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A year has passed since Rabbi Moshe Hauer zt”l was niftar, but the Baltimore community is still feeling his loss. It is hard to believe that the person so many turned to for hadracha, wise counsel, and a calm perspective is no longer here. People continue to search for ways to hold on to his memory and the Torah he shared with us. I have been thinking about a dvar Torah of his that offers a meaningful way to do that. Rabbi Hauer spoke about the contrast between Noach and Avraham Avinu. Noach was given 120 years to build the teivah. The building itself gave him the opportunity, and a striking way, to warn the people of his generation, teach them, and urge them to change. Yet when the flood came, only Noach and his family entered the teivah. There were no nefesh asher asu, no people whose lives he had transformed, joining them. Avraham also lived among people who had turned away from Hashem, but his world was not destroyed. His care, guidance, and teaching helped people do teshuvah. The Torah tells us that he and Sarah brought many people closer to Hashem, hanefesh asher asu beCharan. What enabled Avraham to reach people in this way? Avraham had come from a home of avodah zarah. He knew firsthand that a person could change, that the past did not have to be a prison. He could look at someone and see not only who that person was, but who

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he could become. Rabbi Hauer saw people with that same hope. His hadracha helped others recognize their potential and find a way forward. We miss his guidance, but we can carry something of it with us by trying to see people as he did. That is one reason the kesivas Sefer Torah that Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion is undertaking in Rabbi Hauer’s memory feels so meaningful (see front cover). “Zichru Toras Moshe” is a fitting name for an effort to preserve and carry forward the Torah he shared with the community. The Torah tells us, “‫כי לא תשכח מפי זרעו‬,” that it will not be forgotten from the mouths of our descendants. A Sefer Torah connects us to the generations before us and gives the generations after us a way to keep learning and living that Torah. We can help keep Rabbi Hauer’s memory alive by following in his ways: offering thoughtful guidance, believing in a person’s ability to grow, and helping others find their way closer to Torah. Those who are able can also take part in this lasting legacy by contributing to the Sefer Torah. May the Torah Rabbi Hauer shared continue to guide our community, and may we be zocheh to carry it forward for generations to come. Wishing everyone a peaceful Shabbos, Aaron M. Friedman

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Cheder Chabad Of Baltimore Purchases Mount Washington Campus To Meet Growing Enrollment By: BJLife Newsroom

heder Chabad of Baltimore has closed on the purchase of a new campus at 5800 Smith Avenue and 1701 Regent Road in Mount Washington, a major step for a school that has grown every year and is now at capacity in its Park Heights Avenue building. Founded in 2007 by Rabbi Elchonon Lisbon, Cheder Chabad of Baltimore is an affiliate of ChabadLubavitch of Maryland, under the auspices of Rabbi Shmuel Kaplan. The school began with 12 preschool children and today serves over 430 students in its boys school, girls school and preschool. Demand for a Cheder Chabad education has grown faster than the school’s space can keep up. The new 3.5-acre campus includes a school building with 11 classrooms, a gymnasium, offices and tutoring spaces; a separate gathering hall; and a large estate home, together totaling approximately 45,000 square feet, with 50 on-site parking spaces. It sits just minutes from the current campus and the neighborhoods its families call home.

“Our community is growing, and our Cheder is growing with it,” said Rabbi Elchonon Chaikin, CEO of Cheder Chabad of Baltimore. “For years our space simply couldn’t keep up with the demand. This campus gives our children room to learn, play and grow b’simcha. We are grateful to Hashem and to every parent and friend who believes in what we’re building.” The school plans to operate two campuses, one for boys and one for girls. The new building will be renovated and licensed before students move in, and a timeline will be shared as plans develop. Classes continue as usual this school year. Cheder Chabad extends its deep thanks to Mark Gheiler of MiCasa Title; Yanky Schorr and Aaron Loeb of Tide Realty Capital; Michael Denise of Cushman & Wakefield; and Yossi Abenson, a dear parent of the Cheder, for their help in bringing this purchase to closing. A community open house will be announced soon.

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Rav Sholom Kamenetsky, Shlita, Inspires Educators With Foundational Message For Today’s Classroom

ver 165 administrators, principals, rabbeim, moros, and educators representing almost every Jewish day school in the Baltimore community gathered on Monday evening for Inspired Education, featuring Rav Sholom Kamenetsky, Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshivas Philadelphia. Presented by JES in partnership with the Association of Jewish Day Schools, the event presented an opportunity for educators and school leaders to pause, reflect, and draw strength for the important work of chinuch habonim. Widely respected for his wisdom, warmth, and decades of educational leadership, Rav Kamenetsky delivered messages that were both practical and deeply inspiring to those entrusted with educating the next generation. The evening began with a focused session for school leaders and administrators. Drawing on the pasuk, “Al Mei Menuchos Yenahaleini” - lead along a peaceful path - Rav Kamenetsky spoke about the responsibility of a menahel to guide with menuchas hanefesh, patience, and consistency. Quoting the wellknown teaching, “Divrei Torah b’nachas nishma’im, he reminded participants that people are far more likely to accept guidance when it is delivered with calmness, respect, and understanding. Effective leadership, he explained, is not about exercising authority, but about creating the conditions in which teachers and students can thrive. Rav Kamenetsky then addressed the larger audience of educators, opening with a powerful thought: Chinuch is more than education. Chinuch is dedication. Education, he explained, is a means to an end. The ultimate goal is to help children become dedicated Jews who are connected to Hashem, Torah, and Klal Yisrael. In that process, teachers serve not only as mechanchim, but as mashpi’im - influencers whose words, actions, and personal example leave a lasting imprint on their students.

He encouraged educators to recognize the uniqueness of every child. “No two human beings look exactly alike or possess the exact same qualities,” he noted. Taking the time to identify and cultivate those individual strengths is among the greatest gifts a teacher can give a student. Rav Kamenetsky also challenged attendees to view their own personal and spiritual growth as an investment in their students. Whether through additional Torah learning, strengthening tefillah, or taking on small acts of personal growth, the impact inevitably finds its way into the classroom. The timing of the event felt especially meaningful. As schools settle into the new academic year following the Yomim Tovim, teachers and school leaders return to their work carrying not only professional goals, but heartfelt tefillos for their own success and the success of their students. While educators certainly appreciate resources, support, and professional development, the enthusiastic response to the event reflected a deeper desire to reconnect with the purpose and meaning behind their work. For many in attendance, the evening provided exactly that. One participant reflected, “I didn’t realize how much I needed this until afterward. It was life changing.” Another shared, “He spoke so sweetly and powerfully at the same time. My staff very much enjoyed it.” JES looks forward to building on the inspiration, renewed purpose, and motivation participants gained from this event and continuing to support Baltimore’s educators through professional development, mentoring, consultation, and the Teacher Helpline throughout the year.

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he JCFL by King David Nursing and Rehab officially kicked off its highly anticipated season this past Sunday, as players returned to the gridiron for another year of spectacular catches, dazzling touchdowns, fierce competition, and, of course, plenty of Monday morning soreness! The excitement was palpable as players arrived at the Klaff Sports Physical Therapy Fields, sporting their beautifully and professionally designed jerseys, generously sponsored by Baltimore Bultins. The expertly groomed and freshly painted fields, sponsored by Roof Maven, provided the perfect setting for an action-packed opening week. With all field and game equipment, sponsored by RE/MAX Elisheva Frenkel, set up and ready for action, the stage was officially set. Before each contest, the Conkretely officiating crew met with captains and players to review the Fired Up Rules and Regulations, ensuring everyone was on the same page before the opening whistles. And while the season has barely begun, the buzz is already building! Which teams will earn a coveted spot in the Tripping Kosher Postseason? Who will emerge victorious and hoist the prestigious Premier Financial Trophy? Fans can follow every touchdown, standings update, and playoff race on the league’s brand-new website, expertly designed by Avi Friedman and proudly sponsored by MDSC. If Week 1 was any indication, we’re in for one incredible season! Advanced Security 22 YL Waitering 6 The matchup between Advanced Security and YL Waitering started as a defensive slugfest, with neither offense able to find the end zone for much of the first half. Advanced Security lived up to its name, locking things down from the opening whistle. Sammy Sonnenberg broke the scoreless tie by sacking YL quarterback Yitzy Hyatt in the end zone for a safety, leaving Hyatt searching for both his footing and his shoes! Hyatt repeatedly tested Shloime Scheinfeld downfield, but Eitan Rock had other ideas, swatting away pass after pass. Jeremy Strauss and Avi Goldstein then each snagged interceptions, sending YL Waitering’s offense back to the kitchen.

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Behind The Scenes Of Chesed: Recognizing The Work That Makes Chesed Possible By: Rabbi Dr. Avichai Pepper

hesed is a household term, one that we all recognize and appreciate. Yet, in many ways, Chesed takes on different meanings for different people. For some, it means helping a family maintain order in their home when they welcome a newborn baby. For others, it may mean supporting a child with medical needs or their siblings through Chai Lifeline. And for others, it may be something as simple, yet meaningful, as helping out at home. In the Silver Spring community, many have come to rely on Yad Yehuda as a central address for their Chesed needs. Whether it is providing clothing to families, operating a kosher food pantry, offering financial assistance to those in need, helping families with a Hachnasas Kallah fund, or supporting countless other communal initiatives, Yad Yehuda has become an integral part of the community’s infrastructure of Chesed. What makes Yad Yehuda particular-

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This past week, Rabbi Roth’s ninthgrade talmidim from the Yeshiva of Greater Washington had the opportunity to participate in precisely this type of Chesed. Rather than focusing on one particular service, the boys dedicated their time and energy to cleaning and reorganizing several of the spaces that support the many Chesed initiatives operating out of Yad Yehuda. Their work included restructuring the Misaskim warehouse, conducting inventory checks in the food pantry, and cleaning and organizing various areas throughout the offices. These were not necessarily the most visible forms of Chesed, but they were essential contributions to the continued success of the organizations serving our community. Even when we think about the extraordinary mitzvah of helping with a levayah, we naturally focus on the tremendous sensitivity and care shown to a family during its most difficult moments. Yet, behind that mitzvah are supplies that must be prepared, equipment that must be maintained, and facilities that must remain organized and ready. Without those preparations, the Chesed itself becomes that much more difficult to accomplish.

Perhaps one of the most important lessons we can teach our talmidim is that Chesed is not defined by the recognition it receives, but by the needs it fulfills. Sometimes the greatest contribution we can make is not the act that everyone sees, but the quiet work that allows someone else to make a difference. A special thank you to Yad Yehuda and its incredible staff for creating this meaningful opportunity, and to Rabbi Roth and his ninth-grade talmidim for their dedication, hard work, and willingness to give back to the community. Through their efforts, the boys demonstrated an important lesson: the spirit of Chesed extends far beyond the acts of kindness we typically recognize, encompassing the countless behindthe-scenes efforts that make so much of our communal Chesed possible. What makes this behind-thescenes Chesed particularly remarkable is that its impact reaches far deeper into the community than we may ever realize, touching the lives of countless families and individuals who may never know about the work that made their assistance possible. After all, sometimes the greatest Chesed happens before the Chesed even begins.

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France in Flames France is grappling with its worst civil unrest in years as massive demonstrations over soaring living costs and deteriorating public services have erupted into violent riots, leaving buildings burned, businesses looted, and thousands arrested. More than half a million protesters flooded streets across the country on Saturday, with demonstrations spiraling into chaos as rioters clashed with police, torched vehicles, smashed storefronts, and attacked government buildings. A historic town hall in Limoges was set ablaze, while widespread destruction rocked Paris, Marseille, Lille, and other major cities. Authorities have arrested approximately 2,400 people, with hundreds facing prosecution. Thousands of busi-

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The escalating disorder comes as France struggles with a stagnating economy, mounting government debt and deep political divisions. A recent Ipsos-BVA survey found that 85% of French respondents believe their country is in decline, while 98% expressed dissatisfaction with its current condition. France’s government debt has reached 119% of its gross domestic product, roughly twice the European Union’s target. The country is expected to borrow a record $395 billion through mediumand long-term bonds next year. Political gridlock has complicated efforts to address the financial crisis, with successive governments struggling to secure parliamentary approval for budgets. “France carries one of the highest government debt burdens in Europe, and political deadlock means we expect its debt level to continue rising,” Oxford Economics researchers warned. With President Macron’s approval rating hovering around 15% to 17%, France faces an increasingly uncertain future as political frustration, economic anxiety and street violence threaten to deepen the nation’s crisis.

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Woodside Synagogue/Ahavas Torah

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6:20 am Ohev Shalom Talmud Torah OLNEY

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Young Israel Ezras Israel of Potomac

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nesses have suffered damage, and nearly 1,000 police officers were reportedly injured during the violence. The unrest began with student demonstrations protesting teacher shortages and poor school conditions but quickly expanded into a broader movement driven by inflation, rising fuel prices, and frustration with President Emmanuel Macron’s government. Macron condemned the “unrestrained violence,” insisting that those responsible for destruction and looting would be held accountable. He then departed for a diplomatic visit to the Persian Gulf on Sunday. Interior Minister Laurent Nuñez acknowledged that security forces had lost control in several cities, admitting that authorities had underestimated the potential for violence. “Yes, on Saturday, in some major cities, we lost control,” Nuñez conceded. Prime Minister Sébastien Lecornu has introduced targeted nighttime curfews, while the government announced plans to deploy additional troops and police to prevent further violence. Although the curfews helped restore some calm overnight, officials are bracing for addi-

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Kemp Mill Synagogue

M, Th

Ohr Hatorah

T, W, F

Young Israel Shomrai Emunah

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6:50 am Woodside Synagogue/Ahavas Torah

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Southeast Hebrew Cong., Knesset Yehoshua S Silver Spring Jewish Center BETHESDA Magen David Sephardic Congregation [S] 11215 Woodglen Dr, North Bethesda, MD 20852 GAITHERSBURG Chabad of Upper Montgomery County [Ari] 11520 Darnestown Rd, Gaithersburg, MD 20878 OLNEY Ohev Shalom Talmud Torah (OSTT) 18320 Georgia Ave, Olney, MD 20832

Kesher Israel Ohev Sholom Talmud Torah/The National Synagogue Ohr Hatorah 7:30 am Chabad of DC

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Ezras Israel Congregation of Rockville

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Kehilat Pardes / Berman Hebrew Academy

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Silver Spring Jewish Center

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Chabad of Potomac

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Kemp Mill Synagogue

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Chabad of Potomac

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Young Israel Shomrai Emunah

JROC Ohev Sholom Talmud Torah/The National Synagogue Silver Spring Jewish Center

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YGW (Summer Only)

S-F

7:45 am YGW (Yeshiva Session Only)

S-F

8:45 am Young Israel Shomrai Emunah

S-F

8:00 am Beth Sholom Congregation

9:00 am Chabad of Silver Spring

Kemp Mill Synagogue

Kesher Israel

Ohev Shalom Talmud Torah OLNEY

Southeast Hebrew Cong., Knesset Yehoshua M-F

Southeast Hebrew Cong., Knesset Yehoshua S Chabad of Upper Montgomery County

Woodside Synagogue/Ahavas Torah

POTOMAC Beth Sholom Congregation 11825 Seven Locks Rd. Potomac, MD 20854 Chabad of Potomac [Ari] 11621 Seven Locks Rd, Potomac, MD 20854 Young Israel Ezras Israel of Potomac 11618 Seven Locks Rd, Potomac, MD 20854

ROCKVILLE Kehilat Pardes / Berman Hebrew Academy 13300 Arctic Ave, Rockville, MD 20853 JROC 11304 Old Georgetown Rd, Rockville, MD 20852 Ezras Israel Congregation of Rockville Ring House TV Room

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Before Shkiah (15-18 minutes), S-TH Beit Halevi (Sfardi) Beth Sholom Congregation Chabad of Potomac Chabad of Silver Spring Chabad of Upper Montgomery County Ezras Israel Congregation of Rockville (20 min before, S-F) JROC Kemp Mill Synagogue Kesher Israel Magen David Sephardic Congregation Ohev Sholom Talmud Torah/The National Synagogue Ohr Hatorah Silver Spring Jewish Center Southeast Hebrew Congregation Woodside Synagogue/Ahavas Torah Young Israel Ezras Israel of Potomac Young Israel Shomrai Emunah (Asheknaz) Young Israel Shomrai Emunah (Sefarhadi)

maariv 8:45 pm YGW 9:15 pm Silver Spring Jewish Center 9:30 pm YGW 9:45 pm Ohr Hatorah 10:00 pm YGW

2:00 pm Silver Spring Jewish Center 2:10 pm YGW

S-F

2:45 pm YGW 3:00 pm YGW Middle School

S-Th

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Southeast Hebrew Congregation, Knesset Yehoshua 10900 Lockwood Dr, Silver Spring, MD 20901 Woodside Synagogue/Ahavas Torah 9001 Georgia Ave, Silver Spring, MD 20910 Yeshiva Gedola of Greater Washington (YGW) 1216 Arcola Ave, Silver Spring, MD 20902 Young Israel Shomrai Emunah (YISE) [Ashk + S] 1132 Arcola Ave, Silver Spring, MD 20902

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S-Th S-Th S-Th S-Th S-Th

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The Week In News Japan’s Mission to Mars’ Moon Japan is shooting for the moon — but this time, it’s one of Mars’ moons. A Japanese spacecraft blasted off on Monday on an ambitious five-year mission to collect rocks and soil from Phobos, the larger of Mars’ two moons, in hopes of solving a decades-old mystery about how the moons came to exist. The $578 million Martian Moons

Exploration mission, known as MMX, launched aboard an H3 rocket from Japan’s Tanegashima Space Center. If successful, it will become the first mission to bring samples from the Mars system back to Earth. Scientists have long debated the origins of Phobos and its smaller companion, Deimos. One theory suggests the moons are asteroids captured by Mars’ gravitational pull. Another hypothesis says that they formed from debris scattered into space when a massive object

collided with Mars many years ago. “One of the most intriguing questions about Phobos and Deimos is simply why these two little moons are there in the first place,” said NASA scientist Thomas Statler. Both moons are tiny compared to Earth’s moon. Phobos measures just 17 miles across, while Deimos is less than half that size. Their irregular shapes resemble asteroids, but appearances alone cannot settle the question. The MMX spacecraft is expected to reach Mars in 2027 and spend approximately three years studying Phobos and its surroundings.

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Alberta Rejects Independence Voters in Canada’s oil-rich province of Alberta overwhelmingly rejected a proposal to pursue independence from the country, handing Prime Minister Mark

Carney a major political victory amid growing tensions with the United States. Preliminary results released on Tuesday showed approximately 76% of voters favoring remaining part of Canada, while roughly 24% supported beginning the process toward a binding independence referendum. The nonbinding vote, held on Monday, marked a significant setback for Alberta’s separatist movement, which has gained momentum in recent years amid disputes over federal energy policies and the province’s economic relationship with Ottawa. Carney, who grew up in Alberta, welcomed the outcome, saying residents had made a “clear choice” about their future. “They chose unity, to build together, and to take care of each other,” the prime minister wrote on social media. Alberta Premier Danielle Smith, a conservative who called the referendum despite opposing independence herself, praised the strong support for keeping the province within Canada. However, separatist leaders insisted their movement was far from finished. “As far as I’m concerned we’ve already won. We’ve created a massive movement in this province,” declared Jeffrey Rath, a leader of the Alberta Prosperity Project. “We’ve been educating Albertans on the benefits of independence and we’re continuing to move forward.” Alberta possesses some of the world’s largest proven oil reserves, and resentment over federal restrictions on energy development has fueled demands for greater provincial autonomy. Separatists have accused Canada’s federal government of undermining Alberta’s economy through environmental regulations and policies affecting oil production. The independence campaign also attracted attention from prominent allies of President Donald Trump. U.S. Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent described Alberta as a “natural partner” for America, while billionaire Elon Musk publicly suggested that the province “should separate.” Carney had urged Albertans to reject independence, arguing that Canada needed national unity as it confronted Trump’s tariffs and repeated suggestions that Canada become America’s 51st state. Since taking office, Carney has sought to ease tensions with Alberta by cooperating with Smith on plans for a new pipeline to expand overseas oil exports. Thomas Lukaszuk, leader of the pro-unity organization Forever Canadi-

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As tensions with Iran continue to simmer, U.S. Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth made an unannounced visit to Israel on Monday and held a secret meeting with Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu. Netanyahu spokesman Doron Spielman confirmed the meeting on Tuesday, saying the two leaders met at the Ovda Air Force Base in southern Israel, where U.S. fighter jets and refueling aircraft are stationed. According to Spielman, Netanyahu and Hegseth discussed “the threats in the region” as well as the U.S.-Israel partnership in confronting those threats both “offensively and defensively.” Defense Minister Israel Katz was reportedly also present at the meeting, though IDF Chief of Staff Eyal Zamir did not attend. Hegseth later acknowledged traveling to the Middle East but did not disclose that he had been in Israel or provide details about his meeting with Netanyahu. “It was an honor to visit our warfighters in @CENTCOM today,” Hegseth wrote on X. “The best of our country, on a historic mission. Godspeed.” U.S. Central Command, or CENTCOM, oversees American military operations throughout the Middle East. The highly secretive visit comes at a particularly sensitive moment, with Washington and Tehran locked in a continuing standoff and Israeli leaders openly signaling that renewed military action against Iran remains possible. According to Israeli media, Netanyahu flew to the meeting aboard a private plane from Ben Gurion Airport rather than taking a helicopter, the more typical method of travel for meetings in southern Israel. Earlier on Monday, Netanyahu released videos from the Ramat David Air Base in northern Israel, where he warned Israel’s enemies against testing the country. The prime minister praised the Israeli Air Force’s “readiness, determination, and capability to strike our enemies

whenever required.” Hours later, Netanyahu released part of a phone conversation with President Donald Trump, thanking him for endorsing Netanyahu ahead of Israel’s upcoming election. Netanyahu also referenced the joint U.S.-Israeli campaign against Iran earlier this year and suggested that the confrontation may not yet be over. “We have a job to finish,” Netanyahu told Trump, adding that the two countries would “finish it together.” The meeting between Netanyahu and Hegseth, coupled with the prime minister’s increasingly pointed rhetoric, is likely to fuel speculation that Israel and the United States are weighing their next move against Tehran.

Israel’s New Space Division Israel is taking its military capabilities to new heights – literally. The Israel Defense Forces announced on Monday the establishment of a new Space Division, marking a major expansion of Israel’s military operations beyond Earth’s atmosphere. Brig. Gen. “Shin,” identified only by his Hebrew initial for security reasons, was appointed to lead the division as part of a sweeping round of senior military appointments announced by IDF Chief of Staff Lt. Gen. Eyal Zamir. According to the IDF, the new division will oversee the development of military space capabilities, coordinate operations, and consolidate training and expertise in what military officials increasingly view as a critical battlefield. The move follows the military’s assessment that space has become an active arena of warfare and will play an increasingly significant role in future conflicts. Until now, space-related operations, including satellite launches and missile defense, have largely fallen under the Israeli Air Force. Military Intelligence’s Unit 9900 operates Israel’s reconnaissance satellites once they are in orbit. It remains unclear how those responsibilities will be divided under the new structure. Defense Minister Israel Katz welcomed the announcement on Tuesday, declaring that Israel intends to become a major player in space-based defense. “The goal set for the IDF and the defense establishment is to make Israel one of the world’s leading countries in the field

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The Week In News of space security,” Katz said, describing his vision as “Star Wars, made in Israel.” Katz said the ability to conduct surveillance, defensive operations, and strikes from space would strengthen Israel’s deterrence and protect the country against threats both near and far. The development comes amid growing concerns about Iran’s space warfare capabilities. During the war in March, Israel said it destroyed an Iranian facility in Tehran involved in satellite development and technology designed to target satellites belonging to Israel and other countries. Israel is also expanding its capabilities closer to Earth. The IDF announced the appointment of Brig. Gen. “Yud” to head a newly established Robotics Division, which will focus on unmanned systems and advanced military technologies. The division will operate under the Depth Corps, which handles missions beyond Israel’s borders. Additionally, the military is reopening its 500th Armored Brigade, a tank unit disbanded in 2003. Lt. Col. “Resh” will be promoted to colonel to command the revived brigade. The appointments, which are awaiting

Katz’s approval, reflect the IDF’s broader effort to modernize its forces and prepare for future conflicts on land, through advanced robotics, and now, even in space.

Benny Gantz’s Party Pulls Out Former IDF Chief of Staff Benny Gantz announced on Monday that his Blue and White party will withdraw from Israel’s October 27 election, marking a stunning political downfall for a man once considered Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s strongest challenger. Gantz, 67, made the announcement after months of polling showed his party falling well below the electoral threshold needed to enter the Knesset. “I still believe with all my heart in the path I followed from my first day in politics, a path of statehood and unity that puts Israel above all else,” Gantz told reporters. “Unfortunately, at this time, I have not been able to convince enough of the people, and the responsibility is mine.” Because the withdrawal comes just days before the election, Blue and White will still appear on ballots, although votes

cast for the party will not count toward Knesset representation. Gantz’s political fortunes have taken a dramatic turn since 2019, when he emerged as the leading alternative to Netanyahu. His Blue and White alliance challenged Netanyahu in three consecutive elections, but his decision to enter a unity government with the prime minister in 2020 fractured his political base. Under that arrangement, Gantz was supposed to eventually replace Netanyahu as prime minister, but the government collapsed before the transfer of power could take place. Following Hamas’s October 7, 2023, massacre, Gantz again joined Netanyahu in an emergency wartime government. His popularity initially soared, with polls briefly showing his party as Israel’s most popular political faction. However, Gantz resigned from the government in June 2024 amid disagreements over the handling of the war in Gaza. His political standing subsequently deteriorated, and several prominent allies, including former IDF Chief Gadi Eisenkot, departed his party. Eisenkot, now leading the Yashar party, praised Gantz’s withdrawal as a

“right and responsible decision,” while other opposition leaders welcomed the move as an opportunity to consolidate votes against Netanyahu. Meanwhile, members of Netanyahu’s coalition urged smaller right-wing parties struggling in the polls to follow Gantz’s example rather than risk wasting votes. Despite withdrawing, Gantz continued to call for a broad national unity government capable of bridging Israel’s bitter political divisions. “Do not take us back to October 6,” he warned, referring to the day before the Hamas massacre. “Be brave enough to bring about real and correct change. Put the old perceptions aside.” Gantz cautioned that without meaningful political change, Israel could face continued division, repeated elections, or even another national disaster.

IDF on High Alert Israel’s military is on high alert ahead of next week’s national elections, with IDF Chief of Staff Lt. Gen. Eyal Zamir ordering a military-wide leave freeze and additional troop deployments as Prime

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deployed to reinforce operations in the area between the Samaria and Binyamin regional brigades. Meanwhile, Netanyahu delivered a pointed warning during a visit to an Israeli Air Force base on Monday. “I say to our enemies: Do not test us,” Netanyahu declared in a video released by his office. “You will suffer harder blows than you have suffered until now.” The prime minister praised the Israeli Air Force’s “readiness, determination and capability to strike our enemies whenever required.” “We are determined to defend ourselves,” he added. “Do not test us.” Netanyahu issued a similar warning last month, suggesting that Israel had indications of a possible enemy attack ahead of the election. However, opposition figures questioned the warning, and security reports at the time indicated that the IDF had not identified a specific threat. Preparations for military voting are also underway, with the IDF scheduled to establish at least 850 polling stations at bases and military installations throughout Israel and beyond its borders. Voting for soldiers begins on Tuesday and will continue through October 27, when Israelis nationwide head to the polls.

The Shuk’s $18M Makeover Jerusalem’s iconic Mahane Yehuda Market is getting a major facelift, with officials unveiling plans for a nearly $18 million renovation aimed at modernizing the historic marketplace while preserving its unique character. The ambitious project, scheduled to begin in October 2027, will include replacing aging electrical, water and sewage systems, installing new flooring and lighting, and upgrading the roofing throughout the market’s covered passageways. And there’s one important condition: The market must remain open throughout construction. “We’re putting a lot of effort into making sure that businesses can stay open,” said Jerusalem City Council member Ariel Baziz, explaining that renovations will proceed one street at a time. Funded by the Jerusalem municipality and Israel’s Tourism Ministry, the NIS 54 million project represents one of the largest upgrades to the market in decades. Mahane Yehuda, home to more than 450 businesses employing approximate-

ly 10,000 people, is among Israel’s most popular attractions, drawing as many as 100,000 visitors on busy Fridays. For Tali Friedman, chairwoman of the market’s Merchants Association, the challenge is ensuring that modernization doesn’t erase the character that has made the market a Jerusalem landmark for nearly 150 years. “There is a danger that the old, authentic market will get lost to the new market vibe, and that would be bad for everyone,” Friedman said. Over the past two decades, Mahane Yehuda has undergone a dramatic transformation, evolving from a traditional marketplace selling fruits, vegetables, fish and other staples into a bustling destination filled with restaurants, cafes, and nightlife. That evolution has also created tensions between longtime merchants and newer establishments, particularly over noise, crowds and competing business hours. The planned renovations will not resolve some of the market’s most persistent headaches, including overcrowding and limited parking. Nevertheless, Friedman stressed that shutting down businesses during construction is not an option.

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“Too many families need the income,” she said. Some vendors also worry that the area’s rapid development, including luxury residential construction nearby, could undermine the market’s traditional atmosphere. Culinary tour guide Harry Rubenstein believes that preserving its character is essential to its future. “Tourists actually love the noise, the crowds, and even the grime they experience in the shuk,” he said. “People don’t want to come here and see the same types of awnings on every stall.”

TSA Pulls Back Gateside Program A new airport security program that brought back a taste of pre-9/11 travel has hit some turbulence. The Transportation Security Ad-

ministration has quietly scaled back a program allowing people without airline tickets to pass through airport security and accompany friends or family members to their gates. The initiative, known as Gateside by TSA PreCheck, launched in September at 13 airports and subsequently expanded to additional locations across the country. However, just weeks after its introduction, the agency has pulled back the expansion, limiting the service to its original 13 airports. The program allows eligible members of TSA PreCheck and other approved traveler programs to apply for special permission to enter secure airport areas without a boarding pass. For families, that means being able to walk loved ones directly to their departure gates or greet arriving passengers as they step off their planes, something that was commonplace before the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks prompted sweeping changes to airport security. Gateside had expanded to hundreds of airports before the TSA abruptly reduced its availability. Officials at Denver International Airport and Norfolk International Air-

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Just 5 Days on the Job President Donald Trump’s newest White House press secretary didn’t even last a week. Katie Zacharia, a conservative commentator who was unexpectedly tapped for the high-profile position, was removed on Friday five days after she began her tenure following a rocky debut, uncomfortable television interviews, and mounting questions about her professional credentials. Her brief tenure may be the shortest in White House press secretary history, lasting just five days and one press briefing. Zacharia’s troubles began on Tuesday, when she delivered a heavily scripted briefing that lasted just five and a half minutes before abruptly ending questions. The situation worsened when reports surfaced that Zacharia had presented herself as a lawyer despite failing the bar exam and not being licensed to practice law. President Trump had publicly described her as “an attorney.” When reporters questioned Zacharia

about which state had admitted her to the bar, she twice gave the puzzling response, “When I moved to China.” She later maintained that she had misunderstood the question. Attempts to repair her image through television appearances only created additional headaches. During a Thursday interview with Fox News host Sean Hannity, Zacharia struggled under questioning. The following morning, a “Fox and Friends” host asked whether she regretted failing to disclose her bar exam history to Trump. “Well, Lawrence, those questions weren’t asked,” she responded. By Friday afternoon, the writing was on the White House wall. Speaking to reporters before departing for a campaign rally in Georgia, Trump revealed that he had advised Zacharia to reconsider the position. “Katie, do you need this? I don’t think you need this,” Trump recalled telling her. White House communications director Steven Cheung later announced that Zacharia would be transitioning to another position, with details to follow. Despite the abrupt departure, Zacharia praised Trump on social media, calling

him “a kind, wonderful, gracious, thoughtful, enthusiastic, and hardworking man.” The episode drew comparisons to Anthony Scaramucci, who famously lasted just 10 days as White House communications director during Trump’s first term. “Records are made to be broken. But I take no pleasure in other people’s pain,” Scaramucci wrote on social media.

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The Week In News Life, sold last Wednesday at Christie’s auction house for approximately $42.025 million, well above its estimated value of $24 million to $33.3 million. The painting sparked a six-minute bidding war and ultimately became the highest-priced artwork sold during the evening’s auction. The identity of the winning bidder was not disclosed. The colorful painting, which measures approximately 4 feet 3 inches by 5 feet 4 inches, depicts a bustling scene in a valley beneath a mountain topped by a palace. Christie’s described the work as “a monumental turning point on Kandinsky’s road to abstraction.” But behind the celebrated artwork lies a painful chapter of Jewish history. The painting was purchased in 1927 by Hedwig and Emanuel Albert Lewenstein, a Jewish couple living in Amsterdam. Beginning in 1933, it was displayed on loan at the city’s Stedelijk Museum. Both owners died before World War II, leaving their extensive art collection to their two children, who escaped Europe before or during the early years of the war. In October 1940, just months after Nazi Germany invaded the Netherlands, the painting was sold at auction under

circumstances that remained disputed for decades. It was purchased by Salomon Slijper, a Dutch Jewish businessman who survived the Holocaust in hiding. Following Slijper’s death, his widow sold the painting in 1972 to Bayerische Landesbank, a German state-owned bank. The artwork subsequently spent approximately 50 years on display at museums in Munich. In 2017, descendants of the Lewenstein family launched a legal battle seeking the painting’s return. Six years later, an independent German commission concluded that the artwork “was seized as a result of persecution” of Jews during the Nazi occupation and recommended its restitution. The bank complied in June 2023, finally returning the masterpiece to the family’s descendants more than eight decades after it had been taken from their relatives.

99 and Wingin’ It Most people approaching their 100th birthday are happy to keep both feet firmly on the ground. But Helga Duffy

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The daredevil great-grandmother, who was the eldest of seven children, said her late father would have been especially proud of her accomplishment. She explained that he had always expected his children to give their very best, and she had spent her life trying to live up to those expectations. Her nieces, Jackie Rose and Julie Preece, were on hand to watch their aunt’s high-flying achievement. They described Duffy as fiercely independent and determined to show the world that turning 99 hadn’t changed who she was. “I can’t wait until I’m 100 and I can do it again,” the daredevil said. But the adventure wasn’t simply about breaking records or getting a bird’s-eye view of the British countryside. Duffy used her flight to raise money for the Wiltshire and Bath Air Ambulance, a cause with special meaning for her family. Her nieces explained that their mother had been transported on her final journey by an air ambulance. And while most people celebrate major birthdays with cake, candles and perhaps a nice cup of tea, Duffy has certainly raised the bar. Or, more accurately, flown right over it.

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7:30 AM Agudah of Greenspring S Agudath Israel of Baltimore S, T, W, F Ahavat Shalom [Sefaradi] S Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim S-F Bais Hamedrash and Mesivta of Baltimore S-F Bais Medrash of Ranchleigh S Beit Yaakov [Sefaradi] S Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion Congregation S Chabad of Park Heights S Community Kollel Tiferes Moshe Aryeh S-F Darchei Tzedek S Kedushas Yisrael S-F Khal Bais Nosson S Ner Israel Rabbinical College (Mechina) S-F Ohr Hamizrach [Sefaradi] S, T, W, F Shomrei Emunah Congregation T, W, F 7:45 AM Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion Congregation Talmudical Academy Darchei Tzedek Mesivta Kesser Torah Mesivta Shaarei Chaim Yeshivas Torah Simcha (school days only) 7:50 AM Derech Chaim Ner Tamid Ohel Moshe 8:00 AM Agudath Israel of Baltimore Bais Dovid-Bais Medrash of Summit Park Beth Abraham Chabad Israeli Center Darchei Tzedek Khal Ahavas Yisroel/ Tzemach Tzedek Kehillas Meor HaTorah Ohr Yisroel Pikesville Jewish Congregation Shearith Israel Congregation Shomrei Emunah Congregation The Shul at the Lubavitch Center Tiferes Yisroel Tzeirei Anash Yeshiva Tiferes Hatorah

M-F S-F M-F S-F S-F S-F S S M-F S-F S S M-F S S S S S S S-F S S S S-F

8:15 AM Kehilath B'nai Torah S Kol Torah S 8:20 AM Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim S-F Suburban Orthodox Congregation Toras Chaim S-F 8:30 AM Agudath Israel of Baltimore S-F Chabad Israeli Center S Machzikei Torah (Sternhill's) S-F Ohel Moshe S Ohr Hamizrach [Sefaradi] S Shomrei Emunah Congregation S-F Shomrei Mishmeres Hakodesh S 9:00 AM Aish Kodesh S Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim S Beth Tfiloh Congregation S Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion Congregation S Moses Montefiore Anshe Emunah S Shomrei Emunah Congregation S-F Suburban Orthodox Congregation Toras Chaim S-F

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Mincha/Maariv Before Shkiah Aish Kodesh Agudath Israel of Baltimore Agudah of Greenspring Bais Dovid-Bais Medrash of Summit Park Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim Beth Abraham Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion Congregation Darchei Tzedek Derech Chaim Kehillas Meor HaTorah Kehilath B’nai Torah Khal Ahavas Yisroel/ Tzemach Tzedek Machzikei Torah (Sternhill’s), 5:00pm Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah Ner Tamid Ohel Moshe Ohr Hamizrach [Sefaradi] Ohr Yisroel Pikesville Jewish Congregation Shearith Israel Congregation Shomrei Emunah Congregation Shomrei Mishmeres Suburban Orthodox Congregation Toras Chaim The Adas: Chofetz Chaim Adas Bnei Israel The Shul at the Lubavitch Center Tiferes Yisroel

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8:50 PM Mesivta Shaarei Chaim (Etz Chaim Building) 8:55 PM Community Kollel Tiferes Moshe Aryeh 9:00 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore Arugas Habosem Shomrei Emunah Congregation Suburban Orthodox Congregation Toras Chaim

9:15 PM Kehilas Bnei Yeshiva 9:20 PM Kol Torah 9:30 PM Agudah of Greenspring Agudath Israel of Baltimore Kedushas Yisrael

9:40 PM Ahavat Shalom [Sefaradi] 9:45 PM Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim Kollel Erev Birchas Yitzchok (Luries) Kollel of Greenspring Machzikei Torah (Sternhill's) Ohr Hamizrach [Sefaradi] Yeshiva Tiferes Hatorah

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10:00 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore Darchei Tzedek Kehilath B'nai Torah Kehillas Shaarei Avodah Khal Ahavas Yisroel/ Tzemach Tzedek Ohr Yisrael Shearith Israel Congregation Shomrei Emunah Congregation

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10:30 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore 11:00 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore Agudah of Greenspring - 6107 Greenspring Ave Agudath Israel of Baltimore - 6200 Park Heights Ave Ahavat Shalom - 3009 Northbrook Rd Aish Kodesh - 6207 Ivymount Rd Arugas HaBosem - 3509 Clarks Ln Bais Dovid-Bais Medrash of Summit Park- 6800 Sylvale Ct Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim - 3120 Clarks Ln Bais Hamedrash and Mesivta of Baltimore - 6823 Old Pimlico Rd Bais Medrash of Ranchleigh - 6618 Deancroft Rd Beit Yaakov - 3615 Seven Mile Ln Beth Abraham - 6208 Wallis Ave Beth Tfiloh Congregation - 3300 Old Court Rd Bnai Jacob Shaarei Zion Congregation - 6602 Park Heights Ave Chabad Israeli Center - 7807 Seven Mile Ln Chabad of Park Heights - 3402 Clarks Ln Community Kollel Tiferes Moshe Aryeh - 3800 Labyrinth Rd Darchei Tzedek - 3201 Seven Mile Ln Derech Chaim - 6603 Pimlico Road Greenspring Sephardic Synagogue 6611 Greenspring Ave. Kedushas Yisrael - 6004 Park Heights Ave Kehilath B’nai Torah - 6301 Green Meadow Pkwy Kehilas Bnei Yeshiva - 6700 Cross Country Blvd Kehillas Meor HaTorah - 6539 Pebble Brooke Rd Khal Ahavas Yisroel/ Tzemach Tzedek - 6811 Park Heights Ave Khal Bais Nosson - 2901 Taney Rd Kol Torah - 2929 Fallstaff Rd Kollel of Greenspring - 6504 Greenspring Ave. Machzikei Torah - 6216 Biltmore Ave Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah - 6500 Baythorne Rd Mesivta Kesser Torah - 8400 Park Heights Ave Mesivta Shaarei Chaim - 5415 Greenspring Ave Moses Montefiore Anshe Emunah - 7000 Rockland Hills Dr Neuberger, Quinn, Gielen, Rubin & Gibber One South Street, 27th Floor Ner Israel Rabbinical College - 400 Mt Wilson Ln Ner Tamid - 6214 Pimlico Road Ohel Moshe - 2808 Smith Ave Ohel Yakov - 3200 Glen Ave Ohr Hamizrach [Sefaradi] - 6813 Park Heights Ave Ohr Yisroel - 2429 Lightfoot Dr Pikesville Jewish Congregation - 7644 Carla Rd Shearith Israel Congregation - 5835 Park Heights Ave Shomrei Emunah Congregation - 6221 Greenspring Ave Shomrei Mishmeres Hakodesh - 2821 W Strathmore Ave Suburban Orthodox Congregation Toras Chaim - 7504 Seven Mile Ln Talmudical Academy - 4445 Old Court Rd The Adas: Chofetz Chaim Adas Bnei Israel - 5915 Park Heights Ave The Shul at the Lubavitch Center - 6701 Old Pimlico Rd Tiferes Yisroel - 6201 Park Heights Ave Tzeirei Anash - 6706 Cross County Blvd Wealcatch Insurance - 37 Walker Ave 2nd floor Yeshiva Tiferes Hatorah - 6819 Williamson Ave

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Kol Torah Market Maven Reischer Minyan - 23 Walker Ave 2nd Floor 10055 Red Run Blvd Suite 295 2:15 PM Pikesville Beis Medrash - 15 Walker Ave 2:30 PM Bais Medrash of Ranchleigh Community Kollel Tiferes Moshe Aryeh Tov Pizza Mincha Minyan Ner Israel Rabbinical College Mesivta Shaarei Chaim (Community Kollel) Shearith Israel Congregation 2:45 PM Kollel of Greenspring Shearith Israel Congregation (S-Th) 3:00 PM Bais Haknesses Ohr HaChaim Mercaz Torah U'Tefillah 3:05 PM Kedushas Yisrael 3:15 PM Hat Box 3:30 PM Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah 4:00 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore (S-Th) Mercaz Torah U'Tefillah 4:30 PM Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah 5:00 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore (S-F) Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah 5:30 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore (S-Th) Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah 6:00 PM Agudath Israel of Baltimore (S-F) Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah Shearith Israel Congregation (S-Th) 6:30 PM Mercaz Torah U’Tefillah 10 Min Before ShkiAh Chabad Israeli Center 14 Min Before ShkiAh Kol Torah

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nce upon a time there was a city whose inhabitants were wealthy and lived a pampered lifestyle. They were shrewd businessmen who worked and played hard, indulging in drink, dressing impeccably, investing much time and money on their clothing and entertainment. The women not having to work, had much free time on their hands directing their energies in enhancing their beauty. Sound familiar? Well, this is a brief description, no, not of Sodom, but of the town of Mechuza. Mechuza was the home of the illustrious Yeshiva of that extraordinary Amora, Rava, a citizen of Mechuza who was born and bred there and served as their loyal Rabbi till his demise. Rava was loved by the people of his town, and he exerted much effort in inspiring them towards improving their ways. In one famous sermon he revealed to them the secret formula to achieve wealth, which was a much sought after goal among the populace.

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(.‫אוקירו לנשייכו כי היכי דתתעתרו )ב"מ נט‬ — Honor your wives so that you may become rich! He based this sentiment on a teaching of Rav Chelbo who taught that a man must be very careful to honor his wife properly, for blessing is found in his house on her account. He derives this from the verse that refers to the wealth Avraham received from Pharaoh on account of Sarah, in Pharaoh’s quest to take her hand in marriage. ‫ —ולאברם היטיב‬And he treated Avram well, ‫ — בעבורה‬for her sake. (‫)בראשית יב טז‬ The verse emphasizes that it was ‘for her sake’, i.e. because of her, that Avraham was enriched.

pugnant’ Egyptians (see Rashi) it would diminish the value of her splendor to mere relevance in the situation at hand.

they captured, ‫ — את לוט‬Lot, ‫ואת רכשו‬ — and his possessions, ‫ — בן אחי‬the nephew, ‫ — אברם‬of Avram.

Rav Chelbo understands that although it was Pharaoh who physically gave the gifts, by the fact that the verse states merely ‘He’, it is referring to G-d orchestrating the events due to Sarah’s virtue.

Avraham in perhaps the first display in the Torah of an act of selfless ‫חסד‬ — a kindness unique to him — shows appreciation of something that has no significance to himself.

From Rav Chelbo’s statement it would seem to imply that since a man’s success is contingent on the merit of his wife, he should therefore display appreciation to them for this fact.

He therefore emphasizes ‫ידעתי‬, exclaiming, “Oh, how I always knew how beautiful you were”, being sensitive and attuned to that which is treasured and important to his wife.

The wording is strange, inserting after Lot’s name a reference to his possessions before identifying him fully as Avram’s nephew. It should have read ‘they captured Lot — Avram’s nephew — and his possessions.

Rava, however, takes it a step further by indicating that our appreciation of them is the cause for the wealth, ‫‘ — כי היכי‬so that’.

So often we show gratitude and appreciation only for things that impact on us personally. Are we capable of admiring qualities in others that are only significant to them? Can we assess what others value and express admiration for that? Therein lies absolute kindness.

Where is this evident? When did Avraham show an appreciation for Sarah that resulted in this divinely directed gift? Upon descending to Egypt, Avraham remarks, ‫ — הנה נא‬See now, ‫ידעתי‬ — I have known, — ‫ — כי אשה‬a woman, ‫ — יפת מראה‬of beautiful appearance, ‫את‬ — are you. (‫)שם שם יא‬ Rashi is bothered by the contradiction within this sentence. Avraham says initially that first ‘now’ he realizes her beauty, yet in the very same breath he exclaims, ‫ — ידעתי‬I have known, in the past tense. How can one ‘discover’ what one already ‘knew’? Rashi offers the simplest solution: Avraham is explaining that although he knew all along of her beauty, now is the first time it is relevant since he fears the lowly Egyptians will lust after her because of her beauty. The question then begs, so why express this previous knowledge of her beauty now, if that aspect is indeed irrelevant to Avraham personally? Avraham has no value for physical beauty. His love for his wife is not contingent on her attractiveness. Nevertheless, to a woman it is her gift. Were Avraham to draw attention to her beauty only as it contrasts with the ‘re-

Indeed, Avraham appreciated his wife selflessly and was thus a beneficiary of her merit and subsequent gifts. Honor your wives so that you may become rich! But it is even deeper than this. The reason we feel unsatisfied and crave more is perhaps because we never ponder and appreciate what we have. Lot, the ultimate loser, loses all his possessions after parting from Avraham, when he is captured in the battle of the Kings. The wealth he achieved when abiding with Avraham wasn’t enough. He sought ‘greener pastures’ in the fields of Sodom. And look where it got him. If only he had spent a moment appreciating the value of what he already had, he would have remained wealthy beyond his needs. He emulated in action the ‘kindness’ of Avraham, but never fathomed the ultimate quality of appreciation, whether it be in others or in the opportunities that came his way. How else can we explain his casual ‘offer’ of his daughters to the inhabitants of Sodom. It was all about his needs. The Torah in reporting the capture of Lot states: (‫)שם יד יב‬, ‫ — ויקחו‬And

The Arizal informs us that it is worded this way to create an allusion in the ‫ — ראשי תיבות‬the first letters of the words ‫אחי‬-‫בן‬-‫רכשו‬, the name of ‫ רבא‬who was a ‘spark’ of Lot that achieved a ‫ — תיקון‬a rectification of Lot’s soul. Rava exemplified this attribute of being able to value those who didn’t necessarily share ‘his interests’. No wonder he was so beloved to his people. He had ample chances to seek success elsewhere but remained with the miscreants of Mechuza. He understood them and accepted them on their terms and abilities. He sought to teach them the key to self-improvement by encouraging them to honor and appreciate their wives, not only for the things they as husband’s personally benefited from, but to cherish the qualities and interests that were important to their wives. Precisely in a relationship where we take so much for granted and overlook the person closest to us in a cloud of self-serving desires and distractions, lies the opportunity to create a laboratory for self-perfection. If they could conquer that trait, it would help them value what they already have in other areas as well, not needing to pursue new pleasures in an endless cycle of dissatisfaction. Mechuza was the perfect setting for Rava to set right the maddening plight of his forerunner Lot. May we emulate this quality of Avraham Avinu and enrich our life’s experiences.

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Hashem tests Avraham to leave his home to an unknown place. This is Avraham’s first major test: Lech Lecha! There is a famine in the land. Sarai is captured by foreigners and returned. Lot parts from Avraham. Hashem promises Land to Avraham. War between 4 and 5 kings. Avraham rescues Lot. Hashem promises Avraham children. Avraham is circumcised.

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The numerical value of ‫ לך לך‬is 100, which is the amount of brachos we are meant to recite in a single day. At first glance, the two ideas seem to be unrelated. But perhaps we can understand the connection based on the concept of Hakaras Hatov. Reciting 100 brachos every day is meant to instill gratitude. And this is the secret of Lech Lecha. Go to yourself. Look at everything you have. Focus on all the good that Hashem gave you.

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The Torah introduces us to Avraham Avinu by saying, "Hashem spoke to Avram, Lech Lecha." Hashem chose him and singled him out. And by Hashem commanding Avraham, and then Avraham listening to the command, that in and of itself created the everlasting bond between Avraham and Hashem. The awareness and knowledge of Avraham Avinu about Hashem before hand, is beautiful and nice, but it's almost inconsequential when compared to the "meat and potatoes" of a Jews connection to Hashem. The ultimate way in which a Jew bonds and becomes one with Hashem is through carrying out and obeying Hashem's commandments.

The words “Lech Lecha” literally mean: Go to yourself! Rebbe Nosson of Breslov (Hilchos Geneiva, 5) explains that the words “Lech Lecha” are a directive for us to search, travel, and journey in the pursuit of finding our true selves. What is our true selves? It’s the aspect of the soul (neshama) that we have inside us. He writes: ‫כי‬ ‫ – עיקר האדם הוא הנשמה הקדושה שבו‬the primary part of man is the holy soul inside!

Did You Know?! I heard from a rebbe of mine that when Avraham was told to go outside and count the stars, he did exactly that: he began to count the stars, a task that is impossible! Hashem says: ‫– כה יהיה זרעך‬ so will your children be. Your children will be able to do the impossible as well. Our existence is testimony to this promise!

The ultimate goal of Lech Lecha, says the Rebbe, is to reach "the land that I Hashem - will show you," to carry out the will that Hashem will reveal. Through carrying out the mitzvos of Hashem (by following His directives because He commanded us, and not because of how it makes us feel), we will be bonded and become one with Hashem! This is such a fundamental idea and it needs to be said to understand why the Torah begins with Lech Lecha and its discussion of Avraham and chooses to leave out the backstory.

Points to Ponder The first test of Avraham is Lech Lecha. The final test of Avraham is the Akeida, which also contains the phrase Lech Lecha. What is the connection? Why does the Torah use the same terminology for both of these nisyonos?

It’s less important how Avraham Avinu found Hashem, and much more important what he did with that finding.

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y the summer of 2023, weeks from turning 40, Moran Stella Yanai was in what she calls the best place of her life spiritually, mentally, and physically. She had made a habit of setting herself a new challenge every month, and that July’s challenge was the biggest yet. She wrote it into her phone’s calendar in her own words: surrendering to the unknown. Moran bought a one-way ticket to Thailand and went alone, refusing to plan the trip in advance, trusting that whatever she needed would find her. It did. A woman she met along the way saw the jewelry Moran had started designing and offered to introduce her to what she called the Nova family, calling it the best opportunity she could give her. On her very last night in Thailand, Moran fell into a six-hour conversation with a

stranger who, without her realizing it at first, traced every tool she had picked up through Buddhism back to its roots in the Torah and the Kabbalah. She flew home enlightened, she says, and went straight to work preparing jewelry for a festival she had never attended before. Still, something felt off in the days leading up to Nova Festival. She had never worked a weekend before, and everything about the plan felt unfamiliar. Months later, watching newly surfaced footage from the night before the October 7 massacre, she noticed herself in the crowd: while everyone around her danced freely, her body stayed closed, her eyes darting to check behind her, again and again, for reasons she could not have explained at the time. *

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Something about that night felt wrong from the start, though she could not explain why. Her merchandise table, usually crowded, sat untouched. Expecting a busy night, she had brought along a friend to help her sell, but when almost no one came to the table, she sent that friend to sleep and stayed up alone, drinking tea and glancing over her shoulder repeatedly. At one point, an elderly woman known at festivals for handing out handwritten notes pressed a folded paper into her hand. It read, “There is logic in the craziness.” Only near dawn, watching the sunrise, did Moran finally let herself relax, telling herself to be grateful for the moment. Then she saw two rockets streak across the sky, and everything after that, she says, went down from there. What followed was chaos, then flight, then capture. In the first minutes of running, a heavy fence toppled across her leg, injuring it badly enough that she would limp through everything that followed, though at the time she barely registered the pain and kept moving. Moran and her friend ran for hours, sheltering with a small group of strangers beneath a tree in an open field. Twice, in those early hours, different groups of terrorists caught her and let her go again, for reasons she still cannot explain. Believing she had been abandoned in the middle of nowhere, she screamed, and the wrong group heard her. She does not dwell in detail on what was done to her in the hours that followed, injuries to her legs, her jewelry

stripped from her, blows she absorbed the whole way. In the process, one of the men accidentally left a mark on her hand shaped like the Hebrew letter hey, the first letter of one of Hashem’s names, a scar she still carries. What she remembers most, though, is the moment she stopped resisting. “You just took a journey,” she told herself. “Something is protecting you. I will be safe and sound.” She repeated those words to herself like a mantra, over and over, as she was taken toward Gaza. *

Packed into a car with ten men, Moran closed her eyes and told herself she must be dreaming. The terrorist beside her, delighted, forced them back open so she would not miss the sight: the entrance to Gaza, and beyond it, thousands of people in the streets, celebrating, shouting in Arabic that G-d is great. Having served in the army years earlier, she understood, in that moment, exactly what a cheering crowd like that could mean for a hostage handed over to it. Her prayer changed in that instant, from a request to survive into a single, specific plea, repeated over and over in her head: just one hit to the head, hard enough that she would not feel whatever came after. The car eventually stopped in the middle of the crowd, and someone reached in to pull her out by the leg. She had long nails still, and nothing left to

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lose, so she dug them into the man holding her. He screamed, someone shouted for the door to be shut, and someone else drove on instead of handing her over. She was, by chance or by something she still calls a miracle, spared what was waiting outside that car door, and taken instead to a hospital, the first stop in what would become fifty-four days of captivity. There, thrown onto an iron bed in a small room crowded with men who pushed one another aside to see what had been brought in, she was stripped of her shoes, her pockets, the jewelry still left in her ears. When guards finally set her injured leg in a cast, she read it as a kind of proof: no one puts a cast on a leg on a body they intend to kill soon after. She counts that moment as the first of many miracles she tracked that day, evidence, in her own telling, that something larger was watching over her. Later, trying to describe how unreal it all felt, she would say that even movie directors Hitchcock and Tarantino together could not have directed a scene like it. At the first house in Gaza, an interrogator pulled at the green cargo pants and boots Moran she had worn to the festival, convinced they marked her as a soldier, and demanded to know where she served. Moran tried to explain that the outfit was simply fashion, showing him the label on the pants and begging him to send for her shoes from the hospital to prove the same. He laughed in her face, unconvinced, and gave her a nickname instead: “Zara, fashion,” after the clothing brand, a name that stuck for the rest of her captivity even though he never believed the explanation behind it. In the strangeness of those first hours, one thing did not fit the cruelty around it: an interrogator leaned in close, smiling, and told her, “G-d loves you.” She never learned why he said it, only that it was one of several such moments in captivity she still finds hard to explain to anyone who was not there. Hours later, guards brought a second hostage into the room, a teenage girl, barefoot, in pajamas, with bright hair,

bright eyes, bright skin, unmistakably not Arab. Moran was not permitted to speak to her at first, and it took three days before she was allowed even one sentence, granted only after she asked twice. “If you’re here,” she finally told her, “you have all the tools to deal with this, and you must believe.” Protecting someone else, Moran says, gave her a reason to hold herself together that she might not have found for herself alone. She thought of it later the way flight attendants describe an oxygen mask: secure your own first, so you have something left to give. Bearing the punishments and the abuse that followed, she says, was something she could do for the younger girl beside her in a way she is not sure she could have managed for herself alone. *

Faith carried her through the fifty-four days that followed. With no calendar and no clock, she tracked the week by darkness alone, knowing that when night fell one day it meant Friday, and she would mark it by moving her hands through the motions of lighting Shabbat candles, the one prayer she knew by heart. Most mornings she built her own small wakening ceremony from scratch, thanking G-d for waking up, for the night’s sleep, for whatever the day already looked like, then asking from Him for whatever she needed most: justice, food, faith, strength, one day at a time. Most days, she says, were anxiety and gratitude at once. On the hardest ones, she let herself be angry at G-d without losing her belief in Him. “Today, I still believe in You,” Moran remembers telling Him, “but today, I’m angry, and I’m going to ask You why.” She looked for proof that she was being protected and found it in small things: a gun raised at her that was never fired, a fall that should have broken more than it did. One day, after being punished, she noticed a mark on the wall above her in the same shape as the hey scarred into her hand, that same

first letter of G-d’s name, and found herself smiling in the middle of her own pain, confusing the guard enough that he stopped. She quietly asked the younger hostage beside her if she saw it, too. She did. It was not, Moran says, a story she tells often, because it is hard for anyone outside that room to understand it as anything but strange. Inside it, she says, it was the opposite: proof she held onto that she was not alone and not losing her mind. Her captors, Moran says, were not sophisticated so much as ignorant, and that unpredictability frightened her more than open cruelty would have. She tried, daily, to reason with them, but whenever a conversation reached a point they could not answer, they would fall back on a single word, “occupation,” and she knew there was nowhere left to take it. One guard grew convinced, for a stretch of days, that an earring she wore was some kind of hidden radio device connecting her to the Israeli army and confiscated it. Another interrogator, who Moran says looked and sounded uncannily like an actor from an old Israeli film, listened to her account of coming to the festival as a jewelry vendor, nodded along as though he believed her, then flatly told her she was lying. He built an entire story around her instead: that she had come into Gaza on her own, on a secret mission, and had thrown away her rank insignia and her weapon before they found her. There was no version of the truth she could offer that competed with it. She was moved between five different houses and, by her count, eleven locations in total, never permitted to know where she was going or what was coming next. That cast on her leg became an anchor for her early on: she decided that no one would bother with that kind of effort if they meant to kill her soon, so she resolved to stay alert and remember everything she could. Still, she found ways to protect what little control she had. On her first day, she made herself a kind of contract: whatever food she was given, she would

eat, and whatever she was given, she would not give away, even though her instinct, after years as an animal rights volunteer, was always to hand her portion to someone else first. She had to relearn that instinct on purpose. She made peace in advance with foods she would normally never touch, telling herself she would find a way to manage even meat, which she avoids on principle, if it came to that. When it came to sharing a single bucket of water among three hostages to wash with, she let another go first once, then insisted on her turn after that, treating even something so small as a negotiation worth having, one more place to draw a line for herself. Moran also credits a kind of preparation she cannot fully explain. Two days before the festival, on a video call with her emotional trainer, she found herself unable to shake a recurring dream: someone coming to attack her, and her own leg refusing to move to defend herself. In the same conversation, unprompted, she brought up a documentary she had just watched about the Holocaust and asked her trainer a question that startled them both: could something like that happen again, with ordinary people turning violent in the streets. Her friends later told her she had seemed like a different person that entire week, unreachable, on edge. Another friend, also spiritually inclined, described a dream of standing at a large window watching square houses burn all around. Months later, describing that same dream to a fellow hostage who came from Be’eri, Moran was told it matched, almost exactly, the layout of that woman’s own kibbutz. “I got so many warnings not to go,” Moran says, and only in captivity did she come to see them as preparation rather than premonition, evidence, in her telling, that she had been given what she needed to survive before she ever needed it. *

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lieve them, and she was right not to. At the exchange point, a terrorist pulled her back by the shirt. “Not you,” he told her. “Not now.” The two other hostages with her were released that day. She was not. It took several more false promises, she says, before she finally boarded a Red Cross vehicle on day fifty-four, and even then, she braced herself for someone to change their mind and take her back. When she was finally freed and reunited with her mother, the moment matched, almost exactly, an image she had pictured over and over during captivity: her mother in a blue shirt, dancing, though she never dances, smiling, and hugging her with both arms instead of the one arm she usually offered. “I felt like my victory was so big,” Moran explains, “because I also won against myself.” Their relationship, she says, had not always been close before October 7. It is now. *

Moran speaks openly today about forgiveness, though she is careful to draw a hard line against comparing her experience to the Holocaust, calling that history distinct and its scale incomparable to anything she endured. She points instead to survivors of that history she admires, people who found their own paths to reconciliation decades later and describes a private vision of her own version of that reckoning: sitting someday with her husband and children in a room across from the men who once held her, thanking them, she says, for the strength she found because of what she survived. In the early days after her release, Moran struggled with survivor’s guilt, scolding friends and family for leaving

water bottles unfinished or letting food go to waste, unable to explain why it mattered so much to her. She has come to understand the reaction as something close to what Holocaust survivors describe. When she watches footage of the hostages who came home after her, she says, she does not see what everyone else sees. She wonders whether they have socks, whether their clothes have been changed, whether they are cold – ordinary comforts most people never think to notice until they are taken from you. She often points to a 101-year-old Holocaust survivor who attends her lectures, a man she says radiates the kind of peace that only comes from having made peace with everything. During one talk, she watched him doze off during the hopeful opening and wake again just as she reached a more hopeful close, sleeping straight through the hardest parts. She has taken it as a kind of blessing to aim for herself. Asked what she would tell the people who prayed for her, she did not hesitate. She spoke of the thousands who filled the streets of Israel the night she came home, holding flags, waiting for her, a welcome she says filled her in a way she had never expected. “I can’t do it without you,” she tells audiences now, wherever she speaks. Her message is simple: change starts with each person choosing, in ordinary moments as much as in crisis, to be the kind of people worth coming home to. She thinks often about what freedom means now, especially around the holiday of Pesach. Her own advice, for the good times as much as the hard ones, is simple: let go of the small arguments, over seating, over who brought what, and hold onto what actually matters.

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think I have to figure out how to take care of a pet snake.

I didn’t ask for this snake. No one asks for a snake. It’s the kind of thing that just happens. For some reason, kids can’t find an animal somewhere and then just go inside and say, “Hey, we saw an animal.” It all started when my son Daniel walked into the kitchen with a tiny brown snake that he’d found mowing the lawn on Erev Rosh Hashanah. (To be clear, the snake wasn’t mowing the lawn.) And instead of deciding to mow the snake down, like a normal person, he picked it up and brought it into our kitchen. With his bare hands. And someone asked, “Aren’t you afraid that it’s going to bite you?” And he said, “It’s a baby. Babies don’t bite.” And my wife said, “Yes they do.” And my son instantly dropped the snake. Then we had to chase it around the kitchen floor for a bit before it could figure out how warm and safe and well-fed it would be if it lived under our stove. And I’d have to stop cooking barefoot, which was never a great idea in the first place. So apparently, lesson one that we got in taking care of snakes is that snakes move very fast when you’re trying to grab them. Especially since you’re not only trying to grab them, but you’re also trying to make sure they don’t grab you. Lesson two was that the safest place to hold a snake so that it won’t bite you is as close to the head as possible. That’s a fun spot to grab for in a rush. So far, we have no real idea what kind of snake it is. We assume it’s a garter snake. We also assume it’s not poisonous, because I don’t think there are any poisonous snakes native to New Jersey. We never hear on the news that someone got bitten by a poisonous snake, although that just might mean it’s so common that the papers don’t care anymore.

We also don’t think that this is the kind of snake that can wrap around you and asphyxiate you, mostly because it’s maybe six inches long. At best, it can cut off circulation to your finger. My son Heshy is really excited about all this. Daniel has been kind of done with it ever since he found out baby snakes bite. But a bunch of Heshy’s friends have lizards, and he’s been asking for some kind of reptile for a while now, and I didn’t want to say no to this reptile that he found for free, because I’m the one who accidentally killed both of his goldfish that if not for me would have died of starvation about a year earlier than they did. Also, I find that sometimes, as a parent, instead of being the bad guy with these things, the idea is to just take the pet in until it dies, and then put it on the kids. “No, I will not get you another reptile. Not after what happened with the snake.” So we brought it in. But the main reason my wife I didn’t want to allow it in was that every time my kids find a pet, it’s generally our job to look up how to feed it. We don’t have time for this on Erev Yom Tov; we have to figure out how to feed us. Can the snake wait a few days? And it’s not just food with this thing. We also have to figure out how to store it in some kind of container that has holes for it to breathe, but not big enough holes for it to slither out. That is a very small margin there, considering how tiny this snake is. So right now we’re keeping it in a drawer. Not an actual drawer. A semi-opaque drawer that we’d kept when the nightstand it was a part of fell apart. The kids lined the bottom of the drawer with dirt and branches, a bowl of water, a toilet paper tube, a small length of pipe, and for some reason two plastic forks. And on top of the drawer, we have

an old window screen that is significantly larger than the drawer. We’re pretty sure the snake can’t lift the screen, unless it figures out how to prop up the forks. And anyway, it basically always hangs out in the pipe. We think. To be honest, I spend a lot of time these days worrying about where the snake is. See, that’s a huge difference between owning snakes and owning fish. With fish, every time you glance over at the bowl, you see the fish. With the snake, we spend a lot of time hunched over the drawer and trying to figure out where it is, usually in a slight panic. This thing lives on the dirt, and sometimes under the dirt, and it’s the same color as everything in its habitat except the fork. So we often find ourselves taking off the screen and raking at the dirt with the fork to make sure the snake is still in there. Maybe that’s its strategy. Because that’s the other thing about fish. Even if you momentarily don’t see your fish, you’re not suddenly afraid that the fish are going to escape their bowl and come after you. Also, the snake would just slither up quietly behind you. You wouldn’t even hear it coming. Whereas with the fish, you’d first hear a “Flop… Flop… Flop...” coming toward you. But for now, we’re doing pretty well, in that so far, it’s only escaped once. That we know of. And through all of yom tov, I still haven’t gotten a chance to look up how to take care of this thing. I have to keep checking if we still have it. Mordechai Schmutter is a freelance writer and a humor columnist for Hamodia and other magazines. He has also published eight books anddoesstand-upcomedy.Youcancontacthimat MSchmutter@gmail.com.

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“How Special Are These Yeshiva Bachurim!” By Rabbi Shraga Freedman

he following story was submitted to the Flatbush Jewish Journal as a letter to the editor and is shared with permission. From our “Inbox” I wanted to share something special I saw on an MTA bus in Brooklyn the other evening, Wed. eve, Feb. 7. After getting onto the B68 bus going south on Coney Island Ave., I noticed a yeshiva boy smiling

graciously at a seated passenger for whom he had apparently just given up his own seat. A few other yeshiva boys of similar age were sitting together in other seats nearby. The young men were kind and intelligent, speaking softly and nicely to each other. I couldn’t help but ask one of them which yeshiva they were from; he replied, Torah Vodaath, 9th grade. At the next stop a few new passengers got on, one older, but mostly middle-aged - no one looking very old or having a difficult time - yet every single

bochur stood up at once and gave their seats to the newcomers. More passengers left, seats emptied again, and a couple of the bochurim sat down again-- that is, only until they saw that I (an older/ middle-aged lady but B”H not having a difficult time) gave my seat to a young lady with special needs, at which point the few sitting jumped up yet again - ‘Here is a seat, here, take this seat...’ You can imagine the beautiful impression made on all of the commuters of the bus, who now may likely associate young men in black suits, white shirts and black hats with those who jump up to give their seats to other commuters who might need them; a Kiddush Hashem was made. How fortunate for all of us that these special bochurim are part of our present and future Klal Yisroel. For me? I thought,

Ashreichem, how fortunate I am to be a part of this nation. A. Greenberg Brooklyn, NY Rabbi Shraga Freedman is the author of Sefer Mekadshei Shemecha, Living Kiddush Hashem, and A Life Worth Living. Email LivingKiddushHashem@ gmail.com for a free sefer. Visit LivingKiddushHashem.org for more resources Living Kiddush Hashem was founded with the goal of imbuing every Jew with a powerful sense of mission — the mission to be mekadeish Sheim Shamayim in his or her own unique way. We strive to accomplish this by raising awareness of the paramount importance of the mitzvah of Kiddush Hashem and its centrality in everything we do.

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Statue of Liberty Gripes “I’ve been holding my arm up for 140

“They keep telling me to look toward the

years. At this point, even the teacher

horizon. I’ve been staring at Staten Island

should realize I know the answer.”

for 140 years. Trust me, I’ve seen enough.”

“They call me the

“Everyone keeps asking

Statue of Liberty, but

how I stay so fit. Try

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off since Grover

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president.” “I haven’t changed my “Four million visitors

outfit since 1886. Even

a year, and not one

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to hold the torch

wardrobe.”

while I use the bathroom.”

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me! I’m 151 feet tall, green, and holding a “I came here with a beautiful copper

giant torch. My dating options are

complexion and now I look like an

somewhat limited.”

average moldy green New Yorker.” “Give me your tired, your poor, your “I’ve been carrying the same tablet since

huddled masses yearning to breathe free.

1886. You’d think by now someone would

But for heaven’s sake, could somebody

have gotten me an iPad.”

give me a chair?”

140 - Age of the Statue of Liberty on October 28

4.6 feet - Length of her nose

300 pieces in 214 crates - How the Statue of Liberty arrived in New York, in June of 1885

25 feet - Length of her sandal (equal to U.S. women’s shoe size: 879)

305 feet and 1 inch - Feet and inches the statue measures from the ground to tip of torch (in 1886, it was the tallest structure in New York)

42 feet - Length of Lady Liberty’s right arm

450,000 pounds - Weight of the Statue of Liberty

6 inches - Distance the torch sways due to the wind

4 million - Amount of people that visit Lady Liberty every year

162 - Amount of steps from the pedestal to the crown of the Statue of Liberty

1916 - Year the torch was closed for good

35 feet - The waistline of Lady Liberty (which was my waistline right after Sukkos as well)

30 minutes - Approximate amount of time it takes to climb the 377 steps to get from the ground to the crown of the Statue of Liberty

8 feet - Length of Lady Liberty’s index finger

240 - Visitors permitted to the crown per day

The American and Russian look at

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each other and ask him, “How do you

An American, an Englishman and a Russian are on

The Englishman states, “I have put

a plane flying around. Suddenly, the American puts his hand outside and exclaims: “Wonderful – the Land of the Free below us.” ask, “How do you possibly know?” The American says, “I’ve put my hand outside and was able to touch the Statue of Liberty, hence we’re above the U.S.” After flying for a while, the Englishman puts his hand outside and states, “Great – we are above Great Britain now.”

know?” my hand out the window, and I could touch the Big Ben. So I know we are above Great Britain.” The American and Russian are impressed. Again, they fly around for a while and suddenly, the Russian puts out his hand and yells: “Aaah, Mother Russia...” The American and Englishman ask him, “How could you know?” The Russian looks at them seriously and says, “My watch was stolen...”

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1903 - The year Emma Lazarus’ poem, “The New Colossus” – “Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free…” – was inscribed on a bronze tablet laid in the Statue’s pedestal

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Notable Quotes “Say What?!”

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Unless you live in Vegas, you’ve come a long way to spend some time with Metallica. We’re grateful for that — your travels, the money you spend, the time it took, thanks for coming to celebrate with us. I just gotta say, Metallica is not here, like some other entertainers, to influence you with their [garbage]. - Metallica’s James Hetfield at a concert in Las Vegas

As part of a final push before the midterm elections, Barack Obama is campaigning with El-Sayed in Detroit. It’s all part of a larger operations called “Dodge Michelle.” - Greg Gutfeld

Demonstrators expressed concern about the cost of living and the price of fuel. Both are driven by the conflict launched in the Persian Gulf, a conflict in which France has taken no part but whose consequences we are suffering.

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- French Pres. Macron trying to blame the U.S. for mass riots in his country being fueled by Muslim migrants and radical leftists

I said the first time I met Macron, I said, “You got to close up your borders. You’re going to ruin your country.” And they’ve ruined their country. - Pres. Trump addressing the Paris riots

In amazing footage, Tesla demonstrated a new Roadsters that uses rocket thrusters to launch off a ramp, flip over another car and land safely. Or, as Tiger Woods calls it, going for milk. - Greg Gutfeld

- Veteran Democratic strategist James Carville talking about his Trump Derangement Syndrome

We can’t think of anything else, you understand that? If you were in the middle of World War II or the Civil War or the bubonic plague, what … else you gonna think about?! Nothin’! … I’m obsessed with it. I can’t sleep at night. I got a disease, I like the disease.

Listen, I’ve been wanting to get involved in this. I went to [the University of] Michigan, my sister went to Michigan, so we have Michigan ties. This guy makes me puke. Everything about him makes me puke. - Barstool Sports founder David Portnoy talking about Michigan’s Democrat senate candidate Abdul El-Sayed, on Fox News

His entire attitude, when you ask him about his terrorist ties, his family ties — whether it’s his mother, his sister-in-law, his sister. I mean, it’s his whole family. And then he campaigned, obviously, with Hasan Piker, who said Americans deserve 9/11 and al-Qaeda is better than the United States. And when you ask him about this, he’s like, “What are you doing? How do you ever ask me this question?” - ibid.

- ibid.

This guy has 10,000 red flags and seems to be insulted when you ask him directly, “Why did you campaign with Hasan Piker?”

Sen. Schumer, I had a good relationship with him over the years. I thought he was a good man. But in recent years, I felt he’s just trying to keep his job. And, you know, that’s the really low point for politicians, when they’ll compromise on their values. - Bill Ackman on the “The Katie Miller Podcast”

And they’ll support, you know, a quasi-terrorist perhaps running for Senate in Michigan because they have to for the party. Stuff like that to me is – a terrorist supporter – I find that pretty, deeply concerning.

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I got it, and I want it, and I want it to get worse. If I could take a pill that would help me hate [Trump] more and obsess on him more, I would take that pill.

- ibid.

My plans right now are to run for reelection. But as I’ve said before, if I don’t think I can be effective in the Senate anymore, I would consider it. You know, what’s the old Judds song, “Why not me on a rainy day? Why not me to love your blues away?” But I haven’t made a decision. If a bunch of on my side of the aisle, if a bunch of goobers run, and I think they’re goobers and one of the goobers might win, and I think I could do a better job, I would consider running. But right now, I’m running for reelection. - Sen. John Kennedy (R-LA) on NBC’s “Meet the Press” when asked if he plans on running for president

- Boxer Jake Paul, at a Trump rally, addressing the socialists taking over the Democrat Party

Do I enjoy politics? No. Do I know what I’m doing? No. But am I qualified? Also no. - One of the catchy campaign slogans used by Brady Rogers, 33, who ran for city council in British Columbia and put up signs such as, “I barely want to do this” (Yes, of course, he won the election!)

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We face evil. We face these people who are willing to do anything to destroy us. All they do is talk on Twitter. But Twitter fingers never built the country.

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If you want to know why America is polarized, it’s the fault of the media. Yesterday, the Free Beacon, a conservative outlet, caught Abdul Sayed in a lie when Abdul denied his family had a connection to the Muslim Brotherhood. The FB showed a tweet by his own sister saying their mother belonged to the MB. The revelation that Abdul lied about his family ties to a radical Islamic terrorist group was ignored by NBC, ABC, CBS’s nightly news shows. The NYT and WP haven’t covered it. This should be a screaming front page story. Instead, the MSM runs cover for Abdul. The American people just want to know the truth about their politicians. Instead, the media are helping Abdul cover up the truth. Abdul has a lot to hide. It’s a tragedy the MSM is part of the team helping him hide it. - Ari Fleischer

I can’t wait until I’m 100, and I can do it again – I’ll beat you again!

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- Helga Duffy, who celebrated her 99th birthday this week by going wing walking (strapped standing up on the wing of a flying plane), winning the Guinness World Record for oldest wing walker and taking the title from fellow Brit Betty Bromage, 97, who earned it several months ago

I’m just not frightened. I thought that was brilliant. Something I’ve never done before. Enjoy life whatever it brings. And never say I can’t do it. You will only know once you’ve done it, and you usually can do it. – ibid., explaining that she was inspired by watching a news segment about Bromage’s wing walking several months ago

Fabulous! Peculiar sensation, especially when it tipped. That was something I’ve never experienced before. – ibid., when asked how it was

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Dating Dialogue

What Would You Do If… Moderated by Jennifer Mann, LCSW of The Navidaters

Dear Navidaters,

Dear Navidaters, My husband and I love reading your column. We have a question for the panelists.

We recently thought of an excellent shidduch for our neighbor’s daughter. The boy is the son of a family who davens at our shul. We went through the steps of getting his resume, asked what he was looking for, etc. Everything looked great for our neighbor’s daughter, Shira. The family said they would look into it, but it has been weeks since we sent the resume. I followed up but the mother of the boy sounded distracted, almost uninterested to respond. We think they aren’t taking us seriously because we are not official shadchanim. This girl is literally everything their son is looking for!

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How can we get them to take us seriously despite us not being seasoned/official shadchanim? What is the appropriate line between being efficient and not too nudgy? Thanks! Sheryl & Benjamin*

Disclaimer: This column is not intended to diagnose or otherwise conclude resolutions to any questions. Our intention is not to offer any definitive conclusions to any particular question, rather offer areas of exploration for the author and reader. Due to the nature of the column receiving only a short snapshot of an issue, without the benefit of an actual discussion, the panel’s role is to offer a range of possibilities. We hope to open up meaningful dialogue and individual exploration.

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The Panel

Dear Readers, We want to offer YOU an opportunity to be part of the discussion! Please email us at MichelleMondShadchan@gmail.com, subject line “reader’s response,” if you would like to participate in the new “A Reader’s Response” columnist spot. We will send you a question and publish your answer in an upcoming Navidaters edition. If you have a question you would like the Navidaters to answer, please reach out to this email as well. Looking forward! Michelle, the “Shadchan”

The Rebbetzin Rebbetzin Faigie Horowitz, M.S.

ear Sheryl and Benjamin, Please do not doubt yourselves. A suggestion from someone who knows both parties is always preferable. People can trust the one who is suggesting that the couple go out. They know them fairly well, usually, and in your case, definitely. A recent study shows that a very sizable proportion of matches in our community come through friends and neighbors and family rather than official shadchanim. Also keep in mind that professional shadchanim are overwhelmed and frequently do not know the parties involved well at all. So it is definitely not a matter of your not being a professional shadchan. Please continue to suggest matches as they come to mind. Do not be affronted by the fact that your suggestion is not being taken up. You don’t know what connection these people have with the family of the person you are suggesting. You also don’t know what is being put on the table. In other words, people do shop around and go for something that is most interesting and intriguing to them at the moment. All things being said, you still can remind your neighbor that you had a good idea that bears looking into. After about three months, you can say, “I’m going to remind you about this shidduch one of these days.” I think three months

is a decent interval. Once you are more confident about suggesting shidduchim, you will not take lack of action so personally. Keep at it! Our community needs more concerned adults suggesting matches.

The Shadchan Michelle Mond

hank you so much for writing in! I want to applaud the two of you for taking on the job of setting others up. The truth is, if more people did what you are doing, there would be more marriages in our community! Shidduchim should not be limited to “official” shadchanim. In fact, when I started setting people up after I got married, I was not an “official” shadchan either! I was just a regular person thinking of ideas for others. Someone only becomes “official” once they become successful and their name starts floating around. I’m going to admit something I don’t think I’ve admitted on these pages before. I hated it when people started calling me a shadchan because I personally felt there was such a negative connotation associated with the term, based on my own personal experiences. However, it became inevitable as I was making dozens of shidduchim and people started calling to meet me as “a shadchan.” My point is, you are doing the right thing! You are thinking of ideas and following up. There is a plethora of rea-

sons why this boy’s family may not be responsive. Maybe he is busy dating someone right now, and they don’t want to mention it. Or perhaps this boy is the type who has a bunch of resumes, and his mother is completely overwhelmed with ideas. Be in touch with this boy’s parents every couple of weeks, reminding them of the idea you have. Also, communicate directly, mentioning that if they feel it is not a good fit, or if he is currently busy, they can be honest with you. Let them know you would really appreciate an answer either way. I have one story I will relay on this topic. I had a truly perfect shidduch idea for the single daughter of Chabad shluchim in a remote town in Florida that we had visited. The boy I had in mind was an incredible guy, the son of wonderful Chabad shluchim in a remote town in Pennsylvania. Over the course of about six months, I followed up with this girl’s mother. I got the same reaction you are getting: total indifference, sometimes complete unresponsiveness, and almost disinterest. I could have easily been turned off and stopped trying. After all, I was the one doing them a favor, so why was I being snubbed?! However, I kept on trying. One day, months later, the mother actually listened, gave my idea the time of day, and the shidduch, B”H, progressed nicely. Ironically, the girl was ready way before the boy, and the mother then became an eager daily phone buddy as we spoke about being patient and giving things time to progress. They are now married with four kids, ka”h, and very happy! Before the wedding, the mother confided in me that, generally, Chabad people only trust or use Chabad shadchanim, which was why she hadn’t taken my idea seriously. She didn’t think I could possibly understand her world or what her daughter was looking for. She shared that after a particularly hard day, she received yet another text from me, which she took as a sign that she should finally look into the idea. She told me she wanted me to know just how grateful she was that I had been so persistent!

A shidduch can come from anywhere.

The moral of the story is: when you have a great shidduch idea, do not give up! Another crucial lesson for our readers is that when someone, even someone seemingly random, sends you an idea, LISTEN TO IT! A shidduch can come from anywhere. Just because an idea is not coming from the most familiar source does not mean it should be dismissed. May you have much hatzlacha, and please keep us posted on the outcome!

The Zaidy Dr. Jeffrey Galler

his is a very useful and practical question. I have a few thoughts to share with you. First: We need more folks like you What you are trying to accomplish is wonderful. With everyone complaining about the “shidduch crisis,” it’s refreshing to hear from people who are actually trying to do something about it. Of course, despite your efforts, you are now feeling frustrated. I discussed your frustration with an actual, professional, successful shadchan. She remarked, “Welcome to the life of a shadchan! You put so much thought and effort into an idea behind the scenes, make a really thoughtful suggestion, and then basically get ignored or dismissed. It’s not always the ideas that have been so carefully thought through and researched that end up going anywhere.” Second: Why are they not responding? Their lack of enthusiasm probably has nothing to do with the fact that you are not professional shadchanim.

Reader’s Response Leo Your Friendly, Local Contributor

t can be so frustrating to put time, effort, and heart into making a match, only to feel like your suggestion is being brushed aside.

The first step in this situation would be to figure out why they haven’t responded. If it is truly the case that this is an amazing match but they aren’t taking you seriously because they have a lot on their plates and are putting you on the backburner—or disregarding you merely because you aren’t official shadchanim, then it may be helpful to find a different way to suggest the match. However, I would say to first find out if there is another reason why they may not want this match for their daughter and perhaps they pushed off responding to you because they feel bad outright declining. If you are close with your neighbors, it is worthwhile to ask them questions to get a feel for whether this is the case. If there is a personal reason why they feel that particular boy is not a match, you don’t have to pry further; that will give you a clear answer so you can move on without feeling like you’re constantly nagging them. On the other hand, if you find out that the first scenario is what appears to be going on—that they were simply busy with work and life and put your suggestion at the bottom of their long to-do list or that they aren’t taking you seriously due to your lack of official

You have done a great mitzvah by opening the door for two wonderful singles, but you cannot push two people through it.

shadchan status—you may want to try another avenue. If you think they would take a professional shadchan more seriously, you could try reaching out to one so that the match becomes “official.” If that is a viable option, it is definitely worth a shot! But remember, your job is simply to be the messenger. Once you’ve done what you can and passed along the idea responsibly, the final outcome is in Hashem’s hands, and you can rest easy knowing you tried your best to do a wonderful mitzvah.

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singles, but you cannot push two people through it. Professional shadchanim, and professional real estate agents, all understand that their most enthusiastic, well-thought out, and perfectly planned attempts often wind up with no sale. One final thought: Please don’t allow this disappointing experience to discourage you from continuing your efforts to help singles find each other. Our community desperately needs more thoughtful, caring people who are willing to take the initiative. And remember, you don’t have to be a professional shadchan to make a wonderful shidduch. You just have to care enough to try.

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Perhaps they just don’t wish to share their reasons for not accepting your suggestion. By not responding, they could simply be telling you, “No, thank you,” but are uncomfortable giving you an outright rejection. Perhaps their son is currently seeing someone else, but they want to keep your suggestion in reserve until they see how things work out. Or, if you read last week’s newspaper, you would understand that perhaps Shira’s father wears a hat with the wrong brim width. (Just kidding!) Third: What should you do now? You might wish to try one more time, by saying something like, “Hi! Just checking in about the suggestion we sent you a few weeks ago. Whatever you decide is perfectly fine, but we’d appreciate knowing whether there’s any interest, so we can give Shira’s family an answer.” And that’s it. If they still don’t respond, consider it a polite “no, thank you.” And, of course, let Shira’s family know that the boy’s family has not responded to your overtures. You have done a great mitzvah by opening the door for two wonderful

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ear Sheryl and Benjamin, I think there’s something really lovely about seeing a potential shidduch and taking the initiative to explore it. You don’t have to be an official shadchan to have a good eye or to make a thoughtful suggestion. Sometimes, the best shidduchim come from people who

know a family and genuinely want to help. That said, even when we see a match so clearly, we have to remember that we’re seeing it from the outside. We may know why we think two people could be right for each other, but we don’t know

wonderful suggestion without needing to make it happen. You offered Shira a possibility she might not otherwise have had, and that’s meaningful in and of itself. Sometimes our part in a shidduch is simply to see a possibility and help bring it to someone’s attention. What happens next belongs to the people whose lives are involved. Sincerely, Jennifer

Jennifer Mann, LCSW, is a therapist and certified life coach in private practice in Cedarhurst, NY and via telehealth. She works with individuals, couples, and families, and is a part-time school social worker at Bnos Malka Academy. Her work centers on anxiety, relationships, life transitions, and narcissistic abuse. She integrates attachment-based therapy, cognitive behavioral approaches, and relational work, grounded in the belief that healing and growth emerge through honest, attuned, and meaningful human connection. To set up a consultation or to ask questions, please call 718-908-0512.

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everything the other family is considering or where they are in the process. I would follow up once more, warmly and simply, and let them know you’re happy to share any additional information. If they don’t respond with much interest, I would let it rest. You’ve made the introduction, and the next step is theirs. It can be disappointing when we put thought and effort into something and the other person doesn’t seem to share our enthusiasm. But you can make a

Mental Health Corner

Stressed Out From Excitement By Rabbi Azriel Hauptman Life is an unpredictable rollercoaster ride, with twists and turns that can leave you feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Generally, it’s the downs that tend to hit the hardest, leaving you feeling drained and helpless. However, the ups of life, while they may seem like a break from the chaos, can also carry a hidden burden of stress. It is important to take a closer

look at the mechanism of excitement and recognize that even the happiest moments can have an undercurrent of anxiety and tension that we must learn to manage. Before we take a deep dive into the underbelly of excitement and joy, we must ask ourselves a critical and fundamental question. Why did Hashem create this feel-

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ing that grips us so intensely? Is it merely a product of our pleasure-seeking nature, or does it serve a crucial function in our lives? The answer to this question is extremely counterintuitive. Excitement is not just a mere thrill of joy, but an activation of our primal fight-or-flight response. This explanation seems flawed, as it is incongruent with the fundamental purpose of the fight-or-flight response, which is to confront or escape from a danger to our well-being. It is baffling why such a response would be triggered by the pleasures and joys of life. Why must our inner core be jolted as if we were facing an imminent threat to our survival? The answer is that the fight-or-flight response is a survival mechanism that ignites a surge of energy and provides us with an unwavering focus to tackle a situation that demands our full attention. This innate response is designed to prepare us for the most critical moments in life, where we must call upon all of our faculties to overcome the challenge at hand. That is why excitement is simply another manifestation of this vital response. As we approach a defining moment in our lives, our bodies instinctively recognize the significance of the occasion and trigger the fight-or-flight response to provide us with the necessary strength and concentration to seize the momentous occasion.

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This extra burst of energy is an absolute game changer. There is so much that has to be done in such a short time, so you do not have the leisure to saunter around with a lackadaisical attitude. You need to channel your inner drive and unleash it with laser-focused determination. There is even a term for this type of stress - eustress. Eustress is the kind of stress that makes you feel motivated, propelling you to perform at your best and achieve your goals. However, while it is true that the fight-or-flight response can be beneficial, the consequences of prolonged excitement can lead to negative consequences. It is not uncommon to experience symptoms such as rapid heartbeat, sweating, and even digestive problems. The problem is that the fight-or-flight response is meant to be a short-term solution, not a long-term lifestyle. When we subject our bodies to extended periods of heightened emotions, we are essentially inviting chronic stress into our lives that can potentially wreak havoc on our systems. Our bodies were simply not designed to handle this level of

stress for prolonged periods of time, even if it is beneficial stress. Now, imagine the sheer excitement and anticipation one feels when they are on the cusp of one of the most momentous events of their life. But what if these emotions are accompanied by the harrowing symptoms of insomnia, fatigue, loss of appetite, or cloudy thinking? Suddenly, a barrage of intrusive thoughts starts creeping in, questioning whether the person they are engaged to is truly the right one. These troubling emotions can leave anyone feeling shaken and distressed, but it is not necessarily a sign of impending doom. Sometimes, these sensations are simply a result of the excitement and apprehension that come with anticipating such a significant day. While negative emotions during engagement are not always a sign of just nerves, it is undoubtedly one of the possible explanations for feeling all stressed out. Another consequence of the excitement of the engagement period is post-wedding depression. During one’s engagement, you have adrenaline coursing through your veins, providing you with superhuman abilities to get everything done for the big day. But after the big day has come and gone, your body realizes that it no longer needs that extra surge of energy, and the fightor-flight response shuts down. Your body returns to its normal state, which is essential for its physical well-being. However, after being on an adrenaline-fueled high for so long, returning to your ordinary routine can feel like a massive letdown, triggering a sense of depression. Although this feeling generally passes, it can be downright frightening to feel so down after starting a new chapter in your life with your spouse. Life is an unpredictable journey with ups and downs, and even the ups have their downs. Nothing in life is perfect and we always need to balance our short-term needs with our long-term wellness. Embrace the excitement, but don’t forget to take care of yourself along the way, and remember that even in the midst of the most joyous moments, it is essential to stay grounded and focused on what truly matters. So, hold on tight and enjoy the ride! This is a service of Relief Resources. Relief is an organization that provides mental health referrals, education, and support to the frum community. Rabbi Yisrael Slansky is director of the Baltimore branch of Relief. He can be contacted at 410-448-8356 or at yslansky@reliefhelp.org

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t’s the month of Cheshvan. Yom tov is a wonderful memory. The honeymoon phase is school is over. And it unfolds almost accordingly to a seemingly preordained plan. Your child’s teacher calls. Again. It’s about your son. He’s distracted. He can’t sit still. He interrupts lessons, struggles to follow instructions, and seems incapable of concentrating for more than five minutes. At home, it’s no better. Homework is a battle, he’s irritable, and everyone’s patience is running thin. Someone suggests it might be ADHD. Suddenly, the conversation turns to Ritalin, medication, and how quickly we can get this situation under control. If only it were that simple. As a pediatrician with more than four decades of experience, I’ve seen how quickly frustrated parents can look toward a bottle of pills for answers. I understand the temptation. Everyone wants their child to succeed, and nobody enjoys nightly homework battles or calls from the principal. But raising children isn’t about find-

ing the quickest fix. It’s about identifying the underlying problem and addressing it properly. Medication may be part of the answer. But before we start discussing prescriptions, I’d like to ask a question. What time did your child actually fall asleep last night? Not when you sent him upstairs. Not when you turned off the lights. When did he actually fall asleep? Because sometimes, what looks like ADHD is actually an exhausted child struggling to function.

A Tired Child Doesn’t Always Look Tired When adults are exhausted, we generally slow down. We yawn, lose concentration, and reach for another cup of coffee. Children can react quite differently. Instead of becoming sluggish, they may become hyperactive, impulsive, irritable, and unable to concentrate. Sound familiar? Those are also behaviors commonly associated with ADHD. A teacher may correctly identify that a child is constantly moving, interrupting

lessons, or struggling academically. But observing the behavior doesn’t necessarily explain its cause. Behavior is what we observe. Diagnosis is what we investigate. Confusing the two can lead to treating the wrong problem.

Going to Bed Doesn’t Mean Going to Sleep “He goes to bed at nine, Doctor.” Wonderful. But is he sleeping at nine? Or is he reading, worrying, talking, sneaking screen time, or staring at the ceiling? Children ages 6-12 generally need 9-12 hours of sleep daily. Teenagers need 8-10 hours. Yet between homework, extracurricular activities, electronics, and early school schedules, many children aren’t getting nearly enough. We expect them to perform academically, regulate their emotions, and behave appropriately while running on insufficient sleep. Then we’re surprised when they struggle. Perhaps the problem isn’t their attention span. Perhaps it’s their bedtime.

Sometimes It’s the Quality of Sleep A child can spend ten hours in bed and still wake up exhausted. Obstructive sleep apnea, for example, causes repeated interruptions in breathing during sleep, potentially affecting concentration, mood, and behavior the following day. Warning signs include frequent snoring, gasping, mouth breathing, restless sleep, morning headaches, and difficulty waking. Anxiety and certain movement-related sleep disorders can also interfere with restful sleep. If your child regularly snores or seems exhausted despite adequate time in bed, speak with your pediatrician. Some children may require an overnight sleep study.

Ritalin Isn’t a Quick Fix for Childhood Here’s where I may upset a few parents. And teachers. And principals. We’ve become a society that expects quick solutions to complicated problems. Child can’t concentrate? Give him something. Disruptive in class? Perhaps

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venient little bottle. But parenting has never been about convenience. We should never mistake making a child easier to manage for actually improving that child’s health. One additional thought about medication: it may have its place. But it should always be done with an active plan as to “dribbling” skills into kids.

Sometimes, improving sleep produces meaningful behavioral improvements. Sometimes, ADHD remains evident despite better sleep. And sometimes both conditions exist together. Children with ADHD may also experience sleep difficulties, and certain medications can make falling asleep harder.

Raising children isn’t about finding the quickest fix. Find the Cause Before Choosing the Treatment A proper ADHD evaluation involves more than a teacher’s complaint or a parent’s frustration. We examine developmental history, behavior across different settings, emotional well-being, academic performance, and sleep. Parents can help by recording actual sleep times, nighttime awakenings, snoring, morning behavior, and what teachers are observing.

That’s why sleep should be evaluated before treatment and monitored afterward.

needs better sleep deserves that attention just as urgently. Our responsibility, as parents and pediatricians, is to understand what’s actually happening rather than automatically reaching for the quickest solution. Before asking what medication might help your child get through the school day, let’s find out whether something is preventing that child from getting a good night’s sleep. Because the goal isn’t simply a quieter classroom or an easier homework session. It’s a healthier child. Above all, whether we’re considering diagnoses, medications, or treatment plans, never underestimate the power of davening for your child’s health, happiness, and success. As always – daven.

My Message to Parents I’m not suggesting that ADHD isn’t real or that medication is inherently wrong. Quite the opposite. When children genuinely need treatment, they deserve it. But I care too much about children’s health and development to recommend shortcuts simply because they’re convenient. A child who needs Ritalin should receive appropriate treatment. A child who

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