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MARCH 2016 • Vol. 98, No. 8 ADAR I ~ ADAR II 5776 www.bethelnr.org

62nd Gala Celebration to Be Held Sunday, June 5, 2016 Honoring Elise and Barry Richman Barry had grown up not far away in Elise and Barry Richman are touched and Sharon, Massachusetts, where he attended delighted to be honorees for this year’s Dinner Temple Israel. Following in his father’s Dance; all the more so because they are sharing footsteps, Barry became an accountant, getting this special evening with the very deserving his Bachelor of Business Administration at President’s Ne’emanim Service Award winners, the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. Shery and Howard Rosenstein! After graduation, he went to work for Arthur Elise Keltz grew up at Lincoln Park Jewish Anderson, but was already working at a small Center (LPJC) in Yonkers, where her parents accounting firm in Winchester when he met remain members. She attended Hebrew School, Elise. As soon as they married, Barry went celebrated her bat mitzvah, and led Junior into practice for himself and opened an office Congregation services there. When LPJC in Randolph. started sending its Hebrew School graduates In 1987, expecting their first child, the to Beth El’s Community Hebrew High School, Richmans decided to move to New Rochelle Elise was in the first group of students to carpool Barry and Elise Richman to be closer to family. Barry sold his practice to to New Rochelle. One of her wonderful teachers was the young Assistant Rabbi, Melvin N. Sirner. She already knew build a new one in New York. Years later, he merged his accounting other Beth El students from Camp Ramah in the Berkshires and USY. and tax practice with ERE, which itself later merged with the After high school, Elise headed to Boston to attend the Boston larger firm MBAF, where Barry remains a partner. Elise secured a University (BU) six-year Biomedical Program. It was in the stairwell faculty position at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, working at of the BU Hillel that she was swept off her feet by a dashing graduate a community mental health center in the Bronx, where she is now student she was to marry less than three years later. Barry and Elise a medical director. She most loves seeing patients and teaching. With newborn son Nate in tow, Elise and Barry happily relocated were wed when Elise was in her second year of medical school. They moved to Randolph, on Boston’s South Shore, and joined Temple and immediately joined Beth El Synagogue Center, since Elise’s Beth Am. Elise completed medical school, her internship in Internal older brother Teddy and wife, Beth, were already members, and Medicine, and residency in Psychiatry while there. [continued, page 8] Ben Zoma says: “Who is wise? One who learns from all people.” (Psalms 119:99).

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Special Needs Seder.......................... page 3 SMART People.................................. page 7 Chesed Seeks Volunteers................... page 3 BeTzelem Elokim............................... page 9

Nursery School................................. page 11 Youth & Family Engagement... pages 14, 15

Join Us for Purim at Beth El J-LiFE & Youth Community Purim Experience Wednesday, March 23rd

Enjoy pizza for kids at 5:30 pm, followed by a special performance at 6:00 pm by

Explore the story of Purim through the PJ Library book, Barnyard Purim. Geared to children 8 years old and younger. There will also be programming for children in 3rd - 6th grade. Come in costume! No charge! R.S.V.P. to BethElnr.org/Purimkids Festive Maariv service and Megillah reading by our teens at 7:00 pm. Hamantashen to follow!

PURIM CAMPAIGN

Matanot Le’evyonim: Help those in Need Campaign www.purimproject.com

Through the Purim Campaign you can observe not only that mitzvah, but also one of the four mitzvot of Purim: Matanot Le’evyonim, helping those whose needs are greater than our own by contributing portions of funds raised to support two worthwhile charities: Masorti (the Conservative Movement in Israel, www.masorti.org Mazon: A Jewish Response to Hunger, www.mazon.org As in years past, this continues to be the largest fund raiser of the Beth El Youth Community. We count on you for your support and participation. Funds raised will support the Beth El Youth Community and youth programming and to the two charities listed above. To participate, log onto purimproject.com with the user name and password mailed to you. Contact Jen Vegh, Director of Youth & Family Engagement, at jvegh@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 221, if you need this information. Choose the families and staff members, or others outside of the community whom you would like to recognize. A donation will be made in honor of those chosen, and they will receive a beautiful card notifying them of your generous contribution. Orders must be placed by Friday, March 11th. After this, no orders will be accepted and you will not be able to access the website.

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR PARTICIPATION!

Bring a box of Pasta to Purim services! Use it as a grogger during the Megillah reading. After, donate the pasta as tzedakah! Instead of using groggers (noisemakers), we invite you to bring sealed boxes of pasta to use during the Megillah reading at 7:00 pm. Afterwards, we will donate the pasta to a food pantry. Thank you for helping to feed the hungry!

And, don’t miss our Special

Purim Spiel

during the Megillah reading.

Goes Tropical!

Unlimited Games, Rides, and Attractions! $18/child, $54 family cap at the door: $25/child, $75 family cap Beth El members: $5 off per child, $15 off family cap Food for Sale—Cash Only Questions? Contact Jen Vegh at JVegh@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 221. 2

Arrive in costume and receive a free prize ticket !

Special Needs Seder

WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO HELP YOUR FELLOW CONGREGANTS IN A TIME OF NEED?

Monday Evening, April 11th • 5:30 pm – 7:30 pm Join the special needs residents of local group homes, who will be guests of Beth El Synagogue Center at a very unique Lower Westchester Special Needs Seder. This will be Rabbi Schuck’s first Special Needs Seder, and he will add his own personal touch to what has become a Beth El tradition. This event is sponsored by Westchester Jewish Community Services and Beth El’s Sylvia and Robert Scher Chesed Community. If you would like to volunteer, contact Seder co-chairs Ellen Gelboim at esgelboim@gmail.com, or Sandy Gruenberg at gamson36@gmail.com. We need people to help prepare prior to the Seder, as well as during the event and at the conclusion. If you are unable to participate physically, financial donations are always needed and appreciated. Please make checks payable to the Scher Chesed Community and mail to Sandy Gruenberg at Beth El. Visit bethelnr.org/specialneedsseder for details. In addition we are collecting Passover foods to give to the group homes. When you shop for Passover foods, buy something extra for those in need! Thank you.

The Chesed Community is looking for a few volunteers who would be willing to prepare a shiva meal for a fellow congregant’s immediate family. Here is what you need to know: • Shiva meals provided must be prepared in a kosher home or bought from a kosher store at the volunteer’s expense. • You will need to provide a soup or salad, a main course, and a side dish. • You can deliver the meal yourself, or ask Debbie or Joyce (see below) for help with the delivery.

If this sounds like something that would interest you, please contact Debbie Cohen at debra.cohen@gmail.com, or Joyce Wechsler at joywechsler@gmail.com. Leviticus Rabbah 34:10: The blessing of tzedakah is greater for the person who gives than for the person who receives.

Rabbi’S MESSAGE Dear Friends, About four years ago, I was involved in a JewishMuslim dialogue group through the Rabbi Jewish Theological David A. Schuck Seminary. Leading up to the ten-year commemoration of the terror attacks of 9/11, we spent time studying together and getting to know each other. In this group, we shared personal stories and beliefs, we openly shared the elements of our own religious traditions with which we grapple, and we celebrated the aspects from which we derive deep meaning. Interreligious work was not new for me, as I had served on the Pelham Interfaith Council for eleven years and I was the president of the Westchester Inter-Religious Clergy Network. Yet this experience had a profound influence on me in a way that others had not, and at first, it was not apparent to me why that was the case. In time, I realized that this experience stood out because we shared something real, something beyond the surface. In addition to all of the similarities between us, we also talked about our differences, some of which were quite significant. It was fascinating to hear other clergy colleagues discuss the ways that they grapple with their faith, as well as the difficulties that they too experience with elements of religious law that conflict with their modern sense of morality. It was through this honest conversation that we felt closer to one another. When we are honest and true with one another, even about our differences, we will ultimately feel more deeply connected to each other.

Multi-faith work that pretends that we are all the same misses the point of the experience. Through multi-faith dialogue and service we certainly learn that we have more in common with one another than we might imagine. However, when we are courageous enough to be open about our differences, part of the impact of these experiences is that we better understand our neighbors. We learn how they discover hope as well as their fears for their future. We discover the religious symbols, narratives, and traditions that comfort them during difficult times. We begin to see how their beliefs impact the way in which they relate to people who do not share their religious faith. We only begin to discover these things when we are open to being honest about our differences. We ought to apply this curiosity about our differences to community inter-religious services, which are often so watered down (so as not to offend anyone) that there is very little that happens that feels authentic. Such services tend to function under guidelines that ultimately highlight our similarities, while glossing over our differences, and to my mind, this is a lost opportunity. For example, my Christian colleagues are often told that they may not offer a prayer that mentions the name Jesus, and Muslim clerics must avoid the use of the name of their prophet Muhammad. I would much rather hear a member of the clergy offer a prayer that is authentic to their tradition than hear a diluted version of something that does not truly reflect the integrity of their faith. At an inter-religious service, a priest is not praying on my behalf, but rather as an expression of those who share his beliefs. At such services

we should have moments of unity in which all faiths can participate without betraying their faith’s traditions, but if that is all that it is, then we miss the chance to grow. Synagogues in 21st Century America ought to be a part of the fabric of the larger communities in which they reside. Religious communities can form natural partnerships in the fight for justice and the importance of faith and tradition in an increasingly secular culture. When our neighbors are invited into a synagogue in order to see the ways in which we build community and worship God, they will be strengthened in their own beliefs and religious commitments. The same is true for us. Insular Jewish communities that do not learn to share experiences with other faith traditions will not be able to count on those communities when they need them as allies and partners. We know this better than anyone. It is my hope that for those who are interested, we will create opportunities to welcome people of other faiths into our spiritual home for multi-faith programs, and that this generosity of spirit will be reciprocated to us. This work is incredibly important today, especially as we encounter narrow-minded approaches to identity that are isolationist in nature and villainize the “other.” For those of you who are interested or curious about this work, I hope that you will join me when these opportunities arise. L’Shalom,

Rabbi David A. Schuck

Schmooze with Rabbi Schuck! A “schmooze” is a small gathering for various segments of our congregation (e.g. seniors, Nursery School families, and so on), that enable Rabbi Schuck and our members to get to know each other in a more intimate setting. To keep meetings small, we cap registration and schedule additional events to meet demand. Thursday, March 3, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm: Families with Special Needs Children or Family Members WEDNESDAY, MARCH 16, 2:00 pm – 3:30 pm: S.M.A.R.T. People THURSDAY, MARCH 24, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm: Members of Sisterhood

president’S MESSAGE Assistant Rabbi Search Update available on July 1, 2016, if Rabbi Dorsch does not accept a senior rabbi position elsewhere. I am happy to report that Rabbi Dorsch has informed us that he is not accepting a position as Senior Rabbi at Samuel E. Berger another synagogue at this time. He will be staying at Beth El for the final year of his contract through June 30, 2017, at which time he will to move on to the next step in his career. We look forward to another year of his leadership and teaching. Given the significant investment of time and effort already made, the Officers, HR, and Search Committees unanimously voted to continue with each candidate’s scheduled visit at Beth El with the clear understanding that if we were to make an offer of employment for Assistant Rabbi, the full-time position would not be available until July 1, 2017. When newly ordained rabbis search for a job, they must consider their unique geographical, financial, and family needs in addition to finding a synagogue that is a good fit for their rabbinic vision. It is rare that one finds a job that meets all of these needs. If one does but it is not immediately available, one may choose to spend an extra year of training or study in order to accept the job that is the best fit. Both candidates indicated that they are still excited and enthusiastic to audition at Beth El because of the prospect of working and living in our community.

Dear Friends, During the past four years we have been blessed with the rabbinic presence and leadership of Associate Rabbi Josh Dorsch. He has worked hard to serve our community, always extending respect to every person in our shul, and consistently shared and modeled his love of Torah, Israel, and the Jewish people to our congregation. We are grateful for all that he gives us. Rabbi Dorsch’s current contract gives him the option to accept another position and leave Beth El as early as this summer (July 2016). He also has the option to stay at Beth El for the final year of his contract until the summer of 2017. As is often the case with our Associate Rabbis in the past, Rabbi Dorsch explored other rabbinic prospects that would present him with the opportunity to grow in his rabbinate. Rabbi Dorsch has been transparent with the Human Resources Committee, lay leadership, and senior staff regarding his search, and we have communicated openly with one another during each step of this process. As you know, we convened a Search Committee for a new Assistant Rabbi, led by Steve Schwartz and Sandy Gruenberg, with the following members: Ellen Barlis, Sharon Brown, Shari Chinitz, David Shechter, Danny Yairi, ex-officio Aaron Fleishaker (HR chair), and the President, moi, ex-officio. The Assistant Rabbi Search Committee has invested a great amount of time interviewing many candidates and, as you know, identified two wonderful candidates to visit and audition at Beth El. We have been transparent with all parties throughout the entire process that a position may not be

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notes from the hazzan I have always tried to attend daily minyan whenever I am able. Now that I am a mourner, I am there most days in order to say the Mourner’s Kaddish. For the most part, Hazzan Jamie Gloth the core of regulars knows one another, and we look forward to seeing each other on a regular basis. When someone new shows up to minyan, I try to make sure I welcome them. Many times, they let me know that they are there to say the Mourner’s Kaddish for the yahrzeit of a loved one, or because they, too, are in mourning. Sometimes, however, they tell me that they were just in the area, or that they just felt like coming to minyan just to help out. Holding daily minyan twice a day, every day of the year, has been a mainstay at Beth El Synagogue Center for generations. It is something for which we are known throughout the area, and something of which we are very proud. And except in extreme circumstances, we have been able to maintain those daily minyanim almost every day. Beth El has committed to holding minyan twice every day, not only because our tradition requires that we pray daily, but also because it is important. It is important because those in mourning and those observing the yahrzeit of a loved one cannot say Mourner’s Kaddish without a minyan. It is important because we are Jews, and

Jews pray. There are some who believe that minyan is only for those who need to say Kaddish, and those who do not need to do so need not attend. These same people assume that when it is their turn to say Kaddish and they need a minyan, there will be one for them. Our minyanim continue, but there are some days when we barely seem to scrape by with ten Jewish adults. In an effort to help rejuvenate our daily minyanim and to help ensure that we always have a minyan at each service, we are introducing Minyan Magnets. Soon, each Beth El household will receive a magnet in the mail with a team number between 1 and 30 on it. We are asking that you and your family attend both morning and evening minyanim on the date of the month that corresponds to your team number. If you are on team 12, for example, you would come to services on the 12th of each month. If you are unable to attend on that day, we ask that you find someone else to go instead. Of course, if you have already committed to coming to minyan regularly, please continue to do so. It is our hope that with Minyan Magnets, we can continue to successfully sustain our daily minyanim. But we need your help. Watch your mail for your Minyan Magnet. Then, please join your team each month on your date and come to services. We’ll save you a seat! Hazzan Jamie Gloth 5

Limmud Classes for March Wednesday, March 2 7:30 pm Thursday, March 3 7:00 pm Friday, March 4 10:00 am Saturday, March 5 Saturday, March 5 Sunday, March 6 Tuesday, March 8

12:45 pm 1:00 pm 1:00 pm 7:30 pm

Wednesday, March 9 11:00 am Wednesday, March 9 7:30 pm Thursday, March 10 7:00 pm Thursday, March 10 8:00 pm Friday, March 11 10:00 am Saturday, March 12 8:30 am Saturday, March 12 Sunday, March 13

1:00 pm 10:00 am

Sunday, March 13 1:00 pm Tuesday, March 15 7:30 pm Wednesday, March 16 11:00 am Wednesday, March 16 7:30 pm Thursday, March 17 7:00 pm Friday, March 18 10:00 am Saturday, March 19 1:00 pm Sunday, March 20 1:00 pm Tuesday, March 22 7:30 pm Wednesday, March 23 11:00 am Thursday, March 24 10:00 am Thursday, March 24 7:00 pm Thursday, March 24 7:30 pm Thursday, March 24 8:00 pm Friday, March 25 10:00 am Saturday, March 26 1:00 pm Saturday, March 26 1:00 pm Sunday, March 27 1:00 pm Wednesday, March 30 11:00 am Wednesday, March 30 7:30 pm Thursday, March 31 10:00 am Thursday, March 31 Thursday, March 31 Thursday, March 31

7:00 pm 7:30 pm 8:00 pm

Re-Introduction to Judaism, with Rabbi Schuck Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri Ben Avi Parashat Hashavua, with Rabbi Josh Dorsch and Jack Gruenberg ShabbaTunes, with Hazzan Jamie Gloth Daf Shevui Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri Ben Avi Passover Haggadah Text Study, with Rabbi Schuck Passover Haggadah Text Study, with Rabbi Schuck Re-Introduction to Judaism, with Rabbi Schuck Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri Ben Avi Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad Parashat Hashavua (Rabbi Dorsch, J Gruenberg) “A Modern Understanding of the Biblical Book of Daniel,” with Rabbi Blumenfeld Daf Shevui Welcoming Seder Participants who Are Not Jewish, with Rabbi David Schuck Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri Ben Avi Passover Haggadah Text Study (Rabbi Schuck) Passover Haggadah Text Study (Rabbi Schuck) Re-Introduction to Judaism, with Rabbi Schuck Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri Ben Avi Parashat Hashavua (Rabbi Dorsch, J Gruenberg) Daf Shevui Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri Ben Avi Passover Haggadah Text Study (Rabbi Schuck) Passover Haggadah Text Study (Rabbi Schuck) WAJE: “Talmud for the Inquiring Mind,” with Rabbi Hojda Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri Ben Avi Talmud Class Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad Parashat Hashavua (Rabbi Dorsch, J Gruenberg) Daf Shevui Post-Kiddush Study Session, with Rabbi Schuck Ulpan Beginners Class, with Miri Ben Avi Passover Haggadah Text Study (Rabbi Schuck) Re-Introduction to Judaism, with Rabbi Schuck WAJE: “Talmud for the Inquiring Mind,” with Rabbi Hojda Ulpan Advanced Class, with Miri Ben Avi Passover Haggadah Text Study (Rabbi Schuck) Choir Rehearsal, with Hazzan Ellen Arad

• For Ulpan class questions, contact Miri at miriulpan@gmail.com, or 914-602-1503. • For information about WAJE, contact Alice Tenney at WAJE@wjcouncil.org, or 914-325-7001. • For questions on all other programs, please contact Rabbi Josh Dorsch at jdorsch@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 260. 6

A Modern Understanding of the Biblical Book of Daniel “The End of Days” March 12th 8:30 am - 9:30 am in the Board Room

Rabbi David L. Blumenfeld, Ph.D. (Near Eastern Literature and Languages) The Biblical Book of Daniel is a combination of narrative history and prophetic oracle. Uniquely, it is the only apocalyptic book in the Tanach. The “end of days” concern as expressed by Daniel in his time resonates strongly in our time. Global warming, nuclear weapon proliferation, pandemics, and cyber warfare loom large as possibilities. All congregants are welcome to join us for elucidating study and lively discussion. All are welcome. No fee.

“A Modern Understanding of Proverbs” Saturday, April 2nd 8:30 am - 9:30 am

Rabbi David L. Blumenfeld, Ph.D. (Near Eastern Literature and Languages) Proverbs is a Biblical book of ancient Jewish philosophy and wisdom. It offers us instruction as to how we are to navigate through life with all its challenges. Its themes cover daily business, economics, sexual relations, family, and government. In so doing, its sayings are earthy, filled with cautions, irony, and are very much “right on target” these days. All congregants are welcome to attend for a lively discussion. No fee.

The College-Age Committee will be packinG at 7:30 pm. . .

Saturday, March 5th 12:45 pm

For Purim on Thursday, March 17th

Yiddish Vinkl Fridays, 1:00 pm All are welcome!

We all enjoy speaking mamalochen! Join us every Friday to speak Yiddish, schmooze, and have fun! For further information, contact Bea Freedman, 914-337-8645.

For Passover on Thursday, April 14th all are welcome! please join us!

Get Ready for . . . Pesach! Rabbi Schuck will teach a series of classes on the text of the Passover Haggadah. Tuesdays, March 8, 15, 22, & April 5; Thursday, March 31 • 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm Wednesdays, March 9, 16, 23, 30, & April 6 • 11:00 am -12:30 pm The same class will be offered in both day and evening sessions. Each class will build on the preceding one, and sign up indicates a commitment to attend all five classes. Register at www.bethelnr.org/haggadah.

Join the smart* pEOPLE

* SMART = Senior Mature Adults Retired Together

Tuesday, MARCH 8: 10:00 am: Coffee; 10:30 am Come and laugh with the World of Jewish Humor! Enjoy the funniest Jewish moments on video with Al Kustanowitz. (www.JewishHumorPrograms.com). 11:30 a m Enjoy lunch together . . . frankfurters, knishes, and seltzer! COST: Members $8 by March 4, $10 after Community members: $10 by March 4, $12 after. Tuesday, MARCH 22: 10:00 am : Coffee and a nosh; 10:30 am The fabulous Baltimore Cone Sisters and Brothers, collectors of Matisse and modern masters, presented by Judy Schmeidler, wonderful docent of the permanent collection of the Jewish Museum of New York. Grab your seat belts for an exciting whirlwind visit with a special Jewish family! No charge.

10:30

- 11:30

Exercise Wednesdays, where walk-ins are welcome! No R.S.V.P. Needed. Free for Beth El members • Community: $60 for 10 classes; $8 for a drop-in class

First and Second Wednesdays of the month

MARCH 2 and MARCH 9: Balance Exercise and Fitness using resistance bands, balls, and cones. Led by Tim from North End Fitness.

Third Wednesday of the month

MARCH 16: Golden Zumba, with Patricia, offering Latin rhythms for a low intensity dance workout. Current events with Shari Baum to follow.

Fourth AND FIFTH! Wednesday of the month

MARCH 23 and March 30: Chair Yoga for “EVERY-Body,” with Nan, helps you to improve your health through an amazing form of adaptive, breathing exercises.

For information or to R.S.V.P., contact Julie Rockowitz at JRockowitz@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 256. 7

Keruv* Korner

*keruv: to bring closer; to draw near Keruv, the “bring closer to Judaism” committee, is composed of a dozen active Beth El members who meet regularly to explore the delicate subject of intermarriage in our community. The programming we create almost always results from the questions and comments of our fellow Beth El members. For instance: • Fundamental questions about the history of intermarriage in Judaism gave rise to our March 26th post-Kiddush study session with Rabbi Schuck. • A need felt by parents with children involved in interfaith relationships motivated Keruv to resume its “Let’s Talk About It” series in congregant homes. The first session of 2016 was held last month and will be followed by others that are announced in The Bulletin and the Shabbat Announcements. Practical questions around celebrating

Jewish holidays with non-Jewish family members are as recurrent as the Jewish calendar. And, like it does in the Jewish calendar, the holiday of Passover plays a major role. With an eye toward bringing non-Jewish family members closer to Judaism, Rabbi Schuck will lead a short, but chock-filled, session on Sunday, March 13th (see page 9). This is a free learning session. If you know anyone who may be interested, whether or not a Beth El member, please share the information. Our Committee, as these examples illustrate, means different things to different people, and that is just fine! Keruv responds directly to your questions when it can; when it cannot, we respectfully carry your concerns to the appropriate others in our synagogue. Your questions, and our committee discussions, are often not easy. Many members have

conflicted feelings about the issues that arise with intermarriage. We hope to stimulate further learning and open, respectful discussion. We are sometimes faced with questions about intermarried couples and the synagogue that are beyond both our knowledge of Jewish law and our full understanding of synagogue custom. Those are the kinds of questions that will most likely be studied and addressed by the newly reconstituted Ritual Committee in conjunction with Rabbi Schuck. We invite your continued questions— and invite you to join us—as we strive with compassion and within the bounds of Conservative Jewish law, to open doors that will bring interfaith couples and families closer to Judaism. Questions about Keruv? E-mail Nina Luban at nina.luban@gmail.com, or Elise Richman at elisekrichman@gmail.com.

62nd Annual Gala, continued from cover her former teacher, Rabbi Sirner, was now Beth El’s senior rabbi. Three years later daughter Allison was born, followed by son Jason three years after that. Soon Elise’s younger brother Martin and his wife, Lynn, joined Beth El with their young family. Sister Miriam married Bruce at Beth El, and lives with their four children in New Jersey. As Elise and Barry’s family grew, they were enriched by Beth El in countless ways. Not only did they regularly attend Shabbat and holiday services with their family, their children benefitted from Beth El’s terrific Nursery School, summer camp, Religious School, youth services, and programming. Elise and Barry made close friends, studied in Adult Education classes, socialized at events, and enjoyed the tuna fish at Kiddush! Past-President Dorothy Fox first recruited Elise to be on the Adult Education and Future Focus Committees. When Nate was in third grade, Marcia Assor invited her to join the Religious School Board. Elise was lucky to chair the School Board the first three years that Ilana Davidov was the educational director, and is proud of the work they did together to re-envision the Community Hebrew High School. Elise served for sixteen years on the school board,

and a total of twelve years on the Board of Trustees. She has rejoined the Board of Trustees again this year. Elise has co-chaired Kallah and Nominating Committees. She was especially gratified to chair an Ad Hoc Keruv Committee and stayed on to co-chair the Keruv Committee for several years, working to make Beth El an even more welcoming home for all Jewish families, be they typical or atypical. Recently she moved on to chair the BeTzelem Elokim Committee, which focuses on helping individuals with disabilities contribute to Beth El. However, she is thrilled to be joining Nina Luban in co-chairing Keruv once again. Working on the Rabbi Search Committee last year under Mark Seidenfeld and Marc Klee was an absolute delight! She and Barry are so pleased to have Rabbi Schuck and his family at Beth El. Barry has been endlessly supportive of all Elise’s passions. He serves on the board of the Westchester Jewish Council, and recently completed a six-year term on the board of Make-a-Wish Foundation for the Westchester and Hudson Valley Region. In his professional life, Barry is immersed in the not-for-profit world, with a number of synagogues as clients. He has been an educator, giving seminars 8

to help synagogues and other faith-based organizations to understand financial reporting and compliance issues. When each of Barry’s parents died, he found great comfort in the tremendously supportive Beth El minyan he attended every day. Barry’s love of Israel grows each time he and Elise go back to visit his brother and sister-in-law, Stan and Bat Sheva, and all the many nieces and nephews who make their home there. It was particularly nice when his sister Amy could join them in Israel from Florida. Elise and Barry take greatest pride in their three grown children, all living in Manhattan. Nate is an attorney working at Reitler, Kailas and Rosenblatt and is engaged to marry Stasy Slobodnick, a resident in medicine at New York University. Allison is getting her Juris Doctor degree and Masters in Social Work from Fordham University. Jason is working as an atrisk reading specialist at South Bronx Classical Charter Schools while he gets a dual masters in elementary and special education. Overwhelmed with gratitude for the many blessings they have received, the Richmans cannot wait to celebrate all that is so warm and wonderful about our Beth El community.

BeTzelem Elokim Life with Autism My family is one of many affected by autism. My elder daughter Julia, who will be ten in April, is autistic. Autism cannot be easily described because it manifests very differently, and in varying degrees, among those on the “autism spectrum.” Autism is characterized by deficits in verbal and nonverbal communication, impaired social interaction, and repetitive behavior. The definition we taught our seven-year-old daughter Gabby is a simpler one: “Autism means your brain works differently.” In Julia’s case, her language impairment is severe; she can use words to request some things she wants, but does not engage in conversation or answer basic questions. Julia can be affectionate, but her peer interaction is severely limited. Julia also has pronounced sensory processing challenges and is both a “sensory seeker” (for example, she jumps up and down) and a “sensory avoider” (movie theaters, crowds, etc.). Julia spends most of her time in the special-needs world, in the care of a wonderful and supportive team. Julia’s ungraded class has six students, one teacher, three teaching assistants/aides, and a number of therapists. Outside of school, Julia participates in activities such as therapeutic art, music, swimming, dance, and horseback riding. Unfortunately, her community is insular, restricted mostly to

other children with disabilities. Julia and Gabby are involved in many separate activities suited to their individual needs, so my husband and I divide our time between them, usually alternating “assignments” weekly so we can each stay involved in everything they do. We also expose Julia to life outside the special-needs world, often unsure of how we will fare or what challenges we will face. We do so because we believe that inclusion benefits those with and without disabilities. Autism is an integral and profound part of Julia, yet she is not defined by this alone. Her personality is evident and her strengths are emerging; her intelligence, sense of humor, and empathy are beginning to shine through. She proves regularly that she knows more and understands more than we expect. She is a devoted and loving sister, daughter, and granddaughter. Of course, Julia is also a Beth El member. That aspect of her identity, like many others, is still in the earliest stages of development. I am grateful for the opportunity to serve on the BeTzelem Elokim Committee and hope that Beth El’s commitment to inclusion will someday enable Julia to feel a sense of belonging in the Beth El community. Beth Fisch Cohen

welcoming seder participants who are NOt Jewish join a Workshop led by Rabbi David Schuck

Sunday, March 13th 10:00 am -10:45 am At Beth El Synagogue Center Free! All are welcome—members and non-members

Introducing Our . . .

Kulanu Shabbat Experience: Welcome Shabbat with an informal, family-friendly program designed to be accessible for children with special needs, including ASD and/or intellectual impairments.

Friday Evening, March 18th 6:00 pm - 6:40 pm in the wiener lounge

Light refreshments served following the service. For information, e-mail Rabbi Josh Dorsch at jdorsch@bethelnr.org, or Elise Richman at elisekrichman@gmail.com.

Post-Kiddush Study Session with Rabbi Schuck

“Intermarriage: From the Bible to the Present Day” Shabbat Afternoon, March 26th • 1:00 pm in the Wiener Lounge

All are welcome!

Questions? Need more information? Contact Elise Richman at elisekrichman@gmail.com or Nina Luban at nina.luban@gmail.com.

Questions? Contact Nina Luban at nina.luban@gmail.com or Elise Richman at elisekrichman@gmail.com.

co-sponsored by the keruv committee, Men’s Club, & Sisterhood

Sponsored by the Keruv Committee

Memories to Go: Our Stories about the Twentieth Century We are all saddened by the loss of our member and friend, Shirley Katz. Shirley, we will miss your laugh; we will miss your clever insights, and we will miss all the fun we had together. You brought everyone into your orbit and no one remained a stranger for long. This is our tribute to you, Shirley. Our friend Shirley was like a ray of sunshine. Wherever she went she brought smiles and a warm sense of friendship. We were classmates in the Beth El “Memories To Go” writing group, moderated by Lynn Lowin, and in the Shabbat Discussion Group with Jack Gruenberg. Shirley’s contributions to both these groups were always very meaningful, thoughtful, and spiritual. Her ideas on Jewish liturgy and traditions invited discussion and gave us a glimpse into her many private acts of chesed (kindness). During our last conversation a few weeks ago we talked about our grandchildren in Israel. Shirley conveyed her love, admiration, and pride in Israel’s achievements. By coincidence, we had both just read an article in The New Yorker about the celebrated Israeli poet Yehuda Amichai, and Shirley shared her reflections with much depth, wit, and insight. Shirley will be missed with heartfelt sadness and her empty chair in our classroom will always be a reminder of her remarkable spirit. Ruth Kon I just came from the funeral for Shirley Katz. Eloquent...long...and it brought back so many memories. Seeing all the “young people”—Ritchie, Laurie, Ellen, and Kenny—along with Bernie, there as mourners, ugh, a new dimension. Also there were Dedi and Reuben Rosenfeld, Dina Avery, Robbie Hirsch, and my daughter Sandra—all of the group that grew up together. That sparked more memories: The days of our youth, the Kiddush Committee

that got together on Thursday nights to prepare for Saturday’s lunch under the leadership of Stanley Hirsch, Bernie, Herb Pearlman, Martin and Martha Rosenfeld, and others who worked for the money to support the youth activities. I remembered the shows we put on with Don Eisenberg, the Israeli Day Parade floats, and the two bus loads of people who went to the parade and cheered us on. I remember the costumes we made for Peter Pan, the stage sets that Aba built, and the wonderful friendships that were built around Beth El. We were fortunate to be part of that group and so were our kids, who now have grown into the people they have become. I always thought that what goes around comes around, and today it was evident. Seeing the love and respect of the younger generation gives hope for the future. Bernice Ward As I try to write this article, I am still in shock. Shirley was a funny, fun-loving person and a good friend. For the past several years we were neighbors and we got to spend more time together. We would watch movies together in my apartment. We moved to New Rochelle in 1968. One day, my eight-year-old daughter Judy came home from synagogue services and said, “There are the von Trapp Singers; well, we have the Katz Family Singers at Beth El.” That was my introduction to my dear friends. Eventually we became part of the Katz family circle. In 1972, Judy was in bed for almost a year and I broke my leg. I was coming out of a car driven by a woman and was left standing in front of my house. I did not know what to do when a hand reached out to me to help me get into my house. There was Shirley, out of nowhere! When we were running a fund raiser for ORT, I could

Israel Tsvaygenbaum in Museum until April 3rd This exhibit of oil on canvas paintings is entitled “World in Our Eyes.” Artist Israel Tsvaygenbaum was born in Derbent, Dagestan, Russia, holds a master’s degree in Fine Arts from the University of Krasnodar, Russia. He

moved to Albany, New York in 1994, and has continued to exhibit widely in both group and solo shows in Albany, Schenectady, Troy, Woodstock, Hudson, Delmar, the Bronx, New York City, Canada, and England. The exhibit can be viewed whenever the synagogue is open. If the room is locked, get the key from the Beth El office. 10

always depend on Shirley to provide the entertainment, either by herself or with one of her children or grandchildren. Whenever I need a lift, I remember Ellen and Yossi’s wedding when Shirley sang Mach a Tenitsa Mine, and I perk up with that memory. Although I won’t be talking to you in person, my dear friend, I will talk to you in my heart and memories. Blanche Fried Our very own “Shirley Temple of the Catskills” has left us. She has left us with so many beautiful memories, some of the memories that “only the Shadow knows,” others that so many of us lived as children growing up in the Bronx. Shirley grew through her stories, from the founding of The Pelham Parkway Jewish Center—one of the first for the Bronx—to her coming to Beth El. We learned the importance of not only maintaining, but also living, the traditions of her Jewish faith. Shirley, who deeply realized the importance of all the work surrounding the celebration of Passover, who was capable of weaving so many heritages together, and who thought of Beth El as more than a building for ceremony, but rather as a community, both physical and spiritual. Oh Shirley, we will miss your insights, the glimpse into the past of the Pelham Parkway neighborhood, and the years you passed contributing to love and joy of Beth El. Rest now, Shirley. You have planted very strong seeds within your family. You loved and you are loved. Peace, Shalom. Sheila Mignone I met Shirley through our Beth El writing group. Her acerbic wit and mischievous smile (the same one I see on the face of her daughter Ellen), combined with her razor sharp intelligence, makes me very grateful that I got the opportunity to know her. What better way to end our Tribute to Shirley than to use some of her own words. Lynn Lowin “It seems that all new beginnings are exciting and a bit frightening . . . We are born, we are nurtured and educated,we date, we marry, we have children of our own, and if all goes well, (we grow older and) it is time for a new beginning. And although we see more of our doctors than of our grandchildren, there is peace in knowing that we’ve done an exemplary job and we can relax and enjoy the rest of the time God has given us.” from Beginnings, by Shirley Katz

Nursery School NEWS The 4-year-old children in our Anaf class began talking about current events. After several conversations about presidents and The White House, we asked the children, “Who is the President of the United States?” Zeev Schuck immediately and enthusiastically raised her hand and said, “Sam”! We quickly realized she meant Sam Berger, the president of Beth El Synagogue Center! Simultaneously the class got very involved in building Beth El in the block area. We decided that it was time to invite Sam to visit the classroom. We prepared a number of questions for Sam in anticipation of his visit. Sam’s data, coupled with a wonderful book that we read entitled Let Them Build Me a Sanctuary, which was published when Beth El was constructed, yielded the following information:

We found out that Beth El is 109 years old, just a little older than our friend Caleb’s house, which is eighty-seven years old! Beth El was designed by Stanley Batkin, and paid for by donations from people. Construction people built it and they got the doors from a building supply company. The bathrooms were built a long time ago, but one day they are going to all be redone! The cubbies were built with wood and screws, and after they built the building, they had furniture specially made. We also found out that the big Star of David in the lobby, near the steps, was made by Agam, the famous artist! Sam told us that he became the president because the people of the synagogue voted for him after the Board of Trustees and the Nominating Committee suggested that he would be a good president. His job is to answer questions, handle problems and complaints, and meet with the rabbi and

executive director to make sure everything is going well at the synagogue. He can be the president for two years and possibly one extra year. The good parts of the job are speaking to the fours in the Nursery School, raising money, and making sure the building is nice and clean. The bad part is that sometimes it takes long hours and he has to stay until late at night. It was so nice of him to take time out of his day to come and share all this information with us. He sat on the floor and was very charming with the children. Before we said goodbye, we all took a picture in front of “Beth El.” You can view our structure on an easel in the lobby. Enjoy! Ronnie Becher, Director P.S. Zeev went home and asked her parents if the house that Sam lives in is white! We are always amazed at how the minds of our children work!

Nursery School Students Meet the President

OPENS MONDAY, JUNE 29th (and continues through Friday, August 15th)

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Camp will be open on Friday, July 3rd, and Monday, July 6th! To Register: bethelnr.org/daycamp

A Note from Your Men’s Club . . . Please join us for one of our signature events of the year—the Dr. Ed Scharfman Men’s Club Shabbat on March 5th. See your friends lead the service and join us for Kiddush afterwards.

guests (21 and older only, of course). See the boxes on the cover and on page 3 for more information! We also want to crow about our hugely successful World Wide Wrap, with forty participants, on Sunday, February 7th. See you there next year on Super Bowl Sunday. Our Bagel and Schmear monthly meeting is scheduled for Sunday, March 13th, at 9:30 am. Join us to discuss programming for the rest of the year and beyond. Rob Levine Steven Young

Great music! Great food! Great booze! Chag Purim Sameach! We are excited about Purim and the shul-wide Purim Party, featuring a LIVE BAND! on Saturday night, March 19th. CloudNYne promises to keep us all on our feet, dancing the night away with all of your wedding/bar mitzvah favorites. And at a cost of only $25 per person if you reserve by March 11th, or $30 per person after that date or at the door, it is cheaper than a gift. This event was a huge success last year and promises to reach even greater heights this year. Please join us at 8:15 pm for Havdalah, with the party starting at 8:30 pm. There will be Hot Hors D’oeuvres, Hamantashen, Cocktails, and Mocktails. Open to ALL members and

Men’s Club Monthly Meeting Sunday, March 13th • 9:30 am Join us for a bagel and schmear and help plan our upcoming events

At the Movies with New Rochelle Hadassah

SISTERHOOD Tea Bag Fund raiser

We are pleased to present the award winning film Ida, 2015 Academy Award Oscar Winner for Best Foreign Language Film of the Year. Set in 1962 Poland, the film is about a young woman on the verge of taking vows as a Catholic nun. Orphaned as an infant during the German occupation, Ida meets her aunt, and only surviving relative, and learns that her parents were Jewish. The two women embark on a road trip of discovery through the Polish countryside. Called a “compact masterpiece” Ida won the 2015 Academy Award for Best Foreign Language Film and was selected as Best Film of 2014 by the European Film Academy and the British Academy of Film and Television Arts.

Too cold to go out? Stay home, put your feet up, and have a cup of tea on Sisterhood! Our Annual Tea Bag Fund Raiser benefits Sisterhood’s Shiva Dinner initiative. Questions? E-mail Susan Morris, sgmorris@optonline.net.

Monday, March 21st

Eastchester Public Library 11 Oakridge Place, Eastchester, NY Light lunch: 12:30 pm; Film: 1:00 pm You have to feed the meter, so please bring quarters or a credit card. Everyone is welcome to join us.

A night of laughter and fun, plus team competition as Sisterhood played “Jewish Taboo” at Game night. A more serious game of Mah Jongg was also played.

Save the date . . .

Sisterhood Baum Judaica Gift Shop

Sisterhood Gala

has something for every Jewish occasion! New tallitot in stock!

Tuesday Evening, May 24th honoring

Open during special events and by appointment. Contact Carole Graham at carolegraham@optonline.net, or 914-576-6617; or Ellen Hollander at ellenarts@optonline.net, or 914-632-4658.

Vicki Fisher

as she retires from Sisterhood’s Executive Board 12

Sisterhood Scene I am writing this having just returned from Sisterhood’s Game Night. Thankfully, the snow held off and we were able to enjoy a fun-filled evening of laughter and friendly competition. But Sisterhood is not all fun and games. We are also an important fundraising organization with events coming up this month that need your support. Invitations have been mailed and information has already been publicized regarding our annual Goldye James Torah Fund Brunch. Our Torah Fund campaign is a major focus of the Sisterhood year. We have been broadcasting that message in any way that we can in order to maintain our historically strong support of the Jewish Theological Seminary, an institution vital

to the life of our Conservative movement. Please add your support and join us as we honor Gaby Newfield on Sunday, March 13th, at 11:00 am. Respond to Rita Kaufman at rita.kaufman@gmail.com, or Susan Morris at sgmorris@optonline.net. Our future rabbis, cantors, and educators are depending on you. Tea bag fund-raising letters have also been mailed and we hope you will support our efforts. This fund raiser benefits our Shiva Dinner Fund, which helps bring comfort to those in our community who suffer a loss. Please respond as generously as you can so that we can continue our mission to be there for each other in a time of need. Stay warm! Barbara Horowitz, Sisterhood President

2016 Shop Smart, Do Good FundRaising Day Lord & Taylor Shopping Benefit FRIday, APRIL 1st opens at 9:00 am • Eastchester Store only! Sponsored by the Sisterhood of Beth El Pre-shopping (credit card only) begins on March 25th Purchase a ticket for a $5 donation, which serves as your admission to this event. The ticket includes two 25% bonus coupons, with very limited exclusions, and your 15% savings pass (usable all day), good on regular- and sale-priced items, including cosmetics and fragrances! Plus, you can save an additional 10% on top of all the other great savings when you use your Lord & Taylor credit card. For tickets or questions, contact Linda Resnick at 914-576-3632, or cosa48@ yahoo.com; or the synagogue office at 914-235-2700, ext. 223/226, or visit LordandTaylor.com/dogoodeastchester (Be sure to enter Beth El Synagogue Sisterhood New Rochelle in the drop down).

Questions? Contact Erica Epstein at 914-391-6662, or Cynthia Glickman at 914-582-6297.

Next date . . .

Thursday, APRIL 7th 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm

FREE NO R.S.V.P. NEEDED.

By Fire, By Water by Mitchell Kaplan 13

GOLDYE JAMES Torah Fund Brunch Sunday, March 13th 11:00 am honoring

Gaby Newfield Couvert: $42 per person Register at bethelnr.org/torahfund or contact chairs Rita Kaufman at rita.kaufman@gmail.com, or Susan Morris at sgmorris@optonline.net. Make check payable to Beth El Sisterhood.

Joan Freedman Sisterhood Shabbat, May 21st All Sisterhood members are invited to take part. howcase our many talents! You don’t have to be fluent in Hebrew; English parts are available, too. And, we are happy to help if you want to learn something new. Contact chair Vicki Fisher at 914-636-1819 or vkfisher18@ gmail.com.

Ongoing Sisterhood Programs Card Room, 12:45 pm weekly: Canasta (Mondays); Mah Jongg (Tuesdays) Wa l k i n g C l u b meets every Monday at 9:30 am for a nice easy walk—not a jog. All are welcome! Bagels & Books Book Club usually meets on the last Monday of the month, at 9:30 am. Join us on Monday, March 28th, for Light Between Oceans, by M.L. Stedman. Mitzvah Knitting: Free lessons and supplies. Knit at home and donate your work. Children’s hats, scarves, and 7” squares for afghans. Questions? E-mail Phyllis at pjf920@verizon.net. questions ON ANY OF THESE PROGRAMS? Contact Arlene Salman, aesalman@aol.com, or 914-235-2485.

YOUTH & FAMILY ENGAGEMENT RELIGIOUS SCHOOL HIGHLIGHTS Thursday, March 3

Art for Alef & Bet

Thursday, March 3

Gan-Gesher Educator Meeting, 6:00 pm-7:30 pm

Friday, March 4

Gimel, Dalet, Hey Erev Shabbat, 6:00 pm-8:00 pm

Sunday, March 6

Olim & Tichon Educator Meeting, 1:00 pm-2:30 pm

Monday, March 7

E.L.I., 4:30 pm – 5:15 pm

Thursday, March 10 Dorothy Fleishaker Dancing Letters Program for Alef - Gimel Sunday, March 13

Rosh Hodesh Pajama Day Art for Gimel-Hey

Monday, March 14

E.L.I., 4:30 pm – 5:15 pm

Sunday, March 20

No Religious School Classes – PURIM CARNIVAL

Sunday, March 27

Standith Us Program for Teens

Monday, March 28

E.L.I., 4:30 pm – 5:15 pm Religious School Board Meeting, 8:00 pm-10:00 pm

Thursday, March 31 Art for Alef & Bet

Religious School News March is a busy month in the Religious School. We’ll kick off the month with our Gimel, Dalet, and Hey Erev Shabbat program, an amazing opportunity for our 3rd-5th grade Religious School families to see their children’s learning in action and get to know one another better. As the month goes on, celebrations and learning centered around Purim will begin. Our 1st-3rd graders love spending time with Shmulik Gov-Ari in the Dorothy Fleishaker Dancing Letters Program, which will have a Purim theme this month. We’re also excited to welcome StandWithUs, who will do a special Israel program with our teens. It is sure to be a wonderful learning opportunity!

follow the Religious School on Twitter! @bethelrelschool

Incentive Scholarships for Ramah Sleep Away Camp and USY Summer Programs for Beth El Members

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Above, learning the bracha (prayer) for a rainbow in Kitah Bet (2nd grade)! At left, practicing Hebrew letters and vowels by playing Bingo in Kitah Alef (1st grade)!

Beth El is pleased to offer incentive scholarships to support children of our members to attend Ramah Sleep Away Camp. Thanks to a generous donation from the Price-Wexler Family Camp Ramah Endowment, scholarships are offered to campers in families who have not had a child attend Camp Ramah sleep away, or have attended for only one summer. You may apply for a scholarship for up to $1,000 for first time families and up to $500 for a second summer. While it is still cold outside think about a United Synagogue Youth (USY) trip for next summer. USY offers great summer trips to Israel, across the United States, and more. Travel and fun in a Conservative Jewish environment helps to form memories of a lifetime. Beth El is pleased to offer incentive scholarships to support teen participation. Scholarships are intended to encourage youth to participate and are not based on financial need. For an application, e-mail Lauren Berger at LBerger422@aol.com. These scholarships are made possible thanks to contributions to The Teen Educational Experience Scholarship Fund by Beth El members, including a generous contribution from Sisterhood. To make a contribution to this fund, please use visit bethelnr.org/donate or call Alise at 914-235-2700, ext. 223.

YOUTH & FAMILY ENGAGEMENT Jen’s Corner One of my favorite learning activities to do with children and adults is to think about the perspectives of our stories. If Megillat Esther was rewritten from the point of view of Esther, how would that change the story? If it was from the point of view of Haman, how would that change the story? I think it is a pivotal lesson in recognizing biases in the story. Often, I then turn the conversation to perspectives in news stories, or in media. As we go through our day-to-day life, it is so important to think about the perspectives that are being represented in the messages we encounter. Who is being represented and do we agree with that representation? If not, how can we help to shift the message? I hope that as we enter this month, we can think critically about the perspectives of the messages we come across and how we can help them match our own perspectives.

YOUTH COMMUNITY HIGHLIGHTS Sunday, March 6

Ruach (K-2nd grades), 11:00 am-12:15 pm Chaverim (3rd-5th grades), 12:00 pm-1:15 pm

Friday, March 11

PURIM CAMPAIGN DEADLINE

Sunday, March 13

Rosh Hodesh Parent Learning, with Rabbi Dorsch, 9:15 am-10:00 am

Sunday, March 20

PURIM CARNIVAL, 11:00 am-1:30 pm

Thursday, March 24

Rosh Hodesh Girls, 6:30 pm-8:00 pm

Thursday, March 31

USY Event

Watch your e-mail for information about other upcoming Youth Events!

Youth Community Update As we enter the month of March, we want to remind you about the Annual Purim Campaign. Each year, Beth El helps our members to fulfill an important mitzvah of Purim, Matanot Le’evyonim, helping those whose needs are greater than our own by contributing to Masorti (the Conservative Movement in Israel, www.masorti.org) and MAZON: A Jewish Response to Hunger (www.mazon.org), and building our Youth Community. You should have received a letter in the mail with your user name and password. Simply log onto www.purimproject.com to participate. If you have any questions, feel free to contact Jen at jvegh@bethelnr.org, or 914-2352700, ext. 221. All orders must be placed by Friday, March 11th. Also, mark your calendar because the Purim Carnival is BACK and better than ever because we’re going on a tropical vacation! Get your lei and straw hat ready—you won’t want to miss this year’s Purim Carnival on Sunday, March 20th. To volunteer to help revamp a booth or work on the day of the carnival, please contact the Youth Office, ext. 221. We look forward to seeing you!

Pictured at left, USY making delicious hummus during their first annual Hummus Off! Below, peace, strength, confidence, serenity, balance . . . Chaverim (3rd-5th grade) NamasDay was a huge success. Shown here, Chaverim doing yoga!

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Purim at Beth El see page 2 15

IN THE COMMUNITY Please join us!

Holocaust Remembrance Program March 7th - March 11th 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM daily

UJA is proud to present Award-Winning Journalist

Gary Rosenblatt editor and publisher of

“the jewish week”

Speakers at 10:00 am & 12:00 pm

On “Seeing Ourselves in the Mirror: Jews and the Media,”

Sunday, March 6th, at 7:00 pm

at the Lincoln Park Jewish Center

at the Young Israel of Harrison

311 Central Park Avenue, Yonkers

91 Union Avenue, Harrison, New York

To honor the memory of the twelve million victims of this horrific genocide, JCY-Westchester Community Partners and Lincoln Park Jewish Center will offer this program, featuring live accounts given by survivors and a poster display, “Courage to Remember,” by the Simon Wiesenthal Center.

Sponsored by UJA-Federation’s Tov B’Yachad Community Open to the public. Dessert reception to follow. Couvert: $18 per person. To register, please visit www.ujafedny.org/tby-yioh or contact glicks@ujafedny.org or 914.385.2120. UJA-Federation of New York | Westchester 701 Westchester Avenue Suite 203E | White Plains, NY 10604 (914) 385-2120 | E-mail: glicks@ujafedny.org

The entire community are invited to attend. For more information, contact Randee Ginsberg at rginsberg@jcy-wcp.com.

President’s Message, cont. from page 5

The candidates we have identified are highly sought after and have multiple auditions scheduled with other synagogues for positions that start this July. We believe that Beth El’s reputation, our warm congregation, desirable location, and our strong clergy and senior staff leadership team may persuade a candidate to wait an additional twelve months for the opportunity to work as a full-time Assistant Rabbi at Beth El. By the time you receive this Bulletin, we will have already had the opportunity to see Rabbi Lauren Henderson, and Rabbi Zach Sitkin is scheduled for March 11-13. Please send feedback on the candidates to rabbisearch2016@bethelnr.org. At the same time, we are thrilled that Rabbi Dorsch has chosen to stay Beth El for the coming year and we are excited to have another year to learn from him. See you in shul, Sam

Ask the Rabbis:

Rabbis Bronstein, Morgenstern, Schuck, & Sirkman in conversation with Joseph Berger Join Joseph Berger as he engages in a lively discussion with four local rabbis on their movement’s perspective on the current state of Judaism in America as it relates to religious observance, intermarriage, anti-Semitism, and Israel. Berger will be moderating this open discussion with colleagues Rabbis Lester Bronstein, Jonathan Morgenstern, David Schuck, and Jeff Sirkman.

Tuesday March 29th • 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm at the JCC Mid-Westchester 999 Wilmot Road, Scarsdale, NY 1058

Tickets: $20 Visit jccmw.org. Under the tab “Adults & Seniors,” click on Arts & Talks and scroll down to March 2016, “Ask the Rabbis.” In collaboration with Beth El Synagogue Center, Bet Am Shalom, Young Israel of Scarsdale, and Larchmont Temple. 16

YAHRZEIT OBSERVANCES

The yahrzeit of the following deceased persons permanently inscribed on our Memorial Walls are observed on these dates:

Kiddush

Charles Epstein 1 Charles Librett 1 Harry Lowenbraun 1 Isaac Werbelosky 1 Fritzi Abrams 2 Rose Kramer 2 Solomon Wofsy 2 Nathan Florowitz 3 Jules Guggenheim 3 Joseph Hoffer 3 Beverly Robinson Mansfield 3 Dr. Matthew Statsinger 3 Gilbert Kahn 4 Helen Scheer 4 Philip Weintraub 4 Vivian R. Fink 5 Norma Schneiderman 5 Celia Newman Sushner 5 Jerome Louis Ginsberg 6 Eugene Kellner 6 Samuel V. Price 6 Bunny Schaffer 6 Sarah Kaufman 7 Nathan Landin 7

The Kiddush of February 27th was sponsored by Hazzan Ellen and Graham Arad. The Kiddush of March 5th will be sponsored by Beth El’s Men’s Club in honor of the Dr. Ed Scharfman Men’s Club Shabbat.

Condolences

We record with sorrow the losses suffered by our members and friends and extend to them our deepest sympathies. Condolences to: Bernard Katz upon the loss of his wife, Shirley, mother of Kenneth (Gillian) Katz, Ellen (Yossi) Berkovitch and Richard (Gila) Katz and Laurie (Victor) BenAmo. Mark Seidenfeld upon the loss of his mother, Rella Seidenfeld. Kelly Berkell Mamaysky upon the loss of her grandmother Merylin Edelson; Deborah Kurlander upon the loss of her father, Walter Zamechek; Renee Wolk upon the loss of her father, Alan Liker; The family of Jerome Weinrib upon his passing; Marilyn Sofer upon the loss of her father, Stanley Galler; Laurence Stein upon the loss of his mother, Ruth Stein; Steven Stein upon the loss of his mother, Ruth Stein.

Esther Liebe Gertrude Ratner Sidney Druskin Eva Goldfarb Gertrude Teichman Benjamin Kalen Frances Klein Julia Lefkowitz Morris Rosenblatt Julius Shulman Esther Bub Strum Annie Golub Rabbi Isaac Shanok Selma Berry Dorothy Messite Annette Chabrow Dorothy Sobel Irving Sobel Abraham Burstein Miriam Katowitz Benjamin Greenstein Dora Gerber Sam Stieglitz

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Share your milestone events with us!

If you experience a milestone or a loss in your family, contact Linda at LNewman@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 246..

If so, please bring it to the attention of Erica Leventhal at ELeventhal@bethelnr.org, or 914-235-2700, ext. 225.

Beth El Celebrates March Birthdays Beth El Synagogue Center would like to extend a “Happy Birthday!” to its members with a birthday in the month of March We hope that you will join us for Kiddush lunch on Lauren Afran Robert Alterman Stan Arkow Glenn Barney Jesse Bartell Stephen Bartell Hannah Bases Paul Bernstein Michelle Blaustein Joan Brown Enrique Casanova Lance Cohen Stanley Cohen Howard Cohen Yehuda Cohen Janis Demartini Michael Dorman

Noel Edelson Arlene Elkind Erica Epstein Jordan Esrig Michael Felberg Eve Ferdman Richard Feuerstein Susan Field Steven Fuchs Bruce Gold Joshua Goldstein David Gordon Lita Gottesman Florence Graff Daniel Groner Peter Gross Ellen Gross

Shabbat, March 12th. If you have a March birthday, but your name does not appear on the list, we are sorry for the omission and we ask that you e-mail the synagogue at info@bethelnr.org so that we can update our

records. Please contact us if you do not wish to have your name appear on our birthday list. (The list reflects our adult members and post-bar/bat mitzvah children up to the age of 21.)

Beth Halperin Zoe Heller Samantha Herlands Mark Hirsh Barbara Horowitz Robert Jacobson Ethel Kaplowitz Alan Kellman Shlomo Kessel Vera Kessler Jason Klee Nora Klion-Wolloch Jennifer Klonsky Iva Kornreich Lena Kundel Rubin Kuszel Seth Leibowitz

Margery Reisfeld Jonathan Rieber Jamie Rothenberg Evelyn Rothenberg Samuel Schiller Zachary Schwartz Melanie Selber Joel Siegel Susan Silberberg Robert (Mitch) Sofer Ira Solomon Jeffrey Stahl Rachelle Stern Steven Stern Burton Stern Pearl Sullivan Marianne Sussman

Jay Lerman Elliot Lesser Susan Lesser Gilbert Levine Elizabeth Levine Lance Levine Michael Malina Lisa Mandelker Andrew Messinger Miriam Morris George Newfield Dianne Newman Selma Parker David Pfeffer Greg Portnoy Ilene Poses Deborah Ramos

Andrew Tannen Barnett Troodler Mitchell Troyetsky Zwi Weinberg Kira Weiss Leni Wiener Sophia Wolk Arthur Wolk Ivor Wolk Allan Wolkoff Steven Young Lester Zimmerman Happy

Birthday!

MARCH 2016 MONDAY

SUNDAY 1324 North Avenue New Rochelle, NY 10804-2190 914-235-2700 • www.bethelnr.org

A Conservative synagogue affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism Rabbi ....................................David A. Schuck Hazzan ........................................Jamie Gloth Associate Rabbi......................Joshua Dorsch Associate Cantor .............................. Uri Aqua Rabbi Emeritus ..................... Melvin N. Sirner Cantor Emeritus...............Lawrence Avery, z”l Hazzan Emeritus ................... Farid Dardashti Executive Director ................. Erica Leventhal Controller ....................................Olivier Vogel Day Camp Director ................ Julie Rockowitz Nursery School Director ........ Ronnie Becher Dir. of Youth & Family Engagement .. Jen Vegh Special Projects Director ........Linda Newman Maintenance Director ...............Milton Sinclair OFFICERS President ............................Samuel E. Berger Executive Vice President... Geralynn C. Reifer Vice President .......................... Daniel Burton Vice President .................. Sandra Gruenberg Vice President ....................Mark Seidenfeld Treasurer .............................. Joseph Wygoda Financial Secretary ...................Debbie Young Recording Secretary ................. Jayne Peister AFFILIATE OFFICERS Sisterhood President .......... Barbara Horowitz Men’s Club Co-Presidents ........Robert Levine Steven L. Young Religious Sch. Parent Org. ...........Ellen Barlis, Rachel Casanova, Marci Marcus BULLETIN EDITOR ...............Linda Newman

Daily Minyan Beth El maintains morning and evening services every day of the year. Contact Associate Cantor Uri Aqua, 914-235-2700, ext. 222.

Evening Minyan Times Mincha and Maariv

March

1– 4 5 – 11 12 – 18 19 – 31

5:30 pm 5:45 pm 6:45 pm 7:00 pm

Please visit the Beth El Synagogue Center website, WWW.BETHELNR.ORG for the most current information on meetings and events. To send us a message, e-mail info@bethelnr.org.

21 I ADAR

Mahjong 12:45 pm

Sisterhood Hamantashen Baking 7:00 pm

Visit us on facebook at facebook.com/BethElSynagogueCenter

26 I ADAR

27 I ADAR

Religious School Kehillah 9:00 am

Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 am

Zumba 9:30 am

Walking Club 9:30 am

Ruach 11:00 am Chaverim 12:00 pm Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 pm

Canasta 12:45 pm

28 I ADAR

SMART People “Jewish Humor” 10:00 am Mahjong 12:45 pm

E.L.I. Meeting 4:30 pm

Nursery School Board Mtg 7:30 pm

Executive Council 8:00 pm

Sisterhood Executive Board Meeting 7:30 pm Passover Haggadah Class 7:30 pm

3 II ADAR

METNY Kadima Day Religious School Kehillah 9:00 am Rosh Hodesh Parent Learning 9:15 am Men’s Club Meeting 9:30 am Zumba 9:30 am Welcoming Seder Participants 10:00 am Sisterhood Torah Fund Lunch 11:00 am Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 pm Daylight Savings Time Starts— Move clock forward 1 hour at 2:00 am

10 II ADAR Religious School Closed

4 II ADAR

5 II ADAR

Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 am Walking Club 9:30 am Canasta 12:45 pm

Mahjong 12:45 pm

E.L.I. Meeting 4:30 pm Friends of the IDF Concert 7:30 pm (off-site)

11 II ADAR

Passover Haggadah Class 7:30 pm Sisterhood General Board Meeting 7:30 pm

12 II ADAR

AIPAC Conference (off-site)

Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 am

Zumba 9:30 am

SMART People “Modern Masters” 10:00 am

Walking Club 9:30 am

Purim Carnival 11:00 am

New Rochelle Hadassah Goes to the Movies 12:30 pm (off-site)

Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 pm

Canasta 12:45 pm

Shacharit*

Saturdays – 9:00 am Sundays – 8:00 am Mondays & Thursdays, 6:55 am Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays, 7:00 am

TUESDAY

17 II ADAR

18 II ADAR

Mahjong 12:45 pm Passover Haggadah Class 7:30 pm

19 II ADAR

Nursery School Picture Day

Religious School Kehillah 9:00 am

Nursery School Havdalah 9:05 am

Zumba 9:30 am

Sisterhood Bagels and Books 9:30 am Walking Club 11:30 am

Hebrew Ulpan, Beginners 1:00 pm

Canasta 12:45 pm E.L.I. Meeting 4:30 pm Religious School Board Meeting 8:00 pm

Mahjong 12:45 pm Ask the Rabbis, with Rabbi Schuck and Others 7:30 pm (off-site at jcc mid-westchesteR)

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I ADAR ~ II ADAR 5776 WEDNESDAY 2

22 I ADAR

Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 am

FRIDAY

THURSDAY 3

23 I ADAR

WAJE with Rabbi Hojda, 10:00 am

SHABBAT

24 I ADAR

Toddler Time 9:15 am; 10:45 am Parashat Hashavua 10:00 am

Religious School Gan Gesher Mtg. 6:00 pm

29 I ADAR

30 I ADAR

Religious School Gimel, Dalet, Hey Erev Shabbat 6:00 pm

1 II ADAR

Parashat Hashavua 10:00 am

USY Board Meeting 6:00 pm

Passover Haggadah Class 11:00 am

5:40 pm

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 pm

Cub Scouts 6:00 pm

Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 pm

Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 pm (off-site) Schmooze with Rabbi 7:30 pm (R.s.V.p. only, off-site)

Shabbat Dinner for Re-Introduction to Judaism Class 6:30 pm

Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm ROSH HODESH

6 II ADAR

ROSH HODESH

7 II ADAR

8 II ADAR

Toddler Time 9:15 am; 10:45 am

Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 am

Parashat Hashavua 10:00 am

Passover Haggadah Class 11:00 am Nursery School Westchester Director Network and Project SEED 2:00 pm

Cub Scouts 6:00 pm

SMART Schmooze with Rabbi 3:00 pm (by prior R.s.V.p. only)

Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 pm

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 pm

6:48 pm

Officers Meeting 7:00 pm Kulanu Shabbat Experience 6:00 pm

Sisterhood Mitzvah Knitting 9:30 am Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 am Passover Haggadah Class 11:00 am JLiFE and Youth Community Purim Experience 5:30 pm Megillah Reading 7:00 pm

15 II ADAR

Rosh Hodesh Girls 6:00 pm

Toddler Time 9:15 am; 10:45 am

Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 pm Nursery School Dad’s Night Out 7:30 pm Schmooze with Rabbi 7:30 pm (R.s.V.p. only, off-site)

Parashat Hashavua 10:00 am Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 pm

Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 am Passover Haggadah Class 11:00 am Nursery Sch. Bridge Network Mtg. 1:00 pm

Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 am Youth Services 10:45 am

16 II ADAR

6:55 pm

Shabbat ends 7:55 pm

Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 am Youth Services 10:45 am Daf Shevui 1:00 pm

SHUSHAN PURIM

PURIM

9 II ADAR

Shabbat ends 7:48 pm

TZAV

Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm

20 II ADAR

Youth Community USY & Kadima Purim Prep 8:30 pm

WAJE with Rabbi Hojda, 10:00 am

TA’ANIT ESTHER

14 II ADAR

Birthday Shabbat A Modern Understanding 8:30 am Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Serv Oneg 10:15 am Youth Services 10:45 am Daf Shevui 1:00 pm

Daf Shevui 1:00 pm Men’s Club Purim Party 8:30 pm

Board of Trustees 8:00 pm

13 II ADAR

Shabbat ends 6:40 pm

VAYIKRA

Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 pm (off-site) College-Age Committee Packing 7:30 pm

2 II ADAR

PEKUDEI

Toddler Time 9:15 am; 10:45 am

Get SMART Get Fit 10:30 am

Shabbat ends 6:32 pm

DR. ED SCHARFMAN MEN’S CLUB SHABBAT Shabbat SPACE 9:30 am Pre-Service Oneg 10:15 am Youth Services 10:45 am ShabbaTunes 12:45 pm Daf Shevui 1:00 pm

Schmooze with Rabbi 7:30 pm (R.s.V.p. only, off-site)

25 I ADAR VAYEKHEL

5:32 pm

Yiddish Vinkl 1:00 pm

Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 pm (off-site) Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 pm

21 II ADAR

WAJE with Rabbi Hojda, 10:00 am USY 6:00 pm

Re-Introduction to Judaism 7:30 pm (off-site) Hebrew Ulpan, Advanced 7:00 pm Passover Haggadah Class 7:30 pm Choir Rehearsal 8:00 pm

Post Kiddush Discussion on Intermarriage with Rabbi 1:00 pm

Contributions Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Caryl Fuchs in memory of her grandson Alex Matta; Muriel and Leon Geller in memory of Alex Matta; Deborah Gerstein in honor of the yahrzeits of her grandparents Rebecca Jackson and Morris Gerstein; Mitchell and Annette Fogelman in memory of Alex Matta; Scott Reiner and Dana Asher in gratitude of Rabbi Dorsch’s comfort in officiating at the funeral of their beloved mother/grandmother Paula Reiner; Matthew and Jill Levy; Pam Ehrenkranz of the UJA-Federation of Greenwich in gratitude for Rabbi Schuck’s participation in the UJA Lunch and Learn program; Tracey Levy in gratitude of comfort provided by Rabbi Schuck at the time of her grandfather’s hospitalization and death; Rob and Jodi Scheinfeld in honor of the excellence of Beth El’s educators and clergy in preparing Maya to become a bat mitzvah; Noel and Leah Edelson in memory of Harry Edelson; Tova Usdan in memory of Karen Usdan; Alan and Risë Stern; Sheila Tanenbaum in honor of the wedding of David and Barbara Horowitz’s son Michael; Mitchell and Annette Fogelman in honor of the wedding of David and Barbara Horowitz’s son Michael; Arthur Holland in honor of the yahrzeit of Louis Holland; Richard Simon; Miriam Rabin and family in memory of Shirley Katz; Linda and Sol Haber in memory of Shirley Katz.

SYLVIA AND ROBERT SCHER CHESED COMMUNITY FUND IN HONOR OF: Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua on the birth of their grandson Yonah, from Sharon and Peter Spenser, and Barbara Finder and Jack Renick.

Words cannot describe the deep appreciation for all the love, comfort and support this sacred community has provided to me and my family since the loss of my mother, Rella Seidenfeld, z”k. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you.

Mark Seidenfeld and Family

General fund IN HONOR OF: A generous donation was received from Diane and Eugene Linett. Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua on the birth of their grandson Yonah, from Bilha and Jerry Gottlieb, Barbara and Bob Cohen, and Harriet and Lenny Schwartz. IN MEMORY OF: Maximo Nozcye, beloved husband of Molly Nozyce, from Randi and Alan Menchel, Melissa and Andy Komaroff, and Melissa and David Fertig. Irving Levy, from Linda and Bill Grabel. Gail Goldstein-Kenvin, beloved mother of Howard Goldstein, on her yahrzeit, from Helene and Howard Goldstein. Rella Seidenfeld, beloved mother of Mark Seidenfeld, from Joyce and Michael Wechsler, and Susan and Michael Meisler.

Shirley Katz, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother of the Katz family, from Joyce and Michael Wechsler, Lynn and Jeffery Lowin, Bettina Graf and family, Myra and Gordon Gondos and family, Ira Postel, and Mila and Michael Greenberg. Tola and Leon Messing on their yahrzeits, from Micki Joseph. Yahrzeit/Yizkor Donations Jenny Ferencz; Anna Leiser-Kleinhaus; Michelle and Howard Cohen; Marsha Green; Priscilla Bloom; Kenneth and Cindy Klein; Marcia Kahn; Karen and Larry Getzler; Murray Zung; Deborah Frankel; Nathan and Denise Eisler; Steven and Debra Fuchs; David and Ruth Hirsh; Alan Scheinkman; Ella and Russell Fayer; Leonora Loewentheil; Vona Herz; Michael and Susan Lurie; Laura Penn; Cindy Aaronson and Stan Arkow; Janet May Jakoby; Mitchel and Ronnie Kaplan; Rita Cohen; Jerry and Bilha Gottlieb; The Troyetsky Family.

special needs fund IN HONOR OF:

IN MEMORY OF:

The birth of a Katzeff grandson, son of Mindi and Joshua Katzeff and grandson of Barbara and Harvey Katzeff, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Jacob Ader, beloved father of Marcia Pryluck and grandfather of Tracey Levy, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

The birth of a Dardashti grandson, son of Rabbi Michelle Dardashti and Nathan Sher and grandson of Sheila and Hazzan Farid Dardashti, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Alexander Matta, beloved grandson of Caryl Fuchs, from Ruth and Jacob Esses.

The birth of Jonah Sidney Litwin, son of Talia Aqua Litwin and Eli Litwin and grandson of Judy and Cantor Uri Aqua, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt, and Judy Harary. The birth of Zoey Judith Vegh, daughter of Jen and Jeff Vegh, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. The bat mitzvah of Ilana Shechter, daughter of Carrie Fox and David Shechter, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Noah Rockowitz, beloved husband of Julie Rockowitz, from Ruth and Jacob Esses, and Judy Harary. Our beloved father, Benjamin B. Rosenberg, on his yahrzeit, from Wendy and Alan Rosenberg. Our beloved brother Peter Cutler on his yahrzeit, from Wendy and Alan Rosenberg. My beloved brother Oscar Mandel on his yahrzeit, from Dalia Fenster.

The engagement of Abby Wise and Graham Fisher, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Shirley Katz, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother of the Katz family, from Judy Harary, Norma Wasserman, Wendy and Alan Rosenberg, and The Writing Group—Blanche Fried, Ruth Kon, Sheila Mignone, Lynn Lowin, and Bernice Ward.

The thirty-fifth wedding anniversary of Elise and Barry Richman, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

Rella Seidenfeld, beloved mother of Mark Seidenfeld, from Norma Wasserman.

The bar mitzvah of Jonathan Gotian, son of Ruth and Amnon Gotian, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt.

The seventy-fifth birthday of Dr. Michael Wechsler, from Elizabeth and Alan Legatt. Barbara and David Horowitz on the marriage of their son Michael to Maria Gajda, from Judy Harary.

ELEANOR G. BAUMWALD PRAYERBOOK FUND IN MEMORY OF: Shirley Katz, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother of the Katz family, from Laura Lewis.

Contributions DAY CAMP SCHOLARSHIP FUND IN MEMORY OF: Noah Rockowitz, beloved husband and father, from Rosalind and Richard Kaufman, and Robert and Cindy Remin. Shirley Katz, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother of the Katz family, from Carol and Paul Freedman. Rella Seidenfeld, beloved mother of Mark Seidenfeld, from Liz and Eric Alderman and family.

DOROTHY FLEISHAKER RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND

Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund

IN HONOR OF:

Rachel Freedman, daughter of Carol and Paul Freedman, on her installation as co-president of the Westchester Region of Hadassah, from Caryle and Ira Gulker.

The Vegh family on the birth of their daughter Zoey, from the Ackerman family. IN MEMORY OF: Sylvia Halpern, beloved mother of Linda Lesser, from Rosalind and Richard Kaufman. Rella Seidenfeld, beloved mother of Mark Seidenfeld, from Donald Fleishaker.

YOUTH ACTIVITIES FUND

Rella Seidenfeld, beloved mother of Mark Seidenfeld, from the Erber family. Shirley Katz, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother of the Katz family, from Linda and Harvey Heir, Dana Rottman, and Elise and Bob Schepp.

To make a donation Contact Alise Liquorie at 914-235-2700, ext. 223, or aliquorie@bethelnr.org, or visit www.bethelnr.org/donate.

Yonah Sidney, grandson of Cantor Uri and Judy Aqua, from Joyce and Michael Wechsler, and Sharon Schoenholtz and Larry and Matthew Hanau. Helene Wolloch on celebrating her ninetieth birthday, from Miriam Rabin, and Naomi Raber. The marriage of Michael Horowitz, son of Barbara and David Horowitz, to Maria Gajda, from Sol and Linda Haber.

IN MEMORY OF: Sara Honey Galler on her yahrzeit, from Marilyn and Mitch Sofer.

In Honor of:

PTA ISRAEL TRAVEL STUDY FUND IN HONOR OF: Helene Wolloch on the celebration of her ninetieth birthday, from the Schepp family. Ellen and Yossi Berkovitch on the upcoming marriage of Galit Berkovitch, from Erica and Larry Epstein. IN MEMORY OF: Shirley Katz, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother of the Katz family, from Erica and Larry Epstein.

Willow Gardens: Westchester’s Newest Memory Care Residence

In Memory of: Alexander Matta, grandson of Caryl Fuchs, from Blanche Fried.

Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund: Call Risë Stern, 914761-5645, or mail to 59 Bayne Place, White Plains, NY 10605. Please make your check payable to Sisterhood Mitzvah Fund.

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UJA-Federation of New York invites you to Westchester Celebration: All Together Now Thursday, March 10, 2016 • 6:30 p.m. The Capitol Theater, Port Chester, New York Come together to celebrate what we make possible with a little help from our friends. Entertainment by the Fab Faux, the premiere Beatles tribute band, who Rolling Stone magazine calls “the greatest Beatles cover band … without the wigs.”

Honoring esteemed leaders Jane and Norman Alpert Sherry and Robert Wiener Elaborate buffet and open bar are included. Register at www.ujafedny.org/westchester-celebration, or contact Deborah Lane at laned@ujafedny.org or 914.385.2108.

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Friends of the IDF Invite You To

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$180 Sponsorship (includes 4 tickets, a CD and a Meet & Greet with the IDF Orchestra and Soldiers at 6:30PM) $18 - Adults • $10 - Seniors, Students and Children

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The staff of Lloyd Maxcy & Sons welcomes its new addition and is committed to providing the same excellent care that families have come to expect over the past 151 years.

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