Our Lenten Marriage Series:
Strengthening the Matrimonial Covenant
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or Lent, many of us choose to give up things like chocolate, coffee, or ice cream. But Deacon Peter Burns asks married couples to consider using this Lent to do something extra, rather than simply giving something up. “Life gets busy, so let’s carve out one hour a week in Lent,” he says. “Let’s do something for our marriages this Lent.” The Lenten Marriage Series takes place on the six Fridays of Lent, excluding Good Friday, in the Day Chapel. Following Stations of the Cross, all married couples are welcome to the Lenten Marriage Series, which begins at about 7:45 p.m. Deacon Peter has been hosting this series for more than 10 years. “We’ve had engaged couples and newlyweds, all the way to couples married more than 50 years,” Deacon Peter says. “So, this really is for any couple.” Since many couples already have a busy schedule, the sessions are arranged to be short. The time includes an ice breaker, a short presentation and about 20 minutes to discuss the topic privately as a couple.
Deacon Peter Burns and his wife, Charlotte, have enjoyed leading and participating in our Lenten Marriage Series.
The one-hour sessions end with some group sharing, which is not required, and a closing prayer. “The one-on-one time with the spouses is always the favorite part,” Deacon Peter says. “This gives the couples time that they don’t usually have.”
This year, sessions will focus on the book Praying for (and with) Your Spouse: The Way to Deeper Love, by Dr. Greg and Lisa Popcak. “The idea is to invite couples to learn about prayer, and about praying for and with each other,” Deacon continued on back cover
“Prayer helps us tap into the grace that God has provided to help us love in ways we never thought possible. Prayer helps us, also, forgive in ways that have been challenging in the past.” Deacon Peter Burns
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