Cut out this page. Then cut it down the middle. He takes his half, she takes hers. Keep it simple. Don’t keep score. Just enjoy life and each other— as often as you remember!
Let’s face it, most of us could use a little jump start now and then when it comes to relationships. That’s why we’ve included this section. Simple acts of kindness are a great way to say, “I care about you.” Date nights are great, but when life gets busy, sometimes all that’s necessary are little reminders!
10 WAYS to sh w
R E H y u care Sit on the couch with her or outside on a warm day and just talk. Try not to make sudden changes without discussing them with her first. Allow your wife to share her opinions without being defensive. Try not to argue—be sure to let go of the small stuff. Be sympathetic when she’s sick or has had a long day. Go out for a fun adventure— without the kids. Share the responsibilities around the house. Value and inspire her individuality.
Challenge yourself to complete all 10 ideas in each issue. Don’t just focus on the easy ones!
Express your love by choosing her over hobbies and buddies. Don’t refuse to say sorry or ask for forgiveness—don’t let the little issues turn into big problems—talk.
Portland Parent Magazine • July+August 2019 • 25
