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Around the Community . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 Community Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36
JEWISH THOUGHT Rabbi Zvi Teichman. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 Rabbi Motty Rabinowitz. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32 Rabbi YY Rubinstein. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34 All Things Considered. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55
HUMOR & ENTERTAINMENT Amazing Military Ships. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Notable Quotes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 Centerfold. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46
JEWISH LIFE 613 Seconds with Todd Tilson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Governor Huckabee Visits Israel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Dating Dialogue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49 Life Coach. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 Health & Fitness. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56 Political Crossfire. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58 Biz Wiz. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60 Are We Seeing the Beginning of Cold War 2.0? . . 61 Mental Health Corner. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64 Your Money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 68 Gluten Free Recipe Column. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70 Cooking for the King. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71
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Dear Readers, A UN resolution didn’t give the Jewish people the land of Israel, and it won’t take it away. Sure, all fair-minded people need to push back against this last ditch effort of Mr. Obama and Kerry to stack the chips against Israel in future negotiations, if there indeed are any. This is not a partisan issue. Israel is a beautiful example of what a democratic country can look like even in the otherwise jungle called the Middle East. For the US Ambassador to the UN to allow Israel to be singled out and not offering a counter resolution condemning calls for violence by Palestinian leadership is absurd. What’s more, per the behind-the-scenes transcript leaked by Egypt (!), Secretary Kerry and Former Ambassador to the UN Susan Rice told Mr. Abbas that he had lived up to all expectations the administration had. Really?! We Jews have a knack for turning lemons into lemonade. I don’t think the masterminds behind this foresaw the backlash it would bring from leaders right and left. Professor Alan Der-
showitz called it a stab in the back, Democrat Party Whip Steny Hoyer called the Obama administration out on this, a Bloomberg News editorial called for bi-partisan agreement in moving the embassy to Jerusalem. This step backward will yet strengthen Israel’s position, including establishing Yerushalayim as the eternal capital of the Jewish people. It’s interesting that the part dealing with Yerushalayim is what seems to have evoked the strongest response. Many of the prophesies and midrashim describing the final challenge facing the Jewish people refer to a battle for Jerusalem, the nations of the world ganging up on the Jewish people one last time. A final rabim b’yad m’atim. It’s already happening. Let us be ready for the miracles which are to follow. Like we say in the minchah Amida on Tisha B’av “For you, O Lord, consumed her with fire, and with fire You will rebuild her.” Wishing you a wonderful Shabbos,
Moshe Meir
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esser Torah, a new Mesivta scheduled to open in Baltimore for the 5778 school year, recently held an Open House at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Gamliel Hackerman. Close to one hundred people filled the room as Rabbis Tzvi Mordechai and Avrohom Feldheim spoke passionately about the Yeshiva they envision. There was a palpable excitement in the air as parents of seventh and eighth graders from around Baltimore came together to hear their words. Mesivta Kesser Torah will be run by the dynamic father and son team of Rabbi Tzvi Mordechai Feldheim and Rabbi Avrohom Feldheim. Rabbi Tzvi Mordechai Feldheim is a veteran mechanech, who served as Menahel and ninth grade Rebbi at Yeshiva Toras Chaim of Denver for the past two decades, and has inspired hundreds of talmidim to embrace Yiddishkeit and become passionate Bnei Torah. Rabbi Avrohom Feldheim has served as Rebbi and Mashgiach for the past five years at Mechina of South Florida, under the auspices of Harav Yochanan Zweig. He is known for his innovative educational approaches. Mesivta Kesser Torah will draw upon this unique combination of experience and innovation to bring out the best in their talmidim. “In recent years, the Baltimore community has experienced unprecedented growth,” remarked Mr. Aryeh Leib Freedman. “In this year’s eighth grade classes throughout the city, there will be about 150 graduates, bli ayin hara.” Rabbi Feldheim adds, “More boys than ever before want to attend a local yeshivah, rather than go out of town, and there simply is not enough room in the existing yeshivos.” The Mesivta is being designed for
a bochur who has a strong commitment to Yiddishkeit and yearns to become a true ben Torah. It will provide a warm yet challenging environment that will encourage and motivate each boy to reach his potential. As Rabbi Tzvi Mordechai Feldheim emphasized, “Mesivta Kesser Torah will have the full tzurah of a yeshivah with a high level of learning, and a wholesome environment in which bochurim will become passionate bnei Torah, with a love for Yiddishkeit, mitzvos, and tefillah.”
The attendees walked away with a beautiful, detailed packet which included a curriculum for both limudei kodesh and limudei chol. The curriculum emphasizes the goal of the Yeshiva; to prepare each Bochur to attend any Bais Medrash of his choice. The packet also contained an application, sample hachana worksheets, and a CD recording of Rabbi Tzvi Mordechai Feldheim’s shiurim from Torah Communications Network. The Mesivta will have a full accredited secular studies department,
under the leadership of Rabbi Moshe Dovid Robinson. Rabbi Robinson holds a Masters degree in Education and is a popular 5th grade Rebbe. He is a dynamic and energetic mechanech who will bring his talent to Mesivta Kesser Torah. Our secular studies program will provide bachurim with the skills needed to succeed in today’s world. For more information, visit our website at www.KTBaltimore.org or call the Mesivta’s office (410) 5382402.
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Mesivta Ne’imus HaTorah Bochurim Learn Shechita Basics at STAR-K Kosher Certification By Margie Pensak
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hen Mesivta Ne’imus HaTorah Menahel Rabbi Laib Schulman approached STAR-K Kosher Certification about teaching a few of his students some Kashrus basics, the non-profit agency was eager to comply. Rather than start off with something as simple as what is behind a kosher symbol or basic kitchen kashrus rules, STAR-K Kashrus Administrator Rabbi Mayer Kurcfeld went with his gut feeling—literally and figuratively—planning a memorable once-in-alifetime presentation. He wowed the boys at STAR-K’s Baltimore offices, on January 4, with his three different-sized chalafim (shechting knives), two cow lungs, and a cow’s hoof! In addition to demonstrating the chalaf sharpness test on a student’s nail and explaining which knife is used for which type of animal, Rabbi Kurcfeld discussed the five basic halachos of shechita, mentioning the types of animals that need to be schechted. He also reviewed the split hoof and fish scale kosher criteria, the difference between a neveila and a treifa, and how to check the lungs to see if it is glatt kosher or treif. As Rabbi Kurcfeld noted, “Nowhere in the Torah are the rules of
shechita mentioned. It simply says: ‘Shecht the animal the way I commanded you’. This is one of the sources of Torah shel baal peh; you just have to believe in the Talmud with its details. “Shechita is one of the most vital parts of Kashrus and it has a lot of mesorah to it; you cannot learn it in a book,” continues Rabbi Kurcfeld. “I wanted the boys to know that everything they were seeing had been passed down from my Rebbi and he learned it from his Rebbi, all the way back to Moshe Rabbeinu. Hopefully, the concept of accepting and trusting your Rebbi in everything he teaches will have a ripple effect in all their other learning.” Neimus Hatorah’s mission is to help their talmidim successfully move forward as productive and functioning members of society. After attending a morning shiur, the post-high school students can avail themselves of a Maryland- funded career counseling and jobs training program, along with an array of presentations and workshops on a variety of practical topics. In addition to picking up important knowledge and life skills, the program is designed to broaden their horizons and to present them with possible career opportunities, such as in Kashrus. The field trip to STAR-K was part of a series of presentations scheduled
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kosher labels. “Although it was a very small group of boys, their Rosh Yeshiva felt they would benefit so we were pleased to arrange the classes,” remarks STAR-K Kashrus Administrator Rabbi Zvi Goldberg, coordinator of many of the agency’s educational programs. “Rabbi Kurcfeld really went all out for them. It is part of our achrayis to Klal Yisroel and our ongoing commitment to teach about Kashrus as much as possible.” “We are very excited about these presentations, which we feel will be extremely beneficial to the participants,” says Rabbi Ari Soloff, Executive Director of Mesivta Ne’imus HaTorah. “As an internationally recognized leader in the industry, STAR-K is a great resource for any type of education in the field of Kashrus,” adds Rabbi Schulman. In participant Meir Goldfeder’s own words, “I really enjoyed our session with Rabbi Kurcfeld. “A handson lesson about the simanim of kosher animals and the shechita process really expanded my understanding of this important topic. I look forward to our next visit.” The video of Rabbi Kurcfeld’s presentation is available for viewing on STAR-K’s website, www.star-k.org.
Nachlas Hatorah Legal Holiday Learning On Monday morning, December 26th, כ”ו כסלו, Kollel Nachlas Hatorah of Khal Machzikei Torah held a Legal Holiday morning of learning. The Rosh Kollel, Harav Nechemiah Goldstein shlit”a gave a shiur on the topic of why there is no ספיקא דיומאby Chanuka. After he concluded the shiur the large crowd was addressed by Harav Herschel Rosenfeld shlit”a,, Rosh Kollel of Khal Chasidim, on the topic of if you only have enough money to purchase Ner Chanuka or Ner Shabbos which one has precedence. The Gemara says that Ner Shabbos comes first because of Shalom Bayis. He then
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Lieutenant Yael Yekutiel, 20, Cadet Shir Hajaj, 22, Cadet Shira Tzur, 20 and Cadet Erez Orbach, 20, were the four IDF soldiers tragically slain by an Arab terrorist this week. Fadi al-Qanbar, a resident of the capital’s Jabel Mukaber neighborhood, viciously rammed a flatbed truck into a group of soldiers on Sunday afternoon. The soldiers were participating in a group tour in the Armon Hanatziv neighborhood in Jerusalem and as they unloaded off the tour bus the truck came charging at full speed killing four and injuring another 16 people, two very seriously. According to police, the terrorist accelerated as he approached the group. He then reversed the vehicle and struck the group a second time. Within seconds the driver was fatally shot by a civilian guide and soldiers. The truck, with Israeli license plates, was purchased by the terrorist last year. It approached from the direction of that the Arab neighborhood Jabel Mukaber, which is adjacent to the promenade. Al-Qanbar was in his late 20s, was married with four children, and had previously served time in an Israeli jail. “In a fraction of a second during which I was speaking with one of the officers, I saw the truck plowing into us. After a few rolls on the grass I saw the truck start to reverse and then I already understood that this was not an accident. I felt that my pistol was still on me, so I ran up to him and started emptying my clip. He went in reverse and again drove over the injured,” the
group’s guide, Eitan Rund, said. Since the incident, Rund has expressed his concern that the soldiers did not react fast enough. “I have to ask why it took a 30-year-old civilian to fire first,” he said, “when there were well-armed officers” present. He blames the conviction for manslaughter handed out last week to soldier Elor Azaria, who shot dead a disarmed, injured Palestinian assailant. The IDF, though, claims that two to three soldiers opened fire from close range, perhaps after Rund, and are thought to be the ones who killed the terrorist. Within an hour after the attack, a Jerusalem court imposed a gag order on the investigation, so the exact details have not yet been revealed. Leah Schreiber, one of the guides for the group of soldiers, shared her harrowing experience, “I was explaining about the view of Jerusalem. I saw soldiers shouting and screaming. Some of the soldiers started shooting. It took some time to kill [the driver] so he was able to reverse. The whole thing took maybe a minute and a half,” she said. The tour was a field trip as part of the army’s “Culture Sundays,” in which troops visit historical and national sites at the start of the week. According to the Ben Zvi Institute, which organized the tour for the IDF, the soldiers were cadets from the officer’s training course and were from non-combat units. Following the attack, Hamas terror group praised the attack as “heroic.” Hamas spokesman Hazem Qassem wrote on his Facebook page: “These operations demonstrate that all attempts to bypass the resistance or to thwart it will fail every time.” Israel Hayom reported on Monday that a relative of al-Qanbar said that al-Qanbar became incensed after hearing a sermon at his mosque on Friday excoriating U.S. President-elect Donald Trump’s plan to move the U.S. embassy to Jerusalem from Tel Aviv. According to Israel Radio, the expected embassy relocation was the chief subject of religious sermons throughout the West Bank on Friday, with PA leadership instructing the mosques under its control to focus on the matter. In response to this revelation Defense Minister Avigdor Liberman
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The Week In News noted that “the worrisome thing is that terrorism and incidents in the field are the result of orders from on high — direct orders from Abbas to imams in mosques to incite [to violence].” “Anyone who thinks that instead of sitting down and talking, he will change the situation through pressure, intimidation or international conferences is wrong,” Liberman added. “We have no intention to waver from the decisions we’re made and I hope
that we’ll exact a toll on the other party for all this incitement.” On Tuesday, Netanyahu criticized Abbas’s Fatah party for not only “fail[ing] to condemn the latest terrorist attack, but that there were even those in Fatah who praised it.” Both Netanyahu and Liberman have previously blamed incitement from the PA for fueling terrorism against Israelis, although the prime minister said on Sunday regarding the attacker that “according to all the signs
he is a supporter of the Islamic State” ter-
ror group, without elaborating. On Monday, four people were arrested in the Old City were graffiti which praised the attack and called it “resistance.” “We will not despair until you give up” and “There is no place for you [Jews] in Jerusalem” was written in Hebrew. Another piece of graffiti proclaimed, “Yesterday’s attack is the beginning of 2017.”
Israel Pulls UN Funding
In response to the passing of UN Security Council Resolution 2334, which condemns Israel’s presence in Judea, Samaria and eastern Jerusalem, Israel will be suspending significant amounts of its annual UN contributions in 2017. The Israeli Mission informed the UN that it will be cutting approximately 6 million dollars in protest. The 6 million represents the amount of money the UN allocated to anti-Israel bodies. These groups include the Committee on the Exercise of the Inalienable Rights of the Palestinian People (CEIRPP), the Division for Palestinian Rights (DPR), the Work of the Special Committee to Investigate Israeli Practices Affecting the Human Rights of the Palestinian People and Other Arabs of the Occupied Territories (SCIIHRP), and the Special Information Program on the Question of Palestine of the UN Department of Public Information. Danny Danon, Israel’s Ambassador to the UN, said that “it is unreasonable for Israel to fund bodies that operate against us at the UN. The UN must end the absurd reality in which it supports bodies whose sole intent is to spread incitement and anti-Israel propaganda.” Danon added, “Now is the time to implement real change at the UN. We seek to stop the practice where the UN is used solely as a forum for unending attacks against Israel.” The Israeli Mission also plans to implement more initiatives to change the structure of the UN, hoping to end anti-Israel activities within the international body. These initiatives are to be put into place after the Trump administration is in the White House later this month. The U.S. House of Representative
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Ever lose your car on Central Avenue on Friday afternoon? You know you parked it right in front of this store and then when you come back, it’s not there. No, the meter maids didn’t tow it away; the car simply was parked a few cars back. Phew. A man in the UK experienced this sort of panic – just a billion times over. Back in June, he borrowed a friend’s BMW in Scotland and then drove it to Manchester for a concert. He parked his car in one of the parking garages – and then forgot which one. Turns out, looking for a car in myriad parking garages is like, well, looking for a needle in a haystack. Impossible to find. After searching for five days, he gave up. His friend, the owner of the vehicle, emailed parking garages and officials in search of the car as well but to no avail. Finally, the owner reported the vehicle lost or stolen. Well, we know it was lost. Now, seven months later, it seems that the BMW has finally been found! Police officers say that they happened upon an abandoned car in one of the area lots just before midnight on Friday and, after seeing it had been reported lost or stolen, tweeted that they’d found the car that had been lost
We know that people return library books late – even years late. But this week, Renae Thornton reached out to police to pay a ticket that was a bit late – 57 years old. The ticket was issued to Thornton’s “Paw Paw,” Delbert Kyle, for driving with one headlight and without a driver’s license. The fine? $10. Through Facebook Thornton connected with Police Chief Darryl Barton of West, Texas, telling him she wasn’t sure if the ticket had been paid. Barton replied to Thornton: “Well now, let me see… late fees, court cost, failure to appear charges…this could get expensive. Sure, come on over. Let’s talk about this…JUST KIDDING.” He added, “No worries, but I would be very interested in seeing this piece of history.” Thornton retrieved the ticket, snapped a photo and sent it to Barton. The ticket was dated April 27, 1960. According to the back of the ticket, the ticket was paid and was signed by Mayor George Kacir.
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The Lone Wolf By Rabbi Zvi Teichman The Prophet Yeshayahu foretells of the glorious end of days when the wolf and the lamb shall feed together )(ישעיהו סה כה. The Midrash explains that this refers to the coexistence of the tribe of Binyamin who is compared by his father to the wolf, Binyamin is a predatory wolf )(בראשית מט כז, with the rest of the Jewish nation who is described by the Prophet Yirmiyahu as scattered sheep )(ירמיהו נ יז. )(ב"ר צה The critical role of the tribe of Binyamin is evident in the fact that upon its unique stone on the Choshen Mishpat, in addition to his own name and the image of a wolf, the sentiment ""שבטי ישורון, The Tribes of Yeshurun, was engraved there as well. )(ש"ר לח
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Additionally, the colors appearing on his flag were similar to all the unique colors of all the other tribes. )(במ"ר ב The Midrash goes on to detail how periodically throughout our history the descendants of Binyamin would mimic the attribute of the wolf and ‘snatch’ victory from the hands of our enemies. )(ב"ר צט Ehud, one of the earlier Judges, takes the initiative to go it alone and arrange an audience with Eglon the King of Moav, ostensibly to deliver a message from G-d. When Eglon stands up to greet the “word of G-d”, Ehud stealthily withdraws a hidden sword thrusting it into him killing him and then locking the door behind him as he leaves, deceiving the king’s servants into thinking the king is busy tending to his needs. In the interim Ehud’s troops rout the Moavite army. )(שופטים ג
Shaul the first Jewish king is valiantly described as the one who “took” the kingdom over Israel, and fought against all his enemies on every side )(שמואל א יד מז. Earlier the Prophet alludes to how after the Philistines captured the Holy Ark, Shaul courageously runs alone a great distance and “snatches” the Two Tablets from the hands of Goliath. )(שם ד יב רש"י שם In the days of Achashveirosh, Esther “captures” the heart of the king leading to the sequence of events that lead to the downfall of Haman. Each of these illustrious members of the tribe of Binyamin displays the talent of the זאב יטרוף, the predatory wolf, who can adeptly חוטף, snatch, his prey. Clearly this hereditary trait must have stemmed from their famed ancestor Binyamin. Yet in the portrayal of his life as detailed in the Torah nowhere is this skill evident. Rabbeinu Ephrayim, one of the Tosafists, makes a startlingly fascinating claim regarding the nature of Binyamin. In his commentary on Torah he states: Benjamin was a predatory wolf, sometimes preying upon people. When it was time for him to change into a wolf, as it says, ‘Benjamin is a predatory wolf’, as long as he was with his father, he could rely upon a physician, and in that merit he did not change into a wolf. He goes on to explain that this was why Yaakov Avinu feared for Binyamin to leave, when Yaakov exclaimed, ‘And he shall leave his father and die’, namely, that when he sepa-
rates from his father, and turns into a wolf with travelers, whoever finds him will kill him. In another place he elaborates with the following:
The loneliness of pain allows one to focus one’s energies in a way that comfort cannot. One must believe however that one possesses that ability to attain that goal.
There is a type of wolf that is called loup-garou (werewolf), which is a person that changes into a wolf. When it changes into a wolf, his feet emerge from between his shoulders, as it says, ‘he dwells between the shoulders’ )(דברים לג יב. And likewise, Binyamin ate his mother, who died on his accord, as it is written, ‘And it was as her soul left her, for she was dying, and she called his name the son of my affliction’ )(בראשית לה יח.
The word אוניrefers to pain as well as to strength. Rav Hirsch teaches that אוןactually means to ‘claim possession’. When we suffer the pain of death it is the feeling of having a right to the possession of somebody of whom you have been robbed of. When one regains a healthy perspective on the situation at hand that is grounded in emunah, one becomes empowered with a greater strength, a greater resolve.
Perhaps we may suggest that the couching of his nature in this physical malady is actually a metaphor for the inner struggle Binyamin faced from birth.
The wolf is an animal that lacks the requisite strength to overpower by brute force alone in gaining its prey. He must utilize the element of surprise to “snatch” its quarry. At times it is the very lack of strength and its diminished size that deceives its target into thinking it is incapable of attack.
Binyamin entered this world without the warmth of a mother. He later lost a dear and devoted brother he cherished greatly. During those lonely years Binyamin goes on to establish his own family, he names each one of his ten children in memory of his departed brother, each name emphasizing the difficult circumstances Yosef must have faced. )(רש"י בראשית מג ל Perhaps Binyamin struggled with the trauma of pain he was born into and continued to experience throughout his life. The natural reaction when reliving trauma is to react violently and impulsively. Rachel his mother names him בן אוני, son of affliction. Why would she give him a name that would accentuate the pain each time his name would be called? Maybe she sought to make others aware of his fragile nature in the hope that kindness and understanding would be exhibited toward him. His father Yaakov however calls him ימין-בן, son of strength )(רמב"ן. Yaakov Avinu wasn’t negating Rachel’s intent but rather infusing within this traumatized child the belief that one can transform pain into strength. One’s plight should not defeat but rather compel one to find the inner-strength to go forward.
The lone wolf is confident that in its limitation lay its greatest strength. The instinctive resolve the wolf possesses compels it to achieve its goal. Rabbeinu Ephrayim describes the ‘werewolf’ and its “feet emerging from the shoulders”. The shoulders represent ‘burden’, suffering. The feet imply mobility, going forward and taking that ‘load’ and giving it ‘legs’. Each of these descendants of Binyamin stood isolated and alone against powerful enemies. These lone wolves however had that inner confidence that in their most difficult circumstance they would discover their greatest strength. Each one of us can easily transform into reactive werewolves if we permit self-pity to defeat us. If we maintain the legacy of Binyamin however, we can shackle the forces of defeatism, transforming challenge into victory. May we finally reach that day when the force of the ‘wolf’ within us will coexist healthily with the ‘lamb’ and bring in its wake the final redemption.
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By Rabbi Motty Rabinowitz Over the past two weeks, we have continued to witness the destruction that can be perpetrated by individuals who have uncontrollable rage and who’s values (or lack of) drive them to fanatical acts of terrorism. We of course wish a speedy recovery to all the wounded and traumatized. But it would perhaps also be valuable to contrast these evil acts with how we must handle our own passion. In our Torah reading, Yaakov gathers his family for his final words, and imparts each of his sons individually with blessings and guidance for the
future. Shimon and Levi are however, lumped together, and then seemingly read the riot act. Yaakov chastises them for episodes where their exuberant passion and ensuing zealously were let loose, with dire consequences. In the story of their sister Dina in Shechem, they destroyed the whole city. They were also the instigators of the attack on Yosef as he approached the brothers: “And one man said to his brother” (37:10) – the Midrash says that this refers to Shimon and Levi. It would seem that their weakness-
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es were identical and that their future paths would be the same. However, deeper reading shows this not to be accurate. When Yosef decided to incarcerate one of the tribes in Egypt as collateral while the other brothers returned with Binyomin, he picks Shimon. Rashi notes (42,24) that it was Shimon who was the initiator of the conversation to kill Yosef and he was the one who physically pushed him into the pit. Shimon was the ringleader; Levi was merely the accomplice. Historically, we also see that their future paths starkly diverged. Levi became the tribe that served in the temple, and were allocated 48 specially designated cities. Shimon on the other hand, was donated random cities within the population of Yehuda, many of which he eventually lost at the time of David (Rashi D”H 1, 4:31). It seems clear that while they shared the passion and zealousness, they were undoubtedly different. Rabbi Yaakov Kamenetsky, in his commentary Emes L’Yaakov, explains that Shimon and Levi differed in how they controlled their passion. Levi was able to keep his passions in check through the Torah and Mitzvos. While he could still cause carnage, he was naturally inclined to temper his zealousness by the rule of law. On the other hand, Shimon was the source of unbridled passion, emotion without boundaries. He was not able temper his anger and exuberance. Levi could therefore be allowed to have a special role in the Jewish People as the religious leadership. Passion and devotion are critical components to lead a nation. But it must be controlled and moderated. Shimon, while also having a future role, had to be kept more in check. Yaakov’s blessing to these tribes is also intriguing: “I will divide them up in Yaakov, and scatter them in Israel” (49:7). While both Shimon and Levi would have future roles in the Jewish People,
dividing and scattering hardly strikes us as a loving blessing from a dying father. Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch remarks that on the contrary, this is indeed a blessing. It is true that in times of peace and success it is critical to widely scatter these tribes, as their passion and strength of character can breed extremism and lawlessness. The only way to guarantee that zealousness does not boil over is by ensuring that they are not allowed to reach a critical mass together. However, when the nation is in exile or downtrodden, it is precisely this strength and Jewish pride that will power the nation’s pulse throughout all the persecutions, suffering and despondency. ‘Scattering them in Israel’ will allow the rest of the nation the chance to latch on to this passion, to reignite its pride, to reenergize its broken spirit. Shimon and Levi have a tremendous gift, a powerful blessing, as long as it is used and channeled correctly. One way their energy becomes positive, says the Sefas Emes, is when it is focused on helping the Jewish People instead of being fixated on themselves. This is why they need to be spread throughout the nation. It is there, among the masses, assisting others, that they channel their energy to a higher purpose. But when their passions are focused internally, they become a danger to themselves and the nation. We are indeed challenged by rampant extremism worldwide, and need to unfortunately also combat it internally. However, the positive passion for life represented by these brothers is critical for our nation’s future. Our children notice when we are apathetic about our Jewish values, but they also absorb when we display enthusiasm for our Yiddishkeit. It is that powerful energy, the zest for a meaningful life, the drive to build a just nation, that will pull us out of exile and open the door for redemption.
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apps, including Jewish ones that can make my phone do everything apart from making challah (at least I think it can’t do that), the list of things it can do is astonishing. You can monitor your blood sugar and pressure; retina scanners are here too, as well as fitness monitors. Then there is the standard fingerprint recognition feature to unlock your phone and let you can use it and more importantly stop other people from using it. With all these features and, of course, the fact that your phone probably contains all of your most critical personal details, like passwords, it becomes more than a phone. It becomes a crucial part of you. During this Chanukah, disaster struck. I lost my smartphone. Given how much essential “me” is contained inside it, I started to panic. My wife calmed me by pointing out that smartphones have features that allow them to be traced and located by their signal. Phew! Panic over. My wife and I started the pro-
cedure that launches the search on her iPhone and off we set to retrieve our lost child. At this point I should point out that although the adjective “smart” may well apply to the phone, it might not always apply to its owner. If only we had pressed one more part of the screen, we would have been all set. Instead I had a “glitch” in my own programming so that the map took us on a treasure hunt all over the Five Towns. Every time we arrived at an address, which surely must be where some saintly soul who had picked up the lost item resided, the phone informed us it was now at a different house! After six or seven tries we came to a house where everyone seemed to be out. For once the signal did not dance away to another location. We were convinced that behind this front door sat a smartphone pining to be reunited with its owner. My wife had the great idea of asking a neighbor if they could call the owners of the house to see if they had found a lost phone. Across the street, a brightly lit home showed
that lots of people were inside. We crossed the street and rang the bell. No one answered so we waited and rang again. No one answered. So we knocked. No one answered. Then a child’s figure appeared behind the glass and disappeared. We rang once more. Then an adult’s outline appeared behind the glass and disappeared and no one answered. I could see a video camera staring down at us and understood what had happened. We had been taken for meshulachim. Crossing the street we knocked on another door and their help was spontaneous and enthusiastic. Soon we were reunited with our phone. As we drove home I recalled a story I heard many years ago. For many years, Reb Moshe Reichmann, z”l, was a major supporter of countless Torah institutions — yeshivos, schools, kollelim. This included my own community kollel in England. One of the avreichim used to travel to Toronto annually to request funds from Mr. Reichmann,
35 who Mr. Reichmann was and, fumbling for the phone, she informed her boss who had been waiting for him all this time. The man behind the glass leaped from his seat and burst through the door looking whiter than his soon-to-be ex-receptionist. “I am so sorry...” he stammered, shaking
message was not really for me instead. How did I feel standing on that cold threshold being ignored and turned away? Perhaps I too had ignored someone in trouble when I could easily have helped. And suppose someone could develop yet another Jewish app to add to the thousands that tell
This time the receptionist heard the name correctly and her face turned white.
you the time of Mincha, or where you can find the nearest minyan or kosher store. Suppose this app, let’s call it, “The Rachmanus App,” sends you an alert to tell you that the middos ha’din is angry with you and is trying to cause you harm for something you have done. This
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Mr. Reichmann’s hand. “My receptionist misheard your name, and she didn’t realize who it was!” Mr. Cohen was clearly alarmed, as the deal they were scheduled to discuss involved hundreds of millions of dollars. “You see, we have never met before, and when I looked up and saw you, I thought you were a meshulach!” Mr. Reichmann apologized and said, “I am very sorry, but if that’s the way you treat meshulachim... the deal’s off.” And he left the plush offices and returned to Toronto. This was a story my wife had heard me recount many times before. That morning, though, I had been learning something new with my chavrusah something that was very relevant to that closed door. Reb Elya Lopian zt”l writes in Lev Eliyahu (Bereshis page 119): If Hashem sees that the middas ha’din is readying himself to punish someone because something they have done, he sends a poor person to his door. This is so as to evoke the person’s feelings of pity and mercy towards someone who is in trouble. That in turn, middah, kneged middah, arouses Hashem’s feelings of pity and mercy towards the person whom the middos ha’din wanted to strike and stops him doing so! A day later I toyed with the idea of returning to the house with the closed door to explain why I had come that night and to tell them about this frightening teaching. Instead I paused to wonder if the
smart app will show you where you can find another Jew who needs a bit of help with tzedaka to help a sick spouse or money for a sick child. The app will have a graphic of a figure standing outside a door. The sound to alert you to your danger and how to avoid it will be noise that resembles, “Knock, Knock.” Of course, if you are smart, you’ll want to download this to your smartphone right way. If you are really smart you’ll never go anywhere without it so you can listen out for the “Knock Knock” alert and the opportunity to show a little kindness which might just force the middos ha’din to visit another address in another neighborhood altogether.
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and these were always supplied. On one occasion he brought back the following story from his trip. Mr. Reichmann had flown to Manhattan for a meeting with some other property developer. He arrived at the skyscraper offices of the New York firm and exited the elevator into the corporation’s office suite. The receptionist sat behind a pentangle-shaped desk surrounded by glass walls that gave onlookers a view into the offices of the firm. Through the glass walls, Mr. Reichmann could observe the staff busy at their desks, and he could even see the owner of the firm, whom he had come to meet, sitting in his own plush office. The receptionist asked if she could help the bearded man who wore the traditional dark suit of Orthodox Jews. Reb Moshe supplied his name and said that he had come to see Mr. “Cohen.” The receptionist invited him to take a seat and promptly picked up the phone and dialed her boss to inform him that Moshe Reichmann was asking to see him. But when she said Mr. Reichmann’s name she repeated what she had heard him say, only she had misheard him. “There is a Mr. Reinman here for you, Mr. Cohen.” The boss looked up from his desk and through the glass saw what he believed was yet another meshulach come to elicit a donation. After ten minutes of waiting, Moshe Reichmann approached the receptionist again and asked if she wouldn’t mind reminding her boss that he was still waiting. The young lady obliged and once again explained that Mr. Reinman was still waiting. This did not even provoke her boss to look up; he hung up the phone and went back to his work. After half an hour, Mr. Reichmann went back to the receptionist and said that he could see that Mr. Cohen was clearly very busy but he could not wait any longer. “Could you just tell them that Mr. Reichmann had to leave?” This time the receptionist heard the name correctly and her face turned white. She knew exactly
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Governor Huckabee Visits Israel Orthodox Jewish Chamber of Commerce Mission to Israel Reverberates Through the Halls of Power By Shimmy Blum At the turn of the secular new year, the Orthodox Jewish Chamber of Commerce launched its first ever “U.S.-Israel Business Alliance” mission to Israel, aimed at strengthening the U.S.-Israel economic and diplomatic relationships, and fighting the BDS movement, UN anti-Semitism and other threats to Israel and the Jewish business world. The mission was led by the Jewish Chamber’s Executive Public Policy Committee - Dr. Joseph Frager, Dr. Paul Brody, Odeleya Jacobs and Duvi Honig - and its special guest, former Arkansas governor and two-time presidential candidate Mike Huckabee. Governor Huckabee is a leading supporter of Israel and strong pro-Israel voice in the media. He first visited Israel in 1973, at age 17, and has returned approximately one hundred
for Israel at this crucial juncture. The nickname “Huckabee the Maccabbee” was an instant favorite in the room. The fact that Governor Huckabee has a particularly close relationship with incoming President Trump was particularly heartening. Dr. Frager, a longtime pro-Israel activist, had strong words for the recent actions of the U.N. and Obama administration, calling the resolution a “mockery and travesty” and a “shot in the arm for the BDS movement.” He heralded the strength of this mission, boosted by Governor Huckabee and dozens of other participants. “Let’s hope this sets the tone for the next eight years of the Trump administration.” Reb Duvi Honig noted the Jewish Chamber’s particular motivation to utilize its global network of Jewish
standing friendship with Israel, and concluded by raising the Israeli flag and proclaiming “Am Yisrael Chai!” Starting her remarks with the words “Hodu l’Hashem ki tov,” Odeleya Jacobs, who invested countless hours to arrange the symposium, noted the importance of the mission and its message to the world. “The Jewish people are indigenous to this land,” she exclaimed. “No power can go against God.” Though the only non-Jew in the room, Governor Huckabee harped on his strong religious faith and how it shapes his view of Israel. “When I first came here, Israel was struggling to live off kibbutzim, but is now one of the most entrepreneurial nations in the history of mankind; and won many wars it shouldn’t have (by conventional measure),” the governor explained.
times since. On Tuesday morning, January 3rd, a diverse dozen Knesset members gathered in the Knesset’s Jerusalem Hall for a special two hour-plus “U.S.-Israel Business Alliance” symposium. You could hear a pin drop in the room throughout the symposium. The sensitivity of the times was felt in the air. We were mere days after the UN Security Council passed Resolution 2334, and just over two weeks away from when Donald Trump will be inaugurated as president of the U.S., which is expected to significantly affect U.S. policy towards Israel. Speaker after speaker thanked Governor Huckabee and the entire Jewish Chamber delegation for displaying unapologetic U.S. support
community businesses and business leaders to fight BDS and other efforts to harm the Israeli economy. “An eye for an eye,” he stated with visible passion. “We’ll use our strength to fight you all.” Reb Duvi added the importance for Israel and the Jewish people to respect Shabbos and other Torah traditions and laws, in order to be able to expect the world to respect our historical biblical connection to the land. He also highlighted the strong personal connection that the Jewish Chamber maintains with top aides to President Elect Trump, particularly Jason Dov Greenblatt Esq., and Israel Ambassador designate David Friedman. Dr. Brody kept his remarks short, heralding Governor Huckabee’s long-
“There is no explanation for this other than God’s unique personal involvement.” The governor reiterated his belief that Israel has rightful sovereignty over Judea and Samaria, and warned that abandoning portions of land won’t satiate Israel haters. “The world doesn’t hate you because of where you are, but because of who you are and whose you are,” he exclaimed. Build Israel Great Again: Maale Adumim Looks Forward to End of Freeze For over seven years, Maale Adumim, the sprawling city of 41,000 residents saw development completely frozen after outgoing U.S. President Barack Obama warned Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu that
Israel cannot add “one more brick” to the community, which is just over the Green Line. In clear defiance of this edict, Mayor Casriel, Governor Huckabee and the Jewish Chamber delegation made their way to the outskirts of the city with a bird’s eye view of both Maale Adumim and the vast surrounding Judean hills. The stage was emblazoned with a red banner with the words “Build Israel Great Again,” a play on the famous “Make America Great Again” slogan of incoming U.S. President Donald Trump. Red and white “Build Israel Great Again” caps were distributed to Governor Huckabee and mission participants, who were all too eager to wear them. The group was there to, no less, lay the marker for a new Maale Adumim neighborhood to be built, which would meet the pent-up demand due to natural growth and the need for affordable housing in the Yerushalayim region. Governor Huckabee, a close friend and ally of President Elect Trump, said that he expects the Trump administration policy towards Israel and residence in Judea and Samaria to be “dramatically different” than the Obama administration’s hostile posture. Mayor Casriel, Governor Huckabee and the Jewish Chamber delegation then planted an olive tree in the new neighborhood and placed a vessel with the founding document of the new neighborhood in the ground. Visiting the Iriyah On Wednesday morning, following a press conference with Israeli and international media at the King David Hotel, Governor Huckabee and other mission participants took part in a roundtable forum at Yerushalayim Municipal Hall with Mayor Nir Barkat. Mayor Barkat detailed the difficulties that he encountered during his tenure, as the Obama administration put immense pressure that the municipality stop Jewish construction in various parts of the city while also pressuring them not to demolish illegal Arab homes. Members of the Orthodox Jewish
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she explained. Governor Huckabee recounted with his trademark oratory skills the story of a father who took his eleven year old daughter on a tour of Yad Vashem for the first time. After they walked through exhibits of the horrific events prior to and during the Holocaust, particularly what was done to Jewish children, the girl simply wrote
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ness leaders, elected officials and community leaders gathered for a VIP business networking dinner wrapping up the U.S.-Israel Business Alliance mission. Duvi Honig commenced the event, marveling at the many high level guests in attendance, including several who traveled from the U.S. for the dinner alone. “We think big,” he exclaimed. “We are uniting Jewish community businesses at a global level.” The dinner epitomized the goal of the Jewish Chamber and this mission to Israel, which is focusing on networking Jewish communal and economic powerhouses to advance economic success within the U.S. and Israel, and between the two countries. The speakers list included Michael Eisenberg of Aleph Venture Capital; Knesset members Zeev Elkin, Minister of Jerusalem Affairs; Eli Ben-Dahan, Deputy Defense Minister; Oren Chazzan; Miki Zohar and Bezalel Smotrich; Consul General in New York Danny Dayan; and Efrat Mayor Oded Ravivi. Dr. Frager was clearly moved by the vibrancy of the mission and its success, noting that the dinner also heralded the upcoming fiftieth anniversary of the reunification of Yerushalayim. Audience members rose to applaud Dr. Frager when he spoke of making “the Jewish people a greater people; Israel a greater Israel; build Judea and Samaria into a greater Judea and Samaria and build Yerushalayim to be the greatest city on earth.” Odeleya Jacobs hit at the core of the mission, stressing the importance of the Jewish Chamber goal to help Jewish businesses thrive across the globe. “We need to teach people how to fish, rather than just give them fish,”
in the museum guestbook, “Why didn’t somebody do something?” The governor then shared that this occurred with him and his daughter Sarah. He was proud of his young daughter’s insight and how she internalized the Holocaust’s most important lesson for future generations. Sarah Huckabee is now a senior aide to President Elect Trump and will serve in his administration. Her father expressed confidence that she will be a forceful advocate against evil, particularly those that seek to harm Israel and the Jewish people. Governor Huckabee derided the two-state solution as “diplomatic fantasy” and confirmed the sense in the room that the incoming president will be a strong ally for Israel. “The partnership between the United States and Israel are deeper than political and economic,” he summed up. “It is based on the values of what it means to be a human being.”
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Chamber of Commerce articulated their dedication to promote economic activity between the U.S. and Israel. Reb Duvi Honig also made an impassioned plea to the mayor not to change the Orthodox status quo at the Kosel Hamaaravi, warning that a commitment to democracy should never supersede fealty to our common religious obligations. He pointed to the recent anti-Israel UN resolution as a harbinger of what can happen when Jews dismiss their religious tradition. “If we don’t respect our traditions, how can we expect the world to respect our historical roots in Eretz Yisroel?,” Reb Duvi asked. Naftali Bennett Listens – and Makes a Move on Behalf of Torah and Shabbos Governor Mike Huckabee, Dr. Joseph Frager and Duvi Honig paid a visit to Education Minister Naftali Bennett, head of the Habayit HaYehudi party. They discussed various pertinent issues, such as strengthening U.S.-Israel economic ties and fighting the BDS movement. Reb Duvi reiterated the message a he delivered at the Knesset and Yerushalayim municipal hall, urging Mr. Bennett to respect Torah traditions in matters of education, Shabbos and more. In a remarkable development, that very day, HaBayit HaYehudi officially joined the charedi parties in support of maintaining the religious status quo regarding the closure of Israeli businesses on Shabbos. Habayit HaYehudi previously did not align with the charedim in this battle. This significant change was announced via an official letter from MK Bezalel Smotrich to Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu. Smotrich was among the MKs who attended and addressed the Orthodox Jewish Chamber of Commerce’s Knesset symposium the previous day, when Reb Duvi Honig made his emotional plea on behalf of maintaining Torah true Yiddishkeit. “When I heard of the letter, I thanked Hashem,” Reb Duvi explained. “It’s an amazing zechus to have had a part in this.” Mission Wraps Up at VIP Business Networking Dinner The event hall at the prestigious King David Hotel in Yerushalayim was upbeat on Wednesday evening, as approximately one hundred busi-
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help out other vessels of the military. Notice that the word navy is missing from this definition as the army and coast guard also have naval vessels. One ship that stands out for not much other than being the subject of the TV series The Wackiest Ship in the Army is the USS Echo. The all-wooden schooner was built in New Zealand in 1905 without any motors. Fifteen years later they were placed on the ship and in 1942 she was lent to the U.S. as part of the reverse Lend-Lease deal. Since wood doesn’t show up on radar she was easily able to avoid detection by the Japanese for three years. Used as a reconnaissance and delivering ship she was able to blend in with native ships while logging 40,000 nautical miles as a member
USS Kearsarge, a crane ship, circa 1936
of the U.S. Army. Eventually the Echo was returned to New Zealand and became a popular tourist attraction as a bar and museum. Almost every ship that is currently commissioned by the U.S. is propelled by some type of motor or engine. The two exceptions are the USS Constitution and the USCGC Eagle. The Constitution is a fascinating ship because it was launched in 1798. Yes, that date is correct, and the wooden hulled frigate, nicknamed Old Ironsides, is a fully commissioned U.S. Navy ship. While all of her current crew are active members of the Navy they dress in War of 1812-era battle clothes as it’s used as a parade ship. The Horst Wessel was built for Nazi Germany in 1936. After WWII
ended the U.S. took control over the ship and renamed it the USCGC (United States Coast Guard Cutter) Eagle. It has been tradition to train Coast Guard cadets on a sailing ship and the Eagle has provided that opportunity since 1946. Trainees are taught various tasks and the 57-man permanent crew are their teachers during the two- to six-week training sessions. The USS Kearsarge was a fearful battleship in the years prior to WWI. However, by the time the Great War started she was considered old and used only as a training ship. Then, in the 1920s, she was in a class all of her own as a crane was placed on her decks. One of her more interesting assignments was to help raise
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goes slow underwater but has a range of 36 miles. 25 were built with three being sold to the British for use by their Special Boat Service. These are just some of the unique ships that have graced the American military. Innovators in many branches of governments are always looking at crazy ideas to see if they are feasible to produce. Ensuring we have an edge over the enemy is major reason why these ships were created. New
types of ships like these were never thought to be feasible and were easily dismissed, making the servicemen and women who operate these ships history makers.
Avi Heiligman is a weekly contributor to The Jewish Home. He welcomes your comments and suggestions for future columns and can be reached at avi heiligman@gmail.com.
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Most combat ships don’t have the ability of getting close to shore for combat operations. In the past, big ships stayed out at sea and lobbed shells inland with the hope of hitting the target or smaller, less powerful boats would get in close to try and do the job. A new type of ship was needed for battle, and in the past ten years the littoral combat ship (LCS) was introduced. Two classes were built. The USS Freedom class is built by Lockheed using the traditional hull that is seen on most ships. General Dynamics designed the USS Independence and its unique trimaran design. These can carry two MH-60 Seahawk helicopters and can transport an assorted array of land vehicles, equipment and troops. Sporting the latest radar technology and missile systems the LCS can get into the objective area, perform its mission, and move away quickly. The number of these ships to be built has changed based on the secretary of defense of the U.S.; the current number is 26, with 12 already commissioned. As with airplanes, not all ships built are meant to fight the enemy. Some have the job of getting troops to shore which was the case of the WWII-era Higgins boats. Maritime combat units have been experimenting with “submersible canoes” since WWII to get commandos to their target undetected. The Navy SEALs have their own version named the SEAL Delivery Vehicle or SDV. The SDV are launched from submarines, surface craft or dropped from C-130 Hercules planes. The SCUBA-wearing crew of four – a pilot, co-pilot and two other combat swimmers – then make headway to their target. The SDV is a battery-powered vessel that
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the USS Squalus. The Squalus was a submarine that sunk off the coast of New Hampshire during a test dive. 33 submariners managed to survive using a new type of breathing device. Once the survivors were rescued – 26 sailors died during the accident – the Kearsarge was on hand to lift the submarine from the depths. The Kearsarge was decommissioned in 1955 and has the distinction of being the first crane ship in U.S. Navy history. Nine other crane ships were commissioned after WWII and none are still in active service. The dawn of flight has been typically accredited to the Wright Brothers flying their airplane in 1903. While this is true for aircraft that are heavier-than-air, other contraptions have flown powered by a lighterthan-air source. To simplify matters for the reader hot air balloons have been around for a lot longer than airplanes, and in the early 1920s the U.S. built a carrier to house these balloons at sea. Curiously named USS Wright, the one-of-a-kind ship was around for the interwar period and soon was converted into a seaplane tender. Recently the navy commissioned a stealth destroyer, the USS Zumwalt, which had technology first used on a ship named the USS Sea Shadow. Built in the 1980s by Lockheed, the Sea Shadow was an experimental ship that had a very unique hull design. Instead of trying to explain the ship’s design, a picture will do the trick. It was intended only to test the feasibility of a stealth ship and was never commissioned into the navy, although it is listed on their registrar. The ship had a crew of twelve and was revealed to the public in 1993. In 2012 it was sold for scrap.
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I’ll look into it. - White House spokesman Josh Earnest when asked about the statistic that President Obama is the first president since Herbert Hoover in the 1930s not to see more than 3% economic growth in at least one year of his presidency
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Later this month, Google will be testing its new self-driving minivans. The vehicles can do all the functions of a human driver, except wonder, “[Gee], how did I end up driving a minivan?”
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– Conan O’Brien
Today marks the 10-year anniversary of the iPhone. The Samsung Galaxy Note 7 even celebrated with a fireworks display. – James Corden
– The distorted “fake news-ish” way CBS 880 News reported last week’s incident when four African-American perpetrators tortured a disabled white man while screaming anti-Trump slogans at him and saying the n-word
I just want to remind folks that we cannot sit here and ignore that — at least for the last year on very public display — the worst parts of America have been brought from the fringe into the mainstream. That affects people on both sides. - Symone Sanders, Bernie Sanders’ former spokesman, on CNN, excusing the vicious Chicago hate crime
I don’t think it’s evil…I think these are young people and they have bad home training. - CNN’s Don Lemon regarding the four Chicago monsters’ actions
Are you going to send me or anybody I know to a camp? - MSNBC’s Rachel Maddow, who suffers from chronic Trump Derangement Syndrome, on what she would ask Trump in an interview
But though the term hasn’t been around long, its meaning already is lost…the label has been co-opted to mean any number of completely different things: Liberal claptrap. Or opinion from left-of-center. Or simply anything in the realm of news that the observer doesn’t like to hear. The speed with which the term became polarized and in fact a rhetorical weapon illustrates how efficient the conservative media machine has become. – Op-ed in the Washington Post by Margaret Sullivan explaining why the liberal media, which recently invented the term “fake news,” should stop using it
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The viral video of a beating and knife attack in Chicago suggests the assault had racial overtones. CBS’s Dean Reynolds tells us the victim is described as a mentally-challenged teenager. In the video he is choked and repeatedly called the n-word. His clothes are slashed and he is terrorized with a knife. His alleged captors repeatedly reference Donald Trump. Police are holding four people in connection with the attack.
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A man in Vietnam was hospitalized after doctors realized that he had a pair of scissors in his digestive system that had been left there by a previous surgery that he had 18 years ago… The sad part is after they sewed him up the second time the doctor was like, “Wait, where’s my watch?”. – James Corden
She clearly was delivering a thoughtful, carefully considered message that she believes in deeply. - White House press secretary Josh Earnest when asked about a Trump-bashing speech by an aging actress at an awards ceremony
Presidential Tweets
Joe Biden and I know that women are as least as strong as men. - President Obama in his last speech to the military
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How did NBC get ‘an exclusive look’ into the top secret report he (Obama) was presented? Who gave them this report and why? Politics! The Democrats, led by head clown Chuck Schumer, know how bad ObamaCare is and what a mess they are in. Instead of working to fix it, they ... do the typical political thing and BLAME. The fact is ObamaCare was a lie from the beginning. “Keep you doctor, keep your plan!” It is.... ...time for Republicans & Democrats to get together and come up with a healthcare plan that really works – much less expensive & FAR BETTER Only reason the hacking of the poorly defended DNC is discussed is that the loss by the Dems was so big that they are totally embarrassed. Jackie Evancho’s album sales have skyrocketed after announcing her inauguration performance. Some people just don’t understand the “Movement!”
Schumer and Trump have known each other for many, many years and I think that the president frankly wants to shrink him and I would say to Sen. Schumer, if you look what happened to Jeb Bush, if you look what happened to Hillary Clinton, you should be very worried if Donald Trump decides to focus on you because so far the track record is pretty good. He can define you a lot better than you can define him. – Newt Gingrich on Fox News, warning Sen. Schumer to proceed with caution in taking on Trump
Yesterday Donald Trump tweeted at North Korea after they announced plans to test an intercontinental nuclear weapon. Trump tweeted, “It won’t happen.” I’d like to believe he’s right, but “it won’t happen” is exactly what everyone said about Trump becoming president. – James Corden
I am humbled to be able to participate here in paying tribute to some of the extraordinary Americans whose footsteps paved the way for me and my generation. I feel blessed and honored to have partnered with Sen. Sessions in being the Senate sponsors of this important award. - Democratic Sen. Cory Booker (D- N.J.) thanking Sen. Jeff Sessions (R- Ala.) last year at the Capitol for his help celebrating the 1965 “Foot Soldiers,” those who marched from Selma to Montgomery. (This past Wednesday, though, Booker testified against Sessions’ conformation as attorney general, essentially claiming that he is a racist)
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This offence was committed at a time of stress for my client. He was in a foreign country. He seems to have been vulnerable… He was very confused by the vehicles driving on a different side of the road than he was used to. -Defense by the British lawyer for Jamshid Piruz, an Afghan migrant, who was convicted of beheading a woman in Holland and then escaped to England, where he brutally attacked two police officers with a claw hammer
– Sec. of State John Kerry, essentially inciting potential violence against Israel by warning that there will be an “explosion” if the U.S. Embassy is moved to Israel
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You’d have an explosion, an absolute explosion in the region, not just in the West Bank, and perhaps even in Israel itself, but throughout the region.
Due to slow sales, Apple CEO Tim Cook has been given a 15 percent pay cut. Or as Cook is spinning it, he’s coming out with a thinner, more lightweight wallet. – Conan O’Brien
— Sen. Charles Schumer, D-New York, during the opening of the 115th Congress
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— House Speaker Paul Ryan, confused by the attempt of the teenage son of Rep. Roger Marshall, R-Kan., to “dab” [placing head in elbow, made popular by Carolina Panthers quarterback Cam Newton] during his father’s swearing-in ceremony to Congress
Just so you know @Speaker Ryan: He’s grounded.
Long Island Rail Road obviously is the purview of the governor, but more importantly, thank G-d, these were minor, very minor injuries. – Mayor de Blasio explaining why he was a no-show at the sight of the LIRR derailment at Atlantic Terminal this week
—Rep. Marshall’s tweeted response after his son Cal’s dab moment
Somehow it’s been a while since we talked. - Otou Katayama, of southern Japan, on a TV show after talking to his wife for the first time in 20 years, even though they lived together with their three children
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TJH Funny Irony Donald Trump is here tonight. Now, I know that he’s taken some flak lately but no one is prouder to put this birth certificate matter to rest than The Donald. And that’s because he can finally get back to focusing on the issues that matter, like, did we fake the moon landing? … All kidding aside, we all know about your credentials and your breadth of experience. For example, on a recent episode of Celebrity Apprentice, at the steakhouse, the men’s cooking team did not impress the men from Omaha Steaks. There was lots of blame to go around, but you, Mr. Trump, recognized that the real problem was a lack of leadership. Ultimately, you didn’t blame [rapper] Lil Jon or [singer] Meatloaf, you fired Gary Busey. These are the kinds of decisions that keep me up at night. Well handled, sir! Well handled. – President Obama addressing Trump at the 2011 White House Correspondence Dinner
Centerfold Obama’s Likely Last Actions in Office L He will pass an executive order transferring all Guantanamo detainees to Trump Tower.
L He will issue an executive order that they should start chiseling his face into Mt. Rushmore.
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REALLY say what’s really on his mind: “Old McDonald had a farm E...I...E...I...O.”
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L He will go for one last
L In order to address wealth
motorcade ride through Manhattan...just to cause gridlock one more time (because being upended by Trump is no fun).
inequality, he will sign legislation that anyone who owns a mansion in Chicago, a $8.5 million mansion in California, and a $4.5 million mansion in Hawaii and lives full-time in a rented mansion in Washington, D.C., must host homeless people in those homes – unless your name is Barack Obama.
L He will put a cell jammer in the White House so Trump can’t send tweets such as, “Now see how much damage Obama really did. Shame!”
L He will audition for role as the Marlboro Man by putting on a cowboy hat and having a cigarette on the White House lawn.
L He will leave a copy of a Kenyan birth certificate in the Oval Office desk. L He will shred the Constitution...oops did that already.
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1. Where was President Obama born? a. Kenya b. Kenya c. Kenya...just kidding, settle down.... d. Kansas e. Kentucky f. Hawaii 2. President Obama has said several times that his favorite children’s book is: a. Where the Wild Things Are b. Goodnight Moon c. Cat in the Hat d. Caps For Sale
4. How old is President Obama? a. 50 b. 53 c. 55 d. 57 5. Which state did President Obama represent in the Senate before becoming president? a. Illinois b. Hawaii c. California d. Indiana
8. President Obama played over 300 rounds of golf while in office. What did he recently say that his golf handicap is? a. 4 b. 13 c. 17 d. 21 Answers: 1. F 2. A 3. B 4. C 5. A 6. A 7. C 8. B Wisdom key: 5-8 correct: I know what you sound like when you snore—“OBAMA! OBAMA! OBAMA!” 2-4 correct: Don’t submit your application to Jeopardy so fast. 0-1 correct: Mr. Trump, it’s time for you to stop reading the TJH Centerfold and focus on your presidential briefings
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7. Who lost the 2008 election to President Obama? a. Mitt Romney b. Bob Dole c. John McCain d. Newt Gingrich
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6. In which foreign country did President Obama live from ages 6-10 as a young boy? a. Indonesia b. Kenya c. Japan d. France
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I grew up in a typically nice home. I always felt that my parents had a good marriage and I’m sure like most couples, they would occasionally have a disagreement or even a little fight, but all in all they got along and laughed a lot together and seemed to be very happy together.
I’ve been dating now for over two years. The right guy for me just hasn’t come along yet. Sometimes I get nervous about it, but I try to keep my head about me and believe that I’m doing all the right things. I know what I want and need and that it’s just a matter of time until Mr. Right comes along.
I know that it isn’t anyone’s fault. When it’s the right time, it will happen. But the fighting has changed the whole atmosphere in my home. I can’t stand it and feel so sorry for my younger siblings who also have to live in such a tense atmosphere. It’s no longer the relaxed, happy home I grew up in. Everyone seems to be tense and angry. How do I get my parents to calm down, stop attacking each other and be the parents they both were? I’m feeling guilty even though I think I’m the only sane one right now between the three of us – but I do feel it’s all my fault! Any suggestions?
Disclaimer: This column is not intended to diagnose or otherwise conclude resolutions to any questions. Our intention is not to offer any definitive conclusions to any particular question, rather offer areas of exploration for the author and reader. Due to the nature of the column receiving only a short snapshot of an issue, without the benefit of an actual discussion, the panel’s role is to offer a range of possibilities. We hope to open up meaningful dialogue and individual exploration.
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Recently, my parents seem to be arguing all the time about the fact that I’m not married. They seem to be blaming each other in such ridiculous way. They each seem to need to be able to figure out whose fault it is and why I’m not married yet. My father will accuse my mother of picking the wrong men for me to go out with. My mother will accuse my father of giving me the wrong advice about how I should act on a date.
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ort this out with a team including a rabbi and a therapist. You need to rid yourself of guilt but more importantly live in a harmonious home led by parents who work as a team. The level of rancor and stress in the house is damaging to all and a recipe for a hasty escape from an unpleasant environment. They are setting a terrible example for married life as they deal with the challenge of shidduchim. In other words, this situation is a recipe for a disastrous marriage for you. A rabbi will probably be effective in bringing these points out to your parents. Then he will probably recommend family therapy to get everyone to communicate properly, deal with their own stress, and restore a healthy environment. There may be some deeper underlying issues beneath the blame game. A rabbi can be very pivotal in getting your parents to recognize that they need help for all aspects of the presenting problem – their relationship, their reaction to stress, and helping you get married. However, you cannot be the peacemaker or obvious catalyst for going to family therapy. Go talk to the rabbi and open up completely to him. He can then sit down with your parents to discuss with them how shidduchim are going. Because he will have been primed by you, he will get them to open up about what is going on. Make sure that he will not disclose that you turned to him for help. Stay in touch with the rabbi and the therapist for the long term. You will need some support during the shidduch process and your parents may be too stressed (even if they
figure out how to talk to each other) about getting you to the chuppah to help you sort things out. Stick with your professional team and use them as shidduch coaches since your parents seem to need to deal primarily with their own immediate emotions.
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et me assure you, looking for your shidduch, while challenging, is hardly enough to de-stabilize a solid marriage. While it’s unclear what the true source of your parents’ frustration (possibly financial, medical or emotional), I beg you not to take the blame for the toxic atmosphere in your home. It’s almost axiomatic that children feel guilty when their parents fight. An extreme example is when parents divorce, their children often rationalize that if they were better behaved, their parents would have stayed together. If their shalom bayis needs a tune-up, leave that to the professionals. In the meantime, you may wish to invite your parents to pizza or coffee. Reassure your folks that you are grateful for all the efforts they put into finding your zivug. Remind them that, despite their frustration at not finding The One, you remain happy, upbeat and confident that, in time, Mr. Right will ring your doorbell. During the meeting, you may allude to the fact that sometimes you feel bad for your siblings because “with all the calling and checking there is less time for the fun stuff we used to do.” Wrap up the conversation with plans for a family outing – just like the good old days.
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f you are ready to get married, then you are ready to sit down with your parents and have a conversation. Tell them how you feel and what you have been observing, how it’s affecting the home, and how it sounds like the arguments are about you. Then ask them if you can take some of the responsibility off of their shoulders. Maybe you should be doing some or all of the calling and follow-up questions. Maybe you need to be more of an active participant. Offer that and say that you are willing to take the pressure off of them and how important it is to all of you that they don’t fight over this. More than that I can’t tell you what to do. You’re not their marriage counsellor and you shouldn’t be, though possibly, if they hear how it’s affecting you, it may be enough to wake them up. So don’t be afraid to have a dialogue with them. It’s important for all of you. Hatzlacha!
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’m glad to hear that you seem to be very healthy, despite the fighting and tension you are experiencing and are able to feel confident about yourself and your future, despite the negative atmosphere that you describe taking place in your home lately. Sadly, when a young woman, in particular, has been dating for years, many parents tend to get bent out of shape, their worst fears tak-
Instead of working together and supporting each other as teammates, they are using each other as punching bags to release their stress.
ing over their logical thoughts. The anxiety they seem to experience is bolstered when they think about their 33-year-old niece who is still single or their neighbor’s son who is unwed and living at home at age 40. They worry that their child will possibly wind up the same way. I think our society encourages these fears with all the talk about the “shidduch crisis.” There is almost a collective paranoia that has engulfed so many families. My first bit of advice is that you should try your hardest to be around positive people. Don’t hang out with friends who share the same panicky message. You’re in a good place and you want to stay in a good place. There is no reason why you shouldn’t feel great about your future. Regarding your parents, I think you need to have some words with them. Explain to them that they are doing everything right and there is no reason to point fingers at themselves or each other. However, when you and your siblings hear them fighting over your single status, it is hurtful to everyone in the household and unfair. If they can’t get a grip on their fears, they need to find a professional to help them work out their stuff. They owe it to you and to your siblings to create a calm, loving atmosphere at home.
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stop for the well-being of their children? They are engaged in a dance that many couples fall prey to when they are experiencing stress: the blame game, as the Rebbetzin mentioned in her response. You shouldn’t say that to her! That is why she is single! No, you’re picking the wrong guys for her to date! You are the reason she is still single! Instead of working together and supporting each other as teammates,
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ever, if both or one are more rigid, or if there is a marital issue, the family therapist will either excuse you from the therapy or will refer your parents to another therapist to help them as a couple. If your family has a trusted rabbi whose counsel they seek, then speaking with him may be a wonderful avenue for you as well. I hope things don’t come to this, but if they cannot stop fighting and the tension is just too much for you to bear, you may want to look into moving out of the house. There are lots of frum young women who take apartments together. Sometimes this involves getting a part-time job to pay for your share. Another option would be to ask a relative or close friend if you can move in temporarily just to take some time away from the chaos at home. You seem like such a together, terrific young woman and I would hate to see you rush into a marriage simply to get out of your house. I want you to approach marriage from a place of positivity, strength and calm. Hopefully the buck will stop with Plan A! Good luck! Sincerely, Jennifer P.S. Feel free to show this to Mom and Dad! Esther Mann, LCSW and Jennifer Mann, LCSW are licensed psychotherapists and dating and relationship coaches working with individuals, couples and families Hewlett, NY. To learn more about The Navidaters, visit www.TheNavidaters. com. To set up an appointment, please call 516.224.7779. Press 1 for Esther, 2 for Jennifer. If you would like to submit a dating or relationship question to the panel anonymously, please email thenavidaters@gmail.com. You can follow The Navidaters on FB and Instagram.
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ow do I get my parents to calm down….? I am going to present a suggestion or two, but before I do, I must tell you the following. We can’t “get” people to do anything. If your parents are going to change, it will be because they are motivated to change; because they want to change. You didn’t do anything to create this situation and ultimately you can’t stop this situation. That will be the decision of your parents. Do they want to continue arguing and creating tension in the home or do they want to
they are using each other as punching bags to release their stress. In a way, it is also easier to blame each other than to accept the truth: this is really not in our hands. We can’t fix this one for our little girl. Whatever the case, one thing is for certain: their fighting isn’t about you. I do hope your parents stop turning on each other and begin to turn toward each other. (I am writing this just in case they are reading this.) I second Tova Wein’s astute comment about your healthy view of dating, even in your stressful home environment. You may want to try having a heart-to-heart with your parents. Tell them that their fighting is stressing you out! Tell them you are worried about your siblings receiving unhealthy messaging about dating and relationships. Try not to “get into” their stuff too much. Focus on how the impact their blame game is having on you. Don’t hold back when it comes to your feelings. Tell them you do not want to marry someone in a desperate attempt to escape the tension in the house. This is not an attempt to change them, this is an attempt at communicating with them. Then tell them it would mean so much to you if they planned a lighthearted day for the entire family. You can go on a picnic, go ice skating, have a fun movie/pizza day (whatever the family likes). The one rule is no talking about dating or marriage whatsoever. Let’s remember that we are a family and that it is OK to have some fun! I definitely second Sarah Schwartz-Schreiber’s notion of having a wonderful family day! Hopefully that’ll do the trick. If your parents cannot hear your plea, or cannot stop their fighting, then invite your parents to see a therapist with you. Make sure the therapist has experience in family therapy. If both your parents are flexible and open, this could be resolved in a handful of sessions. Maybe even one. How-
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That’s a Laugh! By Rivki D. Rosenwald Esq., CLC, SDS
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of their mind. Being able to just blast out a laugh may be a lot more fun than hours of therapy, which may still be necessary. Though if addressed with a little levity, might not seem as daunting. It certainly could be a useful tool to have at your command to try and replace crying, disconnecting, drinking, or worse.
together. Step 4: Give it your all – and hold it! There, you’ve done it, you should be in a full scale smile at this point. Stick with it. And let the endorphins flow. Neuropeptides are activated with this simple action. These tiny mole-
And who doesn’t want a great day?
So how do we get to smile? And then can that really bring us all the way to laughing? Warning: Do not try this at home alone. I mean, do not try this on a subway with sketchy characters. Follow these steps: Step one: Elongate your lips out to the sides. This you’ll notice also presents some awareness in your eyes. Step two: Slowly begin to show your upper teeth. Step three: Now exaggerate it and show your bottom teeth as well. Caution: Do not separate your tongue from your palate. You may want to also check your molars are
cules cause neurons (no, not morons, neurons) to communicate. “Feel good neurotransmitters” are released, such as dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin. They help relax your body. They can slow the heart down or lower blood pressure. Endorphins are a natural pain reliever, so let them course through your body. And serotonin acts as an antidepressant, so let it flow through your mind. Best of all, all this is produced with no messy side effects! Furthermore, the journal of Neuropsychologia reported that seeing a smiling face activates your orbitofrontal cortex, the region that pro-
cesses sensory reward. This means when you see a smiling face you suddenly feel rewarded! So follow all the steps above, and run – do not walk – to a mirror immediately. You’ll see a smiling face right away, upfront and personal! Studies also show that smiles are contagious. They showed that when people saw a smiling face it took effort for them to frown. They automatically mimicked the smiling facial expression. Finally, studies show people reported “smiling people” to be better looking than other faces. Wow. That’s a lot less trouble than all the grooming we usually require to be so beautiful. It seems like smiling saves a lot of money, time, and trouble by greatly reducing the need for pills, therapists, doctors, manicures, makeup, and hairdressers. So smiling really sounds like a win-win! Now if all that isn’t something to laugh about, I don’t know what is.
Rivki Rosenwald is a certified relationship counselor, and career and life coach. She can be contacted at 917-705-2004 or rivki@rosenwalds.com
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wo interesting comments this weekend got me thinking. “Today was a great day,” said my mom, “because we laughed a lot!” “I learned this week from my daughter,” said my sis, “that whether you feel happy and then smile, or smile then feel happy, the exact same mechanisms and channels are in use.” What exactly that means I’m not sure, but it sounds to me like even if you’re not feeling that terrific, you can try and smile and you may get some happiness neurotransmitters released. Which seems a good idea, since it might start you on your way to laughter. And that, my mom – a very wise woman – says helps you have a great day! And who doesn’t want a great day? What with “news” always meaning “bad news!” And our classic childhood protectors, the police, being redefined as the bad guys. And general anxiety at its peak, to the point where we might want to amend the word society to “sanxiety.” Who can resist some extra opportunities for laughter in their life?! A good giggle or a great “hahaha” seems to release a lot of pent-up tension. Which many have, if not close to the surface, hidden in the recesses
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HaGaon HaRav Berel Povarsky, Shlita to Grace Dirshu Convention Numerous Other Gedolim to Attend and Address Lomdei Dirshu By Chaim Gold HaGaon HaRav Berel Povarsky, shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of the Ponevezh Yeshiva, will be coming especially from Eretz Yisroel to attend the Dirshu Convention where he will deliver a shiur klali after davening on Shabbos morning and then, on motzoei Shabbos, will make the Hadran and give a keynote address at the melave malka siyum on Masechta Bava Metziah. The Convention, to be held this coming Shabbos Parshas Shemos, 22-24 Teves/ January 20-22, at the Crowne Plaza Hotel in Stamford, Connecticut, is entitled Shabbos Chizuk L’lomedei Torah. In truth, its name truly encapsulates and defines what the Shabbos is all about. The Shabbos is to pay tribute and give chizuk to the myriad lomdei Torah and their wives who, day in, day out, week after week, month after month, throughout the year, Shabbosim, Yomim Tovim, easy times, hard times… are dedicated to learning Torah and taking regular tests to ensure retention. Climax Will Be Keynote Motzoei Shabbos Melave Malka Siyum Numerous Gedolei Yisrael will grace the convention and deliver addresses paying tribute to the lomdei Torah comprising the worldwide Mishpachas Dirshu. The climax of the Shabbos will be motzoei Shabbos’s keynote session where a siyum on Masechta Bava Metzia will be made. At the siyum, addresses will be given by HaGaon HaRav Berel Povarsky, shlita, Dayan Yonasan Abraham, shlita, a member of the London Beis Din and Rav of the Toras Chaim Shul in Hendon, North West London, HaGaon HaRav Binyomin Eisenberger, shlita, Rav of Kehal Heichal Hatefillah in Boro Park, and Rav Dovid Hofstedter, Nasi Dirshu. Even though the Hotel is completely sold out for Shabbos, the Motzoei Shabbos Siyum and Keynote Session Melave Malka will be open to the general public. Bus transportation will
be provided but RSVP is required by calling 1-888-5 Dirshu, ext. 153 or RSVP@dirshunj.org. Throughout the Shabbos, other gedolim will give addresses, among them, HaGaon HaRav Reuven Feinstein, shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshiva of Staten Island, HaGaon HaRav Aharon Feldman, shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of Ner Yisrael, Baltimore, HaGaon HaRav Yechiel Michel Steinmetz, shlita, Skverer Dayan of Boro Park, HaGaon HaRav Yitzchok Sorotzkin, shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of Mesivta of Lakewood, HaGaon HaRav Dovid Schustal, shlita, Rosh Yeshiva of Beth
or the evening bedtime crunch. That is why Dirshu siyumim and Shabbos conventions always have an important place for Dirshu wives, true partners in the Torah success of their husbands. “Earning Olam Habaah with Phenomenal Olam Hazeh!” One of the highlights of previous conventions has been the unique shailos and teshuvos session held on Friday night after the seudah with the Skverer Dayan, Rav Yechiel Michel Steinmetz, shlita. Questions that span literally the entire gamut of halacha are moderated and posed by Rav Eliezer Ralbag, shlita, to the dayan
Medrash Govoha, Lakewood, and HaGaon HaRav Dovid Olewski, shlita, Rosh Yeshivas Ger. Hailing a Joint Effort There will also be a comprehensive women’s program catered especially to the wives of the lomdei Dirshu. Indeed, every person present at the convention is a person who has shown deep dedication to limud haTorah. The men show that dedication by learning, chazering every day, day in and day out, and taking monthly tests over a protracted amount of time. Similarly, every Dirshu wife has displayed mesiras nefesh for her husband’s learning and spiritual ascent by enabling him to devote tremendous amounts of time to learning the daily material and then repeatedly reviewing so that he will know the material sufficiently to earn an exemplary mark on the test. This often does not come easily. It frequently means sacrificing the help of a husband in the most hectic of times, such as the morning rush to school
who, with his encyclopedic knowledge and good cheer, answers them all comprehensively, and often with a good dose of added humor as well. At the previous Dirshu Shabbos Chizuk L’lomdei Torah, it was Rav Steinmetz who encapsulated what he saw as the uniqueness of the Dirshu convention saying, “A unique koach of Dirshu is that it not only gives a person Olam Habaah, it also gives a person phenomenal Olam Hazeh! Where else can you have a convention where after a moving oneg Shabbos, followed by going to sleep at 1:00 a.m., the next morning at 5:00 a.m., one hears a resounding kol Torah in the beis medrash? Where do you have a convention where after the seudah on Shabbos afternoon, the ‘taanug’ of sleeping on Shabbos is replaced by the even greater pleasure of learning and chazering another blatt Gemara and another seif in Shulchan Aruch?!” Rav Steinmetz will be introduced by another distinguished international
guest, HaGaon Dayan Binyomin Eckstein, shlita, Dayan in the London kehillah and the yoshev rosh of Dirshu in Europe. Inasmuch as the Convention is a sold out event and in order to ensure the proper kavod for davening and learning, Dirshu plans to erect a massive tent on the premises. The tent will also serve to accommodate the burgeoning crowds so that they can hear the shiurim of Rav Povarsky, Rav Steinmentz and numerous other Gedolim in a dignified manner as befitting a maamad of kavod haTorah. “The Shabbos When Totty and Mommy Went to Learn How to Learn More Torah!” After the last Dirshu convention, Dirshu received numerous letters from lomdei Torah and their wives, expressing their feelings about how limud haTorah with a plan has transformed their lives. One woman wrote, “…I would like to share what Dirshu and the Shabbos mean to us. There is no way we can ever express the depth of our gratitude. While my husband, a kollel yungerman, always admired his father who is a great masmid, he didn’t think he was capable of doing the same. At the first Dirshu Shabbos when my husband saw yungeleit just like him becoming Shas Yidden and being tested on the entire Shas, he came home determined to do the same! Since that Shabbos every moment in our life has become a treasure, life is a rush of excitement! “Another amud, another Daf… Baruch Hashem, my husband makes a siyum so often that my two-year old confuses the word siyum and Shabbos seudah. A seudah with a siyum is such a thrill as the children march into the dining room with a special dish while singing a niggun in honor of the siyum…. Although I never imagined I would leave my children behind for a Shabbos, this Shabbos is different. My children treasure the memory of “The Shabbos that Totty and Mommy went to learn how to learn more Torah!”
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snowball, and I see her try to make another, just as her brother slips and bumps into her, knocking her over. They both collapse in a heap, along with peals of laughter. Oh! The beauty of innocence, of laughter, and of snow! I mentally applaud this spectacular display of artistry and life, and warmed by the thoughts the blanket of snow has offered me, I turn around, and go inside.
It is Shabbos in my home. Where we relate to each other, person to person, heart to heart, where we discuss the words of the MPG (Most Popular Gadol) and eat in mega-bites. And there is my Shabbos table, all dressed in white. Chasida Teichman is a Certified Life Coach who resides in Baltimore, Md. To contact her, please email chteichman@gmail.com.
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blasts of frigid air need to be kept at bay, to be prevented from permeating the depths of the soil and from destroying the seeds which slumber therein, awaiting the spring. I marvel at the splendor and the majesty, at the white glare of everything, and I think that in reality, G-d could have chosen to make the color of snow grey, and I am ever so grateful that he did not., and that the world is dressed in white. The neighbors are still playing outside, but now they have moved to the back of their house, choosing the snow covered slide as their new frontier. I recognize that all of nature is the very best playground in more than one season of the year; how in the winter, children can spend hours and days outdoors in the snow, and in the summer, play along the sea shore, with nothing to entertain themselves but the sea and the sand, all in abundance and free for the asking. And I think how the snow, like the sand, teaches us that we leave footprints wherever we go, and that everything we might build- the snowman and the sandcastle- eventually will disappear, because nothing of only material value lasts forever. I marvel that the grains of sand are not cohesive and, like a snowflake, each one is unique and purposeful on its own. Like each one of us. I recognize, then, how much joy there is in simplicity, how we are given so much for free, gifts which are absolutely priceless. Not just in the environment, but in the people who live there; in the warmth of friendship, the wonder in a child’s eyes, and in the comfort of trust. And I am saddened by the thought that so much of this value that has surrendered itself to the more powerful glitz of the artificial and shiny, measured in MPGs and Megabytes. Looks like Sari just dropped the
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It was Shabbos morning and the first snow of the season was starting to fall. The snow was coming down so softly at first that I wasn’t even sure that it was indeed snowing. The snowfall became heavier, and before long, the neighbors were outside running carefree in their newfound play land. They run and slide on the fresh white coating on the pavement. Sari, the younger sister, aged 21/2 is taking the snow in her hand and eating it. Maybe for the first time. She likes it. I know because she keeps on eating it. I wonder if I should tell her mom. I choose not to. I don’t have the heart. If today would be a Friday, I would, no doubt, be getting a phone call from my colleague. “Ahn Aroisgevorfineh Shnei!” (Yiddish for – A waste of a snowfall!), she would exclaim, totally dejected. “My Mazal! It only snows on the weekends!” I knew that “the teacher” in her was bemoaning the fact that most likely, she would not be off on Monday, as by then there would not be enough snow on the ground to qualify the day as a Snow Day. But I think that there is so much more to this snowfall than just bad timing. I step outside to be a part of the beauty and serenity. Quality of life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. It is a splendid wonderland, and I absorb the beauty along with the chill that goes right through my bones. I am enveloped by the heavy silence. The snow muffles the sounds of nature, stills the swaying of the branches in the wind, and covers the earth like a blanket, tucking it in tightly at the edges. I think of snow’s purpose. Hanosayn Sheleg KatzemerKing David declares that G-d sends snow like wool. Its purpose is to keep the earth warm, and insulate it from the bitter cold hovering above it. The
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Giving it My Best Shot Flu Vaccines Save Lives By Hylton I. Lightman, MD, DCH, FAAP
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advise and encourage my patients to get the flu vaccine. It is not perfect and there have been many cases of flu this season even after being vaccinated, but it can be lifesaving. The flu vaccine is made of dead flu viruses. Since they’re dead, you can’t catch the flu from them. When you get a vaccine, it takes about two weeks for your body to be ready to fight the flu virus. In addition, many viruses mimic flu symptoms. Nonetheless, the flu vaccine mitigates against stronger symptoms and a person becoming even sicker. Lest we forget, the flu can kill people. Thank you to Serese Marotta, Chief Operating Officer of Families Fighting Flu (FFF), for allowing me to share her heart wrenching account of losing her beautiful son to the flu. Flu season has begun and like other years, we can’t predict how severe this season will be, but we do know that annual flu vaccinations are our best defense. Unlike the common cold, influenza is a serious and highly contagious disease that tends to develop quickly, especially in children, and can lead to hospitalization or even death. Every year in the U.S., approximately 20,000 children under the age of five are hospitalized, and on average, 100 children die from infection with influenza or its complications. So often we hear “it’s just the flu,” but we need to take the flu seriously. How do I know this? Because my healthy, 5-year-old son, Joseph, lost his life to H1N1 flu in October 2009. I have always been
pro-vaccination and Joseph and his sister received their annual flu vaccinations in September 2009, but H1N1 wasn’t in the vaccine that year. Sadly, the H1N1 vaccine didn’t become available in our community until two weeks after Joseph’s death.
Joseph’s Story Joseph’s story began innocently enough. He was attending kindergarten in the fall of 2009 and threw up on the school bus. Later that day, Joseph continued to throw up and became increasingly lethargic. We called our pediatrician who suggested we take Joseph to the local urgent care. Upon arrival, they found Joseph’s blood oxygen level to be very low and immediately transported him to the local children’s hospital. The rapid flu test came back negative and Joseph was eventually diagnosed with pneumonia. Several days into his hospital stay, the doctors informed us that Joseph’s culture was growing influenza, which was likely H1N1, but not to worry – it was “just the flu” and they’d start him on antiviral medications. Joseph’s condition over the next several days was relatively stable. Various specialists came and went; all of Joseph’s tests appeared normal and we were even discussing his discharge with the doctors. All of that changed on the ninth day of our hospital stay. Joseph’s blood pressure suddenly plummeted, and we were sent back to the ICU. The doctors couldn’t re-
ally figure out what was causing Joseph’s low blood pressure, but they didn’t seem overly alarmed. More testing went on throughout the night, while I tried to distract Joseph with cartoons and discussions about his Halloween costume. The doctor came to me early on the morning of Oct. 18 to say she wanted to put Joseph on a ventilator because his heart and respiration rates were so high and his little body needed a rest. The doctor emphasized it was not a big deal, but Joseph would be unconscious while on the ventilator. I calmly called my husband, who was at home with our young daughter, and asked him to come to the hospital. Minutes later, while I was standing next to Joseph’s bed, he suddenly coded. The next scene was like something on a TV show – doctors and nurses rushing into Joseph’s room. I backed into the hallway so they could do their job, but honestly, I had no idea what was happening. As the minutes ticked away, I began to realize that something was seriously wrong. I continued to wait outside Joseph’s hospital room and finally, the attending doctor came to me, sobbing, and asked me to follow her into Joseph’s room because she needed me to talk to him. Looking back, I think she thought if modern medicine couldn’t save this child, perhaps the sound of his mother’s voice could. I entered Joseph’s room and held his hand as the doctors and nurses
continued to work on him. Finally, the doctor turned to me and said, “I’m so sorry.” My precious son lost his life to influenza that day, and my life was irrevocably changed as a result. My story is not unique. I have met many parents who’ve lost a child to the flu or had a child suffer serious medical complications as a result of the flu. I want parents to understand how critically important it is for all children and their families to get their flu vaccinations each and every year. The flu vaccine is the best protection we have in our fight against influenza. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends annual flu vaccination for everyone six months of age and older. I also want people to understand that getting an annual flu vaccination not only protects you and your family, but it also helps protect others in your community by limiting the potential for an outbreak.
Families Fighting Flu As a result of my loss, I became involved with Families Fighting Flu (FFF), which is a national, non-profit organization comprised of families whose children have suffered serious medical complications or died from influenza, as well as other advocates and healthcare professionals committed to flu prevention. I have since become the Chief Operating Officer at FFF. Together, every day in honor of
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you and them from catching and spreading the flu. 6. Flu season generally runs from October through May. It’s only January. Get the flu vaccine as soon as you can to protect yourself.
My precious son lost his life to influenza that day, and my life was irrevocably changed as a result.
steroids or immunosuppressives must be vaccinated. 4. In addition, babysitters, housekeepers, teachers, rebbes, morahs, therapists and others who work with children should also be vaccinated. 5. Even if you’re healthy, your co-workers, friends, or family may not be. Getting vaccinated protects
And if you get the flu? If you start feeling sick and are older than 65, are pregnant, have conditions like asthma or diabetes, or have a child younger than 5 who is sick, call your doctor right away. Ask about antiviral medicines. Theoretically, they can shorten the flu by 1 or 2 days and prevent serious problems like pneumonia. However, the liquid
is very unpalatable to the young and can be expensive, if not covered by insurance. It’s best if you take the medication as soon as you have symptoms like fever, sneezing, body aches, stuffiness, or coughing. If you aren’t likely to have medical problems, you probably don’t need this type of medicine. I’ve had my flu vaccine. So, too, have my wife and our children and grandchildren. Join us. To learn more about FFF, please visit http://www.familiesfightingflu. org/. This website offers educational resources related to flu prevention and stories from families who have lost loved ones to the flu.
Dr. Hylton Lightman is a pediatrician and Medical Director of Total Family Care of the 5 Towns and Rockaway PC. He can be reached at www.totalfamilycaremd.com, on Instagram at #light manpeds or visit him on Facebook.
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My takeaway from the account of this personal tragedy is: 1. Everyone ages 6 months and above needs the flu vaccine. 2. Children age 2 years and younger who come down with the flu are more likely to have serious complications. As a result, both the American Academy of Pediatrics
(AAP) and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) recommend the flu vaccine for just about everyone who are at least 6 months old. 3. Any person with a chronic illness, heart disease, diabetes, on
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our children, we work to increase awareness about the seriousness of influenza in the hope that no other family has to endure the devastating effects of this serious disease. Every year, FFF focuses on educational outreach using various platforms to inform others about the dangers of the flu and to advocate for annual flu vaccinations. Our mission is to reduce the number of hospitalizations and deaths due to flu, and our vision is that no child or family member is lost to this vaccine-preventable disease.
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Obama’s Final, Most Shameful, Legacy Moment By Charles Krauthammer
“When the chips are down, I have Israel’s back.” - Barack Obama, AIPAC conference, March 4, 2012
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he audience – overwhelmingly Jewish, passionately pro-Israel and supremely gullible – applauded wildly. Four years later – his last election behind him, with a month to go in office and with no need to fool Jew or gentile again – Obama took the measure of Israel’s back and slid a knife into it. People don’t quite understand the damage done to Israel by the U.S. abstention that permitted passage of a Security Council resolution condemning Israel over settlements. The administration pretends this is nothing but a restatement of long-standing U.S. opposition to settlements. Nonsense. For the last 35 years, every administration, including a re-election-seeking Obama himself in 2011, has protected Israel with the U.S. veto because such a Security Council resolution gives immense legal ammunition to every boycotter, anti-Semite and zealous European prosecutor to penalize and punish Israelis. An ordinary Israeli who lives or works in the Old City of Jerusalem becomes an international pariah, a potential outlaw. To say nothing of the soldiers of Israel’s citizen army. “Every pilot and every officer and every soldier,” said a confidant of Palestinian leader Mahmoud Abbas, “we are waiting for him at The
Hague.” I.e., the International Criminal Court. Moreover, the resolution undermines the very foundation of a half-century of American Middle East policy. What becomes of “land for peace” if the territories Israel was to have traded for peace are, in advance, declared to be Palestinian land to which Israel has no claim? The peace parameters enunciated so ostentatiously by Secretary of State John Kerry on Wednesday are nearly identical to the Clinton parameters that Yasser Arafat was offered and rejected in 2000 and that Abbas was offered by Prime Minister Ehud Olmert in 2008. Abbas, too, walked away. Kerry mentioned none of this because it undermines his blame-Israel narrative. Yet Palestinian rejectionism works. The Security Council just declared the territories legally Palestinian – without the Palestinians having to concede anything, let alone peace. The administration claims a kind of passive innocence on the text of the resolution, as if it had come upon it at the last moment. We are to believe that the ostensible sponsors – New Zealand, Senegal, Malaysia and a Venezuela that cannot provide its own people with toilet paper, let alone food – had for months been sweating the details of Jewish housing in East Jerusalem. Nothing new here, protests deputy national security adviser Ben Rhodes: “When we see the facts on the ground, again deep into the West Bank, beyond the separation bar-
rier, we feel compelled to speak up against those actions.” This is a deception. Everyone knows that remote outposts are not the issue. Under any peace, they will be swept away. Even the right-wing Defense Minister Avigdor Lieberman, who lives in one of these West Bank Settlements, has stated publicly that “I even agree to vacate my settlement if there really will be a two-
claim on the Western Wall, the Temple Mount, indeed the entire Jewish Quarter of Jerusalem. They belong to Palestine. The Temple Mount is the most sacred site in all of Judaism. That it should be declared foreign to the Jewish people is as if the Security Council declared Mecca and Medina to be territory to which Islam has no claim. Such is the Orwellian universe
That it should be declared foreign to the Jewish people is as if the Security Council declared Mecca and Medina to be territory to which Islam has no claim.
state solution.” Where’s the obstacle to peace? A second category of settlement is the close-in blocs that border 1967 Israel. Here, too, we know in advance how these will be disposed of: They’ll become Israeli territory and, in exchange, Israel will swap over some of its land to a Palestinian state. Where’s the obstacle to peace here? It’s the third category of “settlement” that is the most contentious and that Security Council resolution 2334 explicitly condemns: East Jerusalem. This is not just scandalous; it’s absurd. America acquiesces to a declaration that, as a matter of international law, the Jewish state has no
Israel inhabits. At the very least, Obama should have insisted that any reference to East Jerusalem be dropped from the resolution or face a U.S. veto. Why did he not? It’s incomprehensible – except as a parting shot of personal revenge on Benjamin Netanyahu. Or perhaps as a revelation of a deep-seated antipathy to Israel that simply awaited a safe political interval for public expression. Another legacy moment for Barack Obama. And his most shameful. (c) 2016, The Washington Post Writers Group
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Trial on Error By Azi Rosenblum
It’s an amazing thing that as soon as you decide what kind of car you want to get, it is everywhere! While there has been no real change in the number of vehicles of that make and model, the fact that it’s now your future car makes it somehow more visible. That’s kind of how I feel about small businesses. In my line of work, I’m all about small business owners. I find them captivating and I love to observe what they do and how they do it. Recently, I have been taking great interest in how they handle mistakes. Nobody wants to make mistakes, but the reality is that at some point it’s going to happen. Shlomo HaMelech said, “A righteous man falls down seven times and gets up.” Donald
Rumsfeld is quoted saying “It isn’t making mistakes that’s critical; it’s correcting them and getting on with the principal task.” So it seems that mistakes and errors in judgement set the stage for how you get up, how you recover, and how you move forward. When it comes to responding to the oversights and bad calls of business, I have notices a few approaches. Option 1: Do nothing. Despite how many employees and customers have noticed or been impacted by the situation, there are those who choose to do nothing. Maybe it’s pride, maybe it’s fear, but exercising the choice to do nothing is one option that some take. Ultimately, this path leads to loss of trust and is the
silent killer of a business’s reputation. Customer and employees alike lose a fundamental sense of faith when a situation is neither acknowledged or addressed. So… don’t choose option 1. Option 2: The spin, AKA the blame game. There is a terrible temptation to do whatever is necessary to never be wrong. In this gear, the choice is made to protect the reputation of a business or business leader by justifying, denying or otherwise disputing the error, thereby resolving the issue by making it a non-issue. Driven by a fight or flight instinct for self-preservation, this one is another bad call. Dishonesty is never OK, but even in situations where there is a reasonable argument or a logical way to avoid taking ownership of the mistake, this effort will result in similar results as option 1, so…. don’t choose this option either. Option 3: Own it and focus on solutions. There is nothing more impressive and no better way to diffuse a situation than taking ownership of the issue and the process of resolving it. It makes no difference how big or small the error, and in turn how big or small the impact on the other party.
A business relationship is just that: a relationship. Barring a malicious or grossly negligent scenario, if something is a mistake, all you can do is fix it, correct the damage as best as possible, and avoid it happening again. Yes, the customer or employee may remain upset, but when that storm passes, what will remain is the relationship and the way you responded. At the funeral of Eddie Dopkin, a local business owner whose family I once rented office space from, his sister was giving tribute to his leadership in their family business and quoted his marching orders to his team as: “Lets aim for 98% perfect. The other 2% is impossible and we would be better off focusing our energy on how we handle it when it comes up.” Option 3 takes a lot of guts, but it’s the way to go! Azi Rosenblum is a business consultant and the founder and CEO of RemSource, an outsourced provider of administrative and bookkeeping services for small businesses. To suggest a topic or ask a question for a future #BizWiz column email BizWiz@ baltimorejewishhome.com.
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Are We Seeing the Beginning of the Cold War 2.0? BY NACHUM SOROKA
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resident Obama’s expulsion of 35 Russian diplomats and the U.S. government’s closure of two Russian compounds in New York and Maryland may be the beginnings of the Cold War 2.0 if not for the fact that in less than two weeks the new U.S. president will have much warmer feelings towards the former Soviet Union than the current administration. Throughout the Obama presidency, and even during the Bush administration, Russia under Vladimir
Putin has been the United States’ foreign policy wildcard, the country that keeps policymakers looking over their shoulders, never certain of its intentions. Over the course of the second half of the twentieth century, even in the last twenty years after the Cold War, the U.S. has learned to deal with the Russians in the cautious, Reaganesque fashion of doveryai, no proveryai: trust, but verify. Indeed, while Obama imposed sanctions on Russian intelligence agencies
and technology companies thought to be behind the hacking of the Democratic National Committee over the summer, namely the powerful foreign intelligence agency, the GRU, the U.S. has imposed sanctions on Russian interests four times since 2014. And although the most recent hacks on U.S. government officials stole the most headlines, the Pentagon tagged hackers from Russia as early as 1996, a mere five years after the fall of the Soviet Union, including one breach
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Even Ronald Reagan knew to “trust, but verify” when it came to the Russians
in 1998 which allowed Russian intelligence access to military information in the amount of “a stack of printed copier paper three times the height of the Washington Monument.” So sanctions aren’t new when it comes to Russia.
A Necessary Evil It should be obvious to anyone who follows the news headlines on a regular basis that the Russians, particularly under Putin, are a conniving bunch of deceitful, self-interested players. They grant asylum to enemies of democracy, provide funding and military aid to terrorist organizations and despotic leaders, and blatantly annex lands which do not belong to them. President Putin has been known to throw his political rivals in prison, wrongfully seize internationally owned businesses, and poison those who speak out against him. But all this has not stopped world leaders, including American ones, from reaching out to Russia in order to harbor warm relations with the country. Having a working relationship with Russia can be considered a necessary evil. As the world’s two largest owners of nuclear weapons, a conflict between the U.S. and Russia can wipe humankind off the face of the earth in short time. Additionally, Russia’s massive size – its borders span across Europe, Central and East Asia, and the Arctic – allow it influence on many countries which are vital to the maintenance of democracy and Western interest in the world. And, in truth, Russia has been a vital ally in the effort to quell the influence of Islamist movements in some of the world’s most volatile regions such as in the successful
Obama famously told Romney during a debate that the “1980s called” and they wanted their foreign policy back
defeat of the Taliban in Afghanistan. On the other hand, the country maintains strong ties with Tehran and Pyonyang, the two most dangerous regimes in the world today. And as one of the five permanent members of the UN Security Council, Russia’s vote is necessary in order for key global security measures to pass. Since the dissolution of the Soviet Union in 1991, the United States
John Kerry accused Romney of getting his facts about Russia straight from Rocky IV. and Russia have shared a functioning relationship. During the Bush presidency, the two nations did have some serious disagreements – most notably one regarding the U.S. installing a missile defense system in Poland – but the countries and their leaders remained cordial with one another. And by the time Barack Obama took office, the U.S. struck a reconciliatory tone in order to mend whatever strain was placed between the two powers, with then-Secretary of State Hillary Clinton clumsily offering up a “reset” button (which actually spelled “overload” in Russian) to Sergey Lavrov, her Russian counterpart. Both the U.S. and Russia then set out on
a campaign to reduce their stockpiles of nuclear weaponry.
1980s Foreign Policy? President Obama seemed to have been relishing the generally complacent dealings between the U.S. and Russia, and during his 2012 reelection campaign, he and his camp repeatedly mocked Mitt Romney’s assertion that Russia was the United States “number one geopolitical foe.” Obama famously threw his “the 1980s are now calling to ask for their foreign policy back because the Cold War’s been over for 20 years” zinger at Romney during the third presidential debate that year. And John Kerry accused Romney of getting his facts about Russia straight from Rocky IV. In hindsight, looking back over the last term of Obama’s presidency, his team’s bluster about Russia is on the level of his comparing ISIS to a JV team. The past four years have showcased how far Vladimir Putin will go up against U.S. interests and how deceitful Russia can be. It seems that there is not a global crisis occurring these days without Russia and Putin somehow in the mix. As much as Obama’s dismissal of the Russian threat was campaign puffery, U.S.-Russia relations have deteriorated so much recently that the president needed to enact law and order on Russian diplomats a mere three weeks before he leaves office.
Russia Stirs the Pot How did things get to be this bad? The beginning of this new round of enmity may be linked back to the blatant annexation of the Ukrainian territory of Crimea by the Russians in 2014 after its
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What Will the Future Bring? The U.S. has found itself outmaneuvered by Putin and his gang for the past four years. Relations with Russia have reached their lowest point since the 1980s. Indeed, ties with many of the U.S.’s allies have worn thin under Obama’s watch, including Egypt, Israel, the Philippines, Saudi Arabia, and Tur-
key, while former foes like Cuba and Iran have been brought near. In contrast with President Obama’s diplomatic doctrine, President-elect Donald Trump has vowed to make good on reclaiming many of these relationships. During his campaign, Trump insinuated he would allow Russia to remain in Crimea and lift the sanctions imposed on Russia in response to its actions there. Most recently, he called into question the U.S. government’s assertion that it was indeed Russia which hacked into the DNC’s server accounts and indirectly influenced the U.S. election. “It could be somebody else. And I also know things that other people don’t know, and so they cannot be sure of the situation,” he said on December 31. Echoing this sentiment, this week, WikiLeaks founder Julian Assange sat down with Fox News’ Sean Hannity and insisted, “We can say, we have said, repeatedly that over the last two months that our source is not the Russian government and it is not a state party,” Assange said. He added that the claim of Russia being behind the release of 50,000 emails during the presidential campaign was made as an effort to “delegitimize” Donald Trump. Trump has continually waxed pro-Putin, calling him a “real leader” and a “really smart man.” Clearly, Putin welcomes Trump’s isolationist policies which would allow him more leeway to influence world affairs. The question remains if Trump’s presidency will succeed in hitting the reset button on U.S.-Kremlin ties or lead everyone back into the cold 1980s.
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ple of this than their asylum of Edward Snowden, who provided the press with thousands of classified government documents in 2013. The U.S. government is of the opinion that Snowden compromised national security and emboldened terrorists worldwide. Obama elected to cancel a planned meeting with Putin in 2013 after Russia extended its offer of asylum to the traitor. This past June, the Washington Post reported that Russian hackers infiltrated the servers of the Democratic National Committee. The hackers were only assumed to be Russian: they went by names like guccifer 2.0 and DC Leaks, but a cybersecurity firm called CrowdStrike was able to confirm that the hackers were indeed not lone individuals, but were a group of Russian agents working for groups such as the Russian GRU. Leaked emails from Guccifer led to the resignation of DNC chair Debbie Wasserman Shultz and may have caused the disaffection of many erstwhile Bernie Sanders supporters from the Hillary Clinton camp. The most disturbing revelation of all was that the Russian hacking campaign, using the alias “Shadow Brokers,” succeeded in gaining access to some NSA servers.
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straw man, Victor Yanukovich, was deposed as Ukrainian president. The U.S. responded by revoking Russia’s acceptance to the G8 political forum, a move whose severity was downplayed by Putin, who continued to stir unrest in the region. Eventually, the U.S. and its allies were forced to impose a number of sanctions on Russian firms and individuals with close ties to Putin. Russia had officially become a pariah to the West. There is also the ongoing civil war in Syria. The world is currently aghast at the massive civilian casualties brought about by Russian airstrikes on the city of Aleppo as the Syrian Army attempted to regain control of the city from rebel forces. Since the beginning of the civil war in Syria, Putin’s government has backed its longtime ally Bashar Assad’s forces without regard to any potential collateral damage. Back in 2012, President Obama warned President Assad that the use of chemical weapons on his country’s civilian population would trigger a U.S. military response. But Obama’s promise was a hollow threat, and Assad got away with murdering his own people. Many experts believe that Putin was emboldened to take a more confrontational role in Syria when President Obama failed to make good on his vow not to allow Assad to cross the “red line” of using chemical weapons on helpless civilians. The latest bout of Russian-induced heartburn for the U.S. and the Obama administration has to do with hacking, or to put it in classic terms, espionage. The Russian attitude towards U.S. cyber-security has always been dismissive, and there may be no better exam-
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Mental Health Corner Oppositional Defiant Disorder – What It Really Means Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) is a diagnosis that was developed in the 1980s. It is defined in the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) as a pattern of angry/irritable mood, argumentative/defiant behavior, or vindictiveness lasting at least six months.
Obviously, all children engage in these behaviors periodically, but when the behaviors are so recurrent that they are severely impairing then the child might have ODD. In order to officially receive the diagnosis, there must be at least four of the following symptoms:
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f you’ve spent any time on the internet, you know it’s a vast rabbit hole of places to waste precious minutes of your life. “Will it Blend?” is one of those places, a video series showing off the Blendtec line of blenders. The videos feature the company’s founder, smiling in a white lab coat and safety goggles, dropping the day’s experiment into one of his company’s appliances. Not surprisingly, avocados, credit cards, and Big Mac Extra-Value meals all blend just fine — but iPhones, golf clubs, and an English-German dictionary on CD-ROM don’t fare nearly so well. (“Don’t try this at home,” they warn.) Taxpayers play a similar game. It’s not as fun to watch as a Justin Bieber doll in a blender, but it’s potentially far more profitable. That game, of course, is “Will it Deduct?” The results don’t go viral in the same way as the “Will it Blend?” videos. But they do wind up on the internet, in the form of Tax Court opinions. This week’s “Will it Deduct?” story features Herbie Vest, a CPA who launched H.D. Vest, an investment advisory firm for fellow CPAs. He took the company public and stayed
on until 2001, when he sold out to Wells Fargo for $125 million. By that point, he found himself looking for a new challenge in life. He found it in his own past. When Vest was just two years old, his father was found dead in the bathroom of his Texas shop.
he played “Will it Deduct?” The IRS pureed his claim on the grounds that he hadn’t embarked on his effort for profit. So he applied for a do-over and took his case to the Tax Court. Two months ago, the Court released its opinion. Would Vest’s deduction
Vest spent $6.4 million, pursuing the case as doggedly as any fictional detective.
Investigators ruled it a suicide, but in 2003, he received an anonymous letter alleging murder. So Vest began investigating this coldest of cases. Vest spent $6.4 million, pursuing the case as doggedly as any fictional detective. In 2007, he tried to salvage that effort with a book or movie, hiring a writer to tell his story and a PR firm to market it. But Vest never found a killer, and the story never found a buyer. You can probably guess what Vest did with his pile of bills. That’s right,
fare better than a toilet plunger in a blender? Here’s what the judge said: By January 2008 [Vest] had been investigating his father’s death for five years. As of that time, his investigative activities had not generated a single dollar of revenue. Those activities generated no income during 2008, 2009, or 2010, and [Vest] had no reasonable prospect of generating future income. Petitioner never developed a business plan for commercializing his father’s story. He has no professional
background in writing, book publishing, or media. He did not modify the scale or scope of his investigative activities during 2008-2010 in an effort to minimize the substantial losses he was incurring. Sadly for Vest, his investigation did not deduct, and now he owes the IRS $4 million in tax. Don’t let Vest’s disappointment stop you from playing “Will it Deduct?” Section One of the tax code imposes a tax on every taxpayer and sets forth the various rates. Think of it as a “red light” on the road to financial independence. But the rest of the code outlines hundreds of exceptions to that tax — the deductions, credits, loopholes, and strategies that give a “green light” for taxpayers to pulse, chop, and liquefy their tax bills. So make sure to take advantage of those green lights and start planning today.
Allan J Rolnick is a CPA who has been in practice for over 30 yea rs in Queens, NY. He welcomes your comments and can be reached at 718-896-8715 or at allanjrcpa@aol.com.
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Gluten Free Recipe Column For questions or comments about Gluten Free Baking please email GlutenFree@BaltimoreJewishHome.com
by Mrs. Elaine Bodenheimer
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JANUARY 12, 2017
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Fluffy Blueberry Muffins (adapted from Kosher.com)
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What You Will Need: 2 eggs, separated ¾ cup sugar 2 tsp baking powder 1 ¼ cups potato starch 1/3 cup oil
½ - 1/3 cup blueberries (or mini chocolate chips) 2 Tbl of sugar and 2 tsp. of cinnamon mixed together
Preperation: 1. Pre-heat oven to 360 degrees. Line cupcake pans with liners. In the bowl of an electric mixer, beat egg whites o high until stiff peaks form. Slowly add sugar, baking powder, potato starch, egg yolks, and oil. 2. Spoon scant ¼ cup of batter into cupcake holders. Sprinkle tops of cupcakes with sugar and cinnamon. Bake for 25 minutes or until a cake tester comes out clean. Cool and enjoy for anytime, including Pesach! Makes 14 cupcakes.
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Overnight French Toast
Serves 8-12
Preperation:
1/4 cup butter 6-8 ¾ inch slices soft bread such as challah 1/4 cup light brown sugar 8 large eggs 1 1/2 cups milk 2 tablespoons maple syrup 1 teaspoon vanilla 1 teaspoon cinnamon ½ teaspoon salt ¼ teaspoon orange extract, optional powdered sugar and maple syrup for serving
1. Preheat the oven to 350°. Melt the butter in 9x13-inch baking dish. Layer the bread two slices deep in the pan. 2. Whisk the sugar, eggs, milk, maple syrup, vanilla, cinnamon, salt and orange extract (if using) together. Pour the mixture evenly over the bread. Cover tightly and place the pan in the refrigerator overnight. 3. An hour before serving, remove pan from the refrigerator and set at room temperature. Preheat the oven to 350°. Bake uncovered for 45 to 50 minutes or until the bread is browned. Serve hot sprinkled with powdered sugar and warm maple syrup on the side.
Slow Cooker French Onion Soup Ingredients:
On winter nights we want recipes that are ready when we are. Here are two “fix-it and forget-it” recipes that are sure to be a part of your winter meal rotations. Enjoy!
Serves 10-12
Preperation:
1. Place the onion slices in a 5-quart (or larger) slow cooker. Stir in the butter and olive oil, salt, and pepper 2. Cover and cook on LOW overnight or for up to12 hours. The onions should be dark golden brown and soft. 3. Stir in the balsamic vinegar and the broth. Cover and continue cooking on LOW for 6 to 8 hours or longer. Longer cooking will intensify the flavors. 4. Taste and season with more salt and pepper if desired. Add the beer and red wine. 5. Heat the oven to 350°F. Ladle the soup and onions into oven-safe bowls and place the bowls in a baking pan. Top each bowl with a slice of toast and ¼ cup of the shredded cheese. 7. Bake on a rack in the upper third of the oven until the cheese is completely melted, 10-15 minutes. Turn the oven to broil and broil the soup for 2 to 3 minutes or until the cheese is bubbling and browned. Remove from the oven and let cool for a few minutes, then serve. RubyLaskerDesigns
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6 pounds yellow onions, peeled, sliced, and cut into quarter-moons 4 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted 4 tablespoons olive oil 2 teaspoons salt, plus more to taste 1 teaspoon black pepper 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar 12 cups vegetable broth or water 1 (12 ounce) bottle beer ⅓ cup red wine 4 to 6 baguette or challah slices, toasted, for each bowl 3 cups shredded melting cheese
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