Gò0dNews for Parents
Mother Knows Best
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by Rhonda Lane
hen you’re 5, Mother tells you she knows best.
5. This one is not truly advice, but it would do one well
When you’re 15, you think Mother knows
to remember anyway. When I began first grade, she
nothing best. When you’re 50, you’re begging
would recite this as we drove to school. “Going to
Mother to tell you what she thinks is best because you
school to make a scholar, wouldn’t miss a day for a
finally realize that she does know best. I think this is a pretty
dollar.”
standard illustration of how most of our relationships with our parents progress over our lifetimes. Like most mothers, my own mother had pearls of wisdom. They were little, everyday gifts to me without
6. This piece of advice was literally meant for visitors in our home, but it could also be applied figuratively to those we allow into our lives. “You can freely allow dear old friends into your home without fear. You can turn away complete strangers because you know not their motives and you owe them nothing. Be wary of those who are mere acquaintances because you know not their true motive, but you fear being rude and inhospitable by turning them away.” 7. “Save not your flowers for funerals; give them while their beauty can be enjoyed.” That last piece of advice is one I heard many times over the years, and I took it to heart. She took this piece of advice so seriously that she opted for no funeral for herself. She felt that she had been betrayed by so many from the early part of her life that she did not wish for people to attend any service out of a sense
any special occasion, provocation, or even a special intent.
of curiosity, bringing phony, flattering compliments such as,
Perhaps I should call them rubies instead of pearls, seeing
“Doesn’t she look good,” accompanied by crocodile tears.
as how Ruby was her name. Each and every one of the following gems has served me well these many years. 1. “Don’t wear jewelry with large, showy, fake stones. Everyone knows you’re not rich, so they’ll also know the jewelry is fake.” 2. “Never tell anyone that they resemble another person. For all you know, they might just hate that person.”
I wish I could hear advice from her lips once again, but now it echoes only in my memories of her. I hope I bestowed her with adequate bouquets: not of petals but of acts of love and kindness while she lived on this side of life’s veil. Give your mom a gift this Mother’s Day: whether from the pocketbook or the heart, it doesn’t matter to her. I wish I could give my mom a flower.
3. “Don’t respond to a bully’s taunts. It only adds fuel to 4. “Education is something no one can take away from you.”
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About The Author
their fire.” Rhonda Lane is a native of Dalton, Georgia, and is an orphaned, old maid, and only child trying to find her way in the world and lose herself in Jesus Christ.
