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MACY CALHOON
A Note From the Publisher
February invites us to slow down just enough to notice what really matters. It is the month of love, yes—but here in Texarkana, love shows up in ways far deeper than flowers and chocolates. It lives in the businesses we choose to support, the places we gather to celebrate milestones, and the people who decide—again and again—to build their lives right here. This issue of ALT reflects that kind of love: local, intentional, and deeply rooted.
In these pages, you will meet four local businesses that are doing more than providing goods or services—they are shaping the character of our community. Each story reminds us that shopping local is not just a transaction; it is a relationship. It is choosing to invest in people who know our streets, cheer for our schools, and pour their hearts into their work. These business owners represent resilience, creativity, and the quiet determination that keeps Texarkana thriving. Reclaiming Dawn, all-natural products that are specially made with their love and your health; Rusty Relics, a local flea market allowing you to find incredible treasures; Sling Fit TXK, a place to work out your body and mind; and The Curated Collected TXK, the one-stop shop for life’s special occasions, are locally owned businesses in our Texarkana area.
Love also takes center stage through five beautiful weddings set against two remarkable venues: Garrison Gardens and Four Fifteen Estates. These spaces are more than backdrops—they are part of the story. They have become places where promises are made, families gather, and memories are sealed in time.
We are also celebrating three engagements—those electric, joy-filled moments when the future suddenly feels both thrilling and certain. They remind us that love is not only something to commemorate at the altar, but something to announce with excitement and belief in what is to come.
At ALT, our mission has always been to tell the stories of the businesses, people, and places that make our community thrive. This issue embodies that purpose. It is a love letter to Texarkana—its entrepreneurs, its couples, and its neighbors who continue to choose local, choose connection, and choose each other.
As you turn these pages, we hope you feel proud of where you live and inspired to keep supporting what makes our town special. Thank you for reading, for caring, and for being part of this story.
Alyssa Jensen
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Reclaiming Dawn: A Journey Back to What Matters
In a world where convenience often outweighs care and ingredient lists read like chemistry textbooks, Reclaiming Dawn stands as a quiet but powerful reminder that wellness does not have to be complicated—and it certainly does not have to be compromised.
Founded by Amber Watkins and based in Texarkana, Texas, Reclaiming Dawn is more than a natural wellness brand. It is the product of lived experience, hard-earned knowledge, deep faith, and a relentless commitment to integrity. Every small-batch product carries with it a story of persistence, transparency, and a desire to help others live healthier, more informed lives.
Amber did not set out to become a business owner. In fact, Reclaiming Dawn began not with a business plan, but with a personal concern many women quietly face: thinning hair.
From a Personal Concern to a Purposeful Calling
About six years ago, Amber began noticing changes in her hair—changes that even her hairdresser gently pointed out. Concerned, she did what so many people do today: she started researching. What began as a search for hair growth solutions quickly expanded into something much larger. As she dug deeper, Amber found herself immersed in the world of all-natural living, learning about ingredients, essential oils, and the hidden truths behind many mainstream products.
“I never intended to turn this into a business,” Amber says. “I simply started replacing the products in my home with natural alternatives I made myself.”
As she shared what she was learning with family and friends, something unexpected happened. People did not just want the information—they wanted the products. Friends asked her to make items for them rather than doing it themselves. At the time, Amber was working a full-time job she genuinely enjoyed, and Reclaiming Dawn existed quietly in the background as a passion project.
Then came COVID.
Like so many others, Amber watched as uncertainty swept through the workforce. Although she remained employed after widespread layoffs at her company, the writing on the wall felt impossible to ignore. When she began talking openly about possibly needing a backup plan, the encouragement she received was overwhelming. “People kept telling me, ‘You should turn this into a business,’” she recalls. “It was terrifying—but I trusted God, took the leap, and here I am today.” That leap would change everything.
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Rooted in Integrity, Built with Intention
Reclaiming Dawn’s foundation rests on this guiding principle: integrity over profit. It is a value Amber does not just talk about—it is one she lives out daily, even when it costs more, takes longer, or limits shortcuts.
As Amber’s knowledge deepened, she became increasingly aware of “greenwashing”— and the realization was eyeopening. “I was astonished by what big brands can get away with,” she says. That discovery shaped Reclaiming Dawn’s mission: to create truly all-natural products that are effective, honest, and safe for everyday use, while empowering customers with education—not fear or hype. Every ingredient used is intentionally researched and responsibly sourced. From grass-fed, grass-finished tallow to third-party tested essential oils, Amber ensures that each component serves a purpose. While these choices often increase costs, compromise has never been an option. “We believe people deserve to know exactly what they are using,” she says.
Sustainability is also a priority. Amber makes every effort to use glass packaging whenever possible. When plastic is necessary, she chooses the safest options available— another example of how education and stewardship guide every decision.
Transparency is foundational with Reclaiming Dawn— Amber believes people deserve to know exactly what they are using, with honest labeling, thoughtful sourcing, and absolutely no greenwashing or shortcuts. Other core values include education and empowerment as Reclaiming Dawn equips customers with the knowledge to make confident, informed choices—even when that means recommending solutions the business does not sell. Each product reflects a dedication to quality that works, proving that natural products can be both clean and effective, even when they require extra time, testing, and persistence. Just as important is a genuine care for people, recognizing that behind every purchase is a real person deserving compassion, respect, and personal attention. Underpinning it all is a deep sense of stewardship—a belief in responsibly caring for bodies, families, and the resources God has entrusted, a responsibility that guides every product created at Reclaiming Dawn.
The Product That Almost Broke Her—and Became Her Best Seller
Every business has a turning point, and for Reclaiming Dawn, that moment came in the form of a deodorant. “I tried everything,” Amber admits. “Over-the-counter, online—you name it.” Determined to create a natural deodorant that actually worked, she spent more than two years testing, reformulating, and starting over. There were moments of
frustration, setbacks, and even tears. More than once, she considered giving up.
Thankfully, her persistence won. Today, Reclaiming Dawn’s deodorant is the company’s top-selling product—a testament to Amber’s commitment to quality and her refusal to settle for “good enough.” “It means so much to me,” she says. “Not just because it sells well, but because I know how hard it was to get right.”
That philosophy carries through the entire product line. From sunburn spray to elderberry syrup, every offering is made in small batches, personally overseen by Amber to ensure consistency, freshness, and effectiveness.
More Than Products—A Ministry of Education
For Amber, Reclaiming Dawn has never been about pushing sales. Instead, it is about connection. Trade shows and markets are among her favorite parts of the business—not because of volume, but because of conversation. She listens carefully as customers share their concerns, ailments, and frustrations. Sometimes she has a product that helps. Sometimes she does not. “And that is okay,” she says. “I am always happy to share what I have learned, even if it is not something I sell.”
That openness has built deep trust—and occasionally, unforgettable moments. One such moment occurred last fall at a trade show, when a woman approached Amber with tears in her eyes. She shared that she had been undergoing radiation treatments for cancer and had been using Reclaiming Dawn’s Sunburn Spray on her chest after each session. Her doctor, she said, was astonished at the health of her skin and could not tell she had undergone radiation at all. “She told me she was now in remission,” Amber recalls. “She just wanted to say thank you.”
Moments like that reaffirm everything Amber believes about her work. “They remind me that God has placed me exactly where He wants me to be.”
Community at the Heart of It All
Since launching Reclaiming Dawn, Amber has found a deep connection within the Texarkana community. Early on, she joined the Texarkana Farmers’ Market, where she found encouragement and support from fellow vendors—many of
whom remain close friends today. Wholesale partnerships have further strengthened those bonds. Each store that carries Reclaiming Dawn products represents another small business built on shared values of honesty, hard work, and community investment.
“I quickly learned how similar small business owners are,” Amber says. “Those relationships mean everything to me.” That sense of shared purpose is woven into the fabric of Reclaiming Dawn.
Looking Ahead, Trusting Forward
As Reclaiming Dawn continues to grow, exciting developments are on the horizon. A new stick deodorant, a ready-made elderberry syrup, tart cherry, and a longrequested tallow face cream are all set to launch soon—each developed with the same care and intentionality customers have come to expect. Amber has also taken a significant step by bringing on a business partner, a decision she describes as one of the best she has made. “We are very different,” she says, “but our strengths balance each other. Together, we are stronger.”
When asked about the future, Amber does not speak in rigid goals or five-year plans. Instead, she speaks with faith. “I place it all in God’s hands,” she says. “I have learned to trust His timing.”
Why Shopping Local Matters
For those who have not yet experienced Reclaiming Dawn, Amber does not offer a sales pitch. She offers an invitation. “My intent has never been to sell anyone on my products,” she says. “I simply want to offer natural alternatives that are often impossible to find—and to help people recognize greenwashing so they can make informed choices.”
In doing so, Reclaiming Dawn reminds us that local businesses are more than storefronts or product lines. They are expressions of passion, purpose, and care—built by people who live here, raise families here, and invest deeply in the health of their neighbors. Reclaiming Dawn calls us back to simplicity, honesty, and stewardship. It invites us to reclaim what matters.
And sometimes, that is exactly what a community needs.
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Rusty Relics: Where Texarkana’s Stories Are Saved, Salvaged, and
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On any given Saturday in Texarkana, you will find neighbors wandering flea markets, sipping coffee, swapping stories, and hoping—quietly—that today might be the day they stumble upon something special. Not something shiny or new, but something familiar. Something that feels like home.
That feeling lives at Rusty Relics, tucked inside the historic Bunch Garden building on Baylor Street. What was once a place filled with plants, wagging tails and childhood memories has been reborn as a space where the past is honored, creativity thrives, and stories—old and new—find a place to belong. Owned and operated by James and Amy Mauldin, along with daughter, Chloe Norwood, Rusty Relics is more than a flea market. It is a family dream years in the making, built on weekends spent searching for treasures, a love of craftsmanship, and a deep appreciation for the stories objects carry.
From Weekend Treasure Hunts to a Family Dream
Long before Rusty Relics had a permanent address, it lived in the form of flea market booths and weekend road trips. For years, the Mauldin family spent their free time doing what many treasure hunters love most—scouring estate sales, flea markets, and dusty corners of barns, not just for items to resell, but for pieces that spoke to them.
Those trips were not about profit. They were about joy. “Flea marketing was our happy place,” Amy explains. It was where the family slowed down and laughed together. One of the most remarkable treasure hunts came when Chloe discovered a dream piece of furniture that was originally given as a wedding gift in 1889. Amy says, “This piece has been bringing joy for over a hundred years and will continue to bring smiles to faces well into the future. These older pieces are often made better and with beautiful craftsmanship that is not as common in modern pieces.” More than a century later, it continues to bring joy—proof that well-made things, and the stories behind them, endure.
These trips also allowed the family to dream out loud about what could be. Over time, those dreams became more focused. What if they could create a space of their own? A place where others could experience that same thrill of discovery?
That dream eventually led them to open Rusty Relics—a
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market centered on antiques, salvaged and repurposed furniture, décor, gifts, and collectibles—each chosen not for trends, but for character.
The name Rusty Relics began, like many good things, as a joke. James casually referred to their booth by several names over the years, but one stuck. While not everything they sell is rusty, the name reflects their shared vision: giving older pieces new life.
A relic, after all, is something worth keeping.
When the opportunity came to open a full market, there was no question about the name. Rusty Relics already represented who they were and what they loved— honoring the beauty of age and history.
A Love for Old Things, Passed Down
James’s appreciation for antiques did not start in adulthood. It was cultivated early, thanks to his parents—particularly his mother, Betty. Her home was filled with vintage, salvaged, and primitive pieces long before it was fashionable. She had an eye for seeing potential where others saw “junk,” often turning forgotten items into statement pieces that sparked conversation.
That influence stuck.
At first, Amy admits, James’s finds did not always make sense. “He would bring things home that we called ‘junk,’” she laughs. However, over time, something shifted. Those items began to grow on them. Then they began seeking them out themselves.
Each family member now brings a unique aesthetic to Rusty Relics—James, drawn to signs and thermometers, Amy and Chloe gravitating toward furniture and vintage home décor. Together, their tastes create a balanced and inviting mix that appeals to a wide range of shoppers.
Why History Matters in a Mass-Produced World
In an age when homes are often filled with identical furniture and décor shipped overnight, Rusty Relics offers something increasingly rare: originality.
People are drawn to pieces with history because they stand apart. They tell stories. They make a home
feel curated rather than copied. Many customers walk through the doors and immediately recognize something from their childhood—a lamp like their grandmother’s, a toy they once cherished, a dish pattern they remember from family dinners. Those moments are powerful. Faces light up. Stories spill out at the checkout counter.
A Market of Many Stories
One of the most unique aspects of Rusty Relics is its vendor-driven design. Each booth is its own mini shop, filled with the personality, creativity, and vision of its owner. The result is an ever-changing landscape where no two visits are the same.
You never know what is around the next corner—and that is precisely the point. This unpredictability is what sets flea markets apart from big-box stores. Many customers arrive without a shopping list, simply saying, “I will know it when I see it.” And often, they do.
Ask where the items come from, and the answer is everywhere. Estate sales. Barns. Flea markets across state lines. Even vacations are not safe from detours. With so many vendors contributing, items arrive at Rusty Relics from countless places—each journey ending when the right person finds it and takes it home.
The Joy of a Growing Community
Perhaps the most rewarding part of running Rusty Relics has been the people. The encouragement. The word-of-mouth support. The growing “flea market
In true community spirit, James, Amy, and Chloe appreciate those who shop local and spread the word. “We appreciate those who share our location with family and friends. Shopping local and shopping flea markets helps so many people since each market houses many different vendors. Texarkana has so many great flea markets and vintage shopping opportunities, and we encourage everyone to check them all out. If you stop by our market, you will find maps at the front counter with names and addresses of other local shops to check out. Perhaps there may be another location on the list that you have not yet discovered,” Amy says.
Advice for the Curious Collector
For those wanting to dip a toe into vintage or repurposed décor, the advice is simple: visit often. Let inspiration find you. Ask questions. Be open.
Rusty Relics is not just a place to buy—it is a place to learn, imagine, and create. They welcome collectors, first-time homeowners, wedding decorators, gift shoppers, outdoors people, DIY upcyclers, and even people inspired by something they saw on Facebook. One of the greatest joys for the family is seeing what customers do with their finds—whether it is a restored piece of furniture, a flipped treasure, or décor used in a wedding filled with meaning.
Looking Ahead with Gratitude
The goal for the future is refreshingly simple: continue offering items people love. Continue watching faces light up. Continue growing together.
The family is deeply grateful—not just for the business, but for the journey. As Amy reflects, a sign hanging above the front door says it best: “I still remember the days I prayed for the things I have now.”
In a town rich with history, Rusty Relics reminds us that the past is not something to outgrow—it is something to cherish. Sometimes, all it takes to feel connected is walking through a door, finding a familiar piece, and realizing its story now gets to continue with you.
So the next time you are out and about in Texarkana, ask yourself: What story are you hoping to find?
You just might find it waiting at Rusty
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Lifted, Supported, and Stronger Than Ever: How Sling Fit Studios Is Redefining Fitness in Texarkana
by: Michelle Horton
Picture this: you have driven past the same stretch of road dozens, maybe hundreds, of times. Tucked just a little off the beaten path on East 9th Street in Texarkana, Arkansas, is a building you have never really noticed—until one day, you hear laughter spilling out the door. Music thumps. Inside, people of all ages are bouncing, flying, stretching, sweating, and smiling. Not grimacing. Not competing. Smiling.
Welcome to Sling Fit Studios, one of Texarkana’s most unexpected and quietly transformative local businesses.
In a town full of traditional gyms, Sling Fit Studios stands out— not just for its bungee cords, yoga mats, and dance beats, but for its heart. At the center of it all is Colleen Woods, a longtime yoga instructor whose passion for movement, healing, and community ultimately led her to take ownership to ensure this one-of-a-kind studio did not disappear from Texarkana.
What started as a niche fitness concept has grown into a thriving, inclusive space where people come not just to work out—but to belong.
A Teacher at Heart, A Leader by Necessity
Colleen Woods did not set out to become a business owner. For nearly two decades, she has been a familiar name in Texarkana’s wellness community, teaching yoga for 17 years and earning certifications in kids’ yoga, prenatal yoga, trauma-informed practices, and aerial yoga. Beyond studio walls, she leads free community yoga classes three times a week, making movement accessible regardless of income or background.
That commitment to accessibility is no accident—it is core to who she is. Shortly after becoming the resident yoga instructor at Sling Fit Studios, Colleen stepped into ownership during a pivotal moment. “It was a critical move,” she says. “One made to keep our doors open and allow us to continue offering something that does not exist anywhere else in town.”
That decision was not driven by profit or prestige. It was driven by people.
How Bungee Fitness Landed in Texarkana
The Sling Fit story actually begins with another woman and another city. The studio’s original owner, Theresa, attended a bungee fitness class in Oklahoma City and was immediately hooked. She saw not just a workout, but a solution—an exercise style that was low-impact yet powerful, supportive while still challenging. Theresa brought that vision back to Texarkana, planting the seed for what would become Sling Fit Studios.
Texarkana has plenty of gyms, but few truly innovative
fitness concepts—and even fewer that intentionally welcome beginners, older adults, or those recovering from injury or illness. Being situated in the Four States area has also worked in Sling Fit’s favor, drawing clients not just from Texarkana but from Louisiana, Oklahoma, and across Texas.
“We have had people drive over 120 miles just to take a class,” Colleen says. “Recently, ten women from Shreveport booked a private class together. That is exciting.” It is proof that something special is happening here.
So… What Is Bungee Fitness, Anyway?
Ask Colleen to explain bungee fitness, and she laughs— because she has been asked that question countless times. In simple terms, participants wear a rock-climbing-style harness secured around the legs and ribcage. Each person is paired with bungee cords customized to their body weight. From there, instructors guide the class through choreographed movements set to music.
The result? A workout that feels more like play than punishment.
The bungee cords support body weight, reducing stress on joints while still allowing for cardio, strength training, and core work. You can jump higher, squat deeper, and move more freely—often doing things you did not think your body could handle anymore. “It is supportive, effective, and honestly—it is a party,” Colleen says.
Clearing Up the Biggest Misconception
What is the most common myth about bungee and lowimpact workouts? “That it is not a real workout,” Colleen says. However, anyone who has tried a class quickly learns otherwise. Low-impact does not mean low-effort. Sling Fit clients build muscle, increase endurance, improve balance, and burn serious calories—all while protecting their joints.
For those still sitting on the fence, Colleen’s advice is simple and powerful: “Just do it. Do it scared. It does not have to be a Monday. Show up for you.”
Fitness for Everyone—Not Just the Already Fit
One of Sling Fit’s defining values is inclusivity. This is not a space reserved for elite athletes or fitness veterans. It is a space for real people. Colleen and her team are intentional about meeting clients exactly where they are. That philosophy has led to creative adaptations, including one particularly meaningful example: a client who needed to complete workouts while seated. Instead of turning her away, Sling Fit modified the class—and, in the process, created a chairfitness class that has since become one of the studio’s most popular offerings.
Sling Fit Studios offers a wide variety of classes designed to support both physical and mental well-being:
Bungee Fitness
The studio’s signature class and most significant draw. This low-impact, high-energy workout combines cardio, strength, and core training while being gentle on joints. Ideal for beginners, seasoned athletes, and anyone rehabbing or rebuilding strength.
Cardio Dance
A music-driven, feel-good class with easy choreography and major energy. No dance experience required—just a willingness to move and have fun.
Beatboxing
A rhythm-based cardio and strength workout fueled by dynamic beats and fast-paced intervals. Perfect for those who thrive on high energy and variety.
Hot HIIT
A heated, high-intensity interval training class designed to push endurance, maximize calorie burn, and build functional strength. This class combines high-intensity intervals with functional movements, helping participants push past limits while improving cardiovascular health. It is best for those who enjoy a challenging workout and want to level up their fitness in a powerful way.
Yoga (Multiple Styles)
From Hot Power and Foundations to Slow Flow, Ground in Grace, and special pop-ups like Yin & Pin, binaural beats, and Partner Yoga, Sling Fit’s yoga offerings reflect Colleen’s depth of experience and commitment to holistic wellness.
Future additions include Aerial Yoga, Kids Bungee, and
monthly pop-up classes that keep the schedule fresh and exciting.
Creating a Safe Space for Transformations
For many people, walking into a fitness studio is more intimidating than the workout itself. Sling Fit actively works against that. From the moment someone enters the studio, instructors focus on education, reassurance, and encouragement. Movements are explained. Modifications are offered. No one is rushed or singled out.
Most importantly, the community takes care of the rest. Members cheer each other on. Small wins are celebrated. Consistency—not perfection—is the goal. That culture has helped countless people rediscover movement without fear.
While weight loss and muscle gain happen, the transformations Colleen treasures most are deeper. One story stands out: a student diagnosed with MS over a decade ago. When she began attending Sling Fit, she relied heavily on a cane. After a year and a half of consistent classes, she has built strength, improved mobility, and relies far less on assistance. “She has told us she feels better now than she did before her diagnosis,” Colleen shares. Stories like that are reminders that fitness is not about aesthetics—it is about quality of life.
Looking Ahead: What’s Next for Sling Fit Studios
For Colleen, owning Sling Fit Studios is more than a job—it is a blessing. “I am so thankful I get to do this every day,” she says. “Watching this community thrive and grow—it means everything.”
The future is bright and busy. Sling Fit is launching its Biggest Losers Challenge with cash prizes, expanding class offerings, and continuing to innovate with pop-ups and specialty events.
In a world of big-box gyms and online workouts, Sling Fit Studios reminds us why local businesses matter: they know your name, your story, and your potential. And sometimes, they help you discover strength you did not know you had— while suspended in midair, laughing, and supported every
The best way to stay in the loop? Follow Sling Fit Studios on Facebook and Instagram—and better yet, stop by in person –located in the 82 Plaza.
Where Vision Meets Heart: Inside The Curated Collective TXK, Texarkana’s One-Stop Shop
for Life’s Special Occasions
by: Michelle Horton
There is a familiar moment many of us in Texarkana know well: a wedding invitation pinned to the fridge, a baby shower circled on the calendar, or a last-minute realization that you need the perfect gift—and you need it now. For years, that moment often came with a follow-up thought: Where will I go?
However, tucked into a shopping center at 3209 Kennedy Lane, between Gracyn Elizabeth Bride and GEB Menswear, something quite remarkable is changing that narrative.
The moment you walk through the doors of The Curated Collective TXK, the air shifts. You are greeted by the soft glow of thoughtfully styled displays, the scent of fresh florals and luxury candles, and the hum of music that makes you want to linger. It is equal parts inspiring and comforting—like stepping into a space that already knows you are here to celebrate something important.
Behind it all are Elizabeth Lofton and Jennifer Cole, two women whose combined experience, creative instincts, and deep love for Texarkana have shaped a business unlike anything else in the region. What began as a collaboration has grown into a fullservice destination for weddings, events, florals, home décor, gifts, and specialty rentals—all under one roof, all rooted in community.
Two Stories, One Shared Vision
Elizabeth Lofton’s story began long before she ever imagined owning a storefront in Texarkana. Raised in Shreveport-Bossier, Louisiana, Elizabeth grew up in a florist, design, and antique business—literally. By the age of six, Saturdays were not spent sleeping in or watching cartoons; they were spent in the shop, learning how to arrange flowers, handle customers, and appreciate craftsmanship. “I was raised in it,” Elizabeth says. “Helping with weddings at six years old was just my normal.”
Though she studied interior design at Louisiana Tech, Elizabeth realized early on that she was already doing what she loved—and doing it well. She returned to the family business, never imagining that florals, once considered “punishment work,” would become her life’s calling. Today, with nearly five decades of hands-on experience, Elizabeth brings a level of precision, care, and respect for the craft that simply cannot be replicated overnight.
Jennifer Cole’s roots, meanwhile, run deep right here in Texarkana. Born and raised in the community, a Hooks High School graduate, Jennifer has spent 33 years as a hairstylist and 15 years as a decorator and designer. Known affectionately by many as Texarkana’s “Christmas Fairy,” she built a loyal following, transforming homes into holiday showpieces before transitioning fully into weddings and event décor.
Married with five children and two grandchildren, Jennifer’s life mirrors the community she serves—busy, family-centered, and deeply relational. “I love this town,” Jennifer says. “This is where I was raised, where I raised my kids, and where I plan to be.”
From Collaboration to Collective
If you had told Elizabeth a few years ago that she would enter a business partnership, she would have laughed. “I would have told you that you were crazy,” she admits. Yet what began as shared warehouse space after COVID evolved organically into something much bigger. Elizabeth’s The Flower Room Florist & Gifts, Jennifer’s J. Cole Design, and their joint venture Sugar Snaps Event Rentals began overlapping in ways that just made sense. Clients were already asking for everything in one place—planning, florals, décor, rentals—so why not offer exactly that?
After outgrowing a warehouse on Kings Highway, the duo realized reopening retail was not just practical—it was an opportunity. “We wanted to bring something to Texarkana that was out of the ordinary,” Jennifer says. “Something elevated, but still welcoming.”
The name The Curated Collective TXK reflects exactly that: a carefully selected collection of services and products, designed to work seamlessly together. “It is curated,” Jennifer explains. “And it is a collective. Nothing here stands alone.”
Weddings & Events: Experience You Can Feel
At its heart, The Curated Collective is a wedding and event powerhouse. From intimate elopements to grand black-tie affairs, Elizabeth and Jennifer specialize in events of every scale—and they do it with a team that genuinely knows what they are doing. “This is not something we woke up and decided to try,” Elizabeth says. “We have done this our whole lives.”
Their staff includes seasoned planners, coordinators, and designers—many of whom bring their own unique styles and personalities, allowing couples to be thoughtfully matched with someone who gets them.
The planning process is intentionally flexible. Couples can choose full-service planning, partial planning, or day-of coordination. From the first online inquiry to the final teardown after the reception, every detail is handled with care.
Jennifer’s philosophy is simple but powerful: This day matters. “As far as I am concerned,” she says, “this is the most important day of a bride’s life until she has her first child. That is how seriously we take it.”
Florals That Serve the Vision—Not the Designer
Unlike many florists known for a signature look, The Curated Collective prides itself on versatility. “Our job is to serve the client,” Elizabeth explains. “Whether they want classic, romantic, modern, or moody—we can do it.”
More importantly, they know how to handle the unexpected. Weather changes, shipment delays, color substitutions—these are realities of the floral world. The difference is how they are handled. “A professional florist knows how to fix problems without the client ever worrying,” Elizabeth says. “That peace of mind is priceless.”
To stay current, the team invests heavily in education— traveling to national markets, attending major wedding conventions in Las Vegas, and sending designers to conferences across the country.
A Retail Experience Worth Slowing Down For
The Curated Collective is not just for big events. It is also a place to pop in on a Tuesday afternoon and leave with something special. From small, thoughtfully wrapped gifts to statement furniture and art pieces, the shop appeals to every stage of life. Jennifer describes it best: “It smells good. It looks good. There is music playing. Everything is just…pretty.”
The store also features an in-house hat bar, run by Carson Wesselhoft, and plans to introduce locally made artwork in the coming year—continuing their commitment to supporting regional creatives.
Rentals, Simplified
Through The Curated Collective TXK, clients can rent everything from napkins and linens to chargers, candlesticks, lighting, dance floors, and even a photo booth. The biggest benefit? Simplicity. “One vision. One team. One invoice,” Jennifer says.
Elizabeth, a mother who has planned four weddings herself, knows firsthand how
valuable that is. “If I could have walked in somewhere and written one check and said, ‘take care of it,’ I would have,” she says with a laugh.
Rooted in Texarkana, Invested in Community
Both women are passionate about keeping business local. Jennifer is especially candid about why it matters. “People should not have to leave town to find beautiful things,” she says. “And when you shop local, you are supporting families— people you know.”
Beyond commerce, The Curated Collective regularly donates time, florals, and décor to local charities and events, helping nonprofits elevate their fundraisers and reach broader audiences.
They also work closely with local photographers, venues, caterers, bakers, DJs, and other event professionals— relationships built on trust and friendship.
Looking Ahead: Ribbon, Paper, and Possibility
If you think the store is impressive now, just wait. In 2026, The Curated Collective plans to introduce an extensive selection of luxury designer ribbon and high-end paper goods—the kind decorators usually have to travel hours to find. “We are not talking a shelf or two,” Jennifer says. “We are talking walls.”
Jennifer, a former professional Christmas decorator, saw the demand firsthand during the holidays. “People here care about quality,” she says. “They just have not always had access to it.”
They are determined to change that.
Why It Matters
At a time when convenience often replaces connection, The Curated Collective TXK is a reminder of what brick-andmortar businesses still do best: create relationships, celebrate milestones, and make everyday moments feel meaningful.
Their message to the community is heartfelt and simple: Come see us. “Not just us,” Elizabeth adds. “Shop local. It matters more than people realize.”
So the next time you are celebrating—whether it is a wedding, a baby shower, a holiday, or just a friend who needs a thoughtful gift—consider staying right here in Texarkana.
You might find everything you need at The Curated Collective TXK… and a little inspiration you did not expect.
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✓ Strengthened county finances to an A+ bond rating
✓ Built $15 million in county reserves
✓ Saved taxpayers $9 million by refinancing Highway 82 bonds
✓ Successfully implemented a plan to improve Precinct 4 roads. To date, overlayed 50 miles of roads and will continue to move forward with this program. Currently working with a local company to receive donated pulp fly ash (PFA) to help strengthen and stabilize our county road surface.
✓ Partnered with Wake Village, Redwater, New Boston, Simms & Maud to improve communities
Service, Discipline & Leadership
• 14 Years of Military Service
• Navy • Air Force • Army • Coast Guard
• Combat Veteran 3 Tours Vietnam War
• 40 Years Business Experience
• Former Owner, Central Air Conditioning & Plumbing Co.(1978–2014)
• Texarkana College Accounting and Contract Law
• 192 Hours of Continuing Education for Texas Commissioners - Texas Association of Counties
• Bowie County Commissioner | 2014–Present
“The experience and leadership Bowie County needs.”
Community Leadership
• TexAmericas Board of Directors
• Wake Village City Council — 8 Years
• American Legion • Elks Club
• Vietnam Veterans of America
• Past Master, Masonic Lodge
• Past President, Texarkana Jaycees
• Past President, Arkansas Heat Pump Association
• Past President, Texarkana A/C Contractors Association
• Past President, Texarkana Baseball Association (9 Years)
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Will and Belle DYKES
AUGUST 1, 2025
Belle and Will grew up together, their parents are best friends so they’ve spent their lives around each other, but it wasn’t until high school when they began to see each other in a different light and friendship grew into love. Will is a year older than Belle and for 2 years after high school, they had to do long distance, which was difficult, but really strengthened their relationship and confirmed the fact that they did not want to live their lives without each other in it. Belle and Will got engaged in October of 2024 at Garrison Gardens. Will knew that Belle wanted to get married at Garrison Gardens chapel and thought that would be the perfect place for the proposal.
Parents of the Bride: Alisa and Jonathan Lindsey
Parents of the Groom: Fawn and David Dykes
Maid of Honor: Kate Lindsey and Mia Lindsey
Bridesmaids: Ashley Harrington, Abby Dykes, Faith Lites, Sydney Casteel, Laynie Adcock, Rachel Dunn, Addison Skelton, Anna Woosley, Allison Dockins
Best Man: Drew Dykes
Groomsmen: Zac Harrington, Cooper Young, Micah Gibson, Nathan Patterson, Will Adcock, McGuyre Moore, Payne Thornton, Tucker Emerson, Tristan Snider.
Ushers: David Frick and Adam Lites
Flower Girls: Avery Harrington
Ring Bearer: Bayes Stallings
Pastor/Officiant: John Lindsey
Flowers: The Floweroom
Bridal Hair: Jaimie Mason
Bridal Make-up: Kendall Dixon
DJ/Band: Michael Collins
Venue: Garrison Gardens
Wedding Coordinator: Ashley Saunders
Cake: Jennifer Revels
Caterer: Roma’s in Idabel
Rentals: Sungar Snap Rentals and Dots Rentals
Photographer: Sunday Morning Photography
Wedding Dress: Lowes Bridal
We felt so loved and supported having family travel from long distances to celebrate with us. It truly felt like a celebration with our two families celebrating us together.
Christopher and Kimberly HYATT
JUNE 20, 2025
Kimberly and Christopher’s love story began on the New Year’s Eve of 2022, with their first true conversation following the next day, welcoming 2023 together. From the beginning, their connection felt effortless. Conversation flowed easily, and they quickly discovered shared passions for reading, travel, health, and history. Though life led them in different directions at the time, the impression they left on one another lingered.
In the summer of 2023, Christopher reached out again, and what began as easy conversation soon became a genuine friendship. They never ran out of things to say, and their bond deepened naturally. When they officially began dating on June 10, 2024, it didn’t take long for both of them to realize they had found something rare. By autumn, they were already envisioning a life together and quietly planning what their future might hold.
Christopher proposed on March 28, 2025, in a park near Kimberly’s hometown of Minden, Louisiana. A lover of dance, Christopher had been teaching Kimberly a simple waltz during their relationship. That afternoon, they practiced together as the rain began to pour, and Christopher asked Kimberly to spend her life with him. Without hesitation, she said yes!
Pastor/Officiant: Rev. Tim Pruitt of Evening Light
Tabernacle, Minden, LA
Flowers: Shonakah Green and Gloria McComas (friends)
Bridal Hair: Melody Pruitt (Bridesmaid)
Venue: Garrison Gardens, Texarkana, AR
Wedding Coordinator: Karen Guilbert
Cake: Anita Leigh (Friend)
Caterer: Friends and Family, coordinated by Linda Oglesby (Bride’s Aunt)
Photographer: Emily Pruitt Photography
Wedding Invites: Zazzle
Ceremony Music: Spotify
Wedding Dress: Elizabeth Cooper Design, “Katelyn” dress
Kolten and Hannah MCCOY
SEPTEMBER 13, 2025
Hannah and Kolten met through mutual friends during their younger high school years, but their story didn’t begin right away. After years of friendship and going their separate ways, the two reconnected in 2019 when Kolten moved back home from college. What started as familiar quickly turned into something more, and they officially began dating on Hannah’s senior night, marking the beginning of a serious and meaningful relationship. Five years later, on April 13, 2024, Kolten surprised Hannah with a proposal during what she believed was a casual crawfish boil with close friends and family, catching her completely off guard. After a 17-month engagement, the two were married on September 13, 2025, at Four Fifteen Estates. Today, they are excited to build their life together and their forever home in Genoa, Arkansas, rooted in laughter, family, and a shared love for making everyday moments fun.
Parents of the Bride: Carrie Phillips, Randy and Heather Phillips
Parents of the Groom: Keith and Melissa McCoy
Matron of Honor: Torrance Bel
Bridesmaids: Adison Hargrove, Allyson Morton, Aubrey Grimes, Courtney Harris, Maddie Horn, Alex Ouellette, Carlee Batte
Best Man: Garrett Cook
Groomsmen: Lakin Hargrove, Cade Carter, Cole Grimes, Josh Griffith, Lain Strickland, Austin Cross, Clay Wilson
Wedding Jewelry: Micah’s Jewelers and Cooper Fine Jewelers
Instead of a traditional exit with sparklers or confetti, we surprised our guests with a helicopter send-off that no one saw coming.
Tuxedos: GEB Menswear
David and Miranda NEAL
8, 2025
David and Miranda met during work-related training while preparing for their policing careers in Little Rock in July 2023. David, originally from West Memphis, and Miranda, who was working in Texarkana, crossed paths during the two-month course. Near the end of training, a spark ignited, and the two quickly began texting and talking every day.
As their connection deepened, they spent more time together, enjoying weekend getaways to Hot Springs, Shreveport, and Dallas.
In August 2024, David took Miranda to her first professional sporting event—a Texas Rangers baseball game in Dallas. The following morning, by the hotel pool, David professed his enduring love and devotion and asked for Miranda’s hand and heart in marriage. Miranda joyfully accepted.
Parents of the Bride: Amy Cannady and John Cannady
Parents of the Groom: Debbie Neal
Flowers: Ruth’s Flowers (bridal bouquet)
Bridal Hair: Christine Ritchie at Salon Haven
Bridal Make-up: Kayla Lewis Beauty
DJ: DJ Prince (LaPrentice Keeling)
Venue: Garrison Gardens, Texarkana, AR
Wedding Coordinator: Karen Guilbert
Cake: Maddie Cakes
Grooms Cake: Sweet Arts Cakery
Caterer: Chappo’s
Rentals: Dot’s Rentals
Photographer: Breanne Bradshaw Photography
Wedding Invites: Designed by bride and groom with VistaPrint
Ceremony Music: Flightless Bird, Piano Cover
Wedding Dress: The Dressmaker Shop, Irma Zuniga
Tuxedos: GEB
We had family and friends come in from all over to celebrate our day with us. Even through all the chaos, everything was perfect in our eyes.
Cade and Riley PIPPEN
DECEMBER 27, 2025
Cade and Riley met at school in Kilgore, Texas, where crowded hallways and Friday night lights quietly brought their lives together. He was a football player, and she was a cheerleader. What began as passing glances and shared moments soon grew into a deep friendship, and before long, they found themselves in love—building a bond destined to last far beyond their school years.
On May 31, 2025, in Longview, Texas, Cade asked Riley to marry him in an open field that held special meaning—the very place where they had taken photos on their first anniversary. Months earlier, a photographer Riley had worked with for several years reached out about scheduling graduation photos, and Cade insisted on joining her. While Riley quietly suspected the session might turn into something more, her doubts grew as the shoot continued—until she turned around and found Cade down on one knee. The celebration continued afterward with a surprise engagement party at Riley’s parents’ home, where the couple was surrounded by the love and joy of their family and friends.
Parents of the Bride: Christopher and Elizabeth Thompson
Parents of the Groom: Joey and Lara Pippen
Matron of Honor: Lindsey Pippen Maid of Honor: Jacee Burks
Bridesmaids: Mollie Shelton, Makayla Burks Jr
Bridesmaid: Raegen Pettey
Best Man: Collin Pippen
Groomsmen: Bryce Long, Ben Shelton, Kaden Thrower
Flower Girls: Raeleigh Pettey
Ring Bearer: Luna, our goldendoodle
Pastor/Officiant: Riley
Flowers: The Flowerroom Florist
Bridal Hair: Tessa Grahm
We wanted every detail, no matter how small, to feel special and personalized to us, even if it was considered untraditional! Since neither one of us eats cake, we decided on an ice cream bar instead! We served the ice cream in cups that looked like baseball hats, since Cade is a coach, and a jersey to sign as our guest book. We also had family and friends travel out of state to celebrate our big day with us!
Bridal Make-up: Kalie Pilcher
DJ: Wes Spicher
Venue: Four Fifteen Estates
Wedding Coordinator: The Curated
Collective Txk - Janet Cox
Dessert: Sundays Ice Cream
Caterer: Juanitos
Photographer: Lacey Sanchez and Kathy Macias
Videographer: Reverent Wedding Films
Wedding Dress: Jarvis Couture Tyler
Wedding Jewelry: Untamed Petals
Tuxedos: The Tuxedo Co
Brody BAUMANN Marci CLAYTON AND
Jamie and Jenee’ Clayton of Texarkana, Texas, are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter, Marci Elizabeth Clayton, to Brody James Baumann, son of Chris and Stacey Baumann of Sulphur Springs, Texas.
The bride-to-be is 21 years old and a graduate of Pleasant Grove High School. She earned her undergraduate degree in Communication and Sciences and Disorders from the University of Arkansas and is currently pursuing a master’s degree in Speech-Language Pathology at the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences in Little Rock. The prospective groom, age 22, is a graduate of Commerce High School. He received his undergraduate degree in Exercise Science from the University of Arkansas and is presently awaiting acceptance into a graduate program in physical therapy.
Marci and Brody first met unexpectedly during high school at a Buc-ee’s stop in Royse City, Texas. Despite attending different schools in different cities, they maintained a long-distance relationship and later chose to attend the same university, where Marci taught Brody how to “call the Hogs”. During a graduation trip to New York City, Brody proposed to Marci at sunset beneath the Brooklyn and Manhattan Bridges, surrounded by both families in a moment filled with joy and celebration.
The couple plans to be married in June 2027 at 415 Estates in New Boston, Texas. Honeymoon plans and future residence will be determined as graduate school and career opportunities unfold.
BradenCRAIG TaylorBREIBY AND
Taylor Breiby of Texarkana, Texas, and Braden Craig of Texarkana, Texas, announce their engagement and upcoming marriage.
The bride-to-be is 19 years old and is the daughter of Kevin and Erin Breiby and Nick and Christy Hibbs. She is a graduate of Pleasant Grove High School and is currently attending Texas A&M University–Texarkana. Taylor plans to continue her education and hopes to enroll at Tyler Junior College in the summer of 2026, pursuing a bachelor’s degree in the Dental Hygiene Program.
The prospective groom is 21 years old and is the son of Bryan and Dana Craig. He completed his education through Faith Home School Co-op and is the owner and operator of Craig’s Media, specializing in real estate photography.
The couple became engaged while vacationing with Braden’s family at Big Cedar Lodge at Top of the Rock, one of Braden’s favorite destinations. Unbeknownst to Taylor, the trip had been thoughtfully planned with a special purpose in mind. While waiting for what Taylor believed was simply a “fancy dinner,” Braden guided her along a scenic path toward the chapel to enjoy the breathtaking views. In that memorable moment, Braden knelt and asked Taylor to marry him. She joyfully accepted without hesitation.
Taylor and Braden plan to exchange vows on May 24, 2026, at Tree Haven. The ceremony will be officiated by Bryan Strand. Following the wedding, the couple will honeymoon at Sandals St. Vincent.
After their marriage, the couple will make their home in Texarkana, Texas.
BlakeSMITH Macy CALHOON AND
Mr. and Mrs. Greg and Tanya Calhoon of Texarkana, Texas, are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter, Macy Calhoon, to Blake Smith, son of Mr. and Mrs. Brian and Kristen Smith of Bismarck, Arkansas.
The bride-elect is 20 years old and a graduate of Redwater High School. She is currently a student at Ouachita Baptist University, where she is pursuing a degree in communication sciences and disorders with a minor in psychology.
The prospective groom is 21 years old and a graduate of Bismarck High School. He is currently attending Henderson State University, where he is pursuing a degree in business administration with a concentration in management.
The engagement took place at DeGray Lake Lodge, a location carefully chosen by Blake for its special meaning to Macy, whose favorite place is the lake. Under the guise of a dinner date at the lodge, Blake led Macy along the scenic trail toward the lodge. Along the way, he stopped her and asked her to marry him, to her great surprise and delight.
The couple plans to be married in July 2026 at Northern Hills Baptist Church, with Dr. Roger Copeland officiating. Following the wedding, they will honeymoon in Orlando, Florida, and will make their home in Central Arkansas.
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When we receive all of the necessary documents, surveys, termite reports, home warranty and anything that is needed to close, and the lender has received a clear to close, we coordinate with all parties to schedule a closing.
At closing we have all of the closing documents executed disburse the funds, send the loan documents to the lender and record the documents (Deeds/ Deeds of Trust). Once the documents are recorded we issue the title policies to the buyer and lender insuring a free and clear title to the property.
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Everybody Loves A Love Story!
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Everybody Loves A Love Story!
February is a popular month for engagements to begin. A day to start your love journey with that special someone!
We all have our special love stories, but the one I love best is the biblical story of Issac and Rebecca found in Genesis.
Abraham wanted a specific wife for his son Issac and sent a man to find one for him in his homeland, the city of Ur in Chaldea, forbidding him to marry a Canaanite.
The man wanted to please his master and prayed for God’s direction, asking for a clear sign so he would know when he found the right one, namely a woman who offered water to him and his camels, as God’s choice for his master’s son.
As I re-read the story, I put myself in the place of Rebecca’s mother. This strange man tells her the story of how he knew her daughter was God’s selection for his master’s son. He is asking her to let her go with him to a faraway country she has never been to, be betrothed to a man she has never met, and knows nothing about. He tells her his master is wealthy, and all will be given to his only son, her future son-in-law, and he wants to take her now.
Security is important, but a mother wants to know her daughter will be cherished more than life, loved,
and protected by a man of good moral character.
From my human side and in today’s culture, I would have said, “Hold on, buddy, I want an FBI report, a strong background check, a health certificate, along with a financial report!” I probably would have asked to see his social media page. (giggle)
Arranged marriages are not common in America, though they may be permitted in some cultures. Some predetermined marriages may turn out better than the random selections some ladies choose today on a dating site!
I love how, after a discussion, they let Rebecca make the decision. She says yes and begins her journey!
When she sees Issac afar off, she asks who he is. I believe she knew already, and their hearts connected when they first saw each other. It was true love at first sight for both!
It’s a beautiful love story from beginning to end and is worth refreshing your memory by reading it in Chapter 24 of the Book of Genesis.
I hope your Love Day is spent with someone special. If you are still looking, trust God to bring a love beyond your wildest expectations and return that love with compassion, faithfulness, and commitment.
If you are older and have already experienced your love story, and they are no longer with you, embrace the memories of your love.
Happy Valentine’s Day.
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AGING SOLO
RETIREMENT & LONGEVITY
The practicalities and possibilities of embracing the future on your own.
Marriage. Home. Children. The boxes that once defined the passage into adulthood are increasingly going unticked.
Marriage rates, which peaked at 78.8% in 1949, sat at just over 47% in 2024, according to the US Census Bureau – and they haven’t been above 50% since 2010.
A recent New York Times article explored the rise in renting among households earning $1 million+, which tripled between 2019 and 2023. The increase was informed by the pandemic and economic factors, but also driven by high-earning Millennials, whose share of the rental market increased by 60%.
And Pew Research Center found that a growing number – 47% – of American adults under 50 say they are unlikely to ever have children.
It all adds up to a substantial cultural shift, but what does it mean for the other big milestones we mark with time? Retirement. Legacy. Aging.
“There is a growing population of what we call ‘solo agers,’” says Emily Treasure, Senior Manager of Longevity Planning, who focuses on helping financial advisors and their clients navigate longevity planning at Raymond James.
Traditionally, this population has been solitary more by circumstance than by choice, navigating aging in the wake of loss or a divorce. But increasingly, their ranks are being joined by people who see aging alone for its possibility. And based on the skyrocketing number of gray divorcees – which has doubled since the 1990s, also according to Pew – a growing share of the “traditional” cohort seem to be embracing the freedom a solo future can offer.
Whether you’re approaching solo aging as a destination or a contingency, planning is the critical piece, says Emily. “It’s important to start early and to plan in ways you might not expect –not just having higher cash reserves and key legal documents, but also cultivating hobbies and building community.”
Aging on your own and on your own terms, she says, is ain the details.
ALONE AGAIN (INTENTIONALLY)
Solo aging is not a new phenomenon, but planning for it financially, physically, geographically and socially is a modern invention. Even if it’s something you’d prefer to avoid, taking the time to be intentional, to explore what would make that lifestyle work for you, could help deter future stress and, potentially, expand your ideas of what’s possible.
The independence and flexibility of aging alone generates options
– from launching a second-act career to relocating to a new city or country, or deep-diving into niche interests – but it also invites additional layers of practical considerations.
It’s not just asking yourself “When will I retire?” but “How will I maintain social connections once I’m not plugging into a work community every day?” It’s not simply “What can I do to support my health?” but “Who will be around to help me through a health crisis?” And it’s more than ‘What are my wishes?”; it’s “Who will ensure they’re carried out?”
WHO WILL ANSWER THE
CALL?
Knowing who will help, from meal prep to medical directives, is the biggest concern for a lot of solo agers, Emily says.
“Financial advisors and other professionals like attorneys are in good positions to help identify the right resource – an aging life care manager, a professional fiduciary, a trusted friend – or, in some cases, to be that resource themselves.”
Who will help me if I fall?
If a close friend or nearby relative isn’t an option in an emergency, solo agers can tap medical alert services, outfit their homes with assistive technology, or invest in wearables – from smart watches to smart jewelry – that track vitals and offer automatic fall alerts.
Who will support me through a health crisis?
In the absence of an informal caregiving network of family, creating a formal one is key. Concierge medical services can provide enhanced care for acute and chronic illness, while medical management platforms offer advisory and advocacy, arranging travel and coordinating in-home support. Solo agers should also keep long-term care in mind and have a plan for how it will be funded and who they’ll legally empower to make decisions.
What if I get hit by a bus?
Like anybody else, solo agers need an estate plan, but unlike others the role of executor won’t fall naturally to traditional candidates like a partner or child. A trusted friend or neighbor could be an option, but it’s worth exploring hiring a professional trustee or executor to handle the nuances – and, as always, to document your wishes early and often.
Who will I talk to?
A number of studies have found that social engagement and social activity are among the biggest determinants of brain health as we age. So, getting and staying connected through things like church groups, community organizations and members clubs can be more
SOLO, NOT SOLITARY
In her work, Emily cautions against seeing independence as the end-all.
“People who are aging solo often assume independence is always going to equal empowerment, and it might today. But I don’t know if they’re prepared for how quickly isolation can set in. You can have a financial plan, you can have a housing plan, but if you don’t plan for how you’re actually going to live day to day, it can be a really big surprise.”
She recommends that people consider complementing their autonomy with a deeper investment in things they are already passionate about – faith, community or volunteerism, for example.
Those with a passion for hands-on giving can use volunteer match portals to search for local opportunities. And world travelers might explore swapping their next solo trip for an activity-, arts- or learning-based group tour with a private travel club.
Patronage can also provide connection beyond a gala or gallery visit.
Patrons’ circles at museums and arts venues often include a host of fringe social benefits in addition to tickets. For example, the perks of an annual donation to New York’s Metropolitan Museum can extend from lounge access and bespoke events to day trips and learning series.
Ultimately there is an irony in planning to age alone, because the goal is to ensure that you aren’t. You will need people around you and a plan they can follow to help you mark the milestones that will define your life on your terms.
