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gu/p sdSy yasmIn,ihna,inlofr,=bIna re=ma,keya,kOsr,Aa:=a
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
Anukmi8ka A.k/ 1 2 3 4 5 6
ivqy ka nam pa5 @k
p›¹ k/
Aa-ar p/Stavna 4Oipk ka nam ye 4Oipk Kyo cune gov&6I Kyo& cune g/up ik jankarI
4 5 7 8 10 14
pa5 do 7 8 9 10
Anu-v pukar me& kEse ju6>e gu/p ka An-v 6e4a kleK=n me& Kya AC2a: AaEr Kya bura: is`ne Kya imla
16 18 20 22
pa5 tIn 11 12
s&=o0n p)0tI jankarI iv+leq8
24 25
pa5 car 13
inQkqR
60
pa5 pa%c 14 15
linRg 4u pukar p/+navlI
64 77
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
Aa-ar hmare gu/p kI trf se hm Apne mMmI, papa AaEr 3r ke s-I pirvar ko =ukirya Ada krna cahte& hE | hmara gu/p wn sa9Iyo& ka -I =ukirya Ada krna cahta hE ijNho& ne ;s @k sal ke Arse me& n isRf hmara sa9 idya bLkI irsRc AaEr mudde ko smzna me& hmarI mdd ik@ | ;n sb me& =aiml hone vale k: sa9I hE | ijnka na m hE hsIna, yasmIn, igta, fOjIya AaEr AmrjIt | @k sal ka sfr kb ibt gya hme& pta hI nhI cla | ;s sfr me& hmare sa9 gov&6I kI vo AaErte& -I =aiml 9I ijnke sa9 hmne irsRc pr kam ikya sa9 hI sa9 hm wnka -I =ukirya Ada krna cahte& hE | hmara gu/p wn gu/p ko -I =ukirya Ada krna cahta hE ijNho& ne hme pukar yu9 feloisp ka ye sunhra mOka idya AaEr hm pr -rosa ikya | ijnke nam hE hmare gu/p ka ko Aa$i6Rne4r suinl, Am/palI, kipl, raje&dr, rohn punm ;n s-I pukar gu/p ko hmarI gu/p ke trf se bhot bhot =ukirya Ada krte hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
p/Stavna hmare gu/p ka nam jISt tra=I hE | jISt tra=I ka mtlab hE "ij&dgI ko tra=na" | hmare gu/p mee& nO log hE | ye sarI l6>kIya% fo4og/fI krtI hE | ye l6>ikya% ip2le tIn salo& se AaErto& ke hk ke il@ kam krne valI Aavajé@éinSva$n s&g5n ke sa9 ju6>I hu: hE | रसच को समझने के िलये और औरतो के अ य समःयाओ को गहराई से
जानने के िलये हमने पुकार जोइन कया |
हमारे इस पुरे सालके रसच का मकसद था के गोवंड , आदश नगर मे
औरतो को एक साथ िमलजुलकर बातिचत करने के िलये जगह है
या ?
और अगर है तो वोह जगह कौन-कौनसी है ? उन जगहो& को ये औरते कस
तरह से इःतेमाल करती है ? हमे ये समझ
me&
आया के
Aad=R ngr me& AaErto ke il@ ko: jgh nhI hE | jEse ga6Rn leikn wn logo& ne Apne il@ jgh bna: hE | 5
jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
AadR= ngr me& AaErto& ne Apne il@ Apne trIke se Alg Alg jgh batcIt krne ke il@ bnakr r`I hE | jEse ke 3r ke bahr ik glI, 4Ole4, Ao4e, maRik4, Skul, ra=n dukan, panI -rne ik jgh, A6>os p6>os ke 3r jakr wNho& ne ye sarI jgh `ud bna: hE | ;n AaErto& ne `ud se jgh bna: -I hE AaEr ;nka ;Stemal -I krtI hE | jEse jb dophr ke vKt kam se furst imltI hE tb vo 3r ke bahr Ao4e AaEr glI me& ku2 AaErte& ke sa9 @k gu/p bnakr bE5 jatI hE | ifr sb imlkr hS$sI,mjak,batcIt krne lgtI hE | maRik4, Skul AaEr ra=n dukan | -ajI lane ke bhane se,bCco& ko Skul 2o6>ne ke bhane se ra=n dukan me& saman lane ke bhane se ku2 AaErte& 3r se bahr inkltI hE | Aaj -I ipTtrusTta ;tnI -arI hE ik brabrI ke Ai0kar ke il@ l6>a: krna jrurI hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
4Oipk ka nam jE&6r Spes AOr piBlk Ples AaErto& ko ;K55a hokr batcIt krne ke il@ kOn kOn sI jgh hE ? jE&6r ;Spes AOr piBlk Ples ye nam bhot hI b6>a hE wsme& se hmne @k 2o4a sa nam cune | gov&6I AadsR ngr me& AaErto& ko ;K45a hokr batcIt krne ke il@ kOn kOn sI jgh hE ?
Apne 3r ke samne gu/p bnakr bat krtI hu: AaErte&
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
ye 4Oipk Kyo cune hmara g/up ip2le tIn salo se Aavajé@éinSva$ ke sa9 imlkr AOrto& ke muddo pe kam kr rha hE | ;sil@ hmarI soc AOr hmara nj>yRa -I gov&6I Aad=R ngr ik AOrto ke sa9 me& kam krne ka ty ikya | hmara phla 4Oipk @Jyuke=n 9a | hmare kOi6ne4r ke sa9 hmarI imi4&g hu: | ijs me& hme pta cla ke @Jyuke=n ke wpr irscR ho cuka hE | ifrhmare gu/p ne ty ikya ke hm ko: Alg 4Oipk le&ge jo narI vad soc ke sa9 ho ifr gu/p me bhot sI ccRa ke bad sb ne ty ikya ke hm jE&6r Spes AOr piBlk Ples pe Jyada jor de&ge Kyo&ik vha% panI g&dgI AOr ibmarI jEsI bhot sI p/obLm hE | vha$ ik AOr -I s&S9a@% irscR kr rhe hE& |
bCce g&dgI me& `elte hu@ `u= hE AaEr AaErte& Apne hI bato& me& mgn hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
;s il@ hmare gu/p ne jE&6r ;Spes 4Oipk cuna Kyo&ik AaErto& ke jE&6r Spes pr iksI ne irscR nhI ikya 9a | jE&6r Spes nam to bhot hI b6>a hE | nam ke sa9 sa9 ws ka kam -I bhot Jyada hE | ;sil@ hm ne ws me & se @k 2o4a sa mudda cuna |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
gov&6I Kyo& cune
gov&6I mu&b: ka @k b6>a ;laka AOr ip26>a huAa ;laka hE | vha& pr Jyadatr rhne vale log Alg Alg 0mR ke AaEr Alg Alg jgho& se Aakr bse hu@e hE | vha& pr rhne vale logo ko hr pre=ainyo& ka samna krna p6>ta hE | AadR= ngr jo gov&6I me& p6>ta hE wskI halt ku2 i5 knhI hE | srkar isRf cunav ke smy id`a: detI hE jo kam krnahE ws pr srkar kam nhI krtI hE | jEse ke panI,la:4,g&dgI,ibmarI,srka rI Skul,srkarI ka$lej | AaErte& 3r se bahr bhot hI km inkltIhE Jyadatr AaErte& Apne kamo& me& vES9 rhtI hE | AadR= ngr me& @EsI ko: -I jgh nhI hE jo AaErte& kam krne ke bad me& Apna `alI vKt ibta ske | ;sil@ hmne gov&6I AadR= ngr @irya cune |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
glI me& `6>e rhkr @k dusre se bat krtI hu: AaErte& gov&6I hr ;lake se Alg id`ta hE gov&6I ik phcan g&dgI AaEr grIbI hE& |yh @k gav% jEsa id`ta hE subh hote hI vha ke mdR kam pr inkl jate hE& AaEr rat hote hI lO4 Aate hE | yha$ pr mul-ut suiv0a@% wplB0 nhI hE ya ifr ibLkul hI na ke brabr hE | jEse bair= me& nale -r jana,kcre ik vjh se ibmarI fEltI hE | vha$ pr rhne vale log grIb hE gov&6I ;lake me& Jyada tadat me muSlman bse hu@ hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
hmne de`a ke gov&6I me& @k b6>a sa 6MpI&g g/aw&6 hE| jha& pr pure mu&b: ka kcra Aakr jma hota hE | panI,la:4,Skul,ha$iSp4l,ga6Rn ye sb icje& vha$ pr rhne vale logo& ke il@ bhot hI km hE |
Aad=R ngr kI AaErte& bhot hI km p7>I il`I hE | yha& kI AaErte& p7>I il`I na hone kI vjh se bhot sI jankarI kI kmI hE& AOr ;sI kmI ne wNhe 3r me& hI ismIt kr idya hE& | AaErte& 3r se bahr ;s il@ nhI inkltI hE ik vha$ pr Jyadatr d&ga,fsad,mar ip4,blaTkar jEsI vardat hotI rhtI hE& |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
gov&6I Aad=R ngr
AaErte& 3r ke ANdr AaEr 3r ke bahr dono jgho& pr kam krtI hE | 3r se bahr jakr -I kam krtI hE jEse mail= krna,ko: k&pnI ya kar`ane me& jakr kam krna, `ane ka 6Bba 3r 3r jakr dena, kar`ane me& -I phuca%na p6>ta hE vgEra vgEra | vha$ ik AaErte& 3r ke ANdr -I kam krtI hEjEse kp6>a isla: krna,`ane ka i6Bba bnana, god6I islna, kp6>e me& i4klI lgana, motI ka mala bnana, jrI ka kam krna AaEr bEg me & bKkl lgana vgEra vgEra |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
g/up kI jankarI
Aa:=a, keya, kOsr, inlofr, re=ma, =bIna, yasmIn, hIna, pEgMbrI .
hmara gu/p ip2le tIn salo& se Aavaj @ inSva$n ke sa9 ju6>a huAa hE | hm wnke sa9 me& imlkr kafI hdtk mihlaAo& ke wpr kam ik@ | =adI me& Aane valI A6>cno& AaEr mu=iklo& se bahr inklne ik `atIr AaErte& Aavaj @ inSva$ namI s&g5n me& log Aa@ jha$ Aane ke bad AaihSta AaihSta hmare mudde hl hone lge | jEse ptI ik mar ip4 ku2 hdtk km hu: ya k-I ;ska Asr wL4a hota gya k: lo&go& ko tlak imla jo bhut hI Aasan nhI rha ;s bIc s&g5n ne AOrto& ke sa9 Alg Alg vkR=a$p krte rhte hE& jEse kanun ik jankarI, heL9, ih&sa vgEra ;s bIc hm sb @k dusre se imle | Aavaj @ inSva$ ke ku2 sa9I AaEr kmPyu4r koRs ik l6>ikya% -I 9I |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
AajadI ke p&` fEyla@ hu@ solah AaErte& ApnI rah pr cl p6>I
Aavaj @ inSva$ ne solh AaErto& ke sa9 fo4og/fI =uru ik@ ijs me& hmara gu/p -I =aiml 9a | fo4og/fI ke kam ke sa9 sa9 @k dusre se doStI AaEr 3r Aane jane ka islisla -I =uru huAa ye islisla do sal tk clta rha AaEr hmarI doStI -I ;sI trh se mjbut ho g: hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
pukar me& kEse ju6>e
Aavajé@éinSvan ip2le Ô× salo& se AaErto& ke muddo& pr kam krta Aa rha hE | s&S9a ik soc AaErto& ko lekr bhut hI Alg hE |
Aoir@en4e=n vkR=a%p me& bne hu@ gu/p ;s sal hmare gu/p ko fo4og/fI ke sa9 sa9 pukar yu9 felo=Ip me& kam krne ka mOka imla | pukar yu9 felo=Ip ke bare me& hmare gu/p ko 16
jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
Aavajé@éinSva s&g5n se pta cla | g/up me& AapsI talukat AC2e 9e |
Aoir@en4e=n vkR=a%p me& @K4Iivi4 krte hu@ s-I pukar yu9 felo=Ip ke ilye rajI ho g@ | ip2le tIn salo se ye g/up sa9 sa9kam krta cla Aa rha hE | ;s g/up ko pukar ne irsRc krne ka mOka idya | yh g/up ne kafI fo4og/afI ik hE pr irsRc phlI bar kr rhe hE pukar s&S9a yU9 fEloi=p detI hE | jo @k sal ke il@ hotI hE g/up ke s-I me&Mbr ne yh fEloi=p haisl krne ke il@ shmtI dI |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
gu/p ka An-v hmare gu/p ka Anu-v pure @k sal ka bhot AC2a rha | hme=a se gu/p me sb ka brtav @k dusre ke sa9 bhot AC2a hE | Agr k-I kam ko lekr ko: idKkt hotI to gu/p me @k im4I&g hotI AOr ws im4I&g ke dOran log ApnI ApnI bate ws im4I&g me r`te AOr gu/p se ws icj kahl inkl kr Aata AOr gu/p ke s-I log @k dusre ko mdd -I k rte ijs se hmare gu/p me AOr -I mjbutI ka m&jr njr Aata k-I k-I kamke dOran gu/p me bhot se wtar c6>av -I hote ijs ke karn logo ko 9o6>Ipre=ainyo ka samna krna p6>ta |
@nala:sIs gu/p imi4&g
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
irscR yu9 fEloi=p ke ;s bEhtrIn mOke ke sfr me hmare gu/p kI soc ka dayra b6>ta gya | hme mOka imla to hmne ;s soc ko glt 5hray agya | berojgarI ho ya 3relu ih&sa =hr AOr ga%v dono me hI AOrte& @k jE sehalat zel rhI hE ;n halato ko tSvIr me wtarna hmaregu/p ke ilye k -I k-I mui+kl hota hm ne gov&6I Aad=R ngr m&e fo4o @iGjiv+n lgaya | lekIn wn fo4o ko hme& Apne kEmere me kEd krna mui+kl hota Kyo& ik jbhm vha$ fo4o keilye gov&6I Aad=R ngr jate to hmare samne hmare 4O ipk se phle wn ke halat AOr wn kI Aa%`o m&ehmare ilye sval phle n jr Aate |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
6e4a kleK=n me& Kya AC2a: AaEr Kya bura:
sveR AaEr ;N4rvyu ke dOran AOrto& se bat krte vKt sb ka Anu-v Alg Alg rha hE | hm wn ke pas gye AaEr Apne irsRc ke bare me& bta yeiksI AaErto& ke chre pe 6r AaEr mayusI 2a: hu: 9I, wnse bat krne m&e kafI idKkte Aa: Kyo&ik 3r ke ANdr sas$, ssur, AaEr ptI mOjud r hte9e ;sil@ hmare sval se lgkr jvab km AaEr ws sval se h4kr jvab Jyada Aa rhe 9e | gov&6I bEgnva6I ka jb hm ne irsRc krna =u £ ikya AOr wn AOrto& se bat krne kI =u£Aat ikya | phle to AOrto& sebat krna bhot mui+kl huAa leikn hm k: bar imle AOrto& se AOr phle hmne Apna kam AOr Kyo& kr rhe hE& ye btaya | ifr i0re i0re AO rto&ne hm se bat krna =u£ ikya | wn me& se iktno ka khna 9a ik bh ot se log Aa@ AOr Apna kam kr ke cle jate hE& yha ke il@ tum lo g Kya kroge& ?
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
hmare gu/p ik ku2 sai9y%a 6e4a kleK=n krte hu@ |
6e4a kleK=n ke smy 6e4a kleK=n ke smy ko: ko: AaErto& ne hSte muSkurate AC2e se jvab id@, wnke sa9 bat krne me& ko: -I idKkt nhI Aa: hE | jb ko:-I AaErte& hSte muSkurate bat krtI 9I | to hme bhot hI AC2a lgta 9a | hme wnke bare me& AaEr Jyada jankarI imltI 9I | ko: AaErto& ne hmare gu/p ko 3r ke ANdr ib5akr bhot AC2e se bat ict ik@ wn ka ye 21
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trIka bhot hI AC2a 9a |
is`ne imla
:N4rVyu lena AaEr svRe krna g/up me& @kta bna@ r`na sare g/up ko sa9 me& lekr clna hI g/up ka mtlb hota hE | irsRc Kya hotI hE vh nhI pt a 9a to wse hmne& jana | phle to l6>ikyo& se hI doStI 9I, mgr phlI bar pukar ke jir@ l6>ko& se -I doStI krne ka mOka imla | hmne ja na ke irsRc Kya hE ? fesbuk,;mel Aa;6I,;N4rivyu,svRe AaEr irscR ke ik tne trIke hE& ye sb pukar ke jir@ hme& is`ne ko imla |
mela jâa ik tYyarI krte hu@
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
smajIk muddo& pr -I irscR ho skta hE | iks trh iks mudde AaEr mui+klat ik ghra: me& jakr wnka hl inkalna ipyor irsRc AaEr so+lirscR me& fkR AaEr ye do&no& hI irscR ;Nsan ik trKkI ke il@ Ahm hE gov&6I ik AaErto& se bat krke vha$ ke p/oblem ke bare me& jana punm ne hme& ;N4rne4 ke tIn trIke bta@ | ;N4rne4 @Ksproler,moijLla,ifrofoKs gugl coromI ye tIno& @k hI hE | gov&6I ke bare me& bhot sarI jankarI imlI | gu/p ke sa9 me& batcIt krne ke trIke ko hmne is`e | hmare il@ bhot mu+kIl 9a ke gov&6I Aad=R ngr me jana AOr wn AOrto se bat krna jo phle ih Apne tkilfo me mubitla hE | hmarIe bhot koi==o ke bavjud -I vo AOrte hm se bat krne ke il@ rajI nhI hotI hE leikn hm ne Aage jakr wn kI vo pre=ainyo& ke bare me batcIt ik@ AaEr wNhe Aage lane ik koi== ik@ | jEse ke vha$ ik sbse b6>I pre=anI hE ke sare mu&b: ka kcra ws ;lake me& 6ala jata hE | ijs ik vjh se wNhe& bhot sI g&dgI AaEr ibmarIyo& ka samna krna p6>ta hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
s&=o0n p)0tI irscR ka trIka p)0tI AaErto& ko ;K55a hokr batcIt krne ke il@ kOn kOn sI jgh hE ? Aad=R ngr gov&6I me& hmne ;s bStI ke ANdr jakr ;n svalo& ke jbab 7u7ne ke il@ car trIke Aapna@ | inrIx8, svRe, ;N4rVyu, fo4og/afI inrIx8 Š hmara gu/p AadR= ngr me& k: bar gya | vha$ pr ja ja kr k :bar hr icj ko de`e AaEr mhsus ik@ | vha$ ik hr icj ko jaNne ik koi== ik@ | hmne Jyatr vha$ pr g@ jha$ pr AaErte& gu/p bnakr bat cItkrtI hE | jEse glI, 4Ole4, Ao4e, maRik4, Skul, ra=n dukan panI -rneik jgh, A6>os p6>os ke 3r jakr ;n sb jgho& pr hmare gu/p ne bar bar jakr de`a AaEr smza AaEr ;ske sa9 sa9 gov&6I kI fo4og/ afI -I ik@ | svRe Š hmne AadR= ngr ke ÓÒÒ 3ro& ke svRe ik@ | ;N4rVyu Š svRe ik@ hu@ ×Ò AaErto& ka ;N4rVyu ik@ ye AaErto& ik wm/R ÔÈé×È sal tk hE | ;nme& se ku2 AaErte& =adI =uda AaEr ku2 AaErte& kuv%arI hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
jankarI ka ivQleqn svRe faRm hmne AadR= ngr m&e ÓÒÒ 3ro& ke svRe ik@ | ye AaErto& ik wmR ÔÈé×È sal tk kI hE | ;n me& se ku2 AaErte& =adI =uda 9I AaEr ku2 kumarI -I 9I | hmne ÓÒÒ 3ro& ke sveR ik@ to malum huAa ke AaErto& ik tadat ÓÚÕ AaEr mdoR& ik tadat ÓÛÒ hE |
svRe krne ke bad malum huAa kI "go&v6I bEg&va6I> AadR= ngr" me& AaErto& ik tadat mRdo& se km hE, AaErt, mdR, l6>ka AaEr l6>kI sb ko imla kr go&v6I bEg&va6I me& rhne vale lo&go& kI tadat 664 hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
hmne sveR ik@ hu@ ÓÒÒ 3ro& me& se @Esa njr Aaya ik l6>ko& ik tadat ÓÓÚ AaEr l6>ikyo& ik tadat ÓÙÕ hE |
l6>ko& kI tadat ÓÓÚ AaEr l6>kIyo& ik tadat ÓÙÕ hE ;s n& se pta clta hE ik vha$ pr rhne vale logo& me& l6>ikyo& ik tadat Jyada id`a: de r hI hE @k sal se le kr pcas$ sal kI wm/ tk l6>ikya% sele kr AaErt tk ik tadat Õ×Ø hE AaEr @k sal se le kr pcas sal kI wm/ tk l6>ke se lekr mdR ik tadat ÕÒÚ hE |
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jISt taraSaI gauRpa paukar yauqa folaaoSaIpa 2011 – 2012
hmne ;s sveR me& logo& ke Vyvsay kI jankarI jaNne ik koi== ik | hme yh id`a: idya ke pa; ca4R me& sbse Jyada n&br |ÕÔ hE |
AadR= ngr me& hmne ijn AaErto& se batcIt ik hE ws me& hm&e pta cla hE ik wnke 3r ke AadmI Jyadatr 6^a:vr, 4elsR ka kam krte hE ko ko: AaErto& ko malum nhI hE ik wnke ptI Kya kam krte hE ;ske :lava AaEr -I ku2 kam hota hE jEse ke mutIR bnana, palRr, bI @m sI sveR&4 m&e kam krte hE | ;ske :lava AaEr -I 2o4e mo4e kam hote hE jEseke veL6I&g, seLs men, -ajI, :leK4^oink, k&MpnI, dukan, i4cr,sutar, imStrI, heLpr, gErej, 3r kam, pepr ba:N6I&g, muba:l rIperIg&, seKyurI4I ga6Rs AaEr peN4r -I hE | 27
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hmne logo& se AaEr AaErto& se pu2a ke Aap yha$ pr kEse Aaye AaEr kha$ se Aaye hmne ye jaNne ke il@ sval pu2a |
yha$ se hme malumat imlI ke AadR= ngr me bsne bale log Jyadatr yu.pI, mharaQ4^ AaEr muMb: kee hE khI khI se Aakr AadRs ngr me log bse hu@ hE, jEse ke md/as, satara, knR4ka, Aa&0/ap/de=, Ahmd ngr, Am/avtI, ra:g6>, Aa0unI,bStI, solahpur,nago4na, gulbrga, Ahmdaba sultan pur, puna, kan pur, Wsmana bad, @vola, blrampur, kola pur, Wtra&cl, kolkTta, bE&glor, W6>Isa, rtnagIrI, nepalbnars, saw5 ;N6Iyn, fteh pur, fEzabad, nasIk |
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;s sveR ke dOran hmne ye jaNne ik koi== kI ke Aad=R ngr me& log kb se bse hu@ hE |
;s dOran hme ye -I pta cla hE ik AadR= ngr me& bsne vale logo& ik ÔÓéÔ× sal tk ik logo& ik Jyada s&~ya ÔÓ hE AaEr vha$ pr km se km bsne vale logo& ik ÓÓéÓ× ik s&~ya Ú hE | ku2 AaErto ne yh -I kha hE ik muze malum nhI hE hm yha$ pr iktne sal se rhte hE ws ik s&~ ya Ö hE | 29
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vha$ ik AaErto& se hmne ye jaNne ik koi== ik ke wnka `ud ka 3r hE ya -a6>e se hE |
AadR= ngr me& rhne vale log Jyadatr -a6>e se rhte hE& ijs ik tadat Ö Õ hE vha$ pr ku2 logo ka `ud ka 3r hE ijs kI tadat ÕÙ hE | ku2 AaErte& @ese -I hE ijNhe malum nhI hE ik 3r `ud ka hE ya -a6>e se hE ws me se tadat 3ro& ik ÔÒ hE |
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hmne mihne ik kma: jaNne ke il@ sval pu2a |
hmne jana ke Jyadatr logo ik AamdnI ØÈÈÈ se Jyada hE AaEr ku2 logo ik AamdnI km se km ÓÈÈÈ tk hE iksI iksI ko @k idn ka Ó×ÒéÔÈÈ kI mjdurI -I imltI hE AaEr iksI ko Apne AadmI kI AamdnI hI pta nhI hE ya fIr btana hI nhI cahte hE vha ke ku2 3r @Ese hE jha AadmI hI sara `cRa W5ate hE ;sil@ AaErto& ko Apne ptI ke AamdnI ka pta hI nhI clta hE |
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go&v6I bE&gnva6I> AadR= ngr me hmne sveeR ke dOran de`a ke bStI se lg kr @k 6MpI&g g/aW&6 hE | ijs kI vjh se bhut sarI pre=ainyo ka samna krna p6ta hE jEse keg&dgI, bdbu, ibmarIya% AaEr rah clne me pre=ainya% raSta shI n hone ik smSya vha pr sOcaLya kI vevS9a nhI hE | ÓÒÒ 3r me se Ú× logo ka maNna hE ke ye sare p/obLm hE, ÓÒ logo ka maNna hE ke nhI hE, × logo ne kha hE ke hme ko: fRk nhI p6>ta hE ya ifr vo log btana hI nhI cahte hE |
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;N4rVyU ÓÒÒ 3ro& ke sveR ik@ hu@ hmne wnhI 3ro& me& se ×È AaErto& ke ;N4rVyU ik@ | ijsse hmne wn AaErto& ko pu2a ke Aap ko mu&b: me& 3umne ik jgh kOn kOn sI lgtI hE ?
Aad=R ngr jo gov&6I me& hE& | ;s mu&b: ke bStI ka @k -ag hE& | vha& pr Apna irscR krne g@ hmne AOrto& ko Alg Alg sval pu2e wn jvabo& ka ivsleqn hm Aap ko de rhe& hE& hm wn ke pas g@ Apne bare me bta@ AaErto se bat krte vKt sb ka Anu-v Alg rha hE | iksI ne 33
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AC2e se jvab id@ iksI ke chre pe 6r AaEr mayusI 2a: hu: 9I | wn se bat krne me kafI idKkte Aa: | ÖÚ AaErto& me& se ku2 muSlman AaErto& ne kha hE ke hm dgRaAo& pr jate hE jEse ke hajI AlI,hajI ml&g,3a4kopr dRga,ca%d =ah vlI dRga, kmr AlI dRve=,mahIm dgRa AaEr wn me& se ku2 AaErto& ne ye -I kha hEke hm m&idro& pr jate hE& jEse ke mu&ba devI m&idr,ivrar m&idr | sarI dgRa@e& AaEr sarI m&idre& ye sb mjhb se iml kr hE :sil@ ;Nhe& 3umne ik jgh lgtI ya ifr @Esa -I ho skta hE | jo AaErte& 3r se bahr inkl kr jb vo bs,4^en,irK=a,4eKsI,:Stemal krtI ya fIr 3rse dur dur tk jgaAo& pr jatI hE to wNhe ye 3umne kI jgh lgtIhE × AaErte& @EesI -I hE jo mu&b: me& khI -I 3um ne nhI g: hE | 3um ne nhI jane ke ku2 karn hE | jEse ke sat sal ik =adI =uda ij&dgI me& ptI ne khI -I sa9 3umane lekr nhI gya bCce Jyada hone ik bjh sekhI -I nhI jatI hu% | Jyada bCce hone ke karn AOrto ke wpr ijMmedarI ya dbav hota hE ijs ke karn wNhe `ud ke ilye smy ih nhI imlta raSte ka pta clta bCce 3um ho ja@e&ge& 6r lgta hE |Aaj ye AaErte& p7>I il`I n hone ke karn wNhe& hr tklIfo& ka samna krna p6>ta hE | -a6>e se bhut jgh pr rhtI 9I leikn 3r se bahr 3umne jane ka mOka nhI imla | AaEr to& 34
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ko to vKt hI nhI imlta khI bahr inklne ka wn ka sara sara idn 3r ke kamo& me& hI inkljata | ye -I × AaErte& @EesI hE ijNhe vKt to imlta hE pr ku2 hI smyke il@ 3r se bahr jatI -I hE pr Jyada dur tk nhI | ku2 hI dur tk jatI jEse ho4l ya 9e4r 3r ke Aas pas hI hote hE to vo 9o6>I der ke il@ 3r se bahr inkl kr ;n jgho pr cle jate hE | bato& bato& me& ÖÓ AaErto& ne kha ke hmare il@ 3umne ik jgh Alg hE jEse "ge4ve Aa$f :&i6ya, juta 3r, ranI bag, juhu caeeEpa4I, dadr cOpa4I, AKsa ibc, be&6 S4e&6, ma9eran, ihra n&danI ga6R ye sb jgh 3umne ik hE lo&go ne btaya ke hmare il@ 3umne ik jgh vo ye hE irStedar, mEke AaEr ga$v hE | hm mante hE ik mu&b: ke bahr Aane vale nam ko ga$vkhte hE jEse ke ;lhabad, A0/&a p/de=, kanpur, nasI puna, bIjapur,l`nW, idLlI, yu.pI ye sb -I logo& ke il@ 3umne ik jgh hE Kyo&keyha$ pr iksI n iksIke ir+tedar, mEk bse hu@ hE | jo log bhot idnobad ga%v Apne ir+tedar se imlne ya ifr Apne 3r jate hE wNhe lgta hEke vo 3umne ik jgh hE jb Apne ir+tedar, mEke, ssural AaEr doSto& keyha$ cle jatehE jo mu&b: ke A&dr hI nam Aata hE jEse ke i=v6>I,
sayn, devnar kl$anI, mla6> ce&bur, wrn, 3a4kopr
saNtak/uj va=I, goroga$v, 3nsolI lo&go& ko lgta hE ke ye sb jgh -I hmare il@ 3umne ik jgh hE |
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hm ;s pa: ca4R me& ye id`ana cahte hE ke AOrte Apne doSto se iks iks trha se imltI hE |
Õ AOrto& ne yh jvab idye kI vo @k dUsre ke 3r jakr imLatI hE AOr wtnI hI Apne doSto& se fon pr bate& krtI hE | mtLab vo imLa nhI sktI,Laeikn fon pr bate& krna vo imLane ke brabr mantI hE | ifr ku AOrte ijnkI s&~ya Ô hE vo bahr jakr Apne sheiLayo& se imLatI hE re ro6 ik dgRa pr imLatI hE AOr makeR4 me& doSto& se imLatI hE | ;n AOrto& ne yh -I kha ke Aas p6os kI AOrte hI wnkI doSt hE, iksI ke 3r me& jane se Kya fayda hE ? to ye Apne 3r ke bahr Apne Ao4e me&bE5kr @k 36
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dUsre se bate& krte hE AOr Apna idLa rojmraR kI tkLaIfo& sehLka kr dete hE | ApnI gLaI me& bE5kr gPpe marte hE | Ô AOrto& ne kha ke wNhe bhot sarI pab&dI hE, vo ibna prim=n ke bahr ja nhI sktI vo Apne doSto& ko 2up 2up kr imLatI hE | hm&e Ô AOrto& nee btaya kI ijNho& ne kha ke vh Apne doSto& ko imLakr bhot `u= hotI hE | phLae ke doSt imLate hE to puranI yade taja ho jatI hE | @k khtI hE ke jb hmarI ka$Laej me& 2uºI hotI hE to hm sb ho4l me& cLae jate hE jb sare doSt imLate hE to hm ko: -I ho4La me& jate, dUsrI ne kha ke Apne daeSt se mulakat krne ke bad slam duAa krtI hu% | n: icje `rIdI hu: doSto& ko btana AC2a Lagta hE | sbse km s&~ya me& AOrte& Apne doSto& ko =aidyo& me& AOr SkULa me& imLatI 9I | @k AOrt ne kha$ ke jb vh kmPyu4r is`ne jatI 9I tb Apne sheiLayo& se imLatI 9I | AOr jb devI bE5tI 9I to wskI doSto& se muLaakat hotI 9I bhot mihlaAo& ne yh btaya kI kEse wNhe wnke sheilyo& se ib26>na p6>a | @k AOrt ne kha ke =adI se phLae merI shelI 9I | dUsrI ne kha jb seSkULa 2o6>I hu% doSto& se mulakat nhI& hotI hE | bhot idn gujr g@ s-I doSt ib26> gye | sheiLayo& se imLana bhot km hota hE | Aadimyo& kI vjh se -I k: mihla@% doSto& ko imLane nhI ja sktI jEse @k mihla khtI hE ke mera AadmI bahr jane nhI& deta hE | raStepr hone valI 2e6`anI -I @k vjh hE jEse @k AOrt ne hme& btaya kI l6>ko& kI bTtmIijyo& kI vjh se hI yh%a kI La6>ikya% 3r se bahr jane se ktratI hE | jo AOrte& ApnI 37
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sheiLayo& ko imLa patI hE wnkI khanI wNhI& kI jubanI é vo kam jLdI `tm kr ke Apne doSto& se imLa kr AatI hE | mu&b: ke bahr jakr ku2 AOrte& ApnI sheiLayo& ko imLatI hE ;n AOrto& se bate& krne ke bad hme& yh smza jEse yu.pI. me& mera mEka AOr merI sheiLaya% hE vha% jatI hu% to wn se muLaakat hotI hE |
bajar me& -ajI `rIdtI hu: AaErte& Apne 3r se bahr inkLakr ApnI sheiLayo& se imLana iktna mu+ikl hota hE k-I k-I 3r ke bahr kI iS9tI sheiLayo& se imLane ke il@ bahr jane me& £kav4e& `6>I krtI hE | Laeikn doSto& se imLana mtLab isfRbahr,ho4La jana,`u= hona nhI hota,to yh AOrto& ne Apne 3r ke Aaspas hI Apne Aap ke iLa@ @k Spes bnayI hE | jEse ke makeR4,glI, 4Oyle4,Skul | hmne de`a ke vha$ ik AaErte& idn ke `alI vKt me& Kya Kya kam krtI hE 38
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AaEr wse iks trh se ;Stemal krtI hE |
AaErto& se bat ik@ to hme& pta cla ik ÓÚ AaErto& ne kha$ hE ik hme& jb -I `alI vKt imlta hE to hm 3r me& so jate hE& | dophr ke vKt 0up bhot hI tej hotI hE ijs ik vjh se 3r me kam krke jo 9kan mhsus hotI hE wse im4ane ke il@ ku2 der ke il@ so jate hE& | sbse km AaErto& ne kha hE ik vKt imlta hE to -a: ke yha% pr 3umne clI jatI hu% | @k AaErt ne kha hE ke mE& Apne doSto& se k-I kbar fon pr bat krtI hE | @k AaErt ne kha hE ik mere mugRe ka nam sonu hE mera idn ka `alI vKt ws ke sa9 mStI krte ibta detI hu% | @k ne kha$ ik rat me& jLdI sone ik vjh se mE& bajar jakr -ajI jLdI le kr Aa jatI h% | do logo ne kha ik mE k$alej jatI hu% mera idn ka `alIvKt p7>te, 39
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il`te AaEr k$alej ka homvkR krte krte inkl jata hE | Agr layb/e rI se&4r hota to mE vh$a clI jatI | tIn AaErto& ne kha$ ik jb hmare 3r ke Aas pas AaErte& jma hotI hE to hm sb imlkr bhothI mStI krte hE& jEse gana sunte,sunate,hsI mja$k,@k dusre ik 4&ag `Icna ye sb krte krte smy ka pta hI nhI clta hE | ;s ke sa9 sa9 3r me& kam krte hI vKt cla jata hE | ijs se ku2 pEse iml jate hE& jEse ke god6>I isna,pap6> bnana,kp6>a isna,`ane ka i6BBaa bnana,i4KkI purana AaEr motI kI mala bnana,ku2 AaErte& idn ka `alIvKt ;n sb icje& bnane me& gujar detI hE | hmne wnse bat ik@ to logone ku2 ku2 Apne bare me& bta@ | yha$ pr tIn logo& ne kha$ hE ik hme& 3r se inkl kr bahr ik duinya -I de`nI p6>tI hE hmare pas `ane ke il@ rUpye kha$ se Aa@ge& | 3r se bahr nhI ja@%ge to `a@%ge iKya ? 2h AaErto& ne kha$ hE ik mera idn ka`alI vKt Apne bCco& ke sa9 me& ibt jata hE | Apne bCco& ke sa9 im5I im5I bate& krtI hu% | Apne bCco& kahomvkR de`tI hu% | mE Apne 2o4e bCco& ke sa9 me& `eltI hu% | ku2 AaErto&ne kha hE ik vo `ud Apne il@ smy inkal nhI patI ;s il@ khI Aana jana to bhot hI dur ik bat hE | ko: ko: AOrte& bahr se kam lakr 3r ke ANdr krtI hE | idn ka `alI vKt wnka ;n kamo& me& inkl jata hE |
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glI ke bahr gu/p bnakr bat krtI hu: AaErte&
yha$ pr sb 3ro& ik halt bhot hI Alg Alg hE | jb -I ;n AaErto& ko `alI vKt imlta hE to ku2 na ku2 krte hI rhte hE& k-I 3r bE5 kr rupye kmatI hE k-I bCco& ke sa9 me& 4a:m pas krtI hE k-I A6> os p6>os ke sa9 h$SsI,mja$k krtI hE ijn AaErto& ko `alI vKt imlta vo log 3r ke ANdr ;n sb kamo& me& Apna smy ibta dete hE |
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yha$ ik AaErto& ne kha$ hE ik hm 3r se bahr nhI jate hE AaEr jate -I hE to vo iksI n iksI kam se hI bahr jate hE |
;s bare me bat krte hu@ AOrto& ne Apne Alg Alg Anu-v =Er ik@ | hme& yh id`a: idya ke Jyadatr AOrte& bahr jatI hE& to ve isfR iksI na iksI kam ke il@ ya ko: ijMmedarI ke vjh se bahr jana p6>ta hE& hm ne wn AOrto& se mulakat ik@ | sbse Jyada ÕØ AOrto& ne kha hE ke hm makRe4 jate hE& | yanI roj 3r me& bnane valI sBjI `rIdne ye wn ka bahrI kam hota hE& | wske bad ÓÈ AOrto& ne btaya vh ibmar hotI hE& to wNhe& 6a$K4r ke pas jana hota hE& to vh bahr jatI hE& | ÓÖ AOrto& ne btaya kI vh ra=n lane ke il@ | du0 AOr 3r ka sara saman lane ke il@ bahr jatI hE& | ;s ke Alava bCco& ko Skul lana AOr lejane ke 42
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il@ 3r se bahr jatI hE& | Ø AOrte& `ane ka i6BBaa phu&cane ke il@ 3r se bahr jatI hE& | rUpyo ik jrUrt Aaj -I ;tnI hE ke wNhe 3r jakr i6Bba phu%cana p6>ta hE | ku2 AOrte& @esI -I hE ijNhe&e bahr jane me& bhot hI `u=I mhsus hotI hE | jEse @k AOrt ne kha mE& shelI se iml ne jatI hu$ | dusrI ne kha ke hme 3umna ho tb hI bahr jate hE& | panI purI -I `ane jatI hu& | @k AOrt ne kha 3r se bahr nhI& jaW%&gI to kam kEse hoga, mE& mail= ka kam krne ke il@ 3r se bahr jatI hu& | hme& yh -I nj>r Aaya ke AOrto& ko bahr jane me& idKkt hE& AOr pabNdI -I hE& | @k AOrt ne kha ma% bap ik :Jjt jane se AC2a hE& | 3r me& rhe& | dusrI ne kha AadmI =k krta hE ;s il@ 3r kebahr nhI& jatI hu& |
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bCco& ko Skul me& 2o6>tI hu: AaErte&
;s sb se hme& yh smz me& Aaya ke bahr jane se AOrto& ko iktnI idKkte& hE& | vjh yh hE& ik ApnI g/hStI se bahr wnke il@ smy hI nhI& hE& | ijs ka vh ;Stemal kr ske& Agr smy hE& -I to vh jgh nhI& hE& | jha& AOrte& AasanI se Aa ja ske& | k: dfa l6>iky$a ya AOrte& 2e6>2a6> ke 6r se -I bahr nhI& jana cahtI AOr 3r vale bahr jane -I nhI& dete | ya ifr wtnI j>rurt hI mhsus nhI& hotI hE& ik 3r se bahr inklna Kyu& ? 44
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gov&6I ;laka ku2 Alg nhI hE | Jyadatr AOrto& ne kha kI 3r me& -ajI bnane ke il@ bajar lana,ra=n Aaifs jana,pEn ka6R bnane jana, 3r kI saf sfa: AOr de` -aLa krna yh kam mdoR& ke -I hE leikn wn ke mdR nhI krte to AOrto& ko hI krna p6>ta hE | jEse @k AOrt ne kha kI jb wnke bCco& ke SkULa me& ma% bap kI im4I&g hotI hE to vo AkeLae hI jatI hE | Agr k-I bCce& bImar p6>jate hE to wnkI dva: -I vo Laekr AatI hE | ijn AOrto& ke =Ohr ya 3r ke AadmI bahr kam krte hE ya ifr jo AOrte& Akele rhtI hE | wn AOrto& ko 3r ke AOr bahr ke sare kam krne p6>te hE | ;s ke bare me& AOrto& ne khaé mere 3r me& mera AadmI nhI hE ;sil@ 3r ka AOr bahr ka sara kam mE& Akele krtI hu% AOrto& ne yh -I kha ke sb kam AOrt ko to krne p6>te hE AadmI kha% krte hE | yha pr AOrto& ke kam AOr mdoR& ke kam ka iv-ajn bhut hI 45
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saf hE | jEse @k AOrt ne kha ke AadmI ka kam AadmI krta AOr AOrto ka kam AOrte krtI hE | pEse ka svaLa hE to vh mE& 3r bE5e 9o6>a bhut kma letI hu% | @k AOrt nairyl ke dukan prjatI hE wse ×Ò £pye imltehE | ku2 AOrto& ne kha ke 3r ka jo -I
saman lana vo mdoR&
kam hE leikn 3r ke A&dr -I ku2 kam hE jomdoR& ko krne caihye |
4a$yle4 ke bahr bat krtI hu: AaErte& jEse 3r me panI -rna, bCco ko Skul lana AaEr lejana, ra=n Aa$ifs jana, ra=n dukan jana 3r ka saman lane ke il@ | ku2 AOrto& ka khna hE ke AOrto& ko 3r ke bahr ka kam nhI krne p6>te |
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@k AOrt ne khaé muze bahr jakr kam krna bhot AC2a Lagta hE, leikn merI =adI hone vaLaI hE Agr mere ssuraLa vaLao& ko pta cla to merI =adI 4u4 jayegI | dUsrI ne kha é Agr mOka imLaa to mE& vo sare kam krna cahu%gI jo mE& kr sktI hu% | itsrI AOrt ne khaémera bahr ka ko: kam hota to mera =Ohr muze mna krta hE | mE& 4a$yle4 -I jaW to nkab lgakr jatI hu% | AOrto me&yh -I caht hE ke vh mdoR& ke jEse kam kre& | jEse @k AOrt nekha kevo bahr jakr kam krna cahtI hE ijs se wNhe car pEse imLae AOr wnke 3r ka gujara hoja@ | AOrte& s-I p/kar ke kam krtI hE | jo mdoR& ke mane gye hE AOr 3r ke kam hE | s-I AOrte& cahtI hE ke mdR ;nke kamo& me& mdd kre& | hmne& yede`a kI ku2 AOrte Apne wpr lga: hu: pab&dIyo& ko mantI hE | leikn hmne yh -I de`a ke ku2 AOrto& me& nya krne kI, Aage b6>ne kI caht hE | AOrto& ko pEse kmane kI cah hE jo ku2 salo& phLae isfR mdoR& ka Ai0kar mana jata 9a |
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vha$ ik AaErto& ne kha$ ke mE& 3r se bahr i=vajI ngr S4e=n tk hI ja sktI h%u | wse Jyada dur tk nhI ja sktI h% |
AaE&rte& i=vajI ngr tk hI ja sktI hE | ws ke bad @k AaErt ne kha mE ce&bur tk jatI hu%vh AaErt vha pr ;sil@ jatI hE | Kyo&ik ce&bur me& ga6Rn hE | wske ;lava @k AaErt makRe4 tk jatI hE | @k AaErt re ro6 jatI hE jo gov&6I ke bahr hE | ;n AaErto& se bat krne ke bad smz me Aaya ik ;n AaErto ko 3r se Aane jane kI bhut hI b6>I pab&dI hE | yh pab&dI kI vjh se `ud ke Wpr ka -rosa `o cukI hE | vo khtI hE |"Akele jane se 6r lgta,bcpn se 3r se bahr inklne ik Aadt hI nhI hE"| dusrI khtI hE ik "hmarI ij&dgI 3r ke A&dr hI hE "ko: khtI hE ik raSte ka pta nhI clta ;sil@ 3r se bahr inkl neme& 6r lgta hE | p7>a: kI kmI kI vjh se AOrto ne Apne Aap ko 3 r ik car idvarI me hI kEd rhna cahtI hE | bhut sI AaErto& ko 3r se bahr jane ik ;jajt nhI hE | jo 3r se bahr jate -I hE tovo 3r valo se ;jajt lekr jate hE jEse ik 3r valo se ssural valo se 48
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ya ifr =Ohr se ;jajt lene ke bad hI 3r se bahr jatI hE | wse Akele -I jana ho to vo Apne 3r ke Aas pas,b&Egnva6>I,i=vajI ngr, AadR= ngr,bCco& ko Skul le jana,bajar,ba9rum AaEr gov&6I ke A&dr ijtne -I ;lake hE vo Aaerte& vhI tk hI sImIt rhtI hE | @k AaErt ne kha ke mere =Ohr khte hE ke Agr tuMhe bahr jana hE to Apne bCco& ke sa9 me& jaAo | grIbI AOr `ud ka `yal na r`ne ik vjh se AOrto me kupoq8 -I bhut hE | ijs kI vjh se wn kI seht pr Asr p6>ta hE AOr wNhe& tklIf hotI hE | wNhe& @Esa lgta hE kI ye AaErte iktne salo se ibmar hE bhut hI 9kan,pEr ha9 me& dRd,cKkr Aane ik vjh se khI Aana jana nhI hota | raSte pr hone vale 2e6>`anI -I bahr na jane kI@ k vjh hE | @k AaErt khtI hE "bahr Kya jana ? mahOl shI nhI hE ApnI ;Jjt Apne ha9 me& hE"|
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AaErt Apne bCce ko dukan ke Aoe4e pr bE5kr Skul ka kam krtI hu: |
3r ka kam AOr bCco kI ijMmedarI ke karn ik vjh se AaErt 3r se bahr inkl hI nhI sktI to vh AaErte& 3r ke Aas pas hI ja sktI hE AaEr vh 3r se bahr jana faltu smztI hE | yh sb tkilfe hote hu@ -I ku2 AOrte khtI hE ke vh 3r se iktnI -I dur ja sktI hE | wska inR8y vh `ud krtI hE ke mE kha$ kha$ ja sktI h%u AaEr kha$ nhI ja sktI h%u | @k AOrt 3r AOr bahr ka kam krtI hE to vo boltI hE kI kam ke il@ hr jgh jatI hu% Aana jana rhta hE leikn @k AOrt ne @esa -I kha kI 3r ke kamo ke Alava dusre kamo& ke il@ ja nhI sktI ya ;tna vKt nhI imlta | 50
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Agr wn ke 3r me bahr jakr pEse kmane ik bat ho to wNhe& bahr jane me& ko: pre=anI nhI hotI leikn Agr 3r se ya bahr ke ko: @Ese kam hE | jo wn ke `ud ke hE to wn pr pab&dI lga dete hE | ku2 AOrte& shelIyo& ke sa9 bahr jatI hE leikn @k AOrt ne kha kI vo bahr ja sktI hE leikn jatI nhI hE |
3r me& kam krtI hu: 2o4I l6>kI ;n sb jvabo& se hme& yh smj Aaya kI s-I AOrto& ko bcpn se is`aya jata hE ke bahr jana vo -I Akele jana `tre se -ra hota hE iksI na iksI ke share hI vo 3um ifrsktI hE ya bahr ja sktI hE | ma% bap ya ptI ;n sb ke sa9 jane me 6r nhI lgta hE | AkelI AOrt ho to smaj wse Alg njr se de`ta hE | yh smz -I AOrto& ke il@ 51
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pab&dI bn jatI hE jo wNho ne `ud ko hI id hE | km p7>a: kI vjh s AOrto& me& 6r hE ke vo Akele khI Aa ja nhI sktI hE | hme yh jan kr AC2a lga kI ku2 AOrte`ud kI ;C2a se ijne kI koi== kr rhI hE yh AaErte pab&idyo& kI be6>Iyo& ko to6>kr Aage jane kI cahr`tI hE |
hmne vha$ kI AaErto& se pu2a ke Agr Aap khI 3r se bahr jate ho to Kya Aap ik p7>a: me& ko: rokav4 AatI hE Kya ?
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to bahr jane se 3r valae kI trf se bhaet sarI pab&dIya% haetI hE | jEse AaErtae ne kha ke vae p7>na cahtI 9I lekIn wnke g%av me& Skul nhI 9a, Skul na haene ke karn vae ApnI p7>a: purI kr n skI | 3r me& pEsa na haene ke karn p7>a: na kr skI Kya&eke laegae& ka khna 9a ke pEsa tae haena caih@ p7>a: krne ke ilye | hm ye smz skte hE ke ;Nsan kI ij&dgI me pEsa -I wtna hI jrurI hE ijtna ke p6>a: | Agr 3r me `ane kae pEsa nhI haega tae p6>a: kha se haegI AaEr 3r kehalat -I tae 5Ik nhI 9e | tae mEne fEsla ikya ke Agr hm ws pEsese 3r ka Anaj laye tae pe4 -r skta hE | ;slIye mE&ne p6>a: na krne ka fEsla ilya | Kyae& ? hmare Apne hI 3r vale be4Iyae kI p6>a: me& rukav4 bNte hE ? Kya&e ? Agr vae Aage p6>na cahtI hE tae wse p6>ne se raeka jata hE ? Kyae& ? hme Apne hI Aage p6>ne nhI dete ? Kya&e ? merI =adI kradI mere 3r valae ne mE& -I p6>na cahtI 9I AaEr p7>kr ku2 krna cahtI 9I ? Kyae& ? mere ma% bap ne muze Aage nhI p7>aya Kyae& ?
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2o4I sI bCcI Aage b7>ne ke il@ ApnI p7>a: purI kr rhI hE | merI ;n A%a`ae ne -I tae ku2 spne de`e 9e lekIn merI =adI hae g: AaEr mere vae spne AaEr ku2 krne ka Arman vhI pr rh gya | Aaj ku2 AaErtae ko Ahsas hota hE ke ij&dgI me& p7>a: ik Ahimyt Kya hE | Aaj merI ij&dgI me& p7>a: kI AhmIyt muze pta clI | Kyae ke merI p6>a: na haene kI vjh se mera sb ku2 2In gya mere Apnae ne hI muze bevkuf bnaya AaEr merI sarI icje le lI g: | iksI ne kha ke muze p6>ane vala kae: nhI 9a ;s ilye nhI p6> skI AaEr ye -I vjh 9I ke bar bar 3r bdlne ke karn p6>a: nhI hu:, Kyae ke jae hmare 3r kI halt hE | ws vKt hmare 3r kI halat ke vjh se Kya p7>tI 9I ;n sb se bat kr ke pta cla ke AaErte Aaj -I mjbur hE | vae Apne 54
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fEsle `ud nhI kr sktI | Kyae vae iksI kI ;jajt kI maEhtaj hE | lekIn ku2 l6>kIyae ne Aage Aakr Apne spnae AaEr ApnI p6>a: kae lekr ku2 kha,jEse ke Agr vae ApnI ij&dgI me& Agr bahr jakr ka krna cahtI hE, tae wn ke 3r se wNhe purI ;jajt imlI,ijs sevae Ap nI p6>a: purI kr skI | ku2 l6>ikyae se bat krte vKt pta cla ke wn ke 3r se kae: -I pre=anI nhI hE, jae spne wNhae&ne ApnI Aa%`ae me& bsaye hE =ayd vae purehae skte hE, Kyae ke gaev&6I jEse ;lake me& rhne ke bavjud -I vae cahte hE ke wn kI ij&dgI me ku2 bdlav laye | vae Apne pErae pe `6e>rhna cahtI hE jb hm wn se bat krte tae vae phle tae 9ae6>a hEran haetI, Kyae jae sval hm wn se pu2 rhe hE pta nhI wn me se iktnaeke jvab vo dete lekIn wn kI wMmIde AaEr wn ke jae spne jae vae de`rhe 9e =ayd vae pure hae skte hE | Kyo& ke Apne haEslae pe `ud kaym 9e na iksI ka sahara na iksI pe boz ku2 AaErtae ne Apne fEsle `ud krne ka saeca Aaj vae purI trh se tEYyar hE `ud Apne hk AaEr Apne fEsle lene ke ilye |
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vha$ ik AOrte& 3r me& rhkr kam krtI hE ya 3r se bahr -I jakr kam krtI hE | ya ifr 3r AaEr bahr dono jgho& pr kam krtI hE | hme vha$ ik AaErto& se ye jankarI cah@ 9a |
wn se bat ict ke bad hme& pta clake ku2 AOrte& pEse kmane ke il @3r ke bahr jatI hE | leikn bhot sI AOrto& ko ye Aaj>adI ;tnI AasanI se nhI iml patI | grIbI ke karn pEse kmane ke il@ ;n AOrto& ko bahr jane imlta hE | Ö AOrto& ne btaya kI vo 3r ke bahrjakr kam krtI hE | jEse kI dUsre ke 3r me& 3r kam krna,p anI -rna ya ifr fl becna | km p7>a: ik vjh se wNhe& isfR 3relu kam hI krne p6>te hE ye AOrto& ne khaémE& bahr jakr 3r ka kam krtI hu%, ijs se pEse Aate hE AOr m&ere 3r ka gujara ho jata hE | 56
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dUsrI ne kha ke 3r me& ko: mdR nhIhE ;silye bahr jakr mE& kele kI ga6>I pr `6>I rhtI hu% | @k AOrtne kha ke vo bahr jakr 3r kam krtI hE | mere =Ohr ga%v me& 4^eK4rclate hE | ifr @ese × AOrto& se -I hmne batcIt kI jo 3r ke A&dr bE5kr pEse kmane ka kam krtI hE AOr 3r se bahr jana jr…rI nhI smztI ya ifr vo jantI nhI ke wnke mUl-ut Ai0kar Kya hE | jEse @k AOrt ne kha ke 3r me& isla: ka kam krtI hu%, ;silye bahr jane kI jr…rt nhI p6>tI ijs se 9o6>a pEsa imlta hE | ku2 AOrto ne khaé mE& Apne 3r me& kam krtI hu%, Ao7>nI me& go4a lgane ka | 3r me& mala bnatI hu% | 3r me& 6Bba bnatI AOr lekr jatI hE | Apne `udke 3r ke kamo& ke vjh se -I yh AOrte& ko mOka nhI imlta ke bahr jakr pEse kma neka kam kr ske | wNhe& 3r ke kamo se furst hI nhI imltI ;sil@ bahr nhI ja sktI hE | ya isfR Apne 3r ka kam krtI wn AOrto& se bat krne ke bad to ye smz me& Aaya ke vo ApnI mrjI se Akele bahr -I nhI ja sktI | Agr wnko ku2 kam krna hE to vo Apne ptI se ya 3r valo& se ;jajt letI hE | jEse @k AOrt ne kha& é mE& phle 3r me& i4klI motI ka kam krtI 9I | mere =Ohr ne mna kr idya | mE& A-I -I kam krna cahtI hu% | Aaj -I ipt<sTta ;tnI Jyada hE ke vo `ud ka fEsla nhI kr sktI | wn AaErto& ke wpr Aaj -I ;tnI pab&dIya& hE | jEse AOrt ne kha% ke wn ke =Ohr n ekha ke mE& pEse deta hu%, tuze kam krne kI jrurt nhI hE 57
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@k AOrt ne kha =adI ke phle mE& bahr jakr kam krtI 9I | AOrte& kam krna, pEse kmana, 3r se bahr inklna cahtI hE | vo khtI hE ke muze mOka imlta bahr kam krne ka to jrur krtI | iksI ne nisR&g ka kosR ikya hE Agr jrurt p6>egI to vo kam jrur kregI |@k AOrt ko p6>a: km hone kI vjh se ku2 kam nhI imlta hE | leikn Agr wNhe kam imlta to vo jrur krna cahegI |
log khte hE ke ye ip&jre me& kEd hE leikn Kya ye l6>ikya% `ulI rh kr -I Aajad hE ? AOrto& ko ku2 bnne kI, ku2 krne kI cah hE | leikn smaj ya wn ke 3r vale wnke wpr ;tnI pab&dI lgate hE ke vo ApnI kaibilyt -Ul jatI hEAOr kmjor ho jatI hE Kyo&ke wNhe phle se hI hr cIj me& dba idya jata hE | 58
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inQkqR रसच के नतीजे
हमारे इस पुरे साल के रसच का मकसद था के गोवंड , आदश नगर मे& औरतो को एक साथ िमलजुल कर बातिचत करने के िलये जगह है
या?
और अगर है तो वोह जगह कौन-कौन सी है ?, उन जगहो को ये औरते कस तरह से इःतेमाल करती है ?
इस रसच से अलग-अलग िचजे सामने आयी. औरतो को घुमना अ छा लगता है , ले कन वोह अपनी म ज से घुम नह सकती, नाह उन के घर के ज मेदा रयो से उ हे व
भी नह िमलता | उस के िलये घुमना
माने अपने मैके या रँतेदारो के पास जाना या फर कोइ म ःजद, दगा या मंद र होकर आना. कुछ औरते इन सालो मे चौपाट , रानी बाग और िथयेटर घुम ने गयी है , ले कन वहा भी जानेके िलये उ हे घरवालो क इजाजत और उनक मदद क ज रत पडती है |
ये औरते जहा रहती है , वहा पर उ हो ने अपने िलये ःपेस बनाया है , 59
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जैसे के घर के बाहर क ग ली, टोयलेट, घरके सामने का औटा,
भाजी
माकट, ःकूल के सामने वाली जगह, अडोस पडोस के घर, ये सार
जगह खुद इ होने बनायी है | ये सार जगह पे एक साथ िमलकर वो अपनी जंदगी क बाते शेअर करती है , सुख-दख ु बाटती है , रँता बनाती है |
ये औरतो क दिु नया िसफ़ उन का घर और घरवालो तक ह िसिमत है , वो भाजी लाने के िलये माकट जाती है , ःकुल मे ब चो को लेकर जाती है या फर राशन लाने के िलये बाहर िनकलती है |
इससे समाज मे औरतो पर लगायी जानेवाली पाबंद
दखाई दे ती है ,
पु षस ाक समाज मे औरतो के घर से बाहर िनकलने पर, घुमने पर कैसे िनंयऽण कया जाता है ये भी नजर आता है |
हमारा मुप इस वषय पर और भी आगे काम करना चाहता है |
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mela jâa ke 6^ame& ka fo4o
mela jâa me& Aa: hu: gu/p ik fo4os
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mela jâa me& irBbIn ka4I hu: me6m AaEr pukar ke s-I
mela jâa me& Apne 4Oipk ke bare me& btate hu@
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Am/palI ka b66e kek ka4te hu@
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linRg& 4u pukar g/up ka Anu-v yasmIn Anu-v =Bd nam ke sa9 hI idmag ip2e kI trf dO6>ne lga | dO6>te dO6>te ifr ws S4e=n kI trf gya jha$ muze wtr kr s-I sa9Iyo& se imlna 9a jo mera ba%d/a S4e=n pr :&tejar kr rhe 9e | muze wtr kr car imn4 ho g@ 9e AaEr mE s-I sa9Iyo& se nhI iml pa: | lgatar sa9Iyo& ke fon Aa rhe 9e | 9k har kr mEne kh idya ke ba%d/a S4e=n pe hu% | pr muze smz me& nhI Aa rha 9a ke hme kha$ jana hE | hm ne pEgMbrI ko fon ikya AaEr kha ke muze ku2 -I smz me& nhI Aarha hE, mehrbanI krke Aap muze lene AaAo | ifr muze pEgMbrI lene Aa: | muze 9o 6>a sa bura lga ke gu/p ke s-I meMbr phu%c g@ AaEr mE& hI sb se le4 Aa: hu% | gu/p se imlne ke bad hm sb pukar ke Aaifs phu%ce jha$ pr @k gu/p phle se hI mOjud 9a | ijs me& s-I l6>ke 9e @k pl ke il@ hI shI pr mE 9o6>a sa nrvs ho g: | ifr ku2 smy ke bad hm ws jgh pr bE5e jha% hme& ;N4rivyu dena 9a | hmare gu/p se bat krne ke il@ tIn log 9e | sbse phle pirCy ka dOr cla AaEr clte clte hmare ;lake AaEr hmare ij&dgI me& Aa g@ | ;ske bad ;N4rvyu `Tm huAa | hme :mel AaEr fon ke jir@ pta cla ik "pukar yu9 feloi=p"irscR ke il@ tuMhare gu/p ko cuna gya hE | ijs ke 64
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bad pukar ik trf se hme& k: bar Alg im&i4g,Alg vkR=$op ke il@ jana p6>ta 9a | hr bar Kyo&ik mE& @k s&S9a me& kam krtI h%u jo kulRa AaEr mU&b/a dono jgh hI muze jana p6>ta hE | ;ske ;lava hmare Aa$ifs me& hr =invar ko gu/p imi4&g hotI hE | ws imi4&g me& jana kMplsrI hota hE | na cahte hu@ -I mera imi4&g me& Aana mu=ikl ho jata hE | mE& pukar ke vkR=$ap me& bhot hI km g: hu% | mera pukar me& -agedarI Jyada tr kmPyu4r ko lekr hota hE | gov&6I me& svRe AaEr ;N4rvyu ke dOran jb hr bar hFtevar imi4&g hotI hE,hFtevar imi4&g me& malum huAa ke gu/p ke k: sa9I muz se naraj rhne lge Kyo&ik mE pukarke vkR=$op me& =aiml nhI ho rhI 9I | do se tIn bar Apna nam dene kebavjud -I seht `rab hone ik vjh se mE nhI ja pa: | pr ;s ke bad mEne ÔÔ Aip/l ko vkR =$ap me& =aiml hu: | ijs me& @nala;sIs irpo4R, ;N4rivyu ka irpo4R kEse bnana hE | irpo4R bnane ke il@ suinl se is`a hmare gu/p ne | suinl se hmare gu/p ko bhot sarI mdd imlI jb -I hmare gu/p me& ko: kam smz me& nhI Aata to suinl ko fon se ya : mel AaEr imi4&g ke jir@ pu2te rhte 9 ;s bar yanI ÓÕ m: ko -I ku2 @se hI huAa Kyo&ik ÓÈ m: ko mE& mub/a me& i=F4 ho g: 9I AOr 3r me& kam hone kI vjh se ÓÔ m: ko rat mE& pEg&MbrI ko fon kr ke bta: ke mE& nhI Aa sktI h% | muze mna krna AC2a nhI lg rha 9a mere pas ko: AaEr jirya hI nhI 9a | pr Aajmuze pEgMbrI ne btaya ke vkR=%p me& Kya Kya irpoR4 imi4&g hu: hE | 65
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=bIna pukar se ju6>ne ke bad muz me& kafI AaTmiv+vas AaEr bdlav Aaya hE | irscR s&=ae0n yh =Bd mE& ne k-I suna nhI 9a | pr Kyae&ik mE& Aavajé@é inSv$a me& AatI 9I | tae fae4aeg/afI ke kam kae Aage b7ane v nyI cIje sI`ne ke il@ pukar fElaei=p ka ihSsa bnI | ibLkul jankarI nhI 9I ke Kya kam haega kEse kr&ege | pr sI`ne kI cah ne mui+kl raSte pr clne kI ihMmt dI | bhaet sare nye sai9ya&e se mulakat hu: | AaEr bhot sare muddae ik jankarI imlI |
ij&dgI kae ;n Alg Alg muddae se jae6> kr de`ne ka njrIya imla | kmPyu4r yh =Bd bhaet b6>a lgta 9a | hme=a suna 9a ik kmPyu4r clane ke il@ A&g/ejI Aana jrurI hE | phle Aavajé@éinSv$a AaEr bad m&e ikye gye pukar ke vkR=a$p se vae zI smz v glt fEmI -I dur hu: | Aaj me&"fesbuk"cek krtI hu% AaEr mE& fesbuk pr h%u AaEr kiMpyu4r pr 4a:ip&g -I krtI h%u | muz me& pukar ke jrIye bhot sare bdlav -I Aa@ |
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ihna Anu-v
ihna ka Anu-v pukar irscR phle mE pukar ke g/up m&e nhI 9I leikn jb -I pukar kI im4I&g hotI mE bE5tI, muze bhot AC2a lgta AOr mere 3r kI trf to mE AOr -I ;N4^S4r 9I | jb se mE& pukar me ju6>I hm log @k sa9 kam krne lge | phle to s-I ne l6>kIyo& ke @juke=n pr ilya 9a leikn ws pr bhot se g/up ne phlese hI irscR kr cuke 9e ;s il@ 4$aipk ko ceNj kr idya | ws ke bad hmne AOrto& ke je&6r Spes pr kam krne ka i6sa;6 ikya | jb hm gov&6I jane lge to hme ye nhI smz Aa rha 9a kI iks pr irscR kre& Kyo& ik vha& bhot sarI pre=anI 9I | AOr wnkI pre=anI hmare idlo ko 2u rhI 9I | hr jgh panI AOr g&dgI ka hI pre=anI id`a; de rha 9a | pukar me& ju6>ne ke bad muz me& kafI bdlav Aa@ | ijs se mE bhot `u= hu$ |
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inlofr mE& ne Aavaj>é@éinSva$ me& fo4og/afI is`I | fo4og/afI ka islisla tIn sal tk cla AOr ;sI dOran hme pukar yu9 fEloi=p ke bare m&e pta cla ku2 Alg krne ik lgn ne hmare pukar ke ;&4rivyu ko kaimyab bnaya AOr ;s trh hm pukar ke fElos bn gye ApnI ij&dgI me& ku2 nya krne ka mOka jo merI ij&dgI me& -I ku2 bdlav lane kI jrurt r`ta hE | AOr pukar hm jEse y&g logo ko ku2 nya AOr Alg krne ka mOka deta hE& | Apne 3r ke kam ke Alava wnhe ko: dusrI
icje pta ih nhI hE ifr
hm ne vo @eirye ka ja@ja ikya vha$ ik bhotsarI fo4o inkalI ijn ke clte hm ne vha% @gijib=n lgaya Kyo&ik hm cahte 9e ke vo fo4os de`ne ke bhane vha tk AOrte Aa: wn se batkrte vKt wn ik bhot sarI p/obLm samne Aa: AOr Apne gov&6I ko bhot hI krIb se jaNne ka mOka imla wn AOrto se batict ik ijn keclte pta cla ke gov&6I me& Aorto ik ij&dgI me& ;tne p/obLm hE ijs ik vjh se vo Apne bare m>e socne kI koi== nhI krtI | svRe hone ke bad hme bhot sarI bate jaNne ka mOka imla ijs se hmara g/up mEhrum 9a | ifr hm ne ;&4rivyu ikya ws se -I bhot sarI jankarI imlI | phlI bar merI ij&dgI me @Esa mOka muze imla jo =ayd k-I nhI hota mE ne phlI bar iksI ka ;&4rivyu ilya jo mere il@ bhot nya 9a | AOr muze pukar se bhot ku2 is`ne ko imla | 68
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koxyaa Aavaajaàeàinasva^ataUna paukxarkxrtaa irsaca- ga`upamaQyao sahBaagaI vhayacaI saMQaI imaLalaI taovha vaaTlao kxI irsaca- kxrayalaa jamaola kxI naahI. maI Abaaola AsalyaakxarNaanao malaa [MTrvyaucyaa idvaSaI jara TonSana Aalao haotao. paNa [MTrvyau caaMgalaa Jaalaa AaiNa Aamacaa irsaca- saur} Jaalaa.
gaaovaMDI ho izkxaNa mauMba[-baahor jaataa yaotaa naohmaI baiGatalao haotao, tasaoca paoparmaQyao paNa taoqaIla garIbaIba_la, pairisqataIba_la vaacalao haotao. tyaamauLo gaaovaMDI hI jaagaa inavaDtaanaa AaiNa itaqao paihlyaa vaoLI jaataanaa manaata ekx {tsaukxtaa haotaI. baaoirvalaIhUna itaqao jaataanaa malaa taIna T/ona badlaavyaa laagalyaa. AamhI sagaLËajaNaI gaaovaMDI sToSanavar BaoTlaao va AadSa- nagar, baOMgaNavaaDI va iSavaajaI nagar yaa Baagaata ifxrlaao. HËa inaima<aanao AamhI AamacaI ga`upa maoMbar hInaacyaa GarI gaolaao. maI paaMZrpaoSaa Garata vaaZlaolaI Asalyaanao paaNyaacaI kxmatartaa, vaIja nasaNao, rstao, saava-jainakx svacCtaa, kxcara, saaMDpaaNaI HËacaa malaa jaasta ~aasa kxQaI Jaalaa naahI. tyaamauLo gaaovaMDIlaa paihlyaaMda gaolyaavar malaa KaUpa navaIna gaaoYTI kxLlyaa. AamhI taoqaIla 69
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pairsarata fxaoTao kxaZta Asataanaa sagaLËa rihvaaSaaMnaI AamhaMlaa irpaaoT-r samajaUna tyaaMcao pa`a^blaoma saaMigatalao paNa Aamacyaa laXaata Aalao kxI fxaoTao kxaZNyaaiSavaaya AamhI kxahI kxr} Sakxta naahI.
paukxarmaQaIla irsaca- saur} kxrayacyaa AaQaI maI Aavaajaàeàinasva^acyaa ga`upabaraobar fx>x ekx vaYa- AaQaI kxama kxrayalaa saur}vaata koxlaI haotaI. AaiNa maaJyaa AbaaolapaNaamauLo maaJaI 2à3ca maulaIMbaraobar maO~aI JaalaI haotaI. paNa paukxarcaM kxama saur} Jaalyaavar hLUhLU maaJaI sagaLËaMSaI maO~aI JaalaI. mauislama is~ayaaMnaa haoNaaro ~aasa malaa eokUxna maaihtaI haotao AaiNa maaJyaa ga`upa baraobar baaolataanaa kxmaI AiQakx pa`maaNaata eokxlao haotao. gaaovaMDItaIla is~ayaaMSaI baaolataanaahI HËacao gaaMBaIya- malaa kxLlao naahI. paNa jaovha irsaca-cao ivaSlaoYaNa saur} Jaalao taovha ekoxkx gaaoYT laXaata yaayalaa laagalaI. gaaovaMDItaIla irsaca-mauLo kxLlao kxI fx@ta mauislama vaa garIbaca navho tar sava- Qamaa-talyaa, sava- staratalyaa is~ayaaMnaa svata:caI ASaI spaosa imaLvaNao kxzINa Aaho.
paukxar kxaoAa^iD-naoTr saunaIlabaraobarIla imaTIMgamaQaUna KaUpa navao dRYTIkxaona idsalao. jyaa gaaoYTIMcaa Aqa- maI samajata haotao taao vaogaLaca Aaho ho samajaUna Aalao. {dahrNaaqa- à skxayavaa^kx mhNajao sToSanamaQaUna gadI- va Qa@kxabau@kxIiSavaaya baahor paDayacaI saaoya Aaho Asao malaa vaaTta haotao paNa saunaIlanao saaMigatalyaavar laXaata Aalao kxI foxrIvaalao va [tar garIba laaokxaMsaaobatacaa saMpak-x kxmaI kxrNyaacaI taI yaaojanaa Aaho. tasaoca saunaIlaSaI baaolataanaa ho sauwa kxLlao kxI gaaovaMDI ikMxvaa [tar kxaoNatyaahI vastaItaIla is~ayaa sakxaLI {zlyaavar GarataIla sava- kxamao kxr}naca dupaarI SaaOcaalayaata jaataata, jaovha maI maanata haotao kxI sakxaLI {zlyaa {zlyaa SaaOcaalayaata jaaNao ho 70
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Aaraogyaacyaa dRYTInao caaMgalao Aaho.
savao- va [MTrvyaumaQyao maI svata: kxamaamauLo Baaga Gao{] Sakxlao naahI paNa Anaailaisasa kxrtaanaa Sa@ya taovaZI vak-xSaa^psa, T/oinaMgjamaQyao Baaga Gaotalaa va sava- naIT samajaUna GaotalaM. k^xTogarI banavaNao, [MTrvyautaIla vaa@yaaMtaIla vaogaLI vaa@yao baajaUlaa kxaZUna tyaaMcao Anaailaisasa kxrNao, naMtar r}XapaNaa TaLNyaasaazI gaaoYTIr}paanao taao irpaaoT- ilaihNao hohI iSakxlao. maaJyaa ga`upabaraobar maO~aI Jaalyaavar sagaLËaMjaNaIMcao gauNa laXaata yaota gaolao. Aamacyaa irsaca-caa jaao ivaYaya Aaho à jaoNDr AaiNa spaosa à HËacaa tyaaMnaa paNa ~aasa haotaao, jaao malaa kxQaIca Jaalaa naahI. maaJyaa ga`upacyaa maulaIMcao lavakxr maO~aI kxrNao, gaaovaMDItaIla is~ayaaMSaI saMvaad saaQaU SakxNao, tasaoca kxaoAa^iD-naoSana va [tar naotaRtva gauNa idsalao. AamacaI k^xTilasT paOgambarI ekxdma sT/I@T Aaho. paNa sagaLËaMcyaa kxmatartaa, jamaa baajaU jaaNaUna Gao{]na sagaLËaMnaa saamaavaUna Gaotao va kxama kxr}na Gaotao. maI paukxarmaQyao KaUpa kxmaI vak-xSaa^psamaQyao Baaga Gaotalaa. paNa saur}vaataIcaM Aa^Taobaayaaoga`afxIcaM AaiNa naMtar DoTa AnaailasaIsacaI vak-xSaa^psa ATonD koxlaI. tyaata BarpaUr majaa AalaI. inarinaraLËa KaoLaMtaUna va A^i@TivaTItaUna [tar ga`upamaQalyaa maulaaàmaulaIMSaI AaoLKaI Jaalyaa. saunaIla, Aama`paalaI va kxipala yaaMnaI DoTa AnaailasaIsacyaa vaoLolaa KaUpa madta koxlaI. paukxarmaQyao imaLalaolaM irsaca-caM T/oinaMga va DoTa AnaailasaIsa ho malaa AayauYyaBar {payaaogaI zrola AsaM vaaTtaM.
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Aa;=a pukar ke irscR ke il@ gu/p ke A&dr mera nam idya gya 9a muze AC2a lga jo ye mere il@ @k nya Anu-v 9a | pukar ke ju6>ne ke bad irscR krne ka trIka mEne is`a | @k gu/p m&e ;Kk5a kam krte vKt sbke Alg Alg soc @k gu/p m&e sb ne Alg Alg trIke se irscR ikyapukar ke vkR=$ap ke A&dr irp/o4 bna@, gu/p m&e bat ict ik@ iv6IAo ig/ fIme& Alg Alg gu/p ka Anu-v de`a | wnka kam krne ka trIka de`a sbse AC2a Anu-v "iv6IAo =ui4&g"ka 9a | ws m&e =a$4 ifLm,Skirpi4&g@idtI&g jEse fo4o ko ka4 kr jora jata hE AOr ws jgh jakr =Ui4&g kI,kafI logo& ka ;N4rVyu ilya | ifr kMPyu4r me& 6al kr @k =a$4R ifLm bna: | ;N4rne4 ke jirye hm hmara kam logo& ko id`aye yh -I is`a | i=Lpa AOr gay{aI se bhut ku2 is`ne ko imla | wnkI bna: ifLm muze bhot ps&d Aa; vkR=a$p ke Aa`rI idn ijtne -I g/up is`ne Aaye 9e hr g/up ne ApnI =a$4R ifLm bna ke id`ayI vo @Ksipiry&s bhot AC2a 9a | jo mE& tIn sal se fo4og/afI kr rhI hu%AOr muze @k mOka imla ivi6yog/a fI is`ne ka | fo4og/afI se ivi6yog/afI me& Aakr ij&dgI me& @k kdm Aage b6>ne ka mOka imla | merI hme=a ye koi= = rhegI ke mE& ;se Apne p/ofe=nl trIke se ;Stemal kru&gI | merI ye -I koi== rhegI ke mE& Apna @k 6a$Kyume&4rI ifLm bnaW% | mE& cahtI hu% ke mE& pukar se A$6vaNs kosR -I is`merI rucI Jyadatr sm&dr ke A&dr jIv kI Jyada jankarI lekr wnkI 6a$Kyume&4rI bnaW% AOr wsI ke il@ mE& iSvim&g -I is` rhI hu% | 72
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kaEsr AaEEifs me im4I&g ke jirye pukar kI felaei=p ke bare me pta cla! :s felaei=p me& kam hme bataya ke hm Kya krne kI saec rhe hE hme Kya krna hE ws m&e yh felaei=p iks trh se mdd kregI AaEr jae hm krna cahte hE ws ke ilye hme AaEr Kya jankarI kI kmI hE | wse iks trha pura kr skte hE | pukar se bhut mdd imlI jEse ke wNhae ne jae vkR=$ap ikye ws se Jyada mdd imlI halaNkI mE ws vkR=$ap ka ihSsa nhI rhI ijs ka muze Afsaes -I hE mgr muze mere sa9Iyae ne ;s @hsas se dur r`a ke mE ws ihSsa nhI 9I wNho&e ne jae merI mdd kI vh wn kI irpaer4I&g 9I | jIs ke jrIye hr vkR=$ap ke bare m&e muze btate AOr ;s trha muze mere kam me sahayta krte | ijske bad svRe kafI AC2a huAa | ;s sb se hmne jae ;laka cuna 9a vha% pr iktne 3r hE iktne laeg rhte hE kItne bCce Skul jarhe hE AOr iktne bCcae ne Skul 2ae6> idya hE Skul 2ae6> ne kI vjh ifr sa9 hI sa9 yh -I ws ;lake me rhne vale laegae kae kam kI kmI mul-ut suiv0a@e& jae wNhe& nhI imltI ;s sb ke bare m&e janna.AOr kMyuin4I kae -I ;s ke bare me& batana Avernesp/og/a krna AOr laegae kae ;s m&e =aiml krna |
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pEgMbrI mera Anu-v g/up ke sa9 me& bhut hI Alg rha hE | phlI mRtba jb me& pukar ke Aa$ifs me& ;N4rvyu dene ja rhI 9I jo ba&d/a me& hE | mere gu/p ko vha pr Aane ke il@ kafI idKkte Aa: pr mE& 5hrI ba&d/a ik rhI va=I ;slI@ vo idKkt -I bhut hI AasanI se hl ho gya 9a | jb hmara g/up sb sa9 me& ho gya tb hm sb ik ga6>I pukar Aa$ifs ke trf b6>ne lgI | jEse jEse raSta k4te ja rha 9a vEse vEse idl ik 06>kn AaEr tej hote ja rhI 9I | muze mere doSto& ne hOsla idya | Ab Aaya ;N4rvyu ka smy | ;N4rvyu ke smy se mE& 9o6>I sI 3bra: hu: 9I ke jo sval pu2e AaEr mE& wska jvab n de sk%u | mE&ne koi== kr jvab de idya | Aoir@&4e=n vkR=a$p me& tIn idn ke il@ 3r se bahr `ar 3r "yova se&4r" me& g: 9I, vha$ pr kafI ku2 nya is`ne ko imla | vha% pe muze @Esa lga ke mE& @k Aajad pir&da hu% Kyo&ik vha pr ko: rok4oknhI 9a jEse ke hmara @k l6>ikyo& ka g/up bna ws g/up me& hm sbo& ne `ub hSsI,mjak,jok,6a&s,=ero v =a:rI ik@ | tIn 74
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idnke vkR=a$p me& mE&ne& bhut ku2 is`I | hmare g/up me& ko: km p6>a il`a hE, to ko: wSse Jyada p6>a il`a hE | km p6>e,il`e ke sa9 me& iks trh ka brtaW krna caih@ ya ifr iks trh wse sa9 me& lekr clna caih@ | bCpn se lekr Aaj tk mE&ne hr @k se doStI ik AaEert,mdR,bCce,bu6>e,jvan leikn k-I -I mE&ne "smlE&igk" se doStI kI hI nhI 9I muze wn se bhuthI 6r lgta 9a | jb mE& pukar me& g: to muze malum huAa ik hmarI trh AaEr -I ko: dusra =`s hmare ibc mOjud hE | vh"smlE&igk" hE, mE& pukar me& Aoir@&4e=n vkR=a$p ke dOran "Aai== AaEr dugaR" se imlI 9I | bato& ke sa9 sa9 wn se mE&ne& doStI -I kr lI | jb mE& gu/p ik koéAoRi6ne4r bnI 9I t-I -I hmare gu/p me&e 9o6>a hSsI$,9o6>a mjak,9o6>a l6>a:,9o6>a zg6>a ye sb hmare gu/p me& k-In k-I hota hI rhta 9a | jb -I mE& pukar ke vkR=$p me& ya Aopn haWs ke il@ jatI 9I to @k Alg sa mahOl,`u=I AOr k: trh kI jankarI -I imltI 9I | Aaj mE& kE4ilS4 bnI hu% to -I hmarIgu/p imi4%g me& ifr vhI 9o6>a hSsI,9o6>a mjak,9o6>a l6>a:,9o6>a zg6>a hota hE | jb mE& gu/p me& ko AoRi6ne4r 9I | t-I 9o6>I ijMmedarI ka Ahsas 9a AaEr Aaj jb mE& kE4ilS4 bnI hu% to Aaj ;Sse k: Jyada ijMmedarI ka Ahsas ho rha hE kE4ilS4 nam bhut hI vjn hE AaEr nam ke sa9 sa9 ;ska kam -I kafI hd tk bhut hI vjn hE | muze bhut hI `u=I hu: ke mere gu/p ne muze kE4ilS4 bnaya | sbse phle hmareegu/p ne A0ura kam ko pura ikye ws 75
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ke bad @k ke bad @k Alg Alg trIke se kam krna =uru ik@ | hr @k kam ko mE&ne& Apne gu/p me& ba%4na =uru kr id@ | ;s kam ko ba%4ne ke bad n mere gu/p ko ko: tklIf 9IAaEr na hI muze tklIf hu: | sb kam AasanI se AaEr AC2I trh se ho rha 9a | kE4ilS4 bNne ke bad muz me& bhot sare bdlav -I Aa@ hE& | ;s @k sal me& mE&ne& bhot sare rol Ada ik@ hE | ;s @k sal me& pukar ke jir@e bhot ku2 muze is`ne ko -I imla hE | kE4ilS4 bNne ke bad mere mn me& bhut sare sval Aa rhe 9e ke jEse ke Kya mE& kE4ilS4 ka rol Ada kr paW%gI ? Kya mE& Apne gu/p me&Mbrke idlo& me& ya ifr pukar gu/p ke meMbr ke idlo me& ApnI jgh bna paW%gI ? Kya mE& ;s kam ko purI AC2I trh se A&jam de paW%gI ? mE& AOr mera pura g/up pukar ke s-I sdSy ke bhot bhot =ukirya Ada krta hE |
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p/+navlI irscR sveR sval nam ‰ pirvar me iktne log hE ‰ AadmI, AaErt bCce ‰ l6>ka , l6>ik kam ‰ wm/ ‰ gav$ ‰ iktne sal ‰ k-I se rhte ho m&b: me& 3r ‰ 3r `udka, 3r -a6>e se panI ‰ panI `ud ya -a6>e Skul ‰ muNsIpail4I , p/a:iv4 , muNsIpail4I p/a:iv4 hoiSp4l ‰ muNsIpail4I , p/a:iv4 , muNsIpail4I p/a:iv4 mihne ik kma: ‰ yha$ ik g&dgI ke bare me& ‰
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irscR ;N4rVyu sval nam ........ pta ........ 1.
Aap A-I tk kha% kha% 3Umne g: ho ?
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Aap Apne doSto& se iks trh se imlte ho ?
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idn ka `alI Aap kEse ibtate ho ?
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3r se bahr ikn ikn kamo& ke il@ jate ho ?
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vo kOnse kam hE jo mdoR ke vjh se AOrto& ko krne p6te hE ?
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3r se bahr Aap iktnI dUr tk ja skte ho ?
3r se Jyada dUr na jane kI vjh se Aap kI p7a: me& ko: £kav4 AatI hE ?
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Aap 3r me& rhkr kam krte ho ya 3r se bahr jakr kam krte ho ? @KS4^a svalŠ Aap Apne bare me& AOr ku2 btana cahte hE ?
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