Harden Up Boys Donât Cry By Marisa Aoys New Zealand culture is a funny thing. âYeah, nahâ means no, we call strangers âmateâ, and we are adamant our Aussie brothers stole our claim to fame (not the All Blacks: Pavlova). But one thing thatâs not so funny is our expectations of men. The âblokeâ culture can be a classic gag but it also makes it hard for our men to talk about feelings. Why is it we associate emotions with femininity? Men are human, they breathe, feel and think just like women, so why is it that an increasing number of males are diagnosed with some sort of mental health issue? I took to the streets to find out our male studentsâ thoughts.