Remember when you could start a conversation with the grandparent generation by asking, “How many grandchildren do you have?” That’s not the question these days. Breaking the ice in the 21st century usually starts with “How far away do your grandchildren live?”
As the world gets smaller and opportunities attract the younger generation to global careers, grandchildren are living further and further away. How frustrating not to be able to enjoy those first steps, first words and follow athletic endeavors up close and in person. Thanks to old-fashioned pen and paper and modern technology, however, you can maintain quality longdistance relationships,
which create lifelong memories for you and your grandchildren. Handwritten notes may seem like Neanderthal communication to your grandchildren, and probably your children as well, but everyone enjoys receiving a card, a letter or a funny postcard in the mail, right? Keep your messages simple and entertaining, send an interactive, recordable greeting card, use contemporary commemorative postage or go overthe-top and send your grandchild a glitter bomb for a special achievement. You may receive a handwritten response back!
For pre-school and very young grandchildren, record one of your favorite (or their favorite) children’s books. You can use a recording app on your smartphone and e-mail the recording. You can also read stories together via Skype or Facetime (online tutorials will walk you through these communication tools). Texting, Skyping, Facetime, Instagram, other apps and regular phone calls are easy and affordadable. If you want to share your family history, memories and special thoughts, start a scrapbook, journal, or perhaps a blog, and update it on a regular
Handwritten letters, cards and notes are still a great way to bridge the distance gap between grandparents and grandchildren
basis. Design your own method or purchase one of the numerous pre-designed books with prompts such as “Letters to My Grandchild.” One trend that is gaining popularity among grandparents is setting up an email account for your grandchild to read when he or she reaches a specific age or life achievement. Send email messages to that account on a weekly or monthly basis, or on special occasions or in anticipation of special events. If you unexpectedly pass on before the child is of age, your grandchild will always have this insight into you and your feelings toward the child and the life events you write about. Use your imagination, make these methods your own and ‘just start’ by enlisting one of our ideas. You’ll soon shorten the distance between you and your grandchildren. Meanwhile, it’s okay to secretly wish they’ll someday move back “home.”
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