors who don’t

participate are missing Competing in these events isout theon an opportunity. The tournaments main reason my health is now close the peak I hadorganized, while aretoprofessionally young. practice and are try harder and Iparticipants extremely to keep in shape to be as good talented. as I can be. It makes me happy. 8-year-old classmates were or lose, I look to My competitive desire for golfgivenWinCompeting in forward these events is the aextended golf clubthrough starterhigh set school, and told toseeing the friends I’ve made reason my health is now the years and anticipate college and my adult life. but I was play. We were terrible, soon overmain closenew to the peak I had while making ones. verywere successful, buton when we hooked thisI new young. I practice and try harder became a senior, there seemed adventure because we could I have won ain bronze to be nothing left to accomplish. to keep shapeand to silver be as good compete against one another. at the gold me happy. as Inationals can be. and It makes In 2008, I came across in 13 straight state titles in Win or lose, I look forward to My competitive for golf something I didn’tdesire know existed three different states. That’s – the Seniorthrough Olympics. Boy, did seeing to thethe friends I’ve made extended high school, secondary fun and that catch my interest! There over the years and through anticipate college and my adult life. I was friendship I’ve acquired was only one more opportunity new ones. very successful, but when I the making Senior Games – what a to qualify for the 2009 Olympics terrific thing for seniors. became a senior, there seemed in California. The local director I have won a bronze and silver to beme nothing left to was accomplish. told only one spot at the nationals and gold available and asked if I would In 2008, I came across attend the finals if I qualified. in 13 straight state titles in something I didn’t “Absolutely,” I said. know existed three different states. That’s

Debbie Miller has spent nearly three decades encouraging Oklahoma seniors to be active, and now she’s taking her own advice. Since turning 50 last fall, Miller said she feels more compelled than ever to lead by example.

Dell Wilson with his Senior Games medals.

“It’s about accountability to the other seniors I work with,” Miller said. “I know how good I feel when I am physically active and I want them to see that.”

– the Senior Olympics. Boy, did secondary to the fun and that catch my interest! There friendship I’ve acquired through was only one more opportunity the Senior Games – what a to qualify for the 2009 Olympics terrific thing for seniors. in California. The local director BUCK THORNTON JANET AND BUCK told me only one spot was Iavailable played sports high if school, We knew each other from high and in asked I would but my main interest was boxing. school, and in 2006, we were attend the finals if I qualified. I fought in the Golden Gloves reunited and married. In that “Absolutely,” I said. until I turned pro at the age of year we received a card about

BUCK & JANET THORNTON

Dell Wilson with his Senior Games medals.

Miller has been the Wellness Director at Yukon’s Spanish Cove Retirement Community for 28 years. She has been a

25. My pro record was 34 wins the Senior Games. Buck started and 2 losses. In 1968, I tried out playing in the golf tournament for the Olympics and missed and participated in the weightlifting competition. For the cut by one fight. During the next 12 years, we traveled those years I also competed around the country where Buck in the Toughman Contest and competed in golf. He has over weightlifting competitions. As BUCK JANET Janet ANDcompeted BUCK in 50 medals. a youngTHORNTON boy, I caddied at a golf bikeWe riding one yearother and won a high and learned to play. Icourse played sports in high school, knew each from medal.and in 2006, we were To this golf has provided but myday, main interest was boxing.gold school, with exercise and social Ime fought in the Golden Gloves and married. Wereunited are now 82 and 79 yearsIn that interactions. until I turned pro at the age of old year a card – butwe stillreceived playing! We bothabout JANET new sports, cornhole and started 25. My THORNTON pro record was 34 wins playthe Senior Games. Buck After my third son was born I bowling, that we started this and 2 losses. In 1968, I tried out playing in the golf tournament heard someone say that anyone past September. Our plans for for the Olympics and missed and participated in the could run a mile. At the age of 2021 are for Buck to compete in weightlifting competition. the by one fight. During 29 I cut thought, “OK, I can run a golf, and both of us to compete For the nextand 12 bowling. years, we traveled those I also mile.” Iyears did that andcompeted also started in cornhole playing racquetball.Contest When and around the country where Buck in the Toughman Over the years we have held I was 40, my friend Monika competed in golf. has over weightlifting competitions. As onto these words: “YouHe don’t me to run and ride medals. Janetyou competed aencouraged young boy, I caddied at a golf quit50 playing because get old. in bikes. We became two of three Youbike get old because you quit riding one year and won a course and qualified learned for to an play. women who playing.” gold medal. To this day, where golf has organization youprovided had to be

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board member for the Oklahoma Senior Games for two years Buck Thornton, and competed for the first time this spring. Professional Boxer Athletes must be at least 50 years old to compete, making Miller one of the youngest competitors. In her first race walking event, the Midwest City resident walked away with a gold medal.

Buck Thornton, Professional Boxer

Buck and Janet Thornton

overwith 40, run a marathon, ride a me exercise and social bike 200 miles in two days, swim interactions.

a mile and climb a mountain over 14,000 feet. This opened up a JANET THORNTON whole my newthird life for me.was born I After son

We are now 82 and 79 years old – but still playing! We both play new sports, cornhole and bowling, that we started this past September. Our plans for 2021 are for Buck to compete in golf, and both of us to compete in cornhole and bowling.

Unlike power walking, which Miller also plans to compete in, race walking is about technique not speed. Maintaining one heard someone say that anyone couldat runall a mile. At the ageperfecting of foot on the ground times and the signature 29 I thought, “OK, I can run a hip rotation has mile.” provided a challenge for the former distance I did that and also started playing racquetball. When runner. For years, Miller ran 5ks, 10ks and half marathons Over the years we haveto held I was 40, my friend Monika onto these words:and “You she don’t stay in shape, but as she aged running painful encouraged me to run and ride became quit playing because you get old. bikes. We became two of three switched to walking take some pressureYou offgetofoldher joints. because you quit womento who qualified for an organization where you had to be over 40, run a marathon, ride a bike 200 miles in two days, swim a mile and climb a mountain over 14,000 feet. This opened up a whole new life for me.

playing.”

“It’s a little bit silly looking, but it’s been an Olympic event for years and it’s kind of hard,” Miller said. “There’s a lot to think about but it’s actually a lot of fun.”

Buck and Janet Thornton

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Miller has hosted race walking clinics at Spanish Cove and we our fears Games. and began has always been my encourages all of theDancing residents to participate in forgot the Senior fully enjoying our time on the thing. I started early with The competition andballet camaraderie them work court andto each other. lessons, and I motivates still dance wherever the music plays. Once we heardof about out and ultimately prolongs andbasketball improves their quality life,the I played a little in Senior Games, we got serious high school, but I was never tookour fivefears wonderful road something that she said Oklahoma desperately need. weand forgot and began Dancing has always beenresidents my serious about practice or

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trips for the Happy Hoopers to

competing. At 29,with I bumped fully enjoying time on games. the thing. I started early compete in our the national into tai chi.and After onedance look, I court other. ballet lessons, I still Weand had each lots of fun and made was sold. I began lessons in new friends. There were some wherever plays.in Tulsa, the andmusic while living Once we amazing heard about the disappointments, but there I played a little basketball in said. “These aren’t wheelchair races,” Miller “It’s to seewas San Francisco, I was a student Senior Games, we an abundance of got the serious joy Master Choy Kam Mon. highof school, but I was never oftook living. what people can do at any age. There are some amazing athletes, and five wonderful road I have practiced for 50 years, Elizabeth Williams Arnett serious about practice or trips for the Hoopers to even teaching. About theHappy same time competing. 29, I bumped and there is something forAtevery level of competitor.” compete in the national basketball showed up, games. so I carried into In taimy chi.mid-30s, After one look, I pickleball, which a Wedid had lots of fun andismade materials up ain was building sold. I began lessons great sport for anybody and new friends. There were some mountain path, building a Tulsa, and while living in everybody. If you've never cabin in the woods. I also built disappointments, but there was heard of it, check it out. I like Francisco, I was abody. student myselfcompetitions a stronger Atoccur 46, an abundance Oklahoma Senior San Games annually ofin the joy for to call it "easy tennis" of Master Choy Kam Mon. of with the encouragement seniors and kids. of living. mypracticed sonThis David, I trained and and October. year, competitions will be held in in I have for 50 years, ElizabethSeptember Williams Arnett In 2019, I was the evenparticipated teaching. in three triathlons, About the same timeoldest Oklahoma City, Tulsa, Shawnee, Yukon and Warr placing fourth in Norman, one. woman in the Tulsa Acres. Run, a 15K basketball showed up, so event, and I placed in In myAbout mid-30s, I carried 10 years ago, I started did pickleball, which issecond a I am in my age group. So here building materials up a shooting baskets with some great sport for anybody and 2021, looking forward to my high school girlfriends mountain path, building a and 80th birthday. I am never thankful to everybody. If you've We cabinmy in sister-in-law, the woods. IMonika. also built Events include three-on-three basketball, track and field, have a it, healthy body that I love heard of check it out. I like remembered our skills from myself a stronger body. At 46, and enjoy. long ago. We had call it 5K "easy tennis" for golf, swimming, water walking, 5Kaccepted and 10K toruns, power with the the encouragement of with warnings that come seniors and kids. Elizabeth dancing my son David, I trained and aging, and our main concern walk, 5Kbeach race walk, bowling, tennis, table tennis, golf croquet, on the was falling. After triathlons, a few weeks, participated in three 2019, I was the oldest shuffleboard, cycling, cornhole, badminton,In archery, placing fourth in one. woman in the pickleball, Tulsa Run, a 15K event, age and I 50 placed second in racquetball, softball and Participants and older About 10 triathlon. years ago, I started my age group. So here I am in shooting baskets with some will compete in categories by gender. 2021, looking forward to my high school girlfriends and C age and

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80th birthday. I am thankful to my sister-in-law, Monika. We a healthy (2:26), and 32body yearsthat laterI love set My athletic odyssey may be a have remembered our skills from andthe enjoy. state master’s record for different than others. It is longbit ago. We had accepted the National distance (2:41). a tale ofqualifies longevity rather than Oklahoma Seniorthe Games athletes for Senior warnings that come with65 In between, I won nine drama. I started running Elizabeth dancing aging, andago ouras main concern marathons and finished in years a 15-year-old high About Games competition held every two years. 300 athletes on the beach the top three in five others. I won my first was school falling.freshman. After a few weeks, After turned 40, I set every and have been going who qualify in 2020 mile willrace represent Oklahoma in Ithe National Oklahoma master’s running ever since. I have averaged Senior Games competition 5-18, 2021from in Fort record the mile (4:32) 25 races aNovember year for 65 years – to the marathon (2:41). I also 1,700 races! I have won Lauderdale, Florida. That’s medaled in several national open or master's races in 33

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states. I have also had the fun of racing in Canada, Mexico, Jim McFadden breaks England, France, Tunisia and through the finish line tape Saudi Arabia. In all of these My athletic may beana years, I odyssey have never had bit different injury or than lost aothers. season.It is

track championships, both indoor and outdoor, when they were an easy driving distance from Oklahoma.

(2:26), and 32 or years later set For more information visit www.okseniorgames.com theAt state record well. for 81, Imaster’s am still running call (405) 821-1500. theI distance a tale of longevity rather than have won(2:41). 21 races this year. I plan on running as long as During this time, I have been a In between, I won nine drama. I started running 65 possible and and winning and the father finishedin ina few yearsmarried ago asman a 15-year-old high of marathons more states. I have won Senior four children. I have worked top three ininfive others. school freshman. I won first theGames races Oklahoma, as a high school trackmy coach, After I turned 40, I set every mile arace have been going Kansas, Arkansas, Missouri, highand school and college Wyoming and Colorado. and aaveraged high school Oklahoma master’s running everteacher, since. I have and college administrator. record from the mile (4:32) 25 races a year for 65 years – My highlights have included to the marathon (2:41). I also That’s 1,700 races! I have won being state champion miler medaled in several national openinor master's in 33 an high school,races becoming track championships, both states. I have also the cross fun All-American in had college country, winning Mexico, the Army 10K indoor and outdoor, when they of racing in Canada, Jim McFadden breaks Championship, and running England, France, Tunisia and the were an easy driving distance through the finish line tape Olympic Trials Marathon. I set from Oklahoma. Saudi Arabia. In all of these Jim McFadden a state record for the marathon years, I have never had an posing with his medal At 81, I am still running well. injury or lost a season. I have won 21 races this year. I plan on running as long as During this time, I have been a possible and winning in a few married man and the father of more states. I have won Senior four children. I have worked Games races in Oklahoma, as a high school track coach, Kansas, Arkansas, Missouri, a high school and college Wyoming and Colorado. teacher, and a high school and college administrator. My highlights have included being state champion miler in high school, becoming an All-American in college cross country, winning the Army 10K Championship, and running the Olympic Trials Marathon. I set Jim McFadden a state record for the marathon posing with his medal

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Basketball

Sept. 4

Golf Croquet

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Basketball Archery

Sept. 7

Santa Fe Family Life Center, SITE OKC

Sept.114 Sept.

Trosper Center,Park, OKCOKC

5K Power Walk Golf Croquet

Sept. Sept.117

Archery 5K Race Walk

Sept.1111 Sept.

EVENT

5K Power Walk Water Walking

Sept. 11

5K Race Walk

Sept. 11

Swimming

Sept. 12

Water Walking

Santa Fe Family Life

Riverside LaFortune Parks, Tulsa Park, Tulsa Riverside Trosper Park, OKC Parks, Tulsa

Riverside

Westwood Family Parks, Center, Tulsa Aquatic Norman Riverside

Westwood Family Parks, Tulsa Aquatic Center, Westwood Family Norman

Disc Golf

Sept. 12

Aquatic Center, Will Rogers Disc Golf NormanOKC Course,

5K Road Race

Sept. 18

Perry Westwood Family

Pitch, Hit, Run

Sept. 24

Norman Stars & Stripes Park, OKC Will Rogers Disc Golf

Softball 5 vs 5 vs 5

Sept 25-26

Stars & Stripes Course, OKC Park, OKC

10K Road Race

Cornhole

Sept. 25

Triathlon

Pitch, Hit, Run

Sept. 25

Oklahoma State Fair, OKC Perry

Sept. 24

Swimming 10K Road Race Disc Golf

5K Road Race

Sept. 11

LaFortune Park, Tulsa

Sept.18 12 Sept. Sept. 12

Sept. 18 Sept. 18

Aquatic Center, Perry

Perry

Lake El Reno, El Reno

Stars & Stripes

Golf

Oct. 2

Muskogee Park, OKCGolf Club, Muskogee

1500M Race Walk Cornhole

Oct. Sept.2 25

Shawnee High Oklahoma State School, Shawnee Fair, OKC

Track & Field Triathlon

Oct. Sept.2 25

Shuffleboard Golf

Oct. Oct.22

Stars & Stripes High Softball 5 vs 5Walk vs 5 Oct. Sept225-26 Shawnee 1500M Power Park, OKC School, Shawnee

Oct. 3, 10,

Shawnee High Lake ElShawnee Reno, El Reno School,

Muskogee Golf Club, Bixby Community Center, Bixby Muskogee

Fitness 1500M Power Walk 23, Oct.302

Kaizen Performance Shawnee High Center, Norman

Cycling

Oct. 9

Lake Stanley Shawnee Draper, OKCHigh

Badminton

Oct. 16

Volleyball

Oct. 16

Shuffleboard Bowling

Oct.16-17 2 Oct.

Tennis

Oct. Oct.20-22 3, 10,

Pickleball

Oct. 22-24

1500M Race Walk Track & Field

Fitness

Cycling

Oct. 2 Oct. 2

23, 30 Oct. 9

Weightlifting

Oct. 23

Badminton Table Tennis

Oct.30 16 Oct.

Celebration of

Nov. Oct. 616

Volleyball Athletes

School, Shawnee

School, Shawnee Jackie Cooper Gym, Yukon Shawnee High Jackie Cooper School, Shawnee Gym, Yukon

Bixby Community

Green Country Lanes, Center, Bixby Muskogee

RH 91, Tulsa Kaizen Performance

Center, Life Time Norman Athletic, OKC Lake Stanley

Kaizen Performance Draper, OKC Center, Norman

Jackie Cooper Oklahoma Table Gym, Club, YukonOKC Tennis

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Oct. 30

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Celebration of Athletes

Nov. 6

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Plants To Attract Bees Bees are critical pollinators essential in the garden and flowerbeds. A yard with a healthy bee population will have larger crops of healthier fruits, vegetables, and flowers, and it is important to offer plenty of different plants that will entice bees to lend a helping buzz in the garden.

Best Plants for Bees

While bees will visit nearly any blooms to do their pollinating, certain types of plants with the right shapes and colors will be more attractive. Adding these plants to your yard will ensure a strong bee population nearby.

Aster Basil Bee balm Black-eyed Susan Blueberry Butterfly bush Catnip Chives Coneflower Cosmos Crabapple Daisy Geranium Lavender Lilac Milkweed Mint Oregano Pumpkin Queen Anne’s Lace Rosemary Salvia Sumac Sunflower Tulips Zinnia

More Tips to Attract Bees

Just adding a few plants bees love to the yard will not increase the bee population dramatically, but if those plants are added thoughtfully and a few other simple steps are taken, the entire garden will be a buzz with busy pollinators.

Choose native plant varieties whenever possible as they will be more recognizable to bees and will be better suited to local growing conditions, soil and climate.

Add a bee house to the yard to give bees appropriate shelter and a place to build their hives so future generations will be available for more pollinating duties..

Diversify plantings to provide abundant blooms from early spring to late fall so bees have a continuous source of pollen and nectar in the same area.

Plant flowers and other bee friendly plants around the garden, such as in the corners or between rows, to encourage bees to pollinate fruits and vegetables too.

Create a varied garden with bee friendly plants in a variety of colors (bees are especially fond of yellow, blue, white, and purple) and at a variety of heights to attract more bees.

Minimize pesticide and herbicide use that could be detrimental to bees, and, if chemicals are necessary, be sure they are applied correctly.

Provide a source of water suitable for bees in the yard such as a shallow tray with several pebbles or rocks that will allow bees to reach the water safely.

Bees are the best pollinators available, and a bee friendly yard and garden will be one that is filled with fragrant flowers, vibrant vegetables, and flavorful fruits to enjoy all season long. 24

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WILL ROGERS PARK SENIOR CENTER In the late 60s, before they put in “the” highway, my children would walk from our house on NW 27th near Madison Elementary School to Will Rogers Park and spend hours playing in the “river” and hiding in the “forest.” I had to drag them home. It was a wonderful playground. Now, some 50 years later, Will Rogers Park is still magical! There is a golf course, tennis courts, and beautifully landscaped grounds, a garden perfect for weddings, walking and running trails, picnic areas, well-equipped and designed playgrounds, an aquatics center and a senior center. The senior center was built in 1974 and is a vital part of the City recreation program. The park is an Oklahoma City treasure four CAREGIVER Magazine covers have featured this location as the botanical backdrop.

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The mission of OKC Parks is to provide cultural, social and recreational experiences to our community so they can have the opportunity to cultivate wellness and enjoy a healthy lifestyle. Everyone entering the Senior Center is greeted by LeCecilia “CC” Hoag, parks program specialist, a 15 year veteran of the program, and Betty Roberson, recreational leader 1, who has been with the program six years. Anthony Sledge, Director of the Center, has been with the City of Oklahoma City of over 35 years, much of that time has been devoted to senior programs. Anthony, CC and Betty strive to ensure the programs are viable and vibrant. From the variety of classes and the attendance, I believe the mission is being fulfilled.

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You may choose classes from square dancing to playing bridge or yoga, Zumba or tatting. Tatting is a technique of handcrafting a particularly durable lace from a series of knots and loops; virtually, a lost art. The ladies who continue to keep the art alive are passionate about tatting and sharing their skills. Other classes include: chair yoga, Tai Chi, tap & jazz, community music club and the list goes on! Do you want to write the story of your life? Or, maybe you want to paint a lovely portrait or landscape, or try woodcarving? Or discuss a book you read and delve into the nuances of the plot? Then come to the senior center. There are two big events: the 15th Annual Variety Show, Oct 1 & 2. 2021, cost $7 per person; and the 6th Annual Art Festival, Nov 6th from 10 a.m.-3 p.m. – free. If you are looking for social interaction, learning a new skill, participating in classes, wanting to exercise more, lose weight, build stamina, or just beat someone at dominoes, Oklahoma City Senior Centers have much to offer, and most is free or a minimal cost. Join your friends or come and make new friends, at Will Rogers Senior Center. Maggie Abel is one to quickly tell you to get active. After her divorce in 2016, she wanted to “get

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Douglass Recreation Center 900 N Frederick Douglass Ave, OKC 73117 (405) 297-1416 Foster Recreation Center 614 NE 4th St, OKC 73104 (405) 297-1424 Macklanburg Recreation Center 2234 NW 117th St, OKC 73120 (405) 297-1428 Melrose Recreation Center 7800 Melrose Ln, OKC 73127 (405) 297-1431 Minnis Lakeview Recreation Center 12520 NE 36th St, OKC 73084 (405) 297-1432 NW Optimist Performing Arts Center 3301 NW Grand Blvd, OKC 73116 (405) 297-1437 Pitts Recreation Center 1920 N Kate Ave, OKC 73111 (405) 297-1440 Schilling Recreation Center 539 SE 25th St, OKC 73129 (405) 297-1442 Southern Oaks Recreation Center 400 SW 66th St, OKC 73139 (405) 297-1449 Taylor Recreation Center 1115 SW 70th St, OKC 73139 (405) 297-1460 Will Rogers Senior Center (WRSC) 3501 Pat Murphy Dr, OKC 73112 (405) 297-1455 Woodson Senior Center 3401 S May Ave, OKC 73119 (405) 297-1459

out of the house, be with people and do something constructive.” A friend had a role in Arsenic and Old Lace and invited Maggie to the performance and that’s all it took. Maggie was hooked! She is a staple at Will Rogers Senior Center participating in the music club, drama; tap dance, art, writing, and much more. Realizing she needed to narrow her fields of interest, Maggie now concentrates on tap dance and playing the accordion. She currently plays with a community band, “Shades of Grey.” At 72, she is a very busy lady with no plans to slow down. Did I mention she also teaches ballroom dancing? No chance for Maggie to be bored or lonely! From experience, I know you cannot effectively serve seniors without loving them. They (we) know when someone is faking it and will call you on it. As we age our “fake meter” is connected directly to the mouth and has no filter. Or, at least that is what one senior lady told me and I believed her! Sledge said, “At this point in my life I can, and do, relate to the seniors as peers. Serving our seniors is important and for me is a calling. Part of that mission is ensuring that all who come here are treated with respect and dignity. Everyone needs to have a purpose in life. Knowing, every day, that I am making a difference in someone’s life, forging the social connections, helping them break out of isolation, and feeling that I am a part of something and serving the greater good gives purpose to my life.” For CC, well, she has a different take on seniors, “You can’t put a senior in time-out and you can’t ground them when they don’t “follow the rules.” All you can do is laugh and say ‘yes sir’ or ‘yes ma’am,’ knowing there is much to learn from them. How do I feel about the seniors? I love them.’

GYMNASIUMS

Johnnie L. Williams Municipal Gymnasium 720 NW 8th St, OKC 73102 Woodson Gymnasium 3403 S May Ave, OKC 73119

AQUATICS Earlywine Family Aquatic Center 3101 SW 119th St, OKC 73170 (405) 297-1418 Foster Indoor Pool 614 NE 4th St, OKC 73104 (405) 297-1423 Northeast Pool 1226 NE 33rd St, OKC 73111 (405) 297-1436

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Will Rogers Family Aquatic Center (WRFAC) 3201 N Grand Blvd, OKC 73112 (405) 297-1451 Woodson Pool 3405 S May Ave, OKC 73119 (405) 297-1458

NATURE AND WALKING TRAILS H.B. Parsons Fish Hatchery 10940 N Meridian Ave, OKC 73120 (405) 297-1426 Martin Park Nature Center 5000 W Memorial Rd, OKC 73142 (405) 297-1429 Will Rogers Gardens (WRGX) 3400 NW 36th St, OKC 73112 (405) 297-1392

SPORTS Stars & Stripes Park 3701 S Lake Hefner Dr, OKC 73116 Wendel Whisenhunt Sports Complex 3200 S Independence Ave, OKC 73119 Wheeler Park 1120 S Western Ave, OKC 73108

GOLF COURSES Earlywine Golf Club 11600 S Portland Ave, OKC 73170 (405) 691-1727 James E. Stewart Golf Course 824 Frederick Douglass Blvd, OKC 73117 (405) 424-4353 Lake Hefner Golf Course 4491 S Lake Hefner Dr, OKC 73116 (405) 843-1565 Lincoln Park Golf Course 4001 NE Grand Blvd, OKC 73116 (405) 424-1421 Trosper Golf Course 2301 SE 29th St, OKC 73129 (405) 677-8874

MAPS 3 SENIOR HEALTH AND WELLNESS CENTERS 11501 N Rockwell 4021 S Walker NE 36th Street and Lincoln Blvd 13660 S. Western Ave.

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ASSISTED LIVING A home or establishment that may provide assistance with personal care, medications, ambulation, nursing supervision and intermittent or unscheduled nursing care. They cannot provide 24-hour skilled nursing care. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health Mainly Private Pay, LTC Insurance may cover , VA Aid & Attendance, & Tribal Benefits Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver)

NURSING HOME A nursing facility that provides 24-hour skilled nursing care and related services for residents who require medical or nursing care. Nursing Home Care Act - October 1, 1980. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health. Nursing homes provide the highest level of care. Options for Medicare/Medicaid

ADULT DAY CARE Provides health, recreational, social and supportive services to impaired adults for more than four hours per day. Participants do not stay in the center overnight. Adult Day Care Act - November 1, 1989 Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health VA allows respite benefits Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver)

VETERANS CARE Created in 2013, this program is for residents who are veterans living in the state veteran’s centers. They are licensed as a nursing facility and can provide 24-hour skilled nursing care and related services for residents who require medical or nursing care . Falls under Nursing Home Care Act - May 29, 2013. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health

CONTINUUM OF CARE Combines the services of a nursing facility with an assisted living center or an adult day care center. It is licensed under the Continuum of Care and Assisted Living Act and must also meet requirements applicable to nursing facilities, assisted living centers and adult day care centers. Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health Currently inOklahoma, all Continuum of Care’s only have assisted livings. Medicaid Option through DHS (Advantage Waiver) for Assisted Living and Adult Day Care.

RESIDENTIAL CARE HOMES Provide residential accommodations, food service, and supportive assistance. May also provide assistance with meals, dressing, bathing, other personal needs, and medication administration. Cannot provide medical care such as skilled nursing. Residential Care Act - November 1, 1984 Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health A typical residential care resident is younger than other long term care options and only requires assistant with medication administration. NO Options for Medicare/Medicaid

INDEPENDENT SENIOR LIVING/HOME CARE Apartments, cottages, and single-family homes for seniors 55 & over who do not require assistance with daily activities or 24/7 skilled nursing but may benefit from convenient services, senior-friendly surround-ings, and increased social opportunities. NOT Licensed by Oklahoma State Department of Health. No oversight since they are not licensed. May have “High Acuity” that is receiving Home Health and or Hospice services.

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Remember When

By Lisa Sydnor

Remember when we all played outside, even in the rain? What games did you play? Everything seems more dangerous looking back now.

Remember when we played marbles? Playing marbles was serious business. I remember some of the guys getting in fistfights over the value of a certain marble.

Remember when we played jacks? You had to be accurate and fast to be #1.

Remember when we played Red Rover, Rise n’ Fly, Tag or Hide n’ Seek? Neighborhoods would gather, teams formed and strategies developed for winning.

Remember when everyone played baseball? In my youth, baseball was known as the National Pass Time – the World Series would basically bring America to a stand-still and glued to the radio!

Remember when we played Stick Ball? Remember when you would get any board or stick to use as a “bat” and anything “round” was the ball (like a doll’s head that your brother tore off of your favorite doll)?

Remember when we played Hop Scotch? Every sidewalk in town had layers of chalk! Everyone tried to do better than their friends. That was a lot of moving as you “hopped” on every square.

Remember when we played street tennis? That is “poor man’s” tennis and popular in urban areas. Small town/farm kids played tennis in a parking lot or gravel road. 30

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We Played Outside! Remember when we played miniature golf? If your community didn’t have a miniature golf course, the neighborhood kids would make one in an open field. We took our golf just a seriously as any adult playing at the country club.

Remember when we would barrel race? (For city slickers, that’s when you and your horse would race against your friends to do a cloverleaf pattern around barrels then race to the finish line.)

Remember when we would jump into the lake or river and swim? Everyone swam.

Remember when Gorgeous George or The Crusher wrestled? My children were very young, but they loved Saturday morning wrestling. We would all pile in the bed and they would try the moves of their favorite wrestler.

Remember when jump rope competitions were intense? I was totally enthralled the first time I saw a jump rope club perform in Coffeyville, KS. It was during a parade and they did all these amazing things as they marched and jumped their individual ropes. At intervals, they used long ropes and performed “tricks” in teams of 2, 3, 4 or more.

Remember when baton twirling was a sport? From about 5 years old till I graduated, I wanted to be a twirler and lead the high school marching band! I took twirling lessons for four years and, you guessed it. I just never was good enough to lead the band – that didn’t stop the dream and practicing. You’re Invited! BETTER WITH AGE Fun Day October 14th, 9am-1pm Shoppes at NorthPark

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